Never Fight For His Attention: DO THIS Instead | Alex Cormont

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  • @mynameischelcee
    @mynameischelcee 2 года назад +72

    My relationship had no hope left until I found you. I'm now in full control like in the beginning and my man keeps texting me and telling me he misses me. I am starting to love myself again and he can see that. You've changed my relationship and my life. Thank you so much, coach Alex. You're an angel on Earth.

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  2 года назад +17

      I'm so happy for you! This bring me so much joy and it's always an honor to help you ladies out!

    • @syramalik8914
      @syramalik8914 2 года назад

      @@FrenchRelationshipExpert dear wish me for this

    • @aletteafroru
      @aletteafroru 2 года назад +3

      Wow I wish it can work for me too

    • @sussybabie527
      @sussybabie527 2 года назад +1

      @@aletteafroru me too 🥺😭😭

    • @Leila2023_
      @Leila2023_ 11 месяцев назад

      i would love to hear a 1 year update from you @mynameischelcee

  • @paulettenoel4391
    @paulettenoel4391 2 года назад +31

    Good video. This happened to me & I did exactly what you said. He started chasing me again like crazy but, after a few months, when I thought things were finally back on track. He started doing this again and I was not about to play this crazy game with him for a second time. So, I let him go for good. Must be very careful with those kind of men. They don't know what they want.

  • @victorianorris1916
    @victorianorris1916 2 года назад +12

    You saying all the things I did, but no more, my life didn’t stop I will be distance, I’m going do new things and enjoy my life

  • @icannotthinkofausernamee
    @icannotthinkofausernamee 2 года назад +10

    He becomes distant? I close the door forever. I have no time for mind games from little boys. A mature man will know what to say, when and how to behave and would never put himself in the position of losing a woman he loves.

  • @blessingichuk3810
    @blessingichuk3810 2 года назад +4

    I have been complaining for so.long no change..l have decided to stay distance

  • @lailaansari7293
    @lailaansari7293 2 года назад +6

    Dear Alex, I am not sure if you are aware, but some of us females are VERY secretive about our personal lives, so it is FANTASTIC to hear your advice even more so, because you are a male who understands the male psyche...thank you, now I am at a stage of distancing, being positive, and you know what, IF he doesn't come back and communicate, we'll then it's his loss..n'est pas?

  • @madhuri.n4899
    @madhuri.n4899 2 года назад +5

    Self love really helps!

  • @jeremyjub9147
    @jeremyjub9147 2 года назад +2

    I think this is true of women too. Most of the time men do go off and do their own thing regardless and we want them, but when they get reliably easy to please like us we find it a turn-off. Everyone needs to keep satisfying their own needs first, which is sometimes easier said than done when you're head over heels.

  • @sebnemudum8648
    @sebnemudum8648 2 года назад +1

    Cher M. Cormont, j’ai implémenté la deuxième pointe et le résultat étais super. Merci bcp. 🙏🙏 Les femmes parfois se perdent dans la magie de la « perspective » et passent à côté de la réalité du moment. Je pense que c’est notre problème.

  • @cloemacato4196
    @cloemacato4196 2 года назад +4

    This pass few weeks,he become distance,he never said Miss u and love u anymore! Lucky I bumped this vedio!
    My mistake last time I'm the one always say good morning and goodnight to him.
    I'm the one who always say I miss and I love u. Everytime We've met,after we separated I'm the one who always message him first if he reached or what's he doing.. He's no effort already!! Always me!
    And I saw this vedio, it's really effected, Now he question me,Why i didn't say good night or good morning!
    And he said he's surprised why i didn't texted him. Now I don't initiate any communication wth him,I didn't asked where we go this weekend!
    Now he started to chase me,
    Plan our weekends,and now he is the one always say good morning!

  • @rubyguevara1821
    @rubyguevara1821 2 года назад +8

    I’m so glad that you posted this. I needed this! I’m dealing with this exact issue. The past two days my partner hasn’t acknowledged me and has barley said a word to me. He just doesn’t seem interested in me to the point where I’m wondering if he’s talking to someone else. I’m going crazy in my head thinking the worst- I truly don’t think he would do that. Last night I asked him why he isn’t talking to me and he said he was. I had to stop myself right there because I was getting emotional and I went to sleep. I woke up to this video. Thank you ❤️

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  2 года назад +3

      Hi Ruby,
      I know how difficult this can be to deal with but you got this! I'm always happy to help with my videos😊

    • @rs5570
      @rs5570 Год назад

      My little deer, I could likely be your mother. You gave him the ONE warning he should get. One more week of this and you must LEAVE & never look back. He will never stop doing this. It’s not YOU.. Leave. The investment you have made in this relationship is worthless if a man does this. It will ruin your life. Play no games, let go of hopes, love yourself and LEAVE! The right man awaits you.

  • @evaimad
    @evaimad 2 месяца назад

    For sure at first i was asking him those questions but when i found you i started being distant and i no longer even feel the chest pain.
    And he has started calling me again

  • @paolanamuncura8879
    @paolanamuncura8879 2 года назад +4

    This is what happened to me! Too bad I watched it late. I confronted him about it and said "i know you no longer care, but you will always have a place in my heart" he felt offended and said he didnt like drama. I never replied anyhing and started No Contact. Now we are doing no contact for 8 days.
    I will keep it in mind next time. Thank you coach

  • @zoezeus4090
    @zoezeus4090 2 года назад +2

    This is how exactly my bf was but after almost 6mos I caught him constantly lying! We’re in a long distance relationship. I spent a few days of vacation with him from New Years. Caught him lying about work schedule but still denied lying about it. His very distant now. He said “I pushed him away” but I told him “his the one that pushed me away.”

    • @zoezeus4090
      @zoezeus4090 2 года назад

      He doesn’t have time to talk to me and gets mad at me when I tried to talk to him at night. I spoke to him last night for about 7min and he got mad at me coz he said I’m taking his time and he wants to sleep already. He used to call me before at night even for a quick 1min fon call but he hasn’t done it in the last 2 wks since he came back from school training. I caught him lying into many things, I don’t even think I should continue to be in a relationship with him because there’s too many red flag.

  • @anelintapinit5141
    @anelintapinit5141 7 месяцев назад

    I really like your ideas and the way you deliver is vert on point and cleae .❤😊

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  7 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much for your feedback! I'm glad you appreciate the ideas and the delivery. Your kind words mean a lot to me! 😊

  • @mariaqueenie9834
    @mariaqueenie9834 2 года назад +3

    You're powerful my dear alex .... I'm your number one fans and i always watching you everyday on all your videos ... i learned a lot of lessons 💯 on you ... this topic is exactly on my relationship on going now .... i will contact you soon

  • @queendija4249
    @queendija4249 2 года назад +3

    Thank you for your motivation Mr Alex🙏God bless you🙏

  • @Gur_Jass16
    @Gur_Jass16 2 года назад +1

    You are an amazing coach .. Alex. Thank you for helping us ❤

  • @lvace7574
    @lvace7574 2 года назад

    It may not be playing games, and we may not be intending to, but in his eyes it may come across as doing so.

  • @joannamario7759
    @joannamario7759 2 года назад +1

    Really like your teachings. Merci Msr. Cormont.

  • @amiimindsetdesigner
    @amiimindsetdesigner 2 года назад

    I'm just speechless!!

  • @lorenzky3155
    @lorenzky3155 2 года назад +3

    I actually chat him this morning to end our ldr of 10 mos. Before he always chasing me getting mad if I don't have time for him.. after 8 mos. He became distant coz he can't get what he want.. tired of chasing.. Ive been in a wrong relationship of 13 yrs we're separated then met this guy on dating app.. better to be alone focus on my kids

  • @kandicerasmussen654
    @kandicerasmussen654 2 года назад +1

    Thank u Alex. I love listening to your sessions and I also learn a lot.

  • @roser8911
    @roser8911 2 года назад +3

    You look so handsome Alex.

  • @tamarar.8179
    @tamarar.8179 2 года назад +1

    Best coach.

  • @julianawellman2235
    @julianawellman2235 2 года назад +19

    You’re not a priority because you’re not a challenge any more.
    Tip #1 ❤️‍🔥 become more distant, do not be needy, show him you didn’t stop your life; give him what he needs by becoming a challenge.
    Tip #2 ❤️‍🔥 Communicate with him the good things you are experiencing, don’t reproach him, don’t criticize him; come at him with positive energy.

    • @xlx077
      @xlx077 2 года назад +3

      No one will survive doing these tips. Both sides need to reciprocate and communicate and have difficult talks, otherwise that someone is not someone who will last with you through hard times

    • @rs5570
      @rs5570 Год назад

      Good advice. Then you pack your bags and leave. The right man is out there.

  • @babarababara2604
    @babarababara2604 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so much for good advice Mr Alex

  • @ayandazenzile5951
    @ayandazenzile5951 2 года назад

    Thank you for your consistency Alex 🥰🥰🥰😊!

  • @aneshsar
    @aneshsar 2 года назад +1

    You definitely provide good advise

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  2 года назад

      Thank you so much Aneshsar!

    • @aneshsar
      @aneshsar 2 года назад

      @@FrenchRelationshipExpert thank you for helping me for the past 4 weeks.

  • @kathyblum3218
    @kathyblum3218 2 года назад

    Thanks Alex! 💝

  • @Sonisingh-um5by
    @Sonisingh-um5by 2 года назад +1

    Alex you are amazing👍😍😍

  • @yonieawayan2383
    @yonieawayan2383 2 года назад

    watching from Philippines

  • @lorinacandelario884
    @lorinacandelario884 2 года назад +1

    HELLO ALEX THAT'S I AM DOING ALWAYS CUZ DON'T HAVE TIME FOR ME 40 MONTHS I HAS MY BF LRD RELATIONSHIP IT'S NOT EASY SO VERY DISAPPOINTED I GUESS IT'S TIME TO END OUR RELATIONSHIP SAD ALEX GOD BLESS YOU

  • @wynettewalker2811
    @wynettewalker2811 2 года назад +4

    What if he becomes distant and then ask you out? Should you go? How to handle that?

    • @taz12184
      @taz12184 2 года назад

      Reward him when he comes back. Or he will stop

  • @syramalik8914
    @syramalik8914 2 года назад

    Thanks alot Alex

  • @Spacecow17
    @Spacecow17 2 года назад

    thank you

  • @raxbae7079
    @raxbae7079 2 года назад

    Thanks, hope will help me

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  2 года назад

      This will help you Malaika!

    • @raxbae7079
      @raxbae7079 2 года назад

      @@FrenchRelationshipExpert Alex thanks l come from Kenya. I really need him and now trying to do whatever you say

  • @amymckinneyjeneseri7704
    @amymckinneyjeneseri7704 2 года назад

    How can you do these things when married and you have a baby, but your relationship is experiencing these problems dating relationships are

  • @ritahmatia1792
    @ritahmatia1792 2 года назад +1

    Hello Alex for me it was just aday I gave him my response but while we were talking he went off abruptly, he never called not even texting for two days. But at the end of the second day was like am sorry for replying late baby. But an yet replied him. But during that tym I never texted or called him, but I could see him viewing my status but not replying me . What does that mean Alex. 🤔 thanks alot.

  • @ivla871
    @ivla871 2 года назад

    amazing

  • @Abrilgee
    @Abrilgee Год назад

    Does the same apply after reconciliation from emotional affair? Because he was the one who betrayed my trust and is still not putting the effort I wish he did

  • @celestenova338
    @celestenova338 2 года назад

    I need advice on exes please 😖 we’re in contact and I think we’re working on reconciliation but I have no idea what I’m doing

  • @ellelucyc5735
    @ellelucyc5735 2 года назад +2

    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @lalaland8514
    @lalaland8514 2 года назад

    I'm early! 😄

  • @ioanalee3223
    @ioanalee3223 2 года назад

    Hi Alex, does this work if the guy already know that you have a busy schedule and also like to try new things? Showing him i have am busy living my life is kinda redundant since he already knows that.
    I did make more time to see him and seem a little more invested then he starts to ignore me but replying to stories i post. I only reply when he comments but i never say or ask anything more.
    Also would be great if you could do a video on do we tell the guy that we are dating that we are also dating other guys? If so by when should we tell? How do we tell without making it sound like we are trying to make him jealous.
    Also assuming if we are doing activities with different dates/guys, can we post pictures? Or just a vague cropped picture that dont show the guy i hangout with? If we post will this scare the guy that we want something more with?
    How do you sell him your life when most of the time you are actually going out with different guys?
    He probably wouldnt wana be a part of that life.

  • @pheobemaina1116
    @pheobemaina1116 2 года назад +1

    Mine he tells me good morning nd at night he gives me a good night that's all no talking about other things though he does check up on me every day so I don't know does he really loves me like before because have been a nagging person to him lately and he comes back no matter how much I disrespected him before.. thing is he doesn't talk much now just a good morning Nd a good night if I ask him if he loves me the answer is yes but I don't think so maybe he's tired of My behavior Nd I really want to change for better tomorrow

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  2 года назад

      Hi Pheobe,
      I would love to help you with this! I know how difficult this can be to deal with but I would need to know a little more about your situation in order to give you proper advice. I hope you can book a coaching session with me!
      www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/

  • @nishamann8144
    @nishamann8144 2 года назад +3

    Too much mind games.. not worth if you have to stoop to such tricks. Love would not be this difficult!

    • @neelt4975
      @neelt4975 2 года назад +1

      Right..but just not right away...sadly this is male psychology...

  • @jungkook_sona7
    @jungkook_sona7 2 года назад

    I want your help am from India😣please can you help me

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  2 года назад

      Hi Geetanaksha,
      I would love to help you! You can book a coaching session with me using this link!
      www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/

  • @hebadabbourah1584
    @hebadabbourah1584 2 года назад +1

    Unfollow him on social media dont let him access to ur life let him know he has lost u

  • @rs5570
    @rs5570 Год назад +1

    Never tolerate this. Never. It will never stop. This man does not truly love you. It’s not YOU who is a problem, a bore! This guy maybe doesn’t know how to truly love you for many possible reasons, none of which you will be able to “fix.” This is not the right man & he will ruin your life. He will behave the same with ANY woman - the most beautiful, intellectual, charming angel in the world will get the same treatment from this man. Try this “trick” maybe once, but start packing, sister.