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  • @CharlotteDobre
    @CharlotteDobre  Год назад +166

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    • @SurayaJS
      @SurayaJS Год назад +2

      Hi ❤️

    • @johnblossom4713
      @johnblossom4713 Год назад

      Weird thing, my mate said you look ugly, but you look sexy AF to me!

    • @_CORO
      @_CORO Год назад +6

      Shoutout from Queensland Australia.... *Sscribe!*

    • @johnblossom4713
      @johnblossom4713 Год назад

      @@_CORO Australia and Canada are dying. Agenda 2030 in full swing. I'm surrounded by zombies who believe in main stream media! Now we will wait! Two religions in the world dedicated to anhihilate each other, both have a derogatory name for disbelievers ,and wish them death, both think they will win.

    • @johnblossom4713
      @johnblossom4713 Год назад +1

      Dear Charlotte, please ignore whatever I wrote before, because I was under influence, cheers.

  • @RealLifeReddells
    @RealLifeReddells Год назад +5536

    Seriously… every time I watch your Bridezilla videos, I give my wife an extra long hug for being, as she said when we met, “not high maintenance”. Seriously, she wore tennis shoes hidden under her wedding dress, our reception was in her parent’s backyard (huge with a creek & a bridge) & it was literally like walking through a park & visiting with all of our friends. (We never sat down except for photos, just went table to table & visited the whole time.) It. Was. Perfect. 22 years & counting.

    • @octavianinurhasanah6586
      @octavianinurhasanah6586 Год назад +202

      Beautiful story. Wish you have health and happiness always, Sir. ☺️

    • @GubbiGap
      @GubbiGap Год назад +129

      That sounds so nice! If I ever get married I'm taking notes from comments like this :D

    • @Riyaanreality
      @Riyaanreality Год назад +43

      Awww! That’s so beautiful!

    • @terra7283
      @terra7283 Год назад +78

      My husband says dito. Same here, friends and family it should not matter. Be comfy and do wear something nice that day but have fun together. Also 23 years end of this year😊

    • @lisahuber9329
      @lisahuber9329 Год назад +146

      Being high maintenance is not a problem as long as you do all of your own maintaining. It only becomes a problem when you expect other people to bend over backwards for you.

  • @subhajitdeysarkar9724
    @subhajitdeysarkar9724 Год назад +2645

    I love the fact that the wedding planner didn't take any shit and just dropped the truth bomb about the bride kissing her ex. That was 200% the perfect response.

    • @chiagochilagorom2206
      @chiagochilagorom2206 Год назад +109

      That was a steamy pot of revenge, with a sprinkling of petty, served cold after stalling

    • @LadyCeag840
      @LadyCeag840 Год назад +2

      I just wish I know what happened after the groom hanged up!

    • @WeAllLiveInTheTwilightZone
      @WeAllLiveInTheTwilightZone Год назад +45

      I'm hoping the caterer got a deposit but I would have also demanded payment when the food arrived. You kept up your end. If they don't pay, you pack it all up and have your own get together or donate it to a homeless shelter!!

    • @Surftouka
      @Surftouka Год назад +8

      That was one of my favorites! Love that she did that!😂😂😂

    • @julstereg1471
      @julstereg1471 Год назад +1

      Me neither sis i barlyeat slepp

  • @grammasscotsgirl
    @grammasscotsgirl Год назад +1078

    Way back when we got married, one of my bridesmaids made a comment about my mother's hair and how MY MOTHER was "ruining the wedding with a horrible wig!" My mother had finished chemo and radiation treatments 3 weeks before our wedding. One month after our engagement, my mother was diagnosed with a brain tumor and within 2 weeks it had spread to her lungs. Doctors told us she would likely not survive for 6 months and we were fully prepared to scrap the whole wedding and just do a Justice of the Peace in her hospital room if necessary. Mom was a fighter and was with us for almost another 20 years. And I look at the wedding pictures and the ONLY one I can say "ruined" my wedding was that particular bridesmaid who showed her true colours the day of the wedding.

    • @addie-eileenpaige6460
      @addie-eileenpaige6460 Год назад

      How heartless can someone be?? I'm glad your mom was able to live as long as she did. I hope you ended contact with that bridesmaid.

    • @lilagonzales1145
      @lilagonzales1145 Год назад +101

      Much love is being sent for your trooper mom. I hope you ditched that friend was being absolutely heartless

    • @munmun07
      @munmun07 Год назад +64

      I am shocked how disgusting some people can be

    • @ldannu5627
      @ldannu5627 Год назад +29

      Wow that's so evil !!!

    • @ibag87
      @ibag87 Год назад +35

      This person is just horrible, I’m guessing since she was a bridesmaid she would even know why the brides mom wears a wig, making it even worse if that is possible….I think this is the worst story I heard so far, would have immediately kicked that woman out of the wedding😡

  • @asterix7842
    @asterix7842 Год назад +1308

    I still think Charlotte should name her shark Sharklotte. And her dinosaur should be Charlosaurus Rex.

  • @franl155
    @franl155 Год назад +658

    "Get your tattoos removed, take out your piercings, dye your hair, wear contacts …"
    "Should I get a face transplant as well? Or just a friend transplant?"

    • @dragonfliesnh4204
      @dragonfliesnh4204 Год назад +38

      A friend transplant, no doubt!! 😄

    • @katiecrowley980
      @katiecrowley980 Год назад +17

      @@dragonfliesnh4204 definitely a hell of a lot cheaper lmao

    • @dragonfliesnh4204
      @dragonfliesnh4204 Год назад +4

      @@katiecrowley980 absolutely! LOL 😆

    • @roselover411
      @roselover411 Год назад +18

      It frightens me how many people have this very specific stock image of what they want their wedding to look like and will ask people to go to extreme lengths to meet it instead of being willing to adjust their image whatsoever. Absolutely bonkers.

    • @franl155
      @franl155 Год назад +7

      @@roselover411 - Too much Disney and Hallmark, not enough reality

  • @vanessazannis5523
    @vanessazannis5523 Год назад +1157

    The most fun I ever had at a wedding was at a girlfriends wedding our senior year of college. Her parents hated her boyfriend and his parents hated her. They were madly in love so they married in NYC at city hall with only 2 friends there to take pictures and sign documents. She looked so beautiful and was really glowing. They took us to dinner at Sardi’s after and ordered tons of champagne. And they insisted on paying for everything. Still in love years later…parent status unknown.

    • @fairygoth-mother7341
      @fairygoth-mother7341 Год назад +88

      When my sister got married, we literally threw it together in one week. She wore a white GunneSax dress, bridesmaids wore similar skirts/blouses in any color so long as it wasn't white. She and I did the flowers the morning of the wedding. The guys wore either black jeans (new and nice) or Western dress slacks and dress shirts-open collar, no tie. My father and I split the photography duties. My mother found an officiant, and ordered a cake from a local grocery store bakery (3 tiers, nice looking and yummy). A friend who worked at Coors supplied the beer. Ceremony and reception held in his parents' back yard, and they provided food (Grilled steaks, hamburgers, hot dogs - cookout stuff). It cost almost nothing, but it was lovely and fun. Best wedding I've ever been to. Marriage didn't last, but the wedding was fun.

    • @vixtrilogy1041
      @vixtrilogy1041 Год назад +38

      That's what love is. Those who marry for the image are shallow narcissists.

    • @mortanicus5871
      @mortanicus5871 Год назад +15

      @@vixtrilogy1041 narcissists is precisely the word that came to mind when I watched this video.

    • @SonjaElizabethTeal
      @SonjaElizabethTeal Год назад +8

      What a beautiful story.

    • @gordowg1wg145
      @gordowg1wg145 Год назад +11

      Seems like a win-win-WIN!
      Dollars to donuts, when their first grand-child arrived the parents were all trying to play nice!

  • @madmarrr
    @madmarrr Год назад +280

    The earrings one pissed me off! 😡 I had a fluke issue with my earlobes getting infected when I was 19, so I just stopped wearing earrings altogether. Fast forward to my brothers wedding and my SIL gave all of us bridesmaids matching earrings to wear - and mine were custom made to be clip ons! It was so sweet. I literally cried. My SIL is the best and the wedding was the most gorgeous event I’ve ever attended. ❤️ They’ve been happily married for 10 years now!

    • @nightshadelover7797
      @nightshadelover7797 Год назад +8

      Damn are we the same person I had the same problem when I was 4-5 I believe

  • @Dina-lc4bt
    @Dina-lc4bt Год назад +218

    I was 6 months pregnant at my friend’s wedding where I was the maid of honor. My biggest problem was finding a dress that fit and getting there on a plane. She paid for my dress and my pregnancy was a nonissue. Love that friend.

    • @bann5777
      @bann5777 Год назад +16

      I was MOH and 6 months preggo at my besties wedding. Another bridesmaid was due a week before me, lol. My bestie specifically picked dresses that would accommodate growing bellies and were affordable. ❤️

    • @ArmySoldiersLady23
      @ArmySoldiersLady23 8 месяцев назад +7

      I wish I had been afforded the same luxury. I was 4 months pregnant when the bride got engaged. The original wedding date was my due date so I politely declined being in the wedding as I couldn’t guarantee my presence at the wedding. I was asked to be induced 2-3 weeks before to allow the happy couple their date of choice. I said no. The date was moved and I was 5 weeks postpartum when the wedding took place. It’s a long story, but other issues arose and ultimately accused of being difficult throughout the entire wedding planning event.
      I refuse to be in any more weddings…

    • @murphychurch8251
      @murphychurch8251 7 месяцев назад +8

      @ArmySoldiersLady23 Whaaat?! Asked you to be induced? The audacity! 😱 I can't wrap my head around the levels of entitlement people come up with. So many people obviously were poorly raised as the little golden princelings and princesses.

  • @sammiesworld379
    @sammiesworld379 Год назад +244

    My sister-in-law, 3 months after her gorgeous wedding went on fb and said how much she HATED her wedding. The dress, cake, pictures, venue, everything! Everyone had pitched in to save them money, my niece and I offered to do her wedding photos as a gift. Our older brother was DJ, professionally. The ceremony was outside, on my kids 18th birthday, in 95 degree weather with no shade in a rose garden.
    I had just been told I had a brain lesion and I’m allergic to bees. And most of our family, her guests, cleaned the reception hall afterward, because she’s a diabetic and got trashed. Haven’t had the need to speak to her since.

  • @Sorarse
    @Sorarse Год назад +468

    I'm so glad my wife is the conplete opposite of these monsters. She wanted a quiet wedding with just family and some very close friends. Some of those friends did the catering (they offered), her mum made the wedding dress, and the only real expenses we had were the hire of the vintage wedding car, the photographer and our honeymoon in the Maldives. It was brilliant and everyone said they had a great time.

    • @grungepen
      @grungepen Год назад +13

      Aw that's a beautiful wedding :) wishing you guys long life and happiness from Canada 👋

    • @Queen_of_Kingz
      @Queen_of_Kingz Год назад +9

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Y'ALL GOT MARRIED FOR ALL THE RIGHT REASONS. IT'S MARRIAGES LIKE THIS THAT STAND THE TEST OF TIME! CONGRATULATIONS! 🎊

    • @Sorarse
      @Sorarse Год назад +9

      @@Queen_of_Kingz You are right. We have been married 28 years now. I forgot to add in the original post that my parents made our wedding cake. My mum used to be a professional baker, and my dad was a chef in the Navy, and could make amazing things with icing.

    • @addie-eileenpaige6460
      @addie-eileenpaige6460 Год назад +2

      Sounds like a wedding I'd want to have for myself, one day.

    • @Sorarse
      @Sorarse Год назад +1

      @@addie-eileenpaige6460 I'm sure you will.

  • @lindabenny4454
    @lindabenny4454 Год назад +239

    We had about 12 people to our wedding, a buffet type meal & open presents with our friends in our hotel room. A couple of my friends still say it's the happiest wedding they have ever been to. That was over 30 years ago, still together.

    • @LaquetaHodge
      @LaquetaHodge Год назад +6

      We had roughly 70+ people at our wedding even with some people RSVPing & just not showing up, but everyone tells me they had a lot of fun & our food was amazing. With things obviously not being perfect, I can take comfort in knowing our guests enjoyed themselves.

    • @georgieeve2026
      @georgieeve2026 Год назад +2

      Awww 😍

  • @illydem713
    @illydem713 Год назад +232

    Why do these brides demand everything to be so expensive?! I did a color scheme with mismatched bridesmaids dresses because all of my bridesmaids had different budgets and that allowed them to have options that worked for them. The bachelorette was a night at Dave and busters because I love games and they decorated the house we stayed at, which looked amazing! They all were so wonderful

    • @lisajean228
      @lisajean228 Год назад +3

      Love that idea, identical dresses never were my thing. What was the color scheme they wore?

    • @crazybiogeek
      @crazybiogeek Год назад +1

      Dave and Busters sounds epic for a bachelorette (or bachelor) party!

    • @1987MartinT
      @1987MartinT Год назад +3

      All those bridesmaids in different colours must have looked very festive. A rainbow up at the altar, with the groom in black and the bride in white. That sounds nice.

  • @marynorton6068
    @marynorton6068 Год назад +185

    I live in Ireland, the bride and groom are expected to pay for bridesmaids dresses and groomsman suits and anything you want the wedding party to have done (make up etc). Might curb the outrageous demands…..

    • @iwannabapenguin
      @iwannabapenguin Год назад

      I grew up in n.ireland and just wondering if you do the same as us... We strap the groom half naked in the back of a trailer and drive them through town and everyone throws eggs and flour at him!...🤣

    • @marynorton6068
      @marynorton6068 Год назад

      @@iwannabapenguin are you serious????! I know mad stuff happens on stag trips but no, we don’t do that!😂

    • @jewelsthomas
      @jewelsthomas Год назад +14

      People in the Indian community do this also. Even going so far as to buy outfits for the extended family. At my cousin's wedding, I was just a guest but they paid for my hair, make-up, and outfit. I chose to skip the manicure and pedicure and got my own beauty salon to do that.

    • @crestfire8008
      @crestfire8008 Год назад +4

      Same in my country. Bride and groom pays for everything including dresses for bridesmaids, groomsmen etc

    • @janine9140
      @janine9140 Год назад +3

      Exactly same in my country in most cases the couple pays for everything except of course for the hotel maybe but most of the time they do.

  • @Caninecancersucksrocks
    @Caninecancersucksrocks Год назад +80

    I’ve been married twice. First time was my parents basically forcing me into marrying the father of my daughter (because “what would the neighbours think?!” 🙄🤨) despite my NOT wanting to marry him. It was attended by over 200 people, almost all were either family I rarely ever spoke to, or else they were my mothers friends/frenemies - literally only had four of my own friends & a few of his.
    Mother dearest arranged EVERYTHING, right down to the flowers. The actual marriage itself was a horrific nightmare that lasted slightly over 6 months & ended with me in a three month coma and him eventually going to jail after being convicted of attempted murder (after having beat the living hell out of me for months by him whenever he drank).
    Needless to say, after that experience I wasn’t at ALL in a hurry to ever be in a relationship again, much less marriage. Fast forward slightly over 20 years later and I eventually married my best friend, a wonderful man I’d known since childhood & am still very much in love with today. For THAT wedding, it was all about everyone just wearing semi-casual outfits & having fun. The only thing we spent major money on was food/entertainment. It was literally BYOB, and we held it out on our farm, with our closest friends & a few select family members.
    In lieu of gifts, we asked that folks please donate whatever they felt was right to one of our favourite causes we both volunteer with (a local animal rescue).
    It was a wonderfully relaxed event that was filled with happy moments and left us with very good memories.
    Weddings do NOT have to mean starting your marriage in debt. F*ck that! Do what you BOTH want, and do it in such a way that you’re left with happy memories, not bills. I promise it’ll far surpass anything the wedding industry is insisting you “need”.

    • @wyntermoonlight
      @wyntermoonlight Год назад +10

      Very glad you survived and are safe and happy now

    • @Caninecancersucksrocks
      @Caninecancersucksrocks Год назад +4

      @@wyntermoonlight you’re very kind, thank you ❤️

    • @CreditR01
      @CreditR01 6 месяцев назад +5

      Holy shit. I'm glad you got out of that marriage alive. I hope you and your daughter are alright now.

  • @Supersquishyawesomeness
    @Supersquishyawesomeness Год назад +190

    Only wedding I was in took place at a summer camp. The bride and groom’s favorite colors are orange and blue so it was unintentionally Bears colors. She was lovely and didn’t really require anything. She just wanted our dresses orange. We could choose a style and price we were comfortable with. It helps that we all knew each other from the childrens home we had all lived in for some period so we are all some level of frugal.

  • @eschularickshorty26
    @eschularickshorty26 Год назад +267

    For my wedding during the pandemic I let my bridesmaids vote on a dress, do their hair themselves, and tried to pick a dress under $100 as I knew my bridesmaids weren't necessarily going to wear those dresses again. (My color was forest green). Two out of three of them had kids. It wasn't just about me, it was about them too. I wanted EVERYONE happy at the wedding, not just me. I even made them their bridesmaid gifts

    • @wolfgirl3081
      @wolfgirl3081 Год назад +14

      @Emily Stern WOW. You are such a class act! I LOVE your attitude. You have your head on straight and your priorities right. I bet everyone had great time at your wedding. 😀 P.S. What did you make them for the BM gifts?

    • @TJ-bn2cn
      @TJ-bn2cn Год назад +4

      Emily, what do you want?? A medal? For just being a normal person 🤔🤔

    • @dragonfliesnh4204
      @dragonfliesnh4204 Год назад +15

      @@TJ-bn2cn The way I read this is how much her friends and families did and did what they could to be there for her within their budgets. Because she cared about them so much, she wasn't being unreasonable. I don't see this as her bragging at being a "normal person", but how her loved ones came through for her and she had a happy wedding because of it.

    • @wolfgirl3081
      @wolfgirl3081 Год назад +11

      @@TJ-bn2cn What is your problem? Jealous much? How rude of you.

    • @dragonfliesnh4204
      @dragonfliesnh4204 Год назад +7

      @@wolfgirl3081 I didn't think of that but it does make me wonder now. I love seeing happy stories like this especially with all the terrible things going on and too many entitled people in the world.

  • @justhearmeout3959
    @justhearmeout3959 Год назад +162

    I'll never understand how someone who's getting married could think suspended calla lilies is more important than getting married. That's why so many of these end up in divorce - at least one of the two most important people there can't keep their priorities straight

    • @lisahuber9329
      @lisahuber9329 Год назад +18

      or hyper focus on things like the bridesmaids' toe nails and jewellery when nobody except the bride would ever even think to look at those things ... I think they are doing that to distract themselves from their relationship because they know they should't be getting married

    • @justhearmeout3959
      @justhearmeout3959 Год назад +17

      @@lisahuber9329 you've got a good point. I wish our society would stop treating marriage like it should be some rite of passage, and start making it more apparent that marriage is a commitment, and it's tough. It's obviously easier if you really love the person, and both parties are emotionally well rounded people. But it still takes work.
      A wedding is one day. A marriage is not.

    • @WeAllLiveInTheTwilightZone
      @WeAllLiveInTheTwilightZone Год назад

      Only the bride is going to remember HER DAY for years!! The only thing everyone else will remember is what a b*tch she was and forget everything else about it.

    • @redwoodrebelgirl3010
      @redwoodrebelgirl3010 2 месяца назад +1

      Amen.❤
      To BOTH of your posts here.❤
      Well said.
      God Bless.💗

  • @marythewinter
    @marythewinter Год назад +26

    Not me gasping and dropping my jaw at the "how much is a tattoo removal?" WHUT!? damn

  • @aniahyoung7887
    @aniahyoung7887 Год назад +85

    My brother got married yesterday and it was the most beautiful day ever! It's amazing how smoothly wedding days go when the bride doesn't micromanage everything and is happy and content with what her friends and family contribute, and is just happy that people are there to celebrate with the couple

    • @SonjaElizabethTeal
      @SonjaElizabethTeal Год назад +1

      Congratulations!!

    • @addie-eileenpaige6460
      @addie-eileenpaige6460 Год назад

      Congrats to your brother & his spouse. Yes, it's always best when the bride doesn't micromanage & expect everything to be "perfect."

  • @colorlessoz
    @colorlessoz Год назад +41

    Also, if anybody is getting married, here's a tip: DON'T TELL catering businesses, venue places anyone basically that tries to sell you stuff it is for a wedding! They will rack up that crap like no tomorrow!

  • @ShowdogTiger
    @ShowdogTiger Год назад +357

    I always laugh at these videos. A word to the wise: Kiddos, don't waste your money on a wedding. Save the money for the down-payment for a house instead. Make sure you are on the deed for the property and get a prenuptial agreement.

    • @TrudyLennon
      @TrudyLennon Год назад +16

      Absolutely, though prenuptial agreements aren't recognised by law in my country and as such aren't legally binding. Definitely use your money for your marriage and life together, not for the wedding

    • @talosheeg
      @talosheeg Год назад +5

      Lmao im Armenian, my mother and aunts would MURDER me if I didn't let them plan a huge wedding 🤣🤣😭

    • @gordowg1wg145
      @gordowg1wg145 Год назад +4

      Yes, yes, and yes (both parties).

  • @hannahlamb2369
    @hannahlamb2369 Год назад +161

    Hi Charlotte, just wanted to say that I really appreciate the fact you included the story about the woman who had an ectopic pregnancy.
    August 1st 2022 was the first ever awareness day for ectopic pregnancies. It's extremely important we do talk about this taboo subject, even if it makes others somewhat uncomfortable. By raising awareness (any kind), will help others to question what it is, how to support, how to help themselves if ever they find themselves in the same situation. Raising awareness will and does save lives! 😊💖

    • @queenboudicca31
      @queenboudicca31 Год назад +5

      Hannah...I so appreciate your comments...too bad so many legislators don't know how it works. Lives will be lost.

    • @draconicfeline6177
      @draconicfeline6177 Год назад

      @@queenboudicca31 it's ironic how much blood has been and is going to be on the hands of so-called pro-lifers. And unfortunate.

    • @harmonypaige
      @harmonypaige 8 месяцев назад

      ​@ndawn90 I'm sorry that happened to her! I had the same thing happen to me, after it ruptured I was ready to leave because the pain was gone, then they rushed me to surgery and I didn't even know what was going on! It was all happening so fast, I also lost a lot of blood and afterwards the doctor was so mean to me. I don't understand why, he just kept saying that I better be glad he saved my life! 2 years later I had another ectopic pregnancy in my other tube and the Dr didn't believe me! Said it was unbelievably rare for that to happen. After a D&C where they found no fetus, he called up to my hospital room to say "well you were right" not long after that I had to have a full hysterectomy. Luckily I already had a baby pretty young so I do have a son, but in total, I lost 4 pregnancies. 😢

    • @redwoodrebelgirl3010
      @redwoodrebelgirl3010 2 месяца назад

      @harmonypaige--
      Oh, honey!
      I'm so very, very sorry for your many deep, terrible, & profound losses.
      I know that losing a baby is an horrific pain.
      No one should have to endure it, & to think you went through it four times--
      that breaks my heart.💔
      I'm so very sorry for your losses of babies & of your fertility.
      And, the way you were treated by medical "professionals".
      I pray that you will find comfort, healing, strength, support, Light, Hope, & ever-increasing Peace.💗
      I am so very glad that you got one Miracle baby.❤
      I got one, too.
      God Bless you & your family, & your precious son, always 💗
      (You will see your babies again.
      I Know it.❤)

  • @lyric-dawn
    @lyric-dawn Год назад +59

    I was in the bridal party for a destination wedding and yes, we had to pay for our own dress, but let us pick out of a number of them. We had to get hair done by a professional, but the bride’s family paid for that. You have high expectations, you pay for said expectations. I’m just sayin’… My girl did it right!

  • @FluxyMiniscus
    @FluxyMiniscus Год назад +50

    Yes, it was a record summer for weddings… I am a jeweler for a custom ring company, and we CRANKED out a huge number of rings this spring! It was a lot of fun, actually 🙂

    • @Ironraven001
      @Ironraven001 Год назад +3

      Cool! I'm a blacksmith and have been fascinated with jewelry setting for a long time. Sounds like fun.

  • @LCJCFAMILY
    @LCJCFAMILY Год назад +104

    I was a caterer for many years, specifically weddings, the wedding vendor that gets paid the day of, NEVER GETS PAID. always always receive last payment 2 weeks prior or you will not show up, my contracts consisted of 37 pages, they covered every lame exuse a bride could come up with. I made them sign their life away. keep in mind while other caterers did not provide rentals such as dishes, etc, i gave them FREE no hidden costs or anything, i owned them so i gave them for a signature, as well as ALL table linens, and so much more so i would be damned if a bride was going to come after me for a dime. or not pay me.

    • @dragonfliesnh4204
      @dragonfliesnh4204 Год назад +13

      It's pretty sad that you had to go through all that because people aren't always honest and well meaning. But at least you have that added protection as a business so that was a bonus for you. I hope you haven't endured too many jerks throughout your career.

    • @LCJCFAMILY
      @LCJCFAMILY Год назад +12

      @@dragonfliesnh4204 I no longer cater as of 5 yrs. ago but yes I had less than 5 that were a pain. I was lucky but basically one mom tried to get money back because she had 5 less guests, so i rewrote her contract as my contract clearly stated she will pay for 100 guests whether they show up or not, if the number decreases by even 1 guest then the contract is void and all items given free for the 100 guests will now be added to the contract which makes 80.00 per head go up to over 150.00 per head, so i sent her the new contract, she complained but in the end she left me alone. Her husband was a paster. Another one tried cancelling 2 weeks before her wedding stating her fiancé beats her up, my 1st husband was very abusive so I understood her dilemma and told her she was doing the right thing by canceling, now 2 weeks before I have not purchased the foods or called in staff which call off their jobs to work for that day as I payed them very well to do so. I told her I would not cash her final payment. she asked for all of her funds back but that was a no go, the next day she told me the wedding was on. Another bride thought she was the Queen, very rude, I was able to control her somewhat but she had and has no idea the things I did for her, she insisted that the venue provide her Table linens, this worried me as new owners took over the winery and very new at weddings and they did not have the products on hand. the day prior I instructed my staff to load the linens anyway because I had a bad feeling and sure enough, the linens provided had been scissor cut from a roll of linen fabric for each table, you could see all the frayed edges it was awful and they did not have her overlays, my staff did not need to ask, they pulled all the linen off and redressed her tables, the bride never knew what we had done for her, my linens were free in our contract so it was nothing for us to do so she would not be embarrassed. Another bride cried how broke she was, but I gave her an exceptionally low price. over the months of planning her wedding, well I must say I was also my brides wedding planner at the venue as I did not trust anyone to be on time or give the bride her dream wedding, so I did the venue planning for free as well, all of my brides received their dream weddings at all costs. anyway this bride slipped and mentioned she had a decorator, we all know what those cost so I was perplexed as to how she could afford a decorator but cried so many times on how stretched she was for funds, well 2 days before the wedding she added 40 more guests, i charged her for them, she thought I would give them for free, an argument ensued to the point her mother called me cancelling the 40. I told her that the bride was my client and only she could cancel but the bride refused and refused to pay me. at the venue, the food stayed in my heat boxes until I received the funds, as they sat down to eat, the bride's mom's boyfriend came in the kitchen and payed me cash. there is much more to this story as to how I was treated by them but I had emergency surgery that week so I sat quietly in the kitchen and my team did everything, my teams were amazing always and never needed much direction anyway I was so blessed to have them work for me which is why when they called me needing gas money or money for school books or did not have money for their rent, all they had to do was call me and I helped them for helping me shine every weekend. I can tell you this, I do not believe in the bridezilla concept as none of them were that bad as we see on tv. those are all rehearsed and pushed into behaving that way. most of my brides were gems.

    • @dragonfliesnh4204
      @dragonfliesnh4204 Год назад

      @@LCJCFAMILY I'm glad you didn't have too many issues. But those stories are wild and something you'll always remember!

    • @stephenbanks5952
      @stephenbanks5952 Год назад +1

      @@LCJCFAMILY What an interesting post.

  • @pablodelsegundo9502
    @pablodelsegundo9502 Год назад +95

    I think anyone asked to be MOH or bridesmaid or groomsman should be armed with a contract spelling everything out, kinda like a prenup. It's not ideal, but people have lost their goddam minds since the turn of the millennium and it just seems wise to protect everyone involved.

    • @stefswatchinyoutubeagain4769
      @stefswatchinyoutubeagain4769 Год назад +5

      I was thinking this is going to start happening. We will begin to see weddings without bridesmaid/groomsmen if these people don’t stop.

  • @AerynKDesigns
    @AerynKDesigns Год назад +132

    To be fair this was 20 odd years ago, but before husband was husband, he was in his best friend's wedding and I was invited as his plus 1. The suit (not a tux) was rented and provided for him, he was even given a tie that we still have because it was in their colours. He had to walk down the aisle with a bridesmaid (girl he didn't know), and stay behind to take photos with the wedding party all together before the reception a few hours later. There was at least 200 people at this party, it was not small. After that, he was free to do whatever he wanted, eat with me in the regular seating, etc. It did cost a plane ticket, but that's because we lived in another state from where the bride and groom lived and they'd all grown up together. I'm not even sure we got them an official gift. We might have, or it might have been him attending in the first place. There was like 0 expectations on him from either his friend, or his friend's wife, and it was HER DAY!!!! She's never expressed any issues with her wedding to us, so I guess everyone was fine. I feel like if you have these types of friends, you're gonna end up with these types of experiences. If you don't, then regardless of the event, you don't end up experiencing this weirdness.

    • @Garbeaux.
      @Garbeaux. Год назад

      Great point. There are always warning signs before a bridezilla actually becomes one.

    • @SoManyRandomRamblings
      @SoManyRandomRamblings Год назад +1

      So true......because very few of these people were super sweet and amazing and just changed that one single day out of their whole lives.....people have a pattern of behavior.

    • @WeAllLiveInTheTwilightZone
      @WeAllLiveInTheTwilightZone Год назад +2

      I loved your story!!! BUT...it's not HER DAY, it's THEIR DAY!!

  • @jenn8179
    @jenn8179 Год назад +51

    I never even thought about the color of my brides maids nails. I had a woman come to do hair and told them IF they wanted to get their hair done, they could...or not, their choice. I don't understand these brides! Why risk your friendships?? Unless they're not that important to you...😒

    • @rachaelwhitehouse6283
      @rachaelwhitehouse6283 Год назад +3

      My line with my bridesmaids was “you just gotta be fine with how you’ll look in the pictures” and they all looked beautiful with low drama!

    • @Momma-angela
      @Momma-angela Год назад +1

      Yes!!!!

  • @theanteaterparadox344
    @theanteaterparadox344 Год назад +24

    Everytime I watch one or your Bridezillavids, i look back on 24 years of a happy marriage with the best wifey on this planet and realize how much of a happy man I am.

  • @MsCortneySoHollywood
    @MsCortneySoHollywood Год назад +9

    Long before my bestie got engaged, we had a convo about our imaginary weddings - 'cause what girls don't?? 😄 I seriously told her (and maybe lovingly threatened her 🤭) to NOT ask me to be a bridesmaid. It was said jokingly but she knew I dead-a** meant it 😂 Their big day is in 2 months, she complied w/ my request & I so love her for it! 🤣😆😅 There aren't any hard feelings at all - we just completely get each other & are a bit too much alike while being total opposites too. It was the best thing for our friendship & I'm so happy/excited for her ♥️

  • @lucypellek8940
    @lucypellek8940 Год назад +8

    That last one was nuts omg. Ive had 2 ectopics and they were emotionally draining. How insensitive does she have to be to even suggest something that absurd. No words... 🤦😱😣

  • @kazbaz2011
    @kazbaz2011 Год назад +4

    This type of people really do exist! My brother (who’s into the heavy metal scene) used to have very long hair. His friend was getting married and asked him to be a groomsman. He said yes, but then his friend’s fiancée said he’d need to get his hair cut or he couldn’t be in the wedding party!!! He politely declined, but still attended the wedding, but it was nuts!!!

  • @afa13829
    @afa13829 Год назад +80

    I LIVE for these fucked up wedding stories. Cause, it makes me happy that I didn't waste money and figured shit out before any money was spent on ANYTHING.

    • @danielleking262
      @danielleking262 Год назад +3

      Praise, girl. 🙏

    • @afa13829
      @afa13829 Год назад +2

      @@danielleking262 I know its mean but, these videos make it worth it lol.

    • @danielleking262
      @danielleking262 Год назад +3

      @@afa13829 oh no, I agree, they are horrible human beings, but damn, it makes awesome entertainment, lol

    • @afa13829
      @afa13829 Год назад +2

      @@danielleking262 yes. It makes it all the more worth listening to.

    • @katrinascarlet5637
      @katrinascarlet5637 Год назад +1

      Mine was so rushed (we had 1 week) and it was such a disaster. I did get sad I didn't get to do the fun little things so these stories help me feel better.

  • @elithesia781
    @elithesia781 Год назад +59

    I've seen that last story on Reddit before and you missed the best part:
    The bride-to-be was actually her cousin and she threw a hissy fit about the reddit post after she saw it, saying it was her second marriage and she wanted it to be special and how OP was oh-so mean to her and needed to defend her demands. The OP responded by updating her post and instead said "Hi, Jessica! Keep sending this to Grandma, I really don't care!".
    And thankfully, all of the comments I saw defended the OP and basically had the attitude of "Frick that lady" regarding the bride.

  • @davidguidry657
    @davidguidry657 Год назад +65

    We’re ALL here for it Miss Charlotte!!! Bring the tea and pop the popcorn!

  • @happycamper4263
    @happycamper4263 Год назад +37

    My ex-boyfriend walked my mother down the aisle at our wedding and my husband and I are the godparents to his and his wife’s daughter💕

    • @me2ontube
      @me2ontube Год назад +5

      that must been in the twilight zone - unheard of wow

  • @shelby6
    @shelby6 Год назад +5

    I *was* meant to be a bridesmaid for my best friends wedding, did the flower planning with her, went ring shopping with her (just us two), discussed the flowers to be used, the dress she'd wear, the colours of the bridesmaid dress and what I would wear and my hairstyle 👀 the venue and decorations, the whole shabang. As the end of the year approached she started ghosting me. About 7 month later she answered my call 🥴 told me that we were in different stages of our lives since I was not dating someone as well as her fiance not liking a joke HIS bestfriend made that we looked like we'd be a cute couple because we are so affectionate towards eachother (platonic and innocent obviously) nothing even close to something that would be inappropriate. Her fiancé ghosted his friend and told her to stop being friends with me. After that phone call she confirmed that I would not be a bridesmaid but that she'd love me to come to the bacherlorette party and the bridal tea with her family and the she wanted to build our relationship again. I have no idea why I accepted the invites, it hurt to be there with the bridesmaids knowing I had planned everything. Worse was the day of the wedding, seeing everything I planned with her in person really hurt me. After the wedding I stopped talking to her. She contacted me a few months later, saying that she missed me and had a fall out with her MOH at the wedding. I haven't replied to that message and it's been 10 months. Where was my self respect during that time?

  • @insideAdirtyMind
    @insideAdirtyMind Год назад +26

    Had a friends group during my schooltimes. Right after we graduated one of these girls got married and invited like...everyone in the village. I was so excited, because I never attended a wedding and thought it was so romantic. The bride told me specifically what kind of gift she wanted (it was like 100 €, which was a lot of money for me at that time, who just graduated and would start a job schooling soon). Anyways I went and bought her the gift. At the day of the wedding I went to her home and met with everybody. The bride (my friend of many years) came to me and said I can take the gift to the gift table. Then she left the room, the woman that stood next to her just looked at me and I looked at her....silence. Then the woman said: "Thank you for the gift, you can go now." I awkwardly smiled, took the gift at the table and left. I was so dumbfounded. Literally everyone was invited and I was expected to go home.....I was shocked. Later I found out that there was one girl in the friends group, that wasn´t a friend and constantly told lies and stories to cause trouble between us. I distanced myself from all of them, went to my job-school and never looked back). I never had any bad word with the bride before, but if there was a problem I would have expected her to talk with me about it....anyways, I just found out I was in the friends group, but I was not that kind of a friend that you invite to your wedding. I am still confused about what must have been going on behind my back.

    • @JamieM470
      @JamieM470 Год назад +8

      I'm so sorry that happened to you! What an awful bunch of people. I wish you had taken your gift with you when you left. She didn't deserve anything from you.
      Someone who believes a lie about you & refuses to even discuss it with you is not your friend. And definitely someone who uses you for gifts is not your friend.
      You are so much better off without such toxic, hurtful people in your life. You deserve much better. I wish you all the joy & happiness!

  • @cannibalculture4499
    @cannibalculture4499 Год назад +13

    My husband and I had both been married before and both had previously done the giant stressful fancy wedding. So when we decided we wanted to be married, we weren't sure what that would look like. My mom and I went to a party city in January to just look around. It had been years since I'd been to one and I couldn't believe how cool the kid's party supplies were! Hubby and I both love cartoons and video games, especially the ones from when we were younger (Disney, TMNT, SpongeBob, etc.) I had an idea hit me right there in the middle of party city. We had both said the most important thing about our wedding day was just being married at the end of it. I called him and asked him how he would feel about getting married in my Grandma's very large back yard with the large porch being like a stage, and decorating with kids party stuff that we both loved. He was silent for a second and then was like "Are you serious? You'd really do that?" And I was like "F*** yes I would!" And so that's what we did. We even got a TMNT ice cream cake from Baskin Robbins that said "Happy wedding Mr. and Mrs. Israel!" We had a BLAST and so did everyone else! No stress, no outrageous bills, just fun and happy memories. We're still married, 8 years this past March. We're going to renew our vows after 10 years and will probably do something a teeny bit more fancy for that, but we're such a good team now that it wouldn't be stressful at all. Haven't regretted it a single time since, and people still talk about how fun it was. Just saying, if the most important thing about the day is being married to the person you love when it's over, just have fun with it. You won't regret it.

  • @sehzzy
    @sehzzy Год назад +5

    Not a bride story but had a friend who shared the same birthday month as me and wanted to have a joint birthday party. Thought that was cool, and was keen for a small get together at a bar with some common friends.
    NOPE. This friend wanted to hire a party bus to go bar hopping after having a big party at her place with food and cake etc etc… I had an entry level job at that point and, due to unforeseen circumstances, lost my job just over a month before this big party. We were in our early 20’s at this stage so asking parents for money to drink and party was out of the question. Her parents were paying her half.
    Had to tell my friend I could no longer afford this huge bash but was happy to help plan and set up etc for her. I felt really bad and like I was letting her down but I thought she would understand. She stopped talking to me entirely, kicked me out of the party planning committee and replaced me with new friends. I didn’t see her again until her party where I was ignored the whole night and felt like a complete third wheel.
    Needless to say, if I could be dropped for such a superficial reason. This wasn’t the friendship for me. She messaged me about a year or so later talking like we were best buddies and I told her I was no longer interested in being friends with her. There were a lot of other things that she had done and said that lead me to this decision.
    AITA? Maybe. But life got a lot less complicated after she dropped me like a hot cake. So I chose to keep it that way.

    • @CreditR01
      @CreditR01 6 месяцев назад

      Sounds like you did the right thing to me. She sucks.

  • @sarahblohm361
    @sarahblohm361 Год назад +38

    This is why I’m more than happy that I haven’t been a bridesmaid since I was 4 years old.

    • @sacha8uk
      @sacha8uk Год назад +2

      A tad unconventional, but I imagine kindergarten weddings must be really cheap. Most of the guests are plush toys, I guess. But then, the bridezilla has the option of throwing a real tantrum if she doesn't get her way, or if the lilies don't float right.

  • @strangest_forest_chicken5543
    @strangest_forest_chicken5543 Год назад +21

    In 2010, I was asked to be a bridesmaid by my husbands (now estranged from us) sister. In the January of that year we fell pregnant. She told us that I would no longer be allowed to be a bridesmaid because I would be too fat, and they wouldn’t be able to accommodate for my growing stomach. Unfortunately we lost the baby in February, and I was forced into being a bridesmaid again. Though the dresses were awful, and the woman that made them was sat outside the house on the wedding day, in the car, fixing the dresses. So much more went wrong that day. Anywho few years later she’s asked to be a bridesmaid for her cousins wedding, she refused to not be a bridesmaid despite being 39 weeks pregnant (on the wedding day), and didn’t know if she would actually be there! I’m not joking when I say that her dress had special patches in because she was very large with her second child at the time. The dresses were beautiful for that wedding, though hers looked like a moomoo

  • @CH_Warrior89
    @CH_Warrior89 Год назад +2

    I’m genuinely thankful that I’m the type of person who is happy to go to a registry office, exchange vows, swap rings, have a celebration with friends and family in my dads back garden and then get on with life.
    I’ve learnt, if you can’t afford it, you can’t have it. The fact you see these women, these people exist who demand expensive gifts off their friends and family, expect them to look a certain way, or the worst one that you included, a woman who experienced a trauma of a pregnancy and the woman is STILL thinking of her needs only. It’s cringey and it’s gross.
    If you’re a host to a celebration, it’s still your job to make sure your guests are happy even if it’s that one day! Nobody should be that entitled.
    Thanks for another great video Charlotte, exposing the entitled. Love it!

  • @greatbigguy
    @greatbigguy Год назад +86

    Weddings do not have to be expensive. You should tailor it to your budget. I have been married three times and they have had three different budgets. The first one was the most extravagant. But even then we found a discount dress got a good price on the church because we attended that church regularly and got a good deal on the hall because her father was a veteran and it was the Veteran's Hall. The cheapest was the third one. The church and The Pianist were free because at that time we were very broke and the church was very gracious. We paid $25 to reserve a spot at a very nice local park. We had barbecued chicken that we cooked at the park and various store-bought salads to go along with it. We had one of those giant Costco cakes and a dollar store wedding topper. Yes they sell wedding Toppers at the dollar store or at least they used to. I wore a suit I already owned and my bride wore her prom dress.

    • @jessicaschroder6978
      @jessicaschroder6978 Год назад

      Your bride in your THIRD wedding wore her prom dress??

    • @greatbigguy
      @greatbigguy Год назад

      @@jessicaschroder6978 Yes... interested in being #4?

    • @greatbigguy
      @greatbigguy Год назад

      @@jessicaschroder6978 it was about 5 years after her prom (and about 20 past mine)

    • @stephenbanks5952
      @stephenbanks5952 Год назад

      Why do you feel the need to keep getting married? Is it something you enjoy? Or did you feel it socially necessary?

    • @greatbigguy
      @greatbigguy Год назад

      @@stephenbanks5952 Why do you care why I do anything? This was over the course of several years And frankly it's none of your business

  • @mrsjprich
    @mrsjprich Год назад +36

    When, exactly, did bridal showers and weddings go off the rails and bachelorette parties become such a big thing? It all just exploded so quickly and the meaning of the day has been entirely lost. There was a time when etiquette played a huge role in these events. Bridal showers were humble affairs, and the bride certainly had nothing to do with the arrangements. A lot of times they were surprises. The same goes for the bachelorette party. You never get to dictate to others how to spend their money on you! Be thankful for what you get. None of this is mandatory. Weddings have become a production on the scale of a Broadway play. So many brides expectations of friends and family have become so unreasonable that we now have brides expecting guests to pay for their plates at the reception and giving them minimum dollar amounts for wedding gifts in order to attend. God forbid you are asked to be in the wedding! It is cheaper to go on a cruise than be in a wedding. The idea of having your nearest and dearest around you on that special day you begin your marriage is no more. It has become a gift and cash grab, all while alienating as many people as possible. Bless those that have parents that have either brought their kids up well or have sense enough to rein their kids in to save the family dignity. All that being said, I live for these videos, Charlotte. I feel better about myself, my kids and my entire family after watching!

    • @DrT0705
      @DrT0705 Год назад +6

      I have a feeling that the rise of bride/groom-zillars correlates with the increase in social media apps. You can now share pics and vids of your "perfect" wedding with literally thousands of strangers, as well as compete with other wedddings, and I'm sure these factors increase the self-imposed pressure to get it just right.

    • @WeAllLiveInTheTwilightZone
      @WeAllLiveInTheTwilightZone Год назад +5

      Bravo!!!! (Standing ovation commences) Encore!!! That was so well done and covered everything. I just wanted to give you a little Broadway production. The best part of these stories is when it all falls apart on them.

    • @addie-eileenpaige6460
      @addie-eileenpaige6460 Год назад +1

      If I ever get engaged & married, I will tell my bridesmaids to pick their dresses that's a certain color, their shoes, jewelry, etc. NO bachelorette weekend or trip.
      I could be happy getting married at my local church & renting out the gym for the reception.

  • @dawnlochner3105
    @dawnlochner3105 Год назад +17

    My entire wedding. INCLUDING MY DRESS was around $100!!!!! Yes that was 35yrs ago [still married to him 🤗] but still $100 wasn't too much. I never understood the huge over the top blowouts!!! That's not what its supposed to be about!!!! Our reception was at his mom's apt!!!! Sheesh!

  • @haleyvapnik5069
    @haleyvapnik5069 Год назад +2

    I was a bridesmaid recently and there was a bit of snow the morning of the wedding. The venue was indoors so it wasn't an issue for the wedding but the bride mentioned the day before there was a cute outdoor courtyard she wanted to take pictures at. We told her it was only a little cold and we could probably go for a few pictures still outside. She said no that it was too much. It shocks me to hear basically the exact opposite. I am assuming it was legitimately freezing since the wedding was February and I am sure if it wasn't so bad everyone wouldn't have been so against the pictures. But if you want outdoor pictures with no coat may consider a different time of year or location.

  • @jenisaysthings
    @jenisaysthings Год назад +23

    50 seconds ago 💀 guess I can't resist bridezilla videos

    • @jackstacos7864
      @jackstacos7864 Год назад

      SSSAAAAMMMMEE

    • @undarkenedrose
      @undarkenedrose Год назад

      Damn gurl, same 😂

    • @JustHereForCats
      @JustHereForCats 9 месяцев назад

      Lol how can you not? It’s absolutely fascinating how these ladies’ logic works 😂😂

  • @QueenRaven911
    @QueenRaven911 Год назад +5

    Our wedding literally had 5 people, myself and my husband, our 2 closed friends as our witnesses and the officiant. It was the simplest wedding but 7 years in and a daugher, we are still going strong. we both don't like crowds and we didn't want anything fancy, I think it was wonderful. Most of my friends had big weddings, but honestly none of them were bridezillers, we just chose to celebrate differently and it was never about how big the wedding is. My family and bestfriend weren't even at the wedding, but they gave us their blessings and that was all we cared.

  • @jackieraulerson2005
    @jackieraulerson2005 Год назад +29

    Stupid people spending all this money (and making friends do the same) on weddings+ when the divorce rate is over 50%. STOP THE INSANITY

  • @alexiswagner1178
    @alexiswagner1178 Год назад +2

    I literally did a ton of research trying to find the most affordable things for the bridal party. I’m pretty sure the groomsmen spent $100 total for everything because I found suits online and it came to $80, shoes were around $20 on amazon. My bridesmaids ended up spending closer to $120 for dress and shoes. We helped each other with all our hair and makeup

  • @NeurodivergentMamaBear
    @NeurodivergentMamaBear Год назад +4

    I have been working as a photographer in the wedding industry for a decade, and woo howdy do I have some stories, but am currently taking a break from the insanity for my mental health. The story with the wedding planner brought back my PTSD. 😆 Stuff like this actually happens!

  • @BigT2664
    @BigT2664 Год назад +5

    Making us smile again. Thank you for brightening our day!
    My wife and I eloped... or sort of... It was the second marriage for both of us and neither of us wanted all the drama of a standard wedding and reception. When we sat down to plan our wedding, we decided we didn't want to wait. We called her clergyman and asked him when he was available. Then we called our parents and said we're getting married in 3 days, you're welcome to be there, but it's not required. They came but we did not invite anybody else except our friend who introduced us. After attending other weddings, we always agreed ours was the best wedding decision ever made. Her Mom insisted on feeding us before we left on our honeymoon, but it was a small group of around 12 bodies and was as close to a reception as we got.

  • @dinasilva9263
    @dinasilva9263 Год назад +7

    Charlotte we need a second bridezilla movie please. The first one was ICONIC. 😂❤️

  • @abbyrose3859
    @abbyrose3859 Год назад +2

    My soon-to-be stepmom is the exact opposite of a bridezilla. She paid for all the bridesmaids dresses, and we got to pick whatever we wanted. We used Azazie, and the only requirements were that it was a certain color and that it was ankle length or floor length. She also paid for hair and makeup for all of us.

  • @anabee6545
    @anabee6545 Год назад +8

    It's father's Day in Brazil and I'm far from my dad. Thanks for cheer me up, queen 🥰

  • @britnicox3929
    @britnicox3929 Год назад +6

    The fact that that one bride was rude to the one person who knew that she had kissed her ex-boyfriend during her wedding and sent the husband to speak to her?? like the audacity is mind blowing

  • @grungepen
    @grungepen Год назад +3

    After watching this video, it's so nice to read the comments and see a bunch of happy marriage stories. It melts my heart so much, I wish all of you the very best ! 💗

  • @jennaolbermann7663
    @jennaolbermann7663 6 месяцев назад +1

    I have been the bride twice and both times I had been reasonable about the dresses, kept things simple and both weddings were enjoyable. In my second wedding, I had children and we invited children. We planned ahead for kids and set up a kids table (the kids are with their parents) which had different activities for the kids to do. Each table that had children had little goodie bags for each child so they’d be able to have things to do at the reception. We also had small bottles of bubbles for everyone to blow while we came up the aisle.
    So many people told us or my MIL that they appreciated having things to keep their little ones busy that it helped them relax and enjoy the day.

  • @iwannabapenguin
    @iwannabapenguin Год назад +13

    My partner and I have been together for nearly 8 years and everytime we talk about getting married, we always end up finding better ways to spend that amount of money... Last time we talked about getting married we ended up jumping out of a plane at 15,000 feet... 🤣

    • @lotstodo
      @lotstodo Год назад +1

      Sounds fun!

    • @PunguinYoga
      @PunguinYoga Год назад +2

      Smart couple!

    • @sdube001
      @sdube001 Год назад

      Just head for a Justice of the Peace. Much cheaper, you get married, and still have cash for a parachute jump. Big weddings are a headache, cost a small fortune, and it sounds like one way or another, someone in the party ends up butthurt.

    • @heathereileenoquin
      @heathereileenoquin Год назад +2

      you don't have to marry one another
      but stop kiddin' yourselves that it's 'cause you want to spend the $ on somethin' else

    • @suemetzger5302
      @suemetzger5302 Год назад

      I'd rather jump out of a plane then marry you. That's a vibe

  • @PassTheMarmalade1957
    @PassTheMarmalade1957 Год назад +5

    I can't with some of these nitpicky, negative brides. Imagine deciding that your whole wedding was an UTTER DISASTER because the floating flowers in your centerpieces didn't float the way you wanted.
    There have been weddings where elderly relatives have literally dropped dead.

  • @AimeeAimee444
    @AimeeAimee444 Год назад +3

    “The humanity!” or the lack thereof.
    This was a horrifying melange of bridezilla’s!

  • @JeremyWS
    @JeremyWS Год назад +3

    Yes, I still watch your videos. They always make me laugh. I especially find the bridezillas to be hilarious. They need to learn that getting married does not give you the right to be a terrible person. I liked this video, keep the good work.

  • @kylie7780
    @kylie7780 Год назад +6

    I'm just glad the only wedding I was in wasn't chaotic.
    The only "issue" was I drove down (2 hr trip) to help her pick the bridesmaid dresses, paid for mine, went home, and was called 2 days later and told to buy a different dress because her Maid of Honor didn't want to buy the dress we decided on. A quick trip to David's Bridal (thank god we went to a chain for the dresses) in my city, and switched the dresses and got some earrings since the new dress was cheaper than the other dress and the store didn't do "partial refunds".
    Other than that, it was a calm wedding.

  • @Ironraven001
    @Ironraven001 Год назад +4

    We spent less than $2.5k on our wedding, had an awesome local live band, organic food from my family farm, 10 kegs of homebrew, had no dress code other than red dresses for bridesmaids, threw a badass party for over 400 people. No drama, except for an entitled neighbor calling the cops at 5 pm when the quiet hours for the public park we rented start at 10. Cops laughed and wished us well. We turned up the amps and danced right up until 9:59. Good times.

  • @melissafields3376
    @melissafields3376 Год назад +3

    I was asked to be moh , was surprised as I'd only known bride/groom for about 3 months at the time. Then I was asked to make the bride and groom's cake (I do make cakes for special occasions and have done some event planning)THEN I was told that basically I was working the ENTIRE WEDDING !! Food, decorations even the bridal party's make up!! Mind you, this was done very subtle.... but I had , had enough! Oh, forgot to mention i was supposed to arrange the seating too. Told the bride/groom that I couldn't possibly do all of this in the time allotted . They told me "it's all part of being the moh". I told them " oh hell no it's not!!"

  • @JamaicanemeraldQueen
    @JamaicanemeraldQueen Год назад +2

    I love that you are adding the other puppets. The puppets and the voices makes the videos for me..I laugh so dam hard with you as if I was there cracking jokes with you.😂😂

  • @SimplyCaitlinS.
    @SimplyCaitlinS. Год назад +1

    The closest I got to bridezilla…
    The night before our wedding I found out the venue did NOT have the chairs & tables that they had advertised when we booked. So as we set up, I cried for a while but my husband said he would get chairs from his work & my oldest sister & brother in law said they will run to their church for more chairs & tables… my family was supportive & calm, so that was my *one* meltdown through everything. Even when the DJ played the wrong song for my dance with my dad, we just made a joke of it & danced anyways. Our wedding was perfect & calm & all 100ish guests had fun & enjoyed the evening. I will never understand these bridezilla stories!

  • @markharrisllb
    @markharrisllb Год назад +28

    I made sure everything was paid for before the wedding and we just had the tips to give out on the day. I had exes at my wedding, they both know my wife is the best thing that ever happened to me and our relationships should have only ever been friends. I’ve also done the catering for two exes weddings (one my first wife). People are exes for a reason, they also know that I have issues about people being unfaithful.

  • @morganselina9936
    @morganselina9936 Год назад +5

    Am I the only one that genuinely thought it was normal for the ones having the wedding to pay for most of the bridesmaids stuff? Idk whenever I get married I would assume that was part of the expenses of the wedding

    • @monalisaTO
      @monalisaTO Год назад +1

      Nope, I also thought this. I know people do this but it makes no sense to ask your bridesmaid or groomsman to pay for anything. It is so tacky to me. Why do people accept this?

  • @mag9sp1
    @mag9sp1 Год назад +1

    props to the secret telling wedding planner, poor college girl call out, and to the tattoo lady. stay true

  • @stacieface7427
    @stacieface7427 Год назад +4

    I was talking about our upcoming wedding with my sister yesterday and she said "we having a bachelorette holiday abroad!" not a question but more of a demand. Luckily my stepdad stepped in with me and agreed it was too much to ask of everyone. Being 38 and most of my mates being a similar age, with kids I just find it utterly ridiculous. One night people! That's it! 😂

  • @Nagusame
    @Nagusame Год назад +7

    These stories are everything. And your reactions! Thank you for another good start of the day 😌

  • @carinarose8600
    @carinarose8600 Год назад +19

    Winter pics are so gorgeous though. It's not too uncommon in Norway. You'll warm up quite quickly and I do think the bridesmaids were kinda childish to not try to get great photos. It's just for a few minutes and then you'll have great food and wine 😄🍷 The others on here are crazy tho' 😅

    • @Zardox2
      @Zardox2 Год назад +2

      ... 10° Fahrenheit is -12° Celsius... without windchill.
      If these bridesmaids were not wearing "winter appropriate" dresses, then no. They are NOT being unreasonable by refusing to pose outside, without coats.
      Having some type of coordinated jacket or cape could have been a cute option... but almost ALL bridesmaids' dresses I see are either short/cap sleeve or sleeveless.

  • @SailorSaturn1994
    @SailorSaturn1994 Год назад +2

    yeah if I ever get married it's gonna be magistrate with our favorite family members as witnesses and then a small party for our closest loved ones. no hassle, as small and stress-free as possible.

  • @PaperMario64
    @PaperMario64 Год назад +2

    Happy Sunday, Sister Potato.

  • @nicolelavigne1700
    @nicolelavigne1700 Год назад +7

    Asking to cover tattoos is one thing, but REMOVAL‽ Tattoos are expensive, removal expensive and painful, and they probably still WANT those tattoos.

  • @JasonON
    @JasonON Год назад +4

    Charlotte: it's the bride's day! You hae to do everything you can to make it perfect!
    Charlotte: brides be crazy and no one should support this crazy shit.

  • @nadiarahman6310
    @nadiarahman6310 Год назад +1

    I took a work break came back and Charlotte is in a relationship, planning to get married and absolutely glowing! I love to see it

  • @poppykelly2619
    @poppykelly2619 Год назад +1

    As a wedding photographer I love all of the wedding videos! My husband and I work together for weddings and we have been so lucky to not have any bridezillas in 20 years! We are always shocked by the stories and we adore you Charlotte! Thank you for making fun content, we look forward to all of your videos but we have a special fondness for the wedding ones.

  • @viviennart
    @viviennart Год назад +5

    Isn't it the couple's responsibility to pay for the bridesmaid dresses though? Or am I just living in a totally different socieity?

    • @meisjeViv
      @meisjeViv Год назад

      It's definitely good practice... Or have a loose dress requirement, for example 'please wear something blue', if buying dresses for bridesmaids isn't in the budget. That way everyone can spend what they are comfortable with (or borrow something/wear something they already have) and that they can wear again. Idk, I don't think any of the weddings I attended had bridesmaids at all...

    • @DuckieM
      @DuckieM Год назад

      It depends on the culture. I had friends that the bride bought their dresses, and friends who had to pay for their own bridesmaid dress (in the colour the bride wants) and makeup but with the dress they chose the fit that suited their body type and what they were comfortable with.

    • @viviennart
      @viviennart Год назад +1

      @@DuckieM That would be the best option so they can look for cheaper dresses but still follow the color code.
      I honestly don't know how it goes here, because the last time I was a bridesmaid I was 6 and don't know if my parents ever paid for the dress I wore or my uncle bought it.
      But when I had my ball dance at 18 we ofc had to pay for our dance partners' tux because we were an all girl class and all the men were outsiders, not school mates. It was the natural thing to do. So I reckon it would be the same on a wedding. Or at least I personally wouldn't want them to pay for an expensive dress, I would definitely look for the best option price wise.

  • @jessicamarsh9779
    @jessicamarsh9779 20 дней назад

    8:31 😂 that’s when I’d said “Same… if I had to do it all over again, I wouldn’t have been in your wedding party, only a guest” 😂

  • @SheAlieMcCartney
    @SheAlieMcCartney Год назад

    I cannot with “my boyfriend Mike”, LMFAO, she’s so proud! I love this for herrrr!

  • @elizabethlovett4318
    @elizabethlovett4318 Год назад +10

    Bridal veil for t-rex puppet? Yay! My only question is: T-Zilla or Bride-Rex? 🤣 Also, weddings aren't bad or anything but I can't recommend enough for people to watch this video about weddings in the link below if only to help keep some perspective:
    ruclips.net/video/wVX7apORd_s/видео.html

  • @natalieschannel7675
    @natalieschannel7675 Год назад +4

    Dig the Bold and Beautiful Thumbnail!

    • @xdkristinlynn
      @xdkristinlynn Год назад +1

      Was cracking up over this! Glad there was someone else who noticed 🤣🤣

  • @robsonrobson9905
    @robsonrobson9905 Год назад +2

    Ugh, I'm always shocked by the amount that people in the bridal party are supposed to pay out just to be in the wedding! In the UK (where I am) part of the cost of a wedding is dressing your wedding party. The people paying for the wedding pay for bridesmaid dresses, groomsmen suits and usually things like shoes, hair and make-up too. You don't charge your friends to celebrate YOUR wedding!

  • @stargrl523
    @stargrl523 Месяц назад +2

    I felt like my MOH was helpful in the beginning but towards the middle and towards the end she said I was treating her like a planner than a friend. I told her she can be MOH in name only and I’ll take care over everything ie bridal shower and bachelorette on top of the rest of the wedding planning. She then goes to tell the rest of my bridesmaids I never wanted a bachelorette because I’m already getting a bridal shower. Mind you, my mom and aunts ended up planning the bridal shower, she didn’t have any part of it. I was very upset and the rest of my bridesmaids planned a quick bachelorette for me in the city. Small and simple but it meant a lot. She and her sister (also a bridesmaid) weren’t a part of it. The day of my wedding she actually seemed helpful but I will never look at her the same again. I’ve known her and her sister since we were all very little and thought of them like my own sisters. My advice is even tho you may be best friends or sisters, they may not be best to be MOH. Pick someone reliable, organized, and who actually doesn’t mind planning things. If they do a great job planning, give them a special gift.

  • @daniellek1191
    @daniellek1191 Год назад +5

    I will never understand Bridezillas, I understand planning a wedding can be stressful but it is no excuse to treat somebody poorly especially somebody you’re supposed to care about

  • @louisejohnson6057
    @louisejohnson6057 Год назад +4

    Come on Charlotte, in reference to the first story, weren't you aware of the fact that..(This is to be read in that full throated voice that Charlotte uses when making a proclamation.) THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN THE BRIDE'S LIFE, THEREFORE IT'S THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN EVERYONE'S LIFE!!!

  • @michellewolfenden2092
    @michellewolfenden2092 Год назад +1

    It stuns me with the bride expecting everyone to pay for everything. In Australia you ask someone to be bridesmaid you pay for everything.

    • @mariendorf1981
      @mariendorf1981 Год назад +1

      Same in Ireland. Your wedding- you pay!

  • @vincelemaire
    @vincelemaire Год назад

    I’ve spend way too much money to attend weddings (suits, shoes, hotel rooms, plane tickets, …) .
    Now I simply don’t go to any ceremony anymore. I keep my money and avoid the stress.
    Most of the time, you don’t see your friends as often because they have a new life ahead after their wedding (and that’s normal).
    It’s also very convenient to have a standard response for those invites: « No, I won’t come and I won’t help ».

  • @mysteriousartiest542
    @mysteriousartiest542 Год назад +2

    I needed this vedio to laugh, I have a job interview tomorrow and I am stressed

  • @morganpeters34
    @morganpeters34 Год назад +1

    I'm feeling kind of broken with the way my life is right now and these videos always give me a few minute escape from reality ❤ thank you for being you Charlotte, keep up the great work 🥰

  • @mintberryXoXo
    @mintberryXoXo Год назад +2

    I have to be completely honest, I often get more pissed at the people telling the tale cause a lot (not all) are enabling this behaviour by not saying NO the second demands come flying or confronting the cray crays immediately.

  • @callagothly
    @callagothly Год назад +1

    charlotte needs more of these puppets things, the "i'll send my shark" part made me laugh so hard I peed.

  • @jessm.porthos
    @jessm.porthos Год назад +1

    I love watching these videos and I never thought that I would get to this point but just wow. I mean wow! That last one!!!!!

  • @minischniers6535
    @minischniers6535 Год назад

    I got married in my besties backyard, hand made as much as I could like outfits for the bridesmaids n flower girls, my bouquet, my vale, all the mens corsages (mostly feathers actually), made all the decorations. Basically only things paid for was my n husbands clothes (ceremony on horse, reception in ballroom), catering and the ballroom... reception had 145ppl but less at ceremony. Had straw bales w white sheets for chairs but some real chairs for the elderly. Whole thing was less than 9000 in 2017. I loved it!

  • @Surftouka
    @Surftouka Год назад +1

    For every wedding that I was a bridesmaid, all the bridesmaids took care of the bridal shower and the gift from the bridesmaids included, but if there's just a couple bridesmaids and depending on budget, you just do something lighter. Sounds like she was trying to get her sister out of paying.

  • @tiffripley6602
    @tiffripley6602 Год назад

    WoW!! The last bride was a real doozy! I can't imagine! My wedding was pretty simple and inexpensive! It was perfect!