That poor girl! Her family is 100% gaslighting her and making her feel guilty! She needs to get those toxic, entitled people out of her house! It doesn’t matter that her sil is pregnant! They are grown ass people and need to grow up and get their own place, and take care of their child! They are NOT her responsibility!! Her mother is horrible!
Not to mention that in the UK, your local council will put you in housing (either permanent council housing or a temporary boarding house/hostel) if you really have nowhere to go.....
I was going to say basically the same thing. They are so ugly and abusive. Kick them out and don't give them anything. The dad was smart only leaving them a little, not that 10,000 is a poultry sum!
I actually hope she doesn't sell the house and manages to get a lawyer to help her out and then kicks them out. It's her house, in the heart of London, that house will increase in value over the years.
I hope she is able to get her house cleared out and gets a restraining order on them. She could always rent out rooms to people who actually work and pay bills if it gets too expensive.
I babysat for $40 a day, twice a week for 8 hours each day. I was broke and in college at the time and it was for my mom’s friend. Looking back, I didn’t even realize that they were getting such a good deal 😭.
I let my friend pay me just a little more than that for once a week, but that was because I never did it for the money I just love those kiddos and would have done it for free
I think it really depends on the kids and how much work the babysitter is actually supposed to do. $40 for 8h of actual childcare definitely is shitty pay but if you only have to microwave their dinner and occasionally check on the kids and you have plenty of time to do your school work or whatever it isn't such a bad deal.
That poor 19 year old. Holy shit. I’m 18, and while I don’t have a 2.5 million dollar house or anything like that the fact that the adults just laughed at her and felt they could walk all over her hit really close to home. People don’t take us seriously, and it’s super frustrating. I hope she got everything all sorted out and evicted those bitches.
And the mom telling her they (authorities I presume) won't do anything because of her age is bs. Pretty sure in the UK she's a legal adult at 19 ánd the house was left to her in her father's will.
Right, I'm also nineteen and just trying to imagine being in that situation makes me so sad for her. We have enough crap to deal with at this age without worrying about entitled, horrible family members. I hope she was able to throw them out too! And good riddance!
My brother became a super entitled parent when it came to babysitting, and also expected people to just do it for free. My mom would drive an hour, early in the morning, and stay all day with their toddler, for free. Then, my brother would come home and have the audacity to get mad because she wanted to leave right away (another hour drive home). He would throw a fit about how he worked all day and needs a break and she needs to stay at least half an hour after he gets home so he can "relax". If she was ever late, he'd also have a tantrum. It got to the point where my mom showed up one day and he had another fit about something, and she just left. Told him to find someone else to watch his kid. He had to take the day off. Eventually, he and his wife had to alter their work schedules, so one works nights and the other days, and they never ever get a break as they swap working and childcare. Bummer for them calling mom's bluff.
Sorry she had to deal with this! It’s the kids that really suffer but I’m glad she stood up for herself. I can so relate. Just yesterday my dil threatened to not allow our gs to stay over because I asked for her to talk to me, rather than the 7 year old about pick up times. Only been watching him, for free since his birth but I guess staying the night is off the table; not the free weekly day babysitting though, because I ask to be directly communicated with.
they should be fucking hella grateful if a grandma want to be in their grandchild's life. At least offer to pay for gas just for driving all the way out there.
8:16 what OP typed out, that the family doesn’t even do “I love you’s” or “I’m proud of you’s” is bloody heartbreaking. I’m glad the uncle is backing OP up, she deserves better family.
As a former nanny and childcare worker, I legit CHOKED ON AIR as you were reading that first one. If you want someone to be responsible for your child’s life, you can expect to pay more like $20/hr not a DAY. For $20/day, I’ll throw your kid a pack of raw hotdogs, sit them in front of the TV, and point a baby monitor at them whilst running errands. I’d never do that, btw! Don’t yell at me 🤣
YES!!! OMG! If you are willing to spend that much on your child then you deserve a high schooler who will just prop the kids in front of the TV and be on their cell phone the entire time lol. I have had so many entitled people try to tell me that 20 dollars a day is a reasonable amount because babysitting/nannying isn’t a real job. Yet want someone who is First aid certified, with experience, and a good driving record. WTF is wrong with people.
I know I haven’t worked in child care in a really long time but 10 years ago when I did I got paid 17 an hour per kid. So when she said 20 dollars a day I about died. And I know what you were meaning you get what you pay for and 20 dollars a day will get you a crack head that doesn’t care about your kid.
I am seriously starting to wonder if parents looking for sitters that cheap are actually secretly trying to have something awful happen to their kids, but not have it be "their" fault. 🤔
That story about the girl's SIL disprespecting her & eating all her food is insane. Pregnant or not, doesn't give anyone the right to walk around like they're queen of the universe needing everyone to tailor their lives around the expectant mother. Edit: Thank you for all the feedback. This story made me think, "Are people really that entitled?"
Right?! I think she was just using her pregnancy as an excuse. Her SIL is entitled just like her brother and mom, and is super petty and evil, and blames it on the baby.. (the baby may be a scapegoat later in life). When I was pregnant, I never had the urge to eat someone else’s food. I would get my own.
This exactly! TLDR I was working with someone who was pregnant a few months before I was, and she demanded that everyone tailor to her. She wanted the air on all the time in the spring where our clients would be shivering at night and she would berate me telling me to leave it on, to put on a coat if I was cold, and to give the clients some more blankets for me to wash in the morning at the end of my shift for her to bitch about folding later at her shift start. Once I lost my pregnancy and she knew what happened, she stopped talking to me because I was bringing negativity into her pregnancy. During my second to last shift there, I had a migraine and forgot to turn back on the air (for the empty house because she hated walking into a hot and stuffy house for her shift start) and she proceeded with cussing me out through a message about how I don't care about anyone else and how I needed to listen to her about the air (which, if it was an older system that would have gotten messed up from turning it on/off that would be one thing, but it was a new system.) I was like, "Dude, my last night is tonight and you don't have to worry about me forgetting the air when all you have to do is just turn it on and wait an hour for it to get cool." I came in (which it was my birthday) and she just got up and walked out without talking to me. Blocked me on social media some months later once I commented in a post about her about how she talks shit about anyone and everyone including her family, would make fun of people, and just was a horrible coworker.
She's an adult, she will be taken seriously if she chooses to evict her mom and sister-in-law. If her SIL's family will not allow her brother to move in with them, then they are the ones who are breaking up the family, not her. Having allowed these people to live in her house for free for so long should not obligate her to continue to do so.
I hope it's easier to evict someone in London than in LA. A person sleeping on your soda can refuse to leave and have rights after 3 days. There are horror stories about this happening.
@@lotstodo I came here to say this. Sometimes it's very very difficult to kick someone out if you've been letting them live there. Then you're going to court hearings while you're living together?!? Miserable. And possibly dangerous.
the law is literally on her side. 19 is still an adult and the house was left to her in the will which is a legal document. her family is not very bright...
Crazy family: "You can't separate a family! Think of the children!" Me: "No, YOU should have thought of the children before you treated your daughter like trash!"
0:29 I once had a friend call me up asking if I could come help them out by watching their kids for them one Saturday evening… They got REALLY defensive when I asked things like - “will you be there?” “Are you just needing help looking after them?” They pointed out that they had plans to go out and we’re having trouble finding someone they trusted to babysit So I played along “ahh, ok, I see I see, fair enough” “So could you come and look after them for me?” “Sure I guess I could, how much?” “…what…?” “How much are you going to give me for doing this for you?” “Pay you? I can’t afford to pay you anything? Why would I pay you? We’re friends…?” “I’m giving up what little time I have off work, in order to look after YOUR KIDS, while you decide rather than providing for them, you need to go out clubbing and drinking…? If you can’t afford to at least cover my fuel to get to and from your place and something basic like a pizza…then you can’t afford to go out…”
I remember reading that story about the house in London on Reddit. The part that got me was that the 34M was about to be a dad and didn't even have a place to live. London is very expensive, but if you can't afford housing at 34, at least budget for condoms!
If a friend or family member let me live in their house rent free, even if they had a lot of money, I would be bending over backwards to make sure I wasn't imposing and helping out in any way that was needed. The fact that this woman's own family treated her this way makes me rage. I hope she evicted them.
Exactly. When I relocated to a new city, I stayed with friends for ONE MONTH until I found a job and could move into my own place. They didn't ask for rent, but I bought groceries, cleaned their house, washed dishes, did all the laundry, and took care of their pets.
Yep, I stayed at my sister's place for a while and never left a dirty dish in the sink and whenever she went to the supermarket, I'd just hand her my debit card to pay for the groceries, I offered to go grocery shopping but she preferred to do it herself. I drove an 18 wheeler and was gone most of the time, I spent no more than a couple days per week there but still helped out around the house, like blowing leaves off the roof and other "grunt work" as well as maintenance for her car, I once noticed that she had tires on her car that were different sizes, (one size difference from front to back), asked her for her keys and took her car to the tire store so she'd have same size tires on her car, (new tires), those different sized tires were driving me nuts, didn't even tell her why I needed her car, (I have my own), she had an older TV set and one day while I was watching a movie and decided right then and there that she needed a new TV so headed over to Best Buy and got her a big ass Panasonic flat screen, when her microwave died I immediately headed to Best Buy again and got her a new microwave my sister and I are VERY close, always have been, I'm very protective of her. I wouldn't dream of treating my sister the way that girl was treated by her own family, WOW!
Yes I actually hope she didn't sell it, it was her Dad's meant for her. I hope the lawyer was for the purpose of evicting them. She's too nice, I'd give mom £100 and say go take them shopping for baby clothes or whatever they need, then call a locksmith and change every lock, put in a security system and toss their stuff on the lawn. I felt so sad that she never heard I'm proud of you once in her life!
I let a friend stay with me and my God this bitch. She was so entitled. She only had to pay half of 686 a month and like 30$ for all utilities a month. She bought 100$ air pods instead of paying the 100 to a owing of 2 months half rent and 60 in utilities. She never did the dishes used the excuse she has touch issues. She would sleep all day acting like working 8 hours was so much work and so hard She would watch shows I told her I didn't like being played because I have 2 God kids when they come over they go on the road.
I get to stay at my mother in laws house for only 500 and I clean her house daily. I can't phantom how they could live in her house rent free and not clean after themselves and steal her food. Leeches are what they are.
Your father left YOU the house, so the rest of your family have NO stance on what you do with it or who you allow to live there. Evict them! They are adults, you are not responsible for them, they are just throwing guilt trips on you. As far as your SIL's family not letting your brother stay with them, must mean your brother is a known A**hole. Get rid of the toxic family members, your life will be sooooo much better, no guilt girl !
Right. I bet the parents of SIL, aka The Egg Donor, are letting HER in is to protect their future grandchild from the loser parents the poor baby is getting. They drew the line at letting The Sperm Donor in.
@@hellgavampenstein9906 The police are unlikely to assist in the first instance as they deem this to be a domestic problem. However, if the daughter gets a court to evict them, then the police will have the legal means to chuck them out, without recourse to them or the daughter.
These stories remind me of the time about 30 years ago when my brother and his wife wanted to go on a week long trip. He asked me if I would take care of their 3 year old daughter for that week. My brother said he was going to give me a great deal. Since I would be paying for my air fare to fly across the country, he would only charge me $300 to take care of his daughter. Yep, that’s right, he was going to charge me for the privilege of watching his daughter. You see, I would be staying in their home, using their car and probably even swim in their pool, so only playing $300 for the privilege was quite the deal. Now to my thinking, if I’m flying to their location and taking care of their daughter, I would need to stay in their home and use their car and shouldn’t have to pay for the privilege. He didn’t agree. Needless to say I turned this opportunity down.
What? That was such a good offer! Man, is it still available? I’d pay $500 dollars for that privilege! (I’m being sarcastic if that wasn’t evident enough)
Wow he passed that up? Lol. Maybe charge him for the flight out there for 500.00. Then if u have to feed the child another $100 for pizza for the week. 😂😂😂
The fact that the sister in law’s parents won’t allow their pregnant daughter’s husband to move into their home speaks volumes! That poor girl’s story had me heated. My family is dysfunctional af but I can’t imagine how it feels to have a mom and brother be so jealous/envious/hateful of me that they can’t even attempt to fix it or even hide it. I feel so sad for her. I hope everything worked out for her and I hope her abusive momma realized she was a POS and got the help she needs to fix it and make it up to her daughter. Omgosh this super duper triggered me…my bad y’all.
When I was pregnant, I ate everything under the sun because I was always hungry.....and yet I somehow still managed to retain enough self control not to eat anyone else's food, nor blame it on my baby.
Wow. That poor girl. There is a reason the dad left the house to her and not her mum. She definitely needs to see a lawyer. I hope she finds a way to evict them and then just keeps living in the house. I know that family is important but with toxic family like that sometimes it is better to just cut ties. Of course, she could just make them sign a formal lease agreement and charge them rent, then when they either break the rules of the lease or repeatedly fail to pay follow eviction processes that way. I do wonder how legally sound her dad leaving her the house was. Did her mum not have part ownership of the house? In which case the dad could likely leave her his share but not override the mum's part ownership, which would make evicting impossible.
I assume they were divorced because the brother was from the mom's first marriage/baby daddy. He was nice enough to leave his ex wife and ex stepson $10K
Not sure the rules in England, but in the States, it's easier to kick people out if they don't pay rent. If they pay rent, they are tenants and have legal rights. Eviction can be a lengthy legal proceeding depending on local laws. If they don't pay rent they are guests and can simply be kicked out any time.
@@thoriated From other comments I've read apparently it's really hard to kick someone out in America maybe more specifically LA idk. And that they cannot be kicked out easily if they've been there awhile. 🤷🏾♀️
@@thoriated Actually, in any state, once a person has established residency in a home (i.e. receives mail there, changes the address information on their state issued ID, or even if the homeowner at one time said, where others heard it, Yeah, you can stay here) they must be legally evicted. If the unwanted resident has no written lease it's a bit easier, but still has to go through the courts. The absolute easiest way is to call the cops every time they do something threatening or illegal, establish a pattern of behavior that "makes you feel unsafe", then request a restraining order. Have the restraining order served by a law enforcement officer, who will then escort them off the property and advise them that they cannot return while the order is in effect. Once they're no longer in the house, it's a lot easier to keep them out than it is to try to dig out someone who is fully entrenched. Or, not entirely legal but still fun, send them all on a spa day/weekend holiday and, while they're gone, move their stuff out onto the side of the road and change the locks. #notlegaladvice
About that crazy house post in London. That made me cry. My mom has NEVER told me she was proud of me. I was also abused and neglected growing up. Fast forward 28 years and my husbands family told me how proud they were of me and what an amazing mother and wife I am. I had a full breakdown. It was such a confusing amount of different emotions. From Joy to heartache because why wasn't I good enough for my mom? At the same time it felt so good to hear those words from somebody else. Yes, before this my husband told me he was proud of me for many different reasons, but hearing it from an adult that was like a parent to me just hit different.
Aww I totally understand. My mother was the exact same way. People who don't have mother's like us who were neglectful and provided zero encouragement (I'm assuming your mother was the same) have no idea how traumatizing that can be to your mental health. I'm currently 36 years old and it took a lot of work to get my head right. In the only the past couple of years have I started feeling okay. Hang in there, it will get easier!
I love when people have children and then have surprised pikachu face when they have to pay for certain things for those children...also, great Scar Impression Charlotte haha, loved it
If I was that 19-year-old I would wait for a day when all those leeches are away and throw everybody's crap out of MY house. I'd also make sure to change all the locks and get a security system installed. Some families are seriously toxic and should not be in your space or face every day.
Same idea! I mentioned she should give her mom £100 tell her to take them shopping for baby clothes or groceries... while they're away, have locksmith change all the locks, including garage door if there is one, put a new security system in or change codes then toss their stuff on the lawn! They don't deserve better.
I’m not gonna lie The one about the girl who inherited the house and had to live with her crap family upset me so much. Good for her for taking a stand
I remember the 19 homeowner post from a while back, everyone was telling her to just evict her toxic family and not sell the home at a loss to her uncle because he was taking advantage of her too. Does anyone know the follow up on that story? If she kicked them out and/or sold the house? Edit: the post was from over a year ago, either before or towards the start of covid. The reason people didn't want her to sell to her uncle besides the loss on the house was that she would then be out of a house and would either need to buy a new house and deal with all that or start renting, and it would be a larger loss to her over time. Her SIL and mother are causing the problem, and her Uncle was using that to make a deal in his favor, getting the family home that he never got before.
Losing only 100 thousand on a 2.5 million house, wouldnt make me feel very taken advantage of. At least he didnt offer only half the price and say some bs about it being a family housr. Dont know when this was first posted, must have been before the house prices went insane
Growing up, people expected my mom to babysit for free or nearly free because she "was at home anyways", even though she homeschooled three children and we were all 14 months apart. Plus she cleaned, cooked, did laundry, errands, etc. Most of them were Christians too, and thought since my mom was a Christian that she'd do it.
I work from home(part time) and homeschool. I have ended many “friendships” because those friends always expect me to be their sitter. I have a full schedule and a routine. I used to try to help but now it’s just a hell no, I’m busy. I had one of my best friend offer to pay me $30/day to watch her newborn. This involved picking him up and taking him home. Minimum 10 hours per day, rotating schedule. She still owes me because she felt like it was ok to spend money on stupid stuff instead of paying me. We are no longer friends. The $30 barely covered gas
4:10 - This chick seriously should have gone to the authorities and had them enforce an eviction. If her name is on the title, they have absolutely *zero* claim to the house or right to live in it. She did not need to sell the house to get this done.
I remember reading somewhere this sort of public-service article by someone in the FBI, regarding keeping kids safe from predators. It said very specifically not to let anyone babysit your kids who is fine with not being paid.
The only way it's free is when my friends and I swap time watching each other's children. Like I'll grab your kids from school and you grab mine from time to time or swap early date night times. The main friend I now do this did pay me when I was hired as her nanny and expected to show up for her like a client; same as I paid her when she was my son's actual sitter before she had children. Now we're swappers and BFFs.
The purposefully eating someone else's food thing is actually a power move meant to assert dominance. My brother tried that crap all the time when we were kids. Until I started getting back at him, anyway. Anytime he brings up an argument with me now I remind him of the time he ate my birthday cake when I was sick one year. Usually shuts him up. It might sound petty, but food theft is often just an example of a larger pattern of bullying behavior. I'm not surprised that it was the thing that made OP snap. SIL could have picked up a phone and ordered something to eat or actually gone out and gotten her own dinner. Going through the effort of searching for and taking OP's food was by no means the only or even easier option. She had to have WAITED for OP to leave that dinner unattended to swoop in and eat that much in that amount of time.
food theft is not always a form of bullying. While it can be, it isn’t always. Growing up in a home where food is scarce is also why some kids take and hide food. It has nothing to do with bully but more likely survival. Your brother was just being mean haha
As a teacher, I see entitled parents all the time. They create entitled kids. Also as a teacher, my kids gets excited when we go to the thrift shop because an Associates, Bachelors, and Masters degrees don't get you much.
As a parent I have come across some entitled lazy ass teachers. And most kids get excited to go shopping period, doesn't really matter where if they're getting something, especially the younger they are. Half of y'all don't even understand the new shit you are teaching as you are learning it along with your students and the other half are having issues understanding and being able to explain the new grading system y'all are using now. There is only a small percentage of teachers that actually do their jobs and with the dedication perceived in the media. Remote learning was literally phoning is school so y'all could be paid for the perception of doing work....I have 1 in each school level (high, middle and elementary) they all feel as if the last 2 years were just wasted time and they didn't actually learn anything. Y'all yourselves need to calm down, the effort, energy and actually learning going on in school has been declining rapidly over the last 10 years and y'all just blame the kids and parents. Where there are entitled parents and kids who expect something from nothing, but most agree and support their teachers but find nothing but disappointment and a lack of actual substance from education.
@@k_t530 you sound like one of those entitled parents. I'm not a teacher, but I know very well how badly teachers get paid. They literally give so much time just for a few classes. Its your children that have issues concentrating. As a student, I myself have trouble concentrating through a screen because its not as interactive as physical school was. But after classes get over, I make it a point to read whatever was taught again! And I feel like I've learnt more than I had. I'm not always exhausted travelling to and fro school so I have more time for other activities like baking and sports. Perhaps because I'm an introvert but I'm pretty sure this online thing goes both ways. You can't blame one party.
When my kids were daycare age, they went to a licensed home daycare. She was my neighbor growing up, I went to school with her sons and she also watched my younger sister, niece and nephew. She charged me $25 a day, that's the price she quoted, not what I asked to pay. But she also had other kids that she watched in her home all day and a few older kids that she only watched for a bit before and after school hours. I packed lunches, but she provided snacks, juice, milk and water. Pat-Pat was an angel, all the kids loved her and her husband (his nickname was "Old" 🤣). Unfortunately, her youngest son got cancer and they had to start traveling out of state a few times a week for treatment. This dear woman is so loved in our community that when her son passed, the whole town mourned. We still see her often, usually at the firehouse where she volunteers as her son had been a firefighter there and my husband is now the firehouse VP. She is always helping with food and toy drives. I swear she is a Saint and I'm forever grateful she is in my family's life!
OH MY GOD the girl with her family living in HER house just needs some self esteem and confidence... she was so generous and she was only taken for granted..
So, I'm 32 and even back when I was 14 in 2003 my neighbors paid me 10$/hour to watch their son and covered food for me while I was there. How people expect free babysitters is beyond me, hell even just cheap it's like???!?!?! No?! Do they not realize how hard it is to handle children, how do they have these kids. And hey, I've even done a few odd jobs watching kids now for roughly 15-20$ an hour for my family/friends. The Lion, the Witch, and the audacity of that Bitch.
"do they not realize" I'd bet 10/hour that no, they dont. I doubt these people spend any quality time around their kids, since they expect total strangers to basically do all the work of parenting them (tutoring, cleaning etc) while theyre at work. I'm all for a high powered career and balancing work and home life, but these people are so out of touch....
I made $10/hour as a teen babysitting in 1988-1990. I was with those kids more than both their parents put together. I potty trained both of them because their halfassed parents couldn’t be bothered to do it. I broke both of them from their bottles, taught them their alphabet, numbers, beginning sight words, 911, how to do simple chores. I took them to church, fed them healthy food, and even had to take them in for their ped visit one time (as a 17 year old!). I had to miss starring in a high school play because those kids had no one else to take care of them. Looking back, those people got a helluva deal paying me that little. When I told them I was switching high schools and getting a job in the field I wanted to study in college so I wouldn’t be available ALL THE TIME to watch the kids, they cut me off from the kids entirely. That was so painful and the loss really affected me terribly. People suck.
The girl with the house made me think of cinderella. Her entire inheritance taken by 3 entitled people who couldn't give 2 shits about her life. I would have dragged them out myself.
I can definitely relate the the house story. It’s been a decade ago so it doesn’t bother me as much anymore because I found the silver lining for my experience. When my husband and I were newlyweds, we lived with his parents due to our culture. and it worked out for the better because my husband had lost his job a few months after our wedding. I was getting paid $11/hr and was a PT college student. He was struggling to find a decent job because the job market wasn’t good in 2010. We help pay $200 rent. Considering their mortgage was within $700-$800. I figured we pitched in a fair amount, because his older brother and wife was paying for the utilities. Mind you, we plan to move out once he finds a job and save enough for down payment. Every month comes by and they keep having excuses for needing more money. I’ve given in a couple of times, but I had enough. We moved out in 1.5 years. Then came the jealous judgements from all the family members, “Watch them fail and move back”. Now, I’m happy that I heard it back then, because it motivated me to work even harder to prove them wrong. Low income means tight budget. Even when lived on our own, they still asked for money. Mind you, they make more than us. We took them in twice and didn’t ask for rent. Only asked for $200 one time because our utility bills we’re getting expensive. To make this shorter, they eventually moved out after I kept encouraging them to get pre approved for a loan and actually show them houses that were on sale. Then, they started saying that we were greedy. Blah blah blah. It hurt a lot a the time and I held it in for longer than I should. We were in our early 20s. Just because we couldn’t afford to pitch in when they asked for money or can’t afford to take them out to eat or offer to pay for some things for them, we were considered bad people. I wasn’t fully innocent either. I should’ve been better at communicating and consider some small things, but overall, I’ve learned to live truly to myself. It’s still a struggle, but it doesn’t affect me as much as I used to. Moral of the story, there are shitty people out there and sometimes they hit you hard on your blind spot, but don’t let that stop you for being who you want to be. Learn from it. You’re never a bad person as long as you had good intentions. Boundaries is key. If you read this far, well thank you.
I did. I have been a sucker but working on it. What I do now is keep reminding myself of the story of the Boy and the Rattlesnake. Boy rescues snake about to fall off a cliff when snake says "I won't bite". When snake inevitably bites anyway, boy exclaims "Why? I saved you, and you promised! Snake says "You knew I was a snake when you picked me up". I get really angry when I keep doing nice things yet get bitten in return. Those toxic people can keep their toxins, their venom, away from me because I am not getting bitten anymore. Ppl who truly need help, and animals of course (dogs and cats mostly, no snakes lol) I will do the right thing, but the snakes can slither away elsewhere.
I’m sorry you had to go through that. You were not in the wrong here, your in-laws were. You are a good person and they are not good people for treating you like that. What is it that makes people feel so entitled to treat their own family like shit??!! Stand strong!!
I was a Nanny for awhile for this family… the mom asked the dad to clean and I had no idea she specifically asked HIM to do that, and he went behind her back and told me to clean it all (including their personal space) when she came home and found it all done she was so happy and I was like “Yeah! I didn’t know where this went though but this is where I put it just so you know.” And she said “Wait… you did all this?” And I said “Yes… he asked me to. Was I not? Did I do something wrong? Are you okay?” Cause she was about to cry because she felt like he wasn’t contributing anything to their marriage or the kids… he legit neglected to tell me this was a secret lol it’s his fault and he fired me for telling on him. I didn’t mean to!
Hun you did nothing wrong there!!! Ive had babysitters try to offer to help clean and that's not what I hired them for.... WTF if daddy's was home why wasn't he watching the kiddos lol..... You do have a big heart, and I hope you've found something that makes you happy sis, have a great year!!!
I’ve commented this before but I will once again-I work at Starbucks and I’ve seen many entitled folk. One thing that comes to mind right now is the time that a mother said, “HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO TELL MY THREE YEAR OLD YOURE OUT OF CAKE POPS?????” “They are out of cake pops. They have cookies.” Lady, do you know how supply and demand works??
Uh hello. Clearly it’s your fault that you can’t supply me her demon child their sugar sustenance. What’s wrong with you? 😂😂😂 (for the record. Total sarcasm)
I am digging the aesthetic today! The top, the walls, the painting the lighting, and the flamingo lamp all in shades of pink contrasting with Miss Charlotte’s fiery red hair is quite nice. Very relaxing; so much so that I almost missed the video. Kids are expensive af from conception through adulthood and beyond so why can’t parents understand that? Always a good laugh watching your videos Miss Charlotte!
I babysit for free. My niece is 2 now but I have babysat her since she was 2 weeks old. Her first 18 months I had her 50% of the time, she has her own room in my house. Now I get her Friday through Sunday night. But, my BIL comes over and does any household repairs I need, my sis & BIL watch my 3 dogs & 2 cats whenever I travel, and I absolutely adore my niece. It may not be a 50/50 trade but I wouldn’t change it for a thing. I love getting to be involved in these young years of my niece’s development; watching her first sit up, crawl, walk, and now talk. She is a very loved and sweet little girl. And don’t tell my sister but she is better behaved with me than she is with her mama. Hehehe.
you remind me of my husband's aunt. she never had children, but she invested in him like he was her own. She was there for diaper changing, she was there for big moments, she invites him over just because she made his favorite dinner, she even did her own research on speech therapy when he was delayed as a child. And now she's basically part of the immediate family. They have a wonderful bond. (versus some friends of mine who don't want kids and tell me they can't wait until I do because they want to be the "cool aunt" ie. come over when the house is clean and the diapers are changed and get the kids all hyped and sugared up then leave when they want to go home and be child-free again)
I founded a nanny service and could literally supply you NONSTOP with content for these! Most of our families are absolutely fantastic, but this is why we screen our families as well. Our nannies are screened to the highest standard in the U.S, so we for sure make sure our families are wonderful too!
I’m a nanny and I would literally laugh in someone’s face if they said ANY of these things to me lol. Know your worth y’all, professional childcare is hard work and should be compensated equally.
love when people say "oh I just need a babysitter but btw you'll cook and clean and pick them up and do our taxes and wash our car and serve us dinner on a silver platter" like if you want a maid/nanny, say that! its like they think babysitting requires less pay than cleaning...
"We need someone to babysit monday-friday, from 8 am till 5 pm. Its perfect for a student just wanting to make some extra money." And when exactly does this student go to school?
Thank you, thank you, thank you for calling out entitled people. This is my biggest pet peeve at the moment. I will never understand the sense of entitlement in people. The parents of these people have failed them miserably.
To the person who was harassing the other person about the dog harnesses...of course your daughter is crying. You're her parent. About the young woman having the problems with her family concerning her home, she is definitely NTA, in fact she is handling it a lot more gracefully than I would. I am proud of her for standing up for herself as well.
The way you described entitled people is actually the prime description of a narcissist. It’s toxic. So so scary. It’s difficult and completely exhausting to have a narcissist in your life and taking control over you no matter what you do
When I was 14 I spent part of my summer babysitting 5 days a week for well over 8 hours a day. The couple expected me not to eat their food while I was there. I ended up going out of state with my family due to a death. Needless to say when the woman came looking for me to start babysitting again I got my mom to tell her she needed to find someone else
Damn the story with the brother, gf, and mom is crazy!!! They gaslighted the shit out of her, what toxicity. I’m glad the person took steps to get away from them. They’re all adults, they’ll figure it out.
I really hate the parents who say ‘I already told my child they could have it’ Like seriously?! No. Don’t promise something to your kid you can then not deliver on. I really want to know what happens next, like do they ask to speak to a manager because someone on Facebook marketplace is doing what they feel best for the product their selling or giving away? 😂 like seriously these people are crazy
The kid isn't going to remember the random person on the phone with Mommy who "refused" to sell them something. They'll remember that Mommy refused to get them a present and tried to blame it on someone else.
This video reminds me of this ex neighbor who started befriending my family . Not thinking anything bad, my wife started being nice to this neighbor only to find out later that the neighbor wanted free baby sitting. She would just let her kids knock on our door and enter and stay for hours without our permission or without even talking to us. She is unemployed and spends her time going out and exercising. Finally my wife had enough after her kids came to our house unannounced. My wife storm out and talk to the neighbor telling her to get her kids out of our house. After that, my wife blocked her number from our phone and refused to talk to her. We later found out she has been doing that to the other neighbors she can fool. 😂😂😂Why have kids if you can’t take care of them??!!🤣
The first entitled parent hit home. I'm a stay at home mom and tried to organize a babysitting co-op within my neighborhood. Basically, everyone logs their hours and exchanges babysitting services for each other. Usually it's a couple of hours meant for a date night, maybe an emergency, etc. One lady e-mailed me and was like, "Can you watch my baby from 8-4 Monday through Friday? I'm available some Saturday afternoons to babysit." Mama really just wanted free full time daycare...
As someone who worked as a babysitter as a teen, I have met so many parents who tried to evade paying by saying: "but we left you pizza" or shit like that XD
I've told it before, but "'Tis the Season". Some years ago I had a neighbor who applied to the fire dept. Christmas toy program. A dollie for her daughter? Teddy bear for her boy? Nope! Her list STARTED with a 60" flatscreen and a top of the line playstation. And continued in that vein for PAGES. They dropped off a doll and a teddy bear (or some such). She was so pissed off I still see her screech at firemen to this day every chance she has.
I must admit the party one is tempting, when you are a first time parent and you throw your first party, and realise the cost 😮 . Which is why you convince your child its way "cooler" to have a small party in the back garden with a projector and bouncy castle lol! I'm not sure how many more years I can pull this off but adding a bubble machine and bunting to the bouncy castle last time squeezed one more year out! Haha
Seriously, these "it's your fault my kid will have a terrible Christmas" attempts at emotional blackmail always crack me up. Do people really say that ? Mean that ? And more importantly, has it ever worked ?
Sadly yes. I had a lady yell at me about that years back when I worked at a deli in a grocery store. She was screaming about how we didn't have the toy her kid wanted and I was just like "Lady, I work in the deli. I have no affiliation with the toys department, nor the stocking of it. I'm just trying to make chicken salad!" While wrist deep in a big bowl of unmixed chicken salad. I told her best I could do was call a store manager 😅
My mom told a lady that I would watch her kid from 3pm to anywhere from 1-3am for $60 a day... I did it for a WHILE too. Mother was a police officer and worked 12-16 hour shifts. The cute dogs, cats, and birds made it worth it. I was also in charge of feeding animals :3
I remember being 12-13 and babysitting toddlers or infants for like $20/day and it wasn't until I was older that I realized that some parents just do not value their own children. Once, a kid who was, if I'm remembering right, about 5-7 years old kicked a huge hole in his parents' wall and told his mom that it was from me pushing him down the stairs. The 90's was wild.
About the birthday one. I did it once, told people I prefered they'd pay their kid's portion of the activity instead of bringing gifts (so basically the gift was for them to be there). We try to be minimalist with our gifts and prioritize activities and stuff like that instead of toys, because they already have so much. Most people were totally on board with the idea ^^
I had an entitled parent at my work. I work in the cafeteria at an elementary school. We did grab and go meals for the kids when the kids weren't allowed to attend in person during the pandemic. Parents would come everyday and pick up meals for their kids or the kids would walk to the school. We had one parent that came and always made a comment about something. She would be like chicken again, really? Or why is it a turkey sandwich? This woman became pretty rude as the days went on and even at one point she said that we owe it to her to make these meals for her kids. We were like umm the meals are free for any kids that need it and we don't owe you shit. We were there for all the children and especially the children that needed the meals but this mom thought we should cater to her requests that we owed her these meals. It was sad to see a parent act the way she did. But all the other kind parents that came made up for it because we knew those parents truly needed these meals for their children and at the end of the day all that mattered to us was that the kids that needed meals got them.
Our city gave away free meals but half the parents never showed up to collect but you can sure bet that they complained on social media about not having food 🤦♀️🤦♀️ People are so ridiculous.
@@SilverWolf4216 Thank you for the marvelous work you do :) I go to a public high school and one time I got a frozen pizza, a burrito, a few snack cakes, a full carton of strawberries, and an insane amount of kale when they would give out a week's worth of food on Mondays. On the other side of things my mom watched her elementary school students get whole, raw avocados as their fruit because the school didn't account for special ed eating lunch on campus. Those of you who do your job are heroes :)
@@basicallyperidot5299 Aww thank you so much! I really appreciate that and I'm so glad you guys were getting meals. Kids like you are the reason we come to work everyday!
I remember my daughter going thru first aid AND CPR classes just to be able to babysit in the Sacramento region; needless to say she got a very very good price for her services ( those classes weren’t cheap, given by the Red Cross )
I was a roommate with a 24 year old and her 3 year old daughter. The roommate acted like I was a live in nanny instead of a roommate. I would watch the daughter for free bc I thought that I was being a good friend. I would go out of my way to make sure I had the time to watch the daughter. One night she told me that I deserved the night off.. then it hit me how much I was being taken advantage of.
I stayed with a friend who had a new baby and she would do the same thing...so finally I went to spend a birthday weekend with a different friend...and she got pissed and threw my belongings in her garage and changed the locks. I was so grateful to find out what kind of person she really was.
When I was pregnant yes I had food cravings, but everyone food cravings sometimes lol. So just like when you have a regular food craving while not pregnant, you have the option to control yourself. Same as when pregnant. If she’s really this uncontrollable eating machine then she’s got bigger issues than pregnancy. I understand eating one cupcake. It’d still be shitty and I’d be mad. But all 6 is just absolutely inexcusable. All of her behavior is. She eats OPs lunch when she makes it the light before for her job and breaks into her locked rooms mini fridge ??? Pregnancy is tough but her behavior is completely unacceptable and inexcusable
I'm 4 months postpartum and I would of never done that. It's not about the food, it's totally about the power. For all of them, it is about the power over her. I really hope she got help from a lawyer and law enforcement!
When I was pregnant I was so picky about what I wanted to eat that I had to cook it myself. That was when I first realized how much fun cooking can be. It made my husband happy to come home from work to a house filled with delicious smells. I had so much energy, and felt wonderful during most of my pregnancy. After dinner, we would go for a 2 mile walk to a park that had hoops so we could shoot baskets. I got pretty good at free throws, but got sick of people asking me if I was carrying a spare basketball under my shirt! Those were good times.
Right. You just reminded me: and why does her mother even have the key? Lock needs to be changed immediately. At the rate these ppl are going (hopefully gone by now), she is going to have to lock up a LOT of things. And whatever is out, these MFs could just destroy on the way out as it is. Yes, she can sue, prosecute etc. but if they have no money and probably never will, good luck recovering anything beyond the satisfaction of prosecution in the criminal courts. I hope she put away a LOT of photos, film, and other evidence of the 'before'. And they could STILL do that sneaky stuff we all have seen here anyway, like fish in the curtain rods, etc. and cause damage harder to prove.
I'm not sure how to feel about the fact that you're able to make so many entitled people videos because on one hand, it's kind of scary how many selfish people exist, but on the other hand, their narcissism is entertaining lol I feel bad for the people having to interact with them though.
To the lady who inherited the house. You did what was good for you, like your feeder breeder SIL and snake mom and brother. Don't feel bad they're homeless because they are grown ass people who can take care of themselves. Definitely not the bad person in this situation. I cringed so hard at this story!
Right. Even The Egg Donor's parents are pbly only letting the baby stay but unfortunately, the egg donor came with her/him. They wouldn't allow your brother, aka The Sperm Donor-that says a LOT.
When I was pregnant, I still knew I wasn't entitled to everyones personal made food just because I was pregnant. I ate my husbands food, but he already expected that. I wouldn't walk in on someone else meal and just help myself in less I knew it was made for everyone.
My wife and daughter have both done child care with my wife being a certified nurse (so extra qualifications). They typically ask for around $16/hr which is cheap compared to an institutional day care for kids. The number of people who make counter offers of $20 per day or some such for a 9 hour day is staggering. Like you'd pay more to board your dog. People trying to cheap out with their kids and not value the cost of quality care.
Can't speak to anywhere you've worked but around here high quality facilities run in the 5 figures per year. And my wife has certifications beyond what most/many babysitters have hence the comment. And you as an employee were making more than $25 per day I'm sure. My points remain.
@Alexandria Lukes But babysitters also give your kids way more 1-on-1 attention in the safety of your own home. No risk of getting illnesses or lice from other kids. No having to pick them up and drop them off during specific hours. A babysitter SHOULD cost more than a daycare. If parents aren’t willing or able to pay, that’s their own responsibility. I get that being a parent is hard and money can be tight, but screwing someone else over isn’t the solution. Kids are really expensive, and more people should plan for that before having them.
Or ask when organising 'I'm thinking of organising this event but I don't have the money to pay for everyone, would you be interested in joining and paying for yourself/ child' and then people can decide if they like the activity enough or not for that price... But don't invite them to something and then when they've said yes, tell them that they need to pay for themselves 😂
YES, a lot of parents think they're ENTITLE!! I work at Wal-Mart and I see parents let their kids make messes, and they'll leave their child in the toy section for hours while shopping. This isn't FREE DAYCARE service. Parents like to say "if you don't have kids then you don't know what is like" No I don't nor do I care, that's no excuse for letting your kids run wild and be disrespectful.
My excuse is, "Even if I did I wouldn't let them do this. I'd hate to be a parent like you." Plus I might not have kids of my own but I've helped raise my nieces so I know what it's like to have kids around.
I raised my kids and know what it's like, but I never would have let them run free in a business or someone else's home, nor dump them on someone else. I remember my youngest getting teased by his grandparents due to not directly asking them for a drink (he sat next to me and politely whispered his request to me instead).
When I was skint with children I joined a babysitting club. It was basically like a sleepover club for the kids. I'd take my kids to another mum in the club, pick them up the next morning. Then some other time, her kids would come to me. There were about 6 or 7 mums in the group and it worked really well. None of us were well-off. Quite often it wasn't about going out somewhere, it was a welcome night off.
It's almost like working and living within your means is that of fiction to today's society. People want to live as if they're rich. Not realizing they are dirt poor and can't afford that lifestyle. Live within your means people, it's not that hard. 🤷♂️
@@donilexington4600 I wonder if there's competition between the kids to show off who has the best coolest birthday party, or something. Or between the parents, for that matter.
@@ameliecarre4783 I've never understood such pettiness. I could care less about how well others are doing, I'm too focused on myself and improving my goals. Those who compare themselves to others are fools. Only compare yourself to your past self and improve. Never have I wanted to earn the approval of others through materialistic matters. 🤷♂️ but I guess I don't have a popular opinion lol.
I grew up only having birthdays on even numbers. So like my 6th,8th and 10th and they were usually all at home,this was the same with my other siblings. We'd have a few friends and mum used to make most things for the party's and my nan made the cakes. We never had to ask for people to pay because we kept it simple because it needed to be adorable.Im shocked the lady needed to demand money from the guests when there are many good ways around it.
My mum worked in an all boys secondary school (that would be a middle school in North America) and she had to deal with a parent who couldn’t be bothered to send her son with a packed lunch so my mum bought the kid a meal deal (it is school policy to not allow children who are overdraft to buy food at the cafeteria, make with that what you will), a parent wanted taxis booked by the school so their son could be taken to and from school everyday and a parent wanted their son’s uniform to be fully funded by the school (they’re not an impoverished family). Just some of the shit my mum had to put up with.
Here in the U.S., a secondary school is the high school level with college being post-secondary. Thanks for clarifying that bit of terminology. Is it a private school? I can't abide the thought of a public school starving a hungry child, but it happens sometimes in awful districts.
Charlotte, I laughed so hard watching this video! I fell down hardwood stairs yesterday and banged up my ribs, so laughing was PAINFUL, but thanks for making me chuckle!
I really want updates on the "house in london and shitty family" story!!!! I hope she's doing okay, her family sounds like a bunch of horrible little brats.
My reaction would be to apologise to the mum brother and SIL and say let me make it up to you with this spa weekend paid by me. Then while they’re on the spa weekend, pack up all their stuff into a storage warehouse with one month rent paid and change the locks on the house. The cost would be worth getting rid of them.
Picking up my phone and seeing there's a new CHARLOTTE DOBRE 📹 video is the highlight of my day! The saddest part is knowing it's over...😢 Thanks for the laughs!!💛
The evicting family story struck me. I am literally living under the same conditions now but I am the youngest in the house and my house is not under me. It's under my people pleaser mum who let's her oldet sister step all over her and thinks she's doing it all for the best of her sake as she helped her before in the past
Reminds me of my mom, people think she's nice but she's just weak, it's horrible to be raised by a weak parent who doesn't stand up to people to protect you
@@radhiadeedou8286 I agree. I'm very grateful to her of course but I wish she would be stronger to say no to people who obviously is trying to Leech her. I don't blame her though and is always alert at the fact that the core issue is still at her older sis.
@@radhiadeedou8286 say it louder for the people in the back! My mother is actually rather strong willed but the second we enter HER mothers house any criticism from my grandmother had to be followed. Just as an example, at home my sister and I were allowed to sit in what ever way comfortable at the breakfast table. I always sit on one leg and bend my other knee to put my foot on the chair. My grandma hated that A LOT and always told me how that's bad manors. Thing is, when I was a child we'd visit her for 6 weeks straight as she's in another country. So for 6 weeks we were not allowed to leave our room from 8pm - 7am (especially not to pee), were not allowed to sit comfortably or cut of the fat from meat when eating it. At home, all this was not a problem. My mother even encouraged us to do all that. But not once did she speak up to her mother. Not even when my 14 year old self experimented with make up, ended up with a red shade of lipstick on her mouth and was called a prostitute. Ironically, I am 24 now and still have issues standing up to my mother, too. But since I had a wonderful little girl in April I've made an extreme effort to set boundaries from the get go. Essentially I told her, if you wanna see your grandchild your playing by my rules now. I will not have her push her control freak rules onto the next generation!
Pregnant Sister in Law Story: NTA The Sister in Law's pulling the "But I'm PrEgNaNt!" card, making up excuses for her rude, disrespectful and gluttonous greed and even blaming her UNBORN BABY for the Mother's "Eating like a PIG" mentality, the Brother and Mother are just LAUGHING in OP's face, DEMANDS that she caters to them and mostly SIL's every whims like a slave and then YELLS at her for trying to stand up against her because SIL is basically starving OP and depriving her of the her food! Glad to hear that OP stood up for herself and got her uncle to buy the house and kicking those entitled, ungrateful assholes out! I'd rather have OP be happy and free of the entitled pricks' enslavement over her, who ALLOWED them to stay in the house out of the kindness of her own heart, than know that she's being treated like Cinderella in her own home! Hope that the Brother, SIL and Mother got sued for pulling this shit behind OP's back, treating her like a slave, verbal and mental abuse and not paying for basically "Making themselves at home" in OP's home!
OP needs to do this for her own sanity or else other ppl are going to take advantage of her. Imagine the ppl she will be dealing with in places like the dating world, esp if they find out she has money? She needs not just a lawyer but a psychol as well, better late than never.
@@carolr7333 In all honesty, I would've gotten an eviction notice made and given it to the Entitled Family. And in this case, I would've taken those Douche-baguettes to court and sued them for all the things they've done against me: Living in the home without consent from the home owner, treated like a slave, food eaten up, mentally and verbally abused... The Brother, SIL and Mother are better off living in a tent than living in a home, or even a homeless shelter. And the baby's better off without a toxically narcissistic family like that!
@@naruhinastarr For the baby's sake, I HOPE OP contacted CPS and informs them of the toxicity the "FaMiLy" put her through! Better that the baby be put in the loving care of a foster/adopted family than be with those three stooges.
That poor girl! Her family is 100% gaslighting her and making her feel guilty! She needs to get those toxic, entitled people out of her house! It doesn’t matter that her sil is pregnant! They are grown ass people and need to grow up and get their own place, and take care of their child! They are NOT her responsibility!! Her mother is horrible!
Not to mention that in the UK, your local council will put you in housing (either permanent council housing or a temporary boarding house/hostel) if you really have nowhere to go.....
I was going to say basically the same thing. They are so ugly and abusive. Kick them out and don't give them anything. The dad was smart only leaving them a little, not that 10,000 is a poultry sum!
I actually hope she doesn't sell the house and manages to get a lawyer to help her out and then kicks them out. It's her house, in the heart of London, that house will increase in value over the years.
It’s worth the 100k loss to be rid of those a holes
I hope she is able to get her house cleared out and gets a restraining order on them. She could always rent out rooms to people who actually work and pay bills if it gets too expensive.
I babysat for $40 a day, twice a week for 8 hours each day. I was broke and in college at the time and it was for my mom’s friend. Looking back, I didn’t even realize that they were getting such a good deal 😭.
Oh girl you could have like just been a cashier and worked 4 hours a day and still made 2-4 times as much
I did it for $20 a day for all of my neighbors growing up no matter how many kids, animals, or chores. I’m not a business minded person. 🥴
Well you also did a good thing to by helping out
I let my friend pay me just a little more than that for once a week, but that was because I never did it for the money I just love those kiddos and would have done it for free
I think it really depends on the kids and how much work the babysitter is actually supposed to do. $40 for 8h of actual childcare definitely is shitty pay but if you only have to microwave their dinner and occasionally check on the kids and you have plenty of time to do your school work or whatever it isn't such a bad deal.
That poor 19 year old. Holy shit. I’m 18, and while I don’t have a 2.5 million dollar house or anything like that the fact that the adults just laughed at her and felt they could walk all over her hit really close to home. People don’t take us seriously, and it’s super frustrating. I hope she got everything all sorted out and evicted those bitches.
You're right adults think teens are basically a bigger version of a toddler. They never listen and make us do things we don't wanna.
@@infinitetenzer042 Whilst most adults I meet are even bigger versions of a toddler :D
And the mom telling her they (authorities I presume) won't do anything because of her age is bs. Pretty sure in the UK she's a legal adult at 19 ánd the house was left to her in her father's will.
Right, I'm also nineteen and just trying to imagine being in that situation makes me so sad for her. We have enough crap to deal with at this age without worrying about entitled, horrible family members. I hope she was able to throw them out too! And good riddance!
I hope she didn't sell the house and just kicked them out
My brother became a super entitled parent when it came to babysitting, and also expected people to just do it for free. My mom would drive an hour, early in the morning, and stay all day with their toddler, for free. Then, my brother would come home and have the audacity to get mad because she wanted to leave right away (another hour drive home). He would throw a fit about how he worked all day and needs a break and she needs to stay at least half an hour after he gets home so he can "relax". If she was ever late, he'd also have a tantrum. It got to the point where my mom showed up one day and he had another fit about something, and she just left. Told him to find someone else to watch his kid. He had to take the day off. Eventually, he and his wife had to alter their work schedules, so one works nights and the other days, and they never ever get a break as they swap working and childcare. Bummer for them calling mom's bluff.
Proud of your mom!!!
Sorry she had to deal with this! It’s the kids that really suffer but I’m glad she stood up for herself. I can so relate. Just yesterday my dil threatened to not allow our gs to stay over because I asked for her to talk to me, rather than the 7 year old about pick up times. Only been watching him, for free since his birth but I guess staying the night is off the table; not the free weekly day babysitting though, because I ask to be directly communicated with.
@@Tara-cw6zu ((huuuuuuugggggg))
I hope one day dil stops acting as a complete shit, and starts to appreciate you and the love you hold for her son.
they should be fucking hella grateful if a grandma want to be in their grandchild's life. At least offer to pay for gas just for driving all the way out there.
How can you be so ungrateful I never thought for one second I was entitled to a babysitter
8:16 what OP typed out, that the family doesn’t even do “I love you’s” or “I’m proud of you’s” is bloody heartbreaking. I’m glad the uncle is backing OP up, she deserves better family.
As a former nanny and childcare worker, I legit CHOKED ON AIR as you were reading that first one. If you want someone to be responsible for your child’s life, you can expect to pay more like $20/hr not a DAY. For $20/day, I’ll throw your kid a pack of raw hotdogs, sit them in front of the TV, and point a baby monitor at them whilst running errands.
I’d never do that, btw! Don’t yell at me 🤣
YES!!! OMG! If you are willing to spend that much on your child then you deserve a high schooler who will just prop the kids in front of the TV and be on their cell phone the entire time lol. I have had so many entitled people try to tell me that 20 dollars a day is a reasonable amount because babysitting/nannying isn’t a real job. Yet want someone who is First aid certified, with experience, and a good driving record. WTF is wrong with people.
I know I haven’t worked in child care in a really long time but 10 years ago when I did I got paid 17 an hour per kid. So when she said 20 dollars a day I about died. And I know what you were meaning you get what you pay for and 20 dollars a day will get you a crack head that doesn’t care about your kid.
@@theresaparsons77 Or worse, someone who wants to be alone with your child. 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
I am seriously starting to wonder if parents looking for sitters that cheap are actually secretly trying to have something awful happen to their kids, but not have it be "their" fault. 🤔
Right? If she doesn’t want to pay a babysitter, she can babysit her own children.
That story about the girl's SIL disprespecting her & eating all her food is insane. Pregnant or not, doesn't give anyone the right to walk around like they're queen of the universe needing everyone to tailor their lives around the expectant mother.
Edit: Thank you for all the feedback. This story made me think, "Are people really that entitled?"
Agree! I would have eaten all her food instead lol and kicked them out, and mom too.
it would only get worse once the baby's born
Right?! I think she was just using her pregnancy as an excuse. Her SIL is entitled just like her brother and mom, and is super petty and evil, and blames it on the baby.. (the baby may be a scapegoat later in life). When I was pregnant, I never had the urge to eat someone else’s food. I would get my own.
This exactly! TLDR
I was working with someone who was pregnant a few months before I was, and she demanded that everyone tailor to her. She wanted the air on all the time in the spring where our clients would be shivering at night and she would berate me telling me to leave it on, to put on a coat if I was cold, and to give the clients some more blankets for me to wash in the morning at the end of my shift for her to bitch about folding later at her shift start. Once I lost my pregnancy and she knew what happened, she stopped talking to me because I was bringing negativity into her pregnancy.
During my second to last shift there, I had a migraine and forgot to turn back on the air (for the empty house because she hated walking into a hot and stuffy house for her shift start) and she proceeded with cussing me out through a message about how I don't care about anyone else and how I needed to listen to her about the air (which, if it was an older system that would have gotten messed up from turning it on/off that would be one thing, but it was a new system.) I was like, "Dude, my last night is tonight and you don't have to worry about me forgetting the air when all you have to do is just turn it on and wait an hour for it to get cool." I came in (which it was my birthday) and she just got up and walked out without talking to me. Blocked me on social media some months later once I commented in a post about her about how she talks shit about anyone and everyone including her family, would make fun of people, and just was a horrible coworker.
IKR! All I could think was "What is she, a dog?" Dogs steal food...I would have barked at her if it was me.
She's an adult, she will be taken seriously if she chooses to evict her mom and sister-in-law.
If her SIL's family will not allow her brother to move in with them, then they are the ones who are breaking up the family, not her.
Having allowed these people to live in her house for free for so long should not obligate her to continue to do so.
I hope it's easier to evict someone in London than in LA. A person sleeping on your soda can refuse to leave and have rights after 3 days. There are horror stories about this happening.
@@lotstodo I came here to say this. Sometimes it's very very difficult to kick someone out if you've been letting them live there. Then you're going to court hearings while you're living together?!? Miserable. And possibly dangerous.
the law is literally on her side. 19 is still an adult and the house was left to her in the will which is a legal document. her family is not very bright...
You're completely right. If you get pregnant you should be able to afford it. Why is it OP's fault that they didn't plan their pregnancy well?
I really want to know the follow up now. I'm invested as I have lived through a similar experience with family
Crazy family: "You can't separate a family! Think of the children!"
Me: "No, YOU should have thought of the children before you treated your daughter like trash!"
0:29 I once had a friend call me up asking if I could come help them out by watching their kids for them one Saturday evening…
They got REALLY defensive when I asked things like - “will you be there?” “Are you just needing help looking after them?”
They pointed out that they had plans to go out and we’re having trouble finding someone they trusted to babysit
So I played along “ahh, ok, I see I see, fair enough”
“So could you come and look after them for me?”
“Sure I guess I could, how much?”
“…what…?”
“How much are you going to give me for doing this for you?”
“Pay you? I can’t afford to pay you anything? Why would I pay you? We’re friends…?”
“I’m giving up what little time I have off work, in order to look after YOUR KIDS, while you decide rather than providing for them, you need to go out clubbing and drinking…? If you can’t afford to at least cover my fuel to get to and from your place and something basic like a pizza…then you can’t afford to go out…”
I completely agree. When I babysat in middle and high school I got paid, trying to play the friend card, give me a break!
I remember reading that story about the house in London on Reddit. The part that got me was that the 34M was about to be a dad and didn't even have a place to live. London is very expensive, but if you can't afford housing at 34, at least budget for condoms!
Which you can pick up for free in the UK...
I’m pretty sure he just expected OP to pay for his child for the rest of his life.
They obv got pregnant on purpose to stay in the house for free and gaslight OP
THIS. The part where the mom said “you’re splitting up a young family” excuse me they’re in their 30’s! That isn’t her problem.
Also it's two hoursish from Portsmouth where the housing is SO much cheaper
If a friend or family member let me live in their house rent free, even if they had a lot of money, I would be bending over backwards to make sure I wasn't imposing and helping out in any way that was needed. The fact that this woman's own family treated her this way makes me rage. I hope she evicted them.
Exactly. When I relocated to a new city, I stayed with friends for ONE MONTH until I found a job and could move into my own place. They didn't ask for rent, but I bought groceries, cleaned their house, washed dishes, did all the laundry, and took care of their pets.
Yep, I stayed at my sister's place for a while and never left a dirty dish in the sink and whenever she went to the supermarket, I'd just hand her my debit card to pay for the groceries, I offered to go grocery shopping but she preferred to do it herself. I drove an 18 wheeler and was gone most of the time, I spent no more than a couple days per week there but still helped out around the house, like blowing leaves off the roof and other "grunt work" as well as maintenance for her car, I once noticed that she had tires on her car that were different sizes, (one size difference from front to back), asked her for her keys and took her car to the tire store so she'd have same size tires on her car, (new tires), those different sized tires were driving me nuts, didn't even tell her why I needed her car, (I have my own), she had an older TV set and one day while I was watching a movie and decided right then and there that she needed a new TV so headed over to Best Buy and got her a big ass Panasonic flat screen, when her microwave died I immediately headed to Best Buy again and got her a new microwave my sister and I are VERY close, always have been, I'm very protective of her.
I wouldn't dream of treating my sister the way that girl was treated by her own family, WOW!
Yes I actually hope she didn't sell it, it was her Dad's meant for her. I hope the lawyer was for the purpose of evicting them. She's too nice, I'd give mom £100 and say go take them shopping for baby clothes or whatever they need, then call a locksmith and change every lock, put in a security system and toss their stuff on the lawn. I felt so sad that she never heard I'm proud of you once in her life!
I let a friend stay with me and my God this bitch. She was so entitled. She only had to pay half of 686 a month and like 30$ for all utilities a month. She bought 100$ air pods instead of paying the 100 to a owing of 2 months half rent and 60 in utilities. She never did the dishes used the excuse she has touch issues. She would sleep all day acting like working 8 hours was so much work and so hard She would watch shows I told her I didn't like being played because I have 2 God kids when they come over they go on the road.
I get to stay at my mother in laws house for only 500 and I clean her house daily. I can't phantom how they could live in her house rent free and not clean after themselves and steal her food. Leeches are what they are.
Your father left YOU the house, so the rest of your family have NO stance on what you do with it or who you allow to live there. Evict them! They are adults, you are not responsible for them, they are just throwing guilt trips on you. As far as your SIL's family not letting your brother stay with them, must mean your brother is a known A**hole. Get rid of the toxic family members, your life will be sooooo much better, no guilt girl !
Right. I bet the parents of SIL, aka The Egg Donor, are letting HER in is to protect their future grandchild from the loser parents the poor baby is getting. They drew the line at letting The Sperm Donor in.
I would totally kicked them out of a house and called the police to do it
@@hellgavampenstein9906 The police are unlikely to assist in the first instance as they deem this to be a domestic problem. However, if the daughter gets a court to evict them, then the police will have the legal means to chuck them out, without recourse to them or the daughter.
These stories remind me of the time about 30 years ago when my brother and his wife wanted to go on a week long trip. He asked me if I would take care of their 3 year old daughter for that week. My brother said he was going to give me a great deal. Since I would be paying for my air fare to fly across the country, he would only charge me $300 to take care of his daughter. Yep, that’s right, he was going to charge me for the privilege of watching his daughter. You see, I would be staying in their home, using their car and probably even swim in their pool, so only playing $300 for the privilege was quite the deal. Now to my thinking, if I’m flying to their location and taking care of their daughter, I would need to stay in their home and use their car and shouldn’t have to pay for the privilege. He didn’t agree. Needless to say I turned this opportunity down.
I had to read that TWICE!!!!
You can rent an apartment all for yourself for 300 bucks wtf
What? That was such a good offer! Man, is it still available? I’d pay $500 dollars for that privilege!
(I’m being sarcastic if that wasn’t evident enough)
They had a 3 year old, that they wanted to leave for a week? No way in hell I would leave my toddler for a week.
Wow he passed that up? Lol. Maybe charge him for the flight out there for 500.00. Then if u have to feed the child another $100 for pizza for the week. 😂😂😂
The fact that the sister in law’s parents won’t allow their pregnant daughter’s husband to move into their home speaks volumes! That poor girl’s story had me heated. My family is dysfunctional af but I can’t imagine how it feels to have a mom and brother be so jealous/envious/hateful of me that they can’t even attempt to fix it or even hide it. I feel so sad for her. I hope everything worked out for her and I hope her abusive momma realized she was a POS and got the help she needs to fix it and make it up to her daughter. Omgosh this super duper triggered me…my bad y’all.
No
The worst thing is that these parents are so in denial, even when they know their kid is right.
That is so true. But we should not forget that denial can come to all of us. It is the denial, not the people in it we should be unhappy about
@@leventmuyan21 you’re not making any sense at all. Denial isn’t an ailment, it’s a choice, and (for some people) a lifestyle called entitelment.
No, the worst thing is when those entitled parents raise entitled children!
@@mariagrace11 that too!
When I was pregnant, I ate everything under the sun because I was always hungry.....and yet I somehow still managed to retain enough self control not to eat anyone else's food, nor blame it on my baby.
Wow. That poor girl. There is a reason the dad left the house to her and not her mum. She definitely needs to see a lawyer. I hope she finds a way to evict them and then just keeps living in the house. I know that family is important but with toxic family like that sometimes it is better to just cut ties. Of course, she could just make them sign a formal lease agreement and charge them rent, then when they either break the rules of the lease or repeatedly fail to pay follow eviction processes that way.
I do wonder how legally sound her dad leaving her the house was. Did her mum not have part ownership of the house? In which case the dad could likely leave her his share but not override the mum's part ownership, which would make evicting impossible.
I assume they were divorced because the brother was from the mom's first marriage/baby daddy. He was nice enough to leave his ex wife and ex stepson $10K
Not sure the rules in England, but in the States, it's easier to kick people out if they don't pay rent. If they pay rent, they are tenants and have legal rights. Eviction can be a lengthy legal proceeding depending on local laws. If they don't pay rent they are guests and can simply be kicked out any time.
@@thoriated From other comments I've read apparently it's really hard to kick someone out in America maybe more specifically LA idk. And that they cannot be kicked out easily if they've been there awhile. 🤷🏾♀️
@@thoriated Actually, in any state, once a person has established residency in a home (i.e. receives mail there, changes the address information on their state issued ID, or even if the homeowner at one time said, where others heard it, Yeah, you can stay here) they must be legally evicted. If the unwanted resident has no written lease it's a bit easier, but still has to go through the courts. The absolute easiest way is to call the cops every time they do something threatening or illegal, establish a pattern of behavior that "makes you feel unsafe", then request a restraining order. Have the restraining order served by a law enforcement officer, who will then escort them off the property and advise them that they cannot return while the order is in effect. Once they're no longer in the house, it's a lot easier to keep them out than it is to try to dig out someone who is fully entrenched. Or, not entirely legal but still fun, send them all on a spa day/weekend holiday and, while they're gone, move their stuff out onto the side of the road and change the locks.
#notlegaladvice
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About that crazy house post in London.
That made me cry. My mom has NEVER told me she was proud of me. I was also abused and neglected growing up. Fast forward 28 years and my husbands family told me how proud they were of me and what an amazing mother and wife I am. I had a full breakdown. It was such a confusing amount of different emotions. From Joy to heartache because why wasn't I good enough for my mom? At the same time it felt so good to hear those words from somebody else.
Yes, before this my husband told me he was proud of me for many different reasons, but hearing it from an adult that was like a parent to me just hit different.
Aww I totally understand. My mother was the exact same way. People who don't have mother's like us who were neglectful and provided zero encouragement (I'm assuming your mother was the same) have no idea how traumatizing that can be to your mental health. I'm currently 36 years old and it took a lot of work to get my head right. In the only the past couple of years have I started feeling okay. Hang in there, it will get easier!
I love when people have children and then have surprised pikachu face when they have to pay for certain things for those children...also, great Scar Impression Charlotte haha, loved it
If I was that 19-year-old I would wait for a day when all those leeches are away and throw everybody's crap out of MY house. I'd also make sure to change all the locks and get a security system installed. Some families are seriously toxic and should not be in your space or face every day.
Her late dad probably knew that and that's the reason she got the house. Can you imagine if she's not? She would be treated like a slave 🙃
Same idea! I mentioned she should give her mom £100 tell her to take them shopping for baby clothes or groceries... while they're away, have locksmith change all the locks, including garage door if there is one, put a new security system in or change codes then toss their stuff on the lawn! They don't deserve better.
What has me messed up is that they both got $10,000 each so how in the hell name did you not go and get your own apartment with that money.
I’m not gonna lie The one about the girl who inherited the house and had to live with her crap family upset me so much. Good for her for taking a stand
Sister in law needed to suffer a terminal miscarriage. She doesn't deserve a child, she'd just use it for her own ego
I remember the 19 homeowner post from a while back, everyone was telling her to just evict her toxic family and not sell the home at a loss to her uncle because he was taking advantage of her too. Does anyone know the follow up on that story? If she kicked them out and/or sold the house?
Edit: the post was from over a year ago, either before or towards the start of covid. The reason people didn't want her to sell to her uncle besides the loss on the house was that she would then be out of a house and would either need to buy a new house and deal with all that or start renting, and it would be a larger loss to her over time. Her SIL and mother are causing the problem, and her Uncle was using that to make a deal in his favor, getting the family home that he never got before.
Losing only 100 thousand on a 2.5 million house, wouldnt make me feel very taken advantage of. At least he didnt offer only half the price and say some bs about it being a family housr.
Dont know when this was first posted, must have been before the house prices went insane
She'll still walk away with £2.4 million if she sells to uncle - not exactly a loss.
I want to know about this too, sometimes a small loss is better than living with those 'people', poor girl
Why she doesn’t just throw their shit out, change the locks and get security cameras, I don’t know 🤦🏻♀️
I've looked on reddit but she hasn't made an update yet, I hope all goes well for her
Growing up, people expected my mom to babysit for free or nearly free because she "was at home anyways", even though she homeschooled three children and we were all 14 months apart. Plus she cleaned, cooked, did laundry, errands, etc.
Most of them were Christians too, and thought since my mom was a Christian that she'd do it.
Sounds too familiar - my mom did the same, but would never say no.
They always expected me to fucking take care of their fucking kids like wtf?
I work from home(part time) and homeschool. I have ended many “friendships” because those friends always expect me to be their sitter. I have a full schedule and a routine. I used to try to help but now it’s just a hell no, I’m busy. I had one of my best friend offer to pay me $30/day to watch her newborn. This involved picking him up and taking him home. Minimum 10 hours per day, rotating schedule. She still owes me because she felt like it was ok to spend money on stupid stuff instead of paying me. We are no longer friends. The $30 barely covered gas
4:10 - This chick seriously should have gone to the authorities and had them enforce an eviction. If her name is on the title, they have absolutely *zero* claim to the house or right to live in it. She did not need to sell the house to get this done.
I remember reading somewhere this sort of public-service article by someone in the FBI, regarding keeping kids safe from predators. It said very specifically not to let anyone babysit your kids who is fine with not being paid.
Great point!!
This!!
Yup that makes sense
The only way it's free is when my friends and I swap time watching each other's children. Like I'll grab your kids from school and you grab mine from time to time or swap early date night times. The main friend I now do this did pay me when I was hired as her nanny and expected to show up for her like a client; same as I paid her when she was my son's actual sitter before she had children. Now we're swappers and BFFs.
Great one!!!!
The purposefully eating someone else's food thing is actually a power move meant to assert dominance. My brother tried that crap all the time when we were kids. Until I started getting back at him, anyway. Anytime he brings up an argument with me now I remind him of the time he ate my birthday cake when I was sick one year. Usually shuts him up. It might sound petty, but food theft is often just an example of a larger pattern of bullying behavior. I'm not surprised that it was the thing that made OP snap.
SIL could have picked up a phone and ordered something to eat or actually gone out and gotten her own dinner. Going through the effort of searching for and taking OP's food was by no means the only or even easier option. She had to have WAITED for OP to leave that dinner unattended to swoop in and eat that much in that amount of time.
food theft is not always a form of bullying. While it can be, it isn’t always. Growing up in a home where food is scarce is also why some kids take and hide food. It has nothing to do with bully but more likely survival. Your brother was just being mean haha
As a teacher, I see entitled parents all the time. They create entitled kids. Also as a teacher, my kids gets excited when we go to the thrift shop because an Associates, Bachelors, and Masters degrees don't get you much.
I soooooo agreeeeeeeeee!
As a parent I have come across some entitled lazy ass teachers. And most kids get excited to go shopping period, doesn't really matter where if they're getting something, especially the younger they are. Half of y'all don't even understand the new shit you are teaching as you are learning it along with your students and the other half are having issues understanding and being able to explain the new grading system y'all are using now. There is only a small percentage of teachers that actually do their jobs and with the dedication perceived in the media. Remote learning was literally phoning is school so y'all could be paid for the perception of doing work....I have 1 in each school level (high, middle and elementary) they all feel as if the last 2 years were just wasted time and they didn't actually learn anything. Y'all yourselves need to calm down, the effort, energy and actually learning going on in school has been declining rapidly over the last 10 years and y'all just blame the kids and parents. Where there are entitled parents and kids who expect something from nothing, but most agree and support their teachers but find nothing but disappointment and a lack of actual substance from education.
And those kids know no different until they’re older and then some are just no different then either lol
@@k_t530 you sound like one of those entitled parents. I'm not a teacher, but I know very well how badly teachers get paid. They literally give so much time just for a few classes. Its your children that have issues concentrating. As a student, I myself have trouble concentrating through a screen because its not as interactive as physical school was. But after classes get over, I make it a point to read whatever was taught again! And I feel like I've learnt more than I had. I'm not always exhausted travelling to and fro school so I have more time for other activities like baking and sports. Perhaps because I'm an introvert but I'm pretty sure this online thing goes both ways. You can't blame one party.
@@k_t530 okay Karen
When my kids were daycare age, they went to a licensed home daycare. She was my neighbor growing up, I went to school with her sons and she also watched my younger sister, niece and nephew. She charged me $25 a day, that's the price she quoted, not what I asked to pay. But she also had other kids that she watched in her home all day and a few older kids that she only watched for a bit before and after school hours. I packed lunches, but she provided snacks, juice, milk and water. Pat-Pat was an angel, all the kids loved her and her husband (his nickname was "Old" 🤣). Unfortunately, her youngest son got cancer and they had to start traveling out of state a few times a week for treatment. This dear woman is so loved in our community that when her son passed, the whole town mourned. We still see her often, usually at the firehouse where she volunteers as her son had been a firefighter there and my husband is now the firehouse VP. She is always helping with food and toy drives. I swear she is a Saint and I'm forever grateful she is in my family's life!
OH MY GOD the girl with her family living in HER house just needs some self esteem and confidence... she was so generous and she was only taken for granted..
Please be strong!
So, I'm 32 and even back when I was 14 in 2003 my neighbors paid me 10$/hour to watch their son and covered food for me while I was there. How people expect free babysitters is beyond me, hell even just cheap it's like???!?!?! No?! Do they not realize how hard it is to handle children, how do they have these kids. And hey, I've even done a few odd jobs watching kids now for roughly 15-20$ an hour for my family/friends. The Lion, the Witch, and the audacity of that Bitch.
“The lion, the witch, and the audacity of that bitch!” Love it! 😏😅
"do they not realize" I'd bet 10/hour that no, they dont. I doubt these people spend any quality time around their kids, since they expect total strangers to basically do all the work of parenting them (tutoring, cleaning etc) while theyre at work. I'm all for a high powered career and balancing work and home life, but these people are so out of touch....
$10/hr almost 20 years ago to babysit one kid was a lot.
We paid our sitter $10.00 per hour and always got her pizza, this was the late 90's.
I made $10/hour as a teen babysitting in 1988-1990. I was with those kids more than both their parents put together. I potty trained both of them because their halfassed parents couldn’t be bothered to do it. I broke both of them from their bottles, taught them their alphabet, numbers, beginning sight words, 911, how to do simple chores. I took them to church, fed them healthy food, and even had to take them in for their ped visit one time (as a 17 year old!). I had to miss starring in a high school play because those kids had no one else to take care of them. Looking back, those people got a helluva deal paying me that little.
When I told them I was switching high schools and getting a job in the field I wanted to study in college so I wouldn’t be available ALL THE TIME to watch the kids, they cut me off from the kids entirely. That was so painful and the loss really affected me terribly. People suck.
The girl with the house made me think of cinderella. Her entire inheritance taken by 3 entitled people who couldn't give 2 shits about her life. I would have dragged them out myself.
I think you meant inheritance, not heritage! :)
@@Renata910 oh thx thats right haha
I can definitely relate the the house story.
It’s been a decade ago so it doesn’t bother me as much anymore because I found the silver lining for my experience.
When my husband and I were newlyweds, we lived with his parents due to our culture. and it worked out for the better because my husband had lost his job a few months after our wedding. I was getting paid $11/hr and was a PT college student. He was struggling to find a decent job because the job market wasn’t good in 2010. We help pay $200 rent. Considering their mortgage was within $700-$800. I figured we pitched in a fair amount, because his older brother and wife was paying for the utilities. Mind you, we plan to move out once he finds a job and save enough for down payment. Every month comes by and they keep having excuses for needing more money. I’ve given in a couple of times, but I had enough. We moved out in 1.5 years. Then came the jealous judgements from all the family members, “Watch them fail and move back”. Now, I’m happy that I heard it back then, because it motivated me to work even harder to prove them wrong. Low income means tight budget. Even when lived on our own, they still asked for money. Mind you, they make more than us. We took them in twice and didn’t ask for rent. Only asked for $200 one time because our utility bills we’re getting expensive. To make this shorter, they eventually moved out after I kept encouraging them to get pre approved for a loan and actually show them houses that were on sale. Then, they started saying that we were greedy. Blah blah blah. It hurt a lot a the time and I held it in for longer than I should. We were in our early 20s. Just because we couldn’t afford to pitch in when they asked for money or can’t afford to take them out to eat or offer to pay for some things for them, we were considered bad people. I wasn’t fully innocent either. I should’ve been better at communicating and consider some small things, but overall, I’ve learned to live truly to myself. It’s still a struggle, but it doesn’t affect me as much as I used to.
Moral of the story, there are shitty people out there and sometimes they hit you hard on your blind spot, but don’t let that stop you for being who you want to be. Learn from it. You’re never a bad person as long as you had good intentions. Boundaries is key.
If you read this far, well thank you.
I did. I have been a sucker but working on it. What I do now is keep reminding myself of the story of the Boy and the Rattlesnake. Boy rescues snake about to fall off a cliff when snake says "I won't bite". When snake inevitably bites anyway, boy exclaims "Why? I saved you, and you promised! Snake says "You knew I was a snake when you picked me up". I get really angry when I keep doing nice things yet get bitten in return. Those toxic people can keep their toxins, their venom, away from me because I am not getting bitten anymore. Ppl who truly need help, and animals of course (dogs and cats mostly, no snakes lol) I will do the right thing, but the snakes can slither away elsewhere.
I’m sorry you had to go through that. You were not in the wrong here, your in-laws were. You are a good person and they are not good people for treating you like that. What is it that makes people feel so entitled to treat their own family like shit??!! Stand strong!!
“Kid is crying now”…. Goood, the tears of the children give me sustenance ❤
I am always flabbergasted when parents say “but I already told my kid yes” especially when relying on a stranger! Blows my mind.
I was a Nanny for awhile for this family… the mom asked the dad to clean and I had no idea she specifically asked HIM to do that, and he went behind her back and told me to clean it all (including their personal space) when she came home and found it all done she was so happy and I was like “Yeah! I didn’t know where this went though but this is where I put it just so you know.” And she said “Wait… you did all this?” And I said “Yes… he asked me to. Was I not? Did I do something wrong? Are you okay?” Cause she was about to cry because she felt like he wasn’t contributing anything to their marriage or the kids… he legit neglected to tell me this was a secret lol it’s his fault and he fired me for telling on him. I didn’t mean to!
Hun you did nothing wrong there!!! Ive had babysitters try to offer to help clean and that's not what I hired them for.... WTF if daddy's was home why wasn't he watching the kiddos lol..... You do have a big heart, and I hope you've found something that makes you happy sis, have a great year!!!
What an ass 😭🙈 shame on him
Which family were you working for? The one where you pay $1000/ month in rent?
I’ve commented this before but I will once again-I work at Starbucks and I’ve seen many entitled folk. One thing that comes to mind right now is the time that a mother said, “HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO TELL MY THREE YEAR OLD YOURE OUT OF CAKE POPS?????”
“They are out of cake pops. They have cookies.”
Lady, do you know how supply and demand works??
So basically the 3 year old isn't told "no" and otherwise runs the show.
Uh hello. Clearly it’s your fault that you can’t supply me her demon child their sugar sustenance. What’s wrong with you? 😂😂😂 (for the record. Total sarcasm)
Why are some parents so afraid of their kids lol
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Loooool she expected you to turn into a cake pop?! What the heck could she even expect you to do about the situation? Wild.
I am digging the aesthetic today! The top, the walls, the painting the lighting, and the flamingo lamp all in shades of pink contrasting with Miss Charlotte’s fiery red hair is quite nice. Very relaxing; so much so that I almost missed the video. Kids are expensive af from conception through adulthood and beyond so why can’t parents understand that? Always a good laugh watching your videos Miss Charlotte!
As I am soon to be homeless, I would not only of appreciate this, but would do extras to thank them for their kindness. People have no clue
I babysit for free. My niece is 2 now but I have babysat her since she was 2 weeks old. Her first 18 months I had her 50% of the time, she has her own room in my house. Now I get her Friday through Sunday night.
But, my BIL comes over and does any household repairs I need, my sis & BIL watch my 3 dogs & 2 cats whenever I travel, and I absolutely adore my niece.
It may not be a 50/50 trade but I wouldn’t change it for a thing. I love getting to be involved in these young years of my niece’s development; watching her first sit up, crawl, walk, and now talk. She is a very loved and sweet little girl. And don’t tell my sister but she is better behaved with me than she is with her mama. Hehehe.
you remind me of my husband's aunt. she never had children, but she invested in him like he was her own. She was there for diaper changing, she was there for big moments, she invites him over just because she made his favorite dinner, she even did her own research on speech therapy when he was delayed as a child. And now she's basically part of the immediate family. They have a wonderful bond.
(versus some friends of mine who don't want kids and tell me they can't wait until I do because they want to be the "cool aunt" ie. come over when the house is clean and the diapers are changed and get the kids all hyped and sugared up then leave when they want to go home and be child-free again)
I founded a nanny service and could literally supply you NONSTOP with content for these! Most of our families are absolutely fantastic, but this is why we screen our families as well. Our nannies are screened to the highest standard in the U.S, so we for sure make sure our families are wonderful too!
I’m a nanny and I would literally laugh in someone’s face if they said ANY of these things to me lol. Know your worth y’all, professional childcare is hard work and should be compensated equally.
love when people say "oh I just need a babysitter but btw you'll cook and clean and pick them up and do our taxes and wash our car and serve us dinner on a silver platter" like if you want a maid/nanny, say that! its like they think babysitting requires less pay than cleaning...
@@rainestar82 exactly! I’m happy to help with stuff around the house, but expect my paycheck to reflect that.
Yes!
"We need someone to babysit monday-friday, from 8 am till 5 pm. Its perfect for a student just wanting to make some extra money."
And when exactly does this student go to school?
To the lady with the house and the SIL, proud of you. Doubt you’ll see it, but the vibes are now out there and I hope they find you well 😌
I've never heard "I'm proud of you" my entire life either and I'm more than twice that young lady's age. My heart goes out to her.
I don't know you, but for what it's worth, I am proud of you for making it so far.
@@propio2957 Thank you 🥰
I’m proud of you too. Continuing on and doing our best is hard. You’re doing great. You got this!
Thank you, thank you, thank you for calling out entitled people. This is my biggest pet peeve at the moment. I will never understand the sense of entitlement in people. The parents of these people have failed them miserably.
To the person who was harassing the other person about the dog harnesses...of course your daughter is crying. You're her parent.
About the young woman having the problems with her family concerning her home, she is definitely NTA, in fact she is handling it a lot more gracefully than I would. I am proud of her for standing up for herself as well.
The way you described entitled people is actually the prime description of a narcissist. It’s toxic. So so scary. It’s difficult and completely exhausting to have a narcissist in your life and taking control over you no matter what you do
When I was 14 I spent part of my summer babysitting 5 days a week for well over 8 hours a day. The couple expected me not to eat their food while I was there. I ended up going out of state with my family due to a death. Needless to say when the woman came looking for me to start babysitting again I got my mom to tell her she needed to find someone else
Damn the story with the brother, gf, and mom is crazy!!! They gaslighted the shit out of her, what toxicity.
I’m glad the person took steps to get away from them. They’re all adults, they’ll figure it out.
Charlotte we are all proud of you, I hope you get the thing in your own life sorted.
“She’s crying now” I would too if that lady was my mom 🤣
I really hate the parents who say ‘I already told my child they could have it’
Like seriously?! No. Don’t promise something to your kid you can then not deliver on.
I really want to know what happens next, like do they ask to speak to a manager because someone on Facebook marketplace is doing what they feel best for the product their selling or giving away? 😂 like seriously these people are crazy
Especially when they say something like “she’s going to cry because of you!” Uhh no, she’s gonna cry because she has an entitled 💩 parent.
That's assuming that the child in question even exists and the "parent" isn't just trying to guilt trip the seller into getting scammed by them.
The kid isn't going to remember the random person on the phone with Mommy who "refused" to sell them something. They'll remember that Mommy refused to get them a present and tried to blame it on someone else.
We have been here longer your child can have the earth when we are done with it
We are all proud of Ms. London! Family houses always cause drama! I have been there! Keep going and be strong!
This video reminds me of this ex neighbor who started befriending my family . Not thinking anything bad, my wife started being nice to this neighbor only to find out later that the neighbor wanted free baby sitting. She would just let her kids knock on our door and enter and stay for hours without our permission or without even talking to us. She is unemployed and spends her time going out and exercising. Finally my wife had enough after her kids came to our house unannounced. My wife storm out and talk to the neighbor telling her to get her kids out of our house. After that, my wife blocked her number from our phone and refused to talk to her. We later found out she has been doing that to the other neighbors she can fool. 😂😂😂Why have kids if you can’t take care of them??!!🤣
Wow!!!! The nerve.
"You did nothing for me" - Charlotte to her bachelor's degree 😁 . Charlotte's editor is an artist giving the much abused bachelor's degree a voice .
Yep her editor is brilliant
"You shouldnt leave food around her" cracked me up !!! Is she an adult or a springer spaniel?! 😂
Work has been total crap lately .. but sometimes I’m able to sneak in a Charlotte video, and it makes me feel better. Thanks Charlotte!
The first entitled parent hit home. I'm a stay at home mom and tried to organize a babysitting co-op within my neighborhood. Basically, everyone logs their hours and exchanges babysitting services for each other. Usually it's a couple of hours meant for a date night, maybe an emergency, etc. One lady e-mailed me and was like, "Can you watch my baby from 8-4 Monday through Friday? I'm available some Saturday afternoons to babysit."
Mama really just wanted free full time daycare...
The rage at question mark QUESTION MARK had me in hysterics! Charlotte, Thank you
As someone who worked as a babysitter as a teen, I have met so many parents who tried to evade paying by saying: "but we left you pizza" or shit like that XD
I've told it before, but "'Tis the Season". Some years ago I had a neighbor who applied to the fire dept. Christmas toy program. A dollie for her daughter? Teddy bear for her boy?
Nope! Her list STARTED with a 60" flatscreen and a top of the line playstation. And continued in that vein for PAGES.
They dropped off a doll and a teddy bear (or some such). She was so pissed off I still see her screech at firemen to this day every chance she has.
I must admit the party one is tempting, when you are a first time parent and you throw your first party, and realise the cost 😮 . Which is why you convince your child its way "cooler" to have a small party in the back garden with a projector and bouncy castle lol! I'm not sure how many more years I can pull this off but adding a bubble machine and bunting to the bouncy castle last time squeezed one more year out! Haha
These are unreal 😭☠️ I'm laughing so hard
Seriously, these "it's your fault my kid will have a terrible Christmas" attempts at emotional blackmail always crack me up. Do people really say that ? Mean that ?
And more importantly, has it ever worked ?
Sadly yes. I had a lady yell at me about that years back when I worked at a deli in a grocery store. She was screaming about how we didn't have the toy her kid wanted and I was just like "Lady, I work in the deli. I have no affiliation with the toys department, nor the stocking of it. I'm just trying to make chicken salad!" While wrist deep in a big bowl of unmixed chicken salad. I told her best I could do was call a store manager 😅
Id agree with them and say they'd better tell the kids not to rely on anyone but themselves.
My mom told a lady that I would watch her kid from 3pm to anywhere from 1-3am for $60 a day... I did it for a WHILE too. Mother was a police officer and worked 12-16 hour shifts. The cute dogs, cats, and birds made it worth it. I was also in charge of feeding animals :3
Good morning everybody! I hope everyone has a great Tuesday!!!!
Good morning!!!
Good evening, it's 18.43 in Italy 😊
Good evening! Only a few hours away but Wednesday is looking good. 😊
David you always have good energy! You're awesome
Good afternoon from Long Island, NY (sort-of, by some, considered the 'suburbs of New York City')
I remember being 12-13 and babysitting toddlers or infants for like $20/day and it wasn't until I was older that I realized that some parents just do not value their own children. Once, a kid who was, if I'm remembering right, about 5-7 years old kicked a huge hole in his parents' wall and told his mom that it was from me pushing him down the stairs. The 90's was wild.
About the birthday one. I did it once, told people I prefered they'd pay their kid's portion of the activity instead of bringing gifts (so basically the gift was for them to be there). We try to be minimalist with our gifts and prioritize activities and stuff like that instead of toys, because they already have so much. Most people were totally on board with the idea ^^
I had an entitled parent at my work. I work in the cafeteria at an elementary school. We did grab and go meals for the kids when the kids weren't allowed to attend in person during the pandemic. Parents would come everyday and pick up meals for their kids or the kids would walk to the school. We had one parent that came and always made a comment about something. She would be like chicken again, really? Or why is it a turkey sandwich? This woman became pretty rude as the days went on and even at one point she said that we owe it to her to make these meals for her kids. We were like umm the meals are free for any kids that need it and we don't owe you shit. We were there for all the children and especially the children that needed the meals but this mom thought we should cater to her requests that we owed her these meals. It was sad to see a parent act the way she did. But all the other kind parents that came made up for it because we knew those parents truly needed these meals for their children and at the end of the day all that mattered to us was that the kids that needed meals got them.
Our city gave away free meals but half the parents never showed up to collect but you can sure bet that they complained on social media about not having food 🤦♀️🤦♀️ People are so ridiculous.
@@Jael_1776 🤦 that's awful and your so right. It's shocking how ridiculous people are.
@@SilverWolf4216 Thank you for the marvelous work you do :) I go to a public high school and one time I got a frozen pizza, a burrito, a few snack cakes, a full carton of strawberries, and an insane amount of kale when they would give out a week's worth of food on Mondays. On the other side of things my mom watched her elementary school students get whole, raw avocados as their fruit because the school didn't account for special ed eating lunch on campus. Those of you who do your job are heroes :)
@@basicallyperidot5299 Aww thank you so much! I really appreciate that and I'm so glad you guys were getting meals. Kids like you are the reason we come to work everyday!
I remember my daughter going thru first aid AND CPR classes just to be able to babysit in the Sacramento region; needless to say she got a very very good price for her services ( those classes weren’t cheap, given by the Red Cross )
I was a roommate with a 24 year old and her 3 year old daughter. The roommate acted like I was a live in nanny instead of a roommate. I would watch the daughter for free bc I thought that I was being a good friend. I would go out of my way to make sure I had the time to watch the daughter. One night she told me that I deserved the night off.. then it hit me how much I was being taken advantage of.
I stayed with a friend who had a new baby and she would do the same thing...so finally I went to spend a birthday weekend with a different friend...and she got pissed and threw my belongings in her garage and changed the locks. I was so grateful to find out what kind of person she really was.
You bring a bottle of wine to the trampoline park kids party??? HELL YEAH!!!
When I was pregnant yes I had food cravings, but everyone food cravings sometimes lol. So just like when you have a regular food craving while not pregnant, you have the option to control yourself. Same as when pregnant. If she’s really this uncontrollable eating machine then she’s got bigger issues than pregnancy. I understand eating one cupcake. It’d still be shitty and I’d be mad. But all 6 is just absolutely inexcusable. All of her behavior is. She eats OPs lunch when she makes it the light before for her job and breaks into her locked rooms mini fridge ??? Pregnancy is tough but her behavior is completely unacceptable and inexcusable
As someone who doesn’t typically share my food, i would have literally yeeted all three of them out into the street for pulling all of that shit
@@caljones LMAO facts, it's too disrespectful
I'm 4 months postpartum and I would of never done that. It's not about the food, it's totally about the power. For all of them, it is about the power over her. I really hope she got help from a lawyer and law enforcement!
When I was pregnant I was so picky about what I wanted to eat that I had to cook it myself. That was when I first realized how much fun cooking can be. It made my husband happy to come home from work to a house filled with delicious smells. I had so much energy, and felt wonderful during most of my pregnancy. After dinner, we would go for a 2 mile walk to a park that had hoops so we could shoot baskets. I got pretty good at free throws, but got sick of people asking me if I was carrying a spare basketball under my shirt!
Those were good times.
Right. You just reminded me: and why does her mother even have the key? Lock needs to be changed immediately. At the rate these ppl are going (hopefully gone by now), she is going to have to lock up a LOT of things. And whatever is out, these MFs could just destroy on the way out as it is. Yes, she can sue, prosecute etc. but if they have no money and probably never will, good luck recovering anything beyond the satisfaction of prosecution in the criminal courts. I hope she put away a LOT of photos, film, and other evidence of the 'before'. And they could STILL do that sneaky stuff we all have seen here anyway, like fish in the curtain rods, etc. and cause damage harder to prove.
I'm not sure how to feel about the fact that you're able to make so many entitled people videos because on one hand, it's kind of scary how many selfish people exist, but on the other hand, their narcissism is entertaining lol
I feel bad for the people having to interact with them though.
To the lady who inherited the house. You did what was good for you, like your feeder breeder SIL and snake mom and brother. Don't feel bad they're homeless because they are grown ass people who can take care of themselves. Definitely not the bad person in this situation. I cringed so hard at this story!
Right. Even The Egg Donor's parents are pbly only letting the baby stay but unfortunately, the egg donor came with her/him. They wouldn't allow your brother, aka The Sperm Donor-that says a LOT.
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Right, imagine how much worse I'd be once they started started popping em out like rabbits, and not cleaning up after the kids too....
I'm dyin', hilarious. 🤣
So glad I know good people in my life.
When I was pregnant, I still knew I wasn't entitled to everyones personal made food just because I was pregnant. I ate my husbands food, but he already expected that. I wouldn't walk in on someone else meal and just help myself in less I knew it was made for everyone.
My wife and daughter have both done child care with my wife being a certified nurse (so extra qualifications). They typically ask for around $16/hr which is cheap compared to an institutional day care for kids. The number of people who make counter offers of $20 per day or some such for a 9 hour day is staggering. Like you'd pay more to board your dog. People trying to cheap out with their kids and not value the cost of quality care.
Can't speak to anywhere you've worked but around here high quality facilities run in the 5 figures per year. And my wife has certifications beyond what most/many babysitters have hence the comment. And you as an employee were making more than $25 per day I'm sure. My points remain.
For some reason, feeling a bit queasy today, incl what happens with your wife (God bless our health care PROFESSIONALS) and daughter
@Alexandria Lukes But babysitters also give your kids way more 1-on-1 attention in the safety of your own home. No risk of getting illnesses or lice from other kids. No having to pick them up and drop them off during specific hours. A babysitter SHOULD cost more than a daycare. If parents aren’t willing or able to pay, that’s their own responsibility. I get that being a parent is hard and money can be tight, but screwing someone else over isn’t the solution. Kids are really expensive, and more people should plan for that before having them.
@Alexandria Lukes idk where you worked or how long ago that was, but those prices are mid-range or even low.
@Alexandria Lukes found the entitled person, charlotte!
Wow, how tacky to ask guests to pay for their "plate" or spot at a party. If you're that broke or cannot afford it, don't throw a party!
Or ask when organising 'I'm thinking of organising this event but I don't have the money to pay for everyone, would you be interested in joining and paying for yourself/ child' and then people can decide if they like the activity enough or not for that price... But don't invite them to something and then when they've said yes, tell them that they need to pay for themselves 😂
@@meisjeViv unfortunately I know a lot of people that do this
YES, a lot of parents think they're ENTITLE!! I work at Wal-Mart and I see parents let their kids make messes, and they'll leave their child in the toy section for hours while shopping. This isn't FREE DAYCARE service.
Parents like to say "if you don't have kids then you don't know what is like" No I don't nor do I care, that's no excuse for letting your kids run wild and be disrespectful.
My excuse is, "Even if I did I wouldn't let them do this. I'd hate to be a parent like you." Plus I might not have kids of my own but I've helped raise my nieces so I know what it's like to have kids around.
I raised my kids and know what it's like, but I never would have let them run free in a business or someone else's home, nor dump them on someone else. I remember my youngest getting teased by his grandparents due to not directly asking them for a drink (he sat next to me and politely whispered his request to me instead).
Wtf my sisters and I behaved cause our mom expected it and thered be punishment if not. Parents are lazy aholes these days
When I was skint with children I joined a babysitting club. It was basically like a sleepover club for the kids. I'd take my kids to another mum in the club, pick them up the next morning. Then some other time, her kids would come to me. There were about 6 or 7 mums in the group and it worked really well. None of us were well-off. Quite often it wasn't about going out somewhere, it was a welcome night off.
As a single mom I only allow my kids to have a few friends over so I can actually afford the party & not beg for the guests to pay
Exactly.... you choose the venue... number of kids you can afford!!
It's almost like working and living within your means is that of fiction to today's society. People want to live as if they're rich. Not realizing they are dirt poor and can't afford that lifestyle. Live within your means people, it's not that hard. 🤷♂️
@@donilexington4600 I wonder if there's competition between the kids to show off who has the best coolest birthday party, or something. Or between the parents, for that matter.
@@ameliecarre4783 I've never understood such pettiness. I could care less about how well others are doing, I'm too focused on myself and improving my goals. Those who compare themselves to others are fools. Only compare yourself to your past self and improve. Never have I wanted to earn the approval of others through materialistic matters. 🤷♂️ but I guess I don't have a popular opinion lol.
I grew up only having birthdays on even numbers.
So like my 6th,8th and 10th and they were usually all at home,this was the same with my other siblings.
We'd have a few friends and mum used to make most things for the party's and my nan made the cakes.
We never had to ask for people to pay because we kept it simple because it needed to be adorable.Im shocked the lady needed to demand money from the guests when there are many good ways around it.
My mum worked in an all boys secondary school (that would be a middle school in North America) and she had to deal with a parent who couldn’t be bothered to send her son with a packed lunch so my mum bought the kid a meal deal (it is school policy to not allow children who are overdraft to buy food at the cafeteria, make with that what you will), a parent wanted taxis booked by the school so their son could be taken to and from school everyday and a parent wanted their son’s uniform to be fully funded by the school (they’re not an impoverished family). Just some of the shit my mum had to put up with.
Here in the U.S., a secondary school is the high school level with college being post-secondary. Thanks for clarifying that bit of terminology. Is it a private school? I can't abide the thought of a public school starving a hungry child, but it happens sometimes in awful districts.
That girl handled her stuff much better than i would have if someone kept eating all my food 😡 Don't steal a girls food people.
Omg same! I would have gotten seriously mad around let's say, the second time it happened. Especially when hungry. Don't f*cking test me!
Charlotte as Scar is a terrific way to end the year right.
Cover charge $23 for child's birthday 😂
Also, pay me to be my au pair my au pair 😂😂😂
Charlotte, I laughed so hard watching this video! I fell down hardwood stairs yesterday and banged up my ribs, so laughing was PAINFUL, but thanks for making me chuckle!
OMG yep thanks to Charlotte I have learned to see the signs of entitled people and it's been nice standing up for myself.
I really want updates on the "house in london and shitty family" story!!!! I hope she's doing okay, her family sounds like a bunch of horrible little brats.
I tried checking the original post, but there haven't been any updates since a year ago when it was first posted
@@omegasage777 I hope she lawyered up and kicked them out
The Uncle Scar part made me laugh out loud, i think my dogs think Im crazy'
My reaction would be to apologise to the mum brother and SIL and say let me make it up to you with this spa weekend paid by me. Then while they’re on the spa weekend, pack up all their stuff into a storage warehouse with one month rent paid and change the locks on the house. The cost would be worth getting rid of them.
I just love it when Charlotte is laughing, she's so real and doesn't edit out a snort laugh. Makes me laugh too. Love her.
Or the big ass boogie in her nose, lol..
@@LisaMarie-wz9lz very hot. Lol
Anyone knows what Bachelor's degree she has?
Picking up my phone and seeing there's a new CHARLOTTE DOBRE 📹 video is the highlight of my day! The saddest part is knowing it's over...😢 Thanks for the laughs!!💛
Charlotte is saving my sanity during isolation ❤️ thank you for being hilariously fabulous! Xx
I desperately want to know how the situation with the young woman and the 2.5 million dollar house turns out!!
That girl deserves the world.
She realizes the free babysitter is herself. Lol
The evicting family story struck me. I am literally living under the same conditions now but I am the youngest in the house and my house is not under me. It's under my people pleaser mum who let's her oldet sister step all over her and thinks she's doing it all for the best of her sake as she helped her before in the past
Reminds me of my mom, people think she's nice but she's just weak, it's horrible to be raised by a weak parent who doesn't stand up to people to protect you
@@radhiadeedou8286 I agree. I'm very grateful to her of course but I wish she would be stronger to say no to people who obviously is trying to Leech her. I don't blame her though and is always alert at the fact that the core issue is still at her older sis.
@@radhiadeedou8286 WOW! That really put my situation into words!😬 Yikes for the weak parent club!
@@radhiadeedou8286 say it louder for the people in the back! My mother is actually rather strong willed but the second we enter HER mothers house any criticism from my grandmother had to be followed. Just as an example, at home my sister and I were allowed to sit in what ever way comfortable at the breakfast table. I always sit on one leg and bend my other knee to put my foot on the chair. My grandma hated that A LOT and always told me how that's bad manors. Thing is, when I was a child we'd visit her for 6 weeks straight as she's in another country. So for 6 weeks we were not allowed to leave our room from 8pm - 7am (especially not to pee), were not allowed to sit comfortably or cut of the fat from meat when eating it.
At home, all this was not a problem. My mother even encouraged us to do all that. But not once did she speak up to her mother. Not even when my 14 year old self experimented with make up, ended up with a red shade of lipstick on her mouth and was called a prostitute.
Ironically, I am 24 now and still have issues standing up to my mother, too. But since I had a wonderful little girl in April I've made an extreme effort to set boundaries from the get go. Essentially I told her, if you wanna see your grandchild your playing by my rules now. I will not have her push her control freak rules onto the next generation!
Pregnant Sister in Law Story: NTA
The Sister in Law's pulling the "But I'm PrEgNaNt!" card, making up excuses for her rude, disrespectful and gluttonous greed and even blaming her UNBORN BABY for the Mother's "Eating like a PIG" mentality, the Brother and Mother are just LAUGHING in OP's face, DEMANDS that she caters to them and mostly SIL's every whims like a slave and then YELLS at her for trying to stand up against her because SIL is basically starving OP and depriving her of the her food!
Glad to hear that OP stood up for herself and got her uncle to buy the house and kicking those entitled, ungrateful assholes out! I'd rather have OP be happy and free of the entitled pricks' enslavement over her, who ALLOWED them to stay in the house out of the kindness of her own heart, than know that she's being treated like Cinderella in her own home!
Hope that the Brother, SIL and Mother got sued for pulling this shit behind OP's back, treating her like a slave, verbal and mental abuse and not paying for basically "Making themselves at home" in OP's home!
OP needs to do this for her own sanity or else other ppl are going to take advantage of her. Imagine the ppl she will be dealing with in places like the dating world, esp if they find out she has money? She needs not just a lawyer but a psychol as well, better late than never.
This!
Edit: honestly, as that baby grows up, he/she will be a scapegoat. The audacity of blaming it on her pregnancy and the baby. Horrible.
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@@carolr7333 In all honesty, I would've gotten an eviction notice made and given it to the Entitled Family.
And in this case, I would've taken those Douche-baguettes to court and sued them for all the things they've done against me: Living in the home without consent from the home owner, treated like a slave, food eaten up, mentally and verbally abused...
The Brother, SIL and Mother are better off living in a tent than living in a home, or even a homeless shelter. And the baby's better off without a toxically narcissistic family like that!
@@naruhinastarr For the baby's sake, I HOPE OP contacted CPS and informs them of the toxicity the "FaMiLy" put her through!
Better that the baby be put in the loving care of a foster/adopted family than be with those three stooges.