I’ve also noticed that they loved Lori Harvey when they could objectify her and deem her to be a pass around. But as soon as they realised they’re not passing her around and that she’s actually using them to benefit from pretty privilage… they started hating her
right. also, notice how tia mowry, as beautiful as she is, she was damn near invisible until she DIVORCED cory hardrict. ive NEVER heard of tia mowry being called most mens crush or dream girl etc even when she WAS married and a wholesome mother. men wont admit that being a wholesome wife and mother is NOT sexy to them and they tend to pay more attention to the "modern" women they supposedly hate. if youre such a desirable guy who wants a desirable tradtional woman, why not pay attention to the traditional women ?
They secretly love modern women and want to conquer them and turn them into housewives. Thats the issue. 90% of what men say they like is a complete lie.
Lol. No, women are not privileged in dating. To say women get more DMs and more attention makes them privileged .... Like, men do that to children too. Are those children privileged? Of course not. Attention isn't necessarily good. In fact, attention purely for your looks is almost always bad. That is not an advantage, it's a disadvantage.
They’re mad she’s not allowing the nakers to baby trap her and give them her youth THEY CANT STAND IT🤗 I personally admire Lori, her daddy taught her well! THIS is what decentering men looks like. Get what you need from them and dip. No strings attached. No mess.
But I want to make a very sincere question, I really can't understand, Why in the world they are going to be jealous and envious of us, Why, Wouldn't it make more sense if they would be jealous of their same sex men?, Someone tell me, Why, really why, they are so jealous of us?
OMG! When I was with my ex suddenly every woman wanted him. They assumed there must be something great about him if I chose to marry him. The problem is that he didn’t realize the only reason women wanted him was because he was with me. Instead he got a big head, started treating me horribly and began cheating. Once I left him he thought he was going to be in heaven with all these women. However, the minute I left, other women no longer wanted him. Now he’s been begging me back. The thing I didn’t expect was other men actually respected how loving, loyal, and selfless of a wife I was. Now I’m the one with all the options.
Right, you can’t be 300 lbs and tell a guy “I just need some time to get on my feet and get my health back.” Meanwhile guys can say that to women and we are expected to be a ride or die
I think the reason a lot of men feel so threatened by desirable women ending marriages is because they’re afraid their own partners will see that and wisen up, and then leave them!
I noticed this after Jurnee Smollett divoced her husband of 10 years. People harshly criticized her for ending the relationship. A whole country of people harshly criticized Meghan Markle for dating and marrying Prince Harry.
Yea as long as people aren't stuck up/put people down/use people, I don't think they're bad people. For me, looks are one thing, but the personality either adds or detracts from that 100%. For example, with guys, I'm at the age where I'm sort of desensitized to attractive men. It's more like, "Yea, you are cute, but what else can you do? What is your personality like?"
I found your channel yesterday and I’m hooked! I’m surprised sometimes by the dislike for Lori. I used to criticize her and say she should try to date in silence but it’s hard w being in the public eye anyways. I do think some women or men just wish they could be in Lori’s position too. I had a male friend try to be my “pimp”. Basically he would set me up on dates with potential sugard@ds and get a cut. These men are crazy.
yeah being pretty is like being a celebrity. people are just in your business even when youre not trying to publicly go out and shout from the mountaintops who youre dating.
@@Aries.Goddess30 you are right she doesn’t talk about them but I was referring to her publicly sharing her relationship on social media. At the end of the day these relationships elevate her too so I get it. Idk how private she can be tbh damn if she does damn if she doesn’t. I can keep my dating history in private at least but it’s difficult for her to.
I'm pretty (according to what people tell me, but I don't think I'm thatttt good looking), but I think the reason why people like me is because I try to make everyone (that treats me well) feel special. I think looks will get you so far, but your personality will take you even further, and if you are pretty + a great person, literally no one can touch you.
Not true, In many cases for that same reason of being pretty and a good person So many people hate you, envy you, They hate that we are both pretty faces and also pretty good people,. They hate just that.
Funny, I just saw a post on IG that she allegedly broke up with Damson Idris. The smoke that men and pick-me women have for her over her dating life is astounding.
When you mentioned women who like to hate on women like Lori Harvey, I immediately thought of RUclipsr Breeny Lee. She previously posted two videos about how Lori Harvey is the it girl and why she’s so likeable, only for Breeny to turn around and make another video earlier this year, stating that LH is “for the streets” because she chooses to keep her dating options open. 🥴 She came across so obsessed and jealous, especially since Breeny got weight-loss surgery and was embarrassed a few years ago for getting rejected on a British dating show 🤣
Thank you for this video. I have noticed when I lost 140+ I get better treatment especially from some women but most women & some non gay feminine men are passive aggressive & jerks for no reason. It’s as if they were more comfortable with the unhealthy version of me. And I remember as I was getting smaller I was getting passive aggressive comments from friends and people I know for no reason. It’s a really sick 🤢 world we live in.
Not gonna lie I’ve always felt weird about using my privilege to get ahead. Like my mom was always seen by my dads sister as the Lightskin who thought she was pretty because she’s Lightskin. And i look just like her. I’m kinda at. Point in life where i want to go further and i really don’t mind using my ambiguity to get there.
A lot of the women who men talk the worst about are ironically the same women those men obviously admire the most. Because the pick me’s are right there desperately waiting to be snatched up, yet men pass them by and go after the independent confident feminists all the time!😂
@@ernestkhalimov748 eh that dude from Fresh and Fit got an onlyfans model pregnant after building an entire career hating on that type of women , yeah the masks are falling off and men are maaad 🤣
A lot of people act like men are entitled to women staying in relationships with them. It’s very odd. They also don’t have the same energy towards guys when they dump their girlfriends.
Love this I feel like me as a bottom gay man I actually do fit what you described because of my sexuality and ambiguity I actually do receive that validation😂 VERY INTERESTING TOPIC i feel like I broke free from female gaze I feel like Cher when she was like “I don’t need a rich man I am a rich man” But for me I don’t need a pretty woman I am a pretty woman
Female? It's pretty privilege. Gay boys have this too. So be careful. And anyway, pretty privilege is not actually privilege. It ends up being a nightmare. Think long-term. Nothing based on your looks is going to be a good thing
But the thing is, that so-called benefits based on your looks end up being a monkey's paw situation. If you look at the short-term, it looks like privilege. If you look at the long term, it looks like total doom.
Wait 🖐.. I'm old.. 😂 let me take the time to get past the satin ribbon/ bootie earrings.. 😩. Maann. They make earrings out of anything..and here comes somebody they know gon wear'em.. smh 🤦♀️. Make it make sense. #ToEachHis/HerOwn
15:24 yes! I had a girl in highschool always pursue my exes !! Every single one! She also got in between my relationship and he ended up cheating on me with her and thats when I knew it was a game for her!!
I’ve also noticed that they loved Lori Harvey when they could objectify her and deem her to be a pass around. But as soon as they realised they’re not passing her around and that she’s actually using them to benefit from pretty privilage… they started hating her
right. also, notice how tia mowry, as beautiful as she is, she was damn near invisible until she DIVORCED cory hardrict. ive NEVER heard of tia mowry being called most mens crush or dream girl etc even when she WAS married and a wholesome mother. men wont admit that being a wholesome wife and mother is NOT sexy to them and they tend to pay more attention to the "modern" women they supposedly hate. if youre such a desirable guy who wants a desirable tradtional woman, why not pay attention to the traditional women ?
They secretly love modern women and want to conquer them and turn them into housewives. Thats the issue. 90% of what men say they like is a complete lie.
Lol. No, women are not privileged in dating. To say women get more DMs and more attention makes them privileged .... Like, men do that to children too. Are those children privileged?
Of course not. Attention isn't necessarily good. In fact, attention purely for your looks is almost always bad.
That is not an advantage, it's a disadvantage.
They’re mad she’s not allowing the nakers to baby trap her and give them her youth THEY CANT STAND IT🤗 I personally admire Lori, her daddy taught her well! THIS is what decentering men looks like. Get what you need from them and dip. No strings attached. No mess.
Jealousy and envy.
exactly.
But I want to make a very sincere question, I really can't understand,
Why in the world they are going to be jealous and envious of us,
Why,
Wouldn't it make more sense if they would be jealous of their same sex men?,
Someone tell me,
Why, really why, they are so jealous of us?
OMG! When I was with my ex suddenly every woman wanted him. They assumed there must be something great about him if I chose to marry him. The problem is that he didn’t realize the only reason women wanted him was because he was with me. Instead he got a big head, started treating me horribly and began cheating. Once I left him he thought he was going to be in heaven with all these women. However, the minute I left, other women no longer wanted him. Now he’s been begging me back. The thing I didn’t expect was other men actually respected how loving, loyal, and selfless of a wife I was. Now I’m the one with all the options.
tea! guys don't give us any slack. they expect us to look perfect all the time! and if they don't find you attractive they treat you like crap.
Right, you can’t be 300 lbs and tell a guy “I just need some time to get on my feet and get my health back.” Meanwhile guys can say that to women and we are expected to be a ride or die
I think the reason a lot of men feel so threatened by desirable women ending marriages is because they’re afraid their own partners will see that and wisen up, and then leave them!
I noticed this after Jurnee Smollett divoced her husband of 10 years. People harshly criticized her for ending the relationship. A whole country of people harshly criticized Meghan Markle for dating and marrying Prince Harry.
Oh I need to look into this!
Yea as long as people aren't stuck up/put people down/use people, I don't think they're bad people. For me, looks are one thing, but the personality either adds or detracts from that 100%. For example, with guys, I'm at the age where I'm sort of desensitized to attractive men. It's more like, "Yea, you are cute, but what else can you do? What is your personality like?"
I found your channel yesterday and I’m hooked! I’m surprised sometimes by the dislike for Lori. I used to criticize her and say she should try to date in silence but it’s hard w being in the public eye anyways. I do think some women or men just wish they could be in Lori’s position too.
I had a male friend try to be my “pimp”. Basically he would set me up on dates with potential sugard@ds and get a cut. These men are crazy.
yeah ive never seen her do interviews talking about any guys. the guys are the ones who put her in their songs etc.
yeah being pretty is like being a celebrity. people are just in your business even when youre not trying to publicly go out and shout from the mountaintops who youre dating.
@@Aries.Goddess30 you are right she doesn’t talk about them but I was referring to her publicly sharing her relationship on social media. At the end of the day these relationships elevate her too so I get it. Idk how private she can be tbh damn if she does damn if she doesn’t. I can keep my dating history in private at least but it’s difficult for her to.
@@ExoticalsUnitedShe did some interviews when she was with Michael B Jordan.
How does he get "cut" if you don't allow it or do certain things with the men. There is no way he will get a "cut" if u turn it down or shut it down
I'm pretty (according to what people tell me, but I don't think I'm thatttt good looking), but I think the reason why people like me is because I try to make everyone (that treats me well) feel special. I think looks will get you so far, but your personality will take you even further, and if you are pretty + a great person, literally no one can touch you.
Yup, and people don’t want to admit that MLS women can be both pretty and great people at the same time.
Not true,
In many cases for that same reason of being pretty and a good person So many people hate you, envy you,
They hate that we are both pretty faces and also pretty good people,.
They hate just that.
Funny, I just saw a post on IG that she allegedly broke up with Damson Idris. The smoke that men and pick-me women have for her over her dating life is astounding.
right, if shes so undesirable, why do people care? 🤔 same with jada pinkett...
The good think that the broke up was fake so the people will leave them alone and I’m happy that they still together ❤
@@fatmanasser2923 hmmm....interesting theory. I like it!
When you mentioned women who like to hate on women like Lori Harvey, I immediately thought of RUclipsr Breeny Lee. She previously posted two videos about how Lori Harvey is the it girl and why she’s so likeable, only for Breeny to turn around and make another video earlier this year, stating that LH is “for the streets” because she chooses to keep her dating options open. 🥴 She came across so obsessed and jealous, especially since Breeny got weight-loss surgery and was embarrassed a few years ago for getting rejected on a British dating show 🤣
Omg I used to watch breeny lee when I was a Christian
@@ExoticalsUnited Breeny needs to turn those insecurities over to Jesus lol
They probably wish they could be us, but fail to take into account all the work we’ve done to become who we are today.
Thank you for this video. I have noticed when I lost 140+ I get better treatment especially from some women but most women & some non gay feminine men are passive aggressive & jerks for no reason. It’s as if they were more comfortable with the unhealthy version of me. And I remember as I was getting smaller I was getting passive aggressive comments from friends and people I know for no reason. It’s a really sick 🤢 world we live in.
Not gonna lie I’ve always felt weird about using my privilege to get ahead. Like my mom was always seen by my dads sister as the Lightskin who thought she was pretty because she’s Lightskin. And i look just like her. I’m kinda at. Point in life where i want to go further and i really don’t mind using my ambiguity to get there.
A lot of the women who men talk the worst about are ironically the same women those men obviously admire the most. Because the pick me’s are right there desperately waiting to be snatched up, yet men pass them by and go after the independent confident feminists all the time!😂
No way you believe the shit you just wrote
@@ernestkhalimov748 eh that dude from Fresh and Fit got an onlyfans model pregnant after building an entire career hating on that type of women , yeah the masks are falling off and men are maaad 🤣
EXACTLY 💯
Thank you for covering this topic with honesty !!!🔥🙏
Thanks for watching beautiful! 💅🏽
A lot of people act like men are entitled to women staying in relationships with them. It’s very odd. They also don’t have the same energy towards guys when they dump their girlfriends.
Love this I feel like me as a bottom gay man I actually do fit what you described because of my sexuality and ambiguity I actually do receive that validation😂
VERY INTERESTING TOPIC
i feel like I broke free from female gaze
I feel like Cher when she was like “I don’t need a rich man I am a rich man”
But for me I don’t need a pretty woman I am a pretty woman
Yup!
@@ExoticalsUnited this channel is a God send the frequent uploads got me giddy like a school girl 😂🤭
So much truth exposed!!!
Notifications squad!!🥰💖🥰
thanks for watching beautiful! #staypretty 💅
The incels are so loud these days! If
I couldn’t find anyone willing to sleep with me, I wouldn’t go around announcing it.💀
Confident/ cocky, fine line, there's a difference.
19:08 This is sooo trueee.
Female privilege wow i never thought of that concept
Yup !
Female? It's pretty privilege. Gay boys have this too. So be careful. And anyway, pretty privilege is not actually privilege. It ends up being a nightmare. Think long-term. Nothing based on your looks is going to be a good thing
Because they get unearned benefits and are not expected to work as hard
That’s what it’s called “ Pretty Privilege “
But the thing is, that so-called benefits based on your looks end up being a monkey's paw situation. If you look at the short-term, it looks like privilege. If you look at the long term, it looks like total doom.
Dont worry, the are people who hate confident men too.
Yep..heavy on “Rip off”
Wait 🖐.. I'm old.. 😂 let me take the time to get past the satin ribbon/ bootie earrings.. 😩. Maann. They make earrings out of anything..and here comes somebody they know gon wear'em.. smh 🤦♀️. Make it make sense. #ToEachHis/HerOwn
Sorry what does MLS mean?
Mixed or light skinned (black)
@@ExoticalsUnited thank you
15:24 yes! I had a girl in highschool always pursue my exes !! Every single one! She also got in between my relationship and he ended up cheating on me with her and thats when I knew it was a game for her!!
Almost at 800K..... go EU
Huh?!? This is a toxic take! Smh!🤦🏽♂️
I have had many friends try to be me like single white female and date my exes.