Agree 100%. I’m working on this as you speak!! I’ve become a lot less accessible to people: I’ve learned numerous times that being overly friendly, accommodating, works against you and causes a lot of disrespect and betrayal. As you said make people work for it. I’m naturally very friendly,outgoing and bubbly but I’ve realized it makes people deem you as an easy target who is desperate for people to like them.
THIS! I'm naturally bubbly too, and although it's inviting I'm starting to notice how it can invite "anyone" in. That's why I also think it's important to find those people who you can be yourself around and have mutual respect and integrity. Thank you for sharing💕
I love this. Its hard to be the pretty nice bubbly girl without it being taken advantage of. People often mistake your kindness as you being dumb or naive unfortunately.
I am so mind-blown, I've never thought of being inclusive as part of people-pleasing but upon reflecting, I think this has been the case for me. This has not come at a more relevant time omg. Recently, I just got hacked and scammed on my social media and I think I was way too gullible and it was because I was too nice and friendly and inclusive to everyone. My brain somehow always manages to make me think we're closer than we really are, which makes me very much so nice to people in general. Similar to what you said, I'm always the first to say thank you, the one to say hello, and come in with a smile, the one who overthinks and overapologizes, and ofc the one who is often left in "read" by people, which hurts me haha. In any case, I needed this thank you very much.
I Love being friendly with people but they are only nice when I seem mean. This is so backwards to me but this is releavnt and truthful video. sad but true because most beautiful people I know myself included are so nice inside and out but you can't live like that sadly.
Yes!! They like to push the boundaries of friendly people to see how much they can get away with. I’m starting to see “being mean” as a shield for myself tbh 🤷🏾♀️
New Subbie! I’m here to support and share my experiences from years ago. Stop excepting crumbs from losers of all genders, social groups and ethnicities. People will treat you the way you allow them! I can go on for years sharing stories of how people wasted their time and energy trying to humble me!!!
Agree 100%. I’m working on this as you speak!! I’ve become a lot less accessible to people: I’ve learned numerous times that being overly friendly, accommodating, works against you and causes a lot of disrespect and betrayal. As you said make people work for it. I’m naturally very friendly,outgoing and bubbly but I’ve realized it makes people deem you as an easy target who is desperate for people to like them.
THIS! I'm naturally bubbly too, and although it's inviting I'm starting to notice how it can invite "anyone" in. That's why I also think it's important to find those people who you can be yourself around and have mutual respect and integrity. Thank you for sharing💕
I'm naturally unavailable. I give people little sprinkles of kindness. It's something that has worked for me my entire life so i won't change it.
You’re ahead of the game ❤️
I love this. Its hard to be the pretty nice bubbly girl without it being taken advantage of. People often mistake your kindness as you being dumb or naive unfortunately.
Thiss!! 👏
I am so mind-blown, I've never thought of being inclusive as part of people-pleasing but upon reflecting, I think this has been the case for me. This has not come at a more relevant time omg. Recently, I just got hacked and scammed on my social media and I think I was way too gullible and it was because I was too nice and friendly and inclusive to everyone. My brain somehow always manages to make me think we're closer than we really are, which makes me very much so nice to people in general. Similar to what you said, I'm always the first to say thank you, the one to say hello, and come in with a smile, the one who overthinks and overapologizes, and ofc the one who is often left in "read" by people, which hurts me haha. In any case, I needed this thank you very much.
Aw glad I could help! ❤️❤️
I Love being friendly with people but they are only nice when I seem mean. This is so backwards to me but this is releavnt and truthful video. sad but true because most beautiful people I know myself included are so nice inside and out but you can't live like that sadly.
Yes!! They like to push the boundaries of friendly people to see how much they can get away with. I’m starting to see “being mean” as a shield for myself tbh 🤷🏾♀️
New Subbie! I’m here to support and share my experiences from years ago. Stop excepting crumbs from losers of all genders, social groups and ethnicities. People will treat you the way you allow them! I can go on for years sharing stories of how people wasted their time and energy trying to humble me!!!
YAY! I'm excited to have you here !!
Almost like Jodie Woods she is out there but you don't really know anything about her, unlike Alabama and Sky Jackson.
Exactly!
Agreed. You have a new member of the channel.
Thank you for the support!
You are smart and beautiful 😻
can you do a video on how to navigate dating as a young attractive woman. i’ve been too giving and it’s backfired on me more than once
Sure dear ❤️
Agreed‼️🩷
❤
Duh
Thanks ❤😂🎉😊
No problem!