Pretty Girls NEED To Become Rich to Remain Safe
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Thank you for the shoutout ❤️ Pretty girls need to be the 1st rich man in their own life always! 💵🤑💵💵💵🌹❤️💯😍💋💋💋
omg no problem! love your channel
@@ExoticalsUnited awe thank you ❤️👑
hell, i was almost the first rich man in my whole town ☠
@@waggawaggaful period!
I was just thinking this the other day ... So random and been there in all the ways discussed ❤🎉😂 hang in there beautifuls
As a pretty lady who wants to level up, stay away from low income areas.
This !!!!
Exactly
ABSOLUTELY!!!!!!!!! It's HELL!!!!!! I'm trying to get out I have faith that I will!
@@gigilove4808 I try my best to avoid being outside like doing things like walking getting exercise. I keep to myself minding my business. I go to work and come home. When I do need to run errands I go to a a nice city that isn't too far away but it's more high class and very nice upper class city. Im tired of these pathetic low vibrational diabolical ITS!!!!!!
Exactl. Men in these areas are so often aggressive and female attention deprive. @@Warmblanket649
Money is essential for safety reasons, a rich woman that gets abused by a man can afford a good attorney and get justice, and they have the social power to expose him too.
And being away from the hood /low income men makes life much safer.
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Even moreso if she is a POC
@@Aries.Goddess30 Extremely safer, I should say.
what about Amber Heard?
I wish people talked to me more about how pretty and poor means you’ll fall victim to a lot of manipulation, exploitation and sabotage. This is that sound advice that I should’ve followed from day 1. The biggest disservice I did to myself was ignore the social hierarchy thinking that I was the exception to the rule. Don’t let the dusties fool you out of your worth and value.
Yesssss
My mom married my dad in her late teens (both were teens). After she got married, her mother in law told her to always have your own money on the side. She said this even tho my dad is her son. Exoticals please never reveal how much money you actually have to a man!
This! 💯
My aunt gave me this advice
oooooooooh ive made this mistake before by revealing to an Ex the amount i had in my savings. he instantly got pissed off and started resenting me.
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Yes some people like to argue that being pretty is equivalent to being a celebrity but remember celebs have security guards and can get away from the crazies. Meanwhile we're in the wild with the crazies!
True !
Exactly
You know 🤔 … this is something that I have thought about from time to time.
I remember watching an episode of KUWTK where Kim bullied this girl who Scott had let into their hotel room(s) where they were staying during an overseas trip.
I don’t think Scott and Kourtney were together and he apparently thought it wasn’t a big deal.
Well Kim busted open the bathroom door where the girl was and said some mean things to her, including calling her a whore.
I was like Kim, you had a whole d**k in your mouth for the world to see. Let’s not call anyone a whore.
But what stood out to me during this scene is Kim had a camera crew, security, and an entourage.
I thought, wow, how much better would my life be if I had, at the least, an entourage. But imagine having all three of those things. But knowing what I know now, I would not want to have all three of those things, feeling “safe”, and turn into a bully.
Ladies please listen to this. I was a target but people were hesitant to try me because I have hardcore rbf and attractive. After having my daughter and becoming a single mom while still maintaining my looks women became vicious. They would not leave me alone! And some were even physical.
I’m talking other mom’s directly telling me “I’m not all that”, to a female obgyn purposely doing an unnecessary pelvic exam to try to “control” me.
I took my appearance to a whole new level( I became thin, maintained my new bigger boobs, upgraded my wardrobe) and transformed to a knockout/literal model. I look absolutely stunning now and I did it to land the wealthiest man. Met my now husband who is extremely well off and treats my daughter like his own. Now people do not dare mess with me or mine.
Please be careful. People are spiteful to attractive people if they are miserable.
Aw I’m glad you had a good level up journey- and don’t even get me started on the viscous women in the medical field- OMG !
Yes ma’am! 👏🏽🎬
Literally my experience and they try to discourage you from your progress or commandeer it gotta keep one eye on
Prize and one hand on the steering wheel
Minus the millionaire husband, currently in the perfecting my pretty Aka max. privilege stacking
You go mama!!❤️🔥 I'm so happy you've found a much more flourishing place for yourself and your daughter🌸🩷💫
My mom also dealt with so much mistreatment as a young woman and I know she battled daily with psychological trauma. My siblings and I also witnessed her get attacked by lady who barged into our home.
It was very disheartening to see her constantly have to fight for herself alone but I did recognize early on why it was so important to prioritize your peace of mind and to ensure you have good people around you.
Keep on shining beautifully ✨️, and I hope you and your daughter have many more wonderful experiences to enjoy 💕
I also appreciate you sharing the part about an obgyn trying to control you, I've had that happen to me as a young girl and it's one of the reasons why I'm very weary of doctors and therapists 😭
It's absurd how most of the medical field consists of wack people who we have to trust with our bodies!
😓 and this would be another reason why money is so necessary, you can afford better quality medical care
I bought a new car last year and the people in my apartment complex were so jealous that someone broke my back window to break into my car. I had my window fixed two days later lmfao I moved away from my home state a couple of months after that. Having money is VITAL!
Girl yes ! When people can’t get YOU they’ll try to get what you have like your property, your job etc!
@@ExoticalsUnited it’s so pathetic! And the crazy part is I didn’t pay for it, someone got it fixed for me 🥳💰 EXOTICAL TAX‼️💰💰
@@ExoticalsUnited exactly! It’s pathetic!!!
Wow I did the same thing when I got blessed someone I grew up with had somebody bust my window to put me in a position to have my back against the wall (from the hood) I left my hometown at 25 and never been back since
@@empathicmystic people are so pathetic it’s sad! I’m so glad you bossed up and moved away 💖
I’ve been bullied out of multiple jobs. By women 20 years older than me and overweight. One kept accusing me of anorexia and loudly asking me why I “never eat anything” at lunch. Another one said “she won’t last long at this job” when she thought I couldn’t hear her (and she had never spoken to me, knew nothing about me, and worked in an entirely different part of the office).
I just left a comment about a woman like this at my job. Why is it they act this way?
Started my own business to remain safe from haters. Both men and women have put me in danger target8ng me in the workplace. My own mother (A ray-sist Karen) enjoyed seeing me terrified, told me noone would be jealous of me and befriended my bullies. My therapist acts like she has no idea what I'm talking about when I talk about being targeted too. I decided $$ will be my saving grace. And yes I bought a new car and immediately had to move because my car was targeted 2x the first week I was there. I found an apartment with a garage and now working to buy a home in another country.
As a therapist who has a therapist, they act like you’re suspicious and paranoid when you say that you’re targeted. One asked me how I kept getting myself into those situations like it was my choice to be bullied. The therapists are competitive and nasty if they are black.
@ExoticalsUnited this may be a topic for new video?
What's been everyone's experience in receiving medical care or mental health care?
Me personally, I'm not super open to a therapist because some of them have tried invalidate my experiences and I'm just like 😨 I thought you were supposed to provide a safe space for me??? I prioritize mental health a lot and most of my healing journey has been supported by books and individual research.
I'm definitely still open to a therapist but I'm still going to be really picky 😆
@@ElysianGhostPrincessI just called one of my local women’s clinic that I go to frequently for a check up and they pretend to put me on hold and randomly hang up, which they always do 🙄, anyways I tried today and I know a girl who works there. They got my name, put me on hold, had the girl I knew from hs answer the phone then put me on hold, just for a whole other girl to ask me the same questions then hang up🫠. I ended up scheduling the appointment in a whole other city thru the same clinic smh. Petty and weird. All this for a check-up.
Same here. My mom teamed up with my haters.
So sorry
I agree with this wholeheartedly! I met my current boyfriend while I was independently doing well - putting myself through school, running a successful business, living in a luxury apartment. Having his money is wonderful, yet having my own means I can also go to Mexico for a month when I’m annoyed with him 😂
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@@ExoticalsUnited I just did that for June 😂
You should definitely do another video titled “Men are not providers and protectors, most time they are predators to attractive women” ❤
UP
Yes I have one about how men are not protectors and providers, I can do a part 2
This is sooo necessary 🔥 Workplace bullying and women trying to sabotage you at work because of your beauty is too real.
Getting a car was one of the best things I did for myself ever. I took the bus for a few years and was constantly cat called, stalked and followed multiple times by men. I also started driving Lyft for extra income and saved money.
Smart!
I drive Lyft & Uber I only do it Sun Up and before the Sun goes down!
@@misssincere5762 the early hours are the best
Money has saved me in so many situations. Even having “just enough” to get by. Great video
Having your own money is total independence! My mum used to call me up crying and say if she had the money should would leave her husband. That was a huge eye opener. My mums life evolved around making money for me and my brother. It was really hard to watch. My last break up was the best thing that happened to me, I realised no matter how perfect how forgiving I was a man can take advantage of it all & still leave! So I started to look after me. I stopped dating & focused on my work! I had the best financial years of my life ! Within 4 years I had saved enough money to my flat! In a great location! I used the pain & instead of looking for love in someone else I looked after myself !
❤️ EU everything you say is spot on ! Thanks for sharing! You are so encouraging! X
If you can’t let your husband know how much you have you are married to the wrong man.
Yaaaaassss!
Your decentering men videos woke me up from my fairy tale. Glad we ladies are on the same frequency.✨
Yes I’m so glad I’m no longer male centered like I used to be !
Lol I’d rather die alone in this lifetime
It's also our God given right/duty to become wealthy.
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I concur
Im confused. Isnt it the same for not pretty people??
Power thoughts!🙌🏾🌻🤍YES SIS!🔥
I love your rich pretty girl content!
yay! im gonna make more vids like this
Yesss plz
This is so true. Me having my own money and car has definitely helped me not depend on anyone including my family. My family doesn’t just help me without their being strings attached..so I’ve made sure I got in a position where I don’t have to ask for help from anyone! 😌
This is why I work so hard to make sure I can control the space that I am in. People today are getting crazier and crazier! Great video as always!
AGREED 💯 Wealth is freedom
Say it loud for those in the back!!! I work my ass off now because I refuse to lower my self to the jealous aunts in my family!
They tried this to me at work both Women and Men. There was one period where my car tire was busted every other week. My then manager had a jackal and Hyde personality with me and thought I’d be desperate for his money/status. That very job laid me off and expected me to beg them or become sexually involved to maintain a position after they were fully aware of me relocating 600 miles away to work there. Don’t be a beautiful, respectful, celibate woman either, they really hate that!
Thank you, cause I’m tired of being blamed for predatory behavior by both men and women. I’m in a better workplace now but I am building my own practice
like, when i see ballerinas perform on stage i don’t go “oh, dang, i could have been a ballerina” im always like, yoooo that girl is so freaking talentedddd, i hope it take her far & reach top success!
Ok I’m convinced RUclips algorithm is literally reading my thoughts because I was just sitting in my room feeling sad for myself , looking at the ceiling thinking about how much bullying I had to endure in my life from outside , mostly from jealous females , going out of their way to make my life harder, coworkers literally plotting against me to get me fired or even purely angry males that purge their insecurity and hatred into me really made me realize how dangerous outside life really is for me for whatever reason . Then I pick up my phone go on RUclips and this is the first video that shows up like what?!!!!!
Just watched the video and holy shit. 2:13 exactly what I was trying to say above!!! This video just confirmed everything for me and changed my life
I was reading this book called nice girl syndrome which I recommend and it also stated to never let a man buy you, always have your own money and my dad always taught me that. I do not own a car & im a beautiful woman I ride the bus but i try to cover up until I get to my destination!
Refuse to be a damsel in distress.
The caption was enough 👏👏👏 you could have literally been silent the whole video & the video still would have had the same impact! 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Yup! Pretty girls have to protect ourselves ! 💅🏽
Great post EU! If you save money, money will save you. Even an ok emergency fund can be an escape hatch from a garbage job, rebuild a transmission or act as a cushion when life happens. Pretty girls have to have a bag. No matter where you start, always have something set aside. Desperation counteracts your pretty privilege.
FIRST! Im outta breath how fast I clicked on this ... listening 🎧
Same girl let me get my pressure monitor
I’m 36 now and wish I knew this earlier. I’ve come from a poor background and have been sabotaged by many people in my life. I haven’t had many real friends in my life. I’m not bitter though and I still feel beautiful. I just wish I knew these things earlier and wasn’t so nice and understanding and humble/forgiving. I wish I was mean. I’ve been through so much trauma in my life that could have been avoided.
I am 39 and I wish I knew this earlier as well.
Me too.
Same, it’s not too late though.
This is so accurate. I love this chammel because its like a place for saying the silent part out loud ❤
Great advice! Having your own money can definitely help you stay safer! Safety is my first priority.
😭 im reading all these storys and i feel so much less alone. Did not know this was a common thing.
Right! 😂
I was told about this basically from a lot of older women/stay at home moms I knew in hypergamous marriages when I was little. Always have your own money. So I went to college and grad school and have a stable professional career. I sleep well at night knowing I can take care of myself. I also live and work in quiet suburban middle class to upper middle class diverse neighborhoods and the general peace is lovely.
If you are beautiful, people make their life mission to humiliate you for their own personal kicks. People want to make you look like what they feel inside. Always have enough to avoid as much public transport as you can as well as 100% run your own business and stay away from jobs in general. Beauty gives you a massive unfair advantage over people - and real beauty, internal and outer combined, is rare. Only go to rich areas if possible and take your car there. Pretty women underestimate how dangerous the world is without money borne from intelligence and not just Mr rich guy - because your safety comes first. Money also buys you good food and upkeep to maintain your looks :)
can’t wait til i reach the part of my life where i have security at my gate just because! i’m just so tired of unwanted connections trying to force their way in!
This is seriously so true it hurts . And don’t let people know either .
You’re right. A lot of people try to come after us in any way shape or form.
😭😭😭 EU, Crazyyy timing! One of the stalkers I've had has made it known he knows my exact apartment and I am so UPSET! But I have not shown my face, that I know of to be sure. Just a few creepy things happened and I hate that creepy, criminal stranger so Much! Extra security measures and another police report asap. I don't want to move...
Right! I’ve seen so many pretty girls have random creepy things happening to their cars, their jobs, or even at their apartments etc !
Thank you for this Pretty Girl PSA (Public Service Announcement)😄👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾!
My ex boyfriend actually drove by an apartment I used to live at,..: and lifted the windshield wipers up on my car after our breakup, It was the strangest thing looking back at it. So yeah, you’re spot on about the vindictiveness when it comes to property.
Booom! Then buy an island to isolate ourselves!
@@Hoosierontherun like the Amazon women that's depicted in the movie Wonder woman 😁🎯💪🏼💗 then here came the men f everything up lol 😆
Right 😂😂😂
@@Hoosierontherun i would love to go to an Exotical Island 🤭
Pretty girl island lol
Girl OK!!!!!!!
I’ve had my mom tell me and I don’t think it was malicious at all but she told me I need to find a rich man but I want something in my life I can call my own and be proud of it
Im in 5 seconds, and I agree with this 100%. I'm working on becoming wealthy so i can have resources for my exoctical grand babies. Im realizing how i6s the only way to keep them safe.
I can't imagine having to work amongst these people. I wouldn't make it 🤷🏾♀️. I've always had my own business and been taken care of and protected.
I used to feel so bad because of it. Now i know it's the universe way of protecting me and getting me ready for my legacy.
If not for this space i would have kept on caping and apinning my wheels forever. Now i understand what needs to be understood. I accept it. It's time to grind ✨️🎀
Y'all stay safe and listen to your intuition. ✨️🙏🏾💖🎀
Aw that’s amazing! Keep leveling up! 💅🏽
I like how you were talking about women in poverty being targeted by manipulative men, I also like how you mentioned human trafficking. Pretty Women are better than this.
i don’t see myself in other people, i simply appreciate them for who they are as individuals!!! so it’s truly disheartening when others view where i am in life, as who they could have been… like, dude, im NOT you!
Great points❤ definitely jotted some notes 8:42 but really!, doing yoga anywhere with tons of guys should be cautionary not just around "hood guys" or at "hood parks"😂
Bruhhh everyday I'm being bullied and isolated at work by these types of women! But it's motivating me to do literally do better in my life. I see it as they're helping me work so hard so that I can get to the next level
Thank you so so so much for posting this! Finally someone with a brain!
Hello exotical family ! I just started my RUclips channel today☺️❤️
Yay! 😀
I notice this as well and it still lasts until you get older if you keep yourself up.
Downward dog near the hood bball courts is wild😝🤣
😂😂😂😂
Hello, I am not a POC but your videos resonate with me a lot. I used to be bullied for being ugly so I tried to glow up hoping it would make my life easier because I kept hearing how "easy" pretty girls have it. It could not be farthest from the truth! I am even bigger of a target now. I have learned that if someone is mean to me for no reason, (and I am nothing but kind to people) it's 100% because of jealousy. It happens everywhere I go. I am always the scape goat. So there is no winning in this life.
I think if you truly want to avoid being bullied, you need to be as mediocer s possible. You cannot stand out from the crowd in any ways, not with looks, status or personality. But I am tired of dimming my light to make others comfortable.
Life is hard, girls....
100% resonate within this. I’m so nice to woman. I’m a hairstylist and all day long I help woman feel beautiful and good about themselves. And I’ve dealt with mean girls my whole life
Thank you for this amazing advice really enjoyed it ❤
I swear that spa treatments and baths healed my SA and continue to heal me throughout the year. When my debt is at zero very soon and my investments up, more spa time. When I first decentered men 2 yrs ago I got a man to indirectly sponsor my spa treatments all year (I did design work as a small business). Exotical tax!
😂😂men who have money always use it to come against you when you refuse them
Jealous women sabotaging your car😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
but it’s true, we do need to be wealthy to remain safe! have the security of our own place, own vehicles, our own finances, & now even our own security! i truly want to hire a network security & a physical body guard one day, just for some peace away from others!
👏🏾 👏🏾 totally support this message. There’s a young influencer on TikTok who married a man in his 60s when she was 24 (met him when she was 19) and he cheated on her, so now they’re getting a divorce. The poor girl is still financially dependent on him, and he keeps her subdued by threatening to take away her G-Wagon if she moves out 😢
At the Taxidermists' office 🤣🤣🤣 Girl, you're hilarious! Rich auntie here btw
So glad I’ve been put on to your channel. I’ve been overweight all of my life and I finally have healed myself and am losing all of the weight. I’m an exotical and I’m living hood adjacent and I never could understand why I was bullied so much. Was it because I was an exotical or overweight or both. But now, that I’m getting skinny, I’m scared and your videos are guiding me. Thank you so much.
if you're in the top tier of beauty then you can make way more money as an influencer than a rich could could provide for you anyway. which you think would be humbling to the lower tier men, but for whatever reason, it's not, and they still treat us like shit.
You'll be a target for every man, not just men with money.
FACTS! I swear.
This IS So Good. So Important and Vital Information!
I live in a very safe area in New England but I would love to move to Maine or Vermont one day and have a nice condo or townhouse
Nice !
Facts my love thank you ❤
Reading Princilla Clark's book, 41 shades of men, trust me
I shuttered at this title. Thank you so much EU!!!!!!!
I’m 27… am I too old for this advice? The hood is all I’ve known and I hate it here. I just finally starting making $100k but I don’t feel like it’s enough to get a nice apartment. I’m in the NYC metro area. I just feel like I don’t know when and if I’ll make it out and have my dream life. Anyway, this is the first video of yours that I’ve seen and I love it. I’ll continue to binge this evening. ❤
Staten Island and Queens have beautiful suburbs if you want to stay in NYC. Staten Island has better parking and a higher percentage of high-earning men, if you're looking to be in the vicinity of eligible men to date.😉 Both Staten Island and Queens have a lot of "bougie" hobbies and places to hang out and they are the clean boroughs, no rats walking up the street with you. You don't have to be a millionaire to move out of the hood in NYC. Good luck on your pretty girl journey, beautiful.💛✨️
My friend has a decent apartment in Astoria and she makes no wear near 100k. It doesn’t feel like a lot of but it’s DEF enough to go somewhere better if that’s what you want. Good luck sis!!! You got this!!
This is why I am starting my own business.
I’m so happy to hear others speak about the challenges that being Beautiful according to the world’s standards brings. I don’t have a car RN, and I’m ok with that because I want to get my credit in order 1st. I catch Ubers to work, and home every day. I’m just so over the crowded public transportation and the grown ass little girls who are threatened by me.
Go to the grocery store early in the morning you can. As soon as they open the doors! 🚪
This 💯
Yes!!! This part, people never want to see you win. No one!
Getting ready to take some more design classes! Making my own money is crucial! I'm currently working in retail, and I also teach. I've always been creative, dress nicely, and looove clothing, and interior decorating! Pretty women, go and get your own cash!!! 🍷✨💵💰💰🛍️
Totally agree, being financially independent is the key to avoid being trapped by insecure men, and being attacked by envious, basic Betty’s - you know the type- dowdy, repressed women who take it out on us
So true wow, thank you for this 🙏💗
Definitely agree it’s hard out here being beautiful
This is very true! I believe that me can be jealous of successful women too.
This video came at the perfect time. As a fellow pretty girl, who has dealt with micro-aggression for no reason most of my life, and people always wanting me to struggle and suffer, I recently came to the realisation that I need to work twice as hard to be where I want to be in life, where I don't have to struggle or suffer. Because most people want that for me, and no ones coming to save me- not unless I give up my dignity or something of myself.
Right now I'm a full time CS Student, first year, first semester, with two Jobs. It's really hard but I'm trying my best and I know with prayer, determination, smart working, confidence, and of course EU CONTENT, I am going to make it!
Pray for me guys, as I continue to keep praying for all my fellow pretty EXOTICALS/WOMEN out there.
I am so glad I watched this video. I couldn't agree more.
Another great video, good work sis!
thakyou for this 💕🙏🏽
Thank u so much absolutely right she needs to be prepared... get educated and save $$$$
Love everything you said pretty princess. Loving and liking yourself is so much fun. Glad to see everyone here loving this life!
I LOVE this video!!!
I love this video! I’m glad I found you!
Yesssss ❤
Happy Friday Ladies 😊😊
Agree 100000% with the title
This is all so true!!! This video is spot on ladies let’s use this as a education guide.
Title is a fact.
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Thank you so much for the motivation, EU. I needed to hear this today ❤
Just dropped my album ("The Gaming Chair: After Hours" by Meadow) on Spotify, Amazon Music, etc...) and got a copyright registration for my upcoming book ON THE SAME EXACT DAY. I'm in charge of me, but love motivates me; not money, love.
*And when I say not money, I mean not HIS money 😂
Can you share more about the copyright route. I want to write a book but don’t know the steps from start to finish. Help? 😩
I love your content it’s so refreshing! Love it 🥰 💋
Facts. Keep up the great content girl. 💕💕
I'd like to form a manifestation club of like minded women who come together and do magic and manifestation rituals and we all get super rich. I'm in Toronto Canada
@NovaUtopia This is something that I desire as well. Do you have a plan? Where can we join?
This applies to all women. Be financially independent.