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  • Insight on the fact that the narcissist knows they took a huge loss when they lost you.
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  • @viewerwatching5712
    @viewerwatching5712 Месяц назад +82

    It took her two weeks to try and come back, she burned that bridge and I burned the door. No contact for life, checkmate 🤡.

    • @mjathisbestandteachingskil6980
      @mjathisbestandteachingskil6980 Месяц назад +3

      You better than me. For I got rid of my narcissist and never look back, never again Ghost her for life.💪🏾💪🏾💯--✌🏾. I refuse to accept any hoover or anything she try. She had 1 chance with me and to show/ prove, she was the one and correct a woman no garbage, the minute I saw all her BS and friends. I calmly told her what I had to say and never look back at her under no circumstances. Told her in the end as this much simply I'm moving on with my life and never look back.💯%. Keep principles in your life. I'll say this much There's so much nice and beautiful woman in this world 🌎. Completely satisfaction-100%. Pick and choose someone nice and beautiful inside and outside don't ever be anyone's fool or foolishness.

    • @spencerbrando4242
      @spencerbrando4242 28 дней назад +1

      Yep two weeks but the discard means they got with new supply.

    • @lenaco4900
      @lenaco4900 28 дней назад +1

      Smart man

  • @mlynnkoetting924
    @mlynnkoetting924 Месяц назад +54

    manipulation is never apart of God’s plan 🙏🏼

  • @Fire-Man713
    @Fire-Man713 Месяц назад +42

    A Narcissist that lose and broken will always want people in their life to lose! They are Happy when you are Miserable like them!! 💯

    • @fayechamp4156
      @fayechamp4156 25 дней назад +1

      I was sleeping with my enemy over 3 years. He hated to see me win. Actually was so negative but the first 6 months of dating i wanted to marry him. He was trying to rush it to Rings and all but after I accepted the ring and said let’s take a little bit more time. His mask started falling off. In the first 6 months this man never cursed and treated me like a queen and I did same for him. Before we actually started dating just talking I told him I had friends and family that we have lady nights couple times out the year women only and never not coming home before midnight. He was like that’s cool and healthy for women to bond and have their personal space. Well after we started dating and after that 6 months the ladies night was coming up. This man went crazy call me names I was so shocked I couldn’t defend myself verbally. Then he remembered and switched back to his “normal “ self.

  • @peaceprosperity6705
    @peaceprosperity6705 Месяц назад +32

    I can't understand why I stayed over a decade. I was never happy.

    • @cthnc53
      @cthnc53 Месяц назад +6

      Glad you got away

    • @annenew8220
      @annenew8220 27 дней назад +6

      Same here. For me, it was brain fog & manipulation. It was a process to get me prepared to leave. But I'm here now. It's done

    • @cthnc53
      @cthnc53 27 дней назад +1

      @@annenew8220 amen

  • @marilynwanzer1201
    @marilynwanzer1201 Месяц назад +20

    The new supply can have him, I don’t want no parts of that CRUTBALL!

  • @Fbna50
    @Fbna50 Месяц назад +30

    Mine left a month ago .. i blocked his calls and my social media.. I haven't heard from him since..thank the most high!!!

    • @cthnc53
      @cthnc53 Месяц назад +7

      You won

  • @mortischahicks5341
    @mortischahicks5341 Месяц назад +13

    I WAS THE ONE WHO GOT AWAY!

  • @LeonorSilva-fm6hf
    @LeonorSilva-fm6hf Месяц назад +24

    I know he realized what he lost, what God gave him. He mocked God. Oh well he must now reap what he has sown. Hopefully he repents but I doubt that but most definitely God can not be mocked.

    • @yvonnemccoy1162
      @yvonnemccoy1162 28 дней назад +2

      Sis, I said the SAME THING about my ex!! Did the baptismal pool and several altar calls. He thinks God don’t see him??!!! That demon is on borrowed time and we are covered by Jesus Blood! 🩸🩸🩸🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @LeonorSilva-fm6hf
      @LeonorSilva-fm6hf 28 дней назад +2

      @@yvonnemccoy1162 Amen sis. Much love to you. Praise God Praise God. ❤️🙏we are covered in his blood under his wings 🪽

  • @Liberty12
    @Liberty12 Месяц назад +15

    They can’t believe you discarded them! And their appearance is always changing!!!

  • @TheCurlyBeauty
    @TheCurlyBeauty Месяц назад +16

    I know for a fact my ex is spiraling. He's been drinking more heavily and trying to get his flying monkeys to reach me. It's been eight months of no contact. His old friend told me he called him drunk the other night talking about his regrets of discarding me. Oh well! I don't know that man.

  • @desertangelfish140
    @desertangelfish140 Месяц назад +13

    He recently circled back after a 1 year split. He hasn't changed and convinced me he's happy. He's still connecting with the female he tried juggling me with. They are besties and business partners. He doesn't like sex with her, so he wants to keep me as an option. I congratulated him and wished him and his partner well. I let him know I don't like him reaching out to me. I've moved on and encouraged him to do the same. He's stuck on wash, rinse and repeat. Not my problem. 🥶❄️💕🕊️

  • @Dale-ei4sm
    @Dale-ei4sm Месяц назад +25

    The pockets touching and clapping at the back made me holler 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @leetheconnoisseur8982
    @leetheconnoisseur8982 Месяц назад +8

    "Weight blew up like 2 walls"... 😆

  • @kirstiesmith3216
    @kirstiesmith3216 Месяц назад +13

    My ex narc has now resorted to giving my number to other guys so I’m getting iMessages at 6am these people are so cruel and evil!

    • @denisej.smith-perry4949
      @denisej.smith-perry4949 Месяц назад +7

      Let's change that number sis❤❤❤

    • @readinzession1308
      @readinzession1308 Месяц назад +2

      GIVE HIS NUMBER OUT FOR MEN WANTING MEN SITES. BE SAFE HE WILL GET THE MESSAGE EVENTUALLY STAY IN GOD'S ARMS

  • @QueenBee-fg1iz
    @QueenBee-fg1iz Месяц назад +9

    True! He showed up 6 months after I went no contact. Denied he was with her, but I sent him away. He then started cheating on her with his adult son’s mom. The supply left him, but months later he cheated on his son’s mom with the supply! Now they’re both on social media calling him out for his disrespect. Hmm 🤔 didn’t they see how he treated me after 17 years.

  • @tashie20
    @tashie20 Месяц назад +38

    The New Pastor contacted me the other day(he’s flying out to talk to me) All because my ex ran out of friends and family to convince me🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ I’m still trying to figure out how he gets people to do these things….It’s praying time🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @janetromey7522
      @janetromey7522 Месяц назад

      They've been slandering you from when they met you. Building the narrative, you're crazy, insecure and they tell everyone , "how concerned they are about you." You need help, you're having a nervous breakdown. Your a drunk etc etc. and find sometimes other narcs to come for you for Intel or gullible people who will do their bidding. They'll act like great Christians. That new pastor has never dealt with one and falling into the trap. Dont tell them anything and stay away. That new monkey will report back. These narcs know how to get doctors, accountants. Attorneys, real estate agents to lie for them. Watch your back. 😢
      They'll tell everyone you did all things they did to you. "You did it!"

    • @janetromey7522
      @janetromey7522 Месяц назад +6

      They'll say," You're unhinged!"stay safe😊

    • @LadyLotus8
      @LadyLotus8 Месяц назад +6

      Because he’s telling ppl something is wrong with you and you need to”help” (Stay Safe)

    • @shirleyrussell7089
      @shirleyrussell7089 Месяц назад +6

      He's GASLIGHTING the NEW PASTOR because he doesn't really know who and what that ex of yours is about yet. STAND YOUR GROUND keep your BOUNDRIES IN PLACE NO MATTER WHAT the Pastor says.

    • @kjsfl386
      @kjsfl386 Месяц назад

      @@shirleyrussell7089and the pastor knowing how vulnerable you are should be watched carefully as well. Narcs are everywhere and can be anyone. Churches are prime sources for sweet caring loving forgiving victims

  • @ms.generatorsnatcher9974
    @ms.generatorsnatcher9974 27 дней назад +3

    We don't have to be anything but out of sight! Good riddance!

  • @11216mel
    @11216mel Месяц назад +10

    While we were still married he moved in with her. She lived with her family and after. awhile the family kicked them both out. He moved her into his mother's basement. After our divorce he married her and shortly after he moved out leaving her and the children behind to live in his sister’s basement. Once he moved, he tried to come back but it’s a hell no. He now has six children and looks like Santa's twin.

  • @bearpolar90210
    @bearpolar90210 Месяц назад +10

    Their new supply is definitely going to be a downgrade! I truly believe that their expectations for the new supply is going to be higher, while they contribute to nothing. This is how delusional they are. Most narcissist especially my ex looked way older than her age (45), but looks 50. She was trying to hang on to her looks, trying to seduce younger men. She doesn't wear her wedding ring at work, never told me she was married, but wears her ring to church?!? Make it make sense?

    • @viewerwatching5712
      @viewerwatching5712 16 дней назад +1

      I was with her for 20 years and I know she never wore her wedding ring when she was away from me. We've been divorced for 10 months, I've been no contact since I left that demon.

  • @angelalynn596
    @angelalynn596 29 дней назад +3

    The new supply is the pain killer!! 😂🤣

  • @CarlaMcmillion
    @CarlaMcmillion Месяц назад +11

    Hey Ms. Telsha ❤️, This is All but the TRUTH 💯😂, They are a special kind of crazy, Never go back to a Narcissist, Let them "birds", sit in their delusional world, and you keep it pushing ✌🏾✌🏾, Narcissistic Abuse Survivors we BOSS UP☝🏾💃🏾💃🏾❤️, Thanks again for Sharing ❤️, BLESS YOU 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️

  • @jewishbride5010
    @jewishbride5010 Месяц назад +9

    I bind myself the winner for the battle over my soul while I am safe and sound for eternity, binding to hell every unequal yoke and common share with anyone not winning the battle over one's soul while lacking to be safe and sound eternally, all praises to God whom has given me the victory, in accordance with this word and 1 corinthians 15:57, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah, glory to God ❤!

  • @RoseKent-uu7rw
    @RoseKent-uu7rw Месяц назад +2

    He never listened, because thought he knew everything. He wrote a text to our teenage daughter (at the time), How to Play the Long Game With Your Mother. That is how certain that he felt about me. It’s been 17 months since I have been no contact….he is stalking, flying monkeys everywhere, crying and now getting his kids involved with his health issues in hopes that I’m concerned. I never wish him harm, I just don’t wish anything for him at all. I’ve moved on and so should he.

  • @Resilience13
    @Resilience13 Месяц назад +9

    This Queen is dropping so much knowledge. 👸🏽 I started following her on TicToc. I am on my healing journey and so much dead weight fell off of me. Thank you so much for your words of wisdom. My Crown is polished a d it is on my head.

  • @ReneeMorgan-le8ky
    @ReneeMorgan-le8ky Месяц назад +6

    And in his pics, he looks like he has no care in the world like nothing is going on with him like everything is fine with him and it made me mad

    • @user-lt2go2no7v
      @user-lt2go2no7v 21 день назад

      They all do that! They post pictures like “look how happy I am!” These people are never happy

  • @yvonnemccoy1162
    @yvonnemccoy1162 28 дней назад +2

    As they say in Jamaican “if yu cyah ‘ear, yu wi feel!!!’ 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲

  • @user-bz9se3dv3r
    @user-bz9se3dv3r 29 дней назад +2

    You said it sister, I (Grade A) 19 year husband in 3rd separation in 3 years is applying for Divorce and I already told her that I am granting her request for Divorce and her Independence but I will walking away with all my Huge Financial Contributions to the marriage and also taking all my Other resources including my unconditional Love. I advised her that I will very shortly removing her from my life insurance aswell as removing her name from receiving 1/2 of my Huge Pension or rest of her life in event I passed away prior to her. I advised her not to worry about me as I will be fine as I Learned while you isolated me so very much to be very independent, Confident, Strong, knowing my high self value and High value of man I am and Ofcourse being Very Financially Positioned , never having to financially worry for of my life. I also know that in Reality that she has the Right to pursue other’s options and a new direction of life…but when I am ready I will just Replace her … I know I am an answer to some Ladies/woman/Persons prayer and just maybe she will be the answer to mine…i was nice knowing you, take care

  • @user-lt2go2no7v
    @user-lt2go2no7v 21 день назад +1

    I told my ex narc he will look for me in every person he meets and he will never find me…..ever!!

  • @tarshaledwards7468
    @tarshaledwards7468 Месяц назад +7

    Ms. Telsha I am better me because of you. You are the big sister I never had❤️

  • @lenaco4900
    @lenaco4900 28 дней назад +2

    Now tell why my ex who abandoned me 20 something years ago with two kids have his family member reach out to me to tell me he is still in love with me. Like seriously you can’t make this stuff up. These narcissists are really delusional. He’s been living with a woman for 20 years and never married her now I guess they’re not working out so the family thinks he and I should get together. Lmbo!

  • @harmonycarpenter1894
    @harmonycarpenter1894 Месяц назад +3

    Mine found out I was dating after a year of separation and came behind my house two days ago and ripped out the AC connector. He was seen behind the house and the internet app says he was here. I just want to be done with this man... debating on if I should press charges. That keeps him close to me and I don't want that either.. who's knows. Idk what to do. He was very skinny and even his face was sucked in... wow

  • @sweetpea1847
    @sweetpea1847 Месяц назад +4

    Sis i was struggling yesterday!!! I wanted to bust the windows out his car and throw this bracelet in his gas tank. BUT GOD. So my bird brain sons father. Cheated on me with this lady. We were together for 18+ years. NEVER once have i met his kids, family besides his mom. Who was flying monkey to his 1st baby mom. They kept her around, going on ALL the family vacations. Knowing what i know now. Just to keep her stagnant. She never dated after him. Anyways fast forward to now. He took this lady on vacation to cali. We never went no where but to eat out on Saturdays and that was sad. He rushed eating and when he was done we had to leave. This lady sent my son a lil beaded bracelet. Something cheap. He hasnt told us he was engaged let alone seeing someone. Well he had the nerve to call said woman so my son can say thank you to her. Again 18+years and i never even spoke to his children

  • @TheOnlyResetButton
    @TheOnlyResetButton Месяц назад +3

    💥 I FEEL BAD (Discussing) MENTALLY Ill PEOPLE 💥

  • @MBFITNESS33
    @MBFITNESS33 10 дней назад

    Confirmation. Omg, lol. "trash." My God, I can't be a friend with a viper 💯

  • @alonzoneloms5651
    @alonzoneloms5651 5 дней назад

    Their Family know a discard is coming!! Just the victim doesn't know. Until certain hiccups inconsistent patterns and vibes!! They are exposed. Night Crawlers they are. Unfaithfulness and Lawlessness!!

  • @yemedemure414
    @yemedemure414 Месяц назад +1

    After 3.5 years of NC I got tipsy and unblocked the Narc I discarded. He was so ready and willing to share information. Sending pics and videos of his daughter and him in the clothes I bought him. 😅😅😅 I wasn’t sober minded and I did something silly. My fault! 🤦🏽‍♀️ I re blocked him and had a pep talk with myself.

  • @anniemedjber5695
    @anniemedjber5695 29 дней назад +1

    Two Walls 🤣

  • @susanjones1753
    @susanjones1753 Месяц назад +2

    This hit spot on I got hoovered the other day by my Ex Narcs Aunt All I can say is that chapter is closed I will never Look back at that Fairy fake Tale Land ever again Good Riddens!!!✌🏿

  • @iamaliveyoucantstopnow
    @iamaliveyoucantstopnow 24 дня назад

    All these I’m experiencing 😢 and I’m not the narcissist.

  • @stephaniepena6212
    @stephaniepena6212 26 дней назад

    Sometimes I question if I was the downgrade he never saw any value in me he always hid our relationship and never treated me the way I saw him treat his ex baby momma

  • @karenjolly7523
    @karenjolly7523 Месяц назад

    Hi Telsha! ❤ Thank you for thinking of us!

  • @RiverAngel312
    @RiverAngel312 Месяц назад

    Needed this today… you are amazing, thank you. ❤

  • @tennillewhite9509
    @tennillewhite9509 Месяц назад

    Thank you Telsha❤️💯

  • @candipayne2003
    @candipayne2003 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you T for all the continued love help and advice. ❤

  • @shirlspark_stardust
    @shirlspark_stardust Месяц назад +1

    Good morninh Ms tea and everyone enjoy the weekend all😊🙏🏾❤️

  • @transformmeforward4180
    @transformmeforward4180 Месяц назад

    Love you too Telsha.

  • @lagoldie9783
    @lagoldie9783 Месяц назад +1

    Good video Ms. Telsha. Thank you for sharing your perspective today💯🔥🙌 🙏

  • @terrancekilson829
    @terrancekilson829 Месяц назад

    Amazing video.. I really appreciate you doing these videos, still helps me to this day after being 2 years removed from my narcissistic experience

  • @peacefulself7848
    @peacefulself7848 25 дней назад

    Excellent video and very true!

  • @alexiswatkins8715
    @alexiswatkins8715 Месяц назад +1

    Good morning just want to thank you for sharing ❤❤❤

  • @PL-tj5sd
    @PL-tj5sd Месяц назад

    I love the way you said "hey hey" at the beginning of this video, it is more receptive to the ears and pleasant, I hope you don't mind me saying, it is softer and pleasant to me.

  • @EffectivelyFree
    @EffectivelyFree Месяц назад

    Thank You...

  • @saiibasmith1803
    @saiibasmith1803 Месяц назад

    💛💛💛💛💛 #checkmate 😂😂😂😂😂 Sis when you say 10,11 & 12 I be hollering 😂😂😂

  • @deniskolenovic4670
    @deniskolenovic4670 Месяц назад

    Love you!

  • @ElisaForHealing
    @ElisaForHealing Месяц назад

    Hey Telsha!❤❤

  • @1982Regulus
    @1982Regulus Месяц назад

    Thank you 🙏 always

  • @Saffa_01111
    @Saffa_01111 24 дня назад

    This is some epic knowledge thank you! The X narc can go do one…

  • @BK-lb8uh
    @BK-lb8uh Месяц назад

    Thanks!

  • @sheritawebb752
    @sheritawebb752 29 дней назад

    That exactly what he be saying let’s be friends let get along for our son sake what we had is done but you want to be friends really please

  • @Cali001
    @Cali001 Месяц назад

    Yesss a HUGE “L”💪🏽💪🏽

  • @kendraheard1097
    @kendraheard1097 Месяц назад

    Im sooo grateful i had no attachments with the narc... goodness i remember almost forcing him to marry me im so happy God did not allow it to happen...i dont even have social media im like a ghost lol he will not be able to find a trace of me!

  • @lisablackman9960
    @lisablackman9960 Месяц назад +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤ healed

  • @care4sher188
    @care4sher188 25 дней назад

    Periodttt

  • @trevonbell1432
    @trevonbell1432 29 дней назад

    Can we talk about a narcissist that you have a kid by that you can’t go 2 months without talking to those the narcissistic relationships that’s hard to leave because you still have to have communication with them

  • @tanzychatman6272
    @tanzychatman6272 Месяц назад

    You or so right

  • @patricebeene646
    @patricebeene646 Месяц назад +1

    Good Saturday morning Telsha. ..... Exactly. Speaking the truth. He's a nonfactor now. Bless his poor soul. Yes he did Loose weight the last time I saw him. Looking not good. Facts!!!

  • @violetavranjkovic4642
    @violetavranjkovic4642 15 дней назад +2

    This Woman Telsha saved my life 🫡❤️❤️❤️💪

  • @dahna4822
    @dahna4822 25 дней назад

  • @sandrabrouwers5797
    @sandrabrouwers5797 24 дня назад

    Am alone in this world.
    Whole Fam ivs against me cause i go against the grain.I try to reach out but ppl are Demon possessed then i cut them off cause my energy get sucked.

    • @viewerwatching5712
      @viewerwatching5712 21 день назад

      You are not alone God has you, stop being so needy and do the work on yourself to heal your trauma. Get counseling if needed, pray and read the Bible.

  • @Saffa_01111
    @Saffa_01111 24 дня назад

    If a narc gets back with there ex how long is the second round of the relationship going to last before the break up.

  • @TonallixxEuphoria
    @TonallixxEuphoria Месяц назад

    Hello there

  • @marcusxsara8896
    @marcusxsara8896 Месяц назад +1

    L✌🏾🤎E🌻🙏🏾

  • @Raiinydaylove02
    @Raiinydaylove02 27 дней назад

    😅😅😅

  • @ReneeMorgan-le8ky
    @ReneeMorgan-le8ky Месяц назад

    Why send pics of four months of no contact from me and he saw me last sunday at the store now nothing since Monday

  • @jenty2713
    @jenty2713 Месяц назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @cherieharris125
    @cherieharris125 28 дней назад

    What if the narc was a Christian

  • @briannaennis876
    @briannaennis876 Месяц назад

    It’s been since February 2024. She has had 4 sex partners since then. And randomly text me like I miss who you were to me 💔. It took me 3 months to even date because of the hurt. Smh never again. She hurt me beyond repair. What she took I can never get back. IN LIFE!

    • @viewerwatching5712
      @viewerwatching5712 21 день назад

      I was with her for 20 years, she left me for another man when I discovered she had been cheating. It's been 10 months since I left and I have not dated or been intimate with anyone because I'm trying to heal.

  • @reginaldmines4569
    @reginaldmines4569 Месяц назад

    I took the trast out 3yrs ago and the funky smell still trying to come back!

  • @vanessamorey3812
    @vanessamorey3812 29 дней назад

    Where are you filming this??? ❤ 😂🎉🎉🎉

  • @ChanellG904
    @ChanellG904 Месяц назад +1

    Great video!! Your content continues to help me in my healing journey. Unfortunately I have children with my narcissistic ex husband but the contact is extremely low. My boundaries are in full force and it’s been peaceful.🙏🏾🤍

  • @trevonbell1432
    @trevonbell1432 29 дней назад

    Can we talk about a narcissist that you have a kid by that you can’t go 2 months without talking to those the narcissistic relationships that’s hard to leave because you still have to have communication with them

  • @lionheartscw
    @lionheartscw Месяц назад

  • @ReneeMorgan-le8ky
    @ReneeMorgan-le8ky Месяц назад

    Why send pics of four months of no contact from me and he saw me last sunday at the store now nothing since Monday

    • @Linda-sm6ni
      @Linda-sm6ni 27 дней назад

      Good insight, too much background noise

  • @trevonbell1432
    @trevonbell1432 29 дней назад

    Can we talk about a narcissist that you have a kid by that you can’t go 2 months without talking to those the narcissistic relationships that’s hard to leave because you still have to have communication with them