They’re mad because you don’t want them and they don’t have access to you as supply. They don’t have someone to mirror and impress other people by taking on your attributes/pretending to be you in front of other people.
Why have you just deceived my older sister, and the vitriol that has been spewed this week after yesterday I thought she was trying to work things out with me.
This is so TRUE for me. My wife told her family so much bad things about me. I was doing this, doing that. But, when we went to court and I exposed her for all the things that she was doing to me. They couldn't look at me. She definitely has hate for me because I got tired of being used and abused and cheating on during our relationship!
How can they give you want they don't have. They don't love themselves, they don't respect themselves. They need you to pump up their over inflated false self which is insecurity. My cat requires less time and attention. 😮😊
I left the narcissist and last week popped up at my place calling my name outside the window said he has a credit card coming and text him when it get there nope I didn’t respond not one word from me was closing my window and he said bye no reply back closed my window haven’t seen or heard from that clown there is no going back ever.
Mine did the same ..there was no credit card coming for him..he just wanted to come inside the house ..while he was still With old supply ..liars and disgusting beings !
Lord have mercy,he HATES me to hell and back , he tries so HARD to destroy ME mentally but I’m focused on JESUS CHRIST and ignoring him EVERY DAY and he goes out of his way to do things to get MY attention, I’m no longer interested in ANYTHING that he does, I’m so blessed 😇 that I’m scared 😱 of me and thanking GOD everyday for my PEACE of mind 🙏💕🙏💕🙏💕🙌
I was his trophy piece. He liked the fact that people would complement him on how pretty I am he would even say it constantly. His dad was always saying my son is blessed my son got a beautiful wife my son is blessed.
@ toccarat❤️❤️❤️❤️ Yes same here: ppl wondered how he even got a woman like me- he was so beneath me on all levels - WTF was I thinking. He should’ve cherished the ground I walked on- instead, I got abused and cheated on throughout the “marriage “…
@@browneyes9507They dog you more because they're very jealous of you. Want to try keep you from knowing your worth and that you're too good for their rotten childish azz
@browneyes9507 wow his friends from work would ask me behind his back like how did he end up with me and I would say that his personality at the time, not knowing his personality was mine because he was mirroring me this whole time, not trying to be funny but my children took after me and I say mine cause since he filed for this divorce and we separated in August he acts like he doesn't have kids, but always saying and telling them he wanna be a better father but hadn't paid a lick of child support or spousal its by the grace of God my bills are be covered it's nobody but him he wanna see me struggle and fail so badly, but it's back fired on him. Same here he was in boxing random on fb went to atl with his single married friend and met a bottle girl at a pool party sent her money and he never heard from her again, he was only fan subscriptions and blacks people meet dating sites.
But when they're done with you it's a whole different story. I learned to take everything they said, good and bad, with a grain of salt. We don't need their validation. What's understood don't need to be said! 😉😁
My ex chose to move forward with the new supply in April instead of coming back. She thought he had more money. Since, I got my head on straight and started focusing on my job. Boy did she bet on the wrong horse...hit a home run and about to make millions over the next few yrs. Suck it narc!!😂😂
They really love you but they don't know how to accept it or say it. They love you so much that they hate you and resent you for actually needing you. You destroyed their ego and they will never apologize out of pride and entitlement. You are the first person ever in their lives that mirrored them and actually caused them to have to face themselves. You broke that facade that was prepared and enriched their entire lives and you pulled it off within a few minutes during your spiritual awakening. Many of them call me a chosen one, does that feel good,sure it does but only Jesus is the pure and true chosen one. It merely helped me to find who I truly am. I knew but didn't know I was and am an empath. I've changed so much and people are seeing a side that has them confused and that they never thought I would show or become. I have much more to accomplish but I'm highly blessed Jesus has done a huge turn around on me and my life.
A year and a half after the divorce I'm still hated lol. I don't know what I did to him 🤷♀️ he was the one who cheated and wanted out of the marriage to experience other women, but I'm the terrible one?? Haha okay.
Same storyline here…exact same….and he had his family thinking it was all me….I can’t figure out why he hate me and won’t coparent because I divorced him.
The fact I read many comments and it seems many of u are some how still in contact or these individuals know way to much about yall lives and yall about their's. Go live your life. These people shouldn't even be an after thought. Interfering with your own healing.
@@Dop3D33pQuotes I wish it was that easy, I had two kids with him. I'm glad I have them I just wish I would have chosen wiser with the dad. That's why I'm staying single. I still have to hear about him until they're 18 though.
@@ashleykathryn9038 Grey rock look it up to help with interacting (without giving energy n reactions) what they want. Don't have to do it alone if you decide too big up to you. Ask the right questions when learning new people. Speak about empathy,being considerate, love making, do they know about being affectionate. Hard conversations. You'll weed them out. Most importantly speak about God(Yah).
I Love the NYC hat on you Ms Tea! ❤ You are Rockin that hat! ❤ I cannot express just how much I LOVE the fact that I am the most wanted, and the most hated! That makes my WHOLE day! ❤ In my book, he's the most ignorant, stupid and down right disgusting! 😅😂😅 I despise him with every ounce of my WHOLE heart! It's true! I cannot stand the freak creep!
I thought that I found a diamond in the rough! But, instead I was the only foolish one to give him a chance. Nobody wanted him, except for me! Almost 13 yrs later I realize why. 🙄🤦🏿♀️
My problem is the ex "NARC" now only has control of me through the children, & she uses them 2 the Extreme. If I call 2 talk 2 the children, she says why are u bothering me, you need 2 leave me alone. When I say, Hey NARC I am only calling 2 talk 2 my kids. Narc says they are not available so quit calling me. Then NARC shows up out of the blue, hey I just brought the kids by 2 see u, but I can't talk them when I call. It's just so exhausting & childish..SMDH
U need to find ways to Grey rock and stop giving her all that validation by saying that stuff to you..chances are she's performing in front of someone or multiple ppl. Stop calling. If u use the excuse about kids then good luck with the mess. Go to court and win your kids or something. Give them their own phones...do something. Stop complaining and find solutions.
@ru-ark2185 Thanks 4 ur advice, it's not complaining. It's just a simple reminder of what I am dealing with. Who can afford 2 b in and out of court every month. I'll just do what every other reasonable dad would do, walk away & say I tried. Just so u know I have given them thier own phones, they magically come up missing or are broken all the time. So I guess look me up when u are older children.
@@akashiccruiser555 OK Brother...misinterpreted as complaining understood. Yea I know how difficult it is dealing with these types. If she's doing anything out of the ordinary gather your evidence...record conversations...etc. use their own tactics against them. Stay Strong 💪
Hi Ms. Telsha. I like your hat, it looks nice. I did realize this too. It's a shame how disrespectful the narcissist is. Smh. But at least they can't destroy God's Best and Brightest. God's Most Finest Crystal Star, His Fine China, and His Most Purified Gold who has been tried through the Refiners Fire. His Most Good-looking Eye Candy they could not break or tarnish!✅👑❤️
😂😂😂 I left him after I helped him become very very successful and he’s been losing since he lost Me! Heard money is low now and can’t get any quality supply either plus heavily gambling losing and severe alcoholic! Me tho shining like new money 💰! Thx to GOD !!!! And miss T love you for all that you do for ALL of us !!!!!
Never knowing these birds existed, I got involved with a female malignant narcissist. I have always enjoyed helping others. In our three year involvement, I spent a minimum of $12,000.00 on her. At two years in, I started researching her behavior. I spent many hours researching, and determined she was a milignant narcissist. I started making my exit. I told her what she was, bad mistake. She started hovering, burner phone calls, stalking, gang stalking. It’s been almost two years now, she still does all just stated. Fake FB sccounts, calling tree service to cut down a tree. I had the tree cut down two years before I left. And still calls, hovering, she has no shame. I hope she reads this. I’m very happy with my life now, doing great. I know I was a good supply. But no more! I got out alive, never to return to that craziness.
I am still with him but mentally I left him over TEN YEARS ago,I’m waiting for my moment to leave,I’m putting my LIFE in order as I speak 🗣️, patience is the key 🔑 almost GONE, believe that ❤🙏❤🙏😇😇
Narc tried so many times and you are right they don't come back because they love you or want you. I let him back multiple times and it was worse. Everything was my fault nothing was his fault. I'm cold with it and you're right I am not with anyone else. I LOVE THIS!! "No, no, no, no, no boo boo. Cause when you hoe baby, you don't need a co-pilot. The only pilot you need is Jesus!! AMEN to this!! You let him drive!! Love You Sister. Sooooo True:)
Always be strong somethings no one can take or break all that love you gave and time you cannot get it back but you have a plenty of more to give and some more and more
I dated him for 5 weeks and then blocked him once I recognized the signs. He has been blocked for 3-4 months and his obsession has outlasted the relationship. I do standup comedy locally, and now he has all of a sudden become a comedian and trying to talk to the other comics I’m cool with. His entire set is about me! I know he’s trying to get a reaction out of me. But I couldn’t care less. My concern is whether he’s dangerous or not. My friends say he comes alone sits at the bar (he doesn’t drink) and looks at the door or stares them down hoping they engage with them.
Had that backwards walking giraffe call my leasing office around new years, they denied her info, she lost it, security told me about it. I'm 16yrs+ out. Online Dedication: 💿 Hall & Oats -- ' I can't go for that. '
💯 my current situation. No turning back. New supply getting now getting drunk at parties, coz she is realizing she has been future faked and made a fool of herself and all the flying monkeys, who thought the narc will be happier. These demons were all so jealous of me because I refuse to go back to the abuser. I’m thriving and loving myself everyday with two professional jobs in few months after he discarded me, even though I gave up everything and moved to different country to join the duck.
Mines will Hoover after a few months of ghosting and blocking me, beg for sex, if I give in stupidly I get discarded after 2 weeks or so. If I don’t give it up then you get the mind games and blamed for it all in the end. I can’t stand it that I’m still falling for the games and the abuse
Good God Morning. Giving thanks to the Almighty. I am blessed to open my eyes, move my body and be in my right mind. I believe in patience. God has my back. I will keep faith in HIM. God has never led me astray. I am grateful to be God's child and rejoicing in this new day of grace and mercy. Hallelujah! Amen
He emailed me on my birthday I didn’t reply he said “ I’m bitter “ 😂 he was just calling to say happy birthday and take me out “because I always took him out for his” this man never cared about my birthday I let him be in my presence one time for my Bday he was extremely late I wasn’t in the mood to go out anymore when he arrived he had the nerve to have a attitude.. I recently had a dream about him & the new supply it’s almost like he’s trying to get to me through my dreams.
So, the dreams are real?😮😢 dreamed of the New supply reaching out to me about the abuse, complaining that he compares her to me and woke up that morning feeling heavy.. I actually got mugged that day and my phone got stolen..hectic!
Mine acted like he was too good for me, and after 7yrs and engaged for a yr, he discarded me when my dear sweet mother passed away! I was at my lowest that I’ve ever been, so that is something I cld never forget and possibly never forgive!! He reached out 2 months ago and I left his message un read!! So I don’t expect to hear from him again since he has wayyyy too much false pride!! Thank you for another amazing video!🙏🙌💛
I love love love all your videos. You give is so much strength and guidance and you are too funny! Thank you from the bottom of my ❤ Judy from Germany 😊
They Definitely KNOW… family and all. I even had the sister to tell me that he said, I was the best thing that ever happened to him. He knew I was the bomb. 😊
Never not human, somewhere along the way perhaps in childhood narc rejected the idea of love and decency! The accepted satan in their life as what they thought was protection for them! but satan has destroyed them and made them evil towards others instead! It's awful for their victims but at the end of the day they destroy themselves by rejecting the one person sent by God in their life that could have enhanced their life tremendously! And so God now has rejected them! Given them over to a retrobate mins with no hope of a return from their hell! Narc is living in hell and wants to bring anyone close to them to hell! Because to hell narc returns!
“They will end up doing more damage when they come worse than the first time “ felt that I thought I was destroyed the first time but that second time put the icing on the cake I knew I had to leave him alone for good
Greetings to you. Thats what I can't understand. Because you let the folks go have the life they said they wanted and they Haye you for it..thats crazy. I'm been healed and over it too. You be telling the naked truth!
MS. TEA ❤YOU BROKE THIS MESSAGE DOWN LIKE A QUEEN WHEN I WALKED AWAY THE 2ND TIME HUNNY THAT THING WENT BATMAN CRAZY REACHING OUT THROUGH FACEBOOK NAWL IM GOOD THE LETTER P STANDS FOR PEACE. PROCESS AND POWER 💯👊 YOU UNDER ESTIMATED WHO I AM ❤ LOVE YOU QUEEN TELSHA
I Praise Yahweh 👏 🙌, the Most High, only true living God, who redeemed and rescued my soul. The last Narccistic situationship that I was in returned about 10 years later, after being put out of my apartment. He was about to become homeless after roommating with another man? that was relocating back to the south. The Narccist asked neighbors if I had someone else, and I truly didn't. The Narccist had heard via a member of his family circle that I was traveling, going on vacations, so he thought he would come back to kill, still and destroy. The devil 😈 is a liar.I am finished with that chapter, in my life, 🙌to God be Glory,I like that NYC, hat on you Sis,you (Rock-in )it 😎🤩😘❤️🤍💜
My Crazy family keeps finding away to mess with me as soon as I let go they feel it and call or plot to contact me. Every single time. It’s scary and definitely spiritual
He knows I figured him out . 10 months of GODS LOVE , peace and blessings. My life is so much better now that I don’t have a nasty, ornery and disloyal loser in my ear everyday. He’s still waiting on me to call him back . 😅😅😅 He’s blocked forevermore. 😂
My ex guy friend narc was simular try put me down, always fussy, tried to control almost everything. When I'd vist him one day a week ( all i could stand) he'd monitor how much toliet paper and both water id use. He was cheap and old so was getting senile. Im 68 but look 50 so he was so jealous. I didnt know he was losing his house was 30,000 behind in payments. In debt and bad credit. Hed drink alcohol everyday but hide it. Well he now asked a lady to marry him fast and she dont know how messed up he is. He cant change so thats going to be a roller-coaster ride of ups and down and arguments. I laugh cause id tell him id never marry or live with him or hed drive me crazy. Was obsessed about me and couldn't control me so i now know how i cause him narcissist injury thank goodness.
Let’s be real! MOST narcissists don’t think anything is wrong with them so getting one into therapy! Good luck! If you get them to go before you get out the therapist is going to be looking at you like you’re the problem! MOST narcissists drive the therapist crazy!? Fact! My conclusion! Leave and find someone else! PERIOD! Not worth the time n effort! The success rate is very low on this!?!?
Lol, I never thought this would happen to my life but yea. And I thought that it was just a myth and it RARELY happens to people. They are super crazy idk how this even happens
Once you let go emotionally & physically stay away- they lose their mind. 😂..
That they do brown eyes
So true😂
Facts I dumped him 😂
Threw his gamblin azz too the curb and didnt look back tee hee😂😂 #AtPeace ❤❤
@@Mia_mia those married fools.. like for reeeeeeeeeeeeeeal girl
He's been blocked for 9 months thus far, so I will never know anything about that backwards walking giraffe 🦒
He was pissed for sure ! He’s been talking about me for 22 years
22 years? wow!
They’re mad because you don’t want them and they don’t have access to you as supply. They don’t have someone to mirror and impress other people by taking on your attributes/pretending to be you in front of other people.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯
Facts
This the one 😂
Omg facts fn weirdo’s
Why have you just deceived my older sister, and the vitriol that has been spewed this week after yesterday I thought she was trying to work things out with me.
This is so TRUE for me. My wife told her family so much bad things about me. I was doing this, doing that. But, when we went to court and I exposed her for all the things that she was doing to me. They couldn't look at me. She definitely has hate for me because I got tired of being used and abused and cheating on during our relationship!
How can they give you want they don't have. They don't love themselves, they don't respect themselves. They need you to pump up their over inflated false self which is insecurity. My cat requires less time and attention. 😮😊
I left the narcissist and last week popped up at my place calling my name outside the window said he has a credit card coming and text him when it get there nope I didn’t respond not one word from me was closing my window and he said bye no reply back closed my window haven’t seen or heard from that clown there is no going back ever.
Mine did the same ..there was no credit card coming for him..he just wanted to come inside the house ..while he was still
With old supply ..liars and disgusting beings !
Burn Those Bridges to the ground and also ppl that deal with them cut off as well. They get info from these ppl knowingly or unknowingly
Lord have mercy,he HATES me to hell and back , he tries so HARD to destroy ME mentally but I’m focused on JESUS CHRIST and ignoring him EVERY DAY and he goes out of his way to do things to get MY attention, I’m no longer interested in ANYTHING that he does, I’m so blessed 😇 that I’m scared 😱 of me and thanking GOD everyday for my PEACE of mind 🙏💕🙏💕🙏💕🙌
I was his trophy piece. He liked the fact that people would complement him on how pretty I am he would even say it constantly. His dad was always saying my son is blessed my son got a beautiful wife my son is blessed.
@ toccarat❤️❤️❤️❤️
Yes same here: ppl wondered how he even got a woman like me- he was so beneath me on all levels - WTF was I thinking. He should’ve cherished the ground I walked on- instead, I got abused and cheated on throughout the
“marriage “…
@@browneyes9507They dog you more because they're very jealous of you. Want to try keep you from knowing your worth and that you're too good for their rotten childish azz
@browneyes9507 wow his friends from work would ask me behind his back like how did he end up with me and I would say that his personality at the time, not knowing his personality was mine because he was mirroring me this whole time, not trying to be funny but my children took after me and I say mine cause since he filed for this divorce and we separated in August he acts like he doesn't have kids, but always saying and telling them he wanna be a better father but hadn't paid a lick of child support or spousal its by the grace of God my bills are be covered it's nobody but him he wanna see me struggle and fail so badly, but it's back fired on him. Same here he was in boxing random on fb went to atl with his single married friend and met a bottle girl at a pool party sent her money and he never heard from her again, he was only fan subscriptions and blacks people meet dating sites.
But when they're done with you it's a whole different story. I learned to take everything they said, good and bad, with a grain of salt. We don't need their validation. What's understood don't need to be said! 😉😁
RESPECT is REAL!!!❤no more ADDICTIONSHIP!!!❤no more ATM'S!!!❤no more TOYS!!!❤ NO MORE NOTHING!!!❤
Yessss...always worse and worse every time you take those hippos with tutus back😂😂😂😂😅😅😅
This even applies to Narcissistic friends.
“Friends”
My ex chose to move forward with the new supply in April instead of coming back. She thought he had more money. Since, I got my head on straight and started focusing on my job. Boy did she bet on the wrong horse...hit a home run and about to make millions over the next few yrs. Suck it narc!!😂😂
Make sure all Avenues of return are welded shut. Include those that knew the both of you. They get info from these folks about you. Slick talking.
@@Dop3D33pQuotes she just got engaged after 4 months.🤪🤣
@@Mjones4949 good riddance.
She shouldn't have even had a choice.
I got away and the hovering is terrible you are telling the truth God be the Glory
Amen
Yesss trophy wife! He had it good with me now he’s a complete bum💯 Wanted to keep me & pick up trash in the street too..
Facts
In the meantime the CHILDREN OF THE narcissist need FAMILY CHURCH!!!
They really love you but they don't know how to accept it or say it. They love you so much that they hate you and resent you for actually needing you. You destroyed their ego and they will never apologize out of pride and entitlement. You are the first person ever in their lives that mirrored them and actually caused them to have to face themselves. You broke that facade that was prepared and enriched their entire lives and you pulled it off within a few minutes during your spiritual awakening. Many of them call me a chosen one, does that feel good,sure it does but only Jesus is the pure and true chosen one. It merely helped me to find who I truly am. I knew but didn't know I was and am an empath. I've changed so much and people are seeing a side that has them confused and that they never thought I would show or become. I have much more to accomplish but I'm highly blessed Jesus has done a huge turn around on me and my life.
What a wonderful welcome!!! 😁
Most wanted - they'll never get you
Most hated - they never got you
Exactly!
A year and a half after the divorce I'm still hated lol. I don't know what I did to him 🤷♀️ he was the one who cheated and wanted out of the marriage to experience other women, but I'm the terrible one?? Haha okay.
Same storyline here…exact same….and he had his family thinking it was all me….I can’t figure out why he hate me and won’t coparent because I divorced him.
The fact I read many comments and it seems many of u are some how still in contact or these individuals know way to much about yall lives and yall about their's. Go live your life. These people shouldn't even be an after thought. Interfering with your own healing.
@@Dop3D33pQuotes I wish it was that easy, I had two kids with him. I'm glad I have them I just wish I would have chosen wiser with the dad. That's why I'm staying single. I still have to hear about him until they're 18 though.
@@ashleykathryn9038 Grey rock look it up to help with interacting (without giving energy n reactions) what they want. Don't have to do it alone if you decide too big up to you. Ask the right questions when learning new people. Speak about empathy,being considerate, love making, do they know about being affectionate. Hard conversations. You'll weed them out. Most importantly speak about God(Yah).
Very typical
I Love the NYC hat on you Ms Tea! ❤ You are Rockin that hat! ❤
I cannot express just how much I LOVE the fact that I am the most wanted, and the most hated! That makes my WHOLE day! ❤
In my book, he's the most ignorant, stupid and down right disgusting! 😅😂😅
I despise him with every ounce of my WHOLE heart! It's true! I cannot stand the freak creep!
DITTO DITTO DITTO 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
I thought that I found a diamond in the rough! But, instead I was the only foolish one to give him a chance. Nobody wanted him, except for me! Almost 13 yrs later I realize why. 🙄🤦🏿♀️
My problem is the ex "NARC" now only has control of me through the children, & she uses them 2 the Extreme. If I call 2 talk 2 the children, she says why are u bothering me, you need 2 leave me alone. When I say, Hey NARC I am only calling 2 talk 2 my kids. Narc says they are not available so quit calling me. Then NARC shows up out of the blue, hey I just brought the kids by 2 see u, but I can't talk them when I call. It's just so exhausting & childish..SMDH
U need to find ways to Grey rock and stop giving her all that validation by saying that stuff to you..chances are she's performing in front of someone or multiple ppl. Stop calling. If u use the excuse about kids then good luck with the mess. Go to court and win your kids or something. Give them their own phones...do something. Stop complaining and find solutions.
@ru-ark2185 Thanks 4 ur advice, it's not complaining. It's just a simple reminder of what I am dealing with. Who can afford 2 b in and out of court every month. I'll just do what every other reasonable dad would do, walk away & say I tried. Just so u know I have given them thier own phones, they magically come up missing or are broken all the time. So I guess look me up when u are older children.
@@akashiccruiser555 OK Brother...misinterpreted as complaining understood. Yea I know how difficult it is dealing with these types. If she's doing anything out of the ordinary gather your evidence...record conversations...etc. use their own tactics against them. Stay Strong 💪
Had a baby with one toi now we suppose to live together forever cause supposedly he needs to be with his son he abandon anyway 😅
Hi Ms. Telsha. I like your hat, it looks nice. I did realize this too. It's a shame how disrespectful the narcissist is. Smh. But at least they can't destroy God's Best and Brightest. God's Most Finest Crystal Star, His Fine China, and His Most Purified Gold who has been tried through the Refiners Fire. His Most Good-looking Eye Candy they could not break or tarnish!✅👑❤️
This narcissist hated me so much,,,,he begged to marry me. Lol
Lol😂😂
😂😂😂 I promise that's bad when you don't have anyone and still don't want them 😂😂 they are horrible how they treat you
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😂😂😂 I left him after I helped him become very very successful and he’s been losing since he lost Me! Heard money is low now and can’t get any quality supply either plus heavily gambling losing and severe alcoholic! Me tho shining like new money 💰! Thx to GOD !!!! And miss T love you for all that you do for ALL of us !!!!!
Never knowing these birds existed, I got involved with a female malignant narcissist. I have always enjoyed helping others. In our three year involvement, I spent a minimum of $12,000.00 on her. At two years in, I started researching her behavior. I spent many hours researching, and determined she was a milignant narcissist. I started making my exit. I told her what she was, bad mistake. She started hovering, burner phone calls, stalking, gang stalking. It’s been almost two years now, she still does all just stated. Fake FB sccounts, calling tree service to cut down a tree. I had the tree cut down two years before I left. And still calls, hovering, she has no shame. I hope she reads this. I’m very happy with my life now, doing great. I know I was a good supply. But no more! I got out alive, never to return to that craziness.
“When you dropped that crow off back in their care “ YESSSSSSS I can finally laugh !! Woah Jesus …thank you always for your videos 🩷🩷
I am still with him but mentally I left him over TEN YEARS ago,I’m waiting for my moment to leave,I’m putting my LIFE in order as I speak 🗣️, patience is the key 🔑 almost GONE, believe that ❤🙏❤🙏😇😇
No one is an addictionship when they are in an abusive relationship. The only one that's addicted is the narcissist because they can't stop the abuse.
Trauma bond is addictive after youve been in the hot and cold, highs and lows cycle waiting for them to be hot and feel the high again
Thanks for shedding your light with us.
Narc tried so many times and you are right they don't come back because they love you or want you. I let him back multiple times and it was worse. Everything was my fault nothing was his fault. I'm cold with it and you're right I am not with anyone else. I LOVE THIS!! "No, no, no, no, no boo boo. Cause when you hoe baby, you don't need a co-pilot. The only pilot you need is Jesus!! AMEN to this!! You let him drive!! Love You Sister. Sooooo True:)
Right you no longer serve a purpose to them 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
❤❤❤facts I never slept with him just nice to him and he is losing his mind because I don’t want him it’s been 3 years 😅
Lmao 🤣
A prayer for protection and strength
"Pray for protection and strength for your day". AMEN
Always be strong somethings no one can take or break all that love you gave and time you cannot get it back but you have a plenty of more to give and some more and more
I just hope they forget about me at some point they keep trying my emails
I dated him for 5 weeks and then blocked him once I recognized the signs. He has been blocked for 3-4 months and his obsession has outlasted the relationship. I do standup comedy locally, and now he has all of a sudden become a comedian and trying to talk to the other comics I’m cool with. His entire set is about me! I know he’s trying to get a reaction out of me. But I couldn’t care less. My concern is whether he’s dangerous or not. My friends say he comes alone sits at the bar (he doesn’t drink) and looks at the door or stares them down hoping they engage with them.
Same here, I have to wonder if mine is dangerous.
Not fair, for women in particular, that we should have to be concerned.
@@nushka1111 ITA! It’s crazy how they just can’t move on. Stunted maturity 🙄. Sending you positive vibes for your safety and protection
Had that backwards walking giraffe call my leasing office around new years, they denied her info, she lost it, security told me about it. I'm 16yrs+ out.
Online Dedication:
💿 Hall & Oats -- ' I can't go for that. '
💯 my current situation. No turning back. New supply getting now getting drunk at parties, coz she is realizing she has been future faked and made a fool of herself and all the flying monkeys, who thought the narc will be happier. These demons were all so jealous of me because I refuse to go back to the abuser. I’m thriving and loving myself everyday with two professional jobs in few months after he discarded me, even though I gave up everything and moved to different country to join the duck.
Mines will Hoover after a few months of ghosting and blocking me, beg for sex, if I give in stupidly I get discarded after 2 weeks or so. If I don’t give it up then you get the mind games and blamed for it all in the end. I can’t stand it that I’m still falling for the games and the abuse
Take your power back. And stop giving him access to you
NO CONTACT
Good God Morning. Giving thanks to the Almighty. I am blessed to open my eyes, move my body and be in my right mind. I believe in patience. God has my back. I will keep faith in HIM. God has never led me astray. I am grateful to be God's child and rejoicing in this new day of grace and mercy. Hallelujah! Amen
He emailed me on my birthday I didn’t reply he said “ I’m bitter “ 😂 he was just calling to say happy birthday and take me out “because I always took him out for his” this man never cared about my birthday I let him be in my presence one time for my Bday he was extremely late I wasn’t in the mood to go out anymore when he arrived he had the nerve to have a attitude.. I recently had a dream about him & the new supply it’s almost like he’s trying to get to me through my dreams.
Tell it sister
All in the dreams with it. That's 💯
So, the dreams are real?😮😢 dreamed of the New supply reaching out to me about the abuse, complaining that he compares her to me and woke up that morning feeling heavy.. I actually got mugged that day and my phone got stolen..hectic!
I m mad at myself, for not seeing this
She's married but I know she's infuriated cause she can't get at me this single dude 😂😂
I love your way of explaining the tactics of these narcissists. You make my heart smile every time,, so thank you for your wisdom 😅.
Ms tea You look so beautiful❤
Mine acted like he was too good for me, and after 7yrs and engaged for a yr, he discarded me when my dear sweet mother passed away! I was at my lowest that I’ve ever been, so that is something I cld never forget and possibly never forgive!! He reached out 2 months ago and I left his message un read!! So I don’t expect to hear from him again since he has wayyyy too much false pride!! Thank you for another amazing video!🙏🙌💛
She tells it like it is!
Stand up and applaud when she enters the room! 👍
I love love love all your videos. You give is so much strength and guidance and you are too funny! Thank you from the bottom of my ❤
Judy from Germany 😊
They Definitely KNOW… family and all. I even had the sister to tell me that he said, I was the best thing that ever happened to him. He knew I was the bomb. 😊
I love your content regarding deranged narcissists. Are they really even human? 🤔 😆 God bless you mightily!!! ❤️
The narc I'm married to is 1% human and 99% demonic 👹👺👿
Never not human, somewhere along the way perhaps in childhood narc rejected the idea of love and decency! The accepted satan in their life as what they thought was protection for them! but satan has destroyed them and made them evil towards others instead! It's awful for their victims but at the end of the day they destroy themselves by rejecting the one person sent by God in their life that could have enhanced their life tremendously! And so God now has rejected them! Given them over to a retrobate mins with no hope of a return from their hell! Narc is living in hell and wants to bring anyone close to them to hell! Because to hell narc returns!
Lololol 🤣😂
I LOVE THIS WOMAN!, ANOTHER HOME RUN T!, YOU BROKE IT DOWN FOR US AGAIIIN! Lol!🤣
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Peace & Blessings!
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Explained my situation to the tee! Love your videos sis. Keep'em coming. 🙌🏿🙏🏿
Thank you God bless you!
You cold with it 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Telsha you cracking me up!
I ❤ u gurl u mastered ur craft and helped me a lot Thk u so much 🌺🥰
“They will end up doing more damage when they come worse than the first time “ felt that I thought I was destroyed the first time but that second time put the icing on the cake I knew I had to leave him alone for good
Greetings to you. Thats what I can't understand. Because you let the folks go have the life they said they wanted and they Haye you for it..thats crazy. I'm been healed and over it too. You be telling the naked truth!
MS. TEA ❤YOU BROKE THIS MESSAGE DOWN LIKE A QUEEN WHEN I WALKED AWAY THE 2ND TIME HUNNY THAT THING WENT BATMAN CRAZY REACHING OUT THROUGH FACEBOOK NAWL IM GOOD THE LETTER P STANDS FOR PEACE. PROCESS AND POWER 💯👊 YOU UNDER ESTIMATED WHO I AM ❤ LOVE YOU QUEEN TELSHA
I Praise Yahweh 👏 🙌, the Most High, only true living God, who redeemed and rescued my soul. The last Narccistic situationship that I was in returned about 10 years later, after being put out of my apartment. He was about to become homeless after roommating with another man? that was relocating back to the south. The Narccist asked neighbors if I had someone else, and I truly didn't. The Narccist had heard via a member of his family circle that I was traveling, going on vacations, so he thought he would come back to kill, still and destroy. The devil 😈 is a liar.I am finished with that chapter, in my life, 🙌to God be Glory,I like that NYC, hat on you Sis,you (Rock-in )it 😎🤩😘❤️🤍💜
My Crazy family keeps finding away to mess with me as soon as I let go they feel it and call or plot to contact me. Every single time. It’s scary and definitely spiritual
THIS video is EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEVERYTHING! I was guided to your channel!
This was RIGHT ON Time!!! I love you soooo much SISTER !!!!GOD really knew what he was doing when he bought you in my Life !!!!!🙏🙏🙏⚔️🪖💯♥️🕊️👸
I hear no lies told in this video 💯
Winter is here..😂😂
Make it, make sense Ms. T! 💯♥️🙌
Thank you ❤
In his anger...he told me who he really was..."i hate you" i was never in Love with you. I kicked him out of my house. 🎉🎉🎉🎉
The new supply is fighting with me she made it like this I want nothing to do with them
If you rocksssss with ya girllll ❤
I went no contact for almost 7 months 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Preach Telisha, that girl knows what she’s talking about❤
Love you!
I been watching you for a while you have been a great help
Thursdays are the best
Thanks
I just adore u! U have made a difference in my life! Thank u for being u. I thank Jesus for u!❤
Ms.Tealsa you glowing so bright, your truly blessed
I love you sister! God bless you
Super twisted birds but we press on and keep them blocked
He knows I figured him out . 10 months of GODS LOVE , peace and blessings. My life is so much better now that I don’t have a nasty, ornery and disloyal loser in my ear everyday. He’s still waiting on me to call him back . 😅😅😅 He’s blocked forevermore. 😂
You are always on point! God bless you! You are saving lives and self-esteem!!!
I am overwhelmed 😩😩😩😩 so much 😭😞😭 sadness and inaness my oh my 😢😢it bitter 😜😜😜😜😩😩😩
The Lord your maker is your husband ( provider and protector).
And that’s FACTS!!
I fake my narcissist out by let her think I still wanted her and took the car I brought from her from job in front of co workers.
My ex guy friend narc was simular try put me down, always fussy, tried to control almost everything. When I'd vist him one day a week ( all i could stand) he'd monitor how much toliet paper and both water id use. He was cheap and old so was getting senile. Im 68 but look 50 so he was so jealous.
I didnt know he was losing his house was 30,000 behind in payments. In debt and bad credit. Hed drink alcohol everyday but hide it.
Well he now asked a lady to marry him fast and she dont know how messed up he is. He cant change so thats going to be a roller-coaster ride of ups and down and arguments.
I laugh cause id tell him id never marry or live with him or hed drive me crazy. Was obsessed about me and couldn't control me so i now know how i cause him narcissist injury thank goodness.
Siiiiiiis this is theee 1 Most hates and wanted at ALL TIMES Stay Safe❤️🏴
Hey everyone, ❤
Love that HAT !!!!!!!!!!
SENDING LOVE AND LIGHT ❤
Another one, thank you ❤🎉❤🎉
Let’s be real! MOST narcissists don’t think anything is wrong with them so getting one into therapy! Good luck! If you get them to go before you get out the therapist is going to be looking at you like you’re the problem! MOST narcissists drive the therapist crazy!? Fact! My conclusion! Leave and find someone else! PERIOD! Not worth the time n effort! The success rate is very low on this!?!?
Yes I've let Jesus take the wheel💯
I love you so much already.. Beautiful and so intuitive❤❤ nothing but love and respect from this Texas Bull
Lol, I never thought this would happen to my life but yea. And I thought that it was just a myth and it RARELY happens to people. They are super crazy idk how this even happens
Haha that was him clutching when you were talking clutches
Hey!! I enjoyed last night!! I had you running on my tv/RUclips and my phone/Facebook so I didn't miss anything incase I had to leave the room. 😂
You are gorgeous T!. Inside and Out.....Thank you so much for your TRUTH!
You are so right
Go Telsha Go Telsha Go Telsha 🎉😅❤
Let go on and hit the like button. Because I don't want know trouble.