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It makes sense to me. On one hand, they are happy go lucky, and attract much the same, because they are not concerned with other peoples emotions, their vibration does not wobble in that respect. On the other hand, they are going to experience Narcissistic wounds, which can by law of attraction, attract more Narcisistic wounds. They can also experience negative emotions and fears during a discard, even though its for different reasons than why the victim feels pain. So I do believe they attract more of that too. We may be concerned during a discard of how we are going to live without someone we love, where the Narcissist will be concerned with losing the old source and obtaining a new one. The narc will also have to paint untrue pictures to mutual friends, and other tiring tasks, to keep people deceived.
Exactly! When they are discarded, it causes a deep injury that's likely to last just long enough for that LOA momentum... ESPECIALLY when they're fueling those negative emotions with revenge and smear campaigns! Thanks for your comment! ❤🙏
@@CommonEgo Ĺaw of attraction works in favor of the good though. So unless someone roots into negative thoughts, loa will snap back into bringing good into your life. The sun shines on the good and evil.
Wow! This is the best explanation I've ever heard and I've listened to over a thousand videos on narcissism trying to make sense of it over the past 5 years. Thank you so much! Makes sense because they typically don't care at all about our feelings, but do immensely about their own. When they are discarded or don't get away with their contemptful acts of revenge or someone calls them to account for missing work or other wrong behaviors, they act like a wounded animal. Makes sense why when I called the police a fourth time in 4 years to establish peace at my home once again, he was finally done. He was so embarrassed because now he said he has a police record and he will never forgive me he says. Well, my name is on those reports, too. I'm not that worried about it although i do feel slightly embarrassed that my neighbors saw all of that. But, I'm ok. He left me no other choice. He is hoovering until he can move into his new home which i helped him get. I had been asking him to leave for over a year and he refused to go since he was living here for almost free. His choice not mine. I only asked him to pay 600 a month for everything and he wouldn't do that even though his paycheck is the same amount as mine For now, he is staying at his friend's place. Funny, he kept complaining he had no place to go, but I knew better. Because he doesn't treat many others this way and he is well- liked and attractive he has plenty of women and some men that like him and would help him. He just doesn't want anyone to know that his girlfriend is done. Previous girlfriends were always doormats. Because of his intense anger I has been asking him to move out for over a year. But, he loved living here for nearly free. It took me calling the police in a peaceful manner to finally make him go. They had been here before because he has threatened suicide many times. I knew they would be kind and helpful as they were the previous times, not arrest anyone and leave quickly. But, he had threatened me saying if I called the police again we were done. So we are done now supposedly. I have been struggling with guilt concerning how I had to get him to leave. I wondered if it would bring bad karma to me. If it was a wicked thing to do, but I felt I had no other choice when he has said he would leave at least 30 times before and never did. He, of course, took a huge narcissistic injury from that and said he can never forgive me. No one has done anything like that to him before he says even though the fights got that bad or worse. And, yes, I know that no one has ever stood up to him. Cue me. Lol. Anyway, I've been binge watching your videos to keep me strong as he hoovers. He, of course, had me believing the fantasy that we might be together forever. Somehow, that got that into my head. You know, the soulmate thing. He was pretty good at future faking but could never attach to just me. Thank you so much for this video as he has been making me feel very guilty about making him leave this way and I felt guilt on my own as well! Your videos are so concise and hit the nail right on the head. How do you do that? Please make more videos on this topic as it is a deep concept. I think those of us who have been narcissistically abused feel a lot of guilt about the wrong words or things we do or feel in response to all of the negative when the narcissist goes on attack. Sorry this is so long. Thank you very much for how help me and all of us with your insightful videos!
If it is possible on your part, live at peace with everyone. Do not avenge yourselves, beloved, but leave room for God’s wrath. For it is written: “Vengeance is Mine; I will repay, says the Lord.” On the contrary, “If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him a drink. For in so doing, you will heap burning coals on his head.”. Heap: Transitive verb. 1a : to throw or lay in a heap : pile or collect in great quantity his sole object was to heap up riches. b : to form or round into a heap heaped the dirt into a mound. c : to form a heap on : load heavily heap the plates with food.
Another area where they can attract negative karma is by the fact that they dislike and resent the victim. They are in a constant state of being irritated by someone they have to pretend they love.
This is very true, but unfortunately, they don't have any bad feelings about their own behavior. It's always the other person's fault, so they had no choice to act in their abusive ways. They do seem to always attract people who make them feel irritated and resentful in the same way... but that basically means any human! 🤣❤
@@Sun_Henry_Connie indeed! Theirs is definitely not a life I envy. Even though it takes a long time for them to feel the pain they inflict, the day-to-day is so often miserable.
quote> ""Another area where they can attract negative karma is by the fact that they dislike and resent the victim. They are in a constant state of being irritated by someone they have to pretend they love"".... I sure hope so, cause what my Narc did to me was worse than killing me! and it's been 10 years and I have not seen him, or even heard anything about how he is doing. so I have been wondering if he has been getting his Karma as he should
They don't escape karma they suffer everyday of their lives. They try to escape accountability of their actions but it always catches up to them. The inner turmoil these people live with is karma. It takes a miserable human being to live to make others miserable. Even when they act happy it is just that an act.
Many narcissists chalk up their karma as 'it is what it is'. They may have their house burn down. Oh well things just happen says the narcissist. Rain falls on the just, and the unjust. When it's all said and done most narcissists end up alone. In the end they are too proud to submit to a higher authority. Eventually they get what's coming to them. Personally I don't wish what's coming to the narcissist to happen. I wish they would change. The thing is many of us showed them there's a better way. In their day of judgement they will have no excuse.
No they won't change because its the same analogy that the same boiling water that hardens an egg softens a potato. So can you ask an egg to change it's nature the same way you can't ask a narcissist to change his. The earlier we accept this the better because a snake remains a snake no matter how you cater to it.
@Victoria Bergman omg can you pls elaborate on it because the covert narc I was in NC with did black magic on me and I was thinking why what was the point of it all? I personally thought it was so that I'm deprived of all happiness and especially new love in my life and I have no other way but to surrender to them.
@Victoria Bergman true dark=devil They get away with it for a certain amount of time. That pact with the devil does not outweigh Gods will. But even the devil answers to God. No man can change a destiny. God does allow them to get to a certain level, what appear to be fun and getting away with things in their eyes. They lose sleep, lose ppl and things...as signs to change. No change, then wham, God steps in show who's boss especially for messing with HIS ppl. They had their many chances to repent... Hell is real
After she discarded me, I was full of anger, and then the desire to seek revenge (which thankfully I never followed through with). After a few months i realized that staying in contact with one another was still keeping all my positive and negative emotions alive. Now that I have been no contact for 7 months now, I've realized that we are still entrapped in the insane cycle of the narcissist even though we don't see them or hear from them, while we are still watching and hoping for karma to take place.
You’re right.. I’m in similar situation, even knowing I can cause good amount of damage I never took revenge or anything like that. But keep hoping that it will strike some day.
And that's where I'M NOT trying to be after that long! I don't want to live in hell after I've moved on from my ex narcissist... I hope you move on too Frank! It's a whole 🌎 out there.. Get you a good piece of it!🧡
You've got to fill up your spare time by talking to and having fun with decent nice people that make you feel good, the less "thinking time" you have the better and in time you'll let go of the attachment to that person, anger and bitternes is corrosive to the container,
People it's only natural to want justice because man is made in the image of the creator. The creator Jehovah God is watching everything and everyone and will exact justice in due time it is a DIVINE law. We all reap what we sow.
Jehovah is the devil. Jesus revealed this when you read the new testament. Just think what Jesus did and compare it to what jehovah did. Jehovah say this eye for an eye which is evil. Eye for an eye meaning for example if someone kill someone that you love you will need to do the same. Jesus tell us to forgive and love one another. We need to rightfully divide the words when we read the bible.
They are already living a miserable life to pretend everyday. And those demons torment them In there sleep when they're alone. It's sad. We 🤗🤗can move forward and experience great happiness and they can't😔
Narcs are constantly reaping karma but they will never admit that it's a punishment There's a Hungarian saying that when you spit on a hooker, she says it's raining. So too the narcissist - they believe that life is full of pain and so they continue to fight for survival. But that's all it is - pure survival, nothing sublime, no lessons, no spirituality. The worst pain, if you believe in some religions, is to be far from Gd. Well that is the narcissist's lot - no connection to the beauty of righteousness, here or in the after life.
True story- together with narcissist for 30 years. In 2017 unbeknownst to me he was having an affair . That whole year he progressively treated me worse and worse. I was so confused and gaslighted, had no idea how someone could turn against you for no apparent reason. I mean it got bad- fast forward to March 2018- he came home from work sick one day- thought he had the flu. For 5 days stayed home sick and was horrible to me. On the sixth day he went back to work. About 5pm I received word he had dropped dead from a heart attack! After his death his friends starting telling me all these details I had not known. Apparently he was planning on discarding me the week he got sick. And I had no idea! The lies and manipulation that were going on around me for that whole previous year were unreal. I’ve been in shock for months. Just now coming out of it. I still can’t believe how it all played out. Karma? I sometimes wonder if he would still be here if he hadn’t gone down the road he did. So many evil intentions.
Very brutal karma Covert narc met malignant female narc after hurting empath... Got trapped and tricked into cutting off all loved ones even his kids, moved away quickly depending on malignant female, giving her all his dough to the point of being broke , lost everything(other women probably bought for him) andddddd being publicly embarrassed because his precious soul mate had another man's child. Oops Now that's karma
@@annebos4634 crazy part is malignant female narc did not like how I gave up covert narc so easily, she started coming after me harddddd desperate for a fight or attention But I'm smarter than that and value my freedom I'll let you know more after I win this case🎉😌🍾
@@unbreakable4650 She was jealous of course and saw you as a threat for her latest conquest: covert narc. Narcs will never really let go of anyone, therefore they cannot imagine or understand that an ex woulnd't want to hoover their ex anymore. If you didn't give him attention and rejected him, she thought that was a manipulation tactic to get him back. She thinks that you are still after him because it's what she would be like if she were in your shoes. They're so unbelievably child like and simple minded and sad!!!
@@unbreakable4650 Or some female narcs just want a spouse for the sake of competing with another woman, and it's not even about the spouse. That's a possibility too
@@annebos4634 ohhhhh makes sense. I've never even bothered to analyze it. I'm too busy with real life important stuff such as closing on my home while the two of them remain hotel hopping smh. I do remember the covert thinking and saying I'm his which I always found weird but I will never be the type to entertain mistreatment and disrespect. So glad I have it in writing helps prove this wasn't some love triangle but 1 control freak one sadistic freak and an empath I refuse to be the next episode of snapped or for my man🤪✨
To be a narcissist is a LIFE LONG CURSE! I've been hurt drastically by one, and still getting over it.. I will heal eventually... Unfortunately... He will not. Who's REALLY losing here.... Him! To go through life being that way and not knowing how to love or be loved has to suck. Does it resonate with them beneath the surface? Don't know... But, hopefully they don't meet a person that will take them out of their pathetic, miserable life. Some people don't like their feelings played with!! I'm trying to heal... Let whatever is meant to happen to him happen?
Their karma doesn’t come because their victims are kept silenced for so long. They blame themselves instead of the narc. They shoulder the burden instead of holding accountable the narc. Once you can live in your power and speak your truth, that’s when their karma comes
Wrong. Their karma comes but we don't get to know about it because narcissists themselves can't figure out it is karma because in order to be able to figure out it is karma you still need to have a certain amount of self awareness which the narcissists suck at. And anyways narcs have this survival mode thing that is they feel they have to fight through life and do whatever it is to survive even if it means doing something inhumane because they see life as a chessboard and on the chessboard there's only one king and that's exactly their mentality. The fear of losing is real every single day they're fighting against something they can't win. The reason this is not apparent is because they are good actors and don't show it outside but tbh it's lonely at the top and narcs are the epitome of it.
I’ve always wondered about this. I seem to be a light worker and I get instant negative karma if I even say something negative. For dark entities, it seems to take twenty to forty years.
I can’t even jokingly tell a LIE or a sarcastic comment without insta-karma or at minimum guilt.... While Cyberstalking prevents my daily activities-cyber abuse COVID and apparently it’s STILL not enough...
Nope. Especially when they are dealing with someone who has been "spiritually awakened / saved." God's punishment will be always at least 10X worse than whatever the narcissist can dish out.
@olafpenner Problem is 99% of the people out there have no idea what "spiritually awakened" really means. Most people just believe the Bible is nothing more than a compilation of books written 2000 years ago. With that said, most people don't even realize that they are eternal spirits (in a temporary physical body, just as the Bible says) made in God's own image (as God is an eternal spirit as the Bible specifically indicates). When you are spiritually awaken, God takes over 100% and punishes the narcissist ten fold, if not more.... God is very very REAL, whether you know it or not....
Aside from their already crappy lives, which I'm not even sure they're aware of, their twisted views don't really seem to allow karma to affect them. They project, blame, etc. They BELIEVE it's everyone else's fault. Karma gets them probably but they learn nothing from it and continue abusing. No justice there. Plus, there's ALWAYS someone who enables and takes pity on them. Homeless? Here buddy, live with me. Jobless? That's cool. Etc.
There’s no escaping your karmic lessons. I made some mistakes in my life and became spiritual, really repented and have been healing and karma still came for me without mercy. Definitely used it all as lessons for the best but karma still comes.
I don't actually believe in karma myself, and have always had the belief that people like narcissists and sociopaths seem to get away and dodge karma for an extremely long time. It was only when someone told me this, that we all live with our own karma DAILY, I realized how the former narcissists in my life must be living out their own loneliness and desperation in constantly changing supply sources. The accumulation of 'bad scores' and feuds with others, including their former supply sources and exes and friends and business associates, is enough to do them in eventually.
They do seem to live a charmed life. My narc ex gets away with everything. Even charmed the IRS out of an audit. He has everything handed to him on a silver platter. Seems to be happy as a clam. Not having empathy relieves them of any guilt or emotion.
My narc called everyone a degenerate. We went to the same school. After so many years, breaking rules, and breaking Into computers, he thought he wouldn't get caught. He was caught in a teen porn sting. Went to prison. Had to register as a sex offender for life. On Probation til 2025. Got want he deserved. I feel bad for those kids and a missing teenage girl. I feel nothing for him.
I NEEDED to see this video in order to have things make sense for me bc it's been driving me mad off and on! This has been a day of revelation for me and this video was definitely icing on the cake!
YES! law of attraction never fails, especially when they don’t understand it. My narc ex posted revenge porn and the karma has already been getting to him because he’s been slandering my character online for years after I had NO contact with him. I got engaged and he was triggered and posted it. So since that’s illegal that’s definitely karma!
After being badly abused by my narcissistic ex who then joined up with a Narcissistic sociopath other ex. I'm traumatized. Pure trauma. I am struggling daily with the pain. They got me fired,made me lose friends, and job opportunities,even apartments. They placed hidden camera in my home, and uploaded it and live streamed my daily life to the internet for perverts to watch. Police don't do much until they actually stab or shoot you. I can't seem to stop being angry. Really angry. I have even been called crazy and put in a psych ward!! The injustice! I can't seem to heal from each trauma BC it's still going on! I'm so deeply saddened. They take great pleasure in threatening me and caused me to actually snap a few times. I'm devastated. If anyone can offer any words of comfort,I'd be so happy. I have found that they use you as a psychological dumping ground. They project everything they do onto you. Now I'm gray rocking them. So exhausting.
This is for those dealing with a narcissist. As a spiritual human, I’ve learned to let guilt and shame go. I may make mistake and it will teach me, instead of having a hurtful situation come afterwards, and running away, I face it . I feel it, and give it to Gaia to repurpose as she sees fit. This has helped my family with karma and how the truth always comes out. Be patient, and stay as positive as possible. Much love family..blessed be
They seem happy. Real happiness? Not sure whether they can feel. They are not stressed about the relationship for sure. Cannot feel that. They do not care, cannot care, lack empathy. Not interested in you for sure, no real concern for sure. They stick to their comfort zone that is painfree, real emotion free, empathy free, thought free as far as you are concerned. What else?
Even their comoft zones kill them slowly. Drugs Alcohol Promiscuity Whatever else that's bad. They still have to account for the destruction that they cause on people.
I've been a narcissist for more than 5 years now... I'm 17. I am now getting karma for it. Thank you everyone for sharing with me how it feels to live under a narcissist, me.
Did you self diagnose? It's too early to call yourself a narcissist. Every teen and young child has some narcissistic tendency because they are still developing and trying to shape their identity. If you're past 25 y/o, then you can determine if you're still a narcissist or not. You're probably not a narcissist, and you shouldn't label yourself with that too soon.
I loved it Christina.....thank u so much..I am an ardent believer of Karma and the law of attraction but never co-related the two.....u described it really well! So grateful.....🙏 I got closure about my ex's behaviour but always thought about when she would meet her Karmic load...but now I won't wonder anymore....thanks thanks thanks!!
I think the big karma bang for the narcs only really hits once the subconcious is ready to evolve past narcissism- so that may take a bunch of incarnations...
Hi - thanks for your insight into Narcissist behaviour - been an eye opener. It is indeed a world of many things including angels and demons. Regarding demons ( negative) - can Karma be manipulated? I say this on the structure of how the planet seems to work. Like a pyramid with the hidden hands at the top and the masses at the bottom. Through a drip feed of manipulation from the top, humanity can be steered in any direction. Slowly like a tree growing ( chance is happening but it happens so slowly we don't notice.) We all have to sell ourselves a bit to sit within the structure. Eg I have to go to work and rules dictate I have to do it in a certain way. We use the word business to justify bad behaviour.We do things that are Possibly not the best for the customer but best for the company. My bosses ( generally) have had narcissistic tendencies and they will do what is told from above without question - that's how you get on in this system. So through the need for food / house / car / family / bills etc I sell myself to the system. So does Karma rise through the chain like litmus paper or does the buck stop with me! Has karma been manipulated? It seems that the Evil of this world runs amok and has done so for avery long time. My belief is that this planet ( realm ) is designed to test the light that exists in all of us - it must be on a negative ( evil) spectrum to test your internal truths and you must be immersed in it to know thyself.
Don't wait or waist your energy on waiting for it, just live your life the best you can, don't waist your time or energy thinking about them, period,trust one thing karma has there address.
Yep seems like the Internet and the abused sites seem to teach a How to manual.... mine 26 + years...:( bout to have to go back into and drown bca COVID is also an abusers playground.... and don’t get me started on cyber abuse!!
Exactly, I feel pain, shame and guilt too much after hurting narcissists. And people don't know how much I've been destroyed by them before that and they all complained me. They don't even communicate with me anymore because narcissists attracted them by talking them as if I'm lower than them. The narcissists destroyed me again from public bully. My reputation and my family's reputation has gone down now. I had to lose the person I love as well because of them.
That makes total sense that's why they ate narcs because they dodge stuff and make you pay for it but once they are without supply they cant dodge as much because they cant direct the karma to you
They have awful energy inside them and they reflect it slso they live by it .. maybe it doesn't bother them .. but from other hand they have not even taste love and it's energy .. I think this is also their bad karma Thsnk you dear for another good lesson ♡
Interestingly enough, there are many lessons we can learn from narcissists! When faced with such contrast, we can clearly see what we want more (and less) of 🙂
I have always prayed for karma for my Narc Ex for all that he and his family did to me. But I realized, their very existence is karma itself. I couldnt possibly fathom how sad and miserable their life is on a daily basis for always needing to have validation from other people, for needing to manipulate or use other people to get whatever they wanted at the moment like money or food or shelter (since they don't want to stay in their own parent's house; from all the chaos thats also consistently going on in it). For needing to lovebomb different girls to get the love and attention they needed. And also a house they don't need to pay rent/food/electricity cost whilst staying "as their partner", for claiming entitlement for the free things in life. For always having to lie, lie by omission and by gaslighting people to puff up their own image that they are far superior (but its all lies) to find supplies that will look up to them and befriend them unknowing the their true nature. That after befriending people, they open up the doors for them to ask them for favors (i.e asking money) by telling their sob stories (which is mostly untrue because this is one sided. other people do not know that they caused the failure of their own past relationships by being a pathological liars and having lack of empathy). Its like living a cursed life, living like this everyday. Its exhausting. I feel so sad about their child that they do supervisory negligence. Meaning, leaving their own child on another person's home saying that he will only buy something and return quickly. But in truth, returning after several hours has past and consent from the house owner was not given. Then doing this repeatedly, so he could either go out hang out with the boys to drink or play sports with, or go out have sexual canoodling with a girl. While his child is left with a neighboring home "to play with the neighbor's kids". Smh that the narcisisst do not see any wrong with his behaviour. The neighbor is not obligated to care for, baby sit and feed his child several hours just because theyre friends. The Narc are so thick faced that they will say/do everything to avoid accountability for every wrong actions/decisions/behavior they did under any circumstances at any given time. I just think to myself that he will never ever change no matter who he meets in life. As someone who never ever thinks he has done anything wrong, will ever change. Who has avoided all accountability for himself to be a better person. A person like this will always have history repeat itself. Endless form of Love bombing, devaluing, gaslighting, blame shifting, character assassination, hoovering and back to the beginning. For anyone reading this, I know how exhausting your life has been. How your life has spiraled down to the bottom from all the abuses that you encountered. Your pain is valid. What you saw is true. Do not ever believe the narcissist that what you saw/heard is your hallucination. Stand up. Stand strong. This is a fight that you are not alone. Alot of us experienced the same thing. And I will always voice out my pain and experiences. We will all be able to go through this and find peace in our future. Lets trust ourselves and keep fighting for our happiness.
My narc discarded me for a younger guy which was appalling considering that he's even younger than both my younger brothers whom she offended described as "babies"... she rubbed it in my face even while we're still living together. Talking on phone with him in the same room and the same bed we shared for 10 years. She's 37, her son in which we both raised since he was 2 yrs old is 15 and the "b/f" is 23...
What i think is,narcs evolve faster than regular/normal people due to their lots of experiences (cycles) getting their karma repeatedly and it made them stronger and stronger,because the more they been thru to it,the more they get immune from it.so i think being a narc is part of human character that will keep expanding overtime.just like theres more stupi*d bad people than good people nowadays.well im a victim of a narc girl anyway.moving on...
@ Jack Collin I believe that when we face negative experiences, we learn how to behave better and become better people. But narcissists learn how to lie better, or how to prevent disclosing their flaws. They don't want to improve themselves.
You can't be in agreement with learning bad from having it done to you and then going about life doing the same bad things to others. Wheres the progression and evolution of our species? consciousness, goodness, compassion, honesty, empathy and most of all Love...if we all remained the way NARCs behaved, then we would be swinging from trees, running in packs or eating in troops. Majority of us have stepped away from mere animals, but NARCs can't understand human emotions period ! They see us live it and they can't understand whats wrong with us ...just like how we wonder what wrong with them. Its possible that up bringing is the reason behind how we all behave. If anything, Narcs are yet to evolve and struggle with the concept. Just my opinion anyways.
I'm not clear as to why so many are so obsessed with someone getting their bad Karma. Even good people end up with terrible circumstances, no fault of their own. What is it when someone sits around wishing hate and all they want to do is live to know they got hit hard? I stayed until I understood what I was dealing with, he blindsided with a discard. I had to ask, what the hell was that? Yes it hurts and there are repercussions from having allowed this person so deeply into my life. But I had no idea what a narcissist was and what they do. Once I realized I walked and I never allowed him to contact me again. I know that got to him. I stripped his control and ruined his plan. He actually thought he could just speak to me. No, I have never said one single word to him, not one. I cut him off, permanently. All he's going to do is go find a new person to prey upon so he can get his supply and then he'll do the same thing to them. I'd rather heal and move on than waste time. it's my time to heal and move on. Not waste it one him.
I've noticed it's like kids with toy envy. Allow me to elaborate for a sec. If you have young kids you will see them fighting over a toy like a ball. Perhaps there is a blue and red ball. Kid "A" has the red ball and is having fun bouncing it around, kid "B" sees them and wants the red ball even though they have the same exact ball just a different color but thinks the red ball is more fun because the kid "A" is having a blast and they are bored with stupid old blue ball. Jealousy, grabbing, whining and fighting ensues as always unless they have parents who can help them resolve their own problems and not plea to authority every time. Narcs/BPD folks had shitty parents and do this with people's lives. Person "A" is having a great and fun life and they want to be a part of it. Stupid old person "B" is boring now even though X amount of time ago they were the cat's pajamas and all they wanted in life. Betrayal happens once "A" is lured in until X amount of time goes by and here comes person "C" with their new bouncy red ball of life that they want to be a part of...and on and on. The game always ends. They will not be able to lure people in anymore and there they are lonely with no ball, no life, no real friends or family that trust them. Karma sets in and hopefully you are long gone to see the ramifications of all their betrayals and mistakes. Take your ball and go home cause your ball is badass and should be shared with others who get it. Thanks for your time and much love. Great vid.
@@thendebele it's been a minute since I wrote this and a lot has changed for the better. I'll add one thing in hindsight, narcs do nasty stuff on porpoise and cant really change, where as bpd's just can't help themselves. They're just leaves in the wind to their impulses and will typically end up wet in the gutter unless they get serious help. Hope yalls are doing well.
@@thebealers2102 I am suffering ... Brutal discard and I'm just on week four... NC is in place, but I constantly wonder how I could have been written off after 1.5 years of what I thought was genuine love... Trying to break the trauma bond so I stop wanting her back
Came here to say this is not accurate at least in my case. We have to tolerate a narc for another 5 years. I live my amazing and blessed life and the envious narc stays miserable. Now they’re experiencing bad karma ten fold after burning bridges and treat ppl bad for years and I relish in that. I get great satisfaction in knowing they want what I have- all while they remain completely irrelevant to me. In my world, the narc is an ego boost to me daily
This is a great esoteric explanation as to why strategies devised by 4chan's /pol/ work so effectively against the narcissism-driven main stream. They create a situation in which not only can these narcissists receive narcissistic injury, but in such a way that it activates their NPC programming so passionately, that it allows for enough time to snowball and amplify into an end result that has a larger impact.
My ex had a dog eat dog view. When his friends would do something bad I would say they are going to get their karma. He would say everyone gets their karma. Like it didn't matter. Well let's say my narc was tragically killed while dating 2 new women behind my back. One of the ladies ex boyfriend killed him.
Some of them age fast because they don't take care of themselves properly and often have loads of drug/alcohol/tabacco/addiction problems, don't like to sleep (sleeping brings people closer back to themselves but narcs rather get their energy from other people than from their own body's and souls ability to replenish itself. )They go for quick fixes, like make-up that looks beautiful in an instant but damages their skin on the long run, too much solarium, hormones in the gym etc.
Yeah . Karma isn’t going to make them have a car accident . It may contribute to one though . If they have to deal mentally which they do in some terms it affects thier daily life . Each partner is a bigger dumpster fire . Thier family and friends start to see who they are also . All around of them thier affects can be noticed . They notice it , and feel it . The narcissistic injury is easy because they are always hiding something .
A ex narcissist of mine got his quicker than most narcissists 3 days before his 28th birthday only person in the vehicle to die hitting a oil truck being chased and shot a over someone else's debt happened out of nowhere after a year no contact. The catch I was devastated I was Inlove with him even after moving on with my life my son was a month old and it killed me. I still dream and grieve him over 6 months later. I got a front row seat on social media and the media it was like a movie didn't feel real it still hasn't fully sunk in.
Above all, Love Almighty GOD with all your being, heart and soul. Love everyone else as you would love yourself. If everyone did this, no more problems would exist between people. Be above the battle, seek TRUTH in these times of deciet.
So here's a balance question? If the prophecy about the one (Anakin Skywalker) who was to bring "BALANCE TO THE FORCE" - was true - then his destiny was cast in stone to become Darth Vader - because there were about 1000 Jedi to 1 Sith, causing an imbalance of too much good and not enough evil. And (I think) Senator Palpatine said that the Jedi and the Jedi council have become a law unto their own! Just a thought which brings to mind the following idea - in the late 1800's - 1980's there was a heavy formalised religious morality that was predominant across the globe, so maybe a century of stamped upon or cookie cutter or clone type morality - and maybe the lack of perceived freedom of choice, or being outcast if individualistic choices were persued - could have caused a shift in balance, whereby many of these hidden or undetected / undetectable type personality disorders developed as secretive alters - then passed on and evolving from generation to generation - evolving into more serious grades - till we have the personality disorders that we have today? A "NATURAL EVOLUTIONARY RESPONSE" to too much Love, too much empathy, too much goodness - causing spiritual, emotional, mental and physical experiential imbalance. So narcissism, sociopathy, psychopathy, and other similar disorders evolved to restore balance to the force? Also I want to reiterate my point of view - I pity these people, I feel nothing but disdain for my ex-wife, I do however know ... In her case and probably most other individuals with severe personality disorders, they didn't choose this either, most if them had the wrong operating system (NPD-O/S) installed straight after birth throughout their primary nurture and developmental ages. And once installed it's near impossible to remove and replace with the standard recommended operating system (HUMAN-O/S). They didn't choose it .... it was thrust upon them, remember we're born mostly a blank slate - some programming from diet, physiology, genetic, pre-natal audio and sensory perception entered our prenatal consciousness - but born nearly a blank slate and open and receptive to receive our construct modules - most of your thinking, behaviors, social perception, cultural identity, personal identity etc ... Are construct modules installed age 0 - 6? Then most of the personality is formed? [Please correct me if I'm wrong] - so do not feel hate or wish severe ill will on these people. Rather feel pity, sadness that a potentially beautiful human was programmed with a malignant monster operating system or a human O/S infected with viruses. But my belief is - if possible - expose them as far as possible so that they cannot corrupt others going forward - protect any children in or under their care - so that they can't copy their broken code and replicate.
Hi ... I really enjoy learning more and more about the Narcissist, and I think...I am my husband's karma, weird I know..but he hits many of the issues you have stated and I do not take his crap, he is in therapy and has a counselor/caseworker, so he is getting help, but he was a total control freak, sex for control, me me me I I I... all of that but he has really been making an effort to be a better person, I think he has the tendency and not a true narcissist if that makes sense, is that possible, we have been together for 12 years and I have to say the first 4 yrs was touch and go, now things are much better although we do have that flair up once in a while, as he does the .. feeding? And when these things start to happen as I know the signs now, I call him on it and don't back down until he stops, he tells me, for example, I am sorry, I do not know what to do to make you feel better (when I am sick) so I tell him what I want and need and he makes a visible effort to be more empathic, He doesn't ignore me when I am sick anymore, so I do see a lot of improvements in his ...issues, also does this happen with a narcissist?
Can you give us tips and tricks on how to trigger the narcissist to perform the discard? Then give us tips on how to go through with the discards and have the narcissist remove themselves from our life, instead of trying to remove them from our lives?
What if the narc starts going to church with the old supply? He's acting like he's all holy. Meanwhile he acted so mean to me. It seems so fake. I believe that God sees the bad he has done. I won't judge a person's heart. I'll let God determine what lesson he needs. I learned mine, to respect myself, be stronger, stay away from narcs, and set boundaries.
Am I a narcissist? I have no family (all narcs), no friends (all narcs or bpd or sociopaths) After leaving a man who was convinced he was the nice guy and perfect, my house burned down, my phone and purse was stolen, my bike was stolen, then borrowed another bike and that too was stolen again, I was kicked out of my hotel during quarantine and had to sleep in the freezing cold for days, I was so hungry I stole a mans burger he left unattended and I felt so bad. Growing up my mother starved me, scarred me psychologically and my dad beat me and possibly sexually abused me. I was raped by a gang of boys by age 8 but kept quiet because my parents beat me for being whiney....because I came home bloody and crying all the time...so they blamed me. I was told how women are cursed in Christianity and my mother kept cursing me daily. Literally hoping I would become cursed. I wonder why I have so much bad luck and why the law of attraction doesn't work for me. Even when I need it most.
Just from reading the fact that you felt bad for taking the mans burger shows you aren’t a narcissist... narcissist do not feel!!!! U felt bad bc u know it was wrong to take it!
roozbeh badii hmm. How do you know? Or how did you come to that conclusion. If I am one I want a cure. Narcissists are deeply empty and suffer great pain under their false persona
Accidental Warrior you are describing the premise. The genetics, the cause, the delusions, and the sequela of being a narcissist. You are also lying about feeling bad of taking that burger, you didn’t feel bad. You are playing professional victim. There is no cure for personality disorders as of today. But your personality does not determine your character. You have a choice is choosing your actions. You can choose not to do evil even though you are a narcissist. Also, you have left out everything you have done that brought you the karma of your house burning down. The man you left was likely a very nice guy, but you abused him and discarded him after you had depleted the monetary or somatic supply.
Being unable to form a real, lasting bond with anther human being and needing validation from others to feel good about themselves in karma enough. It's a sad existence.
I like the snowball analogy! I know someone who got one major injury from a broken relationship they were trying to hard to control, then as a result they got sloppy (or simply too desperate for their own good) with a work thing and got exposed. But ultimately I think how long it takes to see karma depends on how intelligent and cool-headed this narc is; the easier it is for them to lose their cool, often due to being surprised as a result of their own miscalculations, the sooner they will expose themselves.
I just let it go right now I wanted my Covert Narcissist to feel the pain when she discarded me and Ghosted me I just let it go I have had no contact since October 26 I just released it thank you for your Help great Video
I think your focus can only be ending your negative karmic cycle with the narc. Get the hell out of there. I’m much healthier, I’m not consumed by this thought, but I definitely want my ex to get wants coming to her. She tried so hard to keep me around so she could keep her happy family appearance up. Fuck that. She was devaluing me and threatened discard daily just to do that. The bad karma is always there. Narcs are miserable on the inside. They feed off people with positive karma, which makes them feel like they have it.
The Narc’s like everyone else face the consequences of their actions. The main thing about Karma is CARE? What do you care about? Don’t worry about the Narc’s karmic outcomes, such is the universe that you wouldn’t see it anyway. We are our own light in our lives. The Narc has to live with themselves! The holy trinity of karma is thoughts, emotions, actions. The Narc’s thoughts are with one care in mind- egoic hedonistic pleasure.Reality becomes a deluded schizophrenic game of manipulation of people and events for this “supply”. They are stuck in the Reptilian brain (R complex)- fight or flight. They possess no emotional intelligence (limbic system) and their higher thought logic and reasoning has atrophied due to their own intellectual laziness and not wanting to put in the effort of introspection and self evaluation that all conscious people seeking growth and wisdom do. Studies show long term Narc’s associated with reduced frontal cortex thickness and functionality in the brain where social acceptance controls and empathy processes occur. They are quite literally brain damaged! Garbage thoughts + emotions of an unsubmitted will to any higher authority than their ego weds to create garbage actions which lead to garbage karmic consequences. They are metaphorically Sisyphus of Ancient Greek mythology- condemned to recurring hell and the never ending task of rolling a huge boulder to the hilltop just to see it roll down.. and start over again. They seek that which they will never find.. that’s the start of their karma
I wonder if by staying silent is us keeping them from karma. Now I'm very much distanced emotionally and I don't say his name but every once in a awhile, I'll post about my narcissistic relationship, my discard, how he held control etc, basically their techniques and why they do it, But alot of ppl on my social knows the ex I'm speaking of... I'm sure he goes thru his tough times. Must suck feeling empty and pretending yr in love keeping up appearances all the time...
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It makes sense to me. On one hand, they are happy go lucky, and attract much the same, because they are not concerned with other peoples emotions, their vibration does not wobble in that respect.
On the other hand, they are going to experience Narcissistic wounds, which can by law of attraction, attract more Narcisistic wounds.
They can also experience negative emotions and fears during a discard, even though its for different reasons than why the victim feels pain.
So I do believe they attract more of that too.
We may be concerned during a discard of how we are going to live without someone we love, where the Narcissist will be concerned with losing the old source and obtaining a new one. The narc will also have to paint untrue pictures to mutual friends, and other tiring tasks, to keep people deceived.
Exactly! When they are discarded, it causes a deep injury that's likely to last just long enough for that LOA momentum... ESPECIALLY when they're fueling those negative emotions with revenge and smear campaigns! Thanks for your comment! ❤🙏
@@CommonEgo Ĺaw of attraction works in favor of the good though. So unless someone roots into negative thoughts, loa will snap back into bringing good into your life. The sun shines on the good and evil.
@@Sun_Henry_Connie And thank goodness for that, right? That's another layer of why it takes so long for the narc's karma to come through.
Wow! This is the best explanation I've ever heard and I've listened to over a thousand videos on narcissism trying to make sense of it over the past 5 years. Thank you so much!
Makes sense because they typically don't care at all about our feelings, but do immensely about their own.
When they are discarded or don't get away with their contemptful acts of revenge or someone calls them to account for missing work or other wrong behaviors, they act like a wounded animal.
Makes sense why when I called the police a fourth time in 4 years to establish peace at my home once again, he was finally done. He was so embarrassed because now he said he has a police record and he will never forgive me he says. Well, my name is on those reports, too. I'm not that worried about it although i do feel slightly embarrassed that my neighbors saw all of that. But, I'm ok. He left me no other choice.
He is hoovering until he can move into his new home which i helped him get. I had been asking him to leave for over a year and he refused to go since he was living here for almost free. His choice not mine. I only asked him to pay 600 a month for everything and he wouldn't do that even though his paycheck is the same amount as mine
For now, he is staying at his friend's place. Funny, he kept complaining he had no place to go, but I knew better. Because he doesn't treat many others this way and he is well- liked and attractive he has plenty of women and some men that like him and would help him. He just doesn't want anyone to know that his girlfriend is done. Previous girlfriends were always doormats.
Because of his intense anger I has been asking him to move out for over a year. But, he loved living here for nearly free. It took me calling the police in a peaceful manner to finally make him go. They had been here before because he has threatened suicide many times. I knew they would be kind and helpful as they were the previous times, not arrest anyone and leave quickly. But, he had threatened me saying if I called the police again we were done. So we are done now supposedly.
I have been struggling with guilt concerning how I had to get him to leave. I wondered if it would bring bad karma to me. If it was a wicked thing to do, but I felt I had no other choice when he has said he would leave at least 30 times before and never did.
He, of course, took a huge narcissistic injury from that and said he can never forgive me. No one has done anything like that to him before he says even though the fights got that bad or worse. And, yes, I know that no one has ever stood up to him. Cue me. Lol.
Anyway, I've been binge watching your videos to keep me strong as he hoovers. He, of course, had me believing the fantasy that we might be together forever. Somehow, that got that into my head. You know, the soulmate thing. He was pretty good at future faking but could never attach to just me.
Thank you so much for this video as he has been making me feel very guilty about making him leave this way and I felt guilt on my own as well! Your videos are so concise and hit the nail right on the head. How do you do that?
Please make more videos on this topic as it is a deep concept. I think those of us who have been narcissistically abused feel a lot of guilt about the wrong words or things we do or feel in response to all of the negative when the narcissist goes on attack.
Sorry this is so long. Thank you very much for how help me and all of us with your insightful videos!
Vengeance is mine says the Lord. Don't worry about the abuser "getting his karma". Take care of you.
I need to remind myself this often
If it is possible on your part, live at peace with everyone. Do not avenge yourselves, beloved, but leave room for God’s wrath. For it is written: “Vengeance is Mine; I will repay, says the Lord.” On the contrary, “If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him a drink. For in so doing, you will heap burning coals on his head.”.
Heap: Transitive verb. 1a : to throw or lay in a heap : pile or collect in great quantity his sole object was to heap up riches. b : to form or round into a heap heaped the dirt into a mound. c : to form a heap on : load heavily heap the plates with food.
Amen. well said
Give it to Creator! Exactly!!!
Couldn’t agree more.
Another area where they can attract negative karma is by the fact that they dislike and resent the victim. They are in a constant state of being irritated by someone they have to pretend they love.
This is very true, but unfortunately, they don't have any bad feelings about their own behavior. It's always the other person's fault, so they had no choice to act in their abusive ways. They do seem to always attract people who make them feel irritated and resentful in the same way... but that basically means any human! 🤣❤
@@CommonEgo Yes, because irritation attracts irritation.
@@Sun_Henry_Connie indeed! Theirs is definitely not a life I envy. Even though it takes a long time for them to feel the pain they inflict, the day-to-day is so often miserable.
They are also constantly irritated and very jealous of any past relationships they had with people that have moved on.
quote> ""Another area where they can attract negative karma is by the fact that they dislike and resent the victim. They are in a constant state of being irritated by someone they have to pretend they love""....
I sure hope so, cause what my Narc did to me was worse than killing me! and it's been 10 years and I have not seen him, or even heard anything about how he is doing. so I have been wondering if he has been getting his Karma as he should
They don't escape karma they suffer everyday of their lives. They try to escape accountability of their actions but it always catches up to them. The inner turmoil these people live with is karma. It takes a miserable human being to live to make others miserable. Even when they act happy it is just that an act.
Good point!
@@ripleythecat2944 we need to talk 1 on 1.
But i never see him sad he is happy
They get their karma every day...because we see right through them...they have nothing but buloney and drama In there life !
Many narcissists chalk up their karma as 'it is what it is'. They may have their house burn down. Oh well things just happen says the narcissist. Rain falls on the just, and the unjust. When it's all said and done most narcissists end up alone. In the end they are too proud to submit to a higher authority. Eventually they get what's coming to them. Personally I don't wish what's coming to the narcissist to happen. I wish they would change. The thing is many of us showed them there's a better way. In their day of judgement they will have no excuse.
I wish they would change too 🙏❤
No they won't change because its the same analogy that the same boiling water that hardens an egg softens a potato. So can you ask an egg to change it's nature the same way you can't ask a narcissist to change his. The earlier we accept this the better because a snake remains a snake no matter how you cater to it.
@Victoria Bergman omg can you pls elaborate on it because the covert narc I was in NC with did black magic on me and I was thinking why what was the point of it all? I personally thought it was so that I'm deprived of all happiness and especially new love in my life and I have no other way but to surrender to them.
@Victoria Bergman true dark=devil They get away with it for a certain amount of time. That pact with the devil does not outweigh Gods will. But even the devil answers to God. No man can change a destiny. God does allow them to get to a certain level, what appear to be fun and getting away with things in their eyes. They lose sleep, lose ppl and things...as signs to change. No change, then wham, God steps in show who's boss especially for messing with HIS ppl. They had their many chances to repent...
Hell is real
So...logically& beautifully saidd
After she discarded me, I was full of anger, and then the desire to seek revenge (which thankfully I never followed through with). After a few months i realized that staying in contact with one another was still keeping all my positive and negative emotions alive. Now that I have been no contact for 7 months now, I've realized that we are still entrapped in the insane cycle of the narcissist even though we don't see them or hear from them, while we are still watching and hoping for karma to take place.
You’re right.. I’m in similar situation, even knowing I can cause good amount of damage I never took revenge or anything like that. But keep hoping that it will strike some day.
You just have to let it go. You have to forgive the narc not for their sake but for yourself. You'll slowly become more free.
And that's where I'M NOT trying to be after that long! I don't want to live in hell after I've moved on from my ex narcissist... I hope you move on too Frank! It's a whole 🌎 out there.. Get you a good piece of it!🧡
Never try to forget or u will fall back into the arms of another narcissist.
You've got to fill up your spare time by talking to and having fun with decent nice people that make you feel good, the less "thinking time" you have the better and in time you'll let go of the attachment to that person, anger and bitternes is corrosive to the container,
People it's only natural to want justice because man is made in the image of the creator. The creator Jehovah God is watching everything and everyone and will exact justice in due time it is a DIVINE law. We all reap what we sow.
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Jehovah is the devil. Jesus revealed this when you read the new testament. Just think what Jesus did and compare it to what jehovah did. Jehovah say this eye for an eye which is evil. Eye for an eye meaning for example if someone kill someone that you love you will need to do the same. Jesus tell us to forgive and love one another. We need to rightfully divide the words when we read the bible.
Their repobated minds may reject God but He will make Himself know to the like He did with Saul.
Exactly sis. Jehovah plays no games. Especially w his worshippers.
Christina: Please keep making videos. Your words are so comforting!
They are already living a miserable life to pretend everyday. And those demons torment them In there sleep when they're alone. It's sad.
We 🤗🤗can move forward and experience great happiness and they can't😔
so true, the one I dated always had nightmares
@R J MY EX NARC HAS NIGHTMARES ALMOST EVERY NIGHT!!
Likely also demon possessed as well.
I really wish she would seek Jesus.
I do still pray for her
Narcs are constantly reaping karma but they will never admit that it's a punishment
There's a Hungarian saying that when you spit on a hooker, she says it's raining. So too the narcissist - they believe that life is full of pain and so they continue to fight for survival. But that's all it is - pure survival, nothing sublime, no lessons, no spirituality. The worst pain, if you believe in some religions, is to be far from Gd. Well that is the narcissist's lot - no connection to the beauty of righteousness, here or in the after life.
Love the comment... But I'm concerned that Hungarians not regard their hookers highly.. 🤣🤣🤣
I'm concerned
True story- together with narcissist for 30 years. In 2017 unbeknownst to me he was having an affair . That whole year he progressively treated me worse and worse. I was so confused and gaslighted, had no idea how someone could turn against you for no apparent reason. I mean it got bad- fast forward to March 2018- he came home from work sick one day- thought he had the flu. For 5 days stayed home sick and was horrible to me. On the sixth day he went back to work. About 5pm I received word he had dropped dead from a heart attack! After his death his friends starting telling me all these details I had not known. Apparently he was planning on discarding me the week he got sick. And I had no idea! The lies and manipulation that were going on around me for that whole previous year were unreal. I’ve been in shock for months. Just now coming out of it. I still can’t believe how it all played out. Karma? I sometimes wonder if he would still be here if he hadn’t gone down the road he did. So many evil intentions.
Very brutal karma
Covert narc met malignant female narc after hurting empath...
Got trapped and tricked into cutting off all loved ones even his kids, moved away quickly depending on malignant female, giving her all his dough to the point of being broke , lost everything(other women probably bought for him) andddddd being publicly embarrassed because his precious soul mate had another man's child.
Oops
Now that's karma
LOVE THAT!!!! 😁😁😁
@@annebos4634 crazy part is malignant female narc did not like how I gave up covert narc so easily, she started coming after me harddddd desperate for a fight or attention
But I'm smarter than that and value my freedom
I'll let you know more after I win this case🎉😌🍾
@@unbreakable4650 She was jealous of course and saw you as a threat for her latest conquest: covert narc. Narcs will never really let go of anyone, therefore they cannot imagine or understand that an ex woulnd't want to hoover their ex anymore. If you didn't give him attention and rejected him, she thought that was a manipulation tactic to get him back. She thinks that you are still after him because it's what she would be like if she were in your shoes. They're so unbelievably child like and simple minded and sad!!!
@@unbreakable4650 Or some female narcs just want a spouse for the sake of competing with another woman, and it's not even about the spouse. That's a possibility too
@@annebos4634 ohhhhh makes sense. I've never even bothered to analyze it. I'm too busy with real life important stuff such as closing on my home while the two of them remain hotel hopping smh.
I do remember the covert thinking and saying I'm his which I always found weird but I will never be the type to entertain mistreatment and disrespect. So glad I have it in writing helps prove this wasn't some love triangle but 1 control freak one sadistic freak and an empath
I refuse to be the next episode of snapped or for my man🤪✨
To be a narcissist is a LIFE LONG CURSE! I've been hurt drastically by one, and still getting over it.. I will heal eventually... Unfortunately... He will not. Who's REALLY losing here.... Him! To go through life being that way and not knowing how to love or be loved has to suck. Does it resonate with them beneath the surface? Don't know... But, hopefully they don't meet a person that will take them out of their pathetic, miserable life. Some people don't like their feelings played with!! I'm trying to heal... Let whatever is meant to happen to him happen?
Their karma doesn’t come because their victims are kept silenced for so long. They blame themselves instead of the narc. They shoulder the burden instead of holding accountable the narc. Once you can live in your power and speak your truth, that’s when their karma comes
What do you mean with speak your truth? Do you mean exposing the narc?
That is not true, I wish. You can tell everyone, shout it. Karma does not come, nor does punishment
Wrong. Their karma comes but we don't get to know about it because narcissists themselves can't figure out it is karma because in order to be able to figure out it is karma you still need to have a certain amount of self awareness which the narcissists suck at. And anyways narcs have this survival mode thing that is they feel they have to fight through life and do whatever it is to survive even if it means doing something inhumane because they see life as a chessboard and on the chessboard there's only one king and that's exactly their mentality. The fear of losing is real every single day they're fighting against something they can't win. The reason this is not apparent is because they are good actors and don't show it outside but tbh it's lonely at the top and narcs are the epitome of it.
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They get it every day , trust me !!! You just don’t see it
I think this Video is your BEST for me. Gives me Hope instead of Premeditated Murder
I know what you mean 🙄
I’ve always wondered about this. I seem to be a light worker and I get instant negative karma if I even say something negative. For dark entities, it seems to take twenty to forty years.
I can’t even jokingly tell a LIE or a sarcastic comment without insta-karma or at minimum guilt....
While Cyberstalking prevents my daily activities-cyber abuse COVID and apparently it’s STILL not enough...
Because God gives them time to change their ways before He rains punishment upon them. God isn't forgetful or neglectful, he's merciful.
Conscience sets the stage. Ppl with no conscience don't feel the effects of the evil they do..
Not true! I am my ex's karma.
Nope. Especially when they are dealing with someone who has been "spiritually awakened / saved." God's punishment will be always at least 10X worse than whatever the narcissist can dish out.
@olafpenner Problem is 99% of the people out there have no idea what "spiritually awakened" really means. Most people just believe the Bible is nothing more than a compilation of books written 2000 years ago. With that said, most people don't even realize that they are eternal spirits (in a temporary physical body, just as the Bible says) made in God's own image (as God is an eternal spirit as the Bible specifically indicates).
When you are spiritually awaken, God takes over 100% and punishes the narcissist ten fold, if not more....
God is very very REAL, whether you know it or not....
Yup
Aside from their already crappy lives, which I'm not even sure they're aware of, their twisted views don't really seem to allow karma to affect them. They project, blame, etc. They BELIEVE it's everyone else's fault. Karma gets them probably but they learn nothing from it and continue abusing. No justice there. Plus, there's ALWAYS someone who enables and takes pity on them. Homeless? Here buddy, live with me. Jobless? That's cool. Etc.
There’s no escaping your karmic lessons. I made some mistakes in my life and became spiritual, really repented and have been healing and karma still came for me without mercy. Definitely used it all as lessons for the best but karma still comes.
Karma simple is ur life is ur making good or bad desirable or undesirable. It's experiences n lessons
And alot of people misunderstand that...that no matter if you repent or get saved,the karmic debt still has to get paid
I don't actually believe in karma myself, and have always had the belief that people like narcissists and sociopaths seem to get away and dodge karma for an extremely long time. It was only when someone told me this, that we all live with our own karma DAILY, I realized how the former narcissists in my life must be living out their own loneliness and desperation in constantly changing supply sources. The accumulation of 'bad scores' and feuds with others, including their former supply sources and exes and friends and business associates, is enough to do them in eventually.
They do seem to live a charmed life. My narc ex gets away with everything. Even charmed the IRS out of an audit. He has everything handed to him on a silver platter. Seems to be happy as a clam. Not having empathy relieves them of any guilt or emotion.
@@dawrongwitch9036 same with my ex...
My narc called everyone a degenerate. We went to the same school. After so many years, breaking rules, and breaking Into computers, he thought he wouldn't get caught. He was caught in a teen porn sting. Went to prison. Had to register as a sex offender for life. On Probation til 2025. Got want he deserved. I feel bad for those kids and a missing teenage girl. I feel nothing for him.
Let us leave the narcisists alone and walk away from them. They need a Saviour. No man can help them. Thank you Christina❤
We can control our karma not theirs. Hard to not hate them but we can’t for our own good. Hard lesson but worth it for our own good.
I NEEDED to see this video in order to have things make sense for me bc it's been driving me mad off and on! This has been a day of revelation for me and this video was definitely icing on the cake!
KARMA COMES!
I PROMISE YOU!!
YES! law of attraction never fails, especially when they don’t understand it. My narc ex posted revenge porn and the karma has already been getting to him because he’s been slandering my character online for years after I had NO contact with him. I got engaged and he was triggered and posted it. So since that’s illegal that’s definitely karma!
After being badly abused by my narcissistic ex who then joined up with a Narcissistic sociopath other ex. I'm traumatized. Pure trauma. I am struggling daily with the pain. They got me fired,made me lose friends, and job opportunities,even apartments. They placed hidden camera in my home, and uploaded it and live streamed my daily life to the internet for perverts to watch. Police don't do much until they actually stab or shoot you. I can't seem to stop being angry. Really angry. I have even been called crazy and put in a psych ward!! The injustice! I can't seem to heal from each trauma BC it's still going on! I'm so deeply saddened. They take great pleasure in threatening me and caused me to actually snap a few times. I'm devastated. If anyone can offer any words of comfort,I'd be so happy. I have found that they use you as a psychological dumping ground. They project everything they do onto you. Now I'm gray rocking them. So exhausting.
They are attracting some serious hate and pain, I experienced it first hand when I was manipulated into one for a time, thank God for healing 🙏
This is the best explanation for this challenging phenomena that I have heard yet, thank you so much!
Hi Christina what a blessings to have a friend like you, i love you thank you for sharing.
This is for those dealing with a narcissist. As a spiritual human, I’ve learned to let guilt and shame go. I may make mistake and it will teach me, instead of having a hurtful situation come afterwards, and running away, I face it . I feel it, and give it to Gaia to repurpose as she sees fit. This has helped my family with karma and how the truth always comes out. Be patient, and stay as positive as possible. Much love family..blessed be
Who is Gaia?
@@formalhault5820 Gaia is another name for Mother Earth
They seem happy. Real happiness? Not sure whether they can feel. They are not stressed about the relationship for sure. Cannot feel that. They do not care, cannot care, lack empathy. Not interested in you for sure, no real concern for sure. They stick to their comfort zone that is painfree, real emotion free, empathy free, thought free as far as you are concerned. What else?
Even their comoft zones kill them slowly.
Drugs
Alcohol
Promiscuity
Whatever else that's bad.
They still have to account for the destruction that they cause on people.
Your channel is lifesaving 🙏🏻.
Patience with every intentional step. Love puts the heart first and speaking from the heart is power
I've been a narcissist for more than 5 years now... I'm 17. I am now getting karma for it. Thank you everyone for sharing with me how it feels to live under a narcissist, me.
Did you self diagnose? It's too early to call yourself a narcissist. Every teen and young child has some narcissistic tendency because they are still developing and trying to shape their identity. If you're past 25 y/o, then you can determine if you're still a narcissist or not. You're probably not a narcissist, and you shouldn't label yourself with that too soon.
Sis up, love you to see beyond the pain that you know and embrace...LOA is what it is
I loved it Christina.....thank u so much..I am an ardent believer of Karma and the law of attraction but never co-related the two.....u described it
really well! So grateful.....🙏
I got closure about my ex's behaviour but always thought about when she would meet her Karmic load...but now I won't wonder anymore....thanks thanks thanks!!
I think the big karma bang for the narcs only really hits once the subconcious is ready to evolve past narcissism- so that may take a bunch of incarnations...
Hi - thanks for your insight into Narcissist behaviour - been an eye opener.
It is indeed a world of many things including angels and demons. Regarding demons ( negative) - can Karma be manipulated? I say this on the structure of how the planet seems to work. Like a pyramid with the hidden hands at the top and the masses at the bottom. Through a drip feed of manipulation from the top, humanity can be steered in any direction. Slowly like a tree growing ( chance is happening but it happens so slowly we don't notice.) We all have to sell ourselves a bit to sit within the structure. Eg I have to go to work and rules dictate I have to do it in a certain way. We use the word business to justify bad behaviour.We do things that are Possibly not the best for the customer but best for the company. My bosses ( generally) have had narcissistic tendencies and they will do what is told from above without question - that's how you get on in this system. So through the need for food / house / car / family / bills etc I sell myself to the system. So does Karma rise through the chain like litmus paper or does the buck stop with me! Has karma been manipulated? It seems that the Evil of this world runs amok and has done so for avery long time.
My belief is that this planet ( realm ) is designed to test the light that exists in all of us - it must be on a negative ( evil) spectrum to test your internal truths and you must be immersed in it to know thyself.
this is exactly what i needed to hear
I don't know about karma but eventually, with the way they behave, I'm sure somebody is going to stick one on them.
I imagine the ongoing stress being a narc is karma
what you consider stress may actually be excitement and enjoyable to others
@@janine3732 no
The inner torment they feel each day is one of it.
Don't wait or waist your energy on waiting for it, just live your life the best you can, don't waist your time or energy thinking about them, period,trust one thing karma has there address.
Awesome awesome awesome 🙏 very authentic content ❤ you explained it like a spritual master. Love from india ❤
Is there a school of Narcissism where they learn their skills?
Yep seems like the Internet and the abused sites seem to teach a How to manual.... mine 26 + years...:( bout to have to go back into and drown bca COVID is also an abusers playground.... and don’t get me started on cyber abuse!!
We NEED bad? Beg to differ. Bad will be gone in the world. Psalms 37:10. Proverbs 2:21,22
This is false teaching because we don't live in duality that is far from Biblical or in agreement with Christ the King 👑
Only karma I care about is the good karma of getting rid of them
Exactly, I feel pain, shame and guilt too much after hurting narcissists. And people don't know how much I've been destroyed by them before that and they all complained me. They don't even communicate with me anymore because narcissists attracted them by talking them as if I'm lower than them.
The narcissists destroyed me again from public bully.
My reputation and my family's reputation has gone down now.
I had to lose the person I love as well because of them.
Thanx. The scales Will eventually balance out.
So, it’s like, once they get back bad karma, it’s like a pain chain. Works for me. I don’t mind Set It and Forget It.
That makes total sense that's why they ate narcs because they dodge stuff and make you pay for it but once they are without supply they cant dodge as much because they cant direct the karma to you
They have awful energy inside them and they reflect it slso they live by it .. maybe it doesn't bother them .. but from other hand they have not even taste love and it's energy .. I think this is also their bad karma
Thsnk you dear for another good lesson ♡
Interestingly enough, there are many lessons we can learn from narcissists! When faced with such contrast, we can clearly see what we want more (and less) of 🙂
I have always prayed for karma for my Narc Ex for all that he and his family did to me. But I realized, their very existence is karma itself. I couldnt possibly fathom how sad and miserable their life is on a daily basis for always needing to have validation from other people, for needing to manipulate or use other people to get whatever they wanted at the moment like money or food or shelter (since they don't want to stay in their own parent's house; from all the chaos thats also consistently going on in it). For needing to lovebomb different girls to get the love and attention they needed. And also a house they don't need to pay rent/food/electricity cost whilst staying "as their partner", for claiming entitlement for the free things in life. For always having to lie, lie by omission and by gaslighting people to puff up their own image that they are far superior (but its all lies) to find supplies that will look up to them and befriend them unknowing the their true nature. That after befriending people, they open up the doors for them to ask them for favors (i.e asking money) by telling their sob stories (which is mostly untrue because this is one sided. other people do not know that they caused the failure of their own past relationships by being a pathological liars and having lack of empathy). Its like living a cursed life, living like this everyday. Its exhausting.
I feel so sad about their child that they do supervisory negligence. Meaning, leaving their own child on another person's home saying that he will only buy something and return quickly. But in truth, returning after several hours has past and consent from the house owner was not given. Then doing this repeatedly, so he could either go out hang out with the boys to drink or play sports with, or go out have sexual canoodling with a girl. While his child is left with a neighboring home "to play with the neighbor's kids". Smh that the narcisisst do not see any wrong with his behaviour. The neighbor is not obligated to care for, baby sit and feed his child several hours just because theyre friends. The Narc are so thick faced that they will say/do everything to avoid accountability for every wrong actions/decisions/behavior they did under any circumstances at any given time.
I just think to myself that he will never ever change no matter who he meets in life. As someone who never ever thinks he has done anything wrong, will ever change. Who has avoided all accountability for himself to be a better person. A person like this will always have history repeat itself. Endless form of Love bombing, devaluing, gaslighting, blame shifting, character assassination, hoovering and back to the beginning.
For anyone reading this, I know how exhausting your life has been. How your life has spiraled down to the bottom from all the abuses that you encountered. Your pain is valid. What you saw is true. Do not ever believe the narcissist that what you saw/heard is your hallucination. Stand up. Stand strong. This is a fight that you are not alone. Alot of us experienced the same thing. And I will always voice out my pain and experiences. We will all be able to go through this and find peace in our future. Lets trust ourselves and keep fighting for our happiness.
Omg that smile at the end, when you were describing the snowball effect, made me giggle :)
@@oscarwilliamson1128 Thank you
Took 30ish years but finally karma came
In astrology, 30 years is a Saturn cycle. Saturn is the planet of karma! Weird.
Wow.. if you don’t mind can you share what happened?
What happened?
My narc discarded me for a younger guy which was appalling considering that he's even younger than both my younger brothers whom she offended described as "babies"... she rubbed it in my face even while we're still living together. Talking on phone with him in the same room and the same bed we shared for 10 years. She's 37, her son in which we both raised since he was 2 yrs old is 15 and the "b/f" is 23...
What i think is,narcs evolve faster than regular/normal people due to their lots of experiences (cycles) getting their karma repeatedly and it made them stronger and stronger,because the more they been thru to it,the more they get immune from it.so i think being a narc is part of human character that will keep expanding overtime.just like theres more stupi*d bad people than good people nowadays.well im a victim of a narc girl anyway.moving on...
@ Jack Collin I believe that when we face negative experiences, we learn how to behave better and become better people. But narcissists learn how to lie better, or how to prevent disclosing their flaws. They don't want to improve themselves.
You can't be in agreement with learning bad from having it done to you and then going about life doing the same bad things to others.
Wheres the progression and evolution of our species? consciousness, goodness, compassion, honesty, empathy and most of all Love...if we all remained the way NARCs behaved, then we would be swinging from trees, running in packs or eating in troops. Majority of us have stepped away from mere animals, but NARCs can't understand human emotions period ! They see us live it and they can't understand whats wrong with us ...just like how we wonder what wrong with them.
Its possible that up bringing is the reason behind how we all behave.
If anything, Narcs are yet to evolve and struggle with the concept.
Just my opinion anyways.
Karma is built inside them!!
Meaning?
I'm not clear as to why so many are so obsessed with someone getting their bad Karma. Even good people end up with terrible circumstances, no fault of their own. What is it when someone sits around wishing hate and all they want to do is live to know they got hit hard? I stayed until I understood what I was dealing with, he blindsided with a discard. I had to ask, what the hell was that? Yes it hurts and there are repercussions from having allowed this person so deeply into my life. But I had no idea what a narcissist was and what they do. Once I realized I walked and I never allowed him to contact me again. I know that got to him. I stripped his control and ruined his plan. He actually thought he could just speak to me. No, I have never said one single word to him, not one. I cut him off, permanently. All he's going to do is go find a new person to prey upon so he can get his supply and then he'll do the same thing to them. I'd rather heal and move on than waste time. it's my time to heal and move on. Not waste it one him.
I've noticed it's like kids with toy envy. Allow me to elaborate for a sec. If you have young kids you will see them fighting over a toy like a ball. Perhaps there is a blue and red ball. Kid "A" has the red ball and is having fun bouncing it around, kid "B" sees them and wants the red ball even though they have the same exact ball just a different color but thinks the red ball is more fun because the kid "A" is having a blast and they are bored with stupid old blue ball. Jealousy, grabbing, whining and fighting ensues as always unless they have parents who can help them resolve their own problems and not plea to authority every time.
Narcs/BPD folks had shitty parents and do this with people's lives. Person "A" is having a great and fun life and they want to be a part of it. Stupid old person "B" is boring now even though X amount of time ago they were the cat's pajamas and all they wanted in life. Betrayal happens once "A" is lured in until X amount of time goes by and here comes person "C" with their new bouncy red ball of life that they want to be a part of...and on and on.
The game always ends. They will not be able to lure people in anymore and there they are lonely with no ball, no life, no real friends or family that trust them. Karma sets in and hopefully you are long gone to see the ramifications of all their betrayals and mistakes.
Take your ball and go home cause your ball is badass and should be shared with others who get it. Thanks for your time and much love. Great vid.
That hit them spot on, that’s exactly how l would describe these parasites, they are no good and deserve every bit of bad luck they get
This is Gold
@@thendebele it's been a minute since I wrote this and a lot has changed for the better. I'll add one thing in hindsight, narcs do nasty stuff on porpoise and cant really change, where as bpd's just can't help themselves. They're just leaves in the wind to their impulses and will typically end up wet in the gutter unless they get serious help.
Hope yalls are doing well.
@@thebealers2102 I am suffering ... Brutal discard and I'm just on week four...
NC is in place, but I constantly wonder how I could have been written off after 1.5 years of what I thought was genuine love...
Trying to break the trauma bond so I stop wanting her back
Came here to say this is not accurate at least in my case. We have to tolerate a narc for another 5 years. I live my amazing and blessed life and the envious narc stays miserable. Now they’re experiencing bad karma ten fold after burning bridges and treat ppl bad for years and I relish in that. I get great satisfaction in knowing they want what I have- all while they remain completely irrelevant to me.
In my world, the narc is an ego boost to me daily
Thank you 😊.
Stopping this video bcs not caring anymore... after 2 years, finally 🙏
This is a great esoteric explanation as to why strategies devised by 4chan's /pol/ work so effectively against the narcissism-driven main stream. They create a situation in which not only can these narcissists receive narcissistic injury, but in such a way that it activates their NPC programming so passionately, that it allows for enough time to snowball and amplify into an end result that has a larger impact.
Victims take the karma while the narc lives freely. That's reality.
Ignore them
My ex had a dog eat dog view. When his friends would do something bad I would say they are going to get their karma. He would say everyone gets their karma. Like it didn't matter. Well let's say my narc was tragically killed while dating 2 new women behind my back. One of the ladies ex boyfriend killed him.
Yikes.
😳dang
Wow...he actually got his karma and chose the wrong person to hurt!
You are so write my ex really looks bad she is 30 and looking 60.
That's impossible 😒
@@elsaangelica3684 no it's not...
Some of them age fast because they don't take care of themselves properly and often have loads of drug/alcohol/tabacco/addiction problems, don't like to sleep (sleeping brings people closer back to themselves but narcs rather get their energy from other people than from their own body's and souls ability to replenish itself. )They go for quick fixes, like make-up that looks beautiful in an instant but damages their skin on the long run, too much solarium, hormones in the gym etc.
I wish I actually see it , they seem like they never get it, always in control and happy
I think the narcissist's karma is quite simply that they have to be themselves.
Yeah . Karma isn’t going to make them have a car accident . It may contribute to one though . If they have to deal mentally which they do in some terms it affects thier daily life . Each partner is a bigger dumpster fire .
Thier family and friends start to see who they are also . All around of them thier affects can be noticed . They notice it , and feel it .
The narcissistic injury is easy because they are always hiding something .
Interesting video. I still reckon you get whatever you give out but that's just the way I look at it. Nice video
A ex narcissist of mine got his quicker than most narcissists 3 days before his 28th birthday only person in the vehicle to die hitting a oil truck being chased and shot a over someone else's debt happened out of nowhere after a year no contact. The catch I was devastated I was Inlove with him even after moving on with my life my son was a month old and it killed me. I still dream and grieve him over 6 months later. I got a front row seat on social media and the media it was like a movie didn't feel real it still hasn't fully sunk in.
I’m so sorry.. I hope you’re doing alright sister
@@blueberrydiw8340 im fine i am free now and it was his karma
OMG WOW
yeah your kind so you miss him and trauma bond,,,but he got his karma.
Is it Karma when we leave them?
Great video BTW 👍
Thanks! 🙏❤
My ex narc had a heart attack last year I think that’s a bad karma
Above all, Love Almighty GOD with all your being, heart and soul. Love everyone else as you would love yourself. If everyone did this, no more problems would exist between people. Be above the battle, seek TRUTH in these times of deciet.
So here's a balance question?
If the prophecy about the one (Anakin Skywalker) who was to bring "BALANCE TO THE FORCE" - was true - then his destiny was cast in stone to become Darth Vader - because there were about 1000 Jedi to 1 Sith, causing an imbalance of too much good and not enough evil. And (I think) Senator Palpatine said that the Jedi and the Jedi council have become a law unto their own!
Just a thought which brings to mind the following idea - in the late 1800's - 1980's there was a heavy formalised religious morality that was predominant across the globe, so maybe a century of stamped upon or cookie cutter or clone type morality - and maybe the lack of perceived freedom of choice, or being outcast if individualistic choices were persued - could have caused a shift in balance, whereby many of these hidden or undetected / undetectable type personality disorders developed as secretive alters - then passed on and evolving from generation to generation - evolving into more serious grades - till we have the personality disorders that we have today? A "NATURAL EVOLUTIONARY RESPONSE" to too much Love, too much empathy, too much goodness - causing spiritual, emotional, mental and physical experiential imbalance.
So narcissism, sociopathy, psychopathy, and other similar disorders evolved to restore balance to the force? Also I want to reiterate my point of view - I pity these people, I feel nothing but disdain for my ex-wife, I do however know ... In her case and probably most other individuals with severe personality disorders, they didn't choose this either, most if them had the wrong operating system (NPD-O/S) installed straight after birth throughout their primary nurture and developmental ages.
And once installed it's near impossible to remove and replace with the standard recommended operating system (HUMAN-O/S).
They didn't choose it .... it was thrust upon them, remember we're born mostly a blank slate - some programming from diet, physiology, genetic, pre-natal audio and sensory perception entered our prenatal consciousness - but born nearly a blank slate and open and receptive to receive our construct modules - most of your thinking, behaviors, social perception, cultural identity, personal identity etc ... Are construct modules installed age 0 - 6? Then most of the personality is formed? [Please correct me if I'm wrong] - so do not feel hate or wish severe ill will on these people. Rather feel pity, sadness that a potentially beautiful human was programmed with a malignant monster operating system or a human O/S infected with viruses.
But my belief is - if possible - expose them as far as possible so that they cannot corrupt others going forward - protect any children in or under their care - so that they can't copy their broken code and replicate.
Hi ... I really enjoy learning more and more about the Narcissist, and I think...I am my husband's karma, weird I know..but he hits many of the issues you have stated and I do not take his crap, he is in therapy and has a counselor/caseworker, so he is getting help, but he was a total control freak, sex for control, me me me I I I... all of that but he has really been making an effort to be a better person, I think he has the tendency and not a true narcissist if that makes sense, is that possible, we have been together for 12 years and I have to say the first 4 yrs was touch and go, now things are much better although we do have that flair up once in a while, as he does the .. feeding? And when these things start to happen as I know the signs now, I call him on it and don't back down until he stops, he tells me, for example, I am sorry, I do not know what to do to make you feel better (when I am sick) so I tell him what I want and need and he makes a visible effort to be more empathic, He doesn't ignore me when I am sick anymore, so I do see a lot of improvements in his ...issues, also does this happen with a narcissist?
Can you give us tips and tricks on how to trigger the narcissist to perform the discard? Then give us tips on how to go through with the discards and have the narcissist remove themselves from our life, instead of trying to remove them from our lives?
I hope you didn’t do that . I hope you just left . It is harder to hold onto them .
What if the narc starts going to church with the old supply? He's acting like he's all holy. Meanwhile he acted so mean to me. It seems so fake. I believe that God sees the bad he has done. I won't judge a person's heart. I'll let God determine what lesson he needs. I learned mine, to respect myself, be stronger, stay away from narcs, and set boundaries.
God had giving us all good free will
Love the teaching
Am I a narcissist? I have no family (all narcs), no friends (all narcs or bpd or sociopaths) After leaving a man who was convinced he was the nice guy and perfect, my house burned down, my phone and purse was stolen, my bike was stolen, then borrowed another bike and that too was stolen again, I was kicked out of my hotel during quarantine and had to sleep in the freezing cold for days, I was so hungry I stole a mans burger he left unattended and I felt so bad. Growing up my mother starved me, scarred me psychologically and my dad beat me and possibly sexually abused me. I was raped by a gang of boys by age 8 but kept quiet because my parents beat me for being whiney....because I came home bloody and crying all the time...so they blamed me. I was told how women are cursed in Christianity and my mother kept cursing me daily. Literally hoping I would become cursed. I wonder why I have so much bad luck and why the law of attraction doesn't work for me. Even when I need it most.
Just from reading the fact that you felt bad for taking the mans burger shows you aren’t a narcissist... narcissist do not feel!!!! U felt bad bc u know it was wrong to take it!
From what you are saying here, sorry to say this, but you are a narcissist
Joshua Bailey interesting. Oh man I still wonder though
roozbeh badii hmm. How do you know? Or how did you come to that conclusion. If I am one I want a cure. Narcissists are deeply empty and suffer great pain under their false persona
Accidental Warrior you are describing the premise. The genetics, the cause, the delusions, and the sequela of being a narcissist. You are also lying about feeling bad of taking that burger, you didn’t feel bad. You are playing professional victim. There is no cure for personality disorders as of today. But your personality does not determine your character. You have a choice is choosing your actions. You can choose not to do evil even though you are a narcissist. Also, you have left out everything you have done that brought you the karma of your house burning down. The man you left was likely a very nice guy, but you abused him and discarded him after you had depleted the monetary or somatic supply.
Being unable to form a real, lasting bond with anther human being and needing validation from others to feel good about themselves in karma enough.
It's a sad existence.
Well they do feel shame, hate, and jealousy, and we should not have anything to do with it.
Great presentations. Bob
That makes sense.
I like the snowball analogy! I know someone who got one major injury from a broken relationship they were trying to hard to control, then as a result they got sloppy (or simply too desperate for their own good) with a work thing and got exposed. But ultimately I think how long it takes to see karma depends on how intelligent and cool-headed this narc is; the easier it is for them to lose their cool, often due to being surprised as a result of their own miscalculations, the sooner they will expose themselves.
A narc always attracts another narc, birds of a feather.... and that narc inflicts pain in them...that's how they receive what they did to others.
Is this why they come after you when you leave? How can you reduce their anger?
Any ideas? Thank you xx
I just let it go right now I wanted my Covert Narcissist to feel the pain when she discarded me and Ghosted me I just let it go I have had no contact since October 26
I just released it thank you for your Help great Video
So basically narcissist have a free pass to never get their bad karma ?
I think your focus can only be ending your negative karmic cycle with the narc. Get the hell out of there. I’m much healthier, I’m not consumed by this thought, but I definitely want my ex to get wants coming to her. She tried so hard to keep me around so she could keep her happy family appearance up. Fuck that. She was devaluing me and threatened discard daily just to do that. The
bad karma is always there. Narcs are miserable on the inside. They feed off people with positive karma, which makes them feel like they have it.
The Narc’s like everyone else face the consequences of their actions.
The main thing about Karma is CARE? What do you care about? Don’t worry about the Narc’s karmic outcomes, such is the universe that you wouldn’t see it anyway. We are our own light in our lives.
The Narc has to live with themselves! The holy trinity of karma is thoughts, emotions, actions.
The Narc’s thoughts are with one care in mind- egoic hedonistic pleasure.Reality becomes a deluded schizophrenic game of manipulation of people and events for this “supply”. They are stuck in the Reptilian brain (R complex)- fight or flight. They possess no emotional intelligence (limbic system) and their higher thought logic and reasoning has atrophied due to their own intellectual laziness and not wanting to put in the effort of introspection and self evaluation that all conscious people seeking growth and wisdom do.
Studies show long term Narc’s associated with reduced frontal cortex thickness and functionality in the brain where social acceptance controls and empathy processes occur.
They are quite literally brain damaged!
Garbage thoughts + emotions of an unsubmitted will to any higher authority than their ego weds to create garbage actions which lead to garbage karmic consequences.
They are metaphorically Sisyphus of Ancient Greek mythology- condemned to recurring hell and the never ending task of rolling a huge boulder to the hilltop just to see it roll down.. and start over again. They seek that which they will never find.. that’s the start of their karma
I wonder if by staying silent is us keeping them from karma. Now I'm very much distanced emotionally and I don't say his name but every once in a awhile, I'll post about my narcissistic relationship, my discard, how he held control etc, basically their techniques and why they do it, But alot of ppl on my social knows the ex I'm speaking of... I'm sure he goes thru his tough times. Must suck feeling empty and pretending yr in love keeping up appearances all the time...
Yoooooo my narcissist ex manager got her karma this week she couldn't even look at me
Thank you.
Oh, yeah. I know it did for my narc ex-wife. I just wish I knew the extent of it, but I think it's bad for her.
And you have stood ppl saying they don’t get thier karma. No they do but they do thier best trying to hide it
Get with it