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- Insight on the narcissist’s thoughts on knowing that they destroyed the best relationship they ever had with you.
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Behind every relationally toxic and incompetent Narcissist is a great person trying to encourage them to be great. They know what they had, which is why they’ll never forget about you. Let them go dumpster dive and find a back-up supply. That won’t last either, because they refuse to unpack their emotional baggage. 💞
Thank you. Your words are true of my experience
Thank you another wise words spoken story of my life
Say it for the people in the back !!! 💯
Facts. 😅😂🎉
Poor decision making and unfit choices can cost you everything. Always stay in your league and never date down.
They destroy every relationship, it's just who they are, their wired that way!!! They burn all their bridges, they can't help it.
I used that exact term with him when he was on his revenge rampage against me for leaving and for not allowing him to be at my house when I’m not there…. AFTER WE BROKE UP! I told him he burns all his bridges. He of course just told me I burned my bridges with him by not being willing to “help him out”, by allowing him in my home when I’m not here lol.
Actually narcissists don't burn bridges... they damage them but never burn them, and this is so they can hoover you back in later. You have to be the one to completely burn it down and leave that narc on the other side.
@@ritabrown7002 couldn't AGREE MORE 💯💯
My ex narcissist had a condo with her husband, cheated on him, he committed suicide leaving her and her 4 kids they had together. She found me, lied to me about the affairs she had on him, we had a child, I moved her in my house and guess what, she cheated. I kicked her out of my house. Note she denied cheating and then was cheating on her new supply with me and I never knew about him. She Hoovers me time to time with pics of my daughter, I refuse to talk to her. She always has a second supply, all the time. Never would of imagine having a beautiful child with a narcissist whore. Less than 30 days of burying her husband’s ashes, her kids told me she had a man in her car. She gave all her kids a broken home, all of them.
They are just plain evil.
Devils children
& ROTTEN 2 THE CORE
That's why you block,and keep moving,change your number don't keep in touch with any body the know.
He told me that It would be my fault if we ever broke up😳 They train you how to respond to their abuse. You walk around on egg shells while they run a muck!!!
I got tired of walking on eggshells, the verbal and emotional abuse and the cheating. I had the courage to file for Divorce in August. The first court hearing is in December. He can't take it.
Be careful...cause they can be crazy!
But they get their friends and family?? To do the dirty work.
# Charli...they even listen to all phone calls...
And when you question it ..the say you are the problem. And say the same thing everyday...
When it's apparent they do the same thing everyday!!
Good for you!!! ❤❤❤
Wow the story of my life!!! I’m going to be filing next week!!
These devils waste our life’s purpose
They sure know what they've done, messing another human being around. They had the best of everything from us in the relationship, now they have nothing. When all is said and done, they have to live with their guilt and shame - they got found out - we figured it out - they didnt think we would but we did and God showed us who they truly are and He also showed us who we are in Him. We deserve better and genuine love, not all that fake stuff. Thank you Telsha, they lost us and we found ourselves again and are healing.
Absolutely 💯! They had the best of the best and didn't appreciate us! They lost and we found! This is they lost us and we found ourselves free from their clutches! Thanks for educating us about these demented souls Telsha!
They tell you they didn’t do anything wrong, it’s all your fault. Then turn around and “apologize” and say they’re a changed person now. So you should get back with them. How are you a changed person if you claim you never did wrong in the first place? 🤔
WORD SALAD
THAT 👉🏿 PART 🙄🙌🏿!!
That part…🙄
T: The narcissist knows he's going to do something to destroy that relationship....
I was married for 17 yrs to a narcissist but never knew it until I did my homework on the way he was acting... He would randomly tell me I know I'm going to die alone... I said as long as I'm your wife you'll never be alone... I questioned him n asked him why he would talk that way and he said he just feels it in his heart.. nowwwwww 10 mos after our divorce is final.. ik he was a narcissist n he knew alllll along that he was doin things behind my back... And it was only a matter of time before I found out.. that man crushed my soul when I found out the things he's been doin n had his nerve to laugh in my face about it 😢 n blame me?? these people out here r soooo heartless.. be careful nowadays everyone! 🫶
Yep they know they lost you and it was by there own behavior, in sobering moments they will tell whoever will listen including the new supply 😂
that part.
I needed this. A year after the discard and me doing the final discard, after the Hoover attempts, sometimes I think to myself “am I being to harsh or unreasonable or overthinking things?” The more videos I see and learn about this narcissistic abuse I was in, the better I feel about my decision to love myself and not take any nonsense ever again. Never will I ever let someone groom or abuse me in any way.
Thank you so much Telsha! You are so awesome and we all love you!! Thank you for helping us find ourselves and THRIVE!!
To everyone here on the comments section, YOU ARE AWESOME and don’t you ever forget that!! We all got this! ❤🎉✨🙏🍪☕️
Amen, every time I see a comment about someone getting free from a Narc and living there best life gives me hope!
I was in the same boat. I have the same thoughts occasionally, am I being too hard on them? but I agree! Nope the narc knew what they were doing…and the apology never came when I walked away. Its so freeing to being the strong one and move on knowing our worth and that we deserve better
@@dorib.3367 Yes, YES!!!!🙌
@@AudreyLuerding You better state those facts like you’re going!! Get it get it!!!🙏❤️✨
There’s No going back!!!
They played themselves 👺💩🤡
Definitely did ! Played !!!
Yes! 🎯💯 Totally SICK people.
And the covert narcs can also be so covert mean to you for months till you'll leave and they will say it's your fault and you're the one who's leave them . They are sadistic.
Their Plan from jump
THAT IS WHAT I WAS DEALING WITH A CORVERT NARCISSIST. THRY ARE THE WORST KIND OF BIRDS
These people's mindset is sick
When you show these people the things they do or say has no effect. Insanity sets in😂😂😂😂
They deny everything even when you catch them red handed then turn around and say what about the time you did this thing? But you didnt do anything. Crazy train 😅😂😂🙏🆘❤️
😂😂 yup
He once said - if you hadn’t acted this way we could have been having a good weekend . I had to block him on all levels . He’s a horrible person . I did nothing but good . That’s such a true statement. These videos really have helped me because he blamed me for EVERYTHING. 😮
I didn’t deserve this .
They are evil people ! Devils !
My ex narcissist said that I traumatized him so bad by accusing him, that's why he cheated. 😂😂😂😂😂 I discarded him.
😂😂
My husband has been saying “yr pushing me to.” “I’m gonna end up doing it if you keep saying that.” Yet he comes home fucked up into the wee hours.
@@mmknzz yep exactly! My ex worked at a hotel so he slept with his co workers.
😅😂😅
@@angelawilliams3361Girl! 😂😂😂😂😂😂🤦🏽♀️
If the narc is saying “if you hadn’t had done this if you hadn’t had done that” they’re are basically telling you the narcissist injury that you gave them. 🤷🏽♀️my narc ex got mad because I called her out. On the day of the discard she was like “if you hadn’t had done this or if you “liked my Instagram post” I wouldn’t have done this or that. Why would I like your Instagram post right after you called me insane? Which was reactive abuse by the way. They’re gremlins to the tea.
My mind was telling me "something is wrong with this fool, I ain't quite sure what it is, but WHATEVER this is, I'm getting away from it. I never verbalized it, and it was crazy. He did all that stuff and he used to say to me, he knew I was going to leave. HE WAS RIGHT😂😂😂 I had educated myself, and knew what was somewhat going on. I was pissed because I was targeted in the first place. NO CONTACT 3 yrs.
Really? The narcissist who discarded me doesn't even live in the real world! I haven't heard from her for over three months and I don't want to hear from her! She definitely destroyed the relationship! No more narcissist forever!
Facts !!! Told me last night laughed at how he got a new woman she’s better then me but yet popping up on my job pleaseee let her have u because she gotta find out what u are that’s why u still on social media looking cause u not or never gonna be happy I’m done chasing I was just upset that I i ignored my intuition and I can see it I’m his face that he knows he wrong but he can never come back to me
They are terrible. Who can prosper off of negativity? Once the devaluation started I left him so quickly he was so shame and upset. He cursed his brother out when he asked about me. Now he can explain why everyone is seeing that he is cuckoo for coco puffs! 😅he doesn’t deserve to ever be in my presence again. 😊
Thank you, T. This message is right on time! Especially as we're getting closer to the holidays, my goal is to stay in my power and maintain control of my emotions
This is so true. They often say the opposite to what they mean too!
It’s also good! It was draining, exhausted & so toxic! Bringing his buddies and cousin around to torment me & telling his mama not to talk to me & don’t forget his siblings & daugters!!
Omg, it was so much doing to me behind close doors!! It’s for the better but I really don’t look back anymore!!
Sad that my kids is not gonna have him around but the truth, he’s hardly doing anything with them & he gets so irritated & also he visits them like his cousins or uncle!! 😮❤😢
It's a competition. Who's better me or you. They think it's them. No they are not.
Yup, and than TOXIC come in crush it with that energy they shut TF up all this shenanigans GN BLOCKED, NEVER CONTACT ME AGAIN.. 💯😂😂😂😂
Thank you Telsha! You really understand narcissistic behaviour
I definitely don't feel that it's my fault I know better than that
Why do they play games with people that's not playing with them? Why not play with people that's playing...... because they know they will lose up against someone that will actually play back with them.
This in itself is another weakness
Sounds very insecure and that's something nobody needs
Entire relationship: burner phones 😂so true
💯😂😂😂😂
GETTING ALL OF THOSE SUPPLIES TO FILL MY ONE SHOE,SAYS A WHOLE LOT. ❤
You never disappoint family, praise God 🎯💯✔️
Knowledge is power, thank you sister ❤️
My wife tried this tried to convince me I was the problem while she cheated the whole relationship lying demon
Bro mine did it for 20 years so I understand.
MRS. TELSHA ❤❤ THIS IS DEEP ON A WHOLE ANOTHER LEVEL 🔥🔥🔥🔥 I CANT DEAL WITH THESE DISCO HOUND DOG WITH LONG LEGS.. IM NOT PLAYING NO GAMES WITH THESE BIRDS.. THEY LOVE TO BLAME EVERYTHING ON YOU WHEN ITS REALLY THEM IM SO GLAD TO BE GONE AWAY FROM THAT THING. LOVE YOU QUEEN TELSHA ❤❤❤
I appreciate this video, because I know I was grade A supply, not that I want to be just supply for someone, but I was Great, I took her dusty self to Maui for her 1st birthday as my wife followed by 3 more vacation that year. Together on off 15 years married for only almost 1.5 years. I changed
Yes they do know and they will quietly admit it they destroyed great relationships
I love it… all the little names you have for them😂 😂😂😂😂
Thank you woman of God for sharing this vital information on these demonic entities working through these narcissistic people
Omg this is scary…. Great 😊 one …That son of gun
My ex came back. Treated her like gold. Dropped her off and picked her up from work. Ran bubble baths after work, cooked, and tended to her needs. She was not doing well, so I felt pity for her and let her back in. Had a good couple of weeks...but I never let it be known that I knew it was not going to work. She tried to triangulate me and decided to attend a party with her new/old supply. I showed up and busted her. All her friends were laughing at her. I walked out and she blamed me for embarrassing her. Then had the audacity to ask me for assistance with her home. Told her to call her new bae...and he was just arrested for back child support. 😅 Guess she's on the prowl for a new one.
So any man looking for a woman who is blind in one eye and half-blind in the other, with diabetes, high blood pressure, weight management issues, loves her dog more than anything else, and has an overbearing aging parent problem...she is available! I retired! 😄😄😄
Well they can have my ex as well. A woman whose breast are saggy, moles everywhere on her body, legs like a 90 year old woman, enjoy that.
So true 💯. They lost big time!!
They want others to think they are your savior all the time when for real for real, we are or were the ones trying to save them. We were the best thing for them. They all full of games so let them lose. That's why on that hoover, I wasn't nice because I simply said he needs Jesus so that made me the angry, bitter, envious person which was why he's glad he waited to get married 😂 and I'm okay being that IN HIS MIND. I'm glad he got married QUICK too😂. Crazy clown. It took me a minute to understand what was going on but grateful gor these videos to open my eyes.
Thank you, I appreciate you bringing so much clarity about these birds!!!
No wonder *GOD* had to make HELL LARGER!!
I like that
😂😂😂😂😂
That part 💯
I definitely dated down, I did everything to give her a great life, but can't change someone that loves darkness over the light
Their for the streets bro
1000% CORRECT!!!!
Excellent content!!!! I love your videos! Straight knowledge!
Thank You Tea This Message Was Right On Time That Narc Is Hoovering Real Hard SMH
ITS APRIL 21ST. MY NEW PLACE IS FINALLY READY. I AM SO EXCITED ABOUT LIVING THIS BIRD, I CSNT EVEN SLEEP. I MOVE IN MAY 1ST. I TOLD THAT RHINO WITH A BOW THAT I'M TAKING EVERYTHING THAT BELONGS TO ME. EXCEPT THE BEDROOM SUIT THAT HE SLEEPS IN, THAT HE HAD HIS SUPPLY COME SLEEP IN OUR BED, I DO NOT WANT THAT!!!!! I AM SOO THANKFUL FOR YOU QUEEN TEA. I WILL BE COMING IN ON YOUR THURSDAYS MEET AS SOON AS I GET SETTLED INTO MY NEW HOME. I THANK GOD FOR YOU. YOU DON'T KNOW HOW MUCH YOU BEEN SUCH A BLESSING. IM AT WORK RIGHTNOW. SO , THAT IS WHY I TEXT SO LATE. I'M TAKING A SHORT BREAK RIGHT NOW. YOU ALL HAVE A BLESSED AND PEACEFUL NIGHT❤❤❤
Well, that plan of his failed, i see him so clearly now, no contact 3yrs, still get hoovers by proxy, but i spot it everytime, check and mate
I love when u calls the narcissist a backwards walking giraffe lol 😂 😅 so fitting!!!
Preach! That’s correct. She played a game with the wrong one.
I even asked him one day what he was giving in the relationship and he didn’t answer me anything. I believe he set up the final day when attacked me; it’s so serious bc I almost died! Anyone here, it doesn’t get better no matter how much you love them or give them! It’s a dangerous life and you better RUN Get out bc they do not change and you don’t even know the half of what they did.
🤦🏽♀️ Mannnn… this hit so accurately but sis, you closed with a HILARIOUS one liner!!! “Let that bird stay in that treeeeee”!!! 🤣😂 🤣
The dedication to your message and the topics are unmatched TY !
I like this channel! Just discovered it yesterday. This is the second video I'm watching and I gotta say I'll be back. The narcissist did a number on me, and I'm trying to feel right again now that it's over.
My narcissist even admitted to ruining the relationship in one of our last conversations.
The Narcissist studied my daughters FB Page, found out we lived in a certain part of town, a few months later his daughters wedding was planned in my neighborhood. Later my bestie(narcissist) called asking to meet for lunch. I was fasting that one day and said NO. The narcissist got mad. I blocked the friend. I witnessed the flying monkeys. Emails from her suppliers started coming in.
Yes deadly with that u will b fuckn amazed on the stuff they do to do the nonsense they do sir back like he didn't 🙆YUP HE DID🤦
Dearest big sister I used to have empathy and unconditional love for the demon now I have allowed the truth to resonate in my spirit and I don't subscribe to the anamaniac looney toons reality for the sake of class and being set on not allowing them to control my reality I speak on a need to know basis... Everything else is actually cool because the peace of not having to regulate another person's emotions is THE JACKPOT FOR ME ❤🎉
My mom saw him after I discarded .. she said he looked old like 10 yrs older 😮
They age like milk
She gave into a lie a guy said about me and chose to choose him. Little did she know was that he was married. I knew he was but I didn’t say anything and let it play out. Now she wants to come back saying I am the best this and that ever and she really screwed up. I am like No thanks stay away from me.
NO CONTACT‼️
That’s it and that’s all!!!! Speak on it Sis!!!! Fact!!! Go back to the trees bird🤣🤣🤣
She got rid of me then said it wasnt going anywhere and all after a silly issue after recently saying im hers no mater what even if not faithful. She felt bad one day and blamed me for not taking enough care of her etc etc. Wasnt going anywhere cause she tried rushing, forcing me to believe everything from her asside anyone else even in religion.
Thanks T! This was a reminder as I celebrate being 3 years out!!!
New subscriber ❤ I'm almost a week free from an eleven year relationship with my narcissistic ex. We have children together. He's already trying to manipulate the children. I know it's a long road ahead but I'm ready!
I love your intelligence and your spirit dear queen. Blessings and peace be upon you..
OMG! They are so sick!
Wow, thank you for this video. I know the new supply must think I’m crazy, for leaving based off the stories he is most likely to tell them. I know the truth and it’s ok- I’m learning to not let the lies or blame, keep me down. I’ve been dealing with this for 7 months now and your right it causes issues in my life- even though I haven’t saw him. It’s like he trying to destroy me from a distance. Great video, thank you.
Yes it's always us to new supply, and they show text messages and complain we the ones lol. And I help his AXX craziness, now show her that !!
Thanks for your message and understanding 🙏
Hey Hey Ms. Telsha. And thank you for the warm welcome into today's discussion! I bet the narcissist done got her a cheating, using, game playing hateful dog by now. And it is up here ally , and all she deserves. She gets a good haha from me, and a no never again as far as I'm concerned! But this is a good topic. 💯💯💯✅🔥
Well, after almost a month of her being quiet yesterday, she threw me 3 hoovers. She's blocked on everything, but my phone shows me when a blocked number tries to call me. And she tried to follow me on tik tok, which I didn't know she made a new account. I stayed firm. Well she made her choice. I guess her brand new supply got to it with her over the weekend 😂😂.
@mstenacious274 I have a android. She did call from unknown or private before so I was surprised she just called from her actual one. Spoke to a friend today about the calls yesterday and he told me aside from hoovering she was curious to know if she was still blocked.
@mstenacious274 no problem, hope your having a good day and good rest of your week. To better days and for our narcs to one day leave us alone and may God himself save them
I'm not a sinister guy -- but, your videos give me LIFE! I stepped away from my narc-ex, on November 8th, and haven't looked back.... initially I got a gleeful girl, who was happy to go back to them streets -- a smear campaign was started, a lot of gaslighting, a lot of "I'm happy, you deserve to be" (only cus a new supply was in the picture) -- a couple of days ago, I got this borderline, "wow, it's really over" e-mail. Yes ma'am, it is, for good and forever! PEACE (within) and hopefully to you, soon lol.
NUTS HOW IT IS
Thank you Ms.Tea i needed this today ❤
Booooooy this resonates
Every word spoken is the God given truth
Confirmation baby confirmed from the almighty God
This is the most real message I have heard yet. Ultimate lightbulb moment. Thank you so much.
Im here for therapy but Im falling in love witb her energy 😅 "Hit that Liikkee button, Hit that Liikkee button"‼️
I MEAN I BEGGED HER TO JUST ALLOW IS TO NATURALLY BE. SHE DENIED EVERY REQUEST. TOTALLY SABOTAGED AND DESTROYED ALL OF ME AND HERSELF.
They all operate from the same playbook.
Rock wit Cha. You’ve helped me tremendously. Thank you
Thank you for the encouragement ❤
Oh gosh, make it go away!!!!!!
This is the most informative and accurate advice i ever watched ..you really got this and i cannot tell you thankyou enough with so much gratitude for the insight and knowledge..thankyou so so much 🙏🙏🙏💯❤
THANK YOU FOR SHARING TELSHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I needed this today Thank you Ms Telsha
Thank you 🙏🏼 ❤
Hey T. can you please talk about co-parenting. I went no contact, but haven’t changed my number because we have a child. My restraining order is expired and the narc’ is back with new email address, reaching to the family and using children services asking for mediation while I know it’s a dead end negotiation with the narc’. How would you handle it? Thank you!
Thank you for this video I really really appreciate it! Very very helpful !❤️🙏🏼
Thanks for that wonderfully illustrated message. It truly blessed me. God bless you, Sister! And I love you more!💯💜🙏🙌
And my discard was cut and dry. No way to hoover because we don't have the same group of friends, straight no contact, gray rock 🪨 discard. That was 2020. But during my healing back then your videos along with other great influencers helped guide me towards healing. Keep doing what you do which is building empowerment and hope among other great things. 🙏🙏🙏
Now she has a narc husband that is a worser narc than she is. She cant handle ir🤣🤣🤣🤣
It couldn't have happened to a better person.
Thank you my sister 🕊
Thanks Telsa!
Love this, thank you ❤
Smartie big hug!
⚡🙏 Blessings be upon you. So much gratitude for wisdom, kindness, and game...hit that like button....hit that like button.... Your words and encouragement do the service, sermon, and testify... Healing is happening... Better... These Sunglasses too see them... Navigate around these cats... Big Love and Gratitude.
Telsha you are so cold! Don’t know where I’d be without your knowledge, perspective and inspiration. I think I speak for all your subs when I say I’m blessed to have you!! ❤️
whewwwwwwwwwwww girl!!!! she rlly dropped the mic with this one today & did not come to play.
Thank you kindly for words of encouragement. I am healing best i can... Pray for us still suffering aftermaths ... 🙏