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The real discard is when you refuse to associate with them
Yes Please Pray For Me 🙏🏾
PERIODTTTTTT!!!!
After I figured out what was going on, I gave the FINAL DISCARD via text message ✌️✌️ Two years later and this demon is still working witchcraft and stalking me in every manner possible.
I understand this is a spitual battle that is fought and won on my knees 💯💯💯 STAY STRONG and STAY NO CONTACT💃🏿❤️💯💃🏿❤️
Awww 🎉
@@RuthNelly927its a generational and or family curse/cycle.
@ruthmont317 the Holy Spirit who is the Spirit of Truth spoke to me. He told me I was being poisoned and how. He told me the man was performing spells over my body and that why I was waking in drenched in sweat. The Holy Ghost revealed that he is a warlock etc. God used people around me to confirm and inform me of all types of wickedness I'd come in covenant with and experienced. They are DEMONS😈😈😈
He was assigned to unalive me. I tell people, if you got out STAY OUT and NEVER LOOK BACK!!!
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this is true..I ended up doing the discard because I found out about the other supply. I blocked phone numbers social media and haven’t talked to them since. I wasn’t supposed to know about the other supply. I was supposed to just be put on the shelf. But thank God He showed me what was really going on and I did the discard. I actually hold the power through never speaking to them, not checking social media, and living my best life. Grateful the good Lord saw fit to show me what was up. It hurt like heck but in the end I’m grateful I’m not on a hamster wheel. Grateful for this channel for helping me understand this stuff because honestly I was green to narcissism
My situation ship felt like a rollercoaster ride & I Love rollercoasters but that's an WHOLE DIFFERENT RIDE SOME REAL SCARY B.S. BUT GOD & PRAYERS IT STOPPED LONG ENOUGH 4 ME 2 GET TF OFF 4 EVER AMEN TYL
100% there myself thank you for your comment 💯❤️🙏🙌
One part that stood out to me is your comment saying “grateful the Lord saw fit to show me what was up”. When I tell you, BUT GOD! So many don’t make it out with their right minds, with a support system, with their children, with the legal system (bc narcs definitely manipulate even judges), etc. - however, God saw us fit and pulled us out of those horrible situations that we had no business being in. I’m so thankful & so blessed to have a God that kept giving me chances, despite me so badly wanting something that was indeed NOT his perfect will for my life 😭🙏
It feels real good to have my power back, and to be healed...
Your closure is in how they treated you. That says it all.
Exactly! My husband of 12 years showed his true colors, so brutal & im thankful I'm NOT him or his supply
Horribly
My reverse discard was so messy I’ll never forget! I had to go into detective mode! The truth came out and I freed myself! One year narc free 🙌🏾
He's the one that's broken. Thank God for revealing all and guarding me. I pray he chooses growth healing and Jesus !! Lord bring him too bottom to cry out to you like I did
Whyyy my 7 year old daughter started singing “hit that like button, hit that like button if you rockssssss with ya girl! “ 🥴🤣🤣
😂LAUGH 😂😂😂
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She’s not lying!!! I got diagnosed with bipolar disorder a few years ago and am now on antipsychotics because I was in and out of psychosis for en entire year !!!! I lost sooo many friends and family , my job! It completely changed and ruined me and I had to start from ground zero!! I’m talking I cut my bank cards off , walking up into peoples houses and going in there cars and shit! I completely lost my mind!!! I didn’t even have control of my bladder anymore I was like a 1yr old child! I was hospitalized on and off for a year was homeless as well! (In the winter!) went from shelter to shelter for abused women and got kicked out because my mind wasn’t right ! I literally LOSTTTT MY MINDDD!! Wasn’t the same person anymore! Lost faith in God I wasn’t close to him anymore I lost fucking every damn thing! These mfs will RUIN ur life on purpose and take everything from you and I mean EVERYTHING INCLUDING UR SANITY!! I was the sweetest most loving and giving person ever I’m such an empath and he took advantage of that and broke my fucking mind! Butttt I found God again and I found me a new man!! He treats me amazingly been together for almost 3 years now, once I graduate college and become a registered massage therapist we plan on getting married and starting a family and opening a business (clinic) life’s been pretty good!! I’m working as an early childhood assistant rn and I love it and I’m very happy, the happiest I’ve ever been in like forever because I’ve never been happy before ! My sister is a narc and my mother is too, life’s always been tough for me, was a foster child went from house to house and all that kinda stuff but I’m not letting that stigma get me down! I am the black sheep but idc I’m proud to be different from all these other white sheep’s in life! I’m doing a lot better mentally and in my life! That person controlled everything in my life!! Chose when I would eat food and would starve me , torture and drown our cats we had, after getting them soaked he would leave them on the balcony in the cold in the winter .. like trust me I’ve been through itttt!!! The worst fucking thing that’s honestly ever happened to me and it changed my life forever but I’ve taken the positives from it and will raise my children right with love and my future husband with help that , we will show them unconditional love and show them THIS is how someone is supposed to treat you if they claim they love you! I’m in a very happy and healthy relationship I couldn’t ask for anyone better! He makes me want to be a better person everyday and motivates me to workout and eat healthy and do yoga (I’m going for part 2 of open heart surgery again and I’ve been pronounced dead twice in my life, hence why we also can’t have children rn or the baby and I would die) so im waiting until after my surgery and when I finish college to start my future with my future hubby!! 😊😊🥰🥰 all I can say is GET OUT OF THAT TOXIC RELATIONSHIP!!! Because it’s not worth feeling like wanting to die all the time and wanting to end ur life!! Be with someone that up lifts you! YOU ARE ENOUGH! Someone will take the time to care for you and love and appreciate you even if you have toxic family they’ll be there by ur side to hold you and make you feel better and say everything’s going to be okay! My bf never encourages me to cut off any of my family as toxic as they are but the only person I really only speak to is my father (he’s not a narc, I got my big loving heart from him!) I love him very much as well!! But keep ur head up and know that this situation is just temporary!!! You have to go through this in life so you can teach urself ur worth and what you’ll never put up with ever again! So you can teach ur children to look out for these kinds of demonic spirits! It’s a huge life lesson to be taught ! I’m happy in a way I went through this because I’ve learned a lot about myself and my partner helps me everyday with my bipolar disorder… I know I’m talking all over the place but I’m trying to squeeze in a almost 4 year traumatic relationship experience into one text bubble while also trying to explain my past back story as to how I got into this situation in the first place!! Because shitty parents will make you find shitty ppl in life where you don’t know ur self worth and ur stuck figuring it out for urself! That’s why my husband and I are going to teach our children how to treat people and how you should be treated and always be respectful of other people and what not. Hope this helps :))
I did the discardeding 😊. Haven’t talked to or seen that backwards walking giraffe with the pockets touching in the back since Dec. Yeah me!😆😆
Me too. You go head with yo bad self. His same dumb A** suit wearing self. A dressed up garbage can.
A narcissist mirror's everyone they run of too because they don't have a identity of their own and they definitely don't want you to learn that. Have a good weekend! 👋🏾
That's exactly what my husband is doing with his next supply. He's all ofba sudden interested in the things she does. So immature
Mine was a full on trump supporter tshirts socks American flag shirts over the top starting crap to get attention. When I discarded they secured a new liberal supply and left all their trump stuff and machine gun tshirts here at the house 😂😂😂😂
Because of you and your videos, it took only one discard, and that discard came from me... It's been almost two years... And I will never look back... I am stronger then ever before thanks to the help of you Telsha!... You break it down spiritually and phycologically... You are an absolute Godsend... God bless you, your love, your lite! Keep shinning! You are greatly appreciated Telsha ❤️... Bless your heart and soul!
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They play monopoly with your emotions. No one deserves that. God bless you all!
God gave me permission to disgard their bad behaviour and disrespect. So glad I walked and shut that door. 😊
Does it count if I bolted the door shut after he discarded me? I NEVER answered his MANY Hoovers. It’s been 2.5 years.
A discard means they are not done with you #you are being shelved.Demons they are
Demons don’t change.💯
I did final discard 3 yrs ago - YESSS- he didn’t see it coming
Me too I did the final discard last year he did not see it coming. He had put me in his Will etc he was wealthy . I still held the Power by walking out went NO contact letting him know his money won’t stop me from dumping him over the abuse ! I love me more! Thank you God !!!!
@@Glitter504 yessssss!! That part !❤️
He calls me bipolar, when he was the problem that cause it! He don't even know his wrong doing! I am mentally strong because I am alone since I was a kid even tho I had parents and siblings!! My mom had many of us so she couldn't focus on me much but I realize that my strength was really strong!!
You are one thousand percent correct!!! The abuse will jack you up and you must leave. Even if it hurts the most. Smh. My gosh
Amen Amen Amen. You'd have to go through it, to understand how much #facts this queen speaks. Mighty God, thank you for #confirmation
That’s me I discarded him I got my power back I’m thanking God
So true they will really change you! You lose yourself! I did! Thank God For Deliverance!🙏🏽🙏🏽
Girl I could care less about him what he's doing or where he's at I'm doing good and I'm great and I hope your great name at this point and I'm glad that God showed me what a narcissist really is through you
Yep they will change you… and NOT for the better….
Get your power back!!! 💯
Straight facts!!!I dropped that fool like a bad habit and never looked back!!! Doing my healing process and living my best life!! Take your power and peace back. Close the door and seal it!!! Block them on everything!!! Great video!! Stay vigilant!❤❤❤
God forbid any brain damage..Lord heal me and I will be healed.
It's Been Almost A Week Since No Contact With That Bird And I Received A Spam Call And I Answered It And No Response On The Other End Something Deep Down Inside Of Me Believe It Was That Narc Keep Me In Your Prayers
❤don’t answer any numbers you don’t know . I been getting text app calls as my ex narc I dumped him and blocked him last year . Stay NO contact
I never let that relationshit get deep. Resist the devil and he will flee.
Everything she said is true. I'm a living example that if you pull the rug from up under them they will fold. Fetal position fold.
Just got the 3rd hoover a couple hours ago! And as like the 2nd ... Im not answering. Thank you Jesus for these videos and this information. Where would I be 👏
Wow! 💡💡💡he changed my whole personality… my short term memory gone! 😳 angry all the time
I know what you mean. Trying desperately toget back to myself
Hit that like button 🔥 hit that like button ❤
I had a narcissist do a hard discard. They blamed me for everything, told me in so many words they were aware of the things they were doing the whole time. They didn't want to see it anymore. We should be with other people. I was terrible to them, but we could be friends. Not long after, he was in a new relationship. But I was really feed up and was giving him ultimatums and threatening him. He rebeled against every ultimatum. I have heard this is the kind of break up they do when they want you to hurt for a long time.
Hello Ms. Telsha. I was thinking about this today while I was traveling to DC. It's such an atrocity that there are people out here engaged in this type of dispicable cruel mistreatment. Thank you for sharing today! ❤❤❤
Going through this right now. He tries to Hoover through the children. Hes not allowed in my house. He couldn’t touch me with my dogs d**k!!
@@kdonaldson81 I'm sorry to hear that the children have to be a pawn in this shenanigans.
@@kdonaldson81 "He couldn't touch you with your dogs D", Ewww, gross, lol. I'm pretty sure you've just abused my mental and visual, smh lol 😭. Just joking!
“The Narc Bird and the Worm”. It’s a Lifetime movie series. These birds go out and find a worm, because they need the worm as sustenance to feed, nourish themselves and survive, yet they’ll discard the worm and then want the worm back. They need and want you, yet they don’t need and want you. Can you see the flaw in their thinking and behavior? 🐛🐦💞🤦🏽♀️
Can't find the movie
@@ctownsin5791 That’s just my dry sense of humor. I don’t think anyone has made a movie…yet; but many of us have starred in a Narcs movie. 🥴😂
O ok
You helped me Telsha during a confusing & hurtful time . God send you are. It's been 2 yrs. since I discarded this thing& you& the Lord saved me from worse than a heartache!! Thank you so much,God bless you lady! Keep up the good fight! ❤🙏
I did the discard first no looking back period 💯 I am loving myself this person done entirely too much to me I didn't deserve that no one deserves to be mistreated in any way enough is enough it was time for me to walk away I don't want absolutely nothing to do with this person at all no contact at all I have door slam this person
Game is over now that I know...After 15 yrs of off and on THAT'S IT!!! I can never go back to something that will NEVER WORK!!! Ms. Tea thx for another POWERFUL message!!! They help me daily 2 now recognize a narc and 2 NEVER get involved!!!
Ms Telsha, I can always count on hearing Holy Spirit’s voice when listening to you. I appreciate and celebrate you, sis. I pray that God bless and increase you, and extend your reach. Your candor, wisdom, honesty, transparency, and knowledge helped pull me out of a web of deception today. Thank you for letting the Lord use you! Peace & Blessings! ❤
Amen
My ex narc faked heart problems to sucker me back in after I discarded him. Then I found out he had new supply and made it official with her on my birthday. I discarded him again and I'm currently 38 days no contact with no interest in ever looking back. He's blocked in every way imaginable.
I did that and blocked all communication lines from here and all here conn connections. Than I received some request from strange people on Facebook and not accepting those. Wish here luck enough provided so much attention and don’t get any in return so wish here luck. I have lost nothing and feeling great 😁
I closed the door, The game is up
I figured him out and I told him. I have the Power❤
Hello!
A pleasure to be with you!
I’ll be on, on Thursdays!
“ A village to prop them up!”
Yes!! Great description!
You are brilliant!
You nourish my heart, T!
The discard trap: they’ll ask if you can ‘stay friends’???
Do NOT!
That is so true one of the supplies called me because she knew me and she was crying because she thought we was divorced and everything and was not together and she was playing house with him for three months rolled up on that pigeon he didn’t have no words on me I tapped on that window, knowing he had another new supply of in there, so I I told him to that window, what I thought and then he proceeded to block me and keep his new supply hidden out he still talking to my brother I don’t know if that’s the way he’s gonna try to Hoover me or not. It is over. My door is off-limits to that pigeon. We have to keep reminding yourself of those gut fillings as well.
Yahoooo spot on in exactly my present life right now! So much FREEDOM!!!! I even door slammed my family and kids !! They were all in it together , birds of a feather , flock together , me on the other note am a lone wolf and I keep to myself , I have total freedom from anyone who is NOT LIKE ME!! 🎉 lesson learnt !!!😊
Door close permanently it over and she know now and future no return and I discard them for good and there is no going back period.
Yes Let us Be Clear and have No Fear Amen
A narcissist can never pair bond with ANYONE. Even their own children. Only another demon like themselves can understand them.
I was unaware of what was happening but I did discard them first I'm sooooooooooooo grateful and Thankful to God the most high thank you Telsha ❤❤😊
I discarded the narcissistic person, first married to him for 33 years never knew what the problem was till I started watching videos and I tell you they helped so much made me aware of what I was dealing with now I can leave and never come back ever again
Patiently, waiting to find a RUclips star that cares about others that are in poverty I have yet to see a star like that
This is absolutely truth as far as changing your brain patterns, etc. they cause the amygdala to swell in the frontal lobe, which is responsible for impulsive decision, making when the amygdala swells we have less control over our actions and happen to have exuberant reactions to almost everything coming from a state of fight or flight The cortisol levels in your body are so high you cannot process emotions rationally. This will then be turned around on you once you react. DO NOT REACT!
In some states, narcissistic abuse or mental abuse is punishable in a court of law. Some of these people have taken ridiculous amounts of our lives, and they deserve to be held accountable for what they have done. Many of us cannot go on about our lives due to the brain damage. My hope and prayer is that this information gets to people in time. Had I been informed I may not have ended up in my situation. I WILL HEAL they will always be what they are!
Thank you for the tea raw and unedited! ❤❤❤❤
Discarded so many times I can’t even count
This is so true !!!! 100% 💯 I did the final discard. He discarded me a 2nd time and I said nope, ever again. Of course he tries to hoover me and get in my circle at work (working on getting a new job) but yup. They are insane
I had to discard, enough is enough.
That’s the truth don’t go back 😊
Correct. Thank you👍💪🏽💪🏽got rid of that bird. Ghost them.
2 years narc free …. It was a NO for me cuz I was on my way somewhere I didn’t wanna be ! I pray God blesses everyone to get away and stay away from NARCS🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽
Heeeey Telsha this is a good one ❤
Solid GOLD, here.
Yes!!
I had that “ shelved” feeling all through the relationship.
I was…” Relationship”☑️
Done.
Item found, hoarded and stored.
8 years ago, it still makes my head spin!
When we first started dating he would always say that we wouldn’t make it past 6months
He was say it jokingly but once we made it to year 3 and he saw it was too good to be true he had to find a way to end it
HA preach yes I got away 🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤞🙏
Thx to you sis and your southern style of breakin ish down-I realized the pattern. You must remember record the act-play stupid for a little bit know the purpose of the fake shit and callem out. But understand-they don’t realize the pattern.
I didn’t ask her ,, I walked away ..
I adore you! AND THIS COMMUNITY PEACE TO ALL🎉🎉🎉
Thank you keep teaching us 🙏🏾 ❤.
am happy I cam across your channel am going true this now he has a new supply .. am left here in the dark ...
This video came divinely on time. As you were posting it I was writing out what I now see from this video was the true discard and closer. I got ganged up on by two Christian narcissists one overt and one covert and the way they were triangulating me at the time I had no idea they were actually trying to pull me in closer because they were making it sound like they got along better without me. So I separated myself from them per their wishes I thought. Then the manipulation and abuse got worse. To me that’s proof we really don’t get along. So to live peaceably I stopped talking to them. I thought it was CLEAR our friendship had ended with all the blow ups that had happened with them and us not even being able to be on speaking terms. Until today when the covert invited me to their birthday party. Whatt? So I politely let her know that we have lost our friendship. I made it clear. And this video revealed that to me that not talking or separation to a narcissist is still an open door and you being shelved. I closed that door today. I didn’t realize that even when I went to apologize to them, hoping to get closure, they were denying me closure and trying to keep things open for further arguments. You really have to tell them it’s over. Running, hiding, gray rocking… it’s all just an open door. SEAL IT SHUT. 🚪👋🏾✌🏾
The background for their show. You, the wife, the girlfriend for 20 years, you're just that biatch! Yes baby, they will run back to you . Just like Magic Johnson ran back to Cookie when he got sick . That's what they do. Don't be available
I was so happy before I met him…..it’s sad seeing the person I once was 😢
He definitely was looking for me to come back 😂boy please 🙏 I’m free 🆓
👀 he tried asking can we be friends 😮Block Blocked, Discarded By Me 😂
I said it❤
Telsha u are funny!!!! Not it takes a VILLAGE to just Prop the Narc Up!!! U ain’t never lied!!!!😂😂😂😂😂🤌🏾🤌🏾🤌🏾
15 months NC narc free w a GPS boot on his left leg n still 6 weeks to go b4 being removed 😊🎉
Speak sis, thank you for sharing your videos ❤
Hey!!! Thank you again Ms. T 💜🦾
Nah, he discarded me. Gave me all my things out his house so I don’t hold the power evidently. SMH. But I never showed emotion or called back. But I am upset that he got to discard me once again. I believe he finds joy knowing he got the last discard. Even though I will never contact him, he isn’t contacting me either so I feel he still won. Oh well, lesson learned..
Thank you T!! Appreciate you ❤️!!!
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Fem covert Narcs are very good at this
What if they do a lazy Hoover ? And then disappear when rejected?
Amen So 🙌 True
Yes I left the malignant narcissist and filed for divorce I am not going back ever to that backward walking giraffe with short legs 😂 he mad I discarded his Dusty behind first he knows I figured him out I called him Satan puppet when I reached out for a address to send D papers I gave him a hard discard
This is so good
I got the power, that's why she still parking behind my house in the church parking lot 😂😂, and never going back. Thanks Ms. Telsha 👍🏿💯🙏🏿
King Solomon said!!! Better have a peace of dry bread 3 days old with peace, instead of meat with sick head .
Yes this is good and spoke volumes ❤
You be so on point!!!!
He kept saying that we needed to talk in person. We had just left each other after 6 months together. We were long distance. He left, his behavior changed so did mine. Stopped returning his calls then blocked him. 😅 Enjoy the Block Party🎉 🎉!! 😊TGBTG
THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT HE DOES‼️‼️ I'M SICK OF HIM 🤢🤢
Valuable information!!!!!!!
Happy Friday Ms T🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎
Telsa.. you communicate this so well.. thank you! ❤
Exactly 100%! I am going no contact, but have grandchildren. I have to move on for my own safety and let Protective Services do their jobs to ensure children are safe.
Thank you for all your great info!!
thank you ma’am the door is sealed on my end so they are hoovering by proxy the new person i’ve become don’t even want them back so long suckermy ez narcissist abused me pythysically while i was healing from a massive stroke
My ex narc fiance, did a reverse discard! He treated me so bad, that I wanted to break up with him! Then 2 months after he moved out, he was engaged and then married her! Oh well.she is his problem now! 😅
You look beautiful! Thank you for your videos, it’s help me through an awful silent treatment. Your voice helped me not feel alone and words really helped me.
I did the discard and he has tried to come back but NOT!!!!