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  • Опубликовано: 24 июл 2023
  • #npd #narcissist #narcissism
    Insight on how a narcissist feels watching you happy now and moving on in a new relationship without them. It’s devastating.
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Комментарии • 190

  • @mstenacious274
    @mstenacious274 Год назад +138

    Misery loves company. The Narc actually hoovers to keep you engaged with their drama, so you won’t move on and find happiness. They know you are brave, resilient and deserve better. Moving on is a huge bruise to their self-esteem and Ego. 💞

    • @reddmann4340
      @reddmann4340 Год назад +5

      She is holding this entire divorce process hostage. I just want to pay what's required of me by the state and move on with my life.

    • @rogerwoodard7867
      @rogerwoodard7867 Год назад +3

      She can just be bruised or have narc injury. I care less anything about her. I am very happy now.

  • @Pinkgirlyyyy
    @Pinkgirlyyyy Год назад +101

    That relationship destroyed me so much that I can’t picture myself with anyone else. But the past year has been the best year of my life!!! I got closer to God, I started travelling, I made more money and I’m having so much fun. He has been stalking so alot. I’ve been doing the things he always thought I couldn’t do. He tried to destroy my self esteem but he didn’t know God had plans for me. For anyone who just got out of a toxic relationship, just know it will get better ❤️❤️

    • @robinlewisart_1997
      @robinlewisart_1997 Год назад +5

      Mines stalked me for months I'm so glad he got tired and moved on. It's hard enough dealing with the breakup . I'm glad you are doing better and me too.

    • @scholastickangwa9894
      @scholastickangwa9894 Год назад +1

      Thank you ❤

    • @lorrainesanabria0472
      @lorrainesanabria0472 Год назад +2

      The same here. I am in a fight or flight reaction. I am now working on myself and not looking for anyone.

  • @Raquel314stl
    @Raquel314stl Год назад +78

    I separated from my narc in March I cried myself to sleep and woke up crying I was in so much pain I didn't wana live but now im still healing I prayed and asked God to send good ppl my way and he did I met someone and my heart is just filled with love and laughter🥰

    • @justineescobar4685
      @justineescobar4685 Год назад +4

      Yes 👏 It can get better after these horrible narcissistic relationships. God is faithful.

    • @rach777
      @rach777 Год назад +2

      I’m going through this still 7 months on when will it end? I just want him to take the pain away 😢

    • @justineescobar4685
      @justineescobar4685 Год назад +1

      @@rach777 I’m praying for you girl! I promise you, it does get better. Keep moving forward. Moment by moment. Step by step.

    • @savageking1731
      @savageking1731 Год назад

      Yes you are so correct he is trying to call but I'm going no contact and its killin him everybody has to live with there choices 😂 I love it that backwards walking jarraff

    • @belunu4980
      @belunu4980 11 месяцев назад +2

      So happy for you sis. I know trauma doesn't go away easily. But concentrate on your happiness and live your best life sis.

  • @GiantSlayer-rr1vu
    @GiantSlayer-rr1vu Год назад +33

    With all that being said is what I found is that people who love you don't put you in a position to lose you!

  • @leshalegg1014
    @leshalegg1014 Год назад +28

    The narcissist see you happy and thriving,in their mind,they are saying" I did not do good enough, to destroy you"

  • @VictoriaNakaraKizer
    @VictoriaNakaraKizer 11 месяцев назад +10

    They really are mad that your encounter with them caused you to heal, and they are still stuck in misery and daily torture. You have learned your lesson, passed your test, and moved on.

  • @deniseviechec9092
    @deniseviechec9092 Год назад +12

    The narcs job is to scare us back to our father God. The evil they awaken us to makes God step in for us and & call us back to him. We become who God created us to be in the first place before these mentally damaged p did to us. I thank God Almighty he loved me THAT much to awaken me to WHY that mentally sick person THOUGHT they could end my life. THANK YOU JIREH!

  • @jeezaa98
    @jeezaa98 Год назад +22

    Moved on and it feels so good

    • @sharonstallwort8303
      @sharonstallwort8303 Год назад

      🤗

    • @jeezaa98
      @jeezaa98 Год назад +1

      @@sharonstallwort8303 thank you

    • @sharonstallwort8303
      @sharonstallwort8303 Год назад +1

      Hope all is well

    • @shandagause1585
      @shandagause1585 Год назад +1

      Amen

    • @jeezaa98
      @jeezaa98 Год назад

      @@sharonstallwort8303 yes things are really good now I’m finally divorced from this crazy person and we closed on our house that she thought she was gonna keep from me

  • @Glitter504
    @Glitter504 Год назад +8

    Lord helped me leave 🙏I dumped that frog 🐸 with a dress and lipstick 💄

  • @SinC7777
    @SinC7777 Год назад +28

    Oh Snap! Man that is all true Telsha!
    Especially the part about their goal to ruin you so bad that you cannot get better and move on! 💥

  • @Natasha_Good
    @Natasha_Good Год назад +5

    “Narcissist don’t have courage they have an ego”. Facts!!

    • @timmywitty1432
      @timmywitty1432 3 месяца назад

      Actually they lack ego ( individuated self).

  • @rogerwoodard7867
    @rogerwoodard7867 Год назад +5

    I got rid of her 8 months ago. All you say is true. I could CARE LESS what she does. She hovered on fake FB accounts for a while until I told her I knew it was her, and I’m not interested. She lives 162 miles from me, and comes close to my home on my surveillance system. I just laugh at her idiotic behavior. She may think she owns me, she is dead wrong. Demon led chicken, I repented many times getting involved with her. I hope she reads these comments, Glenda Walker of Tn! There I said it, I do mean it.

  • @robinlewisart_1997
    @robinlewisart_1997 Год назад +5

    It takes months to get over after all of the unnecessary pain. I walked away only. They will stalk you relentlessly instead of just moving on.

  • @fruitypopwhickle6806
    @fruitypopwhickle6806 Год назад +2

    He actually told me that if we ever break up (ie. he discards me) and he's see me happy with somebody else, he'll hate me forever...

  • @eireannlappin2599
    @eireannlappin2599 Год назад +18

    Looking stunning as ever Sis. Have a fab time on your mini break! Yes, all true...5 months away from that demon and my mind is clear, moving on and returned to education, in therapy, church, praying, reading my bible and cut some old toxic friends out of my life too. The peace I feel is amazing. Reclaiming my joy bit by bit every day. Life is sweet. Our Lord is great! I love you Queen Tea and our fellow family of survivors. Forever grateful to you 🙏❤🤗

    • @carolannburke5450
      @carolannburke5450 Год назад +1

      Ditto--So so grateful--Big thanks Tea. Including you in my "gratefulness" prayers...

    • @sandys408
      @sandys408 10 месяцев назад +1

      I am doing the same and it feels good.

  • @MA-yv8dw
    @MA-yv8dw Год назад +5

    😂they don't care they're just upset they have to Restart that ferris 🎡 wheel of rotating $upply🤢. Thanks Tee for keeping it 💯💪🏾🗝️😎😉💃Hit That "LIKE BUTTON"❤️💯💃

  • @theressataylor889
    @theressataylor889 Год назад +10

    My ex already knew he couldn't stop my Godly flow. Now I did get stung but you can't do me. I'm covered. 😊

  • @leniecelewis3415
    @leniecelewis3415 Год назад +8

    That Narc Seen Me Healing And Happy Then He Hit Me With I'm A Christian So I Started Trying To Be His Friend But When He Found Out That I Wasn't Coming Back The Disrespect Was Off The Chain I Finally Went No Contact Again And This Time I Will Not Be Fooled

    • @amazingrace3838
      @amazingrace3838 Год назад +3

      Yes!! Don’t be fooled! They will try anything to get a chance to come back in your life to finish off what they started! Keep being wise!

  • @sharonstallwort8303
    @sharonstallwort8303 Год назад +2

    "Keep on trucking baby"😂

  • @lorraineamaker9416
    @lorraineamaker9416 Год назад +32

    You look amazing Queen Telsha. Enjoy your mini vaecay. Thank you for taking time out for us. You are always on point. Been following from day 1 of my healing journey. GODs continued Blessings ❤

  • @keishakikilafleur
    @keishakikilafleur 11 месяцев назад +3

    HONEY! YOU PREACHING TODAY FOR ME ...YES! I tried many different business when I was with that ape.. and for the life of me, I could not complete one. But after I ran away from that fool. Got back my energy and my striking looks Cause boy he was draining it all. I went and started 3 business all at he same time and they are doing amazing. Because I am back at being Outstanding. Period!

  • @paula25861
    @paula25861 Год назад +10

    I cut off that lowlife 15 years ago, and it’s going to stay like that what is in the past stay in the past, I never double back

  • @user-zl9xd4iy5t
    @user-zl9xd4iy5t 11 месяцев назад +1

    YES he was mad when i found someone new.and he didn't want to let me go.

  • @omayratorres7735
    @omayratorres7735 Год назад +8

    I feel like I feel his hurt. Because I go on for days and months without thinking about him,but somehow since his bday in June he has been on my mind and I just thought I was over it . Truth is I was so numb with him I process my feelings really late. It's really just processing that he literally had someone on the side ready to marry her on the side. I discarded him and his response was """ That's why I was cheating on you anyway " now those things are coming to my mind. Like how he was ready to move on and here I an 2 years later still healing . It is getting better.

    • @amazingrace3838
      @amazingrace3838 Год назад +2

      It will get better. Just don’t look back 😊

    • @spm9130
      @spm9130 Год назад +1

      Same here, she moved in a month after I had moved out of our home. As soon as the divorce was over in about 11 months, they got married. She occupied my bed even before I separated from my husband! But I can see that she is not happy at all, and neither is he! Be healed sis, and don’t ever think of going back there ❤

    • @omayratorres7735
      @omayratorres7735 Год назад

      @@spm9130 Right! I felt this thanks

  • @lindabest3171
    @lindabest3171 Год назад +12

    Praise and Glory to Yahweh Hallelujah. The Narccist wanted to bury me alive, but Jesus Christ of Nazareth was and is my Resurrection 🙌✨️🙌🏿✨️🙌🏻.Thank you 😍 Lady Telsha ✨️ for delivering another revolutionary WORD of the truth of Yahweh. Enjoy your vacation 😘 🙏🏿✨️🙌💜🤍💖

  • @candypryor8534
    @candypryor8534 Год назад +3

    thank you because as i watched this video my narc started using the flying monkey method nope im loving on me i dont want that bird anymore i’ve learned from you birds belong in trees not in my bed😊

  • @otisross2218
    @otisross2218 Год назад +9

    The Devil is a liar! You’re right about that. Hey Telsha, You’re Glowing again.🙏🏽❤️

  • @spm9130
    @spm9130 Год назад +2

    It’s been five years since I separated from my narcissistic husband and I won’t lie, I’m not interested in any relationship with a man at all! All I’m interested in is improving my life, finances and doing business. I’m more interested in God’s work and taking care of my children. They try to hook up with me but I can see right through them. I’m praying for God’s grace in my finances and health and for my work to be done well, nothing more.

  • @angelaturner6647
    @angelaturner6647 Год назад +9

    Wow, I am learning and coming out of denial. Thank You so very much for taking the time to help other people. I've never experienced anything as this. I've decided to be happy with myself. BEAUTIFUL YOU ARE💜

  • @scholastickangwa9894
    @scholastickangwa9894 Год назад +4

    10th august next month, will mark exactly a year after that brutal discard but I must say I came back strong 💪😍😍.#No contact 💪#Nac free

  • @rachel5519
    @rachel5519 Год назад +4

    Hi, beautiful

  • @Tinablackberryrose
    @Tinablackberryrose Год назад +3

    That’s so diabolical that happiness and moving on triggers these evil birds. Snatching my power and power grid from that joker was the best thing.

  • @MzSweetzTalk
    @MzSweetzTalk 11 месяцев назад +1

    Speak on it Ms. T!! ☺ Watching, hacking, and miserable...smdh. Let Go & Let God!

  • @Hrazoart
    @Hrazoart Месяц назад

    I unfollowed her on everything. I allowed her to follow me though. If you want to watch me outgrow you, you’re gonna LOVE this!

  • @Rose-dl6xg
    @Rose-dl6xg Год назад +6

    Thank you for helping to encourage and lift us up with deep knowledge Sista Tea🎉💎💞

  • @yogib8
    @yogib8 Год назад +4

    Lady T …you are absolutely STUNNING🌺… you go gurrrl!!!
    I’m just not ready to be in a relationship… I am truly enjoying my own company… I’m traveling all over the world … I became a flight attendant for a major airline … Paris, Greece, Virgin Islands, Amsterdam… I am meeting some really great people and enjoying God and life… I am seeing beautiful again….🌺

    • @amazingrace3838
      @amazingrace3838 Год назад

      Wow! Well done in your recovery 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @spencerbrando4242
    @spencerbrando4242 Год назад +1

    Everything here is 💯 facts. Most of all we do get back to living a healthy successful life without that nagging bag of dirt.

  • @bethrenee2007
    @bethrenee2007 3 месяца назад

    Ahhhh this got me smiling and crying! ❤

  • @Herc6969
    @Herc6969 Год назад +2

    U are very insatiable 🌹

  • @maxrexmusicllc7266
    @maxrexmusicllc7266 Год назад +5

    You're hilarious! 😂 Thank you for the encouraging words.

  • @Red-Iceberg
    @Red-Iceberg Год назад +1

    Lady Tea will be in Thursday nite live. I rocks with my girl. Been waiting for a sign I was truly healed, crown tilted back right and could care less about that backwards walking giraffe.. Last night couldnt remember (and still cant) my former address!!! BUT GOD. Them folks are really sick and I want no parts of THAT!!❤❤

  • @martevanderzee7440
    @martevanderzee7440 Год назад +2

    Happy vacation Telsha 🎉☀️ 🌈

  • @yydaaly
    @yydaaly 8 месяцев назад

    You are so CORRECT!!!

  • @PrettyBr0wn
    @PrettyBr0wn Месяц назад

    Why the mama be mad also like mam I ain’t done s*** to you😂😂😂

  • @shannonsalazar3237
    @shannonsalazar3237 Год назад +4

    Healed and Whole...glory be to GOD ❤❤🙏🙏

  • @risinggoddess559
    @risinggoddess559 Год назад +1

    HEALED AND WHOLE , AND STANDING MY GROUNDS AS WELL AS ON TOP OF THE WORLD. LOVING AND ENJOY LIFE BACKWARDS, FRONTWARDS AND DEFINITELY ON BOTH SIDES OF ME. I GOT THAT LOOK, GLORY LIKE NEW MONEY AND OF COURSE BLACK DON'T CRACK. SHALOM FAM. I OVE EACH AND EVERYONE OF YOU. WE'RE ON THIS HEALING TRAIN TOGETHER AND FOREVER. GOD'S ORDER BABIES.

  • @randallharrison4222
    @randallharrison4222 Год назад +1

    You are looking good and smart as well.❤

  • @donnahale1011
    @donnahale1011 Год назад +1

    Enjoy yourself Ms. Tea

  • @nikkired4925
    @nikkired4925 Год назад +2

    "IF YOU ROCK WITH YOUR GIRLLL HIT THAT LIKE 👍 BUTTON, HIT THAT LIKE BUTTON 👍 " 🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @sharhondascott6804
    @sharhondascott6804 Год назад +3

    Your hair is beautiful!! Thank you for the video❤

  • @lagoldie9783
    @lagoldie9783 Год назад +1

    Hi Ms. Telsha. You look good in your outfit. Las Vegas is the move. So much to do there. I like cities like that. 🔥🔥🔥✅

  • @SinC7777
    @SinC7777 Год назад +3

    He even told me that he feared me leaving him and having the nerve to get better. Sakes.

  • @geraldpleasant7733
    @geraldpleasant7733 Год назад +1

    Enjoy yourself in Las Vegas women of God I was just in Las Vegas last week with my family celebrating birthdays in July which and God bless you and I'm not thinking no narcissist I have move on and healing better than ever from the abuse and krama has a way dealing with evil people and she will receive hers in due time and ✌️

  • @lasanameacham9968
    @lasanameacham9968 Год назад

    Let all narcs & family watch while i repost my resume ✌️✌️✌️✌️

  • @meanimeconingles
    @meanimeconingles 7 месяцев назад

    Everytime I sing I feel so happy, it releases me from my narc parents.
    So today I was singing in the shower and immediately my mother starts yelling at me to "finish with that shower".
    (Because my father had told her to tell me, yes he uses her to yell at me). (And yes, they switch roles everyday).
    I promised myself I'm going to finish singing this song and then I'll leave.
    It disgusts me that they hate me happy.
    Thanks for the video, girl.

  • @shirlspark_stardust
    @shirlspark_stardust Год назад +3

    Enjoy your vacation Ms Tea stay hydrated praying for you in Jesus name always 😊🙏🏾❤️

  • @aprilwagner8172
    @aprilwagner8172 Год назад +2

    Oh lady. We rocks with ya!! Love you and i am following!!

  • @Nikki_Nicole_
    @Nikki_Nicole_ Год назад +4

    Looking great girl!! Enjoy your vacation!

  • @juliahaymer
    @juliahaymer Год назад +4

    I know this is off the subject but I love what you're wearing, ! Enjoy your stay ❤️

  • @user-ik6mk8fu9d
    @user-ik6mk8fu9d Год назад +3

    Thank you Ms.Tea yes i been watching you since last year i love your videos i have been on my healing journey i am able too see my light again .and better yet im @ peace not pieces ❤❤

  • @LUVTHYSELFQUEENNATALIE2024
    @LUVTHYSELFQUEENNATALIE2024 Год назад +1

    You look beautiful‼️‼️😍❤️ Be safe and be blessed 🙏🏽🙏🏽. From Norfolk, VA ☺️ P.s everything you said was correct 💯💃🏽💃🏽

  • @vanessawilliams7660
    @vanessawilliams7660 Год назад +1

    U are the Truth GOD Bless you

  • @boldlylivingblessed
    @boldlylivingblessed Год назад +1

    You look wonderful❤️❤️❤️

  • @conniekimes6019
    @conniekimes6019 10 месяцев назад

    Amen my sister

  • @manessaland4267
    @manessaland4267 Год назад +1

    Yes Queen T!! Teach!!!

  • @reddmann4340
    @reddmann4340 Год назад +1

    I can't wait to arrive and experience this.

  • @yydaaly
    @yydaaly 8 месяцев назад

    These backward walking Giraffes are sick creatures.

  • @dawnettawilkins2088
    @dawnettawilkins2088 Год назад +1

    Hi Ms T you look so beautiful as always thank you for the message I haven't even listened yet❤

  • @shirlspark_stardust
    @shirlspark_stardust Год назад +1

    Greetings Ms Tea and survivors yes I thank Jesus for freedom and God giving me the strength to leave that narcissist I filed for divorce and in the process I will be free from Lucifer's puppet dusty clown backward walking giraffe with a tutu on 😂love when Miss Tea cracks on them 🤣I refuse to go back to that no way

  • @sharonstallwort8303
    @sharonstallwort8303 Год назад +1

    Sis you are just stunning

  • @staceydelbucchia2576
    @staceydelbucchia2576 Год назад +3

    Awesome message Sis...have fun on your getaway...you deserve it...looking so beautiful...praise God we are blessed and it feels wonderful to have happiness again...lets keep gliding...sending hugs XO...❤‍🩹🌹

  • @Starpple38765
    @Starpple38765 Год назад

    Wow....That's 5 star fancy hotel Telsha God, he really bless you financially, materially and spiritually. Glory to God!

  • @donnahale1011
    @donnahale1011 Год назад

    Ms. Tea this msg is on point

  • @newyrnewme7609
    @newyrnewme7609 Год назад

    Luv, luv this ❤❤❤❤ Yes!!!

  • @genfann9976
    @genfann9976 Год назад

    I'm feeling the joy of the lord,the narc hoovers won't get anywhere with me.

  • @ranginijeyatharan6665
    @ranginijeyatharan6665 Год назад

    Thank you for the advice.

  • @sakimoontheefixer
    @sakimoontheefixer Год назад

    Thank you sis and all these good things unto you as well.

  • @vanessawilliams7660
    @vanessawilliams7660 Год назад

    Awesome Beautiful Sis perfect timing 🎉

  • @lindafolks
    @lindafolks Год назад

    Carole King, “It’s too late now, it’s too late, though we really tried to make it…..”🕊❤️🙏😃
    God bless you Telsha!!

  • @patricelawrence6812
    @patricelawrence6812 Год назад +1

    Thank you 🙏🙏 Enjoy ♥️

  • @danielle2678
    @danielle2678 Год назад

    Thanks for the video ❤️

  • @user-wh4by7se5g
    @user-wh4by7se5g Год назад

    One of my favorite places! Encore!

  • @tamekashelton354
    @tamekashelton354 Год назад

    What’s So Crazy I Been Getting Calls from block numbers Spam Risk Numbers Numbers I Never Seen Before calling Me Lately I Believe It’s My Ex Narcissist Boyfriend Doing The Calls I Have Not Talked Or Seen Him In 5 Weeks Or So 🤔

  • @yolandaholliday4964
    @yolandaholliday4964 Год назад

    Thank you so much

  • @yydaaly
    @yydaaly 8 месяцев назад

    Hello!!! Beautiful Spirit inside and out.🫶💞🔥

  • @isabelolsson1890
    @isabelolsson1890 Год назад

    You are so right ✅️ thanks a lot for the video.

  • @BeautifulKingdom88
    @BeautifulKingdom88 Год назад

    ❤😘 perfect message thank you🎉

  • @jlove8586
    @jlove8586 Год назад

    I enjoyed this video. And you look radiant!!

  • @user-cy9in5ry9c
    @user-cy9in5ry9c 11 месяцев назад

    Spitting facts.

  • @mahaliacarribon3335
    @mahaliacarribon3335 Год назад

    Enjoy your vacation! GOD BLESS YOU!

  • @lovepeace4304
    @lovepeace4304 11 месяцев назад

    When he seen me pop out and was genuinely happy, he couldn’t take it and confessed to having a baby on the side,,, I was unbothered and it caused a major injury.

  • @lorettamoore5509
    @lorettamoore5509 Год назад

    You are so right

  • @allisonstephens9421
    @allisonstephens9421 Год назад +1

    Yessss I Have Move On Thank You So Much Ms.T Love Peace And Blessings To You And Your Family 🙏💞

  • @sheilablanton4894
    @sheilablanton4894 Год назад

    Have a wonderful time 🎉

  • @charitypatrick9325
    @charitypatrick9325 Год назад

    Thank You ❤❤❤

  • @Starpple38765
    @Starpple38765 Год назад

    Wowww you look gorgeous, elegant

  • @shirleygonzales5284
    @shirleygonzales5284 Год назад +3

    You look beautiful!!! Thank you for your wisdom!!

  • @millionaire2631
    @millionaire2631 Год назад

    Thank you ❤

  • @motivationalteachermissh9108
    @motivationalteachermissh9108 11 месяцев назад

    Nice job sis

  • @pj2.085
    @pj2.085 Год назад

    You look great in any environment! Enjoy your Vegas trip! You deserve it! 💕