I agree! When he started sending me cards and gifts and wanting to see me after he asked me to move out and that he only married me to check a box, I was like YOU ARE LITERALLY UNSTABLE hahaha... I blocked and filed... bye! They are incredibly crazy. They make impulse decisions and think that they are so valuable, when in reality, WE were the valuable ones!
T.R.U.T.H. They are dangerous to both themselves, and anyone, and everyone around them. Thank God for saving me. I was married to a demon possessed entity. God is the ONLY reason that I survived.
I'm leaving the trash in the trash where it belongs. I will NEVER let him come near me EVER again. God delivered me from my enemy. And, I won't ever be looking back at him because his intentions towards me were pure evil. We were unequally yoked. He had to go! And, I pray that his new supply doesn't waste as much of her life as I did on him.
A narc is nothing more than the human form of satan on earth.... And when all of your time, attention & focus are on them and not on God, then we've made them our god or idol, and God said I will not have any other god besides me. I had to repent from sin & allowing anybody before God, ( I opened the door to the narc ) and to denounce all soul ties to the narc and reshift my love, affection & attention back to the Father & Jesus Christ, He is my first love.
The Narc is putting letters and cards in my mailbox, popping up where I shop, and stalking around my house. In one of his letters he stated that he made a bad decision going back to his ex. I will never take him back after he brutally discarded me. He treated me like I was nothing.
@@cmockingjay7265 I had my whole number changed. That’s why he started putting things in my mailbox and stalking. It doesn’t really matter if you’re unblocked or if you block them. They will find a way to stalk and Hoover you but it’s only when something goes wrong with whatever situation they’re in.
They always come back like nothing ever happened bc they have no conscience to FEEL like a normal person that has guilt and shame. They have this “unhuman” behavior where they can only remain sane if they are the King of your world where you obey and align with their delusions! You are soooo right. It’s happened to me multiple times. But thankfully with your help and me working on myself YOU made a difference in liberating me. Thank you Ms. Tasha.
Absolutely yes Ms Tea.i told him he was draining I haven't dealt with that walking backwards bird in 3 years I took my power back and got closer too God again .who ever wants that waste can have him I got my peaceful life back . Thank you keep schooling us about these demonic spirits....
I changed the locks, blocked all access, don’t acknowledge the hoovers by post or the flying monkeys, divorce going through and getting my healing. That’s my closure. I’m nobody’s place holder anymore. That demon can go back to the pit of hell from whence it came! Me and mine are covered with Jesus Blood 🙏🏾🩸🩸🩸 and no weapon formed against us shall prosper in Jesus Name! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Narcs are like those monsters in that movie body snatchers once they get next to you they latch on to you via Love bombing drown you with sex and admiration making you fall in l you put guard down while their tentacles are latched on to sucking you to the bone via their cheating ghosting abusive behaviors etc Now that youre a down after enduring her and real life take a look at the narc notice how at peace they are after all the damage they've done to you notice how happy and energetic jas become narc is now compared to when yall first met the narc was a miserable lost lonely feeling unworthy now thanks to you the Hero youve nursed them back to good health just to thank you by betraying you Narcs
I cannot feel sorry for the new supply in my case. He knew he was dating a married woman and has the same lack of values as my ex-wife. A real man would never date a married woman.
My ex narc post his new supply on Facebook New Year’s Eve because I didn’t allow him to come to my house, I filed for divorce.The new supply was posting my ex when we are still married. Now karma just hit the new supply and she is on social media explaining lol
Saw him send a kiss emoji to the new supply when he was driving me home! But the relationship was so dead, I didnt give a damn! But I did tell him to go back to her when he calls me out of the blue at 4am a week later!
The narc I was involved with did the same, he took me shopping and nice dining....soon as I got home the next day I told him the same thing..."go be with her"...didn't give a care at all. #blocked his triangulation will not work
@@Illumiarre we were all there tho... I took mine back 12 times before I broke the trauma bond and let me tell u every time was worse but u dont think clearly when ur in love and trauma bonded. Right now im soooo strong after 6 hoovers i told that garbage to stay in the trash!!! FOREVER this life next and till eternity
@@Illumiarre If I can give u any advice keep listening to Mrs. T as much as u can and know they can trick ur mind with words have u beleiveing again just to let u down harder the next time.. but do what u gotta do dont be hard on urself but know once trash always trash
Oh yes 100% like nothing ever happened..." you always want to bring up the past, I can't have a conversation with you"....I am so glad I'm done and 6 hours away💯
That song, "Love Don't Live Here Anymore," was ringing in my head a few minutes before I started watching this video. My narc husband told me a 4 days before her left that he was going to move out. It has been a few days since he moved out. I have been seeing improvements in my life already. The very next day that he left i received a "Compassionate l", award. I was totally not expecting that. I was given an opportunity to improve the lives of others 2 days after getting the award. HE was blocking my blessings! I really see how goog Jesus is.
Just pray as nasty as they are changing partners with different people God save you from HIV I will be more worried about that more than give a dam who they are with our minds are so not in a positive place just think everyone going behind everyone so sick you were going behind what ever he was in the streets with
Mine got married, she kicked him out after 2 months of hell. When he tried to come back I reminded him that he got married, he dismissed it with," Oh, that wasn't nothing it was just a marriage. "
Ex been gone 2 years and seems to be having a ball...he said he found someone who loves him and spends all his money to please her...I have wished him and them the best.....sometimes reaping and sowing takes years ...I just want God's best for me...waiting on karma can also be draining...i pray the karma for those suffering from NPD or any type of abuse is God's Best Life for them and those who matter.
Negative energy works very good for narcissist due to the fact that this keeps their person bound and stuck on them. It’s a psychological in the emotional trick that they do because they figure there so long they can have an argument with you at the same time try to blame you for the argument it keeps you stuck. And yes you have in trauma bond, so what they do is they figure they have you in a little box And they can do what they Gotta do with whomever or whatever because I feel that you’re too angry and later you gonna want to resolve it or you gonna wanna try to make it better but in actuality, it’s only working out for the betterment of them
Luckily for me we dont have flying monkeys in common,and she's blocked from everything, if she wants to contact me(if she's smart,she wont),she would have to do it face to face.Would love to see her reaction being rejected by Grade A.
I looked into my exa eyes as he strangled the life out of me. The same eyes I loved and would have k!lled amd d!ed for but to him I was disposable. I could t even fight back I loved him so much. Now he is with an unattractive problematic insecure person who causes him drama. I was saved in that moment by God so he could end up punishing himself with his poor quality new supply. I feel only sadness I stayed too long now I’m so grateful he is getting his drama and comeuppins and I’m here and safe.
Well he pulled up to see me yesterday in HER CAR . I had already detached beforehand. I realize I had nothing to be jealous of . I know and I believe that there’s a man for me who won’t embarrass me the way he’s embarrassing her. Saw her car , it was filthy on the inside . Looked a mess . I needed to see it and I’m glad I did cause now I know I cried over him for nothing . He said their relationship wasn’t MY business and that OUR business wasn’t HERS . I immediately detatched further and further. Because of him and all the repetitiveness from all these narcs , I JUST HAVE LOST ALL TRUST AND HAVE NO EMOTIONAL RESPONSE TO NOTHING .
The narc left a message in my blocked box saying he’s reaching out saying he’s being the “upper person” after a whole year of my unwavering no contact. Boy Bye!! 👋 😂
My ex Narcissist boyfriend does this all the time. This time was my final discard with him. It's been over about 8 months now. I blocked him and didn't look 👀 back. But, here is the kicker. He's trying to calling, on blocked with voice mails, and trying to FaceTime me. I AM NOT GOING BACK TO THAT FOOLISHNESS! NO! MEANS NO! KEEP IT MOVING 🏃➡️ RUN IF YOU HAVE TO!
Broken glass you cannot put it back together again I am so glad that I can live my life and not be miserable in my marriage they left me for the new supply
15 months after walking away from my ex narc. Sure enough she tried to hit me up a day ago. Unfortunately for her 15 months ago I found your channel and a couple of others seeking answers. I had no clue what I was dealing with until after I walked away. I left her on read. Your content has really helped me. God bless you, ma'am. Thank you very much.
Yes been married to one for 11 years. Today I’m done can’t even have a decent conversation without drama . Lord knows you better not stand up for yourself. After she walked out on me and I let her come back . I’m done enough is enough
My narc filed for divorce and he went no contact. I just PRAY he doesn't change his mind! I'm walking on egg shells hoping those final papers get here. I don't know if he has a new supply but I sure hope so.
He made sure that I knew that he doesn’t backtrack I mean he stated it several times. It was almost like I never existed ever to him. He was very very hurtful in the end. I am so glad he doesn’t backtrack now. We’ve been divorced over 3 years now and I believe I am safe. Thank God!!
I'm glad he went back to the old supply. Yes, he's hoovered and I told him he needs Jesus. Crazy. I know she knows he's really tata! Never go backwards.
Its been 3 years and some change and the ex narc hoovers every 3-6 months or so ...she finally is letting it out that shes been getting knocked around by life a bit ....🤷
I moved to LA in 2004 and inadvertently lost touch with all my energy vampires and didn't know exactly what narcissism was and now I have clarity on exactly why God directed me 2600 miles away ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😂😂😂
You’ll be ok , that’s the feeling you get at the beginning. I don’t know you or your situation but what I’ve learned from the experience is DONT let anyone make you feel insignificant or small when you start seeing that , it’s time to bounce before it gets worst. You’ll save yourself from the scars of mental,emotional,financial,spiritual and physical abuse. Cry for a min set yourself a target for how long you’re going to grieve. Then dry your tears and push forward. Please ,run! Again I don’t know you , but when a person starts treating you poorly it’s time to go . Prayer helps ✨
Yes, Ms. Tea. A narc had whole baby with new supply (former friend) while in relationship with me. She definitely not controlling type. And narc tried to reach back out. Stay over there sir!!! Whew, this video spoke to my soul for sure. I am so glad I came across this channel. Definitely eye opener.
I absolutely love you!! I shared your channel with my 16 year old daughter who recently was discarded by a narcissist. You explain in a way that she could understand. Thank you ❤ God Bless You Miss Tea
@@maragwyn9220 my stomach sunk when I read this. I think he knows I know. He had the new supply pregnant within 3 months. They were vacationing etc. it’s been a year and he’s now left that supply with a new baby and is on to another supply. I stayed quiet the whole time. Even when he expected me to go off. I figured out I didn’t react how other supplies have in the pass. He did all that for nothing
@@Wavyfeels from my experience you have to go in on they ass like tell them the things you been holding in rather it "makes you look bad "as they say hard truth about actually who they are ..When you move quietly they come back light they ass up with cold hard truth they gone on cause now they know you know exactly who they are
I really love your videos. I watch them to make myself feel better about what I have been through. It really messed my head up a lot. I would like to tell my story... I would like to share this because I feel like other people can relate and also I would like to get it out to be on my healing journey because it is still hurting me.I have been single for a very long time. It felt like he came and swept me off my feet. He was all I could think about. Now that I look back I see he was just using me but parts of me long for the times I felt I connected to him. He started out calling me everynight. Texting me every morning. He lived a few hours away so he committed to coming every other weekend. The first few months were bliss. He made me fall in love with him. Then the ghosting came . I went all out for his birthday and he left a few days after saying he needed space. He went from everyday to just wow what just happened. I didn't know what was happening. Then he came for his birthday I went all out. I mean decorations balloons everything u could imagine. This man didn't even say thank you. He went from being the man of my dreams to someone who just was cold. That stare. That blank stare. The crazy part is before this one day he left and everything was good I just cried. It was before I even saw the signs I literally cried when he left so hard it caused me to block him from FB and everything else. I couldn't understand why I was so upset. It was my spirit rejecting his. Fast forward to me still being with him because he created that trauma bond of calling me every day just to get back to where It started from. He gave me breadcrumbs and still wanted to see me but I knew that love bombing was going to someone else. I made the mistake of calling him out. Because at this point I saw all the signs. I started realizing something wasn't right . I started researching. I made the mistake thinking I could help him to tell him he had narcissist personality disorder. All of the signs were there . His friends had even told and warned me about him. I tried to help him I said what it was and said I'm sorry whatever happened to u to make u like this. You can not accept love and I think you have narcissist personality disorder. When I say the devil came out. He immediately called me all kinds of foul names he called me screaming at me I could hear the spit coming out of his mouth. The person I thought I was helping turned. Oh and he turned dirty. The girl he started seeing before he discarded me he had her call me. He started writing me from fake FB pages and I knew it was him and when i text him after that he not only had her text me he called the police on me for texting him 😅. Like what ? He literally skewed all reality and got me wrapped in the most weirdest toxic shit ever. I thought I was in love. He always told me he is taking time to get in a relationship but after I told him he was a narcissist he sped date got her in all his FB profile pics kissing and then got her pregnant. I made the mistake of looking at her page one day she so happy next day she posting real sad stuff. I think the devil came in my life in the form of him and I can't explain it but he is still watching me. Keep getting fake FB messages I have seen that stare that everyone talk about and he has it. I feel like I am trying to take my life back. I can't explain how crazy it has been. I rebuke the devil and I just want to stopp thinking about what he is doing with her because it is not my concern.
Stay strong and stay away. Forgive yourself for not knowing then what you know now. We have all fell victim. The demons are after your mind. God did not give us the spirit of fear but he gave us the power of strength, love, and a sound mind. Sending my support and understanding. I have been there.
You're such a beautiful lady with a great voice, great style, and knowledge of "these turd-birds." I love re-watching the videos of you driving. So cool. You have helped my old, scapegoated heart on many dark days. God bless you sweet lady. Always rockin' witcha! And yes, all we need is JESUS!🙏❤️🙂❤️
Yes you do know what’s going on!! Loving your input, so true! It feels like being in the Twilight Zone, they are delusional and unwilling to look at themselves or be responsible for their behavior, manipulation and spiteful behavior!!
Thank you for this video. It’s hard to get people to understand what it’s like to be in a narcissistic relationship. Every part of it seems crazy and I keep being labeled as crazy. I just took my ex to Vegas for the Super Bowl and he came back home and told me we were not a couple anymore, and started dating the new supply who’s been on the sideline for a year. He’s now demanding that I move out of his house, where I have lived for three years. My whole life has been uprooted because he’s trying to love bomb the new supply.
I've been no contact for one month and a week exactly, the narc has new supply that he had to rebound to after I discarded him (he doesn't think I know about her). I've been watching every single one of your videos during this month and because of you when he contacted me off a text app I blocked his number immediately. He is hoovering because this past week I finally started posting myself again and I look even better than when he had me, and I posted inside of my guy friends expensive car after we went to a comedy show together 😂 I should've known that was going to trigger a hoover. Only took 3 days after that! And I put my page on private right after. The back burner supply doesn't hold a candle to me inside and out, now it's time for him to be stuck with her. Everything you say is so true, thank you💜
Like NOTHING ever happened. That part was a relief the first time after an argument. The second was weird. The third time never happened and never will 😂
You are so right we have to be the one to stop all the madness, and walk away from the Devil Himself or Herself 😂 Praying and Putting Yourself First,🤲🏽
8:07 I'm glad it's over she even got me out my square ⬛ I made bad choices and dealing with a case ALL allegations.. 😮 I wonna say something and I can't just ppl walk AWAY. Let that new person see now for who they really are.
This is facts. Every time my ex wife would go visit “family” she would start an argument by text. I finally figured out wat she was doing and that was the beginning of the end..
She would also come back like she never said any of it smh I literally asked her that very thing “where all that tough talk go”, again I know why she was doing it..
I sure have experienced this loooool Going through it now, all of a sudden he wants to move back in.... (He never lived with me btw, he just stayed at mine when the other supply, (his bm called police on him). So he'd hide at mine & front like she just calling police because she's jealous of our relationship. But once I found out it was all lies, he could no longer run between us and had to find a new supply, new girl pops up tells me everything, she goes mad because she was lending him money he hadn't paid bk and she pulls up on him, he then drags her down the street & told her to gtfoh cz he don't want her & she looks like a crackhead, he did it to claim loyalty to me lool . Baring in mind he was called her the same morning I found out, treating her nicely because they were in a "relationship". Now all of a sudden he wants to spend all this time together after deserting me. I'm trying to break the trauma bond, it has been very difficult but the main thing is I know what I want for myself & its not this. Sometimes I feel helpless but I know I'm going to be OK.
I found you finally, I love you! Let's fry these Narcissists !! I love your attitude on the subject! We live in A dangerous times , creatures of Narcissists getting bolder by day! My narcissist is ⚡the horror movie I never knew that could exist in a real time ?!??!?
Got a hoover by proxy on Valentine by narc and a call from ghosting mother. Left it right there. No response after a year. God is good. Didn't even phase me. Thanks for all your videos. Telsha. Been watching them for a year. I see so much clearer because of your videos.
Once you’re out of it you see how comically insane they are. The person you once admired is a evil joke.
Pray y’all 🌸✨
Well said!
COPY THAT
Facts !!!!
I agree! When he started sending me cards and gifts and wanting to see me after he asked me to move out and that he only married me to check a box, I was like YOU ARE LITERALLY UNSTABLE hahaha... I blocked and filed... bye! They are incredibly crazy. They make impulse decisions and think that they are so valuable, when in reality, WE were the valuable ones!
@@williamwashington4633 hahah right?
A narcissist is a demon that will set you up and take your life if they can
Yes they are
Facts
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FACTS‼️
T.R.U.T.H.
They are dangerous to both themselves, and anyone, and everyone around them. Thank God for saving me. I was married to a demon possessed entity. God is the ONLY reason that I survived.
He thought the grass was greener on the other side and found out it was a karmic
I'm leaving the trash in the trash where it belongs. I will NEVER let him come near me EVER again. God delivered me from my enemy. And, I won't ever be looking back at him because his intentions towards me were pure evil. We were unequally yoked. He had to go! And, I pray that his new supply doesn't waste as much of her life as I did on him.
Amen, Sister
Yes yes sis!!🙌
New supply is just as Narc as he was! She makes the fake accounts to keep up with me! They’re BOTH backwards birds! 😮😮😮Lord cover me…
My Narc is not coming back. I shamed him way too much and exposed him to the point he hates my guts…
Did he say you was playing victim? Cause I did the same in he said I'm playing victim 😂
good job!🎉
Yeah me too. 😅
Same! Excellent job. 👏
Did he become dangerous after you told him you figured him out?
A narc is nothing more than the human form of satan on earth....
And when all of your time, attention & focus are on them and not on God, then we've made them our god or idol, and God said I will not have any other god besides me. I had to repent from sin & allowing anybody before God, ( I opened the door to the narc ) and to denounce all soul ties to the narc and reshift my love, affection & attention back to the Father & Jesus Christ, He is my first love.
That's right. Couldn't have expressed it better myself... ALL of this!!!
Amen
Amen ❤
So True Amen to the GLORY of God ❤❤❤
Amen
That's why you dont talk to them when they try to come back in. Ghost them and never look back!
Amen!
How CAN WE ALL HAVE THE SAME EXPERIENCE WITH THE NARC,!😂😂😂😂.. Lord help us all❤
Yea it was crazy to me when I knew people was walking around like that 🤮🤮
I said the same things before realizing these are demons on one assignment, and it has no other function and personality.
They always come back like nothing ever happened.
The Narc is putting letters and cards in my mailbox, popping up where I shop, and stalking around my house. In one of his letters he stated that he made a bad decision going back to his ex. I will never take him back after he brutally discarded me. He treated me like I was nothing.
Never ever return to a narcissist,Run and Don’t look Back!!
I wouldn’t know if I am unblocked because I blocked my ex.
@@cmockingjay7265 I had my whole number changed. That’s why he started putting things in my mailbox and stalking. It doesn’t really matter if you’re unblocked or if you block them. They will find a way to stalk and Hoover you but it’s only when something goes wrong with whatever situation they’re in.
I've experienced the same brutal discard more than once evil 😈 wicked 👦 boy
They always come back like nothing ever happened bc they have no conscience to FEEL like a normal person that has guilt and shame. They have this “unhuman” behavior where they can only remain sane if they are the King of your world where you obey and align with their delusions! You are soooo right. It’s happened to me multiple times. But thankfully with your help and me working on myself YOU made a difference in liberating me. Thank you Ms. Tasha.
Absolutely yes Ms Tea.i told him he was draining I haven't dealt with that walking backwards bird in 3 years I took my power back and got closer too God again .who ever wants that waste can have him I got my peaceful life back . Thank you keep schooling us about these demonic spirits....
They absolutely are from the Demonic realm. No doubt.
@@deshayallen Praying for you.
@deshayallen do u go to therapy? That's one way that will accelerate u getting your power back.
Yes I’m in therapy
Good for you! Blessing!🙏
I Don't Feel Sorry For That Thang She knew About Me So She Deserves Everything That Narcissist Put Her Through
Walking talking demons leave them where thay are in the gutter.
I changed the locks, blocked all access, don’t acknowledge the hoovers by post or the flying monkeys, divorce going through and getting my healing. That’s my closure. I’m nobody’s place holder anymore. That demon can go back to the pit of hell from whence it came! Me and mine are covered with Jesus Blood 🙏🏾🩸🩸🩸 and no weapon formed against us shall prosper in Jesus Name! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Amen!!
Is it going to be easy with no address?
@@kandlesbykash3257 sorry so late - not sure what you mean?
Amen same here locks charge and Divorce on the way.and don't need an address to get the divorce
You are never alone when you have Jesus
I think negative energy confirms in their mind that cheating is right because you are bad
Narcs are like those monsters in that movie body snatchers once they get next to you they latch on to you via Love bombing drown you with sex and admiration making you fall in l you put guard down while their tentacles are latched on to sucking you to the bone via their cheating ghosting abusive behaviors etc
Now that youre a down
after enduring her and real life take a look at the narc notice how at peace they are after all the damage they've done to you notice how happy and energetic jas become narc is now compared to when yall first met the narc was a miserable lost lonely feeling unworthy now thanks to you the Hero youve nursed them back to good health just to thank you by betraying you
Narcs
Yep
I cannot feel sorry for the new supply in my case. He knew he was dating a married woman and has the same lack of values as my ex-wife. A real man would never date a married woman.
And with Valentine's Day coming up, be aware and careful of any of these fools scheming and manipulating tactics! 😜
Ikr😂
I broke up with him 2 weeks before Valentine’s Day
He got me! Now I have to shut it down again...😑
When they move in with there new supply while there still married. It want last long 😂😂😂
My ex narc post his new supply on Facebook New Year’s Eve because I didn’t allow him to come to my house, I filed for divorce.The new supply was posting my ex when we are still married. Now karma just hit the new supply and she is on social media explaining lol
@@Gracecalledfavour 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@Gracecalledfavourbloody disgusting. These ppl act like God gonna bless their mess.
Happening to me RIGHT now
@@Gracecalledfavour🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
It has been almost one year since I received the Royal Rage! No hovers, nothing! So, I am the winner!
Saw him send a kiss emoji to the new supply when he was driving me home! But the relationship was so dead, I didnt give a damn! But I did tell him to go back to her when he calls me out of the blue at 4am a week later!
The narc I was involved with did the same, he took me shopping and nice dining....soon as I got home the next day I told him the same thing..."go be with her"...didn't give a care at all. #blocked his triangulation will not work
Lord give me strength for when this happens!
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He will keep praying. I know what u saying,,,,its a trauma bond hes not ur or anyones soulmate... just a faker... keep praying
Lmao I lowkey want mine to come back 😭 im embarrassed
@@Illumiarre we were all there tho... I took mine back 12 times before I broke the trauma bond and let me tell u every time was worse but u dont think clearly when ur in love and trauma bonded. Right now im soooo strong after 6 hoovers i told that garbage to stay in the trash!!! FOREVER this life next and till eternity
@@Illumiarre If I can give u any advice keep listening to Mrs. T as much as u can and know they can trick ur mind with words have u beleiveing again just to let u down harder the next time.. but do what u gotta do dont be hard on urself but know once trash always trash
Oh yes 100% like nothing ever happened..." you always want to bring up the past, I can't have a conversation with you"....I am so glad I'm done and 6 hours away💯
That song, "Love Don't Live Here Anymore," was ringing in my head a few minutes before I started watching this video. My narc husband told me a 4 days before her left that he was going to move out. It has been a few days since he moved out. I have been seeing improvements in my life already. The very next day that he left i received a "Compassionate l", award. I was totally not expecting that. I was given an opportunity to improve the lives of others 2 days after getting the award. HE was blocking my blessings! I really see how goog Jesus is.
by meek mill?
They run off negative energy. Some of us run off the Holy Spirit (93) some of us run of (87) 😂🤡💩
Just pray as nasty as they are changing partners with different people God save you from HIV I will be more worried about that more than give a dam who they are with our minds are so not in a positive place just think everyone going behind everyone so sick you were going behind what ever he was in the streets with
Mine got married, she kicked him out after 2 months of hell. When he tried to come back I reminded him that he got married, he dismissed it with," Oh, that wasn't nothing it was just a marriage. "
😂😂😂😂😂😂
When i got away from her! It was like a dark cloud that was removed from my life! Glory to God that i got this female succubus out my life
All those pointless arguments
Ex been gone 2 years and seems to be having a ball...he said he found someone who loves him and spends all his money to please her...I have wished him and them the best.....sometimes reaping and sowing takes years ...I just want God's best for me...waiting on karma can also be draining...i pray the karma for those suffering from NPD or any type of abuse is God's Best Life for them and those who matter.
Negative energy works very good for narcissist due to the fact that this keeps their person bound and stuck on them. It’s a psychological in the emotional trick that they do because they figure there so long they can have an argument with you at the same time try to blame you for the argument it keeps you stuck. And yes you have in trauma bond, so what they do is they figure they have you in a little box And they can do what they Gotta do with whomever or whatever because I feel that you’re too angry and later you gonna want to resolve it or you gonna wanna try to make it better but in actuality, it’s only working out for the betterment of them
What I want to know is what exactly makes them think they are justified in there actions by cheating
Well slap me down an call me Sue😒! This is nothing but the truth🙌🏽
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Same train same track, don't get on and don't look back. You got off and the new supply got on for the ride.
OK!!!
Luckily for me we dont have flying monkeys in common,and she's blocked from everything, if she wants to contact me(if she's smart,she wont),she would have to do it face to face.Would love to see her reaction being rejected by Grade A.
I will never accept him again . She’s so right . ❤
I looked into my exa eyes as he strangled the life out of me. The same eyes I loved and would have k!lled amd d!ed for but to him I was disposable. I could t even fight back I loved him so much. Now he is with an unattractive problematic insecure person who causes him drama. I was saved in that moment by God so he could end up punishing himself with his poor quality new supply. I feel only sadness I stayed too long now I’m so grateful he is getting his drama and comeuppins and I’m here and safe.
Well he pulled up to see me yesterday in HER CAR . I had already detached beforehand. I realize I had nothing to be jealous of . I know and I believe that there’s a man for me who won’t embarrass me the way he’s embarrassing her. Saw her car , it was filthy on the inside . Looked a mess . I needed to see it and I’m glad I did cause now I know I cried over him for nothing . He said their relationship wasn’t MY business and that OUR business wasn’t HERS . I immediately detatched further and further. Because of him and all the repetitiveness from all these narcs , I JUST HAVE LOST ALL TRUST AND HAVE NO EMOTIONAL RESPONSE TO NOTHING .
There's no come back, SORRY
The narc left a message in my blocked box saying he’s reaching out saying he’s being the “upper person” after a whole year of my unwavering no contact. Boy Bye!! 👋 😂
My ex Narcissist boyfriend does this all the time. This time was my final discard with him. It's been over about 8 months now. I blocked him and didn't look 👀 back. But, here is the kicker. He's trying to calling, on blocked with voice mails, and trying to FaceTime me. I AM NOT GOING BACK TO THAT FOOLISHNESS! NO! MEANS NO! KEEP IT MOVING 🏃➡️ RUN IF YOU HAVE TO!
Broken glass you cannot put it back together again I am so glad that I can live my life and not be miserable in my marriage they left me for the new supply
Negative energy for a narcissist is an ego booster
They always think the new supply is perfect wait till they see
15 months after walking away from my ex narc. Sure enough she tried to hit me up a day ago. Unfortunately for her 15 months ago I found your channel and a couple of others seeking answers. I had no clue what I was dealing with until after I walked away. I left her on read. Your content has really helped me. God bless you, ma'am. Thank you very much.
That crow tried. Bye Boy
3yrs later he called me to say hi...and see how im doing..its incredible..theyre so predictable..
@mariamihalakis2988 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yes been married to one for 11 years. Today I’m done can’t even have a decent conversation without drama . Lord knows you better not stand up for yourself. After she walked out on me and I let her come back . I’m done enough is enough
Playing victim. Can’t ask no questions but they can. Pure demon.
Thank you and good 👋 bye. I value my peace to much. unbothered.
My narc filed for divorce and he went no contact. I just PRAY he doesn't change his mind! I'm walking on egg shells hoping those final papers get here. I don't know if he has a new supply but I sure hope so.
He made sure that I knew that he doesn’t backtrack I mean he stated it several times. It was almost like I never existed ever to him. He was very very hurtful in the end. I am so glad he doesn’t backtrack now. We’ve been divorced over 3 years now and I believe I am safe. Thank God!!
Yes, just confront them each time they try and they will leave you alone
I'm glad he went back to the old supply. Yes, he's hoovered and I told him he needs Jesus. Crazy. I know she knows he's really tata! Never go backwards.
Sooo true 😅 14 years wasted but GOD 😇😇😇🎤💚💓🫶🏽🤚🏽
I said that too 16yrs BUT with God nothing is wasted....Double for our trouble!!
Once i figured her out! I got the hell away from her! No contact period! She knows she can't come
Its been 3 years and some change and the ex narc hoovers every 3-6 months or so ...she finally is letting it out that shes been getting knocked around by life a bit ....🤷
I moved to LA in 2004 and inadvertently lost touch with all my energy vampires and didn't know exactly what narcissism was and now I have clarity on exactly why God directed me 2600 miles away ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😂😂😂
Going through this now. He acts like nothing ever happened. Boy bye!!
Yes,😢 emotionally distraught 😭😭😭 don't know which way to go.
You’ll be ok , that’s the feeling you get at the beginning.
I don’t know you or your situation but what I’ve learned from the experience is DONT let anyone make you feel insignificant or small when you start seeing that , it’s time to bounce before it gets worst.
You’ll save yourself from the scars of mental,emotional,financial,spiritual and physical abuse.
Cry for a min set yourself a target for how long you’re going to grieve. Then dry your tears and push forward. Please ,run!
Again I don’t know you , but when a person starts treating you poorly it’s time to go .
Prayer helps ✨
she’s 100 percent correct !!!
Had a baby , hid the baby, and the woman, it was like nothing happened
Yes, Ms. Tea. A narc had whole baby with new supply (former friend) while in relationship with me. She definitely not controlling type. And narc tried to reach back out. Stay over there sir!!! Whew, this video spoke to my soul for sure. I am so glad I came across this channel. Definitely eye opener.
I absolutely love you!! I shared your channel with my 16 year old daughter who recently was discarded by a narcissist. You explain in a way that she could understand. Thank you ❤ God Bless You Miss Tea
Been there, done that and decide ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. Thanks be to God 🙏🏽💙🔥
Everything you said is exactly what happened. They all have the same playbook.
The narcissist went back to the old supply went he Discord me the first time yes he did married 21 years so the new supply is the old supply !!!!
You look especially beautiful today ! Peace and thank you.
What happens when you don’t give the negative energy at the discard? You just walk away quietly.
They for sure coming back
@@maragwyn9220 my stomach sunk when I read this. I think he knows I know. He had the new supply pregnant within 3 months. They were vacationing etc. it’s been a year and he’s now left that supply with a new baby and is on to another supply. I stayed quiet the whole time. Even when he expected me to go off. I figured out I didn’t react how other supplies have in the pass. He did all that for nothing
@@Wavyfeels from my experience you have to go in on they ass like tell them the things you been holding in rather it "makes you look bad "as they say hard truth about actually who they are ..When you move quietly they come back light they ass up with cold hard truth they gone on cause now they know you know exactly who they are
Yes...they came back just like u said😅😅 I said "you must know who you just called" 😅😅😅
You are telling the WHOLE truth, this is actually what happens!
It’s most definitely coming,I bet I don’t talk,engage,are entertained anything 💯💯
I really love your videos. I watch them to make myself feel better about what I have been through. It really messed my head up a lot. I would like to tell my story... I would like to share this because I feel like other people can relate and also I would like to get it out to be on my healing journey because it is still hurting me.I have been single for a very long time. It felt like he came and swept me off my feet. He was all I could think about. Now that I look back I see he was just using me but parts of me long for the times I felt I connected to him. He started out calling me everynight. Texting me every morning. He lived a few hours away so he committed to coming every other weekend. The first few months were bliss. He made me fall in love with him. Then the ghosting came . I went all out for his birthday and he left a few days after saying he needed space. He went from everyday to just wow what just happened. I didn't know what was happening. Then he came for his birthday I went all out. I mean decorations balloons everything u could imagine. This man didn't even say thank you. He went from being the man of my dreams to someone who just was cold. That stare. That blank stare. The crazy part is before this one day he left and everything was good I just cried. It was before I even saw the signs I literally cried when he left so hard it caused me to block him from FB and everything else. I couldn't understand why I was so upset. It was my spirit rejecting his. Fast forward to me still being with him because he created that trauma bond of calling me every day just to get back to where It started from. He gave me breadcrumbs and still wanted to see me but I knew that love bombing was going to someone else. I made the mistake of calling him out. Because at this point I saw all the signs. I started realizing something wasn't right . I started researching. I made the mistake thinking I could help him to tell him he had narcissist personality disorder. All of the signs were there . His friends had even told and warned me about him. I tried to help him I said what it was and said I'm sorry whatever happened to u to make u like this. You can not accept love and I think you have narcissist personality disorder. When I say the devil came out. He immediately called me all kinds of foul names he called me screaming at me I could hear the spit coming out of his mouth. The person I thought I was helping turned. Oh and he turned dirty. The girl he started seeing before he discarded me he had her call me. He started writing me from fake FB pages and I knew it was him and when i text him after that he not only had her text me he called the police on me for texting him 😅. Like what ? He literally skewed all reality and got me wrapped in the most weirdest toxic shit ever. I thought I was in love. He always told me he is taking time to get in a relationship but after I told him he was a narcissist he sped date got her in all his FB profile pics kissing and then got her pregnant. I made the mistake of looking at her page one day she so happy next day she posting real sad stuff. I think the devil came in my life in the form of him and I can't explain it but he is still watching me. Keep getting fake FB messages I have seen that stare that everyone talk about and he has it. I feel like I am trying to take my life back. I can't explain how crazy it has been. I rebuke the devil and I just want to stopp thinking about what he is doing with her because it is not my concern.
Stay strong and stay away. Forgive yourself for not knowing then what you know now. We have all fell victim. The demons are after your mind. God did not give us the spirit of fear but he gave us the power of strength, love, and a sound mind. Sending my support and understanding. I have been there.
Yesss that;s true, they come back like nothing happened.. how stupid lol
You're such a beautiful lady with a great voice, great style, and knowledge of "these turd-birds." I love re-watching the videos of you driving. So cool. You have helped my old, scapegoated heart on many dark days. God bless you sweet lady. Always rockin' witcha! And yes, all we need is JESUS!🙏❤️🙂❤️
YOU ARE SO PRETTY 🤩
Yes you do know what’s going on!! Loving your input, so true! It feels like being in the Twilight
Zone, they are delusional and unwilling to look at themselves or
be responsible for their
behavior, manipulation
and spiteful behavior!!
Thank you for this video. It’s hard to get people to understand what it’s like to be in a narcissistic relationship. Every part of it seems crazy and I keep being labeled as crazy. I just took my ex to Vegas for the Super Bowl and he came back home and told me we were not a couple anymore, and started dating the new supply who’s been on the sideline for a year. He’s now demanding that I move out of his house, where I have lived for three years. My whole life has been uprooted because he’s trying to love bomb the new supply.
My Narc after the first week came back to hoover me, claim that she just wants to be friends because we are too toxic together,,, WTF
Bread crumbs. Let that bird eat her own bread crumbs.
Y that’s what the narc told me that
I've been no contact for one month and a week exactly, the narc has new supply that he had to rebound to after I discarded him (he doesn't think I know about her). I've been watching every single one of your videos during this month and because of you when he contacted me off a text app I blocked his number immediately. He is hoovering because this past week I finally started posting myself again and I look even better than when he had me, and I posted inside of my guy friends expensive car after we went to a comedy show together 😂 I should've known that was going to trigger a hoover. Only took 3 days after that! And I put my page on private right after. The back burner supply doesn't hold a candle to me inside and out, now it's time for him to be stuck with her. Everything you say is so true, thank you💜
You said it with absolute meaning the truth will set you free,123.❤
Lacks foresight - I used to say that to myself before I knew what I was dealing with, and the coming back like nothing happened rings true!
Like NOTHING ever happened. That part was a relief the first time after an argument. The second was weird. The third time never happened and never will 😂
I rocks wit ya girlll 🎶 thank you for making these videos 🙏🏻
Heck yes! I've through it Sister! Same stuff! I'm Narc free now, thank God!
You're so beautiful! You remind me daily that I need to self care more because I was not taking care of myself while in my narc marriage.
You are so right we have to be the one to stop all the madness, and walk away from the Devil Himself or Herself 😂 Praying and Putting Yourself First,🤲🏽
8:07 I'm glad it's over she even got me out my square ⬛ I made bad choices and dealing with a case ALL allegations.. 😮 I wonna say something and I can't just ppl walk AWAY. Let that new person see now for who they really are.
This is facts. Every time my ex wife would go visit “family” she would start an argument by text. I finally figured out wat she was doing and that was the beginning of the end..
She would also come back like she never said any of it smh I literally asked her that very thing “where all that tough talk go”, again I know why she was doing it..
Yes they do! Come back like nothing!
But also, it’s all perspective, because if we block the narcissist, because we are going no contact ..,
I'm fixing to stop mines and never looking back and be unbothered n blocked thank you
I sure have experienced this loooool Going through it now, all of a sudden he wants to move back in.... (He never lived with me btw, he just stayed at mine when the other supply, (his bm called police on him). So he'd hide at mine & front like she just calling police because she's jealous of our relationship. But once I found out it was all lies, he could no longer run between us and had to find a new supply, new girl pops up tells me everything, she goes mad because she was lending him money he hadn't paid bk and she pulls up on him, he then drags her down the street & told her to gtfoh cz he don't want her & she looks like a crackhead, he did it to claim loyalty to me lool . Baring in mind he was called her the same morning I found out, treating her nicely because they were in a "relationship". Now all of a sudden he wants to spend all this time together after deserting me. I'm trying to break the trauma bond, it has been very difficult but the main thing is I know what I want for myself & its not this. Sometimes I feel helpless but I know I'm going to be OK.
Girl you look so pretty! Thanks for being such a blessing!
I found you finally, I love you! Let's fry these Narcissists !! I love your attitude on the subject! We live in A dangerous times , creatures of Narcissists getting bolder by day! My narcissist is ⚡the horror movie I never knew that could exist in a real time ?!??!?
I’ll forgive but never forget!! BUT IF YOU KEEP IT UP? I WILL expose you on social media 🤷🏾♀️
Then they have your social media banned like I can’t get on any of my social media now
Got a hoover by proxy on Valentine by narc and a call from ghosting mother. Left it right there. No response after a year. God is good. Didn't even phase me. Thanks for all your videos. Telsha. Been watching them for a year. I see so much clearer because of your videos.
❤❤ Straight TRUTH in JESUS name!!
Damn, I never thought it could happen too me like nothing happened. SMDH
TESTIFY 🙌🏾🙌🏾🤣🤣