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- Insight on when the narcissist realizes you were more than just supply. It breaks them down at their core.
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Yup - you provide a peaceful home while they hide in the bathroom on the toilet with the cell phone at 4am. ✌🏾my own peace is GREAT
This is so true
Omg. For hours lying and scheming. But God sees all!
My narc did the exact same thing everyday! They must read from the same book!
Mine did that too!!
@@teresajenkins2660They operate with the same demons, Satan is so smart he is stupid
Nobody ever wins with a narcissist !!! 💯 They do this to everyone they get with . You can't make a narcissist change. They have to want to , and they don't. A narcissist don't change , only the faces change.
Absolutely,Amen!!!
You do win, if you are prayerful, you keep these entities out. It’s the truth.
Agreed💪🏾
I know this all too well. Very charming, manipulative, debonair, and they know how to get what they want from "whom" they want and by the time folks discover that they have been used and had, it's too late. They wash their hands of you, avoid you, ignore you and when they are asked why you don't associate with them, they lie because they can't handle telling the truth. I said this on another channel, but to me they live in a Bubble where it's safe and they can't pop it under any circumstance. It's too hard and dangerous for them.
It’s a familiar spirit, and you’re correct they don’t ever plan on changing however if they wanted to turn from their sin, Christ is there with open arms….IF they truly repent.
He swore the grass was greener, now he’s catching hell, he is still stubborn and arrogant.
Mine is showing out on a Cancun vacation love of his life lovey dovey big spender kissing and hugging all over each other. Meanwhile owes me 10k 🚶🏼🦒
This is what the laws of reciprocity look like and what the narcissists always will face. Devil had no loyalty to them. When they lose an empath or a really good person, this is what happens. This is why the aging narcissist is in big trouble. They have chosen this life instead of turning to God, Jesus Christ for deliverance and healing. Narcissists age horribly. You can actually see the demons manifest in them by decaying their bodies. You cannot save them. Most of us here tried to, but had to save ourselves. They're reprobates. If the devil doesn't take them out, God will allow the destruction to continue until their last day and breath on earth.
You said it ALL!!! By the grace and mercy of God HE SAVED US FROM THEM!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Well said& so true ❤
You are so right 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Hit it on the nail ! ❤
Good luck to them trying to find another empath that puts up with they BS. Once an empath closes that door they will never get close to us again 😅
It only took a month after I left her for me to EXTREMELY blessed financially!!! 😂😂😂 She needed to be removed before God put that blessing in my life. She wasn't meant to share one bit of my success.!!! They aren't worthy of sharing anything you have or will experience!
Agree!!
The same thing happened to me. It was amazing to see the way my life turned around for the better. Especially in the area of finance.
She was draining yo seed and yo bank account. You free now
Experiencing this as we speak😂
This is great. I'm on my way out. It's definitely a road of uncertainty. So reading this helps alot. Thank you💪🏿💪🏿
Yes Ma'am! U are correct. I was the table. I paid the bills. I made the appointments. I did his laundry. I took care of him when he was sick. I made the meals, I was his ATM, I paid his traffic tickets etc., etc. One day I had enough & left for good.
Sounds just like me, sister! I had enough and made a move like a ninja. Thank God for the escape and the peace I am now enjoying! 🙏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️🕊️✝️
Your stability is taken for granted. They don't know who you really are until after the discard. This Duck texted me and said. "I wish I was still your husband." Not that he wished I was his wife....SMH.
Dang , I would've never even caught that. That statement is about him!
Both my parents were malignant narcissists...when I finally escaped their entire world imploded...they couldn't cope and BEGGED me to come back with all sorts of gaslighting and unreal promises to "behave better"... never went back and that was the BEST decision I ever made.
I find it harder to believe tht grown ups and let alone parents can be narc's
There’s nothing as bad as having narcissistic parents. Only people with such parents would get it. I’m glad you got out.
He knew I was more then grade A
And some primary supply "ARE THE TABLE, CHAIRS, AND THE WHOLE BUFFET" ALL YOU CAN EAT. Narcs are so smart, so Stupid.
She is RIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!! They have LOST
@@kimberlyfloyd1009💯
This💪🏾
We all have that ONE person we will NEVER forget- imagine this feeling with a narcissist. If you were the ONE, they took a L and they know it.
Would you hoover you ?
Nobody hits the million dollar jackpot TWICE -
I Thank GOD still get teary eyed that I got away 4 yrs ago🙏🏿🙏🏿
I was the stable housing with indoor plumbing, the kitchen for them, the bank, the road trip transportation and yes, the emotional doormat. But, praise the Lord I'm free!
When Telsha said they a “Repetitious loop of insanity “ I busted out 😂, I know that’s right frfr.
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This girl that gave me the silent treatment i have the ability to see what they are up to and they are looking rough and unhappy while i give them a taste of their own medicine
Pizza and 2 litter Pepsi? 🍕 boxes under the bed???😂😂😂. I cant stop laughing 😆 🤣 😂
🤣😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂I fell out when she said that!! 🍕
My ex threatened su1cid3 (coercive control), and I called her bluff. Twelve years later and she’s still breathing. Meanwhile I’m thriving. Can’t control me. They will thr3atrn to un-4live themselves. The are more scared of ☠️ than a child of light. End all of their supply and go out as pathetic? Not their style.
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It’s no winning with no unclean spirits I don’t care what y’all label them as narcissist, etc. so any human without God will commit up under the sun.
Yes you are right
Beware when you go no contact with them, they'll start blackmailing you.
All true!!! I was with a covert narc 5-1/2 years. Been 11 mos no contact. Reverse discard. Been out of my home & life for good. The healing journey is real.
Congratulations!
NC the way to go!! 😂
She's realizing that now. But too proud to admit it or accept it.
That's were you are wrong at, they don't care about what makes since. All they care about is gimme, gimme and take take-facts.
No she’s not . !
Lol so true
I definitely felt like an appliance preferably a fridge just keeps taking the food out of me 😭
Repetitious loop of insanity! You were spot on with this one.
You hit the head on the nail!! I always said I was like his mother who wasn’t a mother she abandoned him at 4 so he never had that connection.. she had him at 14 so she was a young mother and as he grew up it was like they were brother sister due to the dysfunctional family dynamic! So exhausting.. so glad God delivered me from that monstrosity of a person!
It is very exhausting. I can relate.
Phewwwww chile same!
Phewwwww chile same!
True statement! Drama every day! Their life is ALWAYS a hot 🔥 mess...
Yes! Yes! Yes, you're talking to me 🖐.
The grass is definetly GREENER my end and it shall continue to be. But without him, with someone else. Let him see.
You're so correct QUEEN. Just before I moved out, with all of my furniture, except the bed, he had that other bird in it, he had the audacity to tell me that he thought that I was gonna be with him for the rest of his life. I said, I know you didn't think that I was gonna be here taking all the crap you're putting out for the rest of your life. Well, he left again with that bird. I mean having that crow come and pick him up. I told GOD, I SAID, GOD I'M TIRED OF IT. I THANK YOU FOR DELIVERING ME. BY THE TIME HE GOT BACK, I HAD START MOVING MY BOXES,TVS. THAT BIRD SAID SOME AWEFUL THINGS TO ME. I DIDNT SAY A WORD. THE NEXT DAY, HE STARTED BLEEDING SO BAD, HE HAD HIS EX- WIFE TO TAKE HIM TO THE HOSPITAL. THAT WAS A WHOLE WEEK AGO. THEY WILL REAP WHAT THEY SEW
They have supply withdrawal. That's the human moment. Nothing more nothing less.
Girl you said it…. I felt more like a mother and a financial caregiver than a partner. Thank Goodness I dodged the bullet and got out when I did
I remember the last time he literally ran off.. cause he stayed running .. one of the things he Said was "IM NOT CHANGING!" Lord Lord Lord
Omg do these folks write a script have a yearly meeting and pass it out to each other???😂
That demon is smearing me calling me a stalker. He’s messaging and calling ppl with fake numbers telling ppl it’s me. They believe it too.
Not dusty with the pockets touching in the back!😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂🤣🤣
😅😂😢
My ex is drinking alot now when he was with me he would have 2 beers a month but now is drinking his life away
But I’m not going back. And you’re right, he doesn’t look good anymore.
So true about coverts parentifying their partners! I remember very early in my marriage saying to my husband, “I will not and never will be another version of your mother.” I think he took that as a challenge because he certainly tried to put me in that position. The most ridiculous part is that he resented the results of his efforts. It was such a mind f-k! That man had so much twisted it will never be unraveled.
My ex didn’t do anything for himself. He calls himself being mad at me because I blocked him. Saying we are done like we were still in a relationship. He moved in with another woman and her minor children.
“A repetitious loop of insanity!” Whew! Ms. T you be on it!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Cant help someone that dont want to help themselves 😢
If you were the Main ONE, and you left them they took a major L & they are aware. Sure , they move on
(They have to) and EXIST best as they can. But you’ll never be forgotten or replaced.
This is FACTS 💯, That backwards walking giraffe 😂😂 will never have access to me again ✌🏾✌🏾, Game over😎✌🏾, Thank You for Sharing Ms. Telsha ❤️, Much Love and Blessings to You 🙌🏿🙌🏿❤️💜
Not the empty pizza boxes under the bed🤣🤣🤣
I was married to a covert narcissist and did everything for him.
You are correct! He thought the grass was greener on the other side. He married her 5 months after our break up. Him and his wife and his entire family is off social media. He did even post your wedding and still haven’t 6 months later! To God be the Glory! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
I haven't seen this. Perhaps it will happen when the new supply relationship falls apart. I did see her in person though, she looks like a mess. Like she's been drinking and not sleeping well. She wouldn't even look me in the eye. God healed me. He will heal you too.
a repetitious cycle of insanity-genius
Is unbelievable seeing thus, BUT TRUE! OMG
I agree w this message!❤
Yes it felt like I raised him.
It was so tiring.
I said no constantly which is why we are done so quick and years didn't go by before I realized he was a PhD level narcissist
You see a person true nature when they don't get what they want. Sad,but true 😢
The narcissist I know goes from one to the next. I see him in action because we work together.The first ' supply' woman acted like she wanted me too. The second one acted kind of friendly but smiled in my face like 'I got him-you lost'. I am still healing but I feel like you got a shell of a soulless narc who only cares for himself and needs a puppet to control every second of everyday and he found it..I wonder how long this supply will last ?
My soon to be ex was over 450 when I met him. With me had weight loss surgery and even a stinking tummy tuck! Must have been that 3 piece and a drink like you said!
Not the size of 2 walls Telsha😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤😂😂GOD BLESS U...I LOVE U..I LOVE U......❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Righttt! I FELL OUT 😂😂
If they want to alive themselves, they call me.I'm gonna help them walk them through it
Yes!! I could relate to this whole video. Now I'm divorcing him. I hope it is finalized soon.
The narc after the first year or two of the separation they think you are replaceable, but after that they realize you're not...
He went into hiding after I had limo photos from the party event I went to! His flying minions was lookin mad at me! 😂
u make me laugh so hard, about the birds 🐦
Hi Ms. Telsha Good day. Thank you for sharing your insight today. All I can say is that I hope a good love finds us all, for our trouble! Lord Do It!
He told me I was just like his mother God be the Glory
I feel so happy and bless being inspired by your videos
I’m trying to understand, he & his mom already stayed together almost half a year & she’s cooking for him! But he was with me & still “going home.”
The sad thing is I wasn’t aware that his mom is going to live with him! So I’m always sad & tell him to ask his mom to cook for him because I feel like his mom for 11 yrs!
6:34 yes he did!! Allathat.
Scary how accurate this is
Good afternoon everyone
I will NEVER go back to
This message is all true praise the lord Jesus blessed by this priceless message praying 🙏 Jesus is lord
I love this channel, walking backwards giraffe ! lol I know now I know but I got my whole heart broke but I’m not going to lie ladies I’ve been playing with mine. It’s not nice but karma baby, he don’t know that I know and been being mean as hell sexy as hell but u can’t have it
Ma'am I agree with this statement I felt like I became a mom and a care taker running a nursing home
Its over by the blood of Jesus christ 🙏
So true. I am a friend. As a friend, I was "parentified" for sure. Proxy attempts by twin. Competition with twin. I've got double trouble. Did not know about hoovering till now. Went back twice. Did not know about narcissism either. Now I do. Am no contact - but being hoovered every couple of days by one or the other. So keep those videos coming. They are the best. Thanks so much. These folks also have CPTSD. So it is quite sad. They may not be full on narcissists but definitely have traits of manipulation, lying, and victimization. It is truly exhausting. Thanks again. Lots of validation here.
Yep. I was mother.
Ms Tea got me rotfl the special names bacwards walking girrafe pigeon with the missing feathers and clan of crows and the size of two walls the pizza under the bed and two litter my juice almost came out my nose 😂🤣
Yes, he did parentify me.
Hello Queen💐 it’s been a while so Blessed to catch this❤️
PREACH Sista
Talk about it!!! They don’t ever change
So we are the order to their chaos..I see
You are 100% correct
IT does have somebody, supply IT cheated on me with, living together for 2 yrs, ingaged. Seems IT is doing just fine. IT has IT'S slave in place.
So how are they missing us again???
This was on time! She had me all wrapped up! Until I could see better!
This video is spot on! He is really going through it. It's unfortunate that they lack foresight
WOW this was on point!! Everything you said is my situation!! Thank you for your words homegirl! ❤
Well he may have tried to make me the parent but.... try being married to a narcissist who still LIVES with his mom and dad smh. I am grateful I decided to keep my apartment when we got married. I tried to give him grace in the beginning. He said he would get a job etc. Now 7 months later, no job and he still lives with his parents, while I'm home alone and being accused of cheating everyday. I've already filed for an annulment just got to have him served now. And yes I've heard him say especially after I don't show up for church that oh everybody loves you babe and he'd be just smiling, so I come back and it's cool for a while and then eventually he goes back to the same behavior.
I don’t even know where to begin with
Another one of your videos resonates
I had to watch this twice because GIRL you was talking to me it my table my home, at one time I had both of his Sisters kids living with me, the whole family crazy and toxic but I love the kids they didn’t ask for this
You are not lying about the weight. 😂😂
I rocks with you girl ❤❤❤
Wonderful 😍😍😍
Hey gurl I was at work on Thursday's night baby caught that live Honey when u went to sing that song I stop looking at the live and went to praiseing The Most High Yah and The Holy Spirit showed up had a good time with the Holy Spirit got off work 6am got home was praising her some more thanks sis for all u do for your sister and brothers
very true indeed
I'M ON MY LUNCH BREAK ROLLING 🤣🤣🤣🤣 DAT PART ‼️ I PROMISE ‼️ CWBH ⁉️ OKAY KK 🤦🏾♀️😂😂😂😂🤷🏾♀️
I put out so many fires. I’m sad to think about it.
They never experienced true agape love just like Jesus Christ and thats what we gave,unfortunately they just didnt know how to accept it
AMEN
Shalom
Truth🎯🎯🎯💯💯💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾♥️♥️♥️♥️
Unfortunately Sis you’re off on that one… they have the triangulation support…and they are ride or die, will eat a mile of their mess just to stay valid in their life 😢
Absolutely facts
Amen.
Heyyyy❤
L😅😅😅😅😅 this is so funny and true ❤😢 yet sad smh
tea, my girl is so mad at me because of stupid shit,, but i know for sure ,i am the best supply she ever had and ever will ,,but now she has always came back ,, but this time i think she gone for good