This is 💯 me I was a real romantic guy, and only wanted 1 woman. I was with the same girl for 12 years we were ingaged to be married, and in the end I found out the truth she was cheating on me pretty much from day 1. She had addiction issues which caused a lot of problems, and broke us up in the end. She could never get over her addictions. My boys were taken from me because of her, and we had a baby girl who died at a month, and a half from SIDS. She stole from me and manipulated me for 12 years. I loved her we had 3 handsome boys together, all I ever wanted was her to get better us be a family, and raise my boys together. It completely shattered my heart in a million pieces. It took me years just to be able to tell myself to move forward. I was lost when we broke up, and I turned into a player for years, but in reality my heart was always broken, and it did not matter how many women I was with, in the end I was alone and still going through these things, I feel like I gave everything I had into that relationship, all my love I feel like I have no love left in me. I am Not the player I used to be, and when I stopped being a player I started to think of the reasons why I am the way I am. In the end I loved the wrong woman for far to long. I lost everything in the end nice 4 bedroom house nice new suv awesome kids who I love with all my heart in end I lost it all. Hard to move on after something like that happens I thought by distracting myself by being with women all the time, if I am with enough women I will not have to think about everything, by the end of my career as a player I still was just as broken as the day she left me. Really hard to move on after putting so much of yourself to 1 person. I got emotional writing this, I am not afraid to admit it. This really hit home with me.
Do you have any perspective for the ones you played, that genuinely loved and were loyal to you, but never had a chance? A player put me in the psych ward, it's a miracle not 6 feet down. I'm curious to hear?
No lie, I haven’t felt as strongly for a woman as I did for the first one. I did feel some pretty strong feelings for another recently but alas she was an annoying headache and it never blossomed into anything further. But that feeling, that strong feeling of euphoria, that’s gone. I don’t trust women at all anymore, and now I mainly chat to them for sexual reasons and nothing else. Funny thing is that now I find the first one who I liked so much unattractive. Crazy how it all happens eh
I have had one true love in this life and she broke my heart and abandoned me twice. At 58 I don't feel I can ever risk my heart like that again. It's become a sad and cold life.
This is actually accurate af. The ones who love the hardest, are also the ones that are the most deeply destroyed when that love is no longer enough for the one they'd give the world to.
I got cheated on and now I vow to never be in a relationship again because I got heartbroken twice and that I already knew there were too many boys out there who can’t commit to just one girl. I was so hurt I couldn’t risk it again even if there was 1% chance I’ll find someone who’s willing to stay forever. It wasn’t that I got cheated on that really hurt me, it was the fact that I sacrificed so much for that person and in return I was abandoned. In my spiritual beliefs, we weren’t meant to be on this earth with our soulmate because we need to find that love within ourselves. I personally believe earth is a school and we are here to learn valuable lessons.
@@MinaandBjorn I am so sorry you gotten cheated on. I know how it feels. But trust me with a smile like your you will have no problem finding a new one. Someone who going to love you no matter what
@@Kennymacdougall same bro. Same. I used to be extremely romantic and creative. I used to love hard. And in some instances I did and still do. But I learned real quick how bad I could be hurt. How deep I could be scarred. And I learned real quick not to give that out to just anyone. I also found myself becoming colder. In wisdom I found darkness. But that by itself isn't a problem because that darkness was there the whole time. It was brought to the surface when you've been hurt one too many times by the not just the people you love but those same people you trusted. That's the problem.
That already happened to me 7 grade sep 8 2020 13 yes old never again I'm done I don't want to interact with a woman other than my family. Members or the boys any woman seeing this all of the depression that men fucking have now IS BECAUSE OF YOU🤕😠😤🖕
@@funynonsence What in the hell are you talking about? Being able to see someone lose themselves in a role and speak from a place of pain? Jumping to conclusions isn't my strong suit, Bum.
@@funynonsence what are you smoking cause my mum is a mum not all women but alot of them now just use or cheat or meny other things my mums not like that but some mums do aswell like your acting like all mums have a man in there life?
Ikr this is so overdramatic. Why does this make a sob story out of hedonism. Its really not that sad. Like it's just humans repeating a behavior that feels good becuase they can't control themselves to be loyal and settle down. Some men can't find better things to do and cant keep it in their pants. It's really not that deep.
In 2017 I had my heart ripped out by a girl I loved since 1st grade. We dated for 5 years. I’m 28 now and have dated my share of women in my life and never even think of that one girl anymore. But I’ll tell you this, it turned me stone cold and I’ve never opened my heart up towards anybody like that ever since. And all the women that have came and gone since, had zero effect on me.
Sorry to hear that! Open your heart up again. Heart to heart is always best! That girl. . ., the one who wants to open her heart wide-open? She's waiting on YOU....otherwise, you're just a hard & heartless lover, and that's not good for ANYONE...,especially YOU! TRUTH!!!
I’m sorry to hear that, but I’m glad you’re still here. My brother took his own life in 2017 because of a woman broke his heart. Keep going strong Big dog!!! You will find a partner ❤
I feel that. After my first love cheated on me I swore I will never let another girl in and hurt me like that again. They say I don’t care but in reality I’m scared if I care too much I will get hurt again.
I'm sorry that happened to you. I love someone who was treated and abused and lied to and manipulated and cheated on by everyone in his life by the time I found him, I gave all my love to him. Did you ever care about anyone else? I'm curious because I'm the girl that I wish he found sooner. Maybe I could've helped him while there was a chance. I'm afraid to become heartless, to become a monster that's afraid to hurt people. I don't want that. I'm afraid. I love him but I'm afraid to continue hurting myself.
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One person isnt the entire world, maybe dont take things so seriously anymore until you can truly confirm it but still keep looking, keep an eye out. And what about the other side? The hearts you break? You go on to repeat the cycle do you not?
I'm 24 and I've had my heart broken over and over again to where I don't believe love is a real emotion anymore. Heartbreak happens at any age; it just might hurt more at an older age.
@@collincovington9209 im 16 but i already feel it. it sucks to be in love bc ive been through so much. my best friend tried to get with me and they said “its almost like youre sharing your love instead of focusing on just one person” i found this vid and sent it to them. after years of shit happening simply guarding my heart became never opening up and its become apart of my personality. im not sure if that same loving side of me would come back but of course i hope it does
It comes but then goes away because you realize that even though it's scary to trust again you see that the player lifestyle is somewhat empty after a bit. It's all a phase. If it all comes and goes and you end up returning to the same place then why even bother on going in side quests? Why even turn into a player if you're gonna return to a housecat and wish you done that before?
Women don’t understand how much they play with our hearts, they treat it as a game because they have so many options and they don’t feel bad until it’s too late
I feel for you and I hope you recover fully, but this generalization is nonsensical, besides completely not factual. Statistically, men cheat significantly more, men are significantly more likely to leave a terminally-ill partner, men are largely abusive partners and the list goes on. It has even always been a stereotypically known and established idea in culture until recently that the woman loved with a pure heart, and she loved hard whilst she was left heartbroken by a man. Your one evil witch does not represent half of mankind.
They dont feel bad ever. They wouldnt be playing with multiple mens hearts or cheating on them. If they were capable of feeling bad. They know exactly what they are doing. I hope karma bites them all in the ass when they want a husband and kids and nobody wants them. Have a nice eternity in hell.
2years ago I got my heartbroken...and ever since then, I've been at it at the gym working hard and focusing on myself and I had watched this video(not this clip) sometime back and it motivated and pushed me even more, and now rewatching this made me realise how far I've come...and yet it still hits home for me...and so now...now its back to work.
Good shit I'm in the same boat I got hurt by a girl recently and It has only motivated me in the gym more. If she doesn't want you now become the one she can't have.
See. I had that girl in my life. I know that shes out there doin God knows what and I even though I hurt for a while I picked up those pieces and tried again. I picked em up and did it again and again im.sure this isn't gonna be the last time. But I told my self one day there will be a woman worth the pieces of whats left of my heart. One day she'll look at this busted vase thats all taped back together and feel honored that even though its been broken countless times I never stopped trying and I never stopped seeking her love even if neither of us saw each other in our futures. Call me stupid, call me crazy or whatever you want. I know that im a gluten for punishment
Just some advice, don’t divulge your broken heart to women, they will always use anything you tell them as ammunition, I’ve been there guys, I just left the small pieces behind, I wish I could offer hope, I have none except you can count on yourself
lost a close friend to a women he fell inlove with in highschool. after almost a yr she broke up with him with a note that said " we cant be together anymore, my friends dared me to date you as a joke and i took the dare, i took it to far and im sorry". 3 days later his parents found him with a bullet in his head
what people dont realize is that the men that have been rejected and can't take it will resort to toxic activity,i.e.,suicide or hurting others. Save our real men, for the world needs more.
@@kinsal_9308 Better to wait finding the girl you love and want to spend your life with, it may be hard to find someone you actually love but eventually you'll find a diamond in the dirt and that will be way better than the dirt that will break your heart for entertainment
There is this woman that is into me. Always goes out of her way to talk to me and even at times invites me to places to spend time together one on one. She flirts with me and all but I am just cold and stoic. It’s a shame that the women before her destroyed me to the point where my walls are way up and reinforced.
@@thiexony514 I don’t think you understand what that means. He’s not admitting how much it has hurt him, he’s merely admitting that it’s hurting him to a level that he won’t admit.
Did you hear his voice crack when he said about getting cheated on or laughed at??? See his eyes tear up? This was not acting, this was personal truth, noone else in that room expected this! This got personal and real, authentic!!! What a performance sir!
You'll only understand this, if this has happened to you. Or if you are very intelligent. As soon as I seen the way he was saying it and his facial expressions I could tell straight away this was coming from deep within. It's horrible. Yet its us men that get all the shit but we was put in this pit by the ones that wronged us. Not saying it's OK to play but why should it be OK for women to break us down and then not expect us to be the way we are!
Being a Man is rough af. Woman and children are loved unconditionally, but Men we are only loved when conditions are perfect or ideal or when its convient.
@@sanjulasenarathna4610 ...well, it's really for the people who take pleasure and or have no remorse in or about breaking other's hearts and if you're one of those people, this is the context, ahem; ...because you deserve an answer as to why my poetry reflects mine and others pain so well while simultaneously striking at accountables upon reading? If you have to beg that question then you should already know the context... You're probably wondering if that feel you're feeling is guilt and it is. #ibetyouthinkthissongisaboutyou
Guys get thr heartbroken and instead of healing from it and learning from it, they then take it out on every women they meet, like a punishment and so they hurt and damage others in the process.
Nope...thats not true we don't take it out still the other girls are hurting us to...We are already in broken how can we punishe or hurt other women...
Funny you say this. A feminist woman disguise herself like a man for a year or so ended up killing herself due to depression. I think there’s a book out there. There’s deftly documentary on it tho. Interesting stuff.
-After women get heart broken 💔they say she’s playing hard to get -After men get heart broken💔they call him a player You can never really understand one’s feelings truly cause everyone’s been through a lot A lot of heart breaks But In the end after crying your balls out, you call the experience LIFE And the worst part is that you can’t bury it until the day you get buried
Weather the storm, do what you gotta do, but when you feel like your losing yourself, and what was, take a break, live a normal life, a summer job, a volunteer work, wander your mind. You’ll find someone that maybe you can trust again only when your ready in the right place and in the right mind. One is not hard to find, but the other takes time. Do of it what you will.
This is actually an interesting take. And it shows that guys need to take care of themselves and that we need to support each other. Care of each other. And especially take care of each other's mental health.
My late grandfather had a saying and told it to me when I was a kid. He said I'll tell you this now but I hope there won't be the time you'll remember it. The saying is : " What a woman can do from a hop, the devil can't from sprint". Unfortunately I can't forget it last few years.
@@kennethsoto7562 what a women can do from a hop/jump the devil is not able to do even from a sprint...(basically the women doesn't have to move from spot and she can do more harm to you then the devil from a sprint. You get it?
No cap. I changed after my first heart break. Now I’m a cold uncaring person, and sometimes I think maybe I should go back to being the other guy. Then I remembered how I got played and just shove the feelings back in the hole and lock the door.
Trust me it’s worth it to feel emotions again, been through it and I forgot how beautiful it could be, it is worth every single second of pain, all the suffering you go through is worth it, it’s better to have highs and lows than to have nothing at all my friend
@@pietromorreale_ yes! I was that guy he is talking about. Yet I've recently found someone who is literally everything. Find someone who supports your ideas and builds you up when you're at your lowest. That kind of love trumps all those superficial "I love you promises"
Idek If I can ever love someone. My first girlfriend broke things off 3 times and I kept coming back if the opportunity presented itself. She was cold and uncaring about my feelings so ever since then I haven’t taken any relationships seriously. I’ve been single now for 2 years
I remember back in prolly 5th or 6th grade, I was talking to a girl I had a crush on and she told me she felt the same way. Giddy as can be, we txted non stop for little over a week. She later told me that every ounce of attention she gave me was fake, she never liked me and was only doing all of this to “see how good I was at lying”. Swear on my mother, at 5th grade she was practicing how she would destroy men’s hearts later on. I wonder how many victims she has now.
Almost the exact same thing happened to me, except that instead of pranking me, we just kinda drifted apart and I still liked her a bit, she didn’t like me as much
That's how humans are. Some are inherently born this way which started this domino effect. Players, criminals, it takes an ironclad will to go through all that and still stay moral. Ask what was done and said to them when they flipped and I guarantee they can tell you.
Got my heart broke and didnt date for 6 years. Now been with this girl for almost two years and ive definitely opened up and we can be ourselves around eachother but I still seem to always have my guard up even if its just a little.
I feel you man. Hoping that you will find happiness. Same story here, but 8 years of not being able to feel deeper feelings towards girls. Good luck brother
The ironic thing is that most women completely deny having played any part in creating those monsters. They act as though they are the blameless victims of serial players, or pathological heartbreakers. When most of those guys became that way after getting chewed up and spit out by a woman. They found out that the woman they poured their heart and soul into making happy was out trying to find a better deal.
Hearing this reminds me of that clip with Tupac being so innocent and in love with a girl, it was wholesome. Not sure about the details, but he ended up in prison because of her, and then he was a different man. He went from “respect woman!” To “fuck crazy bitches!” Lol
I mean I just recently went through a breakup where I did nothing wrong only trying to help and love the woman and just out of nowhere she called me and told me its over and my heart just shattered, I cried for days and i still cry every day, and now I cant trust any woman nor love any woman ever again I want to hurt every woman because to me they all are the same. Its tough to be heartbroken when you truly love someone and you were willing to give everything to that woman
2 years ago my ex left 2 weeks before my wedding. Took everything I had and disappeared. So my daughter and I started over and now I am doing better than I ever have. But I didn't allow it destroy me. It was the worse heart ache of my life.
Worse is when they give you an excuse of “I just can’t put my hole heart into a relationship right now” and then you see them a week later dating someone else. And all you feel is anger and sadness that you weren’t good enough
Or you just weren't rich enough. Pre-nups are a man's best friend. Or? Just never marry. Don't expect romance. Don't expect loyalty. All I want are friendships with benefits.
Its not even that. She was probably telling the truth. Shes just out there with the other dude cause shes trying to get her cheeks clapped. Theyll be the same ones at 40 ran through asking where all the good men are at
As once got devestated by a girl. 7 Years ago. I genuenly admire this Man's words. It is the sad truth of this world. Being sincere and honest and "You are the love of my life" made my life broken into pieces. Now Iam ok being alone and being single. I trust no one now.
I got heartbroken few times, but I personally believe that if I'm gonna be patient in this certain spectrum of life, I will eventually get paid back like some never will, I may be wrong, but it's my path, hard and devastating in my situation because I lack love in my life, and I will have none untill eventually I will find this one girl that will be there for me, and always I tell to myself "don't quit, if you do you are fucked, nothing will change it, go for it". Good luck to all of you, and those who are about to quit or even kill themselfes, I've got one sentence for you all. STAY HARD MOTHERFUCKER
It's good to want someone to end up with, a partner. But do remember this, if you go in too strong then the girl will be scared off. Take it easy, and see who is deserving as well. Take a stand and don't just give it up for anyone, self respect is just as important if not more than love.
I respect your patience and perseverance dude. But while searching for the one, you need to try to be happy alone or with your friends. Surround yourself with people who lift you up when you fall down. I believe you will find the right person one day. Good luck mate 👍
Sounds like a massive covert contract. Tell me, what happens when life doesn't play out like your heroic odyssey? What happens when this fastastic woman you've dreamt up in your head isn't at the end of all that suffering? What happens when there is no princess in the castle. But just a regular woman. Just like you are a regular man. You expect too much of women. They aren't magical creatures that'll make all your problems go away. Suffering for the sole promise of awoman is like building a house of cards. Eventually it'll all come tumbling down. Because life never goes according to plan. You're supposed to do it for you. Only then can you adapt with change. And learn to enjoy what you got. Not chase some half remembered ideal. Forever blind to the opportunity in front of you
It's not a game for most women I'd say, aren't they the ones who are supposed to be more emotionally vulnerable? So why do you think the girl became like that? Hurt people hurt people. Doesn't exuse their actions if they cheated or something, but far too many men "become players" because they goy rejected by a girl in a perfectly civil manner, or because throwing gum in her hair didn't work, or you were being creepy and now blame the girl, there's so many scenarios a majority probably got it from. Also, I find it hard to believe you were truly kind in the first place if you go around effing people for your own pleasure only, and end up hurting the ppl you slept with. I've never heard of a considerate player, there's a reason why they're viewed the way they are, because the majority of them act like asses to ppl.
@@sipi2009 majority of them DON'T act like assholes.... Majority of them say the prettiest things and show kindness and love until you can finally let your guard down and love them back. Then they leave you, saying they aren't ready to be with someone because they just can't commit and trust a girl enough to be in a relationship. What a messed up world we live in, doesn't matter which gender, we are all sad, lonely, hurt people who hurt eachother for the fun of it. Disgust.
same. realized i was hurting people just like i had been hurt and decided to stop dating until i've healed. that was a couple years ago. maybe one day.
Having 3 girls? You know you're doing everything to prove that you deserved losing it. You cant go hurting because you got hirt, all that shows is that if circumstances arent great, you'll become an asshole. If you stuck to your guns even after you got hurt, you would've had another chance at getting that scene from UP. I could get hurt again, and its harder to give it up again, a heart break HURTS. But you cant chance for someone else, especially someone who doesnt love you anymore.
Yea its kinda crazy when u have made the decision to love someone every day for years then she one day says “i wanna go explore myself” Translation: “I wanna go be a warm, wet hole in college!”
can relate unfortunately I was humiliated by this girl when I was 14 and since then I have been working out and going to clubs. It’s soulless and disgusting but it fills my heart with the validation I need……it feels like the part of me that can commit to one woman is broken.
I get it but you should stop going to clubs. What validation are you getting thats worth losing your soul and feeling disgusting inside afterwards? Thats the bullshit that women do, going out to seek validation. Dont become like what you hate. Heal yourself maybe you can learn to love again
I’m a girl and I used to be a serial monogamist and gave it my all … my loyalty got used against me and I turned into the complete opposite where I wanted to hurt guys and play with their emotions. I realize that’s not helping anyone.. if you’re reading this and you feel like you lost that part of yourself just don’t hurt other people work on yourself become the best version of yourself and you will attract that. Stay strong, humble, loyal, and disciplined.
At least you admit your demonic behavior. Unfortunately you basically just continued the cycle and the men you hurt probably ended up like the men being described in this video. Your old mentality is unfortunately the typical modern female mentality, thats why the world is in such a messed up state nowadays. Its true, the only way to escape is to accept your losses, and cut out toxic females who are trying to purposefully hurt you out of your life. As you say, stay strong, humble, loyal, and disciplined, but fewer and fewer men are mentally strong enough to handle the severe abuse. Everyone loses in the end because when women finally wake up and try and look for a quality man, theres none left because theyve all been damaged by toxic females. The number of single, childless women is the highest its ever been in recorded history. Women are finally reaping what theyve sown into the universe- pain and suffering
Andrew Tate said it , losing a child is much worse than losing a parent. women sees men as providers , protectors and leaders , while men sees women as somebody we take care of , protect and guide. It hits men much harder. We are not the same.
I don't know if I agree with that. Women, esp vulnerable women who give their hearts and entire life to a man, just for him to knock her up or promise to stay ... Just to pull her stability AND complete trust in one fell swoop. Women bear children, are deeply emotional and bear the deepest wounds.
People in the comments seem to misunderstand what he's saying. This isn't even ablut being rejected. This is about literally giving your everything to the person you love and being cheated on, laughed at, hurt, back stabbed, etc. Also, I think people downplay how actually hard it is for a straight man to get into a non-toxic, one-sided relationship. This might seem like a woe is me, but its just true. Men spend a good chunk of their lives being miserable and having to mold themselves to someone they aren't to attract attention or love. The only exception to this is above average wealthy and good-looking men. As long as you're beautiful and rich, you can get almost whatever you want in this country.
ALL for YOU. Enjoy yourself your hobbies your interests. Treat yourself. Take yourself on nice dates and vacations. Appreciate what you can do for others and do those things for YOURSELF first.
Honestly, I think this might also work in the reverse. My ex gf was so traumatized, she couldnt trust anyone, not even me. She got cheated on so many times she knew all the signs. EXTREMELY insecure anytime another woman even looked at me. She ended up cheating on me after we got into a fight the day before I had a flight to catch. Had to go out of town for a few weeks. I think her mentality was the same as described in the video honestly. Trust no one so have a bunch of men lined up for sex, no connection. If theres any signs of conflict just go get a new man before she gets hurt first. When you think about this logically theres literally zero chance of successful long term relationship. I believe she really liked me cause she opened up to me, told me some deep dark secrets and cared for me for a time, but she couldnt escape that trauma deep inside. Women that have been traumatized really bad actually try and become like the men who hurt them if they dont heal.
She cheated on you. You never love a woman, it’s just your turn, stop coping. She didn’t love you, she took sex with another over your love, to say that she cheated on you because of her past is a coping mechanism. She never loved you.
I swear I thought he was on a stage in a college assembly at first. (Guest Speaker) Nonetheless, he is so right. I used to give my heart to women I really liked and it has brought me pain and misery once their plan was clear every time. It slowly turns a man's heart from warm and soft to a cold piece of stone. Since a little boy i always wanted a family with a responsible and respectable wife...it sucks because such a valued asset is at the very brink of becoming a non existent phenomenon. Time goes on and why should we stay stuck on a heartbreak where someone didn't value that time we once had...never give your heart to a woman...
We as men have to do better and find better women. Cant keep hooking up with these low class strags. Ive been with a few women, and you can quickly tell which ones have potential and which ones are for the streets pretty quick once they open their mouth. The ones for the streets you have to let go immediately. Problems almost always happen when youre ignoring the red flags so you can keep sleeping with her
Mine left me 2 weeks before our one year in 2021 because she wasn’t happy and wasn’t “feeling the relationship” All the “I’ll love you forever I promise” was fake all the I miss you’s were just lie’s the wanting s family n grow old together was just a bunch of horse shit n since that day I told myself to never date again cause it just isn’t worth it
I feel you bro, 4yrs together w/ some time long distance and lookin for a place to move in together, talking about getting married. Started dating a guy then broke up with me a few weeks later. Said we could still be friends but ain't no way I could, not after all the memories. Stay strong
@@FZ6er It always amazes me that they'll hit you with the "Let's be friends..." line like it's some kind of got damn consolation prize that makes everything better.
Phase 1: Naive, love and get hurt; Phase 2: Pessimist, don't believe in love and hurt others first; Phase 3: Brave, love fully knowing full well you can get destroyed.
“Those who are heartless once cared too much.” -Capt Davy Jones
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True... :)
Me 😂😂😂
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I promise I used to be like that. I used to be that guy that cared to much
Enemies can never betray you. Only people you trust can
This is 💯 me I was a real romantic guy, and only wanted 1 woman. I was with the same girl for 12 years we were ingaged to be married, and in the end I found out the truth she was cheating on me pretty much from day 1. She had addiction issues which caused a lot of problems, and broke us up in the end. She could never get over her addictions. My boys were taken from me because of her, and we had a baby girl who died at a month, and a half from SIDS. She stole from me and manipulated me for 12 years. I loved her we had 3 handsome boys together, all I ever wanted was her to get better us be a family, and raise my boys together. It completely shattered my heart in a million pieces. It took me years just to be able to tell myself to move forward. I was lost when we broke up, and I turned into a player for years, but in reality my heart was always broken, and it did not matter how many women I was with, in the end I was alone and still going through these things, I feel like I gave everything I had into that relationship, all my love I feel like I have no love left in me. I am Not the player I used to be, and when I stopped being a player I started to think of the reasons why I am the way I am. In the end I loved the wrong woman for far to long. I lost everything in the end nice 4 bedroom house nice new suv awesome kids who I love with all my heart in end I lost it all. Hard to move on after something like that happens I thought by distracting myself by being with women all the time, if I am with enough women I will not have to think about everything, by the end of my career as a player I still was just as broken as the day she left me. Really hard to move on after putting so much of yourself to 1 person. I got emotional writing this, I am not afraid to admit it. This really hit home with me.
Appreciate your honesty 🙏🌬️🕊️Hope you found better.
I hope you are okay now 🙏😊.
Do you have any perspective for the ones you played, that genuinely loved and were loyal to you, but never had a chance?
A player put me in the psych ward, it's a miracle not 6 feet down. I'm curious to hear?
@@xxkissmeketutxxYet someone how I highly doubt they loved and were loyal to him
@@elona6891 thank-you
No lie, I haven’t felt as strongly for a woman as I did for the first one. I did feel some pretty strong feelings for another recently but alas she was an annoying headache and it never blossomed into anything further.
But that feeling, that strong feeling of euphoria, that’s gone. I don’t trust women at all anymore, and now I mainly chat to them for sexual reasons and nothing else. Funny thing is that now I find the first one who I liked so much unattractive. Crazy how it all happens eh
I love the raw emotion in this scene you can see him tearing up
Felt this so much. Don’t think anything will ever convince me to give another person the ability to hurt me so deeply again.
I have had one true love in this life and she broke my heart and abandoned me twice. At 58 I don't feel I can ever risk my heart like that again. It's become a sad and cold life.
Shaggy got me crying
I'm convinced THIS is why the real reason the Grinch stole Christmas 🎄💔
Shaggy is becoming dangerously based
I'm fuckin' dead. 😂
Holy fuck, your right!
Oh fuck that is shaggy
Haha I thought the same thing
This the real reason he always smoking weed w his dog
The way his voice shakes when he says the word "crushed" shows that he really means all of this. It's beautiful
Yea I mean, he’s not an actor or anything
@@raypist2333 🤣🤣🤣👏
Or he's an actor
Watch the end of SLC Punk and tell me Lillard can't ACT, yo
@@raypist2333 you don't need to be an actor to experience heartbreak and pain
This is actually accurate af. The ones who love the hardest, are also the ones that are the most deeply destroyed when that love is no longer enough for the one they'd give the world to.
I agree. The one you love the most is the one who hurt you the most 💔
I got cheated on and now I vow to never be in a relationship again because I got heartbroken twice and that I already knew there were too many boys out there who can’t commit to just one girl. I was so hurt I couldn’t risk it again even if there was 1% chance I’ll find someone who’s willing to stay forever. It wasn’t that I got cheated on that really hurt me, it was the fact that I sacrificed so much for that person and in return I was abandoned. In my spiritual beliefs, we weren’t meant to be on this earth with our soulmate because we need to find that love within ourselves. I personally believe earth is a school and we are here to learn valuable lessons.
@@MinaandBjorn I am so sorry you gotten cheated on. I know how it feels. But trust me with a smile like your you will have no problem finding a new one. Someone who going to love you no matter what
True, I used to be that too. I have become heartless now and just don't care anymore.
@@Kennymacdougall same bro. Same. I used to be extremely romantic and creative. I used to love hard. And in some instances I did and still do. But I learned real quick how bad I could be hurt. How deep I could be scarred. And I learned real quick not to give that out to just anyone. I also found myself becoming colder. In wisdom I found darkness. But that by itself isn't a problem because that darkness was there the whole time. It was brought to the surface when you've been hurt one too many times by the not just the people you love but those same people you trusted. That's the problem.
Nah brah, my man forgot he was acting and was speaking from the heart.
Lol. Smh, exactly that. 💯
That already happened to me 7 grade sep 8 2020 13 yes old never again I'm done I don't want to interact with a woman other than my family. Members or the boys any woman seeing this all of the depression that men fucking have now IS BECAUSE OF YOU🤕😠😤🖕
Lol I swear y’all never even seen ya mama when y’all say this
@@funynonsence What in the hell are you talking about?
Being able to see someone lose themselves in a role and speak from a place of pain? Jumping to conclusions isn't my strong suit, Bum.
@@funynonsence what are you smoking cause my mum is a mum not all women but alot of them now just use or cheat or meny other things my mums not like that but some mums do aswell like your acting like all mums have a man in there life?
So who hurt my man shaggy for him to know these things
I thought he looked familiar
Daphne lol
@@Brian_Williams5298 naw Velma
Velma.
What did Velma do to him?
Shaggy after Velma didnt give him a scooby snack once:
Shaggy after hanging out with Andrew Tate
💀💀
Lol
That's what no Velmussy does to a mf
Ikr this is so overdramatic. Why does this make a sob story out of hedonism. Its really not that sad. Like it's just humans repeating a behavior that feels good becuase they can't control themselves to be loyal and settle down. Some men can't find better things to do and cant keep it in their pants. It's really not that deep.
When u were a child u were always on the heroes side but now that u grew up u understand the villains
Wow. That’s one of the most profound statements I’ve ever read. Well said, sir.
You’re what, 17?
Wow it’s like you’re the Disney villain, in which case maybe you don’t deserve to get the girl that’s for the real hero of the story.
@@Jubilation457 you are named after plastic cheese
@@digithickness721 extra sharp so you know I’m there😉👍
As an ex-romantic I can confirm this
ex romantics are the coldest mfs
Same dude...
Never let some fucked up person ruin your good heart. You let the enemy control you, you loose.
Damn straight
Yes sir
Director: Hey ummm none of that is in the script bro, you ok?
😂
It really feels like that
😆😆 I would definitely had to include it because of the authenticity he really means what he’s saying!
Oddly, the director (The guy intereacting with him) was originally going to play that role.
This all a deep Fake of shaggy on top of behind the scenes of Star Wars Episode 3
director is in the scene
In 2017 I had my heart ripped out by a girl I loved since 1st grade. We dated for 5 years. I’m 28 now and have dated my share of women in my life and never even think of that one girl anymore. But I’ll tell you this, it turned me stone cold and I’ve never opened my heart up towards anybody like that ever since. And all the women that have came and gone since, had zero effect on me.
Sorry to hear that! Open your heart up again. Heart to heart is always best! That girl. . ., the one who wants to open her heart wide-open? She's waiting on YOU....otherwise, you're just a hard & heartless lover, and that's not good for ANYONE...,especially YOU! TRUTH!!!
I’m sorry to hear that, but I’m glad you’re still here. My brother took his own life in 2017 because of a woman broke his heart. Keep going strong Big dog!!! You will find a partner ❤
Same story, but mine happened in 2019. Dont lose hope bro.
I feel that. After my first love cheated on me I swore I will never let another girl in and hurt me like that again. They say I don’t care but in reality I’m scared if I care too much I will get hurt again.
I'm sorry that happened to you. I love someone who was treated and abused and lied to and manipulated and cheated on by everyone in his life by the time I found him, I gave all my love to him. Did you ever care about anyone else? I'm curious because I'm the girl that I wish he found sooner. Maybe I could've helped him while there was a chance. I'm afraid to become heartless, to become a monster that's afraid to hurt people. I don't want that. I'm afraid. I love him but I'm afraid to continue hurting myself.
Like zoinks, scoob. She broke my heart, man.
Underrated comment 🤣🤣💀
Omg 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Rug-Roh raggy
🤣😂😂
Before I think Shaggy, I think Stew. The second Ghost Face killer.
from his eyes, we know he aint acting this one. that came from deep inside 💔
Na he is. He’s just really good at it.
@@chrismaple779 No, some things are just true.
If you’ve Ever watched SLC Punk, you would know that Matthew Lillard is one of the Very Best, and it’s sad that he’s not getting more serious rolls considering how talented he is!!!
nah lol, matthew lillard is a good dude
its scumbags who think like this
This is a universal truth among men
The greatest, kindest guys I knew growing up became players for exactly these reasons.
Me too
@@phantom2faddd242 lying mf
Sorry to hear that
We romantics still have the romance in us… but you dig a vicious streak in our hearts and we’ll weaponize it
One person isnt the entire world, maybe dont take things so seriously anymore until you can truly confirm it but still keep looking, keep an eye out. And what about the other side? The hearts you break? You go on to repeat the cycle do you not?
Man! Those words came straight up from his heart. Love isn't always fair but God damn is the the most beautiful painful thing.. stay strong my kings 👑
✊🏻
all my guys in their 30’s right now can feel this, couldn’t understand it in the teens and twenties but feel it now
I’m in my 30’s and went through this metamorphosis from my teens to my early twenties. Love is a scary thing.
I'm 24 and I've had my heart broken over and over again to where I don't believe love is a real emotion anymore. Heartbreak happens at any age; it just might hurt more at an older age.
@@collincovington9209 im 16 but i already feel it. it sucks to be in love bc ive been through so much. my best friend tried to get with me and they said “its almost like youre sharing your love instead of focusing on just one person” i found this vid and sent it to them. after years of shit happening simply guarding my heart became never opening up and its become apart of my personality. im not sure if that same loving side of me would come back but of course i hope it does
nowadays we learn this in our teens 🤧
It comes but then goes away because you realize that even though it's scary to trust again you see that the player lifestyle is somewhat empty after a bit. It's all a phase. If it all comes and goes and you end up returning to the same place then why even bother on going in side quests? Why even turn into a player if you're gonna return to a housecat and wish you done that before?
I can't even laugh at this cause it's my life
@Waltuh damn you must feel good about this one big man
L existence
understandable, hope you doing good
Man's hurting and you chucklefks are laughing smh
on god
"Cause you never get over it" "God no, you never get over it, you recover but you never get over it"
I would never get my heart crushed like it happened in high school 😢
Everyone talking about him being shaggy forgetting he’s one of the og killers in scream
Well he wasn’t the main killer but he helped him
He only became a killer in scream after velma broke his heart.
Spoilers
His mom was so mad at him
Nah bro he was the guy who collected 13 ghosts
Women don’t understand how much they play with our hearts, they treat it as a game because they have so many options and they don’t feel bad until it’s too late
I feel for you and I hope you recover fully, but this generalization is nonsensical, besides completely not factual. Statistically, men cheat significantly more, men are significantly more likely to leave a terminally-ill partner, men are largely abusive partners and the list goes on. It has even always been a stereotypically known and established idea in culture until recently that the woman loved with a pure heart, and she loved hard whilst she was left heartbroken by a man. Your one evil witch does not represent half of mankind.
This is true
They dont feel bad ever. They wouldnt be playing with multiple mens hearts or cheating on them. If they were capable of feeling bad. They know exactly what they are doing. I hope karma bites them all in the ass when they want a husband and kids and nobody wants them. Have a nice eternity in hell.
They never feel bad. Only God will punish them in time
Why men don't cry?
Because if we do, we will break..
Turns out Velma wasn’t the sweet shy girl we thought she was 😢💔
Yeah she wasn't
Word on the street is she cheated with a lesbian & started takin melanin pills…
@@love6ic202 word on the streets is she use to be a man.
@@BlxckKxge
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Don’t be fooled by the glasses, Velma is a heartbreaker.
This man just nailed it completely! Makes the boy in me cry
U right I’m crying
You are not the only one crying good sir.
I can understand you sir
Same
2years ago I got my heartbroken...and ever since then, I've been at it at the gym working hard and focusing on myself and I had watched this video(not this clip) sometime back and it motivated and pushed me even more, and now rewatching this made me realise how far I've come...and yet it still hits home for me...and so now...now its back to work.
The grind don't stop
Good shit I'm in the same boat I got hurt by a girl recently and It has only motivated me in the gym more. If she doesn't want you now become the one she can't have.
Don't give up on finding someone bro but never give up on yourself! Keep grindin
Stay hard kings
Ah shut up
Bro was assigned to speak for all the boys.And he went all out❤❤❤
Crazy how we all identify with this. We can all think of her and how we were happy and then how she also changed us for the rest of our lives.
And of the exact moment i told myself I'll never love again
See. I had that girl in my life. I know that shes out there doin God knows what and I even though I hurt for a while I picked up those pieces and tried again. I picked em up and did it again and again im.sure this isn't gonna be the last time. But I told my self one day there will be a woman worth the pieces of whats left of my heart. One day she'll look at this busted vase thats all taped back together and feel honored that even though its been broken countless times I never stopped trying and I never stopped seeking her love even if neither of us saw each other in our futures. Call me stupid, call me crazy or whatever you want. I know that im a gluten for punishment
Not all no, some of us saw what happened to other men and decided to not try
Shut up.. 😔
Just some advice, don’t divulge your broken heart to women, they will always use anything you tell them as ammunition, I’ve been there guys, I just left the small pieces behind, I wish I could offer hope, I have none except you can count on yourself
lost a close friend to a women he fell inlove with in highschool. after almost a yr she broke up with him with a note that said " we cant be together anymore, my friends dared me to date you as a joke and i took the dare, i took it to far and im sorry". 3 days later his parents found him with a bullet in his head
Bro that's so fucked up
This is what they do this day and age. It's all games to them.
😤
what people dont realize is that the men that have been rejected and can't take it will resort to toxic activity,i.e.,suicide or hurting others. Save our real men, for the world needs more.
Yea okay sure this happened....
I can feel that the actor can relate to these lines... He spoke with his soul
That isn't a feeling that the actor can relate to it's a feeling that all men can relate to
@@iTsDebom not me bro. Never found love. Not once. Kinda giving up on it tbh
@@kinsal_9308 Better to wait finding the girl you love and want to spend your life with, it may be hard to find someone you actually love but eventually you'll find a diamond in the dirt and that will be way better than the dirt that will break your heart for entertainment
@Kingsgrove Slasher kind of is mate. Not having someone I look forward to seeing is worse then the loneliness tho tbf
@@kinsal_9308 u will find it bro. Don't
rush it, other wise u end up like the rest of us.
There is this woman that is into me. Always goes out of her way to talk to me and even at times invites me to places to spend time together one on one. She flirts with me and all but I am just cold and stoic. It’s a shame that the women before her destroyed me to the point where my walls are way up and reinforced.
This hurts me far more than I care to admit.
You admitted it💀
@@thiexony514 I don’t think you understand what that means. He’s not admitting how much it has hurt him, he’s merely admitting that it’s hurting him to a level that he won’t admit.
We're with you brother ❤
Did you hear his voice crack when he said about getting cheated on or laughed at??? See his eyes tear up? This was not acting, this was personal truth, noone else in that room expected this! This got personal and real, authentic!!! What a performance sir!
That's because he could relate with it as well as everyone in that room
Same with when he says crushed. This was him being so genuine.
All I heard was FACTS
You'll only understand this, if this has happened to you. Or if you are very intelligent. As soon as I seen the way he was saying it and his facial expressions I could tell straight away this was coming from deep within. It's horrible. Yet its us men that get all the shit but we was put in this pit by the ones that wronged us. Not saying it's OK to play but why should it be OK for women to break us down and then not expect us to be the way we are!
@@Batesy96 bro who's we
Fuck man that hits way too hard. Like I don’t even have any words. I’m speechless. Just … yeah, you’re right. You’re 100% right.
Being a Man is rough af. Woman and children are loved unconditionally, but Men we are only loved when conditions are perfect or ideal or when its convient.
"the little boy in men weeps for the monster you created"
Whats the context?
@@sanjulasenarathna4610 ...well, it's really for the people who take pleasure and or have no remorse in or about breaking other's hearts and if you're one of those people, this is the context, ahem;
...because you deserve an answer as to why my poetry reflects mine and others pain so well while simultaneously striking at accountables upon reading?
If you have to beg that question then you should already know the context... You're probably wondering if that feel you're feeling is guilt and it is.
#ibetyouthinkthissongisaboutyou
@@Super.Dario.daVibediver damn that projection from you is crazy.
@@Super.Dario.daVibediver damn bro
@@devinxoxo8350 I understand what you're saying and I think it's stupid 🙃
We gonna have to go after Velma she hurt are boys Shaggy 😭😭
count me in, the thot s gonna pay 🔪
I feel the same way about men. Many people in general do not truly appreciate love and kindness.
Matthew Lillard: putting his all into his performance
Everyone: SHAGGY!
Dunno who you're talkin about, but that's SHAGGY
Or Stew from Scream movie
😭💀💀💀
😭💀💀💀
@@sanjarkhodjimatov6801 that was my first thought
What Love Is (2007)
Thank you 💯
Thank you!
Scooby Doo*
Thnks I remember watching this movie when I was younger. Scene hit deep. This is what movies used to be like.
Nice
Man Matthew Lillard is so underrated cuz this scene was awesome and so true🥺
What movie is this from?
@@rigvedrane found it. What love is 2007
You should watch him in SLC Punk! When you watch him in that movie, you’ll laugh, you’ll cry, you will think about the film afterwards for days…
@@THEoSOFToPILLOW you are the MVP thank you very much
house of 13 ghosts
Guys get thr heartbroken and instead of healing from it and learning from it, they then take it out on every women they meet, like a punishment and so they hurt and damage others in the process.
Nope...thats not true we don't take it out still the other girls are hurting us to...We are already in broken how can we punishe or hurt other women...
That's just not true, some self end, others just walk around like zombies. There's support but, the pipelines aren't taken, or even seen.
If they made a movie about the average man’s life we’d all get depression after watching it
Note, he stated that women went through the same sh*t too...
Every a**hole is someone whose had their heart broken...
Funny you say this. A feminist woman disguise herself like a man for a year or so ended up killing herself due to depression. I think there’s a book out there. There’s deftly documentary on it tho. Interesting stuff.
Most of us already got depression, forget the movie we’re already living it
Bro Mathew Lilard is a Chad and deserves more recognition
The emotion in this scene is made by the water in his eyes
-After women get heart broken 💔they say she’s playing hard to get
-After men get heart broken💔they call him a player
You can never really understand one’s feelings truly cause everyone’s been through a lot
A lot of heart breaks
But In the end after crying your balls out, you call the experience LIFE
And the worst part is that you can’t bury it until the day you get buried
"Nobody can hurt me if I can hurt them first"
No, I tried and got hurt and don't wanna feel like that again
Nobody can hurt me if I hurt myself first, it's my take on "you are your own enemy"
Cobra Kai confirms it: Strike First, Strike Hard, No Mercy.
The only one left to hurt you then is yourself, all alone, nobody to get those thoughts dismissed
That’s so terrible..
Note to girls who got played: You created players after breaking that romantic. Enjoy this cycle.
They create the monsters they say they hate.
That really did happened to me.. Now all the girls cry for me, but u never forget that first heartache, damn🤦🏽♂️
Weather the storm, do what you gotta do, but when you feel like your losing yourself, and what was, take a break, live a normal life, a summer job, a volunteer work, wander your mind. You’ll find someone that maybe you can trust again only when your ready in the right place and in the right mind. One is not hard to find, but the other takes time. Do of it what you will.
you didn’t heal so you bled on people who didn’t cut you. you should be ashamed of yourself.
This is actually an interesting take. And it shows that guys need to take care of themselves and that we need to support each other. Care of each other. And especially take care of each other's mental health.
We’re all kings we’re on the same side
Finally someone puts that feeling into words
My late grandfather had a saying and told it to me when I was a kid. He said I'll tell you this now but I hope there won't be the time you'll remember it. The saying is : " What a woman can do from a hop, the devil can't from sprint". Unfortunately I can't forget it last few years.
Thanks for sharing. Was a wise man.
……. I don’t get it sorry I don’t
Can u explain
@@kennethsoto7562 what a women can do from a hop/jump the devil is not able to do even from a sprint...(basically the women doesn't have to move from spot and she can do more harm to you then the devil from a sprint. You get it?
@@spartacro761 thank you for explaining
I’ve been drinking to much to hear this rn😂
On your side bro
if you are handsome you become a player, if you are ugly you become a depressed/hikikomori/future mass murderer
When you’re crushed so much it feels like physical pain. Never got involved again since that happened
Shaggy goes deep
Why is everyone comparing him to shaggy
@@adamb3629 he played shaggy in the irl movies
No cap. I changed after my first heart break. Now I’m a cold uncaring person, and sometimes I think maybe I should go back to being the other guy. Then I remembered how I got played and just shove the feelings back in the hole and lock the door.
go back? do you even remember how? who you were?
I think you will find being that person again harder then you think.
Trust me it’s worth it to feel emotions again, been through it and I forgot how beautiful it could be, it is worth every single second of pain, all the suffering you go through is worth it, it’s better to have highs and lows than to have nothing at all my friend
@@pietromorreale_ yes! I was that guy he is talking about. Yet I've recently found someone who is literally everything. Find someone who supports your ideas and builds you up when you're at your lowest. That kind of love trumps all those superficial "I love you promises"
Idek If I can ever love someone. My first girlfriend broke things off 3 times and I kept coming back if the opportunity presented itself. She was cold and uncaring about my feelings so ever since then I haven’t taken any relationships seriously. I’ve been single now for 2 years
I remember back in prolly 5th or 6th grade, I was talking to a girl I had a crush on and she told me she felt the same way. Giddy as can be, we txted non stop for little over a week. She later told me that every ounce of attention she gave me was fake, she never liked me and was only doing all of this to “see how good I was at lying”. Swear on my mother, at 5th grade she was practicing how she would destroy men’s hearts later on. I wonder how many victims she has now.
Almost the exact same thing happened to me, except that instead of pranking me, we just kinda drifted apart and I still liked her a bit, she didn’t like me as much
Scary AF!!!
Shaggy wasn’t the same after losing Scooby and getting cheated on by Velma
Damn bro such an original joke
@Prototype10 yeah your love life
@Prototype10 i love how people get behind a keyboard and think they are psychologists 🤣 go touch grass kid
That's how humans are. Some are inherently born this way which started this domino effect.
Players, criminals, it takes an ironclad will to go through all that and still stay moral. Ask what was done and said to them when they flipped and I guarantee they can tell you.
Got my heart broke and didnt date for 6 years. Now been with this girl for almost two years and ive definitely opened up and we can be ourselves around eachother but I still seem to always have my guard up even if its just a little.
I feel you man. Hoping that you will find happiness. Same story here, but 8 years of not being able to feel deeper feelings towards girls. Good luck brother
Same here man and still haven’t dated anyone yet I can’t keep my guard down I mean her reasoning was her friends told her to what bullsh*t
Looks like you have not learned your lesson
This is true for a lot of guys. Women complain about the monsters they helped to create. I’d be one of them, but I had help to keep me from turning…….
The ironic thing is that most women completely deny having played any part in creating those monsters. They act as though they are the blameless victims of serial players, or pathological heartbreakers. When most of those guys became that way after getting chewed up and spit out by a woman. They found out that the woman they poured their heart and soul into making happy was out trying to find a better deal.
Hearing this reminds me of that clip with Tupac being so innocent and in love with a girl, it was wholesome. Not sure about the details, but he ended up in prison because of her, and then he was a different man. He went from “respect woman!” To “fuck crazy bitches!” Lol
He wasbt the same man after that
I mean I just recently went through a breakup where I did nothing wrong only trying to help and love the woman and just out of nowhere she called me and told me its over and my heart just shattered, I cried for days and i still cry every day, and now I cant trust any woman nor love any woman ever again I want to hurt every woman because to me they all are the same. Its tough to be heartbroken when you truly love someone and you were willing to give everything to that woman
Dude why tf would you even consider being what you claim to hate?!?! Did you not think of breaking the cycle?
@@xxkissmeketutxxCycle never breaks. Women ruin good men forever. Only to find themselves in unhappy situations themselves later
Wow, the passion in his voice leaving me all woozy
That ain't passion , that's the pain of experience .
F A C T S. Matthew Lillard is such an underrated actor
For me, what finally destroyed me was the girl i fell in love with gave herself to every other man. But to the man who loved her? No
Girls r repulsed by men who love them.
Shaggy is saying facts
Nah William Afton speaking facts fr 🗣️🗣️🔥🔥‼️‼️
2 years ago my ex left 2 weeks before my wedding. Took everything I had and disappeared. So my daughter and I started over and now I am doing better than I ever have. But I didn't allow it destroy me. It was the worse heart ache of my life.
Shout out to all those who can relate. Keep ya head up
Its called falling in love for a reason. There's in it the idea of the fall. Give it away and it comes back to you.
It doesn't
Love is a gamble. You can be all in but your opponent might just fold to get out.
Worse is when they give you an excuse of “I just can’t put my hole heart into a relationship right now” and then you see them a week later dating someone else. And all you feel is anger and sadness that you weren’t good enough
Or you just weren't rich enough.
Pre-nups are a man's best friend. Or? Just never marry. Don't expect romance. Don't expect loyalty. All I want are friendships with benefits.
Its not even that. She was probably telling the truth. Shes just out there with the other dude cause shes trying to get her cheeks clapped.
Theyll be the same ones at 40 ran through asking where all the good men are at
What sucks is when you can't bring yourself to hurt others even after being hurt many times
Nah man, you just haven't hit rock bottom yet give it a lil bit unfortunately
I could never do what she did to my heart and trust I honestly don't think I could ever trust again
Bro, I hear you, because it's not in your nature. Theres nothing wrong with that, dont let anyone tell you otherwise.
You know we're that brings you the side of the cliff
Sadly sometimes the Woman comes back to people like you after all is said and done and the "studs" they been with ain't Family material.
As once got devestated by a girl. 7 Years ago. I genuenly admire this Man's words. It is the sad truth of this world. Being sincere and honest and "You are the love of my life" made my life broken into pieces. Now Iam ok being alone and being single.
I trust no one now.
I got heartbroken few times, but I personally believe that if I'm gonna be patient in this certain spectrum of life, I will eventually get paid back like some never will, I may be wrong, but it's my path, hard and devastating in my situation because I lack love in my life, and I will have none untill eventually I will find this one girl that will be there for me, and always I tell to myself "don't quit, if you do you are fucked, nothing will change it, go for it". Good luck to all of you, and those who are about to quit or even kill themselfes, I've got one sentence for you all. STAY HARD MOTHERFUCKER
Stay fucking hard💯💯💯❤️❤️
Stay Hard- Mr. Goggins 💪
It's good to want someone to end up with, a partner. But do remember this, if you go in too strong then the girl will be scared off. Take it easy, and see who is deserving as well. Take a stand and don't just give it up for anyone, self respect is just as important if not more than love.
I respect your patience and perseverance dude. But while searching for the one, you need to try to be happy alone or with your friends. Surround yourself with people who lift you up when you fall down. I believe you will find the right person one day. Good luck mate 👍
Sounds like a massive covert contract. Tell me, what happens when life doesn't play out like your heroic odyssey? What happens when this fastastic woman you've dreamt up in your head isn't at the end of all that suffering? What happens when there is no princess in the castle. But just a regular woman. Just like you are a regular man.
You expect too much of women. They aren't magical creatures that'll make all your problems go away. Suffering for the sole promise of awoman is like building a house of cards. Eventually it'll all come tumbling down. Because life never goes according to plan. You're supposed to do it for you. Only then can you adapt with change. And learn to enjoy what you got. Not chase some half remembered ideal. Forever blind to the opportunity in front of you
Damn.. that’s some real shit.. I wish this wasn’t true.. but it is and that hurts. It’s always a game to them.. but not too us.. not to us..
It's not a game for most women I'd say, aren't they the ones who are supposed to be more emotionally vulnerable? So why do you think the girl became like that? Hurt people hurt people. Doesn't exuse their actions if they cheated or something, but far too many men "become players" because they goy rejected by a girl in a perfectly civil manner, or because throwing gum in her hair didn't work, or you were being creepy and now blame the girl, there's so many scenarios a majority probably got it from.
Also, I find it hard to believe you were truly kind in the first place if you go around effing people for your own pleasure only, and end up hurting the ppl you slept with.
I've never heard of a considerate player, there's a reason why they're viewed the way they are, because the majority of them act like asses to ppl.
@@sipi2009 majority of them DON'T act like assholes.... Majority of them say the prettiest things and show kindness and love until you can finally let your guard down and love them back. Then they leave you, saying they aren't ready to be with someone because they just can't commit and trust a girl enough to be in a relationship. What a messed up world we live in, doesn't matter which gender, we are all sad, lonely, hurt people who hurt eachother for the fun of it. Disgust.
I feel this. I realized i started doing it and decided to go celibate. I don't want to hurt others like I've been hurt.
same. realized i was hurting people just like i had been hurt and decided to stop dating until i've healed. that was a couple years ago. maybe one day.
Glad I'm not the only one who has experienced this 😢
I’ve not walked back down that path. Let the plants and bushes overgrow it.
Low key explained what Tupac went thru and a lot of us men went thru
Stay up Kings 👑
I am a different story. It’s been my mother. To the point Where you hate someone but still love them. Now I don’t talk to hardly anyone
"Carmencita of the bronx!"
I currently have 3 girl and 30ish exes, i used to believe i can achieve the scene from UP but no more
Having 3 girls? You know you're doing everything to prove that you deserved losing it. You cant go hurting because you got hirt, all that shows is that if circumstances arent great, you'll become an asshole. If you stuck to your guns even after you got hurt, you would've had another chance at getting that scene from UP. I could get hurt again, and its harder to give it up again, a heart break HURTS. But you cant chance for someone else, especially someone who doesnt love you anymore.
@@moonstryder1740 what is this nonsense that you wrote
Yea its kinda crazy when u have made the decision to love someone every day for years then she one day says “i wanna go explore myself” Translation: “I wanna go be a warm, wet hole in college!”
This sounds a little specific
Some wounds never heal. Time doesn't heal all. Sometimes it makes it worse.
@@cpro_2535 shrek 😂👌
We will be alright
@@lekuador you too? lol
I fucking hate my ex destroyed me completely I’ll never be the same
“I just wanted to know what her favorite horror movie was”
Underrated as hell
can relate unfortunately
I was humiliated by this girl when I was 14 and since then I have been working out and going to clubs. It’s soulless and disgusting but it fills my heart with the validation I need……it feels like the part of me that can commit to one woman is broken.
I feel you bro
You can't commit cause of a situation that happened at 14??? If this isn't a damn excuse to do what you want!!!
I get it but you should stop going to clubs. What validation are you getting thats worth losing your soul and feeling disgusting inside afterwards?
Thats the bullshit that women do, going out to seek validation. Dont become like what you hate.
Heal yourself maybe you can learn to love again
@@bvhiait people life bro it what brings them out of reality it up to him to figure that out
I’m a girl and I used to be a serial monogamist and gave it my all … my loyalty got used against me and I turned into the complete opposite where I wanted to hurt guys and play with their emotions.
I realize that’s not helping anyone.. if you’re reading this and you feel like you lost that part of yourself just don’t hurt other people work on yourself become the best version of yourself and you will attract that. Stay strong, humble, loyal, and disciplined.
At least you admit your demonic behavior. Unfortunately you basically just continued the cycle and the men you hurt probably ended up like the men being described in this video.
Your old mentality is unfortunately the typical modern female mentality, thats why the world is in such a messed up state nowadays.
Its true, the only way to escape is to accept your losses, and cut out toxic females who are trying to purposefully hurt you out of your life. As you say, stay strong, humble, loyal, and disciplined, but fewer and fewer men are mentally strong enough to handle the severe abuse. Everyone loses in the end because when women finally wake up and try and look for a quality man, theres none left because theyve all been damaged by toxic females. The number of single, childless women is the highest its ever been in recorded history. Women are finally reaping what theyve sown into the universe- pain and suffering
It's just another fanasty
Andrew Tate said it , losing a child is much worse than losing a parent. women sees men as providers , protectors and leaders , while men sees women as somebody we take care of , protect and guide.
It hits men much harder. We are not the same.
I don't know if I agree with that.
Women, esp vulnerable women who give their hearts and entire life to a man, just for him to knock her up or promise to stay ... Just to pull her stability AND complete trust in one fell swoop. Women bear children, are deeply emotional and bear the deepest wounds.
People in the comments seem to misunderstand what he's saying. This isn't even ablut being rejected. This is about literally giving your everything to the person you love and being cheated on, laughed at, hurt, back stabbed, etc.
Also, I think people downplay how actually hard it is for a straight man to get into a non-toxic, one-sided relationship. This might seem like a woe is me, but its just true. Men spend a good chunk of their lives being miserable and having to mold themselves to someone they aren't to attract attention or love.
The only exception to this is above average wealthy and good-looking men. As long as you're beautiful and rich, you can get almost whatever you want in this country.
Matthew Lillard is great in everything he’s in
Married and divorced twice. Now I know who I’m not… someone who needs a woman. And now all that heart is for me.
ALL for YOU. Enjoy yourself your hobbies your interests. Treat yourself. Take yourself on nice dates and vacations. Appreciate what you can do for others and do those things for YOURSELF first.
Honestly, I think this might also work in the reverse. My ex gf was so traumatized, she couldnt trust anyone, not even me. She got cheated on so many times she knew all the signs. EXTREMELY insecure anytime another woman even looked at me. She ended up cheating on me after we got into a fight the day before I had a flight to catch. Had to go out of town for a few weeks.
I think her mentality was the same as described in the video honestly. Trust no one so have a bunch of men lined up for sex, no connection. If theres any signs of conflict just go get a new man before she gets hurt first. When you think about this logically theres literally zero chance of successful long term relationship. I believe she really liked me cause she opened up to me, told me some deep dark secrets and cared for me for a time, but she couldnt escape that trauma deep inside. Women that have been traumatized really bad actually try and become like the men who hurt them if they dont heal.
She cheated on you. You never love a woman, it’s just your turn, stop coping. She didn’t love you, she took sex with another over your love, to say that she cheated on you because of her past is a coping mechanism. She never loved you.
I feel like this reflects on our society a lot today and makes a good point. We're good, but after enough times, the heartbreaks change us
This was released in 2007, which means it was filmed in 2005 or 2006. Even back then it was relevant.
I swear I thought he was on a stage in a college assembly at first. (Guest Speaker) Nonetheless, he is so right. I used to give my heart to women I really liked and it has brought me pain and misery once their plan was clear every time. It slowly turns a man's heart from warm and soft to a cold piece of stone. Since a little boy i always wanted a family with a responsible and respectable wife...it sucks because such a valued asset is at the very brink of becoming a non existent phenomenon. Time goes on and why should we stay stuck on a heartbreak where someone didn't value that time we once had...never give your heart to a woman...
We as men have to do better and find better women. Cant keep hooking up with these low class strags.
Ive been with a few women, and you can quickly tell which ones have potential and which ones are for the streets pretty quick once they open their mouth. The ones for the streets you have to let go immediately. Problems almost always happen when youre ignoring the red flags so you can keep sleeping with her
Mine left me 2 weeks before our one year in 2021 because she wasn’t happy and wasn’t “feeling the relationship”
All the “I’ll love you forever I promise” was fake all the I miss you’s were just lie’s the wanting s family n grow old together was just a bunch of horse shit n since that day I told myself to never date again cause it just isn’t worth it
I feel you bro, 4yrs together w/ some time long distance and lookin for a place to move in together, talking about getting married. Started dating a guy then broke up with me a few weeks later. Said we could still be friends but ain't no way I could, not after all the memories. Stay strong
@@FZ6er It always amazes me that they'll hit you with the "Let's be friends..." line like it's some kind of got damn consolation prize that makes everything better.
Only one woman I've ever met made me believe that nonsense of loving me forever...
@@FZ6er literally like how can somebody promise shit and then never joke up to it, some bs imo and glad we can notice that
@@mellowknight9350 I’m 19 n she was a virgin I thought she was pure enough but I guess all women are the same😔
Phase 1: Naive, love and get hurt; Phase 2: Pessimist, don't believe in love and hurt others first; Phase 3: Brave, love fully knowing full well you can get destroyed.
Phase 4: knowing that having a woman's heart is temporary and realizing they are rentals only
@@Ggg-nv5ly all of life is temporary. So, you're right of course.