Do Pickup Artist Tactics Work to Get a Great Girlfriend? | Surprise!
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- Do Pickup Artist Tactics Work to Get a Great Girlfriend? |Surprise!... Pickup artist tactics include a range of techniques, but the major question is, do pickup artist tactics work to get a great girlfriend? It’s crucial to understand that the pickup artist tactics may work in certain situations, but their success is often short-lived. To better understand whether pickup artist tactics work to get a great girlfriend, embrace this dating advice and be sure to watch the entire video.
The pickup artist tactics may work on women who are only seeking casual and short-term relationships in most cases. Therefore, if you plan to use pickup artist tactics, you should not expect to establish a long-lasting and meaningful relationship. Knowing who the pickup artist tactics work on, it will help you avoid relying on these tactics to form genuine and lasting connections.
If you want a healthy and lasting relationship based on genuine connection, using pickup artist tactics will not help you accomplish that. However, if you're looking for short-term or casual interactions, pickup artist tactics will offer some success. Pay attention to this dating advice to get an answer to the question of whether pickup artist tactics work to get a great girlfriend.
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Just a reminder: "Wingmam" (or wing girl) is taken from PUA terminology.
PUA isn't just about cheesy pick up lines...
The latest PUA evolution is a whole optimize program to instill and boost a man's confidence level (like what "Wingmam" does), and dive deep into woman's instinctual attraction levels (like what Wingmam does).
PUA 1.0 (Strauss and Mystery) were the firsts to discover feminine attraction triggers and were the first modern masters to decode the reptilian part of a woman's brain...her R-complex using a street level social experiment method in real life - trial and error then comparing notes with other PUAs that worked for them too. They were the first to do a reverse psychology on women, all they did was do what women do to men, and it worked plus they were the first to recruit and teach "wing girls" to help their students out on the field. PUA 2.0 introduced raising a man's maturity level, inclusive of women, and how to spot a narcissist and why they must be avoided years before Wingmam made her first videos (Dr. Paul Dobransky was the first PUA to teach both men and women, sometimes in the same room, and decodes women's and men's R-complexes using hard science), and PUA 3.0 is Neo-masculinity, that are like the 1950s males but non-abusive and inclusive of only mature women and mature men to foster healthy relationships that endures and thrives.
If you're whining and complaining about PUAs because they get high quality women, then you are also attacking the many "wing girls" too which are the women that supports PUAs because they are tired of dating immature boyish guys that either are too abusive or the ones that whine and complain all day, everyday, but don't actual do the hard work to get better at communication, maturing, and attractions of the opposite sex.
Quit being virtue signalers, and go out into the field to apply what Wingmam and PUAs teach, instead of sitting around, whining and complaining watching youtube videos.
@@sirphil13thanks, good advice i appreciate it, have a good day, bro, thank you. thanks, good advice, have a blessed day, bro, thank you.
Which techniques are useful? Kino Escalation? I hate Peacocking. Negging feels manipulative. I’d prefer a woman just recognize my value but very few do.
Pick-up artistry works on women who are just looking for a good time -- to get laid, as they say. Sometimes, if the player is skillful enough, he can get her hooked, and in some cases, even have her fall-in-love with him. But, if player tactics (or running game on her) worked on her when you did it, why wouldn't it work on her again when another player comes along? You are not the only player in the game. She might get hooked on you for awhile, but if you want a long-term, healthy relationship, then you better find a high-value woman who is not easily prone to being won over by players and their tactics.
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There are so many different types of ‘Game’ that it’s difficult to categorize it into one bucket. What’s important to understand is if you listen to guys like Todd Valentine, ordinary guys can learn many useful tactics to be successful with woman that many guys are awful at. For example, how to approach and start a conversation with a woman and how to make take that conversation from a platonic relationship and make it ‘man to woman' (which many men are terrible at), etc. If you can’t do either of these, you have no chance of ever having a long-term relationship. So, given the sad state of online dating for ordinary guys, there’s still plenty of decent techniques that Game can teach you of how to interact in person. Otherwise, many guys will end spending a lot time home alone. I find that guys like Todd know more about female psychology than most psychologists I have ever listened to and are in line with people like Marni and other female coaches. I never found that Todd was teaching cheesy lines or tactics. Rather, it was about how to create an initial connection with a woman.
I also have always found TV to be on the money, no bs.
Another great video! You’ve sifted out all the BS and distilled the useful tactics in a concise manner. Thank you for confirming my convictions about authentic connections. Even if I’m not looking to find someone special I always do enjoy a flirtatious conversation.
Glad you enjoyed it!
Yes, Anna, definitely do a more detailed analysis of The Game if you can. Neil Strauss also wrote a sequel. which really goes much much deeper.
can everyone just agree, she is only genuine person out there who actually answers out all the doubts we got. I don't know I m quite skeptical myself but you truly challenge my perception every way.
Thank you for such honest talks. Much appreciation.
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts. I appreciate that 🙏
I absolutely agree with perspectives, advice and insights. Thanks for the video.
I went to study under a pickup artist a while ago ...
Still no luck with women, but my truck looks great ...
- Moscow, Russia
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I always thought that pick-up lines were manipulative and fake. I have never tried to be something i'm not. I've always been a bit shy in the past but never insecure when i liked a girl. Being myself and respectful has never failed me because i know who i am. Either it was or wasn't meant to happen under the circumstances but i have grown and learned. Thanks to you Anna, i am better prepared than ever!
Oh Wingmam your such a delight to watch ! Thank you !!
Generally, the video is true. Pickup works and you can get a good girlfriend using PUA methods. The lines are useless, but you need structure to get started. So, tactics is useful, start with structure before you can flow. Flirting, leading and escalating, setting dates is a necessary knowledge which PUAs provide. Nothing beats actual approaching. Congruency and a strong frame are required to be seductive with the most beautiful women, it is something that is learned with many approaches(and having amazing life by you own). With approaches you get the feeling of the social dynamics and interaction inside groups and become fluent.
To avoid "party girls" approach in events, parks, streets. Environment where you approach limits your options. I found "street approach" to be the most effective, because you rarely see high value women in a bar, especially without their boyfriends.
thanks, good advice i appreciate it, have a good day, bro, thank you. thanks, good advice, have a blessed day, bro, thank you.
Woo hoo ! Wow! You get a gold star ! They really should teach this stuff in high school because thats where we started to get all screwed up & now you took on the task to fix us .
Thx for all that you do ;)
You are genuine Anna Maria Jorgensen , and we are blessed again !🕊️🌿🙏
Makes sense. Great vid!
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Thank goodness someone giving out truth!
great Anna, Thank you :*
Love it. Thanks, Anna
My pleasure ❤️
Love your new hair!
Good 👍🏻 job and happy thanksgiving to you Anna 😊
❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much. I appreciate that!
In my 20's I used these PUA tactics back in the 80s and it worked because I lived in a beachy tourist area. Women were here for a week and weren't interested in long term. They wanted to get tan, drunk and laid. Hate to say it but at least half were married. Years later my wife was an acquaintance through a friend and she asked me out after 6 months of knowing each other. Together for 30 years. (By the way, never heard of PUA tactics until a few years ago.)
Confidence is key, maintain a high vibrational flow state (be happy & stay in the moment), laugh together, push pull a little, be honest with your intention but place no dependency on the outcome & escalate quickly should you get the green light .. Owen Cook RSD
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Guys, learn to like and forgive yourself! Join in with the "Game of Life", stop trying to emulate other people. Be yourself and then you'll have less stress and worries in your life.Plan for your future or your life will be just like it has always been!
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I love your videos, I know I've said it before, but you crack me up, informative and very amusing, thanks Anna
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
@@YourWingmam My pleasure 😀
A lot of these comments are from dudes who mention how they need to minimize a painful self esteem crushing rejection. Since when does some random woman’s rejection qualify to be self esteem crushing? Really? All it amounts to is something similar to shopping at a grocery store and you pick the grapes over apples. Are apples suddenly horrible and bad? You wanted grapes. Same thing with rejection. A woman says no and picks another guy it is just a preference SHE had and has little to do with you. Guys are way to tender and sensitive when it comes to being rejected. It is not the end of the world. It just is about a choice some random person made at a moment.
Many women are brutal when rejecting men; they create a scene and try to publicly humiliate the guy in front of the world in order to “own” some socially awkward guy in front of her friends. Get put on blast in public and treated like a creeper often enough, and this mistreatment by emotionally damaged women (of which there are many) will erode the self-esteem of even the most confident guy. I assume that you must be either a really attractive and popular guy, or else you are married and haven’t dated in years, so you have never experienced this mistreatment by women yourself, so you have no idea of what “soul crushing” actually means. Bully for you that you’ve never had to endure that torture for yourself, but since you apparently don’t know what you are talking about, your advice seems overly simplistic, you come across as condescending rather than helpful, and, with all due respect, your comment is essentially useless to the people who need advice the most.
Actually I met one of my closest friends this way, about 20 years ago... 😊
A lot of the times the guy has got confidence and a good rap routine in that he knows how to connect and is successful. Pick-up lines are as successful as the person delivering them. Look at it as acting. You are delivering a line that is already written and your ability to perform it relates directly to your talents as an actor. Did you learn your lines? Are you ready to say them. Do you have confidence? None of this is about manipulation or insincerity because there is nothing wrong with getting to know someone. You have sell yourself or put on a little show to do so.
Thank you.
Finding a wife is like finding a job, it's easier to find than to keep
It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
Thanks Anna
My pleasure ❤️
Love the hair
Thank you!
I agree with the concept that the PUA players are the flip side of the party girls who complain "there aren't any good men left." It's the damaged men dancing with the damaged women. Not only are successful relationships largely absent, most of the players aren't even relationship material (until they undergo major overhauls, at least). Confidence and authenticity: absolutely! Both are essential for a successful relationship. No surprise that the dating apps have limited effectiveness in developing serious relationships, since most stress superficial qualities over these essential traits. Good video. Meant to ask: are the illustrations you've been using from a stock source, or have you enlisted an artist to help with the show-and-tell? I would say you're looking lovely today, but, you're Anna -- I don't think you're capable of doing otherwise ;). Praying for you. -- Russ P PS/The furballs send their sleepy regards. I don't think they've fully recovered from the full house during Thanksgiving (not sure I have, either! :).
Agreed, confidence and authenticity for the win-win! My video editor is using AI illustrations. Crazy new world lol Thank you for the generous compliment, Russ, hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving! Scratch for the pooches🙏
A large chunk of men who go for PUA lessons are those who just wanna be able to pump and dump women with ease! 🤣🤣🤣
Sorry Anna. This sounds like a recipe to get friendzoned. Game is different from Pick Up Artistry. Game works on all types of women because it is about building attraction…and when done well IS authentic.
The Dancer Becomes The Dance. He doesn’t come across as cheesy and inauthentic because he is in the moment and each approach is tailored to the woman who is in front of him. The attraction triggers simply becomes part of who he is (eg confidence, boundaries, lack of neediness/outcome dependence).
That is, he doesn’t need pick up lines if he has the confidence and creativity to approach a woman and start a conversation with what’s in the environment. He can build attraction if he understands female psychology and the subtle ways she will test his strength/fitness/authenticity. He doesn’t need damaged women if he’s patient and has the social and emotional intelligence to read her level of interest and respond accordingly.
Where women fall down in teaching men to approach women is that they teach men how to build comfort and emotional investment (connection)… but without attraction, you wind up getting friendzoned.
Teachers of Game (not PUA) teach men how to build attraction so that she sees you as a potential mate..and not just a “nice guy”.
Men who find themselves routinely being friendzoned would benefit from studying game because the women around them have given them the wrong rules to the game.
The approach has to be a balance of communicated desire and respect. Too much desire and not enough respect? Her creep alarm goes off. Too much respect and comfort building and not enough desire and masculinity?
“I just don’t see you that way. Let’s be friends.”
Game is the dance of human courtship.
One of the few here who gets it.
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I totally agree! You hit the nail on the head. 'Game is the dance of human courtship." Wow, that's a quote for the ages. I'm going to remember that one!!
After having watched many of Todd V's videos, he's the best teacher of Game I've ever seen. My approach and conversational skills have been excellent for a long time, but I definitely learned even more from him, even though I was already authentic. This video here was about how to end up in the Friend Zone. You need to know enough female psychology and learn how to build attraction. That's Game!
Having game is different than playing games and is different than pickup artist tactics, agreed. Having game has been discussed in numerous videos (I’ve just not called it that.) 😊
@@YourWingmam I know…been a subscriber for awhile. What guys need to understand is that PUA was the first step in understanding game and female psychology…so that it could be broken down into a skill that can be taught.
But old school PUA is to contemporary Game as a Model T Ford is to a Tesla. A smart, healthy woman will see the loud, clunky performance in the former. But she won’t likely even be aware of the latter. Because it will be so natural and contextual that she will (rightly) assume that it is just him…since a guy with high level Game builds it off of his individual strengths: intelligence, creativity, confidence/dominance, humor, etc…
Guys are better off not running PUA tactics, but they also need to understand its role in the evolution of Game. So that they can build a personal approach to it, so that it does come across as authentic. Because it has become authentic.
The goal is clear communication (and knowing how to not talk a woman out of being attracted to you), if you’re looking for an LTR, not manipulation.
What is the best way to approach a group of girls and get a solid phone number for a date while at the same time minimizing the probability of a painful self esteem crushing rejection, embarrassment and humiliation ?
Noted for a future video! Thanks for the suggestion! In the meantime, the book The Game describes how to do this but some aspects are out of date (or especially risky nowadays).
@@YourWingmam thank you
@@YourWingmam Girls usually go out in groups. Even if the girl I'm attracted to feels likewise, her friends will usually warn her off me. She takes notice of them rather than me, a stranger.
Rejections are the part of the game. You need to embrace them. There is no way around it. But, believe me, rejections are more in your head, usually they are very polite. For approaching groups, engage the whole group first. Talk and great everyone. You need to win her friends first if you want to get the girl you like.
@@artomatica How can you quickly win over a group of strangers who are hostile to you?
After listening on all other crap (a.k.a. "news") that is happening in the world nowadays, it is so refreshing to come by and hear & see you here on your channel. Beside all useful information that man are normally not hearing often enough you are such a breeze of positive energy, thank you for that. I sincerely hope that you are same (positive) even "behind the scene", and not just for us, your viewers. Wish you all the best, Anna.
Now to my question, do you have any video with some analysis of "No more Mr. nice guy" (or have you considered to make one)?
I have silver lining syndrome, sometimes it’s irritating to others lol but glad you appreciate it! As for Nice Guy Syndrome, I have a whole playlist on the topic: ruclips.net/p/PLQ8Q-8-X18dkVTxGbz0VK9p_bySymr3XW&si=b48WgpJySG-Q-Vu9 😁
@@YourWingmam - Whatever it is, it suits you. 🙂
Thanks, have seen almost all from that playlist but I will doublecheck if I missed something and keep watching if you add something new.
I know you will, you can't resist that subject... 💝
Please do a deeper breakdown of the book the game!
PUA tactics by others work great for me by sending the women in my direction...
sometimes because they see me laughing at the guy as he fails, or use it as an opportunity to flirt with me. instead... they look over at me while laughing and pointing at the fool as he fails, not realizing the women have been watching him systematicalky hit on and fail with every woman since he walked in the door.
You know you're doing something right when she's watching nearby, then grabs the seat next to you and says: "this looks like a safe place to sit."
Of course it is, I'm not out for entertainment to meet women, but to get a break from day to day life and hang out with my service industry and musician friends who work nights.
I even have a reputation for disappearing before liquid courage and related stupidity kicks in.
Women: Not happy when men show interest, not happy when we don't.
Key Points
What were they? ;) x
@@YourWingmam I want to do pick up artist with anna
Let's go spicy señorita Anna ❤
Thanks for showing up, John, happy Sunday! You may remember some of this video from an older one. Always good to update info as needed :))
Yes more
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Your camera quality is great.
iPhone 11 😳 shows my flaws but I figure that’s a novel move in today’s ultra filtered & photoshopped world lol
"Pick Up" got a bad reputation because it originally involved men memorizing canned lines and techniques. I would say "game" which is learning the skill of presenting yourself in ways that are attractive to women, while at the same time being congruent and genuine, is a real thing that can help a lot.
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A former employee who thought he was a pickup artist and was new to town asked me where he could pickup chicks and my answer was the feed store ,He said great ! My boss is a comedian and then he said where can I meet and pick up women ? My answer was almost anywhere but look out for the bigger and heavier ones because you might hurt your back and not be able to work the next day . Then I'd have to fire your sorry ass . The retort was appropriate to someone who obviously didn't respect women. My point is just as many men disrespect women as women who disrespect men. Maybe there should be a state or country where these people go to make themselves miserable and leave the rest of us out of it.
Nice video once again! I do wonder what these pickup artists do when it comes to interacting with women in a loud place like a bar with a DJ or a live band. Is it just a matter of manning up by walking over, speaking up, and using a good, concise conversation opener and going from there? I have trouble interacting with women in bars because 1. the loud environment seems to discourage most conversation and 2. They often have a partner already. I suppose it's a matter of confidence and going with the flow when it comes to starting the interaction. Maybe I should think of some great conversation starters while keeping it concise and fun. I do agree that pickup artist tactics are good for getting laid, but can be tricky for helping create a long term relationship. I believe charisma is important, but a guy's personality shouldn't become pretentious, and that's a risk pickup artists take in my opinion.
PUA is an EgoCentric will-based approach to getting one's 'needs' (including esteem, power, and connection needs) met by the 'false' external material world.
It largely excludes (divides) us from ourself (our _Primary_ relationship) by blindly ignoring our greater inner Being and is therefore unsupportive of growing our ongoing evolving wholeness or 'personal spirituality' in a unified manner.
Still, whether one chooses the egoic route or not, one can not escape the universal dynamics that wherever they go, there they will be; and nothing will stop them from having to face their true reflections of disempowerment, devaluation and disconnection to whatever degree they have chosen to divided themselves.
✨People will reflect and trigger _all_ that is unintegrated of oneself so that it may be seen, reviewed and healed. It's just much better to be with someone who is ALSO aligned with their evolving total self and nit just out to grow the strength of their ego personality.
People that are game-oriented are emotionally stuck in a juvenile state and aren't compatible with mature adults... look around you, just quietly observe and you will be ahead of their games!😒
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Spot on video, but it would have been really interesting to dive deeper into actual pick-up methods. For example, non cheesy necking can be very effective to create some tension in the date, especially if you are a "good guy" who is often "too nice". Another technique that was a game ( no pun intended ) changer for me was the "3 second stare", where you hold the gaze of a woman for a couple of seconds. Really got me out of the friend zone and added spice to the date. I might even got this from the Neil Strauss book. But ultimately tactics and games can only get you so far, if you don't transform from boy to man. Anyone remembers David D. and Dr.Paul? 😅
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Dear Anna:
Love the hair, and lots of smiles today,. I love seeing that.
Pick up artist strategies? Part of me hopes they do not work on good women. If they fall for them, they might fall for anything and that means they are not emotionally secured. I am sure you might find a good woman at a bar, but what are the odds of that? Also, as you mentioned, she might be playing games herself. Best to be forward and look for women in places where one may find a woman with a good head on hwr shoulders.
Great video again. I hope you are doing well and Canadian weather is not affecting you too much. Have an awesome week Anna. Thank you for all thw smiles in this video, for a beautiful smile you have. Hug and a peck on each cheek. See you next week!!!
Agreed! (And glad you appreciated the smiles today!) 🙏
Being a pick-up artist is a romanticized practice that creates the fantasy of a fast paced lecherous womanizing lifestyle. Like 007. It's sexy. It's exciting. It's challenging. It's like a big game hunter in the dating world. Bed the most beautiful/desirable woman in the room. Make sure everyone knows you closed the deal. And then move on to the next prize. And if that is what you're into, then go for it. But repetitive behaviors sometimes come with a price. You may find yourself unable to settle down. Or you may find that you have no idea how to interact with a woman other than "gaming" her. I'm not sure how someone would research the success of all the trained "professional" pick-up artists and rate their success in a long term relationship. But it would be interesting to know if they had the patience, understanding, clemency, and commitment to put in the work for decades and not just months or a few years.
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My thought process is, that when I meet a lady, I would prefer to have met her under different circumstances rather than being in a social environment where "pick up lines" are often used to meet women. For example, I would rather meet "her" by doing something to help her such as fix her car in some way (change out a flat tire, jump start a battery, etc.), or helped her out in some other way. I just believe that would be a better icebreaker. Hopefully, she will be single as well. Actions speak louder than words. I've always enjoyed your videos. God bless you and take care.
There is always a sense of performance when you're first meeting someone. Either your performancs is meek, timid, shy, and unconfident, and you are easily forgotten. Or, your performance is confident, shows your best side, involves everyone, and you are a person they talk about for weeks. Most people are forgotten, most people will be told that they shouldn't step outside the norms and just stay in the box. Most people live lives of quiet desperation. If you say confidence is far more attractive, and you want men to understand that women mirror our emotions, but then we're told to be authentic, but authentically men want all the women. So. How do we authentically express the desire to have multiple women all the time, but not do the things to have that. Its a tough subject but a great one to talk about.
Confidence
It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
For me the strongest "tactic" is still being your genuine self, putting your best foot forward for a lady, and having your own set of principles.
Totally agree! If you're looking for more insights and tips on dating, consider checking out my Wakeup2Luv program. It has a 60 day no strings attached refund option so there’s no risk. If curious, here’s the link: members.wingmam.com/get-women/
I think there is some tactics usable by low game guys from the PUA playbook. I think it would be great if you filtered some golden nuggets for us from the book. Anything that would grease the skids on first encounter/approach situation. That is the critical moment you must pass to get to the phone number/date.
Your gorgeous. Much love to you Anna.
Thank you so much! 💞
Here's the pickup line I always use I have millions of dollars and I want to spend it on you. 😂
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Do pickup tactics “work”? Depends on what you mean by “working”, but most of the socially awkward, introverted men out there who were, or still are, terrified to even speak to a lady that they were attracted to (and I used to be one of those people), then ANY dating advice is going to be good advice to someone who doesn’t know what he is doing or where to start. Most of the dating advice that you will hear from your friends and relatives is basically overly simplistic, misleading at best and completely useless at worst (because most people have no idea of what they are talking about, and they are probably lying to you, anyway, about how socially awkward you really are in a misguided attempt to save your feelings), so there really wasn’t anywhere else to go for advice for men for the majority of human existence besides going to “players” and asking them the basic question: why are you so smooth with women, while I seem to always strike out? What’s wrong with me? I seem like the any woman’s dream catch on paper based on what women SAY that they want …?!?! It is very confusing when women say that they hate players, but that is exactly with whom they go home with time and time again while the good guy gets to go home alone to spend time with his dog watching reruns of the “Dating Game” show on TV to try any pick up some crumbs of insight.
Obviously PUA tactics work for some people, because someone somewhere is dating all of these girls (there are far more single, virgin guys than there are single, virgin girls, so you can do the math). If that someone is not you, then you are obviously going to be curious as to why not you? Why him? The players must be doing SOMETHING right, because a player that cannot get a date isn’t really a “player”, now is he?
So, anyway, the biggest advantage that PUAs give to their students is the gumption to get out there and actually interact with women, because you get better by doing. You don’t get better by wishing. Even if their advice turns out to be mostly wrong, being told some type of advice gives the guy the confidence to act like he knows what he is doing (because he believes that he does), and apparently self-confidence is what most women are looking for in a guy, anyway (which is something that almost NO ONE will ever tell you). So, yea, it “works” in that sense.
Agreed. Subject to everything I said in the video. :)
Thank you for the book recommendation. I already don't trust women and think they are emotionally damaged drama queens and succubi, so this sounds like a 'how to' read for me.
I would love to have a woman that would run a totally different look 2 or 3 tines a year. There would never have the desire to cheat
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Hey Anna i have a question:
There is a Girl who works as cashier, which i like her. But at the first sight we see each other at the store she seems to be not interested. After all a couple of months i go to her and bought something. She said look its much cheaper than before. I said nice, she laughted. Then i took my Playstation Game and suddely she smiled with her big eyes with a and emotion to me. I was shocked, smiled back and went off.
Why did she do that, attention or is it suddenlty interest?
Best regards your videos helped me a lot.
yes, I would like to hear about the positives and negatives of The Game.
I don't show interest in women and guess what... That's right, they totally ignore me.
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No I don't won't to decisive anyone.However there are so many who do
Particularly post covid. I feel so sorry for those who engage in this.
So how do you find these women in the bars you mentioned @ about 7:50 into video?
Go an hour before closing lol
That is an excellent question. And the answer is: I'm not sure.
Great answer! Better to be uncertain than to be certain and wrong :))
@@YourWingmam Awesome. Thank you.
I can’t say there is no club or bar scene for pickup operators, was just in one having attended a wedding in Vegas, where low value is the order of the day and you can’t hear yourself think. Perhaps you could comment on female pickup artists? Any high value women is already past this, maybe too serious ,with don’t waste my time written all over them. BTW the fresh look works just as well as the fashion look. Waiting
Rather than the Strauss book, i think I'd suggest Rollo's "The Player's Handbook" or "The Rational Male".
Rational Male on my shelf! Haven’t read the other yet. :)
@@YourWingmam I think Rollo's approach is more foundational, thusly more relevant over time. My take of Strauss is that he's more tactical, according to the situation and era.
Love you girl
Right back at you!
PUA tactics usually don't work at all & in any case, they're not geared to finding long-term partners.
Maybe in your case, I had several amazing long term relationships because of "PUA knowledge", you just need to calibrate and make this knowledge relevant for yourself. It is a skill after all, to build connection with people.
Hi, I'm interested in the "WakeUP2Luv' program. However, my English is not quite good, so may I ask is there subtitle in the program that I could read for more understandable?
There's a transcript (in English) for the entire program and subtitles are available. :) WakeUP2Luv: members.wingmam.com/get-women/
Someone said you lose on 100% of the shots you don't take in sports. There is truth in learning to speak to women the way they want to be approached & spoken to. No one will teach you, you are going have to force yourself to do it. You can follow the PUA as a guide to how to start, because most men really never learn how to approach women cold turkey. You have an advantage. But to really learn, you have to do it over & over again until it becomes natural to you & your conversation is genuine not contrived. But the real lesson in approaching women is learning body language. It's far more important to learn the signals women give. Why are you approaching a woman who gave you a No signal? You are wasting your time. "But I didn't see any signal." Right, that's why you have to learn. The most important signals to learn are the Yes signals, because you won't see them often. Chad sees them all day every day, he doesn't need to learn anything. But the rest of us don't. So as a young man, you need to be totally aware of a woman communicating to you with her eyes & body language without saying a word. For that person, you can be ready with PUA language. Women have "come closer", "maybe, shoot your best shot", & "just talk to me & you are in like Flynn" body language. Learn that, & you won't waste time. I travel a lot. I am the "new guy" in the gym often. The women already know all the other men in the gym, who they like & don't, & which men give them attention & don't. So when they see a new guy, it's a new opportunity. We only get 1 chance, the first chance. So my body language reading has really improved by multitudes of women seeing me for the first time in their life. Most of course have no interest in me & their body language shows it. Some just want to capture my attention for validation, that's a "look at me" body language but it's not Yes. A woman staring you up & down is different body language & locking eyes with you is intentional. So take your best shot. But they get offers all day every day, so if we bomb on the first encounter, that's pretty much it. So go to new places as often as possible to learn PUA & body language skills. Put yourself in front of women who have never seen you. Then you can learn faster & start to recognize No, Shoot Your Shot, Give Me Attention, & Yes body language.
Flash the wallet, just flash😁
To be a pick-up artist, player, and/or Red Pill, you can never invest yourself emotionally. That is basically the first commandment. However, if you want a long-term and committed relationship, some amount of emotional investment on your part is usually necessary. You can't have it both ways -- you have to choose between being an emotionless (heartless) player, and being in a long-term, healthy relationship. But as a man, you must never allow yourself to become more emotionally invested in any woman more than she is invested in you -- otherwise she will begin to see you as weak, needy, and dependent. Woman will say they don't like this, but the woman always needs to be bringing more to the relationship than the man in terms of love, nurturing and caring. It is the job of the man to lead, to provide, and to protect her.
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate you being here!
Old friend right and center - how many actually see those?
A guy can develop all of these skills and STILL have problems...because these skills don't make the woman he approaches single, available, and looking. (Have to have all three to be successful.) Doesn't happen like movies and TV shows portray.
Sometimes it just boils down to the luck of the draw...
@@mrconfusion87 Yep. And that was the title of the final Gambler movie: "The Gambler Returns: The Luck of the Draw" (TV, 1991).
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I dislike this thing called game and the guys that play game. There is generally enough game playing in the beginning of a relationship anyway. The higher the body count, the less value intimacy has as time goes on. If you are intent on playing game, do yourself a favor and do it for the shortest amount of time possible. It doesn't do anyone any good in many different ways, even for the player.
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Anna, I heard that we need the women to miss us for them to fall for us so we have to give them space. But how to bring this space in an actual relationship between wife and husband or gf/bf
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So, Anna you are right that the confidence is always very important and that's something I agree with the pick artists but other than that I don't agree with them much. I have heard of them but never met anyone of them. You know Anna recently I come to know that the girl who rejected me not the virgin girl but the one who rejected me before I come to know this virgin girl and I heard that she is going to get married and she is the daughter of the Godparents of one of my friend and he clashed with me for years in my school and college days in the past and last year she and her family gave me an conclusive answer and they rejected me and that's when I moved on and then I come to know about this virgin girl. This virgin girl is a foreigner but that girl who is going to get married she is from my native village and I don't have much worries but I'm always me and that never changes and I like to share with you this story and I will read that book you suggested Anna that is " The game" by Neil Strauss and you are like a mother to me Anna and you are old enough to be my mother and I'm young enough to be your son. So, yeah thanks for boosting my confidence and changing my views about love and also about woman. So, thank you Anna and God bless 🙏.
So glad to be here for you! Please read the b book with a grain of salt, some stuff is very outdated. Take what feels right, your moral compass will guide you. God bless!
@@YourWingmam Thank you very much Anna and I appreciate more God bless 🙏.
Ok, off to watch the Eagles now.
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Is the picking up worth the effort? I would rather spend my time creating meaningful relationships. That will only happen after you've done the work on yourself.
Done the work on yourself, agreed. But what work? That's where the point of PUA comes in. You need to make you an attractive proposition and there are undeniable truths in how PUA present themselves. Some are ridiculous to be sure, but I use some Pua techniques when I'm seeking and qualifying a keeper.
@s6g2k yes an attractive proposition for the right woman , provided that you know what the right woman is for you!
1:38 No such animal. The Game, Mystery Method, and anything Todd Valentine says all work. And that book on training dogs. Female nature is unchanging. Yes there are those who are not susceptible: bell curve and all that. But the techniques are just ways of leveraging the fundamental psychological principals. Like a judo throw. I can do it to my little brother, but not to a good judo player. That doesn't invalidate the throw, but rather the would-be thrower.
Are people still using pickup lines?
Sadly, yes.
@@YourWingmam Do you recommend any pickup lines? Can some be good due to being funny?
I'm single and I need help
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You did not elucidate the positive techniques that are acceptable from the mostly negative techniques?
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You should do a video about a control freek
If you haven't already
I met a girl
That all she's about is her ..
Sad..
She and I have everything paid for
So I thought well maybe this is something to see how things pan out ..
Well come to find out ... She can't stand the town she and I live in ...
And she wants to go back to her home town .... That's cool with me ..
But I told her I ain't starting all over again... With mortgage payments and simply being in debt for ever ...
She told me get this.....
Well I see
I thought to my self ...
You see I'm not gonna go with you on this and your an idiot!!!
Because you will not sale your house these days and be able to pay for what you've lost some where else ... Period.
Because what it takes these days to sale out on... Costes way more to find your self a place to be paid for then what you have already paid for .,.. the grass is the most greenest ... Next to the shit house is what I told her also !!
Any way
Thanks for all your hard work!!!
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I want to pick you ❤... 😬
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@YourWingmam Oo.. your blushing has just turned me on 🔥
You "Cut Your Hair!!" Your "Golden Locks are Gone!!!" Granted,... but you do look more professional, was that the look you were going for? Well, the video was great too.
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Do you watch dating shows?
No, they’re not really reality TV (I know a few people on them) though there probably are some nuggets.
I want a girlfriend that's so badass she can knock a tree over with one blow of her trunk ... The screen door would definitely serve its purpose on the submarine for keepin' the mosquitoes and flies at Bay as you enjoy the extra damp breeze that flow in your back door 😅
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There are no emotionally healthy women nowadays
Kindly don’t say that, there are a lot of good men out there 🙏
wow you are so beautiful
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Hi friend I’m sorry I dream about you
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@@YourWingmam I’m so sorry
NOPE. One of the greatest players to ever live said "What I've told you will get you any woman you meet, but the first one to kick you when you're down will be her." His life ended this way, and my life took this turn too. There was no games, tricks or tactics, just being non-threatening and genuine. Fact is all women are EZ. Have ABSOLUTE standards and never waiver no matter any reason whatsoever or you will pay for it.
Be Direct ? You should clarify what this means. If you are too direct with your intentions, this can obviously backfire. If, for example, you just want to have sex with her, you shouldn't say this to her too directly -- you have to use some tactfulness, otherwise, even if she is interested in also having sex with you, it can make her feel cheap and sleazy and this will turn most women off. On the other hand, if you are seeking a relationship, you don't want to be too direct about that either, else you will come off as desperate and overeager. I always get a kick out of those men who think they can just be direct with women, and not play any games whatsoever. If this is what they really believe, they don't understand women. You have to use some tactfulness, some charm, hold back a little, let her come to you a little, take your time, romance her a little, get to know her a little, while also being somewhat mysterious yourself... Now, TELL ME I'M WRONG !
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Guys, it's all about being young, and really f####$$$ing hot and tall, accept being alone or get yourself some escorts if you want lol
Still perplexed (but appreciative) that you’ve been watching my videos for years 🙏
@YourWingmam through observing the men and women in social settings I can confirm that it's one type of man who gets the love in other words women ain't shhh lol
@@YourWingmam its ridcoulos how all women no matter what they look like hot or ugly are able to find hot guys or multiple hot guys so no point jn talking to them
@@YourWingmam lol you caught me in a bad mood earlier sorry working Grocery as a dude who's not attractive sucks lol. But earlier today at the liquor section a Russian lady said omg I like your hair style very enthusasticly and I responded with a one word thank you if this was the 90s I probably would have showed appricuation but you cant do that now days cus it can be creepy desperarte looking needy looking and so on
That's a bad attitude. Haven't you ever been out in public and seen other couples? There are plenty of 'not hot' guys who land beautiful women as their partner. You really don't understand women at all if you think women only care about looks
Why do women even fall for the bs line?
They want to. Most guys aren't confident enough to even approach never mind try a line *with confidence.* Key point: with confidence.
Seems like your neck got a little longer or something girl I like 😉
Ha! Thanks!
Instead of reading _The Game,_ how about reading _New Game+_ by Dr. Nerdlove. It's a much more balanced view that discards most of the PUA stuff but keeps the non-toxic parts.
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