Timestamp! -0:16 Be a little selfish -1:05 Want what you can't have -1:44 Opposites don't always attract -2:28 The paradox of availability -3:14 The allure of being different
I think too many people are enamored by the idea of having a crush versus working on themselves first before moving onto a possible genuine crush. You may not have a crush on someone, but rather just complicated thoughts and feelings. I've seen it far too often even to this very day.
@@player32933 when you're genuinely 100% the opposite of selfish, that's precisely when you're in the pitch perfect frame of mind to answer that very question. If you want them to be genuinely happy in life, that requires genuine sacrifice, including potentially not being part of their lives in any way, shape or form, if it really comes down to it. Seeing them happy from afar is forever better than seeing them sad up close.
@@player32933 finding someone attractive doesn't mean you have a crush on them. Having a crush is like someone you look forward to everyday and you can say "I like you" genuinely and without hesitation. Or maybe you're just in denial, lol.
Don't let it. If you're not female you can't AFFORD to be "quirky". Every girl has an infinite pool of perfectly normal guys to draw from, standing out too far in a way that isn't socially or financially advantageous is a VERY bad idea.
The last one isnt completely true. You have to be self aware about it and whether youre attractive or not. If you arent attractive then being "different" can sometimes just harm your chances because you come off as weird instead. Im not blackpilled, just realistic and this is something you need to know so you dont ruin your chances. An example is being "mysterious," if you arent attractive you wont be mysterious youll just be socially akward and weird.
@@thesaddestdude3575 Eh. Blackpill people say theyre realistic but are overly pessimistic. Like im a pretty pessimistic person in general but lots of blackpilled people act like nobody can ever love them because they think their nose is too big or something, which is unrealistic. everybody on the planet can find somebody for them.
YO BUBBLEGUM AND MARCELINE? THATS INSANE Another successful video by the way, Im engaged to my fiancée and she has been with me due to me being dedicated into my interests. Thank you for those valuable videos
Nice Yuri and Natsuki added into the thumbnail, and I do enjoyed your DDLC references! But do you mean like an actual crush or a fictional character crush or just both in general.
today i quitted my first relationship since it was toxic and i am 15 it was hard decision since i was 5/10 and afraid of socital jugdement and pressure but asked myself "why i should stay in a toxic relationship for fear of being alone" i ditched the relatioship
I think that's what everyone is working on, getting a job, doing their hobbies, spending time with themselves and families, and still remain single. maybe, the people around that person is also doing the same thing, doing their own thing in hopes that someone might approach them. although, this happens in the 20s 25 age, mostly at this age, from where I am. I feel like, what you are trying to portray, is genuine connections from friends, and this friend invites a friend and overtime, the 2 of your friends find interest from each other.
It's strange and funny that when you desperately want something or someone, it seems to be very difficult to obtain! However, when you can care less about anything, it seems to be readily available! It is such a paradox and such a mystifying situation that has no clear solutions or answers! Good luck you all! There are more twists and turns in life than an ominous and sinister labyrinth! Have a good one!
i think part of it is because when you're not obsessing over something, there's brain power for other things such as thinking -=how- to get it or even just being happy with other things in life
I swear this is so true it's crazy. My best example would be that one time my first ex gf and I met I literally promised myself that year that I'd focus on myself and not take finding a gf too seriously and treat everyone as friends. I ended up falling in love with that ex who was really compatible with me at that time and it was a great relationship overall. Unfortunately now I'm kinda struggling to get that vibe back again and stop caring about getting girls to like me too much 😂
Timestamps 1). Be a little selfish 0:16 2). Want what you can't have 1:04 3). Opposites don't always attract 1:44 4). The paradox of availability 2:27 5). The allure of being different 3:13 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Was wondering if it’s the same person speaking on every video and was actually surprised it is, the lady who speaks in all these videos (I don’t know if she runs the account) has a really soothing voice and makes me actually want to watch the vids. Really chill channel.
I think these paradoxical effects make lots of sense but either is it me having no idea of how to make these card play out in my favor as I too am in no environment of people attractive to me, or because I can't the right balance of these quite handy tips 😅😓
If you truly love yourself, it's a win-win, because it makes you more attractive no matter what you look like physically, while at the same time you really don't care about what others think about you.
Of course it does, the video explain beautifully, be yourself all quirky and whatever the hell you are without explaining why you are like this, those who want you that way will be with you and those who are not will not turn to see you, we can't be likeable yo everybody but yes to a little few or very little
I am, and am going to be, learning all the knowledge I can of this world to spread it so that this world gets better. Even if it's just the neighbourhood
DDLC references I’ve seen here do far (only reason i clicked is bc i like looking for easter eggs and this channel’s animation crew is really cool, ddlc is an awesome psychological horror game) -Thumbnail has Natsuki - 0:26 yuri i think idk tho - 1:13 also has Yuri, also the larger character on screen has natsukis hair, they are on screen until 1:44 - 4:14 outro screens suggested video has Monika
Is it normal to have a crush often? But only crushes. Never a relationship, never some kind of initiative from them, nothing. Just a bit of crushing from far away till it goes away and i see a new potential someone who could be my soulmate
I have a question !? How you can tell if you love a girl or a boy , how do cam know if they like or love you back ! Please reply to me if you still have time 😭
I am working hard on myself, have rather high expectations, am not easy available and believe me, defenitely not an every-day man. Additionaly, I am nerdy and shy but also sporty, musical, and very intelligent. So I’d assume to show some mate-worth. Yet, I never had dated. It’s just that nobody seems to be interested in me. 🤷♂
The easiest way to attract a crush is, having the courage to approach regardless of gender. No mind games, send a note or something. Not everybody may pickup these cues.
If you're pretending to be taken by someone else in order to attract someone else, the only people who'll come after you are those that want to take you away from that relationship. They're homewreckers. If you're not imagining the person you're after as being available, you probably are the homewrecker. Don't pretend to be uninterested or oblivious. People will take that as you literally not caring about them.
I think sometimes I 'fall' for people who are unavailable because I know I cant ever be with them so it saves me from being open to getting hurt. I wonder if that makes sense.
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How is this not over 5k views by now ive been watching phyc2go for the past 3 years😂
Bro time traveled
11days ago?
WAIT HOW WAS THIS 11 DAYS AGO
Bro how
BRO WAS THE FIRST💀
Timestamp!
-0:16 Be a little selfish
-1:05 Want what you can't have
-1:44 Opposites don't always attract
-2:28 The paradox of availability
-3:14 The allure of being different
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@@Souma_Ditya thanks :)
@@noobzito2 np( ◜‿◝ )
Enkosi
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YOU BEAT ME TO IT😡
@@HxppyThxughts14 just HANG in there next time Psych2go makes another DDLC reference. Trust me, you will be a CUT above the rest someday…
YURI MENTIONED 🙏🙏
Clicked on this video just to look for this comment. (Thank you for making my search quick)
@@TheVectisEmpire ofc ^^
If you ever listen to anything while reading comments let it be this- go read the book social secrets mastery, then come back and thank me
What’s that for a book?
Author's name? There were several books with the same name
I think too many people are enamored by the idea of having a crush versus working on themselves first before moving onto a possible genuine crush. You may not have a crush on someone, but rather just complicated thoughts and feelings. I've seen it far too often even to this very day.
how can someone be sure if they have a crush on someone or if it's just complicated feelings?
@@player32933 when you're genuinely 100% the opposite of selfish, that's precisely when you're in the pitch perfect frame of mind to answer that very question. If you want them to be genuinely happy in life, that requires genuine sacrifice, including potentially not being part of their lives in any way, shape or form, if it really comes down to it. Seeing them happy from afar is forever better than seeing them sad up close.
Yep.
@@player32933 I would like a video on that actually
@@player32933 finding someone attractive doesn't mean you have a crush on them. Having a crush is like someone you look forward to everyday and you can say "I like you" genuinely and without hesitation. Or maybe you're just in denial, lol.
When you don't have a crush but still wanna know...
Ikr? Like why am I even watching this? I don't have that kind of interest in anybody
@@Bleepbleepblorbussame
Lucky you
based I watch everything when I have nothing to do with it
Ikr
"Every day, I imagine a future where, I can be with you~"
And yet she doesnt think about you at all.
in my hand- is a pen that will write a poem of me & uuuu
That last one gave me so much more confidence in being so different from everyone else
Don't let it. If you're not female you can't AFFORD to be "quirky". Every girl has an infinite pool of perfectly normal guys to draw from, standing out too far in a way that isn't socially or financially advantageous is a VERY bad idea.
@@BenLWolf Damn, its rare to see somone else who is blackpilled, nice to meet you.
The last one isnt completely true. You have to be self aware about it and whether youre attractive or not. If you arent attractive then being "different" can sometimes just harm your chances because you come off as weird instead. Im not blackpilled, just realistic and this is something you need to know so you dont ruin your chances. An example is being "mysterious," if you arent attractive you wont be mysterious youll just be socially akward and weird.
@@Wafflss Blackpill is realistic though.
@@thesaddestdude3575 Eh. Blackpill people say theyre realistic but are overly pessimistic. Like im a pretty pessimistic person in general but lots of blackpilled people act like nobody can ever love them because they think their nose is too big or something, which is unrealistic. everybody on the planet can find somebody for them.
lol came here from end screen suggestion (on video "5 habits that instantly boost your attractiveness") and this is not public
lol me too
Lol same
time traveler!
Psych2go saw the comment time
Dude, you are so early that RUclips thought that the vid was 10 days ago 💀
Time traveller! You like to, go backwards. Time traveller! Running from, the future. 🎶
YURIIIIII
Man, i love this channel ❤
The way I clicked on this *immediately*
you're on fire!!
Me too 😅
YO BUBBLEGUM AND MARCELINE? THATS INSANE
Another successful video by the way, Im engaged to my fiancée and she has been with me due to me being dedicated into my interests. Thank you for those valuable videos
Not gonna lie, Yuri from DDLC got me to click. She's my favorite character and the one I relate to the most. Well... aside from some aspects...
samee
Same
Me too :D
DDLC COVER 😻😻😻
I love the thumbnail.
YURI
Yuri's deep and brooding
1:19 NATSURI AW 💜🩷
Nice Yuri and Natsuki added into the thumbnail, and I do enjoyed your DDLC references!
But do you mean like an actual crush or a fictional character crush or just both in general.
If only my crushes weren't already in relationships or married. That seems to be the case almost every time I see somebody who interests me
did not expect to find ddlc here ngl
They’ve used DDLC in the past
ddlc, for everyone else!
@@ShadowDante7yea i realized after taking a look @ older videos
0:43 IS THAT BASIL FROM OMORI-
today i quitted my first relationship since it was toxic and i am 15 it was hard decision since i was 5/10 and afraid of socital jugdement and pressure but asked myself "why i should stay in a toxic relationship for fear of being alone" i ditched the relatioship
Bro you are just 15 that's nothing it's baby years. It's ok
@@Misandod well pretty much being in a toxic relationship firsthand well that will show me how to avoid it in the future
i'm 15 too, i'm proud of u
@@Misandodman just stop
Just Yuri 🗣🗣🗣🔥🔥🔥❗️❗️❗️‼️‼️‼️💯💯💯
I think that's what everyone is working on, getting a job, doing their hobbies, spending time with themselves and families, and still remain single. maybe, the people around that person is also doing the same thing, doing their own thing in hopes that someone might approach them. although, this happens in the 20s 25 age, mostly at this age, from where I am.
I feel like, what you are trying to portray, is genuine connections from friends, and this friend invites a friend and overtime, the 2 of your friends find interest from each other.
It's strange and funny that when you desperately want something or someone, it seems to be very difficult to obtain! However, when you can care less about anything, it seems to be readily available! It is such a paradox and such a mystifying situation that has no clear solutions or answers! Good luck you all! There are more twists and turns in life than an ominous and sinister labyrinth! Have a good one!
i think part of it is because when you're not obsessing over something, there's brain power for other things such as thinking -=how- to get it or even just being happy with other things in life
I swear this is so true it's crazy. My best example would be that one time my first ex gf and I met I literally promised myself that year that I'd focus on myself and not take finding a gf too seriously and treat everyone as friends. I ended up falling in love with that ex who was really compatible with me at that time and it was a great relationship overall.
Unfortunately now I'm kinda struggling to get that vibe back again and stop caring about getting girls to like me too much 😂
DDLC MENTION ❤❤❤❤
Describe one word of your crush
Attractive
Gorgeous
Intelligent 🤓
cute
Kind
"Listen, I'm fine with you feeling more than usual for me, Natsuki. But whatever you do.. for the love of god..
Don't snap you neck over it!"
JOKER PFP AND DDLC FAN?????? OMGOMGKGOM
I don't have a crush at the moment
Except every stranger on the street this summer.
GOD IM COOKED 🗣️🗣️🗣️
1:20, 1:30
These 2 franes are like super cute actually. Im so happy that they reference ddlc alot because i love that game to death
Timestamps
1). Be a little selfish 0:16
2). Want what you can't have 1:04
3). Opposites don't always attract 1:44
4). The paradox of availability 2:27
5). The allure of being different 3:13
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
I like when people do this, you got past a lot of unnecessary stuff and right to the point, thank you for your work.
@@ZomBearfoot happy to help 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Was wondering if it’s the same person speaking on every video and was actually surprised it is, the lady who speaks in all these videos (I don’t know if she runs the account) has a really soothing voice and makes me actually want to watch the vids. Really chill channel.
I just came here cause I saw the word paradox
thank you psych2go, I’ve been watching your content for years. I always find it helpful.
I love when they use characters in their style and in their videos
This channel helped me for a long time, thanks for that
Never tell your friend you have a crush on someone… the only reason why I fumbled because I was a big back😭🙏🏽
Thank you for this video .
You sound so like my son. He is studying psychology, too.
the bubbline art aww
I need this video so bad rn wow absolutely perfect timing
Tumbnail reaaly summoned the whole fandom
Oh look it's Yuri💜
I think these paradoxical effects make lots of sense but either is it me having no idea of how to make these card play out in my favor as I too am in no environment of people attractive to me, or because I can't the right balance of these quite handy tips 😅😓
This actuallg worked and i pulled it off, tysm. (We are happy tgt now)
I feel comfortable hearing your voice😫
WHO SUMMONED ME?
AA-
2:08 omg bubbline
The drawings were too cute, I couldn't concentrate on what was being said!🤣😍
GIVE NATSUKI THUMBNAIL BACK D:
Hey, it's Yuri! That's the only reason I clicked the video.
OMG Yuri!!!
Guys I think watching all these videos worked I’m 99% sure my crush likes me back
0:28 i want to hug sai
The thumbnail summoned me- but I was still summoned either way-
Playing hard or being mysterious stranger doesn't work if you're not attractive.
If you truly love yourself, it's a win-win, because it makes you more attractive no matter what you look like physically, while at the same time you really don't care about what others think about you.
Of course it does, the video explain beautifully, be yourself all quirky and whatever the hell you are without explaining why you are like this, those who want you that way will be with you and those who are not will not turn to see you, we can't be likeable yo everybody but yes to a little few or very little
@@adilemmonroy6348 Perfect response!
I am, and am going to be, learning all the knowledge I can of this world to spread it so that this world gets better. Even if it's just the neighbourhood
just write the way into their hearts
She told me she likes me. Now I’m just binging these videos. 😅
The Yuri thumb nail got me here
You wanna double check that name real quick?
@@Jacob-SerialDesignation_3 User or Yuri
@@DeadPool-e4g I think they switched the thumbnail 3 different times. It’s used to be Natsuki
YURI!!!
YURI!
The one that speaks on Psych2go videos is my crush 👉🏻👈🏻
DDLC references I’ve seen here do far
(only reason i clicked is bc i like looking for easter eggs and this channel’s animation crew is really cool, ddlc is an awesome psychological horror game)
-Thumbnail has Natsuki
- 0:26 yuri i think idk tho
- 1:13 also has Yuri, also the larger character on screen has natsukis hair, they are on screen until 1:44
- 4:14 outro screens suggested video has Monika
Yuri of DDLC
Is it normal to have a crush often? But only crushes. Never a relationship, never some kind of initiative from them, nothing. Just a bit of crushing from far away till it goes away and i see a new potential someone who could be my soulmate
WE GOT YURI IN THE THUMBNAIL!!!!
okok I will try some of these and see the end results.
DDLC MENTIONED !!
_Thank you😊_
You're welcome 😊
Thank you for telling me that I'm Valuable.
💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
You are so welcome :)
@@Psych2go 🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸
I have a question !? How you can tell if you love a girl or a boy , how do cam know if they like or love you back ! Please reply to me if you still have time 😭
Nah I don't believe it. I've shown interest, I've shown disinterest. They either are attracted to you or they aren't. Nothing you do will change that.
I love this video
Just came here to say, great tumbnail reference😂
4:08 - 4:18 thanks for letting me know. I'mma do some thinking on this, ig.
nowadays: complicated psychological mind games🤓
the stone age:🗿
Why does this appear only after I found all this out from personal experiences and stuff?? Is the world playing some sick trick on me?
Yuri my beloved
Omori mentioned ^^
LOL it's very reassuring to hear that I've always been doing these things by default, inuntentionally haha
I am working hard on myself, have rather high expectations, am not easy available and believe me, defenitely not an every-day man. Additionaly, I am nerdy and shy but also sporty, musical, and very intelligent. So I’d assume to show some mate-worth. Yet, I never had dated. It’s just that nobody seems to be interested in me. 🤷♂
Thank you for the advice
There’s been three, Monika, Sayori and now Yuri… i need Natsuki to be complete!
This video being posted when me and my crush first became friends- (and when I first developed feelings for her)
The easiest way to attract a crush is, having the courage to approach regardless of gender. No mind games, send a note or something. Not everybody may pickup these cues.
You cant chase or attract a crush when you have grown so stonecold, you dont know how to feel anything at all for other humans anymore.
I never thought I would be getting advise from Taylor swift
I knew there will be another DDLC cover after I saw that one video with Monika as the thumbnail
This actually helped i jst got a bf yesterday😭
If you're pretending to be taken by someone else in order to attract someone else, the only people who'll come after you are those that want to take you away from that relationship. They're homewreckers.
If you're not imagining the person you're after as being available, you probably are the homewrecker.
Don't pretend to be uninterested or oblivious. People will take that as you literally not caring about them.
Me watching this with no crush-
I think sometimes I 'fall' for people who are unavailable because I know I cant ever be with them so it saves me from being open to getting hurt.
I wonder if that makes sense.
Simply put: Just act like you don't have a crush
I SAW DDLC IN THE THUMBNAIL
Psych2Go: Where not quoting relevant psychologists or anything similar, we're quoting Taylor Swift... 😂😂😂😂
WE MUST STAY FOCUSED BROTHERS! WE MUST STAY FOCUSED. 💪
Ppl who opened this because of the thumbnail XD ❤
Can this work online?
Hello there✌
Been waiting for this
Let us know if it helps you at the end!!
Good 👍