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This just confirms I'm unnatractive lol. 1. I look worse now than back then 2. People gain plus 100 charisma and confidence whenever I talk to them 3. My social media is drier than a desert 4. People look I the opposite direction I am in 5. I don't even expect compliments and I don't even get them.
"If you're attractive, people might act nervous or awkward around you." Me: "So I might be-" Nah fam...that's you being awkward causing them to be awkward.
And me being awkward because I am very shy causing them to be awkward because they treat me superior causing me to be awkward because they are stiff while with me causing them to be awkward because I am not really reacting to their joke causing me to be awkward because they might think I’m a weirdo causing them to be awkward because they don’t know what to do causing me to be awkward because my mom is here to pick me up causing them to be awkward cause no one wants to greet an adult stranger, right?
hi im not sure how you identify. you have mr in your name so I just wanted to say that in case you're a boy/man, boys/men receive far fewer compliments than women. it's a really unfortunate feature of our society. if you're a girl/woman, the older you get, the less often you receive compliments in my opinion. if you identify in a different way, that adds a whole other layer of complexity in the way people interact with someone. I dont know, just wanted to day that most people think positively of others but never say their compliments out loud. hope you'll find the confidence to see yourself as cute/pretty/beautiful/handsome/attractive, nice-looking soon :)
I mean I get compliments and they don't help at all, I feel like they're more damaging in a way since they tell you that your handsome, cute, smart, etc. you feel more insecure since you don't feel like you fit those descriptions.
@@davidjamesmagtibay6065 yep that's exactly how it is I was told something like I'm the best looking friend they have and I instantly think of that mutual friend who looks twice as good as me like bruh
Yo bro don't worry, no matter how ugly you think you are. you still will have something great that another attractive person lacks, be it Hope pride or self awareness. Each one of us is unique In our own ways. Some of us are like the Grains of a massive golden desert, some thriving forests, some oceans, and some beaches. each of us is beautiful in our own ways, be it looks or our personality. be proud. that you are different from everyone else. that you have different interests, tastes, and even emotional control. you have so much in you that they do not have..
Before watching this: "I'm pretty sure I'm good looking to some people." After watching this: "I now have multiple examples that prove that my best chance at romance is in a long distance relationship with a blind woman."
@@carbon... That's very nice of you to say, but dont worry, I was just making a joke. It IS a bit concerning that is seems others truly felt dejected by this video though. The video is misleading since its ONLY five signs of POTENTIALLY being attractive. Romance is far more complex than an oversimplified video can summarize. And it's a RUclips video. Not an authority on life.
Sis youll never know... my bf of 5 years had 'perfect speech' only cos he was nervous😂 idk what kinda logic he runs on but yeah, "im usually full of grammatical errors with other people", said he👀
That's me. Not only selfies, but i never take photos too. I don't even remember the last time i took one, but i'm sure as hell it has been more than 3 years now
Let’s be honest, we clicked on this to try and believe we were attractive but then this just proved we aren’t Edit: bruh 💀 half of yall went through a crisis in the replies
“If someone nervous around you that mean they think you are attractive ” Never in my life a woman or man stutter while speak with me, they speak as clear and as comprehensive as possible with extreme confidence
Personally, I would rather interact with ppl that I feel comfortable and safe with. If I'm intimated by someone then I'm likely to have like 3 conversations a year with them. I would take that as a compliment ngl
@@sn0wfa11s I'm actually someone who has social anxiety and I'm a social introvert, but my friends always say that they can easily open up to me lol. And idk what to say to them when they do T-T
@@jealous8024 aww yeah I was the same way. Maybe I don't struggle the same way you do but I used to be super awkward and didn't have the best social skills. But really, what can you say other than a thank you? Others may express their thankfulness with a lot more words and actions, but in the end they're still expressing their thankyou's -something that you still can achieve even with 2 words. It's okay! You might repeat that moment in your head for the rest of the month but it's still a moment of just few seconds. If a breathing exercise helps you then do that, if screaming helps you then do that, if hugging helps you then do that. At the end of the day you're still loved❣️
1. I don’t see myself better looking in older photos 2. People around me don’t get awkward, if anything, I’m the one who gets awkward 3. I don’t use much any other social media other than RUclips or discord, but not many people really message me 4. Only my friends do that and they only do it to joke around, no one takes a glance at me 5. I barely receive any compliments anytime Basically, I’m unattractive
Everyone including me right now: *Don't do that, don't give me hope.* Edit: Why does this have so many likes? I’m now deeply concerned for the 2,000+ people who liked this comment… Don’t be like me go out there and get your hope, because mine is gone. At least you still have an opportunity, go get it. :)
@@Psych2go Definitely not wrong, but sometimes it does feel that to hope is to only lead to disappointment. That scared feeling drives a lot of hope away sometimes, fear is a powerful emotion sadly. One I definitely struggle with a ton. You are right though, hope is the brighter path.
@@cristinewithnoh840 i know right? it pisses me off. y’all talk about me when i never talk, but when i finally have confidence, they all think i’m annoying and self centered. 😀
1. You think that your older self looks better. 2. People get nervous around you. 3. You get a lot of messages from social media. 4. You catch them staring at you. 5. You don't get much compliments when you expect them. Edit: Why do I have so many likes.. the creator commented! Edit1: Stumbled onto this video to realise that this comment was here! 😂 Time flies.. let's see if i'll stumble onto this one again. 😊
1: I judge myself every time, mostly on OLD photos tho 2: Yeah... Nobody gives a sh*t about me really, only my 4 friends treat me properly 3: I dont really get messages complimenting me or asking me stuff, only for help most of the time 4: Barely anyone looks at me, and it's mostly by accident 5: All compliments i've gotten are either about stuff i've done, grades and thats almost it, the only compliment i've gotten about my appearance was someone telling me that my eyebrows looked nice even though i dont do that thing with that device that girls do to their eyebrows, outside of that, i get no compliments regarding my appearance.. This video honestly didn't help much and i hope what i saw here won't further enhance my drop into depression, knowing that i will mostly never get a lover.
Don't worry mate don't be sad or anything, Use this video as motivation to improve and better yourself instead of it leading you to depression, People do care about you. your Friends, Families abd many others, Third people asking you for help means your better than them at a certain subject or multiple! so keep up that great work and lastly a compliment is still a compliment, you may not use the things Girls do for their eye brows but a compliment remains a compliment, you may just have really good genetics in the factor, so don't be depressed mate
@@devashishtripathi3560 Abstract is the opposite of realism. Realism basically means real, and is an art form where you draw as real looking pictures as you can. Abstract is the opposite, and usually deals in shapes. A good example of this is Picassos art. Used in this sentence i think it means you start to see yourself deeper than just how you look at first glance, for example if you look at your jawline right now you might just see well, a jawline, but if you look at old pictures you might notice how well it shapes your face in more ways than before.
Psych2go: “Have you ever been frustrated that your dinner is taking too long to make?” Me: yes! I might be attractive after all :D Psych2go: “thank you to hello fresh for sponsoring this video”
"If people act awkward around you they must just be nervous about your beauty" Me who hasnt had a conversation face to face with anybody except family in months : *interesting*
I love how this video is supposed to be supportive and boost our confidence, but it's making all of us feel just the opposite 😂.... Now time for me to try to feel better 🙃
The best way tell in my opinion is to look at the people you hang out with or have hung out with. If all your friends are clapped and the women who talk to you aren't really that stunning it gives you a good idea of your attractiveness. You always go to people similar to you. If you are black in a mostly white school you will 9/10 approach the other few black kids first. If you are clapped and you see a group of good looking people you will hardly go to the good looking people, unless you have self esteem issues and are afraid of them even though you look good yourself. I have never been friends or talked to clapped girls and in general I was never clapped people. I have never been insulted for being clapped despite weighing being 115 pounds at 10 years old. Another great indicator of looking good Is of you have acne and pimples, if you don't have those, then you probably look great.
"They may be awkward or nervous around you" Girls around me: _start speedrunning 26 different games within the span of 0.39 seconds while being held at gun point_
@@greatwavefan397 Women at my place, apparantly. 🤷🏻♂️ Korean pop stars are all the rage currently, and with a face like mine, I'm better off being compared to James Alan Hetfield than anything relatively close to Korean faces!
@@yharim180 He's an amazing man. I respect him a lot, even though I'm not a hardcore Metallica fan. My friends say my face structure looks somewhat similar to him. I would never dare to compare myself to him otherwise!
"...you may catch them staring..." Has happened a few times, I'll admit, but I've always just thought it was something about my teeth, or maybe I had forgotten to do something.
ikr -_-; What a complete waist of 6 minutes of my life. I'm so glad I now know that whatever the possible scenario is, it always means I must be hot af. Particularly if everyone starts throwing garbage at you, while screaming monster and running away. That's how you know they are all secretly jealous of your external beauty.
You see, overthinking is probably one of the problems. Ppl "staring" at me makes me think I look clumsy or maybe they are making fun of me, while when someone compliments me I feel like they are just trying to lift up my spirits or that they think I'm something which I'm not and that I don't even deserve the compliments....
Thanks for sharing. It's okay to feel that way. Remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and how you see yourself isn't how others will see you :) Start by getting comfortable with receiving compliments
Just be grateful that there is ppl who compliment you (even if they are trying to lift up your spirit.. especially if they care enough ) cause someone out there don't even have someone cares enough to compliment him for any reason
I'm attractive depending on the day. Sometimes I look in the mirror and think: "ok, I'm handsome". Other times I can't stop thinking "what the hell is wrong to my face". My confidence just varies I guess. I go from "I'm a charming extrovert ready to group up and have fun" to "I'm an ugly anti-social and don't wanna be disturbed" in no time.
Nah fr sometimes I check myself out in the mirror like “damn, I don’t know why I’m insecure, I’m looking fine“ The next day I look myself in the mirror and think I look like shrek that just got ran over 😭 like what was I thinking? Then I try cheering myself up by saying something like “shrek ks good looking, what am I saying?”
Nah bro i'm sure i'am not attractive, because every second on my school all i do is annoying other people and say swear word, and i don't know how to get rid of it
"Girls may be awkward or nervous around you, they might stutter." Girls around me: (INHALES) *Begins to rap Godzilla at 1.75x the speed that Eminem sings it*
"You're a better judge of how attractive you are when time passes" Meanwhile me, who hates old pics which I used to love and thought I looked good on them back then
Psych2Go: "Have you ever been frustrated that your dinner is taking too long to make..." Me: "Omg, does that make me attractive?! finally a sign!" 😄 Psch2Go: "HelloFresh our sponsor for this video..." Me: 😑
This gives me a glimmer of hope as my crush ALWAYS searches for my eyes and glares at them in the halls. She does that quick nervous look away whenever I catch her.
1. I look terrible on old photos 2. People are normal around me 3. I don't receive messages on social media 4. People avoid looking at me 5. I don't get any compliments I thought that this video can help me repair my ego
this video doesnt say whether youre atttactive or not, trust me. there are plenty of other things that are attractive other than the ones put in the video
I’m not a psychologist but isn’t unhealthy to correlate social media “Likes” to beauty? After all, beauty is in the eye of the beholder and just because people on social media don’t comment on your photos doesn’t mean you’re not beautiful.
The social media one is only one of the factors, you can be pretty and just not get lucky with the algorithm, but then one of the other factors will probably be true.
"You can catch them staring at you" Not exactly. I would stare at anyone because I find other peoples business to be more interesting than my own. Eventually I forget that I exist, and get caught.
I guess you haven't heard, I'm unattractive around these parts. 1. When I look at old photos, I know I look better now. 2. No girl my age is ever nervous around me. 3. I never received a lot of messages on social media. The ones I did were either bots, or old high school classmates. 4. Only once have I caught a girl staring at me. It was in 8th grade. Maybe she thought I was handsome because of the jacket I was wearing that day. But in consequence, I got caught looking at one of my females classmates. She asked me why I was looking at her. I denied it like a coward. 5. I simply don't get compliments at all. I once thought I did, it was by a “27 years old woman". Was a bot though. In short, I may or may not be cooked. But I don't ever wish to give up.
Good ending: You realize that you really are good looking. Bad ending: 1. "but I don't take pictures of myself" 2. You're holding a knife 3. "but I don't post in social media" 4. You're hiding a knife 5. _"you don't look that bad"_ Neutral ending: You are still confused. Hidden ending: You are deaf and blind. Best ending: It doesn't really matter what you look like. We're all going to die anyway.
All the points from the video with timestamps: 1. [0:43] When you look at photos of yourself from months ago as compared to now, you think you looked better then. 2. [2:07] Some people seem nervous or different around you 3. [3:56] You receive alot of messages on social media 4. [4:17] You catch them staring at you 5. [4:46] You don't get many compliments when you expect them
really? these are the points? I can knock these down pretty easily, these are in no way any form of signs. they could be, but they could just as well be absolutely nothing
The social media one is pretty vague. Any woman's chat is full of messages on social media, no matter if "attractive" or just "mediocre". Whilst men tend to have fewer messages. Also many messages doesn't mean good messages. It can also mean just horny idiots texting you
You missed one: "Are new people strangely enthusiastic around you?" It took a ridiculously long time for me to realize that the reason someone I didn't know was oddly happy to see me was because they thought I was attractive. Instead of thinking they were nice, I'd think "What a weirdo!"
Lmao someone asked me out a few days ago and now we’re dating. When I met her she was really open and enthusiastic but mostly to me and I couldn’t figure out whether that’s who she was or she like liked me
Haven’t seen a comment like this yet so I’ma put this out here 1.) 0:43-When you look at pictures of yourself months ago compared to now, you think you looked better then. 2.) 2:07-Some people seem nervous or different around you 2:33-Ad time :D 3.) 3:55-You receive alot of messages on social media 4.) 4:16-You catch people staring at you 5.) 4:46-You don’t get many compliments when you expect them Thank me never Edit:I fixed up a spelling mistake I had
The amount of times I DON'T compliment someone because I'm awkward and find compliments hard to give... I promise you're all getting unspoken compliments when you least expect it.
For people who feel insecure about being “attractive” here’s a fun fact: If you speak then after a few seconds speak 10% slower and for some reason makes people attracted to how you speak.
I see a lot of negativity in the comments and that hurts, like appearances don’t matter at the end of the day, of course we wanna look good but there’s more signs that can show you are attractive in other ways, this video isn’t the end all be all absolute, if it was then this video would have like 50 mil views. Oh also we can always improve ourselves with time, since some of the most “attractive” people worked towards it
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Yes
Got it
Yasss
Agree
The title says 6 but it is 5 😵
"Just be yourself bro! Be confident in yourself!"
- Attractive person
"Just talk to women bro lmao"
💀
i cant be my self i will have alot of consequences when i will do that
@@Nalhy LMAO
I cant because i have cleft and my face is messed up WHAT DO I DOOOOOO 😢
"You might catch them staring at you"
Reflection in mirror: *walks away*
damn. I felt that. my mom felt that. my neighbor felt that. my cat felt that. everybody felt that.
it be like that~
OMG KAKAKAKKAKAKAKAKAKA
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Heyo.
That's happened to me too.
Ya ain't alone
"they may be awkward or nervous around you"
Everyone when I enter the room: *ABSOLUTE CONFIDENCE & CHARISMA*
Wot is charisma-
The bard went "Nat20 for everyone on confidence!"
@@bavii3352 It basically means a lot of energy
@@neelchaudhary6182 not at all lmao. Charisma is charm (ability alter others perception of as a good or attractive person emotionally and physically)
Same
This just confirms I'm unnatractive lol.
1. I look worse now than back then
2. People gain plus 100 charisma and confidence whenever I talk to them
3. My social media is drier than a desert
4. People look I the opposite direction I am in
5. I don't even expect compliments and I don't even get them.
The same here bro😂
@@xx3bdo_iraqixx354 fr but i got the nubmer of my classmate whso a girl so. i got rizz?
real
"If you're attractive, people might act nervous or awkward around you."
Me: "So I might be-"
Nah fam...that's you being awkward causing them to be awkward.
And me being awkward because I am very shy causing them to be awkward because they treat me superior causing me to be awkward because they are stiff while with me causing them to be awkward because I am not really reacting to their joke causing me to be awkward because they might think I’m a weirdo causing them to be awkward because they don’t know what to do causing me to be awkward because my mom is here to pick me up causing them to be awkward cause no one wants to greet an adult stranger, right?
@@someoneveryunimportant9136 an endless cycle
@@someoneveryunimportant9136 an endless cycle
@@someoneveryunimportant9136 an endless cycle
@@someoneveryunimportant9136 an endless cycle
This helped me assure myself I'm not attractive and how kind the people around me have been with me
Same lol at least my cats don't judge
OMG it's sad but funny
Oh god
so truee 😂😂
God, this was my first thought after finishing the video 😂.
I used to think I wasn’t attractive. But after watching this video, I can confidently say that I am not attractive
same
Facts
Yep
real☹
Hey same :,)
Thank you for letting me know that I am not attractive in any aspect at all, it really helps
Plastic surgery is amazing, you should try it out!
@@Grocery_BADWORKERBAD no. no.
@@Randomer2 yes yes
@@Grocery_BADWORKERBAD No³
@@Randomer2makeup is always an option!
Psychology: You are attractive if you're not receiving any compliments.
Me not receiving any compliments ever: I Am PERFECTION.
So beautiful.. Your sister, i mean
hi im not sure how you identify. you have mr in your name so I just wanted to say that in case you're a boy/man, boys/men receive far fewer compliments than women. it's a really unfortunate feature of our society. if you're a girl/woman, the older you get, the less often you receive compliments in my opinion. if you identify in a different way, that adds a whole other layer of complexity in the way people interact with someone. I dont know, just wanted to day that most people think positively of others but never say their compliments out loud. hope you'll find the confidence to see yourself as cute/pretty/beautiful/handsome/attractive, nice-looking soon :)
@@NecroBecco please tell me that was satire
@@Toiyoki_ unfortunately i don't think it is
@@Nai_101 and people wonder why I don’t like talking about how I’m in the community
"Just be confident. I think confidence is the most attractive part of a person" - Courage the Cowardly Dog
I just saw you from a helluva boss murch video
so... inspirational...
LMAOO
but what if im too confident and ugly tho TwT
Courage can talk?
“You catch them staring at you”
Me: “Oh no, they’re definitely laughing at me inside their head”
Haha lol
That's what I'm thinking
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R-
Relatable.
Yea...BUT maybeeeee they're not....hmmmmm
Before this video, I was unsure whether I was attractive or not. Thank you. I know now that I’m not.
💀
People around me say I am, but When I look in the mirror I wanna break it
same
"Just because you don't receive compliments does not mean you're not attractive"
Me: Don't do that. Don't give me hope.
I mean I get compliments and they don't help at all, I feel like they're more damaging in a way since they tell you that your handsome, cute, smart, etc. you feel more insecure since you don't feel like you fit those descriptions.
If that's u in the pfp then I'd like to say that ur really beautiful and gorgeous
@@davidjamesmagtibay6065 I'm sorry you feel that way but what you said is really relatable
@@sn0wfa11s Thanks :)
@@davidjamesmagtibay6065 yep that's exactly how it is
I was told something like I'm the best looking friend they have and I instantly think of that mutual friend who looks twice as good as me like bruh
I just love how the comments are negative, funny, and relatable at the same time lol
I should be sad but im not thanks to the comment section
They're so open minded... I like it. 😂🔥
we love them self deprecating jokes
😀😀😀😀
just like how my depression wants it
I know, right?
Literally
"You're not ugly, you're just not your type"
-idk some old geezer or smth
r/wooosh
Oogway the guy is oogway master oogway
Thank you
That's helpful though. I find myself comparing myself to a few types of good looking dudes, but not other good looking dudes, and this makes sense
@@shivarampersaud6799 yeah thats true just remember to not compare yourself with anyone either good or bad
this pretty much just told me that im ugly, and its not wrong
You are a very confident person. And agree, its not wrong. I hope you are happy in your current life 😊
@@Keno5 all my life every teacher has told me I lack of confidence and self esteem so not really nope 😭
Yo bro don't worry, no matter how ugly you think you are. you still will have something great that another attractive person lacks, be it Hope pride or self awareness. Each one of us is unique In our own ways. Some of us are like the Grains of a massive golden desert, some thriving forests, some oceans, and some beaches. each of us is beautiful in our own ways, be it looks or our personality. be proud. that you are different from everyone else. that you have different interests, tastes, and even emotional control.
you have so much in you that they do not have..
Before watching this: "I'm pretty sure I'm good looking to some people."
After watching this: "I now have multiple examples that prove that my best chance at romance is in a long distance relationship with a blind woman."
same
same xD
Dude if u actually think of urself that way
Don't do that, it's unhealthy
You'll find someone 💯✌🏻
@@carbon... dude i dont match any of the points xD
@@carbon... That's very nice of you to say, but dont worry, I was just making a joke. It IS a bit concerning that is seems others truly felt dejected by this video though. The video is misleading since its ONLY five signs of POTENTIALLY being attractive. Romance is far more complex than an oversimplified video can summarize. And it's a RUclips video. Not an authority on life.
Them: They may be awkward or nervous around you
Everyone around me: *perfect speech*
Edit: thank u for so many likes
Them:you get many messages on social media.
My messages.*ded*
Sis youll never know... my bf of 5 years had 'perfect speech' only cos he was nervous😂 idk what kinda logic he runs on but yeah, "im usually full of grammatical errors with other people", said he👀
Rip I got the opposite of all of them. No DMs, perfect speech, no staring, compliments, and I like photos I post recently more than in the past
With just not good speech in general I wonder sometimes how other people talk so fluently, and it seems everyone around me can sooo
Me, trying to compliment my crush: *incoherent rambling*
My crush if he watched this video: oh no she LIKES me
“Acting nervously” yeah they are totally not terrified
They shoulb be terrified of me at school, i walk aeound with a heavy blunt weapon that doubles as a water bottle
Ah yes, waterbottle hammer.
I mean I am scary so yea, TOTALLY NOT NERVOUS. HEEHEE:3
Im on a lethal dose of anabolics and horse tranquilizer
@@basedmanlet8726 I have cords and chemicals running through my body like Bane from Batman, we are not the same
The only thing that checks out is "when they stare at you". Nah, they be staring horrified
For me it's better that people are calm and happy around me, not nervous. I like being awesome when someone is
So true!
and I can’t believe no one has replied yet 😮
@@stax7661 it's because the op is attractive and we're all shy to reply
@@cloudwalker679 best comment ever hahaha
@@marmey1028 glad you like it.
@@cloudwalker679 That's 100% relatable, and Didn't expected so many likes
“You judge yourself more accurately over time”
Me looking at old photos and thinking I’m ugly as fucc
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Bro just start looking attractive.
😂🤣 nooooooo... ha
Me who never take photos of myself
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"They may be at a loss for words"
Girls: *rap the whole freaking dictionary around me*
*Suddenly becomes the new rap god*
Pain
livin in Spain without the S
Hahahaha…man.
Me too bro :(
Telling a nervous person to "just be confident" is like telling a depressed person to "just be happy".
Why is this not the pinned comment?
There is already one@@EastonBrey
@@EastonBrey he should pin himself
"they may be awkward or nervous around you"
Me who's awkward and nervous around anyone: *chuckles nervously*
After I read this i stared at your name and pfp for about 20 minutes singing trying to find the video again lol
JUMP IN THE CADILAC
🤣
Now I wanna watch a tommy vlog 😂
@@KATapiller that’s what I like, by Bruno Mars
I am in love with you now because of the name and the pfp
@@jjosesanchez646 I know but I meant the one with tommy lol
"Look at a photo from a few months ago"
Me who never takes selfies: Yes.
That's me. Not only selfies, but i never take photos too. I don't even remember the last time i took one, but i'm sure as hell it has been more than 3 years now
"months ago" translate to YEARS ago
I dont even have a phone or anything to take photos lol
I like taking photos, but not being in one
Wow, me too, years ago, I don't even like seeing me on them :/
Thank you for confirming that I’m unattractive. Absolutely none of those apply to me.
same
same :/
Are you the person in your pfp? If so, you look pretty good
@@d1ts321 The one on the right, the guy, and that’s an older picture.
@@brianl8481 Then you look very cute!
0:18 hardest lie my homies never tell me i look good or actractive they just assault me🔥🔥🔥🔥
Real
Wat homies do🗣️🔥
Let’s be honest, we clicked on this to try and believe we were attractive but then this just proved we aren’t
Edit: bruh 💀 half of yall went through a crisis in the replies
I feel called out.
I don't know, the lady's always act nervous and awkward around me 😂. But whenever we do talk, it's usually nice... and then lasts only a day :/
😢🔫
Anytime I talk to a girl it’s straight to the friendzone, which is an ok place tbh
it proved that i am for me
@@friendlyfire6629 lucky
“If someone nervous around you that mean they think you are attractive ”
Never in my life a woman or man stutter while speak with me, they speak as clear and as comprehensive as possible with extreme confidence
Fake it till you make it. It's probably what some woman do and most guys too
Relatable
Real af
Yeah, same here
Fr l relate
"People will be awkward or nervous around you"
Everyone: is extremely comfortable around me
Me: ;-;
at least that means you're approachable i guess lol
@@sunflower8227 wow that made me happy lol
Personally, I would rather interact with ppl that I feel comfortable and safe with. If I'm intimated by someone then I'm likely to have like 3 conversations a year with them. I would take that as a compliment ngl
@@sn0wfa11s I'm actually someone who has social anxiety and I'm a social introvert, but my friends always say that they can easily open up to me lol. And idk what to say to them when they do T-T
@@jealous8024 aww yeah I was the same way. Maybe I don't struggle the same way you do but I used to be super awkward and didn't have the best social skills. But really, what can you say other than a thank you? Others may express their thankfulness with a lot more words and actions, but in the end they're still expressing their thankyou's -something that you still can achieve even with 2 words. It's okay! You might repeat that moment in your head for the rest of the month but it's still a moment of just few seconds. If a breathing exercise helps you then do that, if screaming helps you then do that, if hugging helps you then do that. At the end of the day you're still loved❣️
1. I don’t see myself better looking in older photos
2. People around me don’t get awkward, if anything, I’m the one who gets awkward
3. I don’t use much any other social media other than RUclips or discord, but not many people really message me
4. Only my friends do that and they only do it to joke around, no one takes a glance at me
5. I barely receive any compliments anytime
Basically, I’m unattractive
yup, better start working on that
This was really helpful. After carefully listening to all the points I finally reached the conclusion that I'm far from attractive.
You're just like me fr fr
same
Low-key was watching this with a smile, the more things they listed the less I was smiling lol
@@gabriledella653 😂😭🤣
gather up brothers ofc we look great to someone even if that someone doesn't excit . jokes aside personality is what really matters
Everyone including me right now: *Don't do that, don't give me hope.*
Edit: Why does this have so many likes? I’m now deeply concerned for the 2,000+ people who liked this comment… Don’t be like me go out there and get your hope, because mine is gone. At least you still have an opportunity, go get it. :)
Hope is better than despair sometimes :)
@@Psych2go After seeing Nagito... I don't know how to feel about that lmao
@@Psych2go Definitely not wrong, but sometimes it does feel that to hope is to only lead to disappointment. That scared feeling drives a lot of hope away sometimes, fear is a powerful emotion sadly. One I definitely struggle with a ton. You are right though, hope is the brighter path.
@@cloud09gaming "Keep your expectations low, and you will not be disappointed" - Kratos
Same!
''Confidence is the most attractive part in a person!"
Me with anxiety : understandable. have a great day.
@@oddballjake229 thanks sunshine
Confident people have anxiety too, I know this.
We just have more experience dealinh with it.
High functioning anxiety, if you will.
Confidence nothing more than cope
Dude it works really well, just start saying what’s up to random people and saying hi more and smiling at them it helps with social intelligence
@@slothcartoonz7274 i tried saying hi to some dude i almost got stabbed
This video was supposed to cheer people up and give them hope but it just confirmed im ugly af😭🙏
"Confidence is the most attractive part in a person!" Well I'm fucked.
Edit: i am doing much better and feel like god
Yeah me too
Pd: Shit
Too
Damn same
We dead 😍💪💪💪
Same 😪
"Confidence is the most attractive part of a person!"
Me: They all probably think im self-centered
:(
I have heard how ppl talk about someone who do have confidence she has an attitude bish wha?
@@cristinewithnoh840 i know right? it pisses me off. y’all talk about me when i never talk, but when i finally have confidence, they all think i’m annoying and self centered. 😀
They think I don't know how to talk to people while I just don't want to
They actually DO think I'm self-centered. 🙇🏾♀️🚶🏾♀️...
Me: "So I'm actually attractive?"
People around me: "Well yes but actually no".
How dare you be right
Well yes but actually no
@@linked7382 well no but actually yes
i find you attractive.
@@Bxrben_Dr1p how?
All this did was confirm that I’m unattractive.
None of these applied to me.
Lovely, i’m gonna die alone.
Suddenly remembered venti's line
"Beauty is a waste when the beholder has no taste."
ayy genshin lesss goooo
eyyy genshin
this whole world doesn't have the taste for me then! 😀😀
Wouldn’t gliding be faster?
@@erikfaz1852 osmanthus wine tastes the same as i remember
As Hawkeye says, "Don't do that. Don't give me hope."
This should be common sense
He was ronin at that moment
Don't, just dont
Yesterday is history
Tommorow is a mystery
But today is a gift,thats why it is called present
@@dude1473 bro there’s literally no need to point that out
1. You think that your older self looks better.
2. People get nervous around you.
3. You get a lot of messages from social media.
4. You catch them staring at you.
5. You don't get much compliments when you expect them.
Edit: Why do I have so many likes.. the creator commented!
Edit1: Stumbled onto this video to realise that this comment was here! 😂 Time flies.. let's see if i'll stumble onto this one again. 😊
So fast lol
The speed of light
isn't there supposed to be 6 of them?
@@omoriinreallife yeah they’re still editing their comment
Edit 2: the title said 6 reasons even though there are 5 lol
Ah so I am ugly no news there lol 🤣
1: I judge myself every time, mostly on OLD photos tho
2: Yeah... Nobody gives a sh*t about me really, only my 4 friends treat me properly
3: I dont really get messages complimenting me or asking me stuff, only for help most of the time
4: Barely anyone looks at me, and it's mostly by accident
5: All compliments i've gotten are either about stuff i've done, grades and thats almost it, the only compliment i've gotten about my appearance was someone telling me that my eyebrows looked nice even though i dont do that thing with that device that girls do to their eyebrows, outside of that, i get no compliments regarding my appearance..
This video honestly didn't help much and i hope what i saw here won't further enhance my drop into depression, knowing that i will mostly never get a lover.
Don't worry mate don't be sad or anything, Use this video as motivation to improve and better yourself instead of it leading you to depression, People do care about you. your Friends, Families abd many others, Third people asking you for help means your better than them at a certain subject or multiple! so keep up that great work and lastly a compliment is still a compliment, you may not use the things Girls do for their eye brows but a compliment remains a compliment, you may just have really good genetics in the factor, so don't be depressed mate
wait, wth does litterally every single one of those things apply to me, Even the exact number of friends who respect me, wth?
Self confidence: destroyed. depression: worsened.
HELPP
real
Oh no oh no no lolol
it is what it is
Your beautiful/handsome in your own way! Everyone is
“Confidence makes you attractive”
Narcissists: I knew it, I’m freaking gorgeous.
That- I-
I can't even argue with that
That fits them so well! 😅😂
Narcissists tend not to be all that confident. It's more of a defense mechanism.
i am freaking gorgeous,and i dont care if you dont agree because your wrong.
@@ShazyShaze Booo, don’t ruin the joke smh.
“With due time, people see themselves more abstractly.”
So that’s why Picasso’s self portraits got weirder
Can you explain the abstractly statement more to me pls? English isn't my first language so I didn't understand it
Triangle nose
@@devashishtripathi3560 Abstract is the opposite of realism. Realism basically means real, and is an art form where you draw as real looking pictures as you can. Abstract is the opposite, and usually deals in shapes. A good example of this is Picassos art. Used in this sentence i think it means you start to see yourself deeper than just how you look at first glance, for example if you look at your jawline right now you might just see well, a jawline, but if you look at old pictures you might notice how well it shapes your face in more ways than before.
@@michael-helen Ooooh, so that's what it meant. Thanks!
Lol
One time i stopped engaging conversations and i went 4 days without anyone talking to me. Yayyyy...
Psych2go: “Have you ever been frustrated that your dinner is taking too long to make?”
Me: yes! I might be attractive after all :D
Psych2go: “thank you to hello fresh for sponsoring this video”
lol
😂😂😂
Oh good, it wasn't just me.
Damn bruh u need a hug
oof
*same
“You catch them staring at you”
Me: "So about that 80 year old woman on the bus..."
lol
lol
🤦♀️
📸🤏🤨
She was probably thinking how much your organs are worth.
"If people act awkward around you they must just be nervous about your beauty"
Me who hasnt had a conversation face to face with anybody except family in months : *interesting*
😂same.
S.A.M.E.
totally same
Bruh too relatable 😂
ruclips.net/user/shortsFrGLxO3_sJ8?feature=share
This is what attraction really is
I wasn't having hope in been attractive, then I watched the video and I got confirmed, I am not attractive.
"You catch them staring at you"
Everyone: *Oooh, this is a nice looking wall*
“Damn these some nice shoes I got on”
some nice oxygen there
Man these particles lookin sick rn
Bro these stairs are made of stairs
“This dead cat on the side of the street next to the high hobo doing crack cocaine is very interesting.”
"You catch them staring at you"
My borderline personality disorder: no, they are staring at me while judging and internally laughing at my nostrils
@Psych2Go did a whole video based on Borderline Personality Disorder i hope it helps
@@jakedoheny7238 Their information in that video has some potholes and slight outdation in it. However, I am still a fan if their content
This sounds kinda like how I feel when people stare at me. It just feels creepy. 😕🤨
Same 🤣🤣 RIP
@@whowantstoknawonhumanbones518
They don't even stare at me😂😂
“Just because you don’t get many compliments doesn’t mean your not attractive”
...Or I’m just not attractive
"The more mass an object has, the more attractive it is"
-Sun Tzu (Art of Beauty)
Why is everyone thinking they're not attractive, but at the same time, everybody I meet is?
"just because you don't get compliments, it does not mean that you are unattractive"
_pats own shoulder_ Ah, yes, it's fine now-
I literally didn't qualify for a single one of these... guess i'll die alone lol
DUDE YOU GUYS ARE ALL FRICKEN GEORGEOUS I PROMISE❤❤❤
How do u do italics? I only know how to do *bold*
@@VolarGorilla917 put _ in between I think
_potato_
I love how this video is supposed to be supportive and boost our confidence, but it's making all of us feel just the opposite 😂.... Now time for me to try to feel better 🙃
Literally me 😅😅😅
Exactly it’s really off - lol
you said “try”, but did you mean “cry?”
The best way tell in my opinion is to look at the people you hang out with or have hung out with.
If all your friends are clapped and the women who talk to you aren't really that stunning it gives you a good idea of your attractiveness.
You always go to people similar to you.
If you are black in a mostly white school you will 9/10 approach the other few black kids first.
If you are clapped and you see a group of good looking people you will hardly go to the good looking people, unless you have self esteem issues and are afraid of them even though you look good yourself.
I have never been friends or talked to clapped girls and in general I was never clapped people. I have never been insulted for being clapped despite weighing being 115 pounds at 10 years old.
Another great indicator of looking good Is of you have acne and pimples, if you don't have those, then you probably look great.
Well, at least I'm not alone 😀
"They may be awkward or nervous around you"
Girls around me: _start speedrunning 26 different games within the span of 0.39 seconds while being held at gun point_
Girls around me: speak and act like they know me from their past life and doesnt give a f if they looked bad
That got a good laugh out of me
3:57 **me who literally doesnt use any social medias (youtube doesnt count)**
"Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder."
Beholders around me : 🤢🤮
Edit - Apparantly, self-degrading jokes get you 1.3k likes!
Who wouldn't like a powerfully-built jaw?
@@greatwavefan397 Women at my place, apparantly. 🤷🏻♂️ Korean pop stars are all the rage currently, and with a face like mine, I'm better off being compared to James Alan Hetfield than anything relatively close to Korean faces!
Don’t feel bad man. James hetfield is a fucking awesome guy.
If that’s you in your pic, you need to move because your neighbors are blind.
@@yharim180 He's an amazing man. I respect him a lot, even though I'm not a hardcore Metallica fan. My friends say my face structure looks somewhat similar to him. I would never dare to compare myself to him otherwise!
*Someone: "Stares at me"*
*me: "Stares back"*
*my mind:"You want staring contest punk"*
Yeah 😂
Lmao
lmfao me
🤣🤣🤣🤣
God that feels bad
I'm sorry but can we just talk about how their voice was so calming 😌
No, we can't. I'd rather not.
Nah we can't talk about it
Omg yes! I can legit fall asleep listening to her😪
@Muktaa me to!!
"Their?"
"...you may catch them staring..."
Has happened a few times, I'll admit, but I've always just thought it was something about my teeth, or maybe I had forgotten to do something.
"new ppl mostly get nervous around you because you're attractive"
me: maybe they're nervous because i look like a pickpocketer/snatcher 😭🤣
Maybe they think you look like an attractive snatcher and they're hoping to get mugged by you. :P
@@TheReaverOfDarkness HAHA how i wish.
Exaaactly.
Dont look like that
- Nacht
Or maybe cause I look like a serial killer, i REALLY need some sleep lol
This video is very informative! Now I know that I’m not self-conscious about how I look, I’m self aware of how unattractive I am. I knew it!
dude SAME
Same 👍🤣
Soo true
HA same
ikr -_-; What a complete waist of 6 minutes of my life. I'm so glad I now know that whatever the possible scenario is, it always means I must be hot af. Particularly if everyone starts throwing garbage at you, while screaming monster and running away. That's how you know they are all secretly jealous of your external beauty.
You see, overthinking is probably one of the problems. Ppl "staring" at me makes me think I look clumsy or maybe they are making fun of me, while when someone compliments me I feel like they are just trying to lift up my spirits or that they think I'm something which I'm not and that I don't even deserve the compliments....
Thanks for sharing. It's okay to feel that way. Remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and how you see yourself isn't how others will see you :) Start by getting comfortable with receiving compliments
Exactly. I feel the same way. People could give me 100 compliments but I never hear them. I only hear the criticisms Inside my head.
Yeah true. Also I hate when people give me praises, I feel like they are mocking me or they are doing it because they need my help
It's so me 😳
Just be grateful that there is ppl who compliment you (even if they are trying to lift up your spirit.. especially if they care enough ) cause someone out there don't even have someone cares enough to compliment him for any reason
It turns out that i'm even less attractive than I thought before, at least I can stop lying to myself now
I'm attractive depending on the day. Sometimes I look in the mirror and think: "ok, I'm handsome". Other times I can't stop thinking "what the hell is wrong to my face".
My confidence just varies I guess. I go from "I'm a charming extrovert ready to group up and have fun" to "I'm an ugly anti-social and don't wanna be disturbed" in no time.
this is so literally me, except im worse since i vary many times during the day LOL
@@guzzdoritos4708 XD
Same
Nah fr sometimes I check myself out in the mirror like “damn, I don’t know why I’m insecure, I’m looking fine“
The next day I look myself in the mirror and think I look like shrek that just got ran over 😭 like what was I thinking? Then I try cheering myself up by saying something like “shrek ks good looking, what am I saying?”
Same
Thank you for confirming my doubt . Now I am 100% sure that I'm not attractive.
Same man, lets be depressed together
@@LegacyBitten83yeah
Same.
same
You are beautiful and I am proud of how you are as a person
“Just because you’re not receiving compliments doesn’t mean you’re not attractive.”
*H O P E*
It means people probably assume you already get compliments.
HOPE ... thats whats keeping me going on
The Hope that 69 likes on your comments won't increase...
@@parthkadam3004 they did 😭
@@aclevercookie uh oh..........
Nah bro i'm sure i'am not attractive, because every second on my school all i do is annoying other people and say swear word, and i don't know how to get rid of it
"Girls may be awkward or nervous around you, they might stutter."
Girls around me: (INHALES) *Begins to rap Godzilla at 1.75x the speed that Eminem sings it*
ⒻⒶⒼⒼⓄⓉ
@@iron1975 indeed
Yo yall based lmao
@@iron1975 pretty much.
that's unfortunate.
"You're a better judge of how attractive you are when time passes"
Meanwhile me, who hates old pics which I used to love and thought I looked good on them back then
fr me looking at the mirror and comparing it to and old photo do be looking different doe. i look like i havent slept in a week
@@Trazor_ VERY relatable. My eyebags seem like they could cover the Great Wall of China.
Same
@@Trazor_ literally me
Psych2Go: "Have you ever been frustrated that your dinner is taking too long to make..."
Me: "Omg, does that make me attractive?! finally a sign!" 😄
Psch2Go: "HelloFresh our sponsor for this video..."
Me: 😑
HA HA HA
Hahahaha same
xDDD
JSHSHAHSHS
Kacnakxnskaj hekan nakwgam
This gives me a glimmer of hope as my crush ALWAYS searches for my eyes and glares at them in the halls. She does that quick nervous look away whenever I catch her.
1. I look terrible on old photos
2. People are normal around me
3. I don't receive messages on social media
4. People avoid looking at me
5. I don't get any compliments
I thought that this video can help me repair my ego
This is so me
Damn is this my alt account
Damn all my alts grew sentience
same :(
I was about to say the same thing
“You receive a lot of messages on social media”
- me who doesn't get a message from a single soul not even bots: well that explains a lot
Not gonna lie you look attractive. Not gay . just to make you feel god in life :D
@@ballinjesus8175 mr reggie is hot 👌👌😩
Wtf did i just read?😳
Hello here's a message
@@taylormomsenssidehoe 🗿
"you recieve a lot of messages on social media"
my DMs: *dryer than california in a drought*
Your not alone my guy
I have one message, and is my drunk friend calling me gay
@@SaganTheKhajiit Relatable
Bruhh mine is becoming sahara desert
my dms dryer than the valley of death
ok.
now it's confirmed that i'm ugly.
Thanks.
Before watching this, I didn’t think I was attractive.
After watching this, I know I am not attractive.
me tho
this video doesnt say whether youre atttactive or not, trust me. there are plenty of other things that are attractive other than the ones put in the video
TRUE
I’m not a psychologist but isn’t unhealthy to correlate social media “Likes” to beauty? After all, beauty is in the eye of the beholder and just because people on social media don’t comment on your photos doesn’t mean you’re not beautiful.
However, its well known that attractive women do better on social media. I can assure you this is rather true.
The social media one is only one of the factors, you can be pretty and just not get lucky with the algorithm, but then one of the other factors will probably be true.
yeah it's not Vice versa ....
Like every Dice is a cube but not every cube is a Dice
Hope you get the point
Sense of beuty is hardwired
@@Riteshkrpanda not every dice is a cube tho. but we'll assume that's the case for learning purposes
"You can catch them staring at you"
Not exactly. I would stare at anyone because I find other peoples business to be more interesting than my own. Eventually I forget that I exist, and get caught.
Um.. are you my clone lol? This is exactly how I am
Underated comment
yep same thing, I just randomly glance at people awkwardly. lol
Lol same. I feel that everyone thinks I like them Bc whenever someone says something funny, I’m always there laughing at their joke😂
Same
I guess you haven't heard, I'm unattractive around these parts.
1. When I look at old photos, I know I look better now.
2. No girl my age is ever nervous around me.
3. I never received a lot of messages on social media. The ones I did were either bots, or old high school classmates.
4. Only once have I caught a girl staring at me. It was in 8th grade. Maybe she thought I was handsome because of the jacket I was wearing that day. But in consequence, I got caught looking at one of my females classmates. She asked me why I was looking at her. I denied it like a coward.
5. I simply don't get compliments at all. I once thought I did, it was by a “27 years old woman". Was a bot though.
In short, I may or may not be cooked. But I don't ever wish to give up.
Bless you man.
@@rafaliciousbmx Thank you, you too.
Thank u for the video. At first i thought I might be unattractive, but after watching this I'm very sure that I'm unattractive!
This made me laughh
ur attractive
im desperate for friends plz be my friend
confirmed
WHEN THE DAY ARE COLD
same bro
Good ending:
You realize that you really are good looking.
Bad ending:
1. "but I don't take pictures of myself"
2. You're holding a knife
3. "but I don't post in social media"
4. You're hiding a knife
5. _"you don't look that bad"_
Neutral ending:
You are still confused.
Hidden ending:
You are deaf and blind.
Best ending:
It doesn't really matter what you look like. We're all going to die anyway.
Best comment 👌
True
😂😂😂 valar morghulis
😂😂😂
Bruh this comment tho XD
All the points from the video with timestamps:
1. [0:43] When you look at photos of yourself from months ago as compared to now, you think you looked better then.
2. [2:07] Some people seem nervous or different around you
3. [3:56] You receive alot of messages on social media
4. [4:17] You catch them staring at you
5. [4:46] You don't get many compliments when you expect them
really? these are the points?
I can knock these down pretty easily, these are in no way any form of signs. they could be, but they could just as well be absolutely nothing
@@blue-vr8dd it's just a probability
@@JobamnaJoestar exactly.
The social media one is pretty vague. Any woman's chat is full of messages on social media, no matter if "attractive" or just "mediocre". Whilst men tend to have fewer messages. Also many messages doesn't mean good messages. It can also mean just horny idiots texting you
huh lol so I'm not attractive at all
Even the art style itself is better than what is 3 years later.
I wouldn’t mind a man who can cook, I can’t cook myself, but even if he doesn’t cook I don’t mind learning
I know how to cook well very few things, I think I would be very happy to learn together with a partner when I get one
@@bananahehewow6369 same, I know how to work the microwave, not the oven tho, I’m always scared of getting burned
I’m a guy who’s cooking skills are very basic, but someone once told me that there are people out there who can’t even boil water.
Of course you can't cook yourself, you'd die halfway through.
Period
You missed one: "Are new people strangely enthusiastic around you?" It took a ridiculously long time for me to realize that the reason someone I didn't know was oddly happy to see me was because they thought I was attractive. Instead of thinking they were nice, I'd think "What a weirdo!"
Well now I know I'm attractive
FACTS, same thing with me.
@@Le_Grand_Corbeau666 Oh, lucky you!
@@PrimalAspid96 why it didn't do this for you too?
Lmao someone asked me out a few days ago and now we’re dating. When I met her she was really open and enthusiastic but mostly to me and I couldn’t figure out whether that’s who she was or she like liked me
The fact this was recommended to me just shows how far I’ve fallen, and how my dignity is gone…
...thats rough buddy
Fr...
Bro same
Me too
0:48 it's the opposite for me
Same
Fr fr
Haven’t seen a comment like this yet so I’ma put this out here
1.) 0:43-When you look at pictures of yourself months ago compared to now, you think you looked better then.
2.) 2:07-Some people seem nervous or different around you
2:33-Ad time :D
3.) 3:55-You receive alot of messages on social media
4.) 4:16-You catch people staring at you
5.) 4:46-You don’t get many compliments when you expect them
Thank me never
Edit:I fixed up a spelling mistake I had
omg thank you
No problem
"thank me nevrr" what u meannn
i appreciate you
The amount of times I DON'T compliment someone because I'm awkward and find compliments hard to give... I promise you're all getting unspoken compliments when you least expect it.
Same here
I don’t know, “all of you” may be a bit generous
@@OgreManGaming This
@@OgreManGaming True geography right there.
For people who feel insecure about being “attractive” here’s a fun fact: If you speak then after a few seconds speak 10% slower and for some reason makes people attracted to how you speak.
Like emphasizing the last words
did u tried it ?
@@godillerplays1125 did you try spelling properly
@@TaylorM2005 good question.
This is actually something I do subconscious and most of the crushes I've had think my voice is attractive so you might be onto something
I don't even post photos on social media 💀💀
Lmao ikr, me with 0 messages
You might scroll through photos in your personal photo album gallery
same ☠💀
based
Same
''Confidence is the most attractive part in a person!"
ah shit
Here we go again
@@mufidkokni4889 lmao
Being confident is prob important but i'd say looks are definetly more important.
When ur ugly and have a low self esteem 😭😭
@@alinarichert3448 Exactly
“Have you ever wondered if your attractive?”
Me: No, I just clicked this video because I want to know the meaning of being “attractive”.
We're not so different fr
😭
You: "I clicked this video to learn what attractive means, you clicked because you wanna know if you're attractive, we are not the same"
Pure curiosity to see what the _other side_ is like lol
I see a lot of negativity in the comments and that hurts, like appearances don’t matter at the end of the day, of course we wanna look good but there’s more signs that can show you are attractive in other ways, this video isn’t the end all be all absolute, if it was then this video would have like 50 mil views. Oh also we can always improve ourselves with time, since some of the most “attractive” people worked towards it
Does this change my unattractivity? edit: is that even a word