This kind of attitude of always wanting to take care of others comes from a deeper belief of not being good enough and therefore being afraid of abandonment by others, so we try our best to gain their approval and praise. This is what we wanted from our parents in childhood to gain their acceptance and transferred this into the "Milk of human Kindness" toward others.
I feel you man, I gave everything and received nothing. I suffer so others can be happy in my stead. I wanted to be loved like the unconditional love I gave for others. Sometimes I think, I wasn't meant to be in this world, but I am glad to enjoy the beauty of this world even if I am insignificant and not needed in this world. Sometimes I am afraid of abandonment but I have long accepted that I am still privileged to live alone and enjoy every moment.
I feel that man. I am always myself and so sincere. I dont even want anything back that is tangible. I just want to feel accepted. But acceptance is so conditional. Your a genuinely cool dude with a cool 🧔🏻 mustache. Have you joined any support groups? Im an introvert and hate bonding with people. But working with others on common community projects makes me feel a lot less empty.
I always try to ask everyone how they feel, how their life is going. Only one person on earth has ever done that for me, actually cared about me. We are still very close friends and I'm extremely grateful for having him.
I'm saying this as someone who completely understands your frustration on the topic. But this world doesn't owe us anything just for living in it, and people don't owe us anything just because we did something for them. The ego is a difficult thing to overcome. If you are nice to someone or help them out, etc etc, don't ever expect anything in return. Your ego will tell you "Well you did this for them and they won't even call you back" you know what I mean? Don't let your feelings ever dictate you. Feelings will keep you living in a Fallen State, justifying your own wrongdoings based on how you're feeling in the moment. God bless!
Liked and Subbed. 1stbtime viewer. Totally random and by chance... But you said a lot I needed to hear. Thanks man. Youre a good dude. I'll def check your content out again. Keep spreading the wisdom and the POSITIVITY! Much love from 217
Sorry but you dont know what it means to truly feel alone. when you have no family, no significant other, no friends, no children and you do everything alone, and barely speak to anyone throughout the day, thats truly being alone.
The maker of this video literally said hes got 4-5 close friends and is in a good relationship Yes other things may be lacking but this comment is right @sagepegram1866
This kind of attitude of always wanting to take care of others comes from a deeper belief of not being good enough and therefore being afraid of abandonment by others, so we try our best to gain their approval and praise. This is what we wanted from our parents in childhood to gain their acceptance and transferred this into the "Milk of human Kindness" toward others.
Hmmm
i know what you mean. I tend to give more in relationships than I receive which is a really hard balance to strike.
me too
If you wanna feel more alone watch a video about being alone
thank you for this raw conversation
I feel you man, I gave everything and received nothing. I suffer so others can be happy in my stead. I wanted to be loved like the unconditional love I gave for others. Sometimes I think, I wasn't meant to be in this world, but I am glad to enjoy the beauty of this world even if I am insignificant and not needed in this world. Sometimes I am afraid of abandonment but I have long accepted that I am still privileged to live alone and enjoy every moment.
It’s all good my g , real ones get tired too
I feel that man. I am always myself and so sincere. I dont even want anything back that is tangible.
I just want to feel accepted. But acceptance is so conditional.
Your a genuinely cool dude with a cool 🧔🏻 mustache.
Have you joined any support groups? Im an introvert and hate bonding with people. But working with others on common community projects makes me feel a lot less empty.
I always try to ask everyone how they feel, how their life is going. Only one person on earth has ever done that for me, actually cared about me. We are still very close friends and I'm extremely grateful for having him.
Thanks for the video, Patrick. You have also subscribers and followers! 🙂Love your tattoo! What's its story, if i may know? I've got a few ones too.
I'm saying this as someone who completely understands your frustration on the topic. But this world doesn't owe us anything just for living in it, and people don't owe us anything just because we did something for them. The ego is a difficult thing to overcome. If you are nice to someone or help them out, etc etc, don't ever expect anything in return. Your ego will tell you "Well you did this for them and they won't even call you back" you know what I mean? Don't let your feelings ever dictate you. Feelings will keep you living in a Fallen State, justifying your own wrongdoings based on how you're feeling in the moment. God bless!
Liked and Subbed. 1stbtime viewer. Totally random and by chance... But you said a lot I needed to hear. Thanks man. Youre a good dude. I'll def check your content out again. Keep spreading the wisdom and the POSITIVITY! Much love from 217
God he's just so cute;)
Do you have any other social media?
you in idaho brotha ?
Just seeing this but yes! In the treasure valley area
Sorry but you dont know what it means to truly feel alone. when you have no family, no significant other, no friends, no children and you do everything alone, and barely speak to anyone throughout the day, thats truly being alone.
you can have all those things and still feel alone. Stop trying to measure loneliness. Its not a competition bro
Technically being my single brain cell is the most true version of "alone."
It suffers from depression too. Poor guy.
The maker of this video literally said hes got 4-5 close friends and is in a good relationship
Yes other things may be lacking but this comment is right @sagepegram1866
It kind of is, you gotta admit and acknowledge some people flat out have it worse @@sagepegram1866