the break up.. | PART 2

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Комментарии • 154

  • @deebestest100
    @deebestest100 Год назад +28

    Honestly, your videos give me patience. I’ve been praying for my partner, to actually receive him soon because God knows I want to be with whomever the man is. I really desire to grow with him and be with him in life. Your videos have shown me that it’s not always straightforward and I have to be patient and trust God. Thank you for your videos and for being a vessel.

  • @shalorimoore7520
    @shalorimoore7520 Год назад +119

    I'm happy you all found your way back to one another.

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  Год назад +9

      thank you so much!

    • @shalorimoore7520
      @shalorimoore7520 Год назад +16

      @@OnlyOneJess Watching your story unfold reminds me that what's mine is mine and to wait for God's blessing. 🥰

  • @teannahairston5729
    @teannahairston5729 Год назад +123

    I see you got 500K in your sights! Congratulations for making it this far and Congratulations in advance!!!

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  Год назад +24

      We’re so close! Thank you 🥰

    • @namee.eemailh-s9729
      @namee.eemailh-s9729 Год назад +1

      @@OnlyOneJess Pls post the link for part 1. I recall knowing your breakup story from a while back but watching again would be cool... Thx!

    • @namee.eemailh-s9729
      @namee.eemailh-s9729 Год назад

      @@OnlyOneJess *Link to Part 1 is not in the Description Box*

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  Год назад +1

      @@namee.eemailh-s9729 just added it for ya! 🥰🥰

  • @staysmilingallday4797
    @staysmilingallday4797 Год назад +133

    Come through for the sponsorship. They have no idea the stress you went through when you couldn’t find his ring😂🤣

  • @Antoinette922
    @Antoinette922 Год назад +69

    I remember in one of your blogs you mentioned a break-up and being hurt. You looked into the camera and said "You know who you are" and now we all know lol. Thank God you made it though! You helping him with other girls when he was in high school reminds me of Vanessa Williams' song "Best for Last."

    • @EsiriE
      @EsiriE Год назад +9

      I remember that video 😂

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  Год назад +18

      Lol yup that was him 😂😂😂

  • @karinathompson8051
    @karinathompson8051 Год назад +44

    Restoring my faith that godly relationships are possible. thank you 😭💚

  • @vanessafitzpatrick5635
    @vanessafitzpatrick5635 Год назад +49

    I love the fact that your both able to sit in peace and share what happened. It's very healthy and healing for the soul. Love you guys so much 😘.

  • @shanhill966
    @shanhill966 Год назад +28

    Love this guys you know you’re my favorite!!! Great advice my husband and I had to separate to come back together. Alone time allows you to reflect and get closer with god. You are able to see the imperfections that as an individual to reevaluate values morals and what’s important. Both parties must do the work we did the work and 5 years married.

  • @lilbitdance5
    @lilbitdance5 Год назад +20

    I truly love and appreciate this video. I was in a relationship for almost 4 years and it ended a few days ago due to him being unsure of what he wants. The responses to a lot of those questions I felt were for me personally to hear. Thank you 🙏🏽.

  • @bethanyburton9821
    @bethanyburton9821 Год назад +4

    love ya jess!! and all people posting before and after this post! smile all night even tho youre asleep! take some tape and tape your cheeks in a smile! have a wonderful night!!!.

  • @ravensymonemsw677
    @ravensymonemsw677 Год назад +11

    Aww that’s exactly what happened to Adam in Gen 2:21-22 “So the Lord God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep. While the man slept, the Lord God took out one of the man’s ribs and closed up the opening.” “Then the Lord God made a woman from the rib, and he brought her to the man.”
    ‭‭That’s so beautiful to hear the scripture come to pass congratulations to you guys!! God bless your union love your channel

  • @pamelamajor1019
    @pamelamajor1019 Год назад +56

    This was beautiful. I love you guys as a couple, and Jess you are just glowing now!

  • @bobbiedavis8498
    @bobbiedavis8498 Год назад +15

    Thank you Jonathan and Jess for putting yourselves out here for us to see. I am married to my Soulmate. He balances me out. We put God first in our lives..In our marriage. God's love and Presence is always at the head of our lives and in our hearts. I fell in Love with my husband the 1st time I saw him. We dated ror 10 years before we married. We got thru those times thru Praying 🙏🏽 and being Prayed for. 🙏🏽...Jess and Jonathan I Love your stories and I Love how to see how your Spiritual Love stories have become 1. Love you guys..Prayers and Blessings 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💛

  • @msamjllc
    @msamjllc Год назад +20

    Great Video - I appreciate folks who can keep it honest and real.

  • @mercydolo
    @mercydolo Год назад +11

    I love to see your Godly side and Godly relationship perspectives. Plant them seeds Sis😁

  • @zipporahjones5814
    @zipporahjones5814 Год назад +10

    Come. On. Jon. And. Jess!! Talk about the goodness of the LORD! I'm here for it ALL. Actively working (reading the Bible to hear from the Lord, reference books and prayer) while waiting on God is key! Marriage is the most difficult relationship you'll ever have...and when it's ordained by the Lord you'll enjoy your life with your favorite person. ❤️ #ItsAGodThing
    Yall are my favorite YT couple🥰 I've been loc'd for 2 years and still follow you and your hair content.

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  Год назад +1

      Ah thank you so much!! ❤️❤️

  • @JustJoia
    @JustJoia Год назад +37

    You speaking on that peace! Listen… people asked my husband & I on “why it take so long” or “when are you going to get married?” We literally both knew we were it for one another but it didn’t feel right & we knew if the influence of the world got to us & we married sooner, we would be divorced. ❤

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  Год назад +7

      That is WISDOM right there! I love it 👏🏾👏🏾

  • @akajazzy12300
    @akajazzy12300 Год назад +8

    I saw this an said part 2 ?? I was like wait ! When did I miss part 1 🫠 but then I proceeded to watch & it cleared my confusion. 🤣

  • @plummer8747
    @plummer8747 Год назад +12

    I felt this especially on the 'afraid of being alone' and the 'history'.

  • @ROCKYtaughtme
    @ROCKYtaughtme Год назад +6

    I love the transparency! Very much appreciated, thank you both. I Love the intro as well ! It’s catchy lol ❤

  • @laneyjackson5916
    @laneyjackson5916 Год назад +9

    This video is setting some people free! Much needed and much appreciated!

  • @alexandria_mckoy
    @alexandria_mckoy Год назад +8

    LEGIT! I broke up with my ex (dated on/off for 4 years) after finding out he cheated (and mind you CONTINUED to flirt on SM). He took me to the movies and was like "can we just take a break?". I said no, I'm done and his reply was "so you are just going to give up 4 years?"....God was with me when I said "I'de rather 4 years than the rest of my life". Mind you there was already signs God was trying to give me from jump because he would flirt with females directly in front of me. And in 4 years, our relationship grew as much as a fake plant. 🤦🏾‍♀. lol....But you guys relationship reminds me ALOT of my boyfriend and I relationship (or me and my boyfriend's...🤷🏾‍♀). Very beautiful to see & I wish you guys the absolute best!

    • @flowd7451
      @flowd7451 Год назад +2

      I hope you left that dustie in the dust.

  • @marianb2530
    @marianb2530 Год назад +6

    This was such a great video and I loved how you answered the "making excuses section...". I loved ALL of it. Very mature answers 👍🏿🙏🏿💙🌹

  • @olipachipila738
    @olipachipila738 Год назад +2

    God bless your reunion always.
    I'm doing everything by Faith because we are going through everything you spoke about. e
    Especially the place Jesse was in, Now we've been on separation for two months. Been trying to move on but God still brings back the person to my mind and how we are meant be by comfirming his word every day with peace and easy.
    Question: Jess, how did you deal with the uncertainty of him not being sure about you?

  • @borbalabernath1024
    @borbalabernath1024 Год назад +2

    I pray God does this miracle, makes us more mature and His will is to be with each other. I am already closer to Him and matured and forgave and asked for forgiveness and made peace with people in my past

  • @taliapink8047
    @taliapink8047 Год назад +5

    Not in a relationship but I’m watching ☺️

  • @enriaen5430
    @enriaen5430 Год назад +4

    Why am I walking around the supermarket singing, "There's only one, there's only one, there's only one Jess, only one Jess..." 🎶😂❤

  • @SunneyDae
    @SunneyDae Год назад +4

    These two break up videos are something I needed. I REALLY didn't want to watch them, and haven't for months, but today I watched both, and I really needed to. I recently broke up with my boyfriend, who was a friend of 6 years and a boyfriend of 6 months, after he cheated on me. And I have truly been struggling in this.

    • @iloveGod1105
      @iloveGod1105 8 месяцев назад

      Praying for you beautiful girl!!!

  • @keishlaspivey232
    @keishlaspivey232 Год назад +2

    I'm new to your channel and truly enjoying the content. I commend you two for sharing your journey thus far.
    Jonathan You were answering a question someone posed about what happened when you realized you wanted to marry Jess....
    Just to tag in on your reply ...it also helps when the individual has a relationship with GOD and they take time to quiet themselves so that that can be intuned with where GOD is leading them.
    GOD BLESS you both.🧡🌴🌺

  • @candiblue9280
    @candiblue9280 Год назад +5

    I am just happy that you are married now and are together the main thing is that u two talk everything out and have god in your lives.

  • @misskiana81
    @misskiana81 Год назад +5

    Yes it’s all about Gods timing

  • @atashajordan
    @atashajordan Год назад +4

    I chuckle that I sing along to your intro like it's Fresh Prince of Bel Air

  • @marjoriecoleman8280
    @marjoriecoleman8280 Год назад +7

    Hey Jess with the sponsorship, ok girl! 🎉🙌🏾 It shows maturity how y’all let God guide you thru the difficult times when you were dating. I love that! ❤ Sometimes things don’t happen when we want them to, but it happens right on time. 🙌🏾

  • @wisdomthatrhymes2314
    @wisdomthatrhymes2314 Год назад +1

    Hey Jess when you broke up, I’m sure it hurt that he wasn’t sure about things, did you have any resentment towards him or when he came back was everything easy asking for a friend? Lol the friend is me , if God brings him back I feel like I have bitterness towards him

  • @DFWME71
    @DFWME71 Год назад +4

    The right person for you, and timing is everything.

  • @toniagrant275
    @toniagrant275 Год назад +6

    Love and happiness beauty and holiness yess I love it hi J&J that’s true women intuition and discernment blessed be💜🙏🏾

  • @daryianberymon2885
    @daryianberymon2885 Год назад +4

    It’s the Back to back upload for meeee!!! Love to see the CONSISTENCY 😜😘❤️

  • @lennichagittens6329
    @lennichagittens6329 Год назад +2

    Jonathan: “I DID NOT say God!! Stop put dat ina yuh mouth!!”
    😂😂😂

  • @DrineThePoet
    @DrineThePoet Год назад +5

    Girl I'm so happy for you both ❤

  • @queenj8795
    @queenj8795 Год назад +4

    I'm so happy for you, Jess. I remember the says when you didn't have sponsorships, but look at God 💖 I pray you and Johnathan have a long, happy life together 💖

  • @Thatonegirl989
    @Thatonegirl989 Год назад +13

    I love your honesty :)

  • @Brownskinlove-qh4io
    @Brownskinlove-qh4io Год назад +4

    I had to get myself ready for this video. Thank you for sharing glad God brought y’all through it!!♥️🙌🏾💍🙏🏾

  • @CallMeTink
    @CallMeTink Год назад +3

    HAPPY HEALTHY FRIDAY GOR-JESS & JONATHAN ⭐️💛👑

  • @capri102
    @capri102 Год назад +1

    Eventhough your road was long God made sure you marry the man he had prepared for you Jess 🙌🙌🙌🙌 #BlackLove🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤

  • @mydknyghtrydah463
    @mydknyghtrydah463 Год назад +1

    Y’all betta than me every man knows you walk out…. Don’t Turn Around cuz I ain’t chkng for U Never No Mo

  • @_clarisse_manishimwe
    @_clarisse_manishimwe Год назад +3

    Your rings are so beautiful! Definitely a website I would consider. 💗

  • @vennessapleas8455
    @vennessapleas8455 Год назад +3

    Thank you both for sharing. I love y'all ❤️

  • @joannejowie8825
    @joannejowie8825 Год назад +3

    I shud be sleeping ryt now but i jst finished yo last vlog🤣love you

  • @moadornedbyjesus
    @moadornedbyjesus Год назад +1

    AMEN JESUS IS OUR FIRST RESPONSE ALWAYS! We must 1st know Him and our purpose in Him to be able to discern whom He is declared is our purpose partner in Him. Let's never settle children of God! ONLY the devil wants us to settle, God has called us to excel.

  • @Hope_lyss
    @Hope_lyss Год назад +4

    Giiiiirl I had to stop everything!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @CallMeTink
    @CallMeTink Год назад +3

    THIS IS A BEAUTIFUL & SPIRITUAL, TRUE LOVE AFFAIR 🥰💕

  • @dashelledisna6239
    @dashelledisna6239 Год назад +1

    Im Glad I lost, was soo good👏🏾👏🏾
    Yes this is soo good. No BODY IS WORTH YOUR PEACE OF MIND. LIFE ALREADY HAS ENOUGH TROUBLES. I always say this

  • @JustShara4
    @JustShara4 Год назад +5

    ....but it was meant to be 🙌🏾💛💛💛💛

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  Год назад +2

      God had OTHERRRR planss amen lol

    • @JustShara4
      @JustShara4 Год назад

      @@OnlyOneJess Amen 🙏🏽, I love it and I love yall 😘

  • @johnarhodes3748
    @johnarhodes3748 Год назад +2

    You are such a refreshing young couple. Thank you for sharing your journey.

  • @kay-annclarke6312
    @kay-annclarke6312 Год назад

    I'm going through this same process. I know I may be wrong and pray forgiveness for praying that the person I am praying to be restored does not fall in love with any other woman or the relationship with other women just dont work..

  • @dustynwilson236
    @dustynwilson236 Год назад +2

    God literally used y’all’s first video about breaking up to confirm I should break up with my boyfriend, and later on that we’ll be unitied through dreams…etc.

  • @ashlimcfarlane6990
    @ashlimcfarlane6990 Год назад +2

    Girl not you starting this video like sumn happened Chille 😂😂😂😂

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  Год назад +1

      i just turned the camera on and walked to the couch lol

  • @lovelife8968
    @lovelife8968 8 месяцев назад

    It's not about "feeling right." The thing is obedience to the Almighty.

  • @momentswithmaya8040
    @momentswithmaya8040 Год назад +1

    wow, similar situation somewhat. definitely praying and seeking clarity! thank you all for transparency and this video 🤍

  • @syd5831
    @syd5831 Год назад +1

    What's the name of the song playing in the background?

  • @SunsetsNIceream
    @SunsetsNIceream 10 месяцев назад

    A year late but does anyone know the name of the background tract ?😊

  • @Nikki...
    @Nikki... 2 месяца назад

    The healing and growth these videos promote is refreshing!

  • @fairburngordonstephanie5398
    @fairburngordonstephanie5398 Год назад +1

    This was a great video. I believe you both helped someone. Yes l love watching transformation church service. I see ministry in both your life.

  • @Sunshine19975
    @Sunshine19975 Год назад +1

    Hey Prosecutor I love how transparent you are about your relationship. Shout out to the sponsorship honey I was stressed right along with you in the car hoping and wishing you found that ring lol....

  • @berthajohnson9034
    @berthajohnson9034 Год назад +2

    I'm so happy for y'all 💯❤️💯

  • @soriyazz
    @soriyazz Год назад +10

    I'm happy you guys are so in love and at peace!!

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  Год назад +6

      Thank youuu! The road was ugly but look at us now lol

    • @soriyazz
      @soriyazz Год назад +1

      @@OnlyOneJess Look at y'all now is right.

  • @marianb2530
    @marianb2530 Год назад

    I can't even find part one...you did not link it? I put in a search and movies came up?
    You know I think I saw a video you did awhile ago, and you were pretty upset about it... Was this the guy Jonathan?

  • @JennyGaston
    @JennyGaston Год назад +9

    I love that you guys shared the struggle from the break-up to marriage. Your transparency was refreshing ♥️. Keep the videos coming!

  • @wiser0185
    @wiser0185 Год назад

    Jess I didn't even realize that yall both names start with J😊😉🙃, Ya see everyone is not so malicious😂🤣.
    Anyways what yall is saying is correct in a relationship u have to know wha God is tell u and listen to his voice cause the enemy can give u what u want and make u feel its God and then u living in hell for rest of your life.

  • @leticiaalvarez97
    @leticiaalvarez97 Год назад

    How did God tell you he was your husband ?? Like the details around that

  • @winterfresh4208
    @winterfresh4208 Год назад

    I wonder if while you guys were broken up if Jonathan watched your RUclips videos still? 🤔 🤣

  • @annie6891
    @annie6891 Год назад +2

    Weird. I was just talking about you.

  • @NicoleB79
    @NicoleB79 Год назад +4

    Love the rings so beautiful

  • @nollary482
    @nollary482 5 месяцев назад

    Love you guys ❤
    I like how real you are

  • @mellajoe
    @mellajoe Год назад

    The way he said “I’m not leaving Jess” made m chuckle

  • @WassupItsAnna
    @WassupItsAnna Год назад

    I love James Allen!!,I send my bf this site so he knows what to get lol.

  • @moniquecarter2540
    @moniquecarter2540 Год назад +1

    Ok I’ll be back, let me watch part 1 real quick.

  • @abimaylia
    @abimaylia Год назад

    I can't believe you read my question I love you guys so much this is so helpful xoxo

  • @antwanaisjajohnson4049
    @antwanaisjajohnson4049 Год назад

    Notttt an Esther fast! 🤣🤣
    Yesssssss. That's super dope🥰🥰

  • @TheJazmineRose
    @TheJazmineRose Год назад

    16:23
    Defffffinitely needed to hear this

  • @queenk.w_williams
    @queenk.w_williams Год назад +1

    So true 👍

  • @uniquelady1234
    @uniquelady1234 Год назад +1

    I love you guys x

  • @keysiaparsely3038
    @keysiaparsely3038 Год назад

    Thank God you guys come together as one God blessed you

  • @joannejowie8825
    @joannejowie8825 Год назад +2

    Am i first🥰🥰

  • @MNIU_
    @MNIU_ Год назад

    Bre is the executive pastor 😅

  • @quintinhudgens3329
    @quintinhudgens3329 8 месяцев назад

    he cut his hair!

  • @godsgirl7201
    @godsgirl7201 Год назад

    Good points

  • @AdoseofAlana_
    @AdoseofAlana_ Год назад

    Not me clicking here Hella fast

  • @constanceleflore6691
    @constanceleflore6691 Год назад

    The smile on your face is everything

  • @godsgirl7201
    @godsgirl7201 Год назад

    Good points

  • @moniquepellot1426
    @moniquepellot1426 Год назад +2

    You two are so sweet and speaking about your relationship and also with the lord makes it even better . Thanks for aways showing your loving side of one another .

  • @andrielokai7918
    @andrielokai7918 Год назад

    thank you for answering my age gap question! 💓💓💓💓

  • @yolandaanderson1842
    @yolandaanderson1842 Год назад

    # I Love y'all❤️💜

  • @unapologeticallyromel7096
    @unapologeticallyromel7096 Год назад

    Yesssssss my girl Jess ♥️

  • @Nnnnnnnn426
    @Nnnnnnnn426 Год назад

    Omg Jess posted and I didn’t get the notification someone in charge about to get fired cause now I gotta wait til 6 to watch it

    • @OnlyOneJess
      @OnlyOneJess  Год назад

      Oh nah I’m bout to hold a company meeting 😂😂🫶🏾

  • @FieryPhoenixxx
    @FieryPhoenixxx Год назад +1

    Beautiful couple

  • @flaviacosta1056
    @flaviacosta1056 Год назад

    👏👏👏🌻🌻🌻❤️❤️❤️😘😘😍😍

  • @shayjohnson1114
    @shayjohnson1114 Год назад

    Love this!!

  • @stephtom1607
    @stephtom1607 Год назад

    Jess

  • @eileenward5668
    @eileenward5668 Год назад

    🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰