When your EX Comes back after NO CONTACT
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Stay single. Work on yourself. Never speak to your enemy ever again. Stay out the way. Let GOD do the MATH 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼
@whatsapphim6367 how??? Number plz??
Enemy? Don’t be so over dramatic.
At the end of the day, our greatest enemy is ourselves.
Lol😊
@@ThomasP525en·e·my
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noun
a person who is actively opposed or hostile to someone or something.
Enemy is appropriate
Everyone makes mistakes and have lapse in judgment. I hear all these comments “dump them and never look back”. But if you were in a real relationship there will be feels on both sides. I feel love and affection for my bf. I feel pain too. But no hate or anger. He is having a rough time in life but it doesn’t excuse the breaking up. Communication needs to improve and everyone needs to have some grace. Be smart.
What is your fb id
@@saaifshowkatbairo I don’t share that info. But thanks
Amen
No contact teaches you ALOT. My ex never reached out and she was the one who did me wrong.. lol. So it tells me that she never gave a darn about me and has no heart. She moved on since we parted. No contact teaches you ALOT.
Pimpin that sounds like my ex, real spit box
If you can say she did you dirty and she knows it, then her being silence means she doesn’t wanna face the problem she caused and guilt and doesn’t want to apologize. Might as well lost attraction for you. I wonder what did she do to you?
But my ex came back today after 3 and half years
@@khalidbashir4017😮
He finally reached out. 4.75 months later. I have done exactly what you prescribed in this and in all your videos. Once the relationship is blooming again I will let you know. Thanks again Coach! 🙌🏽
update?
Update??
Yes update! We’re back in touch. It’s going slowly but we’re finally in touch again. It’s about the sport we used to play together and we’re going to meet up again now in a small group. Either this Friday or next. So it’s happening. We’re slowly rebuilding a bridge of connection!
@@utkarshsingh-vg1cb 🥶💀👀👍
@@heematara27 I hope things go well. Either with him or with yourself ❤️
My X came back. We had a long talk/ update. I told her I would call her later. I NEVER DID!! 😆 its like the ball is on my side of the court and I kicked the ball over the fence.
Don't ever call her back
Honestly, I would have called her back or I would have told her, "let's leave the past in the past, but as of right now, it's still 2 early for us to be talking, especially Like nothing happened ".
😂😂
Lol. I'm done with my ex, I'll do the same, Ive been in radio silence for 3 months but I'll try something more extreme.
That was immature and shows you are reliable to say you are going to do something and never did. You may lose her for real!!
Never take an ex back ,they will do the same shit again
No contact works. After 46 days She came back. She called and said we needed to see and talk. We met and she apologized and say she wants another try and she has worked on her self and wants to do better this time around. I told her I’m open to it, but I want to take it slow. How reserved should I be coach? Despite the fact that her reason for coming back is meaningful, I just don’t want to give it all at once.
Never forget she was prepared to throw you away.
People understand that the only way a relationship can work the second time is if the issues are fixed prior to starting again. If the person you dated was a narcissistic or didn’t have there life figured out than don’t take them back.
My ex reached out to me after no contact but after seeing him and talking to him he shows no remorse or anything not even an apology. He just started talking as if we were cool. I don’t even know if I want this anymore 😞
My ex did this after 8 months,no apology,no remorse with attitude.I said to her if you cared about me you would not be out of my life for eight months.I didnt take her back becouse i dont trust her any more,they are selfish people just kick them to curb they will regret it one day😊
Same here the first thing he did is for me to cooked for him took us out no apology smh..
You are unreal. All you said would happen, has. I truly thought it would not because he is such a rare individual. Yet you were on point. I am trying to heal, so that if the day comes to really consider getting back together- I can honestly tell him I love him but I do not want to be with him anymore. He came back. He told everyone we know how sorry he was and that it was the biggest mistake of his life. Yet he went back to his ex wife… I let go. His going back to her destroyed me to the point that it kept me isolated. Now he left to NC… told me nothing and I am again in limbo. I take it as he is trying to heal himself. Good for him. As for me, I will not reach out. I am healing still. He just flip flops and that is very unattractive! I want peace!!!!!!
Yes we better choose peace over chaos. Glad you’re able to let go and remembered what you deserve!
Never go back! Delete! It didn’t work and it’s not going to work. No person in relationship leaves that relationship if they want a life with you. Be smart and keep going. It’s broken
Facts 💯
Anyone else think coach Blac is handsome 🤭 And so smart 😅
Thanks for all you do
i keep wanting to reach out to let him know how much he hurt me but thruth is he doesn't care. life ain't fair n im learning to accept that. it hard for me as a woman who's nature is to never stop nurturing and to give love but if a grown man don't want it, then he don't want it. Not all men want or need a woman's unconditional love....
Oh, I looove Your calmness: „Trust the proces, stay in no contact”. That Is trully speaks to me 😊❤
Thank you so much. Glad you are enjoying the videos
My ex wife reached to me after no contact it works
3 weeks of no contact... I started missing them again but have to keep reminding yourself that you need to know that they are truly and highly interested in you or not so wait it out. If they don't come back then you got your answer clearly.
I got my ex back as well after 3weeks of no contact. We are now taking things slowly. Have been doing fun dating stuff together and have had heartful conversations, which has deepened our emotional attraction to each others and trust. Planning not to be intimate with him, until we both are solid with our decitions of wanting to be together for the long run🙏❤️
Set even more boundaries with your SP when they come back. They let you go !!! so respect there decision and don’t beg or plead.
I reached out to my ex after brief contacts over the last 3years ..how we started talking again was kinda funny
I'm very sure i want him back ..i initiated the breakup bc i was being immature i admit but now i want us to give it a shot again
I dont want to be too hopeful but our communication is good,we haven't spoken about our past yet and i like it that way ...he wants us to meet and i dont know how to feel
Mine text me yesterday after 3 month no contact he asked if I still love him … I still love him and wanted him back but now I feel strange
Your voice is like butter, sir. I could listen to you all day. Great information.
It worked Coach, it’s been 2 weeks he contacted me. I’m not sure how I feel, we’re currently separated. I’m not even sure I want to carry on the marriage. I just want to be happy. This alone time has opened my eyes.
Any new updates?
I did what you said no contact and in two days she texted me hey then we ended up talking in the phone now I planned us to see each other and Basically everything you said worked wow thanks a lot idk how this is going to go but she has to earn my trust back this time !
We are separated. Doing no contact now . She said she need time to heal . But here she is lifting her legs up for a next dude why she heal . These women I tell you .
people like to overcomplicate things they don't want to accept. But it's actually super simple. If they are not with you it means they are against you, are they with you right now or are they sucking the fluids from someone else? There is your answer.
Exactly my ex broke up with me and moved to another state with her friend ig by choice and I was the provider in the relationship then wanna hmu with meaningless convo while they are likely sucking someone else fluids I told her foh
I just loved that intro! So genuine. Spending time wisely obviously :)
What if your ex instead of calling or texting decides to randomly pop in to your workplace!?We ended things after a massive argument and never spoke again and here he is ,6 months later talking to me like we are good friends wtf!?
Wow no contact is real he was hurting 💔don’t accept crumbs he better say sorry and plead his case kmt
@Bbc2023 1 no way I let him back in once before -things were amazing for about 3 weeks lol I finally had enough of his bs and walked away- I don't think he expected that. He thinks he's gods gift to women cos women just throw themselves at him. He always gets what he wants-well not this time baby!
It happens to me my ex girl come to my workplace now and then. I just say Hi i don't say anything
@Mxolisi Sunshine well that was my intention but he started a full blown convo!Not even that his first words to me were" aren't ya gonna give me a hug "...huh!?!?!
This sounds like he's trying to manipulate you, sounds narcissistic imo.
Good luck to all, love can be so wonderful and hurt so bad
He says he wants to be back together yet he still acts very distant. IDK if he's lying to put a roof over his head or he really believes in us. He's lied and betrayed me too much
Been there done that, did not work out for us a second time after a 13 year break, we were married, had kids, got divorced in our 20s, then wanted to try it again........never will it happen again. I'm sure we clearly are not meant to be after this, but we haven't gone no contact this time, and he has a new girlfriend now, I met her, she's really nice. We live 2 hours apart from each other now and the distance has helped me, because I am still in the healing process, but we are better off as friends, we will always have our kids in common, but that's just it, we weren't meant to be romantically together. I'm not saying that it doesn't hurt still, but I am learning from my mistakes and growing from this experience.
She text me saying she needs to come pick up some of her clothes. I told her that I was not going to be in, but I will wrap it up and keep it near the bin. she can pick it up in my absence. You could hear the silence over the phone!
Did she start chasing?
Love your opening words, lots of relationship coaches don't see the view that we actually take time to listen to our special coach..
My ex dumped me through a text message after being with her for 8 years..... so yeah the first 2 weeks I went crazy she honestly gave me no choice and we both made things worser and worser, its been nearly a week without contact and honestly I don't think she'll return in my arms.. after everything that has happened she won't it hurts because I still love her.
Thanks, because this particular subject is never discussed by any of the other break up coaches even though it's an important element.
I was not aware of the "no contact" dynamic but implemented it unknowingly, as I wasn't that into the girl who dumped me.
It worked a treat and she started contacting me, at first grudgingly but then increasingly warmly and submissively.
Trouble is when she did start behaving affectionately my response was to be cold and hostile (with some justification I think as she had played a series of games with me)
But now I've realised I have very strong feelings for her ..........but we've blocked each other.
😢
Wish I'd watched all these videos before. not after.
After losing interest she will come back. The no contact rule will help you lose interest and focus on other people
True 🎉
Mine showed up at my house on the 5th day of no contact acting like nothing ever happened...he wanted us to go to the gym and have sex....no thank you,if you can't acknowledge the disrespect you gave me and apoligize,I have nothing to say to you..
I f’d up and fell in love with a 42 year old Chinese woman who has a 15 year old daughter and who works at a happy ending massage parlor (🥺🤦🏻♂️). She’s really a good woman…like you’d NEVER think she does that unless I’d told you. Really innocent and old fashioned and had tried to do the legit massage thing but it didn’t pay enough. Anyhoo…she loved me as well but three months ago she started becoming distant…I initially chased her but after we had a great night out dancing, I told her to text me on her off day if she wanted (as I refused to communicate with her while she’s at that parlor) and haven’t heard from her since. Been in NC since then. It’s tough because what she does still messes with me even though it seems she’s lost interest in me or is seeing some other customer of hers.
You didn’t do much wrong except after the dance you should have love bombing her till she goes back to the same love.
I can’t see the comment someone left. 🥹
Stop being a Simp! You are just a customer to her. There is no love, it all business.
@@denoc817 I wholeheartedly agree with your first comment about stop being a simp, but just as wholeheartedly disagree with your second. She most definitely had genuine feelings for me. I most certainly know when someone in her profession is pretending to like me to keep me “coming” back as a customer and when they sincerely like me, and she absolutely sincerely liked me...loved me even. But it’s just an unhealthy situation for me, mentally and emotionally.
@@AntwhaleNearfarmove on bruh wtf common sense.
I could've been doing anything else but I rather watch your videos. Keep up the great work!
hi 2 weeks ago ex sent a picture of food and the next day she said she wants to move on and have a new life we texted back and forth asking if she doesn't want any contact with me. but she told me that she doesn't have confidence in making me happy and is scared of hurting me again as she ended the relationship when my anxiety was the worst ever as 2 months of having to go into long distance. as shes japanese and im american i would be questioning her whereabouts and other things i said until she pulled the plug. She said she will respond to me when shes done travelling the world but I also will go travelling to europe and other parts of south america afor a couple months next week as I need an escape from all this also as my life fell apart after living in japan for 18 months. this video showed up at the perfect time in case she does reach out again thanks!!!
I love, love your videos you help me out so much well my ex walked away because my son said he wanted to talk to him so I seen him out I asked what happen he told almost after a year Smh I told him I talked to my son my son said wasn’t like that he would apology he said he was going come see me never did I been in Nc he reached out to me talking about the same situation I’m currently in Nc now.
this is hard we make up and break up and we profess our love for one another and he ignores me and i do the same. never gave him the goodies.
Ever considerd working on your attachmentstyle? Unhealed traumas from other relationship or childhood? Breath work or meditations?
@@willow_pillow i am currently learning about different attachments style. have you been in a similar situations? i havent thought of meditation before
I wish I seen this sooner she reached out 2 times but I was cold with it 🙂
Love how short and straight to the point your videos are
So my ex broke up with me, as any person I asked her why and I pleaded my case on why we shouldn’t. Which didn’t help . I went into no contact with her . 5 days later she text me and says “hey I’m sorry I’m texting you but your literally the only person that listens” I follows what you said. I kept it short responded back here in there and when the convo started dying . I told her . well good luck with all that going on lol , to end the convo . Now I’m back into no contact
She finally reached out me to after 2-3 months. We broke up because she wanted to focus on her career and don’t want her parents to know. It’s a Asian thing. Parents are really strict. We we’re long distance for 4 years relationships. It was had but we try to meet as much as we can . I usually take a flight to go see her and come back the same day. Maybe around 3-6 we get to spend each other. She was really happy and me I saw her like my wife, really too care of her. So, 2023 we meet 2 times then mid February she said she wanted to break up. I was like super broken . I tried everything to make her come back. She started to complain everything wrong about me. Making me feel like I was completely a bad person. But I know I’m not I really took care of her and respected her and loved her with all my heart. So it’s was like I miss her sometimes I will call and keep calling her try to get her attention. Then one day I thought if I go see her she will be happy and we could have end in mutual understanding. I went to her saw at night told her to look outside the window. This dad was the most stupid thing I ever didn’t in my whole life. I thought she still loved me and trusted me. When I get there she asked me “what do I came to do?” That broke me soo much she was about to call cop on me. I do agree that was my fault coming to see her at night. But we were that close together. Like really really close. Like the moment she said that I like ran and I never been that broken in my whole life. I spent the night near the metro station without sleeping. I really couldn’t sleep tbh , i was that broken. Then she called said sorry she said she doesn’t know why she think that way. Next day I thought she going to school that day. She has to come to the metro station to able to go to college. I waited from 5:30- 11: 00 checking every single bus if she coming or not. Then I decided to go eat in downtown by taking the metro. Then she faced timed me that day, she was crying a lot, her face looked soo bad I could have tell that make me feel really bad. So we talked a lot though the phone. Then I had like 3 hours left to my flight I went back to the metro station I was waiting her for. Took a Uber to her house again lots like 30 minutes ride. Got there I was scared to go her house, I went in front of her apartment gate and stopped and heard back, didn’t wanted to hurt her again. And then I head back to get my flight. She didn’t even come see me. I got home , still broken, doing soo bad I’m my college classes. I was completely destroyed at this point. I still doesn’t hate her, I’m still in love with her completely. She blocked me every instagram , phone.. we had a really cute private page for our self. She deleted that. I’m not saying she a bad person. She did the right thing for her, I respect her for that. But then after everything I do for her, she blame everything. And said she just needed a break at first and I make everything this worst. I probably did that because I didn’t want to loose her. She doesn’t understand that. But she was the one said she need break up at first. Ok things passed, then one day she called me said she done with her life completely her parents fighting soo bad I could hear everything, it’s was loud af. I felt bad and we talked I tried to calm her down and made sure she doesn’t do anything stupid. And she FaceTime me that day after that called me like everything was normal like IT’s felt like we were she wanted to get back in relationship. But after that she never called me. I’m always there for her when she ever needed me, when I needed her she never answer or get mad at me for no reason. Asking me why you calling me for. She changes fast idk how this possible.again I called her from fake number annoy her. Finally, she said he doesn’t trust me anymore, I’m not the person she thought I was. She completely said she doesn’t need me, she is soo happy right now without me, and asked me why do I need to go back to old her. I finally, accepted she doesn’t need me and try to move on, and hit the gym with my boys, every day gym, gym helped me to forget her. I’m still say please any don’t see her as a bad person she is the most beautiful and best person I ever seen. It’s just the situation and it’s my fault to love her this much and got attached to her. Days passed and ours semester is over
She passed with a really good GPA that she never got when we were in relationship. That also made her realize she doesn’t neeed me anymore. I called her to wish Mother’s Day to her mom. And good conversation I said “I did understand to you can take your time and if you ever want to come back I will be waiting for you. “ she said if we ever start this relationship again we will be starting from zero.
Like a new relationship.
And she asked me if we can be friends till then.
After that I was really happy didn’t texted her back that give me hope a little bit. Then weeks passed no calls , no msg, yesterday she called me and she she is going to India for summer vacation. And she had a dog too. I asked her what you be doing with her. She said she will be home alone. Then I said I can talk care of her because I got an internship I will be driving by her house. So I can pick her dog up and I’ll take care of her for 3 months. Also I really don’t know what’s happening tbh God is there I talked to her parents, they all know me as her friend now. It’s was a once in a lifetime opportunity to her parents to get to know me. That’s only was I’m looking her dogs. And really cute dog, love her too. Her parents trusted me with her apartment keys. That made me really happy that amount of trust they had in me. Befo I was going to talk to her dad, she was like “hey try to impress him you are not like my other friend try to impress” I talked to her dad and mom it’s was really nice. So will meet them on end of July, 2023. Will update how everything goes. But now I have a hope for getting her back. She loves me too I know. But she still saying I’m a friend. Shit hurts. Going to pick up her dog this Friday 5/26/2023. She on the plan rn to India. Again just to clarify, !!!she is a good person it was just me, who was crazy for her.!!!
Thank you for you read this far
Will update how everything goes.
God bless you love! Take care of her and yourself.❤👼
Updates?
You are right on the mark! Thank you so much. Never got guidance like this even from parents or friends.
I want my ex who broke up with me that I loved dearly to come back.
Just so I can say no to the beotch. 😅
Happened here. Made me feel sad after though. If she didnt gain so much weight Id probably go back to her roflmfao. Felt like I loved her so much though.... weird.
@@Jonbo117 not how it's supposed to work. if she left you she's done skinny or not. have some respect for yourself
@@leogeo8149 Tryin tryin. Gets lonely out here bud... coincid3ntally im going on a job one small town over from her. Pretty sure I wont unblock her. Small job 4-5 days. Hell, maybe ill meet someone new. These small town girls are usually pretty nice.
@@leogeo8149 I hope youre doing better bro.
You are right about everything you said. I walked away and it was a little more than a year since she contacted me. She is not upset, but hurt that why i don't want to ever talk to her again. However admitted she was selfish to me for not being there for me and disrespectful to me. But she still loves me and wants to work things out. Yes you have to push some things along to come to an agreement to talk. Wat do you think about this. We will met up this Friday and see how we can workout everything.
I appreciate you as well my African brother
What you said in this video is great. I have been broken up with since August of last year. My ex reaches out with texts just saying “hello” or “hi” my birthday just passed and he wished me a happy birthday. I do respond to his texts. The last response I said to him “when you get free time let’s get together to have a drink and catch up” I didn’t get a response to that. He still still reaches out. I don’t understand. Should I stop responding? things don’t seem to be going anywhere.
Yes ignore him, his playing you sorry about that
I'll listen to a lot of counselors they really had nothing to say but you you're good I like listening to you you talk about things that hit the nail on the head keep doing your thing I like you brother
Thank you so much couch i need this word i really appreciate you po god bless you po✌️🙏🏽❤️
I honestly dont want him back. Why? So he can leave again and ill believe his lies? So he can leave me at the altar? So he can abandon our future kids? Faaaaak no. Pass
I second this, these exs show us who they really are by leaving first and second time. They should stay gone, period!
It will be worst when they leave, when kids are involved. My God! 😭
Excellent advice...will follow...he came back in 3 days but in that time I've listened to a LOT of videos and learned! 😅
My wife and I (10 year married) separated on January 1st. She left me. After four months of bread crumbs from her I went no contact. Five weeks after that she showed up on my door step angry I hadn't been talking to her. She says I ended the relationship. The reason went no contact was she friend zoned me. I told her I wasn't taking a downgrade.
There's a lot more to this but too much to write in the comment section.
If he didn't come just yet, I think he feels so bad.. 😞 I'm ready to do all that takes.
No contact for 6 months,then he called apologised and told me he's gonna get married soon wtf 😂,
Thats kinda fucked up man. What a doucher.
You are the best.. Moob love frm Kenya 🇰🇪
Ex reached out few times while in no contact since October(3mo) by sending just a youtube link alone and not txt anything else - no meet or anything significant- no call/email either- shld i respond to that? Then way later txt “how are you doing?” I may want him back but i dont know if i should even bother.
I want my ex back
Are you in no contact?
No
The best thing to do is work on yourself and become a better you. Hopefully by that time you find someone where you at when you get there!!!! Up your vibration!
Don't go back. Stay free.
I asked my ex for lunch. She said yes. Than said nvm, lets get lunch. Been some silence since but im being patient and calm for todays dinner. Wish me luck
How did it go?
I wasn't looking for the one text response. We talk & meet ,not so much texting (although we do this too) as we are mature persons.
When u have big heart they Will destroy u n then blame u for how u reach n act as victims. He wants break after all abuse well that break i Will find myself n remeber all Hurt he put me trough not to be better for him. Better to myself n love myself now n my cats ❤
My ex gf was really cool at first then she started disrespecting me. I called her out and she broke up with me. After one brief phone conversation, I just dropped out of her life. Weeks later, mutual friends started talking to me about my ex . They were dropping hints that my ex wanted to talk . I didn’t respond and they only stopped when I told them to. I distanced myself from them and just did my own thing. Months later , my ex gf called me. I was polite but I cut the conversation short. My ex gf then came to place of work and I had to speak to her. She felt she was entitled to a 2 nd chance . Lol. I asked why should I try with her again when I could just date other girls?
Thanks for the message bro 😊😊💪💪
Thanks for the content, I your content works. Well done bro
My ex broke up with me and the last time I talked to him about the problems in the relationship and I also asked him questions about the relationship as well but he didn’t respond to any of those messages. I’m just afraid he would contact me just to ask how I am or what I’m doing pretending like nothing happened. In case that happens what should I do? I don’t want to tell him what I’m doing or how I am. How can I make him answer those questions I asked without being pushy
@@danilaroche1156 yes. I let him go. And I’m not holding on to him I just wish him the best even tho he didn’t hear these words. And you might be right, I could have abandonment issue. Especially without explanation my mind can go crazy. I never noticed I was speaking and expressing enough already. He just chose to stay silence because he doesn’t know what’s the next move he could take, either he wanna deal with this later or just think letting it go is better for him. What’s your opinion?
Wasn’t the best boyfriend so I hope I can get this women back
He texted after long 2 years it was literally unexpected btw yet I am happy
Attention and validation is the currency to Women
My x walk out on me 2 months ago I go no contact ofter listen to you on now she is reaching out to me and want to come look for me
Great Advice 👍
Thank you 🙏
He left me in read last time after an argument when i tried to reach out after few hours . Been in no contact for few days now . I was thinking to leave him in read if he reach out , so im confused, should i reply if he reaches out or leave it in read after his first try. I want him back deep down , but i hate being left in read
My ex came back and she wants us to settle down as partners. Am seeing someone who I don’t love that much like my ex but I really like her. What should I do?
I’m tired of my ex crap. He came back but now I don’t want a relationship with him. We agreed to not get our emotions involved and just be friends but he wants things his way he wants a side and me but don’t want me having male friends what do I do? Should I just go back to no contact because it seems like roles are reversing bec I’m no longer giving him all of me like he think
Yes. Go no contact
Yay!!! No background music
If your ex truly is your ex why would she come back she got everything she wanted
Me and my Ex broke up she said she moved on , cool . Funny thing is it's a long distance relationship the guy seem like they don't have any chemistry as far as conversation . She call me every night from her car home on her way from work . We talk for at least an hour plus but she supposedly in a relationship me and my brother laugh and I keep a log of the convo time lol . The first person you call as soon you get out of work is your significant other not an Ex . 😭
Can you do a video on long distance situations coach?
10 years after the fact he’s still trying to contact me 🤮 idk what to do. It’s not all that often but the fact he still thinks about me and reaches out is disturbing after everything that happened. I want nothing to do with him. He’s begged me to block him even- no replies. I’m worried I’ll just tell him it’s working.. that he got my attention. I can’t get police involved because he hasn’t outright threatened me (though this is threatening to me-! I know him. I remember how much he wanted to see me hurt.) I’m not sure if I ever told him to leave me alone (though I’m sure I have at some point ages ago.)
From what I’ve gathered, I need proof that I’ve told him to leave me alone. Im not about to reply. It will just tell him that 20 messages over 10 years is what it takes.
Very helpful thank you.
He blew us up with catfished photos
Ran when caught..came back 7 months later
😂
Great video brother
This video helped me realized I would talk to x 1 and 2 not 3 but would only consider getting back with 1. So yeah I don't care either way Jesus sends me new babes anyways to sort out.
We got a baby together so N.C is kind of hard and I know financially she needs my help with our daughter so I send her money for our baby and I make sure she knows it’s for the baby. She been gone since Nov.4th smh I got a crazy story but I do want her bacc just confused on the mix signals I get from her smh
I'm in the same situation, did yall work it out?
You rock bro. You have definitely helped me... things worked out perfect..
thankyou..💖💖💖always watching your tiktok videos..
Hey loving your videos. Well my ex left me after an argument so the relationship is broken off. Now I went no contact for a while. I contacted her because her check came in my mail so I called her and ever since we been talking now I asked her if we could get back together she said let’s take baby steps like let’s start as friends and I told her ok but that I didn’t want to be her friend after being lovers for 4 in a half years ❤. Now I don’t know what to do because I don’t want to call or text her but then I do I’m confused about what to do next??? Should I be the first to call or text or just let her be the one to always call or text me?? Please I really need your help on this
I'm supposed to ask him out?! 5:15 totally disagree heck no I'm not feeding his ego or enabling emotional laziness .
That's the maddest thing Ive heard him say
My ex broke up with me for the second time six weeks ago. She mentioned that she is done and wants to draw a line under it all, moving on independently. Initially, she texted me expressing her desire to have no further involvement with me. However, a few days later, she indicated that she wouldn't sever ties completely but preferred limited contact for the time being. It has been three weeks since our last conversation, which has been challenging. We were together for five years! Is there a chance here, or should I move on?
Did yall get back together?
@@bobbyjr2161 a lot happened after this post. Still not together officially but we might aswell be if you get what I mean.
Move on
thank you so much ,my concern is,my ex reach out after 4 mos of NC,but reason is our kid is in my custody,,do i consider it as she is also reaching out for me?😊
Mine will never come....She gone forever
Same
@Riley Voldeng We got to keep our heads up they didn't make the cut for better or for worst...
@Riley Voldeng But I don't want my cheating ex-wife again... What to be made a fool again... I love her like an old 1 grade classmate I haven't seen in 30 years...
My ex do not call or text me. Months ago I would text and call him, but he wouldn’t respond or answer. I stopped reaching out. I want to work things out, but I see he’s holding on to anger and don’t want the connection.
cant force something that might not be there,,,go no contact and focus on you until he reaches out if he does
I already hung up when she finally called a few weeks ago. Now id feel dumb to call back and ask what she wanted. What to do? Wait for another call or probably blew it
Mine reached out just 2 days after no contact, bread crumbing lol then after 4 days and on the 6th day he wanted to get back together
That’s the way sir
My ex blocked me on all socials and after mouthd about a week ago she reached out to my mom telling her that she wants to do my moms nails knowing that its highly possible ill be home but my mom just left the message on read
He came back after 2 years . I told him i don’t know anyone with that name sorry bye 😂😂😂
I don’t know why i did that but it felt right
Now I’m asking will he come back after that 😂😂😂
When she leaves the relationship because you were neglectful will the no contact rule work and will she even come back???
Did she come back?
My ex texted me to ask about my life, working & studying things. He sent me several books in relation with my current problems. He encouraged me to apply for a new project (of his professor). Our conversation last long in 1 hour, and deep about life matters and thoughts in personal development. But only 1-2 week for one conversation (he will be the one who texts me). This is good sign? We stopped the relationship of bf gf 2 months ago but he will keep texting me. He did say sorry for breaking my trust. He also pointed out I was in anxiety attachment before. Now I really want to tell him that I want to know his feelings and I really want to have a future plan with him.... though I feel not the right timing yet...
Any advice? Should I be proactive and reach him weekly?
Man he’s never gonna reach out for me it gone it been a month and I was Planning to see him In person but nah why chase someone who doesn’t care a month never reach out for me it bugging
I wished a happy birthday to my ex hope you're doing well . She replied with thank you hope your doing good too. ..suggestions?...
Why you wishing her happy birthday kmt 😢 start NC again .
@@bbc20231 I did tell myself that and I'm okay with it tbh
Who broke up with whom?
@@kasiab4247 her with me
Why did she end it? Was it something that you did?