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  • Опубликовано: 5 сен 2024

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  • @JKNat9004
    @JKNat9004 Месяц назад +81

    John, "Have you done the math on how much this divorce is going to cost you?". 😂😆😂😆😂

  • @BrianW211
    @BrianW211 2 месяца назад +242

    Summary "We've been waiting 7 years for house prices to go down before we buy a home for ourselves, so we've been renting all of that time. In the meantime, we've purchased 4 rental properties and they're paid for."

    • @jeraldbottcher1588
      @jeraldbottcher1588 2 месяца назад +12

      Yep. The prices are not going to go down in this area. It would take an enormous economic downturn for that to happen, and in the Twin Cities area I do not see that happening any time soon.

    • @travisfeld97
      @travisfeld97 2 месяца назад

      @@jeraldbottcher1588bubble will pop

    • @PinkieJoJo
      @PinkieJoJo 2 месяца назад +6

      But he didn’t buy them alone. He only owns half with his sibling.

    • @BrianW211
      @BrianW211 Месяц назад +9

      @@PinkieJoJo Doesn't matter. He purchased investment real estate in a high-priced market but refuses to purchase a primary residence in that same market.

    • @Joce123
      @Joce123 Месяц назад

      ​@@jeraldbottcher1588Some places in the Twin Cities areas are dropping in price....1 modest house in Camden for $50,000.. I have property in Iowa.. Property in Iowa is decidedly cheaper especially Mason City.

  • @cheryldunaway9177
    @cheryldunaway9177 2 месяца назад +45

    Thank you for caring about the marriage as much as money. You rock.

  • @ryanl3812
    @ryanl3812 Месяц назад +9

    I can tell from the voice alone that this guy knows everything. Can't be helped. Keep it moving

  • @cookieforawookie
    @cookieforawookie 2 месяца назад +157

    "Not to brag" callers are the best. Just buy a house.
    What an annoying call.

    • @Trackpad12
      @Trackpad12 2 месяца назад

      Only if you are an envious prick

    • @dariuss.3500
      @dariuss.3500 2 месяца назад +1

      Lol

    • @Songbird36able
      @Songbird36able 2 месяца назад

      Very annoying!!!

    • @IzzyMakesMusic
      @IzzyMakesMusic 2 месяца назад +4

      I like hearing ppl who are doing well for themselves. Very inspiring.

    • @kbanghart
      @kbanghart 2 месяца назад

      ​@@IzzyMakesMusic Thanks to Biden

  • @azbuckeyegirl9523
    @azbuckeyegirl9523 2 месяца назад +17

    Lance is in denial.
    George and John did a good job.
    My husband and I have suffered from the "oh, we've sacrificed so much to get here" martyrdom. I love how John says, "no one cares." We just bought new couches (first time in 23 years.) I'm done with the martyrdom. I'm trying to talk my husband into going on the debt-free cruise!
    And... we've upped our giving -so fun!

  • @brendaamador8582
    @brendaamador8582 2 месяца назад +128

    My husband cares more about his investment portfolio than our house! We are multi- millionaires, live in a 1500 square foot house with 30 year old carpet, cracks in the ceilings and drywall and only one working bathroom that hasn't ever been renovated!!! I have BEGGED to get things renovated but he doesn't want to be inconvenienced by contractors coming and going! I'm almost to the point, after 45 years of marriage, of stepping away because I feel like my wants and needs are completely irrelevant to him. Dude, get that girl a house!!! Women feel differently about their house than men do!! To you it's just an investment, to her, it's her HOME!

    • @Havre_Chithra
      @Havre_Chithra 2 месяца назад +11

      Yea... because he bought it lol

    • @michelejohnson6459
      @michelejohnson6459 2 месяца назад +15

      Pay to renovate the house yourself!😂

    • @tanpham7411
      @tanpham7411 2 месяца назад +34

      Yall need marriage counseling ASAP. And tell your husband to grow a pair and fix the damn house. Ignore all of the ignorant commentors above trying to criticize you for wanting a safe house to live in.

    • @BREEZYM6015
      @BREEZYM6015 2 месяца назад +5

      If she's a multimillionaire as he is then she should divorce him, leave, and buy her own home. I have a feeling that her husband is the multimillionaire and she has no money to leave the marriage. Otherwise why would she keep living in such deplorable conditions?

    • @midkort
      @midkort 2 месяца назад +25

      ​@@BREEZYM6015
      THEY are multimillionaires.
      It's not whether she is a multimillionaire as he is. THEY are multimillionaires. That's how marriage works.

  • @laveniajohnson2283
    @laveniajohnson2283 2 месяца назад +125

    They weren't kidding divorce. Stop laughing.

  • @beck943
    @beck943 2 месяца назад +19

    If your spouse can't stop saying I instead of WE after 7 years of marriage, that's a huge red flag.
    His wife isn't considered his partner in any sense of the word.

  • @strangeroamer3219
    @strangeroamer3219 2 месяца назад +11

    Just like the old proverb. The shoemaker's son always goes barefoot.

  • @SingingBeeize
    @SingingBeeize 2 месяца назад +38

    Called in just to flex 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @sheenawalker1751
      @sheenawalker1751 2 месяца назад +3

      That’s what I was thinking

    • @gailrodgers3079
      @gailrodgers3079 Месяц назад

      He said he was going to have his wife listen to this show until they told him off. He thought they would be on his side, partly because they were men and the most important thing was he thought he was in the right and didn't need to own a home even though his wife wanted one.. Idiot. As to what was happening to the income from those properties, it sounds like he was using it to pay off the properties and saving to buy more properties.

  • @david2049
    @david2049 2 месяца назад +9

    Complaining about a 3k mortgage vs 2100 in rent seems a little silly, especially with their income

  • @johnbriggs1038
    @johnbriggs1038 2 месяца назад +127

    Lance is the person who loves Lance more than anyone else in the wold. He is more interested in making himself happy than his wife. When they tell him he needs to buy the house for his wife, he just laughs. He is not going to follow the advice, and he wasn't joking when he said he is not going to let his wife listen to the episode. He only called in because he thought they would agree with him.

    • @subjecttochrist
      @subjecttochrist 2 месяца назад +5

      Is this Lance’s wife?

    • @chanson8508
      @chanson8508 Месяц назад +2

      Faxxx my guy 🙌🏾 Lots of foolish incel types commenting on this vid, but guys like you & these Ramsey personalities give me hope that not all is lost for the dudes. He's acting in sole prop mode, instead of partnership mode with his wife 😢

  • @misspimake
    @misspimake 2 месяца назад +12

    “Get your wife a house!” 🤣

  • @whispanic
    @whispanic 2 месяца назад +90

    Tell me that you're midwestern cheap without telling me that you're midwestern cheap.

    • @jonathanmarshall9763
      @jonathanmarshall9763 2 месяца назад +3

      Family taking you to McDonald's as a welcome home party.....true story.

    • @jimroscovius
      @jimroscovius 2 месяца назад +1

      I'm Midwestern and I'm not cheap.

    • @TheSoulCrisis
      @TheSoulCrisis 2 месяца назад

      @@jonathanmarshall9763 Damn.....welcome home lol.

  • @TheRealMrHighOffMusic
    @TheRealMrHighOffMusic Месяц назад +3

    What’s really funny is lance is just laughing away then George and John are serious!

  • @Tripp216
    @Tripp216 2 месяца назад +84

    “Get her a home is exactly right” because that’s gonna be hers in a few years either way

  • @calinator51
    @calinator51 2 месяца назад +26

    Waiting 2 years to buy with cash really doesn't save any money because over those 2 years renting at $2,100 a month they are burning $50,000. Just buy it now and lessen the blow on interest by paying it off early. Agree with the hosts.

    • @Shortballa11
      @Shortballa11 2 месяца назад +3

      @@calinator51 i think it has more to do with his comfort level of not being in debt to anyone. Dave himself said he would never borrow for anything and that the ideal is to pay cash for everything. Bt he knows most ppl can’t be that patient

    • @jeraldbottcher1588
      @jeraldbottcher1588 2 месяца назад +2

      @@Shortballa11 But Dave himself says the one thing to go into debt for is a house (that you can afford and pay it off in 15 years, not 30)

    • @Shortballa11
      @Shortballa11 2 месяца назад

      @@jeraldbottcher1588 yea he says it’s okay bt Daves ideal is to pay cash and says he would never borrow money

  • @SummaGirl1347
    @SummaGirl1347 2 месяца назад +109

    This is a prime example of "men define themselves by their job/wealth, not their relationships".

    • @katemiller7874
      @katemiller7874 2 месяца назад +10

      It’s always been like that. Now women are doing it too. Sad

    • @pneron2032
      @pneron2032 2 месяца назад +2

      Well, we have a job to do. We are the ying in the ying and Yang. Extremes are the problem

    • @pjabrony8280
      @pjabrony8280 2 месяца назад +1

      @@pneron2032 I thought men were the yang.

    • @deelehey2827
      @deelehey2827 2 месяца назад +1

      Some men prefer Money over family

    • @TheSoulCrisis
      @TheSoulCrisis 2 месяца назад

      @@pneron2032 I think you meant yin and yang lol.

  • @jimroscovius
    @jimroscovius 2 месяца назад +8

    Why does this guy keep laughing?? They need to buy a house NOW!!

  • @jenkinsmatthew
    @jenkinsmatthew 2 месяца назад +32

    Dave Ramsey would have hit the button a while ago. He wouldn’t have tolerated that caller.

    • @justinecorrington4106
      @justinecorrington4106 Месяц назад +1

      Its a different type of call, so its interesting to listen too. Different advice given

    • @jenkinsmatthew
      @jenkinsmatthew Месяц назад

      @@justinecorrington4106 How so?

    • @justinecorrington4106
      @justinecorrington4106 Месяц назад +1

      @@jenkinsmatthew normally the calls are, ‘I am in debt, should I still finance because the interest rate’, ‘what should I pay off first’ or a family member wants money, how do I say no?
      This caller has no debt. And just wants to keep building up real estate rental properties but his wife wants a house. But turns into more relationship problem than finacial problem.

  • @kdel45
    @kdel45 2 месяца назад +19

    She already makes her own good income. She could just be biding her time right now, waiting for the right time to leave. If he doesn't take their advice, he's going to find himself divorced, and he'll think it "came out of nowhere".

  • @cafecitoconjesus8750
    @cafecitoconjesus8750 Месяц назад +4

    Just hang up the call, omg am sweating listening to this caller. Get me a violin so I can play it for him.

  • @righand
    @righand 2 месяца назад +15

    People like this are so annoying. Cringed hard when he would laugh about his situation.

  • @nualanicghearailt8011
    @nualanicghearailt8011 2 месяца назад +6

    This was a brilliant episode. Great advice from John and George. Love the good humour of the caller as well.

  • @cyoohoos
    @cyoohoos 2 месяца назад +19

    This sounds like my EX husband. He loves money WAY more than he could ever love me

    • @LivingOnCash
      @LivingOnCash 2 месяца назад +5

      Maybe it's you. 🤣

    • @cyoohoos
      @cyoohoos 2 месяца назад +1

      @@LivingOnCash I said EX. And yes divorces are EXPENSIVE

    • @books4739
      @books4739 16 дней назад

      @@cyoohoos for him presumably

  • @Barneyjo
    @Barneyjo 2 месяца назад +10

    Sounds like he is partners with his sister not his wife.

  • @lauvasquez7198
    @lauvasquez7198 2 месяца назад +24

    So he buys houses with his sister but wont buy one with his wife?
    We just bought a house in the twin cities area for $238k. He can find a GREAT House for $350k and if he puts $200k down?!
    Lance be the one lance that isnt a DBag.

    • @jeraldbottcher1588
      @jeraldbottcher1588 2 месяца назад +2

      Yep I live in Saint Paul in a fairly nice neighborhood. My house is worth around $280k (We bought it in '99 for $90K and $10k in improvements (Electrical, plumbing) and have since spent 10k on a roof and 20k on new siding) You just have to look around to find the right house. I am sure they do not need a McMansion.

    • @strangeroamer3219
      @strangeroamer3219 2 месяца назад +2

      Just like the old proverb. The shoemaker's son always goes barefoot.

    • @adamseidel9780
      @adamseidel9780 Месяц назад +1

      They could afford a nice $4-500,000 house anyway. Quite comfortably.

    • @ricksanchezsflask8794
      @ricksanchezsflask8794 Месяц назад

      They don't need it, but wifey wants it. ​@jeraldbottcher1588

  • @BeyondTigerMilk
    @BeyondTigerMilk 2 месяца назад +110

    They make all that money, have all that cash in the bank and she's stopping at 6% on her 401k? Weird caller.

    • @TonyCox1351
      @TonyCox1351 2 месяца назад +24

      Beyond weird…he’s been wanting to buy a house for 7 years yet he’s bought 4 investment properties in that time

    • @danieljohnson4418
      @danieljohnson4418 2 месяца назад +11

      Not weird at all. Employer match is 6%. You don't attain a better view in Heaven by dying with more money.

    • @stitchy_linn
      @stitchy_linn 2 месяца назад +2

      I fail to see how the caller is weird for his wife's choices. His thinking is weird yet his wife has nothing to do with that.

    • @Nardaa-ox3be
      @Nardaa-ox3be 2 месяца назад +10

      @@danieljohnson4418 Say it louder for the cash addicted cheapskates in the back. I get financial responsibility, but you’re not gonna take it with you. Use some of it to make someone’s life better while you’re alive. You never know if you’ll be dropping dead young.

    • @beaniemac
      @beaniemac 2 месяца назад +2

      I noticed this as well regarding her 401k contribution. That's crazy

  • @garyvelasquez187
    @garyvelasquez187 Месяц назад +3

    Even though it wasn't mentioned SELL THE CAR! LOL!

  • @perotal
    @perotal 2 месяца назад +42

    "You know how expensive divorce is" giggles while telling every caller to go get married "next Saturday"

    • @djpuplex
      @djpuplex 2 месяца назад +13

      Never take Ramsey relationship advice.

    • @FirstLast-fc7dt
      @FirstLast-fc7dt 2 месяца назад +3

      Yeah this is where i stop taking their advice😂 i just focus on the financial side

    • @djpuplex
      @djpuplex 2 месяца назад

      @@FirstLast-fc7dt Even with that but Dave's magical mutual funds and takeout 9% a year in retirement.

    • @truebengalsfan
      @truebengalsfan 2 месяца назад

      They cant support the argument to get married outside of religion

    • @LegDayLas
      @LegDayLas Месяц назад

      @@djpuplex he has gone on record saying 8% is the safe withdrawal.
      8% is just as asinine as 9%, but it's important to call him out on the actual BS he says and not exaggerate it.

  • @Gus_Chiggins
    @Gus_Chiggins 2 месяца назад +3

    Lance is Lance's biggest fan

  • @SherryEllesson
    @SherryEllesson 2 месяца назад +37

    This guy is so much into more, more, more that he's stopped paying attention to the woman who's been putting up with his self-centeredness all these years.

  • @XennialGuy
    @XennialGuy 2 месяца назад +11

    $500K across four rental properties, with four headaches, and all it brings in is $1500 total a month? He could make that with $300K in a HYSA in the bank with no headaches.

    • @karmasutra4774
      @karmasutra4774 2 месяца назад +3

      Yep. I have about 350k that is earning me about 20k a year spread across some high yield banks for now

    • @jeraldbottcher1588
      @jeraldbottcher1588 2 месяца назад

      That is probably the net profit after all the taxes and other expenses. I also think he was just pulling that figure out of thin air. He probably makes more net than that.

    • @dr_pinna543
      @dr_pinna543 2 месяца назад +1

      Don't forget half is his sibling's and their spouse.

    • @XennialGuy
      @XennialGuy 2 месяца назад

      @@dr_pinna543 which is why I used 300K in a hysa and not 500K.

    • @beck943
      @beck943 2 месяца назад

      ​@@dr_pinna543His sister, and her husband.

  • @mhodge0890
    @mhodge0890 2 месяца назад +40

    I hate stupid calls like this

    • @fartcannon
      @fartcannon Месяц назад

      You don't like rom coms? Lighten up.

    • @ryanl3812
      @ryanl3812 Месяц назад

      The screeners are slipping

  • @countessstevens63
    @countessstevens63 2 месяца назад +8

    He sounds greedy & cheap. Bless his wife & marriage lord

  • @helenhilton2158
    @helenhilton2158 2 месяца назад +6

    Why does this guy keep arguing about buying his wife a house?

  • @JoeRNNE1
    @JoeRNNE1 Месяц назад +3

    Something about the way this guy talks (emphatically and with lots of laughter) makes me wonder if he's being totally honest about his financial situation, e.g., he conveniently forgot to mention that he actually has a substantial debt of some sort he's paying on every month. Regardless, I feel bad for his wife.

  • @raeannaruby8306
    @raeannaruby8306 2 месяца назад +8

    Minnesota taxes are ridiculously high

  • @alexg3348
    @alexg3348 2 месяца назад +14

    this "husband" does not sound like a catch

  • @CarnivoreStork
    @CarnivoreStork 2 месяца назад +60

    “ I “, “ I “, “ I “. Obnoxious.

  • @helenhilton2158
    @helenhilton2158 2 месяца назад +10

    You could tell by his laughter that he knew they were right.

  • @alanlippincott2802
    @alanlippincott2802 Месяц назад +1

    4:34 @johndelony depends on his investments. Were at 220k gross 120k net. Taxes, benefits, healthcare, and 20% retirement sucks it up. And we don't even have state income tax here.

  • @Philip.tmz2
    @Philip.tmz2 2 месяца назад +41

    I love your videos, but the best investment you can do right now is to invest in Forex trading, I'm saying this because since I started trading I've seen a difference.

    • @Richhart852
      @Richhart852 2 месяца назад

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    • @yeisonarrmandoduartesuarez3309
      @yeisonarrmandoduartesuarez3309 2 месяца назад

      Finding yourself a good broker is the same as finding a good wife, where you get less stress you get just enough with so much little effort at things

    • @Andreaklean
      @Andreaklean 2 месяца назад

      I work from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. and I don't have time. Please can you help me with forex trading

    • @yeisonarrmandoduartesuarez3309
      @yeisonarrmandoduartesuarez3309 2 месяца назад

      Currently, an account portfolio manager manages my forex investments, while I invest in real estate with the profits.

    • @Andreaklean
      @Andreaklean 2 месяца назад

      How good is your account manager and how can I contact him?

  • @jtg2525
    @jtg2525 Месяц назад +2

    Dang as a Californian I’m shocked how little net worth you need to own 4 investment properties in Minnesota. Plus they make 200k a year something isn’t adding up

    • @mplslawnguy3389
      @mplslawnguy3389 Месяц назад

      He owns them in other states,

    • @jameshetu6885
      @jameshetu6885 27 дней назад

      The rentals are in Iowa and one in Arizona. That’s why they aren’t worth as much. I see his point with the Duplex in Minnesota, that would be a great starting spot for home ownership … but he should have done that before the other properties. He’s years too late on that idea. At this point his wife has put in her dues and he owes her a house. And not the cheapest one he can find. She’s earned “dream house” level at this point after all those years and sacrifice. You heard his truck year and model too… I’ll bet his wife’s car is worse. He’s thinking like a divorced man, trying to regain his footing and get ahead, not like the married man he now is.

  • @lindawilson4625
    @lindawilson4625 2 месяца назад +25

    LOL! Someone needed to say something "controversial". Thanks guys! You may have saved his marriage :-) Buy a home (NOT a duplex) and make your wife happy.

  • @DannyGmusicc
    @DannyGmusicc Месяц назад +1

    Being frugal and chasing more and more is a disease one day he’ll look back and realise you can’t take it with you

  • @amyethridge1798
    @amyethridge1798 2 месяца назад +1

    Well done, gentlemen 😊

  • @iamkesha.
    @iamkesha. 2 месяца назад +5

    Condos for $90,000 and $130,000? In Iowa and Arizona? Damn, I need to do some research to buy some investment properties.

    • @BrandonVanZandt-nh4vi
      @BrandonVanZandt-nh4vi 2 месяца назад

      Lots of cheap real estate in Iowa

    • @nickm4662
      @nickm4662 2 месяца назад +1

      Yuma, AZ is not the most desirable place.

    • @mplslawnguy3389
      @mplslawnguy3389 Месяц назад

      @@nickm4662 Yeah, it's a shithole close to the border.

  • @mikeshaw4610
    @mikeshaw4610 2 месяца назад +15

    Listen to them. Forget the rental for now and make your wife happy.

  • @DudeDude491
    @DudeDude491 2 месяца назад +32

    John is gonna ask if the Property is Safe

  • @JustinCase780
    @JustinCase780 2 месяца назад +21

    John keeps repeating "buy her a house"
    Are they both not buying the house? 😅

    • @lexir7504
      @lexir7504 2 месяца назад +6

      yeah seriously at some point the wife is going to say hey wait i make half of this 200k i get a say lmao

    • @FlutterSwag
      @FlutterSwag 2 месяца назад +3

      The fruedian slip

    • @aisherwasher6959
      @aisherwasher6959 2 месяца назад +7

      It sounds like he's referring to the husband's plans being what's holding them back from getting a house now. I doubt he literally means the husband needs to pay for it all

    • @luminous6969
      @luminous6969 2 месяца назад +5

      His simp is showing 😅

    • @flashthecorgi2053
      @flashthecorgi2053 2 месяца назад +6

      @@luminous6969 John’s the one that’s been married 22 years, this guys on his second marriage according to 7:10 so… who should we listen to here?

  • @jeraldbottcher1588
    @jeraldbottcher1588 2 месяца назад +4

    I live in the Minneapolis / Saint Paul Area. There are nice houses that can be had for a reasonable price. I would move to buy a house sooner than later around here. The prices are not going to go down. It really depends on how long of a commute he wants to make.
    The wife does not want to live in a duplex, She wants a nice stand alone home. If you go 20 miles outside of the cities 400k will by a very nice house. Now if you MUST live in the ritzy areas then you can spend a lot more and get a lot less. They do not need to live on millionaires row.

    • @mplslawnguy3389
      @mplslawnguy3389 Месяц назад

      The closer in you want to live = higher prices, higher crime, and more liberals. Got away from that sinking ship 10 years ago and never looked back.

    • @jeraldbottcher1588
      @jeraldbottcher1588 Месяц назад

      @@mplslawnguy3389 However, the drawback to living farther out is a longer commute (And I consider my commute time to be work time that I do not get paid for) Then you have to pay more for gas, and then parking. There are some sweet spot in our area, but it see, like even some areas are getting more expensive even here

  • @neutralcommenter7800
    @neutralcommenter7800 2 месяца назад +1

    "I have turned our marriage into an ROI." Lol.

  • @robloxvids2233
    @robloxvids2233 2 месяца назад +26

    They didn't even get on him about going in half with their in laws... this guy is absurd. He's playing with fire.

    • @kellibuzzard9431
      @kellibuzzard9431 2 месяца назад +8

      He said "I have half with my sister and her husband." He doesn't speak in terms of us and we.

    • @jeraldbottcher1588
      @jeraldbottcher1588 2 месяца назад +2

      @@kellibuzzard9431 I noticed that. I feel he is not working as a team with his wife. A marriage is a team activity. If you don't have a team you will lose in the end. If he continues down this path it could very well end in a divorce.

  • @robinkrieger8003
    @robinkrieger8003 2 месяца назад +1

    My property in Florida has doubled in value in 4.3 years…..so…..even my Kansas homes have gone up a lot …it’s passive investing

  • @strawberryme08
    @strawberryme08 2 месяца назад +2

    He puts everything before his wife. Sad

  • @kylequintana
    @kylequintana Месяц назад +1

    It’s cheaper to keep her

  • @novamald99
    @novamald99 Месяц назад +1

    Buy the house, or look forward to loosing all the rental properties in divorce.

  • @markoman5267
    @markoman5267 2 месяца назад +4

    This guy just wants to be real estate magnate.

  • @mikemcconeghy4658
    @mikemcconeghy4658 Месяц назад +1

    Yeah, that's nuts. Making money from rentals while paying rent. I don't get it.

  • @Songbird36able
    @Songbird36able 2 месяца назад +3

    😮 Mr. Bragadocious!! He called in to brag and yell his business. 😶🥴

    • @dr_pinna543
      @dr_pinna543 2 месяца назад

      He may be bragging about financial success, but priority management and relationship IQ is mid. He's lucky is wife is patient. It's called compromise dude.

  • @Tyler-ug4tq
    @Tyler-ug4tq Месяц назад +1

    Can we get the every dollar app in canada please?

  • @shannongarrety6105
    @shannongarrety6105 2 месяца назад +1

    I’d love to see the wife’s reaction to this episode

  • @WannaBeHocker
    @WannaBeHocker 2 месяца назад +7

    This is where being an idealist comes back to bite you.....be a pragmatist

  • @philipgerry5228
    @philipgerry5228 Месяц назад

    You can always buy a house: UNTIL YOU CANT.

  • @brooklynzoo81
    @brooklynzoo81 2 месяца назад +1

    What problems to have 😅🤦‍♂️

  • @gailrodgers3079
    @gailrodgers3079 Месяц назад +1

    Good grief, even my jerk of an ex-husband got constructions started on a brand new 3 bed., ranch home that was around $40K way back whem. Granted, I had no say in the floor plan, but I did get to choose the carpets, vinyl, light fixtures and as all that stuff bored him he tried to hurry me along. But the point is, this guy was a stinker as a husband and he bought me a house. There is no reason you can't buy your wife a house. You are being as selfish as you want what you want, not willing to want what she wants.

  • @Acgijhffx
    @Acgijhffx 2 месяца назад +7

    Dr. John is blowing the "dont put her in a position where she's inclined to divorce you" bullhorn in this video, and the redpillers in the comments are still calling him "simp" (as if you can be such a thing to your own wife 🙄). Im starting to think they actually love divorce and love moaning about it

  • @misoudeweese7209
    @misoudeweese7209 2 месяца назад +13

    Huh? They have $200k in savings and you are telling him to empty the account toward down-payment?
    They should hold back 4-6 months emergency savings. Based on their income, that's about $50k (especially since his income fluctuates).
    So, only $150k should go toward down-payment.

    • @katemiller7874
      @katemiller7874 2 месяца назад +1

      Whatever. Get her a house.

    • @dr_pinna543
      @dr_pinna543 2 месяца назад

      But they make $200k+

    • @JML542
      @JML542 Месяц назад

      He hadn't added in his monthly rental income into there either... so there's that, too.

  • @bmbott123
    @bmbott123 2 месяца назад +1

    Guy saving for future. Future not guaranteed.

  • @magnumend88
    @magnumend88 2 месяца назад +3

    I made it to the 4 minute mark. Can't finish this one.

    • @dannyh9010
      @dannyh9010 2 месяца назад

      After this guy talking non-stop for 2 minutes solid, I couldn’t finish either.

  • @Caliabra
    @Caliabra 2 месяца назад +2

    Uggh he keeps moving the goal post

  • @vjanec_
    @vjanec_ 2 месяца назад +5

    He keeps saying “probably” before every number.. he is lying about something here

  • @Paul-ou1rx
    @Paul-ou1rx 2 месяца назад +16

    The guy who invests in real estate can't see the two birds with one stone here? He could be investing in his own property (not renting) and making his wife happy.
    He could still buy a duplex and rent out both units.

    • @jmanrock11
      @jmanrock11 2 месяца назад +3

      He wants the income not the equity it seems like. Also the wife doesn’t want a duplex so that’s out.

  • @JoeyNYSDnomad
    @JoeyNYSDnomad 2 месяца назад +2

    This guy likes to hear himself talk.

  • @janelleg597
    @janelleg597 2 месяца назад +27

    This guy is ridiculous

  • @CloakedC
    @CloakedC 2 месяца назад +9

    That was a good one George 😂

  • @user-qj7yn3rt6d
    @user-qj7yn3rt6d 2 месяца назад +1

    Who in the heck would buy a condo in Yuma , AZ. You might as well buy a house in Needles, CA. ........sorry if you live there but you know what I mean. "BUY HER A HOUSE"

  • @keithredsox36
    @keithredsox36 Месяц назад +1

    I don’t think a lot of people understand how much you have to put down to not be house poor. For example if you lived in Connecticut and made 100k gross it would be around $6,000 a month. Meaning a mortgage of $1500 on a 15 yr fixed.
    You would have to legit put down $110,000 or 55% down for a $200,000 house.. which is hard to find.
    That would take at least 3 years maybe 4 but then the house will be $250,000.
    For a $300,000house
    You would have to put $187,009 down.. and if you could save $3200 a month it would take you 6 years roughly..
    Also all of that is after you get out of debt , emergency funds, sinking funds .
    So you’re talking about a possible 8-10 journey towards home ownership.
    What are your thoughts?

  • @michaeldaugherty1933
    @michaeldaugherty1933 2 месяца назад +2

    Seems like sound advice to me! this guy does not include others in his thoughts, unfortunately!

  • @aaronmurphy8796
    @aaronmurphy8796 Месяц назад +1

    Sounds like unfortunately he didn’t make sure he and his chosen partner wanted simailr things before getting married . Hard to work around a partner who doesn’t want the same stuff .

  • @PinkHydrangea
    @PinkHydrangea Месяц назад +1

    His wife would be over the moon if they got a house. I hope he makes smart choices because her only smart choice might be to divorce him if he’s not careful.

  • @scottgoodson5132
    @scottgoodson5132 23 дня назад

    3 years ago, homes were considerably cheaper and interest rates were

  • @Coolkem1
    @Coolkem1 Месяц назад

    I can’t imagine renting while my husband buys investment properties to rent to other people. He’s ridiculous!

  • @thehungrywolf69
    @thehungrywolf69 Месяц назад +1

    I feel bad for the wife 🤦‍♂️

  • @welon17
    @welon17 Месяц назад

    You can afford a home, get it. What's the point of getting money if you ain't gonna enjoy it?

  • @lyndabelknap8367
    @lyndabelknap8367 2 месяца назад +3

    Greedy sickening people. Me me me.

  • @bradleymaravalli2851
    @bradleymaravalli2851 2 месяца назад +1

    Lance, I love the hustle but you all need to budget for your life. 25% of your household income should go towards a home. That shouldn't be unreasonable.

  • @drn13355
    @drn13355 Месяц назад +1

    It is all HER fault. Dude sounds ridiculous

  • @lombardo141
    @lombardo141 2 месяца назад +2

    This man is so set in life but needs to have chaos so his life means something. So sad…

  • @Watkins_Raymond
    @Watkins_Raymond 2 месяца назад +16

    From $37K to $45K that's the minimum range of profit return every week I thinks it's not a bad one for me, now I have enough to pay bills and take care of my family.

    • @DillanMcClorey5
      @DillanMcClorey5 2 месяца назад

      Could you please explain how beginners like me can start making this much 😢

    • @Pamspencer-nc2zk
      @Pamspencer-nc2zk 2 месяца назад

      Last week, I tried trading on my own and ended up losing $3K

    • @Watkins_Raymond
      @Watkins_Raymond 2 месяца назад

      I have Alex Robert to thank

    • @Watkins_Raymond
      @Watkins_Raymond 2 месяца назад

      He is a licensed broker and a FINRA AGENT here in the States.

    • @PriscillaPrevette
      @PriscillaPrevette 2 месяца назад

      Yes!!! That's exactly his name (Alex Robert) so many people have recommended highly about him and am I just starting with him from Brisbane Australia 🇦🇺

  • @bskinny9009
    @bskinny9009 2 месяца назад +6

    This guy is so painful to listen to.

  • @l3hxy
    @l3hxy 2 месяца назад +1

    Gonna show my kids this video when they ask me about the effects of fluoride on the brain.

  • @jasonbrasington7880
    @jasonbrasington7880 2 месяца назад

    That "do you love me more than..." line works both ways. Do you love me more than living in a half million dollar house? The issue is whether the caller has a vision or an OCD. If the caller has a vision then if he builds the business first then eventually he would be able to buy a $500k house every 5 years or less.

    • @JML542
      @JML542 Месяц назад

      Then, he should have remained single. Once married, you need to take your wife's needs and wishes into account, too, or it's not much of a marriage.
      You can't set a marital relationship aside while you build a business or you don't have a relationship by the time you decide that maybe it's important to you. She'll have gotten the message that she's second fiddle long before that!

  • @imveryhungry112
    @imveryhungry112 Месяц назад +1

    HUMBLE BRAG.

  • @MorKing86
    @MorKing86 Месяц назад +1

    Wow. How is this guy married?

  • @robingow7276
    @robingow7276 2 месяца назад +4

    Duplex is a nightmare, I would never live in a duplex

    • @gamenightwithjamiibo
      @gamenightwithjamiibo Месяц назад

      I’ve lived in one before. Luckily I had amazing neighbors but it could go very poorly.

  • @longisland_stacker631
    @longisland_stacker631 2 месяца назад +3

    ill be honest this episode was hysterical, cant wait to show my wife lol

    • @girlygirl1890
      @girlygirl1890 Месяц назад

      @longisland why can't you wait to show your wife? (just curious)

    • @longisland_stacker631
      @longisland_stacker631 Месяц назад

      @@girlygirl1890 i got married last year; wife wanted a house right away… i wanted to save more… she won that battle lol

  • @alexpietsch7997
    @alexpietsch7997 2 месяца назад

    As an Iowan....this is why our housing market sucks