Iam really curious to hear the story of your relationships from the perspective of a lover of yours and it would be a nice and interesting video to listen to a beautiful human on your side if everyone is feeling comfortable with it :)
I love how intently you two pay attention to eachother when u speak u truly listen to each other's opinions and feelings and that's very important and meaningful in any kind of relationship
I am in a monogamous marriage but have followed you for quite some time. There are always parts of your videos that completely apply to the relationships in my life, both sexual relationships and otherwise. I started following because I wanted to learn more about other lifestyles and I really appreciate you sharing. I just wanted to take a moment to honor your openness and willing to create this safe space of education. You've truly helped me improve my communication skills.
I find that the most difficult thing for me is when someone feels the need to completely end the interaction when someone else shows up. If the interaction between us flows with the change, and we continue as friends to the degree in which change is dictating, then I feel so much better. And I so appreciate the new person when she is able to honor my presence in his life. @@Strawberrywrack
real question: would you ever consider giving up the open aspect of the relationship. not out of fear or control, but out of genuinely wanting to just be with each other?
It takes very special people to have relationships outside their own. You both are perfect for eachother and each of your lovers. I'm sure many couples fail while attempting your lifestyle, but you both have it together. I absolutely adore how Brittany looks at Conor with so much love and trust. You're so amazing. Thank you for sharing yourselves with the rest of us. ❤💕❤💕❤
You were so holding back on us guys! Of course your privacy is to be protected as and when you require it. I'm so used to the idea that you are both completely open and honest with us. This video doesn't look like a couple who are moving another lover in just 3/4mths in the future. I hope it wasn't an impulse decision, it will be interesting to see how the dynamic shifts and what comes up for the three of you. I hope you'll feel comfortable enough to want to give us a sense of how it's all going. Best of luck beautiful people. 🌿🌺♥
You guys helped me so much figure out what it is that I want as a newly poly person... I appreciate you guys so much! ❤️ 💙 🙏💕 But I must say you sat the bar pretty high for me as far as finding a true connection and also with someone so open and free. I love you both! ❤️
how does it come that you (connor and brittany) are always the "main" couple? I mean is there never a chance that a lover of one of yours can be as "important" as connor or brittany? so that for example that it happens that brittany spends her time 80% with the lover than with connor... so how do you manage that it's always you two who spend most of their time together? or why does this not happen to you, that a lover of yours somehow "replaces" the position of connor for example. I would be afraid that my partner, when we practice a non-monogamous relationship, finds someone who they like to spend way more time with than with me. so i would be afraid of losing them. hope you understand what i mean... english is not my mother language. much love and thank you very much for your awesome badass videos x
We manage it all as it comes up with constant communication and support. If you're interested in seeing what those conversations look like, we share more vulnerable content at conorandbrittany.com/members. And we have a video addressing the fear of losing a partner here if you'd like to watch: ruclips.net/video/1tyZ4AiwrtY/видео.html Thanks for your curıosity!
I really appreciate your openness on sexual/intimate topics. I resently discovered a new channel on RUclips from a couple (she’s pregnant), with their toddler. They are living in a van together and travel around. Some people where curious about how they get intimate, with that little space and a two year old around. And they got shitstormed, people called them pervs and she said, that every adult should have enough imagination... I was a little bit shocked, because I was curious myself (even if I didn’t asked them about it) and clearly not because I want to imagine them having sex ☺️.
It is curious how some questions seem to be from people who are not aware of what polyamory is: if there is no honesty, total informed consent with everyone involved, it is not polyamory...Secrecy is not polyamory, it is cheating. So it is odd people asking if your other lovers know you are non-monogamous...I assume you are totally open and honest when you meet someone new and they are ok with you being non-monogamous. Thank you for answering so openly and compassionately anyway. All the very best! Love and Gratitude your way
I love this question! I think dynamics can be so impacted by adding another human to a core group. Life is about to shift in the most beautiful way and I’m curious how that will impact choices overall.
You two exude so much love and connectedness (to each other and the rest of this space), it really is a joy to watch. The way you honor and validate the ability to choose one's own path in such a genuine way, absent of ego, feels so rare sometimes! Especially as someone who chooses to participate in a relationship that is structured differently from yours (much more 'traditional,' in many regards), I'm always so surprised to find that you two make me feel more alike than different :) Thanks for your message of Love. You guys are the good stuff!
I'm interested to see how your views of caretaking change on your journey with child. I'm excited to watch you go through the changes. I know that the image I had in my mind of what being a mother was going to be was so different from the reality. Not worse or better, just different. And it continues to change. Each year, it changes as they get older, with the introduction of subsequent children, it was turned on its head. Then when my son with special needs joined our journey, a metamorphosis. Everything is going to be so different. You're going to be so surprised. You're going to love it😍
Do you have any videos discussing how you avoid STD's in your outside relationships? Do you have any "rules" in what you are to follow with other partners and have you had admit to breaking one of those? (I'm assuming you trust the other in keeping safe.) Sorry if this wasn't asked respectfully.
It’s true how potent the time with lovers is. I have no primary atm but five lovers and phew I only see one or two a week but it’s so intense and concentrated. With a nesting partner you carry on with your own life while together.
Wonderful conversation! I have a question for you both. 🙂 How if at all, have you been able to overcome or let go of your preconceived idea's of guilt and shame, when connecting in a non conventional way with others? My partner and I are non monogamous, and some feelings that come up for me are shame like. Whilst I know that our relationships honour us, are healthy and beautiful, it's hard to shake those patterns of emotion. We are told and modeled what is "right, loving and healthy"..almost with the exclusion of anything else all our life..and these stereotypes can weigh at me sometimes. 💚💚💚
Ah such a good question! It's an ongoing process of self care that never ends and there are so many avenues to find healing around these feelings but one thing that we can specifically recommend is Conor's Thirty Days program to dive really deep into self love and self discovery. conorandbrittany.com/thirty-days-program-by-conor-mcmillen/
I am more traditional when it comes to relationship. I enjoy how you two communicate and want to incorporate it into my relationship. I like how you hold space for one another. I also like watching and learning about people who live differently than me. It has been my experience the more you learn with an open mind the more accepting and loving you are.
I'm curious to know how you all went from being in monogamous relationships to now polyamory. Like how did you all go about asking each other if that is something that would work for you all? Who brought it up? Who initiated this idea of polyamory?
We have been open from the start of our relationship together. But we do have a video on the topic of opening up an existing monogamous relationship if you're interested in watching that: ruclips.net/video/PL_AUXjPlWk/видео.html
Thanks so much for asking about this. We want to do a dedicated video on this topic and plan to do one soon! We have had a partner of ours on this channel in the past and we feel that we all learned a lot from the experience, which we are interested in sharing our thoughts about!
This type of partnership is not something for me, but I totally relate to the feelings of being constricted in monogamous relationships. I'm not sure what would work for me. I'll probably just be single forever lol. It's cool that you guys found something that works. I can really tell how that you two have a lot of love for each other. I wish you two the best and congrats on your baby
AMAZING video!! My partner and I are working on figuring out what feels good for us in terms of sharing about experiences with others. It was interesting to hear your takes on that. Wishing you all the best with the new little one!
I LOVE the way you guys look at each other. I can feel the love through the screen. do you guys have any tips for monogamous couples to better connect to each other? the love you guys share is amazing!
Thanks for asking, Leslie! A lot of the concepts talked about in our videos apply to any style of relationship but if you are looking for specific exercises, tips, programs, raw processing examples we definitely think that you will love the content on our membership site: conorandbrittany.com. Much love to you!
Watching this after your more recent videos is interesting. The parenting/caregiving question and answer shows how much Conor has grown with Bridget and in your triad dynamic. (Sorry if I’m spelling her name wrong.)
I'm really surprised no one asked if any if the other lovers ever get jealous. I love your dynamic but not everyone is capable of being so understanding.
Do your other partners get jealous of your main relationship with eachother? If they do, do you try to resolve it with them or do you end the relationship because of the jealousy?
This is such an awesome start to a bunch of questions I’ve had about polyamory and questions I continue to create. I’m buzzin’ with ‘em! Lol I wish I could have a sit-down-talk about like every question in the video and go down all the rabbit holes with you guys. Side note, are you still accepting applications for lovers?..
I love the honesty and clear love for one another you both have but I have to say I'm still left wondering how dynamics with other partners are handled within your relationship these questions are still kind of broad but as a person who would one day like to have this type of relationship I feel like I'd appreciate more detail on speeding scenarios and the way you would internally and externally process them. Maybe in a future video you can talk about how in the beginning of your relationship you handled those kinds of conversations and how they have changed over the years, what tools have you used and disposed of or maybe used for specific in time during some kind of transition etc. Love you both and thank you for this channel 🥰
Hi Kyra! We love that you're looking for more clarity. We do go into more details about our personal life through our membership videos at Conorandbrittany.com. You can see what real life conversations look like while we process the tough stuff and share more specific things. Hope you enjoy it! xoxo
I Think it depends on the relationship you have with each other. I love how open and honest you are with each other and I think that is the Keystone of a good relationship! But in my experience especially men often don't want to know if the woman sleeps with another man due to jealousy issues. In a previous relationship I can say that this individual hated cheating and expressed it emphatically ignoring that he cheated emotionally himself! Well that learned me that you can't have relationships with fools.
What do you do if you absolutely can't stand your lovers girlfriend and your lover doesn't care and has broken a set rule that you have to agree whom the other is with?
Thanks for asking! We have two videos that cover these two questions if you're interested in hearing what works for us: ruclips.net/video/qv0DK4XoKks/видео.html ruclips.net/video/YqkwRlyau7c/видео.html
I asked myself the same question. In our language parents are the people, who got a child together. Perhaps it’s so steonge to me, because we don’t have a word for caregiver in our langue. At least not that I know. Brittany and Conor are just the biological parents of their child 😊.
I'm curious if you had lovers that decided to be in a monogamous relationship with someone else? Also, how often are you attracted to a friend or someone you meet that is in a monogamous relationship?
Yes, we have both experienced some variation of lovers who have chosen to share in monogamous partnerships at different times moving forward. In the cases we can recall, it felt easy and like a natural progression in the way that it transitioned our relationships with them at the time. It felt nice to be able to have a continual unfolding to our own relationship (with this person) while supporting them and their partner in their relationship dynamic. In terms of being attracted to someone in a monogamous relationship...hm, no time comes to mind at all! There are probably people we experience various levels of attraction towards who are in monogamous relationships, however we have never engaged with someone enough to be in a space where we felt any sort of a "bummer" feeling as we realized that this person was not available to connect with in the ways we wanted because they were choosing monogamy. Great questions
I was wondering if you guys ever had a bad of not so good experience with others since you open the relationship. Coz since I broke up with a person o had a very Strong conexion I'm having kinda hard time to find new partners who are willing to share sexuality in a more profund and less traditional way in terms of gender roles (sincerely I feel so tired of the hegemonic masculinity). And I'm really wondering if it just Happen with me.. thank you so much for all!!
Thanks for your question! We address this on our individual channels. Here are the links if you'd like to watch! ruclips.net/video/FQaJhd7DzSM/видео.html ruclips.net/video/pT5I5pnwWLE/видео.html
Conor and Brittany I think what you guys stand for is beautiful. I dream of finding someone to be as close as you two are. It’s so inspiring and empowering to see that I am not alone with having deep compassion and empathy for my brothers and sisters. To be able to be yourself 100% of the time and you guys are able to be OPEN which is so rare but if you guys found it in each other, there must be more out there. The hunt is still on but you guys are badass and I’d love to link up the next time you guys come around CT!! Lots of ❤️❤️❤️ xxoo
Without giving us a log, lol, do you guys have frequent experiences with other partners or is it more of a random once in a while incident? You know like is it several times a week or once/twice a month, or even less than that?
Thanks for your curiosity! We cover a little bit of that in these vids :) ruclips.net/video/qmU7YBZTWUk/видео.html ruclips.net/video/zfhK-L9Ad_I/видео.html
perhaps i am too old school thinking.....but i'd find it rather difficult sharing blow by blow replays to the person i consider my main relationship, and future mother of my child.....I mean sharing overall is always a good thing, just not sure how comfortable i'd be with specific details, because i'd also assume the other relationship or sexual encounters we had are also special and to be special perhaps it's best to stay around generalities, and not specifics.....lol but i am hopeful I will get to the place that I see both of you are at
Thanks for sharing. It makes sense that these would be difficult things to share for many people and we always encourage everyone to feel into what is right for them!
Honest question here: dose your life’s revolve around sex? Your other partners, are they just for sex? Or, do you have other partners because you just need MORE of everything in your life?
Ahh I don't have instagram but managed to find your page and message you on Facebook! if you still use that platform it would be great if you have time to see the message :)
Iam really curious to hear the story of your relationships from the perspective of a lover of yours and it would be a nice and interesting video to listen to a beautiful human on your side if everyone is feeling comfortable with it :)
Ooo this sounds like a fun video idea! Thanks for the suggestion :)
Frieda Frances yes!! That would be super interesting
I am always wondering too! who are these other lovers! lover party please!!!!
Yes, definitely agree!!
I love how intently you two pay attention to eachother when u speak u truly listen to each other's opinions and feelings and that's very important and meaningful in any kind of relationship
I am in a monogamous marriage but have followed you for quite some time. There are always parts of your videos that completely apply to the relationships in my life, both sexual relationships and otherwise. I started following because I wanted to learn more about other lifestyles and I really appreciate you sharing. I just wanted to take a moment to honor your openness and willing to create this safe space of education. You've truly helped me improve my communication skills.
This means so much to us! We're honored.
I am wondering if the others in your lives ever want more from you. If so, how do you navigate that?
Great question.
rafaella rose are lovers sometimes unhappy with the amount of role they play in your life?
yes! I was just thinking, the heart is not rational! what if someone falls deeply in love with you and wants more.....???
I find that the most difficult thing for me is when someone feels the need to completely end the interaction when someone else shows up. If the interaction between us flows with the change, and we continue as friends to the degree in which change is dictating, then I feel so much better. And I so appreciate the new person when she is able to honor my presence in his life. @@Strawberrywrack
Thanks for answering :) I intended to ask Conor and Brittany but thanks for sharing that too :)
real question: would you ever consider giving up the open aspect of the relationship. not out of fear or control, but out of genuinely wanting to just be with each other?
YES ! THIS ! Wondering if the dynamics will change once the baby is born.
Love this question.
It takes very special people to have relationships outside their own. You both are perfect for eachother and each of your lovers. I'm sure many couples fail while attempting your lifestyle, but you both have it together. I absolutely adore how Brittany looks at Conor with so much love and trust. You're so amazing. Thank you for sharing yourselves with the rest of us. ❤💕❤💕❤
This feels so nice to hear.
You were so holding back on us guys! Of course your privacy is to be protected as and when you require it. I'm so used to the idea that you are both completely open and honest with us. This video doesn't look like a couple who are moving another lover in just 3/4mths in the future. I hope it wasn't an impulse decision, it will be interesting to see how the dynamic shifts and what comes up for the three of you. I hope you'll feel comfortable enough to want to give us a sense of how it's all going. Best of luck beautiful people. 🌿🌺♥
You guys helped me so much figure out what it is that I want as a newly poly person... I appreciate you guys so much! ❤️
💙 🙏💕 But I must say you sat the bar pretty high for me as far as finding a true connection and also with someone so open and free. I love you both! ❤️
That feels sooo good. You deserve for the bar to be set high. Muah!
how does it come that you (connor and brittany) are always the "main" couple? I mean is there never a chance that a lover of one of yours can be as "important" as connor or brittany? so that for example that it happens that brittany spends her time 80% with the lover than with connor... so how do you manage that it's always you two who spend most of their time together? or why does this not happen to you, that a lover of yours somehow "replaces" the position of connor for example. I would be afraid that my partner, when we practice a non-monogamous relationship, finds someone who they like to spend way more time with than with me. so i would be afraid of losing them. hope you understand what i mean... english is not my mother language. much love and thank you very much for your awesome badass videos x
11223344 very beautiful question I’d like to know more too
I was wondering the same thing, so I really hope that Conner and Brittany answer this one.
We manage it all as it comes up with constant communication and support. If you're interested in seeing what those conversations look like, we share more vulnerable content at conorandbrittany.com/members. And we have a video addressing the fear of losing a partner here if you'd like to watch: ruclips.net/video/1tyZ4AiwrtY/видео.html Thanks for your curıosity!
I really appreciate your openness on sexual/intimate topics. I resently discovered a new channel on RUclips from a couple (she’s pregnant), with their toddler. They are living in a van together and travel around. Some people where curious about how they get intimate, with that little space and a two year old around. And they got shitstormed, people called them pervs and she said, that every adult should have enough imagination... I was a little bit shocked, because I was curious myself (even if I didn’t asked them about it) and clearly not because I want to imagine them having sex ☺️.
Brittany your hair looks amazing in this video!
Thanks Mary!
It is curious how some questions seem to be from people who are not aware of what polyamory is: if there is no honesty, total informed consent with everyone involved, it is not polyamory...Secrecy is not polyamory, it is cheating.
So it is odd people asking if your other lovers know you are non-monogamous...I assume you are totally open and honest when you meet someone new and they are ok with you being non-monogamous.
Thank you for answering so openly and compassionately anyway.
All the very best! Love and Gratitude your way
I have a question! Would either of you consider having children with another partner?
I love this question! I think dynamics can be so impacted by adding another human to a core group. Life is about to shift in the most beautiful way and I’m curious how that will impact choices overall.
We feel open to that being a possibility if the situation feels ideal for all involved. :)
You two exude so much love and connectedness (to each other and the rest of this space), it really is a joy to watch. The way you honor and validate the ability to choose one's own path in such a genuine way, absent of ego, feels so rare sometimes! Especially as someone who chooses to participate in a relationship that is structured differently from yours (much more 'traditional,' in many regards), I'm always so surprised to find that you two make me feel more alike than different :) Thanks for your message of Love. You guys are the good stuff!
Thanks so much for your comment.
You two are just really amazing and I really admire your openness and honesty towards eachother and other people ❤️
How can you two be so dang cute!!! All the love for you 3 beautiful souls
I'm interested to see how your views of caretaking change on your journey with child. I'm excited to watch you go through the changes. I know that the image I had in my mind of what being a mother was going to be was so different from the reality. Not worse or better, just different. And it continues to change. Each year, it changes as they get older, with the introduction of subsequent children, it was turned on its head. Then when my son with special needs joined our journey, a metamorphosis. Everything is going to be so different. You're going to be so surprised. You're going to love it😍
We are also excited to see how these things change for us! Thanks for sharing and for following along on our journey.
Do you have any videos discussing how you avoid STD's in your outside relationships? Do you have any "rules" in what you are to follow with other partners and have you had admit to breaking one of those? (I'm assuming you trust the other in keeping safe.) Sorry if this wasn't asked respectfully.
We have a video on both of these topics, thanks for asking! ruclips.net/video/t8_BN_Zq-IU/видео.html ruclips.net/video/qv0DK4XoKks/видео.html
It’s true how potent the time with lovers is. I have no primary atm but five lovers and phew I only see one or two a week but it’s so intense and concentrated. With a nesting partner you carry on with your own life while together.
Exactly! We get in lots of self time when sharing space together.
It gives me so much strength to watch your videos, thank you really much, you both!!
this means so much to us
Wonderful conversation! I have a question for you both. 🙂
How if at all, have you been able to overcome or let go of your preconceived idea's of guilt and shame, when connecting in a non conventional way with others?
My partner and I are non monogamous, and some feelings that come up for me are shame like.
Whilst I know that our relationships honour us, are healthy and beautiful, it's hard to shake those patterns of emotion.
We are told and modeled what is "right, loving and healthy"..almost with the exclusion of anything else all our life..and these stereotypes can weigh at me sometimes.
💚💚💚
Ah such a good question! It's an ongoing process of self care that never ends and there are so many avenues to find healing around these feelings but one thing that we can specifically recommend is Conor's Thirty Days program to dive really deep into self love and self discovery. conorandbrittany.com/thirty-days-program-by-conor-mcmillen/
I am more traditional when it comes to relationship. I enjoy how you two communicate and want to incorporate it into my relationship. I like how you hold space for one another. I also like watching and learning about people who live differently than me. It has been my experience the more you learn with an open mind the more accepting and loving you are.
So true. :) We love constantly learning.
I'm curious to know how you all went from being in monogamous relationships to now polyamory. Like how did you all go about asking each other if that is something that would work for you all? Who brought it up? Who initiated this idea of polyamory?
I'm fairly new so I'm not sure if you have talked about this before.
We have been open from the start of our relationship together. But we do have a video on the topic of opening up an existing monogamous relationship if you're interested in watching that: ruclips.net/video/PL_AUXjPlWk/видео.html
I'm watching that next. I have been very interested since I have found your channel. Thank you. ❤❤❤
Do you have a youtube with your other parteners? Or plan on having them as guests on here?
Thanks so much for asking about this. We want to do a dedicated video on this topic and plan to do one soon! We have had a partner of ours on this channel in the past and we feel that we all learned a lot from the experience, which we are interested in sharing our thoughts about!
Conor and Brittany yay cant wait tfs with us
Now we all rush to try to figure out who it was! (Damn us voyeuristic, nosey people!) 😂😂😂
This type of partnership is not something for me, but I totally relate to the feelings of being constricted in monogamous relationships. I'm not sure what would work for me. I'll probably just be single forever lol. It's cool that you guys found something that works. I can really tell how that you two have a lot of love for each other. I wish you two the best and congrats on your baby
AMAZING video!! My partner and I are working on figuring out what feels good for us in terms of sharing about experiences with others. It was interesting to hear your takes on that. Wishing you all the best with the new little one!
I LOVE the way you guys look at each other. I can feel the love through the screen. do you guys have any tips for monogamous couples to better connect to each other? the love you guys share is amazing!
Definitely check out their paid content! 😉 (In description box, under "become a paid member")
Thanks for asking, Leslie! A lot of the concepts talked about in our videos apply to any style of relationship but if you are looking for specific exercises, tips, programs, raw processing examples we definitely think that you will love the content on our membership site: conorandbrittany.com. Much love to you!
Thank you so much beautiful people!
Loved this video! You guys are a ray of sunshine ❤️ Brittany your hair is gorgeous!!!!
Thanks Shelby
Watching this after your more recent videos is interesting. The parenting/caregiving question and answer shows how much Conor has grown with Bridget and in your triad dynamic. (Sorry if I’m spelling her name wrong.)
wow yaaaaaay a second great polyamory channel! thanks for making your channel! i cant wait to watch your videos, this one was great! :)
All I hear, see and feel is LOVE. It's all love and it's BEAUTIFUL! Thank you for sharing.
I'm really surprised no one asked if any if the other lovers ever get jealous. I love your dynamic but not everyone is capable of being so understanding.
As far as personal details or information that someone would want you to keep private, do you honor that?
Definitely, yes!
Do your other partners get jealous of your main relationship with eachother? If they do, do you try to resolve it with them or do you end the relationship because of the jealousy?
This is such an awesome start to a bunch of questions I’ve had about polyamory and questions I continue to create. I’m buzzin’ with ‘em! Lol
I wish I could have a sit-down-talk about like every question in the video and go down all the rabbit holes with you guys.
Side note, are you still accepting applications for lovers?..
hhaha 😘
How do your current partners react to the fact that you are expecting? Are either of you anticipating changes with your lovers once Jaja gets here?
We've been met with so much love and excitement.
Are you ever worried that one of your very long term relationships will grow to replace your relationship with each other?
I was wondering the same thing. Good question!
We go in depth on that here: ruclips.net/video/1tyZ4AiwrtY/видео.html Thanks for asking!
When it does, the new-age masks will come off.
I love the honesty and clear love for one another you both have but I have to say I'm still left wondering how dynamics with other partners are handled within your relationship these questions are still kind of broad but as a person who would one day like to have this type of relationship I feel like I'd appreciate more detail on speeding scenarios and the way you would internally and externally process them. Maybe in a future video you can talk about how in the beginning of your relationship you handled those kinds of conversations and how they have changed over the years, what tools have you used and disposed of or maybe used for specific in time during some kind of transition etc. Love you both and thank you for this channel 🥰
Hi Kyra! We love that you're looking for more clarity. We do go into more details about our personal life through our membership videos at Conorandbrittany.com. You can see what real life conversations look like while we process the tough stuff and share more specific things. Hope you enjoy it! xoxo
@@conorandbrittany beautiful thank you!
Brittany I love your hair, it looks so full and healthy!
Thank you 😘
I Think it depends on the relationship you have with each other. I love how open and honest you are with each other and I think that is the Keystone of a good relationship! But in my experience especially men often don't want to know if the woman sleeps with another man due to jealousy issues.
In a previous relationship I can say that this individual hated cheating and expressed it emphatically ignoring that he cheated emotionally himself! Well that learned me that you can't have relationships with fools.
quer sy from my morning was a good
Thanks Leona!
Have u ever heard of twin souls I feel like u and Conner are so that much love and positivity ❤️
yall are so amazing, im wishing yall an amazing pregnancy
Thank you so much!
What if one of your lovers falls madly in love with one of you and start being possessive and jealous?
Very interesting video, I enjoyed this topic! I love how open you are with each other 💙
We appreciate you watching!
ooo this video quality is so nice. What camera are you filming this on?
Would you guys be open to having children with other partners? :)
We are open to it, if the situation is feeling right for all involved. :)
What do you do if you absolutely can't stand your lovers girlfriend and your lover doesn't care and has broken a set rule that you have to agree whom the other is with?
Thanks for asking! We have two videos that cover these two questions if you're interested in hearing what works for us: ruclips.net/video/qv0DK4XoKks/видео.html ruclips.net/video/YqkwRlyau7c/видео.html
What's problematic about the word parent?
Thanks for asking! We notice that the word doesn't resonate with us as much as other words, such as "caregiver" do. No problem, just a preference!
I’m curious if Jaja will call you mom and dad, or maybe Brittany and Conor... or maybe something else?
@@484reeree If I had to guess, I bet they let her choose!
I asked myself the same question. In our language parents are the people, who got a child together. Perhaps it’s so steonge to me, because we don’t have a word for caregiver in our langue. At least not that I know.
Brittany and Conor are just the biological parents of their child 😊.
I like to live my life in your way!
I am from Berlin.
Sending you lots of love in Berlin!
I'm curious if you had lovers that decided to be in a monogamous relationship with someone else? Also, how often are you attracted to a friend or someone you meet that is in a monogamous relationship?
Yes, we have both experienced some variation of lovers who have chosen to share in monogamous partnerships at different times moving forward. In the cases we can recall, it felt easy and like a natural progression in the way that it transitioned our relationships with them at the time. It felt nice to be able to have a continual unfolding to our own relationship (with this person) while supporting them and their partner in their relationship dynamic. In terms of being attracted to someone in a monogamous relationship...hm, no time comes to mind at all! There are probably people we experience various levels of attraction towards who are in monogamous relationships, however we have never engaged with someone enough to be in a space where we felt any sort of a "bummer" feeling as we realized that this person was not available to connect with in the ways we wanted because they were choosing monogamy. Great questions
I also love your positivity.
I was wondering if you guys ever had a bad of not so good experience with others since you open the relationship. Coz since I broke up with a person o had a very Strong conexion I'm having kinda hard time to find new partners who are willing to share sexuality in a more profund and less traditional way in terms of gender roles (sincerely I feel so tired of the hegemonic masculinity). And I'm really wondering if it just Happen with me.. thank you so much for all!!
Had a question! Did you two go vegan for the animals or for health/environmental impact? Would love to hear a story about your transition!
Thanks for your question! We address this on our individual channels. Here are the links if you'd like to watch! ruclips.net/video/FQaJhd7DzSM/видео.html ruclips.net/video/pT5I5pnwWLE/видео.html
How are you Conor? You seem exhausted lol! Maybe it's just me, I just woke up lol! This is such an interesting topic! Giving me lots to think about.
Thanks for asking!
Thanks for the open answers. :)
May I ask you how old are you guys? I am so curious! Thank youuuu, Love uuuu
Of course! Conor is 35 and Brittany is 31. Love you!!
@@conorandbrittany Thank you for answering me :) I am about to turn 30!!!
Y'all are so cute!
xoxo
I have a question? Brit, how would you feel if Conner were to have a child with another woman?
We have fantasized about this scenario before :)
Conor and Brittany I think what you guys stand for is beautiful. I dream of finding someone to be as close as you two are. It’s so inspiring and empowering to see that I am not alone with having deep compassion and empathy for my brothers and sisters. To be able to be yourself 100% of the time and you guys are able to be OPEN which is so rare but if you guys found it in each other, there must be more out there. The hunt is still on but you guys are badass and I’d love to link up the next time you guys come around CT!! Lots of ❤️❤️❤️ xxoo
I just adore you two so much!!!
xoxo
You guys are amazing 😍😍 its super nice to hear that you guys have the same morals and awesome vibe and connection 😊
You guys inspire me every time i watch! Thanks for your authenticity!
Thanks for watching!
The before video ;). Now look at you coparenting with Bridgette!!.
HI ! I LOVE YOU SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH.
YOU ARE ROLE MODELS FOR ME! !!!
Ahh we're honored. Much love to you!!
Without giving us a log, lol, do you guys have frequent experiences with other partners or is it more of a random once in a while incident? You know like is it several times a week or once/twice a month, or even less than that?
Thanks for your curiosity! We cover a little bit of that in these vids :) ruclips.net/video/qmU7YBZTWUk/видео.html ruclips.net/video/zfhK-L9Ad_I/видео.html
Here in hawaii any other adult that becomes part if thier lifes are all either aunties and uncles or tutu (granma/island grandma)
Love that! So sweet.
You two are so beautiful 😍 my husband and I really enjoy your videos 🤗🤗
Thanks love!!
Hello you two beauties, what is a good way to ask questions privately ? Do you have an email ?
Hi Love. We think the best place may be our Instagram account!
Very interesting questions. I love to learn more about how a polyamorous relationship can look like.. :)
Thanks for watching!
Beautiful, sending you both and Jaja love ❤️
I‘m really curious to know, with which gender you connected individually in the past more/how this changes/how the differences are
We have a video on this :) ruclips.net/video/P4yX_EKSpAk/видео.html
Have you ever actively looked for new partners through dating apps? Or do you let it unfold organically?
perhaps i am too old school thinking.....but i'd find it rather difficult sharing blow by blow replays to the person i consider my main relationship, and future mother of my child.....I mean sharing overall is always a good thing, just not sure how comfortable i'd be with specific details, because i'd also assume the other relationship or sexual encounters we had are also special and to be special perhaps it's best to stay around generalities, and not specifics.....lol
but i am hopeful I will get to the place that I see both of you are at
Thanks for sharing. It makes sense that these would be difficult things to share for many people and we always encourage everyone to feel into what is right for them!
Honest question here: dose your life’s revolve around sex? Your other partners, are they just for sex? Or, do you have other partners because you just need MORE of everything in your life?
Is all of your other lovers also poly?
They may not all use this identifier necessarily, but all are aware that our relationship is open. Thanks for asking!
That’s so beautiful ❤️
Ahh I don't have instagram but managed to find your page and message you on Facebook! if you still use that platform it would be great if you have time to see the message :)
videos with other lovers? can we see them? hehee xx
I’m seeing some higher quality heeere. Love being able to see your beautiful faces a bit more defined c;
:)
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