I’m 34 and I’ve given up on men

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  • Опубликовано: 3 июл 2024
  • I’m 34, single and I’ve given up on men, might go as far as saying I’m a spinster!
    In todays video I’ll be sharing my journey of decentering from men, being single in your 30s, how to be your own dream girl, setting higher standards in relationships and how to be happy in your single season
    This video is inspired by South Korea 4b movement, opting to be single, childless and decenter men
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    07:18 selfish season
    08:23 setting high standards in relationships
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Комментарии • 38

  • @SthokoK
    @SthokoK 2 дня назад +7

    I so wish I can delete these repulsive comments on this video, there's something terribly wrong in the world! What's wrong with wanting better for yourself, not insulting anybody but simply wanting to be treated better, why are people so angry and mean!? I honestly don't get it!!!

  • @user-qs3cv8vn2n
    @user-qs3cv8vn2n 3 дня назад +9

    I’m 33 with no kid and broke😅 but I’m rebuilding myself and hoping for the best.your channel is the best ❤

    • @Lorriluxxe
      @Lorriluxxe  3 дня назад +2

      It’s never too late to rebuild yourself lovely! I know better days are coming 🫶🏽💕🫶🏽

    • @malindah709
      @malindah709 3 дня назад

      Yes better is coming

  • @AlieshaNigea
    @AlieshaNigea 2 дня назад +1

    I’m sorry you’re getting so much hate from men on this video! I love the advice and I hear you! 💕

  • @jordanbeau7348
    @jordanbeau7348 2 дня назад +2

    Im 30 year old lesbian and i also stopped chasing women. Idk why folks are upset when its a woman no longer chasing men. But there comes a time when you recognize that there is a card you dont have in your hand, and you have to go for a different set. I decided to become a single mim by choice despite never assuming id be the one to carry a child. I am going to be living my life fulfilling myself, and my future daughter's needs. I found this video and you to be incredibly inspirational 🤍

  • @noirefit5954
    @noirefit5954 3 дня назад +8

    I’ll be 30 this year and my story is the same. I’m a single mom of 1 and I’ve decided dating is just not on my radar. I am open, I’d love to be married one day. However, I’ve decided it’s not my center focus and not a very high priority. My daughter and I are my center focus, including God lol though not in that order. Men are simply not that important since all they want to do is play around

    • @Lorriluxxe
      @Lorriluxxe  3 дня назад +2

      Hey lovely! Decentering from men goes a long way on our healing journey. The right man will come, God already as has blessed us, we just have to wait for it to manifest in the physical 💕🫶🏽💕

    • @ralphpinkins5619
      @ralphpinkins5619 3 дня назад

      cope

    • @dmariots
      @dmariots 3 дня назад

      Hey a 37-year-old man here has been looking for his wife since he was 18 here. I walked past single mothers because I know they weren't dating seriously for marriage and in their 20s and got pregnant by thugs and players. Do you think that's fair to me to accept a woman that gave 💩 man a kid that she wasn't committed to. That's reckless. You guys tell me... If the man you got pregnant by actually had characteristics of a man that would be a husband... Is he loyal, good morals good values, work that benefit the world? Was his favorite songs talking about love and togetherness or was it talking about broken relationships and drugs, did he smoke weed, or do any other kind of drug, was his friend group good moral people?
      You guys can't get mad because the only man that are picking you are not serious... Not being serious is what got you into the situation that you're in that's why you're attracting it. And lastly since you were not serious and the dating world when you were younger you have habits and thought process that repulsed the good loyal men that want something serious. So toxic men becomes like your comfort zone a good man will make you feel weird just because of your lifelong habits.
      By the way I've only laid down with women 15X only what do that with a woman if I thought she would be someone I would marry. Some friends of mine that I can't contact with told me he laid down with 300 plus women he's a narcissist he abuses them drugged them and women flock straight to him knowing that he's toxic

  • @Simnadine
    @Simnadine День назад +1

    Single mum 2 kids, can’t be bothered with men love being single can’t see myself with another guy as they aren’t trust worthy.

  • @jonathanjacob5453
    @jonathanjacob5453 3 дня назад +1

    Great video, live your life. You don’t have to justify yourself to anyone.

  • @rsinha7017
    @rsinha7017 4 дня назад +2

    🙌💖

    • @Lorriluxxe
      @Lorriluxxe  4 дня назад +1

      Thank you for support lovely 🫶🏽💕🫶🏽

  • @jwg9338
    @jwg9338 3 дня назад +7

    A 3 chasing a 9, someone needs a reality check...

    • @ntandoyenkosimoyo2071
      @ntandoyenkosimoyo2071 3 дня назад

      Bruh😂😂😂

    • @PastelCelestialq
      @PastelCelestialq 2 дня назад +3

      Don't talk about yourself like that. I'm sure you could go from 3 to a 9 if you just get up brush your teeth and take a bath. Then maybe you can reach a 4 one day. Don't be hard on yourself. ❤❤❤

    • @laura-bianca3130
      @laura-bianca3130 2 дня назад +1

      😂👍🏻​ @@PastelCelestialq

  • @desmofc
    @desmofc 3 дня назад

    Despite what’s been heavily preached, people cannot have it all. I don’t think this advice will be beneficial for women.

    • @sakuraesther6309
      @sakuraesther6309 3 дня назад

      Why do you all like to defend men that are worse than you??? Keep it pushing and get out of women's business

  • @stefanmatton8778
    @stefanmatton8778 3 дня назад +8

    you're admitting to being a spinster, but believe setting higher standards will get the man you desire. The delusion is real

    • @sakuraesther6309
      @sakuraesther6309 3 дня назад +6

      Yes because for her to be worthy of your evaluation of her ....she must cower and have deep insecurity and take anyan right?

    • @PastelCelestialq
      @PastelCelestialq 2 дня назад +3

      But why you mad bruh? 😂😂😂😂

  • @kevinleewilliams5119
    @kevinleewilliams5119 3 дня назад +1

    Men and women belong together. Unfortunately, you probably will never really have true happiness that only comes from a relationship until you just kneel to a man, it is what it is.

    • @geminibabe808
      @geminibabe808 3 дня назад +7

      I'm going to have to respectfully disagree on that part about having true happiness. True happiness comes from within, Not "kneeling" to your partner. Putting your happiness in someone else's hands often opens the door to being taken advantage of or abuse. Confidence, self respect, and setting healthy boundaries are key for creating your own happiness and that goes for both males and females.

    • @wallstreets7357
      @wallstreets7357 3 дня назад

      ​@@geminibabe808 gemini... figures

    • @sakuraesther6309
      @sakuraesther6309 3 дня назад

      Kneel to a woman or a man if you want and while at it keep your nose out of women's business

    • @oakiediaries9907
      @oakiediaries9907 День назад

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @toofast0253
    @toofast0253 3 дня назад

    Quick question: where are the channels where men whine about EVERY FREAKIN' THING?
    What's that?
    They don't exist?
    Huh.

    • @geminibabe808
      @geminibabe808 3 дня назад +13

      Quick answer: They do exist. It's in the comments section of any channel that's meant for WOMEN'S self-improvement, like this channel for example. Just like moths to a flame, they gather in spaces that are not intended for them to complain, spread hate or even attempt to "humble" any and every woman they can. They can't resist.
      I dont know, It's something about women wanting more for themselves that really makes the guys upset.
      Huh. Why do you think that is?

    • @jonathanjacob5453
      @jonathanjacob5453 3 дня назад +3

      To be fair those channels do exist and you know it. I think it’s great that you have a bunch of men and women opting out.

    • @sakuraesther6309
      @sakuraesther6309 3 дня назад +1

      A few channels
      MTR
      OSHAY DUKE JACKSON
      FRESH AND FIT
      Just search manosphere and you'll see men complain about every little thing women over 18 do .
      You are welcome

  • @wallstreets7357
    @wallstreets7357 3 дня назад +3

    Terrible advice

    • @sakuraesther6309
      @sakuraesther6309 3 дня назад

      Y'all are scared to see women refuse to be with men because then they can't get controlled

  • @SthokoK
    @SthokoK 2 дня назад +3

    I so wish I can delete these repulsive comments on this video, there's something terribly wrong in the world! What's wrong with wanting better for yourself, not insulting anybody but simply wanting to be treated better, why are people so angry and mean!? I honestly don't get it!!!