Why So Many Men Have Given Up on Dating? Every Man Has a Story

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  • @TangiblesTracker
    @TangiblesTracker Год назад +29

    Mark, this is one of the best videos/summary on the current dating situation in America that I have seen. It covers all aspects (online, work/HR risks, politics, etc.)

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  Год назад +2

      Thank so much

    • @calstan86
      @calstan86 Год назад +1

      I really enjoy Mark's style of videos. I unsubscribed from Paul McGill's channel. His videos have become so repetitive and stale. Not to mention the insult that was the racism and the World Zoom videos. This is the only channel one needs for info on life in Negros Oriental.

  • @solarguy1702
    @solarguy1702 Год назад +64

    After my divorce from my American spouse, a female coworker asked me whatever will I do now, having nothing to offer a woman? Long story short, been in Bohol 15 years with a wife and two great kids.
    Much happier.😊

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  Год назад +8

      Good for you! Thank you for watching ☺️

    • @gilmer3718
      @gilmer3718 Год назад +12

      That female coworker seems like she was getting enjoyment out of your troubles. How does she know you have nothing to offer?

    • @rexmascarina2169
      @rexmascarina2169 Год назад

      🤣😂

    • @davidstanwix4697
      @davidstanwix4697 Год назад +7

      Me to buddy, was married twice to 2 American women. After 12 years of being single dating girls from all over went for a fillipina. Not perfect but far and above what I had before.
      It’s like Toyota it’s just a better car.

    • @MediaHappeningNow
      @MediaHappeningNow Год назад +4

      Yes! 100% Toyotas are just a better car!

  • @michaelsix9684
    @michaelsix9684 Год назад +47

    America is full of adult children today, it's unreal the way people behave today

    • @BUTGOD-j1x
      @BUTGOD-j1x Год назад +1

      Exactly, Americans have been spoiled by consumerism, being a service-based economy, and AI, it's become a nation of spoiled brats.
      They're so advanced versus the rest of the world, they've lost touch with humanity .

    • @ottowokeninger9617
      @ottowokeninger9617 Год назад +8

      I stopped caring about anything that goes on in the west, as it gets more and more bizarre. It's their future, not mine any longer.
      My issue is that a generally unhinged population and its rulers (even worse) do not create financial stability in the long-term. Sane countries are looking at the west/US and assessing how they can become less dependent, and less in need of its services.
      My income stream is based on high-yield savings and market investments, which are mostly US-based, so the lack of intelligence and sanity could be a growing problem in the future.
      I wonder if there are investments one may get into, to diversify, which are not tied to US markets and not held by US institutions.

    • @DavidJ-ty5jm
      @DavidJ-ty5jm 7 дней назад

      IKR pathetic

  • @mypov4343
    @mypov4343 Год назад +31

    Tell a woman upfront that you are not interested in getting married and watch how many of them disappear! Accept the fact that most women (not all) want a provider (even if she denies it). Respect yourself and make sure YOU are getting something in return including a lot of appreciation for being the "provider"....otherwise DON'T DO IT. In the Philippines the appreciation is greater and the "providing" is easier. Here in the US, I remain single (and loving it). Presently, the return is not worth the effort and my bank account loves me.

    • @Munromad
      @Munromad Год назад +9

      Exactly. At this stage of my life I have too much to lose by having a partner. The risk is simply not worth the limited reward.

    • @ANNA-2024living
      @ANNA-2024living 11 месяцев назад

      Shame. Not all women are POS's.

  • @DJ33970
    @DJ33970 Год назад +49

    I'm 35, from Canada and everything you've said about what the dating scene is like in the USA is the exact same in Canada. I'm proud to be Canadian but I've been through at least 12-15 different women over the last 21 years and I'll be honest and say that I would no longer consider exploring or being with a Western woman again. Not even 1 of them was worthy enough to me to put a ring on her finger. I really feel like I was born in the wrong era. Over the past couple years, I've joined a couple Asia dating sites. I've talked to and met a few women. I still haven't met the right one yet but I know for a fact that my lifetime partner will be in Asia. I'm excited for what the future holds. Thanks for the video, Cheers.

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  Год назад +5

      Don't give up Darren. Your dream girl is waiting for you

    • @johnnier.o.d4746
      @johnnier.o.d4746 Год назад

      well, you should check you fella canadian boy kulas (becoming filipino), he's a very famous vlogger in the philippines ..... he even bought a beach house in davao (don't know what part) area, has a filipina girlfriend & having so much fun in the p.i .......... 😂🤣😂🤣-🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪

    • @blockaderunner
      @blockaderunner Год назад

      It's a MAJOR psyops to genocide a population. It's not your fault. It's not their fault. Women are LED.

    • @robertsweet816
      @robertsweet816 Год назад

      Keep on looking for that pilady or branch out to viet nam in a Catholic sitting perhaps there look over the whole situation in due time

    • @rexmascarina2169
      @rexmascarina2169 Год назад +1

      Davao City Philippines 🇵🇭 more women than men visit the province.

  • @KarlCourage
    @KarlCourage Год назад +12

    Good video. The challenge for dating in the USA is firstly if you’re not attracted to overweight women, there goes 50% of your dating pool. Then it’s so politically divided, a lot of people won’t date someone from the other side of the political divide so there goes another 50% of the remaining pool and so on. So one’s options can be pretty slim..even for a guy in great shape making six figures, at 5’ 10” it’s still a bit of a nightmare.

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  Год назад +2

      This is what my subscribers keep telling me. Come to the Philippines.
      You will meet wonderful sweet honest woman. Loyal and loving

    • @Exalted_Example
      @Exalted_Example Год назад +3

      Actually if you're a conservative man, and politics is your deal breaker then it's significantly more than a 50% cut.
      Women overwhelmingly vote Democrat. So much so in fact that if women hadn't voted in 2020, Trump would have won every state except 3 - NY, CA, and i can't recall the third one but i want to say Illinois.

    • @devilsadvocacy
      @devilsadvocacy Месяц назад +1

      Depending on the age bracket, the obesity rate is well over 50%. It is something like 2/3 overall

  • @KimmyPat
    @KimmyPat Год назад +43

    I've been living in Thailand for 2 years and will move to the Philippines next week. I met a Filipina Nanny in Bangkok and I find her much easier to understand and relate to than my past Thai girlfriends. The cultural differences are much easier to understand. This is only my personal opinion and I happen to have great respect for Thai women but I prefer Philippine women. I enjoy your videos and find them interesting and entertaining. Thanks... P

    • @RetireandGo
      @RetireandGo Год назад

      Wow! I’m happy for you in this new relationship and I hope the best for you in the Philippines. Any particular area in the Philippines you are moving to?

    • @evegarcia9771
      @evegarcia9771 Год назад +2

      I stopped going online to find one, most of the men i met there wanted sex first over the phone. I guessed not so lucky online.

    • @RetireandGo
      @RetireandGo Год назад +2

      @@evegarcia9771 yeah probably better to meet face to face so you know they are real. Also you can sit and talk and get to know them better. The online stuff had a lot of bots I noticed

    • @WhenTheManComesAround
      @WhenTheManComesAround Год назад +2

      Safe travels 👍

    • @KimmyPat
      @KimmyPat Год назад

      Thanks... Starting the journey in Cebu but I'll make it a priority to check out your area (hard to spell) lol, before settling down...

  • @attadeal3130
    @attadeal3130 Год назад +18

    Once upon a time, there was an adventurous American named Bob who decided to embark on a journey to the Philippines in search of love. Bob was convinced that he would have better luck finding a girlfriend there since he hadn’t been very fortunate in the dating scene back home.
    Excited and full of hope, Bob arrived in the bustling city of Manila. He quickly realized that the cultural differences were more significant than he had anticipated. Undeterred, Bob dove headfirst into the vibrant Filipino culture, determined to find his perfect match.
    Bob’s first challenge was getting accustomed to the local cuisine. Being used to American fast food, he was in for a surprise when he ordered a popular Filipino dish called “balut” without knowing what it was. To his shock, Bob found himself staring at a boiled duck embryo. It took all of his courage to try a bite, but he soon discovered that it wasn’t as bad as it seemed, and it became an amusing tale he would later share with his friends.
    As Bob continued his quest for love, he attended various social gatherings and events, trying to meet new people. He was always full of enthusiasm, even when faced with language barriers. However, his attempts at speaking Filipino often resulted in unintentional humor. Instead of saying “Salamat po” (Thank you), Bob would accidentally exclaim “Salami po!” which means “Thank you, sausage!” The locals couldn’t help but laugh, and Bob became known for his unintentional sausage references.
    One day, while exploring the beautiful beaches of Palawan, Bob met Maria, a kind-hearted and cheerful Filipina. They hit it off instantly and spent days together, enjoying the sun, sand, and lots of laughter. Bob finally felt like he had found the connection he had been searching for.
    However, fate had another humorous twist in store for Bob. On their last day together, as they were about to say their goodbyes, Bob decided to surprise Maria with a heartfelt serenade on the beach. With all his might, he began singing a romantic ballad, pouring his heart out to Maria. Little did he know that his singing voice was far from perfect, and the locals nearby couldn’t help but join in the laughter, cheering and clapping for Bob’s enthusiastic but slightly off-key performance.
    Despite the laughter and the occasional cultural mishaps, Bob’s journey to the Philippines turned out to be a heartwarming and funny adventure. In the end, he not only found love but also cherished the memories and experiences that made his search truly unforgettable.

  • @robertl2227
    @robertl2227 Год назад +6

    Online dating has reinforced the attractiveness factor a thousand fold. I read that the top 5% of men date 80% of the women on dating sites.

  • @stevekulbacki5238
    @stevekulbacki5238 Год назад +6

    So true Mark. I was fortunate to go to supervisor training that was taught by lesbian HR professionals. It was an eye opening. Any advance by a male in the workplace was harassment. I spent the rest of my 34 years with that company staying away from the opposite sex. When a woman would talk to me about something not work related I would get nerved up and run as far away as I could get.

  • @rogerreed6656
    @rogerreed6656 Год назад +15

    I was on 2 dating sites in America, and women wouldn't even reply to me. I had a friend who married a Filipina and was very happy. I tried a Filipina dating site and got all kinds girls wanting to talk to me. I met my now wife, and everyone tells me how happy I look now. Guys if you find a good Filipina, you will be amazed.

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  Год назад +5

      Congratulations Roger! I love hearing stories like yours

    • @georgeacenas2349
      @georgeacenas2349 9 месяцев назад

      Tampo=silent treatment

    • @michaelsix9684
      @michaelsix9684 8 месяцев назад

      I'm not surprised, Am. women are too hard to navigate and engage with, most will end up alone, broken, and childless and it's their fault, feminism failed them

    • @unicorn_unicorn6252
      @unicorn_unicorn6252 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@michaelsix9684feminism😂 a lot of us just dont want kids.

  • @billsmith2915
    @billsmith2915 Год назад +6

    wow you were spot on the assessment of current dating market. I met my Filipina 4 years ago online, flew over after covid, and she is the best thing to happen to me. We are now in the K1 visa process and am going to retire to the Philippines in 5 years. She is a god send, she never says no, is loving and kind, and one of the best humans I know. She is nothing like American women, I would advise any man that is wanting to try marriage again to come to Philippines.

  • @bigdreamsphilippines
    @bigdreamsphilippines Год назад +18

    I’m 52 in the USA 🇺🇸 I have a great job , I own a house two blocks from the beach , and I’m a responsible nice guy ! Dating here in the USA is over for me ! And honestly life is hell here ! Basically work and sleep !
    So I jumped on a plane ✈️ and it opened my eyes . I met a beautiful wonderful person in the Philippines 🇵🇭 On our first outing to Kawasan Falls she says to me “ It’s my honor to be with you “!
    I felt like someone punched me in my chest ! Just the care and pure hearts of Filipinos in general changed my life and made me realize I don’t have to die alone in the USA a place I no longer want to be !
    I did not go to the Philippines 🇵🇭 for a relationship I went to try to find a different way of life ! I found it !
    I will move to the Philippines 🇵🇭 as soon as possible !

    • @rexmascarina2169
      @rexmascarina2169 Год назад +2

      Mabuhay!

    • @bigdreamsphilippines
      @bigdreamsphilippines Год назад +3

      @@rexmascarina2169 Philippines 🇵🇭 made me realize life is short ! And I have lots more I want to do !

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  Год назад +4

      I'm so glad you found the girl of your dreams in the Philippines.
      Thank you so much for sharing your experience 😊

    • @bigdreamsphilippines
      @bigdreamsphilippines Год назад +2

      @@everymanhasastory it’s really beautiful Mark ! I’m a hopeless romantic like you describe ! Guys like me are actually valued in the Philippines 🇵🇭 ! I really appreciate your response ! Thx 🙏

    • @michaelsix9684
      @michaelsix9684 8 месяцев назад

      so happy for you, glad you can leave toxic culture pervades America today

  • @goman69
    @goman69 Год назад +9

    Thanks Mark for posting this, like many other men I have given up on dating in America. It's been 8 years since I last took a lady out and that was an disaster, frustration, drama and greed seem to be the norm now!

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  Год назад +2

      Don't give up on love until you have tried the Philippines

    • @michaelsix9684
      @michaelsix9684 11 месяцев назад

      I'm 67, quit at 46, not worth the stress, hassle, frustration --- heard so many divorce stories from friends, maybe I got lucky, never married and no kids -- being single does have some benefits

  • @CassieDavis613
    @CassieDavis613 Год назад +39

    Mark, this is a very thoughtful and well-articulated video. Everyone wants to be loved. In the West, love is a battlefield. Yes, this is coming from a female. Peace.

    • @RetireandGo
      @RetireandGo Год назад +6

      I agree
      I did not even feel comfortable dating in the west anymore. It was like a chore and the overall attitude of the women I dated was worse and worse. I would try to stay happy and positive.
      Eventually I just stopped haha.
      I’m overseas now full time

    • @tccdlinux1471
      @tccdlinux1471 Год назад +5

      @@RetireandGo I am jealous. I went to the Philippines a year ago for a month. Returned to US went to work, felt the stress return and gave my retirement notice the next day. Six weeks later I returned to the Philippines for 4 months. Been back in US for 5 months and June 14 2023 I head back for 4 more months. Wish I would stay longer...someday. It has been a wonderful time and what an education too. Have considered selling my stuff and moving there like Mark and others have done.

    • @John-ds6jz
      @John-ds6jz Год назад +6

      Remember the meaning of love and compassion for man is different to what women is thinking . men are looking for love to initiate their sex drive and women are looking for food and shelter through sex she offers to men . Traditionally that was the case for relationship , but it has changed since women have job security and can provide support for themselves. Therefore the equation of relationship between men and women has nullified.

    • @RetireandGo
      @RetireandGo Год назад +4

      @@John-ds6jz I understand your statement. In the west I just don’t see much benefit in relationships and marriage any more. Friendship yes. I can see men and women being friends.
      Maybe this is why I moved overseas. I don’t know for sure

    • @RetireandGo
      @RetireandGo Год назад

      @Truth That’s all I agree with you.
      I think men want femininity first and foremost.
      Not education or status or even bodacious bodies haha. Feminine women.

  • @tccdlinux1471
    @tccdlinux1471 Год назад +8

    Mark great points. Been with my Filipino a year and she is wonderful. Don't miss the dating in the US

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  Год назад

      Thank you for watching and for taking the time to comment 😀

    • @RetireandGo
      @RetireandGo Год назад +2

      I’m very happy for you. More men need to travel and discover the different cultures and wonderful women around the world.

  • @scottspence8216
    @scottspence8216 Год назад +16

    You nailed it my friend. My beautiful asawa and I truly love, respect, and have open communication. I gave up on western girls 10 years ago. Most, but not all western females are very confrontational, judgmental, insecure, and materialistic. I am extremely blessed to have my wife and her family in my life. She is my best friend and lifetime partner. Warmest Aloha 🙂

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  Год назад +2

      Congratulations Scott. I love hearing stories like yours. Thank you for watching and for taking the time to comment 😀

    • @BUTGOD-j1x
      @BUTGOD-j1x Год назад

      Man, I like your story. Could you share it in detail how met your Asian princess? Maybe on this show.

    • @MediaHappeningNow
      @MediaHappeningNow Год назад

      That's awesome brother 👍
      God bless you guys! 👍🤠👍

  • @RetireandGo
    @RetireandGo Год назад +8

    Good subject.
    There are wonderful ladies around the world to meet and start a new life with. I’m glad men are not just focusing on the West anymore.

  • @kmilton1593
    @kmilton1593 Год назад +12

    Yes, that is an accurate summary of the dating scene here in North America, Mark: if the man can not provide her with status (either good looks and manly athletic figure, or, has a higher paying job) then he is unlikely to qualify!
    I always wanted a woman with no trinkets attached to ears, nose, lips, bellybutton, etc, and wanted one with
    a clean face ( not the painted lips, horrible glued-on eyelashes, plastic fingernails, tattoos, etc) but such women are really hard to find. Mark, you make me wish i was in PH !

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  Год назад +4

      Thank you for watching and for taking the time to comment 😀 Consider coming to the Philippines

  • @jonathanr971
    @jonathanr971 Год назад +2

    Great video and definitely accurate. I’m in my 40s here in Florida. Keep up the good work.

  • @ronfrederico7251
    @ronfrederico7251 Год назад +3

    Some American women set the bar so high for a Man that they couldn’t reach it for them selves. So happy I left the US.

  • @norrisbethke7770
    @norrisbethke7770 Год назад +10

    When you come into a situation where you’re respected and appreciated it can make you feel like a viable human being and then if you find a good relationship in which you can love and be loved you’ll be full and have that feeling of fulfillment and be able to fulfill those feelings in your partner also….so…..amen 🙏🏻👏😘

  • @Music-gw4qf
    @Music-gw4qf Год назад +6

    Given up on American woman.

  • @stevenlawrence5733
    @stevenlawrence5733 Год назад +13

    Adding another reason!!!
    You've been abroad in PH quite a while so you haven't seen American women frequently, and another reason why dating women in America is unappealing is.........
    There's an enormous trend of women in America who are tattooing entirely just one arm and they have to completely cover the entire arm. It's like a growing fashion trend and I truly despise masculine tattoos on a feminine body.
    American women want "the authority of men, the benefit of being a woman, and the accountability of a child"

    • @robertsweet816
      @robertsweet816 Год назад +2

      Some drive Harley’s others drive the family in good ways but low maintence thrifty others live for the moment I’d prefer not have a lady all tattooed up for attention but each their own

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  Год назад +6

      Steven I agree. I hate tatoos on women. They are going to regret it when they get older.

    • @garyzies3486
      @garyzies3486 Год назад

      Tattoos are becoming increasingly popular with Pinays as well....just so you know.

    • @stevenlawrence5733
      @stevenlawrence5733 Год назад +4

      @@garyzies3486
      Yes you are correct but not to the volume of American women and nothing wrong with a feminine tattoo but when a woman decided to cover her entire one arm in tattoo ink like an NBA basketball player I certainly will lose interest in dating her.

    • @garyzies3486
      @garyzies3486 Год назад +1

      @@stevenlawrence5733 So do I 🙂

  • @pete546
    @pete546 Год назад +4

    the question is always.......what does she have to offer.....it is a reality check like no other.......

  • @robertcarlclayton7724
    @robertcarlclayton7724 Год назад +8

    Men prefer feminine, not feminist

  • @mikewoodley8767
    @mikewoodley8767 Год назад +7

    I have avoided females since the pandademic 🇨🇦

  • @rosskennedy3987
    @rosskennedy3987 Год назад +6

    Great work Mark. Giving Australian men hope.

  • @steveperyer4850
    @steveperyer4850 Год назад +5

    Mark, you are telling the life of trying to date American women in a nut shell. Thank you for listening, and understanding. 😊

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  Год назад

      Steve thank you for watching ☺️ And for taking the time to comment 😀

  • @stevenr1354
    @stevenr1354 Год назад +2

    Excellent video. Well thought out and well presented. And that photo of Jen is stellar. Glad everything has worked out so well for you both.

  • @garyt7232
    @garyt7232 Год назад +3

    Enjoyed this one. So true about the "confrontation" and all the drama in the States. All the best to you and Jen.

  • @rvchris9213
    @rvchris9213 Год назад +1

    You covered all the points very well !

  • @lukelucas68
    @lukelucas68 Год назад +5

    Just a simple compliment is considered sexual harassment in USA now. I don't even look at women anymore. I'm afraid they'll sue me.

  • @jisal6530
    @jisal6530 Год назад +6

    Im proud being a Filipino but everywhere its good luck finding the right one for everyone. It has also the discernment of the Qualities you prioritize in the lady your choosing…with God’s guidance to….above all love is everyone needs….

  • @Crankerny58
    @Crankerny58 Год назад +2

    Very well said! You are spot on!

  • @stankos1637
    @stankos1637 Год назад +2

    Mark we not all from America in Europe Australia it’s exactly same situation.

  • @asdfgh123lkjhgf
    @asdfgh123lkjhgf Год назад +3

    Woman all around the entire globe are largely attracted to males that can offer financial security/betterment, it makes biological sense and the filipino fermales are 100% onboard along with their western counterparts. Asian women 100% do their own financial assessment of men, they may be a little more subtle about it and/or perhaps the US men are less sensitive to the "judgement" due the woman most likely being in a weaker financial position. I think the biggest difference is really just that of availability, woman in asian are just far more available to western men - all shapes, sizes, hairlines and hair colours (the already mentioned economic criteria is lowered by the cost of living / average wealth of a fillipino family). Other than that it comes down to aesthetics - I live in the west and asian women turn my head here all the time, I find them beautiful and what red blooded male that is looking at a long dark haired, tanned skinned and slim figured woman would not come to the same conclusion. Lastly, nobody really "vouches" for men in the west anymore (did they ever?) but to be honest that is on us men how we handle or crumble under that sort of modern day nonsense. Woman in asia are more available and personally speaking often way more attractive - that's the simple bottom line.

    • @asdfgh123lkjhgf
      @asdfgh123lkjhgf Год назад +1

      They (asian women gf's/wives) come with their own barrage of brawbacks as well though.... "the silent treatment" you mention can be tiresome and childish... the lack of real depth to conversations... cultural differences that can be mind boggling and you will be none the wiser whay because of the "silent treatment".... based on thai females a high percentage are also prone to displaying bi-polar tendancies which are again predictable and tedious (at best). You still have to keep your wits about you with regards to your finances, in teh west the courts etc expedite destroying men's finances but theye are many ways to skin a cat.. and most were probably invented in asia!

  • @davidmarkmann6098
    @davidmarkmann6098 Год назад +1

    Another great one Mark!

  • @MJFUYT
    @MJFUYT Год назад +1

    One of the best videos that I've seen on YT. 💯

  • @kinglucas9922
    @kinglucas9922 Год назад +1

    💯 real talk!! Keep up the great content!! Thanks!

  • @michaelsix9684
    @michaelsix9684 11 месяцев назад +2

    never date or approach women at work, after college, HS, the dating world is awful, online dating is a bust

  • @diddles1611
    @diddles1611 Год назад +2

    Thank You, I have been trying to explain to my Filipina this very topic. She watched this video and understands me even better now. Why I feel at peace when I am with her. No drama mama!!! Thanks again.

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  Год назад +1

      Thank you for watching and for taking the time to comment 😀

  • @curtiscagle6261
    @curtiscagle6261 Год назад +3

    The dating situation is terrible here in mid America. Ask my sister who is 65 and divorced.

  • @seanyhawx
    @seanyhawx Год назад +5

    I got married in Philippines 26 years ago
    The last 25 years lived in california
    Marriage going great

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  Год назад

      Congratulations! And thank you for watching ☺️

    • @robertsweet816
      @robertsweet816 Год назад

      Move east better eco.times not the east coast west coast thing though love California

  • @jamesrecknor6752
    @jamesrecknor6752 Год назад +1

    An excellent talk sir. Thank you

  • @rexmascarina2169
    @rexmascarina2169 Год назад +2

    Thank you for promoting the Philippines 🇵🇭.

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  Год назад +1

      Thank you for letting me live in your beautiful country

  • @skyking6989
    @skyking6989 Месяц назад +1

    At 37 im tired. Tired of being used and abused. Tired of having to deal with obese bad attitudes single moms etc etc

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  Месяц назад +1

      Move to the Philippines and start a new adventure and life

  • @michaelbelnap6112
    @michaelbelnap6112 Год назад +2

    Great video, Mark. You’re very kind and put your point across nice. Unfortunately, I think women in America need to realize not all men tiptoe and not all men give a crap about their wants and needs. It’s funny you don’t hear the word equality when the scale tips the other way. Men have preference and choices too.

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  Год назад +1

      Well said Michael. Thank you for watching and for taking the time to comment 😀

  • @freshaloha4747
    @freshaloha4747 Год назад +3

    Extremely informative video content. Love the great value of your channel….

  • @jayannamarille8398
    @jayannamarille8398 Год назад

    I agree.... your content makes sense and very realistic.

  • @getbusydrizzy5296
    @getbusydrizzy5296 Год назад +3

    RELATIONSHIPS HAVE BEATEN US MEN DOWN MR MARK. THIS STUFF HURTS IN AMERICA

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  Год назад +2

      I'm sorry to hear that 😔 Come to the Philippines 🇵🇭

    • @getbusydrizzy5296
      @getbusydrizzy5296 Год назад +1

      @Every Man Has a Story coming that way. That video was THE TRUTH

  • @oncall21
    @oncall21 Год назад

    Great video Mark. So true what you are saying. I don’t want to generalize but when it comes to work and women today that’s a big no no. When I was younger I met most of my girlfriends at University and later work. Today if I even thought about it I would be stood down. Even work relationships that go South can come back to bite you. I’ll email you again and I’m looking forward to being in the Philippines in July. Thanks for sharing!

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  Год назад +1

      Thank you for watching I'm looking forward to meeting you 😀

  • @michaelsix9684
    @michaelsix9684 8 месяцев назад +1

    we do things if there is a payoff, there is no payoff for dating anymore, every woman in US wants a ten even if she is a five or less -- quit dating at 46, now 68 don't miss it, never planned on marriage -- life is not what you want , it's what works out most of the time

  • @richieredw9218
    @richieredw9218 Год назад +4

    I'm not American but I was married to a Filipina for 6 years, never tried to find out why she had " tampo" i just let her get on with it until it was over. From the stories coming out of the US right now it seems that the society is divided big time and some men get fed up with the current situation and decide to leave for "greener pastures", with the hope of experiencing a better quality of life with stress free living together with a Filipina spouse/girlfriend, that is if they leave their "baggage" behind in the US and decide to move on.

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  Год назад +2

      Thank you for watching Richie. And for taking the time to comment 😀

  • @tbobtbob330
    @tbobtbob330 24 дня назад +1

    I could do fine if I wanted to date in the US, but I'm mgtow these days because women are just not worth the trouble. If I was interested in dating, I'd be screwed anyway because I have absolutely zero physical attraction to women who aren't very western European looking. Luckily, I've had my fill and am more than satisfied just being done.

  • @99awindy
    @99awindy Год назад +8

    Well done, Mark. The late, great Rush Limbaugh once said: “Feminism was created to give less attractive women greater access to the mainstream of society”. In the current U.S. social dynamic we’re seeing the results of 50+ years of feminism infiltrating our great country (along with a few other major social viruses, too!). If I were a betting man, I’d say this is yet another major reason our compatriots are seeking out the very best-Filipinas! I speak with authority having been very happily married to one for 20 years now. . . . Best Wishes to you and your wife

    • @linettetenazas
      @linettetenazas Год назад +1

      He was indeed one of the greatest. I sure miss him❤

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  Год назад +1

      Thank you so much for watching and for taking the time to share your thoughts 😊

  • @johncano3972
    @johncano3972 Год назад +1

    GOOD VIDEO MARK.
    THANKS THE REALITY IN AMERICA. HOPEFULLY IN 2 YEARS I WILL BE EXPERIENCING PHILIPPINE CULTURE..

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  Год назад

      John thanks for watching. And please look me up if you make it to Dumaguete.
      Markfthornton@yahoo.com

    • @johncano3972
      @johncano3972 Год назад

      @Every Man Has a Story Absolutely Mark. Thanks for the invitation.
      I still working on my pension. So in 2 years I will be eligible for early retirement. Looking forward to meet you and the beautiful philipino culture..👍🏼

  • @whatevertheworldholds
    @whatevertheworldholds Год назад +1

    Enjoyed the video Mark God Bless and take care

  • @gunnydeeP.I.
    @gunnydeeP.I. Год назад +4

    Interesting vid. Theres some perspectives i would appreciate the opportunity to talk about. Im moving there full time so maybe one day we have a talk to exchange dialog.

    • @gunnydeeP.I.
      @gunnydeeP.I. Год назад

      By moving there I mean.... This month. Not some far off 3 years from now thing.

    • @RetireandGo
      @RetireandGo Год назад

      Moving full time to the Philippines? That’s great! I wish you all the best with this new chapter in your life :-)

    • @gunnydeeP.I.
      @gunnydeeP.I. Год назад +2

      @@RetireandGo Thanks man. Appreciate that. I researched it for 4 years while I was working a government job and playing music full time... Never been there but a good grip on things. I retired from the Marines and been all around Asia before.... So I got it. I'm 49 and I'm checking out out the whole working till I'm dead thing.... Quit my job last week .. flying in on the 21st. Finances on lock to live upper class life there (not that I care, I'm happy with simple things). I'm prepared.

    • @RetireandGo
      @RetireandGo Год назад +1

      @@gunnydeeP.I. boom ! I like to read this ! I’m very happy for you.
      Please keep us updated however you can.
      I’m former USN by the way. My dad is a retired Marine. So Semper Fi from our family to you

  • @MyLifeThai371
    @MyLifeThai371 Год назад +2

    My girlfriend in Manila back in 2016 was making $11/day working the night shift at the Verizon call center working 10 hrs, Monday - Friday.

  • @Phoenix_Enterprises
    @Phoenix_Enterprises Год назад +3

    I'm retired from dating for now. Thanks for stating this very clearly from a mans point of view. I don't even talk to women much anymore. :)

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  Год назад +1

      That's too bad. Come to the Philippines 🇵🇭

    • @Phoenix_Enterprises
      @Phoenix_Enterprises Год назад

      @@everymanhasastory It's on my bucket list. I want to see Australia also.

  • @johncruz7895
    @johncruz7895 Год назад +1

    What you have related is the beautiful part of having a relationship with women in the provinces. Women in big cities like Manila are much like women in American cities - generally materialistic and opinionated, if not "alphabetically" weird. Candidly, the trade off is having a conversation on matters other than the weather.

  • @KevinP32270
    @KevinP32270 Год назад +1

    Facts ❤

  • @lathamallika1482
    @lathamallika1482 Год назад +5

    well put mark ,i lived in chaing mai in northern Thailand and saw exactly what you are saying ,western women are too demanding ,

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  Год назад

      Thank you for watching ☺️

    • @RetireandGo
      @RetireandGo Год назад +1

      I think western women are not sure exactly what they want either. The mixed signals and dangers of legal issues just trying to get to know them.
      I’m not dating in the west anymore.
      I’m enjoying my travels.
      I love chiang mai by the way

    • @michaelsix9684
      @michaelsix9684 Год назад

      they are also delusional, self absorbed, often in debt, overweight, and promiscuous, you can have 'em

  • @MyIslandRetreat
    @MyIslandRetreat Год назад +1

    Well stated

  • @sysyjuan9899
    @sysyjuan9899 Год назад

    Hi, Mark its good for doing good and taken care of your wife

  • @gibblespascack1418
    @gibblespascack1418 Год назад +1

    The algorithm must have picked up on your video mentioning cruise ships. Because the adds popping up during the video is for Viking Cruises. That is kind of funny, but if I was more paranoid, i would expect that they are advertising according to the content.

  • @Elvin6219
    @Elvin6219 Год назад +3

    Hey Mark you right on point Filipino dont like confrontation im married with my Filipina wife for eighteen years and counting but sometimes she get tempo but im very happy with my wife.

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  Год назад +1

      Thank you for watching Elvin and for taking the time to share your experience 😊

    • @garyzies3486
      @garyzies3486 Год назад

      It's called tampo with an "a" ;-)

  • @seanyhawx
    @seanyhawx Год назад +1

    Some men in the United States have given up on dating

  • @ScooterOnHisWay2024
    @ScooterOnHisWay2024 Год назад +12

    So many American women are simply ... unpleasant company. I am sure us guys are frequently difficult as well (to put it nicely), but dating is clearly not worth the 'payoff' - which is usually a twice divorced woman with children from 3 different baby daddies and 5 digits worth of credit card debt. Hard pass, regardless of how pretty they might be. (usually not)

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  Год назад +1

      Thank you for watching and for taking the time to share your thoughts 😊

  • @kbsquare
    @kbsquare Год назад +5

    Do some of these older expat husbands sometimes find that their younger Filipina wives have local boyfriends too?

  • @patrickobrien4399
    @patrickobrien4399 Год назад +1

    Good Video

  • @billhamm3234
    @billhamm3234 Год назад

    Thank you for sharing some interesting information. You mentioned that many American women are picky . That is true to a certain extent. One other thing I think is worth mentioning. The average height of an American woman is 5 feet 4 inches, but many of them will not date men below the height of 5 feet 8 inches. So much for being a short American male. My Filipino gf noted that there are quite a few expats there that are below the average height . Take it for what it's worth. According to one RUclips interview, most Filipino women prefer men that are at least 5 feet 6 inches tall ! I guess there is hope for shorter American men (like myself) in the Philippines 😊

  • @nevetzedek1702
    @nevetzedek1702 Год назад +1

    You’re the doing the right decision in your life 👍

  • @jimdunlap2769
    @jimdunlap2769 Год назад +2

    Im here because my wife in America passed away from Cancer after 20 years of marriage...she wanted me to continue the dream of years of planning...it was hard to do without her...but here i am...never to go back to America

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  Год назад +2

      I hope things work out for you Jim. Thank you for watching and for taking the time to comment 😀

  • @alannemeth3293
    @alannemeth3293 Год назад

    Yes, very good.

  • @williambliss5244
    @williambliss5244 Год назад

    very good video

  • @jonb3189
    @jonb3189 Год назад +2

    Agreed, only 100%. However, you bring that Philippina to the USA (or any Western country for that matter), watch how fast everyone turns on you. Your friends. Family. Co-Workers.

  • @710melpgh
    @710melpgh Год назад +6

    Hey Mark I just watch your replay video. And what you’re saying is true. Well said Mark. Yes Philippines culture are more way different here in the US

  • @young749Au
    @young749Au Год назад +1

    There are a lot of Filipina women who make really good spouses. I brought my Filipina to the states almost 14 years ago. I was careful to keep her away from the American women. When we came back to the Philippines for a longer stay, many here were amazed that my Filipina spouse had not become "Americanized". They were happy for her and our family. I was happy too!
    No matter how good a Filipina you marry, if you allow her to come under the influence of today's Western culture, she very well could become "Americanized" or "Westernized". Then she will become no better than what you left in the states or Western country.
    Protect your Filipina. Keep her away from western women and other Filipinas that have become Westernized. Such are most miserable women. I sure don't want any of them to make my life miserable by influencing my Filipina with their ways of self focus and interests. Whenever either a man or woman gets focused mainly on themselves, this is inquity. It has no regard for either God or others. Where iniquity abounds love grows cold.

  • @timstafford355
    @timstafford355 Год назад

    Thanks for the reminder brother!! Your livin my future dream
    20 friends in 1 night! Wow!
    🙏 🙏 🤲 ⛪️

  • @markjones4814
    @markjones4814 Год назад +2

    Yeah, you were really don’t know what it’s like nowadays. Most men that are going there or looking for someone who hasn’t been ran through. That hasn’t slept with 20 or 50 guys.

  • @whiterabbit3439
    @whiterabbit3439 Год назад +2

    "Get to the chopper!"

  • @DamingSurot
    @DamingSurot Год назад +1

    Shout out to your family and friends in America.

  • @curtis9115
    @curtis9115 Год назад +2

    Hi Mark, excellent video! Your positive reinforcement is desperately needed for guys like me here in America. I would like your opinion on one thing. Maybe you can do a video about this. I enjoy working on houses and would really like to continue doing what I enjoy if I move to your area. I worry however that if I build a house there that having something of such value there compared to the average Filipino could bring out the worst in even the best woman, after all we are all human and human nature sometimes causes even the best person to do things that may be out of character when the opportunity presents itself. What have you seen as far as a track record for guys doing this.

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  Год назад +3

      Check out
      Jules in the Philippines channel
      He's buying land and building houses to sell. His business is booming

    • @curtis9115
      @curtis9115 Год назад

      @@everymanhasastory Thank you.

  • @hitechburg
    @hitechburg Год назад +3

    MEN get your PASSPORT, there are thousands of fit, feminine, cooperative women in SOUTHEAST ASIA.

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  Год назад +2

      Thank you for watching Freddie ☺️

    • @hitechburg
      @hitechburg Год назад

      @@everymanhasastory Everyone calls me BURG.

  • @jamesmichaelfrank
    @jamesmichaelfrank Год назад +1

    That hat and That map are a winning combination.

  • @L4P-Monk
    @L4P-Monk Год назад +2

    Personally… monk mode is the best stress free option. I can do what I want and when I want without getting yacked.

  • @travelingdude1621
    @travelingdude1621 Месяц назад +1

    Hi Mark. I might fully retire at age 62 from the US and I’d like to maybe retire in the PH. I never got married, never had kids but realize I could still do those things. Could a man support a wife and a kid very comfortably economically in the PH on $2,500 USD a month for life? I’m also looking at other countries and continents in the world to retire to on the cheap as well. The US is just too expensive with too many issues and is too far gone, especially with women and traditional family life. Thank you sir.

  • @stevenlawrence5733
    @stevenlawrence5733 Год назад +2

    Dating American women..............
    WHAT'S THE RETURN?? WHAT RETURN ARE YOU GETTING ON DATING AMERICAN WOMEN??
    The return on American women isn't very good. I live in New York City Manhattan and if I go to a rooftop bar in Manhattan I'm spending $100 bucks easy on drinks and food not looking to get drunk and WHAT'S THE RETURN just being out and about at night in bars in America???
    What's the return in America on Tinder??
    It is what it is.

  • @john1957john
    @john1957john Год назад +2

    You are absolute right, the best thing I ever did was finding my Filipina ❤

  • @freddymorales6886
    @freddymorales6886 Год назад +3

    Im happy not getting married

  • @robertsweet816
    @robertsweet816 Год назад +1

    Keep up the good u tub mark keep this interviews coming just keep on watching with a fine Texan gentleman interviewed it makes a world of difference as well combined .I’d like for you to celebrate your anniversary with us the friends and viewers when it comes about see what you can arrange r.paul sweet

  • @erlasteredrial7517
    @erlasteredrial7517 Год назад +3

    What is this guy the World Zoom ? Is he crazy? He is talking bad abt Dumaguete and the Philippines as a whole not a good retirement place for retirees to like. He is crazy!

  • @linkuriboh471
    @linkuriboh471 9 месяцев назад +1

    Their dads are getting divorced.

  • @shaneross64
    @shaneross64 Год назад +8

    It's strange, since I've been set in coming to the Phillipines to find a fillipina to marry or have a long-term partner( the last two years) I haven't looked at all to date. I'm faithful to my fillipina and I haven't even met her yet. Lol. I'm coming to the Phillipines this October for a few months to scout out where I want to live.

    • @RetireandGo
      @RetireandGo Год назад +2

      You have a healthy attitude about dating and relationships. I hope you find the one and enjoy your life in the Philippines

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  Год назад +2

      Good for you Shane. I hope I get to meet you when you come here

    • @shaneross64
      @shaneross64 Год назад +3

      Thanks Mark. I'd love to meet you. I have a stuttering problem when I'm nervous so I might not want to embarrass myself and give an interview unless you can edit really good haha. But honestly I'm thinking the Phillipines will help meet my stress and I'll be able to be fluent. The US has a way of stressing a lot of people out, even those with good jobs. I just want a good woman who we can talk a lot together and never get bored. I have saved enough to go explore all over so maybe I'll find someone who would want to do that with me too. I love mountains more then the ocean so I'm thinking Dumaguete is where I might be settling. I'll do my due diligence though so I'm not wondering if I made the right decision.
      I really enjoy your interviews Mark. You're one of my favorite vloggers and personalities.

    • @Gorg-lt5zi
      @Gorg-lt5zi Год назад +1

      @@shaneross64 Baguio might be the best place for you. It’s a developed city on top of the mountains, cost of living is very affordable and it has a cool nice weather all year round 😉

    • @MrArcher181
      @MrArcher181 Год назад

      Prepared to be fleeced. 😊

  • @chalabiste8300
    @chalabiste8300 Год назад

    Never a good idea to try to date a women at work.

  • @stan121midling5
    @stan121midling5 Год назад +1

    yea Mark we think a like, i even told my Filipino wifey the same thing ok :0

  • @Jcope-ce9ef
    @Jcope-ce9ef 10 месяцев назад +1

    I gave up and live alone in the Philippines

  • @mattsugg3901
    @mattsugg3901 Год назад +2

    Can't wait to start my journey. Work 1 year, retire 1 year. 1 work year (usa) retire 1 year (asia). All the while maxing out my IRA each year until I'm 60

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  Год назад +1

      Sounds like a solid plan Matt. Thank you for watching ☺️