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Diagnosed with prostate cancer last week. Please pray for me. Thank you.
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🙏I pray you find help and inner peace brother
Sending healing vibes to your prostate brother, no homo.
Avoid if you can any chemo or radiation.
Look into intravenous bicarbonate of soda and oxygen.
Neither of these are allowed in western medicine.
Nor is intravenous Vit C for any ANY disease that causes hospitalization. The doctors will fight tooth and nail to stop it incl court cases.
Good luck
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Men simply dont want to be stepdads.
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Yeah man. I just can't be a step dad. Too proud to do that nonsense
It’s wrong on so many levels
Right on! We don’t want another man’s kids.
Step-dads suck. I had several. None of them ever loved me
No one has given up.
They've woken up.
No. They are dumb. They need Christianity. They need to stop having sex outside of marriage, and to get married. Then things will be the way they want them to be.
it'll take time before most realize this
@@odoylerules4503 It'll never happen in my opinion. Too many desperate simp-letons.
"While the women may be bat-$hit crazy, the men are just straight up stupid."
@@odoylerules4503 ...Usually not until their 3rd or forth marraige
@@Tboy439 loll
Id rather catch parked cars with my teeth than struggle against the wind trying to impress people who will never even like me anyway.
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Yup.
I gave up.. I don’t trust women anymore
I don't trust humanity anymore
Oh grow up. Stop the pity party. Women are as unique and distinctive as an human being, individually, just like men. Stop applying a generalized statement to each and every person who happens to be a woman. It is an excuse for a lack of an accountability, on our part, for our own choices. We can’t keep blaming women for our own weakness and lack of conviction. If we can hope to have any resilience and genuine character, as men, we must stop feeling sorry for ourselves and looking for anyone else to blame, other than ourselves. That is cowardly. This dude is insecure as hell.
I have to say.......I'm right there with ya.
Stay strong. @brandonharris9160
I don't blame you
Just because I live in this world, doesn't mean I have to participate in the madness.
thats how i feel man, ill do my own thing over here, everyone else can go nuts over there.
Use the same criteria for marriage as do women: there is no need for marriage unless you want a child.
Life is madness, it's just a matter of how much madness you want to be involved in.
@@JackMason-oq8lf Even if you want a child I wouldn't get married. It is just a gain for the woman and a negative for the man. You can still be a dad without the contract that can and will be used against you.
It is not a sign of mental health to adapt to a sick society
The biggest lie...Hard work will pay off. Like he said, kissing ass and backstabbing gets you ahead. I'm done.
Well, I don't butt kiss or backstab.....I'm screwed. Guess I'll get comfy at the bottom
Hard work DOES pay off but it is NO guarantee you will get what you want. Instead you get what you deserve which can be hard to accept
@@awakenwithoutcoffee In some cases it pays off, not all the time. There's even people who are lazy and can make way more money by sitting on their couch than say a construction worker who brakes his back everyday building infrastructure.
Even if you kiss butt or backstab - the owners nephew still has top priority
Dude this comment hit hard.
Its correct especially in the workplace. Ive experienced it myself first hand its the people who do suck ass get somewere. And the guys who work there asses off end up getting backstabbied sacked or a injury like myself
Its sad dude really is sad thing is that 15 years ago it was never this way...
If the game is rigged against you there's no point playing. Men are walking away to find a different game that's equal chance.
I'm not giving up I'm just not putting up with any bs anymore...
Smart man
Exactly. Avoiding the rotten poon is not giving up.
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Facts!
So you're done!!
The game is rigged against us. The less you play, the more you win, you get to keep your house, your money, your health, your peace, your independence and your sanity. Sounds like a win to me, i speak from experience, and i’m 48.
Very true!
well said
But you lose your country.
@@cerberus8666 true, no breeding, no population maintenance, others come in w 10 kids per woman.. it's over
@@Ljosi A people losing its vitality will do this, the human race is hungry for land. A people must carry momentum.
Same as some woman. I’m 36, single, no kids, very happy live-in aunty. I don’t date, just do my thing, work part time as a vet nurse because screw working FT, I want some life balance and I live within my means. I have a loving family and friends and have accepted this is my life. I am a genuine person and just want to enjoy the little things in life and live a peaceful, drama free life. This world is a mess, social media has been the main downfall of society imo. Stay strong ya’ll and do you!
Getting married with a nice family is what I wanted. But a decent loving Western woman does not exist anymore.
It’s not remotely the same. Women have their issues but it’s not relatable as our mating goals are adversarial. Women are meant to filter for the best men in society covertly while men compete to be the best (just like you filter in the female dominated shopping industry). Now men and women have reached some level of ethical equality and it’s making it harder for women to do their job in selecting.
Very smart woman
I️ never go out anymore, I️ go to work, go to the gym and play ps5 and read. That’s it, fuck everything else. This world sucks and the people in it are awful
Hahaha! I say the same all the time. Most likely going to give thr Philippines a try when I can. They don't even know what road rage is!!
I hear ya
I need to get a PS5...Then I will be complete...
I agree
Maybe do something more productive than play ps5 and pump weights.
Like, homestead a farm or something, raise some cattle, so you got a dowry to give to the family back when you take her daughter and get married. I mean, what do you have to offer now as a dowry, a scratched up copy of Mario Kart?
People as a whole need to overwhelmingly get off of social media/dating apps altogether. It isn't a shock that our society completely went sour somewhere between 2009-2010 and on. It's all tied back to socializing being replaced by social media.
It's not just social media, but it does play a big role.
People are also very fed up with the government to the point they just do not care to do better.
Working a job to just get by in life is the norm for a lot of people (Always has been) but now it seems to be a reality for most, because why try harder for marginal returns?
I guess you could argue the internet has shined light on this.
Dating, well lets cut the fluff, women are a big problem in that area to for men...
1/3 men are sexless, women its 1/6. Women get more what they want than men do in the dating sphere. They have options, the average men doesn't, at all...
@@ddontyyfacts
Cutting back on internet usage and avoiding sites like Instagram completely is very helpful I've found. You have to go against the current in a lot of respects these days.
@@johnc2802 yep, never even used instagram… never saw the need for it….for me it’s mostly RUclips and I’ll check facebook a few times a week
I'm a firm believer dating apps lose people's self esteem, people used to just meet chick's naturally, store, mall, etc now there are so many fascets to how it works.
I’ve given up on women but not myself.
Yeah giving up as well still here trying for myself.
Watch The Post-Feminism Man by Barbarossa fellas 💪 🙏
Not putting yourself first is ironically where most mens trouble with women begins.
You're killing it!
That means you are smarter than most good for you man 🤜🏽🤛🏻
After my last relationship:
I moved in with my best male friend (we both mgtow)
half rent, half cost, no drama, everythings clean, everythings fine, we're safe, we work towards fck u money
we have a home gym!!
we're not abusing anyone, we're not opening up to some bs, we just do what has do be done and keep our peace.
GUYS, DO IT!
If this makes you happy, there is literally nothing wrong with taking this path.
I gave up in 2008. I don't trust anybody anymore.
you can trust your mirror in the morning
I did the same thing around the same exact time man. Good to know I wasn't alone.
Try to trust someone please 🙏
2009 was when I gave up.
I gave up dating. The constant rejection, being ignored, and ghosted, used for foodie calls, not being good enough no matter how low you set your standards. It’s all bull crap. My last straw was being treated like dog crap by a church girl that supposedly centers her life around Christ.
I went through something similar. After that, I was done.
Hey I know dating sucks and I'm not trying to make it sound like a fun experience. But I've noticed that, when I lowered my standards, it always got worse.
It's only when I say "Forget these mediocre hoes, I'm only gonna give these women the time of day if they're quality." And women can sense that I have higher standards, and respect me more for it.
But, I've never had a great long-term relationship, so I'm no expert. But I also know that's cause of my choldhood trauma lol
@@TirianOfNarnia problem is I went for church chicks and they are just as delusional as secular ones.
Sorry to hear that man
Thy're the worst. Christian women have the highest standards, and always need someone to be on their level 'spiritually'. Bullshit
"It's no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society."
-J. Krishnamurti
That is so true bro
All time favorite quote that I remind myself of constantly
J krishnamurti was ahead of us he know will collapsed
Namaste
@@ominousbiscuit Me as well. My other favorite is "A cup that remains full ceases to be useful."
I'm 36, never married, homeless since the pandemic, and living in an old Toyota Sienna minivan now, despite working, and not addicted to drugs. I'm very lonely and depressed.
Your not alone. More and more are in the same boat today. Even myself now even I can a apartment I chose to pay off my bills now before I get a place. Thank to my last ex and myself spending lots if $$$ on her thinking she was a good one, NOT!
Pay all your bills off then looknforb cheap apatment or buy something cheap. Thr rents will and are burning people today thanks to the greedy!!
Prayers for you 🤲🙏 and respect for honesty and bravery . İ Hope everything will be ok !
I know u probably heard it b4 but try to join some club u r remotely interested in. Or else volunteer in ur free time. At least ull meet some people that way
@@spongybone4071 I'm behind on bills and struggling to put gas in my van. I literally can't afford to be volunteering.
Why don't you move to Gary, Indianna and live in an abaonded house. There must be thousands of them in Gary. And well all over the US actually. There were a lot more before the pandemic, but the rich city folks bought them all up and moved out into the countryside to get away from their city spread diseases.
I stopped playing the game years ago. Now I'm enjoying life, and it's peaceful and drama free.
I am 24 years old, am a loner,, and have not socially talked to a girl outside work place or family in 4 years.. Most would probably think it is sad but I have never been happier. I have lost 45 pounds, fully gave myself to god, got a career job, and get to travel and spend time with family peacefully. I encourage every guy to try to stop socializing with women and see how much peace comes into your life when you do.
EDIT: glad i am not only one...stay humble and peace be with all you men
What I did!! After being ghosted and rejected a lot I ignore them and enjoy my hobbies
@@stevo6891 yay!!! it is crazy how much peace came into my life once i just stopped
My advice - your 26-32 are your prime years contrary to what redpill says. If you still want to find a QLALITY woman - find you in your prime. In your mid 30's - mid 40's all dating market is a dumpster fire
@@HCforLife1 god has blessed me with so much peace and happiness that i have not felt the need really to find a woman....i cant explain the peace i have within my self
You are happy being a loner at 24…lets revisit if you still want to be a loner at 44
At 63 my game is up,i just enjoy peace and quiet.The world was here and in a mess when i got here and it will be here and in a bigger mess when i leave.
I relate to that bro , I live up on the mountains(of Pakistan) in a small house totally off grid with my wife and no one else, we are visited by lot of birds, few dogs, goats and cows, its peaceful.
I'll be 61 next month. Had two wives (10 years each) and had to sue both for divorce. I've mostly lived alone for the last 20 years, and have enjoyed the same GF for 17 years. I have my own place and she has hers. Works out great. No drama. We were blessed to be born and grow up prior to the internet age. I had an ideal childhood growing up on the farm. I mostly worry for my two daughters and my grandchildren going forward. I've found peace in my church and gave my second sermon in March. It's my mission to bring as many people back to the Lord as I can, and especially younger folks. It's the best way to build a better nation!
@@rumarey2 You're living the dream sir.
@@Fillup82 Thank you Fillup if you ever visit be my guest😊
Turning 64 in a few short months. I got lucky when I married my wife 43 years ago. I was 21, she was 19. Can’t imagine starting over with another woman. I don’t think I would or could.
I donate money anonymously to charities I believe in.
I avoid society as much as possible.
I pity people but I want nothing to do with them.
I quit my 6-figure job to start my own business. 23 years working for a handful of companies. I planned my exit. Paid off my mortgage and all my other debts. Saved a few years emergency fund. I feel amazing now that I'm my own boss 😎 🙌 💪
The only way to win now is not to play.
sit back with a beer and watch the world burn
@@karlhans6678 Just bought a tiny homestead in the country. I will watch it all fkin burn from there.
It’s like the movie War Games. 😂
@@user-bl4fj7qp8r Exactly! 😂
@@user-bl4fj7qp8r I thought the exact same thing when I saw his comment, lol! Great movie.
“It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable.”
- Socrates
Drago was right after all “ I don’t fight for you I fight for me”. When women get their head out of the clouds the retaingang will be here.
Na we still working out solo
@@trickywily2823that’s exactly what the quote is saying homie
Guys need to work out more. It’s horrible out there as I see so
Many out of shape guys and girls. It is rare to see someone that looks to be in decent shape
K
My experience - if a woman is somewhat attractive - she will date you UNTIL someone with more money comes along.
Yep. Every single time
Always 100 percent correct then she has a problem with that guy cause he doesn't give her enough attention
That's hypergamy. It is ingrained in their biology, it is why humanity has evolved. If they werent like that, bums and losers would procreate far easier than they already do, and their crap genes would be even more widespread.
Not saying its right, its just for you to know the biology behind it because there is the other side of the coin that you really are competent but they just keep chasing the imaginary unicorn.
False, they only care about looks
@@_Brutal_ Young - looks, Older - money.
Younger guys don't know how fun the game was. I can't imagine entering adulthood in this climate. I've had my decades of fun.
As a 39 year old who is childless and never been married, I struggle each day to find my true purpose. I occasionally ask myself why am I still here and for what reason.
Get your passport sir.
If you don't try to have kids, everything you do is for nothing. Kids are the legacy.
45 same place
@@nomadundercover3018not if the kids r a disappointment
Exact same place as you and I will be 40 this year.
Guys you need money with or without women, and without them you have way more money.
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Money equals freedom
But society collapses as a result
What then do you spend your money on? If you don't have a wife? What then is the purpose of your existence? Just accumulating material posessions? You're of use to no one in this world. I don't have any motivation to make money if I don't have a wife and kids. I don't need much for myself. Then why go on working long hours? I need to live for some higher purpose, not just living for money or for things. When you die, where will your money go? Will it be confiscated by the government, if you don't have any family? Why you were working all those years? One thing that the pandemic taught me is that anyone can die at any time suddenly, so life is short. I've accepted that my life may not be so long. So I want to have a family of my own, someone to live for, while I'm still on this planet dedicate my life to someone. I don't need "women", I don't need prostitutes, I just need a loyal and loving wife, one who is worthy enough for me to dedicate my life to her.
Exactly keep and enjoy your money
"A time is coming when men will go mad, and when they see someone who is not mad, they will attack him saying, 'You are mad, you are not like us.'" - St Anthony the Great.
I've experienced this recently. Freakin' mind boggling when you actually experience it first hand.
Were already there with politics. If you tell them (either side) that you are apolitical. You will soon witness an unhinged mental apparatus spew indoctrination as if you swung a knife cleaved an artery!
That's because hard workers get stuck doing all the work.
and get none of the reward.
and then get fired for no known reason
It's ok to give up on woman, but it's not ok to give up on yourself.
I'm a married man and i was happier when i was alone.
It is good to be single guys.
Don't rush into relationships or marriage.
Wise words
Marriedcel
fuck thats terrible
Don't rush into marriage, I agree on that one. No rush guys, and no pressure to marry. If there is pressure, then imo it will end in a divorce. Good luck to all.
why do you say staying single is good?
Society is collapsing on all levels. The good times are over. I hope everyone in our community is preparing for the hyperinflation.
You are right but i really wish you werent
Even when empires fell, some people found ways to thrive.
But society isn’t collapsing on all levels. Stop watching doomer content
@@brianmeen2158Yeah , Noah. Don’t build that Boat.
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34 here, no kids, just enjoying life as it comes. A little worried about my future but focusing on myself now. Gym 4 days a week, no alcohol, no clubbing, I don’t chase women anymore, realizing the BS for what it is. Had one I wanted to marry but she left me when I pushed for it. Just not seeing anything worthwhile in women, music, movies, entertainment anymore. Am I rotting 😅
Not necessarily. There's much more to life than entertainment.
Men don't give up (But I get the inferred point). Rather, Men remove themselves from bullshit that does not add value. Stay strong Kings
Bro, I watched you since 2019, when I was an underdog and struggling, my mom had died, my dog died, my girlfriend dumped me all at the same time. Fast forward, I became a medical doctor with a specialty and a masters, I have a beautiful girlfriend and life shines for me. I sticked to Gospel, and a few of your advices. You were the friend I needed at that time, you saved me brother. My best wishes to you. (Pardon my english)
Good for you man, props
Great job, big man! Keep it going and stay strong!
🎉🙌🏾
How did you finish all that education in 5 years?
@@waseatenbyagruemaybe he was already doing it
Economy also isn’t the same… lots of people are struggling financially..why even bother with dating if you’re just trying to get food on the table. Finances should come before women
Lots of people are struggling financially, I agree...yet restaurants are still packed and people are running off to vacation in large numbers (I live in a vacation destination area). Doesn't make sense to me. People are struggling yet they seem to find the money when they want to do something fun. These same people can't come up with the cash to cover a $1,000 emergency statistically also...make it make sense?
Well if you are lonely and unhappy you better try to go out and date.
@@GigaChad_169 How are we 35 trillion dollars in debt with hundreds of trillions in unfunded liabilities? Simple. We are borrowing from our own future to finance the our extravagant standard of living. This won't last much longer before there is a loss of confidence in the dollar.
@@GigaChad_169yes, people don’t sit home obsessing with how bad everything is.. they are out living and maxing out credit cards .. they don’t want to sit home and dwell on this shit and I don’t blame them
@@GigaChad_169 Bcuz Working class, versus investors and or old money. Basically People doing well pre-pandemic who hold assets got richer, the working class who only earn paychecks and had no assets got poorer. I know people on both sides of this and i am in between.
I gave up, because at every turn you are screwed, gonna try to go back to surviving in the wild alone
Amen just be careful and be smart about it. More will be joining you shortly too.
I have absolutely no desire to participate in the "rat race", but I also obviously don't want to be poor, homeless, and all alone either... No clue what to do, I just feel numb and stuck.
You dont get anything from working anyways. Ive been working for about 10 years, nothing to show for it. Im not doing thqt another 30 years
Pay all your bills, save and move out of the country with the 9 million already. 350k just last year. The US is done.
Same thanking bout going get cdls or box truck or some hard to get a job
As a police officer, you are 100% correct about the bullshit
Yes, the west gave too many freedoms to people and is now suffering the consequences. Too much of anything is bad, balance is key
Be careful, policing is very stressful (because of all the bullshit) and most end up divorced and alone.
@@Ljosi Could be the stupidest thing I have read all week.
@@user-xd7rc6eo8n ad hominem makes YOU look stupid tho, if you want to be taken seriously either try to logically refute my point or don't reply to it
@@user-xd7rc6eo8n Agreed
Never wanted a wife and kids even in high school. I seen the shit my dad went through when he and mom were in a divorce. Holding me from seeing him to hurt dad. I knew then and there I wanted no part in marriage. Remember she's not yours it's just your turn.
You have to look abroad byroncommings. My dad and my brother (my older brother has been married for 35+ years but they were Jehovah's Witnesses) went through 2 divorces Each. I didn't find the right one until I took a loooooooong plane trip Far FAR away from these THINGS that are called "women" in our western countries.
Yes but it’s unwise to judge all women based on what you saw with your mother. We don’t like when feminists do it so we shouldn’t
Same
Yeah, the whole marriage and kids thing never appealed to me lol. Seems like a lot of risk and work for minimal reward.
You based your whole worldview on one (bad) example.
She's not truly yours it's just your turn
so true king. only way to get ahead is start your own thing.
It's Called the American Dream Because You Have To Be Asleep to Believe It" - George Carlin.🇺🇲
I quote that all the time.
i wouldnt say we are giving up we are getting wiser and see what the modern western woman for what she is.
not just western women, women all around the world are doing the same, thanks to social media and internet
A lot of these women are good for nothing. Just liabilities
You’re late in the game buddy, you’re only one foot in the door.
Pump and dump
Since feminism is mainstream now, the system from above can only allow one side to be the winner and it's not men.
Straight truth. Wish somebody told me this when I was 19 yrs old. I'm 53 now and still a loser with no kids, never been married and renting a room struggling making minimum wage in CA. Even though I earned a diploma never been to prison, working hard being honest and fair gets you no where.
No you are not loser , in my eyes people like you are heroes
Mistake to move to, or stay in CA, terrible Communist state, very expensive.
You are a success to God.
The American dream is dead.
long long time ago...even when illusion was alive it was at expense of traumatised and abused world
The American dream was always a crock of shit
You have to be sleep to believe it.
The American dream used to be starting your own business and becoming successful in it. But then, for a lot of people, the American dream became winning the lottery.
That's alright the Human Dream was stillborn
Moving off grid next month! This society is in free fall and we have no future.
Same here. Putting my house on the market next week and have my small homestead already bought.
@@user-xd7rc6eo8nVerizon and Monsanto are VERY VERY angry with you!😅😅
What should one do when going off grid?
@@BigGainer98 burn your 700 dollar electric bill.
@@user-xd7rc6eo8n How do you go about buying or building a homestead?
You know it's over when you can't even afford to drop out of society.
Depends on what you mean by "drop out". 💀
Fuck this society it’s over
It's illegal to be homeless in some places now. A crime to be broke. What a time!
When could a social animal ever drop out? A lone wolf starves. We humans like to glorify the concept of a lone wolf, but if you actually observe wolves, they hunt in packs. They've evolved to hunt in packs because the ones that didn't died of extinction.
Get a van and go live by a river.
= happiness
The less you play the more you win is right
Not giving up just done carrying others, wait and see time
Men didn’t want to play any kinda game to begin with we want loyalty respect .
Its a strange game. The only winning move is not to play.
Loyalty and respect though are not birthrights that you get just for having a d*ck though. They have to be earned.
Lol
Men getting loyalty and respect be cheating on their girls all over the place though. We get real confused overtime
@@Joyeusecolombe that’s BS
I was hoping my 30s would be better as I am now 30. It doesn’t seem like it unfortunately. I’ve just honestly been working on my relationship with God.
That's the best relationship there is.
30s mean you have a decade to improve, get your money right and body right and women will notice, having those two things gives you the confidence that women notice.
@@Ja50nkAt Most women won't notice 90% of men no matter how much they improve. The 3rd leading scorer on the Orlando Magic will not become Luka Doncic or Lebron James no matter how much he practices. And that is what western women demand--that you are a top 5% player. They will accept nothing less.
On top of that, you have the problem of western women not being worth it even if you do squeeze into the top 5%
I wasn't until my mid-40s that my stock started rising (but I had to take actions of course even still). I kept my nose down the whole way through my 20s, 30s, 40s. It's never too late to start a family For A Man.
Your life is largely what you make of it though.. are you exercising every day? Do you have positive hobbies and relationships in your life?
I see no problem with leaving women alone as long as you're shifting that focus on yourself in a healthy way. Focus on your health, your career, *good* *friends,* and family. Don't focus on anything that isn't serving you.
Real talk. You are one in a million. Genuine, honest. Be blessed!!
work force got me jaded asf
Fucking workforce.
So Fucking Jaded! The “Game” is not what I signed up for.. it’s disgusting, Humans have some real issues,ya’ll need JESUS
@adriftadrift3467 i would phrase it like we need men to put the country back together because we're already apart
Become a trucker. I did, best move I ever made just me , the truck, and the road
@@johnnycray4427 i've definitely considered it
I stopped drinking three years ago, and as a result stopped going out. I I spent many years going out on weekends, buying drinks courting women trying to find a spouse. And frankly, didn’t even come close. It’s all good though. My brother is going through a divorce and it’s nothing I would wish on anyone.
They don’t want relationships anymore brother. It’s nothing to do with you. They act like men aren’t good enough so they can be a lifelong slut and blame men. it’s disgusting.
I stopped drinking and smoking since last August.
@@theoneandonlykyle9800how’s life been
@@user-qt8ch4bj3t life has been great
I was just having this same conversation with some guys the other day. Damn! This dude got some good content, and extremely relevant in today's time.
Thanks for this video. As a man that has given up, I felt like you were really talking to me. You made me cry, bro.
Self preservation is NOT a crime !
Without morals the world will become hell. I just sit with my popcorn and money and watch, i wont play along.
Yeah turns out completely rampant sociopathy is bad for the community and the human soul
The lower a society descends from morality the less free they become helping prove stupidity is indeed a moral failing.
"*Will* become"? Don't think it's there yet, huh?
@@hyperteleXii Were still typing on the internet? The air conditioning still works. Tell me are their cannibals pecking on your window? or raving gangs of looters burning your neighborhood down? Believe me it can get ALOT worse.
If you watch with popcorn in hand, you ARE part of the morally bankrupt as why would you enjoy watching others suffer and be devoured by the dredges?
Ever since I was a child I was told to live in the world without being of the world! I now understand the meaning
Be honorable, humble, & honest.. You will sleep better at night. Simple kind of man, get it, got it, good.. Honorable is saying what you mean, and doing what you say, dont ever promise unless you will do whatever it takes. Always under promise and over deliver, this makes you the man.
Men are sick and tired. Being sick and tired used to be a motivator for playing the game but now it's like what's the point. The efforts for the so called rewards can no longer be justified.
The cost/benefit analysis is so piss poor that it's not worth playing.
@@BrandonWombacher-cp7uh Exactly. I honestly wouldn't blame some guys for just sitting on unemployment and stocking certain things up until it all collapses. The game is rigged it always has been, time to stop playing.
We are all stuck in this game until we die. Find a way to be self sufficient and check out. There is no getting around not having money.
I would rather be a man who is moral, hard working, and die alone, than someone who debases himself, tries to get around doing the hard things in life, and lives in terror of not finding a woman.
I know I'll sleep sounder at night. From this day, till my last.
I salute you, bro!
That's good but why would we be alone while chad is sleeping with multiple women? Why accept this situation
Thank you for this message!
I have found when you help others and not expect anything in return, things pan out better than you could plan. It also gives u a feeling drugs alcohol or any substance can give you. And its long lasting. Have a great day yall. Love wins
It's a spirit of Nihilism in us men now. Yes we've figured out that high school never ends and being principled and having good character doesn't exactly go far in todays work environment. We also finally figured out how the game works in the dating world because most of us went into it completely blind with no male guidance from the men who came before us and so most of us have gotten burnt and now we're angry for being discarded and for being mistreated by women. We're angry that nobody prioritized our development as kids and that nobody really gave us a clear picture of what to expect in the real world. The game in all areas of life is rigged against us and I think its deliberate. I'm personally done caring about women and whatever the hell they want and I'll never kiss anyone's ass at any job because I want to remain a genuine person with his soul and sanity still in tact. The game is rigged I refuse to play it.
“Whatever the hell they want.” Felt that in my soul.
Why did you just describe exactly what I’ve gone through and how I feel? It’s bone chilling how accurate of a picture you’ve painted of ME.
agenda 2030 very deliberate.
Lmao I absolutely relate to this as if I wrote it 😂
Amen brother.
People are giving up at everything because they don'r see a good chance that they will have a good women, kids, raise them well, pass down our values and have them do the same.
550.000 men commit suicide every year. One every minute. There must be a connection with this "giving up" attitude.
@@pedro.pe916 There absolutely is, and men need to learn perseverance. Nothing ever truly worth having comes without much effort.
@photographyenthusiast9941 I quickly learned nothing here is worth having AT ALL. Nothing outside of good, supportive parents and if you are spritual, God. Everything else is fleeting, illusory, and temporary. When you realize nothing here satisfies because of brutal evolution and nature always happening, there comes the mental drought
@@Trisof88 Nothing is meant to satisfy outside of God. He is our one constant. God first and everything else falls into place!! "Heaven and Earth will pass away but my words will never pass away." ~Matthew 24: 35
There's more to life than procreating. Parents are generally miserable and bored.
Real men don't give up!! Need to man up.. not give up.
Tell me one thing to try for and I might consider it
Right you are my brother. Keep your eyes open and keep leaning forward Thanks man
Most guys don’t have a chance anymore. Most good looking girls won’t even look there way no matter how much self improvement they do.
Why work your but off just to maybe get a below average snobby women. It’s better just to stay single and take your money and enjoy you freedom and life.
Yeah. Still so sad... All this work just to come home to an empty apartment.
@@youlooklikeagoodjoeyoulooklone yes it’s sad but better than settling for a fat snobby ugly women nagging at you
Plus you can travel and enjoy life and depending on where you are paying for it is legal.
Or go abroad and find some comfort somewhere.
@@youlooklikeagoodjoeyoulooklone Try coming home to an apartment with a wife or girlfriend who is a total bitch.
Yep 10000%
Tired of playing a rigged game and restarting after the rug gets pulled out over and over
Thanks for the video man.
I left the corporate world ten years ago. Best decision ever. It’s all bullshit and I had no interest in doing that for the next 40 years of my life. The internet makes it possible for anyone to leave that shit and do their own thing. More people need to wake up and realize that.
The corporate world it’s a hell adults acting like high schoolers this world it’s very difficult to be a good decent human being people will use yuo and pretend to care
Yeah screw 9 to 5
What to do you to make money on the internet?
How?
Bro but internet thing is so difficult and takes a lot of time to build up before you make any money. Also most people can't make it
This really sums up how I feel. Like you say, it's not just women that I am avoiding now. This society is perverse and evil. I want nothing to do with any of it. Reminds me of a saying; It's hard to swim in a world so shallow. I'm out!
Same here, I use to have a lot of friends they disappeared I got no one really.. People are so shallow don’t like being bothered I’m lost for words..
@@stevo6891 When I was a kid I knew a TON of people. Mostly from sports - Now that I am older I just do my own thing. Works for me - been doing it my way for decades. 65 now .
Planners idea is:
The worse the better
@@marblox9300 Good for you but no offense I’m younger and still want to do things like joining a sports club or something.. It does get pretty boring just doing nothing on my own..
If the pool of the world becomes shallow, 🛹 the pool!
You nailed it, brother. Nailed it.
I know from my perspective, I rather be alone than with a narcissist gaslighting me. I have alwaus pretty much been on my own because whenever i have been in relationship, i end up being a mother. I cook I clean I do , work to pay all the bills. I've just gotten to the point where I don't want a man in my life that I am supposed to raise like they're a little child. Because their mother never raised them right to begin with and I am so burnt out I love the peace and Tranquility of not having to take care of anyone else but myself
I’m just done playing games period.
This is the best video for someone like me that started working years ago and now it's realising that being morally good only serves yourself but the world doesn't care
Virtue doesn't exist to help the world, it exists to prevent you from destroying yourself.
But it's also no virtue to return virtue when your virtue is used as a weapon to force you to live up to a standard which your enemies don't possess. The lack or morality on the part of others doesn't obligate you to treating them morally... though you must pick your battles and for the long run.
If I must work with those without virtue, there are ways of boxing them out or keeping them out of your domain -- as long as your domain is sufficiently removed that your silence prevents their machinaitons.
When you find other men of real virtue -- and that's as rare as the Bible says it is -- you vet them until they prove themselves when the chips are down... or when they think they're down. When men of virtue and drive find common cause, like as not, they get way further in life than those who act alone.
Still, it's impossible to make an old friend. Sometimes it takes years to reveal someone's bad character but you get better at seeing the red flags over time.
I dont care what she thinks or what anyone says, im secure in my own mind & skin. I do what i want, when i want, & how i want. Im self reliant. My worth is determined by one thing only, my word.... REMEMBER THE ONLY THING YOU CAN GIVE & KEEP AT THE SAME TIME, IN THIS WORLD IS YOUR WORD....
Somehow this video popped up in my feed. It’s about me. Crazy how things work out. I liked and subscribed. And I’ll watch the rest of the videos as well. Thank you so much for this video.
I already have given up been single all my life. My life’s half over no friends no girlfriends just going to do things that benefit me from now on. As people never give me the time of day why should I do the same to anyone?
Same here, I got no friends or girlfriends.. Always was left out or felt like I was a nuisance
@@stevo6891 When I was young - I had a TON of friends. Hockey, friends from school . Baseball. Even non- sports friends. After about 30 they slowly all disappeared. Now I can be considered a complete loner. And frankly - I am totally OK with it. I do whatever I want at 65. Just take care of your health - in the end that's all that matters.
@@marblox9300 thanks 🙏
@@stevo6891 Sounds like me bro
Young women get barraged with likes on every platform and hit on at work, the streets, the clubs, the gym, the store…they can be super picky and allowed to act entitled because men will literally like every post and hit on anything
There seems to be a gender ratio imbalance at play today that I think was not seen in prior generations. If you take a look at the data, there are many more single young men than single young women. And it seems there are just more young men overall by sheer numbers. Anecdotally, I see many more young men than young women in public and even more old people than either. It's a strange demographic in the USA right now. Probably will only get worse.
we are equal to blame because simps are supporting this behavior
@@bumponlog No. It's hookup culture. When men don't need to marry get get segx, it keeps them on the market for the hundreds of XXs who are chasing them. Such men never marry because that's a huge pay cut. Those Chads can go through thousands in a lifetime. Access to such men was once restricted by vvomen who secured that man by holding out for the one who actually loved her.
What did this do? It made Chad jaded because now every XX doesn't see any single man as more important than any other -- they think they can hedonistically sport-f**k their fertility away and secure some dupe rich Chad or rich Brad in their late 20s. Young Chads almost always began as loving boyfriends in their youth. It only takes one bad GF to convert a young idealistic Chad into the most rabid f**kboi. Once a guy sees a pattern of treatment that makes him feel disposable, he hardens his heart and returns the favor.
And so Chad never commits because the love was beat out of him by his early GFs and he can at least gratify his segxual needs and put his problems on hold while bustin' it down. The XXs who are "ready to settle down" think that Chad is an option -- but Chad's love died a long time ago at the hands of someone just like she used to be -- hopping from bed to bed or the backseat of a car.
It's not that Chad wouldn't have loved to find love, but he saw the red pill from the other side and it made him see a reality he can't forget. He knows he's not loved for who he is but for his appearance or status or both. As for all these XXs, the young Chads they betrayed in their youth become the f**kboys who never commit when that same reformed 304 wants to settle. They poisoned the well and don't seem to understand why they can no longer safely drink the water.
Some of those young Chads just decide to bow out entirely because they were so disillusioned that they saw no point in pursuing sport-f**king. Either that, or they made the mistake of marrying one of these damaged creatures. The only Chads left on the field, are the f**kboys. Everyone else took the lesson and planned accordingly.
I was a chef and all the time I went out drinking with the girls after work. Sometimes it would be me or just two of us cooks and like 5 - 7 women. You would be horrified to see what they had to deal with everytime we were out. Every single time we were out at one point in the night some creep would come by with his dumbass schpiel. Was creepy as fuck.
Everyone wants you because of a trait, but no one knows or cares to see you for what you are. Beautiful people have a lonely life.
Just came across your channel, everything you are saying is exactly what I'm going true. I gave up on everything but myself. Thanks for posting. Got a new subscriber. 👍👌
I lost near everything! But yep only living for myself
Your videos are really eye opening and educational. You discuss real life situations and I can relate very well to what you're talking about. Thank you so much. Please keep up the good work 🇬🇧
Making a living is becoming more challenging, and it's difficult for me to save enough to enjoy quality time with my loved ones.
I totally agree with you Holding onto investments can be beneficial, but it's even better to invest with a professional who understands the market. They can help you avoid potential losses and make informed decisions. It's always wise to seek guidance from experts in the field.
You're absolutely right Investing with a professional who understands the market can be a wise decision. They have the knowledge and expertise to guide you and help minimize the risk of losing money. They can provide valuable insights and strategies tailored to your financial goals. It's important to find a trusted financial advisor or investment professional who can assist you along the way.
Which advisor do you trade with? Can you recommend one that you have had a positive experience with?
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Yep, I cannot argue with what you said. The average guy the odds are stacked up against him. I used to hear the old slogan " Honesty is the best Policy" not if you want to be successful, it usually comes back and bites you in the ass. Best is the relax, and not stress yourself out trying to keep up with the Jones or what society expects you should be. Be you, and if nobody likes that who cares! Dance to the beat of your own drum, and forget the rest of the world.
Good points. I think the worst thing people can do right now is going broke trying to look rich. Sadly too many people do it.
Absolutely. Spot on.
I totally agree with you. I’m a 66 year old female. Good video. Thank you for sharing!
I’m 5’6 and make less than 60k a year. I give up. It’s only a matter of time before I lose the fight. God speed, bros.
Pay for box cheapskate 🎉
Do not give up of yourself!
Same here man feel the same as you
Don’t give up , I’m 5,8 single for 10 years and I don’t have a 4 year college degree. But I work for the railroad and I make 76k + ( if i decide to do overtime) I’m by no way bragging by any means I just want you to know there’s losers like me who are getting by . Look into the transportation industries. I will also give you a warning that the state I live in $75k isn’t a lot but it’s something. Take care bud !
by British standards thats a good salary plus thats a common height for a man here.
Life isn’t worth living. I’m gonna hang out for another decade or so, wack off and play video games, and then skedaddle
I turn 50 this year. If I make it to 55 I've failed
Sure it is. Just do what you like doing and live life like you want. If a gal comes in your life, great, if not, great. Just enjoy, our time is short on earth. I don't believe every guy needs a woman either.
@@DiFinni Yours might be, but mine isn’t
@sagetwavey please hang on to hope friend! Do you have a community around you? There’s a group of people that hang out on the LFA live streams you can chat with, including myself :)
“Remember that hope is a good thing… maybe the best of things”
Quit fapping
I admitted, I gave up. My friends, my family have tried to hook me up with women, heck I catch women checking me out sometimes. But in all honesty I'm just done. Its been seven years for me without having physical contact with a woman and the longer it goes the more I embraced my solitude and my peace. What can I say, Simply I'm just done with women.
Your delivery is incredible sir. Thank you for your great work 💙
We used to mock the guy at my gym who wore a bra. Nobody laughs at him now.
Um 😮wtf
@@leeolie3728 😂😂
You've seen Peaches! He's out of prison?
Is that your gf?
Its the soft guy era for men. Dont settle because YOU are the prize. She must meet YOUR criteria not the other way around. Also yea leave social media behind and look for women who also dont use social media. If she doesnt exist then so be it, its better to be at peace than constantly chasing some moralless 304.
A chase is in pursuit of something valuable.
No point chasing the worthless.
Dunno man, i dont think anyone has to go one way or the other. I like my relationships equal. Looking out for eachother and seeing the wrongs in one another to determine what youre both getting into. You know?
I don't know why everyone on social media is saying it's over for young men and women. It is Not !! Don't listen to the BS. My son and nieces (25 yrs) are married and very happy, starting their family, they own their homes, have good careers, my son is a commercial pilot and niece's hubby is a Police officer, and the other is a journalist. Not one of them talk doom and gloom. They're enjoying life even though things are crazy right now...
Very inspirational, thanks brother.
Society has intentionally messed up the roles of men and women unfortunately. But you be you, do your thing and don’t settle.👍
This is a great advice to stick in
It wasn't society that did that, it was the scheming of the small hats 🎩
Straight out of the Communist Manifesto.
@@pololikikuju 💯
@@pololikikujuexactly, that's who mentally screwed over Black People
I didn't give up, I just chose to be single and unavailable after many bad break ups and failed pursuits. The chase just wasn't fun anymore.
This happened for me 11-12 years ago, it was hard at first, but you actually get used to being alone. There is more value to me as an individual person other than what I bring to the table financially.
And there it is, the reminder why I chose to go my own all those years ago and why I still hold the same decision to this day.
We need to take action and change things. We can't just be alone while chad is sleeping with multiple women and having fun