*A woman often decides if you’re that guy based on how you carry yourself - confidence, genuine interest, and how you treat others in her presence. First impressions matter, but consistency seals the deal.*
Oftentimes Sancho ( the other man) stops seeing a woman when she leaves her boyfriend because he never intended to meet her attention requirements. He actually liked that she had a boyfriend to keep her out of his hair and only wanted some poontang
you mean your the best option out of 10 other guys and she is already planning your replacement with the other top 3 guys if you arnt what she thought you were? its not even worth it these days.
@scottverge938 not hard enough to cheat? She'll fall hard once the other dude she's fucked dumps her and she comes back crying to you to take her back. Pass
almost a year realising im not that guy, holy shit that was the most toxic devastating story of my life. never ever question yourself and if you have to ask yourself is she is into you, she is not that into you, doesn't matter how many times youve had sex and all that shit. really good video sir!
Perfect timing. Just had a girl I’ve been seeing for a month who showed very high interest hit me with a rejection text out of the blue. Turns out we weren’t compatible after multiple dates and hook-ups 😂 I’m not even surprised anymore, next one up
A lot of women are only looking for sex also. They sleep with multiple men at a time and decide which one they like the most. They are just like men. They don’t feel bad about anything.
Your content is great. It’s the middle take, the middle way. Even when your talking points are on the extreme side, it’s still broadcasted with the intention of “some” instead of “absolute”
There's even a slight twist to that. Meet a girl, she makes it clear she likes you. You sleep with her. You like her, but maybe not for an LTR. She then makes it clear she likes you, but not for an LTR. You now become obsessed with her for not thinking of you as an LTR and you think you're in love. That can be painful and confusing and disasterous.
@postworld1185 You see 100 red flags, zero compatibility, you know you don't see yourself with her but sex is great and there is chemistry. Then she dumps you and you start obsessing, questioning yourself, ego messes with you.
Avoidant personality. Usually it relates to childhood trauma or abandonment. Wanting what we can't have is a non secure attachment and will rarely end well. Once we understand all this we can formulate healthy secure attachments with women which are reciprocal and the world is finally at rights.
I intentionally avoid women that treat other people like sh** regardless if she's nice to me or wants to be with me because if she treats other guys like sh**... then she basically exposed her true colors to me because eventually she'll treat me like sh** in the long run when she gets too comfortable around me. If you want a woman that is caring, loving, respectful, trustworthy and honest... then you will have to observe her behavior towards other people because if she is respectful and kind towards others, then she's most likely be the right woman.
The first thing I noticed in this video was your jacket. Comfortable and beautiful cut. Nice color.... Shame on me I'm overseas and can't get one of these. Thanks Man)))
i like being a man.and i love women theyre so beautiful especially in theyre 20s.im not ashamed of it.i dont work out but im comfortable in my masculinity.i agree 100 percent you just gotta talk to women no crazy lines just what your feeling in the moment
There's an interesting little saying about that, don't know who first said it but sounded about right to me so I pass it on if I get the opportunity, goes like this, " Be yourself, every one else is taken"...
If I'm being honest with my physical/mental/financial achievements and competency, I am "that guy" for most healthy women out there. As I tell people who care, if you love me, love me. If not, it's your loss.
Late 80's early 90's Sunday morning ritual, turn on WWF and yell your favorite wrestlers name out " Ultimate Warrior" and go flying at my Uncle, time to wrestle.
@LFA makes sense, and I dont think you're wrong, infact I don't think you're wrong about most things you say but we all see life through our own lens, and you're a good looking guy, I'd say a Chad. And so that's your experience, like you say meeting girls that you already know like you or that give you a smile as you said, but I honestly think there are a lot of average dudes or even below average out there that don't ever get thar experience these days I'm not joking they never cross paths with a girl that's interested in them.
I feel everything you say LFA. Thats the "Gods way" and I notice you are a church member with integrity and responsability over the "world " like a christian should be. I wish you all the best and to fulfill your mission brother. Unfortunely the women are easy to tempt by the sin, and the today corupt society built a good trap with the feminism. Thats such a shame men and women can not bond rightway one with the other long term anymore.You single(free bird), me single, maybe 50% of men are single, becouse bounderies are not respected and the women reserve their right to be opened to new options. Maybe not by genuine desire, but by self validation need, in a world were the promiscuity is kinda virtue. But if you experienced better women thats still a chance for the world not to get extinct. I would like to know you personaly and maybe to train together. You are such a blesed man.
This works well with women over 30 who have grown up and knows what the world is about. But it is also you do have to have some mystery about you and let them wonder at times or you become predictable. That's human nature.
@martycashcow6292 what LFA mentioned in the video "I came here in a taxi" is verbatim what Todd V said in his video from yesterday, I don't think it's wrong, I'm just pointing it out
If a woman wants to ALWAYS be around you or talk to you and says YES to about anything then you know. HOWEVER, even then this behavior is sole based on HOW YOU MAKE HER FEEL. Likewise, be with a woman that falls inline with your and your purpose WITHOUT you GOING OUTSIDE OF WHO YOU ARE. If it's not that then don't bother and NEVER chase
it's true, if she's mad about you and it's all her idea, and she eventually Fs other guys, it's on her, chasing something that doesn't want you is guaranteed to blow up in your face and scar you for life
In my case it was” no one’s ever done that for me before”. Here’s the problem with this. At some point she ends up cheating on you with some guy who is lower value and more beta then you and once you find out you end up breaking up with her
7:40 ... eh that is really a hit and miss statement. I was like that kid and so were many other men, but the older you get that starts to disappear for the majority of men.
Hey hey hey now… I only partner with companies that I actually buy from. And since people are always asking me where I get them from, I can not only tell them where, but also get them a discount!
Also, I waited till the end so it didn't disrupt the vid... I'm in a good spot where I get to wear things I like, get paid for it, support a small business owned by cool dudes who are grinding, and also gift other people with discounts if they want some of their own. Not a bad spot honestly.
@@LFA I like the t-shirts. They're really cool. Got myself some. I don't see an issue with it, you haven't sold out imo. People are free to skip the merchandise part and not buy it and just instead look at your main content.
Taking that 11 yr olds story for example….what if your constantly on the receiving end of these challenges coz certain men see you as a “threat to their masculinity” for no reason. I’m 25 6’1 200 pounds too….not tryna flex and that’s the thing….most guys seems to come in front of me start doing the workouts I do and ego lift (curling 90s with their hips n back making it compound when I’m tryna focus my reps n weight on 50s….just an example) they stare at u too like they on pre workout Anyways sorry for the rant…my q is….DO U SHOW THEM WHOS MAN OF DO U BE THE BIGGER MAN?? Coz there r times when i try to b patient but sometimes i see it as a threat to my masculinity….what if society takes me for granted if they keep seeing strangers walk all over me? Is it right to think that way? Or should i be the bigger man and walk away from the situation…. Correlating this to women, who predominantly seem to gravitate around men with high testosterone….they’d love to see men take on the challenge right?( 2 big guys fighting over me….validation) I usually walk away…..seeking advice on how to react to such dicks or should I react at all…just let it go? I usually walk away
Do you ever catch short guys staring with hate in their eyes? I’m 6’2” it happens to me a lot smh I’m just trying to live not looking for trouble its not my fault I’m tall
When you say be “that guy”, do you mean the guy that women use for seeex? Or you mean the guy that worthy women see as the type that they will submit and stay loyal in marriage until death? Because if it’s the former, all it takes to “be that guy” is to be hot, from what I have observed. But after that, what else is “that guy” getting aside from bedroom fun? Is he getting a submissive and loyal wife? I just don’t see that happening anymore very frequently. Too many married/divorced men say that they regret it. If this is all just about getting chosen frequently for bedroom fun, just be hot and fit.
@@LFA Well, it’s not always clear to me that you’re making your videos all about pure seeex. If everything is just about getting laid and not about marriage or actually being able to find marriageable women, maybe it would be useful to directly mention that and say “I’m just talking about flings”.
Now it’s called “let meet, have seeex immediately, hang out, fight, tell each other we are obsessed with each other, get bored, and then find someone else.”
I personally think that a lot of the redpill and pickup guys have a lot of valuable stuff to say but they take things to the extreme and are likely mostly used to women with an avoidant attachment style. In other words broken women. Those women are best avoided. You want a woman that you can totally be yourself with. Your authenticity is actually one of your attractive traits. Trying to hide who you really are and present yourself as some perfect guy just to win a woman over will never work long term.
11:15 I do the same thing that the pick-up artist said but not because I’m high value but because I’m a corny motherfucker and I like myself this way 😅
Man if you want to be a beta go ahead and be in a relationship. It’s not beta to want that. It’s honorable. But a woman only bases stuff off how she feels in that moment. After awhile you will let up and she will be looking for the next dude to wake her back up. So if you want to pay for some chick who had tons of dudes up in her everything she wants, you wanna pretend she is different now…bro. I love yah. Wake up.
@ yah bro. I’m saying this to myself too. As a man now all you can do is be a seducer. Have a rotation, always inviting new women in. As you age you do social age appropriate stuff. There will always be emotional women coming out of relationships that are all emotional and need company. Bc what happens is you date a woman for 2-5 years…you lose your edge, you lose your game, you lose your lifestyle and you get nothing. You get some booty. You can have that all the time, and change it up.
@@MO07541 It just looks soft and lame. To each their own. Some guys have real game, backed up by life achievements, and some have pretend game. maybe both guys get laid on saturday, but only one gets taken seriously afterwards.
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If you’re not “that guy,” not to worry, you’re still a guy. That’s a start.
😂
So true. Don't let anyone determine your "value".
*A woman often decides if you’re that guy based on how you carry yourself - confidence, genuine interest, and how you treat others in her presence. First impressions matter, but consistency seals the deal.*
Those autumn leaves are looking aesthetic.
She says I'm that guy after she's cheated, the guy that she cheated with dumped her, and you are now her back up option. Pass.
Oftentimes Sancho ( the other man) stops seeing a woman when she leaves her boyfriend because he never intended to meet her attention requirements. He actually liked that she had a boyfriend to keep her out of his hair and only wanted some poontang
It says more about her than you. You got lucky!
Just play her game, dnt get caught up, drop her 🍑🍑🍑💯👻👻👻
That’s exactly what happened in my last relationship. You literally hit the nail on the head
I agree hard pass if I ain’t the first option I don’t even want to be part of the equation
When I say I'm not looking for a relationship they try to challenge that. Then when they fail they blame me. Lol
you should go no fap and semen retention bro , get your energy back
@@TheReal_TOP-G That makes them worse
you mean your the best option out of 10 other guys and she is already planning your replacement with the other top 3 guys if you arnt what she thought you were?
its not even worth it these days.
With that mindset, that’s why your girls have replacements lmao. Glow up my friend and act irreplaceable
Dude, when they fall hard the other guys don't matter.
@scottverge938 not hard enough to cheat? She'll fall hard once the other dude she's fucked dumps her and she comes back crying to you to take her back. Pass
almost a year realising im not that guy, holy shit that was the most toxic devastating story of my life. never ever question yourself and if you have to ask yourself is she is into you, she is not that into you, doesn't matter how many times youve had sex and all that shit.
really good video sir!
Perfect timing. Just had a girl I’ve been seeing for a month who showed very high interest hit me with a rejection text out of the blue. Turns out we weren’t compatible after multiple dates and hook-ups 😂 I’m not even surprised anymore, next one up
A lot of women are only looking for sex also. They sleep with multiple men at a time and decide which one they like the most. They are just like men. They don’t feel bad about anything.
She's not yours.
It's just your turn.
@@travisjensen1338That's highschool bs
@ facts!
Your content is great. It’s the middle take, the middle way. Even when your talking points are on the extreme side, it’s still broadcasted with the intention of “some” instead of “absolute”
This video is kind of brilliant. He has a good sense of humor with the Lee Majors thing going on too.
There's even a slight twist to that. Meet a girl, she makes it clear she likes you. You sleep with her. You like her, but maybe not for an LTR. She then makes it clear she likes you, but not for an LTR. You now become obsessed with her for not thinking of you as an LTR and you think you're in love. That can be painful and confusing and disasterous.
Exactly.
Yep, I've had that. It hurt but it was a vital lesson.
@postworld1185 You see 100 red flags, zero compatibility, you know you don't see yourself with her but sex is great and there is chemistry. Then she dumps you and you start obsessing, questioning yourself, ego messes with you.
Avoidant personality.
Usually it relates to childhood trauma or abandonment. Wanting what we can't have is a non secure attachment and will rarely end well.
Once we understand all this we can formulate healthy secure attachments with women which are reciprocal and the world is finally at rights.
rejection breeds obsession.
Thanks LFA for always speaking the truth
Different things work for different people. In other words, what applies to you does not apply to other guys
100% true.
No one truly belongs to you, never allow them to change you 👌
Just want to say, LFA you are a Chad 100%
Keep it up Brother.
It's the "No fear, keep it real" mindset. There is no need to mask things to look good and hide insecurities.
If it's not a hell yes it's a hell no
I don’t need dating advice but still watch lfa “looking for action”
I intentionally avoid women that treat other people like sh** regardless if she's nice to me or wants to be with me because if she treats other guys like sh**... then she basically exposed her true colors to me because eventually she'll treat me like sh** in the long run when she gets too comfortable around me. If you want a woman that is caring, loving, respectful, trustworthy and honest... then you will have to observe her behavior towards other people because if she is respectful and kind towards others, then she's most likely be the right woman.
Real truth brother. Straight up.
The first thing I noticed in this video was your jacket. Comfortable and beautiful cut. Nice color.... Shame on me I'm overseas and can't get one of these. Thanks Man)))
i like being a man.and i love women theyre so beautiful especially in theyre 20s.im not ashamed of it.i dont work out but im comfortable in my masculinity.i agree 100 percent you just gotta talk to women no crazy lines just what your feeling in the moment
Nailed it man. I will add not only be yourself but dont react when she shit tests you.
What he’s saying is….
You have to like yourself 💯 and not care if others do. Then you’re indestructible and women love that.
May as well be yourself because you have to be eventually you can’t hide it forever. Then you’ll know if she really likes you for yourself or not.
There's an interesting little saying about that, don't know who first said it but sounded about right to me so I pass it on if I get the opportunity, goes like this, " Be yourself, every one else is taken"...
Keep em comin weak boyyy :)
Right when you leave her lol
If I'm being honest with my physical/mental/financial achievements and competency, I am "that guy" for most healthy women out there. As I tell people who care, if you love me, love me. If not, it's your loss.
What’s happening Brotha ? Cool background 🍁🍁
Late 80's early 90's Sunday morning ritual, turn on WWF and yell your favorite wrestlers name out " Ultimate Warrior" and go flying at my Uncle, time to wrestle.
The girls you're talking about were attracted to you, a lot of guys don't get that ever
As always, the advice is for the people who find it useful.
@LFA makes sense, and I dont think you're wrong, infact I don't think you're wrong about most things you say but we all see life through our own lens, and you're a good looking guy, I'd say a Chad. And so that's your experience, like you say meeting girls that you already know like you or that give you a smile as you said, but I honestly think there are a lot of average dudes or even below average out there that don't ever get thar experience these days I'm not joking they never cross paths with a girl that's interested in them.
@LFA si right
I'm not saying he's wrong, but I sm saying a lot of dudes these days don't get that smile from any girls they cross paths with
LFA you are totally wrong with this
Really good video bro
glad to have found Adam Jensen giving life advice, best shit on yt
Grate talk man, thanks ☯☯
Looks like your wearing the exact same jacket as me , looks like flint and tinder ..great advice as always
Respect bruh...
Yes original personality is the way to be.
Thank you for the video LFA ❤❤❤❤
I feel everything you say LFA. Thats the "Gods way" and I notice you are a church member with integrity and responsability over the "world " like a christian should be.
I wish you all the best and to fulfill your mission brother.
Unfortunely the women are easy to tempt by the sin, and the today corupt society built a good trap with the feminism. Thats such a shame men and women can not bond rightway one with the other long term anymore.You single(free bird), me single, maybe 50% of men are single, becouse bounderies are not respected and the women reserve their right to be opened to new options. Maybe not by genuine desire, but by self validation need, in a world were the promiscuity is kinda virtue. But if you experienced better women thats still a chance for the world not to get extinct. I would like to know you personaly and maybe to train together. You are such a blesed man.
very much needed video
Yeah, and when you decide she is not that woman the nightmare starts and even comes haunting you years later
This works well with women over 30 who have grown up and knows what the world is about. But it is also you do have to have some mystery about you and let them wonder at times or you become predictable. That's human nature.
Please make a video on Narcissims !
Already did
The exact moment of Perfect timing.
Will you please make a video about when to leave a girlfriend
My boy LFA throwing shade at Todd V haha
I don't think he's throwing shade at anyone. He's just being honest.
@martycashcow6292 what LFA mentioned in the video "I came here in a taxi" is verbatim what Todd V said in his video from yesterday, I don't think it's wrong, I'm just pointing it out
If a woman wants to ALWAYS be around you or talk to you and says YES to about anything then you know. HOWEVER, even then this behavior is sole based on HOW YOU MAKE HER FEEL.
Likewise, be with a woman that falls inline with your and your purpose WITHOUT you GOING OUTSIDE OF WHO YOU ARE. If it's not that then don't bother and NEVER chase
it's true, if she's mad about you and it's all her idea, and she eventually Fs other guys, it's on her, chasing something that doesn't want you is guaranteed to blow up in your face and scar you for life
A relationship is an downgrade,believe me
Hmm, interesting perspective. So true..
this is kinda black-pilling for introverts, but it's great to know.
Does this even happen anymore? These have to be some women ive never came in contact with. I am sure a women bonding is about extinct.
In my case it was” no one’s ever done that for me before”. Here’s the problem with this. At some point she ends up cheating on you with some guy who is lower value and more beta then you and once you find out you end up breaking up with her
7:40 ... eh that is really a hit and miss statement.
I was like that kid and so were many other men, but the older you get that starts to disappear for the majority of men.
Was recommended the same ToddV video today...
THATS CHAD MINDSTATE.
Axiology teaches us we are tools to be used, and all "meaning" in life is arbitrary, subjective, ascription.
I've never met one woman I would spend at least $200 dollars on food or gifts.
The corporate sponsors got LFA! Hey no diddy, I got bills to pay too...
Hey hey hey now… I only partner with companies that I actually buy from. And since people are always asking me where I get them from, I can not only tell them where, but also get them a discount!
@@LFA Uh huh...
Also, I waited till the end so it didn't disrupt the vid... I'm in a good spot where I get to wear things I like, get paid for it, support a small business owned by cool dudes who are grinding, and also gift other people with discounts if they want some of their own. Not a bad spot honestly.
@@LFA I like the t-shirts. They're really cool. Got myself some.
I don't see an issue with it, you haven't sold out imo. People are free to skip the merchandise part and not buy it and just instead look at your main content.
@@LFA "Into the AM" if you're watching (or reading rather, And I know you are) LFA did great! I recommend him 💯..You guys did well!
I would like to hear your opinion on why women are not constant in their behaviour? First two years they are mad about me, after that they discard me.
😅 I think that is Todd 😅
Taking that 11 yr olds story for example….what if your constantly on the receiving end of these challenges coz certain men see you as a “threat to their masculinity” for no reason.
I’m 25 6’1 200 pounds too….not tryna flex and that’s the thing….most guys seems to come in front of me start doing the workouts I do and ego lift (curling 90s with their hips n back making it compound when I’m tryna focus my reps n weight on 50s….just an example) they stare at u too like they on pre workout
Anyways sorry for the rant…my q is….DO U SHOW THEM WHOS MAN OF DO U BE THE BIGGER MAN?? Coz there r times when i try to b patient but sometimes i see it as a threat to my masculinity….what if society takes me for granted if they keep seeing strangers walk all over me? Is it right to think that way? Or should i be the bigger man and walk away from the situation….
Correlating this to women, who predominantly seem to gravitate around men with high testosterone….they’d love to see men take on the challenge right?( 2 big guys fighting over me….validation)
I usually walk away…..seeking advice on how to react to such dicks or should I react at all…just let it go?
I usually walk away
Do you ever catch short guys staring with hate in their eyes? I’m 6’2” it happens to me a lot smh I’m just trying to live not looking for trouble its not my fault I’m tall
When you say be “that guy”, do you mean the guy that women use for seeex? Or you mean the guy that worthy women see as the type that they will submit and stay loyal in marriage until death?
Because if it’s the former, all it takes to “be that guy” is to be hot, from what I have observed. But after that, what else is “that guy” getting aside from bedroom fun? Is he getting a submissive and loyal wife? I just don’t see that happening anymore very frequently. Too many married/divorced men say that they regret it.
If this is all just about getting chosen frequently for bedroom fun, just be hot and fit.
Exactly. That's what guys don't seem to understand.
@@LFA Well, it’s not always clear to me that you’re making your videos all about pure seeex. If everything is just about getting laid and not about marriage or actually being able to find marriageable women, maybe it would be useful to directly mention that and say “I’m just talking about flings”.
I made it clear that this video was about LTR's. Go back and listen to the beginning and you will hear it.
19:25 didn't that use to be called marriage?
Now it’s called “let meet, have seeex immediately, hang out, fight, tell each other we are obsessed with each other, get bored, and then find someone else.”
Am I the only one who thinks he sounds like pizza Steve from uncle grandpa? He even wears sunglasses
I am HIM
I personally think that a lot of the redpill and pickup guys have a lot of valuable stuff to say but they take things to the extreme and are likely mostly used to women with an avoidant attachment style. In other words broken women. Those women are best avoided. You want a woman that you can totally be yourself with. Your authenticity is actually one of your attractive traits. Trying to hide who you really are and present yourself as some perfect guy just to win a woman over will never work long term.
10:30 Jestermaxing
The less I talk more I become "that guy".
Yup
11:15 I do the same thing that the pick-up artist said but not because I’m high value but because I’m a corny motherfucker and I like myself this way 😅
Man if you want to be a beta go ahead and be in a relationship. It’s not beta to want that. It’s honorable. But a woman only bases stuff off how she feels in that moment. After awhile you will let up and she will be looking for the next dude to wake her back up. So if you want to pay for some chick who had tons of dudes up in her everything she wants, you wanna pretend she is different now…bro. I love yah. Wake up.
OnLy BeTaS gEt ThE gIrLs. TrUe AlPhAs NeVeR hAvE gOoD rElAtIoNsHiPs. ReAl AlPhAs R lIFeLoNg ViRgInS
It's honorable to want to be in a relationship. But it's not to be a beta. You can choose.
I agree with you. It all seems to pointless.
Yup the complacency eventually kicks in always
@ yah bro. I’m saying this to myself too. As a man now all you can do is be a seducer. Have a rotation, always inviting new women in. As you age you do social age appropriate stuff. There will always be emotional women coming out of relationships that are all emotional and need company. Bc what happens is you date a woman for 2-5 years…you lose your edge, you lose your game, you lose your lifestyle and you get nothing. You get some booty. You can have that all the time, and change it up.
You say that we should be totally transparent, but isnt a man supposed to be a little mysterious with women?
I would suggest that you become secure enough to not be over thinking minor details like "Am I mysterious enough?"
The game doesn’t give af.
Todd V was basically saying its ok to fuck with a chic first, with the Taxi response, rather than just giving a bland response.
corny af
Yeah a corny example sure, but being playfully challenging is the idea.
@@MO07541 It just looks soft and lame. To each their own. Some guys have real game, backed up by life achievements, and some have pretend game. maybe both guys get laid on saturday, but only one gets taken seriously afterwards.
You NEED to be honest and up front “I don’t want a relationship” anything else is being dishonest and misleading…..
Unless of course, you have no intentions at all.
that trying to be cocky and funny is fake confidence, arrogant bullshit.
curious to know your story
Hey weak boy Im gonna take your girl