13 Steps I Took to Move Up in Class - Social Strategy for Women *Level Up Lesson*
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#LevelUp #Classy 
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- working out consistently
- self dates / activities alone
- engaging in conversation with people who are different than me
- listening to audio books while doing mindless activities (work out, cleaning, driving ect)
- no pointless dating / sex
- quickly ending dating Men who do not meet MY bare minimum standards
- volunteer work, helping others
- solo travel trips
- making men pay for things / or using other people’s money and resources to get things done
- thinking outside the box
- significantly cut back / limit drinking!!!
*DRIVING should NOT be mindless, **_PLEASE._* 🙏🏽
Otherwise... _Wonderful_ list, Jasmine❣
Also include that all of these things don't have to be done all at once. That's overwhelming. Just pick 1 or 2 things to add in now then gradually add more over the years as they come naturally to you
@ImAshley2023 not years, but months I would say
Love it!!!
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Studies say women with degrees increase their chances of marriage. Also having a job online allows black women to travel more. I remember a black woman who worked online and traveled to different countries. She went to Italy and met a handsome Italian man and he married her. Her job and being able to travel exposed her more to different cultures and races of people. She's happy and found a good man and I'm happy for her.
I follow her on IG. I love her story and so happy for her.
@truthserum1271 could you tell me her social media?
Who is she?
@@Bloombaby99 She's a RUclipsr but I can't remember her name. I'll try to find her so I can tell you her RUclips channel name.
This is why I always loved working remotely. I know online work gets a bad reputation however it opens up opportunities for women.
Travel, going to museums, keeping up with the news, etc. are also important. Being aware and cultured gives you something of interest to talk about.
Yes! I agree
Cutting off dead weight friends changed my life too. it’s crazy how much more money I all of a sudden had once the mooching, stagnant friends were gone.
If someone asks you for $100 dollars ask them for $5 you won't get it because they are hussling you
This one right here !!!
Yeah and if U want to help people here is a tip given people things not money give food to a hunger drive but Ur friends poor kid a new school uniform then U know where the money went jesus fed poor Christians fish and bread he did not hand out $20 dollar bills notice how strange it is people ask for cash not goods
As a person who has completely leveled up I approve this message. A female CEO once told me men will go for promotions when they’re 50% qualified to do the job while women tend to wait until they’re 85% qualified. This keeps us at lower levels and earning less. I never forgot this when I went out for promotions. She was right. I got every one I wanted and a higher salary than what was initially offered. Ask for more money and reach for the higher position. Most likely you’re far more qualified than others around you.
And young ladies, please don’t get caught up with a baby while you’re getting your degree!!
Thank you!! My best friend who was in college with me is 20 yrs old shes now pregnant for a boy that had her and another woman pregnant at the same time. Long story short she dropped out and is now living as a delusional baby momma! 😢
I'm eight years too late. I have three babies, which I had in the Marine Corps, but I didn't allow anything to get in the way of my education. I'm going through a divorce and enrolled in my last semester in school with a 3.5 GPA. With that being said, ladies, life happens. Do not quit on your goals when life gets challenging. Take responsibility for your actions when you make a mistake, forgive yourself, and move forward. You all are beautiful and worthy of all wonderful things in this lifetime, no matter your skin color, how much money you have, or where you come from! I love this video so much! 💝🌷
Amen. Get those IUDs and a second one if needs be. STOP letting these males trap u.
@@whisperingbliss359Amen. A baby does end things. A child is a blessing not a curse. Glad your comment focused on how to pivot. The babies were a comma in your story, not a period. This stigmatism of a baby and your goals is going to force a lot of women to make difficult choices.
@@jadaweary4546, I am so sorry to hear this. If your friend wants to effectively move forward from the dusty baby daddy trap 🪤 she can but it will take more time and effort to do so. She will have to first upgrade her mindset. You need to be very careful and consider befriending women who are more focused on leveling up. You may want to consider distancing yourself from your friend. Otherwise, she may pull you down along beside her. This happens. Good luck and God bless you. ❤
Who else is doing it like Chrissie? Let’s be fr. All of her contemporaries NEVER have any solutions or advice to give. All they do is fear monger you and ruin your fun while they cry happy tears in their luxury apartment they just told you is wrong for you to want. Chrissie is giving you level up advice and is ACTUALLY helping people!
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Yes literally no one else. Other Black female content creators make alot of problems-oriented content which is honestly depressing (no shade) while they are living their best life in real life like you said. Grateful that Chrissie actually wants to help other Black women prosper! Can't say the same for alot of other people in the BWE space.
The first part of your comment says otherwise. It contradicts. Maybe an oversight or so...?
🎯EXACTLY
I agree with Chrissie that it was time to change the content ladies. Move in silence and with time they will see we wasn't playin... Time to focus on ourselves and leveling up. I don't know about yall. But I am ready to relax and leave this struggle $h!+ Behind.. 🥂
Exactly 👏
Keep it silent that you hate other groups of humans, based of skin tone.
@@meme-fs1jn wtf are you talking about
@@onlylikemindedbw move in silence, that y’all are hater’s
This is very real. I was always classy and dressed well in my 20s. I was married to a broke man. Great guy but no ambition at that time. At 30 i went to nursing school. It changed my entire financial trajectory. I was able to travel, I was able to live wherever I wanted, sent my child to the best school. I drive the car that I like. I met more people with likemindedness. Get just one degree, or cert, or license, or job that will get you out of the hood. Its worth it. Baby steps.
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Are you still married to him?
Ahh you can't leave it there that story. Did you stay married ❤️❤️❤️
@@loveandpeacepieshe used the word WAS…which is past tense.
What kind of nursing are you doing?
Please tell them again about degrees. Statistics don’t lie. Period.
Something that I learned in one of my classes is that those with a degree will make at least a million more in their lifetime than those without one. Those with degrees will have better job success, and more satisfaction. I’m currently in school for psychology, but I’m always looking for ways to better myself.
Let’s also talk about relevant degrees and skills in that same conversation.
@@FairEbony I'm not sure what your plans are post grad. But there's always a need for people who can do research. Either quantitative or qualitative. And the skill allows you to work literally worldwide
@@FairEbony Look into AI Ethicist. There will be more jobs created in the AI field that will require psychology, sociology, and ethics degrees.
SOFT SKILLS are ESSENTIAL and UNDERRATED!
What are "soft skills"?
Decided to go back to school for business management 2 weeks ago. I was meant to see this
I'm going to school for business management too.
@@saanvi-zz2vf Been going to therapy and I think this degree will pair well with everything I would like to get into in the future. I’m 28 and dropped out when I was 19. 2. Semesters in 🥳
Excel! 🎉
Go for accounting instead if you must major in business.
About to finish my business administration degree this summer, and go back to school for medical billing and coding certification.
Live below your means ladies!!!! If you take nothing else, please do this. My husband and I do very well ourselves now but for most of my 20’s when everyone went on endless brunches and bought be outfits for every trip and event, I proudly re-wore my clothes in new ways and skipped brunch/dinners. Now in our 30’s, some of those folks are in debt trying to keep up this lifestyle for almost two decades. Learn from this, there’s no need to keep up with people on social or those in your friend group.
How did you meet your husband? Skipping out on socializing in one's 20s can backfire. Sincere question so you can help young women balance socializing and networking (planting social seeds that can pay off later as their peers become more established) and saving $ (planting financial seeds).
I’ve been around for 6 decades and have retired from two jobs. I’ve also been fortunate to work with people in the 7 figure area. As you know, you take NOTHiNG w you when you die at an underdetermined time. My point: I’ve watched people, including family members and peers, save and save & invest, and save only to die and leave all their wealth for someone else to enjoy.
Kids brag about their parents leaving them money and no sooner than parents are buried, “many” not all, go on lavish shopping spears buying luxury cars, taking lavish vacations, etc. I’ve worked w people who give their 10 year old grandchildren 5-10k for birthday presents saying “what else am I going to do with my money?”
I’ve also watched men’s wives day and w/in 6 months to a year after the wife’s death, men have younger wives and girlfriends lavishing them w whatever they ask for. Women whose husbands die, I’ve seen them do the same. In my own family I’ve seen the same behavior.
I say”Live life to the fullest and prepare for retirement as you do not know your day of death!”
I love it when you talk like this Chrissie ! You seem more relaxed and in your element. I can’t decide if I want to be a biomedical engineer or a Neonatal Nurse? I love both. They don’t tell you . But, that soft girl life comes from seasons of strategic hard work/building your resume .
Whatever you choose, don't be afraid to move around to different countries to get better pay and also leave jobs that don't promote you - job loyalty is rarely rewarded in this economy! 😂
@@chicken5706 STEM folks are in high demand globally!
Don't forget to weigh the pros and cons for each and the physical/emotional toll that comes with nursing.
This 👆🏾
go with Neonatal Nurse you will always have a job and can work anywhere
I decided to level up when I grew up around yt people and saw the things they obtained. Even if they weren’t college educated and I know about systematic racism and such but I knew there was more out there than what was available in my neighborhood.
I abstained from sex until I finished my degree and lived in a low income neighborhood so I could buy a home.
It took years but the process is different for everyone.
Also, dating out allowed for many fun experiences.
How did you navigate dating out? We’re the men who pursued you pressuring you to have sex?
@@wherethequietbeingsgoI started with non-black or other. Prayed about it and only talked to guys who I had the most in common with. To be honest I was only pressured about sex by BM 😂. This guy from
Colombia told me he really wants to have sex and respects my boundaries and we parted ways.
#2 and #3!
After I graduated college, I lived in a boarding house like I was still in college. Then I did the same thing moved into a lower income neighborhood, but that was years ago and now houses around me are $400K to $600k+. But God is good, and I got a $70k renovation grant 🙏 🙌 and also had a donation of brand new windows.😮
@@rainetravels1410 congrats 🎉 you elevated.
I’m actually signing up for etiquette classes so I can become better at soft skills. So right now, I’ve mastered the look, I’m in the gym, I’ve traveled, but now I need to focus on: soft skills and side hustles for income.
Good luck ladies
It’s interesting how this video is focused on women in their 20s, but I’m in my 30s and all these things that you mention are what I’m going through now.
This is just my personal twenties journey but it can apply to any age🌹
- I got a divorce ( best decision I could have ever made)
- I am child free. Children are the biggest complicator for women especially when the father is absent and does not support
- I worked and continue to work on me and I allow spirit to signal to me what it is I need to do.
- I stopped being afraid of being me. I have always been feminine. I just lended in and used it for my benefit. People won’t like it and that’s ok. It has made my life incredibly easier.
- Speaking of people : Study people. All types. I read about human behavior constantly and it has helped me tremendously.
- Be willing as Chrissie said to be ok with a hard time for a season. Don’t fight against it. Flow with it. When we flow with life the answer comes.
- Reject everything that does not align with your life vision, even if it seems hard.
Love it! Thank you for sharing. Other than Robert Green's books, what other books would you recommend for learning about human behaviour?
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Education is so important for Black people to level up. I went as far as I could go with my education and it has paid off well! I also got married to someone with ambition who had no kids. We’re divorced now, but I get money for the rest of my life from my divorce settlement. I don’t need it to support myself, but it’s very nice to have. I can save it, invest it, or use it to buy things and vacation. It’s important for BW to be educated and only deal with men who are motivated and ambitious. Stay far away from dusties and baby daddies🙅♀️
@maribelle beautiful, did uou have kids for him, or you saying it's spouse support for life? I've never even heard if child support for life!
Things I’m doing to move up in class:
1. Getting my doctorate currently. It’ll pay itself back in two years with the immediate pay increase I’ll get at work.
2. Networking outside of my organization in case I decide I want to pivot.
3. Watering friendships that water me.
4. Learning my human design, and using astrology and my faith source to also keep myself grounded and yes, manifestation is real and we gotta learn how to tap into our gifts individually.
5. Save where I can, like doing my own hair, matching my clothes in new ways to avoid new purchases.
Press on w/your doctorate! :) And self wisdom! (astrology, faith etc) Your plan Blessed and watered my Spirit today. Thank you so much!! Be Awesome and Be Well, m'dear.
I’m currently married but when I was single in my 20s I hung out or gravitated towards women who were married and who had good providing husbands. Hang out with the people you want to be like.
*This can't be said enough!*
My interest was helping others. I became a teacher and have now worked my up into administration. This took earning a master’s degree and becoming principal certified. My ultimate goal is to become a superintendent of a school district. I’m not living in high luxury, but am happy and secure.
Soft skills are super important. She’s right about negotiating too!
I'm happy for you ☺️
The confidence part is no joke! I made so much progress in my life when I decided to have faith in myself and took risk 🙌🏾
Dinner has been served cause momma we were hungry for this
I missed this videos and glad they’re back! The Art of Femininity was my favorite series.
Me too
Our Queen is back ❤❤❤
Mother 😇
Yesss!!!!❤❤❤
I took a pay cut when I relocated. It took getting a 2nd degree in a more lucrative field & living on a very tight budget for several years, but I’m doing much better now. I’m book smart but don’t have the gift of gab, so I had to learn to become a more confident speaker & interview better. This is valuable advice, please do more videos like this. ❤️🙏🏾
I took a pay cut to take a job where they had a ERP system I wanted to get experience in. It has helped me gain employment with bigger companies that use this system.
I'm 19f currently doing my undergrad, but engineering didn't work out. So now im at an impasse and im very frustrated. I feel like i've hit a brick wall academically, physically, emotionally. I want to level up so badly, yet I've never felt this burnt out in my life.
It's only been recently that I realized how badly I want to achieve being a part of the upper middle class. I want to go to whole foods and the farmers market and buy all the fancy organic produce I want. I want to retire my mother in a beautiful luxury house. I want to have the freedom to go to the symphony and the jazz clubs on the weekends. I want to wear my cute, understated 300 dollar pastel linen dresses without feeling guilty. I know i've listed so many superficial things but I desire this for myself.
I'll be attempting a transfer to chemistry or geology soon.
I feel you luv
Success is Positive! 😘
Stay positive. Switch to tech if engineering is tough
It's not what you make it's what you keep. Focus on keeping what you have first x
You are so me (not trying to belittle your comment as it resonates with me as a STEM-related major as well as lifestyle desires).
I wish you well in your new studies!🫶🏾 Cheers to the new, upcoming school year☺️✨.
look up the burau of labor statistics. there are also channels like careerwatch that break it down for you if youre not sure. objectively you should be looking for a jobs thats high paying, long lasting, and valuable.
I'm an INTJ too. Networking is so important. A lot of us want to go to work and just do a great job. That really isn't enough. Robert Greene's Law 18 addresses isolation. People don't want to be around people they don't like --- so promotions and business offers will elude the unknown/unlikeable.
Another great video!
I, too, took the path of college. Graduated and found a career that I stayed in for 9 years. While there, I took several training courses for leadership while also earning certificates. I also work several side jobs while working there. I left last December bc it was time for a change for me. I had learned all that I could there and I didnt see any other ways to grow. I'm in a resting stage now, but it's all so promising. Excellent video, Chrissie.
Sending blessing to everyone as you continue to level up. ❤
I don’t regret college it’s afforded me a life that has kept me pampered and spoiled
@@Jaycarbrownie12 I agree. College was the reason I was able to land my career. My degree has help me open many doors.
As soon as the video finished, I had to hit the replay button immediately. Worth listening to twice ❤
I been debating quitting my job and getting back into the medical field/school so much lately. Girl this gotta be a sign. Shoutout to the taurus new moon today ❤🌚
Currently studying for my first degree. It’s hard but It’ll be worth it. Sacrificing now for a better future.
All the best, you can do it
This video was so genuine and needed! I'm currently on my level up journey, and while I'm making progress, it can be so hard not to become comparative. It's nice to have a sense of mutuality and know that most people had to start somewhere.
Woah. Posted 1 minute ago. Excited to watch this
“Flight attendant or ticket clerk” LMAO idk if it’s the way you said it or what but I cackled 😭
Thank you for this video I started a cosmetic business that I thought I loved and I’m so lost right now but you talking through your journey makes me see that there is light at the end of the time when I’m gonna keep going please never stop❤
Early!! This is the content we want to see.❤️
Great advice Chrissie!
I’ve used a lot of these tips to level up, except for the networking, I’ve always struggled with that! 😂 Still, I’m living a soft life and flourishing in many ways. 😊 I work my dream tech job making 6 figures, am starting to travel the world, have beautiful relationships, and exciting hobbies. I’m also developing into the confident, authentic woman of my dreams. It’s taken years of hard work, but it has been absolutely worth it.
If you’re on this journey, you got this! Keep going! ❤
I absolutely love these social strategy and level up lessons! I really appreciate the how - tos. I am definitely taking notes and taking action! Thank you! :)
Once again Chrissie you give a mindblowing video full of promising advice. One of the first things I did when I leveled up was move away from the black community. I love my people, but some black folks are simply not good to have in your space. Next, as much as it hurt me I needed to let go of childhood friends that I knew would forever be stuck on the plantation of pain poverty, and struggle love. Finally, I made the choice to do better, and be better, and be very selective about what type of women I befriend, and what type of men I choose to have in my life. In addition to all that I got my money, mind, and body right. Leveling up is a deep process but once you get it done you're good to go.
Your voice is everything ❤
God, yes! If chocolate was a sound and purring pleasure.
I’m in school now and I’m over it but I know it’ll be worth it in the long run. 😭
Wow first, anyways love these videos from you. I'm in my mid 20s and I'm looking to secure my future, done with the typical soul draining 9-5.
I have some regrets in life. But seeing chrissies content is one thing I'll NEVER regret. It was a tough pill to swallow at first but now I'm at a better position in life now because of Chrissie. Lost 40lbs I'm a nurse now I refuse to deal with certain people. I'm planning on getting some sutble work done to improve my look. Thank you Chrissie ❤
Education all the way. Not only because of the substantive and economic benefits it provides but the social ones too. Why else would Lori Loughlin who is *already* rich, risk Federal prison to get her daughter around the ‘right sort’ of people.
Miss Chrissie thank you for this video. ❤
Excellent content, Chrissie🌺
I appreciate this video, thanks Chrissie
This is the video I needed!❤️❤️❤️
I love this content so much, thank you Chrissie ❤
Thank you, Chrissie ❤
Watching this as a guy>>>>
Nice... 😊
Real
If the advice helps; why not
Great video Chrissie. Such valuable information for black ladies who are trying to reach what some call 'Polite Society' and enjoy the GOOD LIFE. I would also add that although some black women don't mind working for others, I encourage black ladies to start their own businesses and be their own bosses. So many black ladies are traveling and have become digital nomads(the laptop lifestyle) and are finding ways to obtain multiple streams of income to help finance our traveling and becoming permanent expats in the country we wish to call our new home.
Thank you Chrissie.
Thank you so much. It’s so good having content that differs and really cater to women self improvement.
Amazing gems. Thank you Chrissie❤️
Irrespective fi😢😮😅❤❤❤😮🎉🎉🎉😢😢😢😢😢😮😮😮😮❤🎉🎉🎉🎉😢in 😢😢😢
Love Love Love the thumbnail ❤
Great video ❤
All hail the Queen Christina! ❤😊
Excellent video!
This video is so rich! Thank you for this information!
Be selective about the men you date, have mutiple streams of income and develop soft skills
Very helpful and clever advice💖😎👏🏿
This!!
I'm a creative type so after this year If my art doesn't sell I'll have to go back to another style of work for awhile which I'm okay with. I'm definitely trying to plan on what to do for my older years now that I just want to focus building a smooth path to contentment for the golden girl living I'm planning for. Chrissie you are definitely helping us with things we might not think of ❤
I’m a creative too. I want to sell paintings for a living but I don’t know how well that will work for me… I’m going to shoot for a career in arts administration like working in a museum or something. Keep your options open and don’t be a starving artist however you create💗
@@yeahimashley9515 I was being vague but I'm currently a writer but I'm in culinary arts as well so I have that to fall back on but good luck to you on your art 💕
this is the content we want
Excellent information ❤really enjoyed listening to this 👏🏾👌🏾
Another great video! Thanks!
Thank you Chrissie.
This video is packed with so much valuable information GIRL we are truly grateful to have you!❤❤❤❤
I luv ❤️ this content 🎉🎉🎉
Omg! I’m an INTJ too!! 😭 thought that type was so rare!
Apparently, we’re one of the rarest MBTI types🌹
You always give great advice!
Thank you so much for making this video, Chrissie! This is definitely my favorite type of content because I need all the help possible in my journey of moving up in class. My biggest mistake was being too complacent in my 9 to 5 that I hate, but I went back to college this year in order to switch careers. I'll continue to work on myself (networking is a struggle when you are introverted), and I'll be watching your videos along the way. Good luck to all the ladies. We can do this! 🥰👏
I really needed this video now more than ever!🙏🏽
Great video Chrissie. These skills are so important to persevere despite feeling uncomfortable. Also avoiding being pigeonholed by DEI positions because they are limiting roles and tend to have a very low ceiling.
The Journey is definitely not soft, well said sista.
Thank you Chrissie❤🇿🇦
My favorite type of content! Thanks Chrissie! ❤
Thank you Chrissie!! I’m in my 20s and this couldn’t have come at a more perfect time; A fellow INTJ woman here so this gives me hope that I can learn the right skills and leverage them to keep moving up!! 🎉❤
THIS is the kinda content I needed at this very moment. ♥️
Amazing video
Love this! More more more lol
Great content...
Love this video very inspirational and motivational
10:16 Accepting failure is catalyst to move forward❤
You are always on time, us girlies NEEDED this!!!
Everything you mentioned, I’ve either done already, in the process currently or is on the agenda to do. To the point where it’s scary but in a good way. I’m on the right track and it’s nice to hear your advice as reassurance ❤️
Absolutely brilliant video! So many gems. Thank you so much!
Astrology is real. ⭐️
Thank you for this!
1. Education because baby i live in a very expensive area
🌟👸🏿✌️🏿✌️🏿💜🌸👸🏿🌟I really appreciate and honor the in-depths of this video Chrissie!!!💜🌸👸🏿🙏🏿.…. Thank You so much!!!! 🌟💜🌸🌸🌸🌸🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿👸🏿🌟
So inspiring as always 😍 Thank u Chrissie !
I love the artwork!
A video on Youthforia, Chrissie, please pretty pleaseeee
I would like to hear her thoughts on this, as well.
Why beat a dead horse?
Nice video💎 I have not necessarily moved up in class just yet but i am in the process 😊 I want to encourage you all to make sure that you're prioritizing your health, at one point I visited just about every doctor, including a therapist. I take the proper supplements for me right now, I did inner child work, I'm dating myself, discovering my creative side, picked up some paint and canvas from Dollar Tree and tapping more into my spiritual gifts learning to trust my intuition because I'm super! big! into spirituality aswell❣
Always on point Chrissie. Thank you for being honest and realistic. We love you so much ♥️♥️♥️
Great valuable advice again Chrissie thank you ❤❤
One of the biggest things that get in my way regarding my level up journey is I procrastinate to avoid change. I have done this every time I am expected to transition to the next level. I have my "little" license and have been approved to take the test for my "big" license and refuse to study. My C.V. in my field is very diverse and would definitely land me a better paying job but I keep telling myself the reason I haven't applied anywhere else is because I am in the last year of getting the remainder of my student loans paid off (which is true). I need to read more books on complacency and procrastination. I am allowing others to make decisions for me when I wait until I am forced to make a move. I keep hoping for a mentor because I am definitely needing some support.
What field are you in ?
@@intriguedowl3823 Psychology
@@sydlaw2941oh ok . What works for me when I have a big test to take Is to sign up for a prep class. It forces me to be on a schedule to study . If it is financially feasible I recommend it. Also finding a study partner helps . Find a social media group who might be on the sane path and their topic might be motivation .
This is the one right here! Classic ❤
Chrissie Camp!