@@laraoneal7284 i agree his mother definitely has heavy responsibility here,she taught the kid he can get away with anything so he thinks he can do whatever he wants
She's a f00l 😅 Because I would've took his phone and made him go sit in the car while I eat my food.He can get home and eat a peanut butter and jelly sandwich,After that disrespect, plus all restaurants have menus.You don't need no phone.She must have been a blonde 😅
I'm not a parent, but I have always felt like there should be a double standard. If you don't want your kid on their phone, first of all set the example and don't be on your phone. Take advantage of the opportunity to have a conversation.
exactly. if she wants her kids to spend some family time, she shouldn't be spending that time on her phone, it sets a bad example. I think she should've just said "you can keep your phone but dont go on it while we are in the restaurant"
I’ve had kids since I was 19, they are 13 and 16 now. You try not to have a double standard as much as humanly possible but there’s sometimes where the fact that you’re an adult and they’re child is going to create a double standard. It’s not something that you can’t completely avoid for 18 years minimum. Most parents I would like to believe are trying their best, but nothing in life prepares you for being a parent. Also, it’s always evolving and changing as your children age. Being a parent is complicated like all interpersonal relationships.
@@vibe_oli I still think the greatest lesson my parents ever taught me was to listen. The first step to controlling impulses. If I asked "Why", and I didn't need something I'd be told "Because I said so." There were no further questions, I didn't need to know why nor did I need to say anything else about the situation. I trusted my parents when they said such a thing because they always told me "Why" in cases where it doesn't truly matter. I think straying so far away from the dynamic of Parent and Child is where we've went wrong in this Country. Discipline, respect, manners and principles are not always instilled through kindness. Sometimes, if your a little varmit like I was, you need a good talking to or ass whooping if earned. I earned every single one I received, thankfully I was a quick learner so it didn't take much. Most kiddo's are if you have the courage to teach them young and be strict when you need to. To each their own, but I'd rather raise a strong young individual who can handle reality, rather than pamper my child and treat them as a friend their whole life. It's gotta be one of the most difficult things to balance in life itself. I'm so grateful for my parents giving it the best shot they could, and I think they did great. Seeing, and hearing the amount of disrespect tolerated by parents nowadays is honestly disgusting. Grow up and teach your kid some manners.
All of you people here that are entertained by that line really have to get out of the house and head some real original comedy. No wonder tv shows suck, the bar for comedy is on the ground. None of this was funny at all.
@@2004cyrus someone's a little angy wangy. what's the matter big guy, you spill your juice? don't worry little fella, I'll get you some more juice. if you don't like the humor used in online videos there's one solution, don't watch them. nobody wants your negativity
"Prepare to receive some Holy Spirit!" I am not kidding when I say that I would have had my ticket punched and my reserved parking space at the Pearly Gates revoked. I wouldn't even know what happened to me.
I’m so sorry you had to go through that. No one deserves to be treated that way, especially by their own parents. Sending you strength and healing during this tough time
Sir......this statement couldn't be more true. I have a 4 year old that REGULARLY hits me with these calm, logical rebuttals. The real test is being able to say "oooof....you're right." And not gag on your own words. Thankfully, the feeling of defeat only happens rarely, because the whole job of being a parent is to raise smart, articulate, level headed people, so these instances usually bring pride and joy to me. I have 3 teenagers and a 4 year old. My life's work is challenging.
Its the way in which its said though. My daughter would say ok mum but if the menu is on my phone can i use itfor that? Not a wise ass remark. 4 yr olds learn that manner from home!
About 5 years ago (when I had 3 toddlers) I stayed home with the kids bc childcare is just too expensive. I got hit by my 3 year old with the logic that if adults have jobs and I don't have a job, I must not be an adult. Let me just say... it stung.
,had the balls,? Kids nowadays are cruel narcissistic ones disrepectful toeatds parents really monsters , public scholl media some freakis in sociaty encourages that insane evil behaviour so yes, if you live in western world and have zero suport do not complicate: you will do all hard work love them pay all and government will destroy them , you, the Family!!! Not to say what brainwashing with this insane evil ideas they put them in public schools just immoral and disgusteing totally evil!!!!
You don't have to be sharp. You have to let these kids know that you don't tolerate disrespect no matter how logical the presentation or argument. This is foolishness. Who's the parent?
@@jfb2 Kids are calling out parents BS now, which is generally a good thing. The inability for parents to receive and accept this, instead choosing to mistakenly perceive it to be disrespect, is why we have SO MANY adults (and their offspring) who SEVERLY LACK accountability, let alone logic, critical thinking skills, and [cap]ability to respectfully debate. Can't choose to remain ignorant, under the guise of authority, simply _"because [you] said so." That_ is not good parenting.
Honestly, if my kid came back with that explaination, I would be intially angry, but, also, feel relieved that he is intelligent enough to explain his reasoning
Bro my son caught me sipping from his apple juice and he wanna talk about "Now mommy, you KNOW that's MY juice.🤨 You have your tea. 😑" HE'S FUCKIN 3 😭😭😭😭
Suzan raised him that way.. and Suzan is reaping what she has sowed. Growing up in Trinidad and Tobago would have landed me with some belt strap welts across my back the moment I called my Trinidadian Police mother Genevieve 😂😂❤❤
She's a f00l 😅 Because I would've took his phone and made him go sit in the car while I eat my food.He can get home and eat a peanut butter and jelly sandwich,After that disrespect, plus all restaurants have menus.You don't need no phone.She must have been a blonde 😅
That was when your parents were always right. My daughter actually called CPS on me. 😂😂😂😂😂😂 she then was sent to a mental hospital for a full evaluation for two weeks. They don’t have as much power as they think. 😂😂😂😂😂 Now she understands who has the power ❤
Exactly. There was no arguing with “cause I said so” and there damn well shouldn’t be. Not about to explain myself to an entitled kid, should just be “leave your phone in the car” Followed by “yes ma’am” My dad woulda had my ass I acted like that in public 😂
Yoo! I literally remember going to friend's houses and some called their parents bybl their first name!! I thought. That was. Sooo crazy like wattt loll
"Well, Susan" I woulda been dead before "weh" left my goddamn mouth HOLY SHORT I JUST REALIZED 48K!? WELL THANKS! BICH ITS 52K NOW WHOOOOOOOOOOO IM FAMOUS
I mean the sons right, i believe everyone raises their kids how they see fit, but personally I don’t see the point in telling you’re kid not to do something and then doing it yourself. Like telling someone not to steal as you’re in the process of stealing something
@Sensei Wizard I mean you people are so stupid for thinking that a child is gonna act like anything but a child and in the story the child literally says that the mother has her phone out while they're eating so obviously that's not what's going on
My 12 year old daughter looked at me the other day and said “you look like Ebola. Not like the actual disease but like the physical, emotional and psychological tolls it takes out of a person and a community.” 😳 She wasn’t even wrong. I’ve been under the weather. That’s the worst part! They’re actually right sometimes! Fuck!! A month ago she told me I looked like Aileen Wournos. I didn’t even know she knew who that was, but I took a shower and washed my hair immediately.
I’m so sorry you had to go through that. No one deserves to be treated that way, especially by their own parents. Sending you strength and healing during this tough time
I'm almost 60 and I would never say my mom's name since I like my teeth in my mouth. Children have so much power because schools, state and government agencies that take it away. We do need these agencies however there needs to be a balance.
I’ve only ever done it to mine to get her attention when in social settings as she sometimes wouldn’t/won’t hear someone saying mom to her (eg in instances with multiple mothers, also she has a hard time filtering sounds in noisy environments)
@lynild I do this a lot too! my mum is hard of hearing and even me yelling mother while she's watching TV she doesn't respond 🤣 sometimes even her first name isn't enough, it takes the last name to get a response
If I had ever called my parent by their first name in public, they wouldn't be my parent anymore, they'd be my executioner. My dad had me so shook as a kid that I was convinced at all times that he already had a plan to get rid of my body and flee the country, never to be seen again.
@elinquisidorperseverante6835 hate to say it but that was practically every kid in the 90's. Atleast me & every kid i knew growing up. That's just the way it was. We respected what our parents said or else!
Iv grown up in Sweden during the 90s, and we use nicknames for friends, and pet names for close family members. Your real name is only for formal or serious situations. If a persons attention is elsewhere and don't respond when you call them, then you call them by their real name, which immediately grabs their attention. You know shit is gonna go down when your parent calls you by your real name. And if id ever use my dads real name in a fight when i was a kid, he'd disowned me.
@@koathekid8255it’s what you get for taking away discipline, kids had it easy and had been able to think he’s smarts his whole life. Put them in their place
@@koathekid8255 “that child has an energy no parent can stand up to“ haha🤣 u must be white because if I had that same energy he had to my mom my spine would have been rearranged.
My parents are divorced. I said things like "Well, Debbie..." (as a funny joke, not backtalking) with my mom, because she was fairly chill. My dad, on the other hand, was pretty strict, but fair. I have never said his name aloud except when talking to people about him, who would've understood who he was better if I said Bob rather than Dad.
I am working in retail and had to handover something to a woman and her about 5 year old son yesterday when I asked for her driver’s license as ID. She said she didn’t have it on her. Then her son said “then you can’t drive”. I looked at her suprised and said “well yeah”
😂😂 me, being me, would have told my son "mind your business". I always taught my son to learn the rules so then you can learn how best to get away with breaking them. And as someone who can hardly ever afford to pay her tickets, I've been licensed since 16, am 41, and have been actually licensed maybe 10-15yrs at best ...as long as you keep up on your annual registration, drive safe, you're fine. Even if you get pulled over they probably won't take your car (hasn't happened to me & I've been pulled over multiple times, just explain you couldn't afford to pay your ticket or the DMV fee yet & we're coming home from work). Easy peasy. The more you know. 🌈
@@JBunny7482it ain't that easy for everybody, so I wouldn't say that's *universal* advice. I was coming home from work once, had already paid off the ticket online but not the fee (was going to do it on my next day off), and they were still gonna make me stay the night in jail. Only reason I didn't go to jail was because they let me call someone to pick up my car to avoid a tow, and out of the friends I hit up, the one friend that answered also happened to be the friend whose SO is a cop. Instead of coming over she just called him, he came over, they voided everything and let me go home. But if I didn't get super fucking lucky by meeting that friend like 2 months prior, they were 100% going to take me to jail over it. So it's also good to know when you're *not* on the list of people who can get away with stuff other people can
I’d be like “Mijo, I don’t care about being practical in my life. If I did, your dad and I wouldn’t have had you. Now you got two choices, either you eat whatever I order for you from my phone, or we have arepas at home”… Desgraciado. And that is Latino ‘gentle parenting’, agradece que no te doy con la chancleta como me hicieron a mi.
Im mexican and unfortunately seen kids disrespecting their mothers (we have a huge problem with m1s0gynistics like everywhere else) It's very common Slap the kid lady, i won't tell anyone
As a mother, I can’t imagine that. I have an 8 and 7 year old boy. I think my husband would light them up if they disrespected me in such way. I would never tolerate that.
I've taught my now 25-year-old son to stand up for himself and argue since he was a toddler. The deal was, "You can express yourself, argue back, and be curious, but if we're crossing the street and you want to argue, I'll just tell you to obey and argue later". It has been working wonders up to now. And the keep telling him: if you can't control yourself, other people will.
The ONLY time I have EVERRRR called my mama by her first name was so she could differentiate & know my "Ma! Ma! Where you at?" from any other lost kid or grown kid in a JCPenney, Walmart, and Toys R Us. Otherwise, she not gone respond 😂😂😂
One day i cleaned my grown sons truck for him and told him "maybe you could take it up to the car wash and get it washed" he said "I'm a grow man I'll clean my own truck". later I made myself a delicious pizza for me and his dad, my son said "can I get something to eat", I said "yeah go ahead you are a grown man"
I was gonna say ur being a bit petty and controlling of your adult child, but then I reread your comment and realized he was unloading the work onto you and being a bit of a lazy cheapskate, so fair enough, lmao.
Nah, it has nothing do with the race. Never call your mom or dad by their God given names unless you want to be smacked on the head and personally delivered to the after life 💀
Kids will teach a person a lot, they are very keen. I respect kids, because I looked after them for a while during my college days in work study. Great Stuff!
yep, my oldest was a lawyer at age 4. The worst response is "because I said so". my parents said that and I hated it, so I've given micro life lessons.
facts😂 lol i was called lawyer by my moms when i was being cute.. “Are you getting smart with me?” “Do you think you’re smart, Lawyer?” No ma’am, I believe i’m intelligent..she 😂 and then 💥👋 [( Shut up Lawyer Who ask you lawyer did i say u can speak counciler wait till your father hears about this lawyer.. You hear what i said lawyer)] cuz I was too witty by half.. my mind was like a iron trap if you said something i’d remember it just as you said it for loopholes in what u said…All because my moms would say “what did I say” an i couldn’t paraphrase either., I had to say it just the way she said it..looking back she kind of did it to herself saying “repeat what i just said back to me” the way that she did..😂 i was a pain in the rear..
I'm telling you!..You ain't wrong about that sister! I would have wetted myself in public, on the spot and had to wear dentures at a very early age after my grandmother and/or my mother was finished with me! This "NEW AGE PARENTING" style is creating the millions of "Karens & Kens" of this world today!...But then these new parents were probably raised the same way!!! 🤨🧐
Imagine being so insecure that you kill something you made because it's better than you. Imagine being so petty, you get mad because your kid is more intelligent than you. Isn't that the point of raison kids? Make'em better than yourself?
That level of sass was lethal in my time. My mother wouldn't have said anything, my father would have removed me from the gene pool and just said guess we need to try again.
@@BronzeDragonWOHSWhat's "shitty" is how kids nowadays act towards their parents. I mean sure, a lot of discipline methods were a bit cruel, but many, such as my own, were not cruel yet just as effective. If proper parenting is what you consider a problem with society, then reevaluate the fact that you, sir/ma'am, are part of the problem.
The one time I called my mom "Lisa" before I turned 22, was traumatizing. Started acting like she was my landlady. "Oh I'm sorry, I thought I was Lisa, not mom. Now your water usage this week was a little high" bro I cried
😂 I’m 27 now, and I still will never call my mother by her real name to her face. I don’t wanna know what kind of hell I will unleash lmfao… your brave 😂
My parents were the kind that said “stay off the electronics” during dinner and proceeded to ignore me and my sibling while being on their own electronics the whole time 😂
IDK about that... My brother would often call our mother by her first name as a way to both rebel and show disrespect. I'm not saying that my mom didn't deserve it, but I'm also not going to claim that Susan did. Susan sounded like she was trying to be reasonable just like all of those teachers who told us "you won't always have a calculator in your hand". It's simply what they grew up experiencing. 2020 changed the world a lot.
@@sisyphusmarble8460Tbh when they earn it they EARN it. If my step-mother and my father gives conflicting order (pretty rare tbh) I will do what my step-mom wants, I know who’s in charge 😂
That child is being intellectually disrespectful. The comeback from Susan should have been, "for each time you call me Susan your phone will be taken from you for a day. As for my right as the adult who pays for the house you live in, the food you eat and my request you leave the phone in the car, you will not get to use any electronics, TV, gaming etc. for the rest of the day. You will write me a full page apology of 500 words explaining why it is important to respect your mother even when you don't like or understand what I tell you." 😂❤😅🎉
why would you punish your child for thinking logically? because thats kind of the point of being a parent, teaching your kid how to use rational thinking to their advantage
@@synmeow Tone is what changed for the CHILD when he said "Well Susan...." That is when he went from wanting to know why to being disrespectful. Had he asked, "why do you get to keep your phone...." and not ended the question with ..."that doesn't seem to practical, does it Susan: he would have been respectfully voicing his intelligent thoughts on the situation. There is a way of respectfully voicing your thoughts and there is being a disrespectful spoiled brat who is trying to get his way. That is what needs to be trained out of him when he is speaking to the woman that gave birth to him and works all day to see to his well being. I would have sat at that table and ordered him a PB&J while I ate a tasty fun meal. He wouldn't get an option to need a menu. He wold learn to voice his thoughts in a respectful manner and not manipulate me, had he been my child.
It’s heartbreaking to see threats of violence toward a child, especially for simply being intelligent or speaking up. No child should ever be hurt for expressing themselves. I hope anyone in this situation finds the support they need to stay safe
@@skyler862 Violence? Who said anything about Violence? LOL Kids abuse parents when they become adults when they are not properly trained. But no one should have to beat a child to train them. Even jobs train you. There are rules and certain ways you have to speak to bosses and customers. That training starts at home. Proper training will determine if a child is successful in life or one that goes from job to job trying to figure out, their entire life, why they can't get ahead, and they keep getting fired and passed up for promotions.
“So then I’ll read the damn menu to you son, and you better pay attention, cuz I’ll only ready it once. We are exercising your listening skills today. How’s that for practical Johnny?” 😊
Good. Too many parents especially in the past felt like they can dictate what their kids should do without any reason other than the need to assert authority over those they feel they have control over. Just because you gave birth to them, doesn’t mean you can rule over them and think you can talk to them anyway which way and think they won’t remember it to potentially throw it in your face.
It's all in how you raise them. The amazing thing about kids is that they teach you about yourself. If you pay enough attention, they'll make you a better person.
i assume the mother is on her phone in front of him regularly. of course he thinks its unfair to prevent him from looking at his phone if she does it all the time
🔥 🔥 🔥 it is such a humbling thing to be a parent. They get their bs from us and once we realize, we’ll try to do better. I have to constantly change my approach. I have to pray for wisdom before I talk to my kids bc you need the Most Highs wisdom to deal with them. We can’t use the same unhealthy approaches some of our parents used. It’s making me a better woman. And having a husband who is on the same page helps out a lot. That teamwork will keep them right.
❤ Agreeing with the child is a clear indication that you can take ALL the time you need before becoming a parent!❤😂😂😂😂 RIP 😔 to Susan's parental strategy!!
Ion think he's gonna be punished he might start testing the waters more and from my prospective for him to call his mom by her first name is a sign of disrespect-ewsd
honestly debating my kid was one of the things i was most excited about when i thought id grow up and have some. being told "because i said so" was one of the most infuriating arguments ive ever heard and shit got heated in my house, id much rather be able to communicate the issues with my kid then end up in a screaming match.
I swear that all parents across the America say bc i said so well. Doesn't work anymore i hear parents say the that same Fcking sentence to there children now the children have combacks
I once read somewhere that”Children are our mirrors, they reflect back to us our greatest strengths and weaknesses.” If we want our children to show us respect and love we have to show it to them! Being a good parent means you grow up, stop being selfish and be a good example!
“I tell everyone that just as they say that children mirror their parents, so too all those one comes in contact with are you own mirrors. Therefore, if you give all your heart and try your best to communicate, you are sure to get a similar response. So, please lead a life in which you think of what you can do for you for others, not what others can do your you. Interact with others by trying to give all your heart and doing you best to communicate.” -Buddhist Monk Mitsunaga Kakudo
@@loveemsforever If we bond properly with our kids and they learn to trust us early on to meet their physical and emotional needs they will not go too far off the path. Of course their peers will have some influence but their core personality will be loving, strong and respectful because thats what they experienced when their core self was developing.
@Leomoonmom5 my mom is the kindest, most understanding, caring, wonderful person and me and sisters turned out as good, caring, and thoughtful individuals. My brother on the otherhand could not be more opposite. Is that because of my mom? No, if he was anything like her, he'd be a saint. He went to a different school than my sisters and I and it really shows in his behavior. Who cares what your mom says when the general population at your school treats you entirely different and teaches you things my mom never even knew about. All the bad/naughty thing I learned in life came directly from him and what he was being influenced by
I had cousins who tried that with their parents. The response back was, “well since you’re an adult NOW, I expect your rent in two weeks. You will pay for your meal today too. As well as start paying your own phone bills from now on”. Attitude COMPLETELY SHIFTED. My cousins never tried that bullshit with their parents again😂
"Okay, if I'm a renter now then I expect you to abide by landlord laws, meaning my living quarters need to be accomodating for fitting refulations, your tax records will need to be updated in accordance to the changed living situation, and I won't be abiding by any rent payments until we have a formally settled and arranged contract." "Oh, and if you do try to kick me out for failure to pay rent then I'll be contacting child protective services and pressing charges for child endangerment/abandonment and contribution to the delinquency of a minor."
JD Vance has some words for you… 😂 Fr tho: dbl standard parenting gotta go. If you can’t model the behavior before your kids, why should they follow your rule? Real question!
When he said "Well, *Susan* ", I physically blinked and flinched in surprise at the audacity. Edit: Reading the comments makes me realize I should clarify. I wasn't surprised, or "offended" that he called her by her first name, I was surprised he tried to call her by her first name in an attempt to make a snotty remark to express his disagreement. "Mom", "Mommy", and "Mother" are all honorary titles that women work hard to earn, and internationally trying to disrespect it is like a soldier addressing their CO like "Susan" while trying to have an argument. Your parents will always be older than you while they're alive, and where Im from, we respect our elders even if we disagree.
@@anonymousme3571 I get the concept. The interesting thing is the less I demand respect from my kids, the more they give. I would laugh if they called me by my first name, not take it personally nor as a sign of disrespect. Just a difference of parenting style and opinion in general.
one time, in the 80s, i was at the mall with my mom shopping for beginning of the year school clothes. i do not recall what negativity occurred but we were walking in the main part and i DO recall saying some disrespectful shit like, “well you should’ve went to college so you’d have more money” i immediately blacked out from fear right there in the mall and when i finally came to…all i know is i did not receive any new school clothes that year.
@@60wwediva yikes! haha it’s like YOU’RE PERSONALLY mad at ME right now. it was 35 years ago weirdo! capable parents can handle their children when they act up, but NO ONE said YOU need to, or that YOU should have kids, okay?? so you can relax, this happened in the 80’s. and it seems you didn’t even get the point of my comment.
@@60wwediva Its like you being offended when a 9 year old insults you as a 35 year old. You have to technically switch off the major areas of your brain to feel insulted. You can obviously tell the child needs disciple but to take personal insult?
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Jordan is so traumatized from this event we didn’t even get a “come here” 😭
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭and hiding in his car
And he actually increased his tone, that kid was that terrible!
he's not even looking into the camera
@@blaze048. It’s not the kid, it’s the mother. She created the environment her son lives in not the other way around.
@@laraoneal7284 i agree his mother definitely has heavy responsibility here,she taught the kid he can get away with anything so he thinks he can do whatever he wants
HE CALLED HER BY THE FIRST NAME???
I’d be killed on the spot 😂
My dad would have teleported behind me
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That’s what my parents wanted but I was fairly punished for any disrespect. There is a way to do it but most don’t know how.
“Well, Susan” aggressively looks at camera
"Well susan"
😲🤨
Bro I fuckin died when he made that face xddddd
Wow. "Well, Susan." Next, We'll have:
"Well, Karen."
"Well, Daren."
"Well, Kevin."
They White 😅😅
@@ebonyessence2838no doubt about that 😂😂😂😂
“She looked at me and I looked her…” sounds like a line out of Trapped in Closet. 🤣🤣🤣
lol you gonna make me watch the series
Or the lyrics from the drive thru song by weird al yankovic
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@@Belarhos THIS is what I immediately thought! 🤣
“She was defeated!” Took me outttt lmfao
😂😂l😂
She's a f00l 😅 Because I would've took his phone and made him go sit in the car while I eat my food.He can get home and eat a peanut butter and jelly sandwich,After that disrespect, plus all restaurants have menus.You don't need no phone.She must have been a blonde 😅
I totally bet he didn't just stand there and hear that entire convo, seems fake af
@MinervaAlvarez-dx3jc What's it to you ? Fake or not , it's relatable & hilarious 🤣
Its funny & not funny at the same time 😂
You know shit is serious when he is not on the bathroom, talking in a calmly manner.
i mean it was also posted nearly 2 years ago..
Since when does location meant anything?
“Oh Tim says hi to me not in his office but in BREAK ROOM his family must’ve just gone through tragic event”
@@the_jingo its a nice bathroom.
@@the_jingo it a nice bathroom
@@the_jingo it's a nice bathroom.
This is the highest pitch and most anxious Jordan I've ever heard, AND he's not in his bathroom. You know the man has been shooketh.
I AM SHOOKETH :')
Imagine adding a couple of spiders to the equation...
@@jadedone6900or Australia in general
He’s so shaken he didn’t even say “come here”
Shook and shaken I say!
I'm not a parent, but I have always felt like there should be a double standard. If you don't want your kid on their phone, first of all set the example and don't be on your phone. Take advantage of the opportunity to have a conversation.
exactly. if she wants her kids to spend some family time, she shouldn't be spending that time on her phone, it sets a bad example. I think she should've just said "you can keep your phone but dont go on it while we are in the restaurant"
If kids don't learn boundries, they struggle later in life to beable to make smart informed choices!!!
I’ve had kids since I was 19, they are 13 and 16 now. You try not to have a double standard as much as humanly possible but there’s sometimes where the fact that you’re an adult and they’re child is going to create a double standard. It’s not something that you can’t completely avoid for 18 years minimum. Most parents I would like to believe are trying their best, but nothing in life prepares you for being a parent. Also, it’s always evolving and changing as your children age. Being a parent is complicated like all interpersonal relationships.
Yes, sure.. but for that we need the brains.. and wow: many dont have it..
@@vibe_oli I still think the greatest lesson my parents ever taught me was to listen. The first step to controlling impulses. If I asked "Why", and I didn't need something I'd be told "Because I said so." There were no further questions, I didn't need to know why nor did I need to say anything else about the situation. I trusted my parents when they said such a thing because they always told me "Why" in cases where it doesn't truly matter. I think straying so far away from the dynamic of Parent and Child is where we've went wrong in this Country. Discipline, respect, manners and principles are not always instilled through kindness. Sometimes, if your a little varmit like I was, you need a good talking to or ass whooping if earned. I earned every single one I received, thankfully I was a quick learner so it didn't take much. Most kiddo's are if you have the courage to teach them young and be strict when you need to. To each their own, but I'd rather raise a strong young individual who can handle reality, rather than pamper my child and treat them as a friend their whole life. It's gotta be one of the most difficult things to balance in life itself. I'm so grateful for my parents giving it the best shot they could, and I think they did great. Seeing, and hearing the amount of disrespect tolerated by parents nowadays is honestly disgusting. Grow up and teach your kid some manners.
"It doesn't seem that practical Susan...I'm not gonna lie to you..." had me rollin 😂
All of you people here that are entertained by that line really have to get out of the house and head some real original comedy. No wonder tv shows suck, the bar for comedy is on the ground. None of this was funny at all.
@@2004cyrus someone's a little angy wangy. what's the matter big guy, you spill your juice? don't worry little fella, I'll get you some more juice.
if you don't like the humor used in online videos there's one solution, don't watch them. nobody wants your negativity
@@2004cyrusGee ur a fun guy, ain't ya?
I agree with the Kid😂. I envy kids these days.
😂
The "Susan" part is what transformed my soul into my southern grandma...
“Lis-“
“Where am I?”
“You’re in heaven my son, you fucked around and found out”
My Southern mom would've suplexed me 😂😂
"Prepare to receive some Holy Spirit!" I am not kidding when I say that I would have had my ticket punched and my reserved parking space at the Pearly Gates revoked. I wouldn't even know what happened to me.
Hello!!!
Yes, that would never go well in the south.
The way I hollared when you said "well it doesn't seem practical Susan" 😂😂😂
Jordan’s voice has never been higher, he is traumatized 😂
He’s thinking about what would’ve happened if that was his mom and himself like we all are
Do parents just not realize that they have complete control over their children's food supply? Kids need to do what you say they don't have a choice.
And he S H O U L D
I know that was the first thing I noticed😂
You know it’s real when he’s not in the bathroom and not looking at the camera.
She looked to you for backup, and all she got was, “it really doesn’t seem practical Susan..”😂😂😂
Susan needed a lieutenant. Instead she got Jordan all panicked because he was out of his bathroom.
I would deadass put that kid back in the car and drive home. Ok, you win. No dinner. For anybody.
@@royalgilpin4922Yep. I wouldn't be cooking when we got home, either.
@@royalgilpin4922yeah starve the kid, real good way to get put inna home if you think thats discipline 💀
@@NatGoslingyea the kid won, dont punish him for outwitting you
Dude, the cracking in his voice….that’s raw emotion right there
The very best birth control I've encountered is the screaming children in Walmart.
“It doesn’t seem that practical, Susan”
I mean... kid's not wrong.
Not gonna lie, with thinking like that? As in figurimg out what's the best course of action, that kid's gonna go places.
The pfp ☠️
Keep talking to me like that and I’m going to consider it very practical to hand you over to an adoption agency.
- Susan
@@MichaelMemejs at least it’s mine and not stolen :)
Jordan so traumatized he showed us his energetic self for the first time
Hu hu hu hu hu 😂 Well susan
😂🤣🤣🤣
My southern ass would not get past why.
Mine too. (Although I am not from the south.)
Facts.😮
Exactly.. I may let you get past 1 why ...but then calling me by my parent issued government name? Nah bruh you gonna catch some hands😂😂
Yes ma'am
I ain't from the south but my ass would've absolutely been handed to me on that day.
I’m freakin 40 and I’ve never called my parents by their first names. They would beat my soul back to Nigeria 😂😂
😂😂😂😂
😂😂 Facts
I’m so sorry you had to go through that. No one deserves to be treated that way, especially by their own parents. Sending you strength and healing during this tough time
I am 48 and wud never, esp in that disrespectful way!
The fact that he was addressing her by her first name. She lost the battle with that kid way before today.
This!
AMEN!
Right! I would have done whipped his ass!
Exactly
AMEN
Sir......this statement couldn't be more true. I have a 4 year old that REGULARLY hits me with these calm, logical rebuttals. The real test is being able to say "oooof....you're right." And not gag on your own words.
Thankfully, the feeling of defeat only happens rarely, because the whole job of being a parent is to raise smart, articulate, level headed people, so these instances usually bring pride and joy to me.
I have 3 teenagers and a 4 year old. My life's work is challenging.
Its the way in which its said though. My daughter would say ok mum but if the menu is on my phone can i use itfor that? Not a wise ass remark. 4 yr olds learn that manner from home!
I'm not a pro neither parent but sometimes use Asian ways.. Might help Sir/Elder Brother...
About 5 years ago (when I had 3 toddlers) I stayed home with the kids bc childcare is just too expensive. I got hit by my 3 year old with the logic that if adults have jobs and I don't have a job, I must not be an adult. Let me just say... it stung.
My seven year old be killing me with her logical responses lol
You, are a fantastic parent.
That kid had the balls to call their own mother by their first name during an argument.
,had the balls,? Kids nowadays are cruel narcissistic ones disrepectful toeatds parents really monsters , public scholl media some freakis in sociaty encourages that insane evil behaviour so yes, if you live in western world and have zero suport do not complicate: you will do all hard work love them pay all and government will destroy them , you, the Family!!! Not to say what brainwashing with this insane evil ideas they put them in public schools just immoral and disgusteing totally evil!!!!
if i did that i would've got whipped
this man always sounds like he's consistently on the verge of tears
That's just being an adult.
@@PaddySnuffles true
😂😂
😂😂😂 this comment right here took me
The most stressed person in the world.
You said it “You gotta be sharp.” “If you stay ready you ain’t gotta get ready.” 😂😂😂
No lies told! My grandkids keep me sharp!
That's my motto everyday. I don't get ready
I stay ready
You don't have to be sharp. You have to let these kids know that you don't tolerate disrespect no matter how logical the presentation or argument. This is foolishness. Who's the parent?
@@jfb2
Kids are calling out parents BS now, which is generally a good thing. The inability for parents to receive and accept this, instead choosing to mistakenly perceive it to be disrespect, is why we have SO MANY adults (and their offspring) who SEVERLY LACK accountability, let alone logic, critical thinking skills, and [cap]ability to respectfully debate.
Can't choose to remain ignorant, under the guise of authority, simply _"because [you] said so." That_ is not good parenting.
@@BL3SSed-Bliss WishI could give you an award for this comment
That parent did not have a solid relationship with the teenager from a looooong time ago.
Well yeah. If she’s falling back on “I’m the adult” with a teenager, she’s probably never had a solid relationship from the getgo
"I saw her face, she was defeated"
😂😂😂
Addressing mom with first name is INSANE. I’d have been smacked upside the head if I tried to pull sum like that.
Yup! We wouldn't even be there cause 'there's food at home' and none of us kids had 'buffalo wild wings' money...😅
I wouldn’t have been smacked….. quite frankly no one would really be sure what happened to me to this day
My mother would have smacked me so hard I would still feel it today.
I know this sounds weird but like my mom likes me to call me by her first name
I love when people say this like yeah that's why we don't do that so people like you can stfu
Man, if I spoke like this to my parents, I'd be deleted from existence.
The way it should be. Kids are being raised to become narcissist t3rr0rists
My mom would laugh her ass off, and then proceed to isekai my ass
@idgaf6915 and if you have my luck you wouldn't go to a better world. You would either go to Attack on Titan or be a dog in the jojo universe.
@@A96etch nah my luck I'm waking up in berserk somehow already having a brand of sacrifice on me.
I got beat for it every time but it was always worth it. Dont try to win the argument. You have to win the W A R.
"well Susan"
"You have one chance to fix your mistake, choose your next words wisely"
Idk why I read the second part in a Kratos Voice and added BOY at the end of it: 😂😂 Too much GoW
@@sheifu898 This is the Way
@@sheifu898 i thought it Was only me😂😂😂😂
Facts my mom would have killed me if i girst named her
How about just knowing how to control what u put in this world
Honestly, if my kid came back with that explaination, I would be intially angry, but, also, feel relieved that he is intelligent enough to explain his reasoning
Finally, a parent/person that makes sense 😂😭... I swear the comment section is full of terrible parents
That face and neck action after "Well Suzan..." I'm DEAD
Hahahahahahaha 🤣 same here
i dieD
Bro my son caught me sipping from his apple juice and he wanna talk about "Now mommy, you KNOW that's MY juice.🤨 You have your tea. 😑" HE'S FUCKIN 3 😭😭😭😭
I don’t even know him but I’d die for your son honest to god 😭 he sounds like a great kid
Not drinking out of sippy cup
Slap the shit outta kids to let them know who's paying to allow them to exist in the first place
@@problemletstalknoletschat2288 That's an extremely DUMB ass reason to slap a kid, maybe you just shouldn't have em 🤷🏾♀️
Bruh your the reason why I want to kill myself and I’m 12. People like you always have to use my stuff and drink and eat my food without permission 😐.
My mom woulda looked into my soul and simply said "well daughter, guess we aren't eating tonight, huh?"
Yessss!!!! Mine too
Mine would have said to me I guess YOU aren't eating tonight & would have proceeded to order her meal & eat it in front of me while I watched.
More like, how you gonna eat when you can't sit down?😂
HAHAHAH
"we" meaning mom will still be eating
Suzan raised him that way.. and Suzan is reaping what she has sowed. Growing up in Trinidad and Tobago would have landed me with some belt strap welts across my back the moment I called my Trinidadian Police mother Genevieve 😂😂❤❤
Indeed is licks
I would say pay 4 yuh food since you calling me by first name that not practical now
Fellow Trini here 👋🏽 You’re absolutely right 😂 ain’t no way I would’ve called my mother by her first name with backchat and not have repercussions 😅
go mom!!!!!!!!
You know it’s real when Jordan’s addressing us from the driver’s seat of his car.
Anywhere outside the bathroom...
Read your bible! (KJV, preferably) ❤️❤
Bro is going through a life crisis
he was reporting onsite
Bro this dude just showed up on my shit and he funny asf 😂
Strait been watching all his shorts every day, at least once an hour for the past week lol
his shits golden, i get hyped seeing his content tbh
This stuff is why I watch shorts. I love these videos where people just talk about random situations and people
Did he just show up on your Shit?? Interesting.
This dude is owning the internet one short at a time!!
His final words, "well, Susan ..."
She's a f00l 😅 Because I would've took his phone and made him go sit in the car while I eat my food.He can get home and eat a peanut butter and jelly sandwich,After that disrespect, plus all restaurants have menus.You don't need no phone.She must have been a blonde 😅
I heard 🎶In the arms of an angel🎶 lol
@@marquitashiver6141😂😂😂😂
I grew up in the BECAUSE I SAID SO ERA! With the TRY ME look! Otherwise, I'd be getting up off the ground! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
That was when your parents were always right. My daughter actually called CPS on me. 😂😂😂😂😂😂 she then was sent to a mental hospital for a full evaluation for two weeks. They don’t have as much power as they think. 😂😂😂😂😂 Now she understands who has the power ❤
Put that info away, crodie@@laurel1865
@@laurel1865 Well played Uno reverse card mom!!! ☺️
Big facts! :D I couldn't even exhale loudly growing up! I'd be laid tf out if I even tried that with my parents. #shiiiid
Exactly. There was no arguing with “cause I said so” and there damn well shouldn’t be. Not about to explain myself to an entitled kid, should just be “leave your phone in the car”
Followed by “yes ma’am”
My dad woulda had my ass I acted like that in public 😂
You’re absolutely right my 13-year-old and 16-year-old keep me on my toes daily. Nothing gets past them 😂
The fact that he called his mom by her first name tells me all I need to know about the situation
Yoo! I literally remember going to friend's houses and some called their parents bybl their first name!! I thought. That was. Sooo crazy like wattt loll
@@ShaSha-kq6thThat shit is so crazy because you flinch but then nothing happens, and 100% of the time they argue like you aren't even there.
I was looking for this comment 😊
right! say my mums first name to her all serious and I'll be the ancestors for a second a*s whoopin
Absolutely!!!!
"Well, Susan"
I woulda been dead before "weh" left my goddamn mouth
HOLY SHORT I JUST REALIZED 48K!?
WELL THANKS!
BICH ITS 52K NOW
WHOOOOOOOOOOO
IM FAMOUS
I can't bring my phone out of the house
And if said anything I will miss you
I'd be dead for asking why instead of putting my phone down😭😭😭😂
I mean the sons right, i believe everyone raises their kids how they see fit, but personally I don’t see the point in telling you’re kid not to do something and then doing it yourself. Like telling someone not to steal as you’re in the process of stealing something
@Sensei Wizard I mean you people are so stupid for thinking that a child is gonna act like anything but a child and in the story the child literally says that the mother has her phone out while they're eating so obviously that's not what's going on
"Tell me you've been abused by your mother withought telling me you've been abused by your mother"
Literally if I formed my lips to even ask "why" in this situation, it would have been curtainsssssss
If I ever called my mom anything but mom or mother...I wouldn't be the proud owner of a face, the slap would have been heard in Japan.
Lmao my mum never slapped me she would just call my dad and he would slap me. Old fashioned type ting
😅😅😂😂😂japan!
😂😂😂😂
Holy hell this made me laugh my own face off thx 😂
I would have opened my mouth and my ancestors would have felt it in the island volcanos they are buried under 😂
My 12 year old daughter looked at me the other day and said “you look like Ebola. Not like the actual disease but like the physical, emotional and psychological tolls it takes out of a person and a community.” 😳
She wasn’t even wrong. I’ve been under the weather. That’s the worst part! They’re actually right sometimes! Fuck!!
A month ago she told me I looked like Aileen Wournos. I didn’t even know she knew who that was, but I took a shower and washed my hair immediately.
hahahahaha
She must be getting it from somewhere.
@@Soulsis15 yeah, she definitely comes by it naturally. 😂
"You look like ebola" I'm definitely using that 😭😭
im using that
I would have to peel myself off the ground before if I EVER even PARTED MY LIPS to say something like that to my mother! 😅😅
i’m 46 and i STILL wouldn’t call my mom by her first name..no way, you don’t disrespect your mom like that for any reason on the planet
I’m so sorry you had to go through that. No one deserves to be treated that way, especially by their own parents. Sending you strength and healing during this tough time
I'm almost 60 and I would never say my mom's name since I like my teeth in my mouth. Children have so much power because schools, state and government agencies that take it away. We do need these agencies however there needs to be a balance.
Na pikin wey get mind to ask im mama "why?"... Dem no born you well to ask my mama "why"😂
In Nigeria that is a death sentence
I have never called my mom by her 1st name in all my decades of life, because I appreciate and look forward to living.
if i had done that growing up i would have been slapped out of existence.
@@killzone866 You and me both...hello darkness.
@@neka7994same I still don't use my parents actual names.
I’ve only ever done it to mine to get her attention when in social settings as she sometimes wouldn’t/won’t hear someone saying mom to her (eg in instances with multiple mothers, also she has a hard time filtering sounds in noisy environments)
@lynild I do this a lot too! my mum is hard of hearing and even me yelling mother while she's watching TV she doesn't respond 🤣 sometimes even her first name isn't enough, it takes the last name to get a response
If I had ever called my parent by their first name in public, they wouldn't be my parent anymore, they'd be my executioner. My dad had me so shook as a kid that I was convinced at all times that he already had a plan to get rid of my body and flee the country, never to be seen again.
I know it's hyperbole but don't you think that has negative side effects?
Fun fact: that's emotional abuse
@elinquisidorperseverante6835 hate to say it but that was practically every kid in the 90's. Atleast me & every kid i knew growing up. That's just the way it was. We respected what our parents said or else!
Iv grown up in Sweden during the 90s, and we use nicknames for friends, and pet names for close family members. Your real name is only for formal or serious situations. If a persons attention is elsewhere and don't respond when you call them, then you call them by their real name, which immediately grabs their attention. You know shit is gonna go down when your parent calls you by your real name. And if id ever use my dads real name in a fight when i was a kid, he'd disowned me.
They like to do that but the minute you move out they always wanna see you
"SHE LOOKED AT MEEEE! ...It doesn't seem that practical, Susan, I'm not gonna lie to you." 😂😂😂😂 KA MUH DEE!
Disapline is what 50% of western society lacks
@@Your-friend16 More than 50%
bruh it took me a solid minute to sound that out
and what did u get? I'm still struggling
@@morissonviana6256 bruh, comedy.
Thank you for sharing this. I’m 26 now. What you shared just clicked for me two years ago.
She lost the battle a long time ago if that kid can call her by her first name with that much sass.
The child has energy that no parent could ever stand up to
They WILL ware you down the only difference is when
@@koathekid8255it’s what you get for taking away discipline, kids had it easy and had been able to think he’s smarts his whole life. Put them in their place
@@leebegaming4130 what do you mean “think”
He is smart man could have used a better tone but he earned his ability to speak by actually being smart
@@leebegaming4130😅
@@koathekid8255 “that child has an energy no parent can stand up to“ haha🤣 u must be white because if I had that same energy he had to my mom my spine would have been rearranged.
I can't even IMAGINE calling my mom by her first name
Ikr... Smh... Crazzzyyyyy!
only white ppl lmao
@@s.moorer1526 sounds about right
Same but my dad. Fuuuck
My parents are divorced. I said things like "Well, Debbie..." (as a funny joke, not backtalking) with my mom, because she was fairly chill.
My dad, on the other hand, was pretty strict, but fair. I have never said his name aloud except when talking to people about him, who would've understood who he was better if I said Bob rather than Dad.
I am working in retail and had to handover something to a woman and her about 5 year old son yesterday when I asked for her driver’s license as ID. She said she didn’t have it on her. Then her son said “then you can’t drive”. I looked at her suprised and said “well yeah”
😂😂 me, being me, would have told my son "mind your business". I always taught my son to learn the rules so then you can learn how best to get away with breaking them. And as someone who can hardly ever afford to pay her tickets, I've been licensed since 16, am 41, and have been actually licensed maybe 10-15yrs at best ...as long as you keep up on your annual registration, drive safe, you're fine. Even if you get pulled over they probably won't take your car (hasn't happened to me & I've been pulled over multiple times, just explain you couldn't afford to pay your ticket or the DMV fee yet & we're coming home from work). Easy peasy. The more you know. 🌈
@@JBunny7482it ain't that easy for everybody, so I wouldn't say that's *universal* advice. I was coming home from work once, had already paid off the ticket online but not the fee (was going to do it on my next day off), and they were still gonna make me stay the night in jail. Only reason I didn't go to jail was because they let me call someone to pick up my car to avoid a tow, and out of the friends I hit up, the one friend that answered also happened to be the friend whose SO is a cop. Instead of coming over she just called him, he came over, they voided everything and let me go home. But if I didn't get super fucking lucky by meeting that friend like 2 months prior, they were 100% going to take me to jail over it. So it's also good to know when you're *not* on the list of people who can get away with stuff other people can
@JBunny7482 That only works for the privileged people. *_WE_* have to follow the law.
@@JBunny7482
Interesting that you’re teaching your kid how to break the law. 🤔
@@dr.braxygilkeycruises1460 I know, I understand it doesn't work for everyone. 😔😔
He didn't want us to "come closer" so we didn't see how truly traumatized he was! 😂😂
As a Latino, I can confirm that I had friends who died for answering like this to their mothers.
I’d be like “Mijo, I don’t care about being practical in my life. If I did, your dad and I wouldn’t have had you. Now you got two choices, either you eat whatever I order for you from my phone, or we have arepas at home”… Desgraciado.
And that is Latino ‘gentle parenting’, agradece que no te doy con la chancleta como me hicieron a mi.
I can confirm from the other side, it was worth it.
My moms head would have spinned like the exorcist, right before she knocked me out.
@@vinucete American born latino here and how i wished i got the gentle yell. it wasnt so pretty after i turned 14
Im mexican and unfortunately seen kids disrespecting their mothers (we have a huge problem with m1s0gynistics like everywhere else)
It's very common
Slap the kid lady, i won't tell anyone
Yeahhhhh the “well Susan” would’ve knocked me into next week😂😂
Same!!
Fr, wouldn't have time to say another word.
Well su--
**carrying my dumb ahhh to the car** 😂😂😂
“Well Susan…” damn, the kid really went and did that. If I addressed my mom by her first name when I was a kid it would not end happily.
I would have been passed tense
I’d be in a world of ouch
Raspberry pi is the GOAT
I wouldve been on a tombstone
As a mother, I can’t imagine that. I have an 8 and 7 year old boy. I think my husband would light them up if they disrespected me in such way. I would never tolerate that.
I've taught my now 25-year-old son to stand up for himself and argue since he was a toddler. The deal was, "You can express yourself, argue back, and be curious, but if we're crossing the street and you want to argue, I'll just tell you to obey and argue later". It has been working wonders up to now. And the keep telling him: if you can't control yourself, other people will.
“Well su-“
*You have left the combat area turn back now or you’ll be eliminated”
☠️☠️☠️
No no no. This time, there's no turn back option, it's just, *prepare to get eliminated from this life*
fam…. I remember I said my moms name one time. I got hit with this look of… idk i just put my hands up AND didn’t do it again..
@@jayclearmen411 Bruh. I've been too scared to say my mom's name to her. I want to live, thank you very much 💀
Whatchu mean? If you even THOUGHT her name, you heard boss battle music engage and a health bar appear over your head🤣🤣
"Im an adult, I can do what I want."
"Then why do you keep complaining about the things you cant do?"
Overheard that argument
The dad just gave up
That's when we throw hands
@@Josmersuero when your wrong so you start beating because you know you can't justify it
Peak black parenting
@@blizzard1198 want to get beat up?
@@Josmersuero Are you threatining me over the internet?
I would have told that child, "Just like I can give up custody of you to the State."
Well if my kid started off with Well Susan, it would have been followed up with Well Johnny, no wild wings for you.
😂
Nah man it would be like:
Well Johnny..... I suppose i'll have to host a funeral
Thank you
@@nini-ux9we 💀😂
Sounds like weak parenting to me
The ONLY time I have EVERRRR called my mama by her first name was so she could differentiate & know my "Ma! Ma! Where you at?" from any other lost kid or grown kid in a JCPenney, Walmart, and Toys R Us. Otherwise, she not gone respond 😂😂😂
One day i cleaned my grown sons truck for him and told him "maybe you could take it up to the car wash and get it washed" he said "I'm a grow man I'll clean my own truck". later I made myself a delicious pizza for me and his dad, my son said "can I get something to eat", I said "yeah go ahead you are a grown man"
I mean cleaning your own car vs going to a car wash is a bit more cost effective but go on
@@XxcrimsonarrowxX But he wasn't even cleaning his own truck while boasting that he's a grown man and will clean his own truck lol
@@clatterslam ok now I see the irony of this. If that's the case then yeah just go to a car wash if he's that lazy to wash his own truck.
I was gonna say ur being a bit petty and controlling of your adult child, but then I reread your comment and realized he was unloading the work onto you and being a bit of a lazy cheapskate, so fair enough, lmao.
😂😂go mama go
The way I'd been murdered if I called my mother by her actual name 😭.
The one that shall not be named has nothing on moms
thats a we going home right now.
@killzone866 no, thats a "I'm getting Buffalo wild wings and you can eat whatever you can find at home"
It was when he asked why that I was like ooo my mom would have been pissed 🤣
Probably not her name....when ppl call you "Susan" it's similar to "Karen" it's someone basic and annoying ...or some see it as Karen-lite Lol
That's when you meet their energy and say "good point, guess I will be ordering for you then since you won't be able to see the menu."
Damn you're a genius Holy shit!!!
That’s good
Exactly
Huh?
THANK YOU! stop letting kids outsmart you please…
“SUZAN” got me DYING!
You tell every story like you’ve just been traumatized and it’s perfect
bro was on the verge of tears giving us this speech😭😭
fr fr
Don't call your Asian parent's name like that, you'll get sent to shadow realm with a bamboo stick 💀
Or your southern American parents... mommas don't play that game in the south 🙅♀️💀
or nigerian
Or any
Nah, it has nothing do with the race. Never call your mom or dad by their God given names unless you want to be smacked on the head and personally delivered to the after life 💀
@@Shaaydiia07 nah but when you see white kids do it it's so crazy
Kids will teach a person a lot, they are very keen. I respect kids, because I looked after them for a while during my college days in work study. Great Stuff!
yep, my oldest was a lawyer at age 4. The worst response is "because I said so". my parents said that and I hated it, so I've given micro life lessons.
there are requesites for answers like that to work
facts😂 lol i was called lawyer by my moms when i was being cute..
“Are you getting smart with me?”
“Do you think you’re smart, Lawyer?” No ma’am, I believe i’m intelligent..she 😂 and then 💥👋
[( Shut up Lawyer
Who ask you lawyer
did i say u can speak counciler
wait till your father hears about this lawyer.. You hear what i said lawyer)]
cuz I was too witty by half.. my mind was like a iron trap if you said something i’d remember it just as you said it for loopholes in what u said…All because my moms would say “what did I say” an i couldn’t paraphrase either., I had to say it just the way she said it..looking back she kind of did it to herself saying “repeat what i just said back to me” the way that she did..😂 i was a pain in the rear..
Your kid is gonna grow up to be a cool public defender.
Or whatever they want, it's just good that they'll grow up in a household where their ability to use rhetoric is celebrated.
@@jayclearmen411that’s just karma
"Well Suzan" woulda been my last words. A passerby would have witnessed a mother living up to her threats, and taking her child out of this world.
I'm telling you!..You ain't wrong about that sister! I would have wetted myself in public, on the spot and had to wear dentures at a very early age after my grandmother and/or my mother was finished with me!
This "NEW AGE PARENTING" style is creating the millions of "Karens & Kens" of this world today!...But then these new parents were probably raised the same way!!! 🤨🧐
Imagine being so insecure that you kill something you made because it's better than you.
Imagine being so petty, you get mad because your kid is more intelligent than you. Isn't that the point of raison kids? Make'em better than yourself?
@@HobbitWithABong raison? You have failed
@@macwyllAmerican spelling style.😊
😂😂😂😂 me too
That level of sass was lethal in my time. My mother wouldn't have said anything, my father would have removed me from the gene pool and just said guess we need to try again.
😂😂😂 Same!
That's abuse. Not a joke. The fact that it is a joke for so many is a testament to our shitty society. Not something to be proud of.
@@BronzeDragonWOHSbro it’s a joke
@@BronzeDragonWOHSWhat's "shitty" is how kids nowadays act towards their parents. I mean sure, a lot of discipline methods were a bit cruel, but many, such as my own, were not cruel yet just as effective. If proper parenting is what you consider a problem with society, then reevaluate the fact that you, sir/ma'am, are part of the problem.
By my own, I mean my parents raising me, as I have no kids yet.
The one time I called my mom "Lisa" before I turned 22, was traumatizing. Started acting like she was my landlady. "Oh I'm sorry, I thought I was Lisa, not mom. Now your water usage this week was a little high" bro I cried
Yea moms got that sass in them
😂 I’m 27 now, and I still will never call my mother by her real name to her face. I don’t wanna know what kind of hell I will unleash lmfao… your brave 😂
Lol!!!
Yeah, that's a GREAT way to respond. Don't get violent... be smarter....lol!
This is gold i- 😭😭😭
If that was me: “okay that’s it, we’re not going to Buffalo Wild Wings and you’re not getting dinner tonight… also no phone for a month”
I like that response
“Well SUSAN” Dumbledore said calmly😂
😂
"Did you think of the practicality of this Suan. Did you!!!" Dumbledore again said calmly
My parents were the kind that said “stay off the electronics” during dinner and proceeded to ignore me and my sibling while being on their own electronics the whole time 😂
Ahh parents. Hypocrites you love 😂😂😂😂
Great
And then they are surprised they are not respected… and I am saying that as parent.
You must of been born during the Sidekick Phone era 😂
@OP that’s trash. 🚮 I’m sorry. 🤦🏾♂️
That was a certified step-parent moment.
100%!! Step-parents don't get that automatic Parent Card privilege, kids make them earn it.
Yeah, that was the vibe I got.
Thanks for this comment 👍👍👍
IDK about that... My brother would often call our mother by her first name as a way to both rebel and show disrespect. I'm not saying that my mom didn't deserve it, but I'm also not going to claim that Susan did.
Susan sounded like she was trying to be reasonable just like all of those teachers who told us "you won't always have a calculator in your hand". It's simply what they grew up experiencing.
2020 changed the world a lot.
@@sisyphusmarble8460Tbh when they earn it they EARN it. If my step-mother and my father gives conflicting order (pretty rare tbh) I will do what my step-mom wants, I know who’s in charge 😂
That child is being intellectually disrespectful. The comeback from Susan should have been, "for each time you call me Susan your phone will be taken from you for a day. As for my right as the adult who pays for the house you live in, the food you eat and my request you leave the phone in the car, you will not get to use any electronics, TV, gaming etc. for the rest of the day. You will write me a full page apology of 500 words explaining why it is important to respect your mother even when you don't like or understand what I tell you." 😂❤😅🎉
why would you punish your child for thinking logically? because thats kind of the point of being a parent, teaching your kid how to use rational thinking to their advantage
@@synmeow Tone is what changed for the CHILD when he said "Well Susan...." That is when he went from wanting to know why to being disrespectful. Had he asked, "why do you get to keep your phone...." and not ended the question with ..."that doesn't seem to practical, does it Susan: he would have been respectfully voicing his intelligent thoughts on the situation. There is a way of respectfully voicing your thoughts and there is being a disrespectful spoiled brat who is trying to get his way. That is what needs to be trained out of him when he is speaking to the woman that gave birth to him and works all day to see to his well being. I would have sat at that table and ordered him a PB&J while I ate a tasty fun meal. He wouldn't get an option to need a menu. He wold learn to voice his thoughts in a respectful manner and not manipulate me, had he been my child.
It’s heartbreaking to see threats of violence toward a child, especially for simply being intelligent or speaking up. No child should ever be hurt for expressing themselves. I hope anyone in this situation finds the support they need to stay safe
@@skyler862 Violence? Who said anything about Violence? LOL Kids abuse parents when they become adults when they are not properly trained. But no one should have to beat a child to train them. Even jobs train you. There are rules and certain ways you have to speak to bosses and customers. That training starts at home. Proper training will determine if a child is successful in life or one that goes from job to job trying to figure out, their entire life, why they can't get ahead, and they keep getting fired and passed up for promotions.
“So then I’ll read the damn menu to you son, and you better pay attention, cuz I’ll only ready it once. We are exercising your listening skills today. How’s that for practical Johnny?” 😊
But why curse at the kid? He said nothing to be upset about.
W father
Where I am from if you disrespect your mother she’ll beat the morals and values back into you.
@@TheBrandiElizabethbecause he called his mother by name and is desrespecting the people who gave him life.
@@FrostyIgnition Idiot. 🤦
Bro calls his mom by her first name, I wouldn’t even have a funeral at that point 😂
Same- ☠️
I'd have been instantly freeze dried with one look. Seriously. I call it The Arctic Glare.
I might as well dig a grave and just jump in it.
Stepmom?
@@recoveringsoul755 Ehhhhhhhhh........
When I was 13 I called my mom once by her first name👀 I woke up at 19 years old.
Lesson learned.
😂
She took "imma slap you into next year" literally
@@Eggythunder6712dude woke up with they high school diploma
Good. Too many parents especially in the past felt like they can dictate what their kids should do without any reason other than the need to assert authority over those they feel they have control over. Just because you gave birth to them, doesn’t mean you can rule over them and think you can talk to them anyway which way and think they won’t remember it to potentially throw it in your face.
She turns and meekly replies, "...my name isn't even Susan..."
underrated 😭😭😭
😂🤣😂🤣😂
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
😢😂😢😅
"We'll Susan" would've been my final words. I would have died before a single word after calling my mom by her first name.
Turns out it’s her middle name💀
I would have been waiting for you on the other side after asking her why. 😂
Same
same! I'd get the warning of " you better be talking to somebody else" befits the curtain call
@@doctorsammy883 that's what everyone calls my mom by
It's all in how you raise them. The amazing thing about kids is that they teach you about yourself. If you pay enough attention, they'll make you a better person.
Agreed💯
i assume the mother is on her phone in front of him regularly. of course he thinks its unfair to prevent him from looking at his phone if she does it all the time
Great response!
That is so, so true
🔥 🔥 🔥 it is such a humbling thing to be a parent. They get their bs from us and once we realize, we’ll try to do better. I have to constantly change my approach. I have to pray for wisdom before I talk to my kids bc you need the Most Highs wisdom to deal with them. We can’t use the same unhealthy approaches some of our parents used. It’s making me a better woman. And having a husband who is on the same page helps out a lot. That teamwork will keep them right.
❤ Agreeing with the child is a clear indication that you can take ALL the time you need before becoming a parent!❤😂😂😂😂
RIP 😔 to Susan's parental strategy!!
This is his canon event, he will never be the same after this...
Ion think he's gonna be punished he might start testing the waters more and from my prospective for him to call his mom by her first name is a sign of disrespect-ewsd
god- i haven't seen jordan tiktoks in a while- like damn-
Same here lmao and then he appeared on my yt shorts
@Stardust. year old post also. Just goes to show this dude has been active. Good for him for finally getting more attention and subscribers!
@@Papatabb69the RUclips algo swept him up like last week and said I’m making you famous lmao
@@cMind607 Bless the Algorithm God 🙏🏼
It was the, “It doesn’t seem that practical, Susan” 💀
Our rule with our kids was you could not use your phone during dinnertime. No discussion.
honestly debating my kid was one of the things i was most excited about when i thought id grow up and have some. being told "because i said so" was one of the most infuriating arguments ive ever heard and shit got heated in my house, id much rather be able to communicate the issues with my kid then end up in a screaming match.
Yeah there has to be a balance. You should explain things to your kid, but there comes a point where you have to make them accept your decisions.
I agree but to some extent. Just make sure they are making the right decisions
I swear that all parents across the America say bc i said so well. Doesn't work anymore i hear parents say the that same Fcking sentence to there children now the children have combacks
@anthonyruth5606 that's because the parents don't have authority anymore. "Because I said so" works only if there's a punishment behind the sentence.
That is fine so long as it's not an emergency. There has to be balance in all things including this.
I once read somewhere that”Children are our mirrors, they reflect back to us our greatest strengths and weaknesses.” If we want our children to show us respect and love we have to show it to them! Being a good parent means you grow up, stop being selfish and be a good example!
I was reading a book last night that had a similar quote
“I tell everyone that just as they say that children mirror their parents, so too all those one comes in contact with are you own mirrors. Therefore, if you give all your heart and try your best to communicate, you are sure to get a similar response. So, please lead a life in which you think of what you can do for you for others, not what others can do your you. Interact with others by trying to give all your heart and doing you best to communicate.” -Buddhist Monk Mitsunaga Kakudo
Truthfully until you remember there's this thing called a school that's probably gonna influence them more
@@loveemsforever If we bond properly with our kids and they learn to trust us early on to meet their physical and emotional needs they will not go too far off the path. Of course their peers will have some influence but their core personality will be loving, strong and respectful because thats what they experienced when their core self was developing.
@Leomoonmom5 my mom is the kindest, most understanding, caring, wonderful person and me and sisters turned out as good, caring, and thoughtful individuals. My brother on the otherhand could not be more opposite. Is that because of my mom? No, if he was anything like her, he'd be a saint. He went to a different school than my sisters and I and it really shows in his behavior. Who cares what your mom says when the general population at your school treats you entirely different and teaches you things my mom never even knew about. All the bad/naughty thing I learned in life came directly from him and what he was being influenced by
I had cousins who tried that with their parents. The response back was, “well since you’re an adult NOW, I expect your rent in two weeks. You will pay for your meal today too. As well as start paying your own phone bills from now on”.
Attitude COMPLETELY SHIFTED. My cousins never tried that bullshit with their parents again😂
Period
I thought you were going to say that you attended their funerals.
That’s what would have happened in my family
@@stunningbeaute1037 well that was strike one
They never got to strike two😂
In my family, you only get two shots
Second one you on your own haha
"Okay, if I'm a renter now then I expect you to abide by landlord laws, meaning my living quarters need to be accomodating for fitting refulations, your tax records will need to be updated in accordance to the changed living situation, and I won't be abiding by any rent payments until we have a formally settled and arranged contract."
"Oh, and if you do try to kick me out for failure to pay rent then I'll be contacting child protective services and pressing charges for child endangerment/abandonment and contribution to the delinquency of a minor."
@@dylkiller3501 Damn, this guy kid lawyers
JD Vance has some words for you… 😂
Fr tho: dbl standard parenting gotta go. If you can’t model the behavior before your kids, why should they follow your rule? Real question!
“Well that’s adorable little family dinner night.., but then but then but then” had me dying! ❤😂
Really cause my first thought was don't families have a father and he could tell Susan don't worry ill take care of this
When he said "Well, *Susan* ", I physically blinked and flinched in surprise at the audacity.
Edit: Reading the comments makes me realize I should clarify. I wasn't surprised, or "offended" that he called her by her first name, I was surprised he tried to call her by her first name in an attempt to make a snotty remark to express his disagreement. "Mom", "Mommy", and "Mother" are all honorary titles that women work hard to earn, and internationally trying to disrespect it is like a soldier addressing their CO like "Susan" while trying to have an argument. Your parents will always be older than you while they're alive, and where Im from, we respect our elders even if we disagree.
Why? If anything it reminds the parent that the kid is a human as well and all humans deserve same levels of respect.
Hell yeah. I would get smacked so hard if I called my mom Kathy. She is from Jersey
@@lindzee7410 same reason why you call your teacher Ms and Mr [-] instead of their given name.
@@anonymousme3571 I get the concept. The interesting thing is the less I demand respect from my kids, the more they give. I would laugh if they called me by my first name, not take it personally nor as a sign of disrespect.
Just a difference of parenting style and opinion in general.
Hey bro, if I did that, I wouldn’t even see the light
My mother would literally unalive me if I ever addressed her by her name.
especially in that tone of voice.
no way your mom is that much of a badass and raised someone who says "unalive" as a substitute for a real word.
@@dharmapunk777 uhhh, yeah?
no
@@KaelyWaely
L mom
During such questioning from time to time I would always advise my son ...
"The guy that pays earns the privileges."
one time, in the 80s, i was at the mall with my mom shopping for beginning of the year school clothes. i do not recall what negativity occurred but we were walking in the main part and i DO recall saying some disrespectful shit like, “well you should’ve went to college so you’d have more money” i immediately blacked out from fear right there in the mall and when i finally came to…all i know is i did not receive any new school clothes that year.
Omg 😳 . Your blood sugar must've been low for those words to come out of your mouth .😅 # wow # glad you are here to tell the story 😀
Props to your mom 😂☠️
Yeah. Shit like that is why I dont want kids. Speaking out of your neck with the immaturity level but thinking you know it all
@@60wwediva yikes! haha it’s like YOU’RE PERSONALLY mad at ME right now. it was 35 years ago weirdo! capable parents can handle their children when they act up, but NO ONE said YOU need to, or that YOU should have kids, okay?? so you can relax, this happened in the 80’s. and it seems you didn’t even get the point of my comment.
@@60wwediva Its like you being offended when a 9 year old insults you as a 35 year old. You have to technically switch off the major areas of your brain to feel insulted. You can obviously tell the child needs disciple but to take personal insult?