my biggest regret is avoiding my best friend who had chemotherapy when we were five. i was scared of her because she had no hair, and when she would come up to hug me, i would run away. and now she’s gone.
lucid dolans this is so sad.. People can do stupid things and you didn't know what was happening to her. You were scared. Don't worry, its not your fault. ❤
Children under 10 aren’t fully capable of thinking outside themselves. It’s a survival instinct, egocentricity. A parent or teacher should’ve explained the situation and made you more aware, even if you didn’t completely understand it.
Maybe part of it's purpose is to not only share stories, but for you to open and share your own. Not specifically on here, but those who are close to you.
Manuj Madan that’s the point ,they didn’t know she was going to pass, but because of this, they thought it was ok to stay ,in stead of going home . I don’t know if your intention was of comfort or Ill but that was a sad attempt at comforting someone, man
My biggest regret is that when i was 7 years old, my dad died, at his funeral i was given one more chance to hold his hand, and i didnt, i just walked away, its still the only thing in my entire life that i regret.
When my grandfather was in his last days instead of spending time with him and going to his room I just walked away ....I couldn't bear him And now when he is dead I wish I would have cherished those last days
I see you. Really, I do. When I was 6 my mother died of cancer and the last time that I saw her we visited her in the hospital. Seeing her that sick made me so sad that I pretended to fall asleep so that nobody would talk to me.
When my dad died, i was given the opportunity to hold him one last time at the mortuary but didn't because i allowed my fear to get to me. I still regret it to this day so believe me when i say that i understand how you're feeling.
For me is that I just automatically start to see all their flaws, even the silly ones, and on that I decide they're just no good enough. I know how hypocritical this sounds, but I'm also afraid that now they just see the best of me, if I let them in and let them see my flaws they will just run away, I'm always so afraid of letting someone I care about see the worst of me
I'm _sorry_ I know I'm just a person on the internet and you might be lying for whatever crazy reason but I'm _sorry_ That must have been so tough yo leave them behind.
Dont feel guilty my sister did the same I dont blame her or hate her for it I got enough courage to leave after she left I understood I just hope your sister feels the same way I hope you two are in a better place in life now
I tried getting away. I recognize the signs from past experiences. Sadly the other insisted and so emotionally I couldn't pull away. It became a see-saw of her rejecting me and wanting me. In the end when I wanted her she pushed away not wanting to have me in her life. Now i can't even bear seeing her.
My biggest regret is loving someone who didn’t love me back. I pushed everyone else away for this one person. They ended up hurting me more than I could ever imagine.
@@yiwenHQHi there, you still young, I'm 44 and I'm starting this year so START WITH ME, START WITH US. It's a process but start with small things like simple things, be good to yourself, socialise with positive people, spoil yourself at least once a month, speak positively to yourself, REMEMBER you are not alone feeling that way so it's not abnormal, it's just something that happened to us perhaps years ago. It's ok, just try👍
My deepest regret; I was 14 years old. I was so into gaming at that time and I was playing bo2 multiplayer and I was addicted to it. One night I was playing. I woke up my mom for work during the loading screen of the game. I slammed her door open. Turned on her light and yelled “mom time to wake up for work!” Ran back in my room and began to play again. She got ready. Put on her nurse uniform with patterns on it that I can’t even remember. She walked into my room and asked me if she looked nice. My eyes glued to the screen “yeah yeah you look great. Bye I love you” is what I said to her. Not knowing that was my last words to her. Not knowing I wouldn’t hear another word from her. The next day she was sent to the ER unconscious for a week. 7 days later she was gone. If only I put down my controller that night, hugged her, told her how much she meant, told her truly how much I loved her...... I would be happy now. But I always look back and think how awful I was.....I didn’t even look her in the eye that night...... and that was my last interaction with her.
It’s not your fault tho.. you didn’t know it was gonna happen and just proceeded like it was a normal day... just stay strong is all you can do and give her that hug when you see her again one day
We all do things that we regret, but what defines us is what we decide to do when we know our mistakes. It’s the choices. You’re mother would know your love. Stay strong you beautiful girl.
@Min Xi Choo maybe for small things but some people out here forgiving themselves for things that their victims haven't forgave them for and are still struggling with.
My biggest regret is that I didn’t move from the house of my abusive parents early, they made me so depressed that I tried to kill myself and now I have to live with anxiety and depression by myself
Veggie ASMR I know what living with both is like and it is a daily struggle. I also know how an abusive person can have a traumatic, life long effects on a life. Stay strong. And remember that you did make it out. Or if you haven't, remember that you have survived this long, and that you can and will make it out.
Veggie ASMR stay strong, theres someone out there for you and some important thing you have to do. I'm studying psychology currently, I havent been in your situation, but I fully understand having to live with anxiety and depression especially by yourself, if you survived then that means that you are meant for greater things, stay strong. Don't let your demons win. If you ever need to talk to anyone you can email me @ the4thprincesilicon@gmail.com
i know it's easier said then done cause you don't want to put yourself out there and the anxiety take control of you talking to people about it but i'm sure you can contact a therapist or maybe someone you trust or have a common ground with that you can have someone to talk to?
My biggest regret is that I didnt tell my boyfriend that i love him with all i am before he passed away, it's crazy , it is really because i was the type of girls who keep saying the "I love yous " till they become annoying, but once he had that accident, i just became speechless and everything around me felt so unreal, he was the last one who told me "I love you" before he passed away, and just stood there helpless.
He knew you loved him. Loving and missing is two separate things. Moving on is one big verse, we never truly move our hearts away from someone. Yet, we can keep them at bay, one day friend, you'll think of him without hurting. It's time you miss him rather than still loving him. He's gone, but he's gone with a love.
Katie clark Im reading your comment and trying so hard to hold my tears (i failed btw) and i really loved him so much like i dont even know how describe it to you, he was my first and last kiss ever, i can go on talking about him for hours. Your message warmed my heart, thank you so much sweet starnger
Same. Im learning so much about how to set boundaries. How to communicate that I want to set a boundry & it deserves to be respected is extremely difficult with people you have let behave a certain way but Ive been practicing & focusing on it. Hardest thing ever . . . . but I am hoping that in ten years time or whatever I won't be having the same issues & I will feel proud of improvement. Hoping & praying & taking action
my deepest regret is how i was and still am afraid of everything. When you live scared of everything you never have the chance at true fun and living a real life, just a scared survival
90 DAYS FOR A NAME CHANGE ,YAY That‘s my life. I am only really afraid of one thing but that one thing is everywhere. It‘s the fear of social situations. Can you relax when you are alone? :)
Meisterling no, I have a deep fear of being lonely but also have a fear of trusting. I don’t socialize a lot but I used to socialize too much. I just don’t now cause I trust too many liars
90 DAYS FOR A NAME CHANGE ,YAY why do you open up to people? You don’t have to open up to people, could just hang out with people and have fun. Like co workers or people from school, you need to give yourself a pep talk because 20 years from now maybe 10, you’ll regret never living life or living life in fear. What’s so scary? Ask yourself that, really ask yourself that. You ever get those butterflies in your stomach and you think it means you’re nervous? What if you’re actually excited, I mean I could never tell the difference but you know what when I go and try to talk to a new person that’s what I think, I think of it as excitement of meeting someone new. I believe in fate but you choose the things that happen in your life as well.
I always say to myself.. Don't be afraid, it's just a small talk. Say it. Do it. If you do it, you might do it wrong but that happens to everyone.. And then something inside me delete those words and all that is left is fear. I fear of talking to someone. I fear of doing something that I'm not sure about and what I fear the most is future.. buut mostly everything I have to do. 🤔😅
It's only sad because even though you weren't in the same situations, you still have that deep, empty pain from your own secrets and you can just tell the pain coming from those people's hearts. In a way it's good to know cause now I know I'm not alone and there's people that have made it but they still have that empty void. It's way deep.
My biggest regret is not respecting my parents, i used to shout at them. Now my eyes are filling with tears remembering the old days. They used to feed me and put food in my mouth before they put food in their mouth. It shows the deeping care of parents. They work day and night so that their son may hopefully have a future that they did not. Always respect your parents and treat them with ease before having regrets of which you cannot turn back.
I should probably start doing that 😬😬 and I have tried before and actually I don't scream at them that much as I used to and I have a better attitude so I'm proud of myself
Honey, you never get over that. You should tell someone and get him convicted because he might molest someone else. I turned in a pedofile myself. Everyone of them deserves to be outed. My dad used to rape my sister, and she never told. He went on to rape drunk girls at bars. An old friend of his told me he caught my dad doing it and beat him pretty bad. He made me promise to never let my daughter be alone with my dad. No one can press charges but the victims. I am sorry this happened to you. I wasnt molested and I don't have the same problems as my sister. She is really messed up from it. I have seen her go from guy to guy because that really screwed up her head. I know you are still in pain. He deserves time for doing that though.
I know what you feel.. When i was 4 years old, my uncle was sexually abusing me.. his words are still in my head:"don't tell anyone about this" When i told my family about it, they didn't believe me, but my uncle stopped hurting me. I cried so hard because everytime i tell the truth, they believe in lies
I was 19 at a time, was going to an university in a town 12 hours away from home for 3 months. I had a cat that I loved so so so much for 6 years, and she loved me a looot too, but I couldn't take her with me when I was going to the university (severe roommate allergies). After I left she fell very ill but the vets couldn't find anything wrong with her, she was literally dying of sadness because I wasn't home and started deteriorating physically. Three months after I left I came home for the holidays. She was very sick and very dependant on me, every morning very early she would meow in front of my room to take her with me and snuggle, and she would only sleep with me. One morning I was very tired and just couldn't make myself to get up while she was meowing and I just continued sleeping. She disappeared that day and I never saw her again.... It has been 7 years and I still feel extreme guilt, pain and sadness thinking that I didn't get up and I just left her to die on her own.
I have to say that I relate entirely to the first one. I was assaulted by my grandfather when I was 5, and I regret never going through with pressing charges. If you ever suffer through an assault, PLEASE know that it is NOT your fault. You can overcome this. Do the right thing and come to the authorities. You don't stand alone. 💕
Rumimiko I'm not sure how I ended up on multiple situations where I had the opportunity to tell and didn't , but I did and each time I felt my excuse was valid . When I was younger, my female cousin use to experiment with me . It wasn't anything terribly traumatic since I was confused and curious as to what was going on , but it just makes me realize now how easy it is for this my to happen to children if we're not careful . With my older brothers friend , I just hope he never got to another girl . After that night I thought I'd never see him again , but he failed a grade and ended up in class with me 😑 I had an entire school year to tell on him , yet I said nothing . I regret being weak
LIL SHINY that part reminded me of my great grandmother, she died basically of a broken heart. Me and my family moved to Texas for my dads orders, she lasted 6 months. I remember I would never talk to her or let her touch me or hug me and she would say (she’s Filipino) “ I watched when you were little I took care of you when mommy and daddy where busy and now you don’t love me” I still wouldn’t let her near me even after that. That’s my biggest regret and the worst thing I’ve ever done.
My biggest regret (so far) is just hiding who I am. It’s silly, I know, but my entire life I’ve pretended to be someone I’m not and I want to change. I’ve hidden my insecurities and all the things I enjoy so that people won’t judge what I like. I’m just now slowly noticing so many kids at school had the same interests as me and we were all just scared to talk about them.
I hide myself from a lot of people. I don't talk much. I guess I think I'm better off alone? And I act different depending on my friend group. I don't lie to them, I just show different sides of my personality, but never the whole me... :( sounds weird but oh well
Jenalicous I do the same thing, sometimes pretending to be a totally different person because of it. I've really come to hate myself for it, but I can't stop
My Deepest regret: when I was 16 I was diagnosed with depression. I would cry every single day of my life at random times and keep knives in my room. I’d collect bottles and bottles of my pills incase I decided to take my life. And I never told my mum once, during that entire time, what was going on and why I was so sad. I walked out of my room at 3am in the morning one morning after crying non stop for hours, to hear her in her room crying and cursing at herself for being a bad parent. I have never, nor will I ever, get over the fact that I caused my mum so much pain by not telling her what was going on. I am extremely ashamed by it. I am now 19 and still depressed, but I love my mum and I hang out with her so much! I don’t want to cause her pain anymore.
Im 15 and i started to feel depressed some time ago. But i told my mom really fast because i didnt want to be a diffrent person without her knowing why. She helped me and im a lot better now. Telling her will make it easier for you AND your mother. She will be a lot happier if she knows your pain. Because that way she can help you and thats all a mother wants for her child.
Growing up I had a decent relationship with my mom. But I keep a lot of things from her because I don't want to cause her pain. I didn't show my depression until now that I am 18. I got too tired of hiding, my mom thought that I just being very sensitive. Now she's trying to understand what it is that I'm feeling but she ties it to the fact on how my parents got divorced when I was 4, not knowing that there is much more to it. I will say part of me is relieved for telling my mom about it but at the same time I was and am still scared of being criticize for being depressed.
My biggest regret was not being more outgoing and making the best of my time in college. Instead I was pretty reclused, and suffered from depression unknowingly. Potentially the best years of my life were wasted, and I probably missed out on so many connections and experiences that I will never get back.
I regret not telling the boy I loved that I love him. I found out much later that he actually loved me too, and i havent seen him in years. I miss him.
I have no regrets. Everything that has happened to me has built up my character, and I would never take back any decisions I have made, as they have made me who I am.
I agree..I cry from time to time..but I would never regret the decisions that shaped. That would be disrespect for my present self. And I love my present me too much to allow that. 🥺🥺🥺
@@adrien2291 i agree. Earlier i too used to cry about stuffs like that, u know going through adolescent stage aint easy. I am 17 rn still in that fking stage. ... And ofc there are still things that offend me, but i am trying to work on them and this is by far the most relatable comment cuz i too thought like this and started my self discovery path 2-3 months ago.
I regret not passing enough of time with my dad and tell him that I love him he passed away yesterday and I watched this video the day before he died and coming back to write this it hurt so much
SAMIL MAHAT you’re such an evil person, he’s sharing his story to make others feel like they have someone to relate to if they’re going through a tough time theirselves, look yourself in the mirror before you reply with a clown emoji.
I regret not obeying my mother and hurt her feelings several times without knowing she loves me with all her heart..I Realise how much she loves me later on after having a son...but its too late...can't do much for her in my situation...ILove you MOM...
I feel the same exact way, she way have abused me or said she hated me but i deserved that and then she killed herself and everyone tells me its my fault... sorry for ranting about my pathetic life
@@layla-cv2vt you didn't deserve the abuse or the hate you got. And it DEFINITELY wasn't your fault that she hung herself. Don't blame yourself. Ik it's hard not to but trust me it wasn't your fault. Don't be so hard on yourself. You deserve nothing but love and happiness. And those who don't wish that for you, just drop them. It will get better I promise. It may be hard but it WILL get better. EVERYTHING will. Ps. Don't let your past define you. (Also I'm sorry if anything I said might have offended you in any way)
My biggest regret is letting my inner voice destroy all of my dreams and hopes and change me into the stupid person that always wearing a mask to hide it's true self that full with negative things and keeps destroying all of the things I've been protecting so hard and me. I want to apologize to the old me in my childhood
Crysant Makikama I wore that mask too. I don’t know how you feel, but I have stood in that place, and I didn’t believe there was a way out. I struggled and eventually learned to take it off and I am happier now. I struggle now because I came out the other side and I am not who I was. I dont know what you are struggling with, but I am proud of you for posting the comment, and I have hope for your happiness.
My biggest regret getting into that fight with my boyfriend before he killed himself. It’s been 2 years, and everyone tells me it wasn’t my fault, that we both said awful things, that I wasn’t the reason. But he had no one but me, and then he didn’t have me anymore. It’s so hard going to school and seeing “normal” teenagers deal with things like what to wear to prom or how annoying homework is while for me, every day is a struggle because he’s not here, and he should be the one I could talk to about my annoying homework, he’s the one who should be taking me to prom ... I miss him so much and every second without him hurts.
no u it's never her fault, he decided to take his life it could've pushed him a bit, but arguments happen in relationships terrible ones and people don't go around killing themselves after them, he would've been unstable already or things built up.
🙏💜 as a now rape survivor, at the time prior to watching this video things happened and I was looking up ways to commit suicide then I suddenly came across this and it straight away hit me ! pushed me to report my abuser and here I am awaiting the son of a bitches sentence, safe & I give thanks. Also if there is anyone who you know or is reading this & is currently being in any way sexually abused I urge you to seek help and report! 💜 I know its many things holding you back from telling anyone. Humiliation, fearful and scared of no one believing you but you cant keep living like this.
EXO WHO I ONLY STAN TALENT Frankly I dont believe you ACTUALLY were going to go through with killing yourself. Honestly though, if you just NOW started looking up ways to commit, you didnt really mean it when you said to yourself "im going to kms".
Unless you have emotionally abusive mom like i do, she hates everything i do, bodyshames me and says how i do everything wrong.. I promised myself that i need to be nicer to my kids if i have some.. So they can have trust in me that i don't have in my mom..
@@melz7730 Remember this, You are beautifully and Wonderfully made, and that is all that matters. Accept yourself for you and learn from your mom's mistakes. Also pray for your mom and hope that one day yall can have a better relationship.
We all say things we regret but what matters most is if we learn from our mistakes. You know that you truly didn't mean it, you need to forgive yourself and try to have that relationship with your mom now. Don't dwell on the past, instead focuse on the present and what you have now. I pray that your mom and you grow a strong bond. Stay safe.
My deepest secret is when i took for granted of my aunt. She took care of me when I was very little more than my parents. When I was 12 years old, she was diagnosed with a virus inside of her. She passed away. I didn't show her any love before she died. I remember that time when she made dessert for me when she was sick and about to pass away. I regretted that I was very inpatient with her when she asked me " how to use facebook". I didn't give her a hug or kiss before she passed away. This is extremely painful for me and throughout my whole life.
DENVIOUS MARS I know how you feel.. The same thing happened to my grandad last year.. I regret not appreciating him too... Just know that your aunt is in a better place now where she isn't in pain. Stay strong ❤
My biggest regret is not hugging my father and saying i love him before he go to the states. Little did i know it was his last vacation with us. He was diagnosed with a deadly disease and died in the states. He came back in a jar and it hurts so much. I could've have spent time with him when he was still alive but i ignored him.
byuntaen I know how you feel.. The same thing happened to my grandad. Just know that your dad is in a happy place now. I hope you are ok and remember to stay strong ❤
I know I'm late but I'm gonna tell my regret too. I regret not reporting a racist teacher who made a racist joke and tried to be funny. He said ''some people are dark-skinned because they drink tea and white people are white because they drink milk ''. I remember Lowering my head with tears running down my face and others looking and laughing at me...😭😭
My biggest regret is joining a gang and choosing the wrong path in life. I joined a gang because no one was there for me. I always was scared of the people around me but now after jail. I learned what is good in life.
My biggest regret was pushing away from my Uncle when he got diagnosed with cancer. I was young and didn’t understand it fully, I just knew that he was sick and who wants to be around someone who’s sick? So I stayed distant from him, pushing away hugs and hiding from him when he was around. Eventually as i got older I understood and started spending more time with him, but it was only a few years before he died. I see this happen way to much with young people, they don’t understand someone’s illness so they distance themselves. Please, teach the children you know not to be afraid now, because later on when they understand how stupid they’ve been it’ll be too late.
my biggest regret is not picking up those calls from my mom when she actually decided to care about me, because i now know she only was trying, achoolism is hard and now shes gone
my biggest regret is not telling my parents that i was rapped by my male teacher .... i was in 1st grade .... literally...... the teacher was kicked out becasue the principle knew that the teacher is a rapest by another SENIOR girl ..... but he didnt know about the other victim ..... me ....
I regret not telling my mother I was gay and had a husband. I never invited her to our marriage. My mother died of cancer 3 years ago and I never got to tell her. In all my 21 years of living, I never said who I was. I’m sorry mom.
My deepest regret was letting my anxiety take over when talking to people who were actually there for me and cared for me even I barely showed love back.
My biggest regret was In high school, I told one of my friends I was bisexual, she told me she was as well. A few months later we started to drift apart but we never fell out or anything like that. During the beginning of the next year people started making fun of her because of her haircut (all of the popular ones) and trying to impress them and my friends I told them that she was bi, word got round quickly and with that bomb and many other things the bullying piled on fast. I never really thought about what was happening to her, I didn’t even think anything had happened. A few month after the bullying started she asked me why did I do this to her and told me what I did to her. The worst part was she told me I’m sorry for having to put this on you. That was the last time I spoke to her, I don’t know when after that time but a short period after the exchange she went missing for around 6-10 hours. She had not took the bus home and instead walked to a busy road in the next town over. She jumped in front of a van on the road, snapping her spine and breaking several bones. I don’t know when she died but I know she died in hospital. Everyday of my life I think of her and what would’ve happened if she told other people about me. I wish I could speak to her again, tell her all this but I can’t. I wish I could just take back what I said and have just been a decent friend instead of a dickhead. I’ve come along ways since high school and tried to make myself better and try change the way I act but I know nothing will redeem what I did, sure I may not have done the bullying and only provided one part, but I still played a role in her death and I’m disgusted with myself and I hope she’s up there in heaven and even if she doesn’t accept my apology she knows I am sorry
My biggest regret is never taking time to spend with my little brother and always getting into fights with him. Now he's in Grade 8 and I'm living on my own in Uni and he's having a hard time with his friends and he needs me now more than ever. But I'm not there to help him and so he'll always remember me as the brother who was never there for him.
"what is your deepest regret" eating so much. I'm obese and I HATE when my friends say they're fat because it makes me feel like they're just trying to get attention and being obese is not fun. It messes with your insecurities so it enrages me when all of my friends say they're the fat one.
And here I have problems with even eating normally 0_0 It's not anorexia and it's not that I feel fat (at most I'm slightly chubby. I actually don't worry about my appearance in that way though, or rather- I stopped myself from worrying and it actually worked), I just lose all appetite with the minor (?) anxiety I feel all the time. But really, I thought it wasn't that bad and if I only forced myself to eat I could do it, but like this morning- I ended up stopping myself when I felt like I would throw up. I have no idea why I have this problem really (can anxiety even do that? is it even anxiety that I feel?! Idek tbh) I love sweets though and snacks and I can eat sooo much of all that. I just don't really have much appetite when it comes to food. Tbh I kind of envy that you actually _can_ eat normally. Training up my appetite is something I've had to do since I was in kindergarten and I ended up having a pretty severe vitamin-deficiency because of my 0 interest in food. I still don't feel hungry and have a hard time eating, but I kind of learned to force myself to eat even if I hate it. Because, yk, one has to eat to survive. I can't judge you though, and I actually have a sister trying to work with getting down her weight because of health problems that come with her weight, and I know she doesn't have it easy. I just kind of feel a bit like I'd rather be able to eat (eating normal meals without problem) and force myself to stop from eating too much, rather than having an extremely hard time just eating in general, and having to force food into my mouth. I'd love to discuss this though! I am not myself in a position where I eat too much, and can probably honestly not understand fully what it is like- but I'd be really glad to get to know that. So I can understand people in general better and be a better person in general - and so that I can understand my little sister better and be a better older sister to her, too! If anyone else wants to discuss this, too- go ahead. I actually _wish_ to know more about this all!
Engla Himla same exact way even the thought of eating sucks at times. Your appetite can go from sure I could eat to you take one bite and you feel like throwing up. Not to help I have a fast metabolism so this really affects weight I wish I could put on just 10 pounds to feel somewhat healthier but can’t.
I can see the misunderstanding you may have because I constantly and casually call myself "fat" a lot in front of people and to myself even though I know I'm not. I definitely don't want attention, its because of my self loathing and past eat disorders that make me say and think those things about myself and thats really common amongst people, especially girls these days. I understand why you get frustrated hearing girls that aren't fat say that, I just thought I'd share my perspective. Just know that you are more than your insecurities and beauty is subjective, its whatever you want it to be but it certainly is not pain and suffering.
The day before my mom passed away she dropped me off at my sister's house to stay the night. At the time, I was young and stupid, only 10, and didn't like being away from home especially at my sister's house.(for some odd reason I really didn't like my sister) The night she dropped me off she told me she loved me and she'd pick me up the next morning... I slammed the door without a word and didn't even say I love you back. She called me later in the night to say goodnight and once again I had a chance to say "I love you".... But I didn't. I just said goodbye and hung up. Then early in the morning, the day she was supposed to pick me up, she passed away from an unknown cause.. That's my biggest regret, I never told my mom I loved her before she passed away. I guess I learned my lesson as to this day I always tell my dad I love him any chance I get because I never know when something could happen to him and he could be taken away from me. Life moves fast and doesn't wait, so savor every moment you can and don't let petty fights become your biggest regret.
Monique Noisy Hawk this happened to me too. My Dad was on duty as a police officer. I was 4 and I can remember vividly just a few hours before he left work, he was playing with me then he told me has to leave soon and I was really sad cos I wanted to spend more time with him so I didn’t say I love you. Around dinner time, someone came to our house and told my mum that my dad was shot and I just remember myself crying! I was 4 but I know what was going on. I knew i lost my Dad and even typing this is so painful. I really miss him.
That's deep. I almost stopped breathing. Great insight. Some of the comments were spot on. I almost choked up in a public place. Don't watch this in a public place.
My biggest regrets: Not telling my family I love you every single day because you never know when it will be someones last Letting my body get to how it is now as I am 11 and 138 pounds Telling my friends she was annoying and I hated her because she was so nice to me, but it turns out she was the only real friend I ever had
Don't worry you can work out all of those problems tell your family you love them more often eat healthier or exercise and you can apologize to your friend if you can contact her
Fix them before it's too late, and don't say it's too late. It will be too late when they/you die, trust me it's better if you fix it sooner than later...
My biggest regret is: Developing feeling for one of my guy friend. And when I tried to confess it in front of him he made fun of me, my skin colour, my body. That was the time I really understand how difficult teenage is, I am 16 and I often deal with social anxiety, body insecurity, relationship problems with my parents. But I am trying to be the best version of my self, to make my parents proud...I try my best to ignore negativity. I am just focusing on my career now and I don't believe in love anymore.
Well, i too am an adolescent of 17 yrs old and i guess its a very common thing to have insecurities about everything related to us.. I have never fallen in love before, ofc i do have numerous crushes and i do like certain characteristics of people around me be it the neighbours Or my friends... I too have had so many clashes with my parents regarding stuff and there were times when i used to cry cuz i thought my own parents couldn't understand what i am going through, and so many more. But i wanna say just becuz someone wasn't able to give it to u, plz don't give up on that. I understand u have had gone through so many difficulties and times were really rough, but this is all i wanna say. I amnt pressurising u to believe it just now, but i really hope u meet someone soon enough who would help u get out of ur negative impression on this topic and help u start over again. Edit : Have a great day ahead mate and plz stay safe.
Random Person i hope youre mother is in heaven and dont be sad it is/was a hard time i cant relatie but i understand it a little i hope you are doping alright
I relate to the first one. In middle school my step grandfather molested me and my step grandma made it stop but told me never to tell and I never have. But now I have to deal with seeing him and hugging him all the time and letting him kiss me on the cheek even though I hate him with every fiber in my body.
Caselyn Owens Ideally, I'd like to do that but I know it would probably ruin my family and turn my mom's side against my step dad's side. I don't want to be responsible for that
Tay O People deserve to pay for what they did. It is never too late to talk. It will not be your fault, it is their own for doing something they shouldn't have. Don't protect him.
Tay O Please tell someone. It is never too late and none of it is your fault. I've never been in a situation like this but you shouldn't keep it in because it's not good for your mental health. I hope the best for you.
my deepest regret is doing things that i thought werent bad but actually were very disgusting and now that im older i realized how bad what i did was. regret is a monster
My deepest regret is I didn't want to talk to my granddad who was diagnosed with cancer.. he passed away almost two years ago and I wish I would've talked to him more and hugged him. I miss him more than any thing..
shy D same with my grandad. He and my granny adopted me and my 5 siblings after our mom gave us up . He was the only dad I knew . He started getting really sick and stopped eating , but we just assumed it was something minor . Turned out it was stage 4 cancer my senior year of high school . As he rapidly started to fade form not being able to eat I started spending less and less time with him because he was so fragile and I I'd do know what to say . Chemo made him tired so he slept a lot . The last day of his life my granny said say "I love you " but I said I'd do it later . He died before I got home
same with my grandma. she was the sweetest person i ever knew. she was always kind to everyone. she was an angel, she had cancer but she beated it. later around 2 years from that she got really skinny, and i still don’t know why she died, the doctors didn’t knew either. its been almost 6 years since she died, but i still cant get over this, i miss her so much. i’m so sad that i couldn’t say goodbye and say that i love her, she was just such a good person. love you grandma❤️ i hope you are okay❤️
Same.. I miss my grandpa more than ever, and wish I could change time just to spend time with him... I'm still not over his passing, and its been two years.. His greenish blue eyes are still inbeaded in my head.. I miss him soo much, and cancer took him.. I miss both of my grandpa's..
I'm so glad I am telling my grandma who has been diagnosed with really late ALS (completely paralyzed can barely talk, talks very not understandably, and eventually not gonna be able to breath. She was diagnosed a month ago and now is having lots of trouble with those symptoms I said. My brother still refuses to say I love you and, my grandma was borderline abusive to my mom as a kid, but I just hope he does say that soon, or he probably will regret it. I stil, have only seen her over FaceTime.
My biggest regret was leaving my brother to die alone. After eight years of not talking to me, I felt cold and indifferent towards him and his cancer. I visited him once in the hospital. I left the same day. He died the next day.
Clearly, finally getting to see you helped him reach peace and accept death. You did a good thing going to see him don't worry if it was late or not. Fact is you did it before he died.
my deepest regret is not noticing the obvious signs my friends showed that they were suicidal, it was after their death that i realized how much i could have done for them
We're all learning as we go, dear. Some things are out of our control, and we know better as the days go by. I hope you can come to forgive yourself ❤🤗
I regret believing all the lies I was told, looking down on myself, not having confidence in my decisions and being afraid all the time when I was younger.
my deepest regret is being a bad friend to everyone, it caused everyone i love to turn on me. 6 months into this endless depression and i feel so alone.
Coming from a person who has been hurt severely (emotionally) from my ex- best of 13 years... something I would suggest is just being humble to them and asking for forgiveness! And even if they don’t forgive you! You can find peace within yourself
My biggest regret is allowing others’ thoughts and words control my actions and cloud my judgement. Because of that I went from being a very open, extroverted, and joyful person, to being the type who sits alone in a corner praying for peace of mind.
the last time i took a shower was Its not easy to get over someone. Everyone experiences different emotions. It's not like putting a book back perfectly on a shelf and walking away like nothing happened. In fact, ITS NOTHING LIKE THAT. From my personal experience, a boy broke my heart 3 times but I forgave him because I loved him that much. I got depressed for 5 months and blamed myself that he left me.
Hailey Luo I have been through almost the same but still I can’t say I know how you feel because we all are different. I’m truly sorry for what you have and are going through. You don’t deserve it, you deserve someone who stays with you no matter what and will fully love you. Stay strong, honey❤️
My biggest regret is letting my parents take away years of youth. I'm 17 now, and I feel like I've only seen a glimpse of what childhood and teenhood should be. They ruined it, and I let them do it.
@@undertaker11ism They abused me and did not allow me to do anything outside of the home. They bullied me until I no longer felt comfortable doing so. Edit: I don't know why I sued past tense. They still do it, even now.
FuschiaFox im glad. It sucks when your parents think they're protecting you without realizing they're making you miss out on alot of your childhood. Do you have messenger or any social media?
I'm positive other people had to deal with worse regret, but I just thought I would share mine. Last year(?) I had 2 opportunities. I was a senior In high school I believe, and I was single. Never had a girlfriend. On just a random day, I was playing basketball by myself, and this random girl literally just walked up, sat down on the sidewalk and stared at me for about 10-20 minutes. Me, being the stupid one, of course I didn't do anything because I was "nervous it would be awkward". No, she wasn't a stalker. She just wanted someone to talk to. It even got to a point where I missed a shot and the ball went right to her and instead of taking advantage, I just asked for the ball back like a moron. Yes, she got bored and walked away after a while. And then guess what? As if I hadn't learned my lesson, later in the year we had an assembly and when the assembly was about over, a different girl walks up to me and literally, no joke, just says hi. I don't know why, but for whatever reason I froze up and didn't know what to do so I just said hi back and looked away immediately to talk to someone else. The girl that I did that to, looked at her friend afterwards like "wtf was that? Really?" So because this was the second time this happened, I can safely say that I regret this one more. The reason why I regret these situations is because how could I do that to someone? If somebody wants to talk to me, how can I just basically ignore them? That just makes you a jerk. I'm sure something like this has happened to other people, but because it happened twice, I just get really mad thinking about it. Don't make the same mistake(s) I've made.
Don't beat yourself up over this. I used to be like you when I was younger and I'd ruminate over every social interaction I ever had, especially with girls, but now I'm older it's actually quite comical thinking back to the stuff I worried about. It's all good man. You'll be fine. Be grateful that this is the worst thing you regret! Now I'm older I regret so much. Bad breakups, bad fights, screaming, saying mean stuff I can't even repeat to people I loved and spent a significant portion of my life with... I really hurt some people and I wish daily I could go back in time and be a better person in those scenarios. Of course I've apologized, but things that have been said and done you can't really take back. But such is life, I guess. People have been hurtful and mean to me as well, and I've forgiven them. People make stupid mistakes, especially when they're young. And hopefully they learn. All one can do. But I couldn't even recall those little awkward interactions I had in high school. I kind of wish those were my biggest regrets still. Such an innocent time. In a weird way I hope for you that these things will remain to be your biggest regrets. All the best.
Chicken Little was a GOOD Movie - I had a very similar experience. I was a shy guy. Above average looks I guess because I never had to chase girls either. Girls throughout my high school years approached me, cheerleaders, ghetto chics, trailer park, and even college bound squares. Now I will say this, I did push myself and managed to have two girlfriends before I left high school. My only regret is that I didn't F every girl that wanted to F me. Of course I made the right choices, though. Promiscuity is not healthy. Believe me the hardest part with a girl is the initial contact. Push yourself to go on that first date.
If those girls are still around ( you go to the same school or you live in the same neighbourhood, etc) Go find them and say sorry and explain in your own way why you acted the way you acted. If thats not the case, the next time you clam up again, as soon as you realize thats not right, go get her and apologize. Dont mind the words. Just apologize. Things will turn out fine. Good luck!
Alright, so here's a little update. This year I've decided that I'm going to go outside more, and as a result, I've already had 3 opportunities and that was all in the span of around 2 weeks. The first one, it was someone walking their dog on the street while she was on her phone so I guess at the moment I assumed she didn't want to be bothered so I just walked ahead of her, like she wasn't even there. I still wish I would have had the courage to start a convo but I'm not that upset about this one. Never saw her again (at least not yet). Now this is where I was starting to get upset with myself. 2 days later, I went to Starbucks early in the morning to grab a coffee. There was a girl in front of me in line (I legit thought she was too old for me at the time I made my quick glance) so I ignored her because I thought she really didn't give af about me. Well.... you know that table that you use to put your sugar and milk in etc? Well I went there, and guess who stood right next to me? I think she was trying to get my attention. I didn't say anything, I was still unsure if she wanted to be bothered. But when she left she said these words that really got to me, "have a nice day". That seems like a nice compliment, but I don't know, it felt like she was really saying, "wow, I'm literally right here and you can't even say good morning? Later bud".
Yes i am the example of how not to live yo life um not proud of my self never had anything in life no happiness never payed bills couldn't keep a relationship a chetah liar porn attic theif low self esteem at times childish mindset very angry mad n sad. In n out of jail no job messing with diffrent girls not just one not makin relationships and connections
i relate so much. my dad ruined my mum and my family's life. he acts like the victim. my mum thinks he got away with it all is because she's not white. she thinks they're all racist and she's right.
my deepest regret is that whenever i went to see my dad i barely paid attention to him even though he was lonely, he killed himself and i wish i spent more time with him before he was gone
Nora Rae and you never done something bad? She regrets her former actions. We all make mistakes, were humans. Have you read the bible, you who is so sure "god will get you". Were only flesh and bones and are bound to make mistakes, thats why God sent Jesus Christ, our savior who died at the cross to free our sins so we may get to heaven, for us. God is a forgiving God, he sent his only son just for us sinning little humans.
My friend has some kittens she can’t keep and will be put down, we already have a cat but my parents said no to getting one. I’m scared if I don’t do it this will become my biggest regret. Advice please!!!! EDIT: rewatching this video months later, I stumbled across this comment not realising it was mine and about to reply. I did it. I saved a kitten and she sleeps in my bed and keeps me company when times are rough. I don’t regret it.
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My biggest regrets are those moments when im truly having fun but my insecurities ruins everything
I can understand you very well.
@@candymi5639 im kinda different , having fun lets me forget my insecurities
Alpay Cetin that’s different, but that’s what i do too
I felt that so hard
For sure
I regret not loving myself earlier on.
Same
Same here
I feel you
I feel you
BTS has been helping me love myself😊 love your channel btw.
my biggest regret is avoiding my best friend who had chemotherapy when we were five. i was scared of her because she had no hair, and when she would come up to hug me, i would run away. and now she’s gone.
lucid dolans this is so sad.. People can do stupid things and you didn't know what was happening to her. You were scared. Don't worry, its not your fault. ❤
That's a lot more understandable than you believe. You were a five year old and didn't realise what she was going through.
Children under 10 aren’t fully capable of thinking outside themselves. It’s a survival instinct, egocentricity. A parent or teacher should’ve explained the situation and made you more aware, even if you didn’t completely understand it.
Lol
you were only 5 and couldnt understand. dont beat yourself up over that.
My biggest regret is not being able to stand up for my little brother when he got bullied and then not being able to save him from suicide.
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Ohh mann 😣
💔 hope ur okay sorry for your lost
I’m so sorry you had to go through that
I can’t even imagine how that must feel… I’m so sorry for your loss
I don't know why I clicked on this... it literally always makes me sad.
Maybe part of it's purpose is to not only share stories, but for you to open and share your own. Not specifically on here, but those who are close to you.
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Mari Donaldson I do it every time and always get so sad😢
Same...
I'm gonna assume that's your biggest regret
I regret staying at my boyfriends house instead of going home to my grandma who had a stroke that night and died all alone.
@Manuj Madan there's signs of a stroke u know?
Family comes first
Praying for your heart's healing 🙏
I read all the replies and they're horrible. Don't let it break your heart x ✨
Manuj Madan that’s the point ,they didn’t know she was going to pass, but because of this, they thought it was ok to stay ,in stead of going home . I don’t know if your intention was of comfort or Ill but that was a sad attempt at comforting someone, man
First 50 seconds already got me thinking .....
yeah
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Me to
Dont mess with love.. it hurts if its true.”?”
duuude saaame it hit hard and the person's regret was my rgret too
My biggest regret is that when i was 7 years old, my dad died, at his funeral i was given one more chance to hold his hand, and i didnt, i just walked away, its still the only thing in my entire life that i regret.
Cole I AM SO SORRY FOR YOU 😭😭😭😭❤️
When my grandfather was in his last days instead of spending time with him and going to his room I just walked away ....I couldn't bear him
And now when he is dead I wish I would have cherished those last days
I see you. Really, I do. When I was 6 my mother died of cancer and the last time that I saw her we visited her in the hospital. Seeing her that sick made me so sad that I pretended to fall asleep so that nobody would talk to me.
When my dad died, i was given the opportunity to hold him one last time at the mortuary but didn't because i allowed my fear to get to me. I still regret it to this day so believe me when i say that i understand how you're feeling.
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I regret turning down boys I actually liked because I’m too afraid of love.
@SAMIL MAHAT oof I felt that
For me is that I just automatically start to see all their flaws, even the silly ones, and on that I decide they're just no good enough. I know how hypocritical this sounds, but I'm also afraid that now they just see the best of me, if I let them in and let them see my flaws they will just run away, I'm always so afraid of letting someone I care about see the worst of me
Love doesn't exist anyway. It's a goddamn fantasy.
Egg it’s a feeling ... right?
Same, but I reject them because I know I can't trust him, I can't trust anyone. I don't know how to change that, and am okay with it.
My biggest regret is escaping from a mentally abusive home and not being able to take my sisters with me.
I understand that completely.
Oh... How are they now? How are you?
I'm _sorry_ I know I'm just a person on the internet and you might be lying for whatever crazy reason but I'm _sorry_ That must have been so tough yo leave them behind.
Dont feel guilty my sister did the same I dont blame her or hate her for it I got enough courage to leave after she left I understood I just hope your sister feels the same way I hope you two are in a better place in life now
How is that a regret
My heart hurts for these people 💔
Living for the profile picture 😂😂
Un Original haha 😂 Thank you.
Why is everyone sad? I don't care about them at all... am I a sociopath?
B Mac no, you just lack empathy....
B Mac don't listen to these fuckers. You don't know these people there is absolutely no reason for you to care at all, I know I don't
My biggest regret is letting my insecurities control my entire teenage life
Nikolai S saaaammmmeee
Feel that
Oof
Mines too
Samee
My deepest regret is not getting away from a toxic friend earlier
Lol mood
I relate, sadly
• smh_idk_anymore • dude I totally understand where you’re coming from!
I tried getting away. I recognize the signs from past experiences. Sadly the other insisted and so emotionally I couldn't pull away. It became a see-saw of her rejecting me and wanting me. In the end when I wanted her she pushed away not wanting to have me in her life. Now i can't even bear seeing her.
Sameeeee
I regret all the times I avoided going to the beach, pool, or social events because I didn't feel comfortable in my own skin.
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i felt that
Same here
I regret everything I didn’t do and didn’t say because of my social phobia.
@@lai8544 Me too, I used to have social phobia but later on in my life i developed the "fuck it, I dont care about what you think" mindset
My biggest regret is loving someone who didn’t love me back. I pushed everyone else away for this one person. They ended up hurting me more than I could ever imagine.
XxTheWesternerxX I feel you, you're not alone on this one
I feel the same, so I'm tryna get over him but it's hard
same here guys, it's tough..
This was the reason why I got depressed for 1 year. It was 3 years ago and it still feels fresh. Sorry for my bad English
XxTheWesternerxX no you hurt yourself
My deepest regrets was :
Not being able to love myself growing up..
I wish i could love myself but whenever i start loving myself something bad always happen that i cant think of loving myself
This is my regret too but let's start doing it right now, together.
Im here in my 20-ish + and i still cant love myself.
@@yiwenHQHi there, you still young, I'm 44 and I'm starting this year so START WITH ME, START WITH US. It's a process but start with small things like simple things, be good to yourself, socialise with positive people, spoil yourself at least once a month, speak positively to yourself, REMEMBER you are not alone feeling that way so it's not abnormal, it's just something that happened to us perhaps years ago. It's ok, just try👍
I'm fifteen and I find it hard to truly believe and love myself
My deepest regret;
I was 14 years old. I was so into gaming at that time and I was playing bo2 multiplayer and I was addicted to it. One night I was playing. I woke up my mom for work during the loading screen of the game. I slammed her door open. Turned on her light and yelled “mom time to wake up for work!” Ran back in my room and began to play again. She got ready. Put on her nurse uniform with patterns on it that I can’t even remember. She walked into my room and asked me if she looked nice. My eyes glued to the screen “yeah yeah you look great. Bye I love you” is what I said to her. Not knowing that was my last words to her. Not knowing I wouldn’t hear another word from her. The next day she was sent to the ER unconscious for a week. 7 days later she was gone. If only I put down my controller that night, hugged her, told her how much she meant, told her truly how much I loved her...... I would be happy now. But I always look back and think how awful I was.....I didn’t even look her in the eye that night...... and that was my last interaction with her.
sajdahalhaq I’m so sorry, I hope that she is happy in heaven and hopefully you can cope with this loss. I will keep you in my prayers
It’s not your fault tho.. you didn’t know it was gonna happen and just proceeded like it was a normal day... just stay strong is all you can do and give her that hug when you see her again one day
We all do things that we regret, but what defines us is what we decide to do when we know our mistakes. It’s the choices. You’re mother would know your love. Stay strong you beautiful girl.
Hey don't worry. Mother's love is incomparable to anything I'm sure she has forgiven you and everyday is watching over you protecting you.
I'm sorry for your loss. It's heartbreaking that we never know when the last time will be. :(
Such a kind, thoughtful and empathetic selection of strangers.
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My biggest regret is all the naps I turned down when I was a kid
we all do
I need this comment this video is so sad
I regret every moment when I feel sleepy that I never wanted to take naps as a kid
Same just same 😂😂
this is so sad. Alexa play despacito
I have one thing to say to everyone here who's have a regret: forgive yourself, you're only human.
After someone needed you but you turned them down and they died all alone? I don't think your comment can apply to everyone
Is it easy?
Do all people deserve that though
@Min Xi Choo maybe for small things but some people out here forgiving themselves for things that their victims haven't forgave them for and are still struggling with.
@Min Xi Choo I very much disagree, some things are unforgivable, and sometimes people don't even deserve to forgive themselves.
My biggest regret is that I didn’t move from the house of my abusive parents early, they made me so depressed that I tried to kill myself and now I have to live with anxiety and depression by myself
Veggie ASMR I know what living with both is like and it is a daily struggle. I also know how an abusive person can have a traumatic, life long effects on a life. Stay strong. And remember that you did make it out. Or if you haven't, remember that you have survived this long, and that you can and will make it out.
Veggie ASMR stay strong, theres someone out there for you and some important thing you have to do. I'm studying psychology currently, I havent been in your situation, but I fully understand having to live with anxiety and depression especially by yourself, if you survived then that means that you are meant for greater things, stay strong. Don't let your demons win. If you ever need to talk to anyone you can email me @ the4thprincesilicon@gmail.com
Veggie ASMR same issue here
I hope you are doing better
i know it's easier said then done cause you don't want to put yourself out there and the anxiety take control of you talking to people about it but i'm sure you can contact a therapist or maybe someone you trust or have a common ground with that you can have someone to talk to?
My biggest regret is that I didnt tell my boyfriend that i love him with all i am before he passed away, it's crazy , it is really because i was the type of girls who keep saying the "I love yous " till they become annoying, but once he had that accident, i just became speechless and everything around me felt so unreal, he was the last one who told me "I love you" before he passed away, and just stood there helpless.
soft n' neat He loved you. You loved him. He known you love him.
1,000 Subscribers Without a Video i did and i still do.
5 years already and i still cant get him out of my head.
He knew you loved him. Loving and missing is two separate things. Moving on is one big verse, we never truly move our hearts away from someone. Yet, we can keep them at bay, one day friend, you'll think of him without hurting. It's time you miss him rather than still loving him. He's gone, but he's gone with a love.
My biggest regret is reading your comment.
Katie clark Im reading your comment and trying so hard to hold my tears (i failed btw) and i really loved him so much like i dont even know how describe it to you, he was my first and last kiss ever, i can go on talking about him for hours.
Your message warmed my heart, thank you so much sweet starnger
My biggest regret is allowing the people that I love to continuously take advantage of me and my loyalty.
chyna leo thats deep
This is what I’m going through right now.
Same.
Im learning so much about how to set boundaries.
How to communicate that I want to set a boundry & it deserves to be respected is extremely difficult with people you have let behave a certain way but Ive been practicing & focusing on it.
Hardest thing ever . . . . but I am hoping that in ten years time or whatever I won't be having the same issues & I will feel proud of improvement.
Hoping & praying & taking action
Same here.
That's a good one u know
I regret never telling anyone how I feel and how their words affect me.
Me too
This hits... deeply
I can relate…
my deepest regret is how i was and still am afraid of everything. When you live scared of everything you never have the chance at true fun and living a real life, just a scared survival
90 DAYS FOR A NAME CHANGE ,YAY That‘s my life. I am only really afraid of one thing but that one thing is everywhere. It‘s the fear of social situations. Can you relax when you are alone? :)
Meisterling no, I have a deep fear of being lonely but also have a fear of trusting. I don’t socialize a lot but I used to socialize too much. I just don’t now cause I trust too many liars
90 DAYS FOR A NAME CHANGE ,YAY why do you open up to people? You don’t have to open up to people, could just hang out with people and have fun. Like co workers or people from school, you need to give yourself a pep talk because 20 years from now maybe 10, you’ll regret never living life or living life in fear. What’s so scary? Ask yourself that, really ask yourself that. You ever get those butterflies in your stomach and you think it means you’re nervous? What if you’re actually excited, I mean I could never tell the difference but you know what when I go and try to talk to a new person that’s what I think, I think of it as excitement of meeting someone new. I believe in fate but you choose the things that happen in your life as well.
I always say to myself.. Don't be afraid, it's just a small talk. Say it. Do it. If you do it, you might do it wrong but that happens to everyone.. And then something inside me delete those words and all that is left is fear. I fear of talking to someone. I fear of doing something that I'm not sure about and what I fear the most is future.. buut mostly everything I have to do. 🤔😅
I feel the same sad stories...
It's only sad because even though you weren't in the same situations, you still have that deep, empty pain from your own secrets and you can just tell the pain coming from those people's hearts. In a way it's good to know cause now I know I'm not alone and there's people that have made it but they still have that empty void. It's way deep.
Hailey Harris not really not for me lol
Hailey Harris SPEAK THE TRUTHH GURLL
This is painfully true.
Deep
Jesus Christ it's Jason Bourne ( i love ur name)
This makes me feel less alone honestly. Everyone has regrets. No one is perfect.
Chevy James same
i regret not saying: "i love you." to myself as a kid.
same. im a kid now, 13. ive always hated myself, and now im gonna die.
@@simonbode3140 Hey don't die. I'm 13 too and just coping.
I’ve never said i love you to myself. Im 22
@@juanclavijo8057 please do so.
@@juanclavijo8057 pls do
My biggest regret is not respecting my parents, i used to shout at them. Now my eyes are filling with tears remembering the old days. They used to feed me and put food in my mouth before they put food in their mouth. It shows the deeping care of parents. They work day and night so that their son may hopefully have a future that they did not.
Always respect your parents and treat them with ease before having regrets of which you cannot turn back.
ZmTopReasons we all made mistakes ❤️ I wish you for the best , don’t let the past take you away from the present. Enjoy life with your family :)
aw thanks a lot now i’m crying
I should probably start doing that 😬😬 and I have tried before and actually I don't scream at them that much as I used to and I have a better attitude so I'm proud of myself
My deepest regret is not telling my family about my father sexually abusing me. Now they will never believe me.
Mystical Tale tell them now. And if they don’t take you seriously, then I’m sorry.
xXmysteriousxX Thank you for giving me advice, but I have gotten over it.
Honey, you never get over that. You should tell someone and get him convicted because he might molest someone else. I turned in a pedofile myself. Everyone of them deserves to be outed. My dad used to rape my sister, and she never told. He went on to rape drunk girls at bars. An old friend of his told me he caught my dad doing it and beat him pretty bad. He made me promise to never let my daughter be alone with my dad. No one can press charges but the victims. I am sorry this happened to you. I wasnt molested and I don't have the same problems as my sister. She is really messed up from it. I have seen her go from guy to guy because that really screwed up her head. I know you are still in pain. He deserves time for doing that though.
I know what you feel..
When i was 4 years old, my uncle was sexually abusing me.. his words are still in my head:"don't tell anyone about this"
When i told my family about it, they didn't believe me, but my uncle stopped hurting me.
I cried so hard because everytime i tell the truth, they believe in lies
ItsMe Bruh did your parents at least ask or confront your uncle asking whether it was true?
I was 19 at a time, was going to an university in a town 12 hours away from home for 3 months. I had a cat that I loved so so so much for 6 years, and she loved me a looot too, but I couldn't take her with me when I was going to the university (severe roommate allergies). After I left she fell very ill but the vets couldn't find anything wrong with her, she was literally dying of sadness because I wasn't home and started deteriorating physically. Three months after I left I came home for the holidays. She was very sick and very dependant on me, every morning very early she would meow in front of my room to take her with me and snuggle, and she would only sleep with me.
One morning I was very tired and just couldn't make myself to get up while she was meowing and I just continued sleeping. She disappeared that day and I never saw her again.... It has been 7 years and I still feel extreme guilt, pain and sadness thinking that I didn't get up and I just left her to die on her own.
You dont know that she is dead
I'm so sorry.. you couldn't know that...
Is Having a pet a good thing or a bad thing ? I will never know
ava omg I am so sorry. I frully am. i am crying rn typing this and I wouldn’t imagine my life without my cat. I love you bye
Bacon Bandito it can happen. depression can be lethal, even for animals.
My deepest regret is regretting things and not just living in the moment
Same here
That makes no sense.
Wow your so right
@@immxrtalized no that dose make sense
Same
I have to say that I relate entirely to the first one. I was assaulted by my grandfather when I was 5, and I regret never going through with pressing charges. If you ever suffer through an assault, PLEASE know that it is NOT your fault. You can overcome this. Do the right thing and come to the authorities. You don't stand alone. 💕
Rumimiko it is hard to think that it is not your fault
Isidora M I know that. But I promise you, it isn't. A victim isn't in control of their abuser's actions. They aren't to blame, the abuser is.
Rumimiko the abuser puts you in a place where you feel like it is you. All you.
Rumimiko I'm not sure how I ended up on multiple situations where I had the opportunity to tell and didn't , but I did and each time I felt my excuse was valid . When I was younger, my female cousin use to experiment with me . It wasn't anything terribly traumatic since I was confused and curious as to what was going on , but it just makes me realize now how easy it is for this my to happen to children if we're not careful . With my older brothers friend , I just hope he never got to another girl . After that night I thought I'd never see him again , but he failed a grade and ended up in class with me 😑 I had an entire school year to tell on him , yet I said nothing . I regret being weak
I still feel like it’s my fault. Was it because of what I was wearing? Did I say something? What made him do that to me
I started tearing up with someone with dementia
MyLifeWithFriends yeah the “he died alone and scared” messed me up
Me too
LIL SHINY that part reminded me of my great grandmother, she died basically of a broken heart. Me and my family moved to Texas for my dads orders, she lasted 6 months. I remember I would never talk to her or let her touch me or hug me and she would say (she’s Filipino) “ I watched when you were little I took care of you when mommy and daddy where busy and now you don’t love me” I still wouldn’t let her near me even after that. That’s my biggest regret and the worst thing I’ve ever done.
just Peachy that's heartbreaking I'm sorry
Me too.
My biggest regret (so far) is just hiding who I am. It’s silly, I know, but my entire life I’ve pretended to be someone I’m not and I want to change. I’ve hidden my insecurities and all the things I enjoy so that people won’t judge what I like. I’m just now slowly noticing so many kids at school had the same interests as me and we were all just scared to talk about them.
actually ashley It’s not silly. Your feelings are valid no matter what.
I'm in the exact same position as you. Sometimes I look into the mirror and see a stranger staring back
How long have u had to deal with that and how old are you
I hide myself from a lot of people. I don't talk much. I guess I think I'm better off alone? And I act different depending on my friend group. I don't lie to them, I just show different sides of my personality, but never the whole me... :( sounds weird but oh well
Jenalicous I do the same thing, sometimes pretending to be a totally different person because of it. I've really come to hate myself for it, but I can't stop
My Deepest regret: when I was 16 I was diagnosed with depression. I would cry every single day of my life at random times and keep knives in my room. I’d collect bottles and bottles of my pills incase I decided to take my life. And I never told my mum once, during that entire time, what was going on and why I was so sad. I walked out of my room at 3am in the morning one morning after crying non stop for hours, to hear her in her room crying and cursing at herself for being a bad parent.
I have never, nor will I ever, get over the fact that I caused my mum so much pain by not telling her what was going on. I am extremely ashamed by it. I am now 19 and still depressed, but I love my mum and I hang out with her so much! I don’t want to cause her pain anymore.
Im 15 and i started to feel depressed some time ago. But i told my mom really fast because i didnt want to be a diffrent person without her knowing why. She helped me and im a lot better now. Telling her will make it easier for you AND your mother. She will be a lot happier if she knows your pain. Because that way she can help you and thats all a mother wants for her child.
You should get help if you've been depressed for that long wish you luck
Growing up I had a decent relationship with my mom. But I keep a lot of things from her because I don't want to cause her pain. I didn't show my depression until now that I am 18. I got too tired of hiding, my mom thought that I just being very sensitive. Now she's trying to understand what it is that I'm feeling but she ties it to the fact on how my parents got divorced when I was 4, not knowing that there is much more to it. I will say part of me is relieved for telling my mom about it but at the same time I was and am still scared of being criticize for being depressed.
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH! Hope you have a peaceful lige with your mom. So much love!
I’m so glad that you guys are in good terms now♥️♥️
My biggest regret was not being more outgoing and making the best of my time in college. Instead I was pretty reclused, and suffered from depression unknowingly. Potentially the best years of my life were wasted, and I probably missed out on so many connections and experiences that I will never get back.
It wasn’t your fault, you cannot control depression.
You got plenty of time my guy, make it so!
I'm struggling with this rn... I was really out going in school and now.... Everything has changed. I feel lonely and sad.
I have the same regret.
Alex Murphy I could relate to this. I know we can't control it but I wish I had spend it nicely and make memorable memories like my other friends
My biggest regret are the words I say when I get in an argument.
Same
I know the feeling
That's worst
I know that feeling. It sucks
I regret not telling the boy I loved that I love him. I found out much later that he actually loved me too, and i havent seen him in years. I miss him.
God i can relate big time
Love doesn't exist anyway. It's a goddamn fantasy.
I hope you meet him again one day and you can share with him
That would be me someday😢💔
Happens everytime
I have no regrets. Everything that has happened to me has built up my character, and I would never take back any decisions I have made, as they have made me who I am.
I agree..I cry from time to time..but I would never regret the decisions that shaped. That would be disrespect for my present self. And I love my present me too much to allow that.
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@@thegem597 👍
@@adrien2291 i agree. Earlier i too used to cry about stuffs like that, u know going through adolescent stage aint easy. I am 17 rn still in that fking stage. ... And ofc there are still things that offend me, but i am trying to work on them and this is by far the most relatable comment cuz i too thought like this and started my self discovery path 2-3 months ago.
I want to say this so bad but it sucks that mistakes can affect that growth weather it comes back in the future or through others
Thanks!
I regret not passing enough of time with my dad and tell him that I love him he passed away yesterday and I watched this video the day before he died and coming back to write this it hurt so much
Im sorry. Rip ❤
I hope her rests in peace
I'm so sorry. I know this was published a while ago but I hope you are coping ok now and taking everyday as it comes. x
Blair Waldorf Im so sorry for your loss❤️
SAMIL MAHAT you’re such an evil person, he’s sharing his story to make others feel like they have someone to relate to if they’re going through a tough time theirselves, look yourself in the mirror before you reply with a clown emoji.
One of my worst regrets is letting my emotions take control of my decisions and not listening to my head.
I really like this series. Please do more of it.
Up
Yes more suffering!
I regret not obeying my mother and hurt her feelings several times without knowing she loves me with all her heart..I Realise how much she loves me later on after having a son...but its too late...can't do much for her in my situation...ILove you MOM...
Duhsaki Sailo it’s gonna be okay, we all did things that we regret. But as long as we become better than that’s fine.
But our mothers don't necessarily make things easier for us as well
"I never told him I loved him and only after he passed did I think about how scared and alone he must have felt."
Lulu Shah that hit me like a truck...
I regret not telling my mom that I forgive her before she overdosed
Kayci Aww dear I feel your pain. 💔❤️ Me and my sister were fighting when she hung herself.😭
I feel the same exact way, she way have abused me or said she hated me but i deserved that and then she killed herself and everyone tells me its my fault... sorry for ranting about my pathetic life
@@layla-cv2vt you didn't deserve the abuse or the hate you got. And it DEFINITELY wasn't your fault that she hung herself. Don't blame yourself. Ik it's hard not to but trust me it wasn't your fault. Don't be so hard on yourself. You deserve nothing but love and happiness. And those who don't wish that for you, just drop them. It will get better I promise. It may be hard but it WILL get better. EVERYTHING will.
Ps. Don't let your past define you.
(Also I'm sorry if anything I said might have offended you in any way)
I regret no telling my dad i forgave him before he was killed
I have the same regret.❤️
My biggest regret is letting my inner voice destroy all of my dreams and hopes and change me into the stupid person that always wearing a mask to hide it's true self that full with negative things and keeps destroying all of the things I've been protecting so hard and me. I want to apologize to the old me in my childhood
This is exactly me
If this isn’t me. Stay strong my love you are worth it. There’s light in the end of the tunnel i love you all
Me :/
You will find hope
Crysant Makikama I wore that mask too. I don’t know how you feel, but I have stood in that place, and I didn’t believe there was a way out. I struggled and eventually learned to take it off and I am happier now. I struggle now because I came out the other side and I am not who I was. I dont know what you are struggling with, but I am proud of you for posting the comment, and I have hope for your happiness.
My deepest regret is disobeying my parents when they give me everything.
Same
Same
Same
Same
Same
My deepest regret is going through this comment section and getting lost in my emotions.
DAN MAN same
How i dont feel empathy
My biggest regret getting into that fight with my boyfriend before he killed himself. It’s been 2 years, and everyone tells me it wasn’t my fault, that we both said awful things, that I wasn’t the reason. But he had no one but me, and then he didn’t have me anymore. It’s so hard going to school and seeing “normal” teenagers deal with things like what to wear to prom or how annoying homework is while for me, every day is a struggle because he’s not here, and he should be the one I could talk to about my annoying homework, he’s the one who should be taking me to prom ... I miss him so much and every second without him hurts.
Cat i feel she helped in the decision but my condolences to the female
Cat agreed. He was a coward for ending his life
Cat ok understood
This makes me very very sad
no u it's never her fault, he decided to take his life it could've pushed him a bit, but arguments happen in relationships terrible ones and people don't go around killing themselves after them, he would've been unstable already or things built up.
the first one hit me like a bus.
🙏💜 as a now rape survivor, at the time prior to watching this video things happened and I was looking up ways to commit suicide then I suddenly came across this and it straight away hit me ! pushed me to report my abuser and here I am awaiting the son of a bitches sentence, safe & I give thanks. Also if there is anyone who you know or is reading this & is currently being in any way sexually abused I urge you to seek help and report! 💜 I know its many things holding you back from telling anyone. Humiliation, fearful and scared of no one believing you but you cant keep living like this.
I’m so glad you decided to not go through with it!! ❤️❤️
EXO WHO I ONLY STAN TALENT Frankly I dont believe you ACTUALLY were going to go through with killing yourself. Honestly though, if you just NOW started looking up ways to commit, you didnt really mean it when you said to yourself "im going to kms".
Dan Mcknight how do u know tho
Lxxy C SAME
My biggest regret is saying my mom that I won’t be a mom like her in future. And that actually sucks. I literally hate myself for saying that.
Unless you have emotionally abusive mom like i do, she hates everything i do, bodyshames me and says how i do everything wrong.. I promised myself that i need to be nicer to my kids if i have some.. So they can have trust in me that i don't have in my mom..
@@melz7730 Remember this, You are beautifully and Wonderfully made, and that is all that matters. Accept yourself for you and learn from your mom's mistakes. Also pray for your mom and hope that one day yall can have a better relationship.
We all say things we regret but what matters most is if we learn from our mistakes. You know that you truly didn't mean it, you need to forgive yourself and try to have that relationship with your mom now. Don't dwell on the past, instead focuse on the present and what you have now. I pray that your mom and you grow a strong bond. Stay safe.
I said that too...but now i think I'm gonna be a loser
My deepest secret is when i took for granted of my aunt. She took care of me when I was very little more than my parents. When I was 12 years old, she was diagnosed with a virus inside of her. She passed away. I didn't show her any love before she died. I remember that time when she made dessert for me when she was sick and about to pass away. I regretted that I was very inpatient with her when she asked me " how to use facebook". I didn't give her a hug or kiss before she passed away. This is extremely painful for me and throughout my whole life.
DENVIOUS MARS I know how you feel.. The same thing happened to my grandad last year.. I regret not appreciating him too... Just know that your aunt is in a better place now where she isn't in pain. Stay strong ❤
My biggest regret is not hugging my father and saying i love him before he go to the states. Little did i know it was his last vacation with us. He was diagnosed with a deadly disease and died in the states. He came back in a jar and it hurts so much. I could've have spent time with him when he was still alive but i ignored him.
byuntaen I know how you feel.. The same thing happened to my grandad. Just know that your dad is in a happy place now. I hope you are ok and remember to stay strong ❤
I'm crying reading everyone's confessions😭💜
Yo same
Same
Same bro
I know I'm late but I'm gonna tell my regret too.
I regret not reporting a racist teacher
who made a racist joke and tried to be funny. He said ''some people are dark-skinned because they drink tea and white people are white because they drink milk ''. I remember Lowering my head with tears running down my face and others looking and laughing at me...😭😭
Ikr there so sad
My deepest regret is that My mask has become me I forgot myself.
You will find yourself again. Give it time. You're in control of your life and no one else is.
i can relate
Same
@Andrew Kristensen Dont say that please, its rude and inconsiderate
Same.
My biggest regret is joining a gang and choosing the wrong path in life. I joined a gang because no one was there for me. I always was scared of the people around me but now after jail. I learned what is good in life.
I feel you, nobody cares about me and my ideas that may work out well...
Lenz Faraday I’m sure they do
Glad you're out and doing better man.
Stop fcking lying you have Fortnite videos on your channel and a 10 year old voice. Sure as hell you've been in jail lmfao
CyoN 😂😂😂
Y'all be posting some deep ass shit up in here
Yasmine Solomon
The realest comment on here lol
lmao honestly
This
It only appears deep to those who haven't grasped reality yet.
Yasmine Solomon you cheered me up thx
My biggest regret was pushing away from my Uncle when he got diagnosed with cancer. I was young and didn’t understand it fully, I just knew that he was sick and who wants to be around someone who’s sick? So I stayed distant from him, pushing away hugs and hiding from him when he was around. Eventually as i got older I understood and started spending more time with him, but it was only a few years before he died.
I see this happen way to much with young people, they don’t understand someone’s illness so they distance themselves. Please, teach the children you know not to be afraid now, because later on when they understand how stupid they’ve been it’ll be too late.
“It feels like I missed out on the best thing in the world” I felt that
my biggest regret is not picking up those calls from my mom when she actually decided to care about me, because i now know she only was trying, achoolism is hard and now shes gone
my biggest regret is not telling my parents that i was rapped by my male teacher .... i was in 1st grade .... literally...... the teacher was kicked out becasue the principle knew that the teacher is a rapest by another SENIOR girl ..... but he didnt know about the other victim ..... me ....
E&G fan oh my.. I’m so sorry please tell an adult like to press charge
That’s so sad if he did that to me I would tell the principle and my mom
E&G fan its never too late to tell your parents.. ❤
Oh my god. Just know that you are loved. Its never too late. This is something you can be charged for forever.
Tell your parents and get the closure you need
This comment section is so fucking depressing. It has become surreal at this point.
Well, it's life
life is surreal.
EXPLOSION
Just skip the sad one read the ones about people farting
my biggest regret is convincing myself that i was in love with someone because i was too scared to leave them
Oh are you okay now???
Oh Are you okay now?
my deepest regret? not taking anxiety medication earlier. i missed out on seventeen years of my life.
@SAMIL MAHAT tf so funny
Is it really worth taking it?
@Ashton King yes so do antidepressants too
Monkey D. Luffy *only for some
dr soos they work
I regret not telling my mother I was gay and had a husband. I never invited her to our marriage.
My mother died of cancer 3 years ago and I never got to tell her. In all my 21 years of living, I never said who I was. I’m sorry mom.
Omg thats so sad. Stay strong 🙏😢
You are too brave Jamless Whale
@@jimmyg9186 well 18 + 3 = 21
@@jimmyg9186 21-3=18 (gasps)
Sea Foam I'm sure that she would be happy and proud of you
My deepest regret:
Knowing that i love someone who doesn't love me back.
Welp that hit my heart.
That hit me hard.
@SAMIL MAHAT lmao ikr these guys are saying how deep that is when it's not even a regret lmao
I feel u bro
Love isn’t a choice
My deepest regret was letting my anxiety take over when talking to people who were actually there for me and cared for me even I barely showed love back.
Aguerooo
My biggest regret was In high school, I told one of my friends I was bisexual, she told me she was as well. A few months later we started to drift apart but we never fell out or anything like that. During the beginning of the next year people started making fun of her because of her haircut (all of the popular ones) and trying to impress them and my friends I told them that she was bi, word got round quickly and with that bomb and many other things the bullying piled on fast. I never really thought about what was happening to her, I didn’t even think anything had happened. A few month after the bullying started she asked me why did I do this to her and told me what I did to her. The worst part was she told me I’m sorry for having to put this on you. That was the last time I spoke to her, I don’t know when after that time but a short period after the exchange she went missing for around 6-10 hours. She had not took the bus home and instead walked to a busy road in the next town over. She jumped in front of a van on the road, snapping her spine and breaking several bones. I don’t know when she died but I know she died in hospital. Everyday of my life I think of her and what would’ve happened if she told other people about me. I wish I could speak to her again, tell her all this but I can’t. I wish I could just take back what I said and have just been a decent friend instead of a dickhead. I’ve come along ways since high school and tried to make myself better and try change the way I act but I know nothing will redeem what I did, sure I may not have done the bullying and only provided one part, but I still played a role in her death and I’m disgusted with myself and I hope she’s up there in heaven and even if she doesn’t accept my apology she knows I am sorry
CEBC XOXO aww :/
im really sorry
Im happy for you now you feel like shit i guess 😁
Blame da society
ur a bitch
My biggest regret is never taking time to spend with my little brother and always getting into fights with him. Now he's in Grade 8 and I'm living on my own in Uni and he's having a hard time with his friends and he needs me now more than ever. But I'm not there to help him and so he'll always remember me as the brother who was never there for him.
Midnite St0rm You can still be there for him, call him, visit, skype. It's not too late.
tell him that
I’ve been on both sides of this situation. talk to him as much as possible and tell him that you feel this way, trust me
Lol wtf are you talking about... acting like he’s dead and shit, you can still be there for him you fucking idiot
Midnite St0rm you’re worthless
"what is your deepest regret" eating so much. I'm obese and I HATE when my friends say they're fat because it makes me feel like they're just trying to get attention and being obese is not fun. It messes with your insecurities so it enrages me when all of my friends say they're the fat one.
me too :(
And here I have problems with even eating normally 0_0
It's not anorexia and it's not that I feel fat (at most I'm slightly chubby. I actually don't worry about my appearance in that way though, or rather- I stopped myself from worrying and it actually worked), I just lose all appetite with the minor (?) anxiety I feel all the time.
But really, I thought it wasn't that bad and if I only forced myself to eat I could do it, but like this morning- I ended up stopping myself when I felt like I would throw up. I have no idea why I have this problem really (can anxiety even do that? is it even anxiety that I feel?! Idek tbh)
I love sweets though and snacks and I can eat sooo much of all that. I just don't really have much appetite when it comes to food.
Tbh I kind of envy that you actually _can_ eat normally. Training up my appetite is something I've had to do since I was in kindergarten and I ended up having a pretty severe vitamin-deficiency because of my 0 interest in food. I still don't feel hungry and have a hard time eating, but I kind of learned to force myself to eat even if I hate it. Because, yk, one has to eat to survive.
I can't judge you though, and I actually have a sister trying to work with getting down her weight because of health problems that come with her weight, and I know she doesn't have it easy. I just kind of feel a bit like I'd rather be able to eat (eating normal meals without problem) and force myself to stop from eating too much, rather than having an extremely hard time just eating in general, and having to force food into my mouth.
I'd love to discuss this though! I am not myself in a position where I eat too much, and can probably honestly not understand fully what it is like- but I'd be really glad to get to know that. So I can understand people in general better and be a better person in general - and so that I can understand my little sister better and be a better older sister to her, too!
If anyone else wants to discuss this, too- go ahead. I actually _wish_ to know more about this all!
Engla Himla I loved reading your story. Thank you for sharing it, it gave me a better understanding of what some people go through.
Engla Himla same exact way even the thought of eating sucks at times. Your appetite can go from sure I could eat to you take one bite and you feel like throwing up. Not to help I have a fast metabolism so this really affects weight I wish I could put on just 10 pounds to feel somewhat healthier but can’t.
I can see the misunderstanding you may have because I constantly and casually call myself "fat" a lot in front of people and to myself even though I know I'm not. I definitely don't want attention, its because of my self loathing and past eat disorders that make me say and think those things about myself and thats really common amongst people, especially girls these days. I understand why you get frustrated hearing girls that aren't fat say that, I just thought I'd share my perspective. Just know that you are more than your insecurities and beauty is subjective, its whatever you want it to be but it certainly is not pain and suffering.
“I wish that person unconditional love for themselves” wow that’s beautiful
The day before my mom passed away she dropped me off at my sister's house to stay the night. At the time, I was young and stupid, only 10, and didn't like being away from home especially at my sister's house.(for some odd reason I really didn't like my sister) The night she dropped me off she told me she loved me and she'd pick me up the next morning... I slammed the door without a word and didn't even say I love you back. She called me later in the night to say goodnight and once again I had a chance to say "I love you".... But I didn't. I just said goodbye and hung up. Then early in the morning, the day she was supposed to pick me up, she passed away from an unknown cause.. That's my biggest regret, I never told my mom I loved her before she passed away. I guess I learned my lesson as to this day I always tell my dad I love him any chance I get because I never know when something could happen to him and he could be taken away from me. Life moves fast and doesn't wait, so savor every moment you can and don't let petty fights become your biggest regret.
Monique Noisy Hawk its okay
Monique Noisy Hawk i'm crying
Monique Noisy Hawk this happened to me too. My Dad was on duty as a police officer. I was 4 and I can remember vividly just a few hours before he left work, he was playing with me then he told me has to leave soon and I was really sad cos I wanted to spend more time with him so I didn’t say I love you. Around dinner time, someone came to our house and told my mum that my dad was shot and I just remember myself crying! I was 4 but I know what was going on. I knew i lost my Dad and even typing this is so painful. I really miss him.
Jure Tabuena I cried reading that. My condolences.
Monique Noisy Hawk same but I told my mom I love her before she passed
That's deep. I almost stopped breathing. Great insight. Some of the comments were spot on. I almost choked up in a public place. Don't watch this in a public place.
My biggest regrets:
Not telling my family I love you every single day because you never know when it will be someones last
Letting my body get to how it is now as I am 11 and 138 pounds
Telling my friends she was annoying and I hated her because she was so nice to me, but it turns out she was the only real friend I ever had
Aleks Hp Ravenclaw everybody makes mistakes and I hope some you will love yourself and I wish you for the best. And your friend:)
Don't worry you can work out all of those problems tell your family you love them more often eat healthier or exercise and you can apologize to your friend if you can contact her
your body is changble. you can reverse it. just sort out habits
Fix them before it's too late, and don't say it's too late. It will be too late when they/you die, trust me it's better if you fix it sooner than later...
My biggest regret is:
Developing feeling for one of my guy friend. And when I tried to confess it in front of him he made fun of me, my skin colour, my body. That was the time I really understand how difficult teenage is, I am 16 and I often deal with social anxiety, body insecurity, relationship problems with my parents. But I am trying to be the best version of my self, to make my parents proud...I try my best to ignore negativity. I am just focusing on my career now and I don't believe in love anymore.
Hey, similar story. I'm 15. I have insecurity over my body too
Well, i too am an adolescent of 17 yrs old and i guess its a very common thing to have insecurities about everything related to us..
I have never fallen in love before, ofc i do have numerous crushes and i do like certain characteristics of people around me be it the neighbours Or my friends... I too have had so many clashes with my parents regarding stuff and there were times when i used to cry cuz i thought my own parents couldn't understand what i am going through, and so many more.
But i wanna say just becuz someone wasn't able to give it to u, plz don't give up on that. I understand u have had gone through so many difficulties and times were really rough, but this is all i wanna say. I amnt pressurising u to believe it just now, but i really hope u meet someone soon enough who would help u get out of ur negative impression on this topic and help u start over again.
Edit : Have a great day ahead mate and plz stay safe.
I know this is old but, my biggest regret is not going to my mom's funeral....
Random Person i hope youre mother is in heaven and dont be sad it is/was a hard time i cant relatie but i understand it a little i hope you are doping alright
I'm honestly sorry if what I say is insensitive, really sorry. But why wouldn't you go to your mother's own funeral in the first place???
@@winglessfairy564 because some people can't deal with death of a loved one and it hurts too much to go to funerals
Why didnt you
@@winglessfairy564 because some people are very scared of the pain. Specially if its very early on in their lives
these are all really sad 🤕💔
deaja ur really pretty
Nichole Hills thank you ☺️
well they're ~regrets~ ☺
omg. gurl u are beautiful💍
random girl tysm 💓
I relate to the first one. In middle school my step grandfather molested me and my step grandma made it stop but told me never to tell and I never have. But now I have to deal with seeing him and hugging him all the time and letting him kiss me on the cheek even though I hate him with every fiber in my body.
Tay O you shouldn't have to keep that to yourself.
Tay O tell someone.
Caselyn Owens Ideally, I'd like to do that but I know it would probably ruin my family and turn my mom's side against my step dad's side. I don't want to be responsible for that
Tay O People deserve to pay for what they did. It is never too late to talk. It will not be your fault, it is their own for doing something they shouldn't have. Don't protect him.
Tay O Please tell someone. It is never too late and none of it is your fault. I've never been in a situation like this but you shouldn't keep it in because it's not good for your mental health. I hope the best for you.
my deepest regret is doing things that i thought werent bad but actually were very disgusting and now that im older i realized how bad what i did was. regret is a monster
My deepest regret is I didn't want to talk to my granddad who was diagnosed with cancer.. he passed away almost two years ago and I wish I would've talked to him more and hugged him. I miss him more than any thing..
shy D same with my grandad. He and my granny adopted me and my 5 siblings after our mom gave us up . He was the only dad I knew . He started getting really sick and stopped eating , but we just assumed it was something minor . Turned out it was stage 4 cancer my senior year of high school . As he rapidly started to fade form not being able to eat I started spending less and less time with him because he was so fragile and I I'd do know what to say . Chemo made him tired so he slept a lot . The last day of his life my granny said say "I love you " but I said I'd do it later . He died before I got home
same with my grandma. she was the sweetest person i ever knew. she was always kind to everyone. she was an angel, she had cancer but she beated it. later around 2 years from that she got really skinny, and i still don’t know why she died, the doctors didn’t knew either. its been almost 6 years since she died, but i still cant get over this, i miss her so much. i’m so sad that i couldn’t say goodbye and say that i love her, she was just such a good person. love you grandma❤️ i hope you are okay❤️
Same.. I miss my grandpa more than ever, and wish I could change time just to spend time with him... I'm still not over his passing, and its been two years.. His greenish blue eyes are still inbeaded in my head.. I miss him soo much, and cancer took him.. I miss both of my grandpa's..
shy D sorry
I'm so glad I am telling my grandma who has been diagnosed with really late ALS (completely paralyzed can barely talk, talks very not understandably, and eventually not gonna be able to breath. She was diagnosed a month ago and now is having lots of trouble with those symptoms I said. My brother still refuses to say I love you and, my grandma was borderline abusive to my mom as a kid, but I just hope he does say that soon, or he probably will regret it. I stil, have only seen her over FaceTime.
My biggest regret was leaving my brother to die alone. After eight years of not talking to me, I felt cold and indifferent towards him and his cancer. I visited him once in the hospital. I left the same day. He died the next day.
Clearly, finally getting to see you helped him reach peace and accept death. You did a good thing going to see him don't worry if it was late or not. Fact is you did it before he died.
he just wait for you to come.
Why would u do that? That's horrible
FAYZA am sorry but you are asshole 🤦♀️🤦♀️
My deepest regret is not telling people how I feel and having it get so bad to the point of suicide.
Liz K You ok now?
Liz K you better? Or dead?
We love you.
Hope you were better now sis❤
my deepest regret is not noticing the obvious signs my friends showed that they were suicidal, it was after their death that i realized how much i could have done for them
We're all learning as we go, dear. Some things are out of our control, and we know better as the days go by. I hope you can come to forgive yourself ❤🤗
I love this series and idk if they have it but I want them to have video like "something I'm most proud of" or like something that's warming
great idea!
that would just make me feel bad about myself lolll :')
Jubilee omg I'm gonna cry, ahhhhhhhh thank you😭❤️❤️❤️ I love you channel
+Who'sNatalie ayee, congrats
congraats!!
I regret believing all the lies I was told, looking down on myself, not having confidence in my decisions and being afraid all the time when I was younger.
I do this, my question is how did u differentiate with all the lies u were being told? Like how did u identify it was lie?
my deepest regret is being a bad friend to everyone, it caused everyone i love to turn on me. 6 months into this endless depression and i feel so alone.
Emma Corbett remember, you aren’t alone!! there are always people that love you and will support you! sending you lots of love!
Coming from a person who has been hurt severely (emotionally) from my ex- best of 13 years... something I would suggest is just being humble to them and asking for forgiveness! And even if they don’t forgive you! You can find peace within yourself
I can give you a way to message me if you feel alone
Tilda that's really lovely of you
My biggest regret is allowing others’ thoughts and words control my actions and cloud my judgement. Because of that I went from being a very open, extroverted, and joyful person, to being the type who sits alone in a corner praying for peace of mind.
I have been there and I am struggling to get it out of my system
My deepest regret was crying for a man who constantly breaking my heart over and over again
Exploring life same
get over it lol
the last time i took a shower was Its not easy to get over someone. Everyone experiences different emotions. It's not like putting a book back perfectly on a shelf and walking away like nothing happened. In fact, ITS NOTHING LIKE THAT. From my personal experience, a boy broke my heart 3 times but I forgave him because I loved him that much. I got depressed for 5 months and blamed myself that he left me.
the last time i took a shower was fuck you
Hailey Luo I have been through almost the same but still I can’t say I know how you feel because we all are different. I’m truly sorry for what you have and are going through. You don’t deserve it, you deserve someone who stays with you no matter what and will fully love you. Stay strong, honey❤️
My biggest regret is letting my parents take away years of youth. I'm 17 now, and I feel like I've only seen a glimpse of what childhood and teenhood should be. They ruined it, and I let them do it.
how did they take away your youth?
@@undertaker11ism They abused me and did not allow me to do anything outside of the home. They bullied me until I no longer felt comfortable doing so.
Edit: I don't know why I sued past tense. They still do it, even now.
FuschiaFox im sorry that happened to you. Are you planning to move out soon?
@@undertaker11ism Yes. I will be going to college next year and I'm excited to explore my world and myself as they have not allowed me to do thus far.
FuschiaFox im glad. It sucks when your parents think they're protecting you without realizing they're making you miss out on alot of your childhood. Do you have messenger or any social media?
I'm positive other people had to deal with worse regret, but I just thought I would share mine. Last year(?) I had 2 opportunities. I was a senior In high school I believe, and I was single. Never had a girlfriend. On just a random day, I was playing basketball by myself, and this random girl literally just walked up, sat down on the sidewalk and stared at me for about 10-20 minutes. Me, being the stupid one, of course I didn't do anything because I was "nervous it would be awkward". No, she wasn't a stalker. She just wanted someone to talk to. It even got to a point where I missed a shot and the ball went right to her and instead of taking advantage, I just asked for the ball back like a moron. Yes, she got bored and walked away after a while.
And then guess what? As if I hadn't learned my lesson, later in the year we had an assembly and when the assembly was about over, a different girl walks up to me and literally, no joke, just says hi. I don't know why, but for whatever reason I froze up and didn't know what to do so I just said hi back and looked away immediately to talk to someone else. The girl that I did that to, looked at her friend afterwards like "wtf was that? Really?" So because this was the second time this happened, I can safely say that I regret this one more.
The reason why I regret these situations is because how could I do that to someone? If somebody wants to talk to me, how can I just basically ignore them? That just makes you a jerk. I'm sure something like this has happened to other people, but because it happened twice, I just get really mad thinking about it. Don't make the same mistake(s) I've made.
Don't beat yourself up over this. I used to be like you when I was younger and I'd ruminate over every social interaction I ever had, especially with girls, but now I'm older it's actually quite comical thinking back to the stuff I worried about.
It's all good man. You'll be fine. Be grateful that this is the worst thing you regret!
Now I'm older I regret so much. Bad breakups, bad fights, screaming, saying mean stuff I can't even repeat to people I loved and spent a significant portion of my life with... I really hurt some people and I wish daily I could go back in time and be a better person in those scenarios. Of course I've apologized, but things that have been said and done you can't really take back. But such is life, I guess. People have been hurtful and mean to me as well, and I've forgiven them.
People make stupid mistakes, especially when they're young. And hopefully they learn. All one can do. But I couldn't even recall those little awkward interactions I had in high school. I kind of wish those were my biggest regrets still. Such an innocent time. In a weird way I hope for you that these things will remain to be your biggest regrets. All the best.
Thanks dude, I appreciate it.
Chicken Little was a GOOD Movie - I had a very similar experience. I was a shy guy. Above average looks I guess because I never had to chase girls either. Girls throughout my high school years approached me, cheerleaders, ghetto chics, trailer park, and even college bound squares.
Now I will say this, I did push myself and managed to have two girlfriends before I left high school. My only regret is that I didn't F every girl that wanted to F me. Of course I made the right choices, though. Promiscuity is not healthy.
Believe me the hardest part with a girl is the initial contact. Push yourself to go on that first date.
If those girls are still around ( you go to the same school or you live in the same neighbourhood, etc) Go find them and say sorry and explain in your own way why you acted the way you acted. If thats not the case, the next time you clam up again, as soon as you realize thats not right, go get her and apologize. Dont mind the words. Just apologize. Things will turn out fine. Good luck!
Alright, so here's a little update.
This year I've decided that I'm going to go outside more, and as a result, I've already had 3 opportunities and that was all in the span of around 2 weeks. The first one, it was someone walking their dog on the street while she was on her phone so I guess at the moment I assumed she didn't want to be bothered so I just walked ahead of her, like she wasn't even there. I still wish I would have had the courage to start a convo but I'm not that upset about this one. Never saw her again (at least not yet).
Now this is where I was starting to get upset with myself.
2 days later, I went to Starbucks early in the morning to grab a coffee. There was a girl in front of me in line (I legit thought she was too old for me at the time I made my quick glance) so I ignored her because I thought she really didn't give af about me. Well.... you know that table that you use to put your sugar and milk in etc? Well I went there, and guess who stood right next to me? I think she was trying to get my attention. I didn't say anything, I was still unsure if she wanted to be bothered. But when she left she said these words that really got to me, "have a nice day". That seems like a nice compliment, but I don't know, it felt like she was really saying, "wow, I'm literally right here and you can't even say good morning? Later bud".
My biggest regret was loosing the person that loved me unconditionally because I haven’t faced my demons.
Boy
Same😩😞
My deepest regret is everything I did.
My deepest regret is never talking about my feelings and problems with someone.
Yes i am the example of how not to live yo life um not proud of my self never had anything in life no happiness never payed bills couldn't keep a relationship a chetah liar porn attic theif low self esteem at times childish mindset very angry mad n sad. In n out of jail no job messing with diffrent girls not just one not makin relationships and connections
i can relate to that so freaking much
I feel for the guy who doesn't want to turn out like his parents, if I turned out like my dad i dunno what I'd do. He's a horrible person.
i relate so much. my dad ruined my mum and my family's life. he acts like the victim. my mum thinks he got away with it all is because she's not white. she thinks they're all racist and she's right.
A doorknob at least you're aware. Do something to fix it
I don't go near alcohol and never will because of my mom, i don't want to become an alcoholic like she is.
my deepest regret is that whenever i went to see my dad i barely paid attention to him even though he was lonely, he killed himself and i wish i spent more time with him before he was gone
My biggest regret is saying abusive things to my older brother. tommorow is gonna be an anniversary of him being dead for a month.
How he die if you don’t mind me asking
Desmond Francis I think he committed suicide
shishtar bridget ❤️
God will get you
Nora Rae and you never done something bad? She regrets her former actions. We all make mistakes, were humans. Have you read the bible, you who is so sure "god will get you". Were only flesh and bones and are bound to make mistakes, thats why God sent Jesus Christ, our savior who died at the cross to free our sins so we may get to heaven, for us. God is a forgiving God, he sent his only son just for us sinning little humans.
Know i hate these type of vids, cuz they get me thinking, and thats never a good thing.
Smoking weed helps with that
Emile Dumoulin BRUH NO. JUST NO. Never start on drugs. Don’t make me get the newspaper.
It's okay honey, don't be afraid of your mind. You'll be okay.
ImperfNerf you’ll be okay famous last words
My friend has some kittens she can’t keep and will be put down, we already have a cat but my parents said no to getting one. I’m scared if I don’t do it this will become my biggest regret. Advice please!!!!
EDIT: rewatching this video months later, I stumbled across this comment not realising it was mine and about to reply. I did it. I saved a kitten and she sleeps in my bed and keeps me company when times are rough. I don’t regret it.
freedom equality peace this made me smile, well done :)
They were going to put down the kittens that's sick because they couldn't keep them! That's sick!
Teya Saadeh lmao
I love you for that! Good job. My heart is crying
freedom equality peace i’m so glad you could save her. so cute!