What's the most painful thing you've been told? (Strangers Answer)
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- Опубликовано: 24 фев 2019
- July 15, 2019- It was recently brought to my attention that the guy in the intro was telling the story of a relative.
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Hi everyone! I've been reading through some of your comments and it makes me happy to see that you find my page a safe place to share your answer to this question. With that being said, I want you all to know that unfortunately I'm unable to keep up with all the comments and I feel awful because some of you have been sharing really personal experiences that I think should be acknowledged by someone. So please if any of you are having suicidal thoughts here is the number to the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 and if any of you have been sexually assaulted and are looking to speak to someone, here is the number to National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673 ..... If you're not looking to reach a professional I really hope you'll consider talking to someone close to you that you can trust! Lastly, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't think that I'm ignoring any of your comments
Thoraya Maronesy What you’re doing is incredible and this just goes to show how much you care about everyone. Truly amazing. 🙌🙏
The most painful thing that I ever heard is that my mom had cancer
And my brother who said that I better suicide because im selfish....
Edit: you are amazing!
Axelle Dubois I’m sorry to hear that. My aunt has cancer and she’s more like my mom than my real. ❤️❤️
Thoraya Maronesy thanks love for this video I was told a lot of things and I am strong now
"Are you where you wanted to be? Like are you living the life and dreams you expected?"
"you're a boy, you probably liked it"
When i told my female friend i was sexually assaulted
That's pretty fucked up, actually. What happened?
That makes my blood boil
How can a boy be sexually assaulted,??what is happening in this goddamn world..people are sexually assaulting boys as well...
This world is no less then hell for both men and women...hate the world
@@diptimishra7076 what???
@@thewantedhazmat 🙄🙄🙄how would I know which part you couldn't understand if you only say
" What"!!!!!!
“if you’re really depressed why are you still here?” - my sister
You are in this world because of a reason. If you need someone, I'm here man.
@@ix3755 Thats really sweet of you
I don't know you but stay here in this world as long as it's possible ❤️
Why.. Your sister is a cruel person. Why would she say that.. She disgust me so much. You dont say that to a depressed person.. Instead of asking why you arent gone yet maybe she should have said shes grateful your still here. She makes me sick
You're gonna be okay, things will get better and you deserve happiness. ♥️
“I don’t believe you were raped.”
-someone who meant the world to me
im so sorry love,you deserve so much better i’m so sorry you had to go through such an awful thing i seriously wish the best for you :(
Oh my dear i wish i could give you a hug
I have a war going on with the Police. 20-30 times they slammed me down on the concreat floor, stripping me naked with hand cuffs on. Each time i get more angry. I say stuff like " i'am gonna find your daugther and slitt her throat". A serious thing to say i know. Never gonna do any of sorts. They can't drag me to court. Cause Every thing i have on them. But it hurts dough. Every time i go out side i know i have eyes on me. I feel like you in A way. My body getting violalted.
My dear Abby, I can only imagine. My best friend the last week told me straight that he didn't believe I had "that job" (I work for the Japanese embassy in Rome) I showed documents, badges, clereance cards, pins, money on my account and I speak japanese fluently. He didn't believe me and said he simply didn't want to see nor speak to me ever again. Best friend for 20 years.
I'm so sorry
The fact that teacher called his students "my own kids" tells me that he is an amazing teacher and I'm glad he didn't choose any other job in the world. 💛
i also noticed that :((
Adolescent kids can be really cruel. They are witty enough to say the stuff that REALLY hurts and have the audacity to say it..
It happens gradually. When I was still in university, I thought it was odd that my friend (elementary school teacher) always said "my kids". When I started working as a nursery teacher, I started saying it, too 😅
These kids grow on you so much. You spend so much time with them and you would do anything to protect them. So yeah, they feel like they are my kids. ❤
That’s sweet. I love it when teachers care about their students
reminds me of the times when it would be Mother's Day during primary school, and we would "accidently" call our female teacher 'Mum', but she would always laugh it off and continue with the lesson.
"I don't wanna leave you"
- my girlfriend, laying on a hospital bed after a car crash, hours before she passed away.
Oh my god... I'm so sorry I don't know what to say. This just made me cry... I don't know how long ago this was but I really hope you're okay
I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you're okay and may your girlfriend rest in peace xxx
I’m so sorry. I don’t know you but I just want to give you the biggest hug. 💙
there are times that words can do very little to curb the pain, but i'll try. i know nothing about you, or your relationship, but it seems as though from what she said, you know that you made her happy. she didn't want to leave you. you gave her joy, and sometimes that's all we can ever do. bring people happiness.
thank you guys for the concerns. for anyone who's curious or worried, it happened years ago and I'm doing alright nowadays. it's just something that stays with you your whole life
Pregnant and the doctor said "the baby has no heartbeat".
I am sorry to hear that. I send all my best wishes!!
Yes, that was the hardest thing for me to hear.
I’m so sorry...I’m so so sorry...
I’m so sorry ❤️🙏. That happened to my mom a couple of months ago and I can tell that she is still heartbroken about it. She’s a nurse and she really has been wanting another baby ever since I was a little kid.
Nicoy Foster I’m so very sorry for your Mom. I will say a prayer for her. I’m sure having you as a comfort is very helpful to her. 💜❤️
At 68 years old I finally got the courage to ask my mother if she knew that my older brother was sexually abusing me from age 5 to 13. She said she did know. I asked why she didn't protect me and she answered that she had to protect my brother. Our relationship ended. She is alive today at 97.
I’m sorry that she didn’t have the courage to protect you. That type of abandonment by a parent is hell and puts us on a very shi*ty journey. ❤️
BornAgainFitness thanks for the sentiment ! However I have been blessed with the best friend ever in my husband of 33 years and my life has been a wonderful journey with ups and downs like most of us.I chose to leave my terrible roots behind and build my own family's love and strength.
i’m so sorry that happened to you and i’m glad that you met someone
Sad for everyone. Sex is very obscured and isn't always carried with the terror society wants you to put on it. Justice system only knows how to respond to it as if it was pure evil. Depending on how old your brother was - that would of been a death sentence for him.. by his own mother. Something like that is very hard to do, to find the right way to protect. It would be like you started severely socially abusing your brother and your father was forced to kill you. I'm not saying it was right, but beyond terribly difficult especially if she wasn't 100% aware
i have a similar story, except i told my mom. neither were blood related (mom and brother), but she's protected him the entire time
The bartender at my father's favorite bar told me he died a year ago. I have not heard my father's voice in over a decade. I have half sisters on his side. No one called me, despite them all knowing my number and name.
The most painful thing I ever heard was nothing at all.
I'm sorry for your loss.😢🌹
"Dont forget me please."
My boyfriend said that about 1 hour before he lost his fight against cancer. We've been together for nearly 9 years.
you're so strong for sharing that. Im sorry for your lost, but he's in a happier place .
Stay strong 💪🏻
im so sorry :"(
I'm crying so hard right now
toomuch ofeverything god blessed him 💝😨😔
Notice how most of their painful words came from their childhood. You’d think you’d forget as you get older but that shit really sticks...
Adeline Camacho words hurt the most
Juliet Jj
The saying, Sticks and Stones can break your bones but words can never hurt you isn’t true and this video is proof of that!
Words hurt more than anything, bones can heal but sometimes words can’t!
Words need to be used for inspiration and love and kindness over hate!
I was thinking that too. We think childhood is so far away but there are these constellations of both happiness and pain that kind of stick with us and shape us for better or worse. In my situation it was somewhere around 11-13 that I remember my first painful thing said about me: "You're too sensitive." It took me a while to really believe I was allowed to be sensitive again. I still feel that way sometimes but I am very grateful and appreciate my sensitivity now for the most part.
Yaaaa
I was 30 when my boyfriend at the time(not for long after this comment)he told me that there was nothing attractive about me.I’m assuming he meant internally and externally.
“I’ve had it worse then you”
It was midnight, I was in my kitchen. My drunk father comes home from a bar and tries to talk with me. It somehow lead to him trying to downplay what I experienced in middle school and one up me from his own experience
I was sexually harassed and bullied by my own ‘boyfriend’, and here’s my father saying that was nothing to what he experienced in highschool. He never apologized, not that he probably remembered anyway.
Please never try to one up someone’s trauma with your own. All pain is equal. We all go through hardships and awful things in our lives, but it’s never a good thing to make someone feel lesser because you ‘had it worse’
Instead, rather comfort them by relating. You understand how they feel so they don’t feel alone. You and the other person don’t need to be stuck in the dark alone when you have eachother.
What your dad did was horrible. I’ve experienced this before a number of times. 😔However, I don’t agree that all pain is equal. This is just my opinion. It’s nothing against you.
a drunk mans words are his sober thoughts
What he said was wrong, but I don’t agree that all pain is equal. Someone being raped or verbally abused by someone isn’t the same as being told their stupid because they can’t hold a flashlight over the car engine so they’re worthless.
Not all pain is equal. I had it rough with 8 years of almost daily physical torture but I would never compare my pain with someone less fortunate than I.
There is nothing more annoying and heartbreaking than listening to someone complaining and crying over some minor complications in their lives
Im so sorry💔
"I regret marrying you and having kids with you."
- soul crushing words from my wife... what actually brought me to this channel...
-"You're so stupid you'll just die without me."
-"I regret marrying you."
-"I will break your face. Well anyways, it doesn't need breaking."
-"Sobrang tangaa mo!!! Wala kang silbi." (You're so stupid!!! You're worthless.)
- My wife whenever she's angry.
“Daddy is not coming home, ever” I was 6 years old and he was killed in a car accident on his way to work.
:*(
I'm sorry, I hope you are doing okay today. If not, feel hugged.
I'm so sorry
I’m so sorry 😔🙏
Luhvestro ??
"Stop lying." Was what my mother said when I told her my father sexually abused me. I was only twelve.
I'm so sorry..
Sorry to hear about what you experienced. Hope u live a good life tho.
Insult- your father is a mistake and your mom is dumb
Oh dear! That must have been so very hard. I hope you are better now.
I am sorry .I hope you are living good life.
When I was 9 years old I asked my mom if I was beautiful. She told me "no" in a kind of regretful way, like she didn't want to tell me the truth but couldn't lie to me.
I can't overstate how badly that fucked my self esteem up. To this day it affects me. I know she was right but it hurt SO bad to think my own mother, who is a very kind and loving person, doesn't see her only child as beautiful.
💌
you are stunning,inside and out. some people just have different outlooks on
people and don’t realize the things they say hurts people
You’re beautiful
There is no such thing as ugly it's all man-made for human to stroke their ego, remember this ⊂((・▽・))⊃
Why didn't she just say you were beautiful? "Beautiful" could have been how unique you are and everything about you, mind blown she chose to say no to her kid lol
Follow up question: What's the cruelest thing you've said to another person? There are so many victim stories, but where are all the perpetrators?
it was intentional. i wanted to hurt him because he hurt me so badly. i told him what he was. i said, "you r@ped me, (name)." he hated it so much because it was always unspoken between us that he abused me. he sobbed. i tried hurting him more times after that, including telling him that I don't love him and that he's dead to me and he killed who he used to be. every single day, I regret it. not hurting him, but I regret not doing more. i wish I had strength to come forward with my story and try to get justice because I know he's now dating a minor. i have ptsd now and pray to god every day that i never have to see him again. I'm sure i said many more cruel things, detailed things, but i wish i had been crueler. and stronger. its always the unspoken words that hurt the most anyway.
@@alexandriabrock6979 it may have been cruel but its true, im so sorry you got hurt and I truly hope you can heal
I don’t like to talk much so I usually say the bare minimum but sometimes it gives off a different
More hurtful meaning and I am just too slow in realising that. I regret saying those things alot
Once in anger I told my father "your existence is meaningless" I realized what I said right after I said it. My heart ached so bad and I Immediately apologized but ig I'll be guilty of it forever.
I told to my mom she wasn't a model for me. She cried, I cried too.
"We are just a bunch of depressed people telling other depressed people to love themselves"
So accurate
@@saba8878 💜💜
Nothing wrong in being kind
@@saba8878 Army??
@@patanhi0912 Army??
"who are you?"
- my grandma when i visited her after her stroke
this made me sob ily
😥😭
I’m sorry bb
Aww
Same 😕
I don't know why but when the guy said "One of my students asked me why I was even a teacher", this line hit me really hard
I feel bad for him . Bcz as a student I hate teachers
After my therapist disclosed to my mum that he was concerned I'd been sexually abused by my dad, my mum said "well, even if that's true, what am I supposed to do about it?", I was 15, I didn't mention it again for years and years. My Dad passed away when I was 44, my Mum finally said she believed me.
I’m so sorry that she couldn’t be there for you. It had nothing to do with you.❤️
i genuinely hate it when people have this change of mind/personality whenever someone passes away. it’s so fake and disgusting. i hope you are in a better place now. ❤️
The axe forgets, but the tree remembers.
Yep ; )
The axes often does not realise it is half made of wood
@Travisthemaxus2 Seems like you are the quote on quote"fucking idiot" here since you are the one asking ^____^
So true
@Travisthemaxus2 please be nicer, if you don't know what the qoute means its alright. Just use your words carefully
The guy with the tumor when he said "I'm waiting"
Be strong.
Its so sad, this video came out a year and a half ago. Hes probley gone now.
If it helps, I think he said "I'm winning." So maybe he's fighting and trying to stay positive.
@Audrey Greenson same
He was lying about it. Check the description
@@famalki1619 I know he did, but it still hurts you know.
I know that harsh words can hurt our feelings really bad sometimes. But watching this video made think of how much pain i caused in others by saying things without thinking first, mostly people who cared about me.
It still haunts me.
I can relate to this. Someone I love broke my heart and because I was hurt and in pain, I said some really hurtful things back at him, without thinking. And it bothers me so much, some days it's all I can think about. I believe now I am a bad person because of it.
The thing about regret is that it can help you do things better in the future, or at least with more consideration. Plus, bad people aren't usually afraid of being bad people; thats part of what makes them "bad". Forgiving yourself and resolving to try to make an effort to do things differently is difficult but it pays off in time, trust me.
Things like that keep me up at night sometimes.
Same here i beat myself up everyday and regret saying those things to them
As somebody who has said mean things and been on the receiving end of a LOT of mean things from toxic friends, forgive yourself. You feel regret, that's amazing. You are a thousand percent better than most people who say that sort of stuff because usually they don't regret it. usually they make themselves a victim and pretend they never did anything wrong.
Hell I had a "friend" who tried to make me feel insecure for years, and then once i lashed out at him, he claimed that he was a "saint", and that he "never had any problems with anyone, ever." You are so much better than these idiots and despite what you may have said, you're good. You're amazing, there's nothing wrong with you, and all you can do is be better, and it seems like you already have.
I had a man tell me "I hope I age you." That was the most weird disgusting shocking and bizarre thing I've ever been told. He was definitely a narcissist and we were arguing about how he doesn't empathize basically. He was enjoying arguing. If someone's a narcissist RUN. But words are powerful. If they aren't loving don't let them eat you because it's not true.
I didn't mean to make her a narcissist but I also didn't know any better because I was young.
I'm still unconditional. Live, die, it's your choice. Ya, know?
What does that even mean
@@Justin-tt9cz I'm guessing he hopes the stress, mental and emotional anhuish he inflicts upon her causes her to look older than she is 😢 Sad and horrific to hear
-“your son is gone, he killed himself”
Nothing will ever be more painful💔
stay strong💖
You got this.💕
Anna Szabo thank you❤️
stay strong ma’am
ツsophįa ❤️
My dad was chronically verbally abusive. I’ll probably never get over all the things he said to me.
My Mom was the sweetest, kindest mother anyone could ever have.
Same here. Exactly the same
"You are weird, nobody will love you and you will die alone and a virgin"
My own big brother told me that, even when I helped my parents to accept he is gay. He could never accept how I am
I'm going to be honest. I tell myself stuff like this almost everyday now. I don't even cry about it anymore because there is no point. Enough about me and my unimportant problems, I can't imagine the betrayal you must be feeling right now. I truly feel sorry for you.
i’m so sorry love tell your brother taht his words hurt you..i’m sorry :(
Im So sorry. My sisters are scumbag said worse stuff too. We not deserve this
You’re not weird, trust me.
🩷What’s your name?
“I’m embarrassed to have you as my child.”
-My mother when i drew a rose for her.
I'm so sorry that happened to you
Not okay. Love to you. 💖
The problem is not with you, is the person. If you have shit inside, is normal to spread it
did she really say that ?
😞😞
*“i don’t think there’s anything we can do because he was your boyfriend”* that’s so so messed up on the polices behalf. i’m in shock honestly.
i'm going through almost the same situation.. but instead it was my best friend and neither of us were under the influence of anything. the justice system for sexually abused people is honestly the worst. i really do hope that she gets the justice she deserves though.
liv ? i’m so so sorry you’re going through that and i honestly hope you both get your justice
Suka from the past events you have no idea
the police system is fucked up
@@hahahaha-jj8op i hope u know that not every girl do that...i agree for some but plz don't use word "girls" which includes every girl 🙏
"You're so sensitive"
"You're overreacting"
"What, you think you're special?"
Just for others out there, it's not all in your head. If you need help please reach out to who ever you can. Please stay strong and know that the things you are experiencing and feeling matter and are real. You are real.
"It was too hard for him."
Both of my grandmas said this about their sons: one for my father and the other for my uncle after I had multiple physical and mental health issues as an explanation on why they haven't been around when it was all happening to me.
Be so careful with your words yall, you never know who you could be hurting.
Fr
Yes very true
True, my dad once not thinking said "I'm surprised how u are still alive" Not in good way obviously-
@@0nion300 he was probably holding on to some anger and let it out on you. Do think about it too much! 😁
my most painful thing, I can't believe I jinxed it. My online friends, I was super close to them. They were neighbors, the girl was 13 and the boy was 16. The boy was always online in the middle of the night, and the girl in the day. One day the guy stopped coming online. The girl told me she rang their doorbell but no answer. I made a joke saying, "I guess he died then lol." two days later, the girl texts me saying the guy committed suicide. I still cry, they were my best friends.
"I'm not in love with you anymore." From my husband, 2 days after I gave birth to our beautiful daughter.
WHAT AN ASSHOLE!! I hope you are better and that you find someone who loves everything about you. Also let your daughter bring Joy to your life! I know it Will ne hard trusting again because you can never be sure of others' intentions but im you Will find the happiness you deserve
GIRL DROP HIS ASS YOU DESERVE BETTER!!! I mean that. Take your daughter and leave him, you’re better off.
I hope that there's better person for you and a great future for both 💟
Just WOW! That's why they have shows like Snapped! I feel for you and you're better off without him. You are worthy and deserve way better than him.
Damn that’s a different type of hurt , Especially after u just gave birth . Thats so Low of him
"You deserve to have died."
So, I grew up in a very abusive household. My parents would fight a lot and get drunk a lot and both of them loved to take it out on me and my siblings. More often than not, I'd try to take most of their anger so that my much younger siblings wouldn't have to. When I was a baby, maybe 3 or 4 months old, my dad threw me into a ceiling fan, allowing it to hit my head multiple times. Of course, I never remembered this, but it was brought up a lot by either parent ('Your dad tried to kill you as a baby and I'm the bad guy?' and stuff like that). Well, one day, when I was getting one of the worst beatings of my life (two broken ribs, fractured eye socket, split lip, and a lot of bruises) my dad yelled this at me. I was 11 at the time, already suicidal because of my situation. Those words hurt more than any punch I ever got.
Now, me and my siblings are safe, and I have a loving, supportive boyfriend who I someday hope to marry. My siblings have turned out to be great people and I'm glad I got to see them grow. I'm beginning my hormone replace therapy and recently came out as pansexual to my aunt, who played a large part in saving us, only to get her love and support.
To anyone out there who needs to hear it: You deserve to live, and you won't regret it when you see how life turns out. Hold on and stay strong darlings
You’re a real trooper! You must be very proud for getting through all that.
My heart goes to everyone in this video. They are all so beautiful souls and are so strong. It's just so frustrating knowing that there are people who are genuinely bad and tell and do such painful things.
The most painful thing I've been told was my boyfriend lying to me that he has cancer. I know, sounds unreal, right?
I'll tell you my story. We had a LDR, it was going for around 5 months, he've been calling me the love of this life and the right one. He was telling me everyday that he loves me so much... We spend hours together everyday and being on call at night before falling asleep and dreaming and planning to meet each other. Around 20 days ago he started feeling very bad, as he told. His head and stomach were always hurting. I did everything I could to support and take care of him, letting him know that I'm with him and that I love him irrespective of how he is feeling.
After a week of feeling bad he told me he will go see a doctor. And you know? I believed everything! He said the doctor said he has an autoimmune disease but they didn't know what type it is yet. He said they need to do more analysis. Some more days passed. He told me he was still in pain continuosly and that he's throwing up very oftern. And he was faking everything so well... such a good actor. When we were on call he would groan as if with pain and all the things like this.
Then a few days passed, and he said that the doctor told him they suspect he has cancer but it's not conlusive yet and that they need more time to confirm this. A few hours passed and he sad they confirmed. He said he will go to do more exams to know thae type of cancer and possible treatments the next days and that he won't be able to pay me more attention. I told him not to worry about this and that I love him! And that we need to focus for him to get better now. I assured him that I support him in everything.
The next day he disappeared. I thought the doctors told him his cancer is very bad and that he doesn't talk to me not to make me feel sad. I was so horribly wrong.
More days passed, during which I was researching everything about cancer and joining different cancer communities, just to make everything I can to help him feel better. I learned about so many different stories of people with cancer. I sympathise with all of them!
During this time I was writing letters to him everyday (because it was our thing to do every night). And I was trying to contact him everywhere I could.
One day, I found his instagram account... and what do you think I found there? A photo of him kissing another girl... He was calling her 'my love' like he used to call me. And she called him 'my significant other'. This is a term I taught him, he had no idea such term exists before :) and he's using it with her now... I saw him being happy and healthy cheating with another girl when I was worried for him thinking he's in the hospital and is undergoing treatment. I was praying to God everyday to cure him...
I needed explanation and texted both of them. After a day I got answers. Apparently his love for me was fading and he had no courage to tell me but he had courage to tell me he has cancer so I'd leave him... guess what? I'm not a monster like him, I wanted to be with him even him being sick... He told me he is with the girl after he left when he told me he has cancer but the girl told me they are together for 2 months...
It was so difficult to comprehend that something like this is happening to me. And it's way more difficult knowing that he dared to lie about cancer. Seeing their photo I immediately broke up with him. I'm not sad he's not with me anymore but I'm sad he did it that way. Lying about having cancer... this is just so wrong and atrocious... It just doesn't sit well with me. How can you lie about having cancer?? Can you imagine?
And the worst part is that I never expected this from him as he 'loved me so much' and I thought he is the kindest person ever. He turned out to be a monster... the worst person I know...
After I told the girl everything, she is still with him... I hope he doesn't do the same to her... It must be difficult to live with a liar, a monster and a cheater... I don't feel anything for him now, except disgust.
I'm happy I found out his true nature and that God saved me from being with such a person.
Felipe Cafezeiro Plech, if you'll ever stumble upon this, know that you are not worth of my feelings. You are a monster, a real monster. I feel bad for all people that have cancer whom you disrespected with your lie. I feel bad for all the people he has to deal with too. I'm sorry!
May God forgive him. 🙏
Hope you are doing well lady 🙏. My prayers with you.
"She's not my daughter. She's her father's daughter."-my mother.
this is really sad I hope you feel better....
@@bussyyussy7188 It was years ago so I'm better thank you for worrying^^
@@may5082 that's good to hear
That hit me hard 😪❤
My mom says that all the time! Im happy not to be her daughter!
“they found her body”
my mom telling me my best friend had committed suicide.
this made my cry so, so much. I can't imagine how hard it must be.
I am so sorry
OMG my heart broke so much 😭😭💔💔
My bestfriend's mom said, "I don't even know where to look to buy a headstone." over coffee about 3 months after it happened.
I understand how much it hurts 💞
That's hard really💔
"are you sure you still don't like boys?"
My mom has been saying she's supporting me for years but every once in a while she'll say something like this. I don't care if other people don't approve of me liking girls because I don't let it hurt me and its not necessarily who I am but its different with my parents who support me in everything. It had been quite a while before she had said those words. And when she said this recently, it disappointed me because it feels like she's pretending.
I totally get you, don't mind your mom, I'm pretty sure you're awesome ☺☺ try to talk to your mother that this hurts, alright?
Mine says," you just like guys stop getting yourself stuck in a loop called i like girls".....like wtf am i supposed to do....
@@roshini.s6008 don't listen to her, just be yourself because it's okay to be like this
"she is no more"
The above statement was said by my sister to me in the context of my mother. My mom died of covid on the morning of 17th April 2021. It's the most painful thing someone has said to me .. I really wish I can delete some portions of my brain.
Im so sorry I hope your doing okay ❤❤
“I don’t remember your name, but I remember that I love you.” -grandmother with alzheimer’s 💔😭
My dad’s aunt had Alzheimer’s, but she did not remember him and would constantly ask to be left alone.
That's so cute
@@sinanimations8228 what exactly?
My grandfather had alzheimer’s to and when it was at the worst one of his brain halves shut down and he only lived with one of them and he was sent in a house care for old people and my dad was going to a business trip to another country so my father took me and my sisters to my grandfather some hours before he had to go to the airport and we had ”fika” (svedish word for coffie, coockies, juice and more) and then we went home to say goodbye to dad. The day after father had landed in the country safe and then we got the call. Me and my sisters was playing videogames and mom started so scream and cry and we asked what happend and she said that grandfather had died (i think he died in his sleep but I don’t remember) and that his brain had forgot how to breath because of the alzheimer’s. He said something like that to to us when we meet him the day before.
@@loka-chan6695 oh my God, I am so sorry 😣
There's that awkward laugh that all the participants do after they talk, that's just the laugh you give to stop yourself from crying 😞
Yes we try to pretend that we're okay but the pain is too much to hide😞😞
Yep..
Well, you know, some people just pretend that they are happy. I usually laugh, say stupid things, I'm trying to be funny, just to hide that I'm actually really depressed. Internet is a cool place for people like me though 😂
It's true. So true.
I’m bullied a lot and I go through depression I’m a young kid and I only talk when I need to.
"Come back or I'll kill you" -my past adoptive mother
story behind it:
my past mother (to be clear, i am not in her care anymore!!) adopted me when i was 1. she Sexualized me and her son and said we looked "cute together" ( *when i was 1 her son was 15* ). Turns out, my mother had adopted me to get married to her son. I got out of her care when i turned 11. I was forced into many uncomfortable situations and even had to get an abortion because i got pregnant while in their care. i dont know where they live now and have tried with the police but nothing comes up. and im just going to say that i didnt understand that what they were doing was wrong as i was taught by them that it was normal. Also, i remember a phone call just before i ran away (i found out the thing they were doing was bad). My mother was on the phone talking to some very dangerous people. The people she was talking to were human traffickers. My adoptive mother was willing to sell me off for 500k.
i am in a better home now where my family love and care for me. they teach me all about the things i missed out on learning and help me get past what has happened.
p.s. if i spelt anything wrong, i apologize lol
“You’re not intelligent, you just lack respect.” was said to me at a time where I really, really struggled with my intelligence and now, one year later, it still sticks with me daily and from that conflict some problems have been evolving.
“I’m so sorry, we tried our best”-my little sisters doctor
Omg im so sorry, big hugs❤
I’m so so sorry🥺
Omg im so sorry
F ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Oh I'm so so sorry, it hurt to read this :( I hope you're okay 💖
"your grandpa just told me 'hey Pat I'm gonna go to sleep now' and he died.."
-my aunt
Sorry for your loss...my grandpa died too. Your always in his heart❤
i just started crying
@@theothu same
@@theothu same
Your aunt is named pat
Fathers, be careful what you say to your kids, it will follow them for a lifetime
people at the older stages in life still remembering painful words they've been told when they were younger is another level of pain. it's scary to think of how many people we've hurt intentionally/unintentionally still got our words to this day.
"Your son passed away this morning"... He was only 18 and the joy of my life.
😞🙏🏼🙏🏼
all the hugs 🫂 in the world. Be strong please, i’m sending you love.
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I don't get life sometimes.
My dear Debora, i can’t even imagine how painful it is for you to live your life now that your son’s no longer with you but you should know and this is probably a sign for you to keep on living and try to be as happy as u possibly can, your son would really want you to have a full life. Please stay strong, God loves you and i love you
I’m so sorry for your loss. I can’t even imagine how hard it is to go through it, but it’s important to stay strong and keep living no matter how painful it is. Sending you love, we love and need you🫂🤍
"Hurting someone is like throwing a rock in the sea, it's easy to throw but you have no idea how deep it goes."
-unknown
That’s actually a really good example…
I am totally the guy named unknown in all those quotes
I had a major crush on my coworker .. never asked her out or anything, I knew that I wasn't good enough and I had no chance .. one day she said that I am creepy looking 🥲 and made fun of me 🥲.. also awhile ago my classmates asked why God created me and that I must be a "mistake" .. and honestly I think they are right!
@@cinemaparadiso5402 don 't ever think that! Thousands of people died today and you weren't one of them. Why? Becaus your worth it! becaus there is someone out there waiting for you to make their lives beautiful. So never lose hope!❤
Until that person LITERALLY throws a rock at you.
Why can't you just physically assault the people who hurt you? No matter who they are. You're small? Learn MMA and strike them when they're alone.
Vengeance is the only path to peace.
My dad used to tell me "you're not going to fix anything by being a crybaby" which really affected me growing up, because now (24yrs old) I have serious issues expressing my feelings and trying not to bother anyone with them.
Bro…, I can really feel you. :,(
Same..
Same, having arguments or being talked about as if I weren't there around the dinner table, which would have me holding back tears. Then my father would point that out and he and my older brother would mock me, nothing they say or do would provoke a genuine reaction from me anymore I've shut myself off emotionally around other people.
Same :(
like SORRY ME BEING VISIBLY UPSET IS SO FRICKIN ANNOYING
He was objectively right tho.
my favorite part of this series is the fact that you can’t really offer much advice but just through them speaking it out loud is lifts the weight off of them and just talking is such a healthy and productive thing
“Dad hates you, he wishes you would just died. No one wants you.” My little brother, my best mate. Everything changed after that day.
@@marierostert1536 well what do you think?
@@marierostert1536 oh God. How could this be good?
Your little brother? I would've smacked the hell out of him. What gives him a right to say that to his older sister?
Life or death? You choose I can't imagine your own sibling saying that to you. I mean, I've said pretty nasty things to my siblings but they all know it's a joke because they say it back to me. However, when they're being serious then that really hurts.
Life or death? You choose I'm very sorry. You should explain to him how he's being racist and why it's hurting your feelings, or at least tell your parents. I know it's kind of dumb for me to say that because I'm assuming you've already tried, but just know that if they still do it, they're probably not the right family for you. ❤️
Just imagine being the person who said something rude and watching this video and realizing u were that person mentioned in the video. I would hate my self forever
I've been that person. Not to any of these people but who has said harsh things. It took a while to work on it but it mainly stems from wanting to regain control over a situation. Instead of gaining control over my own emotions it was having a control on theirs by being as hurtful as possible. It works. For the short term but you eventually become someone that nobody can trust or someone that nobody likes anymore. Its also because I grew up with a mean family and alot of abuse directed at me so in a way it was normalized.
@@anaquot its pretty good that u realize what you are doing or saying , hopefully you will change ( ? )
@@durimcali3812 I've already been working on changing. I've come a long way I feel.
@@anaquot congratulations !!! Keep walking on that path !!!👍
The thing is, we all have or one day will say/do something that will hurt someone so much they will remember it for a long time (maybe even forever). That's just human. How we react to our own mistakes is what counts.
Being told by my father, while my grandfather was potentially dying, that "You always have to make everything about you, you're so selfish." Says the person that wasn't around for majority of my growing years, and adult life. A person that all I ever wanted was to be there for me, to guide me, teach me how to drive, shave etc. And somehow, I was the selfish one. That really made me question myself, who I was, and placed an insurmountable amount of doubt in myself as a man. I wish he knew how badly him not being around, along with that argument, hurt and shaped me negatively.
I'm so so sorry
“You’re not my daughter, you are a stranger, not the person who I raised who doesn’t make scenes, who actually acts like a lady, I lost you.”
Just because I didn’t take his side in an argument. ❤
“Nobody actually loves you. Not even your daughter.”
Broke my heart, because my baby is my world.
💔
well, i love you
Thank you guys 😭❤️ You’re all so sweet!
We all love you💕
Emancipate her. She doesn't deserve all the things you've given to her.
“Your dad is lucky he’s dead so he doesn’t have to put up with you anymore.” -an anonymous stranger just months after my dad passed away
(Hug Hug)
I'm so sorry..
That's horrible. I'm so sorry. Hope you're okay.
These people aren't human anymore
I'm so sorry, hope you okay. Big hug for you💖
When my "best friend" of almost 15 years sent me a long message ending our friendship that ended with "you were never that good of a friend anyways". That was almost 10 years ago and it still haunts me to this day.
"he's gone"
My mother told me these words last year, about my grandfather, who had died. I was absolutely shattered; tears wouldn't stop falling. My worst nightmare was happening. I knew he wouldn't stay with me forever but wanted him to. He was my everything, he was like a father to me, and the person I loved the most. He was the person that raised me and the one I admired the most. The months after his death was very hard.
The year before that I moved to a different country, in 2021. Everything was new to me, but I did not like it, I did not want to live in another country, and I absolutely did not want to leave my grandfather, but I had to. I just remember that he was really sad about me and my mother leaving, I was worried that he might fall into depression because of it. He obviously had people to stay with, but it was not the same. He only traveled 2 times to the country where I was living, he was even going to move with me and my mom, but his time in this life had ended. He died in my home country, alone. I still blame myself for moving to another country, and for not staying with him when he needed me the most. He was sick, I don't even know why, my mom wouldn't tell me and still won't. I don't even remember the day he died. I blame myself for everything. I deserve to feel guilty. I should have spoken to him every day so that he did not feel lonely. I should have done more.
I still remember the last day I saw him, I knew deep in my heart that it was going to be the last. I was preparing myself just in case it was the last time, and sadly it was.
“You’re not the daughter I wanted”
- my mom... she told me this from age 12- today, I am 27
I am sorry
I hope u r strong, all the way....
My parents constantly tell me that I’m retarded and that Im a disappointment.
That is so sad
I'm sorry, just ignore your mom. You are an amazing person and your mom is not worth it if she's gonna put you down.
When the guy with the tumor said “I’m waiting” that hit me different
Same 💔
He lied
fuck this
Thought he said "i'm winning"
I thought he said I’m winning and that’s why he chuckled.
"Why did God give me children like you"
-my mother on mother's day, after I gave her her gift.
I was 15 and it was after I had been SA'd (keep in mind I was in a very abusive houeshold as well and most saw me as the golden over achiever). One of my teachers noticed I was acting off and I explained to her what happened and she told me "Some people have it worse." Im 23 now and I still can't get that sentence out of my head. To this day, I still tell myself "Some people have it worse." Bc of that, I never looked to seek help for my mental illnesses (it turns out i have a lot). I never talked to anyone. Not even my partner who knows that Im traumatized and has similar trauma. I cant talk to anyone about it because my little kid brain still hears "Well some people have it worse." So i think about it and I shut up.
"I'm sorry to inform you that your daughter passed this morning." Police.
I hope you doing better today... thinking of you
@@malena9341 yes, thanks, it's been 3 weeks now.
I'm so sorry .... I hope you're doing better
@@grammybear2117 the same thing has happened to me, my mom died in a car accident 2 weeks ago she was only 43, I am so sorry for you I know what you feel in this moments
@@angelogaudino3500 oh my. This is very sad to hear. I hope you and your people are ok 💔
“tomorrow we can go to the market and get you that toy”
-my grandmother before she passed in her sleep
RIP
I'm sorry for your loss, I hope you're doing alright. I'm sure your grandmother will always watch over you from heaven~
OMG!! No I am so so sorry💔🥺 At least she didn't had a painful death:( I am so sorry...
You know, the stars are people who died and are in your family, the sky is always watching you! :)
@@LemonLuna yes! the stars are the people who love you and appreciate you. that’s why there are a ton of stars in the sky, because they support and love you. not just your family, but the people who truly and genuinely love you!
"He is probably faking it to get attention" My older brother to my mom. It hurts coz his depression was what caused mine. He was the first person I thought would understand me. Sadly, my mom believed him and doesn't take me seriously anymore. I am still fighting by myself.
One of my friend told me one month back that -You probably got into this college with the lowest marks among us.
After hearing that I was so depressed and crying all the time.
I know better days are coming In sha allah
And I want to work hard to answer those people who are always criticise me without any reason and without knowing anything about me in sha allah
Please pray for me🤲
"I don't know what I did wrong to be punished by having a child like you…"
-My mother to me when I was 11.
Parents are dealing with their own unhealed hurts and trauma...and then it gets passed down and projected on to the kids. I’m not saying this is okay, but it does give a sense of understanding, so we may feel more compassion, knowing they’re doing the best they can in the mindset they are under due to whatever stresses, anxieties, inner demons they are dealing with. When we can heal ourselves, we’re healing it from our families and breaking the cycles that have hurt us. It can be a beautiful thing if we allow it to be. To see through the hurt and heal, and be better for the next generation. To come from a place of love and understanding rather than hurt.
You don't need her . She needs you . Love yourself
Same thing, but she said it after I said I was bi and came to to her, and her only
It’s hard to write comments like this.
My sister had a breakdown in public once and my parents were yelling at her (she’s 16)
She said “it’s almost like you don’t care”
My mom said back “y’know what? I don’t.”
It wasn’t said to me, but it felt like a kick in the stomach
My mom called me a bitch, I was ''late'', I made it to school on time. I'm 10 now, I was 8. She called me a bitch every day, she has stopped luckly.
“It’s been 12 years get over it, you don’t even remember her” a girl in my school said about my sister that committed suicide
That's just horrible to say! 😢💔
I'm so, so proud of you for thinking about her still. For keeping her with you. For never forgetting her. I hope you can live comfortably for the rest of your life.
that’s so disgusting :( sending virtual hugs and love ❤️
I'm so sorry u had to go through that 💕
Thanks guys y’all seem like great people
wow, that last woman choked me up. Great video. We can learn so much from your videos, and I know I do. I hope that last person heals. What a thing to hear when you're so badly hurt through no fault of your own.
The close-ups of everyone's faces makes these beautiful and vulnerable stories even more powerful 🌺
“I only had three more months ... it’s been 5 months “
I hope he’s still okay and alive
An update would be nice, cause now I'm wondering if he's still doing okay. Don't know him at all but still. He's a human being just like the rest of us
I saw a person and he is 83 years old and he have cancer so. he can live if he try if he should not give up
Oscar Tovar source??😦
@@jjxrden I dunno I'm guessing???????
Oscar Tovar Well then I hope not :(
"It should have been you!"
My mother, a few weeks after my younger brother died
Wow I-
I'm really sorry about that...
With all due respect, shame on your mother for saying that. Grief can take a toll, but saying something like that is never appropriate. If/when your mom becomes more level headed, you should explain to her how what she said made you feel to fix your relationship with her. Again, I'm really sorry about that, but stay strong.
@@Gentapi5 oh pretty sure the bond is severed, the worst part about me hearing that was that I somewhat already believed it anyway natural guilt. It was new pain that day I sat down for like 20 mins staring at the floor when she said that, never felt pain like that before. Thank you for your comment, it means a lot
@@bloodfusion3901 I so sorry! If my mom said something like that to me I would punch her and leave and go live with my bestie. Also, what does severed mean lol?
Oh my godness... i am so sorry to hear that 😥 are u ok?
Thoraya, I love that you give people who are hurting a safe and loving place to talk about their pain. That helps their healing. 💜
"can you stop?" - my father
I have turrets syndrome. I can't.
Oh that sux ur dad is ridiculous.
😳
Millenials be like that
oh my God
my dad does the same every time I tic
I told him, I can't control it
he said "It's just an excuse"
@@venusk777 WTF?? 😳
I feel like some parents don’t realize how hurtful their words can be and that the things they say can really stick with you for a long time. A lot of my insecurities started as ‘family jokes’
I know what you mean
Oh fuck, i get that. My mom and uncle are to thank for some of the things i obsessess with keeping on point. Sometimes even when i dont feel like those things were worth putting my energy into and to stop doing it, i would remember the shit they would say to me as casual remarks, and it would make me relapse all over again
I loved my body. I thought it was beautiful. Every time my brother took something sweet my dad or grandma wouldn’t give it a second thought because he was “skinny”. When I took something he said I should work out or eat healthy. One time we were at the store and I took this shirt and I showed to my parents and my dad said “you have to work out to were that” and laughed. I cried in the fitting room. I don’t wanna eat anymore and I hate my body. It’s all because of them.
Feel ya. I stoped eating for couple days because my mother always used to say stuff like „oh u sure u wanna eat THAT?“ or „u really shouldn’t eat this and this because ur already enough… u know…“ and after a few days without eating I totally cracked up and cried and told my math teacher everything and she was really nice and said „u gotta tell her“ and guess what my mum said. „Well I’m sorry if u are so sensitive and everything but u know that stop eating isn’t good either“. Yeah, I know that. And I’m still horrified about the thought that I actually went this far (although it was for just a couple days it still was horrible)
Same my mum said my butt is too big as "an innocent joke" and now i keep hiding it because i'm afraid others will judge me as well... fml
It’s funny how these little things that have been told to these people so long ago and it just sticks with them. Imagine calling someone a name and it just sticks with them for the rest of their life.
The most painful thing I've been told happened when I was in an elementary school for highly gifted kids, and I didn't pass the test to the middle school I wanted to be in. All of my friends from there passed. When a good friend of mine heard the news that someone didn't pass it, she said: "someone like that must be so stupid, they don't belong in a place like this".
I cut contact with everyone there since, and I stuck with me for many years later.
"I don't want to die"
- My grandpa said that to me 2 weeks before passing away from cancer
Awww :(
That made me cry
Hahahaha
@@divine6735 it's not that funny
I was only 10 when he told me this 4 years ago
Ruby X age is just a number haha ha
“you will never be good enough”
*everyone felt this once in a lifetime*
I feel it every day, and I'm 56 now.
I have never .. but one day, probably..
It’s actually sad because they only person said that to me, is me.
To All of you: you are good enough! You are you - you are the only you that exists on this planet - and it is wonderful that you exist! I am sending you all my love! Believe in yourself! You are good enough- you are Gold!
@@karinalisaC Thanks 💛
2:00 I'm a 30 year old man who was told something similar in regards to math when I was 10. My father asked "how do you not understand this?" And then said "I can't help you."
I love my dad and we have a good relationship, but that moment has always stuck with me.
I've never shared this with anyone in person because it's perceived as weakness, and not masculine.
I respect these people for sharing their experiences.
Thank you Thoraya for uploading. When I watch I always think “that’s not even that hurtful” and it made me realize the way my family interacts is not normal or healthy. Your videos give me context for the way I’ve been treated.
“Stop eating all the time, starve yourself for once”
-my mom
Damn, I hope you're ok now
Holo she still tells me it all the time no matter how much weight I lost but thank you anyway :)
Eat all you want to beautiful....♥️...
@@rosiefazli2749 Thats an advice idiot
Please don’t. I’m always here for you, though I don’t know toy
"depression is being colourblind and constantly told how colourful the world is" -Atticus
Trip13 A What a fantastic way to describe it 👏🏻
This made me cry
When you're colorblind you can still see color, you just see the color a little faded. So they can still tell the difference between colors and they know what the colors are, they just can't see how bright it is. So they can still enjoy color and they can still find the beauty within the colors. So no matter how sad you are, you can still enjoy the beauty of life.
That's vague as hell, every now and then everyone can relate to that to some degree.
I was actually names after Atticus, and I always hold onto that quote, kinda cool to see it down here in the comments 😊
Reading all these stories hurts my heart. I have been at the recieving end of many of these comments as well (likely given some too). My ex lied and manipulated me more times than I can count. As a kid I had been bullied until college basically. The things that are still stuck to me is people blaming me for things that went wrong. I was blamed for being bullied, I was blamed for the issues with my ex, I was blamed when my ex-friends didn't want to see me anymore. They said 'you've changed a lot". And I had! And I was so proud of myself for feeling good about myself, setting boundaries and being less depressed. They didn't see this as good.
Lesson learned from this is that the people you love the most will hurt you the most.
These strangers being honest about their pain is a beautiful thing.
I so agree...the song Beneath Your Beautiful comes to mind. They are achingly beautiful these precious aching hearts.
Well not about the guy with tumor. Check the description.
i think this is my new favorite channel.
Soooooooo true
tf you talk about nigga pain is stupid
“He’s gone.”
-Doctor after my brother was run over by a car
I'm so sorry😔
So sorry 💕🕊
Your brother is walking down the street, he decides to cross to the other side, he is hit by a car aaaand he's gone. He's gone, pufff, dead.
I’m not really sure what that was supposed to mean. My brother passed away the next day after he was hit. He didn’t die the moment he was run over
I'm so sorry ☹︎☹︎
Jesus! Thats so sad😢 I wanna hug you all❤ you all deserve to be loved
So people remember physical offenses outside of remarks from parents.
“You’re just a kid, you’ll get over the loss.” After I lost four friends one to cancer, one to a robbery, and two to suicide
That’s horrible, I’m so so sorry for that, hope you’re doing better and sending love and good vibes your way
That's traumatic especially to a kid. You'll get better with time, stay happy always. Sending lots of love and prayers your way ❤
•Mare• the•sea•lily wtaf
Do they think chi,Daren are immune to feelings
Nvr happened.
The most painful thing that someone said to me was "u have cancer" doctor told me that when I was 10 years old . Now I'm about to turn 15 and I survived cancer .
Wow i didnt thought that a lot of ppl are gonna see this comment.
That's amazing sweetheart. You're a strong survivor and I'm so happy you are
Ok I see you, your strong asf
👊🤞💙
That’s amazing, I can’t imagine how hard that must have been to hear. I hope you’re proud of yourself for getting through that :) god bless you.
You’re so strong god bless you🤥💗
I feel so much compassion towards the last woman in this video ( the lady injured in the boat accident) I just want to say that I'm so sorry your grandma said that hurtful, cruel comment about you. She should have been loving, caring, kind and welcoming to you, especially since you were injured and in pain !!
I see your tears and I understand. ❤️
One of the more recent and worse things was “Your best isn’t enough”. I was trying to tell my parents how hard I kept trying at several things I’m dealing with, (and I don’t open up to them a lot so it took a lot of my courage) but my dad said, “Trying doesn’t give you bonus points. You’ll have to try harder.” And I said, “I’m sorry, but I’m doing my best.” And he said, “Well, your best isn’t good enough.” It’s made me want to stop trying at anything because honestly what’s the point if my best can’t even meet the standards. Not the most painful thing but the worst one recently.
I got " You're not worth it " from a perspective gf. If she didn't want to date she could've just said that instead of the worst thing.
I dont think parents understand how long the stuff they say sticks with us
That's true! :(
I was crying thinking about the exact same thing.but then i thought we say stuff in anger as well. They are humans as well. They are not perfect. Lets all forgive each other. It will be easier then holding on to the pain.
True✊😥
Be Kind *ye date*
actually you’re right but i feel like some people don’t deserve for forgive. i know people like that. yeh it’s my parents to. i’m literally moving out to another country just to don’t keep contact with them. they hurted me so hard and i’m still felling those tears and pain. I will probably never forget about that.
They don’t 😢
“If she wasn’t born life would have been easier”
My grandma to my mom thinking I was asleep
You deserve to be here 🤗 and stay strong and never give up
Oh my god, that’s horrible, I am so sorry, sweetheart.
💛💛💛
I mean that happens with almost everyone cause its hard to take care of a child you know, be strong 💪
you should confront them but alot of things happen even happend to me alot people love you more than your mom and grandma
"it taught me how making a home in myself is good" 💛 I only wish you could've learned that in a house full of love.
Sometimes, the most painful things are the words you DON'T say...
Sometimes, silence is the most painful thing,
It's leaving forever without saying a single word...
“ look in the mirror , maybe you would see why you have no friends “ - my mother and I’m still in high school so that really hurt me
Hi you, I am now your friend. You are beautiful inside and out 🥰
Aww damm😞 I would love to be Ur friend 😞
@@asher2105
That sentence hurts but its a really common sentence between siblings...
You are perfect the way you are. Make your own friends and be happy.
(Sorry for my mistakes)
"Get a better mirror.
Look a little closer.
Stare alittle longer."
"Because something made you despise everyone who told you to quit."
-Shane Koyczan
Stay strong.
Ayo fuck that bitch