people react to being called beautiful
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- Опубликовано: 26 май 2015
- I created this project for an art class at my high school in Chicago. I wanted to capture the beauty I saw in my peers, but it turned into an experiment about our perception of self halfway through when I realized my classmates were having a variety of reactions; reactions that made me smile and made me sad. I hope you enjoy. And I hope you can see the beauty in yourself as well as others.
music; song on the beach by arcade fire.
camera; rebel t5i 
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Hey guys! Thanks so much for the honest comments. Love all the positivity being shared. If you liked this video, check out my most recent social anthropology project! Feel free to share if you enjoyed it and let me know ya thoughts. link: ruclips.net/video/b3nxT11Bxuk/видео.html
You are beautiful too :D
You are such a beautiful person for making people smile with the hearts.
@@aileenramirez2283 you are beautiful
How do you feel about the memes
IM AT CHIARTS RN TOURING SHDNNSNS
1:44 this is what happens when you make someone so insecure they can't distinguish between a compliment and an abusive joke.
I hate to think things like this and worse actually happen. That's why it's important to be kind to *everyone.*
@@NighttimeDaydreams Indeed. It's heart wrenching that she couldn't believe she was called beautiful.
Yes because of some stupid useless humans.
Plus it's school.
Something like this would be sarcastic if it were done in my school
@@jeremiah2717 Schools have done us more harm than good to be honest.
also, guys, the girl who got upset was totally joking, her name is zoe and she is wonderful.
SHEA ok I was so scared she was actually serious :)
hi shea The young woman named ryan is really beautiful, i am her fan
SHEA oh!! she had me worried for a sec that she didn't think she was beautiful :(
SHEA sure
SHEA the girl at 3:15 looked so sad and was in such disbelief about her true beauty. But that's not your fault I just wanted to say you are amazing and beautiful.
Sad that being told that you're beautiful makes most people uncomfortable. Love the people who owned their beauty.
You're beautiful.
There’s an instant in everyone’s reaction where their inner beauty sparks through before the emotional wall goes back up again. Some quicker than others.
It’s breathtaking!
See, this is how you do a REAL social experiment.
IKR
exactly
@ Sam Pepper
instead of figuring out what girls on the street make out with strangers
And everybody KNEW it was about Sam Pepper
"this is so awkward"
"it's not"
"ok"
what a beautiful social interaction
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I think the author is really beautiful, both inside and out
I’m 57. It’s so nice to see social media being used for something as simple as telling someone you see them. It’s beautiful.
It's hard to accept compliments when you don't believe them...
+Evi Stilinski Yeah i honestly just feel awkward when someone says something nice to me, i never believe them
+Evi Stilinski Well I bet it would be true for you :) Don't doubt how beautiful and important you are
Teen wolf fandom
Truue
Even as a confident person, I still find it hard to take compliments. I believe that I'm an okay looking person, but it's hard to believe others do.
A lot of people have been saying that the girl at 1:41 is rude, and while how she reacted was rude, I feel bad for her because she reacted in a way where she felt like it was a joke on her. She believes that someone calling her beautiful is a joke, because maybe in the past no one’s ever thought she was beautiful and she has bad self esteem. There’s always a reason for these things.
Kenzie Bye ikr
I totally agree with u!!!
Kenzie Bye so what ? So many people have low self esteem or shitty lives or problems.That's not an excuse for being a jerk and acting like an a*hole ! I can see she has an issue with accepting herself or trusting others, but as long as you see after the first misunderstanding that the filmer is not joking or bullying you, why can't you calm down and behave properly?
m agree
Serena Rossi I just think everybody deals with those things in different ways
I find this video heart breaking that you're able to clearly see that people don't see the beauty in themselves and are shocked that someone else can actually see them that way. Kindness cost us nothing and yet we find it difficult to give it away.
the self-hatred and doubt you see in some of these people after they're told they're beautiful is not only relatable but also incredibly sad
from my experience, i would immediately think of this as a typical high schooler joke, and I wouldnt be too happy about it.
The girl who threatened harm is broken, that's a defence mechanism to being bullied. I'm certain she went home to cry. Sigh
fr
can yall show me a timestamp or something i prob havent gotten to that part in the video but it would be nice
@@Deppey1:40 I think
@@yuujii9059 thx
@@Deppey why not just watch the video? its not even 5 minutes long man
0:56 boy : this is awkward
girl: it's not
boy: ok
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Aw mood XD
HAHAHAH
Awkward
@FreakBS it’s awkward
Those smiles are beautiful. I worry about the ones who didn't smile.
The girl at 3:15 had such an interesting reaction. A half smile to a frown then a deep breath where her shoulders go down. I wonder what she was thinking. Hard to gauge that reaction.
Yes, she looks down and to the side, as to escape from the moment, my guess is she`s a person who has her emotions very tightly wrapped, or another way to say it, she has very high and strong walls to keep most out. You can see it starts to breach her wall and then she regains control.....her eyes look like they cry a lot, when she`s alone.
Everyone talks about that rude girl but I think that 3:15 this girl looked in more pain than anyone else, hope she's doing okay right now
Yeah I saw that too
yeah same! I thought about how I'd react and it would probably be kinda like that. A little smile just like she did because I know the person maybe actually thinks what they said but when you yourself can't see it then... what to say... I'd trade every compliment I ever got from anybody if I could feel better about my looks myself...
Sharp observance!
That’s because she knew it was just a baseless compliment for views. Why else was she being recorded and randomly being told she was beautiful.
cos its all fake, girl at 2:05 also realised
90% of the people- smiles and gets flattered
9%- doesn't react
1%- SHUT UP
That one girl in 1% was horrible and rude
@@Vaxedia i understand her point, it's like people that film themself giving money to poor people to post it on social media, you cannot know if it's real or just to be seen as the good person.
@@inihilisme1511 the difference between giving money and calling people beautiful is that beauty isn't real and you can't use an compliment for anything anyways. With money you can buy stuff. Beauty is a bit like schrodinger's cat, you can't know wether or not it's true or not but it doesn't matter. You must assume both options are correct. And that's the truth, things are simultaneously beautiful and not beautiful, because beauty isn't an real tangible thing you can assume whichever option you like most and it will be as good as the truth. The truth in schrodinger's cat doesn't exist, both options are equally true. Beauty is the same. Wether or not it's real does not matter, because both realities are true
@@ape9368 I think most of them took it as a bad joke and just smiled awkwardly not to offend her if she was actually saying the truth. What she did wasn't sincere, and I'm sure that a lot of us know that.
I see all these comments saying "the one reading this is beautiful", but they don't even know how the one reading looks. Yes, beauty is subjective, but these people, or at least some, knew she was doing it because of the views.
@@DavideCosmaro im not saying that beauty is subjective, I'm saying that beauty doesn't exist. If we really think about it you can't be sincere about something that isn't real in the first place.
These kids are so vulnerable. And we were all these kids one day. Be kind.
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You can tell a lot of them don't feel that way and don't believe it. Being a teen is hard. I remember that feeling.
"this is so awkward"
"no"
"ok"
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lmaooo
LMAOOOOOOOOOOO
This is wonderful! Legitimately brought tears to my eyes, very well done!
+Markiplier Oh hey, Mark.
+Markiplier hi ily <3 thanks for sharing.
+Markiplier Thanks for linking me to this wonderful piece and thank you Shea for creating it!
Brought me to tears
+Markiplier Thank you for sharing this video, Mark. It really helped me tonight.
+Iron Solari +Markiplier i agree this is a good video and people need to see it
Feel so bad for the one girl. She clearly had never been told that, and when she was, she found it offensive, as if she thought the girl was playing a trick on her. so sad
It’s so sad to see how some people reacted, and I totally understand; sometimes, no matter how well meaning you are some people have just been torn down enough times that they trust those opinions over something positive..
1:41 poor woman must've been hurt too much to not know the difference between sarcastic and genuine compliments anymore.
@@Vaghyashree_writes That is sad. I feel bad for her. The girl after her too. She was noticeably uncomfortable with the compliment
That's how some people react when they think that they are not beautiful but reality is that they are beautiful but they started to believe the lie that enters in their mind from somewhere and can't believe the truth.
That's how some people react when they think that they are not beautiful but reality is that they are beautiful but they started to believe the lie that enters in their mind from somewhere and can't believe the truth.
That's how some people react when they think that they are not beautiful but reality is that they are beautiful but they started to believe the lie that enters in their mind from somewhere and can't believe the truth.
That is textbook schizophrenia. Schizophrenia is a disease of the literal mind. They are unable to view things as an abstract/ bigger picture. Hope the poor thing got the right meds.
The girl at 1:44 is relatable. At my school people get dared to compliment others and it hurts. Fake compliments aren’t funny and they actually hurt. She probably thought it was a cruel joke or smth.
agree..
Thats no fake compliment how can you think that someone is not beautiful.
But it's a social experiment, so was it real compliments after all ?
I'm sorry about your school situation , compliments should be honest.
@@ayesharehman2945 oh its ok. it doesn't happen to me often its just a cruel thing that kids like to do. they don't realise the amount of hurt that can put people through. I've seen so many people hurt by these words.
When someone gives you a compliment, just say, 'Thank you.'
Amazing how kindness changes people. Cruelty is easy. Kindness is hard and compassion can change the world.
Cruelty isn't easy. Look at 1:38, that angry black girl works really hard at being cruel. Eight years later I wonder what penitentiary she's in or how many baby daddies she has?....... Actually cruel is easy you're right as writing this was a piece of p!ss
some of them look so sad. it’s like they really don’t believe they’re beautiful. heartbreaking.
Because there is some people that told you that you are ugly even if you are beautiful and so you catch a mental shock😔
I’m ugly and I’m not looking for someone to boost my self esteem, I just know that some people are plain ugly including me
*Ignorant person alert I repeat *Ignorant person alert. You and so many others a so gullible it's not even funny and basically 90% of this comment is cringey comments like, LOVE YOURSELF!!!
@@BrainDead_ ......but people actually act and feel like that irl-
Honestly, if someone came up to me and said that, i would break down on the spot
thank you everyone
+shea glover This is such an amazing and thoughtful project, how did you approach them?
I like your last name!!
+shea glover You are beautiful, Shea
What's the song?
+Maria Simões arcade fire- song on the beach
Being kind is so under appreciated, and it does not cost you a thing...
So many lost and lonely kids, starved for affection... you can see it in their faces, hear it in their words. Our families are a wreck and our schools make everything much, much worse.
The rude girl probably was hurt so bad for not believing the compliments. So wherever you are you are so beautiful and smile
Yes, she thinks that the women make joke of her on camera by saying that she is beautiful......
But she is really beautiful 😚, i like her.
But maybe she don't think that she is beautiful...
And dori she isn't rude, if you will place yourself in her place you will understand that, she did that in order to prevent any trolling
Because if she would have given a smile and later if it turned out to be planned trap to troll her,, that would have been the worst thing
I find a little odd that you are trying to make her feel better but you just called her the "rude girl"
She might have a past, but that’s not a valid reason to shout at someone calling them beautiful
@@rena3392 Girls used to mock me by telling me I was cute and that they wanted to date me, and would laugh at me. It's a cruel joke kids make, and if I was her I would have done the same.
The sadness in some of the kids eyes is so heartbreaking. People this young should not feel this way when someone calls them beautiful.
Very astute comment - I quite agree.
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All of these kids are truly beautiful. It's so sad that they don't know. I remember the first time I was told I was beautiful: I was half leaning in a hospital bed as I just got better from a life-threatening disease. I thought that moment changed my life.
People have to learn to love themselves more! They are awesome and beautiful and amazing!!
Someone had to have hurt that one girl for her to respond like that "I'll cut you in the face" My heart hurts for her, I hope she finds peace one day
It breaks my heart to see the reactions of so many people who obviously don't believe they're beautiful.
same...
yea
1:40 and 2:51 were heartbreaking...
+ralph calante woah dude, don't say that, there's never a need to say something like that
heartbreaking indeed. its because most of their life they were told and judged by people around them that they aren't. There's a study that these kind of behavior becomes genetic and can be passed down until the 6th generation. Hope everyone who watched this vid to make sure they do or say something to brighten up people's day everyday! I hope there will be a law preventing negativity and hating. Besides, even haters get affected when they hear negative things. jus saying :-)
I just realized how beautiful people are when they smile
Just realized this video is 5 years old and your comments is 58 mins old
What took you so long smh
@@ilovemonkeys7644 I don't really know. I guess I just never thought about it
@@ilovemonkeys7644 ?
I agree, can’t say the same for me tho I can’t smile at all 🤦♀️ smh
People do look beautiful when they smile.
Some people in the video didn’t believe they are beautiful and looked you could see that in their faces that is so sad.
They all are broken at some point.. there smile says it all
that girl who got so offended and defensive about the compliment is relatable. Im pretty insecure so i cant really tell if its an hurtful joke or compliment, theres really nothing we can do.
Why ur comment is 25 min old bruh
@@Chomtacuz everyone got this recommended
she said it as a joke btw
bro is not Napoleon 💀💀💀
Dans mon esprit tout divague
Je me perds dans tes yeux
Je me noie dans la vague
De ton regard amoureux
“I wore makeup and everything today” idk why but that made my heart melt it was so cuteeeee
2:23 Dont u haer the person in the backround singing Candalier by Sia
Yeah, so cute when i first heard the person say that.
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It's crushing when you realize that so many of these kids have never been on the receiving end of a compliment their entire lives.
This is amazing but sad as well. You can see that certain people have never been told they are beautiful and are just not used to it
@user-mx4dq4vx5c beauty isn't just about physical attractiveness.
@user-mx4dq4vx5c You're right. You shouldn't argue with yourself
@user-mx4dq4vx5c beauty is subjective
This is a dark high school lol
Hahaha!
@@yasminealsaid9252 so a college
@@Rougra787 no it’s a high school :) chiarts
I felt like the girl who said she would cut you has never been told she is beautiful. She was defensive and thought you were making fun of her. I don't think she has received a lot of love in her life. I hope this is only the beginning of the positivity to come her way and allow her to trust people.
Agreed. As a mom, I thought maybe there wasn't a lot of love and positivity in her home for her to react like that. It was disturbing and sad.
L Johnson Met many young ladies who just hated to hear anything from anyone then they just realize they are NOT ALONE
High school, man. It's a weird time in everyone's life.
I agree, but I’m just gonna put a different possibility into the mix, that maybe they have been called beautiful, but have some really bad experience with the ppl that complimented her looks, thus have terrible connotations with this type of compliment, even if their household is caring and loving of her.
A genuine smile make a person beautiful! I feel sorry for the angry girl who failed to appreciate a compliment.
Maybe she already knows and didn't need to be told
Defensive reaction. We are all the products of a bunch of brain chemicals and experiences.
Everyone looks beautiful when they have a genuine smile !
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It struck me that everyone who smiled when you called them beautiful, actually became beautiful in that moment. Lovely
So true
woow, its perfectly said
Nobody is born ugly, we're just born in a judgmental society
- Kim Namjoon,2019
that is so true. I really needed this because I’m very anxious about what people think about me and this just gives me a whole new perspective on it all..
『Just Jillian』 it’s a problem we all have to learn to fix
@@justjillian6804
Just don't think what others think of you
You know what's the best thing about you?
That you are YOU!
You're the most beautiful flower, more than anyone else in this world
I too HAD insecurities but now I've embraced myself and love myself for who I am😊
Everyone needs to realize it
This comment section is soon going to be filled with annoying army's screaming "ARMYSSS..."
@@Phot_
It's not annoying if you're an ARMY!
It really feels great to see your fellow ARMYs and greet them..
Hehe
I’ve done a bit of research on facial expressions and almost every one of these people showed an extremely genuine smile when they were told that. Then some thought about it for a sec and then were a bit uncomfortable lol but the initial raw reactions of happiness were real and were worth all the effort! 😊
Some don't believe it, others find it strange or embarrassing, some even don't care or respond aggressively. Others are excited as if they had never been told this in their lives. The wide range of reactions there is is incredible. I believe that each one reflects the life of the person individually and socially.
The girl that reacted all aggressive i hope she heals. That response obviously came from deep insecurities :(
Insecurities are overcome by building confidence through action, making yourself better and in process starting having respect for your self. Finding comfort in sweet lies is no better then using drugs or drinking to get temporary fake happines and joy. That girl just don't want to hear comforting lies.
@@JekaZMD shut up dude
She actually is beautiful
i feel so horrible for the people who didn't react to it, reacted negatively, or just clearly looked like they didn't believe it. i really hope they find the beauty within them, everyones beautiful and everyone deserves to feel beautiful.
they all look good in my opinion, if they wanna go extra, they can, through healthier life styles, like doing typical and facial exercises, skin care, fashion and style, etc. But i think what will beat everything else about them is their charm and inner beauty
Why do you feel bad? I would react that way. If a random chick who does not know me approaches me with a camera and says "you are beautiful", she can only base it on physical appearance, not on personality, so she is either lying to get a reaction or she is trying to mock me. So please go ahead and tell me how these guys reactions were wrong, ugly people own mirrors too, no need to rub bullshit in our face lol.
@thename2138 You know that "inner beauty" does not mean how nice your organs look? How would you or she know if they are beautiful people if they do not know each other closely, like what are you basing this on? Or are you saying all people have inner beauty? Because in that case you are just lying.
@@CharlieTheNerd91you’re simply overthinking it .. she just finds them visually beautiful
@@okayyy516 Well she very obviously does not, because that would beat the purpose of the video, she picked people who most people will not see as conventionally beautifull. The guzs were objectively far from beautifull, some of the girls were somewhat cute. If she picked people she thought were actually beautifull, she would not have gotten any decent reactions. So yeah, critical thinking is fun, try it sometime...
3:42 She is so beatifulll!!'But the fact that some of them looked tired and sad made me sad too
This made me cry because so many people don’t see themselves as beautiful. That one girl that was aggressive could not accept she was beautiful.
Yh, which was odd. I don’t know if something bad happened in her past that is still haunting her or making her act in this way.
She could just be very insecure about it, so she feels the need to be defensive and say shea is lying. Aggressively too.
its because she thought she was dared to compliment her
I’m not beautiful tho 0-0 I’m Ugly
1:41 I honestly know what that girl is going through she's probably been called ugly so much that when someone calls her beautiful it's taken as a sick joke.
sad but true.
@@humaidshahid2467 Exactly! I've been called ugly in school most of my life. I had boys that would fake flirt with me then turn around and laugh about it. I had so many trust issues with people calling me beautiful. So, I generally and wholeheartedly know what she's going through.
@@kathleenlogan7586 Dont worrie about what people say , you are beautiful and you dont need anyone to confirm that for you. ❤
That whole scene was a joke just letting you know. Shea confirmed it in the comments below.
@@kathleenlogan7586 I dont dated with boys too much but people calling me ugly cuz of my weigth,but now Im on diet and Im losing weigth0w0
This is the human version of telling a dog they're a good boy/girl
Fact : When u smile your face becomes more attractive.
2:26
*SOMEONE WAS SINGING CHANDELIER IN THE BACK WITH A POWERFUL VOICE!!!*
The second I heard it I started belting. 😂😂
Let me have the 300th like 🤣
Lol
You can see the pain in some of them just by looking at their eyes , those looks say that they are too broken to believe that someone thinks that
Sadly...
Then you have eyes to see what some cannot. Love each other. People NEED it.
Some of these reactions are just heartbreaking. Thank you for sharing this xx
Imagine if a person started crying without any reaction after calling beautiful..we can see how traumatic his life was
It makes me sad when I see the people that look down, sad, after they get called beautiful. As if they don’t believe it...
like at 3:17 she just, sighed, and looked down.
+B To The T To The S To The BTS
ARMMMYYYYY
Mia What we expected? People nowadays seeing "beautiful" just from appearance not the heart.
the person who got mad :( damn that shit broke my heart
***** hopefully, dude. :(
it makes me sad bc they've clearly been through a point where they refuse to believe that they're beautiful
+DumBoGumBoo o Madness can't ruin beauty. If I found someone very beautiful and saw them angry, that might make me like them less, but not any less beautiful.
+valeriexjohnson No she doesn't. She knew everyone's name. They likely introduced themselves before filming.
+Le Lo i know...i bet she's been treated badly by people in the past and thinks people are only out to get her. or ya know, maybe she was just in a bad mood cuz she fought with a parent or her boyfriend broke up with her last night and she was just in a negative/self defeating state of mind and thinking, "i don't need this shit right now..." it's so hard to tell what's going on in people's heads sometimes i guess. i can kind of understand what she meant when she said she could tell she was being goofy though cuz for one thing, she *was* just doing a social experiment and said, "you know you're a beautiful creature." which could sound sarcastic maybe.
Can sense the depression in these kids.
@@blerinaxhelaj8797
You are loved. We all are. Praise the Lord!
John 3:16-17
[16]For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.
[17]For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved.
SO who wants an 8 year update?? Encourage her to do an update and lets see how everyone is now and where they are! Yes they were all beautiful people!
I once said I was ugly infront of my science teacher and she looked at me with the most serious face and said "you are beautiful" and honestly it's the most amazing feeling for people to say that to you I can't even explain it
Woah...I can feel u...:)
Once a filipina girl on omegle said "u r so beautiful"
I replied "no i'm not"
But couldn't stop blushing😊
@@indiahamaramulkhai6778 u r a boy?
@@nivethaharshini9175 yaa y?
@@indiahamaramulkhai6778 just askin
I think that “rude” girl was just hurt
Same...its sd
She probably thought it was a sarcasm
Poofp why are you getting mad
It is sad that we live in a world where this seems to be something so special. You know... being nice to each other.
It's so amazing how they become beautiful in such a natural and spontaneous way, right after the second she tells them that. For me that's so powerful.
I think the girl at 1:41 just doesn’t get sincerely complimented so she reacted as if it were an insult, she was really defensive and immediately assumed she was being filmed for a joke because of it
Probably
Tricity me
Probably with the camera she thought it was a prank, or a joke. She probably had bad times, and can’t accept how beautiful she rlly is.
I mean she needs to defend herself by not being rude lol
@@AshaNimo1 I definitely agree. but I also do understand her point of view, and maybe she learned being rude was the best way for her to defend herself? Like at the end she added "clearly your being goofy" she immediately made up her mind that she was part of a joke...
I honestly feel quite bad for the girl who was rude to her. She probably had been hurt alot to be that defensive that she can't even believe her when she calls her beautiful, *she thinks it's a joke.*
The world is quite harsh and I really hope she finally did realize that she is indeed very beautiful. And for alot of you out there, just know that you are all beautiful and you did a great job making it out through this world when many have given up. I hope you don't and move forward. Stay strong. 😊
Your Beautiful
@@simpguyatleastimnotgay2881 no u
@just a weird nobody no u
@@juliamica no u, anne-marrie J
@Japan Study No u
this video is 8 years old, and i still come back to it when I'm having a bad day.
this video made my day, the comments ruined it
fr people using this for their racist agenda is wild. but i also found it kinda sad how so many of them had the look of oh your just laying in their eyes. I really wish that everyone could believe in themselves. Or the one girl that couldnt take it at all probably because of past trauma.
3:15 I’m not sure what it is about her but she looks so sad and the smile she gave was like a mask...
I know, I was just about to comment this, I kind of want to find her and give her a hug.
Success Education same
That girl that got mad was seriously sad and clearly having a hard time. I feel very sorry for her 😢
Yeah, you would have though she called her ugly. She's clearly insecure and probably depressed. Cutting people in the face isn't something that secure people usually resort to when they're annoyed, but invalidating lies you tell yourself is a step in the right direction.
She was the one true here!
That woman clearly had some childhood trauma keeping her from excepting a compliment. Its so sad that many people in the world don't feel deserving of love and take out their balled up anger on others. 😢
I had that thought too. I hate being called 'beautiful' because it reminds me of childhood sexual abuse. I wouldn't have reacted violently because I'm a wuss but I would have shot her a nasty look and walked away. I'm definitely NOT beautiful so I always see it as manipulation.
@@laurabilansky8155 And to be fair, it WAS manipulation. She just did it for her project, not because she genuinely formed the opinion that these people in particular are beautiful.
The boy that says „That‘s awkward“ and she answers „it‘s not“ and he simply says „ok“. I think about this a lot. Situations are only awkward if you give them the power to be awkward.
2:51 hit me like a truck, dude. I felt myself being in this guy's shoes, the disbelief that someone thought he was beautiful and the immediate denial. I'll never know for certain how he felt, but with the connection that his expression gave me, I feel his pain as if it were my own.
I hope this dude found his peace.
I was looking for a comment about this dude. I'm a straight male so I can't tell if he is handsome or not, but in my opinion he looks really great and I'd love to look like him. I've seen the disbelieve in his face expression too. That's sad.
@@theashenone9703you can. I'm straight and you don't always have to consider someone's penis to judge if they're beautiful 😂
@@friedrichmyers But sometimes is hard to tell, there are people that others call great looking when I think they're ugly and in the opposite way. Preferences I guess
The sad thing is, a lot of these people are gonna watch the video and think "Oh...it was just a social experiment, not a genuine appreciation for my beauty"
@@bernardsoul5186 it's not really like that, the experiment was to take a picture of people she finds beautiful, and she chose these people. the fact they were chosen implies she really finds them beautiful :)
1:43 damn, i feel so bad for the girl that got mad because, she thought she was being made fun of. She clearly has gone through alot and people made fun of her so she became very insecure.
Who hurt her?
Yes maybe or may not... we can never be certain
Finally someone said it
Nah ...shes just rude! I said to somone the other day .." good luck " and they said what do mean ...what's that suppose to mean!! Damn people be nice WTF
I love the fact that the girl who said she’d cut the woman recording if she kept calling her beautiful was kept in. The owner wasn’t ashamed of her for that, for she knew deep down that regardless of the girl’s seemingly impregnable walls she erected around herself, she is indeed truly beautiful.💜 No amount of shame will ever hide that fact.
If you're reading this: You're beautiful!
Thank you😢😢
I feel bad for the lady who didn't accept being called "beautiful."
It's safe to assume she isn't used to receiving kindness in such a genuine way; very likely she's been hurt by others to a point where she either doesn't think she's deserving of it or assume she's being tricked again or both. Unfortunately, a lot of people come from similar backgrounds.
Despite that, it's always worth the effort to believe beauty in others even if they don't accept it in the moment. We don't know how her story ends, but we can believe she'll carry those words throughout her life, "I think you're beautiful." And the truth is, she's right.
Not that deep
@@worstfateit's not that deep
@@worstfate??? It is.
@@worstfate Sorry your brain doesnt work man, I dunno what to you.
It was pretty damn obvious she wasn't accepting the compliment due to some shit in her life.
You mean the black lady?
1:40 I almost feel bad for her, she must have been told she was beautiful as a joke at some point in her life
She must have already gone through so much abuse in her life it's hard for her to accept she deserves good things.
I don't think it's actually that complicated. You could probably just boil this down to insecurity.
@@merrillgeorge1838 Not necessarily. That's mean, but that won't permanently damage a person.
The girl who said "I'll cut you" is so committed to her tough girl persona, but you can see that's she's going to take that home with her. I hope it sinks in.
All of them were unique. I especially loved the girl with the blue hair.
This shows how you can be beautiful in an individual way. Love it.
everybody is Beautiful in their own way. we all need to spread more love.
I feel bad for the ones who either didn't react or reacted negatively when she told them that they were beautiful. I can't imagine what they were told or had to go through to make them believe that they're not.
Maybe they just looked at themselves in the mirror, what do you think?
But it doesn't matter if you aren't smart (and God knows you ain't): you're wonderful.
maybe they are just shy introverted invididuals, nothing to do with abuse or traumatic expirience.
What ever it is you can find a horrible specimen at 1:45
Thank you Patric
Yall need to lay off the girl at 1:44. People don't end up like that by themselves: I'd bet a hundred dollars that she's getting defensive because she thinks that the camera lady is doing this for a cruel joke. That her friends dared her to do it, to make fun of the ugly girl who genuinely believed she was beautiful. That's the reponse of somebody who's been bullied and isn't taking chances anymore. Believe me, I know. Leave my girl alone.
That is kinda a bully mentality.
@@netodoss.4543 girl i-?? if i was the bully, would i be able to relate to what she's been through? i've been bullied. _that's_ why i get her. not the other way around. i think you've missed my point.
@Neto dos S. some people get defensive beacause they've been through alot. they arent being "bullys" they're trying to protect themselves from getting hurt even if to other people it seems mean.
your speaking facts ^
@@hotgalchrissi ^^ you're the one speaking facts girl! 🙏
there was once a friend complimented me for my beautiful eyes.i looked at her dearly, giggled and say thank you.then i continued asking her "do u think u like my eyes?" "whats about them u really loved?"
she continued to looked at me with her deep gaze. i acknowledge her compliment and she acknowledges my feature...i love...being ..an acknowledging human ...
They all really needed to hear that, some more than others.
To the overly aggressive girl, she really is beautiful, and I hope as an adult now, she sees her own beauty and self worth.
That poor girl definitely went through something to make her that way.
because for some of us who never hear it when we finally do it actually feels like a trick or manipulation tactic. It literally goes against the reality you have lived. it's a short circuit in the brain feeling. That's why aggression or mistrust is easy to show. I am the same way. When you go your whole life never getting validated on anything in like decades, and one person says something im like what the fuck to you want from me, what are you selling here. lmao i got to try and not do that but the thought goes through my head. Because i think well either you are fucked up to be so different than literally everyone else i have ever run past. OR You are trying to warm me up for something and there is a catch coming. Or lastly it's not actually toward the person themselves but a quick outburst of why did my life have to grow up in a situation so different to what i am experiencing right this moment, i feel cheated and thanks for reminding me of that douche lol. A few reasons why a negative reaction spring up over a compliment.
Likewise the opposite is true and we call that being spoiled or entitled. Some people that all they ever experience is constant validation or special treatment or whatever just for existing and that becomes their reality and their expectations. When they cross people that don't fit that mold they become angry because how dare this person say no to me everyone else jumps at my feet. Think of it that way. There is too much validation and attention which makes people spoiled then there is not enough attention which makes people feel worthless and like they are being used for something when it does happen because you think why is it happening right now but never before. Most people lie somewhere in the middle of not being treated special all the time but still experience goodness towards them enough to feel like it is meant towards them.
Well said sir/ma'am
@@guitarman0365 after being manipulated by people you are supposed to confide in, putting up a shield and not letting yourself become vulnerable is an easy habit to slip in to.
@@guitarman0365 I just wanna say, dear person, that you are beautiful
1:41 She's not really being mean it's because she thinks it's a cruel joke meaning she has probably been told that she's beautiful as a joke before. It's a protective instinct.
it happens to me all the time ://
Salad Sina same here
Yeah and it was really sad.
Her reaction really shocked me and I feel for her because I think she finds herself ugly. Seems that she's even hating herself or her look. Poor one, I pray for you.
Blah blah blah
It hurts that you can see some of them felt it was a joke, like they can’t be beautiful…tell them
Isn't it so interesting how people become more beautiful, the moment you tell them they are?
It's incredible how much beauty came out from people when they're smiling
FR-
@@DookieFartz What does FR mean?
@@siriokds for real
I look like the obsessed exgirlfriend meme lmao
True. Shows you don't have to look/be a certain way to look beautiful you just need a reason to smile even if it is only for a split-second.
"The women: aww thanks.
The men: wait... what?
They didn’t hear lmfao. Also most the men did say thank you 😂
Women compliment women a lot. They don't compliment men for fear they'll misconstrue it as romantic attraction, and men don't compliment men for the same reason.
Men never get compliments, so we don't know how to react when we do.
My heart just has broken a few times watching this pour things who are obviously wounded inside so they can't believe that someone can find them beautiful.... That's so sad... Wish them only bright people in their lives to find them beautiful every day!!!
Each person's reactions show how undervalued they were... Where was the love that these incredible people deserved? Where were the people that these wonderful beings deserved?... The greatest sadness in watching this video is knowing that everyone probably didn't believe what they were told. Yes, I'm coming here to comment it 8 years later to say: all these people are beautiful in their own ways, all these people deserve to be beautiful in their own ways, it's not about each person's physique and appearance, it's about each one of them and what they are.