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@@ogaihtadany6686 I didnt say that they should think themselves beautiful because someone else tells them that. They are beautiful because they are full of life and emotions and personality and character. They are beautiful because they are alive. Each life is precious and should not be taken for granted.
A lot of people have been saying that the girl at 1:41 is rude, and while how she reacted was rude, I feel bad for her because she reacted in a way where she felt like it was a joke on her. She believes that someone calling her beautiful is a joke, because maybe in the past no one’s ever thought she was beautiful and she has bad self esteem. There’s always a reason for these things.
Kenzie Bye so what ? So many people have low self esteem or shitty lives or problems.That's not an excuse for being a jerk and acting like an a*hole ! I can see she has an issue with accepting herself or trusting others, but as long as you see after the first misunderstanding that the filmer is not joking or bullying you, why can't you calm down and behave properly?
SHEA the girl at 3:15 looked so sad and was in such disbelief about her true beauty. But that's not your fault I just wanted to say you are amazing and beautiful.
yeah same! I thought about how I'd react and it would probably be kinda like that. A little smile just like she did because I know the person maybe actually thinks what they said but when you yourself can't see it then... what to say... I'd trade every compliment I ever got from anybody if I could feel better about my looks myself...
*Ignorant person alert I repeat *Ignorant person alert. You and so many others a so gullible it's not even funny and basically 90% of this comment is cringey comments like, LOVE YOURSELF!!!
Yes, she thinks that the women make joke of her on camera by saying that she is beautiful...... But she is really beautiful 😚, i like her. But maybe she don't think that she is beautiful...
And dori she isn't rude, if you will place yourself in her place you will understand that, she did that in order to prevent any trolling Because if she would have given a smile and later if it turned out to be planned trap to troll her,, that would have been the worst thing
@@rena3392 Girls used to mock me by telling me I was cute and that they wanted to date me, and would laugh at me. It's a cruel joke kids make, and if I was her I would have done the same.
That's how some people react when they think that they are not beautiful but reality is that they are beautiful but they started to believe the lie that enters in their mind from somewhere and can't believe the truth.
That's how some people react when they think that they are not beautiful but reality is that they are beautiful but they started to believe the lie that enters in their mind from somewhere and can't believe the truth.
That's how some people react when they think that they are not beautiful but reality is that they are beautiful but they started to believe the lie that enters in their mind from somewhere and can't believe the truth.
That is textbook schizophrenia. Schizophrenia is a disease of the literal mind. They are unable to view things as an abstract/ bigger picture. Hope the poor thing got the right meds.
This video is actually very painful to watch, because you certainly have to notice those, that feel ugly, because someone told them, or because they have compared themselves to somebody else, because of social networks and so on. And yet, every single one of them, is perfect and beautiful.
The girl at 1:44 is relatable. At my school people get dared to compliment others and it hurts. Fake compliments aren’t funny and they actually hurt. She probably thought it was a cruel joke or smth.
@@ayesharehman2945 oh its ok. it doesn't happen to me often its just a cruel thing that kids like to do. they don't realise the amount of hurt that can put people through. I've seen so many people hurt by these words.
There’s an instant in everyone’s reaction where their inner beauty sparks through before the emotional wall goes back up again. Some quicker than others.
heartbreaking indeed. its because most of their life they were told and judged by people around them that they aren't. There's a study that these kind of behavior becomes genetic and can be passed down until the 6th generation. Hope everyone who watched this vid to make sure they do or say something to brighten up people's day everyday! I hope there will be a law preventing negativity and hating. Besides, even haters get affected when they hear negative things. jus saying :-)
I find this video heart breaking that you're able to clearly see that people don't see the beauty in themselves and are shocked that someone else can actually see them that way. Kindness cost us nothing and yet we find it difficult to give it away.
I feel bad for the lady who didn't accept being called "beautiful." It's safe to assume she isn't used to receiving kindness in such a genuine way; very likely she's been hurt by others to a point where she either doesn't think she's deserving of it or assume she's being tricked again or both. Unfortunately, a lot of people come from similar backgrounds. Despite that, it's always worth the effort to believe beauty in others even if they don't accept it in the moment. We don't know how her story ends, but we can believe she'll carry those words throughout her life, "I think you're beautiful." And the truth is, she's right.
@@worstfate Sorry your brain doesnt work man, I dunno what to you. It was pretty damn obvious she wasn't accepting the compliment due to some shit in her life.
I wish all the people had believed her. It breaks my heart that some of those people looked like they thought she was making fun of them. The smiles also made cry tears of joy. This was something I found beautiful 😊
I felt like the girl who said she would cut you has never been told she is beautiful. She was defensive and thought you were making fun of her. I don't think she has received a lot of love in her life. I hope this is only the beginning of the positivity to come her way and allow her to trust people.
I agree, but I’m just gonna put a different possibility into the mix, that maybe they have been called beautiful, but have some really bad experience with the ppl that complimented her looks, thus have terrible connotations with this type of compliment, even if their household is caring and loving of her.
i feel so horrible for the people who didn't react to it, reacted negatively, or just clearly looked like they didn't believe it. i really hope they find the beauty within them, everyones beautiful and everyone deserves to feel beautiful.
they all look good in my opinion, if they wanna go extra, they can, through healthier life styles, like doing typical and facial exercises, skin care, fashion and style, etc. But i think what will beat everything else about them is their charm and inner beauty
Why do you feel bad? I would react that way. If a random chick who does not know me approaches me with a camera and says "you are beautiful", she can only base it on physical appearance, not on personality, so she is either lying to get a reaction or she is trying to mock me. So please go ahead and tell me how these guys reactions were wrong, ugly people own mirrors too, no need to rub bullshit in our face lol.
@thename2138 You know that "inner beauty" does not mean how nice your organs look? How would you or she know if they are beautiful people if they do not know each other closely, like what are you basing this on? Or are you saying all people have inner beauty? Because in that case you are just lying.
@@okayyy516 Well she very obviously does not, because that would beat the purpose of the video, she picked people who most people will not see as conventionally beautifull. The guzs were objectively far from beautifull, some of the girls were somewhat cute. If she picked people she thought were actually beautifull, she would not have gotten any decent reactions. So yeah, critical thinking is fun, try it sometime...
2:51 hit me like a truck, dude. I felt myself being in this guy's shoes, the disbelief that someone thought he was beautiful and the immediate denial. I'll never know for certain how he felt, but with the connection that his expression gave me, I feel his pain as if it were my own. I hope this dude found his peace.
I was looking for a comment about this dude. I'm a straight male so I can't tell if he is handsome or not, but in my opinion he looks really great and I'd love to look like him. I've seen the disbelieve in his face expression too. That's sad.
@@friedrichmyers But sometimes is hard to tell, there are people that others call great looking when I think they're ugly and in the opposite way. Preferences I guess
The sad thing is, a lot of these people are gonna watch the video and think "Oh...it was just a social experiment, not a genuine appreciation for my beauty"
@@bernardsoul5186 it's not really like that, the experiment was to take a picture of people she finds beautiful, and she chose these people. the fact they were chosen implies she really finds them beautiful :)
"Clearly you're being goofy." That lady is beautiful. I hope she can see it thru this lens. It is on the inside... in her heart. Her parting glance seems very empathetic. A caring soul is precious and rare. And beautiful.
Poor lass, she lashes out because she doesn't believe someone would genuinely call her beautiful and protects herself by acting aggressive because she thinks she's being made fun of.
Yall need to lay off the girl at 1:44. People don't end up like that by themselves: I'd bet a hundred dollars that she's getting defensive because she thinks that the camera lady is doing this for a cruel joke. That her friends dared her to do it, to make fun of the ugly girl who genuinely believed she was beautiful. That's the reponse of somebody who's been bullied and isn't taking chances anymore. Believe me, I know. Leave my girl alone.
@@netodoss.4543 girl i-?? if i was the bully, would i be able to relate to what she's been through? i've been bullied. _that's_ why i get her. not the other way around. i think you've missed my point.
@Neto dos S. some people get defensive beacause they've been through alot. they arent being "bullys" they're trying to protect themselves from getting hurt even if to other people it seems mean.
I once said I was ugly infront of my science teacher and she looked at me with the most serious face and said "you are beautiful" and honestly it's the most amazing feeling for people to say that to you I can't even explain it
I honestly feel quite bad for the girl who was rude to her. She probably had been hurt alot to be that defensive that she can't even believe her when she calls her beautiful, *she thinks it's a joke.* The world is quite harsh and I really hope she finally did realize that she is indeed very beautiful. And for alot of you out there, just know that you are all beautiful and you did a great job making it out through this world when many have given up. I hope you don't and move forward. Stay strong. 😊
1:42 lowkey hurt my heart. I study human behavior and you can tell when she stutters "Of what?" she hides her face, suppresses a smile, and goes right into "tough badass mode" to deflect it. Even as she threatens the photographer, you can see her face lacks true aggression/there's just that look in her eyes that shows a suppression of longing/positive emotion (which everyone before her expresses easily). "Clearly you're being goofy" to me is her way of expressing disbelief that this was a genuine compliment. In my opinion, this is someone who has likely never been genuinely called "beautiful" before, and if she has it's usually been from people who have just wanted one thing out of her. Even at the very end of the exchange you can see her kind of linger for more reinforcement that, no, this isn't a joke.
Maybe the compliment has been used to mock her before. I remember girls and boys in grade school randomly coming up to me to tell me this kind of stuff and then go back to their friend groups and laugh amongst themselves. That hurts when you’re a kid and I can see why she’s so defensive.
that girl who got so offended and defensive about the compliment is relatable. Im pretty insecure so i cant really tell if its an hurtful joke or compliment, theres really nothing we can do.
The girl at 3:15 had such an interesting reaction. A half smile to a frown then a deep breath where her shoulders go down. I wonder what she was thinking. Hard to gauge that reaction.
Yes, she looks down and to the side, as to escape from the moment, my guess is she`s a person who has her emotions very tightly wrapped, or another way to say it, she has very high and strong walls to keep most out. You can see it starts to breach her wall and then she regains control.....her eyes look like they cry a lot, when she`s alone.
I feel bad for the ones who either didn't react or reacted negatively when she told them that they were beautiful. I can't imagine what they were told or had to go through to make them believe that they're not.
Maybe they just looked at themselves in the mirror, what do you think? But it doesn't matter if you aren't smart (and God knows you ain't): you're wonderful.
1:43 damn, i feel so bad for the girl that got mad because, she thought she was being made fun of. She clearly has gone through alot and people made fun of her so she became very insecure.
Nah ...shes just rude! I said to somone the other day .." good luck " and they said what do mean ...what's that suppose to mean!! Damn people be nice WTF
This video is so sweet. But it's sad to see how many people didn't react or got mad, it's like they've been through a lot, and felt like the compliments weren't genuine, or thought the cameraman was making fun of them.
To the overly aggressive girl, she really is beautiful, and I hope as an adult now, she sees her own beauty and self worth. That poor girl definitely went through something to make her that way.
because for some of us who never hear it when we finally do it actually feels like a trick or manipulation tactic. It literally goes against the reality you have lived. it's a short circuit in the brain feeling. That's why aggression or mistrust is easy to show. I am the same way. When you go your whole life never getting validated on anything in like decades, and one person says something im like what the fuck to you want from me, what are you selling here. lmao i got to try and not do that but the thought goes through my head. Because i think well either you are fucked up to be so different than literally everyone else i have ever run past. OR You are trying to warm me up for something and there is a catch coming. Or lastly it's not actually toward the person themselves but a quick outburst of why did my life have to grow up in a situation so different to what i am experiencing right this moment, i feel cheated and thanks for reminding me of that douche lol. A few reasons why a negative reaction spring up over a compliment. Likewise the opposite is true and we call that being spoiled or entitled. Some people that all they ever experience is constant validation or special treatment or whatever just for existing and that becomes their reality and their expectations. When they cross people that don't fit that mold they become angry because how dare this person say no to me everyone else jumps at my feet. Think of it that way. There is too much validation and attention which makes people spoiled then there is not enough attention which makes people feel worthless and like they are being used for something when it does happen because you think why is it happening right now but never before. Most people lie somewhere in the middle of not being treated special all the time but still experience goodness towards them enough to feel like it is meant towards them.
@@guitarman0365 after being manipulated by people you are supposed to confide in, putting up a shield and not letting yourself become vulnerable is an easy habit to slip in to.
It’s so sad to see how some people reacted, and I totally understand; sometimes, no matter how well meaning you are some people have just been torn down enough times that they trust those opinions over something positive..
Insecurities are overcome by building confidence through action, making yourself better and in process starting having respect for your self. Finding comfort in sweet lies is no better then using drugs or drinking to get temporary fake happines and joy. That girl just don't want to hear comforting lies.
Yeah, you would have though she called her ugly. She's clearly insecure and probably depressed. Cutting people in the face isn't something that secure people usually resort to when they're annoyed, but invalidating lies you tell yourself is a step in the right direction.
2:04 this one makes me sad because that made her feel good and she wants to smile, but it seems like she’s maybe self conscious. Like her mind snapped her out of that happy moment.
She probably just wasnt in the mood.. I think she is genuinely cute but beauty is not that important, but her smile really is. I Just hope she find our coments someday and have a big smile
Since we're all discovering this 8 years later... This is unironically the most beautiful thing I've possibly ever seen here. Literally brought me to tears. Watching people literally fall apart, dropping their facades, and becoming their most beautiful selves.
The girl that got defensive most likely Is hurting inside. Her calling her beautiful might of triggered something. I know when I get upset my first reaction is to get defensive. I used to be mad all the time but as I got older I finally started healing and now I don't tend to do that any more but on occasion certain things can trigger it for me. She is indeed beautiful. I wish people would teach there children from a young age that they are beautiful and worthy so when they grow up they have confidence in there self to do anything!
You hit the nail on the head. She probably had been brainwashed into thinking so low of herself, that she was defensive in receiving a complimental truth.
The "rude girl" was probably bullied/harassed at school when she was younger... But I know what happened next, they finally had a discussion, found out she was really nice (it was posted on Facebook years ago) (Sorry for my English)
1:41 I honestly know what that girl is going through she's probably been called ugly so much that when someone calls her beautiful it's taken as a sick joke.
@@humaidshahid2467 Exactly! I've been called ugly in school most of my life. I had boys that would fake flirt with me then turn around and laugh about it. I had so many trust issues with people calling me beautiful. So, I generally and wholeheartedly know what she's going through.
1:43 everyone is saying that there’s something wrong with her, or that she’s rude but personally, I think that she is reacting so poorly because she doesn’t believe it. She doesn’t think she’s beautiful so she doesn’t believe it when someone calls her that so she activates fight mode.
I can understand that, i hate false compliments and if i got this comment i would be dismissive of it; however, that doesn't mean her reaction is normal or even acceptable. She's super aggressive, hostile, and threatening - resorting to anger over something as banal as this is not a healthy sign.
@@IntrepidDreamer Bruh, you have been consistently dismissing other people within the comment section saying they understand her/ why she reacted so strongly. I don't think that's healthy either. Resorting to anger is a defensive mechanism, usually to cover up pain, and some people have experienced abuse more than others. Is abuse normal, acceptable, or healthy? No. How do you cope with years of trauma? You build walls so people can't hurt you. At least, it seems to be what she did and this situation was a trigger for her. Notice the "You done? You're just being goofy.." statements. Reminds me of the years I was bullied. It took years of active effort to heal from that trauma. For some people, it can take a lifetime to recover. Just because someone reacts to a situation differently than you doesn't mean their feelings are invalid. You haven't walked in their shoes.
@Sydney Spaghetti you're right. She doesn't believe it. She's not actually angry or actually threatening, but the disbelief about her beauty is embedded too deep within her. I used to be similar to her, but my defense mechanism wasn't exactly like her. I would feel shame and feel like the person saying I am beautiful is mocking me. So I'd also dismiss it and say the person is being goofy. She doesn't believe she's beautiful. Everyone should just show her compassion instead of judging her. They don't understand.
Wtf, that's really hard to deal with damn, that's not okay... Something similar happened to me in middle school people would ask me out as a "dare" multiple times. When my current boyfriend told me he found me attractive I couldn't believe it but it was hard since I felt the same back for once. People who do shitty stuff like that to others don't realize how negatively that can affect someone. I've realized that people who say stuff like that are really just broken inside and... maybe in a way I can relate to them. I just wish them the best in life and that things will get better for them and they can love themselves more. There's not much else to do after that except love and love yourself...
You know whats sad. Well my crush came to me and said he liked me and thinks that i look beatiful and i started blushing i told him i also kinda liked him and i was like so happy i had a crush on him for 5 years and then he started giggeling and his entire friend groop came and said that it was a dare and they all laughed at me and now every time i go to school they laugh at me :/
2:05 That face says she's going through it, her reaction says that she is going through something so terrible that a compliment this rare brings only a millisecond long smile. It's like life, the bad days sometimes outweigh the good ones, I truly feel for her and I hope she's okay and having a great day today.
"I'll cut you in the face" I felt so bad for the poor girl who said that. My first reaction was maybe she's gay and felt exposed but most likely, she's never been told that she's beautiful or was told the opposite by an abusive family. She felt mocked because she's been taught that she's worthless. She IS beautiful and I wish her love.
All of these kids are truly beautiful. It's so sad that they don't know. I remember the first time I was told I was beautiful: I was half leaning in a hospital bed as I just got better from a life-threatening disease. I thought that moment changed my life.
Before the girl who lashed out spoke, I thought she was the most gorgeous of them all. Her reaction was off-putting. Then I realized I'd have a similar reaction. If someone approached me like this on camera, telling me I was beautiful, I'd be very sad and insulted. I'd likely get feisty about it too. It wouldn't dawn on me for a second they may be actually sincere. She's absolutely stunning and can't even see it. My heart aches for her. Makes me wonder what we don't see.
I disagree That's all about being true. People telling things like that are friendly reminder of the path we should follow as the best parts of our human selves And I don't think she did it wrong : when she went home a the end of the day she might have felt angry on herself about her reaction. But I think she needed it a lot.
It makes me really sad how some people just couldn't accept the compliment. You can see how hurt they are by our beauty standards and feeling like they failed just because of that.
I think the girl at 1:41 just doesn’t get sincerely complimented so she reacted as if it were an insult, she was really defensive and immediately assumed she was being filmed for a joke because of it
@@AshaNimo1 I definitely agree. but I also do understand her point of view, and maybe she learned being rude was the best way for her to defend herself? Like at the end she added "clearly your being goofy" she immediately made up her mind that she was part of a joke...
Feel so bad for the one girl. She clearly had never been told that, and when she was, she found it offensive, as if she thought the girl was playing a trick on her. so sad
3:15 I feel bad for that girl. She’s probably the most beautiful person in this video. Yet you could tell she didn’t love herself or was going through something in her life. Hope she’s ok.
1:44 hurts me so much Some people are so insecure that it turns into anger and rage People who have been told so many times that they’re ugly will start to believe it wether they like it or not And that’s why she was acting like that I have a friend like that And what people like her need are just someone to help them everyday If they want time alone Give it to them They might say “I don’t need your sympathy” or “don’t pity me” Because the people that were nice like that in their life’s we’re probably just saying that because they felt bad But at some point they will come around and understand that you are being genuine And that you are not there to hurt them
@@lilshortyhm Same. I sent a really mean comment abt her at the start of the video(I already deleted it), but now, I just wish all the best for her. I hope she finds someone who can help her realize that she is beautiful. I really hope she realizes that some day.
@@Vaxedia i understand her point, it's like people that film themself giving money to poor people to post it on social media, you cannot know if it's real or just to be seen as the good person.
@@inihilisme1511 the difference between giving money and calling people beautiful is that beauty isn't real and you can't use an compliment for anything anyways. With money you can buy stuff. Beauty is a bit like schrodinger's cat, you can't know wether or not it's true or not but it doesn't matter. You must assume both options are correct. And that's the truth, things are simultaneously beautiful and not beautiful, because beauty isn't an real tangible thing you can assume whichever option you like most and it will be as good as the truth. The truth in schrodinger's cat doesn't exist, both options are equally true. Beauty is the same. Wether or not it's real does not matter, because both realities are true
@@ape9368 I think most of them took it as a bad joke and just smiled awkwardly not to offend her if she was actually saying the truth. What she did wasn't sincere, and I'm sure that a lot of us know that. I see all these comments saying "the one reading this is beautiful", but they don't even know how the one reading looks. Yes, beauty is subjective, but these people, or at least some, knew she was doing it because of the views.
@@DavideCosmaro im not saying that beauty is subjective, I'm saying that beauty doesn't exist. If we really think about it you can't be sincere about something that isn't real in the first place.
I’ve done a bit of research on facial expressions and almost every one of these people showed an extremely genuine smile when they were told that. Then some thought about it for a sec and then were a bit uncomfortable lol but the initial raw reactions of happiness were real and were worth all the effort! 😊
1:41 everyone is talking about how rude the girl was but I feel it was like a type of shield. Maybe she was a hard time receiving compliments. MAYBE she doesn’t think the girl meant what she said to her. I feel that maybe it’s hard for her to believe the compliments she receives and that’s why she may have this type of defensive attitude. I’m not saying she has a reason to, because she IS beautiful
Well it's an experiment. She must have sensed it. Sometimes you can really tell if a compliment is genuine or not. Sometimes it's best to give compliments to someone for what he/she's wearing or something good that she's done. That way people won't have to feel insecure about themselves, rather, they'll focus on the things they can do to make their life better and the people around them better. They could take pride in those things no matter what happens to their appearance.
@Ruoshui Liu I agree that it was rude and scary, but everyone has a reason for their actions and decisions, even if it isn’t a good one. I think that the reason here is insecurity, which can be a tough thing to get over. She definitely needs someone to help her with it, though
@@catsintheflat7805 Even if people sensed it was an experiment and didn’t like it, I would think that most of them wouldn’t say “I’ll cut you in the face.”
@@crazy_pyromaniac That's right. It's quite disturbing because we don't hear that often from people. It's basically a threat. Although she didn't mean it literally, it was just her way of saying "shut up, you're lying." Maybe she's used to hearing that from people in her life that's why she uses those words too. When I was in high school I had school mates and some friends who talked like her. Like saying threats in a joking way. It was funny back then
I would’ve cried right on the spot and laugh like a madlad. As a boy, I don’t rlly get that much compliments. I really appreciate kind hearted people like you.
The girl at, 1:42 she was broken. You could see it in the way she immediately shut the compliment out, like she couldn't believe people could be so genuinely kind for no reason. Someone hurt her before :(
To all the people, who are slamming the girl at 1:40 for being rude...yes she was being rude...but please try to understand her perspective...try to find out the reason behind her being so cold...it's most probably because no one tried to appreciate her like that, or maybe they just used her when they did...so it must be that she ended up feeling bad sbout herself, and that's why she created that whole negative vibe around her. To be honest, I had tears in my eyes when I watched her...thinking of how others, and their negativity made her think so bad of herself, that she slammed a person who called her beautiful...just look at her, she had a slight smile in the begining...but, it must just be that people never behaved well with her, and that's why she ended up being so rude... If she ever checked this video, the trolls are most likely to worsen her situation, so please, if you want her to say a warm "Thanks" like the others, let's make an effort together!
You know, I think it's that thing where people compliment you for a laugh in high school and you don't even know when someone's being genuine or not in the long run.
Some don't believe it, others find it strange or embarrassing, some even don't care or respond aggressively. Others are excited as if they had never been told this in their lives. The wide range of reactions there is is incredible. I believe that each one reflects the life of the person individually and socially.
Same here… 😢 It took my attention so much. Agressive reaction for words ,,you’re beautiful”, beause of taking it as a joke instantly - so heartbreaking, esp though the girl making this video was so nice and genuine saying it and later, explaining. The filmed girl had to had so much of anxiety, inside, trying to cover it up this way. So sad :( But a lot of people would react this way I think, having such low self confidence and such a bad picture of themselves that they would automatically think someone wants to make fun of them. I was there, when hearing someone laughing (on the street or wherever) the instant reaction im my head was that they laugh at me and the way I look. I wish to all people like this to find their beauty and peace in mind, so we don’t have to keep our true self behind the mask in fear of what people can say or think. ❤
@@VLVN92 While Im not onboard with the part that is trying to explain the girls behvaior out of your view, because I simply think we should not judge people without knowing their story or character, I truly admire the second part of your comment. Wise and kind words, really saw my past self in that. thanks for those thoughts.
If a man would‘ve act like that, he would get kicked and canceled! So: it was rude & inpoilte! You don‘t act like this! I was also bullied in school, but NEVER left my morality!
1:41 It's so sad that she thought she was being sarcastic. So she doesn't believe that she's beautiful herself, and she doesn't believe anybody would find her beautiful. Which is so incorrect because she is really beautiful. Insecurity is like out to get us.
It could be that she didn't like getting her pictures taken without her permission so she was offended. That could've been triggered by some of her past experience which was bad.
1:49 this is a perfect example of a person hiding insecurities. People may come off as rude, but I think it’s because they deal with even more things than some people and they want to play it cool and try to fit it. Be nice to people, even if they hurt you. You don’t necessarily have to be friends with them but just give them a smile, or hold the door for them, or even just a hug. Anything can make someone’s day, trust meh😏
The sad thing here is that some people do not believe to be beautiful. And they do not believe it to the point when she says it, they think she's lying..
@@jacksquat2067 confidence is very attractive. Work on yourself, be somebody worthy of attention on any domain you love and watch how people get drawn to you. Even the most handsome of people, lose their looks as they age. Looks are thus superficial, character isn't.
@@C_R_O_M________yes they are lmao. Some people love to dress goth. Others like to dress vintage. Some people like short people. Others prefer taller people. There are so many aesthetics because there are people who enjoy them. It is one of the most subjective things in the world
@@ineffable.amethyst preferences and aesthetics are two different things. Human aesthetics are based on mathematics, symmetry and evolutionary preferences. They are thus VERY objective. Show me a woman that finds Quasimodo more handsome than Brat Pitt and I'll show you an exception and some sort of psychological pathology. You are thus, wrong! The ancient Greeks depicted aesthetics through their sculptures. The very same aesthetics are still followed. That's because they are objective, universal and species-specific.
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You are such a beautiful person for making people smile with the hearts.
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1:44 this is what happens when you make someone so insecure they can't distinguish between a compliment and an abusive joke.
I hate to think things like this and worse actually happen. That's why it's important to be kind to *everyone.*
@@NighttimeDaydreams Indeed. It's heart wrenching that she couldn't believe she was called beautiful.
Yes because of some stupid useless humans.
Plus it's school.
Something like this would be sarcastic if it were done in my school
@@jeremiah2717 Schools have done us more harm than good to be honest.
It's hard to accept compliments when you don't believe them...
+Evi Stilinski Yeah i honestly just feel awkward when someone says something nice to me, i never believe them
+Evi Stilinski Well I bet it would be true for you :) Don't doubt how beautiful and important you are
Teen wolf fandom
Truue
Even as a confident person, I still find it hard to take compliments. I believe that I'm an okay looking person, but it's hard to believe others do.
I started crying. It breaks my heart that there are people out there who don’t believe they are beautiful.
Some people arent beuatiful in the eyes of others. The Beauty standard is a reality in our world...
@@ogaihtadany6686 I didnt say that they should think themselves beautiful because someone else tells them that. They are beautiful because they are full of life and emotions and personality and character. They are beautiful because they are alive. Each life is precious and should not be taken for granted.
See, this is how you do a REAL social experiment.
IKR
exactly
@ Sam Pepper
instead of figuring out what girls on the street make out with strangers
And everybody KNEW it was about Sam Pepper
This is wonderful! Legitimately brought tears to my eyes, very well done!
+Markiplier Oh hey, Mark.
+Markiplier hi ily <3 thanks for sharing.
+Markiplier Thanks for linking me to this wonderful piece and thank you Shea for creating it!
Brought me to tears
+Markiplier Thank you for sharing this video, Mark. It really helped me tonight.
+Iron Solari +Markiplier i agree this is a good video and people need to see it
A lot of people have been saying that the girl at 1:41 is rude, and while how she reacted was rude, I feel bad for her because she reacted in a way where she felt like it was a joke on her. She believes that someone calling her beautiful is a joke, because maybe in the past no one’s ever thought she was beautiful and she has bad self esteem. There’s always a reason for these things.
Kenzie Bye ikr
I totally agree with u!!!
Kenzie Bye so what ? So many people have low self esteem or shitty lives or problems.That's not an excuse for being a jerk and acting like an a*hole ! I can see she has an issue with accepting herself or trusting others, but as long as you see after the first misunderstanding that the filmer is not joking or bullying you, why can't you calm down and behave properly?
m agree
Serena Rossi I just think everybody deals with those things in different ways
Sad that being told that you're beautiful makes most people uncomfortable. Love the people who owned their beauty.
You're beautiful.
also, guys, the girl who got upset was totally joking, her name is zoe and she is wonderful.
SHEA ok I was so scared she was actually serious :)
hi shea The young woman named ryan is really beautiful, i am her fan
SHEA oh!! she had me worried for a sec that she didn't think she was beautiful :(
SHEA sure
SHEA the girl at 3:15 looked so sad and was in such disbelief about her true beauty. But that's not your fault I just wanted to say you are amazing and beautiful.
Everyone talks about that rude girl but I think that 3:15 this girl looked in more pain than anyone else, hope she's doing okay right now
Yeah I saw that too
yeah same! I thought about how I'd react and it would probably be kinda like that. A little smile just like she did because I know the person maybe actually thinks what they said but when you yourself can't see it then... what to say... I'd trade every compliment I ever got from anybody if I could feel better about my looks myself...
Sharp observance!
That’s because she knew it was just a baseless compliment for views. Why else was she being recorded and randomly being told she was beautiful.
cos its all fake, girl at 2:05 also realised
I just realized how beautiful people are when they smile
Just realized this video is 5 years old and your comments is 58 mins old
What took you so long smh
@@ilovemonkeys7644 I don't really know. I guess I just never thought about it
@@ilovemonkeys7644 ?
I agree, can’t say the same for me tho I can’t smile at all 🤦♀️ smh
I’m 57. It’s so nice to see social media being used for something as simple as telling someone you see them. It’s beautiful.
some of them look so sad. it’s like they really don’t believe they’re beautiful. heartbreaking.
Because there is some people that told you that you are ugly even if you are beautiful and so you catch a mental shock😔
I’m ugly and I’m not looking for someone to boost my self esteem, I just know that some people are plain ugly including me
*Ignorant person alert I repeat *Ignorant person alert. You and so many others a so gullible it's not even funny and basically 90% of this comment is cringey comments like, LOVE YOURSELF!!!
@@BrainDead_ ......but people actually act and feel like that irl-
Honestly, if someone came up to me and said that, i would break down on the spot
The rude girl probably was hurt so bad for not believing the compliments. So wherever you are you are so beautiful and smile
Yes, she thinks that the women make joke of her on camera by saying that she is beautiful......
But she is really beautiful 😚, i like her.
But maybe she don't think that she is beautiful...
And dori she isn't rude, if you will place yourself in her place you will understand that, she did that in order to prevent any trolling
Because if she would have given a smile and later if it turned out to be planned trap to troll her,, that would have been the worst thing
I find a little odd that you are trying to make her feel better but you just called her the "rude girl"
She might have a past, but that’s not a valid reason to shout at someone calling them beautiful
@@rena3392 Girls used to mock me by telling me I was cute and that they wanted to date me, and would laugh at me. It's a cruel joke kids make, and if I was her I would have done the same.
1:41 poor woman must've been hurt too much to not know the difference between sarcastic and genuine compliments anymore.
@@Hello_Vaghya That is sad. I feel bad for her. The girl after her too. She was noticeably uncomfortable with the compliment
That's how some people react when they think that they are not beautiful but reality is that they are beautiful but they started to believe the lie that enters in their mind from somewhere and can't believe the truth.
That's how some people react when they think that they are not beautiful but reality is that they are beautiful but they started to believe the lie that enters in their mind from somewhere and can't believe the truth.
That's how some people react when they think that they are not beautiful but reality is that they are beautiful but they started to believe the lie that enters in their mind from somewhere and can't believe the truth.
That is textbook schizophrenia. Schizophrenia is a disease of the literal mind. They are unable to view things as an abstract/ bigger picture. Hope the poor thing got the right meds.
This video is actually very painful to watch, because you certainly have to notice those, that feel ugly, because someone told them, or because they have compared themselves to somebody else, because of social networks and so on. And yet, every single one of them, is perfect and beautiful.
Fr
The sadness in some of the kids eyes is so heartbreaking. People this young should not feel this way when someone calls them beautiful.
Very astute comment - I quite agree.
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The girl at 1:44 is relatable. At my school people get dared to compliment others and it hurts. Fake compliments aren’t funny and they actually hurt. She probably thought it was a cruel joke or smth.
agree..
Thats no fake compliment how can you think that someone is not beautiful.
But it's a social experiment, so was it real compliments after all ?
I'm sorry about your school situation , compliments should be honest.
@@ayesharehman2945 oh its ok. it doesn't happen to me often its just a cruel thing that kids like to do. they don't realise the amount of hurt that can put people through. I've seen so many people hurt by these words.
0:56 boy : this is awkward
girl: it's not
boy: ok
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Aw mood XD
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Awkward
@FreakBS it’s awkward
There’s an instant in everyone’s reaction where their inner beauty sparks through before the emotional wall goes back up again. Some quicker than others.
It’s breathtaking!
This made me cry because so many people don’t see themselves as beautiful. That one girl that was aggressive could not accept she was beautiful.
Yh, which was odd. I don’t know if something bad happened in her past that is still haunting her or making her act in this way.
its because she thought she was dared to compliment her
I’m not beautiful tho 0-0 I’m Ugly
It breaks my heart to see the reactions of so many people who obviously don't believe they're beautiful.
same...
yea
1:40 and 2:51 were heartbreaking...
+ralph calante woah dude, don't say that, there's never a need to say something like that
heartbreaking indeed. its because most of their life they were told and judged by people around them that they aren't. There's a study that these kind of behavior becomes genetic and can be passed down until the 6th generation. Hope everyone who watched this vid to make sure they do or say something to brighten up people's day everyday! I hope there will be a law preventing negativity and hating. Besides, even haters get affected when they hear negative things. jus saying :-)
The girl who threatened harm is broken, that's a defence mechanism to being bullied. I'm certain she went home to cry. Sigh
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can yall show me a timestamp or something i prob havent gotten to that part in the video but it would be nice
@@Deppey1:40 I think
@@yuujii9059 thx
@@Deppey why not just watch the video? its not even 5 minutes long man
I find this video heart breaking that you're able to clearly see that people don't see the beauty in themselves and are shocked that someone else can actually see them that way. Kindness cost us nothing and yet we find it difficult to give it away.
It struck me that everyone who smiled when you called them beautiful, actually became beautiful in that moment. Lovely
So true
woow, its perfectly said
"this is so awkward"
"no"
"ok"
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lmaooo
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I feel bad for the lady who didn't accept being called "beautiful."
It's safe to assume she isn't used to receiving kindness in such a genuine way; very likely she's been hurt by others to a point where she either doesn't think she's deserving of it or assume she's being tricked again or both. Unfortunately, a lot of people come from similar backgrounds.
Despite that, it's always worth the effort to believe beauty in others even if they don't accept it in the moment. We don't know how her story ends, but we can believe she'll carry those words throughout her life, "I think you're beautiful." And the truth is, she's right.
Not that deep
@@worstfateit's not that deep
@@worstfate??? It is.
@@worstfate Sorry your brain doesnt work man, I dunno what to you.
It was pretty damn obvious she wasn't accepting the compliment due to some shit in her life.
You mean the black lady?
I wish all the people had believed her. It breaks my heart that some of those people looked like they thought she was making fun of them. The smiles also made cry tears of joy. This was something I found beautiful 😊
Yes Sooo True
I felt like the girl who said she would cut you has never been told she is beautiful. She was defensive and thought you were making fun of her. I don't think she has received a lot of love in her life. I hope this is only the beginning of the positivity to come her way and allow her to trust people.
Agreed. As a mom, I thought maybe there wasn't a lot of love and positivity in her home for her to react like that. It was disturbing and sad.
L Johnson Met many young ladies who just hated to hear anything from anyone then they just realize they are NOT ALONE
High school, man. It's a weird time in everyone's life.
I agree, but I’m just gonna put a different possibility into the mix, that maybe they have been called beautiful, but have some really bad experience with the ppl that complimented her looks, thus have terrible connotations with this type of compliment, even if their household is caring and loving of her.
i feel so horrible for the people who didn't react to it, reacted negatively, or just clearly looked like they didn't believe it. i really hope they find the beauty within them, everyones beautiful and everyone deserves to feel beautiful.
they all look good in my opinion, if they wanna go extra, they can, through healthier life styles, like doing typical and facial exercises, skin care, fashion and style, etc. But i think what will beat everything else about them is their charm and inner beauty
Why do you feel bad? I would react that way. If a random chick who does not know me approaches me with a camera and says "you are beautiful", she can only base it on physical appearance, not on personality, so she is either lying to get a reaction or she is trying to mock me. So please go ahead and tell me how these guys reactions were wrong, ugly people own mirrors too, no need to rub bullshit in our face lol.
@thename2138 You know that "inner beauty" does not mean how nice your organs look? How would you or she know if they are beautiful people if they do not know each other closely, like what are you basing this on? Or are you saying all people have inner beauty? Because in that case you are just lying.
@@CharlieTheAstronautyou’re simply overthinking it .. she just finds them visually beautiful
@@okayyy516 Well she very obviously does not, because that would beat the purpose of the video, she picked people who most people will not see as conventionally beautifull. The guzs were objectively far from beautifull, some of the girls were somewhat cute. If she picked people she thought were actually beautifull, she would not have gotten any decent reactions. So yeah, critical thinking is fun, try it sometime...
2:51 hit me like a truck, dude. I felt myself being in this guy's shoes, the disbelief that someone thought he was beautiful and the immediate denial. I'll never know for certain how he felt, but with the connection that his expression gave me, I feel his pain as if it were my own.
I hope this dude found his peace.
I was looking for a comment about this dude. I'm a straight male so I can't tell if he is handsome or not, but in my opinion he looks really great and I'd love to look like him. I've seen the disbelieve in his face expression too. That's sad.
@@theashenone9703you can. I'm straight and you don't always have to consider someone's penis to judge if they're beautiful 😂
@@friedrichmyers But sometimes is hard to tell, there are people that others call great looking when I think they're ugly and in the opposite way. Preferences I guess
The sad thing is, a lot of these people are gonna watch the video and think "Oh...it was just a social experiment, not a genuine appreciation for my beauty"
@@bernardsoul5186 it's not really like that, the experiment was to take a picture of people she finds beautiful, and she chose these people. the fact they were chosen implies she really finds them beautiful :)
"Clearly you're being goofy." That lady is beautiful. I hope she can see it thru this lens. It is on the inside... in her heart. Her parting glance seems very empathetic. A caring soul is precious and rare. And beautiful.
Poor lass, she lashes out because she doesn't believe someone would genuinely call her beautiful and protects herself by acting aggressive because she thinks she's being made fun of.
Yall need to lay off the girl at 1:44. People don't end up like that by themselves: I'd bet a hundred dollars that she's getting defensive because she thinks that the camera lady is doing this for a cruel joke. That her friends dared her to do it, to make fun of the ugly girl who genuinely believed she was beautiful. That's the reponse of somebody who's been bullied and isn't taking chances anymore. Believe me, I know. Leave my girl alone.
That is kinda a bully mentality.
@@netodoss.4543 girl i-?? if i was the bully, would i be able to relate to what she's been through? i've been bullied. _that's_ why i get her. not the other way around. i think you've missed my point.
@Neto dos S. some people get defensive beacause they've been through alot. they arent being "bullys" they're trying to protect themselves from getting hurt even if to other people it seems mean.
your speaking facts ^
@@hotgalchrissi ^^ you're the one speaking facts girl! 🙏
I once said I was ugly infront of my science teacher and she looked at me with the most serious face and said "you are beautiful" and honestly it's the most amazing feeling for people to say that to you I can't even explain it
Woah...I can feel u...:)
Once a filipina girl on omegle said "u r so beautiful"
I replied "no i'm not"
But couldn't stop blushing😊
@@indiahamaramulkhai6778 u r a boy?
@@nivethaharshini9175 yaa y?
@@indiahamaramulkhai6778 just askin
You can see the pain in some of them just by looking at their eyes , those looks say that they are too broken to believe that someone thinks that
Sadly...
Then you have eyes to see what some cannot. Love each other. People NEED it.
These kids are so vulnerable. And we were all these kids one day. Be kind.
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I honestly feel quite bad for the girl who was rude to her. She probably had been hurt alot to be that defensive that she can't even believe her when she calls her beautiful, *she thinks it's a joke.*
The world is quite harsh and I really hope she finally did realize that she is indeed very beautiful. And for alot of you out there, just know that you are all beautiful and you did a great job making it out through this world when many have given up. I hope you don't and move forward. Stay strong. 😊
Your Beautiful
@@simpguyatleastimnotgay2881 no u
@just a weird nobody no u
@@juliamica no u, anne-marrie J
@Japan Study No u
“I wore makeup and everything today” idk why but that made my heart melt it was so cuteeeee
2:23 Dont u haer the person in the backround singing Candalier by Sia
Yeah, so cute when i first heard the person say that.
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It makes me sad when I see the people that look down, sad, after they get called beautiful. As if they don’t believe it...
like at 3:17 she just, sighed, and looked down.
+B To The T To The S To The BTS
ARMMMYYYYY
Mia What we expected? People nowadays seeing "beautiful" just from appearance not the heart.
Those smiles are beautiful. I worry about the ones who didn't smile.
1:42 lowkey hurt my heart.
I study human behavior and you can tell when she stutters "Of what?" she hides her face, suppresses a smile, and goes right into "tough badass mode" to deflect it. Even as she threatens the photographer, you can see her face lacks true aggression/there's just that look in her eyes that shows a suppression of longing/positive emotion (which everyone before her expresses easily). "Clearly you're being goofy" to me is her way of expressing disbelief that this was a genuine compliment.
In my opinion, this is someone who has likely never been genuinely called "beautiful" before, and if she has it's usually been from people who have just wanted one thing out of her. Even at the very end of the exchange you can see her kind of linger for more reinforcement that, no, this isn't a joke.
hi there u can see her tears in the eyes
That's absolutely correct. The eyes are the mirror of your soul. You cannot hide anything from them.
Bla, bla, bla... make it into a drinkable (RIGHT NOW!)
Maybe the compliment has been used to mock her before. I remember girls and boys in grade school randomly coming up to me to tell me this kind of stuff and then go back to their friend groups and laugh amongst themselves. That hurts when you’re a kid and I can see why she’s so defensive.
I mean it's really unusual for some stranger to call you beautiful, so I really don't blame her if she assumed she was being mocked
It's incredible how much beauty came out from people when they're smiling
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@@DookieFartz What does FR mean?
@@siriokds for real
I look like the obsessed exgirlfriend meme lmao
True. Shows you don't have to look/be a certain way to look beautiful you just need a reason to smile even if it is only for a split-second.
that girl who got so offended and defensive about the compliment is relatable. Im pretty insecure so i cant really tell if its an hurtful joke or compliment, theres really nothing we can do.
Why ur comment is 25 min old bruh
@@Chomtacuz everyone got this recommended
she said it as a joke btw
bro is not Napoleon 💀💀💀
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The girl at 3:15 had such an interesting reaction. A half smile to a frown then a deep breath where her shoulders go down. I wonder what she was thinking. Hard to gauge that reaction.
Yes, she looks down and to the side, as to escape from the moment, my guess is she`s a person who has her emotions very tightly wrapped, or another way to say it, she has very high and strong walls to keep most out. You can see it starts to breach her wall and then she regains control.....her eyes look like they cry a lot, when she`s alone.
She must go to an art school. Everyone is so colorful and beautiful.
+Amaranthia Doster I thought the same as well, but yeah one of them was wearing a Chicago arts sweater at 3:32
Samantha Butler Yeah. noticed that too. I later read the description and found what school she goes to. It looks like a great school.
+Amaranthia Doster ikr
yes, there so much diversity and uniqueness! I wish my school was like that.
I feel bad for the ones who either didn't react or reacted negatively when she told them that they were beautiful. I can't imagine what they were told or had to go through to make them believe that they're not.
Maybe they just looked at themselves in the mirror, what do you think?
But it doesn't matter if you aren't smart (and God knows you ain't): you're wonderful.
maybe they are just shy introverted invididuals, nothing to do with abuse or traumatic expirience.
What ever it is you can find a horrible specimen at 1:45
Thank you Patric
1:43 damn, i feel so bad for the girl that got mad because, she thought she was being made fun of. She clearly has gone through alot and people made fun of her so she became very insecure.
Who hurt her?
Finally someone said it
Nah ...shes just rude! I said to somone the other day .." good luck " and they said what do mean ...what's that suppose to mean!! Damn people be nice WTF
This video is so sweet. But it's sad to see how many people didn't react or got mad, it's like they've been through a lot, and felt like the compliments weren't genuine, or thought the cameraman was making fun of them.
2:26
*SOMEONE WAS SINGING CHANDELIER IN THE BACK WITH A POWERFUL VOICE!!!*
The second I heard it I started belting. 😂😂
Let me have the 300th like 🤣
Lol
To the overly aggressive girl, she really is beautiful, and I hope as an adult now, she sees her own beauty and self worth.
That poor girl definitely went through something to make her that way.
because for some of us who never hear it when we finally do it actually feels like a trick or manipulation tactic. It literally goes against the reality you have lived. it's a short circuit in the brain feeling. That's why aggression or mistrust is easy to show. I am the same way. When you go your whole life never getting validated on anything in like decades, and one person says something im like what the fuck to you want from me, what are you selling here. lmao i got to try and not do that but the thought goes through my head. Because i think well either you are fucked up to be so different than literally everyone else i have ever run past. OR You are trying to warm me up for something and there is a catch coming. Or lastly it's not actually toward the person themselves but a quick outburst of why did my life have to grow up in a situation so different to what i am experiencing right this moment, i feel cheated and thanks for reminding me of that douche lol. A few reasons why a negative reaction spring up over a compliment.
Likewise the opposite is true and we call that being spoiled or entitled. Some people that all they ever experience is constant validation or special treatment or whatever just for existing and that becomes their reality and their expectations. When they cross people that don't fit that mold they become angry because how dare this person say no to me everyone else jumps at my feet. Think of it that way. There is too much validation and attention which makes people spoiled then there is not enough attention which makes people feel worthless and like they are being used for something when it does happen because you think why is it happening right now but never before. Most people lie somewhere in the middle of not being treated special all the time but still experience goodness towards them enough to feel like it is meant towards them.
Well said sir/ma'am
@@guitarman0365 after being manipulated by people you are supposed to confide in, putting up a shield and not letting yourself become vulnerable is an easy habit to slip in to.
@@guitarman0365 I just wanna say, dear person, that you are beautiful
thank you everyone
+shea glover This is such an amazing and thoughtful project, how did you approach them?
I like your last name!!
+shea glover You are beautiful, Shea
What's the song?
+Maria Simões arcade fire- song on the beach
It’s so sad to see how some people reacted, and I totally understand; sometimes, no matter how well meaning you are some people have just been torn down enough times that they trust those opinions over something positive..
The girl that reacted all aggressive i hope she heals. That response obviously came from deep insecurities :(
Insecurities are overcome by building confidence through action, making yourself better and in process starting having respect for your self. Finding comfort in sweet lies is no better then using drugs or drinking to get temporary fake happines and joy. That girl just don't want to hear comforting lies.
@@JekaZMD shut up dude
She actually is beautiful
That girl that got mad was seriously sad and clearly having a hard time. I feel very sorry for her 😢
Yeah, you would have though she called her ugly. She's clearly insecure and probably depressed. Cutting people in the face isn't something that secure people usually resort to when they're annoyed, but invalidating lies you tell yourself is a step in the right direction.
She was the one true here!
1:41 I feel so bad for her, she probably doesn’t have good experiences with people calling her beautiful or something
Amazing how kindness changes people. Cruelty is easy. Kindness is hard and compassion can change the world.
2:04 this one makes me sad because that made her feel good and she wants to smile, but it seems like she’s maybe self conscious. Like her mind snapped her out of that happy moment.
Yup..😥
She probably just wasnt in the mood.. I think she is genuinely cute but beauty is not that important, but her smile really is. I Just hope she find our coments someday and have a big smile
Since we're all discovering this 8 years later...
This is unironically the most beautiful thing I've possibly ever seen here. Literally brought me to tears. Watching people literally fall apart, dropping their facades, and becoming their most beautiful selves.
They are not literally falling apart.
@@zanussidish5685 No they are not - but its still very nice.
makes me literally nauseous
The girl that got defensive most likely Is hurting inside. Her calling her beautiful might of triggered something. I know when I get upset my first reaction is to get defensive. I used to be mad all the time but as I got older I finally started healing and now I don't tend to do that any more but on occasion certain things can trigger it for me. She is indeed beautiful. I wish people would teach there children from a young age that they are beautiful and worthy so when they grow up they have confidence in there self to do anything!
You hit the nail on the head. She probably had been brainwashed into thinking so low of herself, that she was defensive in receiving a complimental truth.
Yea...
The "rude girl" was probably bullied/harassed at school when she was younger... But I know what happened next, they finally had a discussion, found out she was really nice (it was posted on Facebook years ago)
(Sorry for my English)
And you were probably told about your English mistakes :)
Don't worry at all
This school has a lot of people with colorful hair....its beautiful
Art schools I'm guessing.
+Myles Lenaught one girl was wearing a "Chicago Art's" sweater.
I meant art schools are all probably generally like this.
I wish I was there! ❤
I wish i could go to that school
3:15 I’m not sure what it is about her but she looks so sad and the smile she gave was like a mask...
I know, I was just about to comment this, I kind of want to find her and give her a hug.
Success Education same
1:41 I honestly know what that girl is going through she's probably been called ugly so much that when someone calls her beautiful it's taken as a sick joke.
sad but true.
@@humaidshahid2467 Exactly! I've been called ugly in school most of my life. I had boys that would fake flirt with me then turn around and laugh about it. I had so many trust issues with people calling me beautiful. So, I generally and wholeheartedly know what she's going through.
@@kathleenlogan7586 Dont worrie about what people say , you are beautiful and you dont need anyone to confirm that for you. ❤
That whole scene was a joke just letting you know. Shea confirmed it in the comments below.
@@kathleenlogan7586 I dont dated with boys too much but people calling me ugly cuz of my weigth,but now Im on diet and Im losing weigth0w0
It's crushing when you realize that so many of these kids have never been on the receiving end of a compliment their entire lives.
1:43 everyone is saying that there’s something wrong with her, or that she’s rude but personally, I think that she is reacting so poorly because she doesn’t believe it. She doesn’t think she’s beautiful so she doesn’t believe it when someone calls her that so she activates fight mode.
I can understand that, i hate false compliments and if i got this comment i would be dismissive of it; however, that doesn't mean her reaction is normal or even acceptable. She's super aggressive, hostile, and threatening - resorting to anger over something as banal as this is not a healthy sign.
@@IntrepidDreamer Bruh, you have been consistently dismissing other people within the comment section saying they understand her/ why she reacted so strongly. I don't think that's healthy either.
Resorting to anger is a defensive mechanism, usually to cover up pain, and some people have experienced abuse more than others. Is abuse normal, acceptable, or healthy? No. How do you cope with years of trauma? You build walls so people can't hurt you. At least, it seems to be what she did and this situation was a trigger for her. Notice the "You done? You're just being goofy.." statements. Reminds me of the years I was bullied. It took years of active effort to heal from that trauma. For some people, it can take a lifetime to recover. Just because someone reacts to a situation differently than you doesn't mean their feelings are invalid. You haven't walked in their shoes.
@@IntrepidDreamer yes you’re right it’s not acceptable. I’m just saying maybe there’s an underlying issue that is causing her behavior
@Sydney Spaghetti you're right. She doesn't believe it. She's not actually angry or actually threatening, but the disbelief about her beauty is embedded too deep within her. I used to be similar to her, but my defense mechanism wasn't exactly like her. I would feel shame and feel like the person saying I am beautiful is mocking me. So I'd also dismiss it and say the person is being goofy. She doesn't believe she's beautiful. Everyone should just show her compassion instead of judging her. They don't understand.
@@Sino_Tee exactly. Hate and agression and violence towards others comes from one thing. Self hate.
1:40 honestly I relate. Everyone in high school would compliment me because of a ‘dare’ so it’s hard believing other people
Wtf, that's really hard to deal with damn, that's not okay... Something similar happened to me in middle school people would ask me out as a "dare" multiple times. When my current boyfriend told me he found me attractive I couldn't believe it but it was hard since I felt the same back for once. People who do shitty stuff like that to others don't realize how negatively that can affect someone. I've realized that people who say stuff like that are really just broken inside and... maybe in a way I can relate to them. I just wish them the best in life and that things will get better for them and they can love themselves more. There's not much else to do after that except love and love yourself...
You know whats sad. Well my crush came to me and said he liked me and thinks that i look beatiful and i started blushing i told him i also kinda liked him and i was like so happy i had a crush on him for 5 years and then he started giggeling and his entire friend groop came and said that it was a dare and they all laughed at me and now every time i go to school they laugh at me :/
@@elkaaliyeva8088 aww I’m sorry that happened, people can be really rude sometimes. I hope you’ll find someone that treats you right
@@yashy4673 thank you :3
@@elkaaliyeva8088 ofc👍
2:05
That face says she's going through it, her reaction says that she is going through something so terrible that a compliment this rare brings only a millisecond long smile. It's like life, the bad days sometimes outweigh the good ones, I truly feel for her and I hope she's okay and having a great day today.
9 11 was an inside job and you know it
it aint that deep bro
or perhaps she knows she is pretty or doesn't care about looks and have life goals instead
Ain't that deep she's just an ahhhole probably
Being kind is so under appreciated, and it does not cost you a thing...
Girl at 3:17 she was not ok. Someone hug her asap!
i could see that :(
Me: hugs her
Girl: (slapps) get off me
she probly just having a bad day and not in mood to be around camera
2:51 that guy is in depression
@@ryuk411 has*
1:40 I almost feel bad for her, she must have been told she was beautiful as a joke at some point in her life
She must have already gone through so much abuse in her life it's hard for her to accept she deserves good things.
I don't think it's actually that complicated. You could probably just boil this down to insecurity.
@@merrillgeorge1838 Not necessarily. That's mean, but that won't permanently damage a person.
"I'll cut you in the face" I felt so bad for the poor girl who said that. My first reaction was maybe she's gay and felt exposed but most likely, she's never been told that she's beautiful or was told the opposite by an abusive family. She felt mocked because she's been taught that she's worthless. She IS beautiful and I wish her love.
😔❤️..
Oh, actually, Shea (creator) wrote that she was Zoe and she was just joking 🥰🥰
All of these kids are truly beautiful. It's so sad that they don't know. I remember the first time I was told I was beautiful: I was half leaning in a hospital bed as I just got better from a life-threatening disease. I thought that moment changed my life.
People have to learn to love themselves more! They are awesome and beautiful and amazing!!
Before the girl who lashed out spoke, I thought she was the most gorgeous of them all. Her reaction was off-putting. Then I realized I'd have a similar reaction. If someone approached me like this on camera, telling me I was beautiful, I'd be very sad and insulted. I'd likely get feisty about it too. It wouldn't dawn on me for a second they may be actually sincere. She's absolutely stunning and can't even see it. My heart aches for her. Makes me wonder what we don't see.
@@bastienaq1805 I think she means that she didnt believe it? Im not sure as well 😂
I disagree
That's all about being true.
People telling things like that are friendly reminder of the path we should follow as the best parts of our human selves
And I don't think she did it wrong : when she went home a the end of the day she might have felt angry on herself about her reaction. But I think she needed it a lot.
It makes me really sad how some people just couldn't accept the compliment. You can see how hurt they are by our beauty standards and feeling like they failed just because of that.
I think the girl at 1:41 just doesn’t get sincerely complimented so she reacted as if it were an insult, she was really defensive and immediately assumed she was being filmed for a joke because of it
Probably
Tricity me
Probably with the camera she thought it was a prank, or a joke. She probably had bad times, and can’t accept how beautiful she rlly is.
I mean she needs to defend herself by not being rude lol
@@AshaNimo1 I definitely agree. but I also do understand her point of view, and maybe she learned being rude was the best way for her to defend herself? Like at the end she added "clearly your being goofy" she immediately made up her mind that she was part of a joke...
Feel so bad for the one girl. She clearly had never been told that, and when she was, she found it offensive, as if she thought the girl was playing a trick on her. so sad
3:15 I feel bad for that girl. She’s probably the most beautiful person in this video. Yet you could tell she didn’t love herself or was going through something in her life. Hope she’s ok.
1:44 hurts me so much
Some people are so insecure that it turns into anger and rage
People who have been told so many times that they’re ugly will start to believe it wether they like it or not
And that’s why she was acting like that
I have a friend like that
And what people like her need are just someone to help them everyday
If they want time alone
Give it to them
They might say “I don’t need your sympathy” or “don’t pity me”
Because the people that were nice like that in their life’s we’re probably just saying that because they felt bad
But at some point they will come around and understand that you are being genuine
And that you are not there to hurt them
@LUPIN930 U mad?
You’re not wrong. I thought the same. At first I wanted to dislike her but after a second thought you can tell she’s really insecure and hurt.
@LUPIN930 your amazing and no matter what you say no matter how rude you are your butafull
@@lilshortyhm Same. I sent a really mean comment abt her at the start of the video(I already deleted it), but now, I just wish all the best for her. I hope she finds someone who can help her realize that she is beautiful. I really hope she realizes that some day.
90% of the people- smiles and gets flattered
9%- doesn't react
1%- SHUT UP
That one girl in 1% was horrible and rude
@@Vaxedia i understand her point, it's like people that film themself giving money to poor people to post it on social media, you cannot know if it's real or just to be seen as the good person.
@@inihilisme1511 the difference between giving money and calling people beautiful is that beauty isn't real and you can't use an compliment for anything anyways. With money you can buy stuff. Beauty is a bit like schrodinger's cat, you can't know wether or not it's true or not but it doesn't matter. You must assume both options are correct. And that's the truth, things are simultaneously beautiful and not beautiful, because beauty isn't an real tangible thing you can assume whichever option you like most and it will be as good as the truth. The truth in schrodinger's cat doesn't exist, both options are equally true. Beauty is the same. Wether or not it's real does not matter, because both realities are true
@@ape9368 I think most of them took it as a bad joke and just smiled awkwardly not to offend her if she was actually saying the truth. What she did wasn't sincere, and I'm sure that a lot of us know that.
I see all these comments saying "the one reading this is beautiful", but they don't even know how the one reading looks. Yes, beauty is subjective, but these people, or at least some, knew she was doing it because of the views.
@@DavideCosmaro im not saying that beauty is subjective, I'm saying that beauty doesn't exist. If we really think about it you can't be sincere about something that isn't real in the first place.
I’ve done a bit of research on facial expressions and almost every one of these people showed an extremely genuine smile when they were told that. Then some thought about it for a sec and then were a bit uncomfortable lol but the initial raw reactions of happiness were real and were worth all the effort! 😊
1:41 everyone is talking about how rude the girl was but I feel it was like a type of shield. Maybe she was a hard time receiving compliments. MAYBE she doesn’t think the girl meant what she said to her. I feel that maybe it’s hard for her to believe the compliments she receives and that’s why she may have this type of defensive attitude. I’m not saying she has a reason to, because she IS beautiful
I kinda felt that way too about her.
Well it's an experiment. She must have sensed it. Sometimes you can really tell if a compliment is genuine or not. Sometimes it's best to give compliments to someone for what he/she's wearing or something good that she's done. That way people won't have to feel insecure about themselves, rather, they'll focus on the things they can do to make their life better and the people around them better. They could take pride in those things no matter what happens to their appearance.
@Ruoshui Liu I agree that it was rude and scary, but everyone has a reason for their actions and decisions, even if it isn’t a good one. I think that the reason here is insecurity, which can be a tough thing to get over. She definitely needs someone to help her with it, though
@@catsintheflat7805 Even if people sensed it was an experiment and didn’t like it, I would think that most of them wouldn’t say “I’ll cut you in the face.”
@@crazy_pyromaniac That's right. It's quite disturbing because we don't hear that often from people. It's basically a threat. Although she didn't mean it literally, it was just her way of saying "shut up, you're lying." Maybe she's used to hearing that from people in her life that's why she uses those words too.
When I was in high school I had school mates and some friends who talked like her. Like saying threats in a joking way. It was funny back then
the guy at 2:25, his freckles are literally the most beautiful thing i've seen
True!
Freckles are freaking cute in my opinion 💖
Girl that guy is gorgeous! Like the hair, the freckles, the smile...
@@fabianatrindade56 I know, he looks gorgeous
Hes beautiful but the person singing in the back tho- beautiful voice too!
The girl that got so defensive was so beautiful though.😌 she’s been hurt.
yeah she's probably been told she was ugly so she grew up with that mentality of 'I am ugly' and she was maybe shocked to be told that
i can feel her emotion :(((
No she was joking
TeaSipper shut up.
@@MalaUrameshi ok
You can tell a lot of them don't feel that way and don't believe it. Being a teen is hard. I remember that feeling.
the girl at 1:45 broke me. she has clearly been torn down so much that she feels a compliment is making fun of her. i just wanna give her a hug
Me too...Thats how i am..
I would’ve cried right on the spot and laugh like a madlad. As a boy, I don’t rlly get that much compliments. I really appreciate kind hearted people like you.
youre beautiful :]
Okay now calm down you sexy beast
No homo.
I’m a male and if I were a girl, I’d totally date you you handsome sun of a gun
3:14 The pain in her smile tho :(
They literally act as if you turn the switch of their light on! Fabulous.
The girl at, 1:42 she was broken. You could see it in the way she immediately shut the compliment out, like she couldn't believe people could be so genuinely kind for no reason. Someone hurt her before :(
To all the people, who are slamming the girl at 1:40 for being rude...yes she was being rude...but please try to understand her perspective...try to find out the reason behind her being so cold...it's most probably because no one tried to appreciate her like that, or maybe they just used her when they did...so it must be that she ended up feeling bad sbout herself, and that's why she created that whole negative vibe around her. To be honest, I had tears in my eyes when I watched her...thinking of how others, and their negativity made her think so bad of herself, that she slammed a person who called her beautiful...just look at her, she had a slight smile in the begining...but, it must just be that people never behaved well with her, and that's why she ended up being so rude...
If she ever checked this video, the trolls are most likely to worsen her situation, so please, if you want her to say a warm "Thanks" like the others, let's make an effort together!
You know, I think it's that thing where people compliment you for a laugh in high school and you don't even know when someone's being genuine or not in the long run.
@@dezzie_poo true🥺😟
I would be scared tbh
she even said " you're clearly being goofy "
@@erpoke5265 Yes...and that shows how hurt the others must have left her
its crazy how we all got this recommended to us at the same time
it is lmao XD
fav song from wolf?
@@howcent rusty or bimmer imo
@@VA_YVL fellow tyler fannn
@@misstra_knowitall W
Some don't believe it, others find it strange or embarrassing, some even don't care or respond aggressively. Others are excited as if they had never been told this in their lives. The wide range of reactions there is is incredible. I believe that each one reflects the life of the person individually and socially.
1:41 her reaction makes me really sad. Hope she would find her way in life.
Same here… 😢 It took my attention so much. Agressive reaction for words ,,you’re beautiful”, beause of taking it as a joke instantly - so heartbreaking, esp though the girl making this video was so nice and genuine saying it and later, explaining. The filmed girl had to had so much of anxiety, inside, trying to cover it up this way. So sad :( But a lot of people would react this way I think, having such low self confidence and such a bad picture of themselves that they would automatically think someone wants to make fun of them. I was there, when hearing someone laughing (on the street or wherever) the instant reaction im my head was that they laugh at me and the way I look.
I wish to all people like this to find their beauty and peace in mind, so we don’t have to keep our true self behind the mask in fear of what people can say or think. ❤
@@VLVN92 While Im not onboard with the part that is trying to explain the girls behvaior out of your view, because I simply think we should not judge people without knowing their story or character, I truly admire the second part of your comment. Wise and kind words, really saw my past self in that. thanks for those thoughts.
If a man would‘ve act like that, he would get kicked and canceled!
So: it was rude & inpoilte! You don‘t act like this! I was also bullied in school, but NEVER left my morality!
@@rebarius acc that’s fair… 🤔
1:41 It's so sad that she thought she was being sarcastic. So she doesn't believe that she's beautiful herself, and she doesn't believe anybody would find her beautiful. Which is so incorrect because she is really beautiful. Insecurity is like out to get us.
Yes agreed!
It could be that she didn't like getting her pictures taken without her permission so she was offended. That could've been triggered by some of her past experience which was bad.
Sounds very accurate@@SprinkleNoSurprises
@@SprinkleNoSurprises She said in the beginning that she asked permission to record them
Nah, it might not seem completely genuine, going up to a random person with a camera in their face and complimenting them.
1:49 this is a perfect example of a person hiding insecurities. People may come off as rude, but I think it’s because they deal with even more things than some people and they want to play it cool and try to fit it. Be nice to people, even if they hurt you. You don’t necessarily have to be friends with them but just give them a smile, or hold the door for them, or even just a hug. Anything can make someone’s day, trust meh😏
She was joking, thank you for the advice
Rakan_mDr2 oh lol, lol no problem idek what I was talking about
They all are broken at some point.. there smile says it all
The sad thing here is that some people do not believe to be beautiful. And they do not believe it to the point when she says it, they think she's lying..
Because some aren't. Aesthetics are not subjective.
I'm not beautiful, and that's okay. If there were no people who looked like me, there would be no beautiful people.
@@jacksquat2067 confidence is very attractive. Work on yourself, be somebody worthy of attention on any domain you love and watch how people get drawn to you. Even the most handsome of people, lose their looks as they age. Looks are thus superficial, character isn't.
@@C_R_O_M________yes they are lmao. Some people love to dress goth. Others like to dress vintage. Some people like short people. Others prefer taller people. There are so many aesthetics because there are people who enjoy them. It is one of the most subjective things in the world
@@ineffable.amethyst preferences and aesthetics are two different things. Human aesthetics are based on mathematics, symmetry and evolutionary preferences. They are thus VERY objective. Show me a woman that finds Quasimodo more handsome than Brat Pitt and I'll show you an exception and some sort of psychological pathology.
You are thus, wrong!
The ancient Greeks depicted aesthetics through their sculptures. The very same aesthetics are still followed. That's because they are objective, universal and species-specific.
This is a dark high school lol
Hahaha!
@@yasminealsaid9252 so a college
@@Rougra787 no it’s a high school :) chiarts
I hope the girl at 3:15 is okay. I know that sigh all too well, and her eyes look empty. Hope she's feeling better now.