What a load of craptalk. I don't think HE even believes what he's saying. "Let's see if I can convince women that it's their job to love the disrespect out of their mates."
The "he" you refer to is me, and I love all even those who disrespect me because I recognize all as my brothers and sisters, and God as our Father who loves us all. Much more do I love my soulmate who God has joined with me. So its not to get my soulmate to love me that I behave as I do. I love my soulmate because that alobe brings me happiness and love. Its a gift to be able to love those who disrespect me as it is gift to love those who respect me...try to look beyond the little self. You are a soul!
Looking isn't okay, either if it offends your wife. You are in your marriage to love her and demonstrate it, Besides, admiring any other than your wife is disloyal. If you think otherwise than you are fooling yourself...now, your good wife understands you and forgives you. But she is letting you know. Count it as a blessings
I have a great marriage - I have made so many changes over the past year. I look good for my age … really good. Why do I just need to accept that he screenshots 20 year old girls and sends them to his single buddy? Why do I have to accept that he will just continue to shame and belittle me? I don’t know if I can continue to be happy.
The term "accept" has no bearing on what is underlying the problems in your marriage. Your marriage is not fulfilling your husband, and not great for you, either. Think bigger, think about a marriage that rocks both of you and strive for that by becoming the first one to step up and learn to love unconditionally.
@@TheMarriageFoundation I think that sometimes a Marriage is not fulfilling to the flirting Husband because He doesn't value a good wife, and it's not fulfilling to this lady because she won't give her best self to her marriage only to recieve sh*t from the Husband. Now hopefully your course can help this lady. BUT YOU CANNOT SAY THE MAN'S FLIRTING IS NOT HIS FAULT, BUT THAT THE FAULT IS BECAUSE THE WIFE IS NOT DOING STH RIGHT
Today....many many many many women look really really good for their age!!!!! It is the NEW look for 30, 40, 50, and 60 year old women! You are not alone. Most women look really really good for their age today. Just check out comments on many videos about women looking good for their age - you will see tens of thousands of women commenting on looking 20 and 30 years younger and having a very young built shaply body too. And healthy. So this is actually a tired comment for today. Mayby not several decades ago - it was something great then...not today. Sorry
My partner says that he’s completely satisfied in our relationship, he could never want for anyone else and I’m the most beautiful woman to him. But he looks at other women and tries to explain that it’s an ‘appreciation and admiration for beauty’, including when he’s looking at their breasts or backside. He says it has nothing to do with us as a couple. He says he appreciates beautiful women, men, architecture. He believes he is completely justified and that he’s ‘a grown man who can do what he wants’. He does not see his actions for what they are. So how is anything supposed to change when the man believes his behavior is appropriate?
I am tempted to opine on the Western opennesss and how much temptation openly exists and is literally promoted. How one cannot go to a supermarket and not notice the magazine covers are suggesting that its perfectly fine to look. But your question is more important. The "change" one should seek is always within themselves because, as we all know, those are the changes that will bring us happineess. Outer conditions and when our spouse's behaviors are challenging it is not they who need to change to bring us happiness but we who need to reflect upon our inner reactions because those are the impediments to opening our hearts. We cannot find true happiness without inner work and if the world changes it will not help you become happy, so ask yourself how you can rise above your mind's voices and feel only love. Only love will make you happy.
Omg my boyfriend says the same thing. However he has finally seen the difference between noticing beauty and not being present with me because he’s focusing too much on it. I am trying to learn my emotions and if it happens again where it’s disrespectful I will be walking away from the situation because I don’t want to feel bad. We can’t control them, but we can choose what WE do. If he doesn’t fix the problem by being more respectful then that points to a bigger issue.
This is one issue and it will be replaced with another, then another. If you are already living together as man and wife and have been for some years then running from him because of this would be rash. If he is just a boyfriend on your way to finding your soulmate then defining your soulmate would be a great idea. Long ago we put together a course for finding your soulmate and made it very inexpensive. You may want to look into it.
If you are just looking for people to agree with you that is not me. If you want to heal your marriage then this is what will work themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/
Would if you show love and he still looks, keeps beautiful women on his phone , flirts? I thought I was being a good wife? Sex, clean the house, massages! What do I get ? I get him doing nothing for me.
If you do not need him for something important leave him. If you have to stay with him for something important, like you own a business together, need time to get an education for a better job to support yourself or you live in a country that it is not safe to be a single woman then grin and bare it until you can implement your exit strategy. Pick a few hobbies or classes in which the men out number the women, like learn to sail and meet a male single friend. Pick your male friend more carefully this time. You saw him looking at other women on the first date, so why didn't you cut your losses then? True half the men are no good, but it is like looking for a needle in a hay stack, toss the hay the minute you see it is not a needle.
I agree with most of what you sad, but it seems like that is the woman’s job to “treat the man the way he deserves”, first. There’s a lot of cases that that’s not true.
Its easy to "disagree" and in some ways your context is understandable. But in marriage there just is no excuse for each individual to be anything less than what was promised at the alter, regardless of circumstances. Hence, "in sickness and in...."
I don’t think it’s about a man looking at another woman while you’re there is a problem. Men have eyes. They are visual beings. They were created that way. It’s how far he will take this. Many times, it’s our own insecurities that brings on the bad feelings within us. It’s how we perceive things. It’s up to the man to know what he should or shouldn’t do in the relationship.
I agree. I don’t condemn. I just do nothing. I learned this tactic over the years. I understand that there are many other beautiful women out there. He knows what he was doing when he looks. I go about my way like nothing happened. That alone makes him upset. Men look at me too and I don’t show off the goods. When they look at me…and it does happen, he changes his attitude. It’s about emotional control. He wants me to feel like I need to argue to make him feel good about himself or basically that I’m not all that anyways. Don’t take it seriously. If God wants me somewhere else I’ll be there. Otherwise, I know I’m getting the reward after this life. Thank you Lord! 😂😂😂 Don’t feed their ego ladies. Thanks Paul.
If someone asks you personal questions you must decide if answering will be of service or are the just curious. Your personal life is yours to live and should be private.
What a load of craptalk. I don't think HE even believes what he's saying. "Let's see if I can convince women that it's their job to love the disrespect out of their mates."
The "he" you refer to is me, and I love all even those who disrespect me because I recognize all as my brothers and sisters, and God as our Father who loves us all. Much more do I love my soulmate who God has joined with me. So its not to get my soulmate to love me that I behave as I do. I love my soulmate because that alobe brings me happiness and love. Its a gift to be able to love those who disrespect me as it is gift to love those who respect me...try to look beyond the little self. You are a soul!
Looking at a beautiful flower is not a sin. Leering and drooling over one is.
There are lines. Admiration is OK. Coveting is another thing entirely
Looking isn't okay, either if it offends your wife. You are in your marriage to love her and demonstrate it, Besides, admiring any other than your wife is disloyal. If you think otherwise than you are fooling yourself...now, your good wife understands you and forgives you. But she is letting you know. Count it as a blessings
I have a great marriage - I have made so many changes over the past year. I look good for my age … really good. Why do I just need to accept that he screenshots 20 year old girls and sends them to his single buddy? Why do I have to accept that he will just continue to shame and belittle me? I don’t know if I can continue to be happy.
The term "accept" has no bearing on what is underlying the problems in your marriage. Your marriage is not fulfilling your husband, and not great for you, either. Think bigger, think about a marriage that rocks both of you and strive for that by becoming the first one to step up and learn to love unconditionally.
@@TheMarriageFoundation I think that sometimes a Marriage is not fulfilling to the flirting Husband because He doesn't value a good wife, and it's not fulfilling to this lady because she won't give her best self to her marriage only to recieve sh*t from the Husband. Now hopefully your course can help this lady. BUT YOU CANNOT SAY THE MAN'S FLIRTING IS NOT HIS FAULT, BUT THAT THE FAULT IS BECAUSE THE WIFE IS NOT DOING STH RIGHT
You shouldn’t accept that
Today....many many many many women look really really good for their age!!!!! It is the NEW look for 30, 40, 50, and 60 year old women! You are not alone. Most women look really really good for their age today. Just check out comments on many videos about women looking good for their age - you will see tens of thousands of women commenting on looking 20 and 30 years younger and having a very young built shaply body too. And healthy. So this is actually a tired comment for today. Mayby not several decades ago - it was something great then...not today. Sorry
I feel the same way.
My partner says that he’s completely satisfied in our relationship, he could never want for anyone else and I’m the most beautiful woman to him. But he looks at other women and tries to explain that it’s an ‘appreciation and admiration for beauty’, including when he’s looking at their breasts or backside. He says it has nothing to do with us as a couple. He says he appreciates beautiful women, men, architecture. He believes he is completely justified and that he’s ‘a grown man who can do what he wants’. He does not see his actions for what they are. So how is anything supposed to change when the man believes his behavior is appropriate?
I am tempted to opine on the Western opennesss and how much temptation openly exists and is literally promoted. How one cannot go to a supermarket and not notice the magazine covers are suggesting that its perfectly fine to look. But your question is more important. The "change" one should seek is always within themselves because, as we all know, those are the changes that will bring us happineess. Outer conditions and when our spouse's behaviors are challenging it is not they who need to change to bring us happiness but we who need to reflect upon our inner reactions because those are the impediments to opening our hearts. We cannot find true happiness without inner work and if the world changes it will not help you become happy, so ask yourself how you can rise above your mind's voices and feel only love. Only love will make you happy.
Omg my boyfriend says the same thing. However he has finally seen the difference between noticing beauty and not being present with me because he’s focusing too much on it. I am trying to learn my emotions and if it happens again where it’s disrespectful I will be walking away from the situation because I don’t want to feel bad. We can’t control them, but we can choose what WE do. If he doesn’t fix the problem by being more respectful then that points to a bigger issue.
This is one issue and it will be replaced with another, then another. If you are already living together as man and wife and have been for some years then running from him because of this would be rash. If he is just a boyfriend on your way to finding your soulmate then defining your soulmate would be a great idea. Long ago we put together a course for finding your soulmate and made it very inexpensive. You may want to look into it.
I swear I would become just as appreciative too. 😂
Start wearing extra short dresses and show your breasts. If he complains tell him your showing your beauty, it’s art.
It's disrespectful, at best. Cheating, at worst. You're full of it.
If you are just looking for people to agree with you that is not me. If you want to heal your marriage then this is what will work themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/
Would if you show love and he still looks, keeps beautiful women on his phone , flirts? I thought I was being a good wife? Sex, clean the house, massages! What do I get ? I get him doing nothing for me.
your marriage is not doing well, as you know. Take the course for women.
Buy my class ..... that'll fix it. Why are you blaming the woman.
Stop the sex.Stop sex for a week everytime he looks .Start flirting with other men in front of him
HE IS STRAIGHT UP BLAMING THE WIFE no matter IF SHES a GOOD wife or not....
If you do not need him for something important leave him. If you have to stay with him for something important, like you own a business together, need time to get an education for a better job to support yourself or you live in a country that it is not safe to be a single woman then grin and bare it until you can implement your exit strategy. Pick a few hobbies or classes in which the men out number the women, like learn to sail and meet a male single friend. Pick your male friend more carefully this time. You saw him looking at other women on the first date, so why didn't you cut your losses then? True half the men are no good, but it is like looking for a needle in a hay stack, toss the hay the minute you see it is not a needle.
great video appreciated 👍👍
Any way to make your marriage better is a good step 🙏
themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/
I agree with most of what you sad, but it seems like that is the woman’s job to “treat the man the way he deserves”, first.
There’s a lot of cases that that’s not true.
Its easy to "disagree" and in some ways your context is understandable. But in marriage there just is no excuse for each individual to be anything less than what was promised at the alter, regardless of circumstances. Hence, "in sickness and in...."
I don’t think it’s about a man looking at another woman while you’re there is a problem. Men have eyes. They are visual beings. They were created that way. It’s how far he will take this. Many times, it’s our own insecurities that brings on the bad feelings within us. It’s how we perceive things. It’s up to the man to know what he should or shouldn’t do in the relationship.
Our first priority is to love our wife enough to honor her by not looking at other women.
I agree. I don’t condemn. I just do nothing. I learned this tactic over the years. I understand that there are many other beautiful women out there.
He knows what he was doing when he looks. I go about my way like nothing happened. That alone makes him upset. Men look at me too and I don’t show off the goods.
When they look at me…and it does happen, he changes his attitude. It’s about emotional control. He wants me to feel like I need to argue to make him feel good about himself or basically that I’m not all that anyways.
Don’t take it seriously. If God wants me somewhere else I’ll be there. Otherwise, I know I’m getting the reward after this life.
Thank you Lord! 😂😂😂
Don’t feed their ego ladies. Thanks Paul.
Love above all! 🙏 God above all! 🙏
So then why he has a problem I wear extra short dresses? Fair game no one complain
Pray for them. That's what you do.
Yes, you should always pray for your husband, shouldn't you. Praying for someone is an act of love
is there any tips for the husbands, it seems a duel encouragement holding both parties accountable and learn how to follow your encouragement
We do not beleive in holding each other accounatable, keep watching these videos and you will start to understand,
i appreciate all your advice so much and thank you
Sir, are you married? And if yes, do you look around?
If someone asks you personal questions you must decide if answering will be of service or are the just curious. Your personal life is yours to live and should be private.
Thank you. God bless you too .
God Bless you, too. 🙏
Thank you thank you! Your videos are life changing! You are an Angel💖
I am honored to be of some service 🙏
Thank you for your advice🙏
Thank you for sharing this
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