"My Husband Stares at Other Women" | Paul Friedman

If your husband stares at other women you will want to watch Paul Friedman, founder of TMF themarriagefou... separate the obvious aspect of humiliation and frustration from that which you can do to make your marriage better. He doesn't condone the behavior of your husband but makes the point that you can choose whether to bring even more drama into your marriage or use the tendency as a message that there are things you can do to be happy.
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[@kayebetz8882]

This sounds like the blame is put on the wife. There is nothing she did or didn’t do that causes him act disrespectful, it’s a choice he’s making. What I heard was he’s looking because he’s not satisfied in the marriage, if the wife makes changes and improves herself then the marriage will be better and he’ll stop looking. My husband has an issues with this and it’s caused a huge problem in our marriage. He battled a porn addiction and went as far as to have an affair and still struggles with looking and lust. He has childhood trauma and was raised by a narcissistic mother who serial cheated on his dad. Dad was absent driving truck. His issues run deep and have nothing to do with me. My reality was a lie because he chose to lie & hide his true self from me. I’m not carrying my own trauma and deep wounds because of his choices. Men that decide to disrespect their spouse are solely responsible for fixing what they broke.

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

I never put "blame" on anyone, just tell the truth. Your mind has bought into so many nonsensical western psych theories that cause so much suffering because you agree with your mind. Learn to love!!! themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/ and you will do much better

[@chileshemubanga3729]

This has been happening to me for the past 10yrs.i understand now.thanks for this.what should i do to become that important person in his life.

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

You need more than a tip or two. I suggest the course for women themarriagefoundation.org/ that will show you the way, and quickly

[@mahogonybritton576]

Thank you

[@taliaga0828]

Isn’t it human nature to look or stare?

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

Yes, but why reduce yourself by acting from your primal instincts where pain and suffering are assured when you can lift yourself to higher states where joy is assured.

[@HollyDonaldson-hf9ec]

Also looking briefly is not the same as staring.

[@sushisue42]

I won't seek out looking at other men's bodies out of respect for husband. If I notice an attractive person, I look and then take my gaze elsewhere. My husband can stare at a very young female for 10 straight minutes with desire and longing.

[@reva0828]

⁠​⁠@@sushisue42I feel your pain. My husband has been this way over 20 years and it took away my desire for him sexually. Otherwise our marriage looks good. But inside I’m not good and I’ve stopped liking him. He just did it again yesterday. He is looking at women as we’re walking toward them and they start smiling flirtatiously at him and he says he does not know why. He’s actually playing in my face. It’s narcissistic and the sad thing is I’m done.

[@BarronsBabe-oe3qp]

​@@reva0828I'm going through the exact same thing . When I say something he denys it all. An then tells me I have a problem 😢