How A Wife Can Make Her Husband Happy | Paul Friedman
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
- Paul Friedman shares encouragement and techniques you can make or try right away to improve your relationship with your husband and to make him happy. There is no need for gimmicks or tricks. Instead, it just takes knowing what he wants and needs.
If you have searched this topic and you have found this topic to be of interest to you then you're having some frustrations with your husband being cranky or turned off, or looking elsewhere for different kinds of satisfaction and you really want to take responsibility, you might say, for making your husband happy.
For that I have to tell you, good for you, you're on the right track and the reason why you are and there are so many women today who think, "Why should I do that? He should be making me happy," which is true however, I want to give you a different perspective. I want you to give you the perspective of someone who is in a marriage and is not getting from your marriage what you should be getting which is your joy, your happiness, and your contentment. At the moment you are thinking, "Well, yeah because maybe I'm not making my husband happy and so I need to so he gives me those things." That's generally the thinking and that thinking is incorrect.
We live in a cause-and-effect world and we get from outer things, outer experiences, outer conditions, material happiness but the happiness that we want in a marriage is not material success or material gratification although it comes into play but we didn't get married for those because we could get those in other ways. We got married for spiritual gratification. You see love particularly, unconditional love gives us the highest form of gratification that its spiritual gratification defines it as limitless. It's part of spirit, spirit has no boundaries. You can measure the universe although we can't yet people are trying in using light-years as a ruler, but you can't measure spiritual love. It cannot be measured because simply put it is infinite which our minds can't even wrap around.
Our mind can't deal with infinite but our heart can. We can feel it so we know it's real. We can feel it so we know it's more real than any kind of material gratification there is bar none, and not by a little bit. If you happen to have children, most of you do if you're watching this video, then you understand what love is but you don't quite so I'm going to give you some context. When you're watching your children and they're asleep, let's just use that as an example, and you look down upon their cute little faces even if they're adult children your heart opens up. They're not instigating and they're not saying "Oh mom, I love you." They're just being so what's going on in your heart is opening to them and you're feeling this love flowing through you. The love is flowing through you.
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Seriously, why don’t you have more followers? I’m baffled and so so amazed. Everything you’re teaching is from the heart and beautiful and true. It’s only been a few days and he’s cuddling with me, reciprocating communication, he hasn’t bought a beer in days, omg you’re an amazing person for bringing awareness to broken couples and anyone seeking information about themselves in general. Blessings to you and your family, good man.
Thank you for your blessings. Our world is not exactly highly evolved so expectations are for quick fixes and cute appealing ideas. It is okay. I do the best I can and let Him do His thing.
Thank you so much. I see how I was causing so many problems. You’re right, we’re taught to be victimized and lay blame so often. I feel like I should have known these things though. I was searching for ways to keep my family intact, the thing that set you apart from all of the other “advice givers” was when I heard you say “no, I don’t recommend divorce “. That’s what I wanted to hear. And my favorite thing you say is that it doesn’t matter who builds that bridge but that we’ll both meet there. I’m so grateful
What if they didn’t have a mother who loved unconditionally? Is this still something they will accept and embrace? Will it likely take longer?
Thank you for being the father I never had. Thank you for giving me the advice and information that they just don’t share or talk about in the black community. I hate to think black and white but I wish more of us would listen to information like this. We wouldn’t have twice as many problems that we do have.
We can’t make anyone do anything- including “make them” happy.
Giving that unconditional love and working on our hearts we can do.
Now, you are talking!
We need to challenge ourselves to be fearless and selfless in order to give in the way you are showing us Paul. Thank you for offering a unique spiritual way of approaching marriage 🙏🏼
I didn’t search for your videos you was suggested but I didn’t know I needed to see them!!! Such a different out look to other ones 💝
I really appreciate your teaching
Thanks for these great videos. You’re helping my marriage so much. It’s in recovery atm
I’m afraid to be unconditional though as I was before and then my husband took advantage of it and now I’m trying to get over Emotional trauma, I’ve improved.
I will do exactly what you recommended, I will go back to unconditional love again.
The content you provide is soooo good ! It may not give goosebumps of excitement, but it is very truthful and wise counsel.
I love this video, Paul Friedman, and have often also shared the videos on Twitter, to spread the love. 🙏🏼♥️
That's awesome, thank you🙏
Thank you,this has been very helpful
Very helpful 👌
thank you.
What if they didn’t have a mother who loved unconditionally? Is this still something they will accept and embrace? Will it likely take longer?
We are all endowed with this beautiful gift. But some people have drifted farther than others into the traps of the mind and find it more difficult to reconnect to their heart...but we all must to find happiness.
@@TheMarriageFoundation thanks for the response! This is helpful. Perfect love casts out fear!
What does it mean when they get even more aggravated when you show them unconditional love and are nice to them?
God bless you sir for this
Good question.
We cannot control our husband's reactions and should not try but use those reactions as an indicator of how well you are expressing love and not just doing the actions. One should do what they should do because they should, not to achieve an outer reaction.
Is it a grudge-type mean? Like something he can't let go of?
Has he always been that way or did something trigger it?
What do4s he do when you do nice things? Like cuddle during tv movie or conversation casually over dinner? Does he spit hateful words or get mad cause your happy?
I think if I knew some of these we can come to the REASON he's being this way, right?
Ther is a gap between my husband and I and I don't understand why
...then put yourself in his place and see what you are to him from that point of view.
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