How do express all of this to your unfaithful wandering eye husband? The level of disrespect is ridiculous. If I keep focusing on happiness and love I’m denying his behavior and acting as if nothing happened.
Your calculation is incorrect. Just bcause you act nobly doesn't mean your husband will think he has permission. I think you might understand better when you learn how we approach marriage themarriagefoundation.org/about/our-approach/
My biggest mistake was that i ignored his wandering eyes even in the dating stage and married him. I learnt the lesson too late that you have weed out guys in the dating phase who are not exactly the way you want him to be, rather than trying to change him into someone he's was not
I don't think that was your "biggest" mistake but now that you are married it is time to learn the lessons that will bring you ever increasing happiness and love. I suggest, with all humility, that the course for women will help both you and your marriage.
Your spirit is soothing when you give advice. You truly have a skill for communicating a perspective of love, it’s truly amazing because it gives me peace to dwell in the thoughts that you suggest :) God bless you!
As a man, I know I can be a pig. I love my wife and I really care for her alot. I've even done the 5 Love languages too. But I still get tempted everyday, why does the enemy want to break my marriage? I don't wanna have the wandering eye.
Oh perfect. Questions. (1) for 3 years we were perfect. Anyone on earth would be jealous of how relaxed and wonderful we are amd our relationship is. It's that young love before the world gets to you. Before graduation and jobs and diapers and pressure of deadlines. I even love the sometimes when he leaves cloths on the floor. The mucus in the sink he forgot to clean. I have anorexia and he had me so confident that I managed to eat daily and not hate my body or myself. I'm stupid. I'm so captivated that I look into the rearview mirror as we drive to church. I sit in the middle of the truck seat right up against him. I accidently watched as his eyes scanned a neighbor as she walked for fitness. Now I know that he has seen and imagined her before. Now I need to be skinner, change my hair to her and then be better. Now I need to ALWAYS AT EVERY MOMENT hold myself better than her. So anorexia is back. Ocd of keeping a perfect house is back. It's not fking fair. All males are fking disgusting. If I'm looking at a male I'm looking for weakness in case he attacks me or someone else. If I'm looking at a male I'm calculating bail money bc I'm def going to jail. See the difference? It's not fking fair. I was happy not I hate me and all males. It not fking fair
So my question is..(1) Why does he say I'm beautiful? Does he look at women? This is the first time in 3 years. 365 days times 3.(2) If he says he perfers me blonde, why scan a woman with brown straight hair? He knows my hair is wavy and a pain in the a§ş to straighten. Now I've dyed it brown and been torturing myself for 3 hours to have straight hair. (3) why if he loves my size and shape did he choose someone opposite to catch his eye? It's not fking fair. Now I'm starving and I have to pretend to be cheerful while being tormented. I don't get to act like a bitch just bc I'm fking hungry. No I HAVE TO BE PLEASANT TO THE KIDS AND GENERAL PUBLIC.
At church now my husband is always looking at this woman who comes in. He does it when a lady comes in the church for while. He busy looking at her and when I ask him about it he denies he doing it. What am I meant to do about this
We all know that we, too are imperfect so when we strive to work only on ourselves to bring love and happiness into our marriage then we see the possibilities for those and thats what we should work on,.
Dear Paul, I wanted to ask you for a while.. do you think That one can have more than a soulmate in a lifetime? And I don’t mean that one of them dies.. just rushing into marriage without knowledge. Some people just can’t fix it, it’s so messed up.. but their next marriage is much much better. I have heard more than one case lately.
How do express all of this to your unfaithful wandering eye husband? The level of disrespect is ridiculous. If I keep focusing on happiness and love I’m denying his behavior and acting as if nothing happened.
Your calculation is incorrect. Just bcause you act nobly doesn't mean your husband will think he has permission. I think you might understand better when you learn how we approach marriage themarriagefoundation.org/about/our-approach/
My biggest mistake was that i ignored his wandering eyes even in the dating stage and married him. I learnt the lesson too late that you have weed out guys in the dating phase who are not exactly the way you want him to be, rather than trying to change him into someone he's was not
I don't think that was your "biggest" mistake but now that you are married it is time to learn the lessons that will bring you ever increasing happiness and love. I suggest, with all humility, that the course for women will help both you and your marriage.
Your spirit is soothing when you give advice. You truly have a skill for communicating a perspective of love, it’s truly amazing because it gives me peace to dwell in the thoughts that you suggest :)
God bless you!
As a man, I know I can be a pig. I love my wife and I really care for her alot. I've even done the 5 Love languages too. But I still get tempted everyday, why does the enemy want to break my marriage? I don't wanna have the wandering eye.
the SEW technique is the right tool, the course for men will take you much further than any other
You need deliverance
Oh perfect. Questions. (1) for 3 years we were perfect. Anyone on earth would be jealous of how relaxed and wonderful we are amd our relationship is. It's that young love before the world gets to you. Before graduation and jobs and diapers and pressure of deadlines. I even love the sometimes when he leaves cloths on the floor. The mucus in the sink he forgot to clean. I have anorexia and he had me so confident that I managed to eat daily and not hate my body or myself. I'm stupid. I'm so captivated that I look into the rearview mirror as we drive to church. I sit in the middle of the truck seat right up against him. I accidently watched as his eyes scanned a neighbor as she walked for fitness. Now I know that he has seen and imagined her before. Now I need to be skinner, change my hair to her and then be better. Now I need to ALWAYS AT EVERY MOMENT hold myself better than her. So anorexia is back. Ocd of keeping a perfect house is back. It's not fking fair. All males are fking disgusting. If I'm looking at a male I'm looking for weakness in case he attacks me or someone else. If I'm looking at a male I'm calculating bail money bc I'm def going to jail. See the difference? It's not fking fair. I was happy not I hate me and all males. It not fking fair
So my question is..(1) Why does he say I'm beautiful? Does he look at women? This is the first time in 3 years. 365 days times 3.(2) If he says he perfers me blonde, why scan a woman with brown straight hair? He knows my hair is wavy and a pain in the a§ş to straighten. Now I've dyed it brown and been torturing myself for 3 hours to have straight hair. (3) why if he loves my size and shape did he choose someone opposite to catch his eye? It's not fking fair. Now I'm starving and I have to pretend to be cheerful while being tormented. I don't get to act like a bitch just bc I'm fking hungry. No I HAVE TO BE PLEASANT TO THE KIDS AND GENERAL PUBLIC.
Please shed light for me. Why tell me I'm beautiful, love my shape, and prefers me blond but then chooses someone completely opposite?
At church now my husband is always looking at this woman who comes in. He does it when a lady comes in the church for while. He busy looking at her and when I ask him about it he denies he doing it. What am I meant to do about this
We all know that we, too are imperfect so when we strive to work only on ourselves to bring love and happiness into our marriage then we see the possibilities for those and thats what we should work on,.
Wandering eyes lead to cheating, check his phone you will end up finding out everything you know through his settings. Good luck
Thank you for this video! As a man if I have a wandering eye, what can I do to help it?
The SEW technique found in the course for men is the only sure way to eliminate habits as pernicious as that one
The literally only thing I don't like is this wandering eye. That's it. Literally everything is perfect until I saw him stare at her
Dear Paul,
I wanted to ask you for a while.. do you think That one can have more than a soulmate in a lifetime? And I don’t mean that one of them dies.. just rushing into marriage without knowledge. Some people just can’t fix it, it’s so messed up.. but their next marriage is much much better. I have heard more than one case lately.
When one is married they should never consider another. And, of course we have many soulmates as we have had perhaps millions of incarnations.
How do I get the training? I am really interested!
Wonderfull, you can let customer service know through the website and they will tell you when its on the site. It should be in just 3 weeks, by Aug 1
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