When You are Struggling to Get Married
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- Опубликовано: 17 окт 2024
- I am getting older but still not married.
It is really hard to find someone suitable!
I am feeling low and not getting anywhere in life.
What's your advice?
Find out my answer in this video.
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I can totally relate myself to this. My family is trying to find a guy since 1.5 yrs now but then everybody in this world have become so materialistic and prioritising beauty over deen and family.. I completely don't understand why are the people turning out to go away from deen. With age and with time the beauty fades away but the deen, the girl's soul and her character is something which always remains. May Allah make it easy for me and may Allah give hidayat to such people.. Aameen. . #Prayersneeded
Ameen sister
It's better to remain single than to marry wrong person.
1.5 years is nothing
My family searched for 6 years then later i got married i was very excited, soon after marriage he started to torture me emotionally and sexually. I got a husband exactly opposite of what I prayed to allah for years. He don't find me sexually interesting so made me to run away myself so that his image doesn't get spoilt. I tolerated with patience having trust in allah. After suffering for 1 year in that abusive marriage finally now i am getting divorced. I prayed continuously for 1 year that allah put love in his heart for me but unfortunately he never treated me as his wife. I am 27 now 😭 life seems to be hopeless. I lost my mother 7 years ago since then i have been taking care of my family. then i let my brother get married so that There will be someone to take care of house after my marriage but I didn't find any match. Then i left my job when my sis in law was pregnant as she had to go to her home for delivery. Now my bro is having 2 kids and i am a divorcee.
Plz make dua for me allah heal my pain and bless me with a righteous spouse. My health is also not good. Not finding any good job as well.
May allah bless u and all like you with a righteous spouse ameeen
@@shakiraafshan6544 😒😒i am really sorry to hear that you had to go through such a bad phase sister. But indeed you being alive and still having hope on Allah's plan shows how strong you are as a person and in sha Allah Allah will reward you with the best for every hardship you have been through.. Reading this I can definitely say you are very courageous I am not sure wthr I wud have survived or not but u did n ur very brave Masha Allah. You are an example for many young girls on how to have faith and Tawakkul on Allah's plan. And it is said With every hardship there comes an ease so in sha Allah in sha Allah better days will arrive just hold on there keep praying and ha e faith on Allah he will definitely grant you with the best. If you are from India lemme know I can help you with the job if possible. Stay strong in sha allah ul always be in my prayers🤗n pray for me as well that i should find a good spouse at the earliest.
May Allah heal your pain and give you strength just like he gave strength Maryam alahissalam in her tough times.. Aameen
May Allah make it easy for you and bless you with a righteous partner. Ameen
Ameen. Summaameen.
I am also facing the same difficulties. My parents are trying for 8/9 years. Everyone cares about money, beauty and status. I am just sick of all this. My parents are worried about my future.
I would like to get married too but seems difficult as girl's families have became materialistic so much and they prefer wealth over Akhlak
May Allah bless you with a pious spouse who is the pleasure of your eyes, the comfort of your heart and sweetness of your soul. ameen
I know several brothers and sisters who stopped practicing and even left the deen to go on and marry non muslims because they were not able to find jobs or they were not being able to find a proper muslim spouse. Its sad. In the days of mass information and world wide internet and social media, we are actually more alone than ever before.
May ALLAH (SWT) send you and anyone else in your entire family the best spouse, in DUNYA and AKHIRA, and many pious children. By ALLAH's MERCY, I hope you get married very, very, very soon! The fact that you posted your statement indicates that you want a wife very soon. You are absolutely right about our Muslimas' families. Sadly, there are too many stories of families rejecting a beloved brother for DUNYA reasons. By ALLAH (SWT) I wish you the best of luck!
Me Too Getting Old And Feeling Worse That I'm Still Unmarried, Want To Disappear For A While.😔😔 Halal Is Very Difficult For Poor Boys.
@@kmwarriors7922 how old are you? I'm 37 and have been never married, had my struggles when I was engaged, had her family and my family (except my parents and siblings) turned against me when I ended the engagement.
There are at times when even after seeking for marriage with so much of dedication, like specially the children who completely keeps the decision after putting their whole trust in ALLAH, they wait till their parents seek a right proposal for them... So even in such conditions, circumstances may not favor at times but we shouldn't lose hope in the mercy of ALLAH and keep praying for a righteous spouse as who ever is meant for you is already been destined, it's just a matter of patience and a test... May ALLAH make it easier for me n all those who are striving for getting married to a righteous spouse soon. Aaameen
Ameen
Ameen
Ameen
What the F*ck will I do by marrying at 50's when my D*ck isn't getting erect?
Indeed never lose hope in the mercy of ALLAH ❤️
I traveled 1,382.5 km to see the girl, They Rejected Just because my earnings are not very High. They haven't seen , I look good, I am highly educated,I pray 5 times and I read the Qur'an with Meaning on a regular basis, I am not unemployed I am earning a decent amount..I have a good Akhlaq😢
@@Ummae-y6h India, Jamshedpur
U dodged a bullet , surely there is qadr in it
U dodged a bullet , surely there is qadr in it
Someone better than her is waiting for you don't worry
May you find someone worth having you ameen ❤
Getting married with anyone is not the solution of my problem the Actual problem is marry with the right one coz it's easy to get married with anyone but what after??how to know will he be good husband or not marriage is a big responsibility so am stuck
I have been praying and hoping to get married as well, it has not been easy, sometimes you think you've met the man of your dreams and after all the arrangements he gives you the silent treatment, is not easy.
May Allah make things easy for you. Ameen
Ameen thanks
I know what you are talking happened with me too needs lots of prayers
ALLAH swt says n QURAN "pious men are for pious women"
May ALLAH swt grant us all pious spouses.
Ameen
ALLAHUAKBAR
Ameen thum ameen
Remember us(me and my sister)in your prayers that we get married soon with righteous spouses that fears Allah and loves us and treat us kindly ❤
Thank you brother for putting is up as a separate video. Its definately a big issue. Have strong hope and iman in Allah. Nothing is impossible for Allah.
Indeed.
Barakallah Feek.
Hello Name KIta, Don't worry about it. Everything will be fine. Just pray to Allah for your marriage to be done and mostly always look for a person who is gonna keep you happy because what happens sometimes that people find their husbands or wives too soon and then they just wish they never got married. I know that you are in your 30's because I saw the video, But don't be depressed, because like Mr. Mohammad Arshad said that people get married in their 40s and 50s. I am not saying to get married that late, But all I am saying is that just have patience and everything will turn out to be fine. Be Positive.
I have been rejected for over a decade. I have given up. I don’t have the strength in me to endure more heartbreaks. Some people are destined to be alone and sometimes it’s better to accept it no matter how hard it is
Don’t accept it. There is someone for everyone if you leave it to Allah. I know your pain I promise I do but this it the test. Are you gonna do the thing that would impress the angels? Which is to worship Allah and believe truly he will save? I promise you that Allah SWT is loving and cares about you. He is elivatating your Jannah and preparing a great reward for you in this life and after. Just trust Allah and pray. She’s out there likely waiting for you.
I hope you are fine now
Thank you brother, you really give me hope. May ALLAH bless you Ameen
Ameen.
Barakallah Feek.
I am 35 and have been praying for couple of years to get married. Trying some platforms with nothing so far and now I'm feeling hopeless. Please make dua for me😢.
May Allah bless you with the righteous, and loyal partner. Ameen
Ramadan Mubarak.
Right on time.
Jazakallahu khairan.
Ramadan Mubarak.
Barakallah Feek.
Please pray for 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭I am facing difficulty in getting married...may Allah make it easy for me and open the doors of marriage...I am feeling like giving up ...I don't know what to do I am helpless hopeless...every door is closing for me ..it hurts a lot please make dua for me please 🙏🙏🙏
Don't lose hope. Don't fall into this trap of Shaytan.
May Allah bless you with a righteous spouse and bring coolness to your eyes. ameen
Are you a male of female.. maybe we can talk.
Same case with me
@@anamparveen7192 pray
@Finding someone pray and reduce your criteria for the type of partner you're looking for. You may go for someone younger with less education or someone older who really wants to settle down in marriage. Look for someone who really wants marriage for posterity sake, else even when you're ready, the one you're seeking might not be ready and that's a problem for you.
Ya Allah, Ya rab
Grant us all a righteous and beautiful spouse
Ameen
Ameen
As salaam alai kum sir...
Ramadan Mubarak....Love you from India
Walaykum Assalam Wa Rehmatullahi Wa Barakatuh,
Ramadan Muabarak.
I am too much worried about my marriage this year turn to 33 bt still single my father go outside say different people if u know any rishta plz let us know bt no one tell us each day each year pass bt no one come at my home tp ask my hand too much worried
Assalam Alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakaatuh,
I am so sorry to hear that you are experiencing these problems. May Allah make things easy for you.
Please remember that it could be a test from Allah swt and in such situations we have to be patient to pass these tests. Don't lose hope. Keep making Dua'a. Allah will definitely bless you with the best and at the right time In'Shaa'Allah.
“The supplication of the servant is granted in case he does not supplicate for sin or for severing the ties of blood, or he does not become impatient . It was said: Allah’s Messenger, what does:” If he does not grow impatient” imply? He said: That he should say like this: I supplicated and I supplicated but I did not find it being responded. and then he becomes frustrated and abandons supplication. ” (Muslim)
Shaytan will make you depressed and cause thoughts of ungratefulness. But remember we have to be thankful to Allah swt. Thankful that he saved us from failed marriage, abusive spouse or divorce. He has blessed us with faith, a healthy body, family, and much more.
‘If you are grateful, I will certainly give you more. But if you are ungrateful, surely My punishment is severe.’” Al Quran 14:7
Be optimistic, think of all the things you can do now that you cannot do if you were married and keep yourself busy. Spent time in serving others and your religion, Gaining knowledge of Quran and Sunnah. It could be that Allah has chosen you for a greater cause.
May Allah bless you with a spouse that will be coolness to your eyes. ameen
Eselamu Alejkum sister. Can I contact you? Do you have fb or Instagram. I'm also 33 years old. At same situation. I want to get married. But it doesn't happen
Bhaijaan its happening same to me
😔😔
Miee life is full of troubles
No hopes are left
Even though I myself is suffering but
There is always hope sister.Believe and trust in Allah
M nt brother m Sister ☺
@@raviyakhan716 sorry my bad
May Allah bless you with a pious spouse who is the pleasure of your eyes, the comfort of your heart and sweetness of your soul. ameen
@@MuslimMastery summaameen brother
I dnt wnt die in kufr
I dnt wnt die in bai Emaan
I dnt wnt die in sins😔😔
I dnt wnt go to jahanum
I cnt bear the anger of Allah
I cnt bear the complaining eyes of my beloved Prophet Muhammad pbuh 😔😔😔
I’ve been trying but every guy suddenly loses feelings for me.
May Allah make things easy for you and bless you with the righteous partner. Ameen
Assalamoilaikoum bye I want to get married with the boy I love but I have blockage of marriage may be because of sihr Im 40 years old Im afraid whether I cant have children and I love children very much Im unhappy What will happen yo my destiny.Pray for me .
Walaykum Assalam wa rehmatullahi wa barakatuh,
May Allah make things easier for you. Ameen
may Allah bless you with a spouse and children and happiness
Assalamualaikum! I truly believe if the Muslim men are unmarried, they should buy a plane flight and travel to their country or to any Nation overseas in Africa and Asia and get married quickly.
I m probably gonna have really hard time getting married cuz I declared bankruptcy so no one wants me this is real problem in my life and my heart cries😭😭😭.
Akhi don't worry, Allah will give rizq when you will in need the most. This might be test for you get closer Allah seek forgiveness to him. You should pray to Allah you gives pious wife and rizq. Remember the high form of Rizq is having good health, second is pious wife and least is the money. Don't lose hope.
@@boomba5302 thanks alot brother
This is a problem I wish for no one
And besides I don't want to marry at 30-40-50 what should I do then all the joy is gone all life is gone I don't need a wife then anymore so sad
May Allah bless you with a righteous spouse. Ameen
@@MuslimMastery amin ecmain
I am going through same thing
..i don't know what's going on in my life...i m 32 now but looks so young Alhundulillah good looking ,well educated but still hmesha koi na koi problem hojati hai nahi hopata rishta...na mene bohat zyada good looking socha kbhi na high income dekhi kbhi but phr bhi baat aagay ni barhpati...bohat difficult hogya hai or smjh se bahar bhi...islye bs ab Allah pe chorhdya hai shyd uski yahi marzi hai
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I hope Allah will perfectly bond with best partners for yourself. Don't lose hope have qadr in Allah.I advice you to keep expectations low from your opposite, and keep high priorities on Deen, he might not be best in deen but tries to makes it better. Remember marriage compete half of your deen. So, together you make it full.
Don't worry sister just make lots of dua. I have the same story like your but I trust Allah(s.w.t) alot. I know it's my test. Alhamdulillah.
Anyone willing to share their experience of struggling to get married and what they did specifically or practically to find the right person? In other words anyone willing to share their “success story” or know anyone who’s now happily married?
Omg this is exact my question too
Yeah if you’re a man then go back home
And for sisters lower your standards
@@NaseemOGdo you say the same to the brothers?
Marriage is not for everyone. Everybody is different. The reason why so many people fail to get married aka finding a good spouse is because people (parents!) put so much pressure on the matter that it becomes toxic. And that goes for both genders.
i want to get maried too wollahi i am tired
May Allah bless you with a righteous spouse. ameen
@@MuslimMastery Allahuma Ameen not just me but all the sigle brothers and sisters out here inShaALLAH
May allah make it ease for all of us and grant us spouse who will be coolnes of our eyes,,the righteous one ,who fear Allah....
Ameen
I’m over 50 never been married. What do you say to them ?
I Don't Know Whether It Is Test Or Not But I'm Almost 30 Years Old Guy Never Dated Any Girl And I Have Been Looking For A Girl But Al Of Them Rejected Me Because I'm Not Rich And Average Looking Guy, I Wish I Was Never Born..
Don’t say that your stil young work on your self and in your Deen and Allan wil help you with finding someone don’t put it in your head I know you are scared of the future but you never know what wil happen I wil pray now and make dua for you
😢i can feel you bro
How can u get married if you are a girl?
I don't want a arranged marriage.As my family believes meeting someone for 2days is more than enough time to get to know some one and get married.
Assalam Alaykum warahmatullahi wa barakatuh.
Please watch this video : Forced Marriage
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May Allah Make it easy for you. Ameen.
It becomes harder when we live in western countries, where muslims are minority at least to my experience. Even if we are allowed by law to marry Christian or Jews women, but at present days not many consider themselves to be religious, and many more people identify themselves to be either atheists or agnostics, and eventhough if some of them identify as Christians for example, very little who wants to get into marriage straight away as in line with islamic teaching rather than priorly living together without marriage bond.
Muslims are everywhere dude. Stay away from atheists, they only follow their desires. which will make marriage very difficult. Christians are the closest to us in deen. If you can't find a muslim, marry a christian. Even if it's not a practising one, if she believes in God, that's enough. Of course look for a muslim first.
May Allah grant me a pious deendar single good character spouse who will be the coolness of eyes and together in Jannah Aameen
What can a middle aged man who has been married before do if he can barely afford to pay the bills etc and therefore cant afford to support another wife and there doesnt appear anyway he will be able to in the future. Remaining alone the rest of your life will be so difficult and Shaytan will try to guide you off the straight path. The willpower to go on for the rest of ones life is very difficult and depressing
Keep the faith trust me you are not alone.
if you cannot find a suitable muslim woman then consider marrying a jew or Christian woman
I am 25 years ols making 400K PKR a month and also have good looks and education, so i am looking for a beautiful girl. But i have not found girl yet which i want people has referred my family some girls but they are not matching with me. So i have tried to look and send proposal to them but they made an excuse. So the kind of girl i want is not accepting me and the which are accepting i don't want them.
THANK YOU FOR TRUTH , THAT IT IS TEST
Barak Allah Feek.
Akhi we should lower our expectations rather focus on Deen to finding potential partner than beauty so and so. We she is beautiful and rich that's might be plus point but Deen should top prior. We should find potential partner whom you find comfortable and compatible with. Just keep in your mind that you will just not marry a women rather you will marry a women who will potential mother for your children. May Allah bond us guys best partner for ourselves and compete half of your deen.
I am 51 woman and still not merriage, i am hopeless no more time, maybe this is my Qader, and i don't want to talk man in private
Did you make dua when you were young ?
I’m 29, still not married, and there are no promising connections in sight. It feels like time is running out. Some people say they got married in their 40s or 50s and are happy, but I believe they’ve missed out on the prime years to truly enjoy marriage and parenthood. We’re at our best, physically and emotionally, in our younger years, and getting married later feels like missing out on the joys of youth. It’s like playing a sport when you're older - the strength and desire just aren’t the same. People talk about patience, but what’s the point of marrying for the last 10 or 20 years of life when you should be a grandparent by then? It’s hard to stay positive when everyone around you has a family, and you're still waiting. How can you just "be happy" when this longing is so deep?
😂😂😂 i m 27 and single enjoy bro life is short inshALLAH IF not here in jannah we will enjoy inshALLAH TRUST ALLAH i want too but yaeh it not happend yet so be happy i m 27 too 😂
Marriage block....
Sisters who are getting too old need to to be someone's second wife or settle for a man who they would have rejected before
Modern women nowadays are struggling to get married because they have no clue what they wanting in marriage.
Or have a great figure he must be 6ft tall with six figure income and professional job with owning a house.
Most sisters have unrealistic expectations especially south Asian communities.
From my own experience I find non Muslim woman lot easier than muslim ones. Again individual opinion