I fell in love with a situationship. One of the worst feelings ever. We didnt have a title but we did everything as if we were together. I told her how i felt and we remained close. She slowly drifted away, and then one day basically duscarded me. Shit sucks
I don’t get why young people don’t marry don’t engage don’t even publicly say they are a couple … and still open themselves their heart and bodies to another person who is considered as not even a scrappy boyfriend
I met this girl and I wasn’t looking for a relationship and I kept her at arms length because I never thought it was going to be more than just sleeping together only when she had enough of me not wanting to commit she then left (which is entirely understandable) and I never argued or tried to make her stay because I knew I couldn’t give her what she wanted but nonetheless hurts so much I don’t think I’ve ever experienced pain like this.
I needed this at least 8 months ago. I wasn’t expecting to fall this guy. I didn’t want a relationship at the time. I just assumed he would keep me company and talk to me. But we’ve shared so much of ourselves and he is exactly what I would want in a partner and here it is. We can’t be together. I feel sick. I can’t shake off the attachment
I’m going through the SAME THING right now. We’ve been officially unofficial for the past but we can’t be together. The pain.. it’s unbearable. I wonder if I’ll ever come out of this.
@@livmuntez1930 hey , I’m free now. I accepted God as my only Love. And he cured me. What I had with that guy was not if God. So now I will be guarding my heart. If you believe in God, pray , worship and focus your energy on him. He will heal you
I haven’t had sex and I still feel hurt after this situation ended because I had a crush on this dude and I thought I had a chance with him and he threw it in my face that he have a gf the whole time. It was a long distance relationship . I feel foolish and envious of their relationship
@@Afrocreolebombshelle that’s a horrible thing to have happened to you. I empathize with you. that’s a horrible thing to have happened to you. I empathize with you. Don’t listen to a guys words alone, look for his actions. I wish I could be a relationship advice giver of some sorts..my homegirls ask me “what do you think this means?” And I’ll know exactly what it means lol. I’ve been on extreme opposite sides of the spectrum when it comes to dating/relationships. As complex as it may be, the human mind is very predictable and able to be analyzed with relative ease.
It was a situationship. We were on the same page that we can’t commit to a relationship. Hence, I set one boundary to him that was to let me know if he goes about talking to other people. Many a times I doubted him. So I asked him if there’s anyone else, he denied. One day I snooped on his phone and I found out that he was indeed talking to someone else. I bursted and confronted him. I told him he could’ve just told me, I wasn’t forcing any relationship anyway. He called me many times but I was too broken to pick up. I called him back 24hours later to ask why did he call me. He gave me a plain apology in one sentence. Not a heartfelt one. I said okay and hung up. Then the next day I admitted my mistake on checking his phone. He hasn’t seen the message and has disappeared. Why? Should I contact him because we agreed on no relationship? Please help me
You might feel the urge to reach out to him, but I encourage you to reflect carefully before taking that step. Prioritize your own happiness and well-being. Seek countless ways to bring joy into your life, and consciously avoid anything that could later deplete your energy or disrupt your journey towards a peaceful existence. Always protect your inner peace and choose paths that nurture your well-being. Good Luck❤
Just focus on yourself, pull back all your energy to yourself.Dont put your energy to thinking about him..Just move on and if he come back don't accept him so easily.Ask him to buy some expensive things 😂
I think you’ve made it pretty clear he’s not important to you by instantly breaking it off with him. I think he has equally made it clear you’re not important to him by keeping secret side relationships from you, after promising he wouldn’t. That’s not a worthwhile chase. Just move on- you’re not willing to commit, or be with men who are willing to commit to you.
Now I know why I got depressed in the last couple of weeks..
I fell in love with a situationship. One of the worst feelings ever. We didnt have a title but we did everything as if we were together. I told her how i felt and we remained close. She slowly drifted away, and then one day basically duscarded me. Shit sucks
How did you recover bro?
This is the most helpful video that I've come across during this season of my life. Thank you.
I don’t get why young people don’t marry don’t engage don’t even publicly say they are a couple … and still open themselves their heart and bodies to another person who is considered as not even a scrappy boyfriend
I met this girl and I wasn’t looking for a relationship and I kept her at arms length because I never thought it was going to be more than just sleeping together only when she had enough of me not wanting to commit she then left (which is entirely understandable) and I never argued or tried to make her stay because I knew I couldn’t give her what she wanted but nonetheless hurts so much I don’t think I’ve ever experienced pain like this.
Sus, pain ka pang nalalaman sana nitrato mo nalang sya ng maayos
In other words you wasted her time and used her for sex. Got it.
I needed this at least 8 months ago. I wasn’t expecting to fall this guy. I didn’t want a relationship at the time. I just assumed he would keep me company and talk to me. But we’ve shared so much of ourselves and he is exactly what I would want in a partner and here it is. We can’t be together. I feel sick. I can’t shake off the attachment
I’m going through the SAME THING right now. We’ve been officially unofficial for the past but we can’t be together. The pain.. it’s unbearable. I wonder if I’ll ever come out of this.
@@livmuntez1930 hey , I’m free now.
I accepted God as my only
Love. And he cured me.
What I had with that guy was not if God. So now I will be guarding my heart.
If you believe in God, pray , worship and focus your energy on him. He will heal you
Don’t have sex. That’ll solve most problems of the situationship.
I haven’t had sex and I still feel hurt after this situation ended because I had a crush on this dude and I thought I had a chance with him and he threw it in my face that he have a gf the whole time. It was a long distance relationship . I feel foolish and envious of their relationship
@@Afrocreolebombshelle that’s a horrible thing to have happened to you. I empathize with you. that’s a horrible thing to have happened to you. I empathize with you. Don’t listen to a guys words alone, look for his actions. I wish I could be a relationship advice giver of some sorts..my homegirls ask me “what do you think this means?” And I’ll know exactly what it means lol. I’ve been on extreme opposite sides of the spectrum when it comes to dating/relationships. As complex as it may be, the human mind is very predictable and able to be analyzed with relative ease.
Situationship is the great equalizer
#agree , #stoic 💪💯
It was a situationship. We were on the same page that we can’t commit to a relationship. Hence, I set one boundary to him that was to let me know if he goes about talking to other people.
Many a times I doubted him. So I asked him if there’s anyone else, he denied.
One day I snooped on his phone and I found out that he was indeed talking to someone else. I bursted and confronted him. I told him he could’ve just told me, I wasn’t forcing any relationship anyway.
He called me many times but I was too broken to pick up. I called him back 24hours later to ask why did he call me. He gave me a plain apology in one sentence. Not a heartfelt one. I said okay and hung up. Then the next day I admitted my mistake on checking his phone. He hasn’t seen the message and has disappeared.
Why? Should I contact him because we agreed on no relationship? Please help me
You might feel the urge to reach out to him, but I encourage you to reflect carefully before taking that step. Prioritize your own happiness and well-being. Seek countless ways to bring joy into your life, and consciously avoid anything that could later deplete your energy or disrupt your journey towards a peaceful existence. Always protect your inner peace and choose paths that nurture your well-being. Good Luck❤
Sounds like you both ironically made it worse than any relationship could ever have been
Just focus on yourself, pull back all your energy to yourself.Dont put your energy to thinking about him..Just move on and if he come back don't accept him so easily.Ask him to buy some expensive things 😂
I think you’ve made it pretty clear he’s not important to you by instantly breaking it off with him.
I think he has equally made it clear you’re not important to him by keeping secret side relationships from you, after promising he wouldn’t.
That’s not a worthwhile chase. Just move on- you’re not willing to commit, or be with men who are willing to commit to you.
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Hahaha women making themselves depressed will never not be funny