SITUATIONSHIP | Award Winning Short Film
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- Опубликовано: 20 май 2023
- Winner of Best Screenplay at the Mexican American Film & TV Festival 2023
Estranged lovers reconnect after a few years apart.
Starring:
Corina Calderon
Noah Baron
Directed by:
Jay Diaz 
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It literally takes someone breaking your spirit in this manner to realize you deserve better. I had a guy in My life like this before. I loved him like no other. I thought one day my love would be enough. All he did was syphon everything good within and take it to boost him when he was low or between others. It literally took me losing a parent to realize a person like that, even in my darkest moment, wouldnt prioritize my well being. Selfish to the core. It’s been 2 yrs, 3 in Sept, since I’ve seen him and that realization was so difficult but now I finally feel my inner light once more. I deserve better, if you are reading this, you do too. ❤
Its a cycle that sometimes both parties cannot escape. It starts with a text and ends with a text and loops all over again
"...but my love doesn't have walls." This line hits hard.
I am in this current situation for 7 months and counting. It's crushing my peace. It's damaging to my soul. It's so hard to be with a guy who is never out but completely IN in my life. It affects my productivity, it affects my routine... EVERYTHING. I wanna stop, but I am too weak to let go because he's the only guy I loved like this for a long time. I kept on praying to God for helping me get out of this situation, because I am tired. Really, really tired. 😢
Pray and bring your burden to God ask with faith relentlessly for strength to open your eyes. It’s very important because if you’re not careful when it ends, it might take years. And then you will regret why you didn’t do anything sooner. It’s only a matter of time, you need to think about yourself first..It’s not easy but it’s one those thing that really needs to be faced. Trust me I know. I hope you find the courage to do this. Sending you strength, bless
Babe trust me, I’ve been there but you really have to make the effort to let him go. I’ve been there hun, don’t sell yourself short. It’ll suck soooooo damnnn much but having your peace crushed is not worth it. It’s not worth it! You gotta leave, luv. I know….but you will definitely be in a better state removing someone who takes your presence for granted…it’s time to walk away….
It will kill you from the inside if you don't and your parents didn't bring you up to become someone's door mat. I'm struggling too.
I was in this and worse of it was long distance and I broke up with him even though we weren’t dating, I’m so fucking pissed with him
Get out now. I just ended a 3&1/2 year situationship. Completely broke me because I feel the same way you do about loving someone this long.
'What do you neeed from me now'.... accurate af. Emotionally unavaliable people seek to use and take from others... love, energy, healing, attention... and dress it up as genuine connection.
It’s still hurts because you genuinely love them and expect them to change, because we believe that love can change anything but the truth is you’re drowning deep and deep into their darkness and lust that it might be difficult to admit that they would never change. They never healed their wounds and they would never heal yours.
Like this skit here, i think situationships are created between someone with avoidant attachment style and someone with anxious attachment style. It is weird to see what kind of trauma it can lead to with the anxious and what kind of late life struggle it can give to the avoidant.
I was in one too, I was the anxious one and this legit gave me flashbacks. It's just so beautiful! Thanks for sharing!
I deeply felt it. I saw myself reflected in the same exact scenario only with different actors. Those same exact words I said to him, “ if you truly love me, let me go”.
Each time he would reach out, hope would poke its dumbass face and all I’d get was hurt.
Sadly each time you give in, a little more of your self esteem, self worth, confidence and dignity chips away making it even more difficult to resist.
Men that knowingly play with woman’s emotions this way are some of the most selfish and cruel kind of people in this world.
Situationship only handled by emotionally unavailable people / unhealed people.
im that person...can anyone tell me how to heal from this..
i really need help
@@MeowMeow-fk3eh you can try therapy or weed or friends or family or writing. But I'd try meditating for 10 minutes every morning and night. Just close your eyes and breath. Maybe it'll take more than one thing or happen randomly. Good luck.
Shouldn’t start this in the first place..
This was a really good film. As someone who's been stuck in this cycle before, I felt myself really relating to this story.
This happened a lot now. If you're unhappy, just leave, don't have to confront cause you know what you wanna know.
Just got out of one 2 weeks ago. I really cared for this man, and I continue to do so. But after a year of talking and 3 meetups(ldr 4 hours apart), he couldnt commit to me to be exclusive with me. Im battling the care I felt for him, possibly the love, and the anger I have at myself for falling for it.
Short but truly effective! I love her last line.
"My love doesn't have walls".... Wow
❤ I wish they could show this in schools. I'm in my first ever situationship at 39, and you would've thought I would've learned. Brilliant short film, the emotion packs a punch right to the core.
You sound self aware. You can free yourself at any time. Wishing you the courage to do so from someone who's been there.
@@heyjavonnejayThank you ❤
Im in my first situationship and it hurts because i care for this person so much and he knows it. As for him i dont know how he feels. I cant walk away and i know I should
I’m in my first one too, started at 37, in 41 now
It's all about self respect
Value your self
Set strong boundaries
She was always “unavailable“. Now, not long after, she starts complaining, seeing people, making out with people. She broke me so bad and it still kinda hurts
It happens that two people love each other very much but what they have to accomplish doesn't mesh. It hurts.
The level of accuracy in this video is so much insane, I am feeling down rn 😢
Ive been in a situationship almost a year now,have asked myself alot of question maybe im not pretty enough to be his girl..ive been waiting for so long but it keeps on hurting hurting me...and im afraid to date someone else becos i wont love him the way i loved the other guy
This was a great film. I am so glad I watched it.
Finally ur back! Great video as always man keep it up!!!❤
I had been in situationship when I was 23 for a year. After that I have never had a relationship cos it really destroyed all my thoughts, approaches to love. For that year I managed to belittle myself so much that I got trauma of not being enough. I am 35 years old right now. I somehow cannot forget myself why I have put myself into such situation and didnt run out when I should.
Amazing performances
He wouldnt open up emotionally. I always stayed with him in his bad as well as good times so we are here in this situationship thing. We love each other but he being the emotionally immature or whatever I cant commit to him! It will destroy me and hurt me eventually which i dont want
He just feels he will lose you if he becomes honest. He doesn't know how you are gonna react when becomes vulnerable to you
The music, the acting... Everything is just amazing
This is great.. Cried after watching it. Totally related!
Wow. This was good.
Love it!!
This hits hard! Very deep!
I love your creative story telling!🙌🏽🔥 absolutely LOVE it!!!!
Best!
Im crying so much to this
Outstanding work! 🌟👏 Keep up the great work! 🎥 What inspired you to make this short film?
Would you be open to being a podcast guest to discuss your film-making journey?
Relateble 😭
1:47 - This shot is especially strong after the "My love doesn't have walls" quote
😂😂😂😂😂 she should not have given him the opportunity to waste her time again
I feel this I’m in a situationship and never been in one. Ugh I don’t even known what I’m doing I’m probably going to get hurt *sigh*
SITUATIONSHIP HERE ( 17 years). I believe a man in Baby Boomer & Gen X should be a PROVIDER/ PRODUCER in a relationship. Because my “ BF” father left his mom. He has always been a provider for the family since 5 years old and he was married before. He does not want to do that anymore. I will not call him my boyfriend or make him my husband.we care and love eachother..Nobody gets us individual or want to deal with us individually. We laugh, cry , argue happy . Our main problem and there is other but main problem, he doesn’t want to be a provider in a relationship. I am not going to be a 50%-100% provider when there is a man right here. I am Silent Generation old school. So this is my situationship.
The song is "Meet me in the sunrise" by Mango Jerry btw
I have struggled so hard to find it. Thank you so much!
Thanx
❤
I miss her
You made ne feel special Joe
Excellent
Oh my god that could of been me except the guy I slept with never said he loved me and could not even say my name.
damn.. right time.. right place perharps... is this a foreshadowing of what is to happen?
hate how I was the guy depicted here, ik I broke him.. never gonna end up like this ever
Lmao wow this video was good 😬
lol, im a man and this is where my other half is pushing the relationship too. Scary place to be. But it is what it is.
12:15 was soooo incredibly uncomfortable omg
What to do
IS THAT DIABLOS GIRLFRIEND FROM SUICIDE SQUAD
These days people are so into desires and so coward to commitment, they just come up with the idea of having fun only and playing with others. ONS, FWB, and now another stupid term called Situation ship. I think days were better before, there were only two terms, "Whoring around" and "Loving someone". Too much validation of everything stupid has it's price.
Can tell it wasn't real.. She said "I know I played my part in this, I take full responsibility"... No woman, in the history of the world has ever said that... Ever.
I said that just recently in my situationship, ugh! Praying to get out and it's difficult for some crazy reason.