Straight facts. This is an ugly truth most coaches won't say, so they can sell you courses, but Austin is keeping it 10000% as usual. Some girls just won't rock with you period based of race. Accept it.
Yeah but light skinned black guys have a statistical advantage in liberal cities across the world. It’s actually proven. The guy with the most swipes in Tinder history was a light skinned dude in LA and looked exactly like this guy. His point is still valid though.
I’m so called “black”, handsome, doing well financially, and dating is a lot tougher than it should be for me in the United States. The U.S. is racist, hate filled, and divided. “Black” women only make up 6% of the population here. Once you subtract the lesbians & independen man haters, then factor in I don’t date single moms, women that aren’t feminine, married women, older women, or fat women, that percent drops my “black” dating options to less than 1% of the population. Then when you try to expand your options by dating other ethnicities very few are interested in you because of all the racist mental programming done here. You also have limited access to other ethnicities because of the social division here. Ive done fairly well with women here because I’m above avg in height, looks, and income, but it should be a lot better for me here. The United States is the absolute WORST country to date if you have a complexion. It’s best to go countries that aren’t majority so called “white” because those cultures are less racist. If you do you will never want to come back. Trust me.
Im white and i bet many black women wouldnt date ne because im white 😂😂 lets not make everything about race.. If ur a brokie with shit rizz expect to be rejected shidd got nothing to do with ur race some like u some wont its universal for men
It’s not a matter of humility. It’s just honesty. He didn’t say he’s less attractive than white men. Non black women see white men as more attractive because non melanated skin is associated with social status in our world.
I’m black, I know what he is talking about. This is straight facts. Being white stereotypically in this day and age is associated with power, access to wealth, economic opportunities and political affluence, the unique thing about these types of advantages from a racial standpoint, is that these things can change among the races and history has shown this to be true. Stereotypes also can change with time as well as the actual socio-political and economic advantages of a race of people
I see Black men with white women or any race every single day. I’m half and half and never seen a white guy with a black woman in my life. Rarely ever even see Black men with Black women.
@@hopeful4243 That’s nowhere near true. Black and Hispanic men have it the “hardest” on dating apps. Dating for women is significantly easier than men, so don’t know why you think black women have it hard.
@@kingtaco1725 oh I think it compared black women to other women and Asian dudes to other men. Not necessarily black women to all people in dating apps. And I think the study was back in 2013? Or 2014? So I'm not sure if it's still valid today.
This is 100% facts.. I've had a white woman literally tell me "I think you are attractive but I'm not into black guys".. there was nothing I could say.. so before I went down the rabbit hole of asking why, I just said thank you and have a good rest of your evening.. race definitely does definitely
@@UltimateD755 weird? No. Some blk women will say that about wm. Is that weird? No it's just being normal. Having an in group tribal bias and attraction your own people.
This isn’t him being weird this is just straight facts. Which is why brothas need to be looks maxing and upping their SMV as much as possible and tossing out that thug/gangster persona scratches off a whole pool of women
why would you say that? authentically that "thug persona" is a manifestation of where you're from. it dont make you any less qualified. don't gotta be labeled a fool or a pookie cause you from the hood.
Nah G , that thug stuff gotta go, first of all it’s done no good to the community and second of all we are the only community that glorifies being “gangster” which is crazy...
@@patricksainclair2384 of course being from the hood doesn’t make you less of a man we’ve seen hella successful brothas from marginalized communities make it. It’s the portrayal of that thug/hood character that could repel you from a lot of women. And most importantly really poisons the community
Bru quit being a not white mentality victim. Bring your game up, look good, be smart, get ur bag up and you'll be better off than most. Black is beautiful my guy. You are missing out the amount of women that crave us in other parts of the world
He’s right. As an Asian and considered attractive by my peers, a good chunk of the matches I get from non-Asian girls that actually want to go on a date, I’ve noticed are girls that either have an Asian fetish or heavily influenced by Asian culture (watches anime, listens to a lot of kpop, and loves boba, sushi, ramen, etc). Hispanic also fall in the same pool as White when it comes to the most dating options. I never take offense to it though if someone tells me they’re not into Asians, people like what they like, just like how I have my own preferences.
I agree,Hispanic guys are the only ones that can compete with white guys with all things being equal. I think its because they look the closest to white, compared to Black, Asian, Indian.
Yeah, a lot of girls I’ve talked to say their preference is white guys. My sister (Asian) also has that preference. All I can say is that there are attractive people and ugly people in every race, we should all just do our best. Remember not to be bitter, we all need to work in ourselves and prioritize things of real value, like friendships, work, faith, and family, women and their opinions of us are never the end all be all!
Bro that Asian girls liking only white dudes shit is alarmingly noticeable they only get intimate with their own kind or white guys I’ve seen nothing else..I’m a dark black man who’s loved Asian women since he was a little boy not fetish I’m not hood every race says I’m an 8 or better I’ve had intimate relationships with all races accept Indian(haven’t had the chance) or Asian that can’t be by coincidence I do well with white women for the most part obviously my own kind latinas love me mixed women omg that’s all they want is dark black men I’m right up their alley every single time but Asian women omfg I can’t even get into the talking stage with them really and I’m not a bum I’m applying to dental school this year 28 might be late but still not a bum ya know it’s just strange to me..if you can explain this cut and dry that would be awesome..
@@captaintosen23yeah bro. The slim pretty ones at the gym are typically with white men, kinda sad. My gf isn't black though so I can't be mad, I really don't like big women💀
Yup dating within our race is just as hard as dating out. Other races do not have this problem. The problem is we have a lot more overweight and obese women in our community or they are single mothers these women also have insane demands as well over 6 feet tall, money, a thug with a PhD or some shizz. The ones that are attractive and childless are usually with a tyrone or a white dude.
Nope… sorry, cope! Most women are attracted to white men cause of the white European features on those men. You can’t brainwash people into liking a certain type. Natural law will always kick in. White men are just the most good looking men of the earth and other can’t stand it. You can’t put a ugly women on tv and other ads and have men lusting after her. The natural attractiveness to beauty will always kick in
@@leontaecoleman3644Like this guys there's no evidence to back this up. I've been told by girls they only date black or asian men. This. Is just another excuse to be a victim.
Most females are more loyal to their racial group than we give them credit for. I've seen plenty of Black girls openly say that they only date Black men. Shit, I've seen girls of other races say they prefer Black men. It's just that White people are generally seen as the highest beauty standard around the world. Which is why White men, on average, have more options with all races of women. But an attractive man of any race who works to be his best self will have options, regardless of race. Gotta work with the cards you been dealt.
I’ve met too many women who say that they don’t date white men to agree with that. Also, usually white people have smaller lips, pale skin, and a low “cool factor”. I’m incredibly biased but to me it seems like mixed race people are some of the most successful in the dating world.
@TheGreatWasian_ Well, I live in Texas. From my experience, White people in my area tend to date within their race. But maybe that's because I live in a place that has a history of racism. And majority are not pale. Most of them have nice tans, lol. Also, girls who say they don't date white men are usually coping, especially if they themselves are white. White men are still very privileged in this White supremacist society and they have the most options with women.
@@rebelsoldier2391 they call white people white for a reason bro it doesn’t matter that the people are tan where you live, they are generally pale🤣🤣. I am half white in NC and most white people here are pretty pale. If anything tho, you’ve brought up a really good point indirectly: These phenomenons where people tend to like a specific group of people are most likely influenced by things like culture and location. It is also most likely an individual, case-by-case basis. Humans are individuals.
@TheGreatWasian_ Asians are actually pale when you look at them next to a Caucasian. Most White people aren't actually "white" just like black people aren't actually "black." And yes humans are individuals but we evolved as groups. Being accepted by your racial/ethnic group is a survival instinct. Which is why most people date within their race. Only the outliers settle down with someone outside their race.
Facts it’s more about white guys having the social programming behind them more than anything. It’s not because there actually more attractive. On average women see black men as more physically attractive.
@@cicibeknowing3343nah I love black women , but in general (NOT ALL!!) for my generation at least , black women want a thugged out dude full of tattoos and no emotional control. For the black men who choose not to indulge in the foolishness , it is kinda harder to date inside the race for us , as this younger generation of black women don’t tend to be interested in traits like intelligence , caring and emotionally intelligence anymore. They actually tend to prefer the opposites of those traits but I won’t compromise myself for foolishness
@xxtestimony2817 idk buddy I'm calling B.S. on that one. There are black women who adore those type of men but get overlooked for the bimbo you referenced with the phatass who could have her pick of the litter. It's a rough game in the dating world but both sides and all races gotta humble themselves. All bw aint seeking big 🍆 Tyrone with no job and trauma damage that's mostly hoodrats who love dudes who cause chaos.
Fuckn facts. If youre a square black guy meaning no thug shit they wont fuck with you. Then you go get a bunny then the black babes get mad at you. Its like damn you didnt want me but the bunny do now you mad at me
Absolute truth. As an attractive black man myself who has dealt outside of my race, I can attest that some women will not deal with you because you are black. Regardless of attraction. This world is brainwashed with the the European standard of beauty and privilege. You will find some curious women that will deal with black men due to the sexual stereotype, but that is a small percentage.
It's funny because all non black women say race doesn't matter if you ask them especially on dating apps then they unmatch you or don't match you when they see your photo.
@@Mastermind-cd2xi I’m black dude.. have seen enough situations to tell y’all that y’all have nothing else to do so y’all go to the racial aspect and make a lot of stuff up to get a reaction.. no I’m not saying there’s no racism before you try that’s how much y’all say the same thing you get too predictable😅😅
@@matttheamerican3766 cool you could have been like the 99% of people that didn't interact or comment on my post if you didn't care so much on what I had to say. and they are addressing me as an African man
It doesn’t only apply in dating. It applies to everything outside of it too, the darker you are the more you’ll be looked down upon. Even amongst the black community
@@FLCL2010TOKYOJAPAN You're either a stud or your location has a superior ideology regarding black males. This is not the case for most average black males.
@@leontaecoleman3644 dr umar said brothas get last pick of the white girls. Plus it all boils down to how you view yourself. Never feel inferior to a white male. You’re good bro build yourself up and you’ll realize you’re doing it for yourself rather than an airhead mush brain Disney influenced bitch
@@leontaecoleman3644 Yep, if you’re even partially aware you would realize that most of the decently attractive women of all races except black usually end up with a white or mixed white male.
Am north african white passing because am pale with blue eyes and I prefer females of the same race, the dating market doesn't really matter when you prefer your own race
All the people claiming cap are non black men 😂😂😂. You can’t tell a black man their own reality. Or just black men who worship non-black women. This guy is speaking facts, it’s not even a victim thing, it’s just reality lol.
you may see a few of them though.almost every city has a very small amount.of non black women that like black men.but that means nothing because most of those black men just got lucky.that’s not the majority of black men.
I’m a real black man..😂 I believe that the claim, “your race matters,” is false. Yes, I do agree that racism exists, but not to the extent that we are being oppressed. In fact, I believe that the majority of the black community oppresses themselves. For the man in the video to compare himself to the “white man” shows the ignorance and lack of self respect. There is a complete lack of Jesus Christ. I don’t agree that our race is of substantial importance, fundamentally we are all human beings. It isn’t a issue with race, it’s an issue with sin. If we were to humble ourselves and reflect on our actions and repent, we wouldn’t have to worry about what the next thinks.
Neither can a black man tell white men their reality.imo this is straight cap..black men are the most attractive race in the west..opposite for black women,statistically speaking!
Race still matters asian girls and indian girls dont like black men at all the only women who like black men are black women if other races like you as a black men its not cus of you its cus of another reason like a fetish for example
Not exactly. I'm 6'0" and still growing and lots of short dudes have better game than me and some other tall people. Plus, other countries have shorter height averages than America and Europe, and there's more leeway.
Facts, bro. I'm mixed (Caucasian + latino+ black) and i never had big issues with women, but it's undeniable that the global preference is almost totally into white men. That's the reality. Race matters.... not proud or happy to say that, but color matters.
You conceptualised, distilled and articulated exactly my sentiments. I’m a Black guy who moved over to the UK from South Africa. Back home I never struggled for girls, compliments, secret admirers, intimacy, physicality. i did okay in that department. However, I moved to the UK and everything turned upside down. No girls. No compliments. NO NOTHING. I was convinced I was terrible looking. But this here brother just brought light to my plight. Thank you brother. I’m a few inches taller after that!!
It’s a cultural thing dude. If your look around the world there are plenty of cultures that have a really extravagant concepts of beauty. I may go to Africa and have the same experience you had in UK. It is not racism, its a matter of what the majority likes in that place. That is how the world works, can’t be mad at people because they don’t like you. Be the best person you can be and love yourself, you can’t force girls to like you because you don’t feel good with their sexual choices , the only thing you can influence is in how you feel about it and if that affects you or not. God bless you brother.
@@efrenreyes3863 it goes by who’s currently in rulership honestly, because yt men can go to Africa and run through all the women. They worship yt people in Africa (perks of colonizing the world) 🤷🏾♂️
@@phsza5607 Well. They could colonized the World because they were on a position of power given by their advantage on technology compare to the rest. It could have been the other way but it didn’t happen like that. We gotta go back to thousand of years ago. At the end based on the same thing you said, what change everything is not your color, but the power you have.
it's because of western media, women generally speaking will only go for 6 ft+ , attractive, rich guys of any colour - which is 1% of men aged 18-30. Blame media, the west is brainwashed beyond belief.
Extremely few people admit it . i know that Asian/Indian guys have to work way harder and ensure everything is on point i.e , looks , style , hairstyle , tattoos etc
As a confident black dude teaching in Vietnam for some years now, I came to this realization pretty quick! If you an average white dude in Asia, trust me when I say would clean up!!
as an Asian guy who cant get an Asian girl. Trust an believe it's true. I've dated black, white, Jew, Mexican, native, mixed, etc. Asian women only want non Asian men nowadays
I never really cared because as a black man, I rather date within my own race because we can relate to each other which makes everything flow naturally and thats no disrespect to other races. I love my sistas ✊🏾
you saying that like black women don’t have.high standards for black males also.the only reason black men are looking to other races.of women is because black women friendzoned them.because they wasn’t hood enough for them.or they were nerdy.
@leontae coleman Maybe you have bad luck with black women, hey thats on you. You just don't know how to choose them 🤷🏾♂️. When you know what you want, then you know how to sort them out and pick the right one.
And it still surprises me how so many white guys I know complain about not getting girls and thinking just because I'm black and 6'0 girls just instantly want me.
@@the-based-jew6872this is wrong. Any WM does NOT have an advantage over ANY BM. Some women would choose the black guy simply because he's black, he's exotic. White guys are looked at as dull and boring.
Sooooo true! My white friend Gary literally gets every girls number he approaches. Girls even come up to him. And I’m talking about Instagram model type girls. It’s crazy!
Austin is speaking facts. As a Hispanic man now lol, with dark skin. When I lived in the inner city, I had no problem finding girls. Because most of the girls like Austin said, listened to hip hop or had black or Hispanic friends. I moved out of the “hood” and I am around white people/girls. Who did not listen to rap or had many if any black or Hispanic friends, and I have a hard time finding a girl. This is true overseas. Because what people outside of America are exposed to his “white culture.” The music, the movies, etc, all feature “white people.” This is not being racist just stating the facts.
We black people just wanna penetrate into all races, especially whites. I mean how many white people are in African countries, very few, no? And Africa is huge. Soon nigeria will be the 3rd most populous country by 2100 and we wanna get into white women because our own race is perceived by us as "ugly".
@@Acord718 Most protagonist in American media are white and sometimes black. Asians and Latinos are mostly side characters. Did y'all dirty. That'll change soon enough though.
Race doesn’t matter bro it’s all about showers, haircuts and confidence 😡😡 - 6ft half puerto rican half dominican light skin guy with chieseld features and a good childhood, talking to his full blooded indian friend with dravidian features
Austin is speaking facts. This is especially true here in the U.S., white men have the largest pool of all races. They can get an Asian, progressive black, American Spanish, etc and can obviously still get a woman from their race. Black men on the other hand, only can truly have black as an option. The other races (for the most part) may find him good looking but not sexually attractive and damn sure wouldn’t marry him due to the stereotypes, media programming, and racial self preservation. It’s mind blowing to realize but it’s valid af. People love to say “I don’t judge by race” or “I’m color blind” but simply just look at their dating history.
The sexual attraction part is cap. I know of plenty of short black guys (5’8 and below) who pull like crazy at in the US, especially in college campuses. They’ve been told that them being black is more like a fetish for white girls, but for the long run they have no success or very little of it at that of actually marrying and having a long term future with these white girls.
@@TJY_RISE_UP yea there’s many Spanish speaking brothers such as Dominic republic and it has to do if she’s into the hip hop culture if she’s into her own culture (puerto rican, Mexican, Colombian) they tend to stick to their own
Bro is the only G who admits and dares to say that the majority of ppl don't like black skin, which is so true because it's nature. We just have to accept it and moved forward 😊 some ppl should do the same sh*t like bro ngl ...
If we're talking worldwide, maybe. In terms of the US, idk. Keep in mind, lots of women don't hate black men or men of other races, They just prefer white guys or vice versa.
@@whyme3772 That is an amazing statement that you just made. The word prefer refers to. That’s just how a person feels. And it’s no deeper than that. I have philosophical discussions on the origins of what makes a person do anything. Does it come from emotion in how they feel or from reasoning? I am still conflicted. Idk 🤷♂️ Or it maybe a bit of both. Putting race aside.
Absolutely I believe that as well, some ppl can relate. But at the end of the day, as long as you make yourself a catch, attractive, and outstanding personality you can attract other races as well.
This is definitely true when it comes to long term relationships. But I’ve noticed Black men are really successful in the hit it and quit short term situations
I did not know this was real until I experienced this myself, I know as a black man myself that black & Arabic women tend to be the most attracted to me and white & Asian women the least. Especially blonde white women. I strongly believe that a lot of them find black men attractive, but are scared to date them because of social norms by what their family and friends would think of them etc.
Yeah gang I live in DC the only time yt girls look my way is when I have my shirt off or a tank top on even then its for a few seconds like their friends are gonna find out they want some chocolate or some sh!t
I’ve heard arab women rarely ever even go into the same room with black men like that lol I always thought white and black women were more attracted to black men than asian and arab
I’m a Dominican man. When I lived in San Diego, the only woman I would attract are ones who grew up listening to hip hop/ rap or the ones who grew up listening to Latino music like Bachata and merengue . I had ZERO success with woman that were from the, for example, Philippines . They would only date their kind or a white man . Mans is spitting facts, I had to work hard on my image just to increase my appeal. It is what it is. Got to work with the hand that you’re dealt with .
Facts. But at the same time, you only need to secure ONE girl, a soulmate worthy of marriage , and you are set for life. And in that sense the size of the pool becomes less significant, for example if you have 10000 instead of 20000 choices, you still have choice and probably would be able to find that one girl.
Confidence is first no matter what your race is. As far as black men are concerned we have to be more stoic. Our culture loves being loud & ignorant. It’s not attractive at all.
Why would anyone be mad at him saying this? No one is saying Black men are ugly or undesirable, it's just that White men, by dating app data, get more replies than any group of men. Just like White women, they're the standard of beauty because of the culture we live in. Doesn't mean Black men don't have to try or improve, just acknowledge it for what it is. Your race absolutely matters. Hell, I've been told by a White girl I was cool with, not even dating, that her parents told her not to date outside of her race.
@@ferju4875 No, the opposite happened now. The black man has become sexy for girls because of social communication and their entry into such a field as rap, singing and movies, and because we are fun, of course, we will not forget the porn clips, because of all this, we took the lead on all races
@@ferju4875 that's statistically true Black people in America are the poorest demographic They are 13% of the population but commit more than half the violent crime And are the least likely demographic to graduate high school and the most likely to fail/dropout
As a white man u expect women to be drooling on me over black men? I fucking hate this shit if u get rejected its now racism? Like how far are we gonna take this whole crap of how unfair its for black men. Literally some women like white some like black what the big deal. Its always just a small % that u end up getting with no matter ur race its just about gender. Men are rejected not black men
@@silentyblitzhear what he says G a white boy is more preferable world wide, yes there’s women for all of us but I’ve been all around the world and I can assure you white men have more of an advantage, word-wide that is.
@@4ktravelviews878 oh ok im willing to accept the fact that in many countries we may seem like a better option for some caliber of women but i still think its not all sunshine and rainbows being a white MAN still. We as men should be smarter and not get put down by all this but just more motivated, we shall not dwell on stuff we cant affect rather outgrow it COMPLETELY. Evolve, adapt and conquer ✌️
as a white guy i have had a fair share of experience wit Black women n WOC. Never had white women in my life come up or show attraction, and since i was a child my crush on girls would always be black women or woc. Its also cause they treated me better then other white women in my social life
I am white and have been approached by more black women than white. Black girls don’t bullshit or play games , they know what they want. I find it much easier flirting with a black women.
@Armis_Articulate, In all honesty from what I have seen personally, you are the exception and not the rule. For most of us (men of color) we have to deal with preconceived notions and stigma that are predominantly negative. By no means is that a victim @mentality either, it is what it is. And women of a lighter ethnic group in most cases see us a an outlet of fetishism and to indulge in what some consider a taboo, as the creator of this video has stated in so many words.
I am a darker skinned black guy. I would say I am a solid 7/10. I am not shallow person and I know I don't have abs or movie star looks, but the only matches I get on Tinder, Bumble, Hinge are either bots, fake profiles, or girls I am not attracted to ( big girls.. No offense). On the rare occasion I match with a girl I am into ( I date races) I get ghosted or dumped for someone else. White girls in particular will ghost for a white guy. So it's definitely harder for black and non white dudes on dating apps.
@@Jedilord882 depends what u mean if u just mean a lighter shade black guy it’s the same (i know from my own experience) but if u mean an actual lightskin guy who’s mixed they can get any race because when you’re mixed like that even tho you have a darker shade than white and non white curly hair you still have white facial features that make you more attractive to whites and the fact that you’re still colored means you can easily get other races too specifically black and hispanic
I'm Asian and I know EXACTLY what you mean by bots, fakes, and huge girls. Except that it's even worse for Asian men. I might get one once every couple months if that. I gave up apps. I'm 6ft and make a bit over $200k. I'm not jacked but in shape and women often do double takes/smile so I guess I'm decent looking. Tf I'm gonna settle for busted girls. I'll just keep going to Vegas for fun. Whoever tf I want. 💸💸💸
I completely agree with him. I don't know why people go for anecdotal saying it's not true and we see girls liking black guys more and not empirical evidence. I'm Indian and 80-90% of the population is brown and Indian girls' first preference is a fair skin man. If you tell any Indian girl to pick a man based on their looks they go for a fair skin man without any second thought.
That's what I say bro. Indian, Asians and brown Mediterranean men are below every race of guys. These black guys are crying for no reason. They can go to Miami and get Hispanic girls. These girls love them some BBCs, that's why we see Hispanic women and black women more in Fresh and Fit. But for us Indians and Asians, especially Indians, we are low of the low. Our race is the most low quality. And we can see that by our looks. I have travelled around many states in India, and I only see ugly faces. We are most disgusting looking race. I hate my race.
True enough. I've found without fail, everywhere I go every young Indian woman finds me attractive. Almost 100% of the time. I'm from a mixed background so I have a hybrid look to me. So it throws ppl off. Now don't get me wrong, I get alot of attention from white girls too. But many people would consider me white as well with a dark tan in summer lol. I always figured Asians weren't into me. Or blomdes, but then I started getting with blondes so I'm really not too sure any more 😂😂
Ill agree with this. As a white dude i have more options for long term relationship, however, my black equivalent would get more short term options, because lets be honest alot of girls nowadays fetishize black dudes and think they’re “exotic” and that shits weird😂
Facts 💯 I get sex easily but not “ relationships “ , which I am absolutely fine with . I’ll stick to busting major nuts and leaving the gynocentric “ dating “ to the s1mps out there
he a lame fool 🤣 woman especially blk don't want him an he insecure about it I get woman of all types an races an so does a lot of my Brothas we more attractive then any other race an the woman will tell yo insecure ass the same thing, jus because he a goofy an woman don't want him doesn't mean that's everybody reality infact I would argue most of us have it easy in dating an sex it's you lil dik white boys that even white girl chest on wit us blk men check your girlfriend phone since you so sure about the Bull sht lies y'all spreading
Most men & women are going to have a hard time being honest & understanding this video message 🙏 & excepting it. Non-black people might have a hard time admitting & saying wow this message is correct 💯
It’s 1000% correct for black men too. There are far too many black single females in the world, they have an entire world of options. No reason a black man can’t find a woman AT ALL!
But you don’t need a huge dating pool. I don’t care if Becky & Jessica find me attractive. I’m mixed w/ black & Hispanic & thats what I like 🤷🏽♂️. Moved my ass to Houston & I got no problems out here dating.
He's right i am having dark brown skin and indian, i have almond hunter eyes, good facial bones growth, and nice jawline visibility and almost everything thing that makes a man attractive. And brown skin harms my attractiveness a lot. But my facial harmony protects it. So colour matters guys.
FACTS, I tested this on a dating site by making a white man profile and my real one. It was crazy, it was an avg skinny white guy and I'm an avg guy with muscles like this guy.
Major facts. I can’t tell you how many women who aren’t black stare me down out of attraction but come off timid or nervous when I approach them. I hate it lol
Why stick to your own race of women when women don't even want you black women want to finish product only then they will accept you if all black men look like The Rock wine hell should they be with a black woman if they have a body like that they can get any woman
I respect your honestly and courage bro ❤ We're fed up with BS on social media And its soo refreshing hearing some truth and some facts every now and then 💯
Totally agree! Starting to understand that now that I’m getting older! Also I have to work on my physique and finances more! But getting closer day by day 💪🏾
@@dhmtube4454 I’d have to disagree and tell u fatherless women are the hardest to date, regardless of race. Find a pretty black girl who has a good family structure and I’m sure she’ll treat you like a king if you deserve it. Pretty hatful to just say that ab ur own race lol.
and in Asian communities is see plenty of ugly white dudes getting play. but attractive black guys like me alot of Asian women don't even bother looking my way lol
I think Asian woman are beautiful. Honestly, girls doesn’t even know the struggle that not just black man, but every man goes through to find a couple. Obviously if he compares himself with someone more attractive than him he will feel that way. But, how about all the white people that is fact, ugly, too short or too skinny ? He would have an advantage over all of them, he is looking at the glass half empty to support his racial point. Also, what type of ladies is he aiming for ? Apparently the ones that use dating apps and most of them are not wife material. I’m pretty sure that there is more than just skin color when it comes for a woman to pick a guy. His status and intellect will influence a lot along with his confidence. I don’t see any mature woman marring a guy just because he is white and cute. And let’s not left behind the cultural factor. Just the opinion of a married man than went through a lot to find a worthy woman.
@Efren Reyes here's comes the "all men have it hard " bs. Wtf are you.talking about. He simply stats black men have it the hardest in dating world wide or in the west and that race matters. Other men can be short ugly and not rich and still get a woman of their race easily. Not the case for black men who aren't the most desirable
@@jaypey8253 That is not true. I know why you struggle so much, you are an emotional unbalanced woman that can’t see facts because you are too blind by how you feel instead of the objective side of things. See how explosive and irrational you reacted in front of facts, your are a sad example of what an unattractive woman is, you have not self-discipline and you are easy driven by others opinions. I don’t argue with mind closed people like you, enjoy the rest of your night.
100 percent agreed in very attractive, muscular Indian man I still didn’t got enough matches on dating apps I put an average looking white guy’s picture and I got far more matches
Crazy that we live in a society where a really attractive, rich guy who takes care of himself can't get a chance with certain girls because of his race.
Where’s that happening? Because that’s the one of the true outliers when it comes to dating. Rich guys, regardless of race, pull the hottest women, regardless of race. This is proven time and time again.
@@BryceGirdnerThats not true.I have seen attractive indian,black guys getting rejecter by white girls or asian girls just because of their ethnic background
Yes & No. It will be harder for non-black women to justify marrying us to their parents. that's why we really have to be on top of our shit - because there is already a negative image of our community
I think you are underestimating the appeal of black men. A lot of women are attracted to black men because they are seen as ultra masculine due to media representation. Black guys in the media as seen as basketball and football players, MMA fighters, boxers, bodybuilders, thug rappers and criminals. All of these type of guys are masculine and very attractive to women. Globally, in central and Eastern Europe and Asia and certain Latin American countries, black guys are rare, which makes them exotic. And if you are an American black guy, abroad, you are associated with American black culture, which is seen as cool and you are high status due to being American. Sure, a white guy is more “acceptable” for marriage and a lot of women equate white guys with success but black guys have a lot of appeal. Edit: forgot to add the dating black guys is taboo is a lot of communities so a lot of women will date black guys to get back at daddy. These women won't consider you for marriage but it's exciting to them to do something scandalous.
But I'm a black guy grew up around mostly all white people and I literally can get the white girl most black guys can't get . It's what you was raised around and grew up around
Been saying this to the if it ain’t snowing, I ain’t going people, but they don’t want to listen. Most either act oblivious to it, Accept it, or aren’t aware of it
This is true. And I appreciate how he's not coming form some victim mentality of this. I'm Puerto Rican, Latino, from the hood. BUT I have a largely European ancestry (Spaniard), straight, jet black hair, pretty tall, so many times people think I am White or "Ethnically Ambiguous". And I've been to many places around the world where I attract women sexually. Where my cousin, who is Puerto Rican as well, usually attracts women more or less his skin tone (he's very brown). And he's very handsome, fit and very well put together in all aspects of life. More so than me. He does have a white female counterpart but that was through a year or so getting to know each other. Usually women will find him "interesting" in other parts of the world, because they don't normally see someone like him. Or if he does bang some Asian or white chick in some White or Asian country, it's because they already have the hots for Latin men and are into Latin culture already. However, he doesn't have the SMV of a White guy to just fuck a chick on the first night. Granted, this isn't 100% applicable to just any white guy. You still have to have game, be attractive, have good lip service, have all that. And overall, no matter your race you have to be CONFIDENT and the sexiest version of yourself. Don't let the fact that white men have an edge deter you. Don't even worry about any of that. Make yourself UNDENIABLE.
Wouldnt say white men have an “edge” They have an assumed status because of history and because of media. Women are attracted to power and white men have that seeing as they’ve ran shit for hundreds of years now. But its definitely not anything else no one goes to white people for edge they go to them for security and power. White people are often seen as cheesy, cant dance, lack of spirituality. So I wouldnt say edge.
White men do not always have an edges it depends on the country and their values. Countries with a history of white supremacy mainly have issues with that
Same bro. I’m Hispanic & my skin is literally white asf and I have dark brown straight hair with light brown eyes. Its mostly amber color. I’m also tall like 6’2. Every time I go to some countries in Latin America I can easily get woman. Literally I attract woman in those places far more easy then in the US. I can also dance and I speak perfect Spanish. I identify as a white male hispanic
As you grow up and educate yourself, your dating pool increases. As a black male, I’ve attracted potential partners of both sexes and a multitude of races. And no I haven’t slept around. It’s never been my thing. How you present yourself needs to align with who you are and what you’re striving for.
He is correct, but let’s get a little deeper. It’s not that those Women don’t find Black Men attractive. The issue is that Women include Socioeconomic status in their “ attraction calculator”. European men have went and colonized almost every continent on the planet. That’s a huge win for them and Women of All demographics see this. Making them top in that aspect.
colonization has nothing to do with it, it's the domination now that matters, across all media and culture they're the ones influencing everyone else, people are abandoning their cultures in favor of liberal western ones
@@theblackgods4699not south korea, the other nations that you mention were only briefly colonized exept the philippines, and spaniards are not the most white looking dudes
I don't wanna hear anyone complain about being black, Hispanic or East Asian (Chinese Japanese Korean etc). Try being brown. I'm talking south east Asia brown. I am literally british but ppl have the Indian stereotype fixated in their minds. I can pull girls but my pool is prolly the smallest
Yhh I am an Indian bengali guy grown up in the UK. Trust me its hard for me I have decent social skills but my white middle eastern and black mates do way better. I'm short and kinda dark as well, not tamil dark but dark for a North indian ygm. Pulling white girls is hard unless they sub5 but other desis and mixed does happen often.
Bruh finally someone who said it, I'm half Indian and this shit is soo true. Every time I tell someone I'm Indian, they don't believe me because of my skin color and accent. People say black, East Asian, and Hispanic is hard but being south Asian is extremly hard.
Very much facts and I have known that all my life. I had a white roommate years back. He was selling furniture on Craigslist. Female came to pick it up (attractive black female). He had no extensive game other than being polite and talkative (and those who know about game knows that just level 1). The next week she is in my living room snuggled up with him. I would often get told I spoke white for not cursing all the time.
that’s actually so true. I’m from southern Europe and I live in the UK. Two of my best friends are black. And over the years of going out I have truly noticed that Girls that were into them were not into me and viceversa. I’m saying that Niche thing is so true
@@77dnm this is not a projection. People have lived your life. But they never come back to say when they changed their minds as boldly as when they claimed a life of singleness was for them.
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Most countries I go to the women love my skin from my experience
@@cathd5675 what skin do u have and which countries did u go to?
@@shakaj1525 black. Australia, Japan,and Thailand was the ones I noticed it most
@@cathd5675 nice
"Let's say I'm black now" 🤣
😂😂😂😂
Dude is light skinned in his mind
No he was white yesterday black today 🤣
He wasn’t saying it hypothetically but it did come off like that😂
He talking about code switching 😂
Straight facts. This is an ugly truth most coaches won't say, so they can sell you courses, but Austin is keeping it 10000% as usual. Some girls just won't rock with you period based of race. Accept it.
Hhaha freshandfit in here
Okay well I’ll just take it then.
@@LongThickVeinyBBC take it?
What do you mean by that...
Yeah but light skinned black guys have a statistical advantage in liberal cities across the world. It’s actually proven. The guy with the most swipes in Tinder history was a light skinned dude in LA and looked exactly like this guy. His point is still valid though.
Oh shit it's the goats
If this guy's dating pool is small we are screwed
Smaller than that of a white version of himself not small in a general sense
@@tru2daci yep, someone who actually know what he meant
Well I don't think he's married. Many of dudes like him out there winning with no mate yet.
not small at all. just smaller than his white version. but still bigger than 99% of men or sth lol.
I’m so called “black”, handsome, doing well financially, and dating is a lot tougher than it should be for me in the United States. The U.S. is racist, hate filled, and divided. “Black” women only make up 6% of the population here. Once you subtract the lesbians & independen man haters, then factor in I don’t date single moms, women that aren’t feminine, married women, older women, or fat women, that percent drops my “black” dating options to less than 1% of the population.
Then when you try to expand your options by dating other ethnicities very few are interested in you because of all the racist mental programming done here. You also have limited access to other ethnicities because of the social division here.
Ive done fairly well with women here because I’m above avg in height, looks, and income, but it should be a lot better for me here. The United States is the absolute WORST country to date if you have a complexion. It’s best to go countries that aren’t majority so called “white” because those cultures are less racist. If you do you will never want to come back. Trust me.
And white guys come to you for advice because you’re damn good at what you do. Keep it up brother
Yea yall take black men’s game and turn around and shit on us behind our backs it may not be you but you know what I’m talking about
@@igpxmasterdamn gng
@@igpxmasterI do it! 🙂
@@igpxmasterI don’t know what your talking about
@@Coney32 we see the Instagram comments and Twitter comments whenever blk guys get a attractive women yall go raging
Every man should aspire to be the most attractive version of themselves
That’s the only thing you can control
What happens if you have nice hair but losing it due to a medical condition 😭
you can’t control race.
@@leontaecoleman3644 ok and
Im a man I care how attractive I am lol
Takes humility to admit it . Got to play the hand you’re dealt.
Chill Dorian
Im white and i bet many black women wouldnt date ne because im white 😂😂 lets not make everything about race.. If ur a brokie with shit rizz expect to be rejected shidd got nothing to do with ur race some like u some wont its universal for men
It’s not a matter of humility. It’s just honesty. He didn’t say he’s less attractive than white men. Non black women see white men as more attractive because non melanated skin is associated with social status in our world.
@@earlem9771 Thank u for the precision cause bro was feeling himself a bit too much💀💀
@@SouthDraftCorp fr. No shade to these other women, but we aren’t even interested like that despite the false narrative that bm want non black women
Don't waste time on people who don't want to be with you
Ding dong 🤟🏿
Amen!!!
My type is women who like me
Exactly!!! It's all about being an Alpha Male and have game.
@@GameN3rdzsing song?
I’m black, I know what he is talking about. This is straight facts. Being white stereotypically in this day and age is associated with power, access to wealth, economic opportunities and political affluence, the unique thing about these types of advantages from a racial standpoint, is that these things can change among the races and history has shown this to be true. Stereotypes also can change with time as well as the actual socio-political and economic advantages of a race of people
Yes
But if we call that out, we’re racebaiting lol
It’s sucks 😂 I love being black and Hispanic
I’m Hispanic
I see Black men with white women or any race every single day. I’m half and half and never seen a white guy with a black woman in my life. Rarely ever even see Black men with Black women.
As an Asian man he speaking facts
Same. I've read somewhere that Asian dudes and black women had the hardest time in the dating market
@@hopeful4243 That’s nowhere near true. Black and Hispanic men have it the “hardest” on dating apps. Dating for women is significantly easier than men, so don’t know why you think black women have it hard.
@@kingtaco1725 oh I think it compared black women to other women and Asian dudes to other men. Not necessarily black women to all people in dating apps. And I think the study was back in 2013? Or 2014? So I'm not sure if it's still valid today.
But if you're korean there're tons of koreaboos in niche market. I'd say its pretty hard for south east asians
Yeah but you guys are smarter than us 😂😂😂😂
This is 100% facts.. I've had a white woman literally tell me "I think you are attractive but I'm not into black guys".. there was nothing I could say.. so before I went down the rabbit hole of asking why, I just said thank you and have a good rest of your evening.. race definitely does definitely
She lowkey savage for that lol
She’s weird
@@UltimateD755she likes her own race
I've been told by white girls that im attractive but they only date black men. Race doesn't matter it happens to everyone.
@@UltimateD755 weird? No.
Some blk women will say that about wm. Is that weird? No it's just being normal.
Having an in group tribal bias and attraction your own people.
This isn’t him being weird this is just straight facts. Which is why brothas need to be looks maxing and upping their SMV as much as possible and tossing out that thug/gangster persona scratches off a whole pool of women
why would you say that? authentically that "thug persona" is a manifestation of where you're from. it dont make you any less qualified. don't gotta be labeled a fool or a pookie cause you from the hood.
Nah G , that thug stuff gotta go, first of all it’s done no good to the community and second of all we are the only community that glorifies being “gangster” which is crazy...
@@Anonymous-dh4fl I fw what you saying but we definitely not the only community not even close Mexicans and Italians do too
@@patricksainclair2384 of course being from the hood doesn’t make you less of a man we’ve seen hella successful brothas from marginalized communities make it. It’s the portrayal of that thug/hood character that could repel you from a lot of women. And most importantly really poisons the community
Exactly. & women are attracted to those types of men anyway, just because you're hood don't mean u can't be classy. Jeremy Meeks for example
I feel you brother. I learned this lesson when I lived in Europe. I did well but I could have done so much better if I were white.
😂 wish I was white lol
Bru quit being a not white mentality victim. Bring your game up, look good, be smart, get ur bag up and you'll be better off than most. Black is beautiful my guy. You are missing out the amount of women that crave us in other parts of the world
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Can you drop some specifics? I'm usually way more confident competing with white dudes than with fellow brothas...
@@CryptoSoul0824🙄🙄🙄Are u joking? Really? AtP just become a slave again
He’s right. As an Asian and considered attractive by my peers, a good chunk of the matches I get from non-Asian girls that actually want to go on a date, I’ve noticed are girls that either have an Asian fetish or heavily influenced by Asian culture (watches anime, listens to a lot of kpop, and loves boba, sushi, ramen, etc).
Hispanic also fall in the same pool as White when it comes to the most dating options. I never take offense to it though if someone tells me they’re not into Asians, people like what they like, just like how I have my own preferences.
I’ve always been told that girls don’t like Asian guys growing up
I agree,Hispanic guys are the only ones that can compete with white guys with all things being equal. I think its because they look the closest to white, compared to Black, Asian, Indian.
Yea hispanic men are a popular option too.
I’ve noticed that people.don’t talk about Hispanic men that much.just know that Hispanic men are racist too.
if the men are racist most likely the women are too.
Yeah, a lot of girls I’ve talked to say their preference is white guys. My sister (Asian) also has that preference. All I can say is that there are attractive people and ugly people in every race, we should all just do our best. Remember not to be bitter, we all need to work in ourselves and prioritize things of real value, like friendships, work, faith, and family, women and their opinions of us are never the end all be all!
Bro that Asian girls liking only white dudes shit is alarmingly noticeable they only get intimate with their own kind or white guys I’ve seen nothing else..I’m a dark black man who’s loved Asian women since he was a little boy not fetish I’m not hood every race says I’m an 8 or better I’ve had intimate relationships with all races accept Indian(haven’t had the chance) or Asian that can’t be by coincidence I do well with white women for the most part obviously my own kind latinas love me mixed women omg that’s all they want is dark black men I’m right up their alley every single time but Asian women omfg I can’t even get into the talking stage with them really and I’m not a bum I’m applying to dental school this year 28 might be late but still not a bum ya know it’s just strange to me..if you can explain this cut and dry that would be awesome..
I mean is so obvious for Mongolian girls they love white so much on the other hand as a black I do find blonde girl number 1
this is the sad truth.they worship white peoples.
Right be we shouldn’t accept making people inferior because of their race.
White guys are more stable and earn more.
This is true for dating outside your race. I prefer black women so this isn’t an issue for me.
Me too. But a lot of the attractive blk women are going for white boys too. That’s how it over here in england
@@Mr_Nigeria100facts
@@captaintosen23yeah bro. The slim pretty ones at the gym are typically with white men, kinda sad. My gf isn't black though so I can't be mad, I really don't like big women💀
@@Mr_Nigeria100 Yhh sisters are more nicer to WM than us
Yup dating within our race is just as hard as dating out. Other races do not have this problem. The problem is we have a lot more overweight and obese women in our community or they are single mothers these women also have insane demands as well over 6 feet tall, money, a thug with a PhD or some shizz. The ones that are attractive and childless are usually with a tyrone or a white dude.
We're held to a European Standard of Beauty
You’re in a European country or country where there’s a lot of descendants of Europeans.
@@TKdrizzle no lol thats a worldwide sickness. U need to be evolved and stay out of it, men arent held to anything
Yep
Nope… sorry, cope! Most women are attracted to white men cause of the white European features on those men. You can’t brainwash people into liking a certain type. Natural law will always kick in. White men are just the most good looking men of the earth and other can’t stand it. You can’t put a ugly women on tv and other ads and have men lusting after her. The natural attractiveness to beauty will always kick in
It's because of their colonization of the new world if not it wouldn't be like that
Finally someone being real
Says the one with a Snapchat profile picture
Don't let this nigga lie to you bro black people look way better then white people u be real with urs
Not bright
A truth people don’t like to admit
yeah a lot of people are delusional.
@@leontaecoleman3644Like this guys there's no evidence to back this up. I've been told by girls they only date black or asian men. This. Is just another excuse to be a victim.
That's their problem. Proud to be black
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Problem? Lol.
It’s good to be proud to be what you are, but don’t get all hateful.
@@Doyourbest4245 Don't know how u came to the conclusion that's hateful but ok
@@brianince4546 Because you said it was a problem. Makes you sounds snide: which a lot of black people are dude, let’s be real.
Most females are more loyal to their racial group than we give them credit for. I've seen plenty of Black girls openly say that they only date Black men. Shit, I've seen girls of other races say they prefer Black men. It's just that White people are generally seen as the highest beauty standard around the world. Which is why White men, on average, have more options with all races of women. But an attractive man of any race who works to be his best self will have options, regardless of race. Gotta work with the cards you been dealt.
I’ve met too many women who say that they don’t date white men to agree with that. Also, usually white people have smaller lips, pale skin, and a low “cool factor”. I’m incredibly biased but to me it seems like mixed race people are some of the most successful in the dating world.
@TheGreatWasian_ Well, I live in Texas. From my experience, White people in my area tend to date within their race. But maybe that's because I live in a place that has a history of racism. And majority are not pale. Most of them have nice tans, lol. Also, girls who say they don't date white men are usually coping, especially if they themselves are white. White men are still very privileged in this White supremacist society and they have the most options with women.
@@rebelsoldier2391 they call white people white for a reason bro it doesn’t matter that the people are tan where you live, they are generally pale🤣🤣. I am half white in NC and most white people here are pretty pale. If anything tho, you’ve brought up a really good point indirectly: These phenomenons where people tend to like a specific group of people are most likely influenced by things like culture and location. It is also most likely an individual, case-by-case basis. Humans are individuals.
@TheGreatWasian_ Asians are actually pale when you look at them next to a Caucasian. Most White people aren't actually "white" just like black people aren't actually "black." And yes humans are individuals but we evolved as groups. Being accepted by your racial/ethnic group is a survival instinct. Which is why most people date within their race. Only the outliers settle down with someone outside their race.
Chill with the racism here fellas
One thing I really noticed is many white guys can be average and get nice girls pretty effortlessly - no way could you do the same as a black guy
100% I be seeing basic af white guys with some nice snow bunnies like how sway. Don’t work the same for basic black men
@@burningthoughts868 level up!!!!!
A 4/10 white guy is just enough to pull basically any Asian girl. It's hilarious how low their standards are for white dudes.
Yea but selection pressure forces black guys into being the best and in the long run it’s worth it
@@cryptofierce7431lmao bro your tryna segregate men gotta unite not fight over race slow pole
And that's why the Media is strong. They can make any race attractive
Facts it’s more about white guys having the social programming behind them more than anything. It’s not because there actually more attractive. On average women see black men as more physically attractive.
This^.
Yea the media could make blacks the most attractive
Not just media bro, it's way deeper. Think of the effects of global scale colonialism
@@NoRockinMansLandwym? Enlighten me please
What other races also don't get is dating within your own race as a black man is often just as hard as dating outside of our race.
this facts, I'm black and always dated latinas or white. I never been that hood ninja type use that a lot of black men go for@Bones18
I was waiting for a blame black chicks post on here I knew someone always has something to say about us for their shortcomings
@@cicibeknowing3343nah I love black women , but in general (NOT ALL!!) for my generation at least , black women want a thugged out dude full of tattoos and no emotional control. For the black men who choose not to indulge in the foolishness , it is kinda harder to date inside the race for us , as this younger generation of black women don’t tend to be interested in traits like intelligence , caring and emotionally intelligence anymore. They actually tend to prefer the opposites of those traits but I won’t compromise myself for foolishness
@xxtestimony2817 idk buddy I'm calling B.S. on that one. There are black women who adore those type of men but get overlooked for the bimbo you referenced with the phatass who could have her pick of the litter. It's a rough game in the dating world but both sides and all races gotta humble themselves. All bw aint seeking big 🍆 Tyrone with no job and trauma damage that's mostly hoodrats who love dudes who cause chaos.
Fuckn facts. If youre a square black guy meaning no thug shit they wont fuck with you. Then you go get a bunny then the black babes get mad at you. Its like damn you didnt want me but the bunny do now you mad at me
Absolute truth. As an attractive black man myself who has dealt outside of my race, I can attest that some women will not deal with you because you are black. Regardless of attraction. This world is brainwashed with the the European standard of beauty and privilege. You will find some curious women that will deal with black men due to the sexual stereotype, but that is a small percentage.
Race matters in everything regardless. When you are labeled black you have to have heightened awareness of that🤷♂️
Daily...... Even when you are " well off "🥴
It's funny because all non black women say race doesn't matter if you ask them especially on dating apps then they unmatch you or don't match you when they see your photo.
Nah you’re just trying to stretch
@@eionnalb2497guessing ur not black 😂
@@Mastermind-cd2xi I’m black dude.. have seen enough situations to tell y’all that y’all have nothing else to do so y’all go to the racial aspect and make a lot of stuff up to get a reaction.. no I’m not saying there’s no racism before you try that’s how much y’all say the same thing you get too predictable😅😅
As long as my own race finds me appealing I could care less what others races think of me
If theyre not addressing you and you have no dog in the fight, why are you even commenting? No one cares if you dont care about the issue.
@@matttheamerican3766 cool you could have been like the 99% of people that didn't interact or comment on my post if you didn't care so much on what I had to say. and they are addressing me as an African man
"As long as my own race finds me appealing I could care less what others races think of me"
You could care less means you care some.
Facts
Aight black panther
Green is the only color that matters if you want to open up your dating pool!!
Been saying this
Facts 💯
shrek 😍
Simp
"I have niche appeal" bro hooked up with the easiest girls and wonders why he can't find his wife
Women will always have a preference until a man comes in with money.
Refreshing to hear someone admit it especially someone alrdy glowed tf up
Globally whites are minority
It doesn’t only apply in dating. It applies to everything outside of it too, the darker you are the more you’ll be looked down upon. Even amongst the black community
Lmao thats kap i love me some extremely chocolate booty black women
Yeah because statistically black people cause more trouble
@JayDriel What you like as a thirsty dude is not what this is about.
@@jaydriel2957 Outliers don't mean nothing when a statement is generally true
And vise versa the lighter you are the more hate you'll get from your own community.
I've noticed this also. This is 100% the case. As a black man you need to check many more boxes to even compete with an equivalent white male.
You niggas sound pathetic. I can get any women some soft ass white man can get and have, while living in Kentucky. Kentucky.
@@FLCL2010TOKYOJAPAN You're either a stud or your location has a superior ideology regarding black males. This is not the case for most average black males.
every race of women wants a white guy.it’s crazy even black women love them.but I always see Asian women with white men out here in Sanfrancisco.
@@leontaecoleman3644 dr umar said brothas get last pick of the white girls. Plus it all boils down to how you view yourself. Never feel inferior to a white male. You’re good bro build yourself up and you’ll realize you’re doing it for yourself rather than an airhead mush brain Disney influenced bitch
@@leontaecoleman3644 Yep, if you’re even partially aware you would realize that most of the decently attractive women of all races except black usually end up with a white or mixed white male.
Am north african white passing because am pale with blue eyes and I prefer females of the same race, the dating market doesn't really matter when you prefer your own race
All the people claiming cap are non black men 😂😂😂. You can’t tell a black man their own reality. Or just black men who worship non-black women. This guy is speaking facts, it’s not even a victim thing, it’s just reality lol.
Exactly a lot of black men are delusional.most of these non black women don’t like us.
you may see a few of them though.almost every city has a very small amount.of non black women that like black men.but that means nothing because most of those black men just got lucky.that’s not the majority of black men.
I’m a real black man..😂
I believe that the claim, “your race matters,” is false. Yes, I do agree that racism exists, but not to the extent that we are being oppressed. In fact, I believe that the majority of the black community oppresses themselves. For the man in the video to compare himself to the “white man” shows the ignorance and lack of self respect. There is a complete lack of Jesus Christ.
I don’t agree that our race is of substantial importance, fundamentally we are all human beings. It isn’t a issue with race, it’s an issue with sin. If we were to humble ourselves and reflect on our actions and repent, we wouldn’t have to worry about what the next thinks.
You’re right, regardless of what race you are the stats back it up. For example on dating apps majority of women swipe mostly on white guys
Neither can a black man tell white men their reality.imo this is straight cap..black men are the most attractive race in the west..opposite for black women,statistically speaking!
Say you want to date white girls without saying you want to date white girls
😂😂😂😂😂 attractive and rich one at that.
Race still matters asian girls and indian girls dont like black men at all the only women who like black men are black women if other races like you as a black men its not cus of you its cus of another reason like a fetish for example
Fr tho
It doesn’t matter. Asian, Indian, Latina. Generally this is true for every woman other than black.
@cjzanders5430 black women are also least desired
I’ve been trying to explain this for so long but just never knew how to say it
People are rac….I mean picky
Same here it’s something I’ve been pondering on for awhile
fr I knew
still better than being short 💀 you're screwed there regardless of race
Not exactly. I'm 6'0" and still growing and lots of short dudes have better game than me and some other tall people. Plus, other countries have shorter height averages than America and Europe, and there's more leeway.
Big facts bro.. I have seen lots of short guys pull women… u obviously are lost in this world
Some races are shorter/taller than others. So ultimately race is always a factor
Bro really said Nietzsche appeal 🗿
Ultimate personal perception of morality?
Isn't it spelled niche ?
@@yourtrappedinmygenjutsu yes
@@yourtrappedinmygenjutsusearch nietzsche
No. Nietzsche is pronounced Nee Chuh, not Nich
Facts, bro. I'm mixed (Caucasian + latino+ black) and i never had big issues with women, but it's undeniable that the global preference is almost totally into white men. That's the reality. Race matters.... not proud or happy to say that, but color matters.
You conceptualised, distilled and articulated exactly my sentiments.
I’m a Black guy who moved over to the UK from South Africa. Back home I never struggled for girls, compliments, secret admirers, intimacy, physicality.
i did okay in that department. However, I moved to the UK and everything turned upside down. No girls. No compliments. NO NOTHING.
I was convinced I was terrible looking. But this here brother just brought light to my plight.
Thank you brother. I’m a few inches taller after that!!
Bro that's just British culture
It’s a cultural thing dude. If your look around the world there are plenty of cultures that have a really extravagant concepts of beauty. I may go to Africa and have the same experience you had in UK. It is not racism, its a matter of what the majority likes in that place. That is how the world works, can’t be mad at people because they don’t like you. Be the best person you can be and love yourself, you can’t force girls to like you because you don’t feel good with their sexual choices , the only thing you can influence is in how you feel about it and if that affects you or not. God bless you brother.
@@efrenreyes3863 it goes by who’s currently in rulership honestly, because yt men can go to Africa and run through all the women. They worship yt people in Africa (perks of colonizing the world) 🤷🏾♂️
@@phsza5607 Well. They could colonized the World because they were on a position of power given by their advantage on technology compare to the rest. It could have been the other way but it didn’t happen like that. We gotta go back to thousand of years ago. At the end based on the same thing you said, what change everything is not your color, but the power you have.
it's because of western media, women generally speaking will only go for 6 ft+ , attractive, rich guys of any colour - which is 1% of men aged 18-30. Blame media, the west is brainwashed beyond belief.
Extremely few people admit it . i know that Asian/Indian guys have to work way harder and ensure everything is on point i.e , looks , style , hairstyle , tattoos etc
No Asian guys do great. I always see attractive Asian guys with latinas and white girls. The baddest Latina at my school was with a Cambodian Edgar.
Pretty much a lot of Latinas love Asian men especially the Cambodian and Vietnamese men
@@Iblamejordondo Latina prefer Indian men?
@@treyyg-rt5kz Latinas date Indian guys too in my city but they don’t prefer to date them tho maybe some do idk
@@Iblamejordon white men latina women is the most common interracial coupling in USA
As a confident black dude teaching in Vietnam for some years now, I came to this realization pretty quick! If you an average white dude in Asia, trust me when I say would clean up!!
Facts
Facts
Bro asian women are absolutely OBSESSED with YT men. Here out west a good chunk of asian women are with their white daddies, not even exaggerating
Perfect example of the privilege of whiteness. Even plain looking white women can have their pick of the litter
as an Asian guy who cant get an Asian girl. Trust an believe it's true. I've dated black, white, Jew, Mexican, native, mixed, etc.
Asian women only want non Asian men nowadays
I never really cared because as a black man, I rather date within my own race because we can relate to each other which makes everything flow naturally and thats no disrespect to other races. I love my sistas ✊🏾
you saying that like black women don’t have.high standards for black males also.the only reason black men are looking to other races.of women is because black women friendzoned them.because they wasn’t hood enough for them.or they were nerdy.
@leontae coleman Maybe you have bad luck with black women, hey thats on you. You just don't know how to choose them 🤷🏾♂️. When you know what you want, then you know how to sort them out and pick the right one.
I hear what your saying bro n respect to you, but more n more blk n mixed raced women are into white boys too, especially the hot ones
And it still surprises me how so many white guys I know complain about not getting girls and thinking just because I'm black and 6'0 girls just instantly want me.
Have you had multiple grifriends in the past?
facts
Any wm who is 6 would have a higher chance of getting women though. And statistics show this.
Can't tell if this comment is sarcasm.
Man you truly are obsessed huh?
@@the-based-jew6872this is wrong. Any WM does NOT have an advantage over ANY BM. Some women would choose the black guy simply because he's black, he's exotic. White guys are looked at as dull and boring.
Sooooo true! My white friend Gary literally gets every girls number he approaches. Girls even come up to him. And I’m talking about Instagram model type girls. It’s crazy!
Jeremy Meeks enters the chat 💬 representing team light skin
Jeremy Meeks enters the chat 💬 representing team light skin
Austin is speaking facts. As a Hispanic man now lol, with dark skin. When I lived in the inner city, I had no problem finding girls. Because most of the girls like Austin said, listened to hip hop or had black or Hispanic friends. I moved out of the “hood” and I am around white people/girls. Who did not listen to rap or had many if any black or Hispanic friends, and I have a hard time finding a girl. This is true overseas. Because what people outside of America are exposed to his “white culture.” The music, the movies, etc, all feature “white people.” This is not being racist just stating the facts.
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We black people just wanna penetrate into all races, especially whites. I mean how many white people are in African countries, very few, no? And Africa is huge. Soon nigeria will be the 3rd most populous country by 2100 and we wanna get into white women because our own race is perceived by us as "ugly".
Very true
And of course movies , music etc. Show us a certain way. Especially Latinos and Asians. We're rarely the hero or the love interest.
@@Acord718 Most protagonist in American media are white and sometimes black. Asians and Latinos are mostly side characters. Did y'all dirty. That'll change soon enough though.
He's speaking facts, race does matter.
Sadly so 😢
Excuses. Stop being a weak man and suck it up. Be better
Race doesn’t matter bro it’s all about showers, haircuts and confidence 😡😡 - 6ft half puerto rican half dominican light skin guy with chieseld features and a good childhood, talking to his full blooded indian friend with dravidian features
Austin is speaking facts. This is especially true here in the U.S., white men have the largest pool of all races. They can get an Asian, progressive black, American Spanish, etc and can obviously still get a woman from their race. Black men on the other hand, only can truly have black as an option. The other races (for the most part) may find him good looking but not sexually attractive and damn sure wouldn’t marry him due to the stereotypes, media programming, and racial self preservation. It’s mind blowing to realize but it’s valid af. People love to say “I don’t judge by race” or “I’m color blind” but simply just look at their dating history.
I would say Latinas also like black males as well
The sexual attraction part is cap. I know of plenty of short black guys (5’8 and below) who pull like crazy at in the US, especially in college campuses. They’ve been told that them being black is more like a fetish for white girls, but for the long run they have no success or very little of it at that of actually marrying and having a long term future with these white girls.
@@TJY_RISE_UP yea there’s many Spanish speaking brothers such as Dominic republic and it has to do if she’s into the hip hop culture if she’s into her own culture (puerto rican, Mexican, Colombian) they tend to stick to their own
It’s worse for us Indians, the only girls attracted to us are other indian girls 💀😭😭
@@greencrocidile6246 Im from California & get hit up by mexican women all the time.
Bro is the only G who admits and dares to say that the majority of ppl don't like black skin, which is so true because it's nature. We just have to accept it and moved forward 😊 some ppl should do the same sh*t like bro ngl ...
wtf
If we're talking worldwide, maybe. In terms of the US, idk. Keep in mind, lots of women don't hate black men or men of other races, They just prefer white guys or vice versa.
Not liking black skin isn’t nature, it’s programming by man to get you to hate other human beings. Yall have to wake up.
Even black people hate black people😂
@@whyme3772 That is an amazing statement that you just made. The word prefer refers to. That’s just how a person feels. And it’s no deeper than that. I have philosophical discussions on the origins of what makes a person do anything. Does it come from emotion in how they feel or from reasoning? I am still conflicted. Idk 🤷♂️ Or it maybe a bit of both. Putting race aside.
Absolutely I believe that as well, some ppl can relate. But at the end of the day, as long as you make yourself a catch, attractive, and outstanding personality you can attract other races as well.
Money and status will change all of that. And he is speaking facts
Exactly! An in shape black man with £$millions/billions will get women of any race. She'll probably be a gold digger but it is what it is
not really he is talking about an equally attractive man with the same status and money will still have more success
Not really unless you’re really loaded a blk man making 100k is still socially lower than a white man making 50k
" Let's say I'm attractive now "
My dating pool would be so much larger
Well said. Anyone can find a reason why they aren't doing what they want in life. It's about those that do something about it
@@whodatking26 thats bs its mostly sbout race and looks
It depends on who finds u attractive.
@@amarson2322 What does
This is definitely true when it comes to long term relationships. But I’ve noticed Black men are really successful in the hit it and quit short term situations
That's what I've saying this whole time.
That's true
Mostly because that's pretty much their main goal and girls just want to "try it out." So both sides have the same end goal.
girls don't see black men as life long partners tbh.
Lol this is false
As a middle eastern man i prefer middle eastern women only.
Most ppl prefer their own race tbh…
As a latino i prefer middle eastern women
It’s normal to like your own race gang 😂😂😂
@@heriport6654as a middle eastern I would prefer your sister
@@TonyMontana-bl9vs watch your mouth im married to a muslim girl dont fuck with me
I did not know this was real until I experienced this myself, I know as a black man myself that black & Arabic women tend to be the most attracted to me and white & Asian women the least. Especially blonde white women. I strongly believe that a lot of them find black men attractive, but are scared to date them because of social norms by what their family and friends would think of them etc.
Yeah gang I live in DC the only time yt girls look my way is when I have my shirt off or a tank top on even then its for a few seconds like their friends are gonna find out they want some chocolate or some sh!t
Not a lot. Its a minority of them. Most ww date in their own race.
Nah G u need to act like the race they would date. Like if u wanna date a black girl start stealing bikes and selling weed
A whole lot of women find black men physically unattractive but wont say it out load because they dont want to be called racist
I’ve heard arab women rarely ever even go into the same room with black men like that lol I always thought white and black women were more attracted to black men than asian and arab
I’m a Dominican man. When I lived in San Diego, the only woman I would attract are ones who grew up listening to hip hop/ rap or the ones who grew up listening to Latino music like Bachata and merengue . I had ZERO success with woman that were from the, for example, Philippines . They would only date their kind or a white man . Mans is spitting facts, I had to work hard on my image just to increase my appeal. It is what it is. Got to work with the hand that you’re dealt with .
Hey I’m part Dominican too que pasa amigo 🙏
Im black first long term relationship was with a Filipino woman
Been telling people but they don't listen
Maybe they just don’t care about you’re pathetic dating lofe
Facts. But at the same time, you only need to secure ONE girl, a soulmate worthy of marriage , and you are set for life. And in that sense the size of the pool becomes less significant, for example if you have 10000 instead of 20000 choices, you still have choice and probably would be able to find that one girl.
The most sensible person here
Amen brody but right now im in my getting cheeks era
Right! People think you need every girl when you just need one.
Confidence is first no matter what your race is. As far as black men are concerned we have to be more stoic. Our culture loves being loud & ignorant. It’s not attractive at all.
Uncle tom we are sorry forgive us blacks
What part of black “culture” are you referring to?
Sad that black women in america now defines what black women are as a whole, and even worse by another black male
As if white women aren’t loud and obnoxious. Dude gtfo
@@jadsadd28 Uncle Tom? 😂 & I’m referring to the part of the culture your displaying right now w your ignorant ass comments
Why would anyone be mad at him saying this? No one is saying Black men are ugly or undesirable, it's just that White men, by dating app data, get more replies than any group of men. Just like White women, they're the standard of beauty because of the culture we live in. Doesn't mean Black men don't have to try or improve, just acknowledge it for what it is. Your race absolutely matters. Hell, I've been told by a White girl I was cool with, not even dating, that her parents told her not to date outside of her race.
Because people in hordes are stupid.
I don't think it's a beauty thing, it's more about stereotypes and racism, it's bc society say black people are violent, poor and/or unintelligent
Yup the truth is the truth.and a lot of black men are delusional to this.
@@ferju4875 No, the opposite happened now. The black man has become sexy for girls because of social communication and their entry into such a field as rap, singing and movies, and because we are fun, of course, we will not forget the porn clips, because of all this, we took the lead on all races
@@ferju4875 that's statistically true
Black people in America are the poorest demographic
They are 13% of the population but commit more than half the violent crime
And are the least likely demographic to graduate high school and the most likely to fail/dropout
It hurts but it’s true. The world is just based on «preferences » and we can’t do anything about it.
Finally someone talks about this!!
As a white man u expect women to be drooling on me over black men? I fucking hate this shit if u get rejected its now racism? Like how far are we gonna take this whole crap of how unfair its for black men. Literally some women like white some like black what the big deal. Its always just a small % that u end up getting with no matter ur race its just about gender. Men are rejected not black men
@@silentyblitzhear what he says G a white boy is more preferable world wide, yes there’s women for all of us but I’ve been all around the world and I can assure you white men have more of an advantage, word-wide that is.
@@4ktravelviews878 oh ok im willing to accept the fact that in many countries we may seem like a better option for some caliber of women but i still think its not all sunshine and rainbows being a white MAN still. We as men should be smarter and not get put down by all this but just more motivated, we shall not dwell on stuff we cant affect rather outgrow it COMPLETELY. Evolve, adapt and conquer ✌️
as a white guy i have had a fair share of experience wit Black women n WOC. Never had white women in my life come up or show attraction, and since i was a child my crush on girls would always be black women or woc. Its also cause they treated me better then other white women in my social life
I am white and have been approached by more black women than white. Black girls don’t bullshit or play games , they know what they want. I find it much easier flirting with a black women.
What does Woc mean
I believe you're expressing the point of the video.
@Armis_Articulate, In all honesty from what I have seen personally, you are the exception and not the rule. For most of us (men of color) we have to deal with preconceived notions and stigma that are predominantly negative. By no means is that a victim @mentality either, it is what it is. And women of a lighter ethnic group in most cases see us a an outlet of fetishism and to indulge in what some consider a taboo, as the creator of this video has stated in so many words.
Valid 💯
I am a darker skinned black guy. I would say I am a solid 7/10. I am not shallow person and I know I don't have abs or movie star looks, but the only matches I get on Tinder, Bumble, Hinge are either bots, fake profiles, or girls I am not attracted to ( big girls.. No offense).
On the rare occasion I match with a girl I am into ( I date races) I get ghosted or dumped for someone else. White girls in particular will ghost for a white guy. So it's definitely harder for black and non white dudes on dating apps.
This probably doesn’t apply to lightskin black men
It's about the skin color
I dislike. They ghost us too
@@Jedilord882 depends what u mean if u just mean a lighter shade black guy it’s the same (i know from my own experience) but if u mean an actual lightskin guy who’s mixed they can get any race because when you’re mixed like that even tho you have a darker shade than white and non white curly hair you still have white facial features that make you more attractive to whites and the fact that you’re still colored means you can easily get other races too specifically black and hispanic
I'm Asian and I know EXACTLY what you mean by bots, fakes, and huge girls. Except that it's even worse for Asian men. I might get one once every couple months if that. I gave up apps. I'm 6ft and make a bit over $200k. I'm not jacked but in shape and women often do double takes/smile so I guess I'm decent looking. Tf I'm gonna settle for busted girls. I'll just keep going to Vegas for fun. Whoever tf I want. 💸💸💸
This is true. I dont understand why so many yt guys complain
I completely agree with him. I don't know why people go for anecdotal saying it's not true and we see girls liking black guys more and not empirical evidence.
I'm Indian and 80-90% of the population is brown and Indian girls' first preference is a fair skin man.
If you tell any Indian girl to pick a man based on their looks they go for a fair skin man without any second thought.
That's what I say bro. Indian, Asians and brown Mediterranean men are below every race of guys. These black guys are crying for no reason. They can go to Miami and get Hispanic girls. These girls love them some BBCs, that's why we see Hispanic women and black women more in Fresh and Fit. But for us Indians and Asians, especially Indians, we are low of the low. Our race is the most low quality. And we can see that by our looks. I have travelled around many states in India, and I only see ugly faces. We are most disgusting looking race. I hate my race.
True enough. I've found without fail, everywhere I go every young Indian woman finds me attractive. Almost 100% of the time. I'm from a mixed background so I have a hybrid look to me. So it throws ppl off. Now don't get me wrong, I get alot of attention from white girls too. But many people would consider me white as well with a dark tan in summer lol. I always figured Asians weren't into me. Or blomdes, but then I started getting with blondes so I'm really not too sure any more 😂😂
@@jeremiahjeremiah1319Agree. You got amazing boxing skills brother. Keep pushing 💪
Ill agree with this. As a white dude i have more options for long term relationship, however, my black equivalent would get more short term options, because lets be honest alot of girls nowadays fetishize black dudes and think they’re “exotic” and that shits weird😂
Facts 💯 I get sex easily but not “ relationships “ , which I am absolutely fine with . I’ll stick to busting major nuts and leaving the gynocentric “ dating “ to the s1mps out there
Can’t argue with that man
No Short time also White men.
Without Interracial Videos no women would Date black men.
@@Nik29austria only chads . Not regular looking white dudes lol
@@Maximus5775 finally a guy that gets it
Been saying the samething a while back thanks austin for clarification 🥶
he a lame fool 🤣 woman especially blk don't want him an he insecure about it
I get woman of all types an races an so does a lot of my Brothas we more attractive then any other race an the woman will tell yo insecure ass the same thing, jus because he a goofy an woman don't want him doesn't mean that's everybody reality infact I would argue most of us have it easy in dating an sex
it's you lil dik white boys that even white girl chest on wit us blk men check your girlfriend phone since you so sure about the Bull sht lies y'all spreading
Most men & women are going to have a hard time being honest & understanding this video message 🙏 & excepting it. Non-black people might have a hard time admitting & saying wow this message is correct 💯
but youre still a tyrone, great looking dude, bless you in the best of ways hope all the girls love ya homie ✌🏽👊🏽🙏🏽
He's 1000% correct. There is absolutely no excuse for any White men to be single AT ALL with the deck stacked so heavily in their favor.
What if he’s short, balding, acne, and has a micropenis?
It’s 1000% correct for black men too. There are far too many black single females in the world, they have an entire world of options. No reason a black man can’t find a woman AT ALL!
@@tombradygoat1456 black women prefer to date white men.
@@holyscythe 😢
You’re delusional
But you don’t need a huge dating pool. I don’t care if Becky & Jessica find me attractive. I’m mixed w/ black & Hispanic & thats what I like 🤷🏽♂️. Moved my ass to Houston & I got no problems out here dating.
He's right i am having dark brown skin and indian, i have almond hunter eyes, good facial bones growth, and nice jawline visibility and almost everything thing that makes a man attractive. And brown skin harms my attractiveness a lot. But my facial harmony protects it. So colour matters guys.
Oof
@@GoatTheTrueGoat ooff
FACTS, I tested this on a dating site by making a white man profile and my real one. It was crazy, it was an avg skinny white guy and I'm an avg guy with muscles like this guy.
Major facts. I can’t tell you how many women who aren’t black stare me down out of attraction but come off timid or nervous when I approach them. I hate it lol
no one cares
@@AC-mp7cx you cared enough to comment weirdo
@@AC-mp7cx you cared enough to scroll down the comments, read this comment and reply
@@AC-mp7cx i care tbh
Bruh maybe cuz they weren't attracted in the first place lmao
People just usually dates within their own race and nothing wrong with that.
it’s unfair
@@leontaecoleman3644 Life is unfair.
Hush boy
@@leontaecoleman3644 How
Not really. Search for "no asian" policy, which was made by asian women.
This is why we need to stick to our own. Because at least we won't be a novelty. black love is a real thing.
Why stick to your own race of women when women don't even want you black women want to finish product only then they will accept you if all black men look like The Rock wine hell should they be with a black woman if they have a body like that they can get any woman
@@lunistylz322 No it's really not. Just follow biology you are who your father is.
YEP
That’s why the black divorce rate is the most?
Bro said it the best way possible
I respect your honestly and courage bro ❤
We're fed up with BS on social media
And its soo refreshing hearing some truth and some facts every now and then 💯
Totally agree! Starting to understand that now that I’m getting older! Also I have to work on my physique and finances more! But getting closer day by day 💪🏾
Respect to him for being honest
Only black men understand this!!
No, any minority will understand it.
@@kujaa1831 not true lol other minorities can have success within their own groups!
@@dhmtube4454 so can y’all with black women??? U just choose not too, lol.
@@gastly123 lol they’re the hardest women to deal with and date!
@@dhmtube4454 I’d have to disagree and tell u fatherless women are the hardest to date, regardless of race. Find a pretty black girl who has a good family structure and I’m sure she’ll treat you like a king if you deserve it. Pretty hatful to just say that ab ur own race lol.
I’m not a man but as an Asian woman, this totally makes sense and feel this too
and in Asian communities is see plenty of ugly white dudes getting play. but attractive black guys like me alot of Asian women don't even bother looking my way lol
Japanese / Korean/ Chinese etc. women are a fantasy fetish to me for some reason lol
I think Asian woman are beautiful. Honestly, girls doesn’t even know the struggle that not just black man, but every man goes through to find a couple. Obviously if he compares himself with someone more attractive than him he will feel that way. But, how about all the white people that is fact, ugly, too short or too skinny ? He would have an advantage over all of them, he is looking at the glass half empty to support his racial point. Also, what type of ladies is he aiming for ? Apparently the ones that use dating apps and most of them are not wife material. I’m pretty sure that there is more than just skin color when it comes for a woman to pick a guy. His status and intellect will influence a lot along with his confidence. I don’t see any mature woman marring a guy just because he is white and cute. And let’s not left behind the cultural factor. Just the opinion of a married man than went through a lot to find a worthy woman.
@Efren Reyes here's comes the "all men have it hard " bs.
Wtf are you.talking about. He simply stats black men have it the hardest in dating world wide or in the west and that race matters.
Other men can be short ugly and not rich and still get a woman of their race easily. Not the case for black men who aren't the most desirable
@@jaypey8253 That is not true. I know why you struggle so much, you are an emotional unbalanced woman that can’t see facts because you are too blind by how you feel instead of the objective side of things. See how explosive and irrational you reacted in front of facts, your are a sad example of what an unattractive woman is, you have not self-discipline and you are easy driven by others opinions. I don’t argue with mind closed people like you, enjoy the rest of your night.
As brownie who lives in Australia, this is total facts, and I’ve been saying it for years.
Are you an abbo aka pavement ape ?
100 percent agreed in very attractive, muscular Indian man I still didn’t got enough matches on dating apps I put an average looking white guy’s picture and I got far more matches
indians have it the roughest in the dating pool. You're only options are to try and look hood black or hispanic
That's rough. But what about Indian dating app. Surely you will do well there?
Did you use those apps in india or usa?
@@the-based-jew6872 ohh wait so it’s not a color thing right??? You’re a joke must be life living life on easy mode
You should just hang out at your local 7/11 I’m sure you’ll find something there
Crazy that we live in a society where a really attractive, rich guy who takes care of himself can't get a chance with certain girls because of his race.
Where’s that happening? Because that’s the one of the true outliers when it comes to dating. Rich guys, regardless of race, pull the hottest women, regardless of race. This is proven time and time again.
@@BryceGirdner facts
@@BryceGirdner Money talks. Wealth trumps even the would be "deal-breakers", such as race & culture. So you're correct
Its always been that way
@@BryceGirdnerThats not true.I have seen attractive indian,black guys getting rejecter by white girls or asian girls just because of their ethnic background
For black guys it's easier for us to hook up and have sex with most women, but for marriage? 🚫🚫🚫
Is this really true?
@@SF-rr8hu yeah
Yes & No. It will be harder for non-black women to justify marrying us to their parents. that's why we really have to be on top of our shit - because there is already a negative image of our community
Cause of most races wouldn’t accept a black man especially parents
Facts💯💯💯
I think you are underestimating the appeal of black men. A lot of women are attracted to black men because they are seen as ultra masculine due to media representation. Black guys in the media as seen as basketball and football players, MMA fighters, boxers, bodybuilders, thug rappers and criminals. All of these type of guys are masculine and very attractive to women. Globally, in central and Eastern Europe and Asia and certain Latin American countries, black guys are rare, which makes them exotic. And if you are an American black guy, abroad, you are associated with American black culture, which is seen as cool and you are high status due to being American. Sure, a white guy is more “acceptable” for marriage and a lot of women equate white guys with success but black guys have a lot of appeal.
Edit: forgot to add the dating black guys is taboo is a lot of communities so a lot of women will date black guys to get back at daddy. These women won't consider you for marriage but it's exciting to them to do something scandalous.
whats ur race bro
whats ur race br0
To get back at daddy? Lmao what
@@forreal2624 Yes, this is 100% true. Some white girls who have bad relationships with their father or want to piss off daddy will date a black guy.
@@James-pl5uc You seen it happening or what?
But I'm a black guy grew up around mostly all white people and I literally can get the white girl most black guys can't get . It's what you was raised around and grew up around
Not necessarily, you’re speaking form a very localized and anecdotal perspective.
Been saying this to the if it ain’t snowing, I ain’t going people, but they don’t want to listen. Most either act oblivious to it,
Accept it, or aren’t aware of it
Who's they? U talking to urself
This is true. And I appreciate how he's not coming form some victim mentality of this. I'm Puerto Rican, Latino, from the hood. BUT I have a largely European ancestry (Spaniard), straight, jet black hair, pretty tall, so many times people think I am White or "Ethnically Ambiguous". And I've been to many places around the world where I attract women sexually. Where my cousin, who is Puerto Rican as well, usually attracts women more or less his skin tone (he's very brown). And he's very handsome, fit and very well put together in all aspects of life. More so than me.
He does have a white female counterpart but that was through a year or so getting to know each other. Usually women will find him "interesting" in other parts of the world, because they don't normally see someone like him. Or if he does bang some Asian or white chick in some White or Asian country, it's because they already have the hots for Latin men and are into Latin culture already.
However, he doesn't have the SMV of a White guy to just fuck a chick on the first night.
Granted, this isn't 100% applicable to just any white guy. You still have to have game, be attractive, have good lip service, have all that. And overall, no matter your race you have to be CONFIDENT and the sexiest version of yourself. Don't let the fact that white men have an edge deter you. Don't even worry about any of that. Make yourself UNDENIABLE.
You are correct. Confidence, daring attitude and having some game is the key. Race do matter in long-term commitment but very little short flings
Wouldnt say white men have an “edge”
They have an assumed status because of history and because of media. Women are attracted to power and white men have that seeing as they’ve ran shit for hundreds of years now. But its definitely not anything else no one goes to white people for edge they go to them for security and power. White people are often seen as cheesy, cant dance, lack of spirituality. So I wouldnt say edge.
White men do not always have an edges it depends on the country and their values. Countries with a history of white supremacy mainly have issues with that
@@Shutdownoftheday “ countries with history of white supremacy” lol are you serious? That’s the whole world
Same bro. I’m Hispanic & my skin is literally white asf and I have dark brown straight hair with light brown eyes. Its mostly amber color. I’m also tall like 6’2. Every time I go to some countries in Latin America I can easily get woman. Literally I attract woman in those places far more easy then in the US. I can also dance and I speak perfect Spanish. I identify as a white male hispanic
I knew this as a black man you also take care of yourself always look your best
knew wat u must be ugly cuz we get more women from all races with ease compared to any struggling white dude be serious here
As you grow up and educate yourself, your dating pool increases. As a black male, I’ve attracted potential partners of both sexes and a multitude of races. And no I haven’t slept around. It’s never been my thing. How you present yourself needs to align with who you are and what you’re striving for.
True I noticed this with myself as well. I get choosing signals from every race now as I get older. Older and a lot of younger women
He is correct, but let’s get a little deeper. It’s not that those Women don’t find Black Men attractive. The issue is that Women include Socioeconomic status in their “ attraction calculator”. European men have went and colonized almost every continent on the planet. That’s a huge win for them and Women of All demographics see this. Making them top in that aspect.
white men are not good.
@Samuel Hong Kong , Myanmar, Vietnam, South Korea, Philippines (literally part of america at one point , also everyone has a Spanish name ),
colonization has nothing to do with it, it's the domination now that matters, across all media and culture they're the ones influencing everyone else, people are abandoning their cultures in favor of liberal western ones
@@theblackgods4699not south korea, the other nations that you mention were only briefly colonized exept the philippines, and spaniards are not the most white looking dudes
@@user-kg7zr3yl3n Influence? Exactly who is being influenced ? We can agree to disagree. I think it’s socioeconomic.
Finally some body said it!!! I said the same thing on reddit and everyone attacked me for it.
I'm surprised you weren't banned.
@@name9601 banned from r/dating.
@@unravelsoul being banned from reddit is a badge of honor these days
Because incels say the exact same thing. Should've made it clear you are not
Reddit is filled with blue pill basement dwellers who gave up on life
I don't wanna hear anyone complain about being black, Hispanic or East Asian (Chinese Japanese Korean etc). Try being brown. I'm talking south east Asia brown. I am literally british but ppl have the Indian stereotype fixated in their minds. I can pull girls but my pool is prolly the smallest
*True* 👍🏽
You are correct sir. I’m a black man and you guys have it way harder.
Yhh I am an Indian bengali guy grown up in the UK. Trust me its hard for me I have decent social skills but my white middle eastern and black mates do way better. I'm short and kinda dark as well, not tamil dark but dark for a North indian ygm. Pulling white girls is hard unless they sub5 but other desis and mixed does happen often.
Bruh finally someone who said it, I'm half Indian and this shit is soo true. Every time I tell someone I'm Indian, they don't believe me because of my skin color and accent. People say black, East Asian, and Hispanic is hard but being south Asian is extremly hard.
@@dimex3362BM have it harder
Very much facts and I have known that all my life. I had a white roommate years back. He was selling furniture on Craigslist. Female came to pick it up (attractive black female). He had no extensive game other than being polite and talkative (and those who know about game knows that just level 1). The next week she is in my living room snuggled up with him. I would often get told I spoke white for not cursing all the time.
that’s actually so true. I’m from southern Europe and I live in the UK. Two of my best friends are black. And over the years of going out I have truly noticed that Girls that were into them were not into me and viceversa. I’m saying that Niche thing is so true
He is really just saying what are egos wont allows us to admit is true, but I'm going to keep grinding, having fun and staying unmarried.
Make sure to also inform us when you do reach that point that you realize that you desire marriage.
@@pjbpiano not everyone is like you, so you shouldn’t project. Good luck finding your wife though man, to each their own.
@@77dnm this is not a projection. People have lived your life. But they never come back to say when they changed their minds as boldly as when they claimed a life of singleness was for them.
I appreciate that man's honesty..He's confident but unlike Fitxfearless he's not out of this world cocky