How Your Race's Stereotypes Affect Your Dating Life as a Man
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- Опубликовано: 21 фев 2024
- In this video, I discuss how your race's stereotypes affects your dating life as a man.
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A lot of women virtue signal about liking other ethnicities. For example “Mexican guys are so hot” but she is only talking about Eurocentric looking Latinos , she isn’t talking about an indigenous Mexican guy who has 80% Aztec or Mayan blood. Same thing with Arabs, they praise white looking middle eastern men but ignore the fact that most of them are brown.
I think pure Mayan blood Hispanics have it the hardest, went to the Mayan sites around Cancun one winter and it was Tera over for them if they went to the west
@@eddieliusa387 its over if ur ethnic to begin with lol unless ur the top percentage of mexican,black, or asian men
Same with blk guys when women claim blk men as there attraction type they mean lights skin mixed men that are halve white but people don’t realize that yet
@@jeffbro1021 Did jbw get you putan ?🤣🤣🤣
@@jeffbro1021biggest bs lie if all time keep coping white incel that’s why most of y’all are incels but claim Jbw is law 😂😂😂
As a black man to have the most appeal, you need to be muscular, dress well, etc but you can’t lean too far into “thug” territory because you’ll be too niche for most women that aren’t black.
Don't forget tall.Also, you're underestimating the "thug" appeal.You'd be amazed at how many non-Black women are attracted to the "bad boy", which is what a thug really is.
@@KWilloyour definitely young or just not aware especially if you still think bad boy stuff is a thing and not just pure masculinity the woman is attracted to to many guys conflate masculine behavior with “bad boy”. thug appeal doesn’t work all the black guys who get girls of other races who aren’t. ratchet are always clean cut. Btw I am in Cali. Thugs never have gfs and always walk away from clubs alone if it isn’t a hip hop catered one
@@KWilloyour definitely young and in inexperienced. Thug maxing only works on ratchets. And “bad boy” behavior is just high testosterone masculine behavior it isn’t being a bad boy itself the girl is attracted to if you were a boxer or mma guy you’d get the same reaction from girls it just takes more effort. Black Guys who interracial date with non ratchets are always clean cut not to mention thugs only get girls at hip hop catered clubs. They never get girls at any other establishment. Btw I am in Cali.
This is incredibly accurate. This is my appeal to a T
@@KWillo you mostly get ghetto non black women which are the worst
Also, being good looking is its own race. As a former Chippendales dancer, i was the only black guy in the group. But i was seen as just another chad/tyrone. Race never played a factor whatsoever. Not the case in real life though. There were times where ive been passed over for less attractive white guys, but thats just a preference thing. Most people prefer being with someone of their own race/ethnicity and i totally understand that.
Yh that makes sense the reverse can happen aswell a Chad white man could get passed over for a less attractive black guy due to type/preference most people just prefer their own “people” anyway.
@nicholasrodriguez4990 Yeah I hate when people cope by claiming that someone is "racist" because they're not into someone of another race. It's just preference, nothing more.
Racial preferences in attraction is an acceptable form of discrimination. They’ll go woke on everything including AI historical revisionism but leave dating unscathed. I’ll laugh the day woke mob goes after partner preferences and force white girls to like Indian dudes
@@handsomeXdo you know singyn from the the 90’s. He’s a good friend.
I feel like the opposite thing happens where a lot of times you'll see a good looking white woman with an ugly dark skin black dude just because of the bbc stereotype.
You're spot on about the black culture stereotypes. It also depends which shade of black. light skin have more appeal than darker black guys. Another point is that the black guy will be offered the downgraded version of a woman from that race.
Black Man = Bottom shelf pick your race)woman of any race.
Everyone talks about this.
Absolutely
This is gigantic cope.
Light skin black guys appeal more to women outside the black race but darker skin black guys appeal more to black women
@@modalsoul6511 nope, come to different parts of America (or anywhere western) and you will see black men marry outside their race THE MOST. If you want to be realistic, lndians are actually everyone’s bottom pick. You sound like a jeaIous white guy lol
I agree with the take on black men. Me and my dad talked about this awhile ago im considered a Tyrone my dad was a model and he said the reason why i have so much success with women short and long term with all race of women because im in the top 10-15 percent in looks. My dad was saying most black men don’t have that privilege and get a lot of negative stereotypes Women always view me as having positive traits. I actually attract more non black women than black women because I’m not the thug type lol great take on the video again.
I believe this perspective is fundamentally flawed. A minority of Black women might be attracted to what's stereotypically known as the "degenerate" hood type, but this group, inclusive of both men and women, is disproportionately highlighted in the media, potentially as a form of propaganda. It's crucial to understand that the vast majority of Black individuals do not align with this portrayal and are not inclined to associate with individuals involved in criminal activities.
I have seen it many times, "black" guys like you saying "they don't like me because I'm not a thug" with that signature smirk on your face. You feel good about yourself when you say it, right? Disgusting
The reason Black women may not be interested in you is not due to a lack of criminal behavior on your part. Rather, it's the mindset that assumes they prefer "thugs" which is more telling of your personality. Believing in such a negative stereotype does a disservice to the complex and diverse realities of Black communities.
It's important to recognize that most Black individuals, like any other group, do not condone criminal behavior and actively seek to distance themselves from it.
Bro facially you are not a tyrone🤣
Same
@@thathonestguy-oh9mxCope 😂
@@handsomeX look i am just being honest he is def 6-7 but nothing more than that, there is nothing wrong with not being a tyrone its just luck
A black man’s biggest issue is CLASS and finances
Facts
That's everyone though
Mexican guy here (5’11, light tan, 5/10 face, 165lbs)and can relate to what you said to an extent back when single. One thing I did more proactively is focus on stylish dressing and doing my best to enunciate well to avoid those stereotypes you described.
I have noticed the same on the opposite with Asian guys who did well. They’d lift, add a bit of edge to their fashion to cancel out the nerdy stereotype.
Ultimately, I’d argue regardless of race, which has an impact, face, height and fitness are easily 80%-90% of the puzzle.
5 ft 11 tall for Mexican!
@@LeadLeftLeon I definitely got a bit of the tall halo when in Mexico where the average height is 5’7. Not really in the US with height being 5’9 on average.
6’0 tall Mexican here
Fittness helps but so does having something that makes you stand apart from the rest of the guys such as a talent or hobby that’s unique
You're tall for a Mexican bro I'm like 5'7 on a good day and it's rare to see one who's over 5'10 and I live in a community with a lot of Latinos, Mexican Americans and chicanos
@@MoshJunkie426 the two tallest Mexicans I’ve seen was one guy in my old mma class he was 6’5 and a crazy kick boxer, the other was a usual client who would come in late at night at the circle k I use to work at for beer. Every time he would walk in he would have to duck his head to step in my coworkers asked him bro how tall are you he said 6’8 I believe it to since our doors max height was 6’6
In the end race pill is brutal.
Currypill is beyond over (never began)
Yup. If you’re lNDIAN it’s over for you lol
@@iyendeezont u are in every video talking about indians. in fact i have noticed increase hatred towards past few months. what did indians do to you?
@@ronloc3309keep coping we are on the come up we do well in canada and the uk as we are the dominant minority most of our women dont date outside we have the best hair genetics we are the richest race are dark brown skin gives an exotic/foreign we have good features too. Pakistanis are known for f*cking white girls in the uk without condoms and punjabis in the canada have been there for generations so they are well settled. Me and my curry friends dont struggle. We can also pass as other races/ethnicities latino, arab etc and many other people of other races also look indian. Also in america there are many mexican and indian couples as we can pass as mexican.
Date your race to avoid this, solved 50%
Race doesn't matter. If you're top 20-30% of any race, you get first dibs.
Top 20%, maybe 15%, depending on city
@@MO-ss5mj It's top 30%. You guys need to stop making sht so extreme. My friend who is on the ugly side worked at the mall and married a beautiful woman. I see this all the time. Most women cannot get a top 15% man, so they'll settle for top 30%...which is above 70% of men.
This is a nice cope..unfortunately not true
@@curismo5526 Usually lower tier men like to make it about race. That's why it's the loser white men who claim white supremecy. You rarely see guys like Brad Pitt and Richard Gere making it about race.
@@curismo5526what’s your ethnicity?
As an Indian man I agree totally. I’m in Canada so add the adjective “poor” to smelly and creepy and unkempt. That really takes us down even more notches.
A poor Indian? Yikes 😳 why are you even in North America…time to relocate back to Punjab, pajeet. Trump only likes the productive Indians sadly. Even though the best people imo are middle class poorish Indians, since they are the most chill and down to earth and friendliest people!
Depends on what area u r from india
Yup I'm Blk in Toronto I do ok not as well as white but way better than you guys I know 😅
It's crazy how people literally convince themselves to literally believe racist stereotypes as true. It gives them a way to justify their disgusting behaviour. It's not going to end as long as you don't challenge them.
@@barcaman1013I like how you're talking about it as some matter of pride
I fully agree…..as an Asian man…..I see my that Asian friends are brain surgeon, corporate lawyer, propulsion scientist working for NASA…..they all have several sports cars and million dollar homes…..but they’re not able to get any dates or girlfriends, since they’re too busy working. I feel sorry for them.
I haven't watched the full video. Is there any place where he addresses the fact that the man representing the black race in his thumbnail, Tyson Beckford, is actually part black part Chinese and actually pretty clearly looks it?
I mean I'm mixed 3/4 white/ 1/4 black and an in the exact same situation ;D
@@salvadorromero9712 also, he’s not even the peak attractiveness of famous black men.
Im half Filipino and half black working as a nurse, I think there are many asian gals that would pine for guys like that lol. They just need to source for women better
rather be single and not get cheated on
I prefer the name Chadlite but Ascended definitely has more mass appeal. 🎉 Another great vid. Honestly get alot of inspiration from you
It's best to stick to your own as a black man. There's definitely a black tax for dating white girls. You have to be tall attractive and high status just for a average white girl.
Really? Wtf 😂 I see black boys get attractive white girls all the time lol 😂
Not even just that you probably won’t get past her parents either lol
@@TheTiredhermit Luckily black women are deemed the least desirable. So most black women can't attract Chad besides (an easy lay). Leaving them forced to have to date their own.
facts cause i was thinking this, most of the time when I see other black dudes with white girls, the girl is mid af. Whereas you can pull black girls that are badder
True 😂 I seen the most average white chicks with handsome chadrone or if she’s hot the blk man plays nfl or a college prospect to play professional sport
Also in general societal beauty standards, darker skin is seen as ugly while lighter skin is seen as attractive
As a mexican guy the racepill is pretty interesting. I am average height to tall-ish, I guess tall for a latino. But my face is kinda youthful looking in a very harmless way. I'm not babyfaced cuz some of my features are sharper but I don't have the intimidating mexican guy or Edgar thug look, I look like like a brown guy with white features and a goofy smile (like a Tom Holland face). I'd say what I've noticed is that I don't actually have a lot of luck with hispanic women, particularly in my local hispanic area. I speak spanish but I'm pretty whitewashed personality-wise and don't look or present in that traditionally mexican, low-inhibition way. The few women who have shown interest in me are nerdier or introverted girls (usually white or whitewashed). In the hispanic culture, like black culture, I think it is very important to be masculine presenting out the door. Masculinity matters in every context but if you're white it can be more subtle, in the hispanic culture there is an open appreciation of some toxicity or bragging.
ive had the same experience lol.
I think it's a latin thing, in italy it is the same
Interesting
Latinas/Latinos don’t really like whitewashed Latinos/latinas. Not unless they whitewashed themselves. They remind us of white people it’s just cringy.
Same literally me I can only pull nerdy and more introverted latinas which are better to be honest and some white girls that are different I say it’s a win for both of us 💯
Best to worst in terms of having options as a man
-White
-Hispanic
-Black
-Asian
-Indian
i would put black above hispanic
yep@@pieceoflintifoundonthefloo554
@@pieceoflintifoundonthefloo554 no its not true hispanics have a better chance
White-passing Hispanics would be on the same level as White, perhaps a bit higher.
@pieceoflintifoundonthefloo554 they are actually below Hispanics would be higher if we were actually represented in media. But Hispanics actually do way better than most minorities
Regardless of race and skincolor, any man would need good height, face, and hair in order to attract women!
I’m 49 and I agree with you
A half dominican and half puerto rican guy with good height, face and hair vs indian guy with good height face and hair 🤔 who would win i wonder
the one with the bigger D? idk
Height is subjective
@@blacklyfe5543 kinda , sorta …. 6ft6 in America is super tall.
This video is very true… well spoken and well stated. Candid and respectful done.
As a 18 year old mixed black guy I feel like it is easier for me to interact with girls from different ethnic backgrounds simply because of how I look / iv grown up around black and white people and understand both cultures
Nice! That gives you an advantage.
Well said on point brother
Well done vid man.
I'm an average height Mexican-American guy with Eurocentric features (kinda look like a knockoff Sean O Pry), and I usually attract women of all races, though specifically I attract slender white chicks with varying features (hair, height, etc.) the most. I guess being white passing while also possessing everything that comes with being a Latino is a powerful combo.
This explains why I do terribly on dating apps but best in bars and clubs
I was thinking about whether to leave a comment or not but I think I should since I think Chadlite(how i knew your channel and honestly better name than Ascended actually) is a pretty educational channel on bp topics. You're like a good introduction to BP topics to normie jbw guys or just normies in general who just discovered the BP but need a recognizable cool jbw bro to help explain to them. That's why I believe Chadlite captures you better than a sigma cope name like Ascended. I like your videos for the most part even though I personally haven't learned anything new and sometimes I can disagree. Like for example WHITE GUYS DO HAVE BAD STEREOTYPES TOO. That's how I know you and your audience may need to travel more. Just like Mexicans have the short or Asians have the small stereotype, White guys tend have the bald and the get older stereotype more than others. l’m just being blunt and honest. White people say this too… and whether ethnic people or even other white people tell white guys about those stereotypes in person to them, is a different story because I think they don't and probably wouldn't want to tell them anyway. There are more stereotypes because ethnic people always tell me when I travel to different countries and I'm just 70% European. But yeah when compared to other races/ethnicities, white guys do have it in their favor. Yes I agree. And I've also benefited from JBW as well even though I am also mixed in background. If you're as bp as me you can also recognize that it really doesn't matter whatever bad stereotype white guys could also have because for the most part western society, therefore western media portrays you as heroic, romantic, etc and yes also the villains (which is good cause therefore still more roles to be shown to women). Like it's crazy how guys comment here JBW is law but easily get triggered at someone mentioning…white privilege…I mean you can't have your cake and eat it too. Yeah, as an ethnic guy, my European genetics have given me a dating advantage, yes. But JBW really is overrated because more types of guys are also getting more exposure. Just not necessarily in western media. Hence the Kpop uprising women.
I do think your educating your audience well for the most part. I have been bp all my life and actually want to make videos taking about these subjects too. I do want more channels like yours to exist to teach bros in general because yes we can all agree that we're all getting screwed over here.
Oh and stereotype of Indians is how much they s1mp online and in person. Like oh man…
You’re pretty on point on the whole “avoiding the stereotypes negates the negatives” for South Asian guys. I actually find that being Indian is a huge advantage if you do that and look good. You get that exotic appeal and stand out in a way that makes you very unique in most crowds.
Being indian is never an advantage with girls bro
This was a good video man. Keep it up. I’m definitely subbing
Thanks! Will do!
I'm black so we have negative sterotypes for many parts of the world.
Yeah, this is true!
Unless you’re handsome.. then stereotypes can be thrown out easily
Man I really loved this video you are very smart and observant. You portrayed black men in a realistic light(men keep it real) without having any negative bias on an opinionated view. You actually have friends and researched. So not only did you take the time to be a great friend you also used cognitive dissonance. Most other videos on this topic that I’ve seen usually portray us in a horrible light. Thank You.
Thanks man!!
@@ascended266 Im happy you seen this and I subbed! Just keep your mind outside of the box, learn alot not just in this category but in all aspects of life. No matter how feeble or meaningless it may appear. No matter what keep a mind that thinks for itself and you will always be the different person out of the group of sheep.
Yeah I’m black and I’ve been rejected at least 6 times because of my race alone, the race pill is truly brutal
How did you know it was for your race alone?
Yea how do u
Nothing to do with race lmao. U just aren’t good-Iooking
@@nananyantakyi1549 it’s because they openly told me that they would never date a black guy, or that they only go for white men.
Either way it was a clear sign that I’d never get with them, and these were just the girls who admitted this. There are probably other girls who feel this way but are just too scared to say because of appearing shallow/racist.
@@tbone8129 OK Thanks for the info
Hey Ascended, ik that you went the hair transplant route and I saw your "Should You Get a Hair Transplant" video but I could use your and everyone else's advice? I started losing my hair in college (I'm in my late 20s rn) but started trimming it down to a buzz cut with a skin fade about 2 years ago. I'm at about a Nordwood 3.5 to 4, so at this point, do you think I can just start fully shaving my head completely (I don't have any bumps on my head, I have a decent full beard, and I'm somewhat lean/athletic fit. I'm at 16% BF but will be cutting down soon and I'm 5'10'' at 166Ibs so I "think" I can pull it off, especially when I lean out?) or should I look into taking Rogaine and finasteride (I'm just worried about the side effects). Also after watching your video, I do not want to pursue the hair transplant route.
Btw, just wondering did you take out another loan for the second hair transplant too?
Good vid 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Excellent, educated, and realistically open minded video. Appreciate it and can agree with many things you said. This is coming from a Black American male.
As a date to marry person, hearing short term relationship is sad
Both of my parents are from Mexico City but however you know I’m not necessarily I guess you could say look Mexican I’m about average height around 510 to 59. I have like white skin to medium tone skin when I get exposed to sun ,so most of my life, all 25 years of my life I’ve only been called Hispanic probably once, and I’m not even sure they’re referring to Mexican in terms of the word Mexican. I probably been labeled that by other people maybe once or twice I remeber once for sure and another time I was at a boxing gym and this guy said you know are you Mexicano or mexican some shit but he wasn’t sure he was kind of like you know debating if I was or not But for the most part, I never really faced any jokes or stereotypes some people. My family are painfully white except my dad but hes hella tanned from the sun. Likewise my brother is a bit darker but nothing like brown at all. like my aunt is very white and my cousins too, and some moment where she was working in a hotel and I guess this Mexican couple was talking shit to her in Spanish and then she looked up at them and she started responding back in Spanish and literally shocked the fuck out of them lol so yeah that’s pretty much my story,, i mean I’ve went on dates with white girls I have attracted white girls through dating apps and you know working in retail for a lot of my jobs and just meeting people this statement came quite often, specifically came from white people too mostly. They would profile or label me or think I’m like Italian or some some shit because I have that olive skin with that deep set hunter eyes, straight nose, and a dark curly hair, so I get labeled quite frequently Italian more than anything else definitely more than Mexican and Hispanic in my entire life so that’s probably the main reason. I don’t experience the full negative effect of being an Mexican. I guess you could say, but I know for fact the ones who are predominantly more brown like a Indian skin tone brown Definitely do face a different treatment in America so I do believe colorism is a real thing especially in Mexico because Spaniards colonize Mexico in the colonial era so there’s gonna be Mexicans who look white Mexicans who look native American who don’t have those European roots. And even in mexico theres still racism lol from both parties.. both mexican…
There's no such thing as white skin either you're pale skin or fair skin
I’m Afro Latino and being black plus able to speak Spanish and have an accent also over 6’ft. Life been easy for me. My biggest draw back was balding but got it fixed this year.
This was written by a 5'5 sino-canadian
@@Guadalajara1937 sorry for the run-on sentence I’m high at the moment and I’m American born to Cuban and Jamaican parents. I’m definitely not 5’5 either you bugging 💀💀💀
@@mrkingstonworldwide6626coochie magnet ethnicities are all from the Caribbeans
Talk yo shit bro!!
how do you fix balding
Could you explain the stereotypes for light skins? I'm lightskin and I know we have a stereotype of being "feminine," sensitive and or pretty boys but I'm curious what other people think of us.
Being light skinned is infinitely better than being a dark skinned black man or woman for that matter because at least you can always date darker skinned people. I’ve seen so many mediocre light guys with dark women, it’s not even funny. Everyone in other races know that the black men who have the best options are lighter. I’ve heard it from white men’s mouths. You might be black but at least you can always rank above darker black people. Enjoy your position
Sassy
Thank you for illuminating the black community strife! You handled it so well!
Very correct stereotype descriptions. Lol
I just had this convo recently - I think as a (mixed) black guy it’s easier to get laid but harder to date
Damn you guys have it hard
@@ronloc3309
No pun intended - at 2am I do ;)
Depends on face. Cos you should be doing very well. Mixed blacks do well esp in the UK. With all that footballer appeal
Most Mexicans are 5'9" or below
Mexicans on average are 5’6
Mexican’s born in 1st world countries are usually around 5’9+, I myself am half Hispanic, since my father is half Portuguese/Mexican, mother is Turkish/Hungarian. I came out 5’11”. My nephew who is 16 is 6’2”.
@@Oktover24 most mexicans regardless where there from will be sub 5ft10 lol just because u are 5ft 11 for a mexican doesnt mean much. ur the exception not the rule
@@jeffbro1021 facts, thank God for my European half 🤨
That’s pushing It 😂😂😂 tallest ones are like 5’7 if they have more European ancestry it can boost their height
I would say these stereotypes are spot on grom what I've seen. I would also add a positive stereotype for black and latino men in that they are thought of as good dancers
Bro a lot of girls will prefer u for your race if the girl is influenced by ur culture. For example a white girl might prefer Asian guys coz they like k pop and drama. A white might prefer Indian guys coz she watches Bollywood and likes curry. A white girl might prefer black guys coz she into hip hop. And this applies to all girls. I know an Asian girl who likes black men coz she has been influenced by the hip hop industry.
White girls that like indian culture is like a lion that eats vegetables
If you're an Asian guy in your 20s and want to date, you need to have a six pack and a banger body to meet the basic minimum.
And to be named Kevin
So when it comes to Hispanic guys it depends the nationality and skin tone. Not every Mexican is brown there’s lighter skin ones aswell. Same with other Hispanic nationality there’s your light skin and dark skin ones.
Light skin mexicans or latinos are technically spaniars or Euro descendants
💯 I've been saying this.
I find it really strange that it's hard to have an honest discussion with most people when it comes to how your race or general appearance affects your desirability. So much gaslighting.
Maaan, this is too much. I'm 'take care of myself and be chill' race. lmaoooo
🤣🤣
As an Italian man I’m not hot headed just passionate lol this will make sense once I explain. I’m an Italian American man my dad has roots in Sicily , so for people who don’t know the history i pretty much look “Italian” as portrayed by the media , or if u don’t know think that someone who is Mediterranean would be accurate . I like white women ( Irish , English, Scottish, any “white “ Americans,) but prefer people more similar to my culture southern Europeans, North Africans , and west Africans or( African Americans. ) . Dating by “race “ is if u don’t learn people cultural background since it more of a deal breaker for people to not have any cultural similarities. And this is a struggle for me and other people who only get viewed off stereotypes mainly European immigrants. So as a passionate Italian man not only do I know zero Italians that live in Texas I also just get viewed as “Italian” so they are very ignorant about my culture not mean but not educated so I cannot share my culture with them. I also have trouble dating outside my race since the obvious issue of people not to date outside their race. Thought I’d share since this is and will be in America since no knows the history of their roots. Italians weren’t always white it was because I lynching in Luisa an and Irish weren’t liked ,polish weren’t liked Greek people weren’t liked, all these people weren’t like when they immigrated but now if ur European your white. Hopefully people learn their roots . Because homogenized is not the answer . Epically in dating or this is only my problem lol.
Speaking as a Māori man living in Aotearoa (New Zealand) I think our experience is similar to that of black Americans. We definitely have an easier time getting hook ups and such. It also for me helps that I'm somewhat decent looking (I have a baby face), have a deep gruff voice, & am over 6ft tall although admittedly I could get in better shape. But like your black friend I struggle with women of my own community who tend to want gangsters & I'm a nerd who dresses conservatively.
Get into mma
Is your part of NZ ghetto?
@@jellophant9716 Yes definitely
@@brycepardoe658 take care out there buddy
@@jellophant9716 Thanks my man. It's all goods. If the women in my community don't want me I just simply go elsewhere.
The BBC thing could be counted as positive and negative. As I know a quite a few friends who don't live up to it and we're mocked hard about it. I would also say it helps more in the hook up scene vs dating scene whether it's short or long term.
Most black guys simply can’t live up to that stereotype and it’s really unfortunate for them.
Great video bro as an Arab would love to hear your take on us as well.
Tip for my middle eastern bros: be weary of your facial hair: many beard styles (especially the fuzzy chin beard) have a negative stereotype. Also try to grow your hair out - long hair (maybe in a ponytail) looks good on you guys. Avoid the polular high fade because that also is ladden with a stereotype...
Hope that helps
I think your Mexican break down wasn't bad, but it wasn't nuanced enough. I think you're speaking on the indigenous, Asian looking Mexicans. The Mexicans that are European looking, such as myself, are out here slaying it. I have dated many Asian women, and they love the fact I'm European looking, and also manly, with some fire in my belly. White girls, that's always been there for me. In my later years, I have dated more Asian women because I think they're good for settling down with. I still think Colombian women are hands down the best.
So freaking disheartening. But true.
I’m Filipino but I’m 1/4 Irish-American from my mother, I still have a tiny bit some Eurocentric features and basically I look closer to Mike Shinoda from Linkin Park but younger (I’m in my late-20’s BTW) in my experience especially I live here in the Philippines it’s mostly positive and there are some negatives, negatives from other brown, flat-nosed ethnic 5’1-5’3 Filipino men out of jealousy and seeing me as poaching their women while in reality I don’t find Filipinas attractive and they ain’t my type LOL but for the most part with women I’m doing fine and I just don’t bother anymore about dating because globally the system ain’t in favor of men when it comes to marriage but yes, Eurocentric features may it be well-defined or subtle is soooo important here in the Philippines and the stereotype about local ethnic men who look like they haven’t taken a shower, loud, tries so hard to copy black men (It’s a thing in the Philippines about Filipino men trying so hard to be swagger like black men because their idea of being attractive is looking like a hood thug LMAO) and the love for flexing their bike, car that’s not even a luxury brand is so strong that most Filipina women are so annoyed and turned off that they’d pick even the Sub-5 looking white man who are mostly the passport bros here that you can find in shopping malls strolling around with their 20-30 year old Filipina woman than to date the average local ethnic Filipino that’s why non-white men should be digging in on Blackpill content and learn about how society works and they should learn to distance themselves from the stereotypes or habits that are intertwined with their race that gives them all the negatives
@Personbuxth Yes I agree with you, the sub-5 white men who go here in the Philippines are delusional, they’re just being finessed by Pinays for either money (Most of the time due to Philippines being one of the poorest countries in the world) or genetics cuz Pinays want mixed-race white children cuz in Philippines having a mixed-race white baby is a trophy thing and can elevate you societal-wise in Philippines and if the white man that got them pregnant bounced and left them for good they use their mixed-race white children to audition on our local TV studios, modeling agencies etc. to get out of poverty. Because in Philippines mestizos/mestizas are WAY more represented (Save a few niche East Asian-looking or Mixed-East Asian people) in our media, print ads and stuff and yes may it be white or non-white they shouldn’t rely so much on passport bro-ing and instead work or move smarter instead of working harder with the cards that they’re dealt with
@Personbuxth Speaking of Halfies, I got an experience with one, she’s not model-tier more like a tad bit cute Becky (She’s Half-Filipina Half-Australian and she’s like below my height 5’1 from what I remember and wears a glasses) in my books but she keeps hugging me whenever we meet in the Uni back when I was a freshman in 2014 and she’s like Junior (3rd year college) and surprisingly she’s laidback towards me than other students and she’s one of the members of a student council in our uni and we got an acquaintance party event and she told me go with her in the very back part of the venue which I did (The venue is like a big airconditioned gymnasium-esque place) and there’s a place there like a room where they put all the equipments, chairs and tables etc. and she even made the first move, kisses etc. and yeah long-story short we sneakily did it there and after that she’s still contacts me through Facebook and Facebook messenger sometimes flirty or talking about random stuff or school stuff and after 1 semester I dropped out cuz I really wasn’t into the course I took (MassComm/Communication Arts) and I got some boring job at a call center after dropping out and yeah other times whenever I meet halfies (either Half-Filipina Half-White or East-Asian mix or East Asian + White girls) it’s mostly okay and decent so yeah the theory that people tend to stick to their own tribe/kind somehow, SOMEHOW is true and works
@Personbuxth I'm mostly around 5'5-5'6 and mostly girls here are like 5'0-5'3 (Some girls can be around 4'11) and yes aside from having a defined or subtle Eurocentric features you also need to have a low bodyfat and not balding you'll definitely gonna have some attention from Pinays to Halfies here that are Becky-tier to cute-Becky-tier and goodluck on your fitness journey bud 👊💪
More important than bbc stereotype black dudes are seen as having game
Game doesn’t exist, vvomen go by looks first.
@@masteryoda498thank you Master Yoda
Its not that black guys are seen as having game, its that black guys are the highest when it comes to game..Black men have the most game
@@masteryoda498Yh incel cope
@@nananyantakyi1549
Not coping at all mate, just telling it like it is.
As a 5'11 mexican mestizo of fair skin (that tans), hazel eyes, dark brown hair, more eurocentric features a bit of a dad bod and non remarkable looks . Ive had my fair share of girls approaching me, flirting and catching my attention without doing a damn thing while growing up and to this day. Its too bad im bi and prefer men.
America is easy mode. Being attractive takes precedence over race. Stay fit be stylish and talk to lotta girls
Can’t say the same for the uk 😂😂 the moment they find out you’re indian all previous attraction goes out the window
u are wrong in the uk its easier for indians. u are just unattractive@@ronloc3309
Unless you’re lndian lol. They have it the worst, even if they look attractive they’re most likely getting rejected for being lndian
@@ronloc3309how you know this?
@@iyendeezontlmao this aint true. Me and my south asian friends dont struggle when it comes to dating. We attract women of all races mainly white latina and Chinese
As a mexican American Mestizo im ok with the stereo types since truth is I’ve have only been interested in dating hispanic women in particular Mexican hell i even married one 😅
Seems like the difference between a sub 5 and Chad for a black guy is the biggest out of all the races
Idk I've seen some sub 5 to average black guys get girls simply for their masculinity or cred. There's this youtuber on here who I won't name but he's like a 4 out of 10 in the face and is kinda short, yet he gets tinder matches and hookups left and right. He's the first example that pops to my mind, but I've seen it irl too.
@@TheDogSlog nah ur just seeing what u want lol
A lot of rappers are not good looking but they have that bad boy vibe which catches young women's attention.
@@richardlabeja lol its called money and status haha strip that away and they wouldnt get shit
rappers are good looking 😂 dude are you serious most rappers are ugly
1:30 i love how the guy smiles when bbc gets mentioned
💯💯 classic
I'm a Blue Eyed Olive Skinned Mexican American I've always had women hitting on me. Plus I look really young. I've been hit on more than anyone else I've ever known.
What about middle eastern like persian or Egyptian or pacific islanders like samoan or tongan
One of my college friends is Persian, 5’11 and good looking (~8/10) and does well with girls. But it seems that a lot of middle eastern men and women stick to their own groups, especially if they’re Muslim because they have pressure from their family to only date (marry ideally) Muslims. The case is the same with some Indians due to the arranged marriage culture, and I think it benefits them at least in that they don’t have to deal with the whole black pill dating scene.
@@camdenczbro i am an egyptian muslim ,female nature is universal ,in egypt women want a guy that is atleast 178(the average is 170) the only thing that benefits us is that the average age is 18 meaning that there is always someone for someone and as you said families preventing foreigners from taking their daughters, this is why geomaxxers just take low quality women from egypt
Pacific islanders are living in tutorial mode when it comes to dating
@@camdencz guys I had a Egyptian best friend in San Antonio and a middle Eastern friend and at one point even a soamoan friend in San Antonio Texas the Egyptian and middle Eastern were players and absolutely slayed pussy they got those v taper body's and were over 6 feet tall my Samoan friend got married like at 21 so it seems like they all do pretty well for them selfs am myself part white and Hispanic i attract a shit load of latinas from here and mexico
@@KevinfowlksEgyptians are middle easterners too lol
Hispanic guy here. I’m more lighter mestizo Hispanic and not indigenous so I haven’t had problems. I think the only negatives Hispanics can have at times is height. I’m 5’8” and it’s never been a problem
"My 6'2 Puerto Rican friend doesn't have any issues, but my shorter overweight Mexican friend does"
I’m an Asian Man. I’m in good shape, marine corps combat veteran, and I’m pretty social. I’ve given up on dating because of how many girls at bars have shot me down because “They’re not into Asian guys”.
Unlucky brother you’ll find the one
There's a decent amount of women who are into Asian men in the West. Especially nowadays since tall and fit Asian men are constantly being featured in dramas and what not. Just keep going
Im none of those except Asian and I do well with women. Just gotta find your niche. Since Im Gen Z, my niche is Kpop, anime, and Kdrama women. I also prefer women into Asian culture and women into those Asian medias are usually into the culture too
race, ethnicity, and cultural groups. Not just race. Because there are literally 3 races; black, white, asian. Hispanic is not a race. A white european Spanish conquistador will not consider himself the same race as the black slaves they brought over. Dont confuse race with other words. I really like the fact that you mentioned that there are different types of hispanics. You did some research! My three cousins are mexicans and they are 6'5, 6'3, and 6'. They are pale with hazel eyes. Lmao. My father has green eyes. My aunts are blonde and ginger.
Don’t forget Indigenous bro, a lot of us Latinos are still mainly indigenous.
@@cisqoh indigenous still would fall under monolid (asian). It'd be a sub category.
@@nickgerr1991 ahhh ok interesting bro, thanks for the info
I agree but I would consider Pacific Islanders and Native Americans to be a different race. I also think that South Asians are a separate race than East Asians
I dont know how ironic this is but at 6:44, he mentions the stereotype about indians smelling bad and it cuts to a commerical with Kevin hart and an indian dude and kevin says it smells in here lol
LOL that's hilarious
If you’re tall, in shape, have charisma, are decently looking, and have money then your race doesn’t matter. Most girls will date you regardless of race. You just have to put the work in. Stereotypes are a cop out. There’s no father in the world who wouldn’t want their daughter to date a successful man from any race. Money is the main factor.
As an attractive black man (don’t judge by the p4p I’m not photogenic) that used to be ugly I can say that these stereotypes are very enforced until you reach a level of attractiveness mixed with class/ street. Find somebody that loves you for your morals and knowledge and not for who they want you to be.
Location matters alot. White in Miami is a massive disadvantage.
Damn this is gonna be a controversial video lmao 🤣
Not at all we all know it’s about “game” bro! I fucking hate normies sometimes “I know a black guy who went to Asia & slayed 10 girls at once you’re just being negative race don’t matter bro!”
@@TheTiredhermitfacts people just don’t wanna accept reality
@@nicholasrodriguez4990 I can accept how ugly I am it’s depressing but I’m learning to live with it aside from dying without sex I might try idk doesn’t seem worth it but Anyways yeah. Funniest shit I’ve seen is that normies are like “what else are we supposed to say should we tell him to just give up bro!” Anything to keep the gun or rope away for them plus they wanna be morally superior.
@@TheTiredhermitthey even got the audacity to say they were indian 😂😂 even a good looking indian guy will lose half his points just for his ethnicity
@@ronloc3309 exactly but “the looks don’t matter Fr it’s about that game” I mean I’ve seen some exceptions no doubt for Indian guys. But most of the time their ethnicity fucks them over especially with the “all Indian guys are creepy” shit. Yeah the “send bobs & vangene mfs exist” but even without that you still don’t see it online on women obsessing over average Indian guys. But with Indians they do have a culture that kinda locks them in to get a wife automatically where as with black people? Eh? Nah not much.
Can you talk about cold approaching
You just need more skill & confidence if youre not in the top percent. Like double/triple the amount of an ideally attractive man. I'm asian (filipino), 5'7 on a good day. 125 lbs. I have no trouble getting with any race. Im currently dating a bombshell blondie w/ a big booty that most rappers would go crazy for. Just worked on my mouthpiece, being a man, and being a dope person. Females actually become more intrigued because they dont expect it and see me as a rare/unique individual. I always say i like to put on for my Asian bros 😂 break the stereotype
Asian guys do pretty well outside of the west. Asian medias like Kpop, Kdrama, and anime are way more popular outside of the US.
Theres also less negative stereotypes about Asian guys outside the western world.
there are tons of stereotypes of asian guys especially south asian guys , even inside of asia.
So the thing with Asian and Indian men is that we are detached and try to make life easier through our work. So we are not seen as masculine but that's why we end up doing well in our lives anyway. Then women want us.
Im about 5'8ish on a good day and am Latino/mex, I'm in the southwest US, southern California specifically
To be honest I've done decently, I'm late 20s now, have a head of hair still, and do the whole hair care and skin care thing, I'm also on the lean side
But ive met girls off lesser known apps like Pure, Doublelist, Whisper, and even Reddit, theres also a latino one called Chispa
The girls have been latina, asian, and white
To be honest i know if i was taller I'd do better but it is what it is, I wear boots mainly
Tbh I also dabble with Tijuana redlight district and have seen escorts down there, I've been asked why I'm there since I'm young and they have said I'm "guapo" (attractive) but at the same time it doesnt cost a lot compared to the US and the sex I've had down there with my regulars beats most of the regular women I've seen, yea I know I'm a degenerate
well u see my picture.. 6ft tall 250lbs, not particularly muscular but I got Rizz & nice smile. from NYC. dated 60 women of different races & classes. 3 white women, 1 asian, 5 spanish women, abt 25 Black women & the rest were carribean born. As a Man, be clean, know how to have fun, have charisma, a decent job, & nice smile.. all this has taken me everywhere from Harlem to the Hamptons, to Hawaii
Love reading this brother. I’m a black man around your height and when I moved to NYC, I was like a kid in a candy shop… literally ran through all races/types of women, most fun dating experience ever.
@@00Dawggg I see u, Playa from the Himalaya!! but be safe out there, Ive had stalkers/ crazies too.. also guard your health & protect your "seeds" too.. dont let it end up in the wrong woman. other than that, have fun & enjoy the flavors!
ok and? white men still get more attention from women
Regarding the 6'5 guy, India is a very, very diverse country, it's a brown Europe of it's own, for ex, I'm stepp Indo Aryan, a bit taller 6'1, a bit fairer, about 40% Russian, my people make 1-2% if India, the vast majority of North Indians are Indo Europeans, about 25% European, 75% ancestral Indian, go towards the South, you'd see Dravidian, bit towards africans, darskin, a bit shorter, nerdy sometimes, but very educated (here's where the stereotype comes from), go towards east 7 out of the 28 Indian states are of more than 50% east asian ancestry, they seem to go towards chinese or japanese people in looks, so it's rather hard to put one stereotype on everyone, but Hollywood still just feels to be fixated on it.
Nobody in India has European dna except for Anglo Indians and those steppe indo aryans are central Asian
those asian looking states of india arent indians but occupied ...they dont call themselves indians ..also lol at 50 percent asian..99 percent is asian genetics ..im from that region dont lump us with you streetsh1tters..also we are between tibetic looking people and almost south east asia so we have both east asian looking genetics and SOMEWHAT south east asian looking but not as much ...my picture is a good example of that ...
Great video, the race pill is very real, and your race as a man will have a big impact on your dating success or failure.
Numerous studies of vvomen done all over the world (when asked which races of men they found most attractive to the least attractive), all came back with the same results:
VVomen stated that they found good looking white men of European heritage to be the most attractive race, with Indian,Asian and Middle Eastern/Arab men being the LEAST attractive races of men to vvomen.
With me, although I’m an Australian of Italian parents, I’m cursed with a dark and swarthy appearance, and as a result I’m often mistaken for an Arab or man of Middle Eastern Appearance, and vvomen DESPISE that look.
Chad is it's own race so is subfive
Im Afro Latino he ain’t lying the black negative stereotypes kills us
I am lightskin and I've been told I can pass for either Puerto Rican or Dominican.. I take as a compliment...
🇵🇷🇵🇷💪🏽
I would disagree in the claim that black men are genetically more fit. I would say if you go to sub Saharan Africa, you might be surprised to see more people being very thin rather than stocky. In the US, about half, if not more of black men and women suffer from being overweight and their demographic has the most overweight people in the US.
Your race only affects your dating life if you let it. Just don't give vibes of those negative stereotypes portrayed and you'll be fine.
Sorry, you can’t deny the race pill.
@@masteryoda498 That's just about everything wrong with the blackpill. It's this toxic ideology that if u don't look like a chad ur fucked. This has lead to countless shootings from incels who've fallen victim to this. A 2 can become a 5. A 5 can become an 8. Just because you're unattractive now doesn't mean it's gonna be like that forever unless ofc ur diabled/deformed which is less than 0.1% of the population.
@@FFSRayythen leave these spaces bozo
@@masteryoda498Stay coping and stsy in that basement
@@nananyantakyi1549
Keep jerking off to PUA videos, if I want to get laid, I just pay a lady of the night.
I've notived whenever conversations about race come up it's always apples to oranges comparisons. Claims that black men get average white women, which is true for average black men. I've never seen a good-looking black man, or any man, with a woman less than a 7. These conversations are so biased it's insane. Especially when different cultures have different preferences. Ive never met a black man pressed about a Victoria Secret model. We have our own standards, but many of you want to be white so badly that you let them determine what's attractive to you. It's weak as hell.
I agree
I went to private school
My first gf was blonde haired blue eyes bombshell
It's funny ....she doubted her beauty ....but I wouldn't let her
We PHUKED like rabbits
Eventually we went to college .....grew apart
Til this day I love that girl
These other women are dawgs
Brazilians would be a more exotic type of male for the average American female.And Spaniards too, since they're a sophisticated , European. But as a Mexican-American, I'm more familiar with the preconceived notions that others have of me. In addition too the ones stated in this video, we're also sterotyped as being violent gangbangers, drunks and uneducated as well.
Rather be Asian and above average than black and below average 💯 💯 💯
That's funny cause that's why you won't get into heaven
You think George Washington and Thomas Jefferson are up there 🤔
Get phuking real
I rather be black and above average that's actually better😊
@@Jason_breedloveif you are black you cant be above average😂call me racist if u want but truth hurts
So in other words your jealous and I sevure if black men ehh😂.
Not it bro
My question with all this is what women are these guys going for? Cause what ive seen is that the "impact" of dating is when all these men are pursuing White women. Asian man pursuing Asian women wouldn't have the issues that a Asian Man going after a CAUCASIAN woman would have. Overall just stay in your lane and just dont take it personal that someone who isnt of your race doesnt wanna date you. Plain and simple
Dont listen to this BS..I am Mexican 5'9 dated and married all types Italians, Dominicans, Cubans, Phillipinas, Mexican Girls , the white girls, todo homie...This is all BS get out of the type period...Just do you..
This is the disease of being chronically online.
Factsss the genetics and race don’t matter if you are doing what ur supposed to do as a man and have confidence
And then you woke up 😂
@@corymiller536 incel
I agree but you cannot deny there will always be women who date certain races, height, or facial attractiveness. Also men will have to deal with certain sterotypes particularly asian men.
I thought better of entering this chat….
Latinos are mostly nerfed on height, but every new gen latino born in the US gets taller and taller so that may go away eventually
Being white is only an advantage if you're dealing with ethnic communities that one, have a very large population, and two, admire white people or are seeking to branch out from their own community for various reasons.
If a white guy goes to a black neighborhood, he will have an advantage over the local black guys. I say this from experience. When i go into black neighborhoods I'll get more choosing signals than in lots of other neighborhoods. To the point I've had women ask me out.
If i go into an Asian neighborhood, i dont get as many choosing signals, but i have had positive results.
If i go into a Latin American neighborhood, it depends. If they're puerto Ricans, dominicans, even venezuelans, fairly positive results. If they're Mexicans, guetemalans, and other Central Americans, not as much. If they are Mexican from Mexico, ot Guatemalan from Guatemala, the results are much much better than if they were raised in the US. If they are brown Latinas of non-african origin (indigenous), i cant think of any community where the odds are more stacked against you than if youre white.
This follows the rule i outlined. Blacks unless holding a deep grudge, are often very open to relationships with whites. Very open. Regardless of where they're from. Blacks, whites, and Asians all come from groups of people where there are billions in each group, hence their people are not a rarity in the world.
Native Americans come from a small population group. They have an unspoken rule to maintain their blood purity and cultural purity, and highly discourage interracial relationships, especially if it involves a man from another race and one of their women.
Mexicans from the US (mainly if theyre brown, illegal, low class or from blue states) try so hard to cling on their "Mexicaness" and shit on white people. When their countrymen absolutely love them. Both brown and spanish looking girls.
I’m a Native American decedent on my fathers side (he’s full blooded I’m only half blood) and my dad didn’t follow along with the rules he married my white mother and had my siblings and I. Then again though my dad wasn’t raised on the rez he was adopted by and raised by a white family so he didn’t grew up amongst his community, my dad and I are what you would call “whitewashed” even when on the phones with African Americans they treat us badly and scam us because they think we are white because we sound white, at times I don’t even feel like I’m actual apart of the native community, I remember a full native guy said I was “light skinned for a native” my lighter skin tone comes from my European genes, I’ve always felt more welcomed and accepted by white ppl in fact all my friends are white.
@@LooksmaxxingLMS Awesome, which tribe by the way? I have been to 4 reservations and known a number of native Americans. Also, I can relate on the experience with African Americans. I am white, but both my parents are immigrants from non western countries. Nobody in my heritage has anything to do with slavery in this country, yet because I am still white I have been mistreated and received bigotry on many, many occasions. Then again, any group can do that. I'm sorry that happened to you and him.
It's unfortunate that the tribal members are not accepting of you because you're not full-blooded. That wasn't your choice. Despite all the claims about white people being racist, they're probably at least in the US and the west, among the least racist people in the world. Historically they weren't, but they have changed a lot. Their community is not insular, though from my experience of a multicultural background, I don't think white Americans really have a community. They just live individual lives.
I'm not surprised your dad married a white woman, given that he grew up around them. Though even amongst the native American communities, from US or south of it, the vast, vast majority of the white-native marriages, or the native-any people marriages, I have witnessed, involve a native man and a white woman or woman of any other race. I'm not against any intermarriages at all, it's just a trend I've noticed.
Who has it worse with regard to dating in the US: Asians or Indians?
Indians/south Asians personally 😂
It’s hard to say but tbh the difference is negligible, since Indians in the states really health maxxed compared to their cousins in Asia. But average East Asian from Asia> average south Asian from Asia
@@nicholasrodriguez4990by miles. It’s not even a relevant comparison
@@nicholasrodriguez4990im south asian (paki) who lives in the uk and I do well with women of all races. Also you mestizo latinos literally look like curries 😂😂🤣
@@nicholasrodriguez4990i have a friend whos hispanic that lives in cali. He gets rejected by women cuz he gets mistaken for being an indian lmao
JBW is LAW and the rest is cope
Nawh
Jaw is Law
This is a fact
Put the video game down and go touch grass
@FuckOuttaHere Because many mayocels refuse to racemix
During the intro, he doesn't want to look into the stereotypes of white men in which there are many stereotypes . Very interesting.
Not really unless the perspective is from someone who is non white
It shouldnt be that. I'm more of a nerd as a black dude.
Dating is a waste of time. Most of these women are obsolete. I’m more focused on investing my money and maintaining my cars and hiring an escort from time to time. ::Drops the mic::
Nope. You dont seek to raise a family and some sort of legacy in the bloodline. But many men do, its a primal drive
@@lordpickle65 Those men haven't evolved. lol "muh bloodline"
As med professional Asians on majority are not surgeons drs .
If you're a chad it doesn't matter