I met my most recent ex boyfriend at a party. I heard someone speaking with a British accent and I said, loudly, "Oh God, is someone about to start quoting Monty Python again?" And he said "I don't do that for free anymore." We kept talking and he said he wanted to be a writer, and that people seem to think he's smart and like what he has to say. I said, "Well, yeah, that's the illusion an English accent creates." He said I was mean. And then we spent 4-5 hours on the phone every night for a week leading up to our first date. It didn't work out as a long-term thing but it was a fun three months!
1. Put yourself in a high traffic area. 2. Position yourself for eye contact. 3. Adopt a host mindset. 4. Talk about things you actually care about 5. Don't be a caterpillar. Be a butterfly. . . . It comes down to these three things 1. Your lifestyle 2. Approachability 3. Taking risks
Another thing that helps me feel more comfortable at a party and open up is realizing that most likely everybody else there is tipsy or drunk. There's way less judgement at parties because everybody's there just to have fun.
Definitely agree about the introducing yourself to people. Even as a shy person, part of why I noticed my ex is because he introduced himself to me and others. It can be hard but it's a simple way to go from total stranger to familiar face.
How to get someone to notice you at a party ...easy be yourself. If no one notices you oh well at least you were yourself and you had fun woot there you go!
This is why I don't meet anyone new. I'm the worst caterpillar ever! I hang out with people I know and hide in a corner. Lol. I set my cocoon there. Gosh, I'm awful.
I recently did 4 out of 5 of these things - not because I wanted a "guy" to notice me, but because I simply love interacting with people that have different backgrounds/culture to my own and love listening to how they see the world. However, sometime during the night I ended up sitting with a french couple and didn't move from the spot until my passengers were ready to be dropped off home 😂 - this night was worth being the sober driver. Thanks Matthew, love your channel!
I am an antisocial introvert and I tried being the social butterfly at a party once. I felt physically ill the next day for the entire day. Maybe it was just those heels though.
OMG I'm so often the host because I can't stand it when someone hosts a party or event or even a class and doesn't do the introductions and make people feel welcome and included. I'm just going to start doing that now and see how it goes. Thanks, Matthew.
The church I go to is big into planning dances to help us meet people. I just went to one this weekend and I kept getting asked by "less desirable" guys and I wasn't having a good time. I felt awkward. I took a break in the hallway and thought, "I'll just go talk to people." And when I went back with that mindset, I made new friends, got asked to dance by some cool guys, and ended up talking with a guy for like 15min straight and it was awesome.
Hey, Matthew! I really like how passionate you are about the topic you're talking about. It actually makes me want to stand up and do things. Thank you from Russia ;D Keep up with such a great work!
Why is mathew still single, and why is he not famous already with is own TV show. He's smart, his accent is just…. *heart eyes* and he's obviously very handsome with a dash of being incredibly cute when he laughs.
1. Put yourself in a high traffic area ( Not in the corners, somewhere people pass by a lot ) 2. Put yourself for eye contact. (Face the action, Be ready for eye contact) 3.Adopt a Host Mindset (Greet others as if it is ur own party, make others feel comfortable) 4.Talk about things you actually care about (Opposite of small talk: Passionate Talk) 5.DO NOT BE A CATERPILLAR, BE A BUTTERFLY (Don't stick with people only coz u r comfortable and do not make anyone ur default, be the one who goes around the party. People would be like, oh they could leave any moment ;-) TAKE THAT RISK!! )
I love Matthew. I just wish I came upon this info when I was in the height of dating...at like 25-30. I am now 37 and still single. And still have to say all of his advice is still good, even though I am older. I wish I met someone when I was younger as getting guys to notice me seems harder at this age:( Still same soul, just look old lol
At 37, you're semi-screwed in this environment. Don't wanna get too political but in this feminist and sexually liberated society, there are winners and losers. The ones who are winning are women in their 20s and middle aged men who are around your age. They're the ones who can fully take advantage of opportunities open to them. Young men in their 20s and women your age are struggling. I'm not a conservative hating on our sexually liberated society, it's nice in some ways, but I'm making a rational argument that it helps the men and women who are at their prime (women in their 20s and men in their 30s). The reality is that successful men your age are all looking at younger women (say 25-30). You may want to ask yourself the following questions: 1- Why is it that you're still single at 37? Do you have baggage like children? 2- What do you wanna achieve from a relationship? Do you want children? Or are you just lonely? 3- What kind of men do you like and what do you have to offer them? I guess a 23 year old girl can just sit there and passively wait for her prince charming but a woman your age has no choice but to go on the offensive. I'm sure there are plenty of guys out there who would be interested in you, a fraction of number you had 15 years ago, but there's out there. The difference now is that you have to actively seek them out.
This is so true! I have found through my work that working on these techniques can actually make you better in other areas like public speaking, leadership and even increase your sales. And it crosses cultures! I'm from Mexico and these tips work here too. Keep up the great work! V inspiring videos :).
I use the eye contact and it works Basically i can get any guy I’m interested in to come and start a conversation with me in a bar or club. I luv the eye language.
I love the content of this video. I do just what you said here at parties and I discovered is a great strategy, because you will have more fun. Definitely you become more attractive to people because at the end of the day many people is having the same trouble looking for feeling welcomed, so if you don't feel welcomed believe me there is more people feeling the same and if you start welcoming them now you are creating your own party.
I LOVE this! I've always been averse to being at parties (unless there's a special reason to be there) but these ideas actually make me find it kind of an exciting challenge and opportunity for fun experience!!!
Thank you! Your effort at being specific and touching on a lot of subjects and being constant has been my nutrient needed to grow from caterpillar to butterfly! ❤
This is my favorite video this far Mathew Hussey! Ive been waiting for you to out out a video as clever as this one! Even though Im usually very social at a party this video made everytthing come together for me in believing that what I was doing was the right way to promote myself and others at a fun get together! Thank you!!!!! Tou really are the best:) Love always Megan :)
Your ways are actually true. But as an introvert person, this will definitely be so hard to do! Will need lots and lots of courage to approach even just one person. =D
Actually i would notice the shy, silent one hiding in a corner away from the action and loud happy groups - also thats where you would find me at a party
I like all of your suggestions on how to meet guys and how to be better at speaking with them but I've been to party's where I literally tried to talk to people and they turned there noses up at me. Maybe they didn't know me but I felt like I tired for a painful hour to walk around trying to make eye contact with someone. I finally made my way to the back door and left. It was awful cause I think I knew two people and they didn't even barely talk to me. I really believe that we are in different classes and if you don't look like other's then your not in the in crowd. And they will judge you. Seriously, I'm not trying to be negative but it can be painful if you are trying and you can't fit in maybe cause of clothes or hair style or make up. I do try to do all the newest hair color styles, balayage or just high lights. But I can't forget to pay all my bill's first or we all know you can get in deep water's that way. Thank you for all your information on relationship, they do help me!
Always wear your self-confident but not to the extent that you're too extra. It also helps if you put on your best outfit because I'm sure that there are lots of attractive girls in the party. Make a brand for yourself to become sexy but classy.
what you are saying depends on the crowed though... or at least on the other person.. I once attracted the attention of some guy at a club just because I was sitting in the corner, earphones on reading a book ..I'm still wondering if he was fascinated by my "ignorance" (I actually just didn't like the music that gave me headaches and waiting for the first bus home) or if I seemed like someone who goes her own way to him...
Ive been seeing this guy, he told me he loves me and I didnt say it back. I really like him, but I dont "love him". He told me he felt I was leading him on and ever since hes been acting weird. I liked what we used to have, everything was great with him and I think I could fall for the person he used to be with me. What should I do? I really dont want to stop talking to him, because he is really nice, but now things arent how they used to be
wow, you are such a wonderful talking person, my heart about guy is dead long time ago, i just idraid i never understand guys forever, also i forgot how to talk with guys and connect. I will never love again.
I don't agree 100%. I was at a garden party of 500 people and while people were busy mingling as it was an important event, I went to sit on a swing as I couldn't find a chair around. Out of the blue a very handsome guy came over and started chatting me up. The rest is history... he even flew to meet me to another country where I lived after leaving that country where we met.
Matthew Hussy, But what if you are an introvert? I'm good at getting out there and talking to people but In the end I get drained very quickly and they end up having this high expectation of me.
oohh I need to find people to invite me to parties. years ago when i was in poor mental health and franticly lammeting about my problems with a friend, I asked 'what am i supposed to do? drive around and if I see a party, invite myself over?" he says "yes". I'm not sure if that is rude, or a way to be a fun friendly person. but! I don't like crowds and closed spaces. I don't like it loud. it upsets me.
It would be great if we could see examples applied to society. Like applied science. Could you also make a video about the Different Levels of Investment. I would like to know what is serious, what is playful, what should I invest at what level of the relationship? I fear my timing or my levels of investment are all screwy.
How about asking questions pertaining to the man that interesting in you about his job? I was at work, he was patrolling at the same work location. He was a cop
I saw i guy i like at a greenhouse. And i whent today with the intent of him noticing me and remembering me. From the time i walked in his eyes were on me so i walked around let him stare and when i was gonna pay he approched me and whr had a lil conversation about gravel😅 and we had a lil chitchat. Ill be back and do same thing. I said i would be back since i have a garden project.😉i think it went well
Great video Matthew! I was taking some mental notes and I have to say, as a starting out businesswoman alot of these tips would also work phenomenally in business networking! I love how useful and applicable your advice always is. Keep up the good work! :)
Can you please talk more about long-term relationships ? I'm married for about 6 years (I already got the guy lol) and I need a change, I don't know what it is, all I know is we need to rejuvenate but I don't know how! I feel like I need to be more interesting or something,, hope you can help me 🙏🏻
Tony Robbins suggested SURPRISE RITUALS to liven relationships. You know your husband, right? What can you do to surprise him? What does he like? What would tickle him? What could you reveal or do that might even surprise him about you? Tony also says we are most alive when we challenge ourselves and take ourselves out of our comfort zones. Have you or your husband thought about doing something that you consider beyond you? Go for it, even if it seems nuts. Tony starts people off in his events with things like a fire walk. People are surprised they can do it and it opens them up. Doing something outlandish together can put you and your husband on a new adventure together. It would definitely take you out of your rut and probably strengthen your bond. Just thinking about it right now is probably getting your heart going. .....AS for Matthew, he listened to Tony at 15or16yrs old, so u are not betraying him. he would probably agree. Good luck.
Thanks Matthew, great tips. I tend to do all this. But what do you suggest to do when someone you started a conversation, doesn't stop talking and is not even interesting. How can I politely get out of that monologue. Guys don't seem to realize when you are bored by their stories.
To be honest, I’m always the person who goes around saying hi to people and fist pumping them whenever I’m at a club. I never understood the whole uptight approach. I hate being uptight, like, why can’t we all just get along like friends.
I'm in high school and I was leaving early to get my cast off and I started talking to this guy and we got personal but the thing is just as we were really enjoying our conversation my mom came to pick me up and three days have passed and I haven't talked to him since maybe a few sentences here and there but I feel something with him even though my friends say things about him I do not like him for looks rather his personality but I don't think he even knows my name what do I do Matt?!😕
I don't know if you will read the comments on RUclips, but I have this one question for you that I hope you can make a video and talk about... So..sometimes, I just want to make friends with guys. I have met some really cool guys that I just want to develop a friendship with, but it seems like whenever I try to get closer and take the initiative to talk to them, they would rather get cautious and walk away from me... And I end up losing the potential friendship. I think they might assumed that I like them? But I was just being cool and casual. I just want to have a bro, a friend... My question is...why it always ends up that way? Is there a way to just make friends with the opposite sex without giving them wrong ideas?
Add more to what I said...I don't just walk to strangers and try to be their friends. The guys I try to develop a friendship with, are guys that I already know for a while. We are kinda like friends, but we are not really very close friends yet. But I want to develop this close friendship with them. And whenever I try to do so, it turned out awkward... I think they might think I like them?? Making friends with the opposite sex is so hard, bc no matter how hard you try, there still is a gap or a thing that make you feel cautious whenever you interact with each other..
Matthew, I'm dying to talk yo you. I have a crush on this guide for a mine. However, I met him on vacation. Therefore, we live in different states. I can't just call him. What should I do?
I met my most recent ex boyfriend at a party. I heard someone speaking with a British accent and I said, loudly, "Oh God, is someone about to start quoting Monty Python again?" And he said "I don't do that for free anymore." We kept talking and he said he wanted to be a writer, and that people seem to think he's smart and like what he has to say. I said, "Well, yeah, that's the illusion an English accent creates." He said I was mean. And then we spent 4-5 hours on the phone every night for a week leading up to our first date. It didn't work out as a long-term thing but it was a fun three months!
aww so lovely! Great flirting!
We all have a little crush on Matthew, don't lie to yourself
He’s hot, how can we not
Hahhaha of course! Otherwise we wouldn't be watching him. Is adorable!
going to a party now. *deep breath*...time to test these * mutters to self* butterfly butterfly not caterpillar*
Sherry-Ann lol What happened?
Aww
Your sense of humour is amazing!😂😂😂😂💕
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1. Put yourself in a high traffic area.
2. Position yourself for eye contact.
3. Adopt a host mindset.
4. Talk about things you actually care about
5. Don't be a caterpillar. Be a butterfly.
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It comes down to these three things
1. Your lifestyle
2. Approachability
3. Taking risks
Another thing that helps me feel more comfortable at a party and open up is realizing that most likely everybody else there is tipsy or drunk. There's way less judgement at parties because everybody's there just to have fun.
Definitely agree about the introducing yourself to people. Even as a shy person, part of why I noticed my ex is because he introduced himself to me and others. It can be hard but it's a simple way to go from total stranger to familiar face.
How to get someone to notice you at a party ...easy be yourself. If no one notices you oh well at least you were yourself and you had fun woot there you go!
This is why I don't meet anyone new. I'm the worst caterpillar ever! I hang out with people I know and hide in a corner. Lol. I set my cocoon there. Gosh, I'm awful.
Be brave my little caterpillar, fly flyyyyy
I feel you.. same here. But I feel that it's high time that this caterpillar transforms into a beautiful butterfly.
❤️❤️
But do you enjoy going to parties?
I liked the tip about acting like a butterfly rather than a caterpillar. Well said/ lovely tip
What he says makes sense but I'm screaming inside right now.
I recently did 4 out of 5 of these things - not because I wanted a "guy" to notice me, but because I simply love interacting with people that have different backgrounds/culture to my own and love listening to how they see the world. However, sometime during the night I ended up sitting with a french couple and didn't move from the spot until my passengers were ready to be dropped off home 😂 - this night was worth being the sober driver. Thanks Matthew, love your channel!
I am an antisocial introvert and I tried being the social butterfly at a party once. I felt physically ill the next day for the entire day. Maybe it was just those heels though.
OMG I'm so often the host because I can't stand it when someone hosts a party or event or even a class and doesn't do the introductions and make people feel welcome and included. I'm just going to start doing that now and see how it goes. Thanks, Matthew.
Maria Benard,Hi beautiful 😍
I have social anxiety. My social life is doomed. :( :( But I wanna be a butterfly sooo bad. Hahahaha.
The church I go to is big into planning dances to help us meet people. I just went to one this weekend and I kept getting asked by "less desirable" guys and I wasn't having a good time. I felt awkward. I took a break in the hallway and thought, "I'll just go talk to people." And when I went back with that mindset, I made new friends, got asked to dance by some cool guys, and ended up talking with a guy for like 15min straight and it was awesome.
Omg "act like a host" is such good advice!!
Hey, Matthew! I really like how passionate you are about the topic you're talking about. It actually makes me want to stand up and do things. Thank you from Russia ;D Keep up with such a great work!
Why is mathew still single, and why is he not famous already with is own TV show. He's smart, his accent is just…. *heart eyes* and he's obviously very handsome with a dash of being incredibly cute when he laughs.
Isabela Elenes I’d screw him for sure!! 😜
He's not single, he's a bachelor dating models.
Lol he's probs got a few issues at home or something
How come Matthew doesn't have millions subscribers
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Because he provides quality rather than quantity.
My thought exactly!! he is amazing!
because his main audiences are women who have difficulty seeking the right guy... and how many are they? Lol
true
I did all of that in a party before watching the video , and really works, Thank u Matty
5:15 is the best quote of this video, thank you
1. Put yourself in a high traffic area ( Not in the corners, somewhere people pass by a lot )
2. Put yourself for eye contact. (Face the action, Be ready for eye contact)
3.Adopt a Host Mindset (Greet others as if it is ur own party, make others feel comfortable)
4.Talk about things you actually care about (Opposite of small talk: Passionate Talk)
5.DO NOT BE A CATERPILLAR, BE A BUTTERFLY (Don't stick with people only coz u r comfortable and do not make anyone ur default, be the one who goes around the party. People would be like, oh they could leave any moment ;-) TAKE THAT RISK!! )
I love Matthew. I just wish I came upon this info when I was in the height of dating...at like 25-30. I am now 37 and still single. And still have to say all of his advice is still good, even though I am older. I wish I met someone when I was younger as getting guys to notice me seems harder at this age:( Still same soul, just look old lol
It is still never too late
Ever tried talking to man you like?
37 years old is not thst old, i feel i am still young. haha. just be happy.
At 37, you're semi-screwed in this environment. Don't wanna get too political but in this feminist and sexually liberated society, there are winners and losers. The ones who are winning are women in their 20s and middle aged men who are around your age. They're the ones who can fully take advantage of opportunities open to them. Young men in their 20s and women your age are struggling. I'm not a conservative hating on our sexually liberated society, it's nice in some ways, but I'm making a rational argument that it helps the men and women who are at their prime (women in their 20s and men in their 30s). The reality is that successful men your age are all looking at younger women (say 25-30).
You may want to ask yourself the following questions:
1- Why is it that you're still single at 37? Do you have baggage like children?
2- What do you wanna achieve from a relationship? Do you want children? Or are you just lonely?
3- What kind of men do you like and what do you have to offer them?
I guess a 23 year old girl can just sit there and passively wait for her prince charming but a woman your age has no choice but to go on the offensive. I'm sure there are plenty of guys out there who would be interested in you, a fraction of number you had 15 years ago, but there's out there. The difference now is that you have to actively seek them out.
This is so true! I have found through my work that working on these techniques can actually make you better in other areas like public speaking, leadership and even increase your sales.
And it crosses cultures! I'm from Mexico and these tips work here too.
Keep up the great work! V inspiring videos :).
Thank you for this videos!! as a single girl who have always sucked at dating, your videos are too helpful and a life changers :)... THANK YOU!!!
I use the eye contact and it works
Basically i can get any guy I’m interested in to come and start a conversation with me in a bar or club.
I luv the eye language.
im 24yrs old, hv a husband nd a daughter. maybe living my most happiest time. no use for me but I really enjoy watching this type of videos.
I love the content of this video. I do just what you said here at parties and I discovered is a great strategy, because you will have more fun. Definitely you become more attractive to people because at the end of the day many people is having the same trouble looking for feeling welcomed, so if you don't feel welcomed believe me there is more people feeling the same and if you start welcoming them now you are creating your own party.
I LOVE this! I've always been averse to being at parties (unless there's a special reason to be there) but these ideas actually make me find it kind of an exciting challenge and opportunity for fun experience!!!
For me : How To Get A "Girl" To Notice You At A Party,
Thanks Mathew. As always tips that works for both different species of mankind
always introduce myself to people and always find the wall flowers and bring them out to party away from wall..
when im stuck with someone at a party i dont know how to leave them if they are on their own.
Fine, I'm going to leave my lurk status behind. You've convinced me to subscribe.
this was not very well titled. . . because these work for just being awesome at a party! seriously, saving this one somewhere
Thank you! Your effort at being specific and touching on a lot of
subjects and being constant has been my nutrient needed to grow from
caterpillar to butterfly! ❤
Really like Mat`s hairstyle on this video! Awesome input there, love it!
This is my favorite video this far Mathew Hussey! Ive been waiting for you to out out a video as clever as this one! Even though Im usually very social at a party this video made everytthing come together for me in believing that what I was doing was the right way to promote myself and others at a fun get together! Thank you!!!!! Tou really are the best:)
Love always
Megan :)
Hi! Everything you said is the absolute formula for getting a man to notice me. I have a bf know!!!!!!
Your ways are actually true. But as an introvert person, this will definitely be so hard to do! Will need lots and lots of courage to approach even just one person. =D
idea: talk about what to do in moments of missing someone a lot (love your work)
Actually i would notice the shy, silent one hiding in a corner away from the action and loud happy groups - also thats where you would find me at a party
yeah me too ..hate crowd party with ppl u don't know and then judging . until u feel uncomfortable and leave
Key to parties = Have fun!
I'm just watching these videos because of Matt and this is the first time I feel called out lol. *cries in introvert*
1. 0:50
2. 1:24
3. 2:04
4. 3:04
I like all of your suggestions on how to meet guys and how to be better at speaking with them but I've been to party's where I literally tried to talk to people and they turned there noses up at me.
Maybe they didn't know me but I felt like I tired for a painful hour to walk around trying to make eye contact with someone. I finally made my way to the back door and left. It was awful cause I think I knew two people and they didn't even barely talk to me. I really believe that we are in different classes and if you don't look like other's then your not in the in crowd. And they will judge you. Seriously, I'm not trying to be negative but it can be painful if you are trying and you can't fit in maybe cause of clothes or hair style or make up. I do try to do all the newest hair color styles, balayage or just high lights. But I can't forget to pay all my bill's first or we all know you can get in deep water's that way.
Thank you for all your information on relationship, they do help me!
Always wear your self-confident but not to the extent that you're too extra. It also helps if you put on your best outfit because I'm sure that there are lots of attractive girls in the party. Make a brand for yourself to become sexy but classy.
I am still in depression of my last ex, n felt I had found a gem, never found anybody like that ever again
I stopped watching you for the advice and started watching these videos for you... I like the long, swept back hair. 💋
A real Gemini
awesome delivery. thanks matt!
Techniques 3 and 5 are the very reason why I host parties myself =D
Can you make a video breakdown on an actual interview to show us the group dynamics based on the techniques you have been teaching us?
what you are saying depends on the crowed though... or at least on the other person.. I once attracted the attention of some guy at a club just because I was sitting in the corner, earphones on reading a book ..I'm still wondering if he was fascinated by my "ignorance" (I actually just didn't like the music that gave me headaches and waiting for the first bus home) or if I seemed like someone who goes her own way to him...
Ive been seeing this guy, he told me he loves me and I didnt say it back. I really like him, but I dont "love him". He told me he felt I was leading him on and ever since hes been acting weird. I liked what we used to have, everything was great with him and I think I could fall for the person he used to be with me. What should I do? I really dont want to stop talking to him, because he is really nice, but now things arent how they used to be
Aren't butterflies then attracted to wallflowers ;)
Love this for introverts
wow, you are such a wonderful talking person, my heart about guy is dead long time ago, i just idraid i never understand guys forever, also i forgot how to talk with guys and connect. I will never love again.
Matthew be like 'at the paty' lol
Or as Americans say.. “at the pawrtay”
I don't agree 100%. I was at a garden party of 500 people and while people were busy mingling as it was an important event, I went to sit on a swing as I couldn't find a chair around. Out of the blue a very handsome guy came over and started chatting me up. The rest is history... he even flew to meet me to another country where I lived after leaving that country where we met.
well wasnt he the one who basically moved around and found you? if you were bith catepillars you wouldnt have met
Thank u Matthew!! hav learned alot about relationships and life in general frm ur videos!!
Perfect! So simple and clever
Love this video 😊😄👍🏼🐘🐛 there is no butterfly emoji.. 😅
Matthew Hussy, But what if you are an introvert? I'm good at getting out there and talking to people but In the end I get drained very quickly and they end up having this high expectation of me.
His hair needs a good hand combing by me!!! Daaaayyyumm 😋😊
I LITHERLY LOVE PARTIES AND DISCOS I ALWAYS HAVE FUN THERE
Grate Tipps, I always felt that way on parties. PS: I like your knew style with the long hair, it suits you :)
love your tips!!!
I'm a caterpillar, and it's terrible! I think I'm gonna try to use this tips, thanks Matt!
Lol, these actually sound like good ways to make friends, too.
oohh I need to find people to invite me to parties. years ago when i was in poor mental health and franticly lammeting about my problems with a friend, I asked 'what am i supposed to do? drive around and if I see a party, invite myself over?" he says "yes". I'm not sure if that is rude, or a way to be a fun friendly person.
but! I don't like crowds and closed spaces. I don't like it loud. it upsets me.
It would be great if we could see examples applied to society. Like applied science.
Could you also make a video about the Different Levels of Investment. I would like to know what is serious, what is playful, what should I invest at what level of the relationship?
I fear my timing or my levels of investment are all screwy.
I like a guy right now. That works a green house i go to buy plants. And his a bit flirty with me. But im so shy!!! Ill try ur tips.
Great video. Love it!
Shoutout to all pewdiepie fans just go in front of the person and say NOTICE ME SENPAI !!
Senpai noticed me *blush*
That's a way too yes, agressive, but a way
This video really helped me & helped me notice some things about myself-Thank u very much :]
How about asking questions pertaining to the man that interesting in you about his job? I was at work, he was patrolling at the same work location. He was a cop
I saw i guy i like at a greenhouse. And i whent today with the intent of him noticing me and remembering me. From the time i walked in his eyes were on me so i walked around let him stare and when i was gonna pay he approched me and whr had a lil conversation about gravel😅 and we had a lil chitchat. Ill be back and do same thing. I said i would be back since i have a garden project.😉i think it went well
Thanks for sharing your energy to the world
Wait is this the host guy on Nathan for you 😂
I'm not gay but this is still really helpful.
Great video Matthew! I was taking some mental notes and I have to say, as a starting out businesswoman alot of these tips would also work phenomenally in business networking! I love how useful and applicable your advice always is. Keep up the good work! :)
Can you please talk more about long-term relationships ? I'm married for about 6 years (I already got the guy lol) and I need a change, I don't know what it is, all I know is we need to rejuvenate but I don't know how! I feel like I need to be more interesting or something,, hope you can help me 🙏🏻
Tony Robbins suggested SURPRISE RITUALS to liven relationships. You know your husband, right? What can you do to surprise him? What does he like? What would tickle him? What could you reveal or do that might even surprise him about you? Tony also says we are most alive when we challenge ourselves and take ourselves out of our comfort zones. Have you or your husband thought about doing something that you consider beyond you? Go for it, even if it seems nuts. Tony starts people off in his events with things like a fire walk. People are surprised they can do it and it opens them up. Doing something outlandish together can put you and your husband on a new adventure together. It would definitely take you out of your rut and probably strengthen your bond. Just thinking about it right now is probably getting your heart going. .....AS for Matthew, he listened to Tony at 15or16yrs old, so u are not betraying him. he would probably agree. Good luck.
it should go without saying but if you do something that could be dangerous, like firewalking, get professional trainers teachers or guides.
Miracle490d thank you so much for the inspiration, that was already really helpful 😍 ♥️♥️
Gee, before he finally said these 4 attraction things it feels as if I had to put up with half an hour of some really boring stuff
Thanks Matthew, great tips. I tend to do all this. But what do you suggest to do when someone you started a conversation, doesn't stop talking and is not even interesting. How can I politely get out of that monologue. Guys don't seem to realize when you are bored by their stories.
This is so common sense type advises but yet it's like it's like I've never though of doing these things🤔
Nice smile .
this was so helpful
Great tips! Thx!
Sounds so easy
To be honest, I’m always the person who goes around saying hi to people and fist pumping them whenever I’m at a club. I never understood the whole uptight approach. I hate being uptight, like, why can’t we all just get along like friends.
If I start 👗 less would that get a guy attention or just send wrong message?
Im a fun sorta gal, but sooooooo shy, even holding eye contact is hard.
I was a butterfly yesterday but there were only men with theyr girlfriends at this party😂.
Good content!
very very clever... I like it
In my school we are in 8th grade but already having full on house party's lol
I'm in high school and I was leaving early to get my cast off and I started talking to this guy and we got personal but the thing is just as we were really enjoying our conversation my mom came to pick me up and three days have passed and I haven't talked to him since maybe a few sentences here and there but I feel something with him even though my friends say things about him I do not like him for looks rather his personality but I don't think he even knows my name what do I do Matt?!😕
I don't know if you will read the comments on RUclips, but I have this one question for you that I hope you can make a video and talk about... So..sometimes, I just want to make friends with guys. I have met some really cool guys that I just want to develop a friendship with, but it seems like whenever I try to get closer and take the initiative to talk to them, they would rather get cautious and walk away from me... And I end up losing the potential friendship. I think they might assumed that I like them? But I was just being cool and casual. I just want to have a bro, a friend... My question is...why it always ends up that way? Is there a way to just make friends with the opposite sex without giving them wrong ideas?
Add more to what I said...I don't just walk to strangers and try to be their friends. The guys I try to develop a friendship with, are guys that I already know for a while. We are kinda like friends, but we are not really very close friends yet. But I want to develop this close friendship with them. And whenever I try to do so, it turned out awkward... I think they might think I like them?? Making friends with the opposite sex is so hard, bc no matter how hard you try, there still is a gap or a thing that make you feel cautious whenever you interact with each other..
Matthew, I'm dying to talk yo you. I have a crush on this guide for a mine. However, I met him on vacation. Therefore, we live in different states. I can't just call him. What should I do?