This is an underrated mental health problem, thanks for raising this topic up. Sex is a lot more dangerous and not as fun (especially in the aftermath where feelings of disgust and regret may kick in) than one might think.
@Robert Drake Fantastic to hear! I'm glad to hear awareness of it is growing as a health, wellbeing and safety concern and you're contributing towards that. Wishing you all the best with your book.
1. Excessive masturbation 2. Obsession with sex 3.excessive time planning sexual activity 4.frequent viewing of pornography 5. Frequent use of phone sex services 6.having multiple sex partners and frequent one night stands 7.staying emotionally detached from sexual partners 8. Engaging in sexual encounters that conflict with personal values 9. Frequently engaging in paraphillia 10. Have the Inability to stop You’re welcome 😉
I’m 15 and I’ve been hypersexual for as long as I can remember. My earliest memory was 5 but it could go back as far as 4. I feel very ashamed of my thoughts and feelings, which makes it hard to talk about it. My hyper sexuality is very much one of the coping mechanisms I use to deal with other problems in my life. Also, I would like to add that the way hyper sexuality is viewed by society is another factor that makes it very difficult to open up about. It’s usually not taken very seriously and we’re seen as “pervs” a lot of the time
@whimsy do you believe you got this disorder because of genetics? I want to understand why people get this exactly. I have this from being raped by my father and my moms boyfriend from ages 4-6 years old. I wondering if it's more circumstantial as to why people get this.
@@toddm3859 it is usually based around trauma. But people with adhd can also have this. As someone with both adhd and sexual trauma I realize the trauma made the disorder show up.
@@toddm3859 it comes from trauma cause if you get molested or raped the sexual demons from that person can transfer into you and then you can get hypersexuality disorder and could even do the same things that happened to you to someone else.But some people realize it is demonic and so they go to a really good person who does a deliverance on them and the person cast the spirits out.Also there are a few different types of sexual demons But they can still be cast out in jesus name and then you have to guard yourself so they won't ever come back in.Sexual demons cam also be generational and come from a generational curse or come from viewing porn or committing a sexual sin
@Nar92 it comes from trauma cause if you get molested or raped the sexual demons from that person can transfer into you and then you can get hypersexuality disorder and could even do the same things that happened to you to someone else.But some people realize it is demonic and so they go to a really good person who does a deliverance on them and the person cast the spirits out.Also there are a few different types of sexual demons But they can still be cast out in jesus name and then you have to guard yourself so they won't ever come back in.Sexual demons cam also be generational and come from a generational curse or come from viewing porn or committing a sexual sin
I honestly feel dirty about my thoughts or habits, but this video makes me feel a bit better. I do feel bad for people who go through this though, since it’s kinda a taboo subject still.
At first I read this as “Heterosexual disorder” and now I can’t stop laughing Edit: Ok a lot of you seem to think this is me hating on straight people. It’s not. Hating people because of their sexuality is stupid, okay?
Not me and I suffer from this. If these desires can be dealt with in the proper context it isn't a problem. I have learned to CONTROL IT. It is NOT EASY I ASSURE YOU. But I am managing.
@@macaylahhernandez6405 Thank you Macaylah. It is NOT EASY. But I am there. Currently I am in a relationship where there is NO SEX. God she is the MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMAN in the world. I have NOT told her about this because I am AFRAID that she would leave me. I don't know what to do.
Chaswicks White it sounds like you are doing extremely well. Well done my friend. On your situation, you should probably break it down to her slowly. Maybe the fact that you haven’t pushed or encouraged any sex will help her understand. And the fact that you have that much self control is amazing.
I am a victim from sexual abuse and I noticed how in this video it said that one of the reasons you may have this disorder is because of sexual abuse. I think I have hyper-sexual disorder too and I know it may confuse some people that someone who suffered from being molested has this disorder because "why would you want more sexual interactions after you were sexually abused" but the thing is, we and other victims were exposed to sex and other things at such a young age that somewhere in our mind we think that its normal to want and need sexual acts and to have intense desires for it, even though we know its not normal now, we basically grew up thinking that certain way. I'm sorry if this made no sense at all but I hope this sorta helped some people who may be confused.
My God!!! This is what is actually what i am feeling too.. I have lost my self worth because of the abuse that has happened to me before.. And all my life.. I thought what i was doing and all the longing and wanting to engage into something sexual is just so normal... :(
Exactly, just not as many people realize that this feeling is normal for a sexual abuse victim. Also, always remember that you have worth and whatever happened with the abuse was not your fault; out of anyone, the abuser should lose their self worth, not the victim (it took me quite a long time to believe this myself and I blamed myself for a long time). I and many others are always here for you ^^ xx
Thank you so much.. I have ruined my life ever since that day.. I was constantly craving for pleasure.. And i could not process of it's right or wrong.. It's as if my body has its own mind.. It just want sex.. I could not remember all their faces anymore.. All i know is that.. I thought my worth revolves around being used for sex.. I feel useful when i am used.. It's so sad.. Because i really do not know where i stand.. And what my real value is.. As if it was taken aways from me when it happened.. That very day.. :(
I can relate, I was molested by my sister at a very young age and I currently have many sexual urges. But then again, I'm still a teen, so that could just be it.
Guys despite anyone says, or despite how bad something seem, BDSM dominant/submisive and Sadist/masochist relationships, are not something unhealthy as long as it doesn't interfere with normal daily activities, and as long as all parts in the relationship are okay, and have consented to it.
From my perspective, wanting to inflict pain on your partner or wanting pain inflicted upon yourself, is not healthy. I cannot fathom why you would want to see the person you love more than anyone else in pain. How is that pleasurable? How can you hurt another person and feel good about it? I genuinely want to understand
Jonah Shriver from the way you're typing i assume you're definitely not into that stuff. people like what they like, and it's not any of your business what others do in the bedroom. it is healthy as long as both of them consent to it and they're both pleasured by it, not everyone has the same sexual interests as you
@@jonahshriver3358 I used to think like you, until... Well. Whatever, people have different tastes, so, maybe you can't understand some thing, but that doesn't mean that those things are bad
Don't forget safewords, and for play involving gag/mouth cover, safety gestures!! Which if your partner/playmate doesn't agree to these then they're a bit abusive and you shouldn't engage with them in those settings :(
I'm pretty sure no one was calling phone sex lines last year either... no one's talking about "current" trends but phone sex line are a pretty outdated reference
I read once this Disorder is one of the consequences and usually related to Depressive Disorders. Lack of love or self-steem make you to search for imaginary partner or validation through sex. I had a mild form of it😳
I think the worst is hurting ppl by accident. Women who are not sex freaks get rly hurt. If i try to make up for it then im am asahole because once the damage is done the woman will turn on you. So many women turn on you its not even funny. I only had 1 offer for an orgy with lesbians. I get extreme stress thinking abt it becuz i dismt cheat on my girl for it but we broke up later which made me regret not cheating cuz the lesbos were pissed i declined and dumped me.
I remember watching this for the first time and crying because of how awful this made me feel. I was so lonely... I stopped watching porn and reading hentai when I met this guy that I really liked. He was really nice and sweet and all I did when I wasn't talking to him at night was think about what story I'll tell him the next day and eventually fall asleep. It made me realize that I don't need porn to feel the happy and reward hormones they keep talking about. Too bad he doesn't talk to me anymore. I miss his jokes already.
The happy hormones is called dopamine. They can be produced when you socialize with people or do something you like. I get dopamine when I do art. There are other neurotransmitters too, like serotonin, endorphins, oxytocin etc.
Honestly i have like half the symptoms. Only reason the others aren't true is because I'm emotionally attached to someone who isn't sexual and I refuse to cheat.
@@clonerstive I thank you for the suggestion, but I'm much too awkward to even bring up the idea of a therapist to my parents let alone the idea of opening up to someone I pay for.
i see a lot of confusion in the comments... it can stem from childhood sexual abuse or being sexually exploited. that combined with low self esteem and a warped perception of sex results in poor judgment of partners & placing yourself in potentially harmful sexual situations. having multiple partners and not setting hard boundaries leaves you vulnerable to be taken advantage of. that only furthers the cycle of self harm and it spirals into a destructive pattern that controls your life. a lot of time abuse victims, or people with depression will just loan their body out and convince themselves they want it because they are addicted to the dopamine release. It's not about unprotected sex, it's not about BDSM, it's about the fact that you DONT WANT SEX, But you still fuck. Compare it to cutting, it releases endorphins, but it's not good for you. I don't know anyone who WANTS to cut, but at the same time they WANT TO CUT. And I know this can be extremely hard to understand if you've not experienced depression or anything of the sort, but I hope this helps.
So, what advice do you have for me? I have a friend who confessed to me that she suffers from this, I have no idea of how severe it really is but she apparently can't be without a boyfriend, and she has cheated on her previous one. I worry for her because she's also depressed and I see how this all accumulates and overwhelms her. She's a great person but I don't know how I can help her.
@Flush Abesei Ironically, you don't strike me as an "alpha", and there's no doubt that *you* are deeply damaged, but in a serious, sad way. By the way, I don't think your face is even in your profile pic. You can reply whatever you want; I'm done with you, but wish you solve whatever it is that causes you to be so hateful and negative.
@Flush Abesei she's literally talking about how this is a result of being an abuse victim? Sometimes we have to talk about damage lol what conversation do you think you're walking into? Also miss me with that alpha male bullshit
i was getting scared cause I thought I might had this, turns ouy I just masturbate to much bit that's not really hypersexual disorder right? I mean I don't plan a time when I want to masturbate and I don't think about sex all day everyday so I guess it's just puberty
ImMiruna yeah it’s not about frequency, it’s about whether you think it’s taking over your life. If you masturbate every day but it’s when you have free time and it makes you feel better, then that’s nothing to worry about.
fetishes and kinks are not always signs of sexual addiction. Neither is wanting to keep options open or wanting to have sex with sex workers. It's when it takes over your life that it's an addiction. just like drinking a little bit of wine at a wine tasting doesn't make you an alcoholic. It's when you start to neglect everybody around you and your responsibilities to drink that makes you an alcoholic. Enjoying or engaging in different sexual behaviors does not make you a sex addict. it's when it starts to take over your life and responsibilities that it becomes an addiction.
To the top 3: your Grammer is pretty bad, so you guys are probably kids, and hypersexual disorder isn't just SOMETIMES having sexual thoughts, it's having cravings, and having ALOT of sexual thoughts
I am glad you guys have a video on this. I have some sexual truma and I use obsessive fantising and actions as a way to cope. But, I have always felt it was wrong not because it is sex or for religious reasons. But, because I got jelouse of people who had a nice moral sense in it. They have sex out of love not pain, also they can focus on work and life balance, have a good memory recall, etc. Being obsessed with sex might not seem bad to those who have never experienced it. But, I am telling you to those who experience sexual feelings on a moral and healthy level who can also focus on being human rather than a obsessed puppet to the mind. You are lucky.
Thank you for creating this video. As a former high school teacher, I witnessed alarming sexual disfunction, obsession, and cruelty among my students. The effects of twelve million -and rising- sexual addicts will be unthinkable in personal, familial, and social consequences.
Kimberly Wax I noticed it when I get constant cat calls at most gas stations and if eyes glaring at me like I owed them something. That’s when I understood how powerful the porn industry had become and worst. We are literally being bred to be sex attics and participate in sex magic. Ie: thot=thoughts become your reality
@@vperez6086 I am just now returning to this post. I am saddened to hear you have been treated in such a degrading way. Be careful and always be alert to your surroundings.
people in these comments just want to joke about this, but it's very different when you're being abused by someone with this disorder. this video only talked about patients with this condition - not their victims. no, this isn't just "being horny." as someone who was abused by someone with this disorder, this is a dangerous condition and I have PTSD from the abuse.
Yeah I feel bad for ya m8. And it is wrong. But people naturally like to joke about things even serous things. I think there is a phonological reason for it. But yeah hope you get better
I was involved with a hypersexual/ pervert whatever you want to call it and luckily I got out after a week of basically torture. Worst of all he was abusing his daughter who was only in kindergarten at the time so I had to call DCF. I'm leaving a lot of details out there. it was hell
I need a better name yeah people have the choice to be a dick online or not, you chose to be one as well as Edmund was only expressing his or her opinion about how commenters need to choose appropriately when and where to be a dick. You don't need to say get over it, because we all are tbh, but that doesn't mean we can't say how much these dumbass comments annoy us.
Jessi Gomez Well, their rude behaviour aside, I think its rather risky to debate sensitive matter and to expect everyone to agree. So in its core, I think, there is some truth about what they said. What do you think?
Corpse Patty I think I posted that a month ago and I'm not gonna read over our old conversations cuz idc maybe if I get curious later I might read it over but not now
Corpse Patty Agreed with this right here. No offence to all the people who went through bad things but other people have nothing to do with what happened to you. Why do they need to know about it? Sure there are a lot of bad comments that are inconsiderate. However, your personal things should stay personal with you. Anyway to repeat, I do understand it, but indeed, what did you inspect on the internet?
For anyone here saying that this happens to everyone, it doesn’t. Pay attention. This is a real problem that affects tons of people & damages their lives.
@Bean Senpaiwell there is a thing such as taking jokes too far, which is what is happening. My self esteem is destroyed due to one of my toxic friends "jokes" that constantly belittled me and made me feel worthless.
It’s funny and scary to think that many kids and tweens have this, my friends and I seem to have had it at such a young age, im guessing we don’t have this disorder anymore, we’re more focused on each other and other mental health issues we’re struggling with. (We seem to have had this at the age of 6-8, we’re teenagers now-) We never told our families about this because obviously we were too young to even know about this.
Mate i have dived in the deepest rabbit holes on the internet I regret having access to it not just of sex but the crazy shit down here But its still intuiging and unique and very interesting So everything has a price Whether its innocence or sanity but its till cool
This is how i got hiv Becareful guys This is how i cope with depression. i survived suicide attempts. stop cutting my body. Improve my mental health. I am strongger now But i got hiv in the process I will grow to be better. I realize how strong i am now And i will help other with my experiences Im not giving up. Love
I am very much hypersexual and the comments are annoying me. It isn't fun. I can't speak for other people with the condition but I feel disgusting because of it. I feel like a really weak filthy person even though I've got no control of what's happening to me.
Abby don't be ashamed of it. I suffer from this as well and I have learned to EMBRACE it. Don't let ANYONE make you feel ASHAMED or put you down. You are NOT a weak and FILTHY person. You can't help what you CANNOT CONTROL.
You forgot the concept of sexual apathy, it's when you basically don't seem to appreciate or care during sex. You crave it when your not having it, and not caring when you have it
I remember being 10, and I would daydream about sex ( I was never sexually abused or anything, I just knew about it from music and internet) and I also had OCD, I found myself disgusting, and sometimes would self harm because of how terrible I thought I was. (I already self harmed for other reasons, but this just made me do it more) I still have a problem with all of these things.
hypersexual disorder is essentially sex addiction. i think i have this disorder because as a child i was molested and done things no 8 year old would do. As i grew older i get the urge to masterbate and can't stop no matter how hard i try but i tried limiting it. i still remember everything that happened vividly. i definitely have some of this traits of Hypersexual Disorder.
Oh god, the comment section is so annoying (well, like always, but ye) Like come on, doesn´t anyone have common sense? All the comments about how this is just describing a teenager, or how everyone in this worlds has this; I understand its mostly for jokes, but they kinda mean it. Its called ´disorder´ for a reason, like its beyond the norm, it affects your everyday life. And no joke, teenagers are not even as horny as many people say xD I don´t easily get annoyed, not at all, but this just kinda hit me for some reason. Oh well just felt like writing it down!
silje karin Furenes I agree. It always makes me sad when people don't take mental disorders seriously. Hypersexuality is much different from being a teenager. Hypersexual people feel an impulsive need to have sex. Wether that's because they feel like they need it to fill a hole in their life, or some other reason.
silje karin Furenes clearly you don't know a lot of teenagers. I agree, not all are that horny, everyone is different, but generally speaking the hormones are raging.
Sometimes I have sexual fantasies, and usually I can’t really control my thoughts. I can however control how I manage with my sexual fantasies. I know when to stop and Ik when to do other stuff like homework or spend time taking care of my dog. I was a little worried that I’m not supposed to have dirty thoughts since I was raised that having any sexual related things were bad and should never be done. But my parents can’t shield me from the outside world 24/7 and school had I big role in introducing me to the lustful side of the internet. Hopefully i can keep control of my own life.
I just can't control myself when it comes to sex. I usually fap, but the most awkward thing is that I want to fappity fap as someone is telling me kinky things. I often feel sad because of it, especially since I have no online friends to text with... ):
-Honey . Harmful- i never was in love romantically or physically attracted to anyone tho i enjoy p*rn and i love fantasizing about other people having s*x instead of me
The problem people don't realize is that porn is rewiring your attraction to pixels instead of real people. Until you figure it out or do research, people don't even know they're addicted.
I dated a hypersexual a few years ago, I didn't know the details of the disorder at the time, but wow, she had all of these traits. I wanted something meaningful, she didn't know what that meant. Now I know why. I've been blaming myself for so long. For wanting too much. She just wasn't the one.
It's called Hyposexual Desire Disorder. Asexuality is a different thing entirely as it is a sexual orientation, rather than a disorder that causes distress.
I had this issue when my ex and I were swingers. With the high volume of sex with multiple different partners for 3 years, you just become a junkie, your standards plummet and sex then becomes unfulfilling. After our breakup, I took a 1 year fast from sex and masterbation and reset my body and mental state. Sex is fullfilling now and no longer obsessive, thankfully.
That's really nice dude! It's not easy to recover within such a short amount of time, and lead a normal life, but you did it! Definitely feel good about it! :D
my gf has this. she also has ocd and says that she got her hypersexuality due to her ocd. shes tried explaning to me what it before but i've still been confused. this was a great explantion and i think i understand it alot better now. thank you for sharing
@@obywan7901 but i mean it is natural. Found in nature and homosexuality has been a thing in humans forever. Its not a disorder. But homophobia is still a phobia :P And science has proven that homosexuality is not a disorder.
I feel that. But I’m not scared. I just don’t like being touched. I hate hugs, especially from people I don’t know very well. Even a poke, it makes me tense up and become very uncomfortable. However it gets better the more I know a person
Trust me this is no fun it is absolutely hell when you need to get something done sometimes I can't even sleep I wish I could be asexual just so I would never experience this again.
My ex-gf was like that, I thought at first she was so in love with me but in time I managed to find out because this is not normal and with other girls wasn't like that. She was almost over me all the time and controlled me and felt abused sometimes and did things without my consent for her because for her never wasn't enough. I had to break up with her and this was one of the reasons and also she started to control me and change me, manipulated me and soon I also found out she is bipolar and I thought maybe it's only in my mind. I feel so happy now that I had the courage to move on and forget about her and this shitty relationship.
@@DemoCoverUploader She didn't let me to be an alpha male, I felt also that she was envy on me somehow and also jealous when talked to other girls or different people. She just wanted to be on the spotlight all the time and needed attention and suck up all my energy. You cannot go on like that, I hope not all the women are like that :)
I see a lot of comments talking about hypersexuality and asexuality and just wanted to point out that you can be hypersexual and still be asexual! hypersexual is an addiction to the action of sex/masturbation while asexual is sexual attraction you feel for others
they're not mutually exclusive! they can coexist in the same person, and asexuals who are hypersexual are not any less valid than asexuals who are more neutral or repulsed by sex
i'm also asexual. i came here because i wanted to know more about people. even if it doesn't apply to me, it's something that i thought might be useful to know because even if i can't understand something firsthand, a lot of people do, and i want to understand *them*. this might not answer *every* question, and it would be stupid to only use this as something to go on, but i'd rather get a lot of sources and then figure things out. if i only learn about what applies specifically to me, i'll never learn how the other 99% of the world thinks, and i may be asexual, but i am not a loner.
I’m a virgin too lmao. But I do tend to be very sexual. I was diagnosed with OCD but I don’t have it completely. I also have autism which stops me from having full-on OCD.
I feel like for me it could be a number of things that I have issues with that caused it. Anxiety, low self esteem, possible depression and or the fact that I was exposed to sexual content on various media outlets at a young age. Either way the results are brutal. Having the feeling like you’re trapped in your body while a lustful beast takes the wheel and then once it’s all over you’re left with nothing but regret and disgust is a terrible feeling and for me personally adds on to the other issues I already have and makes them worse. Now that I think about it it’s most likely due to the exposer to explicit material that kickstarted it and then this addiction has been having a continuous vicious cycle with my anxiety and self esteem issues. Feels bad. After seeing another comment it’s also probably due to me walking in on my parents one time during my childhood as well (though they didn’t notice) and me constantly hearing them do it at times because in one of our homes (we moved around a lot) their room was right across from mine. Granted I don’t see it as anyone’s fault as I am fairly certain they thought I would be asleep during the times they engaged in sexual activity but I had a habit of staying up till after 12 most nights just to watch anime as a child. So combine that with exposure to adult content at a young age, me engaging in sexual behaviors before I even hit double digits in age, no one ever sitting me down and telling me “hey, this is what you’re doing, it’s not safe, and here or someways you can go about it in a more healthy way,” and my anxiety and low self esteem which started really developing once I hit puberty, it’s no surprise I would end up fucked up. It’s been two years since this comment and I haven’t gotten any better.
#10 Inability to Stop, you neglected to mention the most damaging side effect that excessive masterbation has, which is shutting down the dopamine receptors in your brain, literally darkening your own mind and its natural ability to experience joy (outside of the addiction). These people cause their own depression and with untreated addiction, they guarantee they never come out of it.
I think this is due to our body's releasing certain hormones that make us sleepy and "turned off" from sexual thoughts and that might be why people feel uninterested in most things after masterbation however you can become addicted I believe, because you want that dopamine release and your tolerance for that dopamine gets higher or something along those lines (I'm not a professional of any sort so I have no knowledge of how to help this problem, sorry) and if masterbation is getting in the way of your everyday life for instance if you want to stop but can't and if it gets in the way of something much more important. Masterbation has many physical benefits such as stress relief and reliving urges it's just if there's mental effects such as addiction.
Jeremy Horstman Interesting, I never thought about it that way. Maybe if I can get or do something to get my mind off this, then there will be room for recovery and improvement?
Kristian Burger exactly, do activities you enjoy doing and just relax and try to get your mind off, and don't punish yourself for master bating it's completely normal and healthy, if it becomes impulsive/addictive don't be afraid to seek help there's tons of people who are willing to help you and are trained to help you. Again I'm not a professional on theses things but with an attitude like yours there's sure to be room for recovery, hope you feel/get better soon, you can do it b('-')d.
Jeremy Horstman Thank you, I will take that advice with me forever. I wanted to talk to someone, I used to have suicidel thoughts along time ago and it lingerd on me a while it felt like drowning, but after a few years I knew suicide won't help and now I feel a little better. I have been thinking on taking medical courses next year when I am done with school, I am still uncertain, but I think I'll try it. Again thanks.
Kristian Burger your welcome, glad I could help, don't be afraid to talk to someone and relive your emotions, good on you. Also (do what you want to do and what makes you happy this is just my opinion) I think that would be a good idea to take medical classes since you've had some first hand experience with some mental problems and have overcome them so you would have better sympathy for patients.
Here because this channel reappeared in my recommendations. I have a few of these signs myself. Was accidentally exposed to pornography at a young age and have been a compulsive masturbator since my tweens. Just turned 37, and it's still a struggle. Stemming from not being the choice guy among my peers, it's made worse by my social awkwardness due to the autism spectrum disorder previously known as Asperger's Syndrome and my religious upbringing. Worse is when you seek professional help, but that professional shrugs it off because it's not a real addiction and isn't understanding of one's moral beliefs. My previous therapist was like that. He was good at other treatment but was off on that big regard. Support groups are few and far in Puerto Rico, and the time, distance, and nature of this was not of my parents' approval, particularly my father's. I do want a long term relationship with a healthy balanced sex life. It's in one's nature. But I haven't been lucky when it comes to women. The pandemic obviously had made it worse. Sad part is that despite being a likable and loved individual among my religious peers, this and other struggles is something I have become very good at hiding, because I don't want them to suffer. Very few know about this, but I haven't recently opened myself to them or others I feel I can trust. Fictional female characters and models/cosplayers are my "companions" for interactions due to their sex appeal but not outright sexual attraction. And I fear my developing sexuality may be of doubtful nature by any future partner if she isn't opened minded. I will soon have to seek whatever help I could get and put the effort of controlling my impulses if I want mental and spiritual health. Right now, it's something that's eating me from the inside out, and I may end up bursting out. Even relatively anonymous outlets like these are not enough for me. I hope that those that have the struggle of hypersexuality get it under control. Wish the same for me. Sidenote: to summarize or categorize this disorder as "The Horny" is quite insensitive. Hypersexuals didn't ask to grow up being horny 24/7.
Lin Steilvik Hahaha silly, you can't leave the fandom. You can never leave the fandom. Your mind is playing tricks on you making you think you left but deep down you haven't. I tried leaving it 3 times but this one line keeps draging me back. NE NE PAPA
I know the feeling. People are responding with "getting help" and "changing" but, that's not how this thing works. I know because I have the same issue. Rather than trying to change, find someone like yourself. Get together with another sex addict. Don't settle for someone who isn't as your relationship will be... hard. You don't need to change. Just find someone like yourself
I think I might have this. The problem is, I’m a minor. And I’ve never done anything remotely sexual with other people. But some of these symptoms are so relatable to me. I grew up too quickly, and all I want is to be a pure innocent child again, but it’s become an addiction, an obsession, and I don’t know how to stop. The guilt is always there. Following me. Trailing me like some dark overbearing shadow. I feel gross in my own body, disgusting, but I just… I can’t stay away.
@@damienghoul oh damn I forgot about this comment. well. I’m in therapy now. learned to accept the fact I have trauma and the hypersexuality is just the way my mind’s learned to cope. still struggling as much as ever but it’s under control and I’m not as self destructive. (you know, it’s still dangerous sometimes but baby steps.) things can get better, best of luck!
As someone who suffers with OCD you need to put a trigger warning at the start of the video. Some topics especially in the paraphilias section are very distressing and can cause panic attacks etc.
Please don't let these videos define you. Yes they may mean to educate but they're just trying to make some money and get some clicks. If you watch any of these videos you're going to think you have all the disorders at this rate
I have OCD and I constantly get sexual fantasies that I feel guilty about.... 😰😳 I know I don't have this, but I just pieced it together because I was diagnosed with OCD, and during a recent mental assessment, they asked me about those kinds of thoughts.
I'm a virgin and trust me all these thing except the partner and onenightstand. Describes me; for me it's the lack of Sexual activity and i just need to realease my Sexual Fustration. Can be mistaken for H.S
@@raul4082 Not if they have an addiction to porn. Porn addiction is almost as serious as sex addiction, except it won't land you in jail (unless you watch child porn, too).
Valentine what? wait hang on what does this have to do with the lgbt community? also probably don’t joke about depression. i’ve lost a friend to it, and he was only like fucking 13. also *what* the fuck does your dominate hand have to do with this?
Honestly this make life hell. Ruined some of my relationships because despite not being the kind that cheats, my partners always assume I am because I want sex so frequently. Even some have admitted thats why they cheated on me. I warn my parenters before hand but they just laugh it off and tell me "riiight so you like sex? I can handle that" and yeah for the first couple months some can but after the year marker I can tell the difference. My current partner is starting to get annoyed. He's tired. Even admitted to only having sex with me because " you kept asking". I felt so fucking vile, like I had forced him into it. Constaly asking to do something sexual is just how I am and I hate It. Ive tried to stop having sex altogether and it just depresseses me even more. Having my partner not want to have sex with me depresses me and reminds me somethings wrong with me. Ive had to make sure to put firm rules with my partner that he can say no. Yes I want to have sex 2 or 3 times a week but you arnt a toy. I hope this relationship last but I'm doubting it if I cant control myself better. Sorry for the rant
Kayla I know how you feel. It destroyed my relationships as well. I cheated on a woman because of this and it NEARLY DESTROYED my life. And if you were with me we would work on it together. Don't be ashamed of it EMBRACE IT.
ItsKaylaKatastrophie I feel the same. My gf gets annoyed n sex lasts 1 min literally. I hate this about myself so much but I don’t think you can run from it so you know if you can’t beat em join em, like embrace it, it’s okay as long as it doesn’t affect your daily life, you should find someone who would match your sex drive. You should know you’re always in control of your body, always, but stay active so it doesn’t build up sexual tension u kno
ItsKaylaKatastrophie wow I am on the same situasion I want have sex everday but she never want have sex and she is tired all time I wish you be my partner Lol !!!
7 months ago:Am I asexual?
Now:Am I hyper sexual?
Lmao wtf is wrong with me.
I’m gonna blame the RUclips recommendations on it. Why in the fuck was this recommended to me? I’ve never looked anything remotely like this up :/
You've young
I'm interested in the concept of sex in general... I just lack the attraction, like, completely...
Sexually repressed?
I feel ya
This is an underrated mental health problem, thanks for raising this topic up. Sex is a lot more dangerous and not as fun (especially in the aftermath where feelings of disgust and regret may kick in) than one might think.
@Robert Drake Fantastic to hear! I'm glad to hear awareness of it is growing as a health, wellbeing and safety concern and you're contributing towards that. Wishing you all the best with your book.
Omg yes thank you very much i needed this information soo much THANKS alot!!
Sex is awesome!
@@michael-ut4lt well to you yea.
@@michael-ut4lt only if you are able of handle it
Guess it's time for half the Internet to go see a therapist.
Economy: 100
Speech: 100
Stonks:100
Sad Fax 100
Od3stroyer patience son, you’ll get there
1. Excessive masturbation
2. Obsession with sex
3.excessive time planning sexual activity
4.frequent viewing of pornography
5. Frequent use of phone sex services
6.having multiple sex partners and frequent one night stands
7.staying emotionally detached from sexual partners
8. Engaging in sexual encounters that conflict with personal values
9. Frequently engaging in paraphillia
10. Have the Inability to stop
You’re welcome 😉
Thank you
I have like 4 of these I’m cooked
I love haveing this disorder i dont want to be cured at all deadass. I really dont
damn people dont take this seriously enough
Do you believe everything social media says?!
@Knuckles in your face yes the funny hahas and the meymeys will fix they're lives
Who gives a fuck
It’s because society thinks sex makes you popular
What exactly is a slut..... it’s legit just a word used to shame women who have the same sexual urges as men
Having this disorder while being an introvert is kinda depressing and sometimes frustrating tbh. 😣
Just be gay
@@babla69420 it still wouldnt change anything..because hes an introvert 😐
@@babla69420 HAHA xD
Same bro ... but i am working hard to get money and get the finest hookers in Japan... i already know so many business owners
@@babla69420 I... Don't see how would that help. He would still be hypersexual, but just for man.
Why is this in my recommended?
*Are you trying to tell me something?*
*Looks like incognito mode failed.*
@@damiankia5345 oOF
@@damiankia5345 😂😂😂
Lol
@@damiankia5345 💀💀💀💀
I’m 15 and I’ve been hypersexual for as long as I can remember. My earliest memory was 5 but it could go back as far as 4. I feel very ashamed of my thoughts and feelings, which makes it hard to talk about it. My hyper sexuality is very much one of the coping mechanisms I use to deal with other problems in my life. Also, I would like to add that the way hyper sexuality is viewed by society is another factor that makes it very difficult to open up about. It’s usually not taken very seriously and we’re seen as “pervs” a lot of the time
same, but in my case, it's because im sexually abused
We’re u sexually abused ?
@@Peanuts76 I saw your playlist pls don’t d14
@@skylarthompson299 😥
@@Peanuts76 Please live you can survive this
I had this because of past sexual trauma. My husband helped me realize love vs lust and it became easier to identify the cravings and stop them.
@whimsy do you believe you got this disorder because of genetics? I want to understand why people get this exactly. I have this from being raped by my father and my moms boyfriend from ages 4-6 years old. I wondering if it's more circumstantial as to why people get this.
Todd M i thought it was because of past traumatic experience
@@toddm3859 it is usually based around trauma. But people with adhd can also have this. As someone with both adhd and sexual trauma I realize the trauma made the disorder show up.
@@toddm3859 it comes from trauma cause if you get molested or raped the sexual demons from that person can transfer into you and then you can get hypersexuality disorder and could even do the same things that happened to you to someone else.But some people realize it is demonic and so they go to a really good person who does a deliverance on them and the person cast the spirits out.Also there are a few different types of sexual demons
But they can still be cast out in jesus name and then you have to guard yourself so they won't ever come back in.Sexual demons cam also be generational and come from a generational curse or come from viewing porn or committing a sexual sin
@Nar92 it comes from trauma cause if you get molested or raped the sexual demons from that person can transfer into you and then you can get hypersexuality disorder and could even do the same things that happened to you to someone else.But some people realize it is demonic and so they go to a really good person who does a deliverance on them and the person cast the spirits out.Also there are a few different types of sexual demons
But they can still be cast out in jesus name and then you have to guard yourself so they won't ever come back in.Sexual demons cam also be generational and come from a generational curse or come from viewing porn or committing a sexual sin
I honestly feel dirty about my thoughts or habits, but this video makes me feel a bit better. I do feel bad for people who go through this though, since it’s kinda a taboo subject still.
Real Mexican water shall give you diarreah.
@@firstname449 Is that a Jesus reference?
You'll get used to it and feel good about your urges and desires, don't worry😊
Same here because for me, I have a dirty mind, but I mean, it's not like I feel the tendency to do the dirty deed all day everyday.
Why
At first I read this as “Heterosexual disorder” and now I can’t stop laughing
Edit: Ok a lot of you seem to think this is me hating on straight people. It’s not. Hating people because of their sexuality is stupid, okay?
*y e s*
*y e s*
BAHHAHA
How people of 2020 perceive straight people
Me too
Sad how people who had to go through trauma are taken advantage of later on in life without realizing it.
You shld watch the movie Mystic River
Like me i cant control it and i have adhd too😭
*Quagmire has left the chat*
And I oop-
Gig-guh-dee.
Giggity giggity---
😂😂😂😂 finally someone made this fucking joke mate!!
Francisco Sanchez 😂
I feel bad for those who suffer from this.
Not me and I suffer from this. If these desires can be dealt with in the proper context it isn't a problem. I have learned to CONTROL IT. It is NOT EASY I ASSURE YOU. But I am managing.
Chaswicks White Well done for doing so! This disorder sounds like a very challenging one. Well done on controlling it, not ignoring it.
@@macaylahhernandez6405 Thank you Macaylah. It is NOT EASY. But I am there. Currently I am in a relationship where there is NO SEX. God she is the MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMAN in the world. I have NOT told her about this because I am AFRAID that she would leave me. I don't know what to do.
Chaswicks White it sounds like you are doing extremely well. Well done my friend. On your situation, you should probably break it down to her slowly. Maybe the fact that you haven’t pushed or encouraged any sex will help her understand. And the fact that you have that much self control is amazing.
Yeah I suffer from this mostly in morning usely I'm ok I just get out bed lol and keeping same girl crazy life we live
I am a victim from sexual abuse and I noticed how in this video it said that one of the reasons you may have this disorder is because of sexual abuse. I think I have hyper-sexual disorder too and I know it may confuse some people that someone who suffered from being molested has this disorder because "why would you want more sexual interactions after you were sexually abused" but the thing is, we and other victims were exposed to sex and other things at such a young age that somewhere in our mind we think that its normal to want and need sexual acts and to have intense desires for it, even though we know its not normal now, we basically grew up thinking that certain way. I'm sorry if this made no sense at all but I hope this sorta helped some people who may be confused.
fb name?
My God!!! This is what is actually what i am feeling too.. I have lost my self worth because of the abuse that has happened to me before.. And all my life.. I thought what i was doing and all the longing and wanting to engage into something sexual is just so normal... :(
Exactly, just not as many people realize that this feeling is normal for a sexual abuse victim. Also, always remember that you have worth and whatever happened with the abuse was not your fault; out of anyone, the abuser should lose their self worth, not the victim (it took me quite a long time to believe this myself and I blamed myself for a long time). I and many others are always here for you ^^ xx
Thank you so much.. I have ruined my life ever since that day.. I was constantly craving for pleasure.. And i could not process of it's right or wrong.. It's as if my body has its own mind.. It just want sex.. I could not remember all their faces anymore.. All i know is that.. I thought my worth revolves around being used for sex.. I feel useful when i am used.. It's so sad.. Because i really do not know where i stand.. And what my real value is.. As if it was taken aways from me when it happened.. That very day.. :(
I can relate, I was molested by my sister at a very young age and I currently have many sexual urges. But then again, I'm still a teen, so that could just be it.
Guys despite anyone says, or despite how bad something seem, BDSM dominant/submisive and Sadist/masochist relationships, are not something unhealthy as long as it doesn't interfere with normal daily activities, and as long as all parts in the relationship are okay, and have consented to it.
From my perspective, wanting to inflict pain on your partner or wanting pain inflicted upon yourself, is not healthy. I cannot fathom why you would want to see the person you love more than anyone else in pain. How is that pleasurable? How can you hurt another person and feel good about it? I genuinely want to understand
Jonah Shriver from the way you're typing i assume you're definitely not into that stuff.
people like what they like, and it's not any of your business what others do in the bedroom. it is healthy as long as both of them consent to it and they're both pleasured by it, not everyone has the same sexual interests as you
@@jonahshriver3358 I used to think like you, until... Well. Whatever, people have different tastes, so, maybe you can't understand some thing, but that doesn't mean that those things are bad
that's clearly not healthy wdym
Don't forget safewords, and for play involving gag/mouth cover, safety gestures!! Which if your partner/playmate doesn't agree to these then they're a bit abusive and you shouldn't engage with them in those settings :(
people are still calling phone sex lines in 2017??
Sandeep Kumar skype sex bro
Jesus Christ someones salty lmao
Skype sex is better ;-;
I'm pretty sure no one was calling phone sex lines last year either... no one's talking about "current" trends but phone sex line are a pretty outdated reference
Sandeep Kumar I used to be a phone sex op. Yes people do. And buy photo sets of their favorite girls and buy them gifts and their used underwear.
I didn't hear anything about reading smut fanfictions sooo
LMAO
Don't call me out like that-
@@ameengrewal5208 😂
XD
Pfffttt
I read once this Disorder is one of the consequences and usually related to Depressive Disorders. Lack of love or self-steem make you to search for imaginary partner or validation through sex.
I had a mild form of it😳
Welp, I'm depressed, on a distant relationship and in the middle of a pandemic.
Ha ha I'm screwed-
@@lovecatsniyumi7732 I feel you
*WE LIVE IN A SOCIETY*
Oof
Add ocd and adhd on top of that and you’re living in my own hell.
as a hypersexual that has an asexual bestfriend i can confirm we are *the* most chaotic duo you can create
I feel like u and ur friend are clones of me and my friend....
@@sasha44486 how did you know?🤭
Right!🤣❤️
that’s not what hypersexuality is
In the same boat here, I absolutely agree.
Trust me this is not fun at all.
well I can say when ur an addict and she's not. she gets tired. man be 1 burner. so manz be starving for sexual sustenance for a while.
Life isn’t fun at all.
I think the worst is hurting ppl by accident. Women who are not sex freaks get rly hurt. If i try to make up for it then im am asahole because once the damage is done the woman will turn on you. So many women turn on you its not even funny. I only had 1 offer for an orgy with lesbians. I get extreme stress thinking abt it becuz i dismt cheat on my girl for it but we broke up later which made me regret not cheating cuz the lesbos were pissed i declined and dumped me.
I LOVE NUTMEG :] I really hope that's sarcasm lmao
It really isn't
Me: *hears the word 'one night stand*
My mind: *"AIDS, HIV"*
🤣🤣🤣
Yes😂
Felix what are you doing here 😳😳
Well its not a joke anymore. Youll get it .
@@Rocko8000 I wonder how a genophobic person get those things.
in another episode of: "what's in my recommended today?"
Lol no
haha
Same
*insert we'll be right back sfx*
Same
I remember watching this for the first time and crying because of how awful this made me feel. I was so lonely...
I stopped watching porn and reading hentai when I met this guy that I really liked. He was really nice and sweet and all I did when I wasn't talking to him at night was think about what story I'll tell him the next day and eventually fall asleep.
It made me realize that I don't need porn to feel the happy and reward hormones they keep talking about.
Too bad he doesn't talk to me anymore. I miss his jokes already.
How's your life doing
God loves u
I hope you get better soon
mabye he is gay
The happy hormones is called dopamine. They can be produced when you socialize with people or do something you like. I get dopamine when I do art. There are other neurotransmitters too, like serotonin, endorphins, oxytocin etc.
I just really want someone to care about me tho damn...
thats pretty much the size of it
I want to😋 find me
Like... yourself?
Same tho.
While it is best that one believes in themselves, a little help from others can go a long way.
I didn't hear anything about Hentai addiction, so I don't have hypersexual disorder
Well that's kinda different do you like it mostly because of the stories
Porn addiction
If you can keep to yourself and it’s a fantasy which has no chance to become real it is not a disorder.
hahahaha!!!
Pierce Nostrand the stories ofc
*After watching this video*
Me: "Fuck"
Aryaman Manish Joshi same
Aryaman Manish Joshi 69 likes...
Same here
Yup after watching the video all I could think about was fucking
I wanna like this but like... I can't think 666 likes
Honestly i have like half the symptoms. Only reason the others aren't true is because I'm emotionally attached to someone who isn't sexual and I refuse to cheat.
Sounds like just a higher sex drive. If you're not sure, talk to a therapist. The *compulsion* aspect is what mainly makes it a disorder.
@@clonerstive I thank you for the suggestion, but I'm much too awkward to even bring up the idea of a therapist to my parents let alone the idea of opening up to someone I pay for.
I CAN RELATE
Until... you are put in a situation you shouldn't be in.
@@DepressionShaman well I don't see myself in that situation considering we broke up and she went for another dude within 2 weeks 🤔
i see a lot of confusion in the comments...
it can stem from childhood sexual abuse or being sexually exploited. that combined with low self esteem and a warped perception of sex results in poor judgment of partners & placing yourself in potentially harmful sexual situations. having multiple partners and not setting hard boundaries leaves you vulnerable to be taken advantage of. that only furthers the cycle of self harm and it spirals into a destructive pattern that controls your life. a lot of time abuse victims, or people with depression will just loan their body out and convince themselves they want it because they are addicted to the dopamine release.
It's not about unprotected sex, it's not about BDSM, it's about the fact that you DONT WANT SEX, But you still fuck.
Compare it to cutting, it releases endorphins, but it's not good for you. I don't know anyone who WANTS to cut, but at the same time they WANT TO CUT.
And I know this can be extremely hard to understand if you've not experienced depression or anything of the sort, but I hope this helps.
Yours was about the best comment.
@Flush Abesei What's wrong with you :s go away
So, what advice do you have for me? I have a friend who confessed to me that she suffers from this, I have no idea of how severe it really is but she apparently can't be without a boyfriend, and she has cheated on her previous one. I worry for her because she's also depressed and I see how this all accumulates and overwhelms her. She's a great person but I don't know how I can help her.
@Flush Abesei Ironically, you don't strike me as an "alpha", and there's no doubt that *you* are deeply damaged, but in a serious, sad way. By the way, I don't think your face is even in your profile pic. You can reply whatever you want; I'm done with you, but wish you solve whatever it is that causes you to be so hateful and negative.
@Flush Abesei she's literally talking about how this is a result of being an abuse victim? Sometimes we have to talk about damage lol what conversation do you think you're walking into?
Also miss me with that alpha male bullshit
Alot of jokes are funny but this seems serious.
The situation is serious. It's ok to enjoy jokes, but at least you understand there is a problem being addressed. I salute you.
Sometimes, people use jokes to cope.
@@alyssahood8061 can confirm. That is exactly what we are doing
Yeah its really shitty to see people making jokes about an illness that destroys people lives
1k likes my guy
i was getting scared cause I thought I might had this, turns ouy I just masturbate to much bit that's not really hypersexual disorder right? I mean I don't plan a time when I want to masturbate and I don't think about sex all day everyday so I guess it's just puberty
Bubble Butt lol uhm... Im sorry for you then...
Same with u 😥
Wow, you're a teenager, congratulations
ImMiruna yeah it’s not about frequency, it’s about whether you think it’s taking over your life. If you masturbate every day but it’s when you have free time and it makes you feel better, then that’s nothing to worry about.
EnbyBee oh ok... uhm i never masturbated tho 😂 the video was in my recommended xD
fetishes and kinks are not always signs of sexual addiction. Neither is wanting to keep options open or wanting to have sex with sex workers.
It's when it takes over your life that it's an addiction.
just like drinking a little bit of wine at a wine tasting doesn't make you an alcoholic. It's when you start to neglect everybody around you and your responsibilities to drink that makes you an alcoholic.
Enjoying or engaging in different sexual behaviors does not make you a sex addict. it's when it starts to take over your life and responsibilities that it becomes an addiction.
thank you!!
Finally someone said it :'>
What about functioning alcoholics..
@@lexxie225 That's the calmer before the storm.
Also when you can' t go without it and you need it.
Let's recap the comment section :
People confessing their sexual behaviors.
the comments section is very safe. there are free cookies. have one 🍪
this is so goddamn ironically wholesome that I'm liking it
Uhmm yeah...
@@grey9422
I'm a little late, but here I am
That's interesting
Couldn’t stop thinking of Quagmire
ToFu BrOtHeR IM SCREAMING LMAO
Lmao
Giggidy
ToFu BrOtHeR giggity
Bitch same
I’m hypersexual and it’s no fun.
Me too iwant to stop it 😭😭😭😭
Yea I dream about it all the time sex 😉😉😉
German Girl sane
To the top 3: your Grammer is pretty bad, so you guys are probably kids, and hypersexual disorder isn't just SOMETIMES having sexual thoughts, it's having cravings, and having ALOT of sexual thoughts
Jesus loves you. Nothing is impossible.
I am glad you guys have a video on this. I have some sexual truma and I use obsessive fantising and actions as a way to cope. But, I have always felt it was wrong not because it is sex or for religious reasons. But, because I got jelouse of people who had a nice moral sense in it. They have sex out of love not pain, also they can focus on work and life balance, have a good memory recall, etc. Being obsessed with sex might not seem bad to those who have never experienced it. But, I am telling you to those who experience sexual feelings on a moral and healthy level who can also focus on being human rather than a obsessed puppet to the mind. You are lucky.
Thank you for creating this video. As a former high school teacher, I witnessed alarming sexual disfunction, obsession, and cruelty among my students. The effects of twelve million -and rising- sexual addicts will be unthinkable in personal, familial, and social consequences.
Kimberly Wax I noticed it when I get constant cat calls at most gas stations and if eyes glaring at me like I owed them something. That’s when I understood how powerful the porn industry had become and worst. We are literally being bred to be sex attics and participate in sex magic. Ie: thot=thoughts become your reality
Super rare seeing a teacher comment...
T
@@thetrumpster8566 twice I had girls come to me because each were still bleeding from their anus after their 'boyfriend' forced anal sex on them.
@@vperez6086 I am just now returning to this post. I am saddened to hear you have been treated in such a degrading way. Be careful and always be alert to your surroundings.
It's got crazy
"Excessive-"
Me: *s h i -*
F
Is 5 times too much?
SAME-
@@user-bh1mi3qc4p not really
@@user-bh1mi3qc4p a day or a week
You really made these characters look sexy...I mean cute.
(I'm joking. Please no hurt)
Thanks! We appreciate that.
kkkkkkk nice joke
Lol
But it's true. They are cute.
First Aidan Kit lmao
people in these comments just want to joke about this, but it's very different when you're being abused by someone with this disorder. this video only talked about patients with this condition - not their victims. no, this isn't just "being horny." as someone who was abused by someone with this disorder, this is a dangerous condition and I have PTSD from the abuse.
I'm so sorry you had to go through that...
Yeah I feel bad for ya m8. And it is wrong. But people naturally like to joke about things even serous things. I think there is a phonological reason for it. But yeah hope you get better
I was involved with a hypersexual/ pervert whatever you want to call it and luckily I got out after a week of basically torture. Worst of all he was abusing his daughter who was only in kindergarten at the time so I had to call DCF.
I'm leaving a lot of details out there. it was hell
Lady, i'm sorry for that and i hope you doing well, but this is the internet and everyone is an asshole
i have this disorder and i just want to apologize for being harmed by someone with this. i hope you're doing okay, and i'm sorry.
5:30 Hey how ya doin little mama let me whisper in your ear.
Matt Murdock Im tying so hard not to laugh. I REFUSE TO LAUGH.
Winter Sparrow LAUGH DAMMIT!!! LAUGH!!!!!!
Arnaldonintendo I REFUSE.
Matt Murdock
FUCK
Matt Murdock plz whisper in my ear ;)
As someone who has suffered from mental illness and has seen people suffering from hypersexual disorder, I have to say that the comments piss me off.
Edmund The Fox ok, this is the internet, so get over what other people say
I need a better name yeah people have the choice to be a dick online or not, you chose to be one as well as Edmund was only expressing his or her opinion about how commenters need to choose appropriately when and where to be a dick. You don't need to say get over it, because we all are tbh, but that doesn't mean we can't say how much these dumbass comments annoy us.
Jessi Gomez
Well, their rude behaviour aside, I think its rather risky to debate sensitive matter and to expect everyone to agree.
So in its core, I think, there is some truth about what they said. What do you think?
Corpse Patty I think I posted that a month ago and I'm not gonna read over our old conversations cuz idc maybe if I get curious later I might read it over but not now
Corpse Patty Agreed with this right here. No offence to all the people who went through bad things but other people have nothing to do with what happened to you. Why do they need to know about it? Sure there are a lot of bad comments that are inconsiderate. However, your personal things should stay personal with you. Anyway to repeat, I do understand it, but indeed, what did you inspect on the internet?
For anyone here saying that this happens to everyone, it doesn’t. Pay attention. This is a real problem that affects tons of people & damages their lives.
Safir ikr there are a bunch of ignorant fools offending many people
@Bean Senpaiwell there is a thing such as taking jokes too far, which is what is happening. My self esteem is destroyed due to one of my toxic friends "jokes" that constantly belittled me and made me feel worthless.
This literally sounds like me as a 10 year old.
@Bean Senpai ever heard of respect for others?
@Bean Senpai Wow, an edgy 12 year old, trying to justify their actions by saying "There's no ____ on the internet.*
It’s funny and scary to think that many kids and tweens have this, my friends and I seem to have had it at such a young age, im guessing we don’t have this disorder anymore, we’re more focused on each other and other mental health issues we’re struggling with. (We seem to have had this at the age of 6-8, we’re teenagers now-)
We never told our families about this because obviously we were too young to even know about this.
I'm 17 now, and i feel disgusting about myself and i hate it
@@peaxhes4487 it’s oki
Alright, After watching this video I'm clearing my RUclips history
Nerdy Princess RUclips?
Watch out there are hypersexual people walking around like its normal...
I'm doing Great. It's been 13 months so far so good.
Lol so now other addicts trying to pick you up to add to them problem!
who wouldnt
I’ve had internet access since I was 6 and came across some things.. I think that might be why and I really hate it
Same 😔
same..
Mate i have dived in the deepest rabbit holes on the internet
I regret having access to it not just of sex but the crazy shit down here
But its still intuiging and unique and very interesting
So everything has a price
Whether its innocence or sanity but its till cool
@@fancycream833 that's why internet was the cause of everything.
@@fancycream833 oop, wait you play league?
These people definitely failed no nut November
Meepers The Cat
I’m sure they’re happy it’s December now...
No shit
I failed on 1st november around 0:30Am
yess
@@dwolf9385 I failed the first day too- it was sad.
I've had this for a while(also as a child), and it's a very underrated topic. Thanks for bringing this up.
This is how i got hiv
Becareful guys
This is how i cope with depression. i survived suicide attempts. stop cutting my body. Improve my mental health. I am strongger now
But i got hiv in the process
I will grow to be better. I realize how strong i am now
And i will help other with my experiences
Im not giving up. Love
Good luck and a good journey my man!
Oh damn that really sucks I hope you’re ight my dude or dudette here’s a cookie 🍪
Well if You don't wear condoms....
i thought condoms prevent that?
@@acandycrushsagajourney6215 condoms can break
I am very much hypersexual and the comments are annoying me. It isn't fun. I can't speak for other people with the condition but I feel disgusting because of it. I feel like a really weak filthy person even though I've got no control of what's happening to me.
Dont be ashamed of that girll its natural , but if its a real problem go to a professional (i loved your undertaker pic💗)
Abby don't be ashamed of it. I suffer from this as well and I have learned to EMBRACE it. Don't let ANYONE make you feel ASHAMED or put you down. You are NOT a weak and FILTHY person. You can't help what you CANNOT CONTROL.
Abby Beatson Well what did you expect from a RUclips video? This isn't therapy
Abby Beatson You don't have to feel disgusting
It's all fun and games until you catch something.
You forgot the concept of sexual apathy, it's when you basically don't seem to appreciate or care during sex. You crave it when your not having it, and not caring when you have it
that doesn’t affect every person though. i don’t think it’s a common symptom
Repeatears Repeatears thats called being asexual. It's an orientation rather than a disorder, though.
antiquebutterfly It’s a disorder
antiquebutterfly I thought asexuality is when you don't have any sexual attraction to anyone at all?
I remember being 10, and I would daydream about sex ( I was never sexually abused or anything, I just knew about it from music and internet) and I also had OCD, I found myself disgusting, and sometimes would self harm because of how terrible I thought I was. (I already self harmed for other reasons, but this just made me do it more) I still have a problem with all of these things.
hypersexual disorder is essentially sex addiction. i think i have this disorder because as a child i was molested and done things no 8 year old would do. As i grew older i get the urge to masterbate and can't stop no matter how hard i try but i tried limiting it. i still remember everything that happened vividly. i definitely have some of this traits of Hypersexual Disorder.
Thetravelboy same
Thetravelboy yeah same as me 😧
Same 😔
Thetravelboy , Katrina H , yatosan , ZipperSkull Wish you all the best. ❤️🍀
Same.... :'(
Oh god, the comment section is so annoying (well, like always, but ye) Like come on, doesn´t anyone have common sense? All the comments about how this is just describing a teenager, or how everyone in this worlds has this; I understand its mostly for jokes, but they kinda mean it. Its called ´disorder´ for a reason, like its beyond the norm, it affects your everyday life. And no joke, teenagers are not even as horny as many people say xD
I don´t easily get annoyed, not at all, but this just kinda hit me for some reason. Oh well just felt like writing it down!
silje karin Furenes
I agree. It always makes me sad when people don't take mental disorders seriously. Hypersexuality is much different from being a teenager. Hypersexual people feel an impulsive need to have sex. Wether that's because they feel like they need it to fill a hole in their life, or some other reason.
Thank you! And yes that's exactly what I mean. It's true what you're saying, and very different from just being a teenager or puberty ^^
Yeah teenagers are immature about their sexual attraction, if they have one
putting "XD" is not helping you people wont give you respect since it doesn't seem professional although this is merely my opinion.
silje karin Furenes clearly you don't know a lot of teenagers. I agree, not all are that horny, everyone is different, but generally speaking the hormones are raging.
Sometimes I have sexual fantasies, and usually I can’t really control my thoughts. I can however control how I manage with my sexual fantasies. I know when to stop and Ik when to do other stuff like homework or spend time taking care of my dog. I was a little worried that I’m not supposed to have dirty thoughts since I was raised that having any sexual related things were bad and should never be done. But my parents can’t shield me from the outside world 24/7 and school had I big role in introducing me to the lustful side of the internet. Hopefully i can keep control of my own life.
I just can't control myself when it comes to sex. I usually fap, but the most awkward thing is that I want to fappity fap as someone is telling me kinky things. I often feel sad because of it, especially since I have no online friends to text with... ):
no.
Sex really took over my life I get dreams about it all the time no I’m not going to tell u about the dream because u know 😉😏😏
Sooooo....
When you're horny you "take care of your dog", huh?
-Honey . Harmful- i never was in love romantically or physically attracted to anyone tho i enjoy p*rn and i love fantasizing about other people having s*x instead of me
The problem people don't realize is that porn is rewiring your attraction to pixels instead of real people. Until you figure it out or do research, people don't even know they're addicted.
I prefer my partner over a pixel any day. Pixel is a bandaid while I wait lol
I see more comments about the comments section than actual comments
It resonates to many readers...
This
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BTbleSsed Army?
@Knuckles in your face lol I'm female
@Knuckles in your face yeah you're right (you should use that as your motto)
I swear this comment section is full of 13 year olds
droger 144 honey I’m 13 but I’m not a dumbass. You can’t judge an entire age.
@@lemonlimeeyeliner7905 I'm 13 and a dumbass
even tho I'm gonna be 14 tomorrow
@@furiousmagician5912 happy birthday 🥳
@@babyblue2529 thanks
No it's not. There are 14 year olds too .-.
This is incredibly sad
Mer Feraine I feel u especially since the world is so judgmental abt these things.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA IM PROUD TO BE AROMANTIC ASEXUAL AND NOT MASTURBATE!!!
Giraffe Doggo That's extremely inappropriate.
Sure, whatever mom.
It's funny, because that's usually how it starts. A sad life with an overload of stress. Atleast it's better than suicide
I dated a hypersexual a few years ago, I didn't know the details of the disorder at the time, but wow, she had all of these traits. I wanted something meaningful, she didn't know what that meant. Now I know why. I've been blaming myself for so long. For wanting too much. She just wasn't the one.
Is there a disorder based on the opposite of this? 0.o
Garfield Logan see: depression
Garfield Logan do you mean the sexuality named asexual?
It's called Hyposexual Desire Disorder. Asexuality is a different thing entirely as it is a sexual orientation, rather than a disorder that causes distress.
Garfield Logan we're the same kinda, but it's just porn that repulses me. I don't do anything. Just fuck
U mean asexuallity?
Damn. I now hate myself even more
Andres Fontan you normal, boo
How come? There are other people like this too.. it's actually pretty normal. It's only a problem when it gets in the way of your everyday life.
Andres Fontan same
Just build up some more willpower and find a therapist if its effecting your life
@Andres Fontan
Dang
I had this issue when my ex and I were swingers. With the high volume of sex with multiple different partners for 3 years, you just become a junkie, your standards plummet and sex then becomes unfulfilling.
After our breakup, I took a 1 year fast from sex and masterbation and reset my body and mental state.
Sex is fullfilling now and no longer obsessive, thankfully.
Good for you!! That takes a lot of determination!!
That's really nice dude! It's not easy to recover within such a short amount of time, and lead a normal life, but you did it! Definitely feel good about it! :D
Thanks for sharing
..the fact that all of that has been going on ever since I was 9. Hypersexuality hits deep as a kid.
Sex is like a drug
Nikolas Summers Well said
Sex is not a drug,orgasm is
You ain't lyin
Wise words man
Nikolas Summers it like humans ar built that way for reproduction or somthing.
Who saw this and scrolled straight to the comments lol
Me HAHAHAHHAHA
😂😂😂
me XD
ME---
Me me me me and me
Me an asexual:
*Ah yes, let’s watch this to gross myself out*
_joins in_
edit: jfc wth past me, im sorry to those who have this disorder bc ik you guys cant control it
Salty Idiot
XDDD
Bunny literally me right now! I literally can’t relate 😳
Same
Yep I feel like like the complete opposite to hypersexual people. I got nothing lmao
my gf has this. she also has ocd and says that she got her hypersexuality due to her ocd. shes tried explaning to me what it before but i've still been confused. this was a great explantion and i think i understand it alot better now. thank you for sharing
Oh my god I thought it said "homosexual disorder" and I was like 'exuse me?'
Granadila Muffin SAME 😂😂😂
Same 😂
Well that is a sexual disorders, not natural in anyway.
@@obywan7901 but i mean it is natural. Found in nature and homosexuality has been a thing in humans forever. Its not a disorder. But homophobia is still a phobia :P
And science has proven that homosexuality is not a disorder.
@@thad8218 do you realize how ignorant you sound??tell me if homosexuality was soo natural why we havent seen an offspring from 2 males or two women?
Me,a person who hates the idea and is scared of being touched watching this: 👁👄👁
same
Im pretty scared for a guy to touch me or see me n*ked
And i suffer from this but its not so bad
•[Smol_Shady Shadow Kun]• me too
Mood
I feel that. But I’m not scared. I just don’t like being touched. I hate hugs, especially from people I don’t know very well. Even a poke, it makes me tense up and become very uncomfortable. However it gets better the more I know a person
I'm going to cry. This is so depressing.
stargaze You should stay away from the internet for your own good if this depresses you.
Boy shut yo sensitive ass up
Nvm I just cried
Why? This isn’t even sad lol
This is so sad, Alexa, play Despacito.
((I had to))
Trust me this is no fun it is absolutely hell when you need to get something done sometimes I can't even sleep I wish I could be asexual just so I would never experience this again.
Yep. That's definitely about me.
Before 4 hours. Seems legittatis.
too big I can tell by your profile pic
WebkinzGirl630 And name lol
too big damn
too big that pic is very uh....Very uh... 😏😏😏😏😏
My ex-gf was like that, I thought at first she was so in love with me but in time I managed to find out because this is not normal and with other girls wasn't like that. She was almost over me all the time and controlled me and felt abused sometimes and did things without my consent for her because for her never wasn't enough. I had to break up with her and this was one of the reasons and also she started to control me and change me, manipulated me and soon I also found out she is bipolar and I thought maybe it's only in my mind. I feel so happy now that I had the courage to move on and forget about her and this shitty relationship.
SixStringsCovers how did she controlled you? 😏 its because you arent alpha male so she had to take the role and its not going well for her and you
Is she mariah carey?
@@DemoCoverUploader She didn't let me to be an alpha male, I felt also that she was envy on me somehow and also jealous when talked to other girls or different people. She just wanted to be on the spotlight all the time and needed attention and suck up all my energy. You cannot go on like that, I hope not all the women are like that :)
SixStringsCovers you seem like a goos and submissive man. Wanna hook up?
@byefalica please stop nobody wants to hook with you, you're just sorry excuse for a working human being
I see a lot of comments talking about hypersexuality and asexuality and just wanted to point out that you can be hypersexual and still be asexual! hypersexual is an addiction to the action of sex/masturbation while asexual is sexual attraction you feel for others
they're not mutually exclusive! they can coexist in the same person, and asexuals who are hypersexual are not any less valid than asexuals who are more neutral or repulsed by sex
has youtube been tracking my search history to recommend this video?
Yep
EvErY single thing
@@jamesmaguire3366 then i hope the FBI isn't all like WEEWOO WEEWOO to my house or anything
Has youtube been watching my frequent masturbating
Download DuckDuckGo! then.
Why am i here im asexual
i'm also asexual. i came here because i wanted to know more about people. even if it doesn't apply to me, it's something that i thought might be useful to know because even if i can't understand something firsthand, a lot of people do, and i want to understand *them*. this might not answer *every* question, and it would be stupid to only use this as something to go on, but i'd rather get a lot of sources and then figure things out. if i only learn about what applies specifically to me, i'll never learn how the other 99% of the world thinks, and i may be asexual, but i am not a loner.
Yeah im ace but i had the masturbation addiction when i was a kid and it was also part of my gender dysphoria
oof I’m here cuz my story character has this disorder and I’m figuring how to write dat :3
High five, fellow ace
wenders I feel ya sister
Me, a big virgin: *wait, am I the hypersexual?*
I’m a virgin too lmao. But I do tend to be very sexual. I was diagnosed with OCD but I don’t have it completely. I also have autism which stops me from having full-on OCD.
I feel like for me it could be a number of things that I have issues with that caused it. Anxiety, low self esteem, possible depression and or the fact that I was exposed to sexual content on various media outlets at a young age. Either way the results are brutal. Having the feeling like you’re trapped in your body while a lustful beast takes the wheel and then once it’s all over you’re left with nothing but regret and disgust is a terrible feeling and for me personally adds on to the other issues I already have and makes them worse. Now that I think about it it’s most likely due to the exposer to explicit material that kickstarted it and then this addiction has been having a continuous vicious cycle with my anxiety and self esteem issues. Feels bad.
After seeing another comment it’s also probably due to me walking in on my parents one time during my childhood as well (though they didn’t notice) and me constantly hearing them do it at times because in one of our homes (we moved around a lot) their room was right across from mine.
Granted I don’t see it as anyone’s fault as I am fairly certain they thought I would be asleep during the times they engaged in sexual activity but I had a habit of staying up till after 12 most nights just to watch anime as a child.
So combine that with exposure to adult content at a young age, me engaging in sexual behaviors before I even hit double digits in age, no one ever sitting me down and telling me “hey, this is what you’re doing, it’s not safe, and here or someways you can go about it in a more healthy way,” and my anxiety and low self esteem which started really developing once I hit puberty, it’s no surprise I would end up fucked up.
It’s been two years since this comment and I haven’t gotten any better.
i have the exact same thing dude :(
its ok
just find a therapist
The lustful beast, good way to put it, sometimes I feel haunted you know, I'm just constantly prodded by my thoughts for a sexual release of any kind
@@hugovenegas6509 same
I'm dealing with the same thing
It’s not stated in the video but, people with Bipolar disorder also can be hyper sexual
Yes finally someone gets it! Thank you.
@Flush Abesei gurantee you wouldn't say that to my face. Unless you live with this illness,I suggest you STFU
@Flush Abesei ya know what mental illnesses are? Probably not because most likely, you're a generic fuckboy
Bipolar Type 1 can relate but haven't had sex in months.
Ya... that's me
#10 Inability to Stop, you neglected to mention the most damaging side effect that excessive masterbation has, which is shutting down the dopamine receptors in your brain, literally darkening your own mind and its natural ability to experience joy (outside of the addiction). These people cause their own depression and with untreated addiction, they guarantee they never come out of it.
I think this is due to our body's releasing certain hormones that make us sleepy and "turned off" from sexual thoughts and that might be why people feel uninterested in most things after masterbation however you can become addicted I believe, because you want that dopamine release and your tolerance for that dopamine gets higher or something along those lines (I'm not a professional of any sort so I have no knowledge of how to help this problem, sorry) and if masterbation is getting in the way of your everyday life for instance if you want to stop but can't and if it gets in the way of something much more important. Masterbation has many physical benefits such as stress relief and reliving urges it's just if there's mental effects such as addiction.
Jeremy Horstman
Interesting, I never thought about it that way. Maybe if I can get or do something to get my mind off this, then there will be room for recovery and improvement?
Kristian Burger exactly, do activities you enjoy doing and just relax and try to get your mind off, and don't punish yourself for master bating it's completely normal and healthy, if it becomes impulsive/addictive don't be afraid to seek help there's tons of people who are willing to help you and are trained to help you. Again I'm not a professional on theses things but with an attitude like yours there's sure to be room for recovery, hope you feel/get better soon, you can do it b('-')d.
Jeremy Horstman
Thank you, I will take that advice with me forever. I wanted to talk to someone, I used to have suicidel thoughts along time ago and it lingerd on me a while it felt like drowning, but after a few years I knew suicide won't help and now I feel a little better. I have been thinking on taking medical courses next year when I am done with school, I am still uncertain, but I think I'll try it. Again thanks.
Kristian Burger your welcome, glad I could help, don't be afraid to talk to someone and relive your emotions, good on you. Also (do what you want to do and what makes you happy this is just my opinion) I think that would be a good idea to take medical classes since you've had some first hand experience with some mental problems and have overcome them so you would have better sympathy for patients.
Here because this channel reappeared in my recommendations.
I have a few of these signs myself. Was accidentally exposed to pornography at a young age and have been a compulsive masturbator since my tweens. Just turned 37, and it's still a struggle.
Stemming from not being the choice guy among my peers, it's made worse by my social awkwardness due to the autism spectrum disorder previously known as Asperger's Syndrome and my religious upbringing.
Worse is when you seek professional help, but that professional shrugs it off because it's not a real addiction and isn't understanding of one's moral beliefs. My previous therapist was like that. He was good at other treatment but was off on that big regard.
Support groups are few and far in Puerto Rico, and the time, distance, and nature of this was not of my parents' approval, particularly my father's.
I do want a long term relationship with a healthy balanced sex life. It's in one's nature. But I haven't been lucky when it comes to women. The pandemic obviously had made it worse. Sad part is that despite being a likable and loved individual among my religious peers, this and other struggles is something I have become very good at hiding, because I don't want them to suffer. Very few know about this, but I haven't recently opened myself to them or others I feel I can trust.
Fictional female characters and models/cosplayers are my "companions" for interactions due to their sex appeal but not outright sexual attraction. And I fear my developing sexuality may be of doubtful nature by any future partner if she isn't opened minded.
I will soon have to seek whatever help I could get and put the effort of controlling my impulses if I want mental and spiritual health. Right now, it's something that's eating me from the inside out, and I may end up bursting out. Even relatively anonymous outlets like these are not enough for me.
I hope that those that have the struggle of hypersexuality get it under control. Wish the same for me.
Sidenote: to summarize or categorize this disorder as "The Horny" is quite insensitive. Hypersexuals didn't ask to grow up being horny 24/7.
Obsession with sex...that sounds like the hetalia fandom
Bleach Offical y e s
I was waiting for a comment like this. Tack.
Bleach Offical *scream*
Don't get hypersexuality confused with sexual repression due to not being able to get laid.
Lin Steilvik
Hahaha silly, you can't leave the fandom. You can never leave the fandom. Your mind is playing tricks on you making you think you left but deep down you haven't. I tried leaving it 3 times but this one line keeps draging me back. NE NE PAPA
Been struggling for 14 years.. My relationships with everyone always fail thanks to this. Sometimes I just want to take my life.
Don't do it. Stay strong :) ❤
I know the feeling. People are responding with "getting help" and "changing" but, that's not how this thing works. I know because I have the same issue. Rather than trying to change, find someone like yourself. Get together with another sex addict. Don't settle for someone who isn't as your relationship will be... hard. You don't need to change. Just find someone like yourself
Don’t do it. Try to stay strong, things can get better
Hey man you can just stop it
I think I might have this. The problem is, I’m a minor. And I’ve never done anything remotely sexual with other people. But some of these symptoms are so relatable to me. I grew up too quickly, and all I want is to be a pure innocent child again, but it’s become an addiction, an obsession, and I don’t know how to stop. The guilt is always there. Following me. Trailing me like some dark overbearing shadow. I feel gross in my own body, disgusting, but I just… I can’t stay away.
2 years late but i feel you dude, i feel the same as you and its ruining my life
@@damienghoul oh damn I forgot about this comment. well. I’m in therapy now. learned to accept the fact I have trauma and the hypersexuality is just the way my mind’s learned to cope. still struggling as much as ever but it’s under control and I’m not as self destructive. (you know, it’s still dangerous sometimes but baby steps.) things can get better, best of luck!
1.Cut the sugar.
2.Lower meat consumption.
3. Thank me later.
what
saša wait...
But his meat is tasty
I've stopped eating and I only like beating.
Cut the sugar, eat healthy meats, eat nuts and vegetables
What exactly is “excessive/frequent” asking for a friend ...
Vade 👀
@@f0rgetf00l ah I’m fixing it 😂
If there's blisters, you've probably overdone it.....
Like a few times a day
@@r.s.fletcher7066 *SHIT*
I thought this was about having sexual attraction to hyperactive people
Bea The Protogen lmao😂😂😂
Ha !
Hyperactive? In what ways?
Psych2Go
I think they meant like people with ADHD
Bea The Protogen lol
As someone who suffers with OCD you need to put a trigger warning at the start of the video. Some topics especially in the paraphilias section are very distressing and can cause panic attacks etc.
Dude, this video was made 3 years ago, they put TW’s in their videos now
@卐Johan L.卐 do you even know what sign you have in your name and what it means?😐
Having a girl with a very attractive voice is going to make this video hard to focus on.
Box Dolphin HARD you say
Box Dolphin LAAMMMMOOOO
She sounds 14 dude.
Tony who said I was an adult?
Box Dolphin well there you go then
Well Fuck
My exact thoughts before even seeing the comments
WHEN I SAW THE THUMBMAIL I THOUGHT IT SAID "HOMOSEXUAL DISORDER" AND I WAS LIKE "WHAT KIND OF HOMOPHOBIA IS THIS??"
BAHSHAHAHA
Hey me too
I never thought I'm an hypersexual till I saw this. This is really scary.
Please don't let these videos define you. Yes they may mean to educate but they're just trying to make some money and get some clicks. If you watch any of these videos you're going to think you have all the disorders at this rate
I have OCD and I constantly get sexual fantasies that I feel guilty about.... 😰😳 I know I don't have this, but I just pieced it together because I was diagnosed with OCD, and during a recent mental assessment, they asked me about those kinds of thoughts.
you're just a horny teen chill out
Madeline Segal maybe "pure o"
Madeline Segal Pretty unlikely if you don't display any of the other symptoms.
Well I'm not saying I have this, but what I'm saying I have some similarities.
reem930 What?
I'm a virgin and trust me all these thing except the partner and onenightstand.
Describes me; for me it's the lack of Sexual activity and i just need to realease my Sexual Fustration.
Can be mistaken for H.S
If you're virgin then probably ur okay
Za ko same haha
Raul Faria thank god
@@raul4082 Not if they have an addiction to porn. Porn addiction is almost as serious as sex addiction, except it won't land you in jail (unless you watch child porn, too).
@Zako SAME OMG IM NOT ALONE
Quarantine really got me thinking about this
"They spend in an extraordinary amount of time thinking about sex"
Me who has 20 nonexistent smut fanfics in my head living there rent free: *oh*
Welcome to being male.
@@ThaFuzzwood you know its not only limited to guys right?
Please tell me that edgy teens are NOT self diagnosing themselves with this disorder
There probably is lol
If it goes past teen years then it’s probably going to be a difficultly
Valentine what? wait hang on what does this have to do with the lgbt community? also probably don’t joke about depression. i’ve lost a friend to it, and he was only like fucking 13. also *what* the fuck does your dominate hand have to do with this?
ok even if ur going thru puberty if u truly have hypersexuality then there are signs tht differ
HERE THAT KIDS?!?! I'M E-D-G-Y OWO
Honestly this make life hell. Ruined some of my relationships because despite not being the kind that cheats, my partners always assume I am because I want sex so frequently. Even some have admitted thats why they cheated on me. I warn my parenters before hand but they just laugh it off and tell me "riiight so you like sex? I can handle that" and yeah for the first couple months some can but after the year marker I can tell the difference. My current partner is starting to get annoyed. He's tired. Even admitted to only having sex with me because " you kept asking". I felt so fucking vile, like I had forced him into it. Constaly asking to do something sexual is just how I am and I hate It. Ive tried to stop having sex altogether and it just depresseses me even more. Having my partner not want to have sex with me depresses me and reminds me somethings wrong with me. Ive had to make sure to put firm rules with my partner that he can say no. Yes I want to have sex 2 or 3 times a week but you arnt a toy. I hope this relationship last but I'm doubting it if I cant control myself better. Sorry for the rant
Kayla I know how you feel. It destroyed my relationships as well. I cheated on a woman because of this and it NEARLY DESTROYED my life. And if you were with me we would work on it together. Don't be ashamed of it EMBRACE IT.
ItsKaylaKatastrophie I feel the same. My gf gets annoyed n sex lasts 1 min literally. I hate this about myself so much but I don’t think you can run from it so you know if you can’t beat em join em, like embrace it, it’s okay as long as it doesn’t affect your daily life, you should find someone who would match your sex drive. You should know you’re always in control of your body, always, but stay active so it doesn’t build up sexual tension u kno
ItsKaylaKatastrophie wow I am on the same situasion I want have sex everday but she never want have sex and she is tired all time I wish you be my partner Lol !!!
2 -3 times a week is nothing. I would like to fuck 2-3 times a day 😂
Only thing you can become is a tunnel your life a railroad and the train well I’ll leave that up to your imagination.
As someone who suffered from s3xual abuse, I’m very obviously hypersexual. It sucks. I feel so gross afterwards too.