Well said. This is y the w ugg estion of what a woman brings to the table is only use by man of poor character to feed their weak ego n degrade, discount and devalue your worth as woman.
Met an air craft engineer.. Make well over six figures.. I know this because he said it often.. His down side was his character and ego.. Went on a date and he complained about the movie and restaurant he picked. He was even mean to the other customers.. I never went out with him again. I told him he was controlling. He said no woman had ever told him that.. Hes only 5'4 and I think that's where his insecurities stem from.
I know you telling the truth. My parents are living examples. They got married 46 year's ago and my Dad was a pool cleaner. Fast forward my parents retired together at 49 year's old. Living there best life happy and in love ❤️. My Mom saw my dad character he treats her like a queen.
I hollered all the way through!! I’m in the UK, Jamaican born, & I find his country accent the most mesmerising thing to listen to. When he said “I’m at my hou” (house) I fell out laughing. I had to rewind the what time it ihhh?? part too 🤣. Jamaicans also get rid of s’s so certain words like street, stretch, stomp, spend sound totally ridiculous. I love black culture!!!
People misunderstand when they are in the same category as people you are describing because CARNAL people CANNOT hear SPIRITUAL things. I used to be HELLA BROKE you hear me (in my TG voice lol), but thank God for Jesus Christ. He has done a work in me, and changing me for the better daily. He has made me wealthy, and I would not trade the wealth I have now for anything in the world 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾. Thank you for the message, but I got it the first time. Be blessed✌🏽.
I hate the way you did it, but I get it. I'm hurting more than words could ever express, Ray. I was willing to do anything possible to make you happy and show you how much you deserve to be loved on. You were not a mistake for me. I truly believe I was meant to be with you. But God has other plans for us, I see. I wish you and the kids the best. I have no doubt that you are going to be super successful with the rest of your life. You're a rockstar girl. 😉 You were born to shine. Anyway, if at some point during your journey you're able to try a friendship with me, I'm here waiting for you. I love you with my whole heart and soul lil Mama. Take care of yourself. ANDRE
Thank you tony!! I was in a toxic relationship for 10 years then single for 1 1/2 and now God has placed a man in my life with all the fruits of the spirit!! He doesn’t have the money but he has a priceless character. Thank you for what you are doing I needed to here this to move forward God bless..
Tony i have been listening and following everything you have been saying. It saved me from a long confusing route. I prayed heavy and God has removed the man and confusion. Turns out he was the complete opposite of who he claimed to be. Thank you sooooo much !!!!
Hello Mr. Gaskins, Wanted to extend my sincerest thanks for your extension of the most priceless gift of "TIME" to pour into us all. May GOD bless you and yours with all of the blessings your heart and hands can hold.
"I do not know what a good looking man look like, but I Know what a ugly man look like" 🤣🤣🤣🤣 ROTFL Your vernacular, expressions "Listen to me!", keeps me laughing AND engaged. You r a blessing!🌈
I wasn’t expecting the definition given for a “broke man”. However, it makes sense. I also thank you for adding that ambition + character produces a man who can be financially stable and responsible.
Only if he meets the right woman, though. Only a good woman who has it all together can catalyse a man who has nothing but good character and ambition.
Lol. Some of the comments I'm reading are idealistic but not practical enough. The older a man gets, it becomes increasingly important for him to have something to show for the way he has lived his life. Good character is important but don't neglect to see his ambition and financial maturity. A woman and a man bring what they have together. A real man should already have a little something before a woman even enters the picture. Financial problems are one of the main reasons folks break up.
@@ampmri2434 So true. Good character bears fruit. Just by working consistently and diligently, an average man can establish a good career and achieve relative success in his life. Let alone an ambitious man with good character.
Amazing the energy people put into things that irritate them, I enjoy his content although I am not in his family type yet, he speaks the truth from his view.
This week God blessed me with running into Tony’s father’s book “8 Mistakes Women Make” and my word! I was trying to buy all TG books and ran into it and I tell you it’s a gem
Thanks Tony. I’m 50 years old & just divorced the only man I’d ever been with since I was 14. I don’t want to be superficial, but 30 years of emotional & financial abuse has made me leary of a man that still doesn’t have some sort of stability in his 50’s. I don’t want a man with bad character either & thought it may be too late for me. I get it now. For 31 years I have all I had to a man to support him while he even got his masters degree. He still didn’t pursue a career & repeatedly cheated on me. I was totally broken. I now understand I was the right woman for the wrong man. I was too young & didn’t understand or see the red flags when I got married @ 19. Maybe there’s still hope for me now that I’ve learned the hard way what bad character looks like. Thanks. I needed to hear this ☺️
Sis I'm 49 and I totally get where you're coming from. I focused on doing a lot of spiritual, emotional and physical healing to prepare for the man that I should have given my gifts to. Not bitter but better and getting better every single day. God has a man for both of us if we choose to want one, but at least now we have access to the information we needed 20 years ago. When you know better you choose better. Stay encouraged❤🙏🏽
I just got divorced too after 19 years together. Same situation sis! But we have to heal and realize our faults of people pleasing a man with poor character. Heal that part and be who God calley you to be. I have to ask myself all the time why I'm willing to go full support mode for someone else but not myself. Invest in yourself and keep your focus there. The man God has for you will find you. I'm sure of this sis.This is just the beginning of a new story for you. Stay blessed!
I'm older than that, I've been with broke men financially and character wise. Yes TG is right it's the character part. I could do so much with a little financially especially if they're willing to listen to me and I could've taken them to another level, but their ego and broke-ass character made it Impossible all the time. It's too bad for them because I'm that good and I know it. Their loss! Their's still hope for some guy out there 😃
Head of the block and delete ministry! Yes Tony! You speak the truth. You helped me release the mess many years ago and I have NEVER looked back or been back in those toxic relationships since. Keep doing what you do. The blessed tribe got your back! Be blessed
This is the problem! People listen to be right! You can’t even share a blessing cause people can’t even comprehend. 🤦🏽♀️🙏🏽 Tony! Thank you for being patient and meeting those where they are in their journey, cause some people are just learning to tie their shoes haven’t even hit the pavement yet. 🗣❤️✍🏽
Coach every time I watch your videos it brings tears to my eye...you just dont know how much I appreciate you being in divine alignment and in your purpose
Hello everyone! I'm tuned in...pure silence. I have to receive this for myself and pass this on to my fellow sisters asap. Thank you! ~Be blessed~ **The Blessed Tribe**
Oh you preaching preaching tonight!! 🔥🔥🔥 Come on!! That’s what a kingdom 👑 woman does!! There is power in our words ladies! Use it wisely for the right Kingdom man not a fool!
I totally don't understand why it has to be either or??? God can bless you with a man who is both kind and has money. Also, there are plenty of broke men who can beat their wives/girlfriends. Just watch an episode of the show Cops! Wow...the mentality!
Thank you. Poor men have even worse character than rich ones. While I do not solely judge a man based on his pocket, he HAS to have the basics before I even consider him. I don't care how nice a man is, struggle love and financially supporting a grown ass man is not for me. Thank God for blessing with a man who is not only a hard worker and great provider, but one who has great character.🙏🏽🧡🤎💚🙏🏽
HE WHO FINDS A WIFE FINDS A GOOD THING AND OBTAINS FAVOR WITH THE MOST HIGH!!! PROVERBS 18:22🔥💯YOU ARE BLESSED!!! THANK YOU FOR YOUR PEARLS OF WISDOM!!!⚪
You are so wise,Tony.I really appreciate and agree with everything you've said. I hope to meet a man with great character one day. I was with a man who had not so good character, but he had money. He cheated on me and abused me in multiple ways. I knew I had to leave that situation and that's what I did. From the beginning there were several red flags and convictions of the holy spirit, but I ignored all of it because of my naivety. I was never peaceful in that relationship. Ladies please listen to Tony and if something doesn't feel right in your relationship,most of the time it's not. I refused to stay around and continue to get mistreated because of a man's money. No! my sanity, self esteem, and self worth is more important. God will take care of us ladies. So I left almost two years ago and haven't look back since. Thanks to God, I'm doing just fine. Tfs Tony
loveinautumn 39 i did the same thing. So glad we made it out love ! I’m so happy now and at peace! I keep getting all the wrong men still to this day but I’m so much more aware of the red flags. So when i see one sign I’m OUTT ✌🏾 Happy for you. God has someone greater for us
Tony, I have learned many points of life through your videos. One thing that I feel I must say is this....YOU do not have to defend your message! The people who are receptive to your message and have the heart to learn and grow get it the first time. Those who attack, argue, or disagree with you are not yet in a space to understand the truth and stand in their own way. When you post a video, it is out there to be viewed over and over again. Sometimes they need to go back and look again to really hear the message and learn how to apply it to their life. Keep moving forward, keep speaking your message with upward motivation. Your time and energy should be with those who are willing to be real in their own lives. Those who want to really do the work that is needed within themselves to produce the outcomes in life that they desire. You can't want more for someone than they want for themselves. When they have reached the point where they realize that their way isn't working and are open to change, they will reach out to God and guess what , prayerfully your videos will still be there for them. Stay blessed and covered.
Amen sister!!! People should have listened to the whole video all the way through the first time. If they do not understand something he said they should play the video a couple of times. They could have missed something he said to make his teaching clear.
Linda M. Meridy... you said it, sis! The right man, will appreciate and value you. This may just be my personal opinion from experience or I should say my experiences but I think a broke man we'll expect you to fix him even if he realizes that he is broke(n).
Tony I just got to say you are such a INSPIRATION!!!!! It feels so good to see and listen to your WISDOM!!!! May our GOD continue to BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. KEEP DOING GOD'S WILL!!!!
I love it I love it I love it when God broke me all the way down for being out here acting like I didn't know who's Chile I am he told me he was going to build my character my heart was awesome but my character was broken and it's interesting how your Wife was woman enough to understand we all have to be where God wants us to be to get Blessed even greater man I'm over here doing my praise dance just because I understand the process of bettering yourself but only the willing will make it and the changes necessary people want the blessings without the work it don't work like that!!!
Tony Gaskins you better preach ! I’m only 5 minutes into the video and you have already gave a sermon. Broke doesn’t just mean financially . The last person I dated was broke , his words and actions did not align with the representative who showed up when we first got together . You know the old school saying “your word is your bond”. If you constantly breaking your word, your BROKE.
Be blessed “If a man could do it all on his own and be everything on his own God wouldn’t have made Eve” -Tony Gaskins And I Oop!!!!!!!! That was whole word!!! Have to repost this! This video will be watched two more times today. Tony you dropped gems! Thank you!!
Yes Tony, I thank God for giving me the wisdom to understand. Understanding is a gold mine to life in general. I'm just BLESSED to have come across a MAN that's helping us women. So thank you. BE BLESSED!!!!
Thanks for this video. Staying encouraged about meeting someone who's compatible and staying guarded but at the same time keeping his character in mind. Thanks again Tony Gaskins. You be blessed!!
I know that this is RUclips but the things that you talk about and the things that you say have a very solid biblical foundation.. I don't think a lot of people will understand... And I think that's by nature it's bydesign even though you're trying to help you can't download a biblical foundation and expect someone of the world to understand...in fact if they are under an influence of some type their only job is to dispute it and cause confusion... But the people who your message is supposed to reach is reaching... Your spirit is designed to irritate demons... Your helping me... Thank you.
Tony you delivered this message. Now I have to pray for this delivering message to instill in me so I can manifest and produce the word. You delivered tonight. Thank you.
Tony, you're God-sent, helping to heal so many hearts. Of course there's gonna be opposition to your message, there's a huge attack on everyone's hearts from the dark side. Those trolls don't mean a thing, who takes them seriously anyway!
I thank God for Mrs. Gaskins for speaking into your life and helping you come to yourself. Now you are pouring valuable info to help others come out of darkness and live life in Jesus Christ. You are bringing awareness to others regarding relationship faults and failures. I’m learning specifics about where I went wrong and what I can do to never make those mistakes again. Thank God for her encouraging you and having your back and for your transparency, availability and willingness to tell it all!!!
I watched this last night, & I had to come to work & watch it with a co-worker during lunch. Soooo many gems dropped!! Thank you for your wisdom & guidance. Be blessed!
This is your Best yet Tony! So true. Yes a man's character is key! You did so well explaining this concept . Thank you. That voice you do of the woman with attitude is so funny and accurate. Great job Tony. Yes a man of God is best. God bless.
Discernment to assess the situation properly plays a critical role in evaluating a man's character. That man you passing up on could've been divorced & let his ex-wife have the house for the sake of his children. I know a ton if men who've dealt with that. And then I know men who make BETWEEN $13-$15/hr currently who is 55 & outworks any man that I know young & old. His current house he bought from the land bank & cashed out on it & fixing up each room as he's able. He used to be in adult entertainment making six figures to the point he built his mama a house & decided to give that lifestyle up not because of age or looks, but that's something he decided to do. Not to say that he's the perfect man, but for a man to go from that life to where he's at now shows me a lot about him. A lot of men have criminal backgrounds & cause them to be temporarily limited in their current career choices. That McDonald's example, that auto mechanic shop example, & your first book example... I felt that though in my soul!!! 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾🔥🔥🔥
I done told y'all And I Ain't font say it again!!! Y'all Betta stop comeing for Bro Tony!!! He be spitting the truth!!! Ladies y'all get it together PLEASE!!👊👊🤦🤦
I freaking love Tony's realness lol. He said you slap crazy. Keep being you Tony. The ones that complaint are the ones refusing growth. They don't want help or furthermore they don't want the truth.
Tony, thank you so much. I feel like God was using you to speak directly to me from 5:08 through 6:21. I am that friend you told your wife to encourage. I was pouting a second ago but now I feel encouraged to continue my dreams. Thank you again
That’s right, Tony. I got your back. You are putting out valuable information and these ungrateful women have the nerve to complain. They can stay with Sorry Stan and Broke Byron. We ain’t got time for that. They’re trying to turn positivity into something else. They also could be trolls from other channels who are hating and sending people over. Anywho, thank you, brother! It’s all sinking in...☺️
I believe in blocking and deleting too!! I will be at the singles workshop February 21st in Atl. This information was needed. Be blessed. #blessedtribe
I think a lot of us are afraid to meet a man that’s “needs” our help because we have helped men with poor character that have used and abused us.
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Well said, Kenisha! That was the case with me.
Facts!!!
I agree!
Yes that is true and we also need to learn from mistakes too in that situation.
“A woman is a catalyst in a man’s life. A good woman brings stability to his life. She ignites his confidence.” -Tony Gaskins
Confidence cannot be stolen or removed once it's there. Which is an amazing gift to teach somebody.
My favorite video Tony 🔥
I love this quote. Excellent!!!
Well said. This is y the w ugg estion of what a woman brings to the table is only use by man of poor character to feed their weak ego n degrade, discount and devalue your worth as woman.
Thats a shirt! A Bible study, lesson for single women & young girls, pre-dating. Girl Scouts, 4H etc! Awanis (Baptist ?)
Money does not move me...never has. I need a man who is rich in character.
Yasssss
Agree!!
Amen!!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I agree. I’ve always said I have and make my own money!
Amen
Don’t argue with Tony. This man is keeping it 💯. You hear meee.
The people that argue with him aren't really listening!
Angela Wright 💯I love when he says that. Lol
Lol
Dominique Clark Me too, I be saying out loud 😂😂😂
"House Wives of Atlanta... Basketball Wives... Right, that PART! Media is really helping PERPETUATE the break down of the community.
When he imitates a women’s voice its hilarious
My 10 year old son was laughing too lol
When he starts the , *mmch Ooh! " 😂😂
Yes whenever he does skits, I be fallin out laughing 😭
😄😝😂😅🤣
I never get tired of it. 😂
“When you truly get aligned with God, He gonna show up and show out.” 🙌🏾
Netta C. Amen!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾
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Agreed!! I’m learning
Be blessed
# Erudition
When you have character, your gift will make room for you.
I'm Mr. block and delete, I am head of the block ministry....😂😂👍🏽
Girl, I'm right there with you. When I leave people alone, I leave them alone permanently.
Demetria Calvin you hear meeee
@@VintageAfro91 I hear you & I can totally relate when Tony said it. I know if and when I block you, it was very necessary!
Chile, lil big brother Tony Gaskins forever be having me 🤦🏾♀️ with comments like these!!! 😂😂😂
Demetria Calvin 😂😂😂😂😂
Met an air craft engineer.. Make well over six figures.. I know this because he said it often.. His down side was his character and ego.. Went on a date and he complained about the movie and restaurant he picked. He was even mean to the other customers.. I never went out with him again. I told him he was controlling. He said no woman had ever told him that.. Hes only 5'4 and I think that's where his insecurities stem from.
Speaking from experience, Short men tend to have bad tempers!
We call that “little man syndrome.” Not all are like that of course, but I’ve met a few.
Short men tend to be angry, they say women shun them for their height & when people laugh they think their laughing at them.
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Wow!
I know you telling the truth. My parents are living examples. They got married 46 year's ago and my Dad was a pool cleaner. Fast forward my parents retired together at 49 year's old. Living there best life happy and in love ❤️. My Mom saw my dad character he treats her like a queen.
Awww bless 💞💞💞
Be blessed!!! We have to be concerned with his heart posture. "His character is his currency." Tony Gaskins
Shuntavia Woods Exactly🙌🏾. Be blessed!
True talk
I just hollered... Tony said “you already date broke men!” 😂🤣
I love the quote “character is a mans currency” 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾
He told no lies 🤣🤣🤣
I hollered all the way through!! I’m in the UK, Jamaican born, & I find his country accent the most mesmerising thing to listen to. When he said “I’m at my hou” (house) I fell out laughing. I had to rewind the what time it ihhh?? part too 🤣. Jamaicans also get rid of s’s so certain words like street, stretch, stomp, spend sound totally ridiculous. I love black culture!!!
I had to say to myself well he ain't lying 😂🤣😂🙄
People misunderstand when they are in the same category as people you are describing because CARNAL people CANNOT hear SPIRITUAL things. I used to be HELLA BROKE you hear me (in my TG voice lol), but thank God for Jesus Christ. He has done a work in me, and changing me for the better daily. He has made me wealthy, and I would not trade the wealth I have now for anything in the world 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾. Thank you for the message, but I got it the first time. Be blessed✌🏽.
😂😂😂 you hear meeh! Hello Queen! 👋🏾😊
@@cherh Hello Queen👑 👋🏼.
@anointed stilletos. .....
@Anointed Stilletos you did this over text, in the middle of the night? I deserved better than that Ma.
I hate the way you did it, but I get it. I'm hurting more than words could ever express, Ray. I was willing to do anything possible to make you happy and show you how much you deserve to be loved on. You were not a mistake for me. I truly believe I was meant to be with you. But God has other plans for us, I see. I wish you and the kids the best. I have no doubt that you are going to be super successful with the rest of your life. You're a rockstar girl. 😉 You were born to shine. Anyway, if at some point during your journey you're able to try a friendship with me, I'm here waiting for you. I love you with my whole heart and soul lil Mama. Take care of yourself.
ANDRE
Honestly Tony you're a wonderful example of a man with good character -> that's why we watch you & you tell it like it is
Thanks - Be BLESSED 🤗
Thank you tony!! I was in a toxic relationship for 10 years then single for 1 1/2 and now God has placed a man in my life with all the fruits of the spirit!! He doesn’t have the money but he has a priceless character. Thank you for what you are doing I needed to here this to move forward God bless..
Tony i have been listening and following everything you have been saying. It saved me from a long confusing route. I prayed heavy and God has removed the man and confusion. Turns out he was the complete opposite of who he claimed to be. Thank you sooooo much !!!!
Hello Mr. Gaskins,
Wanted to extend my sincerest thanks for your extension of the most priceless gift of "TIME" to pour into us all. May GOD bless you and yours with all of the blessings your heart and hands can hold.
"I do not know what a good looking man look like, but I Know what a ugly man look like" 🤣🤣🤣🤣 ROTFL Your vernacular, expressions "Listen to me!", keeps me laughing AND engaged. You r a blessing!🌈
This had my rolling hollering😂😂
I looked at the length of the video & got super excited 😆‼️
Me, too!
Yes! And he ain’t never boring.
So Did I💯❤🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Tu Bella I enjoy all of his videos! The longer, the better!
Trust me Lool
Character is EVERYTHING!
Im sitting at attention, both feet on the floor, mouth closed and ears open.....📖
School is now in session🖊.....
Thank you Mr. Gaskins!!!🙏🏼
Yes, while taking notes.
Yes INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! MAY 2021
Can’t buy a hamburger on sale!😬😬😬😬😬 you have the talent of a comedian too! Be blessed !
I wasn’t expecting the definition given for a “broke man”. However, it makes sense. I also thank you for adding that ambition + character produces a man who can be financially stable and responsible.
Only if he meets the right woman, though. Only a good woman who has it all together can catalyse a man who has nothing but good character and ambition.
Lol. Some of the comments I'm reading are idealistic but not practical enough. The older a man gets, it becomes increasingly important for him to have something to show for the way he has lived his life. Good character is important but don't neglect to see his ambition and financial maturity. A woman and a man bring what they have together. A real man should already have a little something before a woman even enters the picture. Financial problems are one of the main reasons folks break up.
@@ampmri2434 So true. Good character bears fruit. Just by working consistently and diligently, an average man can establish a good career and achieve relative success in his life. Let alone an ambitious man with good character.
@@G.DD3SS Facts.
Tony stop fussing with them because those type of people have a comprehension problem!! 😁
lifeafterdeath48 exactly!!
Or mentally ill.
If ppl don’t want to listen to the truth why listen if you can’t gain the KNOWLEDGE he’s giving 🛑 tuning in .....FACTS
HELLOOOOOOO!🙄
Amazing the energy people put into things that irritate them, I enjoy his content although I am not in his family type yet, he speaks the truth from his view.
This week God blessed me with running into Tony’s father’s book “8 Mistakes Women Make” and my word! I was trying to buy all TG books and ran into it and I tell you it’s a gem
Thanks I need to pick a few of Tony's books this weekend
Yes ma'am! "Single is not a curse" is amazing as well!
Thank you so much. I forgot he has books out. 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
Facts!
Is the book at Barnes and Noble?
Thanks Tony. I’m 50 years old & just divorced the only man I’d ever been with since I was 14. I don’t want to be superficial, but 30 years of emotional & financial abuse has made me leary of a man that still doesn’t have some sort of stability in his 50’s. I don’t want a man with bad character either & thought it may be too late for me. I get it now. For 31 years I have all I had to a man to support him while he even got his masters degree. He still didn’t pursue a career & repeatedly cheated on me. I was totally broken. I now understand I was the right woman for the wrong man. I was too young & didn’t understand or see the red flags when I got married @ 19. Maybe there’s still hope for me now that I’ve learned the hard way what bad character looks like. Thanks. I needed to hear this ☺️
Sis I'm 49 and I totally get where you're coming from. I focused on doing a lot of spiritual, emotional and physical healing to prepare for the man that I should have given my gifts to. Not bitter but better and getting better every single day. God has a man for both of us if we choose to want one, but at least now we have access to the information we needed 20 years ago. When you know better you choose better. Stay encouraged❤🙏🏽
Marsha G. Thank you. I’m in no hurry but I want to be prepared if God sends the right one.😊
I just got divorced too after 19 years together. Same situation sis! But we have to heal and realize our faults of people pleasing a man with poor character. Heal that part and be who God calley you to be. I have to ask myself all the time why I'm willing to go full support mode for someone else but not myself. Invest in yourself and keep your focus there. The man God has for you will find you. I'm sure of this sis.This is just the beginning of a new story for you. Stay blessed!
T. Lewis thanks. Glad I’m not alone. God will bless you too😊
I'm older than that, I've been with broke men financially and character wise. Yes TG is right it's the character part. I could do so much with a little financially especially if they're willing to listen to me and I could've taken them to another level, but their ego and broke-ass character made it Impossible all the time. It's too bad for them because I'm that good and I know it. Their loss! Their's still hope for some guy out there 😃
Tony with the breakthrough video. Man the Holy Spirit is on my case...soon as I get to start thinking about my ex here comes that TG notification 🔥
Girl PREACH!
Sashisroyal One 😂 It’s not necessarily a bad thing watch the video first👑Queen
J Dilla “it’s necessarily a bad thing” homey, trust me when I tell you! 😒
Sashisroyal One 🤷🏿♂️ I tried homie
😂 God tryna tell you something! Danger! Danger! Back away from those thoughts! 🚫
And that the problem right there some women refuse to hush and listen🙄 with all your getting, please get understanding!!
Linda M. Meridy 🙏🏿
Speak on Sis 🙏🏽❤
Exactly!!
Hmmm! Speak sus!..🤦🏾♀️
Selah
Broke is the same as broken. People are not understand that. In 30 to 60 days I honestly feel we can see if he is broken and his character.
Oh yeah. Red flags start popping up.
These videos have changed my life! Thank you so much!🙌🏾
Head of the block and delete ministry! Yes Tony! You speak the truth. You helped me release the mess many years ago and I have NEVER looked back or been back in those toxic relationships since. Keep doing what you do. The blessed tribe got your back! Be blessed
This is the problem! People listen to be right! You can’t even share a blessing cause people can’t even comprehend. 🤦🏽♀️🙏🏽 Tony! Thank you for being patient and meeting those where they are in their journey, cause some people are just learning to tie their shoes haven’t even hit the pavement yet. 🗣❤️✍🏽
Amen Brother Gaskins. Let God work. Stop blocking your blessings
Coach every time I watch your videos it brings tears to my eye...you just dont know how much I appreciate you being in divine alignment and in your purpose
The people who the devil send are up workin late😂🤣🤣😂🤣🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
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No rest for the wicked
😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣 I laughed so hard
Hello everyone! I'm tuned in...pure silence. I have to receive this for myself and pass this on to my fellow sisters asap. Thank you!
~Be blessed~
**The Blessed Tribe**
Oh you preaching preaching tonight!! 🔥🔥🔥 Come on!! That’s what a kingdom 👑 woman does!! There is power in our words ladies! Use it wisely for the right Kingdom man not a fool!
I would rather have a man with less money, than one with money and cheating and beating me!!!
I totally don't understand why it has to be either or??? God can bless you with a man who is both kind and has money. Also, there are plenty of broke men who can beat their wives/girlfriends. Just watch an episode of the show Cops! Wow...the mentality!
Poor men are cheating and beating as well.
Thank you. Poor men have even worse character than rich ones. While I do not solely judge a man based on his pocket, he HAS to have the basics before I even consider him. I don't care how nice a man is, struggle love and financially supporting a grown ass man is not for me. Thank God for blessing with a man who is not only a hard worker and great provider, but one who has great character.🙏🏽🧡🤎💚🙏🏽
HE WHO FINDS A WIFE FINDS A GOOD THING AND OBTAINS FAVOR WITH THE MOST HIGH!!! PROVERBS 18:22🔥💯YOU ARE BLESSED!!! THANK YOU FOR YOUR PEARLS OF WISDOM!!!⚪
You are so wise,Tony.I really appreciate and agree with everything you've said. I hope to meet a man with great character one day. I was with a man who had not so good character, but he had money. He cheated on me and abused me in multiple ways. I knew I had to leave that situation and that's what I did. From the beginning there were several red flags and convictions of the holy spirit, but I ignored all of it because of my naivety. I was never peaceful in that relationship. Ladies please listen to Tony and if something doesn't feel right in your relationship,most of the time it's not. I refused to stay around and continue to get mistreated because of a man's money. No! my sanity, self esteem, and self worth is more important. God will take care of us ladies. So I left almost two years ago and haven't look back since. Thanks to God, I'm doing just fine. Tfs Tony
Lack of peace in a relationship is a HUGE red flag 🚩🚩. Thank you for this comment.
@@anointedstilettos yes it is sis! You're welcome.
loveinautumn 39 i did the same thing. So glad we made it out love ! I’m so happy now and at peace! I keep getting all the wrong men still to this day but I’m so much more aware of the red flags. So when i see one sign I’m OUTT ✌🏾 Happy for you. God has someone greater for us
Women who are not accountable can’t comprehend you.
We must be quick to hear and slow to speak. Emotional security will produce financial security ( stated in one of your previous video)
Tony, I have learned many points of life through your videos. One thing that I feel I must say is this....YOU do not have to defend your message! The people who are receptive to your message and have the heart to learn and grow get it the first time. Those who attack, argue, or disagree with you are not yet in a space to understand the truth and stand in their own way. When you post a video, it is out there to be viewed over and over again. Sometimes they need to go back and look again to really hear the message and learn how to apply it to their life. Keep moving forward, keep speaking your message with upward motivation. Your time and energy should be with those who are willing to be real in their own lives. Those who want to really do the work that is needed within themselves to produce the outcomes in life that they desire. You can't want more for someone than they want for themselves. When they have reached the point where they realize that their way isn't working and are open to change, they will reach out to God and guess what , prayerfully your videos will still be there for them. Stay blessed and covered.
Thank you Sis! But I can’t leave anyone behind. It’s not in me. I gotta always try 2-3 times to help them understand.
@@TonyGaskins As you say, I had to say what was on my heart. Your integrity is admirable. I am still learning lessons! Be blessed
Amen sister!!! People should have listened to the whole video all the way through the first time. If they do not understand something he said they should play the video a couple of times. They could have missed something he said to make his teaching clear.
Yes Sir🙌🏾 you better teach!!!! We as women are important in the right man life!
Linda M. Meridy 🙏🏿
Linda M. Meridy AMEN
Linda M. Meridy... you said it, sis! The right man, will appreciate and value you. This may just be my personal opinion from experience or I should say my experiences but I think a broke man we'll expect you to fix him even if he realizes that he is broke(n).
Yup, we are the favour factor.
A lot of women need to hear this. Thank you big bro 🙏🏾
“Ain’t nowhere in the video did I say that” I’m dying 🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭
So, so PROUD of you two working examples of a married couple with character taking care of your children together. It is an example to us. 🌷🌷
This message right here is directly from God! Be blessed Tony!!!! Thank you for being obedient to God and fulfilling your purpose!
PREACH IT!!! Love this brother, he speaking the TRUTH, character is EVERYTHING!!!
Tony I just got to say you are such a INSPIRATION!!!!! It feels so good to see and listen to your WISDOM!!!! May our GOD continue to BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. KEEP DOING GOD'S WILL!!!!
That McDonald story ALWAYS blesses my heart, I know that IS how GOD moves, thank you, LORD, be blessed!!
Character over currency🙌🏿..be blessed!! I am blessed and my future husband is blessed!
TONY THE ACTING SKILLS ARE AWESOME...
AND YOU BRING THE MESSAGE HOME WITH NO HASTATIONS😊
MY GOD!!!!! This one elevated my heart rate!!! I'M READY!!
Tony continue to bless those who are willing to learn and listen..
Nephew Tony striking hard today....Ladies every man you ever dated was broke!!! Mistreatmenent/poor character=broke. Money is just currency🔥🔥🔥🔥
I love it I love it I love it when God broke me all the way down for being out here acting like I didn't know who's Chile I am he told me he was going to build my character my heart was awesome but my character was broken and it's interesting how your Wife was woman enough to understand we all have to be where God wants us to be to get Blessed even greater man I'm over here doing my praise dance just because I understand the process of bettering yourself but only the willing will make it and the changes necessary people want the blessings without the work it don't work like that!!!
Wow your speaking to me tonight. That was my exact story with the auto mechanics shop
Again Tony, you ain’t lied yet! Character opens doors!
Tony Gaskins you better preach ! I’m only 5 minutes into the video and you have already gave a sermon. Broke doesn’t just mean financially . The last person I dated was broke , his words and actions did not align with the representative who showed up when we first got together . You know the old school saying “your word is your bond”. If you constantly breaking your word, your BROKE.
Be blessed
“If a man could do it all on his own and be everything on his own God wouldn’t have made Eve” -Tony Gaskins
And I Oop!!!!!!!! That was whole word!!! Have to repost this!
This video will be watched two more times today. Tony you dropped gems! Thank you!!
Yes Tony, I thank God for giving me the wisdom to understand. Understanding is a gold mine to life in general. I'm just BLESSED to have come across a MAN that's helping us women. So thank you. BE BLESSED!!!!
I have our table and our chairs, and I'm working with the Lord to recieve a man of character. Be blessed!
Man looks at the outward appearance, but God looks at the heart.
Amen!SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID THATS IT!MAY 2021
You’re such a blessing to others. I pray God’s Blessings on you & your family. Thanks
Thanks for this video. Staying encouraged about meeting someone who's compatible and staying guarded but at the same time keeping his character in mind. Thanks again Tony Gaskins. You be blessed!!
I know that this is RUclips but the things that you talk about and the things that you say have a very solid biblical foundation.. I don't think a lot of people will understand... And I think that's by nature it's bydesign even though you're trying to help you can't download a biblical foundation and expect someone of the world to understand...in fact if they are under an influence of some type their only job is to dispute it and cause confusion... But the people who your message is supposed to reach is reaching... Your spirit is designed to irritate demons...
Your helping me...
Thank you.
Jojo 🙏🏿Amen
Yes sis exactly!!
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@@moniquebass819 that why we are going to get this knowledge and come up 💜💛🤷🏾♀️
For Sure
Tony you delivered this message. Now I have to pray for this delivering message to instill in me so I can manifest and produce the word. You delivered tonight. Thank you.
Out of EVERY video this VIDEO right here just SAVED LIVES!!!!!!!!!!!! TONY best video to date. Point blank Period!!!!!!
Broke only relates to his/herCharacter!! Facts💯
Tony, you're God-sent, helping to heal so many hearts.
Of course there's gonna be opposition to your message,
there's a huge attack on everyone's hearts from the dark side.
Those trolls don't mean a thing, who takes them seriously anyway!
I thank God for Mrs. Gaskins for speaking into your life and helping you come to yourself. Now you are pouring valuable info to help others come out of darkness and live life in Jesus Christ. You are bringing awareness to others regarding relationship faults and failures. I’m learning specifics about where I went wrong and what I can do to never make those mistakes again. Thank God for her encouraging you and having your back and for your transparency, availability and willingness to tell it all!!!
This video gave me chills. You were preaching today. I had to watch this video twice. Thank you for walking in your gift and being obedient.
Tony, I want whomever God bless me with. Be blessed!!!
Yolanda lofton 🙏🏿
I watched this last night, & I had to come to work & watch it with a co-worker during lunch. Soooo many gems dropped!! Thank you for your wisdom & guidance. Be blessed!
Lord.... is that how most women sound🤣🤣 yes it’s all about his spirit🙏🏽 look at his character I saw it coming. Be Blessed Tony
Hey Coach....Be Blessed!!😁😁 Thanks for another great nugget!!!!!
I was just talking to my son about character .. we were just discussing these topics and this is right on time and right on point!🔥🔥🔥 💯💯💯💯
"Potential is truly rooted in Purpose & Character." 👌🌷
OMG, I am one minute in and😂😂😂 Lord give this man a radio show.
Marsha G. I was just wondering was there a pod cast?!! 😫😂🙌🏽🙌🏽
Marsha G. 😂
August Breeze podcast, Tony need his own app
RIGHT! lol
Yes 🙌🏾
This is your Best yet Tony! So true. Yes a man's character is key! You did so well explaining this concept . Thank you. That voice you do of the woman with attitude is so funny and accurate. Great job Tony. Yes a man of God is best. God bless.
Discernment to assess the situation properly plays a critical role in evaluating a man's character. That man you passing up on could've been divorced & let his ex-wife have the house for the sake of his children. I know a ton if men who've dealt with that. And then I know men who make BETWEEN $13-$15/hr currently who is 55 & outworks any man that I know young & old. His current house he bought from the land bank & cashed out on it & fixing up each room as he's able. He used to be in adult entertainment making six figures to the point he built his mama a house & decided to give that lifestyle up not because of age or looks, but that's something he decided to do. Not to say that he's the perfect man, but for a man to go from that life to where he's at now shows me a lot about him.
A lot of men have criminal backgrounds & cause them to be temporarily limited in their current career choices.
That McDonald's example, that auto mechanic shop example, & your first book example... I felt that though in my soul!!! 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾🔥🔥🔥
Amen I felt it too..that's the real deal
This word warmed my heart and is very encouraging. I had to run it back to hear the beautiful words again. I can envision every detail.
Evening Blessed Tribe! Be blessed 🎧👀🍿📝
You are SO NEEDED TONY!🙌🏽🙌🏽🤗🙌🏽🤗🙌🏽
I live in Australia so my comments will come through at crazy hours 🙋♀️🤪🤗
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Just know that he is not talking about YOU !!!!!
I never knew in a relationship you compliment one another not be a bandage for a broken man ..I jus found this out ...Thanks Tony
I done told y'all And I Ain't font say it again!!! Y'all Betta stop comeing for Bro Tony!!! He be spitting the truth!!! Ladies y'all get it together PLEASE!!👊👊🤦🤦
I freaking love Tony's realness lol. He said you slap crazy. Keep being you Tony. The ones that complaint are the ones refusing growth. They don't want help or furthermore they don't want the truth.
🙏🏿Be Blessed🙏🏿.
Tony, thank you so much. I feel like God was using you to speak directly to me from 5:08 through 6:21. I am that friend you told your wife to encourage. I was pouting a second ago but now I feel encouraged to continue my dreams. Thank you again
That’s right, Tony. I got your back. You are putting out valuable information and these ungrateful women have the nerve to complain. They can stay with Sorry Stan and Broke Byron. We ain’t got time for that. They’re trying to turn positivity into something else. They also could be trolls from other channels who are hating and sending people over. Anywho, thank you, brother! It’s all sinking in...☺️
Be Bless I made it❤️!
broke doesn’t replace personality. We can build together .
Amen.
Be blessed! I can't wait until I'm financially able to come to the live Coach training. Thank you Tony!
I believe in blocking and deleting too!! I will be at the singles workshop February 21st in Atl. This information was needed. Be blessed. #blessedtribe
Thank you for this spiritual correction. I got side tracked and needed this alignment. Thank you.
You always SPEAKING FACTS 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
A BROKEN MAN IS A BROKE MAN! 🗣🗣🗣
God bless you, Tony!