There is alot of bitterness and brokenness in these comments....he is not telling us to never trust men, he is not saying be single forever, he is not saying alot of what you ladies are accusing. This is a call for us ladies to rise to a new level of accountability in our interactions with men.
What I received from this video is that if a man is accountable to God and is after God's heart, you wouldn't have to worry about him cheating because he knows that his life revolves around God's grace and mercy.
I always remember my mom's words: "I never got a new man/boyfriend because I didn't want that man hurting you". I am grown now, and I understand her why she did that. ❤
**If he ain’t surrendered to God, you shouldn’t TRUST nothing about him** ** He must be faithful to God, in order to be faithful to you** **Keep your man covered in prayer** **You must know the good book to know what a man of God look like** **A man must prove himself** Thanks T.G. #Nuggets
I know that’s right... all these good looking, rich, celebrities getting cheated on, imagine us....😢 makes you want to stay single for the rest of your life.
I'm grateful for the honesty but as a young lady in her late 20s it saddens me that men are like this. It's kind of disappointing because I grew up seeing my father love & cherish my mother and the thought of him possibly stepping out on my mom is more of a reality now. Women just be wanting to be loved & chosen and hearing that most men cant provide that is sad. I hear that men are different and may have seen and faced traumatic situations but aren't we responsible for our own healing. Women have to heal themselves so why is the requirement not the same for men. Actually nevermind I dont care to know. Women care too much about men & I'm guilty of the same but that stops today . I now understand that men really cant be trusted & I accept that. God MUST be our everything and that's all I'm going to focus on
In WI where I live a 13 month old baby was the 1st homicide case for 2020. It was the mother's boyfriend, while she was at work. I have 24 great nieces and nephews and my family does not play about men watching children.
I live in Wisconsin too, & 1 of my neighbors is a homicide detective & he says there's many child deaths & abuse at the hands of men that don't hit the knews, the stories are sickening.
Parents always need to talk to their children about anyone touching them - family members, church members, coaches, family/ parent's friends etc. Including people making 'threats' if they tell
I have sensed the darkness of men but I could only intuit these things. You have confirmed things that God has tried to show me. I can never unsee. I feel this message so deeply but it is so hard to digest. I don’t think that men and women truly are made to be together unless they are BOTH committed to the most high. This is a war zone ladies ,keep your head up, stay prayed up, and forget about the the hopes and dream of a good man. Life is short, all my life has been wasted on wishes. I have never met a man infused with TRUTH and Godly power. The only thing that comforts me is that men KNOW THEY ARE DEPLORABLE. They know, and that’s why I haven’t met a happy man YET. God is love God is good.
“Men worship women as if the woman was God.” Woahhh. If a man ain’t faithful to God the Almighty, the Creator of all things, what makes you think he’ll be faithful to you, a creation of God? Thank you so much for the transparency and for spilling so much truth.
For the first time I’m speechless 😶. I have never heard ANYONE that is in your career as a Relationship Coach, etc., give such a true and deep Word from God, that it makes me ask myself, “Is it worth it”? We can’t trust anybody!! We might as well stay single, so we won’t have to go through any heartbreak!! I have to really digest this Tony, because this really make me think twice about men. God Bless you!🙏🏽 I will be praying for you that you will stand strong and continue to help women understand what we can’t see.
My husband let our daughter roll off the couch as I was walking out the door when she was a baby while he was watching a movie, and I came back and took her with me.
I am 43 years, never married and no children but I have learned so much from you about dating, being single and men in the few months I have been listening to you. I have heard truth which I had never heard my whole life. You are truely a gift. Thank you!
I'm glad you made this video. I totally believe you. I used to say all the time that if Halle Berry could get cheated on, beauty has nothing to do with keeping a man faithful. Great video, great points. Just because a man is married, it doesn't mean he stops noticing other women.
That’s the point.. you’re saying a woman cheats if she’s not getting attention. I’m saying you can treat a man like a King and he still cheats. That’s two different beings. Both need Jesus.
Thanks tony! Jesus,jesus,jesus, I met a man once and he said he's been married sixteen years,and he's had an another woman the entire time, and he was still trying to holler at me,I ran for dear life! Lol, be blessed Tony, and thanks!😘
Ephesians 6:12 For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.
Tony you are speaking truth!.. but Lord have mercy!!! .. this doesn't help us women trust any man! 😔.. I have come across men who claim they are faithful, men of God,and that they have a relationship with God, and still their words Do Not coincide with their actions!.. how do we ever completely trust?
Not all men of God are what they seem. Watch their actions and listen to how they speak. Whats done during church and done after church are 2 different things most of the time. Only a very few are faithful and actually fear God.
Maaaaaaaaaan...... After watching this. Im scared of men. Im terrified to say the least!!! Man I dang near wanna stay locked up emotionally from men. I needed to hear this. Thank you Tony.
I think im gonna just stay single cause men have a hard time keepin it together...im going on 5yrs im Blessed n Im gonna stay this way...Be Blessed everyone...u as well My Brotha
Makes two of us....its over 5 yrs for me. I've been saying and feeling the same thing. Friendship with no benefit is better then a relationship with much more. It's scary in this generation. I want to be okay with being single loving me and raising my son to be the opposite of what I endured and hope he learns and is careful with what women he wants to love and marry and build a family with. I'm praying my son becomes a family man with a women who is his rib.
I've never met a "single" bw. They usually have some dude in the background that they are being satisfied by. Single to a bw just means not having a commitment, doesn't mean she cannot get her wants and needs met.
We live and we learn, my divorce opened my eyes to a lot of things, he was emotionally unstable and he was not use to having a good wife, he was use to drama and dysfunction, that's all he knew, and him leaving his wife and family for a married woman proves all this...i was not perfect but i was good to him, and it still wasn't enough, he went to worser situation and likes it...God bless him
I have never had it broken down that deep, & then blessed it with the word of God. You blew my mind & i needed that to continue with dating. Powerful message, thank you God bless you brother
Tony you're a saving grace to women & men... The truth that you speak is a vessel, from experiences & the spirit... I pray that I marry again to a great man of God, who's relationship is a great example that will lead within his actions... It's not that I'm seeking a man who's faithful sexually... My spirit is seeking a man that is girded so deep with God, that his walk in life exemplifies all of the commandments & the word of God (The covenant) that will be ... That being said Tony, I pray that your ministry & marriage will continue to flourish...
Be blessed. 🙏🏾 Listen... I close my mouth and open my ears. Trust is earned through actions and over time. Literally had a guy tell me that NO man is going to want a girl that does not fornicate before marriage. I’m just like “OK.” Mean while I’m putting on my shoes and not stretching because I’m out like a light. 🏃🏾♀️💨 (block & delete)
Rach J girl 👧🏽 I am scared of men I don’t even argue with a man. And I don’t let my left hand know what my right hand doing. So if I deal with one ☝️ there may be another one somewhere else. Just in case and I am not bashing men but I know their nature even in family they are NOT I repeat NOT to be trusted, so I honestly don’t take them seriously. I do want a husband I can’t lie but I fear I won’t take my marriage serious because I understand the nature of a man and I don’t want to waste my time.
The military reference too was very on point, especially understanding since I am in the military. Damn wild beast....and do not leave your baby with a man...eye opening.
My respect is growing for whoever you are, glad i was guided here. The brute honesty from this man. It's true, submission and loyalty to the Lord is what gives a man true character and strength.
If I shouldn't leave my child with a man then why would I give my heart to that a man.... meaning if the man can't be trusted with my child then he dang sure can't be trusted with my heart... I've already made many mistakes but I'm learning
“When a man chooses to be faithful 💯%, that man is also chosen to be faithful to God.” Love that! So true. No man can come to Him (Jesus) unless He (the Father) draws him. John 6:44.
We living in last days, the Bible has told us how it would be regarding relationships. I saw with my own eyes my ex HUSBAND (who loved God so much) struggle and walk away from God because he didn't wanna give up porn. Shoot I threw the computer in the dumpster and was praying over him but the thing is an individual has to surrender for themselves. Choose what master u serve. I'm so grateful daily I got out without going crazy so trust me. If you don't have a man who FEARS GOD JUST SIT DOWN AND STAY SINGLE.
Tiae Love I feel like it’s not about the differences that we have as men and women it’s about the simple principle of being good human beings to one another, you know treating others with the same level of respect and care you’d have for yourself and I don’t know if this subject is really as complicated as it really is. If being faithful is hard to people than there’s something off in the relationship. I’ve heard from happy healthy marriages that when you’re in the right relationship it’s easy and effortless but maybe I’m reading too much into it.
Tellin the truth!!! Family members can be the most treacherous!! I've experienced some things no child should have ever experienced by people I should have trusted. Everything your saying reasonates!!
Very good advice ESPECIALLY when dating and ESPECIALLY if you’ve been abused-leaving your children 👶 with guys. I’ve seen so many scenarios of abused women’s children getting abused also. Thanks for saying...
“For from within, out of the heart of man, come evil thoughts, sexual immorality, theft, murder, adultery, coveting, wickedness, deceit, sensuality, envy, slander, pride, foolishness. All these evil things come from within, and they defile a person."” Mark 7:21-23
Listening to this just explained and made so clear why I'm single. And honestly after hearing this, I think I'm okay with it. I have no desire to deal with this sort of carnal thinking. So, until I can wrap my head around this and God sends him my way AND I can clearly recognize that he's the one... I'm chillin.
I guess that's why some women are gay now. Faithful men are hard to find. My mama always said " You can be with a man for 37 years and you still won't really know that man."
Seems like I attract men with mommy issues smh I'm tired and they go through life faking and damaging other women. I'm tired of thinking my love will heal or change a man when all the while I'm being drained, spiritually, mentally, emotionally then they turn the table on me and say I'm the crazy one. As my grandma use to say in her voice " I cant win for losing"
I’m 22 watching these videos in hopes in building my knowledge for future relationships. This video scares me because of the truth. Also grateful for your word always!!!! God bless you!
Thank you so much for being honest. I really appreciate your transparency, I wouldn't ever compare myself to men because God made me a woman. When I shared 1 of your video to a male.. He got very angry and told me look at yourself before you judge me. I wasn't judging him. I was just sharing , But when I sent the same video to my female friend she was so thankful. I won't ever argue with someone that's helpful thank you for speak the truth and let's not mention all for free. Be blessed
Tony God bless you! This definitely puts some things in perspective on my father's cheating on my mom. My mom never left him even after a side baby. He never attempted to renew his mind in Christ so he never stopped cheating. He's 60 something yrs old and still cheating. I've learned so much from your videos so Thank You. 🙏🏽
So true about Kids especially these parents who like to go on Vacation or Out for the night and let Family take care of the kids it's always those Family members Male and Female who always Eager to keep the Kids they are the ones Touching these Innocent Kids just Sad.
Tony this was real and i totally understand what you saying! This was RAW and uncut! Most women want be able to digest this! This was not a surface talk it went skin DEEP. My moma always tell me to keep my child away from a man. She was hesitant even with our own dad. They might make you take this down! Glad i got to see this!
There aren't enough men out there that have surrendered to God to go around. This message is true but it has diminished my hope of finding a good man. "Paper thin walls in hotels" You're so funny! 🤣
The more I listen the more I learn the more I become afraid to even try and trust another man. I did the right things when my kids were younger after my divorce. I didn't date or entertain men. Now that my kids are grown I realize it's rough out here. I won't lie...its discouraging. 😔
I read where a man stop dating a woman whom he loved and adored because he felt he couldn't trust himself around her young daughter. Thing is .. when he met the woman, she checked all the boxes for all he wants in a woman. It was all good until he met her daughter.
What I’m learning is that us women we know these things. When we are in relationships we go through a lot! Our emotions clouds our judgement. You are confirming and affirming what we experience every day. You are being 100! So many men LIE and manipulate us we don’t know what to believe anymore. Thanks! Let God continue to use you to spread this light!!!
This is so true!!!!! Amen. This is why I'm letting God and the holy spirit lead me to the right man.... Through ignorance we fall. As a mother we need to be more vigilant in who we bring around our babies. It's so sad that women can't understand this. We need to love ourselves and our families more than our own needs.
I so agree. We need to help each other and build more communities. It's difficult for a single mother with a single income to manage it all. Single mothers should house a share and build together. The stress and burden is to much on their own.
Tony you are the best relationship coach there is. You are so real. You are the only one. I'm 53 and I appreciate your messages. I never left my kids with anyone. Keeping it real is what men and women need.
Tony Psalm 34:19 is still relevant. Those that are called to the masses to minister to the heart are often under attack. Your transparency is an anointing and gift from the Most High God. You and the Mrs continue to stay girded and prayed up. Be blessed.
Tony u better preach!! My parents always taught me to not let my kids stay over friends house nor family. My daughter 2 and until she can form clear sentences she cannot go over family house. Most men tolerance is not high to stay in the house & take care of crying kids. Best to take care of your own & dont be so quick to rush into dating & having the first smiling man around your children. Get you a God fearing man! A man will always be a man. Be Blessed
Tony, This video was Awesome! You have done many and I learn something from them all. But this one was Special. I am praying for you and your family. Brother keep on letting GOD use you. 🙏
Appreciate this video! You really couldn’t say these things on broadcast TV because it’s the truth that will set us free and those leading the media are happy to keep us in bondage! Thank you for this word. It was painfully true
Everytime I watch your videos, I get glued in seeing the entire video because the words you speak are so real. Some men aren't brave enough to admit anything is wrong, and act like they aren't wrong for laying up with 100s of women and having a strip club addiction. Tony Gatskins is the Best life coach that I've Witnessed 💯❤
👏👏👏👏👏 Big Brother, yet again speak on it! It ain't nothing like telling the truth like it is and being transparent which a lot of men are not. So be blessed and I thank you.💚💚💚💚
Welp. Makes me wanna just stay single to be real. I appreciate the honesty in this....dern. I’m halfway through this video. You kept shit all the way 100 😯🤦🏽♀️
Listen Tony, you be so point about everything! And I use to think my standards were too high and that I turned men off. But thank you for clarification of what grown boys and men are. Stay Woke, ten toes downs. Much respect Brother. I preach to my friends all the tine, never leave yo baby with your man Big no no
I visit my kids recesses separately. My daughters 5, sons 8. The girls all go off and be quiet when they’re upset, the boys start swinging and yelling.🙌🏽 we are different
Thank you you made it easier to not feel like I want a man. And I'm saying that as a good thing because I worry about being alone now I know I'm not missing out on anything special.
There is alot of bitterness and brokenness in these comments....he is not telling us to never trust men, he is not saying be single forever, he is not saying alot of what you ladies are accusing. This is a call for us ladies to rise to a new level of accountability in our interactions with men.
All I can say is wow. I can’t lie, this makes me want to stay single lol.
What I received from this video is that if a man is accountable to God and is after God's heart, you wouldn't have to worry about him cheating because he knows that his life revolves around God's grace and mercy.
Wooooooow!!!! You GET IT!!!!
Yes but where are these men?.. I know that I must continue to pray, but honestly, sometimes I just feel like giving up!
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Ray Charles cheated, so it doesn't matter if a man is blind...
I’m just gone stay single, men are too stressful 😭
I always remember my mom's words: "I never got a new man/boyfriend because I didn't want that man hurting you". I am grown now, and I understand her why she did that. ❤
Before a man makes a “covenant” with you, he MUST make a covenant with God.
"Some men were raised so cold they don't know how to be warm."
● Tony Gaskins
Powerful!💯❣
“I’m not faithful to you, I’m faithful to God”. . . that’s deep!!
**If he ain’t surrendered to God, you shouldn’t TRUST nothing about him**
** He must be faithful to God, in order to be faithful to you**
**Keep your man covered in prayer**
**You must know the good book to know what a man of God look like**
**A man must prove himself**
Thanks T.G.
#Nuggets
My brother is blind and still chasing women with his sight stick😂😂😂
"A man MUST be renewed by CHRIST". Right! That PART...
"Don't LEAVE your children with a man". Thank you Tony, thank you.
I know that’s right... all these good looking, rich, celebrities getting cheated on, imagine us....😢 makes you want to stay single for the rest of your life.
RIGHT!!!!
Right. Like why bother at this point?
Celebrities are not some demi God's they just got a real good paying job. They still human
Hello
Celebrities are human too, at the end of the day. We that are not celebrities, put them up on these pedestals.
Think I will stay single, too many head games. Men say women are difficult.
I'm grateful for the honesty but as a young lady in her late 20s it saddens me that men are like this. It's kind of disappointing because I grew up seeing my father love & cherish my mother and the thought of him possibly stepping out on my mom is more of a reality now. Women just be wanting to be loved & chosen and hearing that most men cant provide that is sad. I hear that men are different and may have seen and faced traumatic situations but aren't we responsible for our own healing. Women have to heal themselves so why is the requirement not the same for men. Actually nevermind I dont care to know. Women care too much about men & I'm guilty of the same but that stops today . I now understand that men really cant be trusted & I accept that. God MUST be our everything and that's all I'm going to focus on
"Letting your baby roll off the changing table"😂😂😂😂😂. Mann that took me out.
I know. I laughed when he said something about the forehead. I'm like what the hell is wrong with me? Why did I laugh? How he said it.
That's real.
In WI where I live a 13 month old baby was the 1st homicide case for 2020. It was the mother's boyfriend, while she was at work. I have 24 great nieces and nephews and my family does not play about men watching children.
Where was the father?! 😔
I live in Wisconsin too, & 1 of my neighbors is a homicide detective & he says there's many child deaths & abuse at the hands of men that don't hit the knews, the stories are sickening.
Wow that's super sad. Lord have mercy.
Parents always need to talk to their children about anyone touching them - family members, church members, coaches, family/ parent's friends etc. Including people making 'threats' if they tell
I have sensed the darkness of men but I could only intuit these things. You have confirmed things that God has tried to show me. I can never unsee. I feel this message so deeply but it is so hard to digest. I don’t think that men and women truly are made to be together unless they are BOTH committed to the most high. This is a war zone ladies ,keep your head up, stay prayed up, and forget about the the hopes and dream of a good man. Life is short, all my life has been wasted on wishes. I have never met a man infused with TRUTH and Godly power. The only thing that comforts me is that men KNOW THEY ARE DEPLORABLE. They know, and that’s why I haven’t met a happy man YET. God is love God is good.
A man is as loyal as his options 😟 anyways, so many men don’t have God or faith in their lives...
“Men worship women as if the woman was God.” Woahhh. If a man ain’t faithful to God the Almighty, the Creator of all things, what makes you think he’ll be faithful to you, a creation of God? Thank you so much for the transparency and for spilling so much truth.
For the first time I’m speechless 😶. I have never heard ANYONE that is in your career as a Relationship Coach, etc., give such a true and deep Word from God, that it makes me ask myself, “Is it worth it”? We can’t trust anybody!! We might as well stay single, so we won’t have to go through any heartbreak!! I have to really digest this Tony, because this really make me think twice about men. God Bless you!🙏🏽 I will be praying for you that you will stand strong and continue to help women understand what we can’t see.
My husband let our daughter roll off the couch as I was walking out the door when she was a baby while he was watching a movie, and I came back and took her with me.
Hey Anointed Stillettos, You did right!! Thank GOD you weren't all the way out the door 🤗🤗.
Omg. So real
He is so brutally honest!! And speaks the truth...
Every choice we make in our life on this journey has consequences. You will reap the benefits of your choices.
I am 43 years, never married and no children but I have learned so much from you about dating, being single and men in the few months I have been listening to you. I have heard truth which I had never heard my whole life.
You are truely a gift.
Thank you!
"I'm not faithful to my wife I'm faithful to God"
So true! Totally related 🙏🏿
I'm glad you made this video. I totally believe you. I used to say all the time that if Halle Berry could get cheated on, beauty has nothing to do with keeping a man faithful. Great video, great points. Just because a man is married, it doesn't mean he stops noticing other women.
I said the same thing lol
This is true. Cause' married women also don't stop noticing other attractive men.
It's hard for women to be faithful too....to a certain extent...if she isn't getting the attention or the loving she needs
That’s the point.. you’re saying a woman cheats if she’s not getting attention. I’m saying you can treat a man like a King and he still cheats. That’s two different beings. Both need Jesus.
Thanks tony! Jesus,jesus,jesus, I met a man once and he said he's been married sixteen years,and he's had an another woman the entire time, and he was still trying to holler at me,I ran for dear life! Lol, be blessed Tony, and thanks!😘
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@@TonyGaskins wow. Very eye opening. Also, what were you referring to in a previous comment about "The Queen?"Did I miss a video on this topic?
Tony Gaskins and there are women who are treated like queens who cheat as well. Women don’t only cheat based off of lack of attention.
“Now Bathsheeba, you didn’t know David window was up there? Or nah”... 😂😂😂😩
"I don't cheat on my girlfriend" but takes other women on dinner dates 🤦🏾♀️Make it makes sense Lord 😂 Glad he's on a different path 🙌🏾
Ephesians 6:12 For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.
And us women struggling with dealing with this crap we've been dealt from men for so long.
Tony you are speaking truth!.. but Lord have mercy!!! .. this doesn't help us women trust any man! 😔.. I have come across men who claim they are faithful, men of God,and that they have a relationship with God, and still their words Do Not coincide with their actions!.. how do we ever completely trust?
Trust God! Don’t trust a man unless you truly see God in him!
Psalm 118:8 "It is better to take refuge in the Lord than to trust in man."
Not all men of God are what they seem. Watch their actions and listen to how they speak. Whats done during church and done after church are 2 different things most of the time. Only a very few are faithful and actually fear God.
Maaaaaaaaaan...... After watching this. Im scared of men. Im terrified to say the least!!! Man I dang near wanna stay locked up emotionally from men. I needed to hear this. Thank you Tony.
I think im gonna just stay single cause men have a hard time keepin it together...im going on 5yrs im Blessed n Im gonna stay this way...Be Blessed everyone...u as well My Brotha
Makes two of us....its over 5 yrs for me. I've been saying and feeling the same thing. Friendship with no benefit is better then a relationship with much more. It's scary in this generation. I want to be okay with being single loving me and raising my son to be the opposite of what I endured and hope he learns and is careful with what women he wants to love and marry and build a family with. I'm praying my son becomes a family man with a women who is his rib.
Work on yourself so you can attract a faithful man to you. You were not designed to be permanently single. No ma’am.
Natasha Regains Don’t give up.
I've never met a "single" bw. They usually have some dude in the background that they are being satisfied by. Single to a bw just means not having a commitment, doesn't mean she cannot get her wants and needs met.
Natasha Regains same here sis!
We live and we learn, my divorce opened my eyes to a lot of things, he was emotionally unstable and he was not use to having a good wife, he was use to drama and dysfunction, that's all he knew, and him leaving his wife and family for a married woman proves all this...i was not perfect but i was good to him, and it still wasn't enough, he went to worser situation and likes it...God bless him
I have never had it broken down that deep, & then blessed it with the word of God. You blew my mind & i needed that to continue with dating. Powerful message, thank you God bless you brother
Gurrrrrrl Tony is not playing
Tony thank you for your unadulterated wisdom and knowledge. Keep fighting the good fight of faith.
💪💪💪
Tony you're a saving grace to women & men... The truth that you speak is a vessel, from experiences & the spirit... I pray that I marry again to a great man of God, who's relationship is a great example that will lead within his actions... It's not that I'm seeking a man who's faithful sexually... My spirit is seeking a man that is girded so deep with God, that his walk in life exemplifies all of the commandments & the word of God (The covenant) that will be ... That being said Tony, I pray that your ministry & marriage will continue to flourish...
Thank you!!
Hoping you make millions this year Tony
Tenaya Jeanette amen 🙏🏽
...And woe be unto the women who choose not to listen! Let’s pray for each other pleeeez!!
“If you made it this far write Be Blessed in the comments” - Tony 😂😂😂
Be blessed. 🙏🏾
Listen... I close my mouth and open my ears. Trust is earned through actions and over time.
Literally had a guy tell me that NO man is going to want a girl that does not fornicate before marriage.
I’m just like “OK.” Mean while I’m putting on my shoes and not stretching because I’m out like a light. 🏃🏾♀️💨 (block & delete)
Dang...im just gonna chill solo. Lol these videos make me wanna stay away from men.
My mindset as well. Almost like putting my heart on the chopping block.
Rach J I’m wondering if he’s speaking of other races or just mostly bm...
Rach J girl 👧🏽 I am scared of men I don’t even argue with a man. And I don’t let my left hand know what my right hand doing. So if I deal with one ☝️ there may be another one somewhere else. Just in case and I am not bashing men but I know their nature even in family they are NOT I repeat NOT to be trusted, so I honestly don’t take them seriously. I do want a husband I can’t lie but I fear I won’t take my marriage serious because I understand the nature of a man and I don’t want to waste my time.
Right!
Rach J me too girl I’m like. 🤯
The military reference too was very on point, especially understanding since I am in the military. Damn wild beast....and do not leave your baby with a man...eye opening.
Wild beast!!!!!! #facts
what happens in the military and why shouldn't we leave a baby with a man
kieona allen absolutely😞when I went from shore to sea (backwards rotation) I couldn’t believe these men...out of control
kieona allen do elaborate please on men in the military
My respect is growing for whoever you are, glad i was guided here. The brute honesty from this man. It's true, submission and loyalty to the Lord is what gives a man true character and strength.
If I shouldn't leave my child with a man then why would I give my heart to that a man.... meaning if the man can't be trusted with my child then he dang sure can't be trusted with my heart... I've already made many mistakes but I'm learning
I’m not faithful to you, I’m faithful to God! I felt that Tony G!
TONY YOU MIGHT AS WELL OPEN UP A CHURCH . YOU ARE JUST SO REAL AND KNOW HOW TO MAKE THE PICTURE CLEAR . BE BLESSED !!!!
“When a man chooses to be faithful 💯%, that man is also chosen to be faithful to God.” Love that! So true. No man can come to Him (Jesus) unless He (the Father) draws him. John 6:44.
Ladies, restart the video around the 7:00 min mark. This is too good! Thank you Tony! 🙏🏾🙌🏾
Shauna thank you
Shauna ok
Shauna Thank you! Cause I was restarting the app multiple times! lol
🗣"If you got a man, father, brother, nephew, cousin, uncle.. keep him in prayer!" 🙏🏽✅
Im gonna pray for my little brother ❤
they need to start praying too. Like the men in the Bible did.
We living in last days, the Bible has told us how it would be regarding relationships. I saw with my own eyes my ex HUSBAND (who loved God so much) struggle and walk away from God because he didn't wanna give up porn. Shoot I threw the computer in the dumpster and was praying over him but the thing is an individual has to surrender for themselves. Choose what master u serve. I'm so grateful daily I got out without going crazy so trust me. If you don't have a man who FEARS GOD JUST SIT DOWN AND STAY SINGLE.
You are telling the truth. I guess that’s why some men can careless with a woman’s heart.
Tiae Love I feel like it’s not about the differences that we have as men and women it’s about the simple principle of being good human beings to one another, you know treating others with the same level of respect and care you’d have for yourself and I don’t know if this subject is really as complicated as it really is. If being faithful is hard to people than there’s something off in the relationship. I’ve heard from happy healthy marriages that when you’re in the right relationship it’s easy and effortless but maybe I’m reading too much into it.
Agreed...must be a renewed man in Christ 👍👍 God sees everything we do and we are accountable to him
True
kimmi w right he is coming
Tellin the truth!!! Family members can be the most treacherous!! I've experienced some things no child should have ever experienced by people I should have trusted. Everything your saying reasonates!!
Ramona Sawyer girl I had an encounter when I was young . It’s so sad
this right here ! and this is why the "family first" or " but that's your family" motto goes right above my head.
Very good advice ESPECIALLY when dating and ESPECIALLY if you’ve been abused-leaving your children 👶 with guys. I’ve seen so many scenarios of abused women’s children getting abused also. Thanks for saying...
“For from within, out of the heart of man, come evil thoughts, sexual immorality, theft, murder, adultery, coveting, wickedness, deceit, sensuality, envy, slander, pride, foolishness. All these evil things come from within, and they defile a person."”
Mark 7:21-23
Listening to this just explained and made so clear why I'm single. And honestly after hearing this, I think I'm okay with it. I have no desire to deal with this sort of carnal thinking. So, until I can wrap my head around this and God sends him my way AND I can clearly recognize that he's the one... I'm chillin.
I guess that's why some women are gay now. Faithful men are hard to find. My mama always said " You can be with a man for 37 years and you still won't really know that man."
My dad said exact same thing unless he is renewed by Christ it's a wrap
”When You Know The Nature Of A Thing, You Know What It’s Capable Of”
I appreciate this video so much. You speak truth and it's raw. No sugar coating it straight to the point.
Seems like I attract men with mommy issues smh I'm tired and they go through life faking and damaging other women. I'm tired of thinking my love will heal or change a man when all the while I'm being drained, spiritually, mentally, emotionally then they turn the table on me and say I'm the crazy one. As my grandma use to say in her voice " I cant win for losing"
This video hurt me deep in soul 😢
I’m 22 watching these videos in hopes in building my knowledge for future relationships.
This video scares me because of the truth. Also grateful for your word always!!!! God bless you!
Thank you so much for being honest. I really appreciate your transparency, I wouldn't ever compare myself to men because God made me a woman. When I shared 1 of your video to a male.. He got very angry and told me look at yourself before you judge me. I wasn't judging him. I was just sharing , But when I sent the same video to my female friend she was so thankful. I won't ever argue with someone that's helpful thank you for speak the truth and let's not mention all for free. Be blessed
This my 3rd time watching in less than a day!! Trying to make sure I learn this so I never go down the wrong road again
Tony God bless you! This definitely puts some things in perspective on my father's cheating on my mom. My mom never left him even after a side baby. He never attempted to renew his mind in Christ so he never stopped cheating. He's 60 something yrs old and still cheating. I've learned so much from your videos so Thank You. 🙏🏽
So true about Kids especially these parents who like to go on Vacation or Out for the night and let Family take care of the kids it's always those Family members Male and Female who always Eager to keep the Kids they are the ones Touching these Innocent Kids just Sad.
Tony this was real and i totally understand what you saying! This was RAW and uncut! Most women want be able to digest this! This was not a surface talk it went skin DEEP. My moma always tell me to keep my child away from a man. She was hesitant even with our own dad. They might make you take this down! Glad i got to see this!
There aren't enough men out there that have surrendered to God to go around. This message is true but it has diminished my hope of finding a good man. "Paper thin walls in hotels" You're so funny! 🤣
The more I listen the more I learn the more I become afraid to even try and trust another man. I did the right things when my kids were younger after my divorce. I didn't date or entertain men. Now that my kids are grown I realize it's rough out here. I won't lie...its discouraging. 😔
I read where a man stop dating a woman whom he loved and adored because he felt he couldn't trust himself around her young daughter. Thing is .. when he met the woman, she checked all the boxes for all he wants in a woman. It was all good until he met her daughter.
What I’m learning is that us women we know these things. When we are in relationships we go through a lot! Our emotions clouds our judgement. You are confirming and affirming what we experience every day. You are being 100! So many men LIE and manipulate us we don’t know what to believe anymore. Thanks! Let God continue to use you to spread this light!!!
This is so true!!!!! Amen. This is why I'm letting God and the holy spirit lead me to the right man.... Through ignorance we fall. As a mother we need to be more vigilant in who we bring around our babies. It's so sad that women can't understand this. We need to love ourselves and our families more than our own needs.
I so agree. We need to help each other and build more communities. It's difficult for a single mother with a single income to manage it all. Single mothers should house a share and build together. The stress and burden is to much on their own.
You can say that again sis 🙏
I think there's less social pressure for men to be faithful and they are expected not to be.
Tony you are the best relationship coach there is. You are so real. You are the only one. I'm 53 and I appreciate your messages. I never left my kids with anyone. Keeping it real is what men and women need.
Tony Psalm 34:19 is still relevant. Those that are called to the masses to minister to the heart are often under attack. Your transparency is an anointing and gift from the Most High God. You and the Mrs continue to stay girded and prayed up. Be blessed.
We praying that you remain strong and faithful too. 🙏🙏🙏 because the advice you share is life changing.
Tony u better preach!! My parents always taught me to not let my kids stay over friends house nor family. My daughter 2 and until she can form clear sentences she cannot go over family house. Most men tolerance is not high to stay in the house & take care of crying kids. Best to take care of your own & dont be so quick to rush into dating & having the first smiling man around your children. Get you a God fearing man! A man will always be a man.
Be Blessed
Thanks for sharing the truth,for giving women all over the "real deal". You're changing lives,and it's appreciated!!!
Linda White yes
The Most High was definitely speaking through you on this video!!! We needed to hear this. Thank you for shining your light. 🙏🏾
This video was real man oh man
"his looks might not be in style" HAHAHAHAHA there's levels to this beauty thing lol
Tony,
This video was Awesome! You have done many and I learn something from them all. But this one was Special. I am praying for you and your family. Brother keep on letting GOD use you. 🙏
Appreciate this video! You really couldn’t say these things on broadcast TV because it’s the truth that will set us free and those leading the media are happy to keep us in bondage! Thank you for this word. It was painfully true
I appreciate your honesty so much.
Everytime I watch your videos, I get glued in seeing the entire video because the words you speak are so real. Some men aren't brave enough to admit anything is wrong, and act like they aren't wrong for laying up with 100s of women and having a strip club addiction. Tony Gatskins is the Best life coach that I've Witnessed 💯❤
“Do you hear me” 😂 loud and clear Tony
👏👏👏👏👏 Big Brother, yet again speak on it! It ain't nothing like telling the truth like it is and being transparent which a lot of men are not. So be blessed and I thank you.💚💚💚💚
Welp. Makes me wanna just stay single to be real. I appreciate the honesty in this....dern. I’m halfway through this video. You kept shit all the way 100 😯🤦🏽♀️
Dis tew much 😳
We ain’t ready for all this honesty Tony 😂
Thank you Tony for being straight with no chaser required. I am so happy for you and your wife. May you and the family continue to be blessed.
Best rawest video ever! Be blessed! God continue to bless him and strengthen. We appreciate you!
Listen Tony, you be so point about everything! And I use to think my standards were too high and that I turned men off. But thank you for clarification of what grown boys and men are. Stay Woke, ten toes downs. Much respect Brother. I preach to my friends all the tine, never leave yo baby with your man
Big no no
I visit my kids recesses separately. My daughters 5, sons 8. The girls all go off and be quiet when they’re upset, the boys start swinging and yelling.🙌🏽 we are different
Thank you you made it easier to not feel like I want a man. And I'm saying that as a good thing because I worry about being alone now I know I'm not missing out on anything special.
Tony, thank you. Everyday you teach us something new, and life changing knowledge.
May the lord continue to keep you strong because I'm sure its not easy thanks for the info very helpful!
"Let me help you understand this now! " 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾