Why you should end situationships?
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A situationship is a total waste of time, effort, and energy if you're seeking something real. It will drain you, have you overthinking, & clueless.
Amen
Yes Sis..we be playing ourself to be in stupid stuck..🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
True story
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So true
3 months in, saw the red flags, and texted him today and told him, I can no longer be in it... I'm so proud of myself!!
How is it going ?
👍
Can’t wait to be there👏🏽👏🏽🫶🏽❗️
Sooo good!!!!
Yu go girl yu deserve better
YOU DONT LOOSE A GOOD MAN, You LOOSE A MAN THATS NOT GOOD FOR YOU 💕
This is good! Thanks for sharing ❤
Lose*
I’ll never do a situation ship again. It ends in toxicity, bitterness, disappointment, and/ or pain. Never again.
We always build him up for the next woman BUT let him tear US down for the next man. 💅🏽
True, that's why I stopped the build up
Wow!
Shaking my head... brutal
Whispering Acts yup this happen to me and oh this girl thought she was the “prize” but he also put her through hell also and told her she was a waste of time and called her a ho but I tried to warn her but she didn’t wanna listen, she thought she was better than me 🙄 she would try to make things up about me and wanted to fight me over a grown boy that was still trying to talk to me🙄🤦🏽♀️ they didn’t last and their relationship got so bad she had to move 5 hours away from him that’s how bad it was
Whispering Acts Girl he ain’t changed. He’s still the same just with a different woman.
Three most important points in this video:
1. Get you some self esteem and stop chasing after a piece of a man.
2. When a man leaves you. Put your track shoes on and run as fast as you can and don’t let him tell you twice.
3. Toxic relationships leave you with a stench that the next person my not be able to stomach. Get rid of it! Glow up and move on with your life. .
Amen Tony! You said that..
Amen
Juss Jess yes good points!
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Number 3 whew !!! I need to get this stench off quick!
Amen!!!
“No more raggedy relationships. If you were meant to be together you would be, because real love stays together... no breaking up and getting back together”
That’s called toxicity or in other words unequally yolk
That's the truth....time to wakeup
Tony preached that. I found myself in a situationship, I ask him what was he looking for & he said friendship and we'll see where it goes. In my head, I said you not going to keep me in the friendship zone, for the next 5, 10, 15 years while you are trying to figure it out. So I blocked him. Fast forward 3 months later, after my brother passed he shows up on the scene again with the same foolery but the difference was this time I told him that I wanted to be married, & I don't have time for your shenanigans. Now he wants me to come over hang out by the fire pit & drink some wine. I told him I have my own fire pit and my own wine, I don't need you. Every now and again he will text good morning or have something to say, boy gone with yourself, I'm over it. ✌️
Men like that only want to waste your time. You told him exactly what you wanted and it’s obvious he doesn’t want to deliver. More power to you sis!! 💗
✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾Boy bye.
Good for you, sis!
Grown boy that’s what he is
Wow sounds like my situation people are something you did the right thing to walk away
Ended my 2 year situationship almost 3 months ago. Tomorrow will be 90 days no contact. He reached out to me once asking if he could apologize, it was on voicemail and I did not respond. I'm very proud of myself. Although I love him, I know he isn't ready to give me what I desire and I'm not about to wait around or stick around to see if he ever will. I just can't do that to myself. So thanks Tony for confirming my decision and encouraging me to keep moving forward because it's not easy.
Thank you. I just think of why I left and knowing he hasn't changed keeps me moving forward. I have some tough moments, but I keep my focus on my future. You can do it too.
Kee H it’s definitely not easy! I’m sort of in the same situation. Mine has been gone for 6mo and he’s now coming back around and he sounds like he is in a different headspace. But honestly I’m just going to watch his actions and make him work for my attention! No more old me and just giving in
@@PrettiRissa that's exactly what I'd do! Maybe he has changed, but he needs to prove it over a period of time and you should feel like he deserves another chance. If you really love him, I hope it works out for you two, but always put yourself first!
Sunshine ☀️ definitely! Thank you ❤️
Way to go Queen..keep moving forward unapologetically and relentlessly!!!!
I found myself settling for situationships and I was miserable. Because I knew I deserved better so I leveled up.
Hell yea from the corner of disparate 2 the hilltop of the G code no build a bum here go find a Becky my backbone strong
Be BLESSED
As you should!
I can’t wait to end mine
Be blessed
*There are NO BENEFITS TO BEING FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS🗣
Not for women
The only person that benefits is the man
I enjoy mine. Probably because I’m not seeking a relationship with him. He fills a need. I will drop him like a bad habit if I meet someone worthy of a relationship which he is not. Good for sex though. I don’t expect a man to be what he’s not. Looking to make those type of men more is what got me hurt. I treat him and all men in accordance with our relationship. No love without reciprocation.
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@@indicajane4721 No offense but why would a real man respect a woman who entertains situationships? He will be looking at you like you are weak and have low self esteem.
"Waiting on him to come tell you a lie" Jesus!! That's the whole truth
Facts 💯
i am a man and he is stating the truth
Thank you for your honesty
Thank you
Thank you
Thanks for the honesty!😊
Thank you also
when a man tells you he doesnt want a relationship/marriage/children etc. it means he doesnt want a relationship/marriage/children etc. WITH YOU. when he says he doesnt want a elationship/marriage/children etc. that is your cue to walk away immediately because he just told you that YOU are not good enough and you are just a place holder until he decides to get married to somebody else.
So what about him telling you that he wants you to have his babies and to be his wife but still cheats like hell, and still engages to you??
@@carlenemorgan8755 It doesn't really matter what he's saying if he's treating you like crap.
I need to read this every morning till i move on
That is @Carlene Morgan, that is my dilemma now. He says he wants me to be his wife n the mother of his kids, yet he’s ghosting n coming back like nothing happened, and asking me to give him time...
@@wendyworgu1368 block and travel💃
I was in a situationship for 3 years without knowing it. I saw the red flags but i ignored it hoping we be a relationship. I realized he only used me as a placeholder cause i found out hes been in a relationship with another woman recently and when i confronted him, he still lied and then ghosted me... It hurts so much. I feel so alone. 😔
I'm really sorry to hear that,you're not alone 🙏 I understand how that feels but I've ghosted other guys so what goes around comes around, in my situation. I'm sorry to hear that happened to you but I hope and pray that you are able to fill yourself with care and love so you can be happy and attract the person you truly deserve :) ❤❤
I just broke off a situationship of 4 years. (Thanks to your videos!)
It was bittersweet because a part of me felt sad and the other part of me felt proud for finally standing up for myself. Thanks for addressing not becoming depressed over the grown boy. You’re right, I’m not about to just let myself deteriorate. God made us warriors! Thanks man, you have no idea how encouraging/motivating these videos are. As a Christian, videos like this almost feel like sermons
How’s that’s coming for you?
4 years???!
@@Amethyst93xo sad right!
@@celinayoung952it’s ok, you learned something from it’😊
I feel as though women already know they shouldn’t be in these situationships but they ask the questions anyway, because they want someone else to validate what they already feel or know. But the truth is no matter how many times you tell them, a woman will only leave once she’s officially tired and exhausted. Period.
Agreed
I approve this message. 😔
J Love Women don’t know! That’s really why they as...
J Love FACTS all facts
And most times they still stay even after they ask. Hopefully it will stick and be the last time for someone. Let’s not lose Hope
“If it was REAL, it would not have ended” thank you, that made it clear
R B 🤣🤣🤣right ! Truth
This whole situationship thing is all about Ego forreal You dont really like them . Its the illusion of Lust and the hurt Ego trying to pick itself up. Once you have him you will be desinterested trust me. Its just not meant to be ... TG is on point! Be blessed 💯
I say this all the time. Do I really like him or am i trying to repAir my ego after falling for someone who doesn't want me! If i had him i know i would be super disinterested. My ego is getting the best of me
This is very true. Human nature has us chasing them because we want what we think we can't have.
This is truth right here.
Be blessed
Not true! Maybe sometimes but we really do walk in love and find out later it was the jungle , gotta heal
I just ended one today. I am damn determined to never take him back, not like I ever had him in the first place. No more contact, EVER
Being let go is a blessing in disguise. Be blessed.
Amen
Be blessed
Oshun Yemaya Sometimes the Blessings are in the Breakup
Oshun it is even when it hurts. But in the end it will be worth it. God will heal your brokenness.
Way in disguise! Takes faith and time. Find your way through. Thank you, Oshun.
You can't loose someone you never had.
But you can lose yourself...be careful
Preach! 🙌
@@cherh Please speak on it. No lies spoken!
Daya Tom facts
Cher H 💯💯
God got a whole man.for us. Sisters!!
Amen!🙌🏽
Amen! 💜💜💜
Indeed! Not half, not 1/3, but a whole man!
Amen!💗
This is so so true what you just said..thank you so much...I
Im late on this one. I wanted to add that in most cases the man is already working on his next relationship before he ends the relationship with the one he is currently with. This is why the one hes with is posting pictures as if he's been with her for a while. Because he has been with her for a while. Now, that's the kicker!
Oh so he’s a cheater then?😭😭
“You hurting bc you played yourself”!!! That was it for me!👏🏾
Me too😐
I agree !!
Samee
Same
How u doing Jody
Boy I got all this for FREE????
PRICELESS!!!!!!
Mafuhillmaryhill
Yes yes yes!!
Join the bless tribe Tony is blessing us!
"REAL LOVE NEVER ENDS!" Priceless ❤️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Currently leaving mine.. Or should i say i left.. 😔.. U can never ever move forward from a situationship. Your stuck.. Just both of you having company, sex, making memories. U ask yourself am i in a relationship.?
Nope the other person don't want the relationship. They only want a part of u and not all of you.
That shit really hurts 😔
Strength to you Sis ... You'll get through it 🌹🧚♂️
You got this! Don’t relapse it gets worse when you relapse.
Wow that was so well said. Yes it can be incredibly painful for your love to not be wanted, nor your personality, really so many men only seem to want a womans body. Its very sad, and it can be incredibly difficult to find the man who will work for more, or want for more. It is a shame to be overlooked
“Unless you’re willing to become a better man, you’re not going to find a better woman”. Word.
LinzToMySoul Say that Sis!! ❤️
That's the point they don't want a better woman because that means they have to do better which is not hard at all.
Love it!
When that man let you go! Let him go.
Could you tell me what that green icon is behind your name?
@@christalintentions I believe it represents being a member of the blessed Tribe.
Okay...so true
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Tiffany Wilcox AAAA-FREAKIN-MEN!!! 👏🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
Facts, Tony! Just because someone is married or in a relationship with someone does not mean that is the person they are supposed to be with. Most people settle or get locked in a marriage that wasn't supposed to be.
That’s so true I know so many ppl in marriages that they know they shouldn’t be in but want that companionship and a scared to be lonely
nah youre wrong lady ....marriage means being with your soulmate unless the person is a gold digger/ seeking free wifey husband life
You will be the reason I become a wife to a wonderful husband! This video brought me to tears! I love you for doing Gods work and taking out of your time to do these teachings. THANK YOU! God bless you and your beautiful wife plus kids! ❤️🙏🏽
I feel the same way...he is helping me be so strong right now .I'm blessed for his platform
I would MUCH rather accept that another woman has him than to hold on to him and never receive my blessing. I've seen the promised land!!! Nothing else will do. I don't feel like that at all. I sincerely thank you Tony. Be blessed.
Be Blessed.
Him leaving for good was the best thing he could have done for me
Yes mam he her issue I'm feeling myself in my beyonce voice
True
Hope he stays gone and you stay strong.
Terrasse Berry, I am glad you are listening!
Terrasse Berry totally agree with you girl!! GOOD RIDDANCE FOOL!! More power to you girly!! Muah❣️‼️❣️😚👸🏻👑💁🏻♀️💋💖💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻
I had to force myself to watch this entire video. I knew all of this, but hearing this from someone else, and a man at that makes it real and hard to ignore. I always make excuses for men (that they never ask for) and essentially gaslight myself. Thank you Tony. I usually do not listen to videos of speaking on relationships, especially men (because many times they say things to manipulate women). But you are spot on, and your words are clearly from God and from an honest place and from a place of experience. Thank you again. Best wishes to all who are leaving situationships.
Nothing but the truth right here!!
I purposely watched his video bc I wanted a man perspective. But what if it's your son's father you're in a situationship with?? It's really hard to disconnect bc we have this child that keeps us connected and bounded😔
You're here, helping us break generational curses and you don't even know it. Thank you 😌
I dont want to be the " pick of the litter" tried to keep me stuck for a whole year , he,s history now , thanks to Tony , we have to end these situationships ladies..
C Thomas yes!!!!!!
Me 2...and better to be late than never🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤❤❤❤❤
I agree!
The most important keywords in the video is "HE UNDERSTANDS." So many women continue arguing, lecturing & nagging men to death, assuming there's no way these men are aware of the damage they're causing. Ladies THEY know. They just don't care. Their love for meeting their own selfish needs outweighs any respect or love they may have for you. These men aren't powerless, clueless beings that are unaware of the damage they're causing. THEY KNOW. Accepting that hurts so bad, but it'll set you free a lot quicker. Why? B/c when you think a man is doing something b/c he doesn't know any better, it's in a woman's natural nature to spend the time to break it all down & go to great lengths to make a man understand. Problem is, 99% of the time, you're just preaching to the choir. These men are fully aware of what they're doing & to a degree, can we blame them? For every fuckboy, there's always a low self-esteem having chick who's chasing him, wants him or refuses to let him go. Those men have no reason to evolve or change b/c there's always gonna be a "you" around that enables them to continue being fuckboys with no real long term or life-altering consequences. And yes staying with a fuckboy is not only enabling him, it's REWARDING him for bad behavior. Just remember ladies, when a man betrays or disrespects you, it's not b/c they're not aware of what they're doing. Oh they know. It's just that our pride & egos struggle to admit that the man knew of the possible consequences & yet took the risk of losing us anyway. OUCH! That kinda raw truth hurts but it's necessary if you wanna take the blinders off, see a man/situation for what it truly is and heal. You can't heal unless your heart, pride & ego is ready to hear, acknowledge & accept some raw but ugly truths. Ladies, THEY KNOW!
hard to hear, but oh so right you are!
Bruised ego😏but you’re so right ‼️
Amen! This is so true. The truth can be devastatingly painful, but it doesn't change that it is truth.
They wont change, especially as they love what they do and are enabled to continue to do so..
And, honestly, I admit that I had a difficult time understanding that they MEAN it. I thought they did not know! But they do.... And when mine told his son to not do the things he does because they are WRONG (while claiming he no longer acts that way, but most certainly does) that struck me. He knows what he does is wrong - he just does not care. Ouch.
Time to move on....
Have this video on repeat to either encourage or to remind yourself of why you needed to walk away ! Thank you Tony 🙏🏾
I encountered my first situationship in 2018 and I've only gone backwards in life since. Watched a lot of life coaches such as yourself to learn from your experience as I have such little. I was able to set boundaries and a deadline which he did not meet and was disconnected from my life and not in the goal of attention but because he is literally the biggest crater on my path I've ever met. Took two years of work on myself to fix the Damage Done by a manipulator for 6 months cuz I had no idea what I was actually going through.
It’s really weird as it seems to hurt more than being in an actual relationship. Very confusing. I hope you heal and go from strength the to strength.
Proud of you queen! 💕☺️
How did you go about setting the boundaries
U need to have a whole man or a whole woman or have nothing at all. Powerful message
keish Palmer ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
Exactly
“There is no benefits to being friends with benefits” I felt that ! 😔
Gotta run that.
@@laurenpegues8372 felt it too
Some women play thenselves and the man get to have the best of two worlds
Excellent advice, Tony. You're speaking TRUTH! Ladies, respect yourselves - Stop letting men play you and waste your life!! You deserve a good man who loves and treats you like a Queen. You also must treat him as the King in your life.
Thanks for this long video ... I love it. I am so glad I walked away because he never would have. All the gray areas, lies and inconsistencies got out of hand. A lot of times men don't leave good women they will stick around and still do everything else outside the relationship that they want. You have to walk away. When they really get out here they'll figure it out just don't allow them to come back. Focus on yourself Life is too short.
PLEASE DON’T SHORTEN YOUR VIDEOS! Your messages are too powerful and meaningful to cut down or chop up.
My situationship ended me recently but i knew it was already time to go with the lack of communication and understanding. No more holding on to potential if isnt already there.
There's a difference between a relationship and situationship. If a guy says that he don't want you, BELIEVE HIM! It's better than being with someone who doesn't value you fully. 💯 let him do what he wanna do and his personal boy "trauma" .
"When you're in a situationship, you're stagnant" preach 👏
“There are no benefits to friends with benefits...there is a benefit to friendship” 💯🎊
I'm learning this now.... Thank you for saying this!
dating is so messed up these days
I swear It’s like a domino effect with dating
Very!!!!!!! Women have to put their feet down, get these fools together
Always messed up..let's reminist 🤔
@@missball404 I think it should be "women need to put their feet down and get these fools out of our lives!!
@@ed000 agreed!!!!👏
A man that I was interested in told me he wasn't ready to have a girlfriend and settle down but still wanted to do boyfriend things with me (no cookies were given). After he told me that I never took him seriously and dated and got engaged to someone else.
just ended it with my fwb and did a quick lil youtube search to see if i could find a divine message. i skipped past every video except this one. thank you so much for the guidance. i feel immensely better
Tony I think you win the award of the funniest relationship coach there is. You win hands down🤣🤣🤣
Yeah I think he could've. been a great comedian
great comedians tell the truth
Girl his too much 😂😂😂...this wisdom is equally so great. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
agreed
🤣🤣🤣when he was saying "breaking news" I was cracking up! 😂
So glad you said it...especially when he does the voices 🤣
This Message Here...
Some women don’t believe they deserve better! How can you pray to God and NOT trust HIS design for your life?
Lisa Ross Right?!!🤨🤔
Right
Amen 🙏
Lisa Ross TRUE
Preach sis ❤
One year later and one of the BEST advice around!!! PERIOD!!!
I was in a very dark place with a narcissist christian situationship were I wanted to kill myself. Really drain you & is not worthy. Learning to heal & love myself 💖
I was there 3yrs ago. Im still healing. I pray for your continued healing as it is a PROCESS.
@@musicmaker1311 same
Let me say this! Situationships is something I can’t do. I hate dating and I’m not about to give myself to someone who can’t commit. It’s so confusing... yuck.
Agreed but for me we were in a relationship, I figured out year one after moving in w him for 4 months he wasn’t my husband. From there spent the next 3 years in a relationship/situationship ... I always said never! But it’s happened... I learned a lot... one. Trust myself cause although he improved over the years... he just need TOOOOOO MUCH HELP! 🤣
Just got out of one what a train wreck that was
Im with you.. Dating is Crazy!!
@@angeleyes3386 but what if it's your bd that you in a situation in with? He's a good supportive man to his child but he gives me the bare minimum it's so confusing 😕
Tony had me laughing out loud.When people walk away from you let them walk.Your destiny is not tied to anyone that left.Mans rejection is God's protection.God bless you and your family.
That is a verse by TD Jacks.
Me too! Good stuff right there
Amen
Latoya Gentles TD Jakes is right.
He said Jesus told Mary “women no ye NOT” 😂😂 when he said that 😂
Honestly, I really like these long videos. They have so much detail that i need to hear. I don't mean to compare, but other relationship coaches gloss over these details and just end up having the same generic information everyone has. This goes deeper and peels off layers of things that were pure mystery to me. Thank you very much.
Thanks for this 👏🏾 I needed this today. The red flags we choose to ignore at the beginning are the reasons it ends. I’m guilty
Amen to the title alone! End them indeed... It doesn't lead to anything worth having.
Shumeka Rodgers 💯👏🏽👍🏽
Be blessed!
Haaaaa! My ex Left me ! Glory be to God! Got married ! A year later she left him! I spent 2 years angry at him and God! And the whole time he was miserable! Never worry about what he’s doing ! Cut off everything connected to him and move on immediately! God was gracious enough to let me find out about it , just for learning and teaching purposes .Just to testify to what Tony is teaching us!
This was really encouraging, that's amazing. I hope your marriage continues to thrive, and bring you the happiness that you deserve. Something similar happened to me recently, my ex left me (didn't give me a reason why) but he did it over text on the day that we were supposed to go on a trip together.
Man, I needed to read this right now. He refused to commit to me, and I agree...I played myself because my self esteem never recovered from past traumas...I thought I deserved garbage. Honestly, I still do, because I can't seem to believe I'm awesome. I know his new toy will see it..too late...and by then, he will be warming up the next victim.
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@@skyandrews2613 I’m not married, but I receive that for when it does actually happen! But I see this was 5 months ago ! I hope your healed sweetheart!
@@user-vp8oz1pj9c and this is where the work begins boo! Asking God how come I move like I move? Then he shows you by revealing your past all the way back to childhood, from there you gain clarity , pray for strength, and healing in that area, then little by little you start to value yourself Because you start to see how much God does! 2 months late ! But I hope all is well🥰
This has been my whole dating life for a long time. ....I just decided to let go because I finally reAlized it would never go anywhere. Now I’m a single parent when I could have left the situation a long time ago.....i feel like you have been watching my life story the past 15 years lol....
Yes I ride the same boat with you. Am a single mom with a special needs son he is 27 am learning to LOVE MYSELF
Be blessed!
It hurts more to play yourself. Isn't that true. But Im thankful to be finding my own peace moving forward myself.
“REAL LOVE IS MUTUAL” ~T.G.
“THERE ARE NO BENEFITS TO BEING FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS” ~T.G.
All Factssssss, the end is even more real!!! I love hour videos!!! BE BLESSED. 👑 💯👍🏽👂🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
" You better laid and played! Listen to me naw! " 😂😂TG voice. He is not lying!
I just died laughing 😂 when he started speaking in tongues
“Seek first to understand, then be understood” ~Stephen Covey!! I am impressed with you, Tony 😊
When Tony spoke in tongues begging for the man to come back.. I almost fell out. 😩😩 because he know he telling the truth! I have done exactly what he is describing. Amen Tony
😭😂 God knows he's telling the truth!
🤣 He is too funny!
Nothing but the truth 🤣🤣
Yup! 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️😩😩😂😂
Juss Jess lol sammmmme!
Hurt me with the truth don't comfort me with a lie... i love it keep it coming & be blessed
Hurt me with the truth don’t comfort me with a lie”...should be on a shirt!
God knows you are speaking directly to me 🙌🏼 I need to leave this situationship like yesterday 💔. I needed this video
This is EXACTLY what I just went through. I can't even begin to say how on point this video was, God has definitely used your video to tell me what I needed to here to put the pedal the medal. Thank you!!!!
Tony don’t let anyone tell you the videos are too long. I needed to hear this, and it came right on time! I listen to your videos everyday going and coming to work. Thank you and Be blessed
YezzzzZzzZz Mr Tony Weeeeee needed to Hear this!!! We Thank You for Your OBEDIENCE AMEN BLESSINGS
@Jazzy Blaque Same here!
Amen i need that whole hour. Everything your saying is real and i know for myself deep down inside i knew better than to make some of the choices i made concerning men but i didn't know i deserved better growing up without a father or postive male role model affected my outlook on men and not in a good way. Thank you for caring about the heart of all of Gods daughters. You are a blessing TG.
Jazzy Blaque ditto🥇🥇🥇
Jazzy Blaque I love the long videos! His comedic lines are hilarious
“When you said rewind that” , I promise I rewinded 5 times!!
Tatiana Cabrera Me too!!!!
Me 3.
😂😂😂😂
Tatiana Cabrera yes ma’am! This is my 2nd time listening to the entire message. He is giving us wisdom straight from heaven
@@ericabostwick4033 Mine too.
Girl me too! Omg this message today! Got me going
I ended my 7 year situation-ship... worst heartbreaks from this man but I learnt my worth and I left! I feel so much happier working on the 3 B’s!! Thank you so much tony you taught me so much
I don't go past a couple of months, if he doesn't put effort into getting to know me, or knows what he wants from me, then he is history. Just let him go, it hurts but it will pass. The right man will move mountains to be with me, because I am an awesome strong beautiful woman. Was married to a narcissist for way too long but collected all my powers to leave despite all my fears.
I have learned to walk tall, walk away and value my feelings.
"Dont let that lace front and glue be showin, get yoself right and let him go". I know that's right Tony.
@@bamarealist Yes, he is so real.😂😂😂
Lace front!!!!!
That glue is killer my kid plays in it she a teenager 👎
Tony you cut-up with this message. I'm at the 24min mark. Tony God spirit is on you so continue to make your videos how long you want it to be.
😂😂😂😂 he did, I bursted out laughing. He stay cracking me up. I enjoy the long videos im Learning its over for these clowns.
Yes, please! We all the knowledge!
Thank you for the free lessons. I wish I had heard about you years ago. It would have saved me some precious time. Be blessed!
One of the most powerful videos on youtube to remove shackles and scales in the eyes of both men and women. So convicting and literally breaks shackles and loosed me and confirmed the path I am on to have healthy relationships devoid of promiscuity and dysfunction. Pee rriii yaad! When women allow situationships we weave ratchetness into the societal fabric of the human race. As women we call the shots to tolerate good / bad patterns.
“You need to have a whole man or whole woman or nothing at all.” You heard!
This is a reminder to many women to not get bored with life and start re-connecting with grown boys that was once a thorn in their side!
Be blessed!
KT Robi wow! That’s a good way to put it! Out of boredom we will entertain old situations 😩😩😭🤦🏽♀️
Thank you.
My last relationship broke me.
I only had courage to block this person today.after over9 months of no contact. I never loved this way before.
I kept my self for 16 years only to think I found love.
I need prsyer intersetion to heal and live again.
Thank you Tony.
So true. Ended my situation of two years with a married man that couldn't love ,thought he could control. Finally woke up seeing a pattern that just benefits him.
I normally don’t comment but I haven’t heard a word like this in a long time. God woke me up this early out of my sleep because I was questioning why I’m in this situation. How did I get here? It’s all so clear now.
Thank you 🙏🏾 ♥️ I need to turn this man over to Jesus! So I can receive the man God has for me. Quit playing with these grown boys ladies in 2020. We don’t have time for it.
Amen ...I agree..God is good..great video.
Glenda Gadlin yep it shouldn’t be so hard. I feel like if it’s meant it will flow! I had an old flame come back around. And it’s weighing on me that I’m even talking to him. I do feel like people can change bc I have changed too since we last talked. But atp I’m just watching his actions!
Neil Butcher please have a lil tact. How about. Save yourself for your husband. God is well pleased with you honoring him first, and will give you the desires of your Heart.psalm 37:4
Amen
Let that piece of a man go so God can send you a whole man ...you blessed me right there ..Tony you on 🔥🔥🔥🔥
I refuse to repair a man for another woman 😐
This was by far the BEST eye opening video. He spoke directly to my soul and my current situation. God gives us what we need to hear and see at the right time. Thank you Tony for such open and honest conversation.
😂😂😂😩 I wish I found all this 7 years ago but it’s never too late to hit that 78mph
#BlessedTribe
What she☝🏾 said! At least the next Generation have the tools.
I wished I'd known this 20+years ago...u lucky you got it at 7...be strong sis....💜
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@@lerhondajones-bates3324 me too. 20 years ago I would have bypassed the fools and be married to the best man for me right now.
AMEN, I just went through that whole ordeal, but I pray that God gives me the strength to not look back. Please pray for me. Thank you
May God give you strength not to look back..in Jesus Name
Sending love and light to you willing that you keep that door shut tight. You would regret reopening that door more then keeping it closed. Peace Sis
You're doing amazing...keep going
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Its ok, it will get better. Time heals wounds especially this type that wasnt meant for you. God will give you peace and when Mr Right comes youll say "what did I see back there?" Oh no sorry, you'll be so much in love with what God has for you that you won't even remember these days. Better days are coming. Trust God.
Talk as long as the spirit leads you we listen 💚
Excellent subject matter. Not only in a Love relationship, but in every ‘ship’ you have. 2020 although it’s been incredibly challenging , it has served to be a year of discovery, purge and reset.
He’s not my man = I’m not meant to be his woman, I’m meant to be someone else’s wife.
Sometimes you have to let a person go, so they can GROW 💫
His analogies are truly funny, but 200% truth!
I admire your wisdom and appreciate you being realistic and authentic in your messages. Thank you and God bless you.
He lives down the street and I found another route to work, the store etc. had to learn all the back roads to avoid passing by that house! 😂 No looking back
Amen 🙏 sis
What happened if you don’t mind me asking ?
@@THATGIRL0121 I wanna know too
Lol same we work together SMH
😂😂😂😂😂😂 I had to move from the location so we don’t cross paths. It’s so important.
See this happening at my work place. No relationship only situationship. Women need to love themselves more. Raise their expectations and stick to it.
The situationship is the death of society ☝🏽🙏🏽
That “rest stop” analogy is everything. Be Blessed