What to look for in a man?
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- Опубликовано: 15 фев 2020
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"When you work on you, you attract your match."
A word!!🙌
He cracked me up when he said: “Jesus is the only man that is perfect and he’s not available for you to date” 😂😂😂
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jesus def aint available
This comment is sending meeeee😭😭😭
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I had to stop the video when he said that haha I can't with Tony!
One major thing I got from this message is this: Let your eyes be your questions and let your ears give you the answers.
Lonnica Darden yes! That is exactly right!
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That’s good!
Well said!
Lonnica Darden yup.
Tony's mocking women voice... Priceless‼️😂
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Too funny. It never gets old LOL
I 👏🏾 LIVE 👏🏾😂
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I thought I the only one he has me rolling with the voice.
"Every man you meet is going to have something about them you're not going to like, but is it a deal breaker?!"🤔 🙌🏽💯
The pre-planned questions tho 😂😂😂😂
A Relationship with Jesus Christ alone, is very important. God will keep his child out of bad situations
Non negotiable
Amen
Black women love god but can't seem to stop having kids out of wedlock
@@nikkyshamz2696 so true i agree
Yes Amen so true
I have 4 grown daughters. Ages 30, 27, 24 and 24 twins. I have been forwarding your videos to them for awhile now and they have tremendously benefited from your wisdom and so have I. I just wish I had this teaching years ago prior to marriage and divorce. You’re a blessing to me and my family sir. Thank you!!
Awww.... bless you Sis! 4 daughters close in age. I pray that they're close & take care of one another. ❤ I'm sorry, I'm kinda mushy at times but I'm an only child & just thought about how cool it would've been to have 3 more of me. 🤣🤣🤣
ThoroughbredDiva it’s not fun it’s a bunch of headache fighting over toys and clothes lol ugh 😩 but at least you have some to talk to besides your mom and dad
@@selenajackson1745 awww lol well hopefully kids grow out of that as they get older.
Good mommy ♥️♥️
Faith really is everything because it’s the basis for someone’s morals, values, character, and integrity. If he can’t pray, he can’t stay. 😉
I don't think you understand how much we appreciate your videos. I'm so mad at myself. I waited 8 years before getting Involved after coming out of a painful relationship. Now I'm right back at point A. Please pray for me. Thanku. Be blessed.
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What did you do while you were “waiting” you didn’t do the work you just waited
8 years here!
8 years is a longggg time
@Cee Thank you so much. God bless you too. 💕
I’ve been derailed multiple times in my life.
Wasn’t listening to God at all. Got caught up in the lust of the flesh. My God. Help us Jesus.
Yesssssssaaaaa
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God won’t send you a project ladies!!!!!!!
OK!!!😙😊
That’s a word !
Amen!!! A projrect will be prepared for someone else!!! Pray Pray Pray!! So you can make logical not a emotional decision!!!
TONY: “You have to understand that you will never in your life, Never in your life, NEVER IN YOUR LIFE meet a perfect man...in Manhood, Husband-hood, Fatherhood, Adulthood, In NOBODY HOOD are you going to meet a perfect man.”
ME: Got it!! Now back to Tony’s words of wisdom. Be Blessed!!
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Drea yes
It’s the nobodyhood that got me🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
“The adversary will send you a distraction that looks like destiny”🔥
Facts...❤❤
True!!🤭
@elle Jaye, I believe the knows what you like better than you.
Who’s still looking for a Man💁🏽. Be happy w self
I am🙋 I will be 3 years single in March!!! I'm ready for my Boaz now!!!!💞💓👰👰
5 years deep..
@@reedbeans3653 What do u mean about 5 yrs deep??
Nothing wrong with desiring a mate! I am ❤️
It’s perfectly normal to desire a man. Doesn’t mean you’re unhappy because you want a man. You just want to be at peace so you’re not desperate for one.
"Unto the Lord, we gon' get this candy in the name of the Lord" 😂😂
Be Blessed
What is wrong with people telling you how to do your job/calling/ministry??? Sometimes I think those educational degrees and
'years of experience' make people arrogant. Thank God he checks the heart and not the 'titles' people hide behind. Lord help us. Thank God for your patience Tony. Be blessed.
Marsha G. Yes.
What I noticed is many people, don’t listen or hear God/The Creator or anyone else who speaks out of love. They screen what they accept of what is said.
Why do people get mad with the Truth and if you do not agree, you do Not have 2 . The Truth is the Truth no matter day, age, male or female! Come up. SMH
Yes, over 3 years ago I met a physically beautiful man, I saw him and the lust of my flesh screamed Oh my look at this Greek God, the most beautiful green eyes, height , build, exciting, he pretended to be so kind! God gave me a word of knowledge and I asked him about it, guy tells me the truth, I ignored it, I asked him if he was a christian he said nope! I ignored that too! That man was literally and with no hyperbole Evil! We were together almost 3 years I was blessed to escape with my sanity and life!! I learned my lesson!
He was a liar, a thief, compulsive gambler...... but he was fine🙄
@@missy3505 I stayed 37 years
Another good practical teaching. As a criminal justice major I have been guilty of interrogating a man just like we was on the first 48 or the game show 21 questions 😂😂 but thank God for the Holy Spirit checking me 🙏🏽
You should know in the first 3 minutes or less if a guy is worth a second date or not.
Tony crack me up when he switches up voices and start talking about the religious sector and changes his personality 🥰😆😅😂💯‼️❤️🎯
Gurrrrrrrl😃
It is hilarious 😂 😂
"In nobody hood are you going to meet a perfect man" 🤣🤣🤣 Thank you for the information , I just laugh so hard everytime
I think one thing women have to admit is that we hate wasting time so if we meet a guy that checks all the boxes we start wondering if he the one and than again sometimes we miss all the tale tale signs that the man we are entertaining is not a good man because we trying to get ojt the dating market . I would say take your time ladies. He's on his way
I would love to meet other people from the Blessed Tribe. Tony, you built a community. 🙌🏽
Hi. Angelique! I'm Tonya from St. Petersburg, Fl
me too!
I would also
Hi Angelique I was thinking that as well.
@@allaboutdasha1261 Hi Rondasha!
7 day adventure😂😂😂😂...i love the humour that you add to the conversation it makes the truth easier to take...be blessed
Yasssss😂😂😂
Right lol
30:25 ooooohhh (smacks lips)...well Tony this is what I'm sick & tired of...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Tony is a part time Comedian when he isn't doing Life Coaching!
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😂😂😂😂💀 i love him.. He's my big brother and don't even know it
Thank you for capturing the minute so I can replay and replay. Hilarious!
47:54. “How am I going to be God and send you a man that don’t believe in Me the way you believe in Me?”
🤦🏿♀️...... Tony definitely tells it like it is. 😭😭😭😂😂😂
Be blessed, my deal breakers which I will never again compromise on are drugs, alcohol, cursing, smoking, spirituality, which all tie into character and INTEGRITY. I cannot be with any man that has questionable character and integrity point blank period! Men that are shaky in character and integrity are broke men in my eyes and a man that is solid in those things has real wealth in my eyes.
I told a guy on the first phone convoy " I notice you use alot of colorful language!" Lol
Loooooool I’m laughing so hard cause lately I’ve been
doing the “what would Tony Gaskin say” 😂😂😂😂😂😩
Omg..me too!
“Intermittent fast and starve”😂. That’s me right now, trying to work on the last of my three B’s!
PrettyTaurus me toooooo 😂😂😂
Good luck stay strong and pray you got this God bless you
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That one made me burst out laughing 😂😂😂 On top of that I have been intermittent fasting for almost a week now.
You ask all of the first 48 questions, he nails you to the bed and keeps it moving! Discernment is the key! Not looking for perfection. Tony G is a wise “man”!
I clicked with the quickness 🙌😂
Nikki Britt me too 😄
Yep Lol
Haha same, I clicked off the TV and clicked on this video immediately.
Same!!!!!!!! 😂
Since I've been listening and learning about men I learned to be patient. Why because I've come to an understanding not all men grew up good or if they have they have not learned how to deal and love a woman properly. I also pray to prepare myself for my husband. I pray for knowledge, wisdom and understanding in learning and dealing with men. All that comes together.
Bible says, Train a child the way they should go and when they get older they will not depart from it. I turned out just fine.
Provs 22 ; 6 jehovah is good all the time!
In nobody hood ladies 😂😂. We are listening Tony!!
And Jesus ain't available to date😂😂😂😂
RealTalkWithKizzyRock 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lmbo to myself I was like “nobody’s hood ?? “ dam 😂😂😅
Lol right!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 this man has me cracking up
“God is not a man with a oxygen mask and special nose in outer space” lol 🤣🤣🤣 I lost it! Completely lost it 😂😂😂
Tony might be funny but that anointing is on him for real. Because he ain't never said anything that wasn't the truth. Thank you brother!
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Am I the only one who says "Tony gaskins here" with him at every start of the video? 😂
your mother's favorite. I just wanted to “pop in” 😂😂😂
Oh “Ay this Tony Gaskins”
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@@kenishalperkins 🤪🤪
Kenisha Perkins not your mothers favorite chillleee I’m on the floor! 😭😭
WALK BY FAITH AND NOT BY SIGHT 👋👍👌🙌🤗🙏💒👏 AMEN HALLELUJAH 👋👏💒🙏🤗🙌👌👍 PRAISE HIM
Amen
Wait I can't 😂😂😂when you pulled put the interrogation list!!! I hollered🤣🤣🤣 with the first 48 checklist. I don't know if you're trying to be funny but its hilarious to me!
Lmbo
Tony, you’re my relationship coach that counsels me for free via your videos and books. Thank you for your faithful service!
I’m Seventh Day Adventist and some of us are strict and some live differently
we celebrate holidays in my church and for me the goal is to have a strong relationship with my Heavenly Father through Jesus while listening to The Holy Spirit that lives within me.
Chew the meat, spit out the bones. Be blessed!
Thank you for these videos! I’m 26 and never really had anyone teach me how to date or even what to look for while dating or marriage. In my mind your like Uncle Tony to me.
Thank you so much! I really appreciate your time and advice. I don't care if your videos are 30 minutes or more than 60 minutes. Your content is amazing. I'm working on my 3Bs simultaneously. Best part of video for me: The adversary will send you a distraction that looks like destiny. God Bless you and your family. Keep doing what you're doing!😊❤🙏🏾👍🏾
I'm Seventh Day Adventist and I'm thankful to God to be one! Be blessed! ☺
I needed to hear this. In my professional life right now I'm facing this destiny vs distraction. And that last part was my life last year. I am now a single mom
My brother I appreciate you so much. The truth means everything and all of us single women need to be waiting on a man like you. Your wife is a very blessed woman.
Love how thorough you are and give lots of examples, métaphores, stories to help your listeners understand the point.
“Overstand” - Love it.
Be blessed 🙏
47:58 🤯 that hit me!
Thank you, Tony! I’m dealing with a guy like that now and I told him we wouldn’t work because we don’t have the same fundamental values and he totally ignores everything I say and tells me I’m only worried about myself and not what he wants! 😕 He’s def suffering with narcissism.
I hope you're no longer seeing this man! He's already DISRESPECTING YOU by IGNORING YOU!
Once again another video that literally spoke VOLUMES. The Father is using you Tony. Can’t say thank you enough. 🙏🏽👍🏽💯🤗
Commenting and watching, but the most important thing is to know what your deal breakers are and determine if he'll be a good fit for your life. I agree interrogation is never 🙅a good way to collect this information.
We have so many dealbreakers and I have been guilty of this. We missed out on a good person due to this. Tony I remember you said ‘Become Love 💕 and you will attract it.’ Be Blessed
I met a great guy but like Tony said I kept looking back and he kept it moving forward on my behind 😆 lesson learned
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🤣🤣🤣🤣. You're too funny pls do more of those women accents
I'm mixed with maturity, education, two kids, and some hood ways. I can honestly say I don't know it all about men but I'm willing to learn. It will only benefit me in the future because what I have done so far obviously haven't worked if im watching this video.
The devil analogy..so true. Clear as crystal.
Heyyyy "Nephew Tony". Thank for always being straight....no chaser. Be Blessed
Had to pause video, he said nail you to that bed🤣🤣🤣,ok back to the video...
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 that sound more like an interview than a date. First 48 date 😂😂😂😂
Ruth Desrosiers 😂😂😂
I ain’t ever heard some of these words Tony say - “argiing” 🤣Great info!
Tra Stephens
If I could spell the way he says “out”, I would. 🤣. He is awesome!
Tra Stephens I love when he says now you wanna “arg” 😂😂
Tra Stephens bol 🤣
"Bike" for Back❤
Oh my goodness! It’s the best Sunday ever with Tony poppin’ in!!!
This is so freeing!!! So many of us put all these rules in place instead of just doing what we believe is the right way to approach relationships. Thank you Tony for making this so simple and easy to understand!
"De DEVIL was Nice" omg!!!
Be Blessed. Take your time. I'm here for all of it. Preach.
Nothing but the truth being shared. Thank you Tony, be blessed.
Be blessed Tony! This is so practical and real! Thank you so much for doing this
Be blessed! No longer will I block my blessings! Thanks for the video 🙏🏾📝
Every time he says “Stay off yo’ back!” I die laughing 😂I would wear that shirt.
The spirit just left me 😭 we appreciate it this spoke to me as usual I’ve been binge watching all weekend and you are a blessing as I heal. Thank u 🙏🏾
Preach Bishop! I felt this message! Keep doing Gods work! We need it!
Be blessed! Absolutely love the long videos! So much wisdom! Thanks Tony 🙏
Mature and don’t understand nothing about a man! Now that’s a word! Thank you Tony G!💗💗💗💗💗💗
Be Blessed! I made this far but I always make it to the end. Thank you Tony.
This video took me 3 days to digest! There is so much TRUTH in EVERY word. Thank you for this💜
"BE BLESSED!" SPOKEN TRUTHS ...THANK YOU, TONY GASKINS! point...blank...period
Be blessed ... Another on time sunday word.
Thanks good stuff.
Stay focused Steph.
He's on the way.
Yeah, talking to me.
So grateful for growth.
4 minutes in, and I hit the like button! The truth is the truth & he was speaking it!
Tuned in. Bless you Tony!
Brother Tony u been on fire since yesterday. Grateful that the Lord is using you. Be blessed 🙏❣️
You're right Tony I know I blocked my blessings. I need to work on ME. I have so many thoughts and distractions😫. Date with destiny -> Boy that's deep🤔
This is definitely your calling.
Be BLESSED 🥰 GOD is REAL
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Yes Tony preach to me. This video got me shouting I'm in tears because your words were on point. Thank you
Yes sir Tony Gaskins this was church today with this message. God bless you abundantly.
At work, listening to these teachings! God bless you, Tony and your lovely wife! Bless her for allowing you to be honest with us!👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾✝️🙏🏾
I come here just for your humor!! Love it!!
The truths hurts you were speaking to me. My ex husband was a atheist and I am a Christian now I’m a single mother. I’ve learned my lesson I’ve been single and abstinent for the past 6 years. Can’t get a decent date in church or out of church if I’m not willing to have sex.
I’m not a Christian and I believe when we remove sex from the equation it removes clouded judgement. As a society we place too much significance on a practice that involves vulnerability and trust by offering this sacred moment to be made casual.
There is nothing casual about SEX. EVER!!!
jackseve Agreed
LaLa Amen
Be Blessed Thank For The Sunday Blessings My Heart Needed It😊😇
Lawddd! This message came right on time! Thank you Jesus! Be blessed!
I'm ready for this.
Alright Tony G! Tell it like it is. Be Blessed 🙌🏾
Mr. Gaskins, the more and more I listen to you the more plainer it becomes...simplicity is the 🔑 to unity!
Be blessed!!! 🙌🏽 I was cracking up for this entire video! Seriously. You uplifted my spirit and my hope! Thank you tony!!!
Be blessed! I appreciate the thoroughness of the videos! Thanks Tony!
I guess this video is for singles w/no children. I’m single with children but I’m still listening.
Tony, Tony, Tony! You broke this thing down today brother and I love it!💯!! I thank God for you and for this message!! Keep on allowing God to use you and being a blessing to His people! God bless you and you be blessed!!
Tony another phenomenal video , one thing I no for sure these mature women better start taking notes about these mature men, because they run game even better than the younger guys because they've had more practice. You are so on point the tip is not sharp enough. Keep preaching my brother, I'm 55 and listening on the edge of my seat. I will get married again and because of you I will do it right this time. Thank you, you and your family are a blessing. S
Be blessed.. Amen. It’s harder to wait for the right man when you’re a woman in her mid 30’s & wants to have a child. ❤️❤️❤️
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Don't project the standards of the world on yourself.Let go and let God.Surrender all to Him.with Him time is nothing.
Be blessed. Your wisdom has enlightened me tremendously in all of your videos. Many thanks Tony.
Be Blessed Tony and Your Beautiful Family!!! Your videos are the best gift! Don't listen to people who said your videos were too long or whatever. You're amazing!
Tony this was a great message...the real deal! Be blessed!
Whew child the adversaries
Thank God for you and your knowledge it's always great to receive confirmation that I've prayed for, Coach TG your always educational and inspiring I'm thankful with your courses and videos assist in helping my heart is staying in task and I appreciate your support definitely a proud member!
Be blessed tribe family 🙏🏾
Thank you Mr Gaskin for the word you share. God bless you more🙏
Powerful message... I've wondered for a long time where i went wrong and you just answered yet another question for me. I'm listening to the audio book "A Woman's Influence" and I've told every female that i care about, to get the book. I love your wife's humility and transparency in this book, none of us have it all figured out but she knew she wanted better for her life and she clung to her beliefs God worked it out for y'all! You guys are truly sent from above! Thanks again!