7 Types of People You Need To Completely Avoid
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- Опубликовано: 9 июл 2024
- Are you surrounded by a toxic environment? Daniel Ally shares 7 kinds of people you need to avoid:
1. Gossipers
2. Jealous Haters
3. Time-Wasters
4. Money Grabbers
5. Over-Sensitive
6. Excuse-Makers
7. Miseducated
*These are basically people that you'll come across many times in your life, but don't spend too much time with them!!
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Being alone is far better than surrounded by the fake people
Fake people are the worst. U think some one on your side.then the $$$ runs out so will them.wife or girlfriend all of them the same.bitches..
Roland Edwards then your picker is off I stayed w my man when he had nothing too had had everything til he had nothing now he passed on and at end I did it all right and gave him what he gave me the best thing there is
Unconditional love
Nagendra N The reality is try as we may in avoiding these toxic people the best we could, sometimes we just cannot avoid them n have to bear with their presence
Nagendra N Amen😇😇
One hundred percent
Choosing your friends carefully is very wise!
Better to have no or few friends than lots of bad ones.
😃✍️
There’s a big difference between being alone and being lonely
Hi,yes I agree with this comment one hundred percent!
Yes, o true,lonely is despicable and you're not willing to care or Love life or anyone
tell me the difference
@@davidrleak2888
You must be lonely.
@@davidrleak2888 That sounds more antisocial than loney, plz check the meaning. Also of "despicable" .
I am more happy when I am alone! This is when I have freedom and complete independence!
Michalis Michaelides I love it too...people looking where am I...and said I had change...but they DON'T know am running away from them....
silence is my fave music...ever since...and they DON'T know that.
Hahaha thats true
I love it too
It seems my best time is when I'm alone.
SAME!
Better walk alone than with crowd in a wrong direction
You are so right!!!
Right on, so true.
What you said, I just love it.One of the best comments👋👍
Youre super big thumps up❤👍
Exactly
Avoid people who kick you when you are down and at your most vulnerable.
Tina Dooley agreed
Tina,
Amen!
Yes, exactly be vigilant
Zubi Zahmad a Akbar I can imagine.
The key is to not show your emotions especially when you are down because that is when people try to take advantage.
I chose my friends carefully.
hey man you are putting a lot of weght?
You chose your friends and I choose.
Me too, *Daniel.* Me too...I don't need any drama in my life, especially from toxic, dysfunctional people.
@@thegreath.sapiensapien6907:
Aaaaaaaaaaand...? 😶😶😶
Well good on U
Because it's the only way you'll know if they R worth it
Ya know
Welcome to the world and U R SOO Smart and intelligent
And AMAZING don't ever forget that U R here for a reason
I believe that people who deem what you're talking about as unimportant, then "shut you down" are rude, and definitely the type of person to avoid.
That's totally true... Gossip destroy human relations and sometime destroy the workplace too..
Slander is horrible way to annoy others✔️🇯🇲😩
My own list of people to avoid:
1. Self-entitled
2. Petty
3. Indecisive
4. Self-centred
5. Lacking sense of propriety.
damn i am a self-entitled person, i thought this is ok
Im indecisive.
That list is on point
6: Lacking in empathy
Entitlement in people causes me to disrespect them and yeah stay away!
The older I get the more I realise that I cannot relate to the vacuous , vain , selfish , manipulative masses .
I dont anymore!
I hear a lot of silence 😂😂😂
True
Absolutely right . I avoid them as much as possible. They are shallow and emotionally exhausting.
my mother always said you don't need a forest of friends you just need one or two home you can trust and be happy with that
There’s a difference between being over sensitive and what you described! Some people just have big heart in this world
Yeah, get broken a lot because people take advantage of you...
I’m overly sensitive but also an empath... I tend to dwell on a lot of things and be analytical bc I just want to do it right the next time.
The worst "oversensitive" types are the ones that use their "sensitivity" and fake offense to harm others.
@@ganymeade5151 That's called a dark empath
I can be oversensitive as well but been learning to manage it better, I think what he means is that oversensitive people such as myself can tend to make more problems for ourselves then are necessary. If it's not affecting your overall well being it's most likely not that big a deal and sometimes u just gotta learn to handle stuff that upset you without allow your emotions to run wild.
# 7. You made a very good point with the use of the term: "Frienemies!" It is very important to know who your REAL friends are. A real friend always wants what's best for you. They will stand by you, and support you in your dreams and goals. A real friend does not criticize you harshly if you don't deserve it. A real friend knows your faults, but they like you anyway! If someone turns out to be detrimental to your happiness, you need to avoid that person. A "Frenemy" is not a real friend. Distance yourself from them.
So true. Thank you.
GothamCitySWAT
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@Ollie'sMummy14 Good point. If you are feeling stress without reason, you are usually dealing with evil.
I appreciate the information. But in reality its hard to just recognize people in a short period of time. Let alone avoiding them .I think learning to deal with them is more practical than trying to avoid them. After all , you have to meet them no matter what if you ever leave your house.
Exactly my friend🙏🥰
He is advising that you choose to avoid letting these types of people become a permanent fixture in your life. Not staying at home in hiding and choosing to avoid interacting with people or dealing with them all together. There IS a bug difference and not one in the same AT ALL.
Understanding people around you is important for your success. You can be nice to them without hampering your success.
Everyone isn’t on your level and you have to break ties with them
Imagine 911,breaking would be easiar✈️
I believe a jealous hater does not like you or want to help you. They want to be you.
This is an amazing analogy.
You are so right on with this statement. This has been my philosophy for so long. Jealousy to me is actually an illness,, to the point of insanity., It is a must to stay away from them... High 5,, to your comment.
@@joeygagliardi7380 Thank you for your comment
... They are not ready to see what is new.
Haters hate your existence because your existence represents inadequacies within themselves.
Daniel, you just described all the people that hang with me... It hit me deep in my soul. I just realized I am surrounded by nasty people. Thank you so much for this wonderful video/info/eye-opener. I will start getting rid of them tomorrow... It will be swift and precise. I am tired of been surrounded by haters... It is amazing how I was so distraught about them today and I was thinking about getting new friends...and BOOM, your video right on my face. Thank you, and God Bless...
2017: Avoid negative peoples
2020: Avoid positive peoples
COVID-19 🤔
Omg thats funny and not funny at the same time
After the outbreak: avoid people
2022 avoided negative people
2023:Avoid all peoples (everyone is in some of 7 categories)
I usually ask a gossip "why are you telling me this?"
"what are you hoping to achieve by telling me this? "
Disarmed
Yep me too and it works for a little while and then it happens all over again-in my mind I'm like really ugh
P hone right
Perfect! Stirring up strife where there is no strife , is what they do, if you look close you'll see rat like features kinda like bob dylan
good reply. my wife is a gossiper, as many filipinas are. but i love her dearly.
Just say "I know nothing about it." That works too.
You will always meet people with these types of traits they are around you everyday you just keep them at arms length
choose your friends or who you want to associates wisely.
Bad company corrupts good character. 1 Cor. 15:33
So true. Birds of a feather flock together. You can become who you associate with.
Amen. That's the word. ❤❤❤
Positive affirmations to have a great day
Everyday can be a great day. It is a matter of deciding and choosing it. Positive and good energies surround us daily.
I've done this in past 10yrs... pretty much all lonely now, but God am I much happier in life now 🙂
Ms Curious yes lonely as well and happy
"Avoid," does not necessarily mean "ostracize!" Don't just get carried away with them. Know when to apply the brakes. The bottom line is spend less time with them.
Here's the list in advance.. To save you a little time
1) Gossip
2) Jealous Haters
3) Time Wasters
4) Money Grabbers
5) Over-Sensitive
6) Excuse Makers
7) Mis-educated
YOU'RE WELCOMED !!!
😂😂😂 so tru tho
Thank you for saving me some time. 😃
Its already up there lols
Thanks
And Psychos
LOVED "Critics make you do it BETTER, Haters make you do it FASTER!" ❤️❤️👏👏🔥🔥
Mr. Ally, God sent YOU my way. I needed you so much right now. I AM DEALING WITH SOME TOXIC PEOPLE AND I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS FROM YOU RIGHT NOW. THANK YOU. GOD BLESS YOU MY FRIEND!!!! D
The more reason why i keep to myself, Hater's every where.....
Agreed
Hi
How are you.00989399903997
I'm happy n u Hossein
ill do stuff in the apt
Know what your boundaries are and these people will avoid you.
Loretta Erysthee yup!
Loretta Erysthee actualy damm straight well said!
@Loretta Erysthee, my boundaries are very simple. As soon as someone makes me feel uncomfortable, the line has been crossed.
I like your way; it's better. Thank you!
Some will harass you anyway. They are the most evil. Then you will have to find a new family, friends, and job.
That's why I have very few friends..thanks Mr. Ally ❤
So your telling me to avoid all my family members 😭🤨🤣
Yes! My god you made me laugh at that, I'm starting to cry laughing in a good way after I don't know what? The humorous aspect of being free and happy maybe! But beware, others will try to take their place you are a marked person now. But not seriously I'm going to remember your comment and burst out laughing the next time they try to manipulate me. Thanks.
I told you what?
Love your family always. But just be carefull how u spend your time. You only have so much of it. Thats all i can say.
IF YOU WERE LISTENING....He said, an important thing to realize is that you understand the people around you. That's the message here. Learn to take good advice and apply it to YOUR life. You don't have to avoid family in any case here.
Lol..SAME HERE! Even worse is that I watched a video titled, “5 Warnings That You Are Dealing With An Evil Person.” I started plugging people in my life into each question, starting with myself (always examine self as NOT to be a Narcissist. We all fall short, sin, make mistakes. I certainly do!). Ones that fit: Sister/only sibling for sure, her husband, Mom AND MY OWN biological daughter! Read the following Bible verses! Go EASY ON YOURSELF. I have been blaming myself, hating myself, etc. for being rebellious against my Dad who died a couple years ago. And today I see these verses of Scripture! GOD HAS FORGIVEN ME AND HE FORGIVES YOU TOO! Jesus says to love our enemies. As one of 3 children, only two of us are left and blocked from each other’s phones lol. My Mom is in a nursing home and can’t be visited or called, and my 2 adult children could care less about me. I have no family. Someone said they don’t mind being alone, because Jesus is the only friend they need! WITHOUT A DOUBT, HE LOVES YOU DEARLY! GOD BLESS YOU NANA!!
Matthew 10:36
King James Bible
For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.
And a man's foes shall be they of his own household.
He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.
Now you understand why the only friend I have is Jesus Christ. I tell him all my problems, cry on his shoulder, pray to him and I am quite confident that he told NO one my business.
Wow Bro I love you
Hilarious how you put it in words.... but so spot on! the more I know people the more I love Jesus and animals.
OMG...ME2...I TALK TO HIM&HIM ONLY...AMEN,AMEN&AMEN
I agree, I spend most of my time at the feet of Jesus, deal with all kinds, but help them right, and if gossips don't listen, I distance myself to use my own time with Jesus, if they can't use spiritual time with me
Josephine Kelechi for sure dear is the only frnd
Looks like we need to avoid about 98% of the general population.
MimiZ914,
If you can find that 2%, you're doing great.
That's why animals run into the forest when they see (or smell) people.
Animals and children I don't know, love to come up to me. (LOL)! Am I an animal?
MimiZ914 lol 😂 true!
Wasky Henry 👍🏼🤣
God loves all people, regardless of their flaws,
Yes, but He also hates gossip and lies
True, but I am not God, therefore I don’t have to.
Also avoiding people with baggage, or ones that are full of daily drama.
God, save me from your followers...
Yep God loves all people but he hates ugly behavior. That’s exactly what he’s talking about here he’s not talking about people he’s talking about their behavior.
No he doesn't!!! The Bible says that he hates all workers of iniquity and the wicked and the one who loves violence his soul hates!!!
You just described most of my family which I don't bother with.I learned the hard way to avoid these people. I am careful who is around me. I spend most of my time alone. I was raised an only child. I was always my best friend. As I got I saw that I could do more alone then have people around. I can deal with people when I have to. I trust very few people. There are not many people who are really worth it. They are far and few between. I could tell many stories about the people you described. I learned to pick myself up in the past when things went wrong. When I depended on others it got worse so I learned to depend on myself. The world is full of those people like you said. I don't need them in my life anymore. There is no place for fake people.
Sometimes when a person has done something hurtful to you, it's good to vent about your feelings to someone. Especially if the one who is hurting you won't listen to anything you have to say. If that is gossip then everyone does it. I couldn't imagine being upset or hurt by someone and not being able to talk about it. That to me is more detrimental to your health. You can't hold emotions inside all the time. It will cause stress, high blood pressure, depression and anxiety. If you are able to talk to someone about this person, they may be able to offer you advice or help you through a hard time.
He is talking about someone who constantly complaining about people. They are always in a situation were they feel someone has done something to them.
Perfectly said. I don't think it is gossip if someone had abused you for no reason and you tell your friend.
That’s not what he is talking about. He is stating that if you talk about others when it has nothing to do with you and their life has nothing to do with yours
Gossips are fabrications of scenarios or creating stories which are not true to that certain person you'd talked about. Facts are the true scenarios, experiences in life that happened in your real life. If you're telling your true problem to a friend this is the " FACTS" not gossips. Open up your problem to a friend this is ok this is not a gossip. Take care..
LIVING ALONE IS ... "LIVING FREE" !!!
EXACTLY
John Mills
7 reasons combined in 1
--> ME
Living alone has its pros but its not without a price after a certain period of time so much as making a single phone call would be difficult due to the lack of social skills leaving the person open and awkward
@@edwardmeisse4361 you can be alone and still live great adventures.
@@enigma7784 if one chooses to be alone doesn't mean to forget evolving, reading education yourself, keeping active. A self made issue is when the average person stops challenging him/her self and becomes physically & mentally lazy; setting aside the unfortunate individuals with disease, physical and or mental handicap.
I love being introvert .. thats the only way to avoid these people..
I value your comment.
WELL YOUNG MAN! NO ONE IS PERFECT!😞WE ALL FIT IN 1 OF THESE CATEGORIES😖
c320 Jordan I try not to be one of those people.☑️
We all say that. but actually be 1 of those types.. Stop acting like your so perfect
I used to be 3 of that types, now I'm 0, I really wanted to change,anyone can if they try, I was raised in a negative family I decided to be different
This why I like being Alone😥
Do you realize that 467 other people posted the exact same sentence as you. Now reflect on why they did so?
True!
Don't be.. 💪💪💪💪
Me too.
isn't gonna work. because sometimes we need reality experience to move on.
I have very few friends and feel at peace. I've had to cut off family because they dont have my best interest. When I look back it was the best decision I ever made. Life is waaaaay better without them😀😀😀😀😀
Yep. Sometimes you have to. Better in the long run..
I'm with you on this one, my home life with my partner and family is amazing but when I go to work its hell on earth with all the above. If I had a work alone job life would be perfect x
@@shenaparry7765 People can be very crazy. Don't let their negativity get to you. Keep being the wonderful person you are!!!!
@@Lovely_Diva Thank you x
@@shenaparry7765 You're welcome😃😃
Whoever walks with the WISE becomes WISE, but the companion of FOOLS will SUFFER harm. Proverbs 13:20
I agree 😂
This is 100% correct! Thank you for pointing this out. Funny that I have walked away from people that present this kind of behavior!!!
I would like to include:
8 Controlling
9 Abusive
Interesting that this video came up after my conversation with someone two days ago.
Better to be alone than with those types.
This is why I like being alone
Peggy Bagley Please don't let other people's decisions dictate your decision to be with someone or not. Being lonely sucks.
Dont be alone....at some point you need someone to look after you
Preach
Facts
Judgment Proof Thats not bad but mingling should always be limited to a very few, chosen individuals, individually and that too only till the time you see some selfish pleasure in them. And 911 and Cops have ART(Average Response Time) of around 10 minutes and that too depends on the location. So always carry your own gun, Glock, AR-15 or Bazooka, whatever and everywhere, even in the toilet and at bed.
Yes! Miseducated - educated by society’s terms but do not have wisdom or understanding. Thank you for making that point and this video!
My neighbour is miseducated teacher, he is trying to grab a piece of my garden by planting a metal post next to my garag wall then cemented the space. He is a friend of my Fraud Criminally minded Fake Pinoy husband whose family poisoned me in 2018 due to my complaint to Brgy about 3 illegal Settlers in my land. This fake husband was a Convicted murderer And named his nephew after me with fake birth certificate! The whole family are corrupt. I hope they all be taken to hell!
So many educated bores and crazies out there. They are really very smart but have no common sense, wisdom, and awareness about people. They make bad family members, friends, and coworkers.
Excellent Video. I have learned through lifetime wisdom, (64 years) that there many individuals who are blatantly stupid, yet also very opinionated. I prefer to be alone and totally avoid these individuals.
Cocky and arrogant people are often very stupid.
Yes Lord!!!
It's sure quite some learning experience being with all kinds of people. Older I get I'm way more selective. Love my alone time.....
cherish it actually! It's freedom and independence to me.
God bless all of you!
Somewhat surprised to see "over sensitive" in this list. The people in my life who are hyper sensitive (often stemming from various traumas in their lives) are some of the most empathetic and thoughtful people I know. The opposite I.e people who are so narcissistic and self concerned to care about how their words and actions could harm others are who I'd want to avoid at all costs.
Narcissists are the worst. You serve their purpose. When you don't, they are gone. They will do as much damage as they can.
I have to agree with this point. I am overly sensitive to my surroundings because of my C-PTSD. If i thought people were advised to avoid me because of ill treatments that were beyond my control in childhood and the behaviours that stem from them in my adult life, then that doesnt feel good to hear. I am working very hard on myself at present to help me overcome my fears and lack of confidence.
Should we have to reveal our traumas to everyone we come in contact with in the hope that others will understand why we are so misunderstood ?? 🤷🏼♀️
Narcissistic individuals are often overly sensitive. They are always assuming people are trying to come for them and will attack you for any little things. You generally have to walk on eggshells around them. Because they tend to be passive-aggressive and tend to think that EVERYONE is like them.
This is why I cut out everybody and don’t have any more friends. Just a few people that I love can get my time. Besides that I’m not giving any energy to people that don’t deserve it. And you shouldn’t either.
only a handful is healthy , a certain few , you are right
You got that right because those kind of people drain you of your positive energy your self-worth and how good you might feel about yourself and the majority of them have narcissistic qualities if not being a narcissist or sociopath so being around everybody and don't judge and all that's not always true it's not about judging and about keeping yourself safe and your sanity safe
True something sadly you have to do that
I deleted all from my life 8 August 2000, when I painfully found out all of them were liars, backstabbers, hypocrites, and users. They were all friends of my then girlfriend. She insisted I befriend all her friends. Then I found out my girlfriend was a fake and my friends she insisted in me having were false. I have had nobody in my life since 8 August 2000. It is lonely but it is so worth the huge benefits I get from having nobody in my life. Loneliness is a mild emotion that anybody can handle. A fake mate and false friends can stimulate emotions that can cripple you. I will never let that happen to me again, even if it means no more friends nor a mate.
I dont blame you one bit. I had no friends for 4 years. Now I made a few new friends.
We should also pray for these people. Bless them that curse you, pray for those who use you and spite you.
Spoken like a true narssisist, get over yourself!
Just left a comment below you about you with neesh, you 2 should get together it would be like world's colliding but no one can hear or see you. That would make me very happy if no one did.
Well said!💕
How do you know you've been cursed?
When you seek God and build a relationship with Jesus, He will remove these people automatically from your life 🙏🏽
Wrong...Wrong... Wrong! Let me explain. God will remove some but not all! Now let's be real, if your saying what I think your saying. Yes, God will remove some people from your life...but some he leaves in your life for a purpose. Paul and Silas were cast into prison simply for preaching JESUS...and I'll be willing to bet the Apostle Paul wanted to be removed from that predicament, or situation! Paul and Silas went right back into the same Temple and began preaching about JESUS again. Now, you tell me...why didn't God remove some of these JEWISH-RELIGIOUS-LEADERS from them? You tell me...So you see, what you said is not always the case! 🤔
Its soooooo! True God did that for me...Thank you Jesus!!!😇😇😇😇🤗🤗
Yes I believe that God uses some people to make you stronger or to help you build up your fair and patience with people. But I thank God that he took away people that just was using me for their own benefit acting as victims when in reality I was the victim.
Yes ma'am 👏
Amen. Glory to God.
I’m understanding this for improvement on myself and knowing what gossiping is never judge anybody people can change we all have greatness.
In other words, AVOID MOST PEOPLE. Show love to them all though.
Thats right
Well said .
People with little or no value attach to others with value like a vampire and suck your resources (time and energy and money). Minimize contact and avoid.
yes avoid all people and suck upto millionaires and powerful people hoping to get some bread crumbs thrown at you :) which is called as success ;-)
ReneJCeternity
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When you are being abused or bullied and you try to defend or speak up for yourself, people will think you are a gossip, jealous, trying to hurt someone else, envious, a troublemaker, over sensitive, easily upset, a liar. This is why bullies thrive. There's no way you can defend yourself without looking bad.
Brenda B. Very true! However keep speaking up and being assertive and ignore these people! They have a mission you have nothing to do with!
Totally true, and when you try to express and assert yourself, they do not want to hear.
I'm going to find a way and I'm at the point where I really don't care now others judge me because there opinion is nothing to me unless they have walked my life path then they can judge, but it doesnt mean they are right or wrong only you know your soul and story people who judge need to take the time they spend on judging others and better themselves life is a journey of lessons and experiences that we hopefully learn from and keep learning there is no room for what others think .......About YOUR LIFE!
I totally agree! After years of being bullied, when I've had enough and finally fight back, I'm labeled the bad guy.
@sneksnekitsasnek What do you mean?
To me having a friend is the best thing but its only the best if you choose your friend wisely
Very informative and eye-opening. Oversensitive, money-grabbers and time wasters !!!
Better alone then fake people
MIA Nor AMOR
Don’t be alone, invite people you like, meet up for a coffee somewhere with them.
You will make a pleasant circle of friends.
Don’t be on yourself too much.
being alone what you are going yo achieve...find people for you my dear
Amen!
@@shakilasyed7003 MIA Nor Amor is right. Why guess if someone is good or bad. Simply delete all that are negative in your life and never replace them. If you turn out to not have anybody in your life after you delete every negative person in your life, you are still better off with nobody in your life than hypocrites, liars, back stabbers, users, and hateful people. Nobody needs anybody in their lives anymore. Those days are long since past. The 21st people are not capable of true friendship. Why even bother to try to make friends anymore when overwhelmingly you will accomplish fake friends.
Exactly
And dont forget definetly avoid people who tell you what kind of people to avoid. Avoid these people at all costs.
I AGREE COMPLETELY!!!
GOD BLESS YOU🌺🙏
I love these videos; they're filled with some undeniably, life-changing content. I needed to watch this.
Instead of avoiding someone I feel it’s better to be straight forward and tell them what you need and how it has to be.Love everyone and leave the rest to god ❤️🥰😘
In other words, being alone is all I need, attachment leads to suffering...
Doug B 💯💯💯💯💯
Doug B exactly !! For me being an Aquarius is quite simple as we love our alone time & Aquarius aren't attached. I love unconditional but know reality from illussion & even family members will fool you if you allow it.
Virgin for life
Avoiding "attachment" is cowardice.
ruclips.net/video/JKlSVNxLB-A/видео.html
Even monks lived with other monks...although many used local orphans for sex/work slaves. So there's that.
Moral: don't let others tell you what SHOULD make you happy.
Remember all those clerics who made parishioners feel guilty about "sinning" while covering for priests who molested kids?
Doug B I fill you ,But no one's a island,You know.
I agree! Thanks for the time You took to make this video.
Bad company destroys good manners.
This assessment is very astute, but I find even the most troubling people often teach me humility and patience far more than simply being goal oriented and focused on self-interest. That is to say, I do not want to avoid people for fear of contamination or hindrance because those things only happen if I allow them regardless of who is or isn't around (this principle illustrates faith). I will not necessarily go out of my way to keep company with problematic people, but PLEASE show me a person who isn't in some way deficient, and if my interactions with troubled people can help them, then I'm quite positive the collateral benefit will far outweigh my own immediate gain. Also, these rules are more suited for corporate environments than the streets where most people start out. For instance, it behooves one to pay attention to gossip in order to know who might possibly be gunning for you in the off chance the gossip is substantiative AND you identify who is a gossip and can't keep their mouth shut...WIN, WIN! Again, different situations call for different measures, but I have seen the other end of this and can say when you strip the sophisticated layers from successful driven people (particularly corporate and bureaucratic types), they are just as vulnerable and base as anyone else. (This often is revealed when their driving or in a hurry shopping.) So be discerning by all means, but do not throw away the most valuable opportunity of all which is helping other people in anyway you can...the rewards will definitely far outweigh any aggravation or delay. Nothing for nothing, nobody can make you fail except you.
If I follow this strictly, I would have no friends or acquaintances lol
Yeah, but I would be alone and happy than be with someone or people who make my life a living hell...
Maybe that's the way you need to be right now
Because of social distancing,blame covid🦇
D Sandoval Nothin wrong with that:
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I do follow it strictly & that is why my number of REAL friends is 1. Seriously, I have 1 good friend in this world & I wouldn’t swap her for all my past fake friends, not a chance of it. Whoever said platonic friendships don’t work smh
I learned some things about myself. I'm going to change some of those things I've learned. Thank you. It's never to late for a change. Change, is good.
I'm just like my mom, she has 1 friend and this friend stay on the other side of town and they rarely talk. I have tried to have female friends and it don't work becausethey start hating on you. I have tried to have men friends, too. Can't do that because they want the bedroom, lol. So, I stay to myself and talk to Jesus and it works like a charm.
Vry true!!!!
We are all human and flawed.
This has made me aware of where I stand with these less desirable traits
1. Gossips: I do my fair share of gossiping, but not really negative, just the usual over sharing and if it is negative, I'll vent in a journal. If I don't like something someone has done, I usually tell them in person (in private first to give them a chance to explain themselves and get their side of the story). I tend to confront more than gossip. Tends to get me into trouble a lot.
2. Jealous Haters: I do tend to get jealous the first time I see potential rivals (if I don't admire or respect them without jealousy), but now that I look back, I do quickly realise I can learn from them and they challenge me to do better. While I get addicted to the challenge, I see them as just a person and end up respecting them. Never really realised this lol
3. Time wasters: I'm a big time waster and procrastinator. I'm getting better at prioritizing and self discipline tho. But when it concerns other people's time, that's where I draw the line and care
4. Money grabbers: I cannot be a money grabber even for the life of me. After my dad and big sis were the worst money grabbers in my life, I cannot use people the way they used me and the rest of my family. I tried to use someone for money once when I was a teen(after I asked my sis for advice and she said "it's better to ask for forgiveness than for permission" shame on her) and had a weight on my chest until I said sorry and paid them back with interest.
5. Over-sensitive: Me a few years ago. Come a long way since.
6. Excuse Makers: Never really been big on excuses since deciding "no excuses", but I tend to call people out on their excuses. I'll try to be more understanding.
7. Miseducated: I don't know if I'm miseducated lol, how would I know if I am? How would I know that knowledge or my opinions are rational or even logical? Politically, I'm more right if not center aligned, coz both sides can be wrong (to me), and I try to avoid confirmation bias and group think
Maybe I'm someone you should avoid lol. Sorry for the essay :D
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Agree
Wish i knew more people like us
it's better to be with people that have a purpose and a goal in their life with positive energy then a happy heart that's what motivates me being around those especially who love the Lord Jesus Christ
A question I've learned to ask myself when it comes to relationships is this: "Is anyone being edified here?" In other words, is either of us being built up in any way by spending time together? Am I learning anything from them, or are they receiving anything I am trying to impart to them? The key to resolving many situations in life is to ask the right questions of yourself!
Very sage advice. 🦋
Once I asked an experienced sailor: "What do you do when suddenly caught up in a storm way out at sea" ? His answer: "Storms happen often, I just steer the ship to directly face the oncoming nasty high waves until the storm dies out".
In life we need to learn (acquire skills) and know how to directly and effectively engage and deal with all sorts of people. This requires time and great patience. Avoidance alone is not always the solution as oftentimes it is not possible. In order for me to live, I have to love others. If I have not love, I am nothing, I gain nothing, I give nothing. (See 1 Corinthians 13:1-13).
Wow!!!
Well said....👏👏👏👏👏
Yes I second that.... Well said 😊
Agreed with you and don't forget that God (allah) gave us a brain to judge and to assess accordingly
We must know there are just unfortunately individuals who won't succeed no matter how hard they work we should to help eacher other because who knows you maybe in need tomorrow but is better for us to avoid the evile once such as gossip jealousy excuse maker and misleading people
That is good advice unless people use your love against you. Those are the worst kinds and there are many of them. Avoid people who use your best qualities against you. They are the most evil. Avoid those who use their love, charm, and fake sympathy against you also. They are using you for practice and for sport to hone their predatory skills. The reality is that they hate you. When someone shows you who they are, believe them.
I am happy to say even though I am sensitive person still I am surrounded by so many great souls 👍
Hey Daniel, this is the first video of yours I listened to almost a year ago. It hit home for me to help me to rid of evil people out my life. I've seen, from your other videos, that you've grown for the better. Thanks for caring and sharing ❤️. Stay Blessed 💘.
It's sad that even family members are all this negative people
My family leads the pack
They’re the worst!
So basically, just avoid most people in general.
I dont Trust Nobody but My Dog.
True. Most all have these traits sometimes, but not always
I do haha
Lol👍
Everybody not like that you got some kind hearted people but every body not prefect but if you wanna hang around them type of people have your way you will just see the consequences
I always avoid myself time waster b'cuz they steal our valuable stuff from our life. So, I always keep at bay myself from them all the time.
Thank you. Regarding the gossips, I just didn’t know what to do about it... now I do. I know I’ve been walking around with a target on my back... it’s time to end it.
Most of your troubles begin when you meet other people. Stick to Dogs. They ask for nothin..and stick by you unconditionally.
Amen :)
Micky Mantle u dog
Same goes for your kitty cat😇I love my doggies too😇👏👏💖
@@marylapham9476 Yep ! Animals can be real life savers in every respect.
YOU ARE SO RIGHT, ITS PEOPLE THAT BRING YOU PROBLEMS. MOST OF US CAN'T HAVE ISSUES WITH OURSELVES, RIGHT? :)
I cut alot of my social life and feel more happier and at peace. It can be overwhelming being around so many people not knowing their true intentions.
You’re so right, that’s how I feel
So true
If you knew true intentions,you could make money from it💲
Keep inner circle smaller
I lost most of my friends because they all had these traits.
true.
Then that's not a lost, it's a gain for you.
@@curli-lettey4319 you are absolutely right 😊
No one is perfect. Everyone sins in life, and you shouldn't get rid of your friends because they have a personality flaw. Maybe you were important to your friends, and you leaving them hurt them emotionally.
So many haters and wasters out there. Good advice about stopping negative people. Often these people are unhappy, jealous, greedy, delusional, vindictive, with a need for a sense of power gained by hurting and controlling others, etc. They often do not love you or love you in a bad way. Don't let them guilt you. You do not need them. Avoid them.
Those who gossip TO you will gossip will ABOUT you.
True. Thanks for watching!
AllisterCooper2008 u not liein
Right! A listening ear, is a running mouth. Listen to: "Who the cap fit" by Bob Marley. It sums it all up in that one song.
AllisterCooper20
AllisterCooper2008, you're right. I cant understand why people feel the need to gossip about their friends. An enemy, i would understand, but a friend?
Stay away from psychopath, narcissist and sociopath ppl. 😏
Finally left him after 20+ years.. Gave too much and lost even more than I gave..
And bordelines.
Facts 💯
Satan is the number one psychopath/sociopath that lied to this whole world.
Standard, there horrible
Every word you said makes so much sense, by the looks of things I have a lot changing to do, thank you for your advice.
Yes sir! I know a lot of them peoples. When i get tired of them. I go to bed and sleep! When i wake up. They aren't there. Just me and jesus!
I quit my job due to sooooo much gossip I HATE gossip.
Melanin_Blessed X I understand that! Be sure to subscribe!
Saneka yeah I’m finding a new job ASAP lol I’m impatient I’ll punch someone in the face lol I learned now tho
They never let you breath..
Facts
Melanin_Blessed X good job girl!! Invite Jesus into your heart too ❤️
1...shifty eyes,2...lightning fast hands,3...talk in riddles,4...promise something too good to be true,5...avoid eye contact,6...loaded without working,7...says..trust me!
I thought the first clue was that he had to wear his wristwatch backwards because of that funky little bracelet.
Peter Pao confrontational marijuana smokers are the worse
Peter Pao
When someone says trust me, I run from them! 🏃🏽♀️ fast!
Glad to have listened to all these. Thank you. More Wisdom to you, Sir.
I'm just new to my job and my co workers had already confronted me as to why I cried and compelled me to say something they themselves wanted to hear which I had no idea with- why or whats the point. I literally cried after talking to them.
Avoid people who think they have it ALL figured out.
Well I'm avoided lol
Only stick with the ones who's there for you when ur down!
+Pov Yi absolutely
Eric Jensen I’d have to cut everyone from my life including my kids to follow this guys advise. I wonder how many times he’s been divorced or perhaps he’s just had a lot of bad relationships.
Eric Jensen xD
Thank you..thank you! I had to remove toxic negative drama gossips people manipulative people! bless them but my mental health is much better!
Mr Daniel, everything you do talk, it is always a reality for me. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.
I ignore people who gossip and pay them no mind. Friends like that… Who needs enemies?
William Colgan yes of course, they have nothing to offer you other than to just implicate you.
My Mom, the Queen of One-liners used to say "Only boring people are bored.." And again, she was right!
true
true.
Intelligent people are never bored.
I was told only unintelligent people get bored
I regularly meet people, who unload all kinds of problems on to me, they misuse you as a waste bin. This is not nice. I drive fancy cars, so I got a lot of envy. But at the same time, I take care for my beloved parents, what most people don’t know. I devote almost all my time to them, so that they become healthy again. It’s really difficult in this situation to find somebody with compassion, to hang out with or even who helps me to develop further.
People like you make this world a better place. God bless you, Rupert.
Don't be a doormat, Rupert. Make time for people who make time for you.
@calendarphotoscamera Canuck He Has The Right To Live However The Hell He Wants, You Dumb Ass 😒
Get A Life 👎
@@controversialchristian2378 I Dont Think Telling Someone What Or What Not To Do's That Smart Or Good Of An Idea 👎
you also saw it beneficial to buy a fancy car..nnothing s wrong with it in theory but that outward display of wealth would not easily show you true friends. the richest people and the wisest do not display wealth. this helps find people with good charaters just a bit easier. such good people are more rare but it is worthwhile to know them.
Some of us we need wonderful people like You. Because we listen and get blessed in many ways.
Thanks so much. Respect
Thank you for your advice Daniel. I always appreciate your words of wisdom. Confirmation.
My brother is a Time-Waster, Money Grabber and Miseducated. I think it's time I drastically limit my interactions with him. But I can't completely avoid him since we live in the same house.
I have a nephew...who does all that and gossips with other relatives and steals your ideas..
I cant stand him anymore...I put up with his rubbish for years... not anymore....period
One day your brother will be so greatfull that his heart and mind will explode with joy because one person found a way to show him how beautiful life can be, even when it is dark at the same time. It happened to me and that beautiful soul will have a place in my heart until I die.
Jaroslav Vetter chant nam myoho renge kyo
You will be able to win 😀
Had a friend who was the BIGGEST LEACH ... Go to a restaurant & eat good. When it was time to pay the waitress ... oh ! I left my wallet at home !
( so ... know what I said , “ Well, you better start washing dishes !!! I got up and left ! )
..... he pulled this one ONCE TO MANY !
Eddie B. 😂😂😂😂😂 you know you paid the bill
They were scamming.
Daniel I've been watching you for awhile today I just wanted to say that I've learned so much from you and also I just love your energy.
Thank you!
Thank you for you positive and informative statements about how to avoid people that are not good for our mental growth.