Silence has always come natural to me. I find it quite stressful to be near someone who cannot stop talking. Iam amaze how people are able to engage in so much meaningless conversations nowadays.
Even a fool is thought wise if he keeps silent, and discerning if he holds his tongue. Proverbs 17:28 I don't like to talk because I stutter, I'm a good listener 🤠 Blessings and hugs 🤗💞🤗🙏!
Stuttering can be controlled by talking through your teeth and speaking slower. It keeps my tongue from having spasms called stuttering. I use this method for myself and my child. I works for us.
I've noticed that if I say BARELY ANYTHING and let my friends talk the ENTIRE time I'm with them or on the ph, they ALWAYS say they've had THE BEST TIME or CONVERSTATION.. It''s actually really nice to be able to hold the space for them to just say what they need to or get stuff off their chests.
Everywhere is "mental war" war in the east war in the west...we have rules for physical war but no rules in mental war..the battle is open my dear friend endless...stay calm stay focus, observe know how to soft reply....
Interesting, and there is definitely some truth in this video which resonates with a knowing within..... From a self enquiry perspective, a useful question is..... Who or what is looking at your phone right now? Can you find an "I" or a me that's looking? Looking and listening just happens by itself....There is no "I" or a me that's actually doing the looking or listening etc. Stillness is our natural state, and everything happens within this stillness". Realise this, and this video will make even more sense! 😊
Talkative has a definition, talking ablot doesn't make you talkative,just like silence doesn't necessarily mean wisdom. When you say something relevant is when you are wise
The content and the animation were good , how ever , the music is what sets the whole mood ! This video could've been on a different level had the music been a little dark toned because , the content in this video excactly isn't complimented by the music ! Great choice of topic BTW ! 🙌✌💞
I have to say I was disappointed to hear the reasons not to stay silent at the end. I think its fair to say they may not be good advice when dealing with certain people like narcissists
I guess this is how weak minded people justify themselves. Makes sense. You believe those who speak don’t listen because you couldn’t speak. Hopefully you learn it’s a balance. Choose your words carefully and speak out but never stop listening. Pretending your lack of ability to engage meaningfully makes you some mysterious respectable person is an absolute fantasy.
@@kylie-fayer6791 Men do not like women talking too much! Trust me it is a fact. I do not like it either. I mean we should be able to speak our peace say what we want but gender bias and gender roles double standards and dating when being with men is what males prefer and like. Try it with your husband's and boyfriends! I mean look at Kamala Harris vs. Mike Pence. The after math says it all. Critics alike. Women can not catch a break!
@@mstwelvedeadlycyns Fuk that! Men do what I tell them to do and trust me they like it. Men can shut up and listen and that’s why god gave us two ears and one mouth! Discipline those boys girls!!
@@kylie-fayer6791 Get mad all you want. Is that how it works when you begin dating them in the beginning as they meet you? Being aggressive and tell them what you want by being nasty towards them?
I dont know if I entirely agree, I think directing your attention inwards rather than outwards is more advantageous, for what experience does not ultimately happen within?
Yes staying silient in some cases is not good especially in a relationship. How can you start a relationship and you not talk? That stunts the growth of that relationship, and leaves that person who is unaware of your mate is practicing silence, and your thinking what is wrong with you! Here you are trying to figure out where did I go wrong! Then you start getting baffled in your mind because you done fell in love got caught up thinking all kind of thoughts wrongly to find out the person that you want this relationship with practicing silence how can you handle that? Don't get me wrong I like the sound thing make the person aware of what you're doing instead of them thinking something is wrong with them like I said I like the silence. I myself would love to learn it for various reasons but not relationship-wise. I am at awww!😄
Me too, If you don't have something educational or important to say, then on with the noise cancelation headsets because I'm not trying to hear it this blah blah all day...I would much rather listen 🎶 to my relaxing jazz music 🎷 🎺
it's one thing to not talk about yourself but what is Bread crumbing or manipulating people through silence accomplishing? How does that grow you as a person?
Really tell me something that I don't already know. There's a reason why God gave human beings two ears 👂 and one mouth. You need to listen more than you speak. Think 🤔 about that
I’m glad you included the sigma as a personality type 👌 but remember Sigma and gamma are outside of the hierarchy for the most part, sigmas dont stick to one atleast Btw, How should i prove myself? Like How should i not get pushed around?
Yes Sigmas are usually not included due to a number of reasons (they're always less than 1%, they don't play by the rules/system, etc.). But Gammas are always included.
@@titlespree Basically spending a long time in gamma at a certain environment, until you become familiar with the environment and the majority of the people that are in it. I'm guessing familiarity and security breeds alpha status viability. Just like in the animal system.
But, just to say... Nothing makes the women flawk like the behavior that Kanye West expresses. Alpha status while letting his nuts hang. Women are almost always attracted to that unless you truly fit the part of Beta or Gamma, like you are a secret agent or important in some sense. Otherwise when you stand at 5'5 you look like you are in Beta because you are insecure and need the excess attention span for your own safety in an environment that everyone is in some form of alpha states or another of the likeness.
I guess the only way is to play it off like you are mysterious or important. But that takes rehearsal. I say all this because I have been in every level. And only one seems to work ( Alpha )
Most dumb people be silent cause they don’t have the ability to speak or Articulate!!!! But Silence is golden!!!!!! When one has the wisdom to do so!!!!!
Silence has always come natural to me. I find it quite stressful to be near someone who cannot stop talking. Iam amaze how people are able to engage in so much meaningless conversations nowadays.
what would you say keeps you silent when they keep on talking?
That's alot of words for a natural silent 😅 haha jk
especially when overestimating myself in front of others, it makes me sick
Agreed 100%
i agreed
Silence is intimidating.
I see that people get intimidated by my silence and calm.
Is that what it is?😂😂😂
This
It’s really not. You become invisible and meaningless to others
I was a super silent kid due to being very shy. Now I am also quiet in many occasions, but for very different reasons. Thanks for sharing. :)
Even a fool is thought wise if he keeps silent, and discerning if he holds his tongue. Proverbs 17:28 I don't like to talk because I stutter, I'm a good listener 🤠 Blessings and hugs 🤗💞🤗🙏!
Stuttering can be controlled by talking through your teeth and speaking slower. It keeps my tongue from having spasms called stuttering. I use this method for myself and my child. I works for us.
@@reach4thestars67 Do you use to stutter in the past? Blessings and hugs 🤗💞💓😊❤️🤗🤗🙏!
Its very refreshing to hear your quotations for the scriptures. Well said.
As another stuttered I understand your pain I also have social anxiety
Nothing better than living in your own world than living someone else’s world
"It is not words, but silence which speaks".....
This ♥️
I've noticed that if I say BARELY ANYTHING and let my friends talk the ENTIRE time I'm with them or on the ph, they ALWAYS say they've had THE BEST TIME or CONVERSTATION.. It''s actually really nice to be able to hold the space for them to just say what they need to or get stuff off their chests.
I Love your name...❤️
@@jamiecee4960 Awwwww 💋mwah. Thanks, beautiful 😀
You should just described my teen years.....!!!
The good ones want leave you and the bad ones want harm you 💯
Incredibly true, I nearly was strangled once, if not for my silence, with intuition.
💯 true
Everywhere is "mental war" war in the east war in the west...we have rules for physical war but no rules in mental war..the battle is open my dear friend endless...stay calm stay focus, observe know how to soft reply....
Thank you for telling me there's no Geneva Conventions for psychological warfare:)
Social media is ur power ,same here,that's why I watching this vid
I'm a calm person who doesn't talk much, that doesn't make me an unsweet person.☺
@Zameen Z What are you on abot?????
you are totally right
In silence we see and hear all.
I like where you are coming from Mindprovement.
A great breakdown!! 👏👏👏. Interesting description!!
One thing I’m good at being is being silent. Probably too much actually…. Definitely if I feel useless or pushed away.
Awesome video! Silence is more powerful than we think!
Interesting, and there is definitely some truth in this video which resonates with a knowing within.....
From a self enquiry perspective, a
useful question is.....
Who or what is looking at your phone right now? Can you find an "I" or a me that's looking?
Looking and listening just happens by itself....There is no "I" or a me that's actually doing the looking or listening etc.
Stillness is our natural state, and everything happens within this stillness".
Realise this, and this video will make even more sense! 😊
Excellent information, I appreciate this a lot. Thank you.
Only someone who is well endowed with wisdom - and the Spirit of God, knows: when; who; what; where; and how, one ought to speak.
This is the best video on RUclips about this topic
Thank you for this informative lesson on such a pivotal trait that only ourselves can master
inco-orporate this with the law of absence
Terrific
Silence has its time and place.
Well said
Exactly I Believe in Communication!
Yes there are times to speak and to talk
I could talk for hours how great I am at being the silent person
😂
my best decisions to be here in this video
This Powerful Thanks for this
Talkative has a definition, talking ablot doesn't make you talkative,just like silence doesn't necessarily mean wisdom.
When you say something relevant is when you are wise
only talk if it improves upon silence
This video is just right for me because I need to work on my listening Skills
The content and the animation were good , how ever , the music is what sets the whole mood ! This video could've been on a different level had the music been a little dark toned because , the content in this video excactly isn't complimented by the music ! Great choice of topic BTW ! 🙌✌💞
Depending on the situations..
Silence is a crime
Thank you. The Soul Committee Alliance. NYC
Very good advice
Thanks for sharing
Thank you!
I never shut up so I had to come here to learn to shut up
Same
I have to say I was disappointed to hear the reasons not to stay silent at the end. I think its fair to say they may not be good advice when dealing with certain people like narcissists
I guess this is how weak minded people justify themselves. Makes sense. You believe those who speak don’t listen because you couldn’t speak. Hopefully you learn it’s a balance. Choose your words carefully and speak out but never stop listening. Pretending your lack of ability to engage meaningfully makes you some mysterious respectable person is an absolute fantasy.
This exactly what the other post said
powerful!!
This also applies to women dating men. Talk less and let men talk more!
Are you fuking kidding mate?
We do not win women over by talking like this.
How about you talk less and delete your comment?
@@kylie-fayer6791 Men do not like women talking too much! Trust me it is a fact. I do not like it either. I mean we should be able to speak our peace say what we want but gender bias and gender roles double standards and dating when being with men is what males prefer and like. Try it with your husband's and boyfriends! I mean look at Kamala Harris vs. Mike Pence. The after math says it all. Critics alike. Women can not catch a break!
@@mstwelvedeadlycyns Fuk that! Men do what I tell them to do and trust me they like it.
Men can shut up and listen and that’s why god gave us two ears and one mouth!
Discipline those boys girls!!
@@kylie-fayer6791 Get mad all you want. Is that how it works when you begin dating them in the beginning as they meet you? Being aggressive and tell them what you want by being nasty towards them?
Being silent attracts narcissism.
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🤓🤓Very enlightening video. Thanks.🤔🤔🤔
I dont know if I entirely agree, I think directing your attention inwards rather than outwards is more advantageous, for what experience does not ultimately happen within?
Directing attention "inwards" when you're alone aids self reflection. But do that in social situations, and you'll look self absorbed.
@@titlespree true, I guess it is all about what your angle is, what you are trying to achieve...
Yes staying silient in some cases is not good especially in a relationship. How can you start a relationship and you not talk? That stunts the growth of that relationship, and leaves that person who is unaware of your mate is practicing silence, and your thinking what is wrong with you! Here you are trying to figure out where did I go wrong! Then you start getting baffled in your mind because you done fell in love got caught up thinking all kind of thoughts wrongly to find out the person that you want this relationship with practicing silence how can you handle that? Don't get me wrong I like the sound thing make the person aware of what you're doing instead of them thinking something is wrong with them like I said I like the silence. I myself would love to learn it for various reasons but not relationship-wise. I am at awww!😄
i am a very silent person and i like being like that cause some people talk to much bla bla bla and its very annoying to me.i love silence.
Me too, If you don't have something educational or important to say, then on with the noise cancelation headsets because I'm not trying to hear it this blah blah all day...I would much rather listen 🎶 to my relaxing jazz music 🎷 🎺
Everyone just thinks creep and weirdo unless your good looking your stoic and intelligent
Thanks for sharing!
I like being silent, but I do not like attention
it's one thing to not talk about yourself but what is Bread crumbing or manipulating people through silence accomplishing? How does that grow you as a person?
Thank you! I say that one better than silence is authenticity. 💕
Ironically this power comes with responsibility and knowing when to use it this is more for a group setting
Please make a video on the talkative alpha male.
Coming soon :)
Really tell me something that I don't already know. There's a reason why God gave human beings two ears 👂 and one mouth. You need to listen more than you speak. Think 🤔 about that
what are some strategies of curbing this desire to speak up?
Mastering your emotions.
That’s me
Very Good
:)
What if I don't want attention on myself? I don't like being in the spotlight
Sounds like a library atmosphere.
I’m glad you included the sigma as a personality type 👌 but remember Sigma and gamma are outside of the hierarchy for the most part, sigmas dont stick to one atleast
Btw, How should i prove myself? Like How should i not get pushed around?
Yes Sigmas are usually not included due to a number of reasons (they're always less than 1%, they don't play by the rules/system, etc.). But Gammas are always included.
You should learn how to control the frame and build inner confidence.
@@titlespree Basically spending a long time in gamma at a certain environment, until you become familiar with the environment and the majority of the people that are in it. I'm guessing familiarity and security breeds alpha status viability. Just like in the animal system.
But, just to say... Nothing makes the women flawk like the behavior that Kanye West expresses. Alpha status while letting his nuts hang. Women are almost always attracted to that unless you truly fit the part of Beta or Gamma, like you are a secret agent or important in some sense. Otherwise when you stand at 5'5 you look like you are in Beta because you are insecure and need the excess attention span for your own safety in an environment that everyone is in some form of alpha states or another of the likeness.
I guess the only way is to play it off like you are mysterious or important. But that takes rehearsal. I say all this because I have been in every level. And only one seems to work ( Alpha )
I talk too much.
Gotta shut my Pie Hole more often.
2:03 this is the most important point & part!
"Presente de graça" ?
Where was this 10 years ago🤦🏻♂️
No CC
💎
Can you suggest me a book on this
The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene
Quiet By Susan Cain
Eric Blue Ive not seen that before. Thanks will search about
@@jayspeaka5604 Not problem, bro.
The bible
3:00
Most dumb people be silent cause they don’t have the ability to speak or Articulate!!!! But Silence is golden!!!!!! When one has the wisdom to do so!!!!!
*Being Quiet.*. 👀👀
philippines: can't relate
I can't understand a fucken thing he sang
Lol! 😄
No wonder my abusive brother always picks on me 😏