The Power of Silence | Neal Gittleman | TEDxDayton

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  • Опубликовано: 10 дек 2017
  • The Conductor of the Dayton Philharmonic Orchestra talks about the importance of silence - in music, as well as in our lives.
    Neal Gittleman has been a professional conductor for 35 years. This is his 23rd season as conductor of the Dayton Philharmonic Orchestra. His passion is music and bringing that music to life through history as well as sound. For decades, he has been talking to his concert audiences to give greater understanding of the music he loves. Speaking in front of an audience at TEDxDayton, however, is a first for Neal! Hopefully, the music will carry him along. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @Faith.Facts.Success
    @Faith.Facts.Success 2 года назад +109

    WHEN TO BE SILENT
    1. Be silent - in the heat
    of anger.
    2. Be silent - when you
    don't have all the
    facts.
    3. Be silent - when you
    haven't verified the
    story.
    4. Be silent - if your
    words will offend a
    weaker person.
    5. Be silent - when it is
    time to listen.
    6. Be silent - when you
    are tempted to make
    light of holy things.
    7. Be silent - when you
    are tempted to joke
    about sin.
    8. Be silent - if you would
    be ashamed of your
    words later.
    9. Be silent - if your
    words would convey
    the wrong
    impression.
    10. Be silent - if the issue
    is none of your
    business.
    11. Be silent - when you
    are tempted to tell an
    outright lie.
    12. Be silent - if your
    words will damage
    someone else's
    reputation.
    13. Be silent - if your
    words will damage a
    friendship.
    14. Be silent - when you
    are feeling critical.
    15. Be silent - if you can't
    say it without
    screaming.
    16. Be silent - if your
    words will be a poor
    reflection of your
    friends and family.
    17. Be silent - if you may
    have to eat your
    words later.
    18. Be silent - if you have
    already said it more
    than one time.
    19. Be silent - when you
    are tempted to flatter
    a wicked person.
    20. Be silent - when you
    are supposed to be
    working instead.
    *"WHOEVER GUARDS HIS MOUTH AND TONGUE KEEPS HIM SELF OFF TROUBLE
    Get more on my channel

    • @ankitatantuway9733
      @ankitatantuway9733 Год назад +1

      Thankyou 🤍I note it down in my diary ▫️these are so powerful ✨

  • @anicsim8390
    @anicsim8390 4 года назад +107

    This video is powerful...some people in the audience couldnt even shut up! Being silent is truly a skill...

    • @neildmedia
      @neildmedia 10 месяцев назад

      Wasn't the audience. They'd opened up the doors to the outside. It was the people outside auditorium. He even mentions it. Audience looked intent.

    • @dunjana_palesa
      @dunjana_palesa 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@neildmediai was about to write the same thing 😊

    • @user-ug5no6rd3q
      @user-ug5no6rd3q 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@dunjana_palesaMay be little bigger...

  • @BegoMekerTube2127
    @BegoMekerTube2127 2 года назад +53

    Every generation is becoming more talkative. My grandparents were more silent than my parents. My parents are more silent than me. I am more silent than my kids. My kids are non-stop talkative. We are losing the power of silence. People who live in the villages and rural areas are more silent than those who live in towns.

    • @hareeshchandra
      @hareeshchandra Год назад +2

      Amen to that. Silence is a skill.

    • @kashmalamuhammad2555
      @kashmalamuhammad2555 Год назад +6

      Actually we are not, silence comes with wisdom which mostly comes with growth that comes with age and experiences, you ll see yourself and your children becoming more silent only🙂

  • @Enzo-cw5yu
    @Enzo-cw5yu 4 года назад +182

    finally a piano piece i can masterfully play

  • @mahmoudbassam4144
    @mahmoudbassam4144 2 года назад +17

    I have a friend in Uni who loves silence. So I started to search for videos about the benefits of silence and that’s what I got.

  • @jaymeh9916
    @jaymeh9916 6 лет назад +154

    Silence is Golden ✨🙏🏼😌

  • @vivi7405
    @vivi7405 3 года назад +28

    i really enjoyed hearing the people laugh in the background during the silence portion 😌 makes me want to remember to listen to the voices around me next time i go to a museum or a mall

  • @Los47
    @Los47 4 года назад +36

    Basically, be mindful.

  • @CriticalBash
    @CriticalBash 2 месяца назад +1

    omg silence is music to my ear, i always did, it's working in my workplace and my home.

  • @Priyainwonderland
    @Priyainwonderland 4 года назад +18

    Finally I found a video on Silence

    • @JimmyVu415
      @JimmyVu415 4 года назад +2

      Me too! I heard sitting in silence has benefits for the mind etc

  • @messigian1051
    @messigian1051 2 года назад +7

    I find peace in the quiet.

  • @jbela
    @jbela 4 года назад +59

    Just last week at work early in the morning a coworker greeted me good morning, i greeted them back. I was silent and sitting there. Then that person ask with my name, "Is everything ok?". Yes, i just want to be silent.

    • @elhadjdiallo633
      @elhadjdiallo633 4 года назад +1

      Baby please don't make me fall in love with you ... How can i be silent while I'm homeless i need help y'all oh lord why me ????.

    • @ahz6907
      @ahz6907 3 года назад

      What do u mean u want to be silent?😀

    • @vivi7405
      @vivi7405 3 года назад

      you sound really cool

    • @vivi7405
      @vivi7405 3 года назад

      ron swanson vibes

    • @lovinglatonya3499
      @lovinglatonya3499 3 года назад +1

      I get that all day by one co worker...I need to use that because she drains😫 me every time she asks 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @millyondadon
    @millyondadon 3 года назад +13

    Have you ever heard anything more beautiful! Bravo Bravo encore encore!👏👏👏👏🏼👏👏

  • @ismailcherqui9416
    @ismailcherqui9416 2 года назад +3

    He gave silence a new definition by being silence. What I'm gonna say would be nothing, so I'm gonna keep silent.

  • @zeynepates3037
    @zeynepates3037 5 лет назад +26

    The music of silence...

  • @SkarmoryMelee
    @SkarmoryMelee 2 года назад +6

    When he sat at the piano just staring I know I'd be trying so hard not to laugh if I were there

  • @shaashshah2707
    @shaashshah2707 Год назад +1

    Silent is good but talk when your voice is needed and the truth has no silent!

  • @francesw.5919
    @francesw.5919 4 года назад +16

    Love it! So peaceful.....

  • @dawnbarber7980
    @dawnbarber7980 2 года назад +2

    Excellent, noteworthy and inspiring, thank you!

  • @reyreyes6126
    @reyreyes6126 3 года назад +2

    so much thoughts in few moments of silence....thanks

  • @amacvtt
    @amacvtt Год назад +2

    He’s an incredible speaker

  • @patricksilesius3459
    @patricksilesius3459 5 лет назад +14

    Great rendition of Cage's masterpiece!

  • @EC-yd9yv
    @EC-yd9yv 3 месяца назад

    Not talking, will take me much discipline and self control. Indeed, will def have many opps to practice 🤐🤭
    Much worth the effort.
    Peace all 🙏✨✨✨

  • @j.aditya7117
    @j.aditya7117 Год назад +1

    Very insightful Neal, thank you ! ☺️

  • @nobitasupratman1696
    @nobitasupratman1696 4 года назад +18

    The best performance for any big events, flawless

  • @Some_Joker
    @Some_Joker 7 месяцев назад +1

    I've noticed that silence make's most people very uncomfortable. Most people try to fill silence with meaningless noise never shuting up. Im a quiet person who is comfortable with silence. So whenever I'm around people who can't stand silence, can't stand me.

  • @yamesotericist4188
    @yamesotericist4188 Год назад +2

    “True silence” is a quantum state of consciousness, not just “thinking” about what you are doing.
    Consciousness is kept in the “thinking mode” forcibly, just like that, it is not possible to get out of the Matrix of the “internal dialogue” (Collective Unconsciousness) and for 98% forever in this life.

  • @lottiehenry8364
    @lottiehenry8364 3 года назад +9

    I use to love ❤️ silence but tinnitus destroyed silence; sad 😞.

  • @kieranjohnston7550
    @kieranjohnston7550 2 года назад +1

    Thanks for this wonderful video.

  • @titanicthetitan3912
    @titanicthetitan3912 5 лет назад +11

    If the talking are of silver, the silence is of gold

  • @robertmitchell8630
    @robertmitchell8630 Год назад +4

    Ramana responded: “Contact with them is good. They will work through silence. By speaking, their power is reduced. Silence is most powerful. Speech is always less powerful than silence. So mental contact is the best.”
    Silence is the Eternal Stream of Speech
    In “Talks” many quotes of the Maharshi can be found, which make clear, that silence is the actual, direct and eternal speech, which flows heart to heart.
    “Silence is ever-speaking; it is a perennial flow of language; it is interrupted by speaking. These words obstruct that mute language. There is electricity flowing in a wire. With resistance to its passage, it glows as a lamp or revolves as a fan. In the wire it remains as electric energy. Similarly also, silence is the eternal flow of language, obstructed by words. What one fails to know by conversation extending to several years can be known in a trice in Silence, or in front of Silence - e.g., Dakshinamurti, and his four disciples.
    That is the highest and most effective language.”
    ) -- Miss Margaret Woodrow Wilson, daughter of the late President, told this correspondent today that she was happier than ever before and did not want to return to the United States. For four years she had been a sadhak or follower of Sri Aurobindo, India's most prominent mystic, in his asram here.

  • @warrenricogray
    @warrenricogray 10 месяцев назад +1

    Wow one of the best TedTalks

  • @PremKumar-le5vd
    @PremKumar-le5vd 4 года назад +1

    Beautiful 😊

  • @SJRendle
    @SJRendle Год назад +1

    I’ve been saying this for years! Silence is power!

  • @lrowe6494
    @lrowe6494 2 года назад +2

    I sure wish that my roommate would practice the power of Silence 🔕 they talk non stop and they talk very loudly, they blast their radio, they slam cabinets anything to make noise .

  • @iamfeign8498
    @iamfeign8498 4 месяца назад

    Thank you ❤❤

  • @noelkinz
    @noelkinz 5 лет назад +5

    The only answer to the questions with ought answers is silence.

  • @ajaykalapad1541
    @ajaykalapad1541 5 лет назад +13

    9:20 to 14:35 skip if you don't want to understand this concept.

  • @louchieamartinez6878
    @louchieamartinez6878 Год назад

    This is the most quiet Ted Talk there is! 😂❤

  • @shib5657
    @shib5657 Год назад

    Extraordinary presentation. Regards

  • @ThePhonetrainer
    @ThePhonetrainer 4 года назад +26

    Everyone: You can't make a silent song.
    John Cage: Open the doors

    • @vivi7405
      @vivi7405 3 года назад +1

      john cage: open the piano lid sit there for four minutes and 33 seconds and then re-close it

    • @kazutonaruhaya3675
      @kazutonaruhaya3675 2 года назад

      hold my piano lid

  • @yogib668
    @yogib668 6 лет назад +85

    Sometimes I wish I was imprisoned in solitary confinement for a week. So that I cud be silent, and there was no one to ask me," wats on your mind? Wats troubling you?".

    • @thomasanderson6149
      @thomasanderson6149 6 лет назад +7

      Silence is like a salt in the recipe, no where it's mentioned how much it should be used exactly but too much is definitely not good for the palate....

    • @tiffnaytoombs8920
      @tiffnaytoombs8920 6 лет назад

      Too much silence is psychological torture.ijs

    • @twill3622
      @twill3622 6 лет назад +6

      Trust Me You Don't

    • @shamloul57
      @shamloul57 5 лет назад +1

      @@tiffnaytoombs8920 or perhaps training

    • @misssarahmckenna
      @misssarahmckenna 4 года назад +2

      I just wish someone would ask me what’s on your mind/what’s troubling you?

  • @louchieamartinez6878
    @louchieamartinez6878 Год назад +3

    Extroverts be like: I can't take this anymore 😂😂😂

  • @allanaringo
    @allanaringo 4 года назад +5

    Who else was looking for 14.33, after 4 minutes and 33 seconds? It's so hard to silent in this world

  • @jrchicago9216
    @jrchicago9216 5 лет назад +7

    I traveled a lot - learned that hotels and hallways with kids running in
    them and louder ambient noises not like home were messing with a good
    nights sleep. I experimented with different ear plugs and found that
    Flents "Quiet Please" use once or twice and toss works wonders all night
    long. Had a sump pump in the basement at home directly under the
    master bedroom. The pump back-check valve thump when it rained annoyed
    me as it was different. I started using the ear plugs at home. Now
    decades later, I wont sleep without them - anywhere. I buy these in a
    bulk container.
    The Bose noise canceling headphones were perfect
    for flight (I began to loathe the open cabin sound of airplanes and
    airports have little noise of need - I set alarms on my phone for
    flights so I know when to check flight display monitors). I use these
    for hours daily with my Ipad and listen to Channels of interest - even
    in the car.
    Its like finding out that silence or good control of sound is preferential almost always.
    I also find that there is a slowing down effect - so focus is
    intentional. I can listen to concentration music specifically on
    yourtube that permit me full simple and deliberate focus on the issue at
    hand and I deal with things on time and efficiently. Its literally
    like finding a vane of pure gold.
    A few hints... Quiet please
    by Flents are good for one or two uses - I buy in a large container very
    cost effectively. Buy a small supply at first form the drug store.
    Only the Bose has an elastomer oval pod that fits my ear better than the
    common circle buds. I find circular buds to hurt when wearing over an
    hour. Keep them clean daily with ZEISS Wipes (used for eye glasses) -
    buy in bulk. They don't scratch glasses either.

    • @vivi7405
      @vivi7405 3 года назад

      sounds a bit like you’re trying to tune out your life bud

    • @jrchicago9216
      @jrchicago9216 3 года назад

      @@vivi7405 Peace is bliss... I found the truth. Serenity now! (Seinfeld).

  • @bendoubleu_
    @bendoubleu_ 4 года назад +5

    12:44 damn I felt that

  • @ericthompson3982
    @ericthompson3982 Год назад

    That ended up being one of the funniest talks I've seen.

  • @dingoniner5528
    @dingoniner5528 5 лет назад +5

    This was AWESOME. Thanks very much.

  • @dontworrywegotplantyoftime3836
    @dontworrywegotplantyoftime3836 6 лет назад +2

    inward is working towards you ...outer is public people

  • @ikramdotani7703
    @ikramdotani7703 2 года назад

    Wooooooos, what a great!!!!!!

  • @ionagibbons9906
    @ionagibbons9906 Год назад +1

    Thé animal kingdom have a good mastery in just sitting just observing just being present. My cats are good at just sitting but I really find powerful animals sitting in silence really majestic. Silverback gorillas spend a lot of time in silence in observation in stillness for such a powerful animal. But equally silence doesn’t mean that a fast action can’t come from a calm moment. Certainly a silverback can become a fast mover from a place of stillness. Thoughts that have invention creativity and problem solving can arrive out of the blue like a flash of lightening out of deep dark stillness. The flash is all the brighter for the silky darkness of the sky. The mind can be limitless expanse of no thought like an expanse of dark sky and without expectation our mind can work so fast to give us an answer or a direction. They say Silence is golden makes it precious but maybe also gives a chance for our halos to shine.

  • @jackjack8844
    @jackjack8844 Год назад

    Those who have no inerest in remaining silent will not remain silent.

  • @Xenlacasa45
    @Xenlacasa45 4 года назад +31

    7 minutes in and all he’s talked about is orchestra and music

  • @billymitchell6850
    @billymitchell6850 2 года назад

    This is the #1 best TEDx I have ever heard.

  • @wisdomathand2016
    @wisdomathand2016 5 лет назад +52

    What about silence for ignoring someone?

    • @adamdauble914
      @adamdauble914 4 года назад

      No Malice what does that mean 😂 how would you “do” wisdom

    • @adamdauble914
      @adamdauble914 4 года назад

      No Malice so ur saying I shouldn’t have left that reply?

  • @louchieamartinez6878
    @louchieamartinez6878 Год назад

    It's like waiting for the concert to start but really you are in the middle of a Ted talk. 😂

  • @sarthakmohapatra3738
    @sarthakmohapatra3738 6 лет назад +2

    awesome

  • @meherinmoumita2619
    @meherinmoumita2619 2 года назад +7

    I bet he didn't want silence after he ended his speech:3

  • @tiredoftorylies.2950
    @tiredoftorylies.2950 10 месяцев назад

    Interesting in that I found myself reaching out to find and capture sounds rather than looking in to meditate.

  • @Ahmad.S23
    @Ahmad.S23 3 года назад +4

    So let me give you a low down be a happy camper and pick your brain on the silence once a while but remember don’t burn the candle on both sides
    Peace ✌️

  • @uEisenhower
    @uEisenhower 3 года назад +5

    i see you turning your volume up to hear the sounds tedx hall sounds

  • @emilyroberts3832
    @emilyroberts3832 4 года назад +6

    In that 4 minutes and 33 seconds I learned just how loud and constant the creaking of my apartment building is. It's actually a lot more annoying than I realised.

  • @johndoe1765
    @johndoe1765 4 года назад +9

    IT,S MEDITATION.

  • @pattmansmith4770
    @pattmansmith4770 3 года назад +9

    I've noticed that all the people extolling the virtues of silence AREN'T.

  • @annaaagpalsa
    @annaaagpalsa 2 года назад

    ❤️❤️❤️ 4'33"

  • @inesadjoudj9908
    @inesadjoudj9908 5 лет назад

    What is the name of the music at the biggining of the video ?

  • @safaisiguzel2153
    @safaisiguzel2153 5 лет назад +17

    Çeviri yokmu yav

  • @thandiswengwaqa6271
    @thandiswengwaqa6271 3 года назад

    😍

  • @Mojokiss
    @Mojokiss 2 года назад +1

    I want a tattoo of that John Cage score

  • @mistymarley9782
    @mistymarley9782 Год назад

    he should have told those rude people to be quiet because some of us actually wanted to do this!!

  • @lifethroughshivakumarslens
    @lifethroughshivakumarslens 5 месяцев назад

    9:30 th minute to 14:40 th minute was good 👍 😊

  • @oguzhanorkuntartici
    @oguzhanorkuntartici 5 лет назад +2

    at 9:32 Neal Gittleman performing John Cage's 4'33"

  • @terrifry4072
    @terrifry4072 11 месяцев назад

    🥰🥰

  • @sahithreddy4014
    @sahithreddy4014 5 лет назад

    I see dangers of silence below thumbnail

  • @gotobassmsn
    @gotobassmsn 3 года назад

    To Ted Gittleman, you need to listen to the Leviim singer's on RUclips.

  • @user-uk4ws5iw9d
    @user-uk4ws5iw9d 3 года назад +1

    Almost fell a sleep

  • @sherazahmed5586
    @sherazahmed5586 3 года назад +1

    13:52 “GPS signal lost”

  • @amria5725
    @amria5725 3 года назад +1

    Hello darkness my old friend....

  • @elifbayrak3408
    @elifbayrak3408 3 года назад

    right

  • @elhadjdiallo633
    @elhadjdiallo633 4 года назад +4

    I need help !!!!how can i be silent while I'm dying for help !!!!

    • @mohamadali6797
      @mohamadali6797 4 года назад +3

      Elhadj Diallo, just don’t talk much and you gunna feel strong from the first day

  • @sevengrapes1257
    @sevengrapes1257 4 года назад +2

    433 the Angel number.

  • @elhadjdiallo633
    @elhadjdiallo633 4 года назад +4

    How can i be silent iam homeless due to a childhood trauma please help I'm be wildered and perplex .... Help please !!!! I'm young and have bright future please anyone could help me so that i can get over this burden on me ....

    • @elhadjdiallo633
      @elhadjdiallo633 4 года назад

      Well at this moment I'm stranded i have No place to go to frankly speaking ....
      Is just that i have been depressed , anxious, and beweldered for many years due to trauma , i have been experiencin anxiety , stress disorder etc that's the reason why I'm went through what I'm going through right now .....

    • @vivi7405
      @vivi7405 3 года назад

      but you need therapy, no one can deal with trauma on all your own

    • @vivi7405
      @vivi7405 3 года назад

      what is your living situation?

    • @elhadjdiallo633
      @elhadjdiallo633 3 года назад

      @@vivi7405 well due to the trauma and cptsd life has not been easy at all i just wanna go back to school and do something optimistic with my life .... Cptsd hasbaffected millions of folks I'm so sure about that ... As for me i have been experiencing , anxiety , dread , insomnia , etc..... I just need help so that can get a full scholarship and finacial aid so that i can live a fruit full and joyful life .... I have been rejecting soooo many folks due to the cptsd that i have experiencing you know when people love you , you can feel it right .......im in the process of healing this trauma etc.... I just need help even though i have never met or seeing you before ...... I also don't wanna attract narcissists and toxic folks in my life ....take care sir or miss and be well...

  • @aWanderersKitchen
    @aWanderersKitchen 2 года назад +1

    I wish I could remain shut but once I start I can't stop talking. Really need help.

  • @radwanahmed2327
    @radwanahmed2327 6 лет назад +3

    * Silence *

  • @FilipeMageski
    @FilipeMageski Год назад

    it wouldnt be so nice if the audience was in silence when he left the stage

  • @leRadicidelPiacere
    @leRadicidelPiacere 4 года назад

    🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @lilzakar9352
    @lilzakar9352 9 месяцев назад

    Does the intro sound familiar to anyone?😂

  • @Jj-vd6es
    @Jj-vd6es 4 года назад +11

    10:30 I would had farted really loud in silence.

    • @sprisyatasedai640
      @sprisyatasedai640 4 года назад +4

      Omg 😂😂😂
      But which kind . Mine would be chicken pizza . Yours ?
      Ps . Sry if this is weird 😅

    • @beheshtasiddiqui900
      @beheshtasiddiqui900 4 года назад

      HAHAHAHA me too!

    • @beheshtasiddiqui900
      @beheshtasiddiqui900 4 года назад +2

      @@sprisyatasedai640 It's really not weird but mine would be Pasta or eggs :D

    • @AbuKanaaan
      @AbuKanaaan 4 года назад +2

      😂😂
      fart team

    • @soslothful
      @soslothful 3 года назад +1

      Would it be smelly?

  • @Davidvx1468
    @Davidvx1468 2 года назад

    Guy sounds like Iron man

  • @l.k.1111
    @l.k.1111 2 года назад

    Ohio🤩

  • @philippinedev
    @philippinedev 3 года назад +2

    I wonder if this is a piano piece. Should have been better on flute or guitar.

  • @gilbertnajem3872
    @gilbertnajem3872 2 года назад

    8:51 i think someone is going to sleep

  • @charleshayden7408
    @charleshayden7408 Год назад

    I am the 4.5K like

  • @edwinfcapidos
    @edwinfcapidos 4 года назад +2

    This has just 50k views?

  • @cb1716
    @cb1716 3 года назад

    Funny how he is talking about silence the whole time.

  • @cxa24
    @cxa24 10 месяцев назад

    When you think education is a TED talk video

  • @thedarkestowl4224
    @thedarkestowl4224 Год назад

    Almost the same voice as iron man

  • @JayteeMoney7
    @JayteeMoney7 3 года назад

    🤫

  • @soslothful
    @soslothful 3 года назад

    The alternative title to 4:33 is, "Rubbish".

    • @vivi7405
      @vivi7405 3 года назад

      i liked it

    • @soslothful
      @soslothful 3 года назад

      @@vivi7405 I cannot understand what is engaging about watching someone sit a a piano doing nothing, for near five minutes. Seems silly if not just pretentious.

    • @comrademoon4814
      @comrademoon4814 3 года назад

      @@soslothful you're missing the point of the piece. The point of the piece is to recognize how silence is golden and how important it is to pay attention to your surroundings. Thats why he opened the doors so the audience can observe and listen to what was happening outside of the auditorium.

    • @soslothful
      @soslothful 3 года назад

      @@comrademoon4814 Hummm. This is a good take on the piece. Still, to me, it seems trite and pretentious. Perhaps it fit well with its time, but not much now.

    • @comrademoon4814
      @comrademoon4814 3 года назад

      @@soslothful I can see where your coming from, I respect your opinion, however I think we can agree to disagree perhaps?

  • @devgarg5759
    @devgarg5759 Год назад

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